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1

Isn't rule #1?...Don't get fuckin married !!
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:40 PM
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Idk man. Looks alone if you don't have them emotionally hooked/invested aren't that big of a deal to them. The hook/investment is the key. Theres a lot of ways to do this but it's a prerequisite for any type of dread/fomo...They get hit it on by attractive guys all the time.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:38 PM
2

You guys are probably right with the entitled comments. I mean I own my businesses and I work hard at shit and for everything I have but w women yeah I guess I feel a bit entititled and better than most women honestly.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:35 PM
1

Great commentary. Thanks!
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:23 PM
4

Thats a good answer!
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:20 PM
1

Dude I know women in their 40s with Sugar Daddies and 50s that can get dudes to fuck them and buy them shit all day. Their inboxes are flooded w thirsty dudes who wanna fly them out to pick your state. Now these are good looking girls BUT I also know ugly ones who get tons of dick. You're delusional. I would say where men have the advantage is we can on avg make a lot more $. But if you consider divorce and other factors there aren't really any disadvantages a decent woman has IMO...
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:27 AM
1

Haha. Maybe I should go salt daddy! I mean I'm getting dates but they're leading to nothing but ghosting/blowouts.....My game/vibe must need work idk.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:14 AM
14

It's normal female behavior. She has a new Chad. All you can do is take the loss and move on. Sorry man. We have all been there.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:26 PM
1

It's hard saying man. It's all a balancing act that's different each and every time. Don't beat yourself up or spin in your head too much. Sounds like she just wasn't drunk enough haah. Keep at it with other girls. Thats the most important part. Dont put much stock in one interaction w one girl.....good or bad. Don't be afraid to take it away (pull back) in the future if they give you a lot of LMR....if you pull back and she doesn't chase ....you probably weren't gonna bang anyway.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:07 PM
1

You just cant imagine how many options they have. Thanks to the internet, they have tons and tons of Chad's throwing dick at them on the hour.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:18 PM
4

Reading your post im guessing youre young and haven't dated much...Up to getting to your place I would say you did very very well. It's hard to say without being there but I'm guessing you blew her out and acted too thirsty..You were probably too aggressive. I wouldn't do any hair pulling until you are actually fucking either. I have done it and sometimes it happens. At least you were being aggressive, but sometimes if you're not calibrated it can be too much for her. While not likely, if she li…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:49 PM
1

If it's from OLD I won't meet up without a phone call. If I can't game her on the phone beforhand and get her to start qualifying herself I'm not gonna waste my time hoping she shows up and going through all the mental gymnastics you guys are debating about with the texting. If it goes well over the phone there's almost a zero percent chance she flakes.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:56 AM
9

Who cares. Carry her a bag. Not a big deal. Playfully tease the fuck out of her while doing it (she needs to hit the gym, shopaholic, gold digger, needs a sugar daddy.. etc... Should have asked her for her number!!
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:25 AM
1

If it's an online app or some shit I won't agree to meet anyone until we have talked on the phone 1st. Period. If I can't get them qualifying themselves over the phone before the date I'm not interested. Thats just me though.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:20 AM
1

No!!! Dont ever give ultimatum, act flustered, argue..etc...you're unshakeable in her presence. If she ever crosses the line, just drop her. It's that easy.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:03 AM
3

I always had my head shaved when I was your age. Don't think it really matters at all. Some girls like it. Have a good body..dress well..etc
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:59 AM
2

Exactly..If she doesn't reach out theres almost a zero chance...
/r/askTRP07/03/21 05:18 PM
5

I have asked myself these same questions plenty of times when things don't go right. It's so hard to know. I don't think they have any clue most of the time either. Could be all the above. Sometimes it's just so easy and other times I just beat myself up wondering wtf I could have done better.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 04:39 AM
7

As someone divorced, and who has seen a lot of failed marriages, let me tell you..your marriage is in trouble man!
/r/askTRP14/02/21 05:06 PM
5

Dont be posting back on here in a year after "falling in love" with some tatted up THOT who won't return your texts!
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:33 PM
4

OP, you obviously feel guilt on some level if you're posting about this on Reddit.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:31 PM
7

