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3

“Prank” Yeye
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:42 PM
0

You never met this girl. Let that sink in
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:08 PM
1

Just to get it straight. You were talking to this girl for more than a month and you never met?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:41 PM
49

Good job man. Ive been in your shoes and I stayed. I believed her excuses.Was my biggest life regret. I wish I listened to people’s advice and knew more about how women manipulate you when they are confronted. Best of luck
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:46 PM
39

He should be grateful she is just a gf and not his wife or mother of children. Dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:36 PM
173

Man, listen up. When a woman does something wrong and you confront her, she is going to gaslight you and say whatever she needs in order to keep you from leaving (LOL @ getting most superlikes… yeye). You will believe these excuses because you have a fragile ego and its hard to accept that you have an LTR with a cheap slut. This is why when you discover something like this, you don’t confront, and simply leave. You don’t give them a chance to gaslight you. I wish someone had told me this earlier…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:32 PM
20

Fight club
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:33 PM
1

I mean a fridge can be cleaned no? Understand its not a fantastic thing to do but to throw it away and buy a new one seems a little next level.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:39 PM
10

American Psycho explains it quite clearly: https://youtu.be/3-Q6PbschQI
/r/askTRP19/05/21 09:20 PM
1

No ultimatums. You move on when you dont like something
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:16 PM
2

Your next gf will be so much better she will even have an additional organ. Upgrade time! Jokes aside, Thailand is amazing. Been twice (not for the reasons you imagine). Amazing country and people
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:15 AM
5

Funny to see the tables turn once in a while. Usually men struggle to accept girls that have been on onlyfans etc.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:08 AM
2

You made a mistake when you asked if she was going to stand you up. Shows scarcity
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:59 AM
73

Block her. Absolutely do not respond. If you respond you fall into her trap. Blocking her is what will hurt her the most. She will understand you don’t play games and that she is the one being childish
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:12 PM
5

You sound like a narcissist yourself. Probably learned this from your parents
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:36 PM
7

Good job for not doing it. She will be like “wow this guy really moved on he doesn’t give a fuck” If she likes you enough she will initiate
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:43 PM
6

The fact that you discussed her looking st your linkedin without using incognito and then she doing it again after rejecting you, tells me its probably a beta bait. Dont contact her. If she contacts you. OK maybe. But dread her for rejecting you before.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:45 PM
3

That you don’t know what women think/are interested in or the struggles women go through. Maybe you should get a few female friends
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:18 PM
28

A well groomed 😽 is 👌 Maybe you are young.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:13 AM
4

Daddy issues
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:33 AM
7

You are ready to move and leave your job for a girl you met a FEW months ago? Also a girl that will do threesomes? She has quite a few red flags. I would not be serious with her and I would definitely not sell my home for her and move across country. Few months....
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:04 PM
14

Stop watching Disney
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:35 PM
1

Good job. Huge red flag. Shes a psycho cunt.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:42 PM
12

You may be partially desperate (~10%) but you are fully autistic (~100%)
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:50 PM
15

A little young to be mgtow. Agree that simping is one extreme and its wrong, mgtow is an extreme too and equally wrong
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:57 AM
2

Treat a whore like a queen? What have you been smoking?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:13 PM
15

Dunno man. Is this the kind of woman you want to LTR? Plenty of girls out there who dont pull these manipulations
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:11 PM
11

Good job getting out man
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:40 PM
266

Man if you write a post like this there is so much more shit behind too that you are not telling us. Listen to your gut. Don’t be a fool. Most importantly, don’t believe the gaslighting and manipulations when you confront her.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:37 PM
38

Welcome to the red pill!
/r/askTRP30/04/21 10:52 AM
7

Are you 12?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:01 AM
5

I don’t know if I am retarded because I understand 2% of this post, or if you are retarded for writing such a poorly written post. 🤔
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:41 AM
3

Why do you care? She probably wont give a shit about them. She sent you nudes because you don’t act thirsty, they do. I would just respect them less as men for acting so thirsty.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:38 AM
1

Well what will you obtain from confronting her? She does it and has done it already. By confronting her she will gaslight you into some explanation: “it means nothing” etc. And maybe you will use her bullshit reassurance to calm down and protect your ego. If thats what you want, go ahead. But you should know better than this
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:18 AM
1

Having them on social media is ok, liking their pics is not. If you ask me. Her liking their pics is basically giving them enough validation to keep them as orbiters. Up to you. Would not confront but this is 100% a red flag.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 08:53 AM
3

You get “kinda daddy issues vibes” and you still want to vet her? Trust your gut and at max plate her. Btw you did a mistake to fuck a chick in your social circle. Not worth it
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:03 AM
1

Whatever makes u happy
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:58 AM
3

Hard for us to know what is really going on from an external point of view. You could be too cold and didn’t give her enough comfort; or on the opposite, maybe you are a simp and she got bored. One thing I can say. One week without hearing from your LTR is not normal. You don’t have a relationship anymore.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:58 AM
4

Keep documentation about everything. Treat HR like the police. Be professional, polite but also don’t be naive.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:45 AM
4

Its quite bdsm man
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:15 PM
9

All women secretly want the dominant man. Look at 50 shades of grey or that stupid movie 365 on netflix. Don’t listen to what she says. The “I was abused/raped” is just a ploy to appeal to your empathy. I have been told this many many times. I ignore it now
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:59 PM
2

Its disrespectful that she praises a guys picture while in a relationship with you. This in itself deserves a next. You are a young man. You will get burnt by her and other girls. But its good you are already in TRP. It took me fucking years to get here.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:49 AM
30

Omg man dont go down the rabbit hole of actually thinking she means it and you are a bad person for making her feel that way. She is perfectly fine with smashing and so on, she just feels a bit guilty and vocalising it to you makes her feel better (“at least I told him”). Proceed as normal and don’t stop saying things like “I can finally get rid of you”. These are funny and create massive seduction. In short, dont give this any weight at all and do not spend time discussing it. You are also doin…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:32 AM
13

You have quite a weird list of “common shit tests”. Not sure what you do wrong when responding to them, but maybe something is wrong because you are getting shit tested like this? I mean who the fuck tells you “you try to be so masculine but cant because of your small penis?” Lol?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:28 AM
1

Sounds like a good plan! Good luck
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:19 PM
6

You need to enforce boundaries with your gf first. She is letting/enabling her friend do all this shit. If your gf respected you she would have told her friend not to do this shit. Your gf clearly does not have much respect for you when she justifies her friend’s shitty behaviour towards you. Hope you realise this. But judging by where you are directing your anger (this random dude) you probably wont realise this
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:36 PM
6

Dunno man. Your gf’s friend sounds like a complete bitch. Why isn’t your gf enforcing boundaries towards her. You and your gf are all blaming the dude, but your gf’s friend is the mastermind behind all this bullshit
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:20 PM
5

Why the fuck is her friend’s bf texting your gf? Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:46 PM
0

Oh shit. I originally understood that the ex texted first. I was like why all these butthurt comments below? Then i realised she texted that.. Shit man. Get out, open your eyes
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:24 PM
6

DP was probably painful but yes “she felt used” and thats why she asked to stop. Yes yes Hamster hamster where are you?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:55 PM
15

100%. OP is delusional
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:53 PM
2

(99.9% of men agree with you)
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:27 AM
8

Bullshit. You can still be an ethical/moral person and end up with a hoe. AWALT does not depend on you
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:25 AM
3

Dunno man. We all go through rough patches. But you got to be a bit psycho to hate women cus they dont have to ejaculate their vital vitamins. I mean wtf. Nofap has gone to his brain
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:16 AM
17

Im curious to know what kind of sociopaths lie behind these absolutely, mind-boggling retarded posts
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:21 AM
1

“You”
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:38 AM
0

Ye well if you become one of those boring people who never drink, always eat healthy and cannot have a good time no wonder people dont want to be around you. Life is about balance. Some people take “improvement” too far the other end
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:46 PM
12

Mate.. “has a crush on my roomate”. Leave her
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:37 PM
14

The girls have nothing to do with this. Its just a trigger. You feel guilty for some reason. You should not. Stop wasting your time and energy on this. You did nothing wrong and I am sure you were a supportive friend. We all have the ability to control our thoughts. Your mind is playing tricks on you.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:11 PM
5

You are probably not socially aware and you are missing something. You are telling your view from your point of view. Maybe in other peoples’ eyes you are “that idiot that started hitting the gym and now thinks he’s cool” or “he’s trying so hard to be alpha but it’s all fake” Who knows? Hard for us to judge. Clearly you are missing something. Men don’t hate you just because you are “improving”
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:05 PM
17

Your mistake is trying to understand a woman. They are not rationale like us, you cannot discuss an issue and resolve it. Would you spend hours trying to understand the behaviour of an infant? No. This woman is all over the place. She doesnt know what she wants. Is depressed. Etc And you try to understand her? Madness
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:27 PM
13

Good job for having solid boundaries and not letting your dick make the thinking for you. Not many men are capable of this, especially around 9s.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:17 AM
3

Fuck and do other things too
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:40 PM
1

Did you cum?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:13 PM
-1

The same way men fall for pretty, feminine and slutty girls
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:48 PM
0

Did you ejaculate? If condom broke before you came you will be fine.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:32 PM
18

Red flag. These kind of women are CONSTANTLY looking for validation externally, in particular from men. Don’t be surprised when something bad will happen
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:52 PM
19

Instead of doing what you want (sex or no sex), you think its a good idea to ask a bunch of randos on reddit? Do what you feel like doing. If you are horny fuck if you are not dont. Its not that hard. No pun intended
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:56 PM
5

Dunno man. But you should focus on caring less, if anything.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:52 PM
8

You didnt cause anything. Stop being so concerned or she will lose interest. She is a random chick on tinder. Put it into perspective
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:39 PM
8

Cheating skank or just misses her ex
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:31 PM
15

Sounds like a lot of buzz words
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:05 PM
2

Let him burn himself. When all shit hits the fan he will come back to you/family. You can then decide what to do. Forgive or not
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:22 PM
5

Dont play captain save a hoe, a BPD hoe. https://youtu.be/Q5PnN9KJSr0
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:36 AM
11

Are you more of an asshole for leaving or for staying just because you are afraid of appearing like an asshole? 🤔
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:33 AM
22

This post tells me enough about why they left you. Not your dick size
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:03 PM
1

They wont care about your dick size, they will care about your autism
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:28 AM
10

Watch the trailer for inside out (pixar) https://youtu.be/yRUAzGQ3nSY (00:50 etc.)
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:09 PM
14

Where the fuck are you from India, Saudi Arabia? Because if you are from the West you are a fucking retard.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 01:43 PM
6

I think you are more interested in her than the opposite, hence why she never hits you up. So she is not so interested to hit you up but also not so uninterested to deny easy casual sex. I have the same situation just opposite. Im not so into this girl and never initiate, but if she reaches out then I’m down for a bang. If it affects your pride or so just ditch her and find a girl that is more into you. About catching feelings. Dont be an idiot. Simple.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 01:37 PM
32

Just the fact that she got angry that you didnt nut inside gives you the undeniable proof you should not do it. She should respect your desire to be cautious and her getting mad is a huge huge red flag. But you are young, you will learn from this
/r/askTRP17/04/21 11:28 AM
16

Ye call the police so they can bring you to a mental asylum
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:29 PM
1

Ive actually been to uae. Fair point that country has a lot of weird rules about alcohol and so on.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:49 PM
-1

Its a bit weird that you book a hotel room. And sorry “drink and chill” is bullshit. You are doing this so you can sleep with your plates. At least be honest about that. If you can afford a hotel room to “drink and chill”, you can afford your own place for rent. And they know it.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:11 PM
15

It looks like there is no bridge to salvage... so just get out asap
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:32 PM
3

I had an excel with 100 stories prepared for every kind of question. “Tell me a time you had a conflict” etc. Each story was carefully crafted and, of course, largely embellished. I practiced for hours delivering these stories naturally (as if I was thinking on the spot). This eventually landed me several jobs after struggling for months. You need to look inside and identify your flaws and correct them. My flaw was not being able to think of good examples during these bullshit HR questions
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:32 AM
35

Look at yourself in the mirror and realise what a pussy you are. And grow a pair of balls. Most men have been there too once in their life. Now its the time to grow
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:28 AM
2

