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Hahaha good one. Hiring a young female maid would be a hilarious dread game solution to this if she doesn't start pitching in herself
/r/askMRP16/01/25 07:32 PM
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Stop doing woman's work lol. Just full-stop. Let her pitch in.
/r/askMRP16/01/25 07:31 PM
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Your marriage is done. You're going to have to divorce and move on. It's easier said than done, but a simple solution. You'll need to accept that.
/r/askMRP14/09/24 06:38 AM
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And the best reason- you can go to Latin America and enjoy better women!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/24 05:43 PM
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Short term: drinks only for happy hour, coffee date, ice cream, bottle of wine with walk on beach/in a park, hiking, play tennis at public courts, etc etc. Long term: Move abroad to a cheaper country and live there. Also, increase income.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/24 03:34 AM
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Sounds like you've been fucking up for a while. Why are you the one doing all the cooking? She should being doing most or all of it. You need to be on your grind and read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP25/03/24 03:32 AM
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The anger and passionate sex does nothing to actually help you. What she's doing isn't a shit test- this is straight up disrespect. Personally, I'd probably break up with her over it or give her one serious "I find this disrespectful. A girlfriend of mine doesn't wear a hoodie with another guys name on it." and if she doesn't correct herself and stop, then dump her. Even if you keep her, that's a big strike against her. The real problem is she is WANTS to wear this hoodie and she didn't listen t…
/r/askMRP22/03/24 05:04 PM
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Exactly. Tell them to keep thinking the same, more non western girls for guys with the right mindset.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 03:45 AM
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If your wife even WANTS/SERIOUSLY CONSIDERS an open relationship, your marriage is done. Also, you need to lose weight.
/r/askMRP28/12/22 08:23 PM
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Well said. The US dating culture is beyond repair, marriage is basically putting your balls in her purse. Womens nature still exists but there's better places out there.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 01:43 AM
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Personal social media is good but only if you're in the top 5% or so. If you're not, sure, have a profile but it's basically gonna be a waste of time in terms of girls until you get into the top 5%. IG is basically the best dating app out there if you have 20-30k plus followers, you're at least good looking, have something to DHV(good physique, money, lifestyle, living abroad, etc) and ideally you have a blue check mark. Otherwise, you can source some girls once in a while, sure but overall it's…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 01:35 AM
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This is gold.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:59 AM
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If you're really tripped out about it, say "lets get a test together just so we can confirm we are both clean. I think we are but lets be sure."
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:59 AM
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Not reading all that but you need to be friendly with the group, run standard but slightly more indirect game to the girl you want(she's in front of her friends so dial it back a notch or two), get the number and get out. If it's a bar or club, try to isolate her after a minute or two "hey l wanna show you something." grab her hand. If you can't isolate due to cockblocks or "I can't leave my friends" and can't get past it, get her # quickly and move on. If her interest is decent, usually she wil…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:57 AM
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Dump her. Funny story relating to this: I matched with a legit 8.5 or 9 on tinder a while back, didnt go anywhere despite getting her number. Im leaving the elevator in my building with a girl and this hot girl is with her bf going into the elevator. I do a double take and she looks back at me. Next day, I get a text. Its the same girl. I have her and her bf and a plate of mine over to my place as we're neighbors and we all kick it. She's touching me in front of her bf and tells me "dont tell my…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:48 AM
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The hotter the girl, the more options which makes her tougher to get online(match with, have a legit back and forth, number close, get out on a date). The solution is to meet these hot girls during the day and to make your online profile as maxed out as possible.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:42 AM
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No. How would that benefit you?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:38 AM
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Very common sign of a time waster- be careful as tons of inexperienced guys get caught up with girls like this. Most likely her interest is low or low-medium. Doesn't really matter. Push it once and say "So, monday?" and ignore her previous comment until she answers the invite she ignored or just reply super short and see if she comes back around. Sometimes I'll push it, sometimes I'll leave her on read and move on.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:37 AM
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You answered your own question. They make exceptions when they like you enough.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:32 AM
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Find your talents and what you enjoy. Try to combine both, but err towards what your talent is. Learn a skill. Invest into it. Learn first. Then do some free work or build a portfolio or work a job in the field while doing some freelancing on the side. Transition to paid clients after you get a few portfolio examples or if doing the other route, once you can afford to quit the job then go all in and make the side work your main gig.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:29 AM
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If you're sure you need the space away from her to able to grow, wait until a few days after her bday and just tell her what you said her minus all the shit about depression.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:28 AM
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Usually its best to meet 1, maybe 2 times as week tops. Initiate contact to setup a meetup. Usually they'll initiate after 1-3 times you've fucked them and sometimes you'll get a girl who doesn't initiate but always comes through and plays her position well. If you are cool with the latter never hitting you up first, proceed.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:26 AM
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Best is to be very non-judgemental. Also, you'll get a read on her by her dress, the types of friends she has(party girls or more chill, etc), as you get more experience with women, etc. If you really wanna bring it up phrase it in a very non-judgemental, calm manner. Good chance it's double what she says.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:17 AM
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End of day, she's either willing to cheat or not. But you have to legit make your move if you want to find out. Go for it next time.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:14 AM
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Stop seeing her so much and see other girls. Your feels will subside. If you do this suddenly she'll know what's up so do it more gradually if you want to keep her as FWB.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:11 AM
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You should have asked for her number long ago and made your move. You were obviously just bullshitting with her, she was probably just shy. If you want try now with her, I'd say go indirect with this girl and get the digits and setup some plans. Go game new women in the meantime and don't focus too much effort into any one lead.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:07 AM
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She is getting some ASD, maybe its lower interest. Start with a quick hike or walk in a park and escalate after. "Yea we can also go walk in a cool park I know". For future, gets your logistics down and either invite girls straight over or meet for drinks walking distance to your place.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:05 AM
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First off, your girlfriend doesn't respect you since this is an ongoing problem. Based on your post, I'm assuming she's not correcting her behavior and keeps acting up. First time or two is a warning, next up is a short withdrawal of attention, then a longer one. If it happens again and becomes an ongoing issue, you'll have to hard next.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:01 AM
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LDR? Long distance or relationship. Pick one. Also, you not being interested anymore- stop leading her on, just break up.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:58 AM
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Ideal is a girl sitting on a bench by herself in daylight. But the situation won't always be ideal
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:57 AM
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It's not an ideal setup but can definitely be done. Put more effort into the girl you want but be nice to move and acknowledge the friend too.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:36 AM
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Never been but have friends who live there. It's pretty tough and social circle oriented. Quality is good and 2 date model will probably work best.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:33 AM
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Girls love sensing your passions, they can feel your true energy and enjoyment for it. Just don't make them bored by going on and on.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:24 AM
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During a soft next, you don't answer shit. That said, give it 2 or 3 days and hit her up. If she doesn't set a date and follow through, hard next.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:22 AM
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Tell them you would prefer to be friends and ask if they are willing to do that. Either way, slowly fade out.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:20 AM
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Move on. Her interest isn't that high and/or your game and escalation needs some work. You shouldn't need more than 2 dates unless you're in Russia or Ukraine.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:19 AM
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Stop feeling guilt or weird for wanting to do your manly deed to a woman. The whole nerves thing goes away with experience but in the meantime listen to some comedy, have a beer or two and chill for a bit before the date. Edit: Don't let the alcohol become a crutch.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:17 AM
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"I'd prefer a 1 on 1 romantic date ;)" then depending on her reply "Sunday after 4pm Im free. You?"
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:15 AM
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Pursue. If she brings it up after agreeing to meet say "We're just having a drink/ice cream/whatever ;)" but best to find new leads anyway.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:13 AM
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You fucked it up by raising her ASD with your ear whisper then triggered her ego(whether a valid point on yours or not). You literally talked yourself out of the pussy. Next time just don't say shit like that. You even could have saved it by saying "that's part of everything" or "lets see how the energy flows" and go from there.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:11 AM
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Dump her. Its done.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:59 AM
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Shes being entitled. Boo hoo you didnt reply for 30mins a few times. Leave the dumb bullshit question on read. Chat again in a couple days or so.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:58 AM
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You aren't exclusive and these dating app girls are whores man. Dont trip about it. She would have to delete the app on her own and pass other vetting to be LTR worthy, yellow flag you met from online.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:56 AM
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The medium is the message. 1st date flake with no offer to reschedule. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:54 AM
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Dont compare one situation of yours to one situation of your friend. Too small of a sample. This could be a legit concern, something you did to lower her attraction or just lack of chemistry. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:53 AM
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Just dont contact her anymore. Multiple flakes and shes backing off. Just move on.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:47 AM
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3 dates and getting BJs but no sex? Are you in Ukraine or Russia? Move on and find other women who value you.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:46 AM
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Top down selfie angle, sitting on edge of bed mirror selfie to make hips and legs look curvier and stomach smaller, wearing black, hair covering fat cheeks, etc. Also, look at her fingers. If her fingers are fat, shes fat. Also, look at her ankle size if you can. Big puffy ankles, fat genetics. Skinny ankles, skinnier genetics.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:44 AM
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Move on and get more leads. If she comes back, setup a date.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:42 AM
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Assuming its nothing too bad or major or too long, it could be her cycle. Overall, listen to your gut.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:41 AM
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Have a purpose other than women and fuck a ton of women(yes, you can do both) and truly experience the abundance- you can't fake it anymore.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:39 AM
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Dont get all sexual until you've fucked her. Maybe ping her once or twice and have a couple back and forths. Post a few whatsapp/IG stories.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:37 AM
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Nope. Dump her. Also, she thinks she is doing nothing wrong and that she is doing you a favor by not talking to him anymore.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:32 AM
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Experience helped me the most. Any eye contact that is longer than normal from a chick that isn't some obvious thing(ie- not wearing a mask) can be an IOI.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:31 AM
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Short, replies then if it becomes annoying and she keeps on bombarding you just say "cool blah blah. Gotta get back to work"
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:29 AM
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1st girl: high value IG/whatsapp stories. Maybe ping her once or twice during the 2 weeks and have a couple back and forths. 2nd girl: Best to move on to better leads. But if you wanna push it "Funny I was thinking that about u...We'll have to find out over drinks."
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:28 AM
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Dont let some dumb rule confine you. Not everything is black and white.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:26 AM
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Just invite them straight over. The best screen. If your local dating market makes that tough to get away with, just get drinks close to your place and keep a subtly flirty tone without being too over the top about it.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:25 AM
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Doesn't sound too bad to be honest for the US- maybe a slight improvement at what you said. Online is a huge numbers game- good pics and volume are your best friends.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 04:09 PM
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Translation "I wish you were more emotionally invested in me and wrapped around my finger that I could control you emotions." You're doing good.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:48 AM
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Italki and a trip to Latin America.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:44 AM
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Usually its either true or a lack of interest. An actually interested girl won't say that. I would just move on but if you wanna push it say "And he doesn't allow you to talk to people/have guy friends?"
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:43 AM
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She literally told you "I'm not interested enough to give you my number and I won't respond because I know you're trying to take it to the next level and meetup soon." Move on and deal with new pussies.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:41 AM
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You mean your ex-LTR? Ftfy.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:39 AM
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You answered your own question. Also, they don't want a confrontation and I'm sure some want to keep the door open.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:36 AM
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If she didn't disrespect you, you can handle her fucking other guys, you're fucking other girls and yo have some experience with women, go for it. Otherwise, move on.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:34 AM
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Tell us some exact numbers. How many matches per day and how many dates and lays a month are you getting? Could be a bad city for Tinder, could be your photos aren't as good as you think, could be your text game is way too fast or sexual, could be the extreme opposite with boring dry texts. You gotta provide some examples.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:33 AM
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You def pushed it a bit. Just soft next, maybe give her 1 pass for being a solid plate.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:04 AM
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Sounds like a bunch of mental masturbation. Just have top tier photos that are good quality, BS a little, get their number within 5-7 back and forths and ask them out quickly over text. Setup multiple dates each day to prevent flakes and confirm the morning of with each girl.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:02 AM
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Dont need to read all that. If she wants a break its over.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:58 AM
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It's a bad logistical setup to meet her with her friends. Let her get back to you when shes finished and then you guys can go out 1 on 1. In the meantime, go do something else and enjoy the evening.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:57 AM
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This is retarded. What are you, the CIA? Stop mategusrding. That whole bullshit comes from a place of scarcity.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:55 AM
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You're investment is too high and you dont have enough other options. Also, realize the worst thing that happens is she cheats, its sucks for a while and the pain it causes goes away. Accept that it may happen and enjoy the relationship.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:54 AM
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If you're not getting to sex or damn close after 2 dates she isn't feeling it.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:39 PM
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Big time. Location is a huge factor lots of guys on here ignore or don't know. Of course you have to work on yourself but once you are, you will still do better in some places than others. It comes down to a few factors: your relative SMV to the local guys where you are, the size of the city, the culture and how conservative the people in a certain city are, economics, etc. It can mean the difference from fucking 2 women a month to fucking 10-20 women a month.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:37 PM
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One by itself doesn't always mean she's easy but some that come to mind: Tattoos, large hoop earrings(the bigger the hoop the bigger the hoe), on Tinder, shows lots of skin in photos, down to meet directly at your place, etc.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:32 PM
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Hahahaha you're not sexually attracted to her and calling her a plate? Sounds like you're orbiting.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:28 PM
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It's probably okay, but tell her to meet you at XYZ location if you're tripped up and have a weird feeling about it
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:26 PM
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One of the biggest cockblocks out there is living with your parents. Solve that and you'll get laid more. In the meantime, do what you can- hotel, in a car, at a park, at her place, etc.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:24 PM
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Not exclusive? She can do what she wants. She just needs to be respectful about it and not start bringing it up or come over right after fucking him.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:21 PM
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Not a foreigner but I now live in Latin America since leaving the USA. In the US, women are more entitled, are more feministic and most have adopted far left politics. You generally have to put on a fake, witty, borderline arrogant front to have success. It's definitely possible to get laid in US but the juice isn't worth the squeeze almost every time.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:20 PM
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A low interest time waster. Could have been something you did but if this usually doesn't happen to you, it was her. I would of escalated before the surfing and dipped when she wouldn't let me touch or kiss. Don't do surfing dates- you shot your own foot off before the date even started. Keep it to drinks/coffee walking distance to your place.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:16 PM
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Pay 150 pounds or whatever it costs over and get some professional photos done. One of the best decisions you'll make dating wise.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:12 PM
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A short essay about how to get this one girl from your past you haven't even fucked...
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:11 PM
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Just text her who cares. You're fucking other women anyway, right?
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:10 PM
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Unless you're going out with her it's fair game.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:55 PM
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You're DEERing and chasing. You also shouldn't have invited her straight over after that. Why would you reward her with an invite that quickly? Should have said "Yea wasnt cool. Thanks for the apology." or similar and let her chase a bit/feel a little dread because you should genuinely want to put your energy elsewhere for a while depending on how bad the situation was. For now, all you can do is pullback. If it breaks it breaks. If she comes back, cool. Also, seeing her again or not depends on …
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:52 PM
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If you set things up from the jump properly by not being all boyfriendy with her and she has an idea of your lifestyle- it usually won't be a problem as long as you don't rub it in her face. Although some girls will get pissy and you'll lose some from it.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:41 PM
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Yep a bit. Water retention. Drink more water. Most of it is unavoidable though. A couple weeks after coming off you'll notice your face will lean out again.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:40 PM
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In more conservative places where most girls wont fuck on the first date, its good to do a 2 date model. Quick drinks or coffee 1hr tops with a kiss and go for the lay at the end of the 2nd date. Never been my style to not push for it though.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:39 PM
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I see your point and its true but I dunno I have plenty of options, dates and lays from Tinder here in Latam. Social media and dating apps have fucked the game for sure by leveraging male thirst in their favor, but if you have a top profile in a good sized city you'll still do fine. Remember, most of the competition on Tinder is an absolute joke. I went through a plates Tinder with her and I was laughing at the terrible photos and text game guys have. Only 1 in 10-20 profiles are decent.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 09:36 PM
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No, it's not on. She's not gonna show. Next time say "Cool. 7pm good?" as it forces a reply and no reply is even more clear its not happening.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:14 AM
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"Start w drinks. See you then." Next time don't say dumb stuff like this that raises her ASD before even getting her on a date.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:11 AM
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It's important to mention your region as location/culture has a lot to do with it. I am from and have lived in California, just moved away from Mexico City to a Mexican beach town. In California, getting dates setup was difficult but once set the flake rates weren't too bad. In Mexico City, 60-70% of dates flake. In the mexican beach town I am in, about 30% of dates flake. My player friends(some of whom have notch counts well over 100) notice the same numbers in Latin America. Social media and d…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:08 AM
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One way to find out...
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:44 PM
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Take the L and game new women.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:34 PM
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Did you kiss? Fuck? Did you try to fuck?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:33 PM
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You sperged out and she BS'd you in response. If she actually was interested she would have mentioned a reschedule or texted you in the meantime. Go out and get more women and control your emotions better when a woman doesn't reciprocate.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:27 PM
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Only mention boundaries you're willing to enforce. Personally, on major boundaries I don't even mention them as if they cross the line I'm not willing to deal with them anyways. You showed a bit too much emotion but in this case its probably not too big of a deal.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:22 PM
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Get better photos to get better results online, you can still do daygame, etc. Unless where you are is in total lockdown, I don't see what the problem is.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:19 PM
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6 paragraphs about a girl you haven't even fucked. She'll most likely flake on the 3rd date, regardless, things haven't been sexual after 2 dates- move on.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:18 PM
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BS excuse due to lack of interest. Find new women.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:15 PM
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I'd go to a park before planet fitness. Stay at your current gym.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:13 PM
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Even though there's a couple good takeaways like asking a couple open ended questions and making some assumptions, this is mostly a waste of time. A woman either wants to fuck you or she doesn't. Your work is done in set or with photos in your bio. That text example of "Listen to come x bar. If not, I'll make other plans." is triggering her pride too much and won't work. You're being too overt with your attempted OI. Here's what I do[post set or once I get number from online]: Opener > ask a bas…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 09:59 PM
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Mental block you have. It's in your head. Doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:23 PM
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They shit too. Also, they were born with good genes, what have they actually done themselves? They don't need to do anything usually but it proves the point.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:19 PM
1

Fuck? Text her next day "I had a good time last night. Let's do it again sometime". No fuck? Wait 3-5 days and ask her out again. If she doesn't put out after 2-3 dates, next.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:45 PM
3

Fuck in a riskier place, take a weekend trip, do some role play, try the jacuzzi idea you have, etc.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:44 PM
6

Ignore and move on. Rejected kiss twice and multiple dates. She's just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:42 PM
1

pwf?
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:23 PM
8

Any woman who accepts direct cash for sex is a whore. No matter what she calls herself "camgirl" "sugar baby" doesnt matter. As long as you know and accept your choice to pay a whore, fine. It's not game though.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:27 PM
1

It's not a big hurdle. Hire a good portrait photographer, bring 2 or 3 outfits(suit and casual everyday clothing) and go to a beach, landmark, urban setting, etc. and pay for 6-10 finished photos. You'll get to choose from 50 or more shots. It will cost $200-300 in the US but think of being able to have top tier online dating photos that will last you a year or so. Definitely worth it. Use the best 3 photos or so for your tinder and online apps. Also, add in one or two good social photos of you …
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:37 PM
-1

I'll share via whatsapp. Send me ur contact
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:16 PM
-1

Me. Serious. I've fucked 9 girls in the past 7-8 weeks off Tinder alone. What's helped me: 7-8/10 looks, professional photographs, a clear and quick game strategy(only 5-10% of it), and living in an easier city for Tinder(I live in Mexico, not some place like Provo Utah or Asheville North Carolina where it would be tougher).
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:56 PM
2

Stop the sour grapes and be proactive. Be on purpose, lift, work on style and hygiene, get professional photos and download Tinder and Bumble or Hinge, do 20+ cold approaches per week and do some nightgame if you want. Do this consistently and you'll be fine. Then you can also change location to a better dating market.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:25 PM
1