Truth
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:28 AM
16

As you age you see just how rare this type of person is. Choose accordingly.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 11:35 PM
1

Thank you. Shit happens. All we can do is pick up the pieces and try and be the best we can.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:16 AM
2

Yeah man. Get healthy and focus on rebuilding. I know shit is painful we all go through it. My ex wife of 20 years left me after I got sick with symptoms and a situation very similar to yours.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:42 PM
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Man this is standard stuff. Im guessing you're kind of young. Ask yourself this. If the roles were reversed would you have wanted to be with her? Of course not. She wasn't your wife or the mother of your children. She didn't owe you anything. You should he more concerned about getting back to health again than anything!!
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:58 PM
2

These girls have so much dick at their disposal. NEXT
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:14 AM
2

Rocksmith 2014 for PC helped me so much!!
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:06 AM
1

Before the pandemic Tinder was WAY better in Europe for me.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 04:02 PM
1

Uhhh. I have spent time in both and you are very very wrong unfortunately
/r/askTRP06/01/21 05:31 AM
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Just ghost her for awhile and see what happens
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:13 PM
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If youre gonna approach during a pandemic and get a # waiting is a joke. Text her that night!! Set up a date. Call her if you want. You can actually build attraction over the phone. Also it sets you apart because nobody does it any more. Use the phone to get her to qualify herself, tease, laugh, flirt. Don't wait. Don't play games. Just go for it. Is she doesn't comply find a new one.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:43 PM
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This is the right answer..
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:32 AM
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Haha. That would be insane. I got snipped when I was still married when I was 35 when I realized my ex wife was insane. Seriously though, all the plates I have had since my divorce, not worrying about getting them pregnant has added so much joy to my life. Two of them wanted me to get my shit reversed so we "could start a family together" 🤣
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:15 PM
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Seriously at 46 years old, I can say it was the best decision of my life. I cant imagine getting someone pregnant in the last 5 years since my divorce. My life wohld have been destroyed.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:33 AM
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Dude. Come on. Shes as much of a turboslut as her friend. This girl is one big red flag.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:37 PM
2

And there's a less than 1% chance that the date will even happen so find some new pussy already.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:28 PM
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These posts about random Tinder THOTS that you haven't even met should be banned..
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:27 PM
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Shows how important social circle and local status/popularity is in getting laid. Don't judge yourself by how much ass your gettibg right now. This little pandemic issue is all kinds of fucked up.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:51 PM
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Well man I know all too well how life can be pretty overwhelming. At 47, I could write a book. Sounds like some time being single would be good for you. Try and find a good therapist who you like. Hang in there. Shit will get better! It feels like shit in the moment but time is kinda crazy.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:48 AM
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I know it sucks bruh but be glad she did it now and not in 10 years when you were married w 2 kids. Be very glad actually. You have no idea how bad it can be. And cheer up...it won't be the last time...
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:17 AM
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Guitar & Gym
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:14 AM
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Not too complicated but its hard to apply Sleep Lift Stop/Limit Smoking Weed!! Limit Alcohol Solid Diet Decrease Cortisol Magnesium and Vitamin D may help
/r/askTRP09/12/20 04:45 AM
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Its going to be different for everyone depending on your proportions. This is a good starting point to start understanding some very important fundamentals https://youtu.be/Av3LO2GwpAk
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:18 AM
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Your story is pretty normal. We are all pretty thirsty after divorce and our self esteem needs a little massaging. At least you have an awareness of what you're doing and you know deep down that you're wasting a shitload of time on those women. Unfortunately there's no perfect answer here. Its a journey. I would advise you to start priotizing your relationships w your children and your finances/mission. I know its hard w the kids but they need you and the feeling of/being a good parent is far mo…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:24 PM
1

For better or worse...Nothing is permanent!
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:41 PM
3

