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1

when snapchat was in it's early stages, snapchat gave much more score for snaps etc. Many people got up to 50, 60, 100K pretty fast so depends how long you been on there but yeah 150K+ is concerning. You have to be spending a ton of time on there to get that high.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:04 PM
1

3rd person she ever fucked while she invited you right to her place.....yeah right
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:54 PM
29

Demote her to plate and start looking for new mom
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:11 PM
4

Never use to be the case (unless celebrity etc) but now with the social media generation, I agree
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:56 PM
30

The new shit tucks their belly in like crazy. If you can still see a gut through it, run
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:16 PM
5

That's a comment of someone who doesn't know AAS at all. That's what the beginner lifter thinks. Studies have proven you can build way more muscle on a low dose of just plain old test without working out vs someone whos 100% on with diet/workouts. Trust me as someone with good genetics who got close to their genetic limit before AAS usage, there's no comparison. Saying steriods is a shortcut is just ignorant. But yes not worth it unless it greatly helps/your career requires it.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:09 PM
1

Seems like all the red-pillers these days are meeting hb9-10s lol. Keep in mind the average 9 on the internet is more like a 6 irl
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:53 PM
2

Top 20% pics or invisible. That's the name of the game. You very well may be better than most guys on there but you prob need better pics and even then it may not be enough to really kill it. You're just playing a game that's rigged against you. Nothing wrong with playing it and trying to win here and there, just don't let it affect your confidence irl.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:31 AM
1

You handled it pretty good. Aggressive enough to make him feel like a cuck but not aggressive enough for police intervention. You don't wanna get an assault charge over a wimp like this. Let him talk shit after, he walked away like a pussy for a reason.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:37 AM
1

<16 - none cause late-bloomer/didn't pursue any 16-19 - Maybe a few a year 20-28 (where I'm at now) - triple digit count multiple plates
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:15 PM
3

looking for new "friends" + only here for a few months = looking to fuck Literally doesn't matter what you do, keep the fact she's looking for fun in mind and escalade. Drinks is always my go to, to lighten the mood or maybe go for a walk near the beach and walk into a bar for a drink or two and take home.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:10 PM
2

None of the stuff you listed is hard to do. You don't need many/if any resources to get all of that done. There's no excuses. Instead of typing long winded posts like this, why don't you work towards one of those. Start small if you have to. Eg. no video games today, do 50 push-ups. Small wins ads up and before you know it, you'll be at the gym or buying basic equipment.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:05 PM
1

Always try to involve drinks from the get-go. Push for F-close on the first date. Doesn't always happen but if I'm into her, I'll make sure I get something first date.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:26 PM
8

You don't....and if you do then by having abundance. One give's you drama/ego, ignore and go out with another. It's hard to describe but women can in a way sense how much you need them. They know when they got a guy wrapped up if even if he's high value in many areas.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:24 PM
1

You're basically a 2nd or 3rd tier option for her for after previous encounters. She saw through that assertive text and make you fold.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:06 PM
5

Another "HB10" story lol
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:59 PM
7

You can't choose to be a psychopath. Thats what the autists don't get. Instead they just end up looking like lonely weidos chasing this dark triad theory.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:33 PM
2

7-8 but not sustainable. 3 is perfect
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:16 PM
6

This. Playing defense doesn't work with these kinda hos. You gotta go on the offensive.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:16 AM
17

LTR demonstrated she is not long term material There's your answer. Who cares then. Just deny and act like it never happened. Worst case she leaves you but chances are nothing will happen. If she does leave you atleast you'll still have a non-beta image in her mind.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:13 AM
1

Then you're on the verge of coping although progressing which is good. You should be improving across the board not just physique. That's only one piece of the puzzle. Balance means social game, hobbies, career, and just having other people in your life.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:09 AM
2

Some people use it to cope but they're not usually the ones making progress. They're usually the ones with deeper issues/go to get away. Progress is the driving factor and the fact you're making progress makes it the best part of your day. Nothing wrong with that as long as you have some kind of balance in the rest of your life going.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:31 AM
5

Grass is greener mentality has fucked our generation. Oh well being high value irl overrides all of it. Obtain it and start pumping and dumping.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:09 AM
1

You're boring/no sexual tension (as others have mentioned) Maybe your pics are better than irl (Most girls are like this but get away with it as long as they're fuckable) It's online dating aka grass is greener on the otherside aka someone might be more of a "chad" than you Problably a combination of these factors. Thats why you shouldn't just be 100% all in on online dating. Just know that it's via online dating so don't let it mentally affect your confidence.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:55 AM
1

You're not wrong that the right opprotunies are needed but you need to put yourself in a position for the opprotunities to arise far more often. Social circle, hobbie, hell even something as simple going out for a coffee in a busy area all help massively. Not everyone is successfull online dating rather most of the average world finds relationships through the social infrastructre they have built even if they're not percieved as traditional high value.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:30 PM
1

You do realize an average girl hell even fatties have 100s even 1000s of matches at any given time. They don't wanna hold a convo with 100s of strangers. They wanna go out with a guy whos above their league to eventually get pumped and dumped.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:28 PM
3

It don't matter if you don't have the smv in your pics to back it up. Vice versa if your pics are good, a bio doesn't matter but it does gives them something to comment on rather than just "hey."
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:24 PM
3

Tables have turned. Now you sting her along and not give her anything.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:39 PM
13

Another 9.5/10 , sure lol
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:42 PM
1

High value, whether it's perception or real is the best game.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:24 PM
1

Yes you can with great genetics but that excludes like 95% of the population.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:42 PM
1

Refer to the top comment in this thread. If you're really thirsty that's what you gotta do but that's also whats most likely gonna happen. Fuck a date invite her to your place.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:58 PM
2

Chad A, B, C.......Z rejected/pumped dumped her and now she's hitting you up again. Have some self-respect and unmatch this ho or better yet don't reply
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:18 PM
2

If it ain't a fuck yes, it's a no
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:26 PM
2

This is online dating where your abundance mindset means jack shit (you can't really convey it) and they are the ones that have the abundance. Women don't have to be realistic on these apps. She prob just came accross someone she percieves as higher value than you. Don't take it personal as it means nothing. This is why dating apps are another avenue and shouldn't be used as your only way to meet women.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:13 PM
1

pua=pick up artist. Women in general are repelled by anyone who they know/feel is on a mission to approach a ton of girls. Gotta keep that hidden. That being said, cold approaching has it's place.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:44 AM
6

"make-up wipes" haha
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:53 PM
2

You're giving a pua vibe in this post alone. I can only imagine what kinda vibe girls get when you approach. It's good you're getting out there but without knowing you I can tell your approaching isn't natural and I don't blame ya, it takes a lot of practice and even then it's not a gold-mine. Try finding some local social groups through hobbies etc... Not saying cold approaching can't work but it's much easier when you have some sort of previous rapport built and especially easier when you're w…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:51 PM
2

Yes. While the majority will get nothing. You'll have bottom 80% guys claiming they got laid/met a girl off there but remember every dog gets a bone here and there.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:34 PM
1

This, nothing more cringey than people on the internet claiming to be a narcissist and/or psychopath in an attempt to sound bad ass
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:19 PM
7

Generally as a guy on a dating app you're gonna have to date/fuck down. No ones banging 8+s on dating apps anymore. Those girls are far and few and there for instagram followers. Yeah there's some outliers but most guys 8s are actually 6s. Go out meet girls if you want quality/your match. A little tough right now but it's getting better as covid clears.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:47 PM
6

It's not about how many abs are visible. It's all about pics showing high value. That includes good looks, good body, cars/money, status. Even with that it's an uphill battle. Basically be in the top 20% to have a chance (fatties/average at best). Top 5-10% to be sucessfull.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:50 PM
7

Like everyone else said, it's clear cut. Start getting back in the game and when she gets boring/you find better options, dump her.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:40 PM
0

Thats because these are dating apps where they have hundreds of good-looking options to choose from and don't feel bad about ghosting a person they've never even seen in everyday life. It's shitty but that's just how it is unless you're so far above her SMV where she's dying to meet you in which cases she's prob ugly or average at best.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:25 PM
5

Looks is one piece of the puzzle. Not everyone can be 8 or 9 in terms of looks. Maximize your looks but also focus on developing an alpha mindset (where trp comes in). Other things that make women chase is acheiving higher status, money, and success. I mean ideally you don't wanna rely on those but they are other paths for women to chase you.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:20 PM
7

Welcome to online dating. Getting anything means you're above average and only few moderate-high quality wome are on these sites as they get plenty of validation else where.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 09:18 PM
5

They call anyone who they think gets laid a lot a "fuckboy" so yes because in her eye's he's high value.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:13 PM
3

It really depends on the context. I like thinking of that phrase as apart of the abundance mindset meaning don't get too confortable and go all in on one women like the average guy does.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:34 PM
3

This. Everyone online jerks off over the 8-10% bf bradpit fightclub physqiue. It looks better than it is because of lighting angles etc but in reality it looks emaciated. Most naturals at 8%bf will look like they don't lift with a shirt one. I'd rather be somewhere between 12-15% bf and even up to higher teens depending on how you rock it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:02 PM
1

Is this was the case average guys would not be getting laid at all. Key words "look at." The average guy also looks at all these instagram ho's multiple times per day but do you really think they go around rejecting anything other than 9/10s...
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:42 PM
1

A 6 let alone a 9 will have end-less options online. She just has options she percieves to be better. Wouldn't have even replied. All good, move on.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 11:10 PM
1

No instagram is better than a bad instagram. 451 followers isn't that bad but it also depends on your pics/interactions on there.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 05:15 PM
8

Be higher smv than her. Thats the name of the game. If she's into you, even a "how are ya" is good enough and she won't let the convo get boring.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:52 PM
1

Well no shit. I was referring to OP's post which is specific about first tinder dates.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:59 PM
1

Test is roids. All the different roids you here about are derivatives of test.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:59 AM
1

Nah you can get a good physique natty (great with good genetics) but yeah if you're serious into bodybuilding, then it's a joke. If you are gonna go the non-natty route, avoid sarms. Little benefit, come with many of the risk of aas. Better off going for a beginner test only cycle. Still I'd reccommend a 5+ years of solid lifting before even thinking about it. In the end, steroids are just not worth it in the long run for the majority of people.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 12:42 AM
1

That would be an FFMI of over 24. Generally 25 is the upper limit of natural. So you could but with top tier genetics. I just gave you numbers above that are more realistic.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:55 PM
1

200-210 low-mid teen bodyfat or somewhere between 180-190 8-10% bf is what a natural can expect. Of course indiuals will vary cause of bone stucture/density and natural ability to put on muscle.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:23 PM
2

No prob. Goodluck
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:58 PM
1

All good, you live and learn. It won't matter too much if you're going for ONS/hook-up and she's on board (may even play in your favour with the right girl) but with a girl thats looking to date, that will raise a red flag. I would avoid it bring up cheating at all.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:54 PM
4

For sure, that implies abundance. When you tell a girl that you got cheated on, her mind automatically goes to assessing why you got cheated on ("must be something wrong with him") rather than feeling sympathy for you. Best thing to do is never admit being cheated on or cheating aka lie about it.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:42 PM
3

Hugely. Hell being the cheater than cheated on is less damage to the image
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:29 PM
1

Supply and demand combined with the fact men are willing to fuck a lot down. Almost any women can make a dating app and have a line up of guys in an hour. Women like this will think they're doing you a favour by having sex like it's a one sided thing. How do you get out of this group/treatment? Well be top tier, it's the answer to a lot of things.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 08:28 PM
1

You're too invested in her life and don't have enough of your own. Even if she isn't banging another dude, she will soon with that mindset
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:06 PM
5

Contrary to what people on the internet think, brad pitt flight club/borderline esmacualted/swimmer physiques are not ideal. Usually those guys have good facial structure which is why they are deemed "hot" by women. Low to mid teen bf% with visible muscle mass gets more action in real life practice.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:29 PM
7

150lbs at 5'11" won't look like you lift in a shirt. That's borderline esmasucalted looking. Of course everyone bone size, muscle insertions, etc are different but you should aim for 170-180 10-12% bf
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:18 PM
7

When you are use to fucking high quality girls, fucking one thats average/little chubier can be sorta taboo. Your dick is thinking this is wrong but feels different.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:36 PM
3

If she doesn't offer alternative, then don't respond. If she does, don't get too excited about it and instantly accept rather say "I gotta see how my schedule is, let me get back to you" or something.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:32 PM
1

As harsh as it sounds to many, this.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:02 PM
2

That's cause you barely know her and are asking her to fuck in a hotel. Most would be weirded out by that. Meet up, drinks, see what happens from there. If you both really wanna fuck, you'll make it happen. She'll prob even agree to the hotel if she really wants to bang.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:50 PM
6

This. She's expecting OP to be torn up over this one message thus will lose even more respect for him. No reply, throw her the curve ball and make her wonder what happened.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:25 PM
1

Yeah on a 10 point scale, even a 1 point jump is big but most of these guys throwing around 9s and 10s like nothing are delusional to begin with. A 7-8 is like the everyday hot girl most people stop to look at. 9s you don't see everyday and are most likely generating some kind of income based on their looks. 10 is well a unicorn and 1 out of several million that is if you can even describe a 10.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:38 PM
1

# of 45lbs (20 kg) plates on each side of the barbell. Bench/Squat/Deadlift in that order.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:37 PM
1

Well thats not how it's measured objectively. To compare anything properly you need to go off an objective scale. That's like a chubby chaser saying a morbidly obese girl is a 9. Not for the rest of the world
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:33 PM
3

Agreed thats why every thread involving a girl starts with "this HB8" or "this HB9"
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:28 PM
67

Guys like this don't realize a 9 is a legit victoria's secret model territory. For her to go down to a 3 by taking off makeup would not be possible.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:05 PM
4

In most commercial gyms, not many people will be hitting the 2/3/4 plate standard especially for reps. 3/4/5 will land you in one of the strongest in the gym category. Anything above an outlier.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:30 PM
117

She was never a 9
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:27 PM
2

So i pretty much have 0 chance of getting into a relationship. This is where you go wrong. You've defeated yourself even before trying. Look at the positives. You're in a pretty good program, tall, and started working-out (good body if you keep consistant for a year or so atleast). You know how many guys would kill to be 6'4." Leverage those positive instead of making the one flaw the focal part of your life.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 09:26 PM
3

She's not interested but booze makes people horny, combined with the fact she may lack immediate options at the time. You made the right call not giving in.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 03:36 PM
1

First thing first, get out of your blackpill mindset. 2ndly dating apps don't work for most guys. Are they all thinking about killing themselves? No. Get outside and focus on improving in all areas.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:13 PM
5

They're usually above average people (lots of cases top tier) in every aspect but people also put them on huge pedestals cause of their status. Eg. They atomically get a +3 in looks rating. Thats how the bluepilled world works, they worship them.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:47 PM
1