Why do you want a woman that is ghosting you, probably hitting up some other dude and that sees no future with you to come back. But your life. We all learned the hard way
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:13 AM
13

You regain dominance by moving on and leaving a girl that is clearly not into you anymore. Your idea to apply dread is just proof that you are needy and is a desperate move. She is fucking ghosting you man. You cant apply dread to someone who is dreading you.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:15 AM
26

I would likely dump her. If she had a “normal” sex life. With a few ltrs and a couple fwb and this happened, fine. Unfortunate but ok. But I have the suspicion she is a hoe when you say she had “plenty of clean STD tests”. Girls doing STD tests regularly are promiscuous and often don’t take precautions (unprotected with strangers etc.). Also dunno why you mention she deleted tinder and cut off the FWBs. Wow! This is the ABC of being exclusive (But in reality you dont know if she really did). Fin…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:24 AM
9

Shes not a plate
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:55 PM
44

Привет овщкдлв Oh shit sorry I thought you were from the USSR given how comfortable you are around red flags.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:55 PM
5

She just sounds like a cunt
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:22 AM
29

I mean just for the sentence “if i aint getting any, you aing getting any” you should delete this person from your life? Are you her little bitch? Woof woof?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:13 AM
20

I dated a girl and just while casually talking about personalities etc I said “I dont know why people like me I am so cold. No-one really knows me, even my friends.” The girl I was dating told me she liked this about me. This has happened many times. Girls digg it as long as being cold does not mean lacking personality or not being able to be fun.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:11 AM
13

Huh? I had good dates without being attracted to the person. Hence the ghosting.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:59 AM
77

It was not. Its just a formality. But your overanxiety about assessing wether it was needy or not kind of does indicate that you are a needy person? Stop caring so much man and results will come
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:49 AM
98

You gave her an opportunity/excuse to text you, and she did not. For now assume she has ghosted you. If she texts you then re-evaluate. A good date means nothing. I ghosted and have been ghosted after good dates
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:35 AM
6

Probably scarcity? If you were also seeing other women etc. you would not care what she does
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:52 PM
2

Yes women are their own worst enemies. I dont want to sound cold but when a woman tells me a story of abuse my reaction is “here we go again” and I get annoyed. First time i heard these stories I remember feeling so bad for a girl that we were crying in the car ahahah. Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:52 AM
2

Spot on
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:50 AM
10

In my BP days I used to believe these stories and actually feel sorry for them. What a fool aha (Im sure there are some real stories but was not my case)
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:49 AM
1

I understand. We are men. If you have a problem talk with him. If problem is not fixed you end the friendship. Its really simple.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:37 AM
33

Fascinating
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:10 AM
2

You are not insecure because you are weirded out by this. You are insecure because you haven’t dropped this girl despite this glaring red flag.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:35 PM
57

Jesus christ
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:26 PM
1

You might be the problem or he might be the problem. Very hard for us to judge. But I would not make a post about a friend. If so called friend were ignoring me i would ditch him. Stop hamstering over a friend
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:22 PM
2

7.5 or 8 and have never kissed a girl. Ok man
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:10 AM
3

Probably a catfish or a scam. If you are a 6 in smv (for example) and you say she looks like a model your spider senses should by tingling
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:21 PM
0

“Every professional job i ever had i got contempt from some senior boss” Seems like there is a common denominator here. hint its you hint
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:02 PM
1

Women are women sometimes and will ruin a relationship for no particular reason. They have no emotional self-control. So that can happen even if you are chad
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:27 PM
1

Women. Stop trying to understand them and you will live a happier life
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:23 PM
2

Then forget her. If she wanted to keep something alive she would have texted after getting home. You threw her a hook and she did not bite. Texting again shows scarcity to yourself and her
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:05 PM
1

If you felt she was low interest from the start you should have maybe never gone out in the first place. Pursue women that are visibly interested in you. Not giving you half answers and ghosting you for an entire day. Did you ask her to text you when she got home? If you did and she did not, she has ghosted you.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:45 PM
7

You sound aware of your flaws which is good. You are not using too many excuses which is also good. You need to be less defeatist You just need to improve step by step. Physique not great? Train more. Lift. Social skills not great? Join some sports club or activities. Regarding your ex, you dont miss her. You are just lonely. Dont get these confused
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:50 AM
4

100%
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:21 AM
2

Yes. Ball is in her court. If she likes you enough she will reach out. Good job setting up other dates
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:05 PM
13

If she was really into you she would text once in a while even during a family loss. You think she is not going to talk to her friends or other people AT ALL? Also she was skeptical even immediately after the first date. You already showed too much interest by calling her after one single date. Absolutely do not reach out now. If she does fine, if she doesn’t just move to the next one.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:50 PM
15

“Online relationship” Don’t need to read further
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:43 PM
0

“No she is really ugly. I would only fuck her with a bag on her head.” Say this with an evil/sarcastic grin so she knows its not true. I think its a balanced approach. You are showing some awareness but you are also teasing.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:35 AM
4

For real. Maybe not that bad as a 5.5 but def not a 7. Good quality pictures tho, that helps. Don’t find an insta thot I guess. But im aware that in certain countries thats almost impossible
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:07 PM
14

Well you sound quite self aware which is something you typically dont see in low IQ/EQ people. So thats encouraging. Hard work and determination can compensate for everything nature did not give you in the first place.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:10 AM
92

Grass is always greener. Im sure there are million of men in third world countries that would look at your life and say the same. Stop bitching and be grateful for what you have
/r/askTRP04/04/21 09:13 AM
8

Seems like she wanted an open relationship and he just accepted because of fear of losing her. He cucked himself instead of moving out. Also she was the one likely banging around and not him. Hope he will learn a life lesson
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:50 AM
0

Ah ok aha
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:23 PM
0

Banned? What fucking country is this?
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:50 PM
6

Comfort her to a minimum, but dont go into full beta mode. It will pass
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:01 AM
3

You are 19. Its good you are already aware of many things. Jesus i started when i was around 25. Take some lessons from this relationship and move on. I know its annoying that everyone says “you are just 19” but really man. I have not spent more than half a second thibkibg about my relationships from that age
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:56 AM
-6

Or “thanks” ahah
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:14 AM
2

No-one in this sub disrespects average people. Most guys here are average and dont have women raining down on them. The difference is they are not complaining about everything like you do.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:44 AM
5

Its because of people like you that trp has such a bad reputation as a hive for repressed, incels, just preparing for their next school shooting. A post that contains nothing but excuses. “I train but i am not jacked”.. train harder. Lol With this attitude no wonder no-one wants to bang you. I wouldn’t even be your friend. You are lagging at school/work? Study harder. Jesus We have all been in a dark spot, similar to you once in life. You can off yourself or pick yourself up. If you chose the la…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:55 AM
1

Projection
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:36 AM
-1

If you can tell she is not attracted just let it slide.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:03 PM
3

If you took the time to take screenshot, write post and so on, clearly you already know she is going to flake. Your intuition is telling you she is not attracted enough. But how to blame her? Why shouldn’t she flake on a guy that has so much scarcity to ask a reddit forum whether some random girl will flake or not? If she flakes, peace. No reason to overthink
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:26 PM
2

I got into a lot of shit being a white knight like you suggest. So i talk with experience. Police involved twice, almost risked getting sued and a lot of other shit. For what? Some girls I don’t even speak to anymore. I would never ever do this stuff again. Especially for a woman. As I said unless they are doing it in front of me, I could care less.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:15 AM
8

“Ye im gay” “You should see my leopard thong” “Feminine? Because you havent seen my high heels yet.” Something stupid. However, do you really want to go out with a woman that shit tests you on such retarded shit?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:00 AM
1

Ok white knight. Go risk your life for a girl. Men comment girls, WOW! What a terrible thing! I never did it myself!! Unless they are saying things with the intention of being heard by you, you just let it slide.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:30 AM
18

Are you aware of what sub you are posting this in? Because sometimes i wonder how people with such retarded questions even end up in trp.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:46 PM
3

No reaction is warranted when guys comment a girl or your girl without doing it ON PURPOSE in front of you. Who cares? Dont play white knight. I could however see a case for violence/reacting if they did it on purpose to provoke you. For example “hey! Mind if we bang your girl?” Or something. But even in that case the best initial reaction is to be witty, this will put them off balance.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:47 PM
5

He said it clear
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:00 PM
3

I think its your attitude not your teeth. The fact that you mention things like sportscar, teeth and this bullshit as possible reasons for not getting laid says a lot about your character. Its your personality, 100%. Ugly people, poor people, short people, get laid. You dont have any of these issues and still dont get laid. So where is the problem? Your personality. Best of luck!
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:55 AM
1

Is the sky blue? Is the equivalent of your question
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:45 PM
4

Trust your gut. If you feel like an orbiter you probably are
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:15 PM
2

I had girls with same problem. No problem keeping the bra on, who cares
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:09 PM
2

I think you miss-typed. Its donkey not unicorn in your case
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:07 PM
5

Should have answered “You can play smash with me” and then do a fake embarrassed laugh like you didn’t mean it
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:54 PM
4

Seems like yoi accomplished quite a bit. Stop being so harsh with yourself and dont expect results overnight probably
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:45 AM
-13

“I like driving, sometimes I will go driving for few hours alone. Dont worry you are not so special ahah” Should put her in her place
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:05 AM
1

You got 4 numbers wow. Guess what she was doing when you “broke up”. Yes, she was fucking her “external fuck buddy”. Man i mean this is such a red flag that she wants to hang with her “friend”. Get out of this shit dont take decisions with your dick (“best sex i ever had”). You are compromising because of that.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:02 AM
8

Shes probably not interested if she didnt reply to your we will wait and see. Girls that are keen will show it. They will offer to reschedule blabla not leave you on read. I just take the L when girls are flaky. Not worth chasing. Some rejection is part of the game. Get used to it.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:15 PM
4

Where is this sub going...
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:05 AM
1

100%
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:28 AM
62

She might not be cheating but this girl is trouble I think even a blind man would see it. Enjoy this toxic mess
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:39 PM
2

You need to get off the fucking steroids too
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:11 PM
5

She broke up with you two days ago and now you want to break up with her? K man. Enjoy the drama! Get out of this bullshit relationship
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:41 PM
26

Shes not interested. I mean how much clearer than this can she be?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:42 PM
4

Dude she sounds like a real skank/slut. Yes maybe she will fuck more than you, but really? You are jealous of her and her lifestyle? Come on man, you are being irrational and emotional (perfectly normal after a breakup).
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:41 PM
1

100% agree. When i stop texting and giving comfort much bigger chance of losing the plate. To keep some mystery i stop answering randomly (not on purpose, just lose interest after a bit). That seems to be the right balance for me
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:02 AM
1

This is a really good way of judging an n count actually. I never thought of it. Taking the average of the country and comparing. For example in India 2 may be too much but in the US 20 may be too much. Smart strategy
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:01 PM
2

Tom torero is the only decent guy. He has a lot of red pill truths
/r/askTRP22/03/21 06:45 PM
9

Trust your gut. These are not terrible red flags but I am sure in addition to this there is your gutt feel and probably her general demeanour. I think your gutt is telling you something and you are ignoring it
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:53 PM
-2

Just look at the comment in bold from someone here on this post. Perfect proof of what i mean. Bunch of idiots and spergs lurk here
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:40 AM
6

Not sure if its bullshit advice but I am convinced that 80% of the people here throwing advice are weirdo, engineer types, with barely any experience dating or whatever. I hate when someone is asking genuine LTR advice and some idiot’s contribution is “fuck other girls”. Even many of the red pill coaches on youtube are complete scams. And probably have much less dating success than they want to show. In sum, you need to carefully filter all of the advice coming out from here
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:37 AM
0

“Tragedy”
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:30 AM
1

You deal with it by not caring and not writing a post on a forum asking how to deal with it
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:21 AM
1

You are young and you still havent learned that what women say vs do is often exactly the opposite. “She hates cheaters”... last famous words.. Exactly the same way she lied about icecream date but guess what she smoked and “watched a movie” Ok man Give us an update in 6 months for how your relationship with her went.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:10 PM
-4

Bpd
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:04 PM
20

Red flags like soviet russia. I would move on, this kind of woman will ruin your life. Also why are you with a woman that rates you a 6, jesus christ?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:17 PM
4