Just next the bitch and move on..Jesus
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:33 PM
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I'm talking about it from her female brain. Not the reality. If they want to see you and you say you're busy "they feel" blown off. Thats all that matters in the female brain.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:31 PM
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Heres the truth... These girls have endless options w guys. Get this through your head. In the early phases of a relationship if they feel like you're not there for them they will very likely dump your ass. Im not saying you did anything wrong at all. But just accept that if you blow a girl off 2x you're likely to get dumped. Once the relationship has some meat to it and you have her emotionally attached you can generally get away w a lot more. I personally have accepted that the chances of me g…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:22 PM
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I don't see what you're feeling emasculated about. You need to be more specific. Why do you feel she has all the power...
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:46 AM
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I have been in this exact same situation 3x since summer. Dont worry about keeping that same level of tension. That will come back after you guys fuck again after she's off of quarantine. Shes going to be bored AF at home so if she likes you she's going to be wanting to text you a ton....Don't be her all day text buddy!! Dont ignore her if she texts you but take your time replying because youre out on your purpose! Text her once every couple of days and ask how she's feeling. It shows that you c…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:35 PM
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Kids complicate this so much. If there were/are no kids then I would be gone in a heartbeat . I was so repulsed by my ex wife I didn't want to fuck her for a few years. But I hung in there for my kid. Then it became unbearable and I bailed out. Its tough shit. Im very glad I will never have to go through that again.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:30 AM
2

Man you kids these days are some pussies. You seriously sound like a 15 year old girl. Im so glad im old and I missed all the BS you kids deal with regarding social media. Its gross.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:05 AM
1

If it's a chick, this is awesome. Get the alcohol flowing my man. All the other above is spot on. They're gonna test the fuck out of you so be ready. Do not get emotional about anything. Playfully tease them a lot. PLAYFULLY. Anything that feels like a major shit test agree and amplify! Good luck.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:59 PM
3

Yep. Been there a few times. Just run now. Its impossible...Its hard to find a good woman who is on the same page. These women usually end up w guys who are psycho stalkers because that's the only guy that will give them the attention they desire.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:22 PM
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These women are really tough man. There's no right answer. I struggle with these types. Keeping them happy sometimes feels impossible.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:05 PM
2

Fuck the pussy between their ears🏅
/r/askTRP20/11/20 08:31 PM
1

Doent really matter but who initiated the 1st text ?
/r/askTRP20/11/20 08:26 PM
2

I would never respond to one of her texts or even acknowledge her ever ever ever again. God these bitches can be cold. She wants to see you two compete for her affection. Dissappear. This chick is a narcissist.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 08:22 PM
1

If its an online thot....This is just me, but I always like to frame the date that we are meeting for A drink and I will be evaluating them to see if they earn the privilege to come to my house. Thats not what I tell them but its def in the subcommunication. As we all know results can be frustratingly random at times but it tends to work the best. Not saying this is the best approach for everyone but that frame just eliminates so many potential pitfalls.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:28 AM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:48 PM
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Im 47 and I have a VERY attractive plate who is in her 50s and you would not beleive the amount of dudes blowing her up online. I mean 100s of guys on just her tinder alone. Shit is crazy. I can only imagine a hot af 25 yo. And dudes on here are like idk why this girl doesn't text me back. Cause she's talking to 8k guys that's why ya ignorant fucks. Haha..
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:46 PM
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Prime...maybe..But prime doesn't matter that much IMO anymore for women....If they stay fit and attractive they can go online and get more attention and dates than you could even imagine well into their 40s. There are so many thirsty dudes out here...
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:00 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:37 PM
7

Any tattoo artist worth their salt won't do those tats.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:28 PM
2

Fuck all that shit. I feel bad for all you youngsters having to jump through all these hoops to get some virtual poon.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:56 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:50 PM
1

There could be a number of reasons. Women are strange. If you stayed dgaf and have not chased her, that could have raised her attraction level. Could be for attention. She could be ready to break up w current bf and looking to you for her backup plan..Hard saying. The main thing is she broke up w you for this other dude. Her actions are shit. Ignore her!!! No return texts, nothing...zero attention...good luck
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:45 PM
1

You should tell the girls to their face to stfu and quit talking shit about your bro. Did you confront them and tell them to fuck off with their hoe drama? Who cares what they think. They proabably all talk shit about each other the moment one of them is away.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:40 AM
1

Yeah we all do shit we know isn't in our best interest. I have been in therapy for a couple years now and I highly reccomend it. We are all imperfect and fucked up but we can strive to be better and improve. Its pretty sad but my father was absent growing up and I never had a strong male presence in my life outside of a couple teachers and coaches. AMS and his wisdom isn't perfect but if I really internalize his concepts I do a lot better. I owe a lot of my success to his teachings and applying …
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:37 AM
1