So in reality a 5-7. You ain't banging 8+ let alone 10s. A 10 is unicorn basically they don't exist. Classic guy with over inflated scores.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:28 PM
3

Let me guess you're an internet warrior that bangs HB10s on the daily
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:06 PM
1

Why would a chad approach a 6 you say? cause she's still above average and it's easier pussy. Since the beginning of humans this has been happening. Thats why you got chads banging even 4s off tinder cause it's even easier pussy.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:52 PM
2

Someone better came up/circumstances changed. That last part was to let you off easy. I wouldn't respond.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:19 PM
2

Break the rules?? Dudes she's on a dating app, apparently making sexual eye contact and touching you in the first minute. You think making out/sex in a car would be breaking the rules lol. She's prob down without that cringe line
/r/askTRP06/10/20 05:54 PM
6

He also lacks muscle size/is hairy so it looks higher than it is. Prob about 20-22%
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:30 PM
1

A lot of guys think this and truth be told you need high smv in the way of looks/good photos to make milfs or younger girls work. Once you are there then yeah milfs are less work/less bs but girls in their 20s will always be the cream of the crop even more so online.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:06 PM
1

Not for that long. Sure you may have more energy etc (sometimes placebo too) but your brain get's use to no sexual activity and libido goes down eventually. If being sexually active is your goal, then not ideal for that long.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:03 PM
1

If he hasn't ejaculated in 2 months while regularly having sex, he's got some problems. That's going against biology. All these guys doing no fap for longer periods than a few weeks just end up losing sex drive in the end.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:57 PM
1

Lol what the point then. You're fucking to make her happy basically going against trp.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:49 PM
2

Definitely say you're busy tomorrow. Don't make it seem like you got your weekend open for her.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:32 PM
-3

Let me guess you're the type of guy that keeps texting a girl after she gives you bullshit low interest responses lol
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:38 PM
2

Lol at telling anyone you're a virgin ever. Firstly it's none of anyone's business, secondly that's just asking for a loser reputation which you now have.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:27 PM
-8

Date prob went better in your mind than hers. Could be something there but interest doesn't seem high.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:24 PM
2

Yep, face, body, and not being a social retard matters the most here as you'll likely be dealing with gym bunnies. Depends on what gym you go to but most gyms will have their fair share of "chads" which you're basically competing against so kinda have to be one.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:40 AM
1

Eye contact, she works out close to you, stays longer in the area you are in, seems more distracted around you, goes to the gym around your time (this one isn't sure fire). High smv is especially important for this otherwise chances are none of this will happen.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:25 AM
1

Wouldn't go cold approaching in the gym due to "don't shit where you eat." Only way it has been successful for me in the past is if you see the girl on the regular and she gives you positive signals all the time. Even then it's a slow rapport build up over a few sessions not just going for the kill first time we talked.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:02 PM
6

Yeah that's the true scale, it's unfortunate how deluded most peoples scales are. Most 7s and 8s are more like 5s and 6s. Reality is the majority of males that are looking for a fuck will bang a 4 given the easy opportunity and a good chunk even 3s and below.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:19 PM
1

You shouldn't be asking this
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:46 PM
1

The girls on dating apps (and in general) aren't rational and stable. One day she might reject chad A, next day be over at chad B's house.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:42 PM
1

Yep and as you should. If you're gonna be in an LTR atleast make use of the convenient/anytime pussy
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:50 PM
2

Well if you have the time and enjoy it, thats fine then. I just wouldn't recommend it to a beginner. After you have a few good years in the gym, build a strength foundation, and learn your body, you can start doing more of what you like.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:44 PM
1

Well pull ups are great. You can attach weights on you in many ways to make it heavier. Thats progressive overloading which will build muscle faster.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:41 PM
1

Firstly, it's good you're working out even without a gym. Depends what you have. If you can get a basic barbell, bench and rack. You'll have enough to do all the big lifts 5x5 and progressively overload on them. A a pair or two of dumbbells is good for accessories and isolation movements.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:28 PM
1

I can bet you your intensity is not up there or what you think it is aswell (there's levels to this). 3 hrs is too much unless this is your career and you are dedicated to it. 2 is fine if you're intermediate to advanced and do stretches beginning after as u said. As someone who benches 405 you need maybe 5 mins of rest between a heavy set unless you're top tier competitive). Recovery is the issue, a beginner does not need 2+ hours of volume everyday. he won't be able to recover from that unless…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:20 PM
2

Cause you're a beginner, anything will build muscle. It's not optimal, you could be building more while actually getting a lot strong. Rather you choose to not listen and fuck around so be it.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:57 PM
2

Aka you're fucking around and not focused on building muscle rather doing cardio. Look up 5x5 stronglifts if you want to build muscle.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:46 PM
1

Are you doing strong lifts 5x5? It should be a hard 5 reps which tax your cns more than 10+ rep sets aka harder to recover from. After your done your heavy stuff, are you doing hypertrophy sets 10+ reps with weight close enough to failure or at failure? This should take no longer than 60-90 mins 5x a week and the bodyparts you are working should be taxed. OR Are you just lollygagging your way through the 2 hours, taking long break in betweens sets, on your phone. Sure you are working out but the…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:40 PM
1

That means you lack intensity and proper workouts. No way you should being going that long everyday as a beginner. More is not always better
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:33 PM
7

Great another self proclaimed pscyhopath...
/r/askTRP22/09/20 11:24 PM
1

1-2 years to put on some solid muscle and look like you lift. 3-4 years to be lean with muscle and still look like you life. After 4+ years is all just refinement and small gains here and there. This is as a natural of course with average genetics
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:48 PM
2

She thinks you're not as good as her ex and you are just a temp place holder until she finds another.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:44 PM
1

No, you're setting the bar for yourself too low. Not saying you should chase pussy but masturbation is not good enough for a high value man which you should inspire to be.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:33 PM
1

Are you 12
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:39 PM
1

I can already tell you structure dates too much by that wall of text you typed. Let it follow naturally and apply basic principles such as making her talk about herself, kino, escalade assuming attraction is there etc... It could also just be an issue of you projecting your smv higher in pics/profile vs in real life considering how low your kiss/2nd date rate is.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:06 PM
2

Until you have a solid base of training (eg. hit 2/3/4 standard) and have a fundamental understanding of diet you have no business touching roids.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:01 PM
2

It's like public speaking, high majority of the people will not be comfortable from the getgo. Only thing is, many times you're forced to go public speaking (job school ect) where as approaching is a choice. You gotta do it more (and fail) to get comfortable. Force yourself to go for it.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:54 PM
-1

"I mean maybe" That was a sign of low interest or just there for attention. I wouldn't of even replied after that.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:32 PM
1

Increase for most people. Decrease for small percentage that have great pics/social media etc and show themselves to be more than they are in their profile. If you're average maybe even slightly above you'll be invisible online where as average dudes are getting laid all the time in everyday life. Yeah decent looking girls get approached in day game too but way way less than the 1000s of messages online. They don't need to have an attention span or give the guy whos a 6 or 7 (above average) the …
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:37 PM
2

It's like anything, you'll suck at it first but getting better the more you do it. Of course smv helps a lot and you got a ways to go. Doesn't mean you can't try. The higher you get your smv the more mistakes you can get away with.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:22 PM
1

You don't talk to women from tinder. On dating apps especially hook up oriented ones like tinder you match and ask them out in 4-5 messages. Yeah sometimes it take a bit more but going beyond that she'll likely lose interest and move to an equal or better option. They have too many options for them to form a connection without meeting. Hell I'll ghost chicks if she's dragging the convo or wants to "get to know me" before meeting.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:49 PM
2

You're easily top 20% should do well in most areas.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:10 PM
3

Unless you live in a dense metropolis and go out to high end areas often, you won't see 9s and 10s everyday. On the internet a 9 or 10 is really like 7 or 8 if we're being generous.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:03 PM
-1

o.l.d = online dating? Online dating is not an accurate reflection of real life. These fat fucks score's are inflated +3 or +4 points. Hell they even managed to get smashed and dashed by a horny chad once in awhile. Go out if you want to really see how you stack up.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:00 PM
1

That works well too. Or simply be like I don't use it. If she persist and is asking to add you anyways, you say "I'd rather not."
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:08 PM
6

Absolutely not. She gets more access to your personal stuff etc and if she turns out to be crazy, that's more material she has to fuck you over with.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:45 PM
2

And redpill would not exist or be a very small cult like following.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:26 PM
1

Girls usually pull this kind of shit when they think you're doing better than you should have after the break up or it didn't affect you enough (their ego's are sky high after dumping).
/r/askTRP17/09/20 04:25 PM
1

Since the caveman days pussy has put a rift in men. That's just how guys are. They were never true friends and even true friends can get tempted and fuck up.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:56 PM
2

Most guys don't care. They will bang anything with a pussy attached to it.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:19 PM
2

You'd be surprised. You've got guys that are 8+ using them for easy lays. I've been guilty of this when they're hot. Dating? Top tier guys don't date them. Thats more for mid-high tier guys as low tier get nothing online. Basically anything with a vagina online is +3 points from her actual rating.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 11:05 PM
2

Give her a full hug when walking in and keep up kino after that. Get high, put on a movie and everything falls in place.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:34 PM
3

When a girl is coming over, sex is always on the table. Assume attraction, take risks but also see how she responds to your advances.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 08:33 PM
4

If you can't come up with a spot for a first date, you're already trying too hard. Any bar, walk in the park, car drive, hell even my place works.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 06:02 PM
0

Lol at 5 dates without a proper make out and you accepting it and going with it.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 05:07 PM
1

You not jumping at her attempt to connect with you will eat her up inside. Just ignore
/r/askTRP14/09/20 04:39 PM
1

Classic case of oneitis
/r/askTRP14/09/20 04:07 PM
2

Nah most guys would be invisible with that body with a shirt on. There's tons of regular joes with that body and no one gives a shit. I agree with your last point but people believing 8% body fat is optimal are stupid. I've been there and it's not fun.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 04:04 PM
10

You shouldn't have said "srry x" at the end She was trying to make you an orbiter, it wasn't going anywhere Snapchats a good way to show smv if you're good-looking/good body but chances are she's not serious in meeting up. If a girl wants to fuck someone, they will make sure to give their number out.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 10:27 PM
1

matched with a girl There's the problem. You're just a match and haven't translated to a real life person she wants to fuck. You could be a 8/10 but there's lot of 8s on apps. You can't be too invested into a match online, it's a numbers game.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:48 PM
5

All about banging quality girls. I know guys with triple digit counts that consist of all ugly bitches and/or hookers. Thats like scoring high in a game on easy mode, doesn't result in satisfaction.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:15 PM
1

brad pitt in fight club is emasculated and would look like a skinny guy in a shirt. You guys need to stop jerk circling over that dead looking physque. His face/status is why girls think he's hot
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:04 PM
2

Just over 6'5" and trust me women do not consider you too tall. It's actually an advantage over guys 6'0-6'2" as you stand out especially when jacked. There's been countless times I've gotten girls solely based on height (build helped a lot too).
/r/askTRP12/09/20 03:59 PM
5

Depends on your definition of buff muscular. Regular buff muscular is better than lean/skinny. Roided bodybuilder buff muscular is not. Everyone on the internet seems to be obsessed with brad pitt fightclub physique which looks emasculated and would just be a skinny guy in a shirt. Filling out a shirt without being fat will always be better for attraction.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 03:56 PM
2

Cuddled on the grass, are you 12... If you knew she was leaving in a few days all you should of been thinking is escalate escalate and escalate. You'll prob never see her again if she's moving
/r/askTRP12/09/20 05:34 AM
1

Cause girls seek validation and love to complain about shit in general. They get tons of messages from ugly to super good looking guys yet complain about there being "no good men" out there. That's cause they don't give guys that are their true match the time of day, and get pumped and dumped by chad.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:43 AM
2

Why is water wet
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:17 PM
17

If 4 girls came to your place and u got no sex out of any, you're doing something very wrong. When a girls goes to a guys place, sex is automatically on the table. Either you look different in pics and it doesn't translate to real life or you're not playing your cards right. Drinks, kino, escalation.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:10 PM
16

If it wasn't broke you wouldn't make a stupid thread like this.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:06 PM
3

I missed the part where you said "my girl" doesn't say it in the title lol. In that case it's different. Tell her to come over when she feels better. If she wants to she will reschedule.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:57 PM
8

Take the sorry out and it's good. No need to apologetic.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:30 PM
10

this weather is giving me a headache Translation: I'm not that into you and likely have better options available.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:28 PM
2

Western culture is more feminized (love yourself, you deserve more, etc.. bullshit) where as the more east you go, the more traditional female values/roles are upheld. That being said every kind of women is easy to fuck with high smv.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:10 PM
3

"all I have is looks" and being extremely good looking with great pics/social media etc are two different things. I'm not saying he shouldn't try, it's actually easy to do good online with high smv but online is no place to find 8s and 9s like OP is looking for.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:04 PM
4

Unless you're top 5% in your area and get extremely lucky, scoring a true 8 or 9 is next to impossible on online dating. Now average or slightly above (5-7 range) is doable but again with very high smv (mostly looks and good pics). As a man you'll likely be scoring 2-3 points below you online.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:34 PM
3

It's called being an orbiter. Any half decent looking girl has many especially on social media. Hell even ugly bitches these days have a orbit zone going on.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:19 PM
1

Instead of writing a case study why don't you just do what you want to. Grass is not always greener on the other side but only one way to find out. It's human nature.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:11 PM
5

This. Subtract 2-3 points from ratings. Basically saying anything under an 8 is considered not bangable on the internet. Banaging a 6 (a slightly above average girl) is like a sin lol
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:46 PM
3

She's asking to be fucked, what more do you need. If you start overthinking and coming up with bs like this she's simply gonna find another rebound, it's not hard for a women.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:28 PM
2

Late 20s early 30s is the easiest cause they are looking for some sucker to tie down but also be careful of pregnancy trap.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:16 PM
2

Classic "grass is greener" moment. If anything right now is the time to hold on to a ltr if u see no red flags.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:55 PM
1

I wouldn't doubt it. Top guys love to downplay their doses
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:49 PM
1

Yeah a little high on the gh but that's what they're running these days and even more than 4g of compounds. I'm talking about the guys that don't really have top end genetics and need to abuse the gear to get there (a lot of them still lack shape).
/r/askTRP08/09/20 08:54 PM
2

Yeah that's in the ballpark most need to get to those sizes. He could be but the fact if he's wondering if he's too big or not makes it seems bullshit or a complete dumbass out of touch with reality. Dude was big enough 40lbs of muscle ago lol
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:24 PM
2