Depending on the city I'm in, I usually fuck between 4-10 girls a month and don't really do much nightgame, so it's entirely possible. I know guys who fuck like crazy without nightgame. I know a guy who exclusively does daygame and it works well for him. 20+ daygame approaches a week and get professional photography done for your online profiles. Be consistent and put in the work.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:30 PM
6

"Cool, 7pm good?" Then maybe you send a ping or something brief once before then, maybe not. Definitely confirm the date the day of.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:22 PM
3

There ya go. Now go do 100 approaches, get some solid photos and use online dating and read the DiCarlo escalation ladder. Give it some experience, put in the work and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:58 PM
1

You're either really low SMV and terrible social skills or you aren't putting in enough work with talking to women. Work on that.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:31 PM
9

If you're exclusive you shouldn't be seeing other girls.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:27 PM
1

So if he had a girl over he fucked and he went to sleep and I took her in the other room and fucked her without asking him or mentioning it, you think him getting pissed about it is unreasonable? Where is the line drawn? If its a main FWB or similar, does the same shit apply?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:24 PM
1

Put her on ice for a few days because of the drama. Re-engage like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:46 AM
1

Ask her out again in 4 or 5 days. 2nd date at hotel bar. Or very close to a hotel. If you think she has high ASD keep it to going for the close in your car.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:43 AM
3

Find women who dont do this bullshit. Most women can play some jealousy stuff to a small extent, but if it becomes a problem like it is here get other chicks.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:41 AM
3

That can work but it will work a lot less. It's simply better game and odds to take the lead. You arent in scarcity here just because you want to increase your odds.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:34 AM
2

Let her reply. If she doesnt get back, maybe in 4 or 5 days you try one more time.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:31 AM
2

Could be anything you mentioned. I'd get a nice hotel room, pop a viagra to get over the hump and you should be fine.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:29 AM
15

Sounds like a good plate, not LTR. Negatives/red flags outweigh the positives.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:27 AM
5

When you run through enough quantity you start to get more selective. Sounds like it's time to slow down and focus more on quality and girls you actually have a connection with.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:15 AM
3

I always go for a first date in public first. Not only will you lose tons of willing girls by raising ASD and security concerns but you want to vet the chicks in person first a bit too.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:11 AM
1

PM me your profile if you like and I'll help u out.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:08 AM
-2

Fuck the plate. It's a respect thing from my "bro".
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:02 AM
1

You're right. Online dating, especially Tinder is a cesspool if you want quality girls. 95% arent LTR worthy. They can make for good plates and you can find a few diamonds in the rough though. Best place for better quality girls are daygame and the right social circles.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:58 AM
2

A curiosity hook that is a statement not a question. I dont push too sexual until ive fucked the girl. Other than an assumption and one light flirt or so, I dont get fancy. Girls either want to fuck you or they dont.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:07 PM
1

If you legit can't find a way to lift, buy some exercise bands and go to a local park to do pullups.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:38 PM
2

Ask about what she thinks of dating/her experience recently, make a playful assumption about what type of girls she seems(athletic, party girl, bad girl, good girl, etc) and build something sexual on that. Ask her what the craziest shit she's over done is, etc etc. Playfully throw in some kino from the DiCarlo escalation ladder with your conversation. And when the vibe is completely not there and feels forced(you won't click with every girl), not much you can do.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:37 PM
1

Thanks for the ab workout for the day. LOL!
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:25 PM
1

Set up date 5min walk or less from your place, tell her to text you when she's on the way and don't leave your place until she texts "here". I usually have ice cream, water and alcohol around too. I also try to keep clean sheets with no sex spots but it doesn't always work out that way!
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:23 PM
2

If she won't meetup, move on. Fuck spicing up that digital interaction.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:14 PM
1

Bullshit excuse due to lack of interest. I've fucked 9 girls off Tinder alone in the last 7 weeks.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:03 PM
3

"Thank you" or "That's Mr. Asshole to you" or "I know"
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:01 PM
1

Depends on vibe of your situation. Could be her being awkward/self conscious or her being a bitch/trying to test you. Most likely the previous.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:00 PM
1

Means avoid crazy bitches. Excessive tattoos/piercings, daddy issues, super clingy or desperate women, hardcore feminists, etc.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:59 PM
3

It's usually a girl trying to disqualify you when they ask this stuff. They are right on the fence about meeting and are looking for an excuse not to. Not the type of girls you want. That said, some replies are "A date. Let's see how we like each other in person and go from there ;)" or "I want a million dollars and nonstop attention". Sounds dumb but I had a girl the other day here in Mexico tell me "I'm not looking for sex. Only friends." I literally sent her photos of me on dates with other g…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:54 PM
7

"Fingered her to valhalla....Wet as a rainforest." What did I just read? Let's be real- it was probably not being able to get it up. Girls can get self conscious about this and it can make them feel like they didn't turn you on and that they are inadequate. Even though it can be being drunk or nerves on the guy's end. Don't trip about it man. This is common for your first experience or two. You'll be fine. Just get some more experience, enjoy the time with the girl and don't get in your head.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:49 PM
1

She flipped out. Hard next because of the blue balling she gave you.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:42 PM
1

Stop worrying about changing your entire thinking and strategy for her, don't be in her frame. Just say "cute" or "not bad" and then insert logistics when you want to meet.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:27 PM
3

Yes. Do this. Make sure to report back.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:20 PM
3

Ignore or "hahahahaha" and stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:19 PM
5

Freeze outs. After 2 or 3 soft rejections, calmly get up and go do something else. Go on your phone, computer and totally ignore her. After 5-10mins or her coming back to you, re-engage. If the freeze out stuff doesnt work, leave and find women who dont want to leave you with blue balls.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:18 PM
1

Ignore or text "Let me check my schedule. Ill let u know." and try one more time in 5 days or so, starting with a ping text.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:09 PM
6

She can fuck who she wants since you're not exclusive but that was pretty disrespectful. Be polite and minimal when she gets her stuff. Hard next.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:02 PM
1

Since you're not exclusive it's not your business as she can fuck who she wants. But since she is making up bullshit excuses with you, I'd hard next and keep it pushing. Also, potential LTR you haven't even fucked? Come on.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:07 PM
1

This. Edit: and don't go unless she agrees on the drink part.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:01 PM
1

"Not at the moment." Tells her you're single but also makes her hamster spin that you're either dealing with a girl or dating.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:56 PM
1

You shot your own foot off and showed weakness. What possible benefit could have that done for you? I wouldn't contact her again unless she hits you up next. Don't expect it.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:55 PM
1

This is a problem in your mind. Her n count is acceptable and you've been together for 3.5 years. Get over it.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:53 PM
1

We can't really tell because these situations depend mostly on the vibe in the moment. Maybe she is on some BS, maybe you are awkward, maybe you didn't make a move, etc etc. Assuming your game was fine, some women you just won't click with. I fuck most of my dates on the first date within 2hrs of meeting them, but sometimes I get a girl that won't even let me kiss her and every bit of touching or flirting feels forced. Happens. Also, yes, you should have kinoed a bit on the walk to warm her up a…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:52 PM
1

Going too extreme with bad boy will get you far fewer matches, but you'll get some quick bangs here and there. Going too preppy and you're labeling yourself a bf guy. Go somewhere in the middle, with a slight pull towards bad boy. You don't need to be some arrogrant prick trying to out frame them and command them. Just send a few messages, drop a lighthearted tease or observation and quickly propose a meetup. It's a numbers game. Cast a wide net and quickly filter out the time wasters.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:47 PM
1

No. Don't double text them. They're not interested. Find new women who want to meet without any BS.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:45 PM
1

Why are you hanging out with her for 2 days? If she won't put out again the next day just tell her you have some work to do.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:44 PM
1

When it opens, buy a ticket to the Philippines. Work on yourself regardless. Also, I know a guy who is 5'5 who slays and has a n count in the 100s. Even though it's a disadvantage, keep a strong frame about it.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:41 PM
1

Prioritize dates with hotter girls for earlier in the evening. Have a ranking system in your phone of how hot they are/how back you want to fuck them. At events, talk to a few and warm them up, and go for the one who seems most interested. Ideally, try to isolate early enough so if she says 'no', you can go back to a different girl.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:39 PM
1

Don't ask girls that. Every guy asks that and you're always going to get the same stupid answers "Friends." or "I dunno yet, I'm just bored." or what she said to you etc etc- which actually is very vague yet keeps the opportunity for sex still a possibility. What she said is actually a perfect one to use when a girl asks you that although I would change it to "meet people and see from there" instead of using the word stranger.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:34 PM
1

No. Vet her more and find out if it really is your kid. If yes, and after a few more months you know you really like this woman, then you can reassess considering you're willing to get serious.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:29 PM
1

99% not interested when they say this because its either true or they're rejecting you. For the 1% and you can sense it's only a shit test, here's a few: "And he doesn't allow you to talk to people?" "It's ok, I'm not the jealous type." "Cool." and just proceed like normal.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:28 PM
1

Who cares, doesn't matter. You should have no investment in what they think if you're ghosting or soft nexting.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:25 PM
1

Considering the "american style clown game", you played it perfectly. But fuck that low class text speak and pissing contest/frame battle shit. Ping text her in a few days and when she replies ask her out again. If she doesn't turn up next time, hard next.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:22 PM
2

You're being emotional and acting in ego mode right now. Chill out, fuck some new pussy, lift, be on purpose, have some beers with the boys and realize with time you won't give a shit anymore.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:18 PM
3

Depends on how long. I usually give girls 10 seconds or so one or two times total. Over that, I'll make a comment along the lines of "Hey what's up with your phone?" This usually isn't and shouldn't be a problem but if it persists say "Hey let's enjoy each other when we're together. Put your phone away." and if she doesn't catch on after that either bounce or withdrawal attention depending on her level.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:14 PM
1

"Hey let's grab a drink together. I'm free Tuesday and thurs"
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:12 PM
1

Why would you create a potential problem for yourself? Don't worry about your age and just ask her out.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:10 PM
2

She's putting up buffers and objections. She's not interested. 95% chance you'll never go on a date with her. Game new women.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:09 PM
6

Why would you "go on a date" without a chance of closing? Also, when chicks dance around the question, they aren't interested. Don't waste your time with women who are uptight about covid and use that as a scapegoat for not cooperating or meeting up in real life. Plenty of down women still.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:06 PM
3

All types of game is a numbers game, no matter what anyone tells you. Only difference is some close a higher rate. Tinder is one of the biggest numbers games there is. Many girls just want attention and IG followers "Not here much, message me on IG: [insert username]." or "Quarantine brought me here. Just for laughs." etc etc. The best girls are the ones that don't link their social and have a short or no bio. Get top tier photos. That's 90% of the battle right there. Cast a the widest net possi…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:03 PM
1

Cool. Sending you a PM.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:51 AM
2

You send- she sends back. That's one. Keep it around 3-7.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:45 AM
2

Women will forgive a guy who is a bit "too aggressive" for her much easier than the guy who doesn't make a move. If she says "no" don't trip. Just try again on the second date.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:19 PM
1

Definitely happens sometimes. Doesn't mean you shouldn't push for it though.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:45 PM
1

Why would you not try to pull on the first date? Insert plausible deniability: "Hey let's watch a movie at mine/come over and see my travel photos/etc etc"
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:43 PM
1

Girls slightly more comfortable coming to your place quickly. Other than that, I don't think much will change.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:40 PM
2

I don't have a TV in my apartment here in Mexico and I'm pulling more women than ever. Just use your phone to show her "your playlist" or a movie. Escalate as normal. Edit: Make the move. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:36 PM
2

Learn a SKILL that ADDS VALUE(ie- graphic design, marketing, copywriting, coding, etc) that you have some natural talent with(if you're nerdy- you'll probably be decent at coding). Spend a few months immersing yourself in the skill by reading books on it, taking a few cheap/free online courses(Lynda, Udemy, etc) and practicing. Read up on prospecting and finding clients(cold emails, linkedin outreach, in person events, gig/job marketplaces, etc), then reach out to people and offer to work for fr…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:28 PM
1

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. If she gives an IOI I'll approach. Quite often I'll approach even if I don't get IOIs.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:22 PM
1

Opener > 3-7 back and forths (curiosity hooks that lead to a DHV, a question or two you ask, a tease, etc) > number/whatsapp > Open her on text > 2-3 back and forths (ideally doing a voice message or two) and invite her out. Women either want to fuck you or they don't. You don't need to build rapport over days and weeks.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:19 PM
2

Fuck, ask her out again. Next time don't do dinner dates until you've fucked them.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:46 PM
2

You lost me at BBW and oneitis... Game other women, keep a social life, lift and get on purpose.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:44 PM
1

Assuming you want to keep the LTR- slowly start to pull back on your replies. Run some dread game- post a social media pic of you at a restaurant with 2 plates of food but no other person showing, buy some new cologne, start working out more, etc. Start seeing her a little less. Be willing to walk away.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:43 PM
1

"Hey I want to come over and pick up my stuff. I don't want this to become a further issue regarding theft as withholding someone's personal property is not only illegal, but not recommended." Check if it is illegal where you are. You're other option is to tell her to take the hard drive and stick it up her ass. She has zero power then. PS- next time don't be a prick to people.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:35 PM
1

Just talk a bit slower and deeper. Put on a bit of a seductive tone. I do this one WhatsApp voice messages with girls and get complimented on voice all the time. The tone and speed is as much or more important than what you say.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:24 PM
2

Do yourself a favor and leave the US if you really want a good dating scene. If work keeps you there, San Diego is decent.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:32 PM
1

Only you can make this call. I can't do it for you.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:18 PM
1

Just tell her what you want her to do then. Its not rocket science. Fuck.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:17 PM
1

The medium is the message AND she won't give you a BJ. Move on. Next time, don't wait so long for sex. It's never worth the wait.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:12 PM
1

Either one
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:07 PM
1

"No. Stop being jealous." and if she causes drama about it and won't drop it, soft next for a couple days.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:11 PM
1

Only if flirty and a vibe is going and it's quiet enough. Hitting on random ass women while at work is unprofessional.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:10 PM
1

There's nothing for her to reply to. Hit her up when you're back in town.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:07 PM
1

Same way you normally would. Just calibrate. Besides, they aren't always as innocent as they seem.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:03 PM
2

Hard next for the "consent" comments. You may dodged a bullet. Next time a girls says "I don't kiss on the first date" tell her "I don't date girls who don't kiss on the first date." I fuck women on the first date usually, if they can't even kiss, they don't get a second one.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:02 PM
1

Not LTR material. FWB at most.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:58 PM
1

She doesn't make specific plans with you, show up and fuck you within a couple dates.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:57 PM
6

/thread
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:55 PM
0

"Im not that easy." or "Clear where ur mind is. Good for x time?" Good chance this girl is full of shit. 95% of the girls I fuck never say dumb shit like this.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:55 PM
2

Totally disrespectful. Hard next. You should have said "Another time" or "Lemme check my schedule" after she offered the hangout after "forgetting". She say how she could walk all over you.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:53 PM
1

Do you want to fuck her or not? If yes, and she won't put out, next.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:50 PM
1

"You cant dance salsa. Wow I like girls who do.....I would have to teach you." "You dont like [x activity or whatever]? Damn I dont know about you now." Push: pushes her away playfully and disqualifies Pull: Pulls her back in. Maybe the second example is a push but it works well. Cheers.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 03:41 AM
2

Nope. These types of women aren't interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:02 PM
1

Relative to your experience level and height/weight. 1,000 pound club is when it starts to get solid. You should be 2x your weight in squat and deadlift and 1.5x bench to be strong I'd say. Above that, you're doing very well.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:54 PM
1

Thing is with posts like this is we weren't there so there's too many moving parts to really help you. From what I see, you fucked up by not establishing any kino and going for it on the first date. Always try to fuck on the first date, just be calibrated about it. She also seemed very uncomfortable. Could be you, could be her, could be both. In any case, game new women. Edit: No kiss on the first date? Hard next.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:47 PM
0

"Hey do you have a pen?" then write their number on the receipt "Im not gonna make this obvious and get you in trouble". Sometimes I still just pull out my phone. Got a essential-oil girls number in the mall yesterday. Had her massage the essential oil into my shoulders, then showed her "how to massage better" and pulled my phone out and got the number. A lot of the times they'll give you the number to be polite on the job. I've still managed to pull from this stuff though so its def possible.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:44 PM
2

Ego can make you want to react emotionally to what the other person did or said. Frame is acting from your point of origin. Knowing you can only control your reactions.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:41 PM
1

I don't like the idea of crafting messages based on what SHE says in her bio. Run your game. Logistics, an observation, a few curiosity hooks, etc. That said "I hope your beer drinking ability is better than your beer pong. What else u like for fun [or] insert a curiosity hook." Get her number within 5 or 6 back and forths.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:39 PM
3

I've had this test a couple times, bitches are stupid. Of course ima bounce if its platonic only. Generally she is looking for a bit more comfort when she says this. Go with a shortened version of the other dudes reframing response or "lets not talk about what/if scenarios that aren't gonna happen".
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:35 PM
1

Learning game, lifting, real life experience, daygame and nightgame practice and getting top tier photos for online dating. Also getting the fuck out of the US helped too.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:26 PM
1

Nope. She's not high interest is she says that. When girls say this stuff they aren't interested. Any sort of objection about "Lets get to know each other first" "I dont give out my number, but I'll pass you my IG" is bullshit. Calibrate to know if its token resistance in person. If it is that, just play it off or A&A and continue on.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:24 PM
3

Ask open ended questions, listen well and build on the topics given. Having a few fallback topics to chat about is a good idea. Do some push/pull, make some lighthearted teases, etc every now and again.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:22 PM
2

Difficult women remain difficult. She either wants to fuck you or she doesn't. Shouldn't have even replied to her message after you asked for number.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:19 PM
6

Things will just flow. You won't feel like you're putting in work or forcing the interaction.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:17 PM
1

"Okay, good luck to you." and delete her number.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:15 PM
1

Not sharing my pics and profile to a public forum or people I don't know. You're just gonna have to take what I said as legit.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:14 PM
2

Suit jacket in front of a nice building, shirtless beach photo with nice view in background, you in well styled clothes with a good background(tourist location, skyline view, etc) or anything showing a cool high value lifestyle. Photos must be clear, high quality and if you do a pose(looking off to the side, etc) it shouldn't look forced. Get a good photographer and know your angles and you'll be in good shape.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:13 PM
1

Dont trip over this shit. It's really not that big of a deal.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:19 PM
1

Happens. Some chicks are better in bed than others. Give it time, get more good sex elsewhere, be on purpose and enjoy your life. Accept that it is over with her.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:18 PM
1

What sort of question is this? Sure, smile when it's normal.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:17 PM
0

You're not exclusive so as long she wasnt rubbing it in or being disrespectful, its fine. Just know shes not LTR material.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:14 PM
2

Thailand is easier and you'll get a bit more exotic value. Youll also be able to have lots of quantity assuming BKK. Costa Rica is still a decent option and the quality will be a bit better there but it will be a bit tougher. Decent number of english speakers in Costa Rica in case you're wondering. Thailand also has a great food scene.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:11 PM
2

3-5 days generally. Hit her up with a ping text to stay in the loop, have a couple back and forths then hit her up when you're back. Edit: I do recommend sending the next day text after first time having sex if she doesnt beat you to it.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:07 PM
0

She's saying you don't seem that invested in the situation. If her actions keep on meeting you, don't trip.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:24 PM
3

Tinder in Mexico City the past 3 weeks: 550 matches, 4 lays. 5 dates lined up for this week so far. Flake prevention is the toughest thing here and in a lot of Latam. I run with some other Gs here who know the game and we all get over 50% of scheduled dates flaking. Edit: only used one regular boost that was included in the $10 a month plan
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:22 PM
-1

"Lets do some workouts together and get in super good shape for after quarantine." then eat a healthy meal after. If she is too lazy and the weight is a concern, don't LTR her.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:19 PM
1

Calm down dude. For real though, you need photography quality photos to really do well. Another big tip people don't mention here is location. A 150k person city in the US will be way tougher than a 5 million person city in Latin America or southeast Asia. I'll break it down for you: 1)Get your physique and style and looks as best you can 2)Pay a photographer to take some top tier photos of you. On a hiking trail, at a beach, in a suit in the city, etc. If you have a few really good photos of do…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:13 PM
10