Agree if you are a cool person you will always be invited. You probably need to work on your personality a bit
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:55 AM
1

Hi, looks like you are very much in control and took this very well. So pat yourself on the back. Bitches be crazy and can cheat even when you do everything right. Best of luck. Ghost her and make her suffer wondering why. Dont give an answer and avoid her.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:16 PM
6

Is your name Hamtaro? Hamtaro the hamster that is
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:40 PM
21

Doesnt appeal to her but yes let me have a threesome. Hamster... hamster
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:04 PM
0

Mods?
/r/askTRP18/03/21 01:31 PM
2

Are you really asking how fast you should improve your smv? Really?
/r/askTRP18/03/21 01:18 PM
6

You did the right thing to dump her. Dont second guess yourself. Also she will say all the right things to make it harder for you to dump her. “It was nothing”, “nothing happened”, “i promise”, “i will never lie again”.. Its all manipulation. Be strong brother. I gave second chances and got burnt many times. Now i dont give any and i am much happier. Also trust your gut. It wasn’t just this instance i am sure there are many other times she lied and did shady things and your gutt noticed.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:26 PM
5

Mods?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:58 PM
1

When a woman says something like “I am not on apps” thats exactly when you should start suspecting she is. Especially when they make these points many times and unsolicited. Have you ever heard about projection?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:07 PM
0

99.9999% of the times a girl wrote me something like that or similar, she flaked. I consider that a rejection. I dont even answer. You should do same. Experience will teach
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:47 PM
-9

Yes you can. She asked you to apologise. Dont apologise and say something stupid. Like “sorry im busy eating my yogurt before it expires” “Sorry im trying to lick my elbow, when i manage ill apologise” Dunno something stupid. Or ignore it.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:22 PM
21

You made mistake by rationalising too much already. Agree and amplify. It was her issue how she reacted she should be the one apologising to you. Oneitis much
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:54 AM
2

If she is honest you are a dick and deserve it.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:08 PM
4

Been there, done that. Hope i listened to my gut earlier than i did. Best of luck man. Hope you survive
/r/askTRP14/03/21 01:59 PM
5

Troll
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:44 PM
6

Sounds like your relationship is over.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:49 PM
5

Red flag clearly
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:48 PM
1

Why would you date a girl that broke up with you. Shows scarcity. If you want and are able to keep it casual yes. Otherwise absolutely not
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:42 AM
7

So the woman you are thinking to propose to is telling you NOW that she was kidnapped as a kid and wants a tattoo to cover the scar. What else has she not told you about? Also sounds like you have a shit dynamic and she is manipulative. Get ready for the train crash.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:02 PM
4

What does it matter? Makes her less of a whore?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:23 PM
38

Man i also dated a slut. Get out. Get out. Get out.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:52 PM
0

Lol
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:09 PM
-4

I think I would confront my mom. And take it from there. You could ruin your relation with her if you went behind her back. Maybe if she is cheating you could force her to come clean to dad and give her an ultimatum. I am a bit nihilistic personally, I would probably not deal with it and let them live. You never know what happens under the surface. Maybe your dad cheated too. Relationships are complicated and its not my business.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:42 PM
18

What a useful comment
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:40 PM
2

Think this comment summarises what 99.9% of the people reading thought: Huh?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:45 PM
4

100%. The biggest trp lesson for me has been exactly that: dont decide with your dick. I was dating a crazy bpd bitch and she wanted to get married. She was smoking hot and great sex. But she was trouble and in the end I used big brain vs small brain. Some poor idiot got engaged to her a few months later. For her personality? Doubt it
/r/askTRP07/03/21 10:13 AM
2

Is she attractive? Men are idiots and let things slide for pretry girls. I did that too
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:44 AM
5

Dancing snd getting close. Clearly not acceptable
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:11 AM
19

For some men too high is above 1, for some above 5, for some above 10 and some above 30. What are you trying to achieve here? Too high is whatever makes you feel uncomfortable and makes your gut twist and turn.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:19 AM
1

Then flirt with her and see how she responds before you ask her out
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:57 PM
3

Dont shit where you eat. Shes also not into you if she is flirting with others and not with even talking to you. Girls that are interested in you will give you cues. She has given you none. That being said you could always try. But you would be an idiot to try at work. Plenty of hot chicks everhwhere else
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:48 PM
4

You found the red pill but you are thinking about going to apologise to her in 1-2 year. Dunno what red pill you found but its definitely not the right one
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:16 PM
1

Free in some countries. We not all fukd like the us
/r/askTRP06/03/21 04:10 PM
12

When you have such negative thoughts maybe asktrp is not the best place to be. It can be a harsh sub even for the strongest minds. The red pill truths can create a lot of bitterness and resentment. I would go to therapy and would avoid trp. You are clearly an emotional mess looking for some kind of anchor.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:09 PM
2

More red flags than the russian army. You have to be a complete idiot to believe nothing has or nothing will happen. How can you be with a woman that constantly talks aboht men hitting on her. And how stupid can you be to believe her reassurances when she says they are disgusting and so on. We have all been there and dated such women. I had a similar woman, I cringe thinking back how I didn’t leave and trust my gut. Its your turn to learn your lesson. Get back to us in 1 year
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:16 AM
1

Maybe something about dna and mating strategy. They know they are small so they instinctually overcompensate by looking for a taller man. Who knows
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:13 AM
1

Your focus should be your purpose and women are an accessory to it. When you start prioritising women is when problems start happening. For instance, today I will skip gym to be with my gf. Today I will leave work early to go on my date. A man on a mission would think: i will work and if she can meet me in evening good, otherwise her loss. Live on your terms and dont be needy Got it?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:11 AM
4

Some bitches be crazy, might not be your fault. Drop her
/r/askTRP06/03/21 07:07 AM
10

If you dont want you dont go. What do you think is more confident? Going because you are afraid you will lose her? Women can smell this insecurity 1000 km away.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:06 PM
10

Ps: you are bitter as fuck. At least be aware of it
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:36 PM
14

You can make what you want out of it. Some people use it to game girls, some people came to red pill after they were cheated on, some want to make sure they have a successful marriage. Thats the beauty of it. You make what you want out of it. Dunno why you stress so much.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:34 PM
4

Sometimes girls are not interested. It sounds like she just didn’t want to talk to you and this was not a shit test. I have seen plenty of girls blow off guys approaching them by saying they are busy. It happens, we all get rejected. Was she higher SMV than you?
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:00 PM
0

I think a balance is what is best. A person that has too much empathy (aka nice guy) is even worse for me. I rather have an honest, self-serving person as friend with whom I can argue and disagree rather than some passive, all-accepting person that you don’t know where he truly stands. This is actually why women also prefer more selfish/arrogant men than “nice guys”. I just adapt my style. When a friend is selfish I also become more selfish. And its perfectly fine like that. For instance i have …
/r/askTRP03/03/21 03:49 PM
51

Not your issue man. Try to tell him its a bad idea. But let him burn himself. Be there for the fall
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:39 AM
0

You had the same fucking post less than 24 hours ago. Man up mate. You got enough advice.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:24 AM
10

100%. I was rationalising her promiscuity too. Big life lesson. Fuck all those books about retroactive jealousy and about accepting a partner’s past. What a sack of bullshit. A woman that sleeps with 30 men, how the fuck did i think this was ok? My god i must have been really “in love”. But my gut was screaming at me and evetually I listened to it. 0 regrets. But took me a long time
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:37 PM
17

Stop caring
/r/askTRP02/03/21 10:01 AM
29

Long post which shows your ideas are not so clear. You are behaving like a couple but she is not exclusive. Simple as that. Stop behaving like a couple treat her like a plate or move on. Choice is yours
/r/askTRP02/03/21 08:56 AM
3

“Playful/flirty around guys” Shoot yourself in the foot man. Good luck :) Shes probably an attractive woman and you are ignoring the red flags. You will get burnt
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:31 AM
27

Man. My ex had a partner count of 30+. I spent 1 year of my life debating internally and I also went to see a therapist who specialises in sex/relationships. It was a journey. Now I realise that her partner count was not the only red flag she had. She had many more, like flirting, attention-seeking and so on. These go hand-in-hand with her partner count. I have now concluded that there is no way a woman has a high n count without other glaring red flags. I have yet to meet a woman with a high n …
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:23 AM
2

Sounds like she is not super interested but you could give it a final shot and see. If you still get low energy vibes just move on. Sometimes you need to cut your losses even if the girl is attractive or whatever
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:53 PM
1

What was the last thing you said and why didnt she reply. If you asked a question and she didnt reply she nexted you
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:44 PM
35

Ye i agree with you. Its just about politeness. Then ditch the bitch. She will probably even chase you harder so its win win for you
/r/askTRP01/03/21 09:23 PM
100

Oneitis creeping up. Happens, at least be aware of it. If you were not developing oneitis you would not be giving a fuck, right?
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:49 PM
1

I am pretty sure the reason you are not getting laid is more tied to your personality/confidence than your hair. Im saying this because you are asking a bunch of strangers online what they think you should do with your hair. Do whatever the f you want. Some chicks like long hair. “and i think the extra facial angularity from short hair will give me the edge i need to get laid until my bf% is low enough.” Says it all. You have other issues beyond the long hair.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:12 PM
3

Not your issue. Steer away from her and drama
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:12 PM
3

You are approaching this too methodologically.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 09:55 AM
2

You cant change your personality from one day to the other. Its not genuine. You need to slowly internalise new behaviours
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:40 AM
2

You have to be an idiot to think that you going oht with friends she doesnt like has absolutely anything to do with the breakup. It was her excuse maybe,
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:21 AM
0

Some girls are just sluts
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:20 AM
69

Spot on. Its because men are rational. We think we can talk and fix problems, this is how we relate to the world. Hence, if a woman cheats a man would think “ok why did it happen and how can we prevent it in the future?”. Diagnose the problem, propose a solution and fix it. Thats not how women relate to the world. They act on emotions and impulses. Not rationality. Understanding this is the basis of red pill awareness. Great post I was like that myself. Partly my fault but also when you talk abo…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:38 AM
1

You sound like the typical rationale male (not referring to the book) trying to analyse everything and diagnosing your relationship. You think your gf will cheat on you because you exposed “beta bitch behavior like talking too much”? Come on man. I think your general attitude is the problem, starting from this post and this autistic way of analysing the relationship. This is the problem with the red pill when its given to very analytical, problem-solving men like yourself. Regarding the cheating…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:49 PM
2

Amazing post
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:00 PM
7

Lets say 30. Does that make 29 acceptable? Its whatever you feel is acceptable to you. There is no rule. If you feel disgust when she tells you her number yoi have your answer. Some people are disgusted if they hear 2, some 10, some 40. These posts are retarded
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:52 PM
3

Could have said “You want to meet her? Maybe shes into girls too.” Instead you rationalised and reassured her by saying you didnt like her personality
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:50 PM
2

Plates break
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:06 PM
10

You “swallowed the pill”? If you truly swallowed the pill tell us what is wrong with your post? Let me help you. You want to go back to a girl that wanted to see your ex and disrespected you in other ways.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:55 PM
1

A high n count is whatever YOU deem as high. Its stupid to ask a forum. For some people it will be 2 for some 30. What are you going to do? Calculate the mean/average? If a girl has a partner count that YOU deem is high, and other red flags thats all that matters
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:35 PM
13

Usually a girl with a high partner count has another barrage of red flags. I have yet to meet a woman with a high partner count that does not have other glaring red flags. When I will meet the perfect girl with all green flags and a high partner count as the only red flag then I will ask myself the question. But i don’t think thats possible. So it doesn’t really matter.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:30 PM
6

You dont come to trp and ask for advice when you are dating a good girl. So trust your gut on this one
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:02 PM
-1

No
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:54 PM
1

Wanna fawk? Ahah
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:19 PM
11

Glass half empty kinda guy i see
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:17 PM
8

You can still be a cool guy. Just go full bald
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:15 PM
1

Looks quite good imo.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:57 PM
21

Jesus
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:17 PM
23

Dunno man. As you say you also suspect she has a high body count. Plus the IG profile. Plus you gut feel. I would drop her or plate her. But feel free to try to LTR her and get burnt. We all learn the hard way. If you took the time to write this post clearly your gut is telling you something
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:02 PM
34