He's most likely bullshitting stats. A guy his height would literally need to be taking grams of gear to get that big. That's top level ifbb pro size.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:17 PM
12

Currently im 5 ft 8 and around 240lbs and id say aeound 10% bodyfat (full set of abs with lower ab vadcularity, quad seperation and vascularity in quads etc.) Yeah calling bs on this. That's top level ifbb pro bodybuilder size. At that size you get looks for being a freak not women wanting to fuck you. If somehow you are that size, you were big enough 40lbs of muscle ago.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:14 PM
2

Yes very stupid. Early 20s is too young to know where your life is going. Your mindset will change and develop into your 20s. Besides with stds etc out there, you should be using condoms anyways.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:06 PM
2

Good, we all make mistakes especially before rp just make sure to learn from them.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:58 PM
3

You lost whatever self respect you had when you contacted her when "she added you back." Forget and move on.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:30 PM
5

By understanding that everyone has moments where they cringe after. Accept the past and be grateful for the position you're in/understanding you have now.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 04:19 AM
1

Fuck him to establish dominance
/r/askTRP07/09/20 04:17 AM
2

sexual market value
/r/askTRP06/09/20 02:40 PM
4

Remember you've got a busy schedule with options.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:13 AM
8

If it ain't a fuck yes it's a no. This is amplified 100x on online dating. She's got you in her orbit, along with the 100s of others.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 01:38 AM
7

Be high smv and they're always nice.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 08:23 PM
9

Low interest and/or someone better (in her mind) came into picture. Don't even respond, next
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:48 AM
2

High smv simple as that.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:46 AM
3

Apparently diabetics have a tough time getting hard?? The fact she had to go to his dick for an explanation is a red flag
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:42 AM
5

Girls don't come out the blue and tell you that they "slept at some guys house with friends and nothing happened." Is there a chance she's telling the truth, yes. Are there a lot of red flags with this story, bigger yes. Only way is to see what her behavior is like in the future and even then you may never know.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:32 PM
3

Not to mention the mainstream/media encourages men to "tell them how you really feel" aka a bear trap for blue-pilled men lol
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:16 PM
6

he has diabetes so it’s tough for him to get hard, and I don’t bother with those men after my ex had diabetes too This over explanation of actions sounds sketchy but really no way to tell. Look at the way she acts from now. If she acts differently, doesn't make much eye contact when you meet, etc.. that's a sign of a lie. End of the day she's just a plate not LTR, fuck her again if you want to, don't if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:07 PM
6

Either she still has feelings and/or the fact you ignored her many times is bothering her. Most bitches like this have ultra fragile egos. She's in your frame. Either ignore, or tell her had you didn't feel the same way and the past is the past. Don't validate her.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:01 PM
1

You asked to enter her orbiter zone, now you're in it. Ask her out, shoot your shot cause why not. What do u have to lose. If she's wishy washy or doesn't reply, next. Simple as that
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:57 PM
2

"I don't kiss on the first date" Some actually go out of there way to go against their urge. There's been times where I've grabbed her ass and nipples yet she denied a kiss. Some girls just put the first kiss on a pedestal. They know they can get away with it cause there's always more chads to take them out online. Ironically, I've only ever ran into this issue myself as a high smv guy from online dates never one's I've approached in person. Still keep escalating everytime. Remember you are a bu…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:49 PM
1

Not the coke whore again...
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:43 PM
1

Money = resources. And we're talking about SMV although resources are a bigger factor in RMV. Like I said in my original post looks are a huge part of this but not all of it. This isn't even up for debate. What percentage is looks? yes that you can debate. And no game has more variables like knowing how to talk/tease, body language, etc. Obvious the better you look, the more you can get away with, however, there's tons of blue-pilled good looking guys out there with no game. Trust me after worki…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:52 PM
2

No if that's what you believe, you got a lot to learn. Status, money, game, etc all play a role.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:23 PM
1

Doesn't work because dating apps = strictly looks/pics. Looks is only one part of smv, a big one though. Dating apps have also majorly gone to shit. Even as an attractive guy, the algorithm works against you and there's a lot of limitations etc now.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:08 PM
1

For LTRs, yeah never settle but for plating a 6 isn't bad. She might easily be replaced with better plates but nothing wrong for the time being. I just wouldn't take her out to public places etc..
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:45 PM
1

Mature literally means done growing or complete in development. All they're saying is you have some growing to do (learning) and/or experience to gain to understand [item in question] Another way to think of it: Childish is the opposite of mature.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:14 AM
1

"that sounds good aswell"
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:10 AM
2

They seem to be accurate too. Perfect example here lol
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:08 AM
1

That's why everyone here harps about abundance mindset. She left you and expected you to feel down/depressed (which you prob did) and ask her why (which you prob did). They love that. It validates them. The correct response should be emotionless, like you don't care, like it had no effect. Leave her puzzled and wondering.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:29 AM
1

*You're Thats all you need to say
/r/askTRP03/09/20 01:22 AM
1

All I'm saying is usually when girls get the "tingles" they can't wait to go home and text you. I've also had success being the initiator after a good time but speaking from personal experience, when's she's the imitator there's a higher chance she might stick around rather than go for the next option.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:28 PM
1

If that was the case you wouldn't be asking the question then retard. Also did I say "all girl" no. Learn to read.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:04 PM
1

Chances are if she doesn't text you and it's been a day (especially if you met online), she's not really interested in going out again. Then again there are exceptions so only one way to find out. You got nothing to lose by saying that.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:57 PM
1

Yeah you might have came off a little too needy but what matters is you took your shots. Seems like a case of the attraction wasn't there or there wasn't that much.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:55 PM
6

With that, I usually also wait a day or at least try to send them the first message in whatsapp during lunch time, end of the night in the weekdays. If it's the weekend, I wait until Monday. They are all steps to not be overinvested. Cause who the fuck waits a day to message after asking for a number on a dating app. That's weird as fuck. They prob assume you're not interested/next you by then.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:49 PM
1

Not a good sign. Unless she was sick or some other issue, rejection of sex is a sign of a weakening relationship. Could be a one off but if she does it again then next. Have your options ready.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:25 PM
15

Would you rather them consider you as non-existant/push over. High smv guys get more sorrys than the regular person cause people don't want to offend them. If anything it's a good thing.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:28 AM
1

Yep Banged one yesterday and 2 more lined up for this weekend.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:26 AM
10

Simple yet true. Not giving a fuck to a higher degree can come off as pyschopathic to the mainstream. The mainstream encourages giving a fuck about everything and being a sensitive pussy.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:24 AM
4

There's a huge influx of softies from other subreddits unfortunately
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:47 AM
1

I think most average guys have the potential to make it in the top 20% smv wise as there's more to that than looks. Top 10%? top 5% thats highly unlikely cause looks will be an obstacle too big to overcome. Doable with top tier money and status but the chances of that are low.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:44 AM
3

Yep lots of those out there. Unfortunately for the kids they're likely to have controlling alpha widowed mothers which are really harmful for male gender.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:41 AM
0

Could have an international family going without even knowing it lol
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:19 PM
2

Most guys 7s and 8s are actuality 5s and 6s. A true 6 isn't bad and bangable. If 5 is dead average, a true 6 is slightly above. Not sure what kinda deluded world you're living in.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:13 PM
1

24 is still a sweet spot for younger girls. In fact, you get a little edge being older over the 18-19 year old guys.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:01 PM
1

Good thing I'm not your boss, your sorry ass would of been fired.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 05:55 PM
2

Doesn't matter, guys that gets laid a lot don't ask beta shit like this. Maybe you been banging 2s and 3s lol
/r/askTRP01/09/20 03:43 PM
2

Says the guy thats "been with a LOT of girls" lol
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:32 AM
0

To not come off as bitchy/picky, conform to the "we accept all" society standards and weed out the weak. Trust me as a very tall muscle bound guy, they love to tell you all about how they love it. They can write you an essay on it. There is a such thing as too much for both but the limit is much larger than you think. For height 7ft+ and for muscle top pro bodybuilder level are not attractive. They can still do better than average cause average sucks.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:26 AM
10

The looks > personality part of blackpill is true but it's not that black and white and that ideology dismisses so many other factors that redpill includes in the form of smv. The amount of times I've seen looks being overtaken by other aspects of smv is astounding especially working door at a popular club. Blackpilled people also have a defeatist mindset and have given up which is pointless and stupid.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:56 AM
8

more like smv smv and smv. Women will tell you it's all about personality, blue pilled cucks will give into that false hope meanwhile shes banging chad every other night. Personality is what keeps her but smv get you in the door. Hell I've had many dates were I was tired as fuck/bored/not into it and would still bang cause of smv.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:30 PM
6

As a natural under 8% you will look emasculated and have no sex drive. 99% of people claiming 7-8% are more like 10-12%.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:34 PM
1

I don't mind hanging out with a plate here and there but I've already made it pretty clear that relationship is off the table. Just don't do it too much cause they can catch feelings. Don't do trips cause ONS can be tough with a plate there. That's your call.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:38 PM
1

So a girl giving snap is an interesting one. She legit may not give her number out on apps or wants more proof that you're the actual guy in pics. If you give snap out, be prepared to send her a pic of you. Good looking face? Great she'll want to meet you even more. Average or not up to her expectations, she will ghost you without a date and you have entered the orbit zone. If you're not photogenic, avoid snap. Other than that it can be a good way to show smv.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:35 PM
1

To a degree because she might be using apps etc but I've found that a lot of high quality women aren't on apps. She will place you ahead of the orbiters (yes lots of "chads" in the group aswell) due to how you met her in person. It's more tangible than even a top 10% instagram/dating app profile. It's hard to explain but out of the countless women I've banged off apps over the years, the ones I've met in person are the most "normal" and last longest as plates.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 06:42 PM
3

What do you need to drive home?? It's pretty ubiquitous. Women always had options since the beginning of time. It's just that there were more rules/laws holding them back from being their slutty selves (not all but a good majority). Nowadays with social media, dating apps, and women empowerment culture, there's really no barriers holding them back from accessing 100s and 1000s of men other than maintaining a non-slutty image and even that's not as important as it once was to them. Good thing the…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:06 PM
1

If you were ever banging "4 high value 9/10s" you wouldn't be asking if there's hope. There's always hope but either you don't have problems with women or drop the delusion.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:50 PM
1

My reply would of been "it's 2020 and you got two hands" but you did the right thing. Chances are if she has a bitchy mood/rules like that, that's not the last of it (only the beginning). Yeah you could of kept it light in the hopes of getting laid but for me personally you made the right move aka had self-respect. It would of been different if she asked you if you can open the door but no she demanded.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:03 PM
2

Lol at true 10
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:56 PM
1

Dating apps is a shit show right now. Due to the pandemic, simping is out control and bitch egos are bigger than ever. It's way too much effort to go out with someone 2-3 points below you. On the flipside, bars are easier than ever, you'll see groups of women out looking to get picked up. Daygame is also just as easy in places where you can have the mask off.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:55 PM
3

And get laughed at. You seem cool with being stepped on so hey all the power to you
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:29 PM
3

Yeah you can. You can also get laughed at too. Suggest you start by reading the sidebar before running your mouth around here
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:19 PM
8

That second one is good. You might not wanna show those people's face so you could put emojis on em or something (girls do this a lot). It shows you have a good social life especially if there's atleast decent looking girls in the pic.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:38 PM
2

lol this subreddit is not for you. Go back to posting in incel subreddits like you been doing.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:35 PM
10

This, the fact OP knows he's a virgin is one of the things holding him back.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:12 PM
3

There's difference between a girl that supportive/expressive about women rights etc and an all out feminist that thinks women are superior. Ideally you wanna avoid both but the first one is fuckable but with caution at the same time be a man and don't give into her beliefs. The latter avoid like the plague. That's a recipe for getting metoo'd when you enforce TRP.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:06 PM
36

Correction: You're an above average guy with much above average pics (although could use 1 social proof pic). Although your second line was a little cringe, if it's working keep at it. In most areas, you're a top 20% profile so you'll do well.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:01 PM
5

Remember no instagram better than shitty instagram
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:47 AM
3

Shes use to dealing with blue pilled cucks that will practically be on their knees looking for another chance.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:46 AM
1

True, I was being generous
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:44 AM
3

A true 5 is a dead average girl. Most guys 6s or 7s will be really 5s. That being said I've been with too many legit 7s, 8s, and 9s to be willing to settle for a 5. It wouldn't last.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:14 PM
1

Up until a few months ago I would get 100+ a week and easily would have a few lined up every week. Lately it's been shit. 20-30 maybe and takes a hell of an effort to get someone atleast 3 points below me to meet up. No thx will stick to smashing plates and getting new ones day game.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 04:44 AM
1

Women are the same everywhere. They put high smv guys on a pedestal while the rest eat crums.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:39 AM
4

Firstly good on you for making the most of a shitty situation. Most guys would of just gone home and felt shitty. Your approach wasn't bad. Already being with a group of girls gives you a HUGE advantage. You should of grabbed a number though before leaving. Also how are you 16 and going to bars and ordering booze
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:13 PM
2

Problem with dating apps is the "grass is greener" mentality will always be there. Yeah there's the rare girl who will want to just check out the app and exit within a few days or a week of making it, but most girls will come back to it knowing how easy it is to get a "chad" even if you're already a top 20% guy or even higher. Hell even I'm guilty of "grass is greener." In the past years I've landed a few solid 8s that wanted to date but I ended up back on the app looking for (and getting) more …
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:10 PM
3

Everyones different but yes 12-15% will make a significant difference on your face. Closer to 12% is where most people will be at their peak attractiveness facially. Don't listen to the internet experts who say 8% is ideal cause most of them have never been there. You will start to get death face.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:05 PM
5

Broscience at it's finest lol. But yeah if you're getting boners, chances are your mind is not in the right place and lifting intensity isn't there.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:49 PM
3

Until she gets pregnant then the only thing getting busted is your bank account
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:21 PM
2

You know chad is #1 on her list. Low interest, I wouldn't even reply.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:56 PM
1

As in not going out, not dating, lots not working (gov't money).
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:54 PM
1

"make her wonder what happened" is not a move neither is it beta. It's the result of cutting contact/going cold which is the actual move. Obviously she doesn't have respect for OP otherwise she wouldn't be hand in hand with another dude. Him confronting her and discussing what happened is stepping into her frame. Alphas don't explain themselves, they act.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:37 PM
1

The only thing thats beta is you as indicated by the truckload of downvotes. Go read the sidebar you need to start over.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:23 PM
1

This. These internet theorists have no idea how real life works. Yeah hypergamy is a real thing but doesn't mean you have to be 6'2" 200lbs ripped or else life is a fail. OP stay off the incel shit.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:04 PM
1

If I knew a girl had the common cold I would cancel let alone a fucking virus with no cure. Yeah 99.5% it's not gonna be deadly for you but man why would you even wanna deal with being sick over the chance of getting your dick wet. Talk about putting pussy on the pedestal...
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:00 PM
1