You can use women and sex like a drug if you want to. The consequences are basically the same as any other addiction. I have been there. After my divorce I did it for a couple years. Not a fun cycle I will ever repeat. You need to watch a lot of AMS videos man and beat this shit into your head.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:13 AM
3

I would totally ignore that text. You remember that you don't have to respond to everything right.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:49 PM
2

And plenty of bitches will set up thirst traps to test your ass. You have to be constantly calibrating in the early stages. Thats why push pull is generally so effective.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:48 PM
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I disagree. Its nothing but posts about this girl on tinder this, this girl on tinder flaked on me, this tinder bitch hasn't texted me back in 2 hours and put me on read.. Blah blah. Dudes crying about tinder hoes allll day..sickening.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:42 AM
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Get off Tinder. Its a waste of time and it overly validates these hoes. Seriously!
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:04 PM
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Don't pay attention to anything they say on there. They have no idea what they want.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:43 AM
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I know its maddening trying to figure it out. All you can do is walk and hope for better next time.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:59 AM
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I know its maddening trying to figure it out. All you can do is walk and hope for better nex time.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:58 AM
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I know the shit can be absolutely maddening. Especially when you felt a decent connection w the music and a good vibe. Its hard to know. Sounds like you did everything right and I dont say that often. She might be testing you, she might not be interested, she could have a BF, she could be banging 12 other dudes... its impossible to know. Do not absolufuckinlutely text her again unless its a reply. If she texts you wait at minimum 5 hours to text her back. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:09 AM
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You need to give it more time. It can take a long time. Quit chasing ass for awhile. You sound needy af right now (which is normal post breakup). Youre using pussy like a drug right now. I did it for a long time after my divorce. Take a couple months, go to therapy, get in the gym, start some hobbies. Its a bitch we have all been there. It won't be the last time you go though this, so put that into perspective. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:10 AM
1

Yes man I have to eat like a mf and get a little fat in the process to add muscle.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:04 AM
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Don't ever tell girls that no girl has never not fucked you on the 1st date. That was stupid. Its way too try hard and sounds ridiculous. Learn to keep your mouth shut. Learn to evaluate her/their responses to your escalations. If you like this girl I would give it more time.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:24 PM
2

I strongly disagree. Being overly nice and kissing ass is one thing, but being polite is basic social calibration.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:56 AM
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On the mother of your children..yes!
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:51 AM
3

Most of your points are valid but if you don't think hot chicks fuck losers you are delusional. You know how many "hot chicks" I have seen fall for drug dealers, alcoholics, crazy narcissists, violent criminals, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 07:10 AM
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Yep! Go work on yourself for awhile!!
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:07 AM
2

Come on man. 🤮
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:05 AM
4

Wow man. Thats a good story. I have a couple good ones but this girl was BPD as they come on the spectrum. Man vet a little better next time. We have all fucked sketchy chicks but you could have so easily gotten an STD or worse a rape charge..
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 10:37 PM
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Not really. Her hamster was going mach 10 at that point.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:39 PM
2

Probably been pumped and dumped a few times so they wanna secure commitment before sex.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:38 PM
55

This is totally normal after 3 months. Not that weird at all. Whats weird is when they ask for commitment before you have even hit it once!
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:18 PM
5

Ahahaha! No dude.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 01:17 AM
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Its brutal right now man. I have been struggling like fuck for the last 3 months. Lots of people report the same. Friends of mine who are major players who are not getting any ass either....Too many thirsty dudes online. Lots of women don't really want to meet up. Keep grinding. Proabably not going to get better tommorow either...
/r/askTRP06/11/20 11:26 PM
3

Go after what you want! Just realize that LTRs are very difficult to navigate in 2020 and can lead to a lot of BS. Plates are a little less stress when it goes bad. I'm 47 and have have occasionally spun plates for the last 4 years. At this point Im pretty much over it. Most aren't even worth plate status yet alone LTR. Good luck. Just remember to always have your hand on the eject button and don't be afraid to pull it and never look back.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 11:18 PM
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Generally stay away from day dates.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:04 PM
14