Dont know where you are, but most male competition online is a joke. Shitty car selfies, mirror selfies and mediocre pictures in a group or at a restaurant. I went through a rotation girls phone last week and we laughed at the comp. Literally 90% of profiles are laughable. Improve yourself, get great photos and ideally put yourself in a city that makes it easier(ie- Sao Paulo vs Newport Beach, CA) and where you enjoy life more.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:10 PM
1

Fairly selective on swipes. Similar text game to KillYourInnerLoser's guide. I have a top 3-5% profile in my city. Got a 4th lay last night, so 4 out of about 500 now. Yea lots of flakes. Welcome to online and latin america! Still pretty easy though.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 03:23 PM
2

Got 500 matches and 3 lays in the past 3 weeks off Tinder. I'll chime in. Make sure your photos and profile are on point. Setting up a ZDB is not easy, but doable. Use the virus to your advantage: "I prefer not to go out during covid, but lets have a drink at mine." Having a quick video chat, phone call or sharing IG can help relieve some of her potential security concerns.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 12:21 AM
4

No need to unfollow unless it ended on bad terms.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:10 PM
1

You vet by being nonjudgemental and watching her actions. When you are nonjudgemental women open up to you. Let them talk. Give it time. Open your eyes and ears. If you know she still talks to her ex, that eliminate her from LTR potential. You don't say "You can't talk to your ex if you want to be exclusive" because she already showed herself as not LTR worthy by keeping in contact with him.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:07 PM
1

Don't go. She checkmated herself.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:57 PM
2

AMOG attempt. "Doesn't quite suit you as well."
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:51 PM
1

Not reading the post. You shouldn't even be in contact with your ex for her to friend zone you.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:49 PM
1

I wouldn't have brought the ex into but you didn't handle it that bad. When girls ask me this I just point blank say "I'm single right now, so I am talking to some people." or "Well we aren't exclusive right now.."
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:48 PM
2

101 shit. Too overt, made her feel like a slut. Hit her up in a 4-5 days and give some plausible deniability this time.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:36 PM
1

Open your eyes to all the pencil necks with women on their arm.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:41 PM
1

"Alpha" is mostly a mindset.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:41 PM
1

At least you don't have to go far for legal support if shit hits the fan. But seriously, STFU about this to everyone(mostly to her) and don't do it again.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:40 PM
1

From what I gather, I think your friends have their head on their shoulders more than you do. I'd take their advice.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:33 PM
1

Sounds like she was being honest to you. Chick logic.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:32 PM
1

Not over 30 but know plenty of guys over 30 cleaning up online. Some lie about age.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:30 PM
1

Until you're top 2-3% SMV in your location or until you have her emotionally attached, you're the seller. Just the way biology works.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:29 PM
1

You played yourself hahahah! Went way too overt with your frame control. Keep the bullshit over text to a minimum but some occasional banter is fine. James Tusk on YouTube has some good texting tips and a book he just dropped on it- no affiliation.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:24 PM
1

Been using it here in Latam so girls don't worry about safety so much. Social proof. I also post pics with cute girls I date every now and then, combined with showing an interesting lifestyle. Instagram definitely works. Just don't become a time waster on it and let it take up your life.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:22 PM
1

If I didn't have my muscles, my personality, my business or my great photos on Tinder- bitches wouldn't want me type shit. Of course they wouldn't if you didnt offer them much. But you do. So enjoy it. Drop the ego. Women are wired to like your value, not just you for you. Hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:18 PM
2

My current main girl said that to me on our first time fucking. Don't trip, she is likely just really into the moment. You're doing something right.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:14 PM
1

Devil Doll jazz songs are seductive. Latin songs like Corazon Partio and reggaeton are great when fucking latinas in Latam ;)
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:11 PM
1

If her interest is decent, none of it will matter. I generally like to offer 2 days I'm free and she can join that. ie- "I can do Wed or Fri".
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:10 PM
1

Find women who don't treat you like that. Also, you definitely got too aggressive with your friends and mate guarded. Until you know you're friends fucked you over, I'd dump the chick and smooth things over with your bros.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:06 PM
3

If you want to ask her out again, ask her out.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:17 PM
2

It's weird to most guys because of biology- sperm competition. He obviously bases this more on logic and values spreading seed to lots of women moreso than the negative of the previous. Its definitely a bit out there of a concept and not something I would want to do but different strokes for different folks.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:16 PM
1

Reply with "Sounds like youre busy. Maybe another time" or ignore.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:46 PM
1

Her interest wasn't high enough and she overreacted. Next!
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:42 PM
1

Dinner- she gets bloated and your initial financial investment is higher Movie- you don't get to talk Keep it to drinks or evening coffee for first dates. Second date can be cooking or a movie at your place, repeat of first date or a dinner after you've fucked her and she is proven to be good company.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:38 PM
1

Drinks at a upscale, quiet lounge. Evening coffee works too. Try to sit next to her and go to a place with a seductive vibe. Evening time, sitting next to her, comfortable seating, softer music playing, etc.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:37 PM
1

Your frame isn't strong enough/her attraction isn't high enough/you gave off too much BF energy from the beginning. Invite her out and if she doesn't play after a couple dates, next. Also, not a plate until you've fucked.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:35 PM
1

One way to find out..
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:30 PM
2

You went from looking like a "alpha" to asking her to lead, you lost congruency. Better text would have been "Wyd tonight?" or "U free tomorrow evening?" Also, these situations can be cold feet for the girl because even though she may be attracted and she may have tingles, there is little to no comfort and her logical brain can often talk them out of it. Ping her in a few days and try once more. Game other women in the meantime.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:29 PM
2

Ended on good terms- let her off softly and give some closure if you like. Ended on bad terms/she disrespected you- "This isn't working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." and move on.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:28 AM
1

Dump her and deal with women who value you properly.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:27 AM
5

She was flirting a bit with you and then after her mood leveled out, she came back to earth and ASD was triggered. "Omg I can't go out with him because he is gonna expect sex now..." This is why its best not to text sexually before you've had sex. Next!
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:00 AM
1

She saw how needy you were and lost interest. Shouldn't have texted her first after she left, shouldn't have gone to pick her up after she said "I'll be back" and shouldn't have tried to make plans again that fast. Soft next and game other women.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:56 PM
1

Here's what you do....Next time she pulls that, don't say a word or act like it bothered you. Grab your keys, put your shoes on and leave the house. If she asks where are you going just say "just going out for a while." and don't come back for 4 hours or so. Don't reply to any messages from her. Go have a beer and hang out with a buddy or do something productive. Come back a few hours later like nothing happened. If she asks what you did just say "I went out" or "hung out with a friend."(bonus p…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:48 PM
1

Dumb. The same guy that gets mediocre to subpar results in Beverly Hills on Tinder could do really well in Houston or Mexico City. Also, online dating is more skewed in the woman's favor than any other marketplace. You can use it to base your "Tinder SMV for that location" based on the quality of your photos and quantity of available girls taken into account but that's all.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:16 PM
1

Good theories. I think its a combination of #1 and also COVID. More of a demographic of bored girls from quarantine AND male thirst has increased even more.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:04 PM
58

Your LTR going out with another man 1 on 1 is a date. Even as he phrased it and she agreed. Hard next and move on. And dont do LDRs again. "This isnt working for me anymore. We're done." No closure. She will just brainwash her brother, SIL and everyone else that you were "just being jealous and controlling". Dont give her the validation of knowing the reason after she disrespected you like that. Briefly reflect on where you may have lost frame or where things went wrong. Distance likely was a ma…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:48 AM
2

Make a lighthearted tease about what she must be like if she likes that song, drop a curiosity hook then DHV, ask her if she did anything fun over the weekend/week and then reply about some bullshit about how great yours was(DHV). A few back and forths, then ask her out.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:41 AM
3

"As long as u keep on being good company ;)" This is more of a comfort test because she says "me" and not "you".
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:36 AM
1

I'd fall back on another threesome for now. Enjoy piping her out tonight and drop the hint at 'How she enjoyed it'. If she is positive, casually say "I'm down to do it again. You could even be a winggirl and we find a girl together."
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:34 AM
1

My guess is you went for it too hard and too fast without any push-pull or enough comfort AND sexual tension built up. Ask her out again if you like and try once more and if you don't get further, hard next.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:31 AM
1

First off, don't let a few approaches affect your mindset. Aim for at least 70-80 approaches a month. Rejection is better than regret. Get in a flow state by doing multiple approaches in a short timeframe. Open, build attraction through assumptions/observations/lighthearted teases, make some chit chat for logistics, close. Here's an example with direct game: For the assumption stacking part: make assumption based on her ethnicity, clothing, vibe, what you think her career is, etc. Then just stac…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:21 AM
1

Does she enhance your life or detract? Does she support your purpose and make your life easier? Does she look up to you and respect you? A few red flags are excessive male friends, gay friends, extreme feminist, single mom, slut, constantly partying, from a broken home, etc. Edit: give it at least 3-4 months of dating before considering letting her become an LTR. Preferably 6 months or so.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:03 AM
1

She never had much interest to begin with. Your game was terrible and then you sperged out in the texts after doubling down on your joke. Either way, there was no flow here from the beginning. Next! Work on your text game. Focus more on lighthearted teases, observations, and curiosity hooks that get her asking a question about you, then set up logistics for a meetup within 6-8 back and forths at most.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:57 PM
3

If the context is a joke, you can A&A or maybe just say "damm that sounds like something a heartbroken person would say lol". Ignoring is an option too.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:39 PM
1

After reading your post and the other comments here, this isn't going to end well for you. She is being disrespectful by doing this, probably from her losing respect/attraction for you at some point. You need to objectively assess this and be honest with yourself about it. Have you been too needy somewhere? Too available? Showing too much weakness? Breaking frame? Also, you are extremely insecure about this guy and even brought that up to her. The more you show it bothers you, the worse it will …
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:36 PM
1

Don't have to ignore here, just don't contact her first for a couple days and then re-initiate and ask her out within 3 back and forths or so. Definitely do not say that. Just play the whole thing off as a joke(if it's even brought up again) and move on from it.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:18 PM
1

Lol you tried to pull a gamey line on her that was stupid and she outgamed you back. Only play here is to fall back a while and ask her out.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 05:00 AM
1

You shouldn't be rewarding chicks to that high of a level that fast. Showed her you really like her and are too available to her too quickly. She's not interested. In this case, move on and game other chicks.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:54 AM
1

Stop overthinking it. Text her and say "Hey its [name]." and ask her out for when it works for you.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:46 AM
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/thread
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:43 AM
2

Could be anything, we really don't know as we weren't there. That said, she isn't interested enough/is prude/playing game/etc. Hard next. Next time, go for the kiss on the first date so you don't waste this much time. Also, Japanese women are generally more conservative but this was too much.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:22 AM
1

There was no push to your pull. Making out decreases sexual tension(shows your cards), so dont do it too much and when you do, usually you want to end the makeout first. You should have kicked her out nicely after the 3rd failed sex attempt. Dont reward bad behavior. "Hey I have some plans tomorrow morning and need to get some rest." By allowing her to sleep over your actions told her it was okay to give you blue balls. Do not try to get involved in their plans tonight. Fall back. Text her in 4 …
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:00 AM
1

If she was interested enough she wouldn't say that. Difficult women remain difficult. If you like, text her "I'd like to get to know u in real life. If ur down, cool. If not no worries." Most of the work/rapport is done during the approach. Next time dont do lunch dates.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:45 AM
2

Stealing that opener. Also, drop bait/hooks on things that make her want to respond and her follow up question is a DHV. Your opener was a good hook. Add in hooks to that effect and you can throw in a few custom sentences just follow the same general idea. 5 back and forths or so, number, a couple more back and forths then logistics for a date.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 07:51 PM
7

Read between the lines: she is not interested in you. Move on.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:55 PM
17

DiCarlo escalation ladder. Basically it's this: level 1: initial greeting hug, high five or fist bump, touch on arm or elbow level 2: touch small of her back, touch thighs, touch hair briefly, kissing level 3: touching boobs/ass/grazing over pussy level 4: foreplay level 5: sex Don't escalate too fast(ie- level 3 before level 2), calibrate your escalation to her responses, and save level 3 for being in private when you can close. How to get through LMR: push/pull, friendly freeze out(ie- ignore …
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:52 PM
-6

She's low interest. Text her "that's a bit far for me. I can do this place[insert place that is a bit closer to her but not all the way to her]. If u can't make it no worries". If she doesn't agree, move on.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:42 PM
5

She wants to fuck your brains out, she is just presenting with plausible deniability. Just meetup somewhere near the room first to make sure she's normal.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:37 PM
6

"At the moment." Shows you are but hints that you're in demand.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:20 AM
1

Most likely a projection. Start gaming other girls regardless and prepared to kill the puppy.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:10 AM
1

Ignore.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:05 AM
1

More traditional societies in non western countries. That said, its more person dependent than country dependent.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:37 PM
9

Any guy who tells you not to hard next is giving you poor advice. Give her one chance the first time if she offers a specific reschedule. She flakes or reschedules on that? Move on.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:22 PM
3

Don't push it too hard in front her group. No more than light kino in front of the group. "Hey I wanna chat w you one on one for a few minutes." or "Let's go outside for a minute." etc. Isolate then escalate. Sometimes only a number close will be possible. Sounds like you handled this one fine.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 02:00 AM
2

Keep your mouth shut. Any good gf who values her bf wouldnt like her bf being talked shit about and would respond in the most minimal way, ignore it or tell him off. Office politics is not an excuse. Edit: if she actually agrees/plays along, she needs to be dumped.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:28 PM
0

Ur in London u said. Look up James Tusk on YouTube. Do a free intro call, hes based in London. No affiliate there. Also, if you've been working on your SMV, go abroad.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:20 PM
3

Yes, but you dont need to have the same level of "American clown game" and you can be more yourself. Just keep the basic principles of TRP in your mind.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:02 PM
1

Southeast Asia or Latin America. Easier, better women and geo arbitrage.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:56 PM
1

Mistakes were telling her you're a virgin and telling her about things that lower your SMV. Also, waiting that long to make any sort of kino didn't help. You're new and inexperienced and don't have smooth escalation ability yet. You probably came off robotic and awkward. You'll get better with time. Keep up the work and you'll eventually be killing it once you get some more experience. Edit: look up DiCarlo escalation ladder(ie- start kino by a greeting hug, then move to high five, touch of elbo…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:55 PM
1

"Not a fuckboy, I'm a lover."
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:45 PM
1

Stealing this.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:41 PM
1

If you're considering an LTR this is a valid question. The key is seeming non-judgmental as most girls will be dumb enough to spill the beans over time. As for specifics, ask her stuff along the lines of "Do you like to party?" or "How often to you like to party?" This works best after you've calibrated the situation by talking about drinking or partying.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:33 PM
2

You're worried about a plate finding out you have an online dating profile? Drop the scarcity mindset and do what YOU want. If she breaks, she breaks. If anything, it'll probably increase some attraction/dread her a bit.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:26 PM
5

She disrespected you and then eventually went off with a dude you guys both knew. Grab your balls and ignore her.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:22 PM
5

You're orbiting and she is baiting you. Hard next.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:21 PM
4

This, OP.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:30 PM
1

This is gold.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:46 PM
2

Nothing. Just continue the interaction. Drop some bait- questions/statements that make her ask you a question in return. And ideally make it ones that have a DHV as your answer. Get her # within 5 or 6 back and forths.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:45 PM
5

You're not exclusive- you guys dont owe each other anything but some basic respect when in person together. You should have stayed in your lane and done nothing, and then hit her up when you want. I'd avoid hitting her up for a week or so unless she does first, in which dont bring it up again.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:41 PM
3

"Watch a movie/see my travel pics/meet my dog/insert anything that gives plausible deniability."
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:23 AM
7

Soft next. Lessons learned.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:21 AM
3

This is a pure power play and she was testing your response to see how needy/agitated you would get. This was a "90 day shit test". You handled it okay other than saying "What's wrong?" Soft next. If she does it again, hard next. And look up "The 90 day crossroads. Shit test" by Paul Elam on youtube.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:18 AM
3

Like powercleaner said, doesn't matter if interest is good. Generally, better to wait a while because it keeps her guessing. If you fucked for the first time on the date, generally a good move to text "had a good time last night. Have a good day" or similar and screenshot the "thanks had fun too" response.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:27 PM
1

Cooking food together at your place, dance together, exploring something/somewhere new that you wanted to see anyways.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:21 PM
2

Good advice.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:19 PM
1

She's definitely losing interest- actions over words. Pull back yourself but do it gradually until she starts chasing, not all at once. Also, start the whole dread thing of going to the gym more, new cologne, flirting a bit with the waitress/posting a friendly pic on SM with another girl, etc. You do that for you. If she comes around, cool. If not, you increased your value and started to process of getting new women.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:16 PM
3

Yo handled it well. Hit her up in 4-5 days to go out again.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 08:02 PM
3

Avoid her.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:58 PM
3

Yes, some women can be intimidated by a direct, confident approach. Most women like it though and remember, the game is about you.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:26 PM
1

And I'm going to emerging markets abroad
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:16 PM
1

You handled it great. She expected you to be her food ATM after treating her the first time and you held strong. Next!
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:14 PM
1

Don't let her have the condom, you should be disposing of it.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:57 PM
1

Your game could be a bit rusty but I would say the main reasons are 1)older women. Late 20s and older women are generally done with CC and have higher expectations and are tougher(but their value is generally lower too) and 2)Tinder isn't as good as it used to be.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:52 PM
11

"Be worried when I don't want to have sex with you." -Uncle Vas.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:22 AM
5

Her other option failed and now she came running back to you. Plate if you want.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:34 PM
1

Great comment as well.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:01 AM
4

This is spot on. Nexted. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:31 AM
7

100% good advice
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:30 AM
2

Nope, text. Next it is.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:29 AM
2

Good experience for sure. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:28 AM
1

Rejection is better than regret. You have to start somewhere. Realize that only <5% of guys have the balls to make a sober cold approach. Worst thing that can happen: its a bit awkward(until your game improves) and she says "no" or makes an excuse or keeps walking. Best case scenario: it converts into a lay and you share some great experiences with an awesome woman. When you see the truth above, it actually is riskier and worse NOT to make a move. Don't beat yourself up, just get out there and p…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:02 AM
3

Difference between being an asshole/chad/whatever and being a straight up prick. Sounds like you were the latter.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:56 AM
2

Attention whores and/or wanting to vet you more. Respond "Dont use snap. Send me ur number. If not, no worries." Also, get out and approach and do most of your work IRL. You can then cut through 95% of the bullshit.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:11 PM
1

As laughable as this sounds, this can actually work.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:40 PM
1

Don't be insecure. As long as you don't care, she usually won't.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:14 PM
42

Low interest. You'll find out there's plenty of women down to meetup without knowing you yet. If you want you can push it and just be straight up "Lets meetup to get to know each other in real life." anything but logistics results in ignoring and moving on.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:11 PM
2

If she doesn't say yes or reschedule, I'd keep it moving. Sometimes you can try one more time a week or so later but here I wouldn't as you mentioned it twice already. Game new women. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:52 AM
1

Are you wanting to fuck her? You're orbiting. Flirting, hanging out and not getting anywhere or making a move... Game other women. Are you completely cool with just having her in the social group and you're honestly not trying to hit it? Tease back and don't pay much mind to her. Game other women.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:19 PM
14

"When are we hanging?" is not good game as it is indecisive and puts the leading role on her. Also, you went for the kill too quickly by asking in the very next message and there was no transition to inviting her out- comes off a bit awkward. Hit her up in a few days with a ping about masks or something else from your approach. Better way this could have gone would be something like this: You: opener Her: Its Stephanie, save my # You: No mask Steph. I could imagine u getting told to wear ur mask…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:10 PM
5

These women aren't worth it. Too many women who will be happy to please you and not question you why you want to kiss her on the second date. Give it one more go for the 3rd date and if it doesnt happen, move on. Also, if you repeatedly cant get through her LMR after multiple attempts, tell her in a calm, cool way "Hey I gotta get up early. You should go." Dont reward bad behavior.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:55 PM
5