Meh I've played every sport growing up, bball well into college and never really gave a shit about sports, who the good pro teams are, what happening, etc... When the topic comes up especially on dates, I always say something along the lines of "I've always played rather than watched. These days I'm more into lifting weights."
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:32 AM
2

Insecurities and areas they're lacking. Most people really aren't true asswholes. When push comes to shove, they usually drop the act. As a red pill man, you will be able to see through the asswhole act pretty easily. Also the higher your smv, the better they treat you.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:57 AM
6

I know in Indian culture marriage at a younger age is huge but man don't fuck yourself over with this one. You're gonna get cucked literally and if you refuse you're gonna get divorce fucked. It's a lose lose
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:15 AM
14

OP's next thread after marriage: "my wife cheated on me with a big black guy, what do I do"
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:12 AM
21

Wake up, work, workout, bang plate, sleep with a ton of eating in between all of these. Most people are just banging/hanging around with current/old connections. It's hard to be social in these times, but doable. A lot of people (not just red-pilled ones) have kinda wrote this year off. That being said, there's girls out there than wanna be picked up if the right guy comes along.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:53 AM
20

What the other guy said and confronting creates drama, that's fuel for these bitches. Ghosting/rejection is what they fear the most. Instead of "aw this loser caught me cheating" you can turn in to "he doesn't give a fuck, maybe he had other options too."
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:47 AM
3

Yep, well you got the fuck so it's a win. Atleast you're not in her orbit lol
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:53 PM
31

How is cutting contact a jab when she's clearly not loyal. Alphas have options and don't need to explain themselves especially when the girl is in the wrong. It's called having self respect and not getting walked over. Try it sometime.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:48 PM
1

Lifting heavy ass weight even though I look more like a bodybuilder.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:26 PM
1

Plates break. Not saying this one is done and broken but eventually some will look for more or start contacting their ex etc for that "more." It is what it is. Keep dread game going and if your smv is high enough, chances are she'll come back.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:41 PM
6

After a week or two, there's diminishing returns. You'll either end up super horny and fuck a 4/10 fatty or you'll lose sex drive.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:38 PM
6

2nd thoughts. You were in that grey area of good enough to fuck but she thinks she can do better and/or there's a better guy (in her opinion) in the picture now.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:34 PM
229

Guess your turn is over. Like everyone else said, no contact out of the blue. Give no explanations. Go cold on her. Make her wonder what happened (she will soon realize what did it).
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:30 PM
12

You can go 2 routes: Ignore until she caves in and starts to behave again (This might ruin your weekend plan with her) Ignore all the bs she just texted you and be like "so when do you wanna meet" basically getting right to the point. Shows that you don't give a shit about her drama creation. Don't tell her directly that you won't tolerate it (that's drama fuel, bitches love it), show her that you won't. Basically apply some dread game.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:37 PM
11

Usually when these bitches write long walls of texts/multiple angry texts. I won't reply til next morning and I'll ignore everything she said and start a new topic. This will fuck with her mind. If she goes back to the old bs, ignore again. Only really works if your smv is higher.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:47 PM
1

Girls that age don't realize what simps are yet. They think simping is the norm (especially nowadays). On top of this the female empowerment shit is poisoning her mind. Give her a few years, she'll be thirsting for the alpha while keeping the simps as orbiters.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:42 PM
4

You're on a good path but why not game while you're improving. Yeah you're not jacked but you got some muscle on you, more than good enough to pickup average or even goodlooking girls (if you got other areas in check). Obese people are getting laid man.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:53 PM
1

Genetics play a huge role. Some people gain muscle easier than others. If you're a hard gainer, you will have to work harder. That's just how it is
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:33 PM
1

Because most people have no idea what they're doing. They go to the gym, fuck around for an hour and go home.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:59 PM
1

If you're not at 2/3/4 I can almost guarantee your form is inefficient and/or you're not putting in the consistent work. Eg. the bench press, are you utilizing an arch with proper shoulder retraction as well as having an efficient bar path. Other than that good sleep and being a surplus aka gaining weight will almost always break planteaus unless you're at an elite level (which practically no one here is).
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:41 PM
1

Like /u/I_Dont_Type said. The reason you're failing is because you're prob not use to lifting heavy (for you) for 5 solid clean reps. It might be hard at first but lower the weight and make sure your form is safe, efficient, and consistent. Your body will get use to these motor patterns then you can start adding on 5lbs a week until you plateau. Good sleep and being in a slight surplus will make it easier to add that 5lbs on lifts/week.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:33 PM
5

Have you built a strength base at all? 5x5 starting out? 2/3/4 plate bench squat deadlift? If you skipped that part you need to go back to square one and do that. From there progressively overload on the big lifts while using accessory single joint movements and/or machines to get more volume in and more bloodflow to the muscle.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:50 AM
2

She might of got a little weirded out by the "how old are you" question out of the blue but it was a decent attempt overall for first time. Biggest thing is you got out there and did it, good job. A lot of things depends on your confidence level/the way you say it but I tend to go more along the lines of "why don't you gimme your number, and we can grab a drink" after a few back and forths rather then "could I get your number." Show's a higher level of confidence.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:14 AM
1

Exactly, my voicemail box is full on my personal phone. If someone really needs to reach out and I didn't pick up, they will text. The moron above doesn't seem to understand that.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:59 AM
10

Like it's been said many times before, "if it aint a fuck yes, it's a fuck no" Low interest but offer a time and place. Doesn't hurt taking a shot.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:14 AM
1

Telling a random person on the internet how much you "fuck" and unwillingness to learn from your superiors. You already lost your frame to me (someone you don't know) how you gonna hold it with a women. Time to start at square 1 bud. Sidebar->
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:04 AM
21

Translation: "You're not high enough smv, chase me while I find chad"
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:49 PM
1

If you wanna bang her, set a hangout aka fuck date. She's practically spelling it out for you. How is this hard...
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:33 PM
2

Need no to tell her anything or prove anything to her. High smv guys always have girls texting them. She has to learn to deal with that just as any average girl will have my simps hitting up her dms. It's just how the game works. If she gets too needy, just demote.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:24 PM
4

I'll text her to come to my place instead of wasting time on the phone talking about her feelings like you. Get with the times old man
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:51 PM
3

This isn't 2005. Regular people let alone bitches with attention spans of 5 years olds rarely check voicemails (I do on my business cell but that's about it).
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:43 PM
5

I don't recommend ever spending money on apps but if you had to boost, I'd imagine wednesday or thursday evening is the best time. That's the best time to match and set up a date for next day or after. If a girl wants to go out (not just attention whoring), she will prob already have a date planned by friday or saturday. Days of calling a girl over to your place on the weekend are kinda over especially right now.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:22 PM
2

Calling is fine but you realize lots of people don't call unknown numbers back right. Texting for logistics is perfectly fine. It will depend on how attracted to him she was.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:55 PM
1

There's a not interested no and there's a playful/challenging no. You can generally get this gist of which one you're getting.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:42 PM
1

These bitches swipe through hundreds of profiles everyday with most of them being matches. She prob matched with you and doesn't even realize it and/or doesn't care.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:38 PM
2

Logistics is huge in college and dating, living on campus is a huge plus. That being said there's tons of losers living on campus and pissing time away playing games all day/not socializing. It's up to you to be social and create opportunity. If you meet girls who are into you downtown etc, trust me you'll find a way to make it work.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:57 PM
9

Problem was no interest from the start. If she ain't asking you questions/trying to keep the convo going, she's just fishing for attention. Unless you're top 5% in your area or atleast 2-3 points above her, this is gonna be a common occurrence. Any kind of "maybes" or unsureness = you're not the best option.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:31 PM
3

"lol" is a dead end response. Most girls are use to guys simping out and asking them a ton of questions/never dropping the convo so she prob took it as a slap in the face.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:29 AM
1

Alpha again?? You were never alpha to being with
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:27 AM
9

25lbs "solid mass" = 3-4lbs muscle,16-17 lbs of fat/water and prob around 5lbs miscalculation/fluffing numbers
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:02 AM
1

Exactly 20-25lbs muscle is for top tier genetics (maybe a few outliers beyond that). Average person will be in the 15-20lbs range. U really think he gained 25lbs of good weight that fast lol. Your 125lbs to 200lbs is not even close to all muscle. Prob around 15lbs muscle you gained especially if you're young and you are still growing structure wise. Being strong doesn't always equate to being super muscular. I recently took my bench from 335 to 405 gaining maybe 10-15 lbs of weight (not muscle) …
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:44 AM
6

Considering a natty with good genetics can only gain 20-25lbs muscle max throughout their life time, no it isn't. People making these claims don't know what muscle is. A lot of the so called "mass" is fat. Take it from a guy that's been lifting for 15 years 250lbs+ lean.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:00 AM
14

25 lbs of solid mass even with generous doses of AAS is hard in a few months. You really expect us to believe you're a 9 now lol
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:09 PM
2

Yep top 20% to be not invisible and top 5% to succeed.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:44 PM
4

It's a combination of you over-assessing yourself, lots of good-looking competition, and the pandemic making guys simp harder than ever. Online dating is a shit show right now. Don't believe all the guys telling you they're banging 7s and 8s from tinder. It ain't happening as often as people make it seem like. You don't need clubs to pick up girls, incorporate more day game.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:34 PM
1

But if she wants to she will create opportunities. But yes I agree a lot of people here are extreme about trp. It's not always as black and white as people here make it out to be.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:25 PM
3

Says something about all the shitty advice being given out lately
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:45 PM
1

I wouldn't say it's impossible but with today's sjw/feminist culture combined with the fact women are not ration thinkers makes it easier than ever for women to be non-monogamous without being outed/slut shamed by society. Sure high smv can greatly reduce the risk of a women cheating, but there's always a chance. Grass is greener mentality (usually because of hypergamy) ruins a lot of relationships and most of the time women are the initiators.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 03:23 AM
1

You've got a lot to learn. If a women wants to cheat/is not happy with marriage/ltr, she will make it happen eventually. Some are riskier than other, some will drop low key signals to men whether in the workplace or a girls night out. An opportunity arising is not necessary, in fact an opportunity arising will make some that are not thinking about cheating or on the fence cheat.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 03:19 AM
9

Could be lots of things: She could be stuck in a very long relationship where the guy bailed before the marriage step Shy/small town girl *rare case* She could be career focused (med school doctor type) *rare case* Likes multiple men/poly Crazy bitch/BPD Post wall now straight up delusional aiming out of her league *most common*
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:22 AM
1

If you only have 7 matches, don't expect to get a number let alone laid. Yeah message them, you got nothing to lose but chances are maybe 1-2 reply back if you're lucky. Dating apps a shit show right now. Get out there and focus on in person game.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:06 PM
3

You did everything bitches do when they play games. Keeping frame not even once.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 05:23 AM
3

You answered your own question/concern. Be that guy she had sex with after meeting at a bar. Being an emotional wreck like you displayed (and are still displaying) drys the pussy up like no other. That's usually the girls job. The mainstream will tell you to tell her how you feel/and discuss your emotions with her. NEVER do that!
/r/askTRP16/08/20 11:18 PM
3

I look better in a $5 shirt than all of these guys in their try hard $500 dress shirts or whatever high end brand. They're compensating. It's about how you look in clothes not the clothes. Of course you gotta dress soemwhat in parameters of the occasion. You don't wanna walk into a wedding or formal event with shorts and a T
/r/askTRP16/08/20 11:11 PM
3

It's prob the worst I've ever seen it to be honest. I went out with a 6.5 and she showed me her app, full of messages from what the internet calls "chads" and she apparent deletes anyone under 6'2." It will get better, but day game will always be there. Thats good, law school will keep your mind busy. As for gyms, yeah it's nice to have one but if they're closed just pick up a pair of dumbbells for starters off craigslist of fb marketplace. Hell even pushups, pull ups, and squats are good enough…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 11:03 PM
5

Screw women, your priority should be getting off the hard drugs and getting back into the gym. Once you get a hold of yourself, then think about women/meeting people. Also online dating is a shit show right now. Lots of dudes are on massive dry spells and simping like crazy = average/ugly bitches with overinflated egos.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:52 PM
1

That doesn't matter. Continuing talking to a ONS is a sign she's looking for more than just your relationship and if she already has, what makes you think she will tell you after lying about other things. You're still very blue-pilled and young. You will learn more about women's nature in time through experience. Read the side bar and maybe you can avoid getting fucked over. Even if you do, that's just how some people learn.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:47 PM
4

If she tells you its 3, it's atleast double if not triple that. Women lie about their n count to not be labelized as a slut (thats their justification). The days of marrying virgins are long gone. The fact she still texts her ONS is a huge red flag. Lose your virginity with her and assess after if you wanna keep her as a gf or demote to plate. If you're stuck on saving yourself for after marriage and she's having ONS it's clearly not gonna work.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:59 PM
7

That wall of text made her pussy dry as the Sahara Could be blessing in disguise. Feminist's don't make good plates/LTR/anything, highest likeness to pull a metoo
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:31 PM
6

This happened to me a few months ago. Bitch was a 4 not a 7 like she showed in her pics. I had to make sure she was the right person a few times. I ended the "date" within 15 mins. In that short time she actually had the audacity to talk about how people catfish online. These girls online are more delusional than ever especially cause of increased number of simping due to the pandemic.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:03 PM
21

Haha man this made me laugh. Prob destroyed her self-image after that
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:59 PM
3

Congrats on becoming her orbiter.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:23 AM
1

"thats a little gun for such a big boy" but honestly they're just having fun. Seems like you were in too serious of a mood for a party especially a college one.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:20 AM
3

Don't plan past 3-4 days (preferably next day or day after). A lot of these bitches have attention spans of 5 year olds along with no scheduling abilities.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:18 AM
2

Classic "if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no" scenario
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:13 AM
1

Filters out the betas who will not pursue sex after she says that. Always assume she wants to fuck you, kino and escalade.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:12 AM
2

You have to study the history of that sport from when it originated, memorize every stat, oh and don't forget to get your masters in sports science specializing in that one sport.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:09 AM
4

Women don't know what they want. water is wet. nothing new here.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:06 AM
3

Equivalent to "she matched with me on a dating app, guess things are getting serious"
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:18 PM
1

She's desperate for validation. She wants you and others to acknowledge she has a "cute" bf and is in relationship. Prob has nothing else of value going on in her life.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:02 AM
4

Snapchat has been good for me because I'm muscular and have a good face, allows me to show that I'm real rather than just a profile. If taking pics/looks is not your strong point, avoid it as it will backfire. It's like instagram, no profile is better than a shitty one. I still always go for the number.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:59 AM
2