Glaring red flag. Doesnt she have any other red flags? I mean a girl that does something like this for sure has other red flags
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:51 PM
5

What the fuck do you care? Shes 16, probably above age of consent and its a 4 year difference. Yes its sad but not your business. I could understand anger and rage if he was 20 and she was 14 or so.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:07 PM
6

K man. Come back in 4 years
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:01 PM
11

You are the fucking sidechick man. You are young, you will learn from this experience. Its good you are on trp already. In 4 years you will read this post again and cringe
/r/askTRP23/02/21 09:56 PM
2

Agree. If you see you are not able to detach and it continues to sting just drop her
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:18 PM
6

Sounds like you are the plate and upset of this. “I will send the video when she is out with the other guy.” Lol. Look if you are into her and upset she is seeing others thats perfectly fine. Protect yourself, drop her then and find another girl. You clearly are not able to plate this girl when you tactically plan to send the video when she is at dinner with the other dude But you are doing 50-50 now. 50% macho, alpha guy. 50% butthurt. Pick a side and stick to it. Now you are neither
/r/askTRP23/02/21 05:06 PM
2

She was clearly not interested enough You failed the shit test when she asked you why you didn’t keep conversation going. Why did you reply seriously? You could have said something stupid like “sorry my yogurt was expiring so was busy eating it.” “Sorry im doing a small science experiment and seeing how fast water evaporates.” Dunno something idiotic. Instead you rationally responded. Hint: women are not rational. But it doesnt matter because 1. She was probably not all that interested in you in…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:54 PM
8

You can improve by not putting a hot girl on a pedestal. Also clearly do not tell her you like her after 1 date or that you wont call her if she doesn’t.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:36 PM
19

One date. Oneitis. As you say she is pretty and you threw all your standards for self-respect out the window. At least be aware of it. We all made same mistake
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:50 PM
20

Tl:dr im realising im with a slut. What should I do? Im sure this is not the only red flag she has.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:45 AM
4

Where is this sub going
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:25 PM
3

1 you handled fine. #2 some women like the attention and dont consider dancing cheating. You could have pushed more and maybe she would be down but who knows
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:22 PM
2

And the question is?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:17 PM
1

Tinder Selfie Depends on country you are in
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:52 AM
5

So? Scarcity mindset much
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:35 AM
3

Stop drinking
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:31 AM
9

Why not? Whats wrong with you
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:30 AM
8

Wowwowowoow going out with your sister! Sounds like incest!!! These crazy people! Mate, the only retarded shit I see is your post.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:24 AM
8

Sounds like he has oneitis but is bullshitting himself that now he is alpha.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:06 AM
23

You did the right thing and she knows it (hence the calling and so on). I find what she did both crazy and disrespectful. Dont go back
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:48 AM
1

Shit test. Which you failed. Could have said “introduce me to him. Im always keen to try new things” “Introduce me. We could all get along and have a poly marriage” Or some bullshit like this. Nothing that makes you sound butthurt (so no insulting the guy). But then also consider whether u want to date a girl that tells you she is going oht with someone else. To me this is a huge redflag and she is likely going to be a pain in the ass
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:07 PM
12

Dangerous ground. She is a mutual friend. If you reject her she might even tell your LTR. You fucked up mate
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:23 PM
2

Regardless of what you did right or wrong this girl sounds like a pain in the ass and someone you don’t want to associate yourself with.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:00 PM
19

You are trying to understand female behaviour? Asking if there is a rational reason behind this?
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:04 PM
1

Its called red pill for a reason
/r/askTRP20/02/21 01:44 PM
1

Women do this all the time, did you ever see them care?
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:45 AM
2

Ghetto love stories
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:00 PM
1

If you are like the guy on the left fair enough.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:07 PM
4

Dont ignore this. Also confronting is useless. She will try to manipulate you into forgiving her. Man i wish I didnt ignore these kind of things in my last relationship. But I did. And when i confronted I believed all the lies. I should have broken up and you should break up. Hope you listen to our advice. Best of luck
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:01 PM
2

Dont do this stupid shit
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:59 PM
40

Come on man, when someone dies its ok to cry for fucks sake
/r/askTRP19/02/21 06:35 AM
3

I myself have said this to 10s of girls i then ghosted. Its just less awkward than just goodbye. Dunno
/r/askTRP18/02/21 10:34 PM
12

You sound very methodological which says a lot. Just go with the flow and think less
/r/askTRP18/02/21 10:15 PM
1

BPD women sleep around a lot and create a lot of damage, in particular for blue pilled men. Breaking up with my BPD was the moment I became red-pilled. Sad to see some idiot put a ring on her a few months later.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 10:00 PM
1

“Couple hundred”
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:56 PM
3

Read about BPD. If she has similar traits run and run and never look back
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:22 PM
5

Therapy
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:19 PM
2

What did i just read?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:18 PM
18

Shit happens, move on. Hard for us to help when we were not there. If she was silent from the beginning i dont think you did anything wrong during the date, maybe you are just not her type. We all get rejected once in a while, you cannot be liked by everyone.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:16 PM
2

If you ignore 80% of what they ask you to do its fine. When a female manager calls me and panickly asks me something, I always reassure them and then tell myself by tomorrow she wont care anymore.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:06 PM
1

If you are not an insecure or jealous person, then your gut is always right. It was never wrong in my case
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:20 AM
2

You are already broken up.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:04 PM
2

Let me get this straight. So you are in an LTR with a girl that posts to her instagram stories conversations she has with her beta male orbiters. Hmmmm. Might be dread or not, but what the fuck are you doing in an LTR with a 13 year old idiot?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:39 PM
1

Too long but she clearly gaslight you.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:36 PM
3

Ignore and move on. But if you cross paths just politely acknowledge her
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:02 PM
7

100%
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:30 PM
2

You work at the big 4?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 12:25 PM
3

Honeslty man, there are other things beyond this that are telling you she is not the right one. Your gut is telling you something and you are trying to rationalise it away. If trp teaches something is to listen to your gut and not doubt it, even when she comes back begging you to change your mind (manipulation).
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:15 AM
18

Tell him this can have legal repercussions and he is an idiot
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:19 PM
1

Fuck him then hes being the immature bitch. Anyway how hes behaving with his ex tells you about his character
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:26 PM
26

Women do this all the time, not a problem to do it yourself. Just dont drag her along for too many dates if you are not interested.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 06:17 PM
16

You need to be in control and when you are in a relationship you take over some risk. Thats maybe the issue Man have you ever been cheated on? Ye it sucks but come on, there are worst things in life. And to be honest when someone cheats its so much easier to move on cus you know they are shit human beings.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:59 PM
9

This is what you do “Dude, ill be by your side no matter what. Its your life and your decisions. I will respect that. But I will not change my opinion and deep down you know I am right. So do what you want and lets not make this influence our friendship” The end
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:52 PM
178

2 things you need to understand and thats all: 1. If she cheats she is dead to you and you move on. 2. You ALWAYS listen to your gut and bounce if your gut tells you to. This is everything you need to know about cheating
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:49 PM
21

Imo you did the right thing. You should comfort her but not go overboard. If you comfort too much it will fuel the fire. Its a goddam phone. And yes, thank god you did not confront the two guys. Not worth getting stabbed for a first date, for someone you may never see again. Shit sometimes I feel guilty paying for coffee on first date, imagine getting stabbed :)
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:46 PM
3

No but if you are too much of a dick over time she will
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:05 PM
0

This is how she will end up cheating on you and going for a beta provider that actually cares. I think its about finding a balance. Maybe dont buy her flowers and bring her to an expensive dinner, but rather cook her a nice meal at home or order sushi. Do something but not over the top
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:42 PM
24

Unfortunately the truth is that yes these things make you unattractive. It depends also a bit how you frame them. If you admit to some mental health issues but do jt in a confident and assertive way maybe its ok. Like in a jokingly way for instance. But if you start crying and being a bitch she will lose attraction for you. Its a cold world. Fix your shit.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 07:10 PM
20

If you are going to be alone and struggle to rebuild a social circle i dont recommend just leaving the group. I would be very clear that what they did was fucked up and if anything remotely similar happens again you will fuck them up. Intimidate them. And then just be aware these are people you cannot trust. I have friends i trust and friends i am more skeptical about. Think its normal
/r/askTRP12/02/21 02:02 PM
1

Dude watch this short video from Rollo Tomassi: https://youtu.be/Q5PnN9KJSr0 It explains bpd perfectly. Run and run and run and run away
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:42 PM
1

You didnt overreact. I also find a slap to the face the most disrespectful thing, could almost be considered a spit on the face. What pisses me off is that it makes me feel powerless because as a man I cannot do the same back to her. I would not next immediately. But make it crystal clear if she does it again shes out.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:43 PM
7

If you think she is crazy, trust your gut and move on
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:39 PM
4

No, move on. Dont do it or hide it better
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:22 PM
1

If she talks about him a lot primarily
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:13 PM
16

Trust your gut. If you took the time to write this post something is off
/r/askTRP09/02/21 10:35 PM
2

Probably right
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:36 PM
1

Useful comment
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:26 PM
0

Made out
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:25 PM
18

Nah. Easiest way is to go out and escalate from there. If you are too embarassed to be seen with a girl outside you should not even invite her home in the first place imo
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:00 PM
2

You sound quite self-aware which is a good thing. I also had some bad periods especially around that age. You got to get your shit together which may be by seeing a therapist for instance. No reason to be discouraged, many have been in your same shoes and have recovered and now live good and (more or less) stable lives. But it takes time
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:58 PM
1

He should save this post too ahaah
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:57 PM
9

“Thats not the only thing you will choke on”... if I was her I would think you are autistic and would try to end the date asap. Who says this on their first date with a stranger? It shows you have no social radar at all. Thus the insecure post on how your date went.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:17 AM
2

Bull
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:29 PM
1

Interesting
/r/askTRP07/02/21 01:41 PM
1

Why did you show up when she didnt confirm? Tells something about you already
/r/askTRP07/02/21 01:35 PM
1

Every man has been there. I have done mistakes 1000 times in prior relationships, but I learned from all of them. Now I barely ever doubt myself. Its a journey that we all go through.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 01:34 PM
1

Sperg
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:57 AM
15

True but we all lie sometimes. Some are innocenr
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:48 PM
121

Dont date a girl that lies. At least on serious shit
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:27 AM
7

Dad: “save my hoe daughter before I die” You: “sure” The end
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:47 AM
14

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:45 AM
1

Sums it up perfectly
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:57 PM
34

Similar happened to me and I stayed. It was my life biggest regret. Dont fall for the “I love you”, “it was a mistake” etc
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:32 PM
2

Sounds like it annoys you a bit?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:49 PM
4

You want a “gf” like this? A woman you are exclusive towards? Unless you are in an open relationship or are ok being in one you should not call this girl your “gf”. She gonna cheat, if not done already
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:28 PM
2

And even more incel is the people that are actually seriously answering ahah
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:40 AM
1

Not sure asktrp is the best place to ask for advice. Anyway, she needs professional help. You can only be there for her but this is something a doctor/psychologist needs to handle. Be protective and caring but don’t go too far, she needs to be treated like a normal person and eventually return to “normal” life. Best of luck to you and family
/r/askTRP31/01/21 10:52 PM
1

If you tell her a joke it will seem like you are comforting her. Why do that when she is seeing other guys? Just put a like on her message
/r/askTRP31/01/21 08:10 PM
7

Her friends always tell much you need to know. You want to ltr this girl? Are you nuts?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:49 PM
2

If you have a lot of experience with women you will have had many past instances in which you ignored your gut feel only to be later proven your gut was right. Why are you doubting your gut now? You clearly like this girl so its likely you will ignore comments and maybe ask her for reassurance. She will explain and “reassure” you. But in a few months your fears will be proven right and you will regret not listening to your gut.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:56 PM
6

And the sky is blue
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:28 PM
1

I dont expect someone to dump her bf for a random dude she met in 3 minutes. But ye ill probably go for “good luck” or so
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:47 PM
1

Dunno. She was enthusiastic when we spoke. She thanked me several times for talking to her. Probably just felt guilty when got home. Dont think it was for attention
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:45 PM
-2

Why? She will reach out on her own if she wants? Was thinking something simple like “ok sure. Text me if you get bored.”
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:39 PM
8