Find women who dont have a power trip or sexual hangups. You definitely lost frame by giving in. Also, your text game before that about "enough bjs from retards" and "they run away from boredom" made you look low value and was bad game. Best not to get too sexual before you've actually had sex. Move on.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:42 PM
1

Completely agree. This is one of the things on red pill that get perpetuated that shouldn't. Nothing wrong with going where the prospects are better. Working on yourself should be done regardless of where you are.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:31 PM
3

Its all in your head. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable- dont make it out to be something to fear. Pop a viagra if you have to to get over the hump.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:52 AM
1

Could be anything but giving her lots of non sexual attention via text and being too available didnt help at all. It was a good move to move on since she lost interest.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:50 AM
2

No.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:47 AM
2

Sure. Cultures are different from city to city and country to country. Anyone who tells you "its on you, own your shit and up your game" is only understanding half of it. Its true you need to be working on maximizing your SMV and being on purpose but there's definitely places you'll have an easier time and be treated a bit better in the process and there's nothing wrong with seeking that out alongside working on yourself. Cities in the USA that are good are NYC, Miami and Vegas, although there w…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:46 AM
1

They aren't legally allowed to keep data for more than 3 months. I have heard that about bans- best to use Hugues' recommendation then if you get banned. Interesting on the pics, but that should be part of the data reset.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 08:10 PM
3

Apparently they keep all your data for 3 months. Unless you make a small edit to the photos(like a small crop), a new number isn't enough. You need new number and new photos and hopefully you haven't linked IG.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 12:42 AM
3

Hard next. Act beta if you need to so her craziness doesn't come out and start chasing you.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:44 PM
1

Youre giving off too much boyfriend energy. Also, check your game and how many chicks youre talking to.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:40 PM
3

/thread
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:39 PM
1

Linkedin.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:28 PM
2

Learn to cook 3 dishes or so really good(pasta with some sort of red sauce or fettucine alfredo, fish tacos or ceviche, or something else light and small so you're not too bloated) and stick with those. If its not going well say "I gotta get on some work in a few minutes." or tell her you have a birthday party with friends later.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:18 PM
1

Next time do drinks only. No dinner. Greet with a hug, sit next to her, do some teases/assumptions/push-pull, if you decide to kiss at the venue pull away first, give plausible deniability when inviting her over(movie, travel pics, your dog, view from apt, etc).
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:15 PM
3

Legendary post. Cheers. Getting good photos that put you in a high value position is the key. Also, exploiting a niche(ie: muscular edgy guy).
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 07:01 PM
2

Opener >> Observation/assumption stacking and tease >> rapport/comfort once you've got some interest >> close.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:25 PM
3

Don't text sexual before you've fucked her. Even then keep it mostly to real life. Playful/lighthearted/teasing sure but being sexual like that killed it.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:14 PM
1

"No worries. I dont mind." I really dont.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:03 PM
1

Ignore and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:57 PM
2

"I dont use snap." if she doesn't give # at that point, ignore and move on.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:51 PM
3

What's white pill? Next its gonna be orange pill or green pill.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:42 PM
1

A couple good books, condoms and exercise bands. All of this for less than $100.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:26 AM
9

Soft next. She's riding a different cock. Reward good behavior, punish bad behavior through withdrawal of attention. If she hits you up first and she comes over and doesn't fuck- then keep it pushin.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:13 AM
1

"It it flies, floats or fucks..." But I'd focus more energy into throwing parties on it than worrying about the name.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:11 AM
1

That's a good reason too.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 08:46 PM
2

Its less than 5-10% of it. Focus on the photos and getting her off the app within 5 or 6 messages.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:39 AM
10

Good question. From my experience, girls that are super attracted don't shit test much, if at all. I think it's more if they sense an incongruency or want to know if you're 'alpha' enough.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:14 AM
5

Can you change your height? No. Can you change your mindset? Yes. Also, 5'10" is totally fine. It's in your mind.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:08 AM
1

Hey, who cares?? It's an ex.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:01 AM
2

Too many unknowns here. How can we help you with the lack of context?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:53 PM
3

Yea, eat less. If that doesn't work, eat even less. Keep your protein up.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:52 PM
1

"I don't kiss and tell." Too low, makes you look low value, too high you raise ASD and overtly tell her youre a player. Who the fuck knows what her middle ground is. Don't try to guess it. The solution is not to say anything about it.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:50 PM
1

"hey" or similar. The value is in the emotional appeal of your photos, not the fanciest opener.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:48 PM
52

You think this is a win but its a loss. The idea is to get what you want, not coordinate some imaginary version of a double date.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:44 PM
32

"You and your friend have a good time. When you actually want to go on a date, let me know."
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:42 PM
43

You definitely were controlling but she proved she wasnt LTR material by just bringing that up. A gf who is respectful wouldnt even joke like that. Dump her and move on.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 01:23 AM
2

No, she doesnt want your cock anymore. She wants to keep you on the hook while she gets her head straight and likely let's another guy or three pan out first. She just wants you as a backup and for validation and attention. Grab your balls, ghost her and move on. Dont deal with her again. Get some new women and enjoy your life.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:56 PM
2

Completely doable unless you're in a really tough location(ex: smaller SoCal cities) or small towns.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:50 PM
2

Nothing wrong with a flirt or calibrated innuendo before setting up the date but dont get too sexual over text before you've fucked her, it will send her ASD to the stratosphere.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:12 AM
1

Within a couple days. After 1-3 back and forths, say "lets get a drink. I can do tues or thurs."
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:54 PM
2

Complete shit test. Female dread game. Pass it by acting unphased/not caring and always keep your abundance mentality and be ready to walk away. Run some dread on her too. Buy a new cologne. Hit the gym more. Go out with your buddies without her. Come home a bit too late one night. Don't reply to a text every now and then.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:43 PM
1

Talk about things about the event/your environment, what's new in her life, what she's up to, ask her opinion, etc.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:37 PM
4

LMR. "I don't mind." not making a big deal and eventually escalating anyway usually does the trick.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:35 PM
2

If the girl wants you enough, she will go. Interest wasn't high enough. You pushed too hard after she wasn't willing. After she escaped to the bathroom you should have disappeared instead of waiting like a puppy, then maybe gone back once more later on. Most likely she won't reply or go out but try hitting her up.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:28 PM
2

If you get good at just about any of them, you'll be fine. But if we're nitpicking the best: boxing or muay thai for stand up and BJJ or wrestling for ground.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:24 PM
3

She's shit testing/being spoiled/difficult, etc. You should always be leading as the man, and if she doesn't respect that- you need to find better women. That said, nothing wrong with doing her suggestion afterwards.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:23 PM
2

What's your definition of high value? A feminine girl who cooks or a banker chick? If the latter, you shouldn't have a problem finding them in Manhattan. Also, NYC is a great city for daygame. Keep that up.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:14 PM
2

Mostly a waste of time. That said, if you have 1k+ followers and high value photos(with groups, doing cool things, at cool places, etc) it can be of value.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:11 PM
1

She sounds craaaazy. Remember not to DEER but you handled it fine other than asking her "why would I talk?" Edit: schedule dates a max of 3-4 days in advance.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:05 PM
2

Gotcha. Lots of variables we don't know- your vibe, your style, your look, your age, your mouthpiece, the quantity of women youre approaching, etc. What are you saying to them during conversation? Also, for approaching groups, the logistics of it make it tougher but start by addressing the whole group and being friendly to everyone, then move in on who you want after the group is receptive.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:18 PM
1

Yep, ball is in her court. Well done for not falling for her beta bait.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:14 PM
1

Masturbate less.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:11 PM
1

How could you possibly think that approaching a group makes things easier? You're coming off as creepy because you're being platonic and not showing intent then youre suddenly pivoting to going on a date.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:08 PM
1

She has a submission problem. Find better women. PS- don't bother showing up. She won't be there.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:03 PM
1

Give a 2 or 3 back and forths then say "gotta run tell me when we meetup" or ignore.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:39 PM
1

Your LTR is over. She has lost respect and attraction for you and denied sex. Also, decent chance she is cheating or will cheat soon. Regardless, ask yourself "Is a good girlfriend of mine one who denies sex, ignores my desires, forgets to call me multiple times and is argumentative?" Tell her "This isn't working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." and then block, ghost and move on.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:37 PM
6

Read Wall Street Playboys dot com. Find your talents, invest in yourself and put in the work.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:39 PM
1

Yep. Theres a difference between a nice guy and a "nice guy".
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:56 PM
1

"I'm my own best actor. I can do Tues or thurs."
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:55 PM
1

I have an unthinkable solution- dont go visit them with her!
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:53 PM
1

Text when shes back Edit: to meetup ofc
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:44 PM
1

Why are you interested in being their text buddy? Keep it to a minimum, if at all.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:43 PM
1

If anything this is good. Dont trip. Play it off like no big deal if she brings it up and dont lose frame.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:12 AM
1

This depends on the situation. No one situation is the same. That said, usually the attraction is not so high that you will jump each others bones. You'll know when it is. Do what u/WIA20XX said and chill out and bit, kick back and ramp it up once you're at your place.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:58 AM
2

Could be anything but your mistakes: sounds like you didnt go for the f close. Best to be minimal with the makeouts as it usually decreased sexual tension and shows your hand. And wait a while before hitting her up again.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:31 AM
1

Just do the work. Take action. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 08:12 PM
1

Apologizing and texting her to try to make it better was dumb. Big loss of frame. You should have left after a few escalation attempts realizing it's going nowhere instead of waiting for her to do it. She sounded like a tease, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:58 PM
1

Dont ask.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:53 PM
3

You validated the fuck out of her, called yourself thirsty and got caught up in her frame of being a potential rapist. Text for logistics, throw a few flirts if u like but dont get too fancy/in her frame/caught up in a wit battle.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:47 PM
1

If she suggested, then sure, go out again if you want. Being over-eager does matter. Shows too high of a level of interest and investment. You pull by teasing "You seem like an LA girl" "oh don't tell me youre vegan" type of shit. If she rejects your advances after a couple tries, do a friendly freeze-out. And when escalating do some 2 steps forward 1 step back. Also, if this still doesn't work- she just isn't feeling you enough. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:29 PM
1

Sounds like you were all push and no pull, awkward(texting friend, fidgeting, etc) and over eager about getting together again by being so specific about when you meetup next. Sometimes the vibe isnt there and the chick is kinda lame but you definitely have some things to work on. Keep it moving unless she hits you up.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:02 PM
1

If you're holding frame and not showing weakness, I'd say it's likely a comfort test. If you've been slipping and feel like she's losing some attraction, then good chance its projection.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:10 PM
10

I'm gonna drop some real shit here. You're a 5'7 asian guy with an average face and you dont seem all that charismatic from what you're describing. Definitely lift a bit and get a decent physique but being a jacked 5'7 asian guy isnt going to be the solution. Get your physique to a baseline of being lean and athletic. Then work on style and looks. But most of all, focus on social skills/charisma/being outgoing. The latter is toughest to change but experience in social situations will help best. …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:33 PM
1

We dont have the context here so it could be her projecting onto you(you might be getting dumped soon and she is weighing options) or you should up the comfort a bit.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:28 PM
1

Stop the try hard random platonic stuff. Drop DHVs and hooks for her to bite on: "I just arrived in [her city] from [country you were in]." "How tall are you?" If you're 5'10 or over you can say 6' as a DHV when she asks you back Etc etc. A few back and forths and get her number. Dont be her text buddy. Set up date quickly. Try to line up 2-3 dates in a day if you can.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:25 PM
5

Quality of friends, women and business connections gets better. People take notice and new people you meet are generally at a higher echelon and more quantity of women. People come to you for advice. Also, some your existing circles get jealous/distance themselves a bit as you level up.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:11 PM
4

Heres a case study for you and this is no shit. I have a old guy mentor/buddy who has a self proclaimed 4 incher. He owns it like a mofo and even told this chick at her work "I have a small dick" and she said to him "I dont believe it, a guy with that confidence wouldnt have a small one." And he replied "no really I have a small dick. I'll show you. Let's go to the bathroom." She didnt go but this chick was turned on visibly at her work by this old guy. That said, you're below average but not re…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:07 PM
1

Drinks and coffee are fine. Even cheaper is a walk in the park or on the beach and the cost is $0. The key is being low investment. This is even more true if you're going on a lot of dates.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:23 PM
0

I wouldnt have waited that long for sex but that said theres only so long they'll put all the effort in. Hit her up if you like.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:34 AM
2

Ignore or "Interesting. Let me know when u actually wanna go on a date." She probably doesnt feel comfortable enough for 1on 1 yet. Go deal with a girl who isnt gonna play childish games.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:22 AM
3

Comfort test. Say you've been busy and offer a meetup.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:18 AM
2

What a homie! Cheers
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:13 PM
21

You made the right call. She clearly has some tingles for the dude and if you continued she likely would have cheated.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:17 PM
1

Heartiste on Game book on Amazon. Note Amazon shipping delays rn.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:46 AM
1

ASD, they wanna forget about it, etc etc.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:37 PM
4

Medium is the message- low interest. Let her 'join the dots' about why you're not going to hit her up again. Keep it moving. She had 2 chances to go out with you. If she was interested, she would have made Sunday or at least countered the Monday offer to do something other than the walk. Hard next.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:33 PM
2

Hard next just because she would consider doing that. That tells you she isn't LTR material. Tell her "This isn't working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck."
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:23 PM
1

AHAhahahahahah woosh
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:08 PM
3

HAhahahaha nice try
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:58 PM
1

You can take a womans view into consideration but always make YOUR decision. The correct answer here is to lift. She probably just feels threatened by the incoming sense of dread. Keep doing you.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:01 PM
2

Do the obvious by dumping and ghosting her. Unless your brother comes clean and truly regrets it and apologized, I'd move on from there too. Get busy with productive stuff, game new women, get social, be on purpose, lift and improve yourself. Learn your lessons and move on.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 08:59 PM
1

Yea that's a good point about foreigner value. I still think you can tell which ones are easier or harder though.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:18 AM
7

Awalt definitely still applies but your relative value is higher by leveraging geoarbitrage, exotic factor, your game/height vs the competition. So location does matter. Its smart to go places where women are for the most part more feminine and aren't as westernized.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 08:50 PM
1

He said easiest, not most feminine.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:44 PM
5

From what I've read, Europe isnt a place you to go for ease but it seems like Scandinavia and the party islands during summer are your best bet. Poland was good but is a bit more played out now.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:04 PM
2

"Thanks" or "I know" or "We are what we eat"
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:26 PM
2

Ask her out again. Don't mention the quick bust again. You said its not an ongoing problem for you so don't worry. If that happens again a good reply would be "nice warmup". Don't let this trip you out.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:25 PM
1

Do it. Get it over with so you can chill out and realize its just pussy.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:29 PM
2

Family and lesser degree ex gf pushing a return to college. Typical college shaming and 'if you want to be successful you need...' advice. Luckily, I only wasted a year before ignoring the BS and going back to my path.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:27 PM
4

Not pursuing the life I wanted sooner by listening to others for a year or so before going after what I want.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:22 PM
1

Her words says she misses you, the love and the sex. Her actions won't meet up and brushes you off and makes excuses. You doesn't care to see you that bad, by definition. This isn't a good sign, covid for not. Pull back, stop asking her, and do you. I'd even consider re-evaluating the relationship.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:12 PM
24

You lost frame by telling her the real reason. Keep it moving unless she hits you up next.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:07 PM
2

Do not accept that reschedule- it puts you on her terms and in her frame. You pick the location- she follows. I'd respond "no worries. Some other time" and if you like you can try one more time in a 5 days or so.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:03 PM
1

Gold. I'm stealing this
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:51 PM
1

Keep it moving unless she says "I'll come over".
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:38 PM
11

This is pure gold.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:29 PM
1

What they want and what they do are two separate things.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:19 PM
1

Don't fall for this act and don't give her your password. She is unreasonable to expect your passwords. Look at her behavior after you refused to bend to her unreasonable, control seeking demand- she tries to fuck with you about some other guy. Dump her and move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:05 PM
2

Drop the ego and forget about 'revenge'. The best revenge is indifference. Forgive her, ghost and move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:40 PM
1

Should've deleted the pics. Time, social life, new women and purpose will help you overcome some sadness that pops up. Remember, its a feeling.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:16 PM
1

Not even once.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:54 PM
2

OI is Outcome independence. IOI, mentioned by u/comcain is another good one and that stands for "indicator of interest."
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:16 AM
3

Bigger problem here is your improvement and gym grind falling off. About the chick, that's a decision you have to make.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:23 AM
3

Kill the obvious dumb mistakes like spilling them your life story and all your feelings. Learn some principles of game(abundance, OI, frame, confidence, shit tests, escalation/kino, etc) and combine those principles into your own personality.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:18 AM
1

Do what you want.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:00 AM
1

This. OP, check out "Mr V's guide to texting". Also, dont get caught up in texting a bunch. Ration out your attention. Reward sex and good behavior with more attention but without being over-available.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:59 AM
1

Dump and keep it pushin. Find women with desire for you.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:52 AM
1

They liked the DGAF vibe.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:19 PM
1

Dodged a bullet only if you didn't get herps from it.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:11 PM
1

Before I finished reading, I thought "This guy's walking an hour to get pussy?" Also, an hour back. Yes, your frame is weak and that's proven even more by her testing you about it. Pull back a bit and make her come to you next time. If she won't, next her until she does.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:08 PM
1

Follow your talents over your dreams. If they both align, even better.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:03 PM
1

No. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. She should have to work for your commitment.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:00 PM
1

"Many? No." or "This feels like an interview." "Depends on the girl." Frame you as the prize to be one and doesn't directly answer her question, but gives her hamster enough to feed on.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:57 PM
1

Man how I'd like to be a fly on the wall.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:54 PM
2

If them imposing exclusivity before sex is anything more than a rare occurrence, you need to look at how you're presenting yourself to these women(provider vs lover frame). It's sex first, relationship(if you're willing) second, not the other way around. Hypergamy doesn't afford a woman time with a man she views as superior stock. -Rollo Plates break, you need to have the abundance to be willing to let them break. Say "Things are going well but I like to take my time." when try to get exclusivit…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:48 PM
1

Can't shoot pool with a rope- happens to the best of us. Give it more experience and you'll get more comfortable. Most likely just some nerves and you psyching yourself out.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:24 PM
2

Women's love is based on what you can do for her and you you make her feel. It's opportunistic. The only woman who has the capacity to unconditionally love you is your mother- some men don't even get that. This is one of those red pills that is very hard to swallow but will set you free. Realize women's love is conditional and choose to interact from that mental point of origin. Enjoy things while they last if you choose to go that route and don't over-invest. Edit: to really answer your questio…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:20 PM
3

Her ex is emotional and beta and all over the place. You mateguarded by trying to set boundaries. What she is doing by texting other men(a guy she used to fuck, on top of it)shows she isn't LTR material. Dump her and move on.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:58 PM
1

Practice more. When gym becomes available again- do the assisted pullup machine. Also, caloric surplus and plenty of protein.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:12 PM
2

Your EX-LTR. ftfy
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:04 PM
1

Great words. I'm laughing at my self here today.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:03 PM
2

The answer is in the question.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:57 AM
1

What did you possibly think you could gain by texting her? Dont reply. Delete her number and stop trying to get at her. You're orbiting.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:24 AM
2

She's trying to get a read on whats going on in you/your gf's life. Nothing good can come from having any contact with her. Ignore her going forward.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:19 AM
4

This is pure gold.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:17 AM
16

Classic shit test. Her rationalization hamster doesn't want to feel like she's your sex piece even though she knows she is. Just reply "ok sure. [insert logistics]." Proceed as usual and escalate. That said, in the rare case she actually means it and won't fuck- kick her out within a couple minutes of her rejecting sex while keeping your cool and soft next.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:13 AM
5

You're not exclusive, she can do what she wants as long as she isn't disrespectful about it(rubbing your face in it, coming from another guy's place, etc).
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:09 AM
2

Reply with "Sounds good. [insert logistics]." She sounds down. Have fun.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:29 AM
-1

Hahah this is the one to use.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:24 AM
1