You're doing something terribly wrong if you can't even get a kiss after 2 bottles of wine. Most girls will be slurring after that let alone be in their senses after that.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 03:41 PM
14

It's a pointless and stupid term the new generation uses to classify guys that get laid a lot as a part of ASD. Say yes and she'll still open up her pussy just as wide if her perception of your smv is high.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 03:37 PM
3

Abundance. I mean even before learning about redpill, I always had abundance (especially when it comes to girls) but would choose to focus on one/lose other options. Keep the options going cause it's a deep source of confidence rather than something faked. It will reflect in the way you carry yourself.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:17 AM
48

People post the highlights of their life on social media. You don't see the lows.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:14 AM
8

Ah the tender age a girl learns how the world of social media can provide her with endless attention/validation. All downhill from here buddy. Keep smashing away, just don't get super attached.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:10 AM
1

The reason women like that body is cause it has brad pitts face on it lol. I've been 7-8% and it's not fun. It's hard to maintain, you feel like shit and you only look good with a shirt off; rest of the time people can't even tell you lift (as a natural of course). I'm the same way, heavily muscular and tall so I can go up to 20% and still look good. Contrary to what people think 15-20% bodyfat is not fat fat like people on the internet make it out to be but 12-15% is ideal for most.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:42 PM
1

Dating apps are meat markets, no ones saying to rely on them but if youre a good looking high smv guy, nothing wrong with smashing 7s and 8s.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 09:16 PM
4

Another dude that jerks off over brad pitt fight club body. You won't look like you lift with a shirt on with that emasculated physique.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:42 PM
2

You're not in the top 5-10% that means. If you're not at the top, you'll need to be atleast 2-3 points higher than your match to get a response. That's how online works
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:09 PM
5

Look good/have good pics to show it and anything becomes a good opener. These tinder bitches have the attention span of a 5 year old, they don't care about how "creative" your opener is.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:59 PM
1

Be higher smv than her (or if she thinks you're high smv), and adopt an "I don't care if you leave" attitude.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:33 PM
1

It's a cheat code but a cheat code that will only work if your stats are high. Up your stats (smv) and make the most out of this cheat code and dominate the game. You know what you need to do, and what it will get you compared the average bluepill guy that wonders why shit isn't going right and keeps shooting in the dark.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:02 AM
3

seduce her
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:43 PM
3

This except when I saw her in real life, she was like a 4 not the 6-7 in her pics. Crazy how online they are allowed to be a completely different person and get treated differently.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:40 PM
1

Becareful, sounds like classic BPD lovebombing. Most guys are oblivious to this, and realize when it's too late. Don't hang out with her too much, keep smashing (condom and dispose yourself) and keep emotional distance.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:08 PM
1

Its tough to say what the reason was why she bailed. Maybe she really did fall asleep, maybe there's more guys in the picture, maybe she didn't feel like going out. However, when a girl has to bail for a legit reason, feels bad about it, and really wants to meet you, she will go out of her way to make it happen. If all she said was "sorry i fell asleep." She might just have just changed her mind --> low interest --> waste of time. If you do find the need to reply, tell her "I'm free X day at X t…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:04 PM
4

Have some self-respect and next. I wouldn't even respond to her unless she goes out of her way to meet. Bottom line, interest was low. Hate to drop this line but you think she would fall asleep meeting chad. No she would prob be awake all night looking forward to it.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:13 PM
1

Either be gay, or make them think you're gay then you can be a part of her girlfriends group
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:10 PM
2

sexual market value. Basically consists of looks, status, resources, game, etc
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:15 AM
-2

SMV > confidence or else it's fake and women see right through it. Of course high smv men have confidence to spare.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 04:49 AM
1

Of course HB8, cause 8s don't have options at all right. She even wrote you a paragraph text cause as an 8 how would she ever get laid
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:36 PM
1

"tell him we hooked up on the first date" Daring but confident and suggestive
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:12 AM
5

Look there's nothing wrong with having a close friend that a girl (maybe childhood friend) but most of the time, guys that have friends that are girls are simps. There's a reason those girls aren't banging them aka friendzoned them. If she's a true friend, you shouldn't be worried about losing her. If she stops talking to you for a guy she views as relationship/sexual material, means you were just an orbiter.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:16 AM
7

The fact that you're stressing about a girl you're friends with speaks volume on how much improvement you need... Sidebar ->
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:07 AM
1

Sounds like a classic case of you thought it went better than she did. Girls make it easy when they're wet for a guy. If shes really an 8.5 (aka 6-7/10 in real standards most of the time), go on another date an escalade to the max. She turns you down again, next. Chances are she might not even want another date.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:05 AM
2

No instagram is better than a shitty (low follower, bad pics, no comments) instagram. If you wanna keep it, don't advertise it to girls you wanna bang. Instant turn-off.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:00 AM
1

Online dating is all about pics, not text game. It's a combination of you not being top 5-10% in your area and apps being rigged against men in general. Online dating has gone to shit but still does work under the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 09:01 PM
8

It's foolish to try to rationale a girl's decision period
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:11 PM
17

Doesn't matter, a high smv male succeeds anywhere in the world. Only difference may be that in the eastern world, money and status especially status play a bigger role in smv.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:20 PM
4

Lol at "long story short" Don't even have to read this essay to tell you your problem is lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:56 PM
3

Don't think too much into it, could be a variety of factors. Maybe she didn't think the sex was as good, maybe she has a bf/is married, maybe she realized she shouldn't be fucking around in the workplace or simply is could be ASD where girls like to state "this was a mistake" but are down to do it again.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:57 PM
1

There's a reason you ended it with her. Stop living in the past. And yes maybe the new girls your fucking are below her level. A new hotter chick should make you forget about an ex fast.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:54 PM
1

Most girls who are interested after the first date will message first. There's a small percentage that will wait for you to message. Usually the shy ones. So if you truly think the date went well, no harm is messaging first.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:47 PM
2

True, but I've always understood resources as a part of "official" definition of SMV. I've actually never heard RMV used. From the sounds of it it's similar to long-term smv where status and money play a huge roll. From a strictly physically point of view of getting her wet, I get what you're saying but determining how well a guy will do in the dating pool is more than that.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:21 AM
1

Tingles = pussy is wet and open for entry.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:44 AM
4

Fruit of the loom wife beater, ripped jeans, and chain hanging out the pocket, you will slay the trailer park like no other
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:30 AM
3

It raises both for men, not so much for women. Resources aka money isn't a huge requirement for high SMV but it can certainly boost your sexual value especially long-term. Even short-term, let say a night out at a bar. Being a "baller" throwing money around will attract some women even without looks. Yeah she might only fuck the chump cause he's throwing around 100s, but it will still help him get laid. Not that I recommend doing this, but it happens a lot.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:25 AM
3

Combination of rusty game but female standards have also gone up as dating apps/social media becomes more and more rigged against men.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:16 AM
17

Possible chance at easy pussy at the cost your dignity is not worth it even though the virgins on think it is. You did the right thing by having self respect for yourself. She wasn't expecting a no so gave you that jab after which means absolutely nothing.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:04 AM
2

In an alpha's case its about your dick wanting more pussy. 99% of the times the girl "leaves" the alpha is because he's fucking around, won't stop and doesn't value her opinion above his. Usually she'll try to come back after dating an average guy/beta. Called being alpha widowed.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 04:07 PM
4

Your frame is weak, they see right through your "IDGAF attitude." Raise SMV, be more witty, and take low key jabs at them. eg. "having a rotation of girls is fun, you should try it sometime" Get one or two of them mad, take them out of their frame.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:57 PM
0

Good for him for not being pussy whipped.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:52 PM
1

Don't worry she'll be riding chad's dick after a week or two while milking the clueless bluepill beta for resources.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:49 PM
1

Truth is as human beings we stick to others alike. This goes for race/dating as well. That's why the majority of the world's population dates their own race, however, white people prob have the best time dating outside their own race as being fair skin is idolized in the eastern world. Very common to see white beta dudes dating hot asian women.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:41 PM
1

You're delusional if you think that's true especially in china (I've been there). Sure the tourists may not want the fat/average white girls, locals die for them.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:30 PM
1

Didn't know gym and banging plates/hanging out with friends had to be on different days.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:53 PM
4

Cam girl accepted your payment for viewing, guess things are getting pretty serious
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:45 PM
1

Wrong subreddit
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:43 PM
13

An average plain jane white women will be worshiped in Asia and many middle eastern countries. It's something not that common for them too see so they put them on a huge pedestal. The ones that immigrate over to the west, come with that mindset.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:15 PM
10

Start by getting off the blackpill. You need to get "chad" out of your head. yes girls love the top 20% and even better a top 5% man but this chad thing is overblown on the internet. I worked door at a popular club for a few years and you'd be surprised the amount of "chads" that were left alone at the end of the night usually because they didn't approach/recognize signals. Chad doesn't always mean alpha. Many times the slightly above average guy with great social skills would succeed. SMV is no…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:01 PM
2

Yep, change it up when you plateau. Usually you can break plateau's by bulking more but there is a law of diminishing returns. Try adding variations of big lifts. Eg. for bench I added reverse bands which helped me feel heavier weight at the top. Finally hit that elusive 405. Find at what portion of the lift you are weakest in and overload/work it more. Of course this last part is for intermediate to advanced lifters.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:41 PM
3

Seems your attraction towards her is holding on by a few strings. Not ideal for LTR let alone marriage. Usually guys in this position end up fucking around on the side and eventually get caught if you do it enough then you gotta deal with divorce bs. Always go with your gut.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:35 PM
8

Depends on standards my dudes. The 8s or 9s people are banging are usually 6s and 7s on a scale where 5/10 means dead average (50% of the population more attractive 50% less attractive).
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:13 PM
2

Yep this is pretty much a summary to natty success. With stronglifts, I'd add progressively overloading on key lifts is important.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:06 PM
1

Attention. Take it away from even the hottest girl and she will be a wreck. The last thing you want to do is lose frame by coming off as mad or annoyed.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:04 PM
9

Classic virgin standards. 6/10 is slightly above average
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:58 PM
90

On a few occasions I've chatted up girls in the club line-up. "this place is too busy, lets go to X and have a drink" X would turn into my place when walking lol Dating apps were even easier in their prime.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:54 PM
8

mgtow = cope. They believe in not playing the game because it's rigged. True it is, but the game doesn't care for you. Either play it well or get left behind and rot.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:57 PM
1

Any pussy get's boring after awhile so we need to acquire more. However, when you have atleast 3-4 hot ones to fall back on, getting more is easier cause your mentality, the way you express your thoughts and words just come out different. There's no desperation, thirst or pressure to land this new one but you know it will happen. That's the goal of abundance, well that and easy access to a variety of sexual partners of course.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:49 PM
3

Grass is greener mentality, but we all go through it. Classic case of someone who's young and needs to explore more/bang more women. After you go down that path, you'll realize you had a good thing going but there's always more good things out there.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:46 PM
3

I can already tell it gets to you. Everyone likes pushing the buttons of a sensitive guy
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:42 PM
2

Most gamers usually have a good sense of what is meta and try to achieve it. I agree with the other guy that simping is like meta and trp is like like a cheat code to beat out meta players.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:36 PM
1

Nope, having muscle is a universally masculine trait. All types of women love it. Fenimists/sjws pretend they don't but deep inside they do cause that's how we're biologically wired. There is a such thing as too much muscle though. I'm talking open ifbb probodybuilders not your average built gym bro juicer. Their choices for women may be limited but they still do better than you average skinny nobody. Like the person below said, upper class women may have other priorities (money, status) but if …
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:24 PM
0

Either have a really good one you don't have one. The mysterious shit is bs. Either you're high smv (mysterious) or low smv (invisible).
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:19 PM
2

This guy knows what up
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:19 PM
4

Can confirm, get more action being moderately lean but massive than I ever did with the "ideal" ripped brad pitt build that so many guys jerk off too online. Girls love muscle cause it gives em a sense of protection even if the guy can't fight for shit.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:08 AM
1

Who cares, stop comparing yourself to others. Many guys start with low smv, having nothing to leverage and have to start from ground 0. In fact, you having him as a good friend is a huge advantage. Once your smv climbs, you will start making more use of his social circle.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:03 AM
3

You don't see to many 7+ women on there anymore and the hot ones on there are attention/social media whores. That and what I said above, where the app is runs by a bunch of sjws where even as a goodlooking guy it holds you back from your app potential. Don't get me wrong you can still get lays but either they will be way below your level, or you luck out with a decent one once awhile. It's not what it use to be back in 2013-2015ish but hey it's still a tool, use it as one. Just don't use it as y…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:52 PM
1

Agreed. While being tall, jacked, good face has got me tons of lays in past years of using it, seems now social proof is the #1 thing they look for (especially young/prime age girls). My go to is snapchat cause it allows me to express value (show I'm real etc) but I've noticed they care more about your ig followers. Now combine the fact that there's a huge paywall to get over and it's pretty rigged. Usually have 99+ likes but few translate to matches these days.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:10 PM
2

The biggest cockblock on tinder is tinder itself. I usually get up to 99+ likes but it doesn't let you match with them like you'd think you would. Instead it slowly trickles in a few per day to keep you hooked. Such a scam platform but I've had major success on it in the past so can't hate on it too much. It's a wasteland these days though.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:04 PM
1

You'd be surprised. On tinder top 5% refers to looks only (smv on tinder = looks). We know there's more to smv in real life.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:20 PM
1

Many of these top athletes make it there cause of genetics, luck, and of course hardwork (practice). Doesn't mean they have an alpha mindset.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:40 PM
4

*viable for the top 20%, great for the top 5%
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:24 PM
2

Most girls will open with "hey" or "hey hows it going." I'll usually just ignore their boring opener and point out something about their profile/pic and go from there (girls love talking about themselves). Once you get her going on that topic, rapport is built. Yeah you could reply with "hey, it's going good. how are you" if there's nothing to comment about but she'll only reply back if her interest is really high or your smv is noticeably above her. If she opens with something creative/other th…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:05 PM
2

Though even with good form, the barbell bench just doesn't come as easy to everyone. Retraction alone might not be enough for some to get rid of the internal rotation/pressure on the rotator cuff that happens at the bottom. Many will need a light-moderate arch and gaining mass on the chest for that bottom 2-3 to not mess up shoulders. Yeah I think people are too focused on getting the dumbbells up rather than keeping back tight and retracted. You'll commonly see people get the first one barely u…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:49 PM
19

Build rapport, then logistics, and number. This way you can weed out the ones that actually wanna meet up/ are more likely too. Eg. Few back and forth messages to build rapport You: "lets go for a drink this friday. X is a nice spot" Her: "sure, i'd like that" (something along that) You: "cool, whats your number"
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:33 PM
4