Better to know the truth than live a life of ignorance and disney-like fairytales. Once you take the red pill there is no going back. Accept it and look at the beta simps around you and be happy you are not like them
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:30 AM
8

If you have to play these stupid games might as well just dump her
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:57 PM
2

Its not rational man. Her brain might be telling her you are worth a shot but her heart/emotions are somewhere else. Its destined to fail. Unless she cheats on you a couple times then maybe she can feel better
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:33 PM
2

Its over. As someone who has been on the other end, the bad feelings will never go away. Maybe they will be less evident but they will always be there. Better to be in a relationship without this shit
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:19 PM
16

Its manipulation
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:09 PM
25

Man 2 weeks to judge someone is completely crazy. You barely know this person. How many hours total have you spent together? Also, at least personally, every-time I met a chick and had the impression she was LTR material within a few weeks, it turns out they were the dirtiest sluts/cheaters. These women acted innocent, said they had morals and so on. They were actually the worst. So wait a bit before you judge
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:55 AM
2

Da fuck is this post?
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:15 PM
2

Good job man. Being in shape when older is also one of my objectives
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:45 PM
5

Do you also chew your food and spit it our before you swallow? Similar principle
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:55 PM
3

Wear a condom and check it after use in a sink. Dont exaggerate man.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:46 PM
1

And you think its normal to write a whole post about a girl you haven’t even met? And calling her already a unicorn? Nothing wrong for you?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:29 PM
1

You are writing this whole post without having even met this chick???? Jesus christ man.. where to start
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:27 PM
1

Jesus christ man. Where to even start? You have oneitis. This woman will be your ruin. Guaranteed that. But you will learn from this experience and become a better man.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:25 PM
4

To be honest I would not be comfortable with my ltr telling me she has a problem with me being unemployed and her biggest issue is having to tell others this. Its a red flag for sure. Of course, if you are a fat fuck playing dota all day then she is right. Dunno.. sounds off to me
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:51 AM
21

Hey man. Sorry to hear that. 1. Allow yourself to feel emotions but 2. Be strong and dont go back to that hoe. If she was living 1 min from me I would personally move if I could (unless you are strong and don’t care for her).
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:44 PM
2

Please read about projection. This happened to me and 1000 others. At one point, when her accusations of cheating became so many I started to think “wait, wait. Maybe she is the one cheating or misbehaving and thats why these topics are constantly on her mind. Or maybe she thinks that since she is doing this bad stuff I must be doing it too.” Man oh man if I was right. If I only listened to my intuition...
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:46 PM
2

You are not overreacting. Your gut is telling you something but you are trying to rationalise it away. We all did this mistake, me included. But if you want the simple way out keep ignoring your gut and continue as usual. Which seems was your decision anyway.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 01:32 PM
2

This is a good answer.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 01:30 PM
2

Jesus man. She disrespected you while talking with a male colleague on the phone. Stand your ground.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 01:28 PM
3

Ahahahhaha
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:56 AM
4

Wtf do you care if your friends are bluepill? And how does that affect your decision to introduce your gf? Actually, I would be much more worried if they were red pilled. In general its ok to introduce your gf. But it needs to be clear (implicitly) of course that she is just your +1 and she should never become close friends with them. Because if you break up, she needs to stop hanging out with them.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:10 PM
16

Your gut is telling you something is off and you took the time to write this post here on trp. What else do you need?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:44 AM
1

Ahhh okok. I thought you meant a full on suit and to wear that just to hit on girls would be a bit insane. Just pick a style that suits you. Some people look good in skinny jeans some don’t. Its more about the person wearinf the item than item itself
/r/askTRP16/08/20 09:50 PM
3

Hope you are not asking this because you plan to go with a suit just to hit on girls. That does not signal status/power, it signals being a loser. If you are asking because you wear a suit to work or so, fair enough.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 09:46 PM
6

Unfortunately you dont know. Actually splitting people into “will cheat” “will not cheat” is the worst thing you can do. Because then you will find a woman, think she is a unicorn, pedestalize her, marry her and have kids. Then she fucks some random dude and you will kill yourself. So always operate under the assumption you will be cheated on. The only thing you can do is be ready to walk as soon as you know.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:31 PM
13

You are always ready for that to happen. You take it as a given that she will cheat. And why do you care? If she cheats you bounce. Simple as that. Thats why you dont get married, because then your freedom to walk away goes away. Or at a huge cost for yourself
/r/askTRP16/08/20 11:40 AM
2

You fucked up to continue even considering this chick after she said “oooh nice” and thats it. That Sahara is less dry than that conversation
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:35 PM
8

“Friends” and its the second time you meet. Who gives a shit. I would understand if this is someone you knew for several years. But like a chick ghosting after a second date. Why do you gove a fuck?
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:29 PM
1

Life is not fair. You could have the same thoughts you have on relationships about work life too, especially in an office environment. Where everyone is trying to climb the ladder and is happy screwing people over. Or you can have frame and accept that is reality but choose not to engage. And when someone tries to fuck you, at work or in a relationship, you simply walk.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:43 AM
2

Its hard for us to judge based on your version only. You could be right or you could be a massive bitch. In general I have found in corporate environments what works is to be polite but firm. I am also very collaborative and helping but the moment you try to fuck me over you wont get any help from me. Its just work. Its a salary. Do what you have to do, dont lick ass and stand your ground when you are not treated fairly (i.e promotion, salary review etc.) And dont deal with office politics and d…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 07:07 PM
3

Leave Clear enough?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 10:09 AM
2

And your 10’ dick
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:30 PM
1

I hope a moderator comes and bans the shit out of this guy
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:29 PM
12

Man.. I get the obsession with training. And the endorphins and so on. Its addictive. But 2-3 hours every-time you go is just insane. Unless this is your profession, which it is not. I go a lot. 1 hour or 1.5 everyday with basically hardly any rest days (but i alternate and do cardio when tired). At least you recognise something is wrong. Im not even thinking about your gf
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:26 PM
2

If your friend told his gf that you like girls to wear strapons and fuck you in the ass I would understand your point. But this?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:19 PM
7

He was probably toxic if people were criticising his behaviour. Anyway if you have significantly changed your ways the quickest solution is to change city. If thats not an option then agree and amplify when confronted. For example: “man why were you texting all these girls like a loser.” “Dunno, you should warn your grandma. I might slide into her DMs too.”
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:02 PM
10

Next but don’t tell her why or she will stop telling fellow brothers in the future. Tell her your ex got in touch and you are giving it another shot.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 03:22 PM
10

Jesus. Yes dont answer to both. Keep out of it
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:52 PM
2

Very likely you have OCD, intrusive thoughts in particular. Look it up. Treatment exists and it can fix you. In essence, rather than spending time rationalising “no its impossible. I wont die.” You do exactly the opposite and tell yourself “yes maybe I will die.” And you learn to sit with the anxiety. Over time your brain does not react anymore to it and you live a normal life. Therapy is called Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:35 PM
1

If you go on the subreddit and the “about” section and scroll down you will find all relevant posts. In summary the answer to your question is: no, dont go back. Dont talk to her at all. She broke up with you and probably got rammed doggystyle by several chads at the parties you mention. And you think you would be able to just get sex from her and act unemotional? Lol
/r/askTRP06/08/20 07:47 PM
1

Is this even a question? Did you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP06/08/20 07:41 PM
1

Ahahahaha
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:16 PM
1

Its a good sign but it can also be a manipulation tactic. She might be mirroring you to let you off your guard and fall for her. And then you will discover she actually never truly meant what she said. Its also a typical trait of Bpd women and trust me you dont want to be involved with that.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:16 PM
15

You and your family should kick him out.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:34 PM
6

Are you expecting some sort of validation here? We have all hit rock bottom at some point. Some of us bite the bullet and do what we have to do to fix our lives. Others fire the bullet. Its your choice.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:53 PM
92

Dude she just added her ex again and she liked some recent pictures. I mean... what else do you need to know. I would dump her ass but dont give her the opportunity to explain herself. She will gaslight you and say stuff like “it doesnt mean anything” etc. Etc. After you dumped her, I would work on myself. Seems like you have quite a few insecurities. Having a night where you are not at full potential once in a while is ok. Fuck it, its almost necessary. But it seems like you probably have some …
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:02 PM
4

Im not saying not to randomly talk to girls. Howver to go to shopping malls with the sole purpose of hitting on girls sounds desparate and needy. It also probably transpires in interactions with those girls. Anyway, different schools of thought.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:35 PM
12

Stop cold approaching. Go by your day and if you meet people you click with you ask them out. Hanging around shopping malls to hit girls on purpose is just creepy. If you need to buy a tshirt and the cashier is hot, that’s a different story.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:38 PM
5

You and her will never be able to be casual (her at least). Its going to get messy and for what? To dip your biscuit in tea once or twice?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:20 PM
11

Then your gf should address this with her boss. She is an adult. If this coworker of yours comes up with unfounded accusations she has nothing to worry about. If her boss sides with this coworker she should start looking for a new job.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:44 AM
9

Ignore it and dont validate it. She is looking for a reaction from you or your gf. If you give her a reaction she wins.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:34 AM
2

I think simple, cheap and occasional gestures are more than enough.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:39 PM
14

I would buy a stupid kinder egg from the shop once in a while or when I would stop to fill gasoline or something. “I got this for you”. Was enough comfort. Cheap, inexpensive and nothing special but it showed I thought about her. Her eyes would shine and once in a while thats needed
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:11 PM
4

You can still cause an emotional rollercoaster by being cold as ice and not falling for their shit tests or manipulation tactics. I am generally cold, I liked once in a while doing blue pilled stuff like buying flowers or so on. I would do this so rarely that it would cause them a lot of emotions. Just to keep it varied.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:01 PM
1

Ahahahah
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:57 PM
34

You both sound childish and manipulative. If this is the kind of relationship you want please go ahead. I don’t understand using dread on purpose as a manipulation tactic. If you do not like her behaviour you give her less attention and focus on other things. Thats the only kind of dread you should use. The fact that she says she has mental health issues as a justification for her behaviour is a huge red flag. Its funny how your post starts with all green flags and by the end she sounds like a t…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:53 PM
3

I said in a reply later on that yes that would also be a red flag. You are right
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:22 PM
3

Yes i agree. Cant be a full ISIS supporter and expect a virgin, but cannot also settle for an attention-seeking whore. I think its ok to accept a couple FWB and maybe couple ONSs, especially during college years. But thats where I draw the line and thats already to be considered a red flag.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:02 PM
13

Basically a psychologist that specialises in sex issues. She was a Scandinavian (which is a super gender equality region), woman and full of plastic surgery. On paper, this would have been a recipe for disaster. But actually she was super pragmatic and fully understood my struggle. First couple sessions we spoke about the N-count and this stuff but we quickly deviated to other issues in the relationship. I stopped going when I realised that the N-count was another red flag towards judging my ex …
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:12 AM
31

I dated a couple girls with high N counts. I spent countless hours reflecting on why I felt this inner disgust. I also went to see a sex therapist. Eventually I realised that the N count was just a red flag for many other things that were not working. I now have no guilt judging after being scarred countless times from women with high N counts. They are sluts. Guaranteed you a girl with a high N count will cheat on you. There are many academic studies on this. It increases the chances very signi…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:31 AM
3

I give hickeys myself to make my plates jealous
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:19 PM
1

Proves my point
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:47 PM
1

Get out of the relationship if you need to be on tinder. Clearly you tapped out. And thats one of the risks of being on tinder during a relationship
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:03 PM
1

Ahahah
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:43 PM
4

That something is wrong with you or that you are a woman
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:05 AM
13

Keep a log of everything. Including screenshots of conversations and so on. Bitches are crazy you need to protect yourself. Keep her blocked and do not engage. If she shows up. You act civilised and de-escalate. Don’t show emotion and just be cold like ice. Be firm, but civilised.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:59 AM
7

Ahah no im saying this guy. Cus he assumes all colleges are closed if they are closed in his country. Was a stupid joke
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:23 AM
5

Hes probably american
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:17 AM
6

Number is not fake i found her on whatsapp with her pic and all using that number. I fully agree with you and the approach. I think the same Thanks
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:58 AM
3

Ye im grateful too. However I have become a piece of ice as well. Part of me misses the idealistic, blue pill person I used to be.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:31 AM
10