Mastery. It can make you good money and an expert in a field. Just try to have some social skills and other things you can talk about. How do you want to be remembered? What imprint do you want to leave on the world? What are you talents? What do you enjoy? Try to amalgamate those together.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:42 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:37 PM
3

Doing things to appease her isn't a good move. Doing it because you like it is fine. That said, you can reward good behavior with some romantic/sweet stuff. They dig it up when done in your frame.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:37 PM
2

4orty9iner's, 5ifty9iner's and 6ixty9iner's. They have inflated egos in westernized countries because lots of guys think they are easier lays and less intimidating(lol), which proves my first sentence. They think they are 9s. Also, a lot of it is insecurity in the form of compensation. Many feel more attractive and better about themselves to reject a more attractive guy. They're compensating. Anyway, proceed as usual if you find them fuckable. If they act bitchy or difficult, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:33 PM
1

You handled it great. Let her come back to you.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:23 PM
4

This is true.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:18 PM
1

Because they dont need to be.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:18 PM
16

Fuck the bitches, this is the perfect opportunity to do some productive shit and come out of this a better man.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:16 PM
3

hahaha this
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:08 PM
3

Like the other guy said, put the degree on hold w/o dropping out if you can. Identify the skills you have that you can monetize. If you dont have any- get to learning while you do a job to make money(go for sales, the most transferable skill in the world, or trades). Learn the skill- ideally one where you can be your own boss. Digital marketing, copywriting, graphic design, ecommerce, video editing, etc etc. Further reading: wall street playboys dot com / 1 million 10 years zero excuses wall str…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:59 PM
6

Thats about as bad a list as it gets for red flags. Save yourself the trouble and hard next now. "This isn't working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." then ghost and move on.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:28 PM
1

"Sure. I should be free after 7. Come over at 8." Could be bullshit but since she offered a specific reschedule, she gets one more chance. If she flakes or tries to reschedule again, hard next. Edit: at 8, not around 8.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:25 PM
3

You dont want an LTR, then don't LTR her. Brush it off or simply tell her you're not looking for a serious relationship and let the chips fall where they may.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:08 PM
1

Not a single date? Even though it may be tougher for a black guy in SEA, my guess is you're not putting in enough work/numbers. Do you use online dating? If so, do you have really good quality and value photos taken? When you approach, what do you typically say? How many approaches do you do each week/month? Do you go out at night? If so, how often? What do you do when you go out?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:04 PM
2

It means move on.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:35 PM
2

Oneitis like a motherfucker. That said, start pulling back. When you catch yourself over-investing like that, check yourself and pull back for your own sake. She told you she would hit you up when her period is over- let her. If she doesnt hit you up, keep it moving. And talk to some other women.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:12 AM
3

They are mateguarding and acting jealous. Not a good move on their part.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:08 AM
4

Change your mindset from one of trying to win her back, to becoming the prize yourself. Text for logistics, if youre not planning a meetup- be minimal to none with texting and end the conversation because you have stuff to do. When she pulls back, pull back harder. It will either be over, or with time she will hit you up and come back. In either case, game new women.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:52 AM
1

Difference between being clumsy and overt and polarizing in an effective way. Obviously you dont see the difference and thats why youre asking here. No need for the attitude though.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:43 AM
1

If youre putting in enough numbers and getting not getting any results, you gotta work on your game/SMV.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:49 AM
1

You're asking about what to make your Tinder bio then telling me why youre right and Im wrong. Hey, good luck. Dont go overt if you want to cast a wider net. Up to you.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:44 AM
2

"When we had texted previously during the week, she did complain I didnt text her enough, and when I texted her more, she texted less." Listen to her actions, not her words. Text for logistics.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:39 AM
2

This is actually funny af and good.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:32 AM
2

Too obvious. If you want a quarantine specific bio, try this: "Guess what quarantine is a great opportunity for?" Its an open loop. When you match and she asks you, its yours from there.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:28 AM
1

Online business ventures, reading, youtube.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:20 AM
1

Use this time to learn online/work on business ideas and improve yourself. As for dating, go straight to their place or yours. You have the perfect excuse now "lets avoid going out. Come over and we'll cook dinner".
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:18 AM
2

Saw your reply to her you mentioned. Ignore. Let her confirm- the ball is in her court. If she doesn't confirm like you told her to, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:15 AM
1

Fuuuuck. This ^
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:11 AM
5

Difficult women remain difficult. With that said, if you still want to pursue it: "You seem interesting. Final round is in person. Tomorrow or Tues works for me." Saying she is 'interesting' doesn't validate her, yet its a legit reason to meet someone. Also, it keeps her guessing and doesnt show your hand. Go find more women who won't give you a hard time about just meeting up.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:01 AM
2

You cockblocked yourself- unless you really dont like it. If the latter, just wait until her period is over and game other women.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:34 PM
10

You're rationalizing allowing her a free pass for sexual intimacy elsewhere while in a monogamous relationship(which is cheating) simply because she is "bi". Exclusivity is still exclusivity regardless of sexual preference.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:07 PM
1

Good terms= do what Vasiliy said or offer the reason in a brief way. Neutral or bad terms= "This isn't working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." Make sure you don't let her tears effect your judgement.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:02 PM
4

A lot of guys somehow think this is acceptable because "its just a girl and she's bi". Its still cheating if you're exclusive. Demote to plate or dump.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:48 PM
4

This is a good one, in person as well. Also, "not bad." Or "pretty cute." Show your appreciation without validating or making it look like it's a big deal.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:54 AM
2

This is the perfect plausible excuse to skip being in public. Invite her over for dinner or drinks at yours.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:53 PM
5

Meet her that night if it sounds like a "go" but in a public place first for a few minutes. Make sure to wear a condom.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:57 AM
2

Dont send it. Its too overt and isnt effective dread game. Also, by doing that, you're being reactionary which is being in her frame.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:35 PM
1

Her attraction isnt high enough and she is too comfortable in the relationship. Dread game. Look up '12 levels of dread' on married red pill sub. Be ready to leave eventually if the sex isnt good for you. It's an integral part of a relationship.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:30 PM
3

You cant negotiate desire. You can only manipulate it. Pull back and do you. If she comes back, great. If not, great. Work on your frame.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:05 PM
3

2mins is plenty. It's more about how you said it than what you say, but some topics are where she is from, observation or tease about her, what she is up to, etc etc.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:09 AM
2

Bingo.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:05 AM
8

When the sex stops, the relationship stops. Dump her. Also, dump her because of those red flags to and learn to vet better in the future.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:00 AM
5

Pull back and get more women.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:32 PM
3

Dont disclose. It does no good and only harms. "Ohhh I'm not fucking you on a beach because you did that with your exes." STFU.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:24 PM
6

Shes being stupid- her phone died and she expects you to be the only one who can reach out. Just reply some basic nonsense "yea was nice talking." Or simply ":)" and move on with your evening.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:49 PM
3

She has no respect for you. Telling her your boundary is a waste of time. Her desire/consideration to do those things is enough to dump her and shows she isnt LTR material. Kick her to the curb, and move on. Text her "This isnt working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." Be on purpose, lift, keep a social life, have a hobby and go game other women.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:11 PM
1

Trimming is fine, but for future I'd recommend getting a Philip's Norelco and shave that shit down very close(not hairless). Get the balls situation fixed but for now dont trip about it. Just say it's a non contagious athletic rash if she asks(good chance she wont notice). Have fun brother. Dont forget to make your move and escalate.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:40 PM
2

She either sees you as a complete beta or she is a prude and has some bullshit 'take it slow' principles(which they generally break for alphas anyway). Either way, keep it moving. Hard next. Next time, dont waste that much time before going for your close.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:32 PM
20

Certainly. You have to be a master of something, but you don't want to be inept at things like basic life skills and social skills.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:28 PM
29

Good observation. Very few people are well rounded.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:47 PM
2

Youre overthinking this. A date such as grabbing drinks, evening coffee at a quiet shop, or going for a walk at the beach is not high pressure. Just have a fun time together and escalate. Also, no dinner dates until after you've fucked her. Even then, its optional. Read the sidebar. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:21 PM
6

Tic tac toe? What?? Go on a date and build up your kino throughout the date. Greet her with a hug, sit next to her, and start with a high five/fist bump and touching her elbow and move up to touching her thigh, hair and back. Work up from there depending on where you are(private vs public).
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:58 PM
2

Next time dont even waste that much time on these types of situations. You didnt look like a pussy- you're fine.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:14 PM
1

Depends on your goals. You dont have to go to the extreme on either while ignoring the other completely. Also, switch it up.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:06 PM
2

Ask for number. Only accept number. That simple.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:04 PM
1

"Hey let's grab a drink this week."
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:46 AM
2

Let her come back. Game other women and do productive stuff.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:42 AM
3

No. What the fuck?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:39 AM
1

Great points.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:38 AM
1

Locario Fan, Alpha Male Strategies, The Red Pill(official TRP channel), An Ear for Men(Paul Elam), Alexander Grace, Clasik Obas, DocG07, Todd V, Entrepreneurs in Cars.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:36 AM
6

It's a shit test to get more of your non sexual attention and make you lose frame. Dont fall for it. Ignore or reply with what holdadoor said.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:33 AM
3

This is simply bad game. You ruined all plausible deniability by mentioning her sucking your dick, then you were switching up on the plans by telling her she can come over earlier and you were texting too much bullshit/overgaming. Text for logistics in the future and realize this chick has low interest. You can try one more time but it probably wont go anywhere. If she was interested, she would offer a reschedule. Game other women and keep that shit pushin.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:30 AM
2

The medium is the message. Shes not interested. If a chicks interest is medium or high, she will offer a reschedule. Next time, the very first time they wont make plans or flake, either ignore and keep it moving or text "ok. Hit me up when ur free." and do not contact them again unless they hit you up first.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:26 AM
1

Good question. They're different types. Pook is more about mindset/inner game and Heartiste is all about actionable game. Heartiste is all about the cocky/funny game. They're both good.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 11:02 PM
1

Hold frame and dont give her any answers. You're not exclusive to the 8, you did nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:56 PM
3

Who gives a shit? You have the hot ones fucking you- are the ugly/average ones even relevant? When chicks act difficult/arrogant, just ignore and deal with better women.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:53 PM
6

Yep, it's called "Heartiste on Game" for whoever's is wondering the exact name. Likely only a matter of time before Amazon de-platforms it. Book of Pook hardcopy is on Amazon too.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:48 PM
1

Make the snake around your neck picture with your arm your main pic. Keep the skydiving for the fun/adventure factor. Delete the others and replace with high value pics(with friends at a cool spot, at the beach, playing a sport, etc). Edit: also, online dating is tough. More guys than girls on it and being in a rural area doesnt help. Throw in some day game.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:45 PM
8

When she wants a break, realize she wants to ride other dick without it being considered cheating. Text her "this isnt working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." and move on. Hit the sidebar and avoid those bad habits. Lift weights, maintain a social life and hobbies, be on purpose and game other women.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:38 PM
1

I'm almost 23 now. Been lifting since 17. Really noticed results around 2 years in.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:35 PM
2

It's her job to reject him. If she says yes or has a desire to go, she isnt LTR material and you dump her.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:16 PM
22

Low interest. Deal with women who value you.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:11 PM
9

Come on man... Long distance or relationship. Your choice. Dont accept or even entertain her ultimatum. PS- shes fucking other guys. Move on from her and spend some time reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:07 PM
4

Been lifting since a young age so havent seen the other side of the coin but it's cool to have chicks nickname you "Poseidon" and literally worshipping your body and guys showing respect calling you "Adonis" etc etc and asking for lifting advice. Never hurts that you enjoy it, and it helps with practically any sport or activity you do.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:56 PM
2

Baahahahha
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:50 PM
1

Dump her. She already proven shes not LTR material by wanting to get more sexual attention and validation because of her current tit insecurity.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:43 PM
1

Womens attention spans are very short and they are drunk. Try to make something happen that night rather than going for a number. Clubs have lots of competition, often bad ratios, chicks have bitch shields/guards up, cockblocks, AMOGs, overpriced drinks, too loud to run game or have some conversation, and then the industry is setup to cater to the women and capitalize on male thirst. I'm not saying clubs cant get you laid but there are a lot of things working against you. I personally like dayga…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:04 PM
3

The medium is the message. Hot chick, ugly chick, doesnt matter. If she is interested, she will offer a reschedule. Just ignore it or say "ok cool hit me up when ur free" and soft next.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:19 AM
1

Its generally best to wait at least a couple days before hitting her up again. I agree with the 4-5 days recommendation. Dont trip here unless it becomes a problem that happens often.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:14 AM
4

...with your caterpillar bro Im fucking dead...
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:01 AM
127

Great one. I could just see it playing out like this... You "I think I might have upset your bf" Her "He's not my bf blah blah" White knight: shuffling in his feet. Balls shriveled up.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:51 AM
6

"Cool. I can do Tuesday or Thurs, lmk if ur free then". If she was medium or high interest, she would offer a day when she is free.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:45 AM
1

Dont beat yourself up over it. It does no value to be pissed about it now but only ruins your peace of mind. Learn your lesson though. Next time, just the pull the trigger and invite her over. Polarize->isolate->escalate then close.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:40 PM
5

Your situation is mentioned in The Way of the Superior Man. "Her complaint is content free" or something is the chapter I believe. In any case, dont let it affect your frame. Also, consider making her do some more work. Also, you'll get better answers on askMRP.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:25 PM
3

Yup. Underrated comment.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:50 PM
12

Dont mention boundaries, be non judgemental. Then she'll show her true character more and you make you're assessment of whether she is LTR material based on her actions. Why tell a chick not to do something, then she knows what to hide? Edit: dump her if she crosses a boundary of yours.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:47 PM
5

They see through your facade once they get to know you. Ask yourself what nice guy behaviors you're still doing and work on your inner game/frame.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:36 PM
9

This. OP, since this is just an easily replaceable college job, make your move. Polarize > isolate > escalate. Get the chick on a date and go from there. The test of real interest is if she is even willing to go on a date.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:29 PM
1

Yep. Confidence is key. It's a prerequisite. Game is about being the best version of yourself/not faking your true personality, becoming the prize and successfully getting what you want.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:25 PM
1

Go to places where YOU stand out better and where YOU enjoy. I would look into places where Asians would probably do better(asian neighborhoods, culture clubs, meetups, coffee shops, etc).
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:22 PM
3

Shouldn't have been in contact during your trip and opened her story. I would reply "couple? woah there...we just met." and then plan out the logistics with something like "lets meet for that coffee. I can do x day or y day." In all honesty this girl already sounds like a typical, fickle vapid SoCal chick(dont know if you live in SoCal).
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:27 PM
5

She is a fun thing for you. Post wall drying ovaries single mom. Dont move past a fuck piece, since you even chose to deal with her in the first place.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:08 PM
8

Too insulting.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:04 PM
12

This. A stupid question deserves a stupid reply(although it's a great reply in this case), if any reply at all.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:03 PM
19

"....But I didnt plan on fucking him. It just happened! I swear, I even told him 'we aren't having sex'.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:33 PM
2

Have a hotel idea ready. Next time have her invest by having her come close to you.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:32 PM
1

Agreed. Serious powerlifters sometimes even train a pull or push workout every 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:00 PM
1

Great comment.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:15 PM
1

Your can be your own worst enemy or your own best friend. Which one are you gonna choose? Further reading: Book of Pook(inner game), and main sub sidebar article "One key step to not giving a fuck". Make sure you're on purpose.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:05 PM
3

You miss 100% of the shots you never take. -Gretzky
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:00 PM
1

This. I squat around 405lbs and have never trained legs more than once a week. I also get DOMS for almost a week after leg day.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:58 PM
1

Decent chance she is bullshitting the reason. You phrased the next question too softly. Should have said: "yea I can do sunday after 7. 7:30?" Since you already replied to her, ride it out and see what happens. Next time, let us know before you reply.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:55 PM
2

You are judged more on your success/value you create vs your looks. Also, you are more of a leader, more logical/rational and physical presence. These are pros of being a guy.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:48 PM
2

This is stupid advice. Automatically assumes someone is a pussy because they dont have a short temper and arent ready to fight over ego/pride/respect. Words are words but a death threat or laying hands is another story.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:06 PM
1

Wrong mindset. Become the prize and higher value and she should be asking that question about YOU. Text for logistics. A couple back and forths that end in an invite or plans is fine.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:45 PM
1

Stop paying for her. Why were you doing that in the first place? Dumping her isnt a bad idea either.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:44 PM
74

This is classic "trickle truth". She is not LTR material just by going to clubs, let alone kissing other guys and good chance they fucked too. Dump her. "This isnt working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." and move on. Think about your vetting process, your frame, and what lessons you learned going forward. Get on purpose, lift, keep an active social life, have a hobby or two and game other women.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:38 PM
19

This.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:30 PM
1

"...I have to come out of this NON BETA..." Lmao I'm dead. It could be a few things: -the sex wasnt as good as you thought -you were too clingy/not mysterious or -shes playing a game in which she gives sex easy then pulls back hard immediately after. In any case, stay in your lane by not worrying about it. Be on purpose, lift and keep your hobbies/social life and go game other women. Move on from this one unless she comes back to you.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:26 PM
2

Better quality food, less milk, cut out the whey protein.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:13 PM
3

Bahahahaha "Private Pyle, why do you have a jelly donut?"
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:12 PM
0

Rio, I love You. Free on YouTube. You're welcome. Edit: this movie sets the mood perfectly. The horniness will come from sexual tension, your presence and kino.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:07 PM
4

It shows a lack of emotional control, which is weak frame. Before acting ask yourself: what do I stand to gain and what do I stand to lose?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:06 PM
1

7-8hrs of sleep is all you need. More than 8hrs actually makes you more lethargic in my experience. Get back in your routine.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:55 PM
2

Creatine is one of the few supplements that is actually worth it. Its cheap too. Use 5g a day for up to 6 months or so then cycle off for a month and restart. You'll gain 4-8 pounds from it. It accelerates ADP to ATP production which helps with recovery, it gives you some added water weight which makes you look a bit bigger and increases strength a bit(can help bust plateaus). Edit: creatine monohydrate is your best bet.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:50 PM
1

Text.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:46 PM
1

This is underrated advice. Besides a few books like I recommended, I'd focus more on real world experience and some of those classics.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:45 PM
2

Rational Male, Book of Pook(inner game), Heartiste on Game, Way of the Superior Man, The Personal MBA(business), How To Get Rich(author had $500 million net worth before he died- Felix Dennis), Definitive Guide to Body Language.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:43 PM
23

Women don't need hobbies, so most of them dont have any. They are herd mentality followers. They feel an innate need to be accepted by the group, so social interactions and things relating to social events are generally where their interest goes. Popular music, netflix series, parties, junk food, smoking week, social media, etc. Notice all of these things provide short term gratification. Keep on doing you and enjoying your hobbies. Women are fun when your not on purpose and you have free time.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:39 PM
9

Lmfao.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:36 PM
1

All three are good choices. Ideally you crosstrain with Muay thai and BJJ but if you have to pick one- go with Muay Thai.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:18 PM
6

FDS is teaching them how to secure commitment from a "high value beta". Those women want to wear the pants in the relationship and they are assertive and masculinized. Not feminine. They capture man's fierceness minus his reasoning and responsibility. The nice thing about FDS is that TRP and FDS filter each other out- so we don't waste time with those types.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:17 PM
13

Nice autocorrect 🤣
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:40 PM
1

Lack of outcome independence and experience. Take Viagra for a while then ween yourself off of it.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:38 PM
4

That income bump is negligible when weighted against COL.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:34 PM
2

Whatever you do, avoid LA. The dating market is tough here, women are more entitled, traffic sucks, logistics are spread out and the extreme leftism gets old real fast. NYC will be the best for getting laid and dating life. Miami will have better weather and outdoor activities and for latinas. I'd go NYC.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:33 PM
3

At this point she shouldn't be giving LMR. Follow Opperkech's advice
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:30 PM
7

Cant second this enough.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:14 PM
1

What industries and positions are they? You should include for anyone to attempt to make an educated recommendation for you. But as a rule of thumb its skills > money > prestige.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:06 PM
1

Follow your talents, not your dreams. Fuck prestige, get money. Learn a skill you can monetize.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:06 PM
1