Agreed, asshole these days just means not a push over especially cause the bar for being alpha is so low these days. People don't like a true asshole (eg. the guy trying to start a fight as the bar for the hell of it). Of course with high smv it won't matter what type of "asshole" you are. I cringe how so many people describe themselves as assholes when really they are soft and can't hold frame for shit.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 06:23 PM
1

Bars/clubs, being 6'5" muscular is great for night game. Working door at a popular club also helped a ton.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 06:09 PM
3

Replied to your other comment. To add, decline bench can also be easy on shoulders for some and Lying on the floor dumbbells flys limit how far back shoulders can go, keeping them safer (many of the worlds strongest benchers use this one as an accessory).
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:08 PM
5

Adopt more of a powerlifter form. I don't use a extreme arch, just enough do I don't have any/much internal rotation. Another thing you can do is build your own "shoulder saver bar" (google this). I just took a $3 yoga foam block and cut out a tiny horizontal line so I can stick it on the middle of my bar. This will stop the bar 2-3 inches on your chest. You'll be able to move a little more weight but no shoulder pain. I use it as an accessory to build up my middle portion of bench. Dumbbell pre…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:46 PM
4

Never do lunch first dates no matter who it is. She'll prob want you to pay and you can't talk as comfortably when there's food you don't wanna let go to waste.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:29 PM
7

The barbell bench press is the culprit for most shoulder/rotator cuff injuries. The reason is because not everyone is suited for it. People with barrel chests/shorter arms rarely have problems cause the ROM is shorter and they don't have to low to the point where the shoulders will start internally rotating or be stressed. You probably know people like this that have been benching forever without problem. Many other people either lack shoulder mobility and/or have longer arms/not big enough ches…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:18 PM
1

Your fat pathetic excuse for a mother when she was on top on me last night.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 05:38 PM
1

Any generic line will work if your pics make her wet.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:18 PM
3

Either she is ugly or extremely damaged. Good replies from other in here but whatever you do, don't be her emotional tampon and her how she's beautiful etc... That's what she's fishing for.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:25 AM
3

Yep it's a combination of guys 3, 4 even 5 points above them using them for easy ONS and their low IQ/delusion making them think they're 8s. I remember back before dating apps 4s knew their place aka standing at the bar 2am waiting for any guy/creature to pick them up lol
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:18 AM
1

Now calling me little. Oh man I really got to you. Talk about losing frame. Read sidebar and improve your pathetic life.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:16 AM
5

Nope stay away from them. Have done a few thick ones (definitely no gut). Just go on tinder, the fatties think they are doing you a favor like their pussy is made out of gold or something lol
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:17 PM
1

Well she was talking to you, what makes you think you're the only one. If a girl wants to fuck around she will.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:27 PM
4

Sounds like she's talking to a lot of different guys and you aren't the best option (in her mind). next
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:38 PM
1

caring about whether another man gets laid or not just screams security doesn't it... Suggest not white knighting women like you're doing above. Read side bar and change your beta ways.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:56 PM
3

It's mixed. I think deep down many know that sleeping with a much higher smv guy doesn't mean they will be able to date one. I've had many times ONS where the girl has said "you're too hot for me" or "some fitness girl is gonna come steal you" and a lot of these girls were prob 2 points below me. They don't expect to have a 2nd time. Some (especially on dating apps) are plain delusion and feel they deserve a guy like the ONS +2 points before. These are usually the low IQ ones that get tossed aro…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:42 PM
12

They were more realistic before the social media/dating app area. Now they don't need to cause guys are simps and openly willing to date down and have causal sex way down. I don't blame women cause basic supply and demand. If you could get option A who is a 8 over option B who is a 6 with no extra costs associated for A, why choose the lesser. Shit like onlyfans is a success which speaks volume on how beta/simp guys in general have become.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:17 PM
2

Yes helps but if she's gonna break she's gonna break. Good sex is only one part of the equation.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:10 PM
0

Your 8 is prob more like a 5 or 6 and they were not 130 IQ Also Wrong subreddit. Feminist/pussified men -->
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:20 PM
3

Someone ban this fucker. Posts an "I can't get pussy because I'm X race" everyday...
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:17 PM
2

There's relaxed, calm, confident low energy then there's tired, weak sounding, wimp low energy. The first ones fine. I don't really get super excited on dates anymore.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:59 PM
1

Bang her to establish dominance.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:50 PM
3

Doesn't matter, a high smv man excels anywhere. Yeah your race/background will affect your perception in some places but you can easily get over that barrier with high smv. It's the average/passive guys that it will affect the most.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:42 PM
1

Classic ASD. In one ear, out the other. Keep smashing
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:36 AM
1

Takes awhile to settle in. Took me a year to get a solid social circle and people to go out with every weekend.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:02 PM
7

Either shes not your girlfriend (seems like you just met her) or you're a cuck. Either way she has 0 respect for you.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:59 PM
11

Girl situation, googled it post from here popped up. I was always kinda redpill without ever hearing the term so this subreddit resonated with me.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:53 PM
4

3 words. SMV. Improve it. Yeah not everyone can become an 8 or 9 but most can get in the top 20% or knock on the door. You can't change the game. Get good at playing it.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:22 PM
1

Yep and I agree with that. That's why said online dating is a different ball game. A 7 or 9 online are practically the same. They are either there for validation/followers or only want the cream of the crop, the top 5%. Even in the top 5% they have choices especially in a city like la.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:51 PM
1

Online dating is just a different ball game. They're not hard to sleep with when you're an 8+ in terms of smv overall. They make themselves available just like a 4 would to guy whos 6-7. A 7+ girl online is at the top of the pyramid. Every guy tries for her, her ego is massive and you are just another good looking profile to her. Overall there's no set in stone rule but I can tell you if you're +2 points over a girls perception of you, she's easy. Key word is perception. There's good-looking guy…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:34 PM
1

Mirroring how you respond is in fuck yes territory. Fuck yes don't mean she's a whore and dtf right away. It means you are simply on the good side of the double standard. Her responses to you will be more effortful than responses to other guys. But yeah like I said before, the fuck yeses via online dating will likely be a few points below you. Having the mindset a 7 takes more effort is putting them on a pedestal. Not a good way to go. With high smv 7s are easy aswell (just not on dating sites).…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 03:38 PM
3

Yep like a few people in this thread said, if it's not a "fuck yes," it's a no. Only catch on tinder is, if you're not 3-4 points above her, it's likely not gonna be a "fuck yes." Once a girl experiences tinder, it's pretty hard for her not to go back. The grass is greener mentality becomes ingrained.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:02 PM
2

They're still emotionally driven and will create drama you just have to hold frame harder especially if she's attractive. 130+ IQ 8+ is a unicorn, they practically don't exist.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:09 PM
3

I don't have this problem once I meet the girl atleast once or meet then via in everyday interactions but talking via online dating, the convo will die if I don't meet within a few days of number. Guess if they haven't seen you, you're just a profile like any other, and there's tons of good looking ones to pick from. These bitches have non-existent attentions spans on top of that lol
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:55 PM
3

Yep, and truth is you could be her best option at the time in terms of smv but it's all perception especially in online dating. If you can't display it, someone with more social media presence or is willing to buy her free shit could be higher on the list.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:44 PM
1

Meh go if you want and have fun, not a huge deal but beware she's trying to move towards LTR. Did this a few months ago, her friends all hated me and said I was a "fuck around type of guy." Don't matter I still bang her like once a week. Just make sure to not come off as a relationship bound guy.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:47 PM
10

Trust me, she'll drop what shes doing to respond to chad. If you're not her best option at the time, you'll be on the backburner. If you're talking online dating then this x10.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:51 PM
1

This is what not to do. Instead what you do is, act like you don't even notice her and talk to other girls in the room. Whoever breaks frame first is the loser and in this case you did.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:46 PM
2

Being 7+ lookswise is basically a baseline requirement these days online (unless you want to bang creatures). Now you're in the pool of visibility and need to filter out the attention/social media whores. What you're left with is a small percentage of viable options, most likely a point or few below you. Now that you've narrowed it down, meet as soon as possible. Best to meet within a few days or at the very latest that weekend.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 10:08 PM
1

No need for monk mode. Just stop putting pussy on a pedestal. Make raising your SMV a priority while putting gaming on the backburner. Everything doesn't have to be an extreme.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:47 PM
1

Bio doesn't matter. Make it short, less emojis. Tinder is a meat market, treat it as that. No need to put effort into a bio.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:42 PM
9

Since your question specifically includes girls, answer is easy. Develop and practice an abundance mindset. When you know option #2, #3, etc are waiting, you are much less likely to take shit for the sake of getting laid and take risks. Abundance will reflect in your confidence level.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 05:55 AM
1

They will either be really excited or intimated/nervous (threatened/unsure fits this). Which one?? That will depend on personality, mood, etc. She will conform to your views and rarely argue or be confrontational. If she's comfortable/relaxed that means her emotions are not being provoked and see's you as equal or below her SMV.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 05:45 AM
1

Took me 12 years of hard lifting and being bulked up to hit. Unheard of for a natty to hit this while being lean. Either way anyone who can get even close to 405 has a ton of muscle underneath.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 05:19 AM
4

Yeah don't take this advice. College is prime time for some prime pussy. Don't put pussy on a pedestal (apply red pill principles) but also don't be a scared bitch and make the most of it otherwise you will regret it later. Going to other colleges for girls when you literally go to one is pathetic...
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:01 PM
1

Although I think there's successful people on here too that were doing good before red pill and red-pill just resonated with them (I fit in that category), you're right that the majority fit in to the categories you listed whether people admit it or not. Just look at all the posts on this subreddit these days. However, I do think red pill is a good way to go for those people, just not to the point where you start despising women/people and degrade your social life instead of improving it.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:30 PM
3

Lowering bodyfat % isn't a magic pill to getting hotter plates. Infact, I got the most pussy ever at 15-17% cause I'm really tall and look way bigger. At 8-10% bf I look like I'm sick and lack drive.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:43 PM
4

You gotta understand true BPDs/crazy chicks are not just in some phase or acting out, many of them are clinically diagnosed. For those of you that do not have experience with them, it's hard to understand the extents they will go to. Unless you have nothing to lose, avoid them like the plague. Hell even if I had nothing to lose, I'd still avoid them.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:39 PM
1

You did the right thing. Sad thing is most guys would have folded over and done what she wanted. Thats why they can get away with it. She'll prob get what she wants next date. One thing I will say, the fact she asked you to buy her food makes me point to your smv. Prob could use improving.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:02 PM
17

"A skinny guy with abs is like a fat girl with tits"
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:50 PM
2

I can see subreddits/forums dedicated to rating using true ratings but in real life (even just in my friend circles) saying you banged a 5 is like saying you banged an ugly chick. It's not even just blue-pilled people but most people consider 6-7s average. I've seen these 6 and 7s and they're more like 4s and 5s.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:56 PM
5

aka willing to fuck around until I find a high smv guy
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:17 PM
2

The world is full of delusional people. A 10 is like 1 in million (or more) literally. People throw out HB9 or 10 way to easily. Really depends on your scale. I go by an normal curve scale where 5 is dead average. On this scale most peoples 6 or 7s are actually 5s. Infact, you go down this very thread and you'll find people calling 7s average.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:49 PM
1

Lifting hard does not always equate to being strong. Putting up big numbers in main 3 lifts is a lot about technique too. As a big guy my bench lagged hard until a few years ago I figured out how to utilize wide grip, arch and leg drive. Recently just hit a 405 bench and my muscle mass hasn't really gone up much.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:25 PM
1

Of course. Majority of the world is BP and the majority is reproducing. At what cost tho. Losing self respect and putting yourself below her, yeah no thx.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:13 PM
1

Low interest move on
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:19 PM
4

Not even close to doomed. Your waist is pretty small, but your upper body is too. You just need a few years of hard lifting, eating, and getting stronger.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:26 PM
3

Meet 1-2 days within number for best results. The longer you delay, the higher the chance she has second thoughts/bails. Online dating is all about options.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:24 PM
3

Did you read what I said. You can't just choose to thicken your waist from the top area and not the bottom. It will thicken down at the bottom too depending on your insertions/genetics etc and the hourglass figure will remain and probably give you a worse shoulder-to-waist ratio. You're not even close to advanced enough to worry about this. Instead you need to gain a lot more mass and let everything fill out.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:18 PM
6

You do realize obliques go down to the waist. Don't do direct oblique training like side bends, they will thicken waist too. You can't just choose to widen the upper obliques. Train your midsection as a whole (abs). Instead build lats. The more your lower lats fill out, the less of an hourglass figure you'll have. You pretty much just need more mass.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:06 PM
3

The girls that are gonna meet straight at your place are either significantly below your smv or complete whores/bpd. Yeah there are outliers but just because a girl wants to go for a drink in a public place first, doesn't mean she's not dtf.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:03 PM
1

10% is very hard to maintain for most. I start looking worse at 10% or lower. 12-14% has always been my best range for my body interms of overall looks while keeping good strength and still looking big in clothes.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:05 PM
2

Almost all guys whether they admit it or not start lifting for pussy. Some don't make it past that stage (stay small and/or quit) but eventually you want to get to a stage where you are lifting for yourself and focus on beating the previous version of you not becoming what girls want you to. I've always been extremely tall and muscular but when I started, I remember I decided to get extremely shredded (7% bf) for the hell of it. Lost a ton of muscles to try to conform to what I thought girls wan…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:01 PM
1

Agree with others, it's kinda out of your control in many cases if the smv is much higher than yours but what you can do is put on mass and maintain frame without displaying jealously. Evolutionary trait of being her best protection.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:52 PM
7

So it's not ok to get easy pussy. People don't go to clubs to have intellectual conversations. Clubs are a playground for good-looking guys with high smv. If you don't fit that bill sure they might not be for you. If you're getting laid with ease while sticking to red pill ideologies, what the issue. Just because you go there doesn't mean you fit the mold of beta paying to get a chance at ass. You seem like you need to go experience the world more rather than gathering info from reading books an…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:42 PM
4

Always ask the question would she make chad ________(In this case wait 2 weeks)? Be her chad
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:24 PM
21

Anything else you want to say? Next time bring a friend
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:49 PM
2

You think girls choose their study friends over chad. Low interest here. I wouldn't respond at all especially if this is an online dating case. Soft next.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:00 PM
1

Yep life it all about double standards, just don't be on the losing side
/r/askTRP17/07/20 05:38 PM
12

Yeah girls need it. If things are too stable they always want to shake it up. More validation, excitement, whatever the case. They don't even realize it.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:12 PM
1

smv = strictly looks online. There is no gauge. 9/10 beta personality > 7/10 alpha online. Everyday life is much different where smv consists of multiple factors.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:13 PM
12

At times addressed her drama creating comments. Should of ignored them. If there's no drama, bitches will create it.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:03 PM
2