Dated a borderline woman (BPD). Would not understand her endless shit tests so I probably googled “how to respond to jealous girlfriend” and i probably landed on a RP post which suggested “agree and amplify”. I was however scouring the internet to learn more about emotional abuse and so on. So I likely landed on RP posts from different angles
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:39 PM
6

If you are not emotionally invested in her then plate her. However, if you feel jealous or whatever then kick her to the curb. In either case its a next, up to you whether hard or soft
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:37 PM
2

“Its just a fucking pussy”. Why would you care about “fucking with her” if she was just a “fucking pussy”. She friendzoned you. She fucked with you. You should not have given this woman so much mental energy. Anyway, appreciate that in your title you say you are a noob, because it clearly shows. With time you will learn. But trust the comments
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:56 PM
3

The problem is you “wonder if I should continue to fuck with her” when you have not even “fucked her”. Who talks 2.5 months with someone before meeting? Why did you invest so much energy at the start? Anyway, just giving tough love. Suggest you spend some more time on TRP, hopefully in a few months you will come back to this post and laugh about how idiotic it was
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:46 PM
7

“Wtf is wrong with this bitch?” You sound like the bitch, caring about some random thot so much. She is not interested, you cant negotiate attraction. Move on
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:30 PM
1

Jesus. She was probably high on coke. Kick her to the curb.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:23 AM
36

Would be a mistake to continue the date. Important thing is that if you cut the date short you don’t look butthurt about it. Something like “I’ve got to do some stuff” is sufficient. If she has any self-awareness, she will know why you are shortening the date
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:21 AM
2

If being with the whole group will make you miserable you have to drop the whole group unfortunately. Thats why you dont fall in love with friends or even try with friends. I did same mistake and cut a large group of friends. You should probably change gym too. And btw dont let a bitch string you along in the future
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:28 PM
5

Its called mirroring
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:50 PM
86

Listen to your gut. Its always right. She and he are disrespecting you. If she was a straight woman the roomate would NEVER dare to give a gift like that to her. But the fact that he felt it was ok means they probably joke a lot, flirt or even worse. I would just get out, she smells like trouble
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:19 AM
2

Libertarian not liberal. What you are talking about is more the Tradcon RP. With the idealistic intent of trying to find a good wife, slut shaming and so on. To me RP just gives you the tools to get laid, maintain frame etc. But everyone interprets it how they feel.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:22 PM
13

Islam is quite sheep-like actually. Many rules and dogmas and so on. Far from the unconventional, free thinking that TRP pushes you towards. Islam is TRADCON (traditional conservative)not RP. Its also a very judgmental religion, while TRP is more liberal/non-judgmental.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 11:42 AM
3

You sound quite naive and you are looking at this in a mechanical and unrealistic way. “Thanks to the redpill I know im not going to peak in SMV for another 15 years or so” What? Ahah. So lets use that as an excuse to delay? Yes, you are protecting your ego from rejection.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:38 AM
11

Bullshit. She will become more sneaky and thats it
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:23 PM
2

Bam!
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:58 PM
2

It might be a shittest. But why would you want to pass this shittest? To me its just disrespectful. Even if you are not serious or whatever who sends a pic at a tinder date to another person they are seeing? Its just rude. I would drop that ass
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:57 PM
4

Probably just the surprise effect
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:53 PM
14

100% did the right thing man. Good job.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 02:55 PM
1

There is nothing to lose yet you feel the need to take the time to write a post on asktrp? If she viewed you as a potential alpha she would make time for a quick coffee. She doesnt so you move on. Simple
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:22 PM
82

Jesus christ.. I mean you are so far from the basics of red pill I feel its not even worth trying to explain to you what you did wrong. I suggest you read the sidebar and also a book called Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. He also has a youtube channel and recently did a video on the Will & Jada Smith confession which is worth watching as well. And partly applicable to you too. But to summarise it all, grow some balls. This subreddit is a good point to start. Im almost thinking you must be a trol…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:59 PM
5

True but particularly when you are so young
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:57 AM
5

You are 17. Trust me this relationship will mean NOTHING in a few years.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 08:40 AM
5

Sounded like my ex ahahah. Textbook. Let me tell you something... RUN Only someone fucked up in the head would want unprotected sex with basically a stranger
/r/askTRP16/07/20 05:14 PM
2

What country are you in?
/r/askTRP16/07/20 05:07 PM
2

Fuck the military. What field is your current job?
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:40 PM
2

You must be a boring person if you are afraid of not finding topics when the other person has a different foundation to yours (i.e job, interests, friendships etc)
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:27 PM
1

It likely would not have ended in a fight. Dunno. I think as long as no1 disrespects you at work, in your family and relationships you can let these kind of situations slip. Its not like he insulted you and your mom. He was likely stressed and mumbled something. Now worth stressing about
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:06 PM
5

Yes to some extent. I still believe in meaningful relationships such as with friends and family. But yes not with bitches.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:52 PM
3

Jesus
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:38 PM
2

Time
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:01 AM
12

Soft next him ahah
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:05 PM
178

I dont understand why red pill men complain about how blue pill men live. I am happy these things happen, I cherish them. It makes it so much easier for us to stand out of the crowd with women. Why does it trigger you so much? Viva beta men!
/r/askTRP15/07/20 10:37 AM
74

Fight club
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:12 AM
12

All women manifest BPD traits. Its a spectrum personality disorder, meaning there are more and less extreme cases. You should look at yourself more than them. Why did you ignore the red flags, why did you allow them to cross boundaries and why are you so dependant on the kinky and nasty sex? If you had a strong frame, you would bail on these girls the moment they do something wrong and you would not be so butthurt to have to write a post on trp because you would have left before developing any f…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:33 AM
4

“Brother”
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:21 AM
2

Man. Congrats you dodged a bullet. Not only the promiscous past but the lying straight to your face. These would ruin you
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:09 AM
2

This way of thinking is beta. You think an alpha would EVER say “oh she dumped me but she needs emotional support let me give it to her.”?? Come on. You know what you have to do, stop hamstering. We are giving you tough love, take it
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:14 PM
9

Both reasons are not a valid reason to get back together. You may feel like you have the uphand because you “officially” broke up with her but in reality she broke up with you when she said she needed to be alone. So essentially she dumped you and now is asking for emotional support/wants you back. She wont respect you if you go back.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:52 PM
5

Nah man. I would be pissed if someone stops me while I am running. In the past someone stopped me and asked me for directions, I stopped, removed my headphones and said “sorry im running” and just continued. I had a terrible vibe, expect harsh rejections. Its like asking someone who is lifting a question. Nono. But since its women maybe its ok because they dont take it that seriously
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:15 PM
4

If she is annoying why are you entertaining going out with her? Scarcity mentality?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:48 AM
2

Pussy piercing
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:52 PM
7

Its Rollo not Rallo
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:21 PM
9

This is just disrespectful. Its not a shit test. I would bounce. Have some self respect
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:42 AM
88

Compromising. For example: not going to the gym to spend time with her. Etc.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:40 PM
5

Get your shit together
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:16 PM
20

Lay low go FULL no contact. Disappear from face of the earth. Keep a record of your texts.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:11 PM
3

Harsh but true
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:54 PM
11

Well.... let me tell you my story. Met a girl, thought we had same values. 1 year in she tells me she slept with 30 men. I am shellshocked and disgusted. I go see a therapist, a woman to address this. Fantastic and non-judgmental person. Quickly the discussion pivots from the sexual past to other issues including trust. I realise the past is not the biggest problem. After years of struggling with girls sexual pasts, I now accept that its a huge red flag. Fuck the politically correct “the past is…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:52 PM
5

If she puts extra effort to show she is with her parents she is hiding something. Wakey wakey mate. People that dont have anything to hide dont “put extra effort” to prove anything. The thought would not even cross their mind
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:43 PM
3

You dont let your guard down
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:47 PM
6

Are you a woman or what? This post reminds me of when a woman comes home and is like “you cant believe that bitch Mary what she said today. She is so ugly and fat, I will destroy her tomorrow.” Grow a pair man and don’t waste time with trivial shit
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:47 PM
3

Good job man
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:50 AM
3

Sounds like working out and getting generally fitter should be your priority. Start by doing weights and HIIT or running each week. 4x a week at min. This will help you lose fat on stomach etc. Regarding diet, start by cutting the junk food and excessive alcohol etc. This will put you on a good start. As you progress you can learn more about macros, protein intake etc. For now focus on the more intuitive stuff
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:34 PM
1

Yes its maybe just a shit test. But still. A woman that does something like that is gonna give you a headache all the time. Bang and dash on this one
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:50 PM
3

Why would you want to talk to a girl that tells you she is sad her ex is seeing other girls? I would bounce on that statement and never look back.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:08 PM
2

I have severe diagnosed OCD. I did CBT and its largely under control now. Trp is not the right place to vent your frustrations. If you have a problem go out there and fix it. Trp can help you identify a way to fix it. I.e what kind of therapy you should do to fix your ocd for instance. But to come on trp, complaining and expecting something from this community doesnt make sense. Use other subs for validation or reassurance
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:08 PM
6

I think you are on the wrong subreddit. There is no compassion here. Quit being a pussy and get your shit together. Go to therapy if needed.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:50 PM
10

Jesus christ
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:28 PM
4

Remove yourself from this group and learn a life lesson. Dont mix your gf with your friends in the future. Exactly to avoid these situations
/r/askTRP02/07/20 07:59 PM
2

Answer “Be creative”
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:46 PM
8

Yes you can pass the shittest but is the kind of woman you want to deal with in your life?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:18 PM
6

Man... trust your gut. Every time i did not follow my gut I was wrong and she was cheating. This happened with several girls. Trust trust trust your gut
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:58 AM
1

Ok gotcha so you do sales but you have a technical background that allows you to better explain the product and cater to client specs.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:57 AM
1

What is a sales engineer???
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:45 AM
3

Oil and gas. Office job. Not a great industry, a lot of up and down 😅
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:45 AM
1

Dont fight it and it will go away
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:17 AM
3

Extra rationale for why you did the right thing hard nexting her
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:22 PM
1

Ahahahahhah any girl with an ounce of self-respect would ghost you after that
/r/askTRP21/06/20 11:15 AM
1

Yeye thats my rationale too. Just wanted to double check. I also cant be bothered to do small talk when we havent even gone out once yet
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:36 AM
2

2 seconds?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:06 AM
3

Male BPD
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:57 PM
4

I would cut her off. Its really disrespectful. Its not like she had an emergency or something. Fuck her. “No worries” is bullshit
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:15 AM
14

I like to live dangerously
/r/askTRP18/06/20 02:41 PM
3

+1
/r/askTRP18/06/20 01:18 PM
1

Dunno man. Its not normal for a girl to be all “lovey dovey” as you say before you even met. You also said she is online complaining about her issues. She clearly has issues, why do you want to go out with her? Why are you wondering why she behaves like she does. Rarely you get so many clear red flags before even meeting a girl. Wtf are you doing instead of running for the hills?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:08 PM
1

Not even gone on your first date and she tells you she wants to bake a cake and you are wondering what is wrong with her?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:47 PM
10

Look at them like they are a 3 year old child. Dont engage with them. When and if they provoke you, look at them coldly and say “mate” or “man” or something similar and nothing else. They will get the hint. If they continue just smirk and disengage.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:37 PM
3

Change your personality first. Its not like a switch you can turn on and off. And if you try too hard and its not internalised of course your friends will abandon you.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:33 PM
1

Much context, much info
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:28 PM
10

How is she a plate if you never even met? Girls are flaky. Get used to it.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:17 PM
2

Why dont you just tell him directly so you give him a chance? If that doesnt work then you can dump him
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:19 PM
1

If you know anything about trp you would not even dare to post such a post here
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:20 AM
1

Are you aware what subreddit you are posting in?
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:06 AM
2

You would be surprised. Female sexologist in Scandinavia (which is like one of the most progressive and libertarian regions in the world). And she was a milf with plastic surgery. When I first saw her I thought she was going to butcher me for my issues and dilemmas. She was instead SUPER understanding. We started the first couple sessions talking about the n-count, madonna whore complex etc. But soon we moved away from the n-count to discussing trust issues, my EX psychological problems and so o…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:56 AM
4

