Where did I go wrong (tinder texting)

BlocknGhost · 2020-09-21T02:33:11+00:00

Sounds like you did fine. Online dating girls are always 10x flakier before a first meetup, don’t take it personal. Next and hit up other girls, maybe she’ll come back around but I wouldn’t think twice about it.

IAmNotMrRager · 2020-09-21T03:22:48+00:00

Looks like she still had some flakes in her hair lol you are fine bro

gotmilo11 · 2020-09-21T04:30:37+00:00

From what I have learned.. you didn't lead.. I'm not a pro at this, but I would have said "I'm free at 8 pm what's your address, I hope you like wine". Once again I am not a pro.

hellionmma · 2020-09-21T04:17:11+00:00

Nothing majorly wrong.

Last text lead instead of asking her, especially given she bought into you by telling you she just cleaned her hair.

“Perfect, I’ll bring a bottle of wine around 7” or whatever you want works.

RisingTigre · 2020-09-21T05:05:31+00:00

It’s all a numbers game. But you don’t “ask” women if they want to hang out. You tell them.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-09-21T14:29:42+00:00

You went from looking like a "alpha" to asking her to lead, you lost congruency. Better text would have been "Wyd tonight?" or "U free tomorrow evening?"

Also, these situations can be cold feet for the girl because even though she may be attracted and she may have tingles, there is little to no comfort and her logical brain can often talk them out of it.

Ping her in a few days and try once more. Game other women in the meantime.

DomoSmoove · 2020-09-21T05:02:07+00:00

Am i the only one that would've called? Whats the point of getting her number if youre just gonna text when you could've just kept texting in the tinder chat

IXseed · 2020-09-21T12:40:30+00:00

You could of been more pushing to set up the date but outside of that you're fine.

catz123456 · 2020-09-21T17:32:42+00:00

"I mean maybe"

That was a sign of low interest or just there for attention. I wouldn't of even replied after that.

Title	Where did I go wrong (tinder texting)
Author	NFGrub
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	September 21, 2020 2:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/iwrrl6/where_did_i_go_wrong_tinder_texting/
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