Well not every girl will find a "chad" (tinder is full of legit 3s and 4s) but every girl will find guys atleast 3-4 points/10 higher than them. An average/slightly above average girl will only be looking for chad no doubt.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:39 PM
2

What they mean is you'll naturally flock towards 3/10s, end up banging a fatty, and feel disgusting next morning.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:35 PM
2

SMV isn't all physical. You said you went through bad time for your mental heath. Thats unfortunate but you may have acted in way that lowered your smv. How bad were your "mistakes," I don't know but it may have lowered your smv enough for her to leave. However in cases like this, women saying you "used and emotionally abused her and manipulated her" can also just be a cop out and an excuse for her to leave and go through the hoe phase or grass is greener mentality. Women are very emotionally dr…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:56 AM
10

Tinder is full of sjw feminist types these days. They're very pro gay/lesbian relationships and casual sex so I'm not surprised.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 11:32 PM
1

Well it's likely that she either pulled that either because she's not attracted anymore or you broke her off and moved on for something better. For the 1st scenario, yes if you significantly up your smv she can come crawling back and change her attitude towards you. For the 2nd scenario, yes because your smv is higher thus you moved on but she was always/still is attracted to you. Either way these types are not worth pursing. High chance of pulling a "me too"
/r/askTRP15/07/20 11:27 PM
15

An argument they lose = being abused. Basically what they're saying is "he emotionally abused me cause he called me out on my bullshit and proved me wrong"
/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:55 PM
7

No problem. It's a slippery slope. I get how it can be good for a a week or 2 (will peak sex drive) but many people lose their sex drive if they go too long.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:05 PM
11

No fap is good to get off porn, build discipline etc but it's gonna make you a lot hornier. You'll be willing to bang a few points down from your regular standard.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:44 PM
7

If anything it's gonna lower your standards. You'll end up banging a 4/10 and regretting it next day.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:31 PM
1

Same guys that are getting their "mrs" pounded by other guys as we speak and are clueless/don't care.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:40 PM
2

Tinder is strictly about looks (pics) and social status proof (popular Instagram etc) not high smv. That being said high smv guys generally do look good however on tinder you still need to be in the top 5-10% lookswise in your area to do well. It is not an accurate depiction of real life. Coming from a guy that bounced at a popular club, I've seen countless traditionally good looking guys walk away with nothing over and over again. Many times the decent looking/average guys will be the one fucki…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:00 AM
1

3-4 at all times with many ONS in between. Anything more and it takes too much effort to maintain/takes away from your life. Anything less and there's not enough variety in sex and also losing abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:23 PM
16

If you can't get matches in NYC you're definitely not in the top 20% prob not even the top 50%
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:20 PM
1

So you're having sex 4-6 times a month with 7-9s and getting new ones every month. What's the issue.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:17 PM
5

Great if you want to bang women 3-4 points below your level (for some of yall that may be creatures not women).
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:26 AM
2

The average women (atleast in North America) is obese and can't do much to harm you unless you let them. What's there to be scared about. If anything a women that is about to hit the wall should be scared of what the future holds.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:22 AM
1

Text a plate for sex. I enjoy work and working out after so not like the rest of a day is a drag and I can't wait for it to be over.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:12 AM
1

Hard to fake abundance without high smv. Yeah i'm sure there are some who physcially don't have the highest smv and can sometimes express abundance but women see right through it most of the time.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:46 PM
1

I don't touch it before nighttime and only really use thc oil maybe 3-4 times a week usually after hard heavy workouts as it relaxes the body and allows me to eat more (I need the calories). I don't care what people say but anyone who smokes during day time is likely a lazy snob and doesn't have much going on.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:17 AM
3

When you're high smv, they all put out quickly. They knew if they don't give it up, you'll just find another.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:45 AM
2

They just don't bang trash off tinder etc.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:27 PM
2

Definitely not. Once a girl discovers all the options on a dating app, it ruins her. You can be the best option at the time but there will always be that seed in her mind of how easily she can jump to another. Certainly some exceptions but I wouldn't count on it.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:02 PM
5

If your gf was teaching yoga or something and her ex was in her class you wouldn't exactly be excited about it either.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:58 PM
1

Bang her if you really need to but "date"?? I don't care if she's a hot milf type. That's desperate asf
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:40 PM
3

1100 calories and 180g of protein (for a decent size one). Thats about 36g protein per dollar. Cheaper than most protein powders and it's real food.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:34 PM
5

My college secret was rotisserie chicken. Cheap (was about $5), convenient, real food and all protein. Pretty much how I able to maintain 260lbs of muscle while drinking/partying every weekend.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:44 AM
11

Yes, find a passion(s) and get really good at it. For me it's building my ultimate physique along with some business endeavors. Pussy and money will come and go.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:28 AM
5

Some great responses posted here but the fact of the matter is, if you were high smv she wouldn't say that. Wouldn't put much effort in this one. She bangs you again, great. She doesn't, next
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:26 AM
2

Well the majority of the 80% can still form relationships/get laid etc but chances are they'll be banging a few points below atleast. I would say everyones in the game but most just aren't getting what they want/their match.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:03 PM
2

They have the other 80% of guys smashing and dashing them with the bottom 40% or so even trying to date them.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:26 PM
1

Nope, do whatever it takes to maintain the deficit. No need to drop volume unless you're somehow in too large of a deficit. If a cut is substantial enough and you've been lifting properly for 2-3 years at least, your lifts will drop. Still your mindset should be keeping those numbers as high as possible, maybe even progressing on some movements that are newer to you.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:54 PM
2

Peoples scales are subjective. Personally I go off 5 being dead average and +/- 1 is a standard deviation less or more. eg. +3 standard deviations would be an 8 meaning she's better looking than 99.7% of girls. A 9 would be like better than 99.994. A 10 practically non existent or a 1 in a few million. It's a standardized yet effective rating system. Problem is comparing this scale to most guys perception, 5s would would be most guys 6s or 7s. Guys referring to banging 9s and 10s are either delu…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:23 PM
24

Any girl that has seen you in person and says this = fuck no If she says this via online dating etc then = be my orbiter
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:31 PM
2

Yeah bundy didn't have trustworthy face (which is good) but was very charismatic and knew how to manipulate. But it's crazy the amount of shit you can get away with high SMV. I use to think it was bs but the higher my SMV got the more I could push the boundaries. Had a ONS from a club late last year where I told her I was recently out of jail just to prove a point to my blue-pilled buddies.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:20 PM
1

#6 is debateable. Sure trust worthy from a safety standpoint aka that you don't look like you're gonna murder her (although some want that thrill) but more trustworthy faces are perceived as less attractive. ONS want that edge and thrill.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:39 PM
2

Congrats on avoiding a metoo. I would of done the same thing.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:57 PM
11

Congrats your stock just went up.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:53 PM
2

Tinder's all about the #metoo these days. Run by a bunch of sjws though the people at the top (executive level) couldn't give 2 shits. They're raking it in.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:18 PM
1

I don't know where you guys live but a girl that want's you straight over fast is either: a) atleast 3-4 points below you/10 b) crazy/has some kind of disorder c) a complete lazy whore
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:52 PM
1

No one here should aspire to be a true psychopath nor can you be one. It's cringe when people in the internet try to become one in hopes of getting laid... Many times a girl will call you a psychopath cause you don't fold over and do what she wants. eg. not addressing her "feelings" or being sensitive. Take it as a compliment cause she's not use to those type of men.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:13 PM
2

Get your smv up and learn how to not respond to these jabs directly. Jokes are fine within social circles but you can tell when someone has animosity towards you. They want you to respond to their jabs. Don't give them attention and let it affect you. This will eat them up inside. Eventually some of these people will break/snap and express their rage and look like idiots infront of everyone. You'll get better at this over time. The way you respond is huge. No matter what you stay calm and retain…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:49 PM
2

The marry comment is kinda too much but 1) shes a teen 2) she could of said it in a jokingly context. Either way if shes really a 8/10 blonde I would use snap to set up logistics/meet/smash but be careful could be a crazy. Make sure to wrap it up.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:41 PM
3

True but to an extent. I've banged tons off dating apps where snapchat is given or many times I suggest snap. It's great to show off smv if you got a good body and face. If you don't then it can backfire hard. If she's interested the convo through snap will be the same. If she's sending you generic snaps, next her. She's trying to make you an orbiter.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:08 PM
1

Heard the ratio of guys to girls is like 4-1 lol. Same rules apply though. Get in the top 10-20% and life won't be problem. If you're low smv/average I can imagine it being a nightmare.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 04:52 PM
3

Same story with you, last few months have been slow cause of the virus stuff but moving out of the city is also a huge disadvantage with both real life interactions and dating apps (they take distance into account) which I'm feeling the effects of too. It's a hump you'll get over but nothing wrong your're doing. Just gotta go for more real life interactions than apps.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:30 PM
1

That's cause they are use to blue-pilled guys that bend over. She's not use to someone that doesn't give into her needs and doesn't give her the constant validation she always gets. It's just so "other" that she comes to a far-fetched conclusion, in the case a psychopath.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:46 PM
1

You wrote a long post where you describe yourself listening to a random women's feelings who then compared you to a 17 year old. Don't be an emotional tampon next time. That alone I can tell your smv need's a lot of improving.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:38 PM
2

We both friendzoned eachother From your post is seems like she friendzoned you. Women don't care about "compatibility." That's code word for "is your smv high enough for me."
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:46 PM
2

but I can confidently say that my game is on point, and I get laid whenever I feel the need to, mostly with 6-7 girls Whats the issue then. Either you're delusional and your 6s or 7s are actually 3s or 4s or you expect 100% of the interactions in life to go well which is also delusional.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:31 PM
1

Everyone is so anti-social media here but's cause they fail to understand snapchat is a tool, and just that. Snap is interesting cause if you have SMV in terms of body/looks, it's a great tool to express high value but there's also a chance she want to turn you into a beta orbiter. Red flags are high volume of generic snaps/ vague/short messages followed by random snaps. You know everyone getting these snaps. If shes talking to you like she would on chat, nothing wrong with it. I've gotten laid …
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:55 PM
3

It's a wasteland these days. If you're anything below 7/10, you'll only have access to the fatty/ugly market. Remember you're competing against tons of blue-pilled "chads." SMV = strictly looks on tinder. Even for the goodlooking guy, they're gonna have to bang down atleast a few points. Most of the hot ones are there for validation/boost their social media.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:13 PM
2

Personally if it lasts long enough I might here and there but it's a slippery slope. It's hard to stop when you start and if you do it enough you will get caught.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:53 PM
1

I haven't been 160 since the 9th grade prob lol (But I'm also really tall). Unless somone's like 5'4", it's tiny.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:51 AM
1

And like you would know if a ONS didn't just bang another dude the same day or before... I'm sure she cleaned her vagina well before taking a licking too... Key words "dating for awhile" and exclusive. same concept of only banging one person.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:50 AM
1

Who cares. She told you that in attempt to up her value (associating with high status). I once went out with a girl claiming she banged a nba player. I told them they look lanky and need to eat more. Hour later we banged. She's talking/going out with you for a reason.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:08 PM
1

I get the feeling that most of your post is directed at online dating as it's the predominate way you go about meeting women? If so that's just how it is, it'a losing battle for guys and atm a super popular way to meet people. You will do much better in real life which can be tough with the current situation.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:03 PM
2

Yep keep increasing SMV and yeah don't hold anything back. She doesn't like it, next
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:57 PM
1

I've looked 30 ever since I was 18-19. Height and massive build with the combination of good facial hair coverage. Embrace it, it's a blessing more than it is a curse.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:43 PM
1

Wouldn't that give the room bad luck
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:41 PM
1

Yeah cause every normal single guy drives around a van...
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:39 PM
5

You think she makes chad wait 3-4 dates. There's your answer. In this case you're 3 dates deep. If 4th happens you need to escalate to the max.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:31 PM
35

160 at 6'1" is still stick mode. You should aim to be 170-180 shredded to lean or ~200 bulked up. Slowly bulk til you are 15-18% bf and see where you land weight wise. yeah it's a bit of sacrifice but you need more muscle. Then start your cut.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:09 PM
2

High count screams high value. She will wonder why so many girls have slept with this guy. Of course if you just tell her some high number out of your ass and your actions/SMV don't match then it can backfire.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:39 PM
3

Enjoy eating the remnant of some dudes load... Only in LTR would i ever consider it.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:52 PM
3

This. Social media is a tool. Exactly that no more no less. Don't live your life through social media but don't dismiss it for no reason. If you're high SMV allows you to express it.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:46 PM
3

Depends on context. Sometimes people will joke about working so much that they don't have a life. Or joking say they're social life is lacking currently etc. All context
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:44 PM
1

The mainstream media outlets will try to convince you it's okay having a dad bod. These are the same people that promote feminism and obesity. Enough said.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:57 PM
1

Bitches do it all the time, I just got catfished hard 2 days ago (7/10 to 4/10) She was so different that I wanted to leave immediately. Cut the "date" after 30 mins. Bottom line you didn't tell her height you have legit photos so not really catfishing.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:53 PM
2

5+ years ago it was great. I banged quite a few from there that were on my looks level maybe +/- a point. Last few years has been kinda hit or miss. Nowadays a wasteland for leftovers. Unless you're in some kind of hot spot, you're likely gonna have to bang atleast a few levels down at the minimum.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:01 PM
1

Yep that's cause girls peak much earlier. Combine that with the age of social media and you have validation galore. They don't need to put in any effort. Thats why dating apps are now a losing battle for guys. Though they do work, you have to accept banging a few levels down. Once you get closer to your late 20s and you are well put together, high SMV, it becomes easy mode. You still have to put yourself out there though.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:48 PM
1

They're reaching/at their peak at 20-21. A half decent looking 20-21 girl will get loads of attention from thirsty dudes and most likely have a large social circle. Plus thats college age which helps a ton. I had a huge social circle in college and now a few years later it's prob 1/4 of that size or smaller. Quality > Quantity now. Thinking you won't fit in their group because it's bigger/better is already accepting defeat. You don't need to fit in her group. If you're high enough SMV she will w…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:29 PM
6

1st world problems. Appreciate the good features you've been given. Many don't even have that.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:34 PM
1

Thats good, use this time to get jacked. You get 17/18" arms and people will start treating you differently when you're back in society. It's all up hill from here.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:29 PM
5

Only if you use loneliness to improve. Most lonely people lack motivation/are depressed. Don't over isolate yourself just because "loneliness enhances discipline." It's a slippery slope
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:54 PM
1

Part of being a chad is being blue-pilled. They don't know why they get a pussy. People around me think I'm a chad mostly cause of physical traits but not qualified cause of this first point. I came to this community through a google search of a situation I was. Somehow ended up on this subreddit and saw some stuff on here that I really related with.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:45 PM
1

