I've seen this girl three times so far and haven't got sex out of it.

I always get very close with all her clothes off, pussy wet etc but every time she stops me and says "no no not tonight".

I did get a blowjob the last time but it was shite.

She claims she's a virgin but after vetting I have serious doubts. Basically a cocktease.

The last time I stoically left after she said no. She wanted me to stay and she was trying to kiss me and initiate foreplay but I stuck to my guns and walked out the door.

Before I left she asked if I would take her to the beach the next day and I replied "maybe "

After advice from trp I was told to soft next for a week and see if that caused some dread on her side. Then arrange to see her again and if she's still being a cocktease I should hard next her.

She sent me two messages so far that I haven't replied to

(Few days ago) Her: I won't be able to go to the beach today as I'm full of the cold. Maybe you could take me next weekend?

(Today) her: just a yes or a no would be great or even a maybe cause I might be doing other stuff this weekend and I need to know soonish

Do I just not reply until a week of soft nexting has elapsed then arrange to meet on my terms again?

Her messages so far have been cheeky af imo. First making the assumption I was definitely taking her and second sounding like a spoiled brat.