So I went on this date and initially this chick seemed pretty attracted to me. She told me she was nervous I let her talk allot, I kept good eye contact then we went for a walk and I introduced some touching. Anyway later on I went to grabbed her hand and she took hers away said "that's a bit much for a first date" anyway I kinda thought it was funny because usually hand holding is fine on a first date I tried again a bit later and same thing. Anyway I could really tell she had lost attraction so I ended it.

Guys this has happened on a few dates lately I'm starting to turn into a bitch now and actually getting depressed about it. I don't care about these bitches but I feel un attractive.

I have read the stuff I'm meant to, I'm not un attractive and well over 6 foot. I can easily get attraction but I have a problem with losing it.

All I can think is my frame is bad or I'm letting first dates go too long maybe I should cut them short while they are still good (like around half an hour to an hour)

I know the problem is not these girls it is me and I need to change. I shouldn't care at all and sometimes I don't, but I'm a human at the end of the day and I'm getting insecure about it now and I kinda feel like giving up.