A shit ton of running and cycling will interfere with gains. Not like 30-1hr, I'm talking like 2hrs+ Maybe not initially when you can still milk your noobie gains but later it will mainly cause you will need to eat more calories to compensate for burnt calories and faster metabolism. I get that your goal isn't to be super jacked but reality is natural lifters with average genetics won't be able to put on much muscle. Then once you cut down to 8-10%, a lot of the muscle you won't be able to hold …
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:37 PM
2

Yes clearly but that's cause I have a lot of muscle. The more muscle you have, the higher the bodyfat % for abs to still show. If you have 0 ab definition/fat there, you're not 12-13%. Even skinny fat people will show some definition at that bf. But yes most people need to be 8-10% bf for proper abs to show. I would not suggest you cut down to 10% bodyfat, you will look like a beanpoll at 6' You should be in a slight caloric surplus, hang around the 12-15% (even up to 18%) range and put on some …
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:35 AM
2

Prob cause you're not as good-looking as you think but also sometimes angles/lighting can distort face. Girls are also expecting you to be like a 8/10+ because they are over saturated by Instagram, snapshot models etc. Prob a combination of everything.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:32 PM
1

When it first happened I abandoned all plates and went all out isolated but last week or two I have started again cause life like this sucks especially since I don't have much to work on interms of improvement. Take calculated risks, find out a bit about her before meeting. get a feel for how seriously she is taking it etc..
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:19 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP18/06/20 06:48 PM
1

You got a ton going for you but the problem is you're expecting everything to come to you. You seem like you have a good social circle. Start going out and engage with more girls (a little tough with covid). Might also wanna bulk up a bit. When you're really tall (I'm the same height) being filled out is better than being ripped and small. If you can get to a point where you fill out a shirt pretty well at that height, you will get girls with ease/low effort. I'm talking from person experience. …
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:11 PM
4

There are many guys out there that have alpha/high SMV traits but are still blue pilled aka put pussy on a pedestal (majority do).
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:04 PM
1

Depends on the context. If it comes in convo and she jokingly says it, yeah could just be shes joking around. Don't bite and show insecurity. If she says it out of the blue, repeatedly 'jokes' about it, and/or you pick up she's trying to get a point across, that means she think's her SMV is above you. You could just be her monkey branch then.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 04:59 PM
2

You're still a threat to him. He's trying to keep an eye on you cause you're still his competition in his mind.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 04:45 PM
1

It's a different ball game then it was 5+ years ago. Back then I would have mutiple lined up every weekend resulting in 3-4 lays a month. Nowadays women use dating apps as validation dispensers as at any time there's a line up of guys way above them ready to fuck way down and even date down. She'll either give you number relatively fast, meet up within a few days. If she beats around the bush she's not interested in meeting/has got many other equal/better options than you she's talking with.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 04:17 PM
1

Nothing more cringe than people on the internet trying to adopt dark triad personality. You only hear about the good looking psychopaths getting pussy easily. Yes they are out there but in reality there are many (prob more) just rotting away in basements/jail having achieved nothing.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:34 PM
1

Agreed. I'd prioritize dumbbells though. Stuff like chest presses you can even do on the floor. Floor press is actually an awesome exercise.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:48 PM
1

Does it really though? There's so many variants out there that what you say seems possible maybe with 10 or more years of calisthenics experience, but I'm not exactly sure what do those olympics gymnastics think. From what I know the toughest excersices are truly elite to achieve (1-legged squat, hand-standing pushups, spiderman pullup, 1 hand pushup and more). I'm talking about more conventional bodyweight exercises. While some movements are very difficult, they're still hard to progressively o…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:33 PM
3

Depends on your goals. Calisthenics are good enough to get a decent physique and depending on your genetics maybe even a great physique. But you need weights to put on serious muscle. Bodyweight alone will very soon be not enough stimulus to push growth. You can only progressively overload so much with bodyweight stuff. Eventually it becomes cardio/endurance based training. If you don't have time/money to go to the gym, atleast get some adjustable dumbbells at the minimum. Even better would be a…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:12 PM
1

Well you have every right to be. It's on the far end of whats achievable without anabolics.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:03 PM
1

I'd rather not. But 6'5" 255 12-13%bf. Been powerlifting/bodybuilding for 10+ year now though.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:50 PM
1

You did break frame but better than taking her shit all the time like a pushover. Best option would of been to not give a fuck about her opinions of your work and calmly and assertively express through words/actions that her opinion is worthless and doesn't matter. That's how you get to these cunts.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:50 PM
1

True for the most part but there are natural genetic outliers out there. I know cause I'm one of them.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:45 PM
1

When I was 18 I use to lie about age but I mean I was a massive 6'5" 18 year old with facial hair so got away with it lol. Don't look young If you're gonna lie about age be confident about it. No hesitation like it's just another question.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:09 PM
2

Showing you don't have a big social circle is a turn off. Over texting a girl acting like your life revolves around her is example of this. Even with a small social circle, a girl doesn't have to know. It's something that's easy to hide and fake til you make. Yeah if you're dating her she might find out eventually but who cares by that time you'd have banged her multiple times.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:46 PM
2

I swear post titles are getting cringier and cringier...
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:44 PM
1

Tinder's a wasteland full of these types today. Most expect and will go as far as demanding validation and they can get away with it cause if you don't give it, the next good-looking dude in line will. Make everything happen within a week if not a day or 2.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 09:46 PM
1

beggars can't be choosers. start somewhere
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:29 PM
1

Higher the SMV, the better the chance see makes an exception to the rule.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:55 PM
1

Cause I speak from experience and not from reading endless guides/books... Using certain trp lingo doesn't make it more right.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:17 PM
3

If you're "covering topics" and going through a checklist in your head you're doing it wrong. Dates like that lack sexual escalation. You start somewhere and build on it let it flow naturally. You get better at it the more you go on dates.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:48 PM
1

All the time, I'll know within 30 sec if I want to bang her (funny this is how most girls work too). This will determine how great the "date" is. If she's on the edge, alcohol will help but try to not let it influence your bang or not decision as almost always you'll regret it later.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:42 PM
1

Most experts agree the best thing to do in knife fight is avoid if not run. They almost never end well. Yeah you're bigger and prob could of overwhelmed him and maybe could of even avoided his knife but the potential for serious damage to your body is too great. Lets say even if it's a 25% chance he stabs you before you immobilize him, that 25% could be life threatening.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:08 PM
3

Most are alcoholics/drug users with a variety of issues. Some hide issues better than other but deep inside most/if not all have them.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 04:43 PM
1

Use it as a tool to get laid aka express SMV assuming yours is high. eg. snapchat of dating apps to show SMV (lean body good face etc). Don't use to compliment/validate women.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:48 PM
1

You shouldn't have to tell others anyways. People can tell when a guy gets laid a lot
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:25 PM
2

2 of my now best friends I have met while going out with my then beta friends/associates who were exactly like the friends you described. Since then I've drifted away with those friends naturally while these other guys love gaming girls and lifting so we get along fine. If you keep engaging in activities involving your hobbies, you'll meet similar minded people.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:02 PM
1

Given SMV ~equal and you wanna keep her, you gotta do the same around other women (be semi flirty/abundance attitude) and keep your calm. Just watch her attitude slowly change. She calls you out, you call her out. Confronting her will make you appear like the jealous one.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:01 PM
1

"tall but wide with masculine features" Sure it may not be muscular but it get more attraction from gay guys vs a guy with a small frame and some muscle.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 11:23 PM
1

As a tall muscular guy that's pretty common. Not a bad thing unless you're getting attraction from gay guys cause of the way you're acting/gay mannerisms.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:04 PM
3

Time and place but yes for summer casual wear they are very acceptable. Just don't be that guy who wears tanks 2 sizes too small and walks around with invisible lat syndrome. Wear them like you would wear a shirt, don't think too much into it.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:56 PM
1

Same goes for instragram. You need SMV in terms of looks for it to work and with instragm you really established profile with lots of followers etc... If you have the looks/body with snap you can simply just send a nice face pic or body pic to show in real time value. Especially for online dating this is huge.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:32 AM
2

Prime example of overthinking everything. You feel like it, go fuck her. You don't, then don't. Once you have an abundance mindset, it won't matter how often you hangout with her.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:17 PM
3

Lol at the virgins saying "delete snap." It's actually a good tool to show high value if you're in good shape/are decent looking. If you aren't, you got other problems to fix. It's just that, a tool. Don't be obsessed with it, no need to delete it either.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:06 PM
11

These apps are full of simps that will cave into their liberal/sj views in the slight hope of getting laid. They don't need to put up with the guy with self-respect. More than enough simps/validation to go around.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:17 PM
2

If anything it does the opposite. You pay to bang up (in most cases) instead of banging girls/whales below your level which makes them think they are worth more than they are which is feeding hypergamy.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:09 PM
1

Usually a sign that she thinks you're high value/get a lot of action. Play it of casually. She'll still bang you.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:15 PM
1

The amount of women (and how open they are) has gone way up because most people are not meeting anyone right now. Way less guys are trying to get these women to meet aka putting in less effort while bitches still need validation.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:09 PM
1

The fact she called you a faggot means she didn't have any respect for you to begin with. Could of escalated sexually but who cares, not a big loss
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:02 PM
1

Yeah with those stats you're not curling 135 for proper reps with good form.... 1 or 2 rep max curls ain't building arms. You need volume with good contraction to hit the muscle rather than targeting joints/ligaments.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:57 PM
1

I'll have to look that up but yeah you could be a good looking guy but if you get rejected by lets say a 7, even the 5s and 6s will wonder whats wrong with you many times turning them off.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 12:47 AM
2

Yeah, I mean you don't wanna start from complete trash (like 3/10 whales) but if you're SMV not that high and you are succeeding with 5 and 6s, definitely works in your favor when going for 7+. Better than getting shot down by 7s then possibly losing the 5s and 6s too.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 11:16 PM
5

Girls love it when you talk to multiple (successfully), they see you as desirable .....unless you're getting shot down left and right. Don't be that guy, increase SMV
/r/askTRP25/03/20 10:33 PM
1

Always bar. A bit of alcohol and better atmosphere = better chance of getting laid. Never offer to get dinner or even appies. Keep it around $20. If you're not willing to even spend that much just go for a walk with her or something (aka free activity).
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:51 PM
1

I don't think so but hard to know without full context. For example I have a plate I've been banging for 7-8 months now she does this sometimes when I try to escalate for sex too early when meeting up. I mean I get it when I want but she does resist a little so she doesn't feel like a whore that fucks right away.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:05 AM
1

If u wanna take it that far, then what if she fucks u with consent and makes up a story about not giving consent the next day. Like with anything it's a calculated risk
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:44 PM
0

He's been fucking her for a while. Would be different first time or 2. Did u forget to read title...
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:14 PM
0

Some girls do that so they feel they aren't "easy" or atleast in their mind feel like they are making a guy "work for it." Lol at all the virgins here being like "call her on her bullshit" if shes still letting u in after an attempt or 2 who cares.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:57 PM
1

Meh intermediate lifters won't be recomping unless they have taken significant time off or have been training like shit/very light and sub-maximally (in which case I wouldn't call them intermediate). But yeah huge bulking/cutting cycles aren't necessary.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:14 PM
2

I use to have this issue 12-17 just like you. Made it more apparent cause my chest was never a great body part for me muscle wise. Mine almost entirely went away when I cut down to 8-10% bf but I was too small for my liking so took the other approach of doing a lot of incline work and getting my chest massive to mask it. Now even when bulking at 15-18% bf being much bigger it's not noticeable. yeah for severe cases of gyno you will require surgery.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:49 PM
25

Are you looking to get coronavirus
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:42 PM
2

Yep the more muscle you have, the higher bf% you can get away with. D is quite muscular especially if he's natural, prob close to his natural limit of muscle mass.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 07:16 PM
3

D is still very muscular and prob bigger than C and maybe even B. He just has a bit higher bf and a stockier build. In a t shirt he would look good.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 07:04 PM
1

I agree it is not but you should definetly not just be sticking to partial ROM for any bodypart. I personally get a much better pump for a few bicep exercises like preacher curls where I can really lengthen the biceps at the bottom but sometimes during regular curls I will do partials to get as much blood in there as possible.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 02:10 AM
2

I guess I fit in that category aswell veing 6'5". I've built 18.5" arms (low teen bf%) naturally and despite benching 365x2 my chest doesn't have that full round look. Definitely improved it over the years but I'd prob need roids to achieve that look and even then it will always lag. And /u/BrabusS63 pretty much answered your question. The lower your bicep attaches (closer to the elbow) theoretically the more potential for muscle growth due to it being a larger muscle. That being said longer bic…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 02:03 AM
1

Yep, basically he's getting a ton of volume for that left arm.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 07:54 PM
2

But you can improve them, see edits above.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 07:49 PM
10

Yep every body part is to a degree. Many people with big arms including myself often have a lagging chest. Depends a lot on your biceps/triceps insertions too. People with longer insertion will have more muscle growth potential and illusion of bigger fuller arms. Best advice would be try to throw more volume in for arms and don't just go through basic arm movements as you would with compound exercises like bench press. You really need to focus on isolating and feeling it in the muscle belly not …
/r/askTRP27/01/20 07:43 PM
1

13-14% which is decently lean but you still lack muscle mass. 5-10lbs of muscle an you'll look noticeably leaner and better even at that percentage.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:48 PM
1

Anyone can get single digit bodyfat but not everyone will look good at single digit. Some people can get there far easier as their bodies naturally tend to stay lean. But as an endo-meso myself, I can tell you I look much better at 12% than 8%. For me I lose a lot of muscle droping those last percentages. After over a decade of lifting hard I can tell you I never wanna be single digit again without taking gear. Not worth the insane muscle loss. So yes genetics is huge
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:40 PM
1

Or do a mix of both with intensity and progressively overloading.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 07:16 PM
2

That's life on the apps. Tall lean body and 7+ face are all just baseline requirements now. Many guys have figured this out and focus on real life game now but they also keep the apps cause it requires little effort thus the whales maintain these blown up expectations... Stick to real life and keep these a few of these apps if you need to. But don't let them consume you.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:15 PM
1

Everyone different, Depends on bodyfat distribution and muscle mass, some people hold it better. In general 18-20% is the edge of whats doable for people with a decent amount of muscle mass otherwise you'll look skinny fat. I personally look the best at 12-15%. 8-10% I look too dried up cause of the height. Going past 20% is retarded if you even slightly care about looks.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:27 PM
1

Wow is it different from using it 4-5 years ago where as a good looking guy you could just invite them over. Just recently back on and lets just say at 6'5" 240lbs 12ish% bf with a good face they rarely message first and if they do it's usually the 4-5/10s and like "hey." 8-9/10s just want you to add them on Instagram. Any of the ones in between take tons of effort/luck to meet assuming you're a good looking guy.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:41 PM
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