Should I walk?

GayLemon9000 · 2020-08-20T20:05:22+00:00

She's got no logic, only feelz. You gotta understand that a lot of female behavior doesn't come from the conscious part of the brain. They only rationalize their actions with that part of the brain after the fact.

Hard to tell from a short post with little context, but she might be checking her options to protect her ego (which is massive for females). This would be in response to the dread you're generating (other female attention mostly) which makes her think you might dump her.

The cheating accusations could be her projecting her own too, it's a common way to rationalize their infidelity ( I fucked another dude, but only because he fucks other girls).

I wouldn't let my girl entertain other dudes trying to fuck, whether she acts on it or not. But that's me and I'm not living your life .

Take a couple of minutes of deep breathing in silence, ponder one these points and then listen to your gut would be my best advice.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-08-20T19:58:34+00:00

It’s not shady to not tell her about every woman you talk to. You shouldn’t have submitted to that.

You’re not as insecure as she is so you don’t care about who she’s texting

gyropitaolives · 2020-08-20T21:23:06+00:00

"I should be telling her when girls are flirting with me, otherwise I seem shady."

So you live in her frame. You just told us who wears the pants in your relationship.

She didn't do anything wrong. She presses your boundaries and you act like a fag. Instead of worrying about ending this relationship, worry about how to become a man, otherwise, you'll just repeat the same pattern with your next girl.

ManthanDhabriya · 2020-08-20T19:58:37+00:00

It seems like you know the answer. Hard next.

boardrider73 · 2020-08-20T19:58:46+00:00

She's trying to get back at you. Just ignore it. On the same hand, you having girls texting you is going to cause her to be insecure. Why does she know girls are texting you? Im not a big fan of dreading her unless she's doing something to provoke it. Thats just me though.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-08-20T20:04:13+00:00

withdraw attention, focus on yourself. if you are high value enough (in her eyes) she'll want you back, if not, you'll be on yoru way.

and either have a boundary for no-other-gender texts, or don't. the behavior above is mutualy behavior of a plate and her man of the hour, which is fine.

but what do you want? then lead.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-08-20T20:14:50+00:00

Welcome to the world of female hypocrisy my nigga.

You ignore and keep doin whatever you want. Who cares who she talks to, and you don’t care who she talks to. And that's that.

lordn9ne · 2020-08-20T21:25:20+00:00

She's testing you.

Leave.

catz123456 · 2020-08-20T23:24:52+00:00

Need no to tell her anything or prove anything to her. High smv guys always have girls texting them. She has to learn to deal with that just as any average girl will have my simps hitting up her dms. It's just how the game works. If she gets too needy, just demote.

inkwind · 2020-08-20T23:59:39+00:00

One who doesn't trust cannot be trusted.

Also, sounds very very insecure. Demote.

319Skew · 2020-08-21T01:50:56+00:00

Women make bullshit rules that don't apply to them. Agreeing to them lowers your value.

Don't expect logic. Also what's your gut say about her?

MrNeverDryDick · 2020-08-21T02:45:35+00:00

“Oh is that what we doing now?” There you have it. She set the bar at that level in the relationship now. Go back to flirting with the other women. And now you have the privilege of hanging out with them. Because that’s where the relationship is at. And no, you don’t go backwards. From here on out you operate at this level until She lowers it again.

This all assuming you stay with her.

NabroleonBonaparte · 2020-08-20T20:29:34+00:00

It is a common phenomenon for someone who’s cheating to accuse you of cheating.

Of course there’s no solid evidence, but highly suspicious random dude is texting her and she’s hush about it.

Based off how she’s acting now, she might even decide to cheat in the future because she’ll think to herself “well he’s probably cheating on me, so it’s only fair that I cheat.”

Might wanna just end it now and avoid the headache.

mr4kino · 2020-08-20T20:12:41+00:00

Hard next.

Classical tactic for full control over you.

Also complete lack of respect for you.

It's normal as you are still BP.

halleluiaiaia9292 · 2020-08-20T20:46:38+00:00

Please read about projection.

This happened to me and 1000 others.

At one point, when her accusations of cheating became so many I started to think “wait, wait. Maybe she is the one cheating or misbehaving and thats why these topics are constantly on her mind. Or maybe she thinks that since she is doing this bad stuff I must be doing it too.”

Man oh man if I was right.

If I only listened to my intuition...

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2020-08-20T21:17:26+00:00

1) Women and Logic cannot be used in the same sentence.

2) She sounds like an insecure, needy, headache.

How long have you been with her? Has she acted suspiciously before?

Title	Should I walk?
Author	eggheadedidiot
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	August 20, 2020 7:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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