Yes man. Trust me when I say I have been reflecting around this a lot also seen a therapist. I felt super guilty because of my feeling of disgust and I tried to buy into the philosophy that “it doesnt matter” blabla. Really tried. Then I had a moment of clarity when I realised the number itself didn’t matter. Its the excessive promiscuity (of which a high n count is a good indicator), the fear of being cheated on (and trust me it was not irrational) etc. This is what my gut was warning me agains…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:43 AM
29

Depends on many things. What country are you in, what religion you follow, what social class and upbringing you had. Too many may be 2 in India, 50 in USA. I have struggled a lot with this myself. I had a couple gf with high n counts (15+ & 30+). And btw these two girls were the most innocent looking girls (absolutely no1 who met them believed me). I also went to see a sexologist as I was struggling with accepting this and thought it was my problem. I am now of the opinion that girls with high n…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:21 AM
1

If she is listening to those 2 autistics what do you think she is? Einstein? Ignore the guy that said you are not leading in the situation. Wtf does that mean. Are you supposed to build a bunker so she feels safe? No. I think you are handling it correctly. A little bit of concern but not much (and you have a handgun). It sounds like these two men are a couple uneducated pussies. I would agree and amplify if my gf was concerned about this stupid shit. At least maybe she would realise how ridiculo…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:55 AM
2

Read it out loud its quite funny.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:20 PM
13

I think you should go back to school and learn how to write sentences before you think about this chick any further.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:14 PM
12

You have seen a lot of the behaviours but maybe have not been scarred enough to internalise them. Maybe you need to get married and divorce raped by your cheating wife for you to finally embrace trp
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:17 PM
8

Man fuck these childish games. Listen to your gut. She is basically ghosting you. Call her and break up so you dont have to go on a subreddit asking something like this.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:47 PM
7

My god... coming to ask this on trp subreddit. What does he expect to get?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:01 PM
2

Ye man. Its fucked up childish behaviour. Even if its just a shit test and she is faithful and whatever. These kind of women will ruin your life. Run for the hills
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:39 AM
8

Why did she send a pic of some dude? What does that mean? “Hey look who im fucking tonight?”
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:47 AM
17

“I survived”
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:18 PM
4

Does anyone else hear that faint noise? I cant really recognise it. Its sounds a little bit like EXCUSES
/r/askTRP07/06/20 08:21 AM
5

Good job you did all perfect
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:37 PM
12

Congrats you will probably work 20 hours a day which will give you a McDonald salary if you calculate your average $/hr. Jokes aside congrats. I have reflected a lot around work and salaries. Im not sure the amount of work that is required to be in the 10% earners is really worth the squeeze. Then you will forget other more important things in your life such as relationships, social life, sports or general down time. As an analyst the best you can do is work hard and say yes to as many projects …
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:02 AM
2

Is it just me or this post is written like shit and is barely understandable?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:07 PM
6

Dawg. Used to date a BPD girl and she would lie too. It almost ruined my life. She had the innocent face too as you say. These women are like Medusa. Not sure if you should cut it out now but you better be HYPER vigilant.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:31 AM
3

“Let you taste the nectar of the gods”
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:11 AM
5

Boom baby
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:20 AM
8

I was on the opposite end of a similar relationship. Meaning my LTR did some mistakes and we tried it out. Some days we were fine, some days I hated her guts. It never goes away man, if there is deep rooted resentment it stays there and it poisons you. I decided to leave because I could not fake it anymore. Sounds like she really likes you but is not able to get over it nor leave you. Maybe you should be the one taking the dog behind the barn and shooting it.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:00 PM
1

She could just be a bit hypochondriac. I have a few friends who are like this despite things being normal in my country. Dont read too much into it
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:14 AM
1

Dont worry goats and donkeys dont give many shit tests
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:16 AM
2

Trust your gut.. always
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:42 AM
4

“The girl was fucking awesome” Id say start by getting over your oneitis, which you clearly still have
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:05 AM
20

Crying, drama, appealing to my empathy. This was not the first red flag, was just another proofpoint. So by that time i was absolutely certain I wanted to break up. But she attempted everything to get me to stay, including wearing lingerie (LOL).
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:31 PM
6

Nothing happened but i felt angry. And it was not the first red flag.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:44 AM
14

Then i would be more diplomatic about it. But when she knows and still does it... thats not forgivable
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:44 AM
58

Similar happened to me. Told an ex I would never date a girl who has pics of herself in bikini on social media. One day she notices that a few ex classmates of mine have pics in bikini and asks me how is that ok? I respond: “I am not dating them”. I also have a very small social media pool and dont follow any thots (just people I know). Few minutes later she posts a pic of herself in bikini on her account and justifies it as “well since you follow girls that have pics in bikini” Manipulation at …
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:39 AM
7

Long hours (including possible night shifts), stressful environment, many male doctors in authority positions
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:16 AM
9

Man.... just find a real escort if you want to pay for a lay. This woman sounds fucking unstable, although you do too... so maybe its a match
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:27 AM
1

I mean be very assertive during group assessments (those stupid group interviews where you are basically a lab rat being observed by your interviewers). Cut people while they are talking, dominate the conversation (without overdoing it). Went for an interview at IBM and had a group assessment and they let a complete bitch pass. She was extremely rude and dominating. I thought she would not pass but guess what? She was one of the few that did From that point on, I decided to be the same like her.…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:58 PM
1

Did you sleep with her? If you didnt, you should drop her. A woman that is into you would not say that to you. If she said this after you slept together then it was probably an innocent shit test, which you failed.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:11 PM
12

I always found hitting the gym helped me during times of crisis. Also running helps a lot, its like therapy and releases all the built up stress. Fuck sometimes I would run in the morning and then again in the evening when things were really bad. I would also keep applying for jobs, perfecting my cover letters and cv. Still worth trying even if the market is shit. When i was looking for jobs i could not get one. I would be applying and failing my interviews. I graduated #1 of my class and still …
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:13 AM
7

First of all, we all (most) came to the red pill from some kind of trauma. Either a ltr cheating, losing a job or whatever. The good thing is now you know much more about how the world works and you are on the side of recovery. Its also a unique situation right now where many are losing their jobs because of the virus, so its hard to find a job in general. Regarding your career. Why did you get engaged in office politics? Office politics are just drama. Women are good at it. Be aware of the offi…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:51 AM
-15

A simple: “Likeways ;)” will do
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:47 AM
1

Dont think its possible that for 2 years you had no suspicion at all of how she truly looks.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:37 PM
2

I think every single man I know has made this mistake. Unprotected sex in some shape or form. Then you live through the stress and anxiety of not knowing if you got her pregnant (two girls i raw dogged had a late period, imagine the stress). But after living through the stress hopefully you will learn your lesson and always wear protection. Hopefully this will just be a lesson learned
/r/askTRP21/03/20 11:08 AM
3

Outdoor gyms (like those in public parks) More cardio and jogs/runs Ordered dumbells online
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:23 AM
3

What products?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:29 PM
3

And the gym is not a packed area? And a sweaty one? I am training outdoors and running. Gyms are closed in my country because of the virus
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:35 PM
3

Take it as a serious red flag. They might not have appeared yet as its the honeymoon phase still and she might be love bombing you. But be prepared for them to come later on
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:49 AM
2

Open universities are bullshit in my opinion
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:13 PM
1

I would go for option X. It will pay off in the future as long as you manage to deliver. Reputation of the uni is quite important. Also it might be cheaper to rent a small place there than drive and pay gasoline and tolls each day
/r/askTRP08/03/20 12:37 PM
5

You snapped at her and you swallowed the red pill....
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:41 AM
3

Enthusiasm, enthusiasm and enthusiasm. Fake it til you make it. Employers will often choose a candidate that is more keen for the job than one that is more suited but less passionate. Show you did your research also
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:56 PM
3

Another deciding factor.. which uni has the better reputation? This for me would be a key question. Otherwise you are better off staying in your town
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:43 AM
2

In future just wait 15 mins, call and if you dont hear back bounce immediately. If she is late and tells you so up to you whether to wait or not. But dont wait on the street rather go to a bar or do something to entertain yourself
/r/askTRP26/02/20 06:07 PM
2

So you waited 45 minutes???
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:59 PM
1

She sounds stuck up
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:49 AM
26

I really think the ship has sailed man. You should just bounce
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:42 PM
36

Ltr and you dont talk for 1.5 weeks??? Doesnt sound normal to me
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:58 PM
1

Think the downside is much higher than the upside. Yes maybe a couple girls will think wow this guy is high smv because of pics with high smv girls. But most girls will see through the intention and swipe left. Also, i swipe left on any girl with a pic with a guy. Trust me many girls do the same. In my opinion you are at higher risk of alienating a potential match than attracting one
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:04 PM
0

Be busy yourself. Hit the gym, join some club/activity. Dont depend on her simple
/r/askTRP23/02/20 01:57 PM
-12

100% dont do it
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:50 PM
5

Good man! Keep it up! Will fix it all soon
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:18 PM
4

Be honest with yourself.. you in monk mode because of other priorities or oneitis?
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:54 PM
60

Maybe you should not shave to 0, but leave couple millimeters
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:05 PM
81

Are you the one who knocks?
/r/askTRP22/02/20 04:55 PM
1

Dont kiss ass. Never kissed ass and people like me. Be genuine and authentic. Of course try to be polite and positive.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:37 AM
2

Ye, even if you feel butthurt you should fake normality. Eventually you will not be butthurt anymore when she acts like a kid. Fake it til you make it they say. When she gets angry you say “you left me there i did not know what you were doing so i went to talk to my brother.” Close topic. If she insists that you behaved like crap you agree and amplify or shut her down. An example of A&a, “okok sorry, my lover came over so i had to answer the door.” Jusg keep it always lighthearted.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 11:20 AM
3

As long as you didnt act butthurt then you hold frame
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:37 AM
1

You are rich and a post 41 days ago says you have £3500 saved.. I mean unless you are in some shabby village in Africa £3500 is really not enough to be defined “rich”.... But you are called AfrikanTrump so I guess things check out
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:56 AM
3

+1
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:41 AM
18

Cold approaching is for faggots but looking for a job through which you can meet girls is not?... sounds even more desperate to me if you consider cold approaching desperate
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:21 PM
21

She is 18 man... you found your future wife!! Enjoy your turn man..
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:53 PM
4

You need to remind yourself that you are the prize, not her. But you should take looking for validation on social media as a red flag.. for sure
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:50 PM
3

Dont become a manipulative asshole just to keep women hooked. That might work for a bit, but will be stressful and destined to fail. Just decide you dont take shit. So you leave and remove yourself if your woman disrespects you or tries some manipulative tactic. That will make her realise you dont need her and she will chase you. But you are not doing this on purpose just to get her hooked
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:31 PM
4

If she doesnt give you head dump her.. i can understand anal, facials and so on (or better, refusing those is more understandable). But a fucking BJ?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:45 AM
3

Sure, I also hair-dry my pubes in front of everyone
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:43 AM
2

Yes they go away after 20 days. I was a ticking bomb but it eventually went away when my body recalibrated. I was addicted to swedish snus btw. Thats even worse because you can do it anywhere and there is no smell etc. As easy as popping a chewing gum. I am still addicted to coffee. 6 a day. Minimum. Not giving that one up, its my life joy...
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:20 PM
2

Jokes aside. What made me stop was the realisation that the feeling of guilt of having a cigarette was much worse than the short-termed pleasure of a cigarette. I have a VERY addictive personality so was quite tough. Also the realisation that you are risking cancer man. Cancer and other complications. For what?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:53 AM
1

You stop putting them in your mouth and lighting them up with a lighter. Hard?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:44 AM
9

Why would you lie to your girl of how beautiful she looks without makeup? Did you read the sidebar. Thats how you lose your girl instantly... Sometimes when my girl comes without makeup and tries to kiss me, I tell her “Who are you? You know I have a girlfriend?!”. When she looks at me surprised I then tell her “Sorry I didn’t recognise you.” She clearly knows she is pretty so there is no offense and its lighthearted. But no chance in hell I would tell her she looks beautiful without makeup. Let…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:13 AM
6

Agree. He still needs to internalise what i said tho. That will help him “get over it”.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:36 AM
135