Caloric surplus for muscle building, 1g protein per day per pound of bodyweight, train hard and be consistent.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:05 PM
2

Go to a nicer venue, a more upscale lounge and sit next to her. For kino, look up the DiCarlo Escalation ladder. Basically, its high five/arm touch/elbow touch > touch her back/touch her thigh/play with her hair > kiss/touch her ass/inner thighs > foreplay > sex. Note some push/pull. This sounds like a bunch of pre recorded stuff but it will all flow together as your game improves. Edit: you dont need to overdo it with kino either. Best to make the kiss brief as well unless you're in the bedroom…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:02 PM
1

Go for it brother.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:25 PM
2

Damnn son that was needy as fuck. You should have texted her once saying "I'm here" and left it at that. Let her come back to you. Text her "You gotta make this up to me" when she hits you up next. Make her bring you some food or something you want and come straight over for sex. Have her be extra submissive. Then drop it. Edit: this wasnt accidental. And even in the rare chance it was it doesnt negate that it was completely disrespectful of your time. If she doesnt hit you up, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:11 PM
5

Sounds good. Take note of her level of emotional investment. Dread works better when their investment is higher and usually doesnt work when investment is low/nonexistent.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 06:22 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:23 PM
1

You're not exclusive, who cares what she does(as long as it's not giving out her number in front of you or just sleeping with dude right before you arrived). Edit: she is not LTR material though.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:14 PM
12

Ignore it. It does no value to you to show up and is putting you through their hoops. Also, you may be giving off too much boyfriend energy for this to happen.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:12 PM
20

Because women are endless victims and anything supporting women and minorities is assumed the correct viewpoint. To see who has power over you, simply find out who you aren't allowed to critique.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 11:55 PM
5

Its female nature- they want to be accepted rather than accept agency and take action to improve.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 11:54 PM
6

Great translations. All these points(Abundance, OI, purpose, dominance, social skills/calibration, quick wit, confidence, success and a healthy good physique) are the bedrock for being a high value man for yourself and for the benefits they bring. FDS is fucked up in the sense that upon reading their "sidebar" they seem to want a "high value beta" male. A guy that is overly caring, considerate, will bend over backwards for them, is successful, etc. These women remind me of what profiles as a fem…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 11:50 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:07 PM
2

"No, you did it. Just remember what I said about not doing it again." and then drop it. And ignore her stupid bullshit pressure flip.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:03 PM
1

Moronic.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:56 PM
6

This is incredible advice. Definitely hit her up homie.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:50 PM
1

Keep it moving. You've spent too much effort here.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:49 PM
5

You fucked up. It's her job to reject him. If she doesnt and she flirts back, that's all you need to know. Think of this an a reverse shit test to watch how your girl handles these situations.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:45 PM
12

He doesnt respect you. Cut him off.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:39 PM
4

You are needy and have major oneitis. Stop begging her and trying to get her to do more things you like. If she doesnt meet your criteria, you dump. She likely wants a break so she can fuck another guy without it "being cheating". You need to dump her just because she has voiced that she even is considering a break. Also, you need to do it for your own mental benefit.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:29 PM
9

This. She seems to be acting respectful and just wants some comfort.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:24 PM
2

That's nothing abnormal. No big deal. It's part of the game.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:38 AM
3

First mistake= hesitation. Second mistake= date at the gym idea. Third mistake= cringeworthy opener. It made it look like she was the prize and made you look indecisive. Fourth mistake=poorly calibrated reply. Next time, dont hesitate. For dates, go for drinks, evening coffee at a quiet coffee shop or walk on beach/in park and try to pull to your place. Opener should be something like "Cool meeting u earlier Ms Cardio. [Your name]." Then back and forth 1-4 times and say "let's grab drinks. I'm f…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:31 AM
9

Assuming your game and escalation was halfway calibrated, next her.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:18 AM
3

Confirm the date and if she doesnt reply, dont go. If she flakes again, next her.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:42 PM
5

DiCarlo Escalation ladder and Sex God Method. Also, with experience you'll get better. Heres a few tips: -kiss her neck and ears when kissing -when eating her out, focus on the clit -"come hither" motion when fingering -talk dirty
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:00 PM
1

First off, 2 isnt enough of a sample size. Start to think about things when this has happened 5-10 times and it constitutes most of your outcomes with chicks. Also, you're not too aggressive if all you're doing is kissing. Could be your kino and conversation is awkward but I wouldnt trip- it's only 2 chicks.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:55 PM
1

Iron rules of tomassi talks about this. Dont do it.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 07:33 PM
2

She has low/no interest and no respect for you. Sounds like you're the only one who thinks it's a LTR. Start fucking other women and move on.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 07:24 PM
2

The problem here is hers, let her sit with her emotions. Ignore her ultimatum. The plate will break or she will come back. Accept either outcome.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:49 PM
1

Keeping this.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:34 PM
1

The doc will tell you're in the normal range as long as you're not clinically deficient. Cant rely on that.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:19 PM
2

High notch count(its likely 2x what she is saying), threesome and cheated on her bf with his brother at 15yrs old, then cheated on another guy.....She is not LTR material. Your mistake was not vetting her properly/long enough and promoting her past FWB status. Dont try to turn a hoe into a housewife. Dump her and move on. "This isnt working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." Or demote to fwb/plate.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:13 PM
4

I lifted on antibiotics a few weeks ago and was fine(amoxicillin). But if the antibiotic you take is recommended to not lift, don't. Just eat normal and take the week off. You'll be fine. It's a long game. You'll get your 3 pounds of loss back in a week of lifting.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:01 PM
2

You're asking this because you're coming from a scarcity mindset stemming from a lack of options. She wasted your time enough already- ignore her text, lift, be on purpose and go game other women.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:37 AM
5

With nightgame you need to push for the lay that night. Also, clubs(and bars to a lesser degree) are inherently set up against you as a man.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:33 AM
3

This is what's worked for me: Flirt and talk like usual, then tell her to get you and pen and paper(or use the receipt). Say "what's your number?" and then teasingly mention you're not making it obvious to her boss. Another variation is once you get the pen and paper(or receipt), write down your first name and your number and as you're writing it down, ask her "what time do you get off?" Her: "7pm." You[handing her the paper]: "cool, text me around 7." Also, it's a numbers game. 3 is nothing. Do…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:47 PM
13

"Hey can I use the restroom?" Ideally, she is so turned on and happy to be in your presence she doesn't want the night to end and you wont have to result in "tactics" to overcome a lack of sufficient interest. But in a case that's on the fence, use this plausible deniability to get in.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:20 PM
3

Cheers. Glad I could offer some insight.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:08 PM
1

This is actually a really good point- I agree. You can still fuck up the 25% with autistic openers and back/forths.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:11 PM
2

Not much you can do other than try to filter out crazies and send a morning after text.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 03:11 PM
6

Attention whore. In rarer cases, it's because you had bad game.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 03:01 PM
14

Cheers, brother. Yep- pursue ultimate freedom and purpose.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 01:37 AM
260

Feminized, mentally castrated men are easier to control and thus lead into debt, global economic competition and growth as well as consumerism. Subverting the image of masculine, strong men(negative portrayal of men in the media, pop culture/music, TV ads, Hollywood, in the workplace with affirmative action, etc) in favor of female empowerment is because many women still somehow think they are getting the short end of the stick. Also, it's been proven that women influence the vast majority of pu…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:31 PM
2

Ignore that BS and let her come to you if anything is to happen.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:16 PM
1

OP, this is bullshit advice. Dont waste the time and money jumping through her hoops, going through her vetting process and ubering. It's her problem if she has hangups, find girls who dont.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:06 PM
10

Not reading all that. The answer is "no".
/r/askTRP21/02/20 09:57 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:06 PM
25

Hahahah the simplest and best reply. OP, they are that way because they CAN be that way.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 05:09 PM
2

The whole YouTube thing is a great idea. I would have a backup channel ready though in case the main gets de platformer by YouTube admins. Also, an idea for content is to create a video version of the sidebar/main tips with various posters sending in a clip for submission to the channel. An idea I have is adding in videos about game tips, business/money/finance(although The Red Pill of Finance has this part setup), lifting advice, and general red pill content.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 01:35 AM
3

Good points. OP, you want to DARE instead of DEER(look it up on the main sub) and work on your frame by being more steadfast in your decisions. Stand by them and dont feel the need to rationalize everything.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:06 PM
0

Good point. Many men will hit this crossroads and its important to know how you'll handle it. Dont want to be unprepared.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:02 PM
3

Exactly. Dont take it these women too serious OP.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:01 PM
2

Your call. The latter is shit test(maybe some truth in her statement though). Keep doing you.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:43 PM
3

Texting that is clumsy at best, attraction killing at worst. It's too overt and even sends off some neediness and unsure energy. It's just bad game. You can get the same point across by inviting her over to watch a movie(or even going for drinks) and escalating. I would say it's a waste of time but this is how OP will get his answer if he wants to pursue it(I wouldnt pursue further after a chick wouldn't even kiss me at my place). This HS chick probably doesnt even know where her head is.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:41 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:35 PM
3

Actions, not words. Her words: I'm soooooo sorry. Her actions: no reschedule/counterday offer. Let that sink in. Keep. It. Moving.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:32 PM
3

Great advice.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:30 PM
1

Other ways to kiss are to just sense the energy and go for it without saying anything. Also, you can say "close your eyes." and if she asks why, say "you'll see". Other closes: "Let's go back and watch [movie you talked about earlier]." "Let's get outta here." Pretty much anything with plausible deniability will work if she has decent interest. Also, read The Book of Pook(buy on Amazon or read for free online) for inner game and start adopting prize mentality. After all, you're red pill and on p…
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:29 PM
0

Comes off as tradcon but you have a point.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:18 PM
-1

You hold your ground and tell her "I'm not looking to live with anyone right now. If that's a problem for you, I understand." Be ready to accept any result and dont give in. Edit: agree with Hulk and Norvell. You do need to make a decision on the future and quit pussying around. Dont let her strong arm you into anything though.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:15 PM
1

Dont do this OP.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:13 PM
2

This. A good reply to the test would have been "dont let others shame you and tell you what you can do with your body."
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:13 PM
1

You're needy. You need to stop relying on external validation and look within. Internalities are a lot more powerful than externalities.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:09 PM
1

Young grasshopper, in situations like this the only way to find out is to make a move. When in doubt, escalate. You're trying to act red pill but you're actually overgaming her and failing to realize she likely wants to fuck(although your behavior is better than being a nice guy).
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:08 PM
5

You shouldn't have told her the reason. Anyway, end the soft next and keep plating. Work on your oneitis by seeing her a bit less, being on purpose, having hobbies, and being with other women.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:00 PM
10

Just enjoy the night and if the vibe is there with one of them make a move. If you've been doing this thing right you should expect to hear something along the lines of "Wow, you've changed. You're different now." etc.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:56 PM
2

Anytime brother. Enjoy the event!
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:22 AM
3

She was cool to text you that. I'd reply "thanks for the heads up. Appreciated." and get tested. Dont trip in the meantime.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:53 AM
1

You're still to outcome dependent and care too much. Dont reward bad behavior. She gave LMR and wouldnt let you fuck. Kick her to the curb. It's not even about an "F U", it's about putting your time and attention into women who desire you and respect you. Who cares about the one who didnt and what she thinks.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:47 AM
6

I think some form of OLTR is the way for men to enact our optimal sexual strategy while also having some of the attachment/enjoyment(while keeping abundance and OI). Prize first > hold a strong frame and fuck other women > let her bring up the talk > be ready to accept any result and not to budge.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 09:51 PM
1

This to the this. Going out again after she gives LMR and wont put out allows her to get away with bad behavior, not cooperating and giving you blue balls. Try to push past the LMR the first time, but if she wont let you pish through it and fuck, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:49 PM
3

Do NOT make a girl who wont give you head your gf. If she is adventurous enough and wants to please you enough, she will try. This is actually telling about her personality. Also, she sucked off other guys but not you? Dump her and find a woman who isnt on some bullshit.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:22 PM
3

Could be some mistakes in your game, but it's probably her hangup. She probably feels "like a slut" and wants more from you and didnt want to be "easy" this time. I'm not a fan when girls dont let you through the LMR by not putting out. I'd cancel the date and bring a different girl.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:11 PM
1

Could be your escalation needs work or it could be her mental state/immaturity. Regardless, find women who want to fuck and dont give you blue balls.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:40 AM
2

No. Its supply/demand of your local dating market. Sure, being better looking and having better pics will help but an 8/10 guy will think hes a 6 if you judge based on those metrics and a 6/10 chicks will think she's an 8 or 9.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:58 AM
15

LTR material chicks dont stay in contact with other people they used to fuck. Her hiding it from you, isn't good either. Dump her and move on. Edit: good chance she cheated.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:55 AM
1

Find women who dont have single digit IQs. Try to bust the LMR and if she is still acting stupid, kick her out.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:25 PM
1

She sounds crazy. Dont reward stalking.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:56 AM
2

Stop focusing on comparing yourself to your buddy. Improve yourself. Your mindset sucks. Also, stop bringing each other down with your insecurity driven ego pissing contests. Bring each other up or stay in your lane.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:51 AM
2

For 5 day split: Chest, back, legs, shoulders/traps, arms. Reconsider if you're having lagging muscle groups and train the lagging one(s) twice.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:16 AM
3

This.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:14 AM
1

That much kissing doesnt help in regards to ASD. Invite her out again for a drink convenient to the hotel.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:37 PM
1

Feminism has some adverse effects but at least it tends to make hooking up easier due to less slut shaming as part of their agenda. I agree, good words brotha.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:26 PM
3

Yea I bet they have lots of options due to ratios here. 100k sized town closer to LA than SD(not gonna be specific here). Frame is confident, friendly and outgoing. Working on adding more accusations and push/pull rather than questions. Feminism, leftist UC/CSU colleges, social media/TV ads, ratios and supply/demand could be a lot to do with it.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:50 PM
50

Swoop the World, Happier Abroad, My Latin Life, Life Around Asia, Nomadic Matt, Steve Jabba, This Is Trouble.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 05:44 PM
1

You handled it well. A better reply to this who would you pick question is all about lying "both are good companies, but I'd prefer to work here because of x, y and z." Play the game a bit. Look up Wall Street Playboys blog. They have interview guides, posts on office politics, the whole nine yards.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:14 PM
1

Shouldn't be an issue(I've never had an issue here in the US). I've heard when traveling abroad some hotels are finicky about bringing up guests.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:04 PM
1

It might be a someone else who put the book together. I saw it and instantly bought because of the censorship world we live in. Cheers brotha.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:03 PM
3

CH has his book on amazon now(blog got taken down). Heartiste on game is the name.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:12 AM
2

You're fine. Looks like a good lead u have.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:11 AM
51

Saw your update. Dont meetup with her. Just text her "This isnt working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck." and move on.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:59 AM
30

This x10. OP, you're now single. Go out and game new women tonight.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:43 AM
3

Yea was pretty dumb. Roll with it and say "u never got the delivery?" You can make it out like it was something from you. But ask yourself, is it really worth jumping through a hoop to not lose her?
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:42 AM
3

Polarize. Does she set a date or not? No? Move on. Dont take women seriously until they're fucking you and even then dont take them that serious. Also, text for logistics and dont ask a chick out more than once.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:46 PM
1

Hahahahah this is fucking RETARDED.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:39 PM
12

Those guys are trying to back-door talk their way into her pussy. They aren't getting anywhere. Keep doing you and make your move with the chick if you want(polarize and dont be like the other guys). Do what you want.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:31 PM
2

It's not catastrophic, but I wouldnt send a post date text(unless its morning after anti rape accusation text). You want to keep her wondering and let her think about you and whether you'll ask her out again.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:18 PM
3

Great analogy. I'm gonna run some game for an hour or two tonight and give a few chicks an opportunity.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:16 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:36 PM
1

Do you need to actually see his dick in her pussy to realize shes cheating on you? The watch thing was just the projection of it. Shes doesnt even respect you enough to not text him in front of you, let alone not cheat on you. Grab your balls and dump her.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:27 PM
1

This sounds like too much drama and bullshit. Her walking out was complete disrespect and she has shown to be angry over small shit. Also, shes an alcoholic. Hard next or at least demote and dont go in public with her again.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:22 PM
7

If you're exclusive, its cheating. Its definitely a red flag. Get a 3some out of it and demote/dump. This chick is perfect plate/fwb material but not LTR material.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:08 PM
3

Do not ask her about it. She has already showed you she was in contact with an ex and likely still is so shes not LTR material. Dont LTR her. Keep as fwb and nothing more. Also, if she cheated on him to be with you that's another automatic disqualifier.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:54 PM
1

It's all good, brother. Its frustrating to see the progress evaporating away but it will all come back within 1-2 months, tops. The muscle knows where it's been, itll come back fast.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:08 PM
3

Yea, the background is perfect. "Looks like a cool restaurant."
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:02 PM
22

"Tap water?" "Yea if ur cool I'll give u one of my beers."
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:49 PM
32

She made excuses and didnt offer a reschedule. The medium is the message. Shes not interested. Ignore it and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:22 AM
1

"Ok. Heres my number. Hit me up by [tonight/tomorrow/whatever]." or ignore and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:22 PM
3

If her interest is high enough, she will most likely offer a reschedule.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:38 PM
3

Trying to turn a drugged out ho into a housewife is moronic. If you have to issue an ultimatum and overtly tell her you'll leave to try get your girl to comply is piss poor game. Shes not LTR material.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:58 PM
1

College and ignorance fucked you so far. What you need to do is learn a skill you can monetize(digital marketing, consulting, copywriting, graphic design, ecommerce, etc), add value and pursue this in your free time from work. Sales is a good job for the meantime and will teach you the most transferable skill out there. Read Wall St Playboys blog. Buy their new book on how to spend money and their book called efficiency.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:49 PM
4

Hahaha this guy isnt wrong.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:40 PM
5

Issuing an ultimatum isnt the solution. Dumping her is.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:39 PM
3

She is not LTR material. Sounds like she hangs with lowlifes and isnt the highest quality person. Hard next.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:37 PM
2

Technique first, muscle second. Otherwise you wont learn how to use your muscle properly.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:35 PM
1

"You look...interesting." is a good one. Todd V has a youtube video a out push/pull it's called "steal my lines push pull" or some shit.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:33 PM
2

It's because she knows your words are just that. She has lost respect for you. This is likely not salvageable for you in the long run because of loss of frame and respect. I'd keep it moving and take a learning lesson to control your emotions and frame better.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:25 PM
1

You fucked up by saying that, but never let a woman use sex as a weapon. That's a hard next.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:23 PM
1

Just read that. Great advice overall. What I disagree with is hitting chicks up a second time if they dont make plans the first.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:20 PM
6

Sigh.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:18 PM
4

You're too young for an LTR. Dont get sloppy drunk.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:15 PM
2

Dont reply. 95% chance nothing will happen if you reach out again- why bother with low interest women who aren't enthusiastic about meeting up with you the first attempt. Also, get the number earlier next time and get them off the app.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:09 PM
40

I've been thinking about this lately. Sure, you may leave some pussy on the table once in a rare while by not asking them out a second time, but the key is filtering for medium-high and high interest women. Why waste your time with a chick who isnt enthusiastic about setting something up the first time? After all, you're the prize right?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:06 PM
1

Coffee meeting/lunch/mutual hobby meetup. Ask for some advice and tips. Show your enthusiasm and what steps you have taken already. TAKE THE ADVICE GIVEN. Then report back with the results of the action taken and that you acted on the advice. Suggest a mentorship or ocassional meet and try to provide value where you can.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:44 AM
14

Too much smiling means you're over eager and over enthusiastic. Just dont do it too much.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:06 AM
1

You're doing it smart. Not recommended to do it solely for women.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:50 PM
9

Yep. Date at hotel bar>pull to hotel. Her interest being high from the jump makes things easier.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 02:01 AM
2

What? This is one of the best times to run game. Pipeline on Tinder and [insert country] Cupid and have some dates lined up before you land. A night or two on the town and some daygame wont hurt either.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:20 PM
3

Fuck that drama. Continue to ghost.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:19 PM
15