Best quote I ever heard about this matter.. "Today's gifts are tommorows demands"
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:36 PM
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Break all the rules within your comfort zone and be an awesome person to her. Just hearing this stuff makes me sad. Can you imagine what it would be like to be in this position. Good luck
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:29 PM
1

The women yall fuck with I swear.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:05 PM
3

There's some good advice in here but there is some shitty advice too. The main thing everyone is missing in this scenario is that you're not working!! If she's working that much she is going to resent that fact that you're not! She's going to automatically see you as lazy, not on your purpose, not doing enough, etc. This will make her attraction to you plummet. Shes probably regretting the whole situation with you if you guys aren't fucking at all.. Thats a bad sign!! If you want to salvage this…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:09 AM
1

Not true at all...Tell that to Dr Dre right now.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:02 PM
1

Don't go back. Youre just lonely. A lot of people are right now.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:08 PM
2

We have all been there.. Do not contact her ever again!!! Sorry man but this probably won't be the last time. Get used to it. At least you weren't married w kids.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:02 AM
1

Its different with every girl! But here are a few things to chew on. 1. The words you say to a girl don't matter as much as the non verbal vibe I always try and convey a "I think you're pretty cute but im not sure about you yet" vibe. Be playful with her. See if you can get her attraction up. If she starts chasing/qualifying herself you're looking good. Escalate but be calibrated when you escalate. This is the dance. Its different all the time. Push/pull/kiss/back off/ dont be predictable. This …
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:34 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:44 PM
1

Picked up guitar at 45, check out Rocksmith 2014. 2 years later I can play a lot of stuff decently. Golf, ski, snowboarding, fish, mountainbike...
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:43 PM
2

I was raised by a severely depressed mother so I can relate. Go to counseling. Work on it. Its a constant battle but im gonna fight it. You can improve things. Its a good time to work on ourselves in all aspects, put dating on the back burner, and try to come out of this shit a better person.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:25 PM
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Is this real?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:57 AM
4

Yeah man I think everyone feels this way right now. I flat out refuse to use dating apps right now for a bunch of reasons so yeah its cold approach or bust. I cant approach with a mask either. Start reading, pick up a guitar, start writing, call some old friends?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:35 AM
1

Are you asking how to be sexual without validating too much and losing your power?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:29 AM
3

Man who cares. So many hypocrites on here.. Dont be a judgemental prick. If she's giving you anal she's submitting about as much as she can. This won't last forever. Just learn to stfu and enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:18 AM
1

That works
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:15 AM
1

Shit test..which is good. Just tell her she seemed interesting and you're hoping you guys have a good connection together. End of story.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:13 AM
4

Fuck a coffee date. You should be working or busy w hobbies in the day.. If youre not, you best get on your purpose. You are busy. You can meet later at night after work. Come on man.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:07 AM
2

Let it be a lesson. She gave you your shot. Thats about as much as a guy could ask for.... We have all been too scared to capitalize on moments where we could have gotten numbers/pussy and just didn't cause we were not confident enough. Remember how youre feeling right now the next time you don't pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:08 PM
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Haha..Thats too much bro. You would have to frame this perfectly for it to work. More chance of a backfire than smash.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:12 PM
5

She probably needs a lot more clit stimulation...Order a Hitachi vibrator off of Amazon. Put it on her clit or have her use it on herself while you're fucking her. Once you guys get comfortable with it....Tell her you would like to play a game where you cuff her to the bed and then make her cum her little brains out while you use the Hitachi on her. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:13 PM
7

Dudes need to get off all the female validation superhighways..Tinder being maybe the biggest.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:17 AM
1

This. Every. Time.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:49 PM
1

Leave it in the past.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 04:46 AM
13

Just leave. Don't waste your time with game olaying/ low interest BS. If a girl says this I move on. Period.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 04:45 AM
1

This girl is a narcissistic POS. Be glad you got to smash for a little while and toss her ass to side of the road.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:55 PM
7

Hey man.. Its a trip I know...I'm 46. Separated at 42. Was with my ex for alnost 20 yrs. Too many experiences and lessons to cover much on here but