How do you get over this? You kidding right? This is a blessing man. Virtually nothing better to help you get over it. I can understand struggling to get over a relationship where maybe you made mistakes, were too needy or so on and feel regret because she left you. But in a situation like this? What the hell is there to get over? She is a thot.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:56 PM
16

“Real life” available on the app store and google play
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:56 PM
2

You can. But dont do it immediately or she will break up with you. Graudually take back control. I.e prioritise your friends over her once in a while (if thats something that you didnt do due to Oneitis). Over time you can flip the script. Should appear natural.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 12:20 PM
195

See a therapist.. 100%. Someone who specialises in this.. If you dont do it, you wont get out of this loop
/r/askTRP17/02/20 10:56 AM
167

“Plausable deniality is gone” and then she tells you shes home alone and scared.. Hmmmmm
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:39 PM
22

Here is what you are going to tell her... “I don't really have any that are worth sharing and wouldn't want to anyway. I have a plan for everything within my life and am happy where I am right now. I don't have much to worry about due to the planning.” Simple heh? :)
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:36 PM
6

Simple: you have been trying to improve yourself but your post clearly suggests you have not yet improved much at all. Results take time. How long have you been lifting? How often do you go to the gym each week? What social activities have you joined? Blablabla
/r/askTRP16/02/20 12:19 PM
4

Interviews are all about lying. You can sometimes pass an interview where you dont perform well by showing that you are truly passionate about that company. Honesty brings you nowhere in interviews. You need to learn their values (which are probably the same as their competitor), and find smart answers for “why us?”. Trp principles dont apply at interviews. Later once you are in, yes. But at interviews you better put your beta act on, like a desperate man pursuing that HB8. I struggled for month…
/r/askTRP15/02/20 11:47 AM
2

You care too much. I mean these are friends, if you dont like their behavior, find new ones. Otherwise just realise not everyone is perfect
/r/askTRP15/02/20 11:24 AM
0

If weird color: “Wow you look like a unicorn” “Did the hairdresser have a bad stomach?” If she became blonde: “You know what they say about blondes?” If she became brunette: “You know its not enough to look intelligent to change your colour from blonde to brown?” Something playful but not too assholy. Always works
/r/askTRP12/02/20 10:47 AM
1

I would tell the guy you dont appreciate him talking about your personal life.. i would be very hesitant to be friends with someone who lacks the common-sense to know that you don’t talk about someone’s personal issues with other people. Sometimes ok, but when smoking at rave parties? Lol
/r/askTRP11/02/20 02:15 PM
1

Why is this friend of yours talking about your fucking family issues to chicks at raves? Am i missing something 😂😂
/r/askTRP11/02/20 02:07 PM
1

Ignore 100%. No answer and forget all
/r/askTRP10/02/20 05:49 PM
1

I dont think its that serious. Of course if its this PLUS many beta orbiters, shes generally flirty, chats with boys blabla then dump her. And this is another reason. If its just this, let it go and maintain frame
/r/askTRP10/02/20 05:32 PM
8

Ignore. And dont take revenge. It will be obvious otherwise (i.e dont comment on hot female celebrities). Keep your frame and just take note of this as a red flag.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 05:27 PM
42

Dont say anything, rather dont give them attention. Go do something else. Girl is reading book when you got at camping site? Go for a walk alone, go fishing, go talk to other people. Be independent. Girl is on phone on car drive? Listen to a podcast that interests you. Just dont do this as a butthurt person as revenge. Switch your mindset from “she is ignoring me by being on her phone, I am going to ignore her by [insert]” rather think like this “she is ignoring me by being on her phone. Great! …
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:32 PM
24

Who cares?? Better for us! Imagine if all those beta orbiters would behave alpha? You should thank god for the beta orbiters, as they allow you to stand out from the crowd!
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:10 PM
3

I guess dont validate an instagram model by commenting on her pics? Even if it was some kind of neg
/r/askTRP09/02/20 10:10 AM
2

Yes change it. But stop being a lill bitch and overthinking such trivial matters o.0
/r/askTRP08/02/20 11:39 AM
0

I think you did the right thing. The guy jumping the line is affecting you and so is the guy in the gym. In terms of how to do it. I think saying it calmly but assertively is the right way. Kind of how you would tell a kid who is misbehaving. If the other person throws a tantrum, you also keep your cool and your ground. You only escalate if the person becomes violent.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:25 AM
5

Its a fucking job, a corporate job. Why do you care? Its not like your own company. Deliver at your best, and dont think
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:31 PM
3

Seems like you did everything right. Stop overthinking
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:55 PM
1

You handled it very well
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:43 PM
3

Quite unlikely
/r/askTRP03/02/20 07:52 PM
2

Could be. Good interpretation. I lift a lot and lost a lot of weight, never got a single shit test just compliments. But i also barely ever talk about working out
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:49 PM
1

Unlikely. Careful what you say to anyone however.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:39 PM
6

Act normal but take it as a red flag
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:21 AM
4

What country is this?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:35 PM
3

I would then focus on why were you being managed out of the company and why they took responsibilities from you. Was it your fault or was it theirs? Objectively speaking? Maybe you are a bit inpatient, and how you reacted to a colleague who uses manipulation is also why you were being managed out? Just an idea!
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:13 PM
12

Im in a scandinavian country too. In a corporate setting too. I also have women attempting this on me. If its not my manager and I dont see any return from helping someone else then I just say: “Sorry im really busy with XXXX.” Never had a problem.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:07 PM
13

You refused after her fake crying. You did the right thing. Why do you care about how she behaves with others? If she attempts to pull it on you, refuse again. She will get it. I don’t see a reason to escalate this???? Just say you are very busy. Closed topic.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:01 PM
6

45 mins is maybe too long? Cut to 20 and increase intensity. Havent you ever noticed how sprinters are ripped while long distance runners are skinny?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:58 PM
1

Do cardio at end of workout
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:40 PM
4

“Cocaine and hookers”. A&A
/r/askTRP19/01/20 11:32 AM
19

He will learn
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:19 PM
1

Why dont you just confront her? Who cares that you were snooping
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:22 PM
5

Slowly and gradually. Start lifting. Its symbolic but its a start. I know shit is happening in my life when j stop training. When i go back at it i know im healing
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:33 PM
5

Douchebag pics?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:20 PM
13

Complaining about all those free IOIs 😅
/r/askTRP14/01/20 10:41 AM
9

Dont try to reason with girls. Especially ones you meet online
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:45 AM
4

They were drugged. He didnt rape them with violence. Wtf can you do if you have been drugged? What is emasculating of being drugged? I can maybe MAYBE understand if it was through force
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:31 AM
117

Mate this is 99% a manipulation tactic to get you to stay. You never did unprotected, she is late because she is a moody psycho or she may be lying to you. Chill Been there too. Run
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:31 PM
-6

Just say “no worries. Hows life?” Then wait a day to reply after that
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:35 PM
1

Sounds like she got the clue. On the flip-side she could have also just stopped because she now knows you could catch her and leave her. Particularly if when telling your “story” you said things like “my friend should leave her.” You dont really know what her essence is as a person. Regardless this is not such a big issue, but yes is a common sense boundary. Be weary
/r/askTRP06/01/20 02:52 PM
12

Women lie anyway so just time shows. Look at actions not words. I had many LTRs that on paper shared my own values and so on but actions differed.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:01 PM
1

Yes thats my dilemma too. She has a lot to offer, sexually and at home. But if we end up fighting almost everyday these things lose relevance
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:42 PM
1

So how to break the cycle? She does not perceive me as weak, quite the contrary. I feel its like a dog that doesnt want to be trained.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:54 PM
6

Just be ready to walk if she disrespects you ever again. Im with a LTR that disrespected me in the past. I broke up with her because she crossed my boundaries and when I was single I educated myself to become more RP. She pleaded me to get back together and I decided to give it a shot 6 months later. Now she knows I have boundaries and so far there have not been red flags. Since I left her once, she now knows I am capable of walking again. I have and never will forgive her for her past behaviour…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:48 PM
2

I agree. It feels childish. But what else to do? If this was a sporadic thing then I would never do it. But this is quite regular. I tried everything trust me. I have no problem modelling my behaviour.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:23 PM
3

I think it depends. If you really think she did not understand why you are angry, then yes clarify the boundary. But most times women know very well what they fucked up. My ltr always asks me what is wrong and so on even if she knows perfectly well what is wrong. I try not to answer and just remove my attention because the moment I explain why Im angry we end up discussing the incident and she tries to spin it in her favor
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:32 PM
2

We all did a cringy thing for love. I sang a song for a girl who broke up with me once. Then you become a man.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:10 PM
5

You handled it well. You need to think of her as a little kid. She threw a tantrum and started crying to try to persuade you to go with her. If you went with her she would have stopped crying. Like a kid being denied candy. Also you did the right thing not to explain why. If she is not dumb she will know she disrespected you and by not telling her you have the added advantage of getting her hamster spinning. Good job. An alternative would have been to go and ignoring her.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:06 PM
0

Handled well
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:27 AM
13

“I wouldnt be surprised if I forgot you at home”
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:08 AM
1

This was in my hometown. Live in another country
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:36 AM
1

Yes she was
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:36 AM
11

To be honest, you sound a bit like a pain in the ass. Just writing a post like this shows a bit your character. I am sure you are one of those annoying people who tries to push their views on others.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 09:56 AM
80

Red flags: - the feeling that you are walking on eggshells, meaning anything you may say may cause an argument (even completely innocent things), - spinning arguments: suddenly if she does something wrong and you blame her she tries to spin the argument against you, - lies: if she lies, she will lie again and again - constant fighting: you feel like you can never please this person
/r/askTRP25/12/19 09:53 AM
3

Your ltr is over
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:53 AM
0

Just stop being the one initiating contact. As simple as that. If she starts initiating more often, good, if she does not... you got your answer
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:27 PM
123

When i see people with handicaps (for example drawfs) I always admire the ones who still manage to be extremely confident. The more you feel this is an issue, the more it will be an issue in your life. Dont beat yourself so much. You have a successful career and so on, thats already a lot more than a lot of people.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:33 PM
1

Being afraid of confrontation is beta
/r/askTRP19/12/19 08:59 AM
2

I have the same doubts. I think sometimes its beta not to lash out especially if someone is disrespecting you or abusing you. Maybe trp preaches not showing anger/lashing out but then taking action to condemn the action. For instance if your gf is disrespecting you, dont lash back to her, but definitely punish her by removing attention or nexting her. If you dont lash back but also dont punish the behavior that is surely beta. Makes sense? For other situations I am not so sure. If someone scream…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:42 PM
1

I agree that anger without a reason is wrong or for futile things. But if someone steals money from you why should you be stoic about it? Fuck that, get pissed, threaten the guy.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:32 AM
-1

Whats the problem with anger?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:56 PM
1

True
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:27 PM
0

No you are wrong. I am not jealous about the guy with car or the person next tome. I am pissed at the continous shit tests and I dont want to be in a relationship where I have to do this all the time. Thats why I remove myself from the situation. But probably I need to next her
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:59 PM
1

I feel engaging in a conversation/banter with her when she is not giving you attention is exactly falling into her frame. It seems like you are making an effort when she is not. So what are other good alternatives? I agree that being quiet and on the phone is also not a good solution.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:43 PM
1

No i dont think I passed them. But im also not sure I am willing to deal with them. Thats why I reacted like I did
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:55 PM
-1

But i am definitely not pedistalling her. I left her because of the constant shit tests in the past. She promised to change and we are giving it a shot now.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:45 PM
1

Agree. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:44 PM
1

All three facts are true. Should probably run
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:59 AM
1

Ye i agree. Its creating tension.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:55 AM
-1

To be honest maybe the beta thing is just being with a woman that does so many shit tests. Not how I respond to them. I think engaging with someone that has this behaviour is not alpha. Of course a shit test here and then is fine. But constant and consistent, then you should just walk away probably and find a mature woman. I think she has been spoilt by the men in the past who would take all the shit she gave. I am not willing to deal with a woman like a child. Thats why i leave the situations. …
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:54 AM
1

Yes I agree. I always try to think of her like a child. My biggest problem is I struggle to keep my anger in check when she acts like a bitch. Not sure that this is a good or bad thing. But yes in general maybe should find someone more similar to me and she can have some idiot who venerates her because she is hot to take pics of her whenever she needs.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:25 AM
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