The only thing she smoked was his flesh colored cigar. If you guys are exclusive dump her without closure(she doesnt deserve closure), "this isnt working for me. We're done. Best of luck." and ghost. If you're not exclusive, who cares. Just keep fucking her and dont get too attached.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:14 PM
6

Underrated comment.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:26 PM
2

Lived here since 13. Planning my exodus.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 04:57 PM
3

I'm not even finishing reading that. Translation: "You're not acting man enough." Lift and/or martial arts, do what you want(dont change your behavior to appease her), and learn frame and outcome independence.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:57 PM
1

Like the other guy said, don't reward a catfish.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:53 PM
1

Ignore the text and move on. If they end up "letting you know"(most of the time they won't), fine. Otherwise, dont even bother.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:40 PM
1

Not once or twice.....Once!
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:38 PM
1

Stop asking them out again after they "cant" and dont offer a specific reschedule. Also, stop saying "tentatively" and "mutually conducive" lol. You need to be more casual about it and text like you would talk while still going straight to logistics. Online dating is stacked against you. It can be a good tool(so still use it if you like) but know that if favors women in that they have more options. Heres some alternative ways to meet women: social circle, meetup groups, co ed sports, ballroom da…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:33 PM
4

Where I live in SoCal(sausage fest), theres as many guys as girls in the dance classes. Sometimes 10 guys to every 8 girls. But I agree, ballroom dance(and yoga) are great and underrated ways to meet women.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:17 PM
1

Use their answers to continue the conversation. Example: "I've been playing a lot of golf lately." > Now you talk about anything golf related or what you have been up to lately as well. Having a few default questions in your mind never hurts as well.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:09 PM
25

Dump her. She's not LTR material. Ask yourself: Would a respectful LTR go out alone(read: date) with another guy who has a desire to fuck her while she has a boyfriend. She's not afraid of losing you. You're in her frame. If anything, it should be her worrying about you cheating.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:06 PM
10

I confirm my dates by saying "hey see ya at 8" the morning of. Next time dont set dates more than 3-4 days in advance.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:23 PM
1

These are good points. Most of this screening is for making a decision about whether to make an emotional investment or not. A prudent and calibrated conversation does not give off the interview vibe like you mentioned, but rather subtly dovetail some of the questions into the conversation combined with banter and of course, active listening. These screening questions will help, but there will always be some things you will not see/know until more time is spent.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 07:20 PM
1

The key to testing women is to make a list of what you want in a woman and what your red flags are and then ask subtle questions that answer those principles. Ie- Screening for future health/fitness> What are your favorite foods? Do you enjoy working out? Screening for compatibility with your interests> Do you like fast cars? Screening to weed out CC riders> You more into bars or clubs? Or neither? Screening to see if she has a healthy view on sex> Would you consider yourself a sexual person? Et…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 05:36 PM
3

This.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:12 PM
4

She doesnt really wanna know, no matter what she says. A few vague answers at most, preferably nothing at all.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:08 PM
2

Lack of outcome independence, lack of prize mentality(lift/martial arts, be on purpose and follow TRP advice and you are the prize) and fear of rejection. Realize you have nothing to lose. Nobody cares. Regret is worse than rejection.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:24 PM
2

Quasi humans I'm dead ahahahah
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:20 PM
2

Seen his vids for years now. Winning!
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:02 AM
8

If you've fucked 60 women at 22 why would you care about our routine? If you're for real, you just say anything. It's more about how you say it than what you say. It's generally opener(hey what's up or situational)>chit chat/flirting>number close>text next day and 2 back and forths at most before going for date>go on date>pull to place or hotel.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:32 PM
1

You need to work on your social autism. Any move you make from here will makes you lose massive frame and you'll look desperate. Take the L and move on unless she hits you up first.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:29 PM
1

The latter two can be found without the bad.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:25 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:23 PM
1

Usually the first time you fuck a new chick, it wont be the best. Dont be hard on yourself. You're not gonna vibe with every chick. If you still like the chick, hit her up again. If you dont, then dont.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:14 PM
1

Yea, dont let her snoop OP.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:09 PM
2

Who cares if shes older? Since she passes your boner test just keep fucking. You dont have to get into an LTR.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:07 PM
1

Who cares? You have hotter chicks you said, right? Even if not, you cant be everybody's type. Dont take it seriously.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:05 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:01 PM
1

Increase confidence, self respect, teaches nutrition, discipline, makes you stronger and makes you look better than being skinny or fat. I think martial arts is important as well.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 02:59 PM
1

Just don't use it as a crutch and you'll be good.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:08 PM
3

Ahhahahah
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:16 PM
2

This is in your head/putting pressure on yourself with hotter chicks/mental state from breakup. Get some viagra for the next time or two and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:14 PM
11

She is going on a date with another guy who has feelings for her AND lying to you about it. Dump her. "This isnt working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck."
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:40 PM
2

Wrong frame. How can she keep you interested, fearing you may sleep with other girls while you're away? LTR or long distance, pick one. If it's a short trip, then refer to the first paragraph.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:37 PM
1

Taken from my phone from a recent 1st date lay: Me: "hey its ____ from _____. What u up to.." Her: "hey ____, good to hear from you. Heading to work soon. Hows it going?" Me: "Good, at work myself. Let's unwind over some drinks. Wednesday at 8 good?" Her: "that's a great time. Let's do it. :)" Me: "Cool I'll send u the spot on Wednesday." Not everyone will be that easy. The key is polarizing quickly and if she wont set a date or a specific reschedule, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:27 PM
1

Women who act like whores(American women do it most) the longest just devalue themselves.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:18 PM
1

Yep, makes sense for Russia and some more traditional societies. The key for men is to know YOUR value and not settle down until late 30s or so, if at all. From my readings on Russian women and stories of them in NYC, I want nothing to do with them. They sound calculating, cold and judge you based on how much money you throw into them. Why do the latter when you know female nature and the associated lack of loyalty and the fact they can never love you the way you expect to be loved?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:13 PM
5

A womans attraction can definitely go up.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 08:14 PM
2

This is the proper mindset.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 08:08 PM
3

Saw your update. Proceed as usual.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 08:08 PM
2

Light switch effect. Move on. Dont let your narcissism mindfuck you into thinking you own a bitch.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:58 PM
165

Why settle down in your 20s as a super hot chick when you have literally every option out there?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:54 PM
2

How about this one: "ladies first."
/r/askTRP01/02/20 11:32 PM
3

It was consensual and you dont owe her commitment, so you did nothing wrong. Theres no covert contract saying 'sex earns commitment'. Tell her "I like to take my time" and keep hitting it or just keep it pushing if you want to bounce.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:00 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:55 PM
1

I like thin, skinny, thick and in the middle. Skinny ones are fun because you can fuck them while holding them in the air easier.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:54 PM
6

Not enough sample size to draw a conclusion. Another thing other guys didnt mention here yet is sometimes they have a bf they aren't telling you about.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:52 PM
16

Femininity and good piece of ass. Aka- keep my stomach full and my balls empty.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:21 PM
1

Youre pedestalizing her as the prize, attempting to change your behavior and who you are to try to "win her over" and you're hitting on a married coworker who is immature and childish. You're a moron.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:19 PM
1

She outright disrespected you. Hard next. You shouldn't have called her out though. She can do that when you're not around/meeting but to do that around you is straight disrespect. Also, work on your scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:54 PM
2

Fall back for a while and wait for her to reach out. Also, period isnt a valid excuse if you set it up properly from the beginning that it doesnt bother you.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:40 PM
1

I agree 100% with BigBell. OP, he gives good advice on here.Text her "since you're not feeling well, let's not meet tonight." Edit: or "let's try again next week when ur feeling better."
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:31 PM
13

Sit next to her, get her talking, kino, flirt when appropriate, good eye contact, and invite her back to your place at the end of the night with plausible deniability("let's go watch a movie at my place. I wanna show u [movie you talked about earlier]." Most of all relax and have a good time. Shes already attracted to you if she is willing to go on a date.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:21 PM
3

Unless shes completely drunk you'll be fine. Does that mean you wont fuck a chick after one or two drinks? Why ask the question if you just want your original opinion validated?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:07 PM
1

Cancel and say "something popped up". Hit her up when the soft next is over.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:51 AM
2

What the fuck? Stop short circuiting. Let her come over and fuck her.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:49 AM
1

Most MGTOW are nothing more than guys who cant get laid. The term itself may not be that but most of the guys who attach themselves to the label are sexually frustrated guys who aren't getting women and use it as a coping mechanism. That said, they do share quite a few viewpoints with the TRP/manosphere in general even though the overarching premise is checking out of the dating game(although some of them claim there are levels 1-5 to MGTOW and low level MGTOW can still hookup and even be in a r…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:48 AM
1

You handled it fine. Non fazed, not a big deal and still telling some truth without validating her statement.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:30 AM
8

Agreed. Being an entrepreneur certainly isn't for everyone.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:53 PM
18

Also, eventually setting up your service biz to where you get a percentage of revenue generated creates passive income and more incentives. Then running a product based biz requires more startup capital and experience but has more scalability and isnt as much about trading your time for money still.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:52 PM
4

Awesome. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:50 PM
2

I dont have good data yet as I'm pretty new to doing both at the same time. PM me in a couple months if you like and I'll have the results.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:24 PM
1

Your friend needs to dump her and go deal with women who will respect him more.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:07 PM
2

I do gym 3-4x a week and 2x a week muay thai. You wont be elite at either one unless you dedicate you life to it. You will want to focus more on one or the other.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:58 PM
128

Havent escaped yet but am within a year of it. The key is to find a skill you can monetize that is location independent and consistently doing it everyday(digital marketing, consulting, copywriting, graphic design, content marketing, ecommerce, etc etc).
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:56 PM
1

Switch it up a bit. Dominant sex, romantic sex, public sex/sex on the beach at night, quickie, long sex, etc etc.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:12 PM
2

Nothing wrong with saying what you do if you want to. Just dont tell her how much you make or that it's your dads company.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 01:28 AM
2

This is basic 101 shit. You ask her out and she is difficult about giving her number. You send her a text and she doesnt reply. Shes not interested. Next! Also, dont shit where you eat(unless you dont care about losing the job). You dont seem to get that.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 01:24 AM
1

Careful with the oneitis stuff. Other than that, get some lube(ky jelly is a good one), warm her up real good and get her in the zone mentally and out of her head. If it's an ongoing problem, then keep that shit pushin.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:55 PM
4

Calibration and social skills. So your answer is "yes."
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:52 PM
1

Anything that doesnt cowtow to her stupidity or show you're rattled by it. Borsa's response is good. Ignoring is fine too.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:46 PM
4

Lol this is great
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:42 PM
0

Martial arts and gym. Kick a ball around as an after thought after the first two.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:40 PM
3

Fuck the chick, you got bigger problems here. Stop getting that fucked up, stop doing hard drugs, stop spending 30hrs a week with a plate and stop lending money away.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:38 PM
19

Attention/validation and a way of "vetting" you/finding out more about you. Go for the number and never settle for a social media.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:29 PM
2

Good mindset. At the latest, itll stop once you're trained.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 03:11 PM
2

"Hey what u up to.." Her: "blah blah" You: "blah blah. We should get drinks. U free Thurs?" OR "blah blah. I have a new bottle of wine at my place. Come over and let's open it"
/r/askTRP29/01/20 03:09 PM
5

They are hazing you into the position by being tough on you. Youre a 23 year old who doesnt know much about the position and they are both 60. Stop being so sensitive as it sounds like you're being that way. If they are outright disrespecting you, tell them to stop. If they dont, find a new job and then quit.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:10 AM
11

Good start. More are: feminist, extreme liberal, single mother, divorced, selfish in bed/sexual hangups, emotional trauma, daddy issues, lots of male friends, gay male friends, etc etc
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:06 AM
2

This is terrible game. Your response to her shit test should have been "it's always happy hour somewhere" or "it's ok u can buy me a full price drink ;)" or "nah 8 is great". Then your confirmation made it seem like you were flaking on her. Because of that, this is a rare case I'd confirm by saying "we still on?" just so you dont waste your time. For future, the best confirmation is to text the place the day of, or to change the time a bit, or just say "see ya at 8".
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:53 AM
2

It's a bodyfat thing, lose some bodyfat and start lifting. Get a hormone panel with free testosterone, total test, estrogen, LH and FSH.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:44 AM
2

Doesnt really matter but if I had to pick I'd go with Rational Male. Read both though.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 07:57 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 07:37 PM
3

Username checks out. Have tried isolate, it's better than regular whey, but still prefer pea protein overall.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 07:35 PM
1

Dont believe that girl girl stuff for a second. Also, when she mentioned ONS is the confirmation that the good girl act was just that, an act. Ignore what she says, do what YOU want. If you want to fuck her again, hit her up. Then if she ignores or is wishy washy, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 03:22 PM
4

Epiduo. Also, use pea protein instead of whey.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 03:02 PM
1

Tinder and [insert country] cupid.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:14 AM
3

/thread
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:13 AM
4

Whenever they aren't putting effort in and cooperating. It's time to keep it moving when you invite them out and they flake without a specific reschedule or when they give you the "maybe" type answers.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:40 PM
3

She is attenpting to screen you/shit test for relationship material. The key is not to take it seriously or play her game. Be minimal about it over text: "tell you more in person. [Set up logistics]." In person, let her off easy the first time or two with a witty remark. "Do you have a lot of one night stands?" -ONE night? Not too many. -About 235. Is that a lot? -No, I have a lot of one night sit downs. "Are all your friends females?" -Of course. I need their opinions on fashion, shoes, you kno…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:27 PM
3

Keep it moving. Not making plans or a specific reschedule means she isnt interested.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:19 PM
0

If you gave someone your word you stand by it. That said, if you fucked up, and she finds out, you hold frame and apologize once and be calm and collected about it. Dont beg for her back. Your frame is "yeah I fucked up, I wont do it again, people make mistakes, you can take me or leave me, I'm fine with either." Even if you cheated, its generally still best to end it as she will always hold that against you, strong arm you/shame you about it and she will never fully trust you again.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:59 PM
13

Polite and minimal without making a move again or flirting. Also, yep you definitely have oneitis. Paragraphs about a chick you're not even fucking! Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:15 PM
3

She isnt fully submitting to you and she also is making excuses about baggage from the past not to do something normal that you want. You fucked up by making a girl like this your gf before knowing she doesnt suck your dick. Dump her. Edit: dont get manipulated into thinking you're being selfish.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:29 PM
10

You're too invested by strategizing this much and being so infatuated with the fact you just fucked a 9. Shes not special.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:46 AM
4

You're sitting here pouting on the internet while your ex is out fucking other guys and getting on with her life. Come on. Shes an ex, why are you still in contact? Edit: and why tf did you watch some bullshit she showed you about fucking another guy?
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:41 AM
5

Hit her up again when you want to. If shes down, great. If not, keep it pushin.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:37 AM
1

She probably got butthurt. You were busy doing other shit. Keep it moving unless she hits you up next.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:38 PM
13

Female nature has always been this way, it's just that we have returned to the "laws of the jungle" now that there is far less judgment for women. Theres pros and cons to it. Overall, I'd say its good- at least for high value guys.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:31 PM
5

Good points but she also could just be butthurt and playing tit for tat.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:27 PM
2

See if shes down to meet with my advice above. If she is, its irrelevant. Ignoring the bf excuse and continuing your logistics was a good play.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:25 PM
2

Yep. I agree 100%
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:23 PM
4

Tell her to come over another day then. If she makes excuses again, kick her to the curb.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:58 PM
3

Find new women.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:56 PM
29

From my experience, the high interest women and women who will fuck you fast, hardly shit test at all- they have already chosen you. Women who shit test more than a passing test or two are trying to see who you are and it's a good chance shes picking up dissonance from you or she perceives you are 'alpha' and instinctually wants to test to know for sure.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:56 PM
1

Invite her on your plan tell her "I'm going to x at y time. Meet me there." Basically just give her one more time and place and if that still doesn't work, I'd keep it moving.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:34 PM
4

She prolly wants to fuck. Her ex is irrelevant if she is still down to come over.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:30 PM
3

She will most likely justify cheating when the time comes(tit for tat) and at the very least she'll never forget that or fully trust you.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:34 PM
7

I'd say 12-14. Also, like financial thanks said, add some muscle.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:31 PM
5

Cafeteria, on the lawn where people are sitting, library are all good. Also, chicks in your class is obviously a good play as well. Just go up and introduce yourself and say an observation about her or say you 'thought she was cute and wanted to say hi'. Then make some small talk, throw in some flirting and say 'we should get drinks/kick it sometime' and if her response is half decent, get her number. For dates, you should be closing a higher rate than that. I would recommend setting more of a s…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:56 AM
1

Ive never had this issue before but Ive heard it's from a lack of vulnerability from fearing being judged. In a sense, that is a lack of outcome independence. Say this if/when it happens next: "that was a nice warmup." while going over to dry off/clean a bit.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:12 PM
1

Nothing wrong with it. You just aren't attracted to women having masculine hobbies.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:12 PM
3

I'd recommend rooming with some fellow bros. If this is your only option, fine. But dont expect to fuck her and dont get all pissy when she brings guys home to fuck her.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:30 AM
2

Propose an evening or weekend meetup when youre both not in class.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:25 AM
14

Welcome to Tinder. Dont fall into the trap of back and forth messaging and becoming a text buddy. Ask her out. "we should grab drinks. Hows Thurs evening at 7?" If she says yes or gives a specific reschedule, great. If its anything but that, keep it moving.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:24 AM
-1

Focus on yourself, fall back for a while and hit her up in a few days/week, when you want to. The last few sentences of your post shows you have a scarcity mindset. If youre on purpose and lifting/martial arts, youre the prize and need to act like it.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:21 AM
2

5x5 is more beginner and "use it 'till you plateau" then switch programs.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:16 AM
2

Youre stupid. Lying about the very core of who you are to get pussy is not high value shit. Also, could be drawing negative attention to yourself. Get your head straight.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:07 AM
11

The 2 schools of thought are this: 1)LTR material chick doesnt do stuff like that. If she does that, she doesnt fear losing the relationship and needs to be dumped. No need to mateguard- just dump. 2)Be outcome independent, dont try to control her and let her do whatever she wants, if she wants to cheat she will find a way to anyway. If you do catch a gut feeling or catch her cheating, then dump. Until then, dont trip. Still havent fully decided which is the better play myself.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 12:57 AM
2

For sure brother. Progress will still be good as long as youre consistent and eat properly. I train hard at both. Lots of sets of failure. 1,100lb club at 10% bodyfat. Mostly maintaining for now, but would like to add a bit more muscle and cut a small bit as well.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:07 PM
10

No particular order: No More Mr Nice Guy, Way of Superior Man, Rational Male, Book of Pook, Conversation Casanova(verbal game), Sex God Method, 48 Laws of Power, How to Get Rich(Felix Dennis), Personal MBA, Efficiency by Wall St Playboys, Definitive Book of Body Language.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:56 PM
3

She should switch types of bc and experiment a bit. If that doesnt work, buy Skyn or Trustex condoms.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:37 PM
1

Sounds like she it bothered her a bit but she didnt make a big deal out of it. Proceed as usual.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:33 PM
3

Bahahaha your reply was just great. Also, sounds like she has crabs in a bucket mentality.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:30 PM
1

I think this is actually good advice. Until recently I've gone to the gym 6x a week. I haven't noticed loss of gains from going 3-4x. Im sure injury/longevity appreciates 3-4x a week more than 6 though.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:16 PM
3

This is great advice. Everyone training both will have to focus more on one. Which one is up to the individual.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:13 PM
3

I went through this same mental issue when I recently got back into martial arts. Was training 6x a week in the gym for almost 6 years and was hesistant because I thought I'd lose muscle. I do 3x a week in the gym and 2x a week martial arts and its working great. Keep your calories and macros up, train hard in the gym 3 days/week(PPL is good but Chest/bis, Back/shoulders/tris, legs is a bit better) and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:10 PM
2

Yea text it. "This isnt working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck."
/r/askTRP20/01/20 11:07 PM
7

A damaged woman giving you blue balls. Sex with you is not a priority to her, by her actions. Keep it moving and go deal with other women.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:24 PM
3

"Havent decided yet." Next time, dont ask her 'your place or mine'. Just lead. And you pressured her by asking more about her place after she said she wants to meet at a bar first- which is reasonable before having someone to where you live.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:19 PM
3

Yep, just ignoring it and keeping it moving isnt a bad idea either.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:15 PM
1

Having a suave, playboy look in your eyes. Tease them and push/pull. Drop a compliment or two on something you genuinely like(do not compliment for the purpose of thinking she'll like you more for it) Kino Polarize, escalate, isolate. And do not be attached to the outcome.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:11 PM
2

Keep approaching AND stop caring about outcome so much. Also, if you're on purpose, lifting/martial arts, and have decent social skills you're the prize and you should be of the mindset of screening women when you approach to see if they are 'cool enough to fuck with you'. Is their personality decent? Are they hot enough? Do they seem feminine? Ask yourself questions like this and approach this from that frame of mind.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:05 PM
3

Find out what you're good at/what your talents are. Best way to know? Other people tell you youre good at it. Monetize your talents and become a skilled master at it. It helps more if you enjoy it as well, but remember: talents over dreams.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:59 PM
5

She will make everything easy. She will be enthusiastic, will quickly and effortlessly make plans with you, you'll fuck within 2 dates, she'll break her rules for you, she will make an effort to please you, and you are her top priority. Things will just flow.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:57 PM
4

OP, ignore this moronic advice. Dont fight some dude over your girl like this and also dont eat your own vomit by going back to an ex.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:46 PM
2

No. This is on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:42 PM
19

Was not a good reply- you couldn't have triggered her ASD harder if you tried. Better move would have been "yea but let's pre game at my place." and if she wont let you escalate or wont come over you have your answer.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:39 PM
1

No worries. Dont be hard on yourself.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:43 AM
2

SoCal and the bay area suck. Plenty of hotties in SoCal but the ratios, feminism and entitlement make it a bad spot. I've heard NYC is gold standard in US for hooking up but best places for LTR type chicks are generally what the article mentions.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:41 AM
8

Fuck no. She left you when you when you were going through some rough times and now wants to come back now that you're okay? Have some self respect and ignore her. Its female nature to lose attraction and even leave when the man is displaying weakness but the test of a good woman is to see if she stays if/when you go through a tough time.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:31 AM
1

Tons of reasons. She was cheating on her bf, a better chad, she got commitment , you got needy, she felt like she was gonna get played, she got an STD, etc etc. Be on purpose, game other women and be improving yourself and you'll have more of an abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:28 AM
1

Chicks definitely get oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:01 AM
1

Open the group and be friendly then talk to her. Make your move.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:15 PM
1

If it's a mention she sees other guys or had a date, its "hey what we do in our free time is up to us." or similar. If she starts getting explicit calmly tell her to stop. And if she keeps doing the latter, next her if you're tolerance for that type of talk is low.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:12 PM
5

Dont see her more than 1x or so a week, have other women, be on purpose, dont spend too much time(on dates, etc) with her.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:58 PM
2

Find your talents and find out how to monetize them. Learn a skill(sales, trades, accounting, copywriting, marketing, ecommerce, etc etc).
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:56 PM
7

If you hadn't started hitting on other girls while on a date with her, I'd recommend a hard next for being disrespectful. But in this case, you started being disrespectful to her. The wording in her text tells me it was a reactive thing to get back at you. I'd keep her around as a plate.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:50 PM
3

That's a bit heavy early on but it can still work on high interest women. The key is either keep doing this to filter for only the high interest women or ease into it a bit more. Quality vs quantity.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:39 PM
2

This is great advice.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:06 PM
2

"Thats too bad. Im sure youll get through it though. Anyways..."
/r/askTRP18/01/20 10:51 PM
3

Date: you're pretty much fucked here. Its her way of saying she isnt gonna fuck or come over. If you havent suggested your place at this point, say it anyway. Existing plate: "ok cool" and you/her bounce unless its early and the context is different.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 10:47 PM
2

You dont have to be one extreme or the other. Do follow uncle Vasya's comment though.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:06 PM
2

If you are high value and have prize mentality it will be part of your game. Is this chick cool enough to fuck with? Is she decent to talk with? Is she adventurous? etc etc. This is what should be going through your head naturally. So to answer your question, while its not 100% necessary, its highly recommended and flips the game on her, putting her in your frame.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:31 PM
1

Ask her out for drinks and stop worrying about getting IOIs. You could have had your answer from her in the time it took you to type this post.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:58 PM
3

You gotta go with your gut and the vibe on this one. Daughter could be jelly, could want some dick(I'd lean towards the previous). I'd say walk around with a tank on or change shirts in front of the daughter and see what happens.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:54 PM
1

Lol this
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:46 PM
1

Dont do lunch dates or even dinner dates before you've fucked. Go for drinks. Reply to her "okay, how about drinks in the evening then?" Also, hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:43 PM
1

Good stuff. This guy gets it.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:37 PM
1

No. Keep it moving and let her hit you up next if you even want to get together again. When women offer excuses or 'let me check my schedule' type replies, their interest isnt high.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:33 PM
1

He doesnt need to know. I don't tell one of my buddies anything about the women I fuck because he cant handle it "Did you use a condom?", "How long have you known her?" > "What? That girl must be a prostitute, dude. I dont like girls like that." Etc etc.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:28 PM
10

"Using my tickling against me" LMAO bahahah. The shit chicks argue about. You handled it fine, just dont get into arguments.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:12 PM
4

Cuz you dont have new relations to be busy with.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:06 PM
2

She sees you as older, more mature, more experienced and probably higher value and looks up to you. This is a good thing that youre getting them in their feels fast. Just dont deal with excessive clinginess/drama from them.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:29 PM
2

A random observation doesnt always mean youre a moron. Sounds like he tries too hard though and girls have quickly gotten him out of sexual consideration and friendzoned him.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:27 PM
1

Youre a decent looking guy. I would change your style, grow out facial hair, change haircut a bit, and lose some bodyfat(will lean out your face). Focus on taking more interesting(and more edgy) photos. That photo makes you look like a "nice guy" imo.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:23 PM
3

This.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:21 PM
1

All good brother just learn your lessons. Experience is the best teacher.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:19 PM
1

Good on you OP, that was the smart move. She is getting in the way of your purpose, being too clingy and then giving your drama about it. Good chance she would have ended up fucking that guy(colleague) or other guys as she is feeling 'scorned'. Also, her dictating the terms of commitment like that is a no go. You may have some feels which is why it was tough to do, but you made the right call. Her behavior hasn't gotten better so dont take her back.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:11 PM
1

Wait till she hits you up or she'll see that ignoring you is okay and you'll double text.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:05 PM
2

You've been asking multiple questions about this same chick who's causing drama. Keep it moving.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 09:52 PM
2

For sure brother. You'll learn just by being there. Reading outside of work is just the cherry on top.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 08:32 PM
1

If you aren't fucking her, you're in her orbit. Stop giving her your non sexual time and attention. You were a moron to say '...we should take it slow.' Also, she sounds like her headspace is all emotional and fucked up right now based on the whole situation with her ex. Like I said, keep it moving. Also, hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:16 PM
4

Top salesman at my job here. After a while, you get over rejection. They are rejecting the product/presentation/value presented, not you. Dont take it personal. Its also a personality thing, some people aren't cut out for sales. Most confidence comes from knowing your product backwards and forwards and having some decent sales techniques as well and doing your presentation/calls enough times to where you are comfortable with it.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:11 PM
2

You dont know for sure. Good chance they are talking/fucking. Even if they aren't, she friendzoned you. What are you trying to do? Train her not to fuck you? Move on.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:20 AM
6

Stop accepting social medias. Number or bust.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:11 AM
1

This is great advice.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:30 PM
3

Her period isnt an excuse to be a cunt. Bad behavior= withdrawal of time and attention. She pulls back? You pull back more. Look into dread. In the meantime, hit the weights/martial arts, be on purpose and go hang with some buddies. If this doesnt stop very soon, you'll need to dump her. Edit: sounds like shes losing attraction.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:22 PM
2

She wasnt interested. The bathroom excuse was exactly that, an excuse to end the interaction. When going for the number- maybe is a no. No is a no as well. Also, polarize and ask her out faster. Within 1-2 minutes usually. Dont get confused and all fucked up over one or two approaches. This is a numbers game.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 09:09 PM
1

Edit: read some other comments and found out you're a virgin. You're too wound up. That's what it is. Get a decent quality escort and get it over with. I chilled way the fuck out after I lost my virginity. Read the sidebar and work on your inner game(prize mentality, OI, abundance, confidence).
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:50 PM
1

She is getting in the way of your purpose by bothering you and being dramatic when you choose to allocate your time to business. On top of that, you want to explore other women. Dump her. You really shouldn't even be in a relationship at this age.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:41 PM
1

Body fat test machines aren't accurate at all. So using then you can only benchmark your progress with data that isnt even factual. Also, if you ate a meal before or worked out yet that day before the test will skew results. Water weight and carb load can be a factor as well.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:27 PM
8

Agree with other posters about secretly recording, then call cops to get her out. Tread carefully with being alone with her. Be ready to lawyer up.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:23 PM
2

She sounds like a dud/just isnt that attracted. Keep it moving unless she makes the next move and find other women.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:18 PM
2

You gave her an out and it made you look unsure of the plans, assuming she wouldn't be able to make it. Bad game. Learn the lesson. Ball is in her court now if you still want to get together.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:15 PM
4

Dont reply or at most "Its best we dont hangout. All the best" or similar. Move on and stop allowing her to waste your time.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:53 PM
3

Lol this
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:20 PM
3

Skyn large and trustex are good.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:18 PM
9

Could be either one, don't overthink it. Assume attraction and proceed as usual when she comes over. By the way, your response to her was priceless!
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:08 PM
2

Got it, thanks. Cheers.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:53 PM
1

Yea of course. It's easier for them to ignore your text than to reject you to your face. Dont take it personal. It's a numbers game.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:48 PM
1

Overthinking. Your game will improve the more approaches you do. Hit her up the next day. Talk to more women.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:27 PM
0

This. OP, hit her up in a few days or a week if you want.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:23 PM
1

Shes free to do whatever she wants. If she actually has a desire(note I said desire, not even actually going) to go, dump her. She isnt LTR material.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:21 PM
3

Ignore this OP. Dont DEER and show this level of investment to her. Besides, she isnt gonna tell you the real reasons(attention, validation, good chance of hooking up). If this is anything more than a passing shit test, you need to dump her.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:19 PM
6

Minor offenses are met with a withdrawal of time and attention. Straight disrespect is met with a hard next.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:10 PM
1

The push and the pull you enact work simultaneously to contribute to your agenda and frame. When push/pull is done properly, it has the desired outcome you seek and are working towards whilst retaining your values which is having and holding your frame. Your frame is as flexible as YOU make it for what YOU want in a given situation, barring that you're not capitulating your position.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:07 PM
7

I dont really use SM but that's a great profile. How are these chicks generally coming at you, out of curiosity?
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:57 PM
8

You shouldn't be in a relationship in college, especially when you're in a frat and have that much access to pussy. Also, instead of dumping her when she crosses the line of texting other guys/partying alone(you dont know for sure if she is fucking only you), you allow her disrespect and rationalize it by just fucking other women which seems like you want to do anyway. She keeps doing this stuff because she doesnt respect your boundaries even though you have options. You need to breakup with her…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:51 PM
2

She already agreed to go to your place and you'd rather take her to a frat party at a club? Come on.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:40 PM
8

Keep it moving. Iron Rules of Tomassi: any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait, the sex is never worth the wait.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:27 PM
2

You should have known she was bullshit when she said "I'll let you know." before your first date attempt. Then when she flaked you shouldn't have ever replied again. Learn this: if she doesn't make concrete plans, keep it moving. If she flakes with no specific reschedule(or in this case, respectful notice), keep it moving.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:19 PM
1

Stop wasting your time. Oneitis. Hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:13 PM
1

Confidence and flirting with OI mindset. Combine that with physique, walk, cologne, decent threads and youre set.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:05 PM
1

This is a good one.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:02 PM
1

Its sex first, relationship(if you even are willing to be in one) second. Not the other way around. She got her commitment before even fucking you. Thats not good. You should not have committed because you simply dont know her or her character well enough to make an accurate assessment. MINIMUM 3-4 months of dating before committing. Really, it should be 6 months or more. You should move on and find different chicks. This is going to end poorly for you. You are going to get more invested in her …
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:52 PM
1

She is now fucking her ex again and not you and you're buying her bullshit? Keep it moving.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:14 AM
5

Go for it. Sounds like she wants to fuck. Edit: dont be a tampon about it though. If she starts getting emotional or talking about it, say something quick acknowledging it and say "let's get your mind off that." and switch it to something positive and then sexual.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:00 PM
1

Dont text her at all until the morning of the date and then text "see ya at 7". Edit: like the other guy said, dont set dates more than 3 days out.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 09:45 PM
2

Like those Arab guys who apparently shit on IG models tits. Those women do some crazy shit for the paper I've heard.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 09:38 PM
1

This is all you need to know OP.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 09:36 PM
1

Hard next after the first time a chick does this. Kick her out of your place. Why reward bad behavior with your non sexual time and attention? You're trying to teach her to fuck you not to give you blue balls. There will be women who do this LMR but find other women who wont. Pussy isnt worth it. Find women who really want you without hangups.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 09:34 PM
4

You already lost if she actually wants to go. A shit test would be something like "I'm thinking about going to the club blah blah..." Sounds like in this case she is telling you she has made her mind up and is actually serious about going. If she has a desire to actually go clubbing and do girls nights out, she is not LTR material. She is free to do whatever she wants, just dont be exclusive with women like that. Do not mateguard.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:24 PM
4

I'm with Hugues on this one. I had a same view a week ago but he gave me some advice on this. You cant change her desire to go clubbing, just the fact she wants to go means you already lost. She knows you dont like it, but she making her desires for fun and who knows what else above you and the relationship. Take that for what its worth.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:16 PM
2

You're overthinking this way too much. Stop being afraid of being creepy. It's all good man, just enjoy yourselves, escalate and have a good time.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:06 PM
1

Yea do some kino. High five, first bump, touch her arm. If she is cool w it, go to touching her thigh, her back, play with hair, etc. Kiss her if you want. Then pull to somewhere private to watch a movie and go from there. Lots of this type of info is on here.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:51 PM
1

We all can use a little reminder every now and then even though we may have the knowledge already- good point. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 01:40 AM
9

What this guy said. Women are either attracted to you from the beginning or not. You can still fuck it up and she will still be evaluating you sexually/as an option but the attraction cant be negotiated. Men think "damn, shes hot. I'd fuck." women think "Hes cute. He is a consideration sexually." The key is filtering women out quickly and doing this whole game thing on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 01:39 AM
1

Just get ice cream or do a walk on beach/in a park and pull to your place/car/hotel from there.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 09:12 PM
1

Just say "hey what u up to.." and when she replies, say "blah blah etc etc...we should grab drinks Thurs. Hows 7?" or similar.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:24 PM
1

There is a line between running some asshole game here and there with women and being a prick of a person. Perhaps some make the line seem blurry.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:10 PM
6

Not reading this bullshit of yours again. I read your previous post 3 weeks ago when you posted it and told you to "move on" and multiple ECs were telling you the same yet you keep interacting with her. The chick is a fucking loon and youre a moron for staying around.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:35 AM
2

No such thing as an alpha female but rather a masculine woman.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:30 AM
1

Since you've smashed, yea sure hit her up once more in a week or so.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:23 AM
2

Dump her. Why are you dating a single mom? Her kid will always be a priority over you, the kids dad will never be out of the picture, and you'll likely end up paying for a kid that isn't yours. Fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:20 AM
2

Dread(if you think its even worth keeping her around). If it doesnt work, dump.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:17 AM
7

Totally agreed. Most of the immigrants now want to economically pump and dump the western countries they immigrate to. Many come here for geoarbitrage and/or western college education and then get what they want for a while, then leave, all while sucking off the government that gives them everything. And of course, the cherry on top is them having all this pride and patriotism for the country that doesnt give them anywhere near the same economic opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 06:03 AM
1

I agree with you in that we will see(and are already seeing) an increase in disgruntled young men. Social media, TV/video streaming ads, the college system, and Hollywood all play a major role in the portrayal of men in a negative light, thus adding fuel to fire you mentioned. The college system is a big one I'd like to address that adds to your list. We all know the epidemic that is the college debt crisis. Absolute insanity. But this debt combined with the rise of disgruntled young men makes t…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:42 AM
1

Good post. The old threads were better as well. There's an increasing number of a lot of HS/college age guys and posting all the TRP 101 level mistakes over on the Ask sub. It dilutes the forum and decreases the quality of content eve though everyone starts somewhere. That said, hopefully they can realize the sidebar and the resources all over are very helpful and should be considered more.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:27 AM
6

I see your point. I think its important to say what I am mentioning is a regular progression/going for what you want(isolate, escalate, polarize, etc is what you'll do anyway regardless if its a compliance test)- dont really understand how thats invested. If she isn't doing what you want- next. No big deal. If so, great. Still pretty simple.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:15 AM
3

This. True players use this method.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:48 AM
1

Attention whores. Stop taking Snapchats. Suggest meeting for drinks. If she seems keen, get her number(dont settle for anything else) and set it up.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:47 AM
3

Youre more invested than she is. Either keep it moving or wait a few days and reply.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:45 AM
9

Youre too invested and she's being difficult and cant rationalize that she already cheated. Youre wasting your time. Keep it moving.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:44 AM
39

Youre more naive than a 3 year old if you believe that line of hers. Dump her and stop digging through the trash. Why are you fucking with a single mom? And how can a woman with an 18 yr old son be a 9???
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:41 AM
1

"Stop asking goofy ass questions." Edit: dont start talking red pill shit with her.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:36 AM
7

Do both.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:35 AM
11

Youre allowing one opinion to derail your mindset. Prioritize your purpose so you dont get so frustrated with your woman situation and stop seeking women for validation to feel better about yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:32 PM
8

Have gotten performance anxiety myself a few times. Just take Viagra before you fuck for the first time(or just keep it on hand) and you'll be good. Ween yourself off with time. Its mostly an outcome independence thing. You have to truly not care what she thinks. Also, with experience the less you'll get it as you'll get more sure of yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:28 PM
3

Happens. Part of the internalization process of TRP. Learn and move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:53 PM
1

Answer her statement or questions briefly then offer logistics to meet. If you already have logistics planned, its "[answer her question/statement briefly]. I gotta run I'm busy see ya tomorrow."
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:52 PM
3

Actions, not words. Most likely just a beta bait shit test. Nothing new.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:49 PM
1

Wall St Oasis, Wall St Playboys
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:48 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:45 PM
10

Hahahaha this. OP is completely in her frame.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:38 PM
1

Once a couple has kids and the sex has decreased, it rarely will go back to the level from before she was pregnant. It may go a bit higher than when she is 5 months pregnant and feeling sick, but dont expect much.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:06 PM
10

You handled it fine other than entertaining too much to her. I'd pull back and dont live by her timeline on this. Outcome independence.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:35 AM
5

Let it go and let her ego. Youre orbiting her giving her all this time and attention and not even fucking her let alone a kiss. Hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:29 AM
9

Men have to create value, women preserve it. Time is a mans friend, not womans as long as you've been working on yourself. Yes, many young men are lost in our society. Lack of positive father figures, feminism, Hollywood, most of the mainstream media, college debt, video games and social media make the landscape more difficult. That said, you can shift your thinking into the productive, that is the age we live in where entrepreneurship, location independence and information has never been at you…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:13 AM
6

This is up to personal values. The decrease in sex is either significant enough to dump or not. Only you can answer that. What can be said is that when sex decreases it almost never will go back to it's better previous frequency.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:06 AM
0

You already fucked up by traveling to her and you're more invested. Reschedule it.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:18 PM
0

This
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:16 PM
3

Or "more than 1 but less than 127" just to fuck with her head.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:11 PM
2

"I dont kiss and tell." "357." "I treasure my virginity."
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:03 PM
3

This x10.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:01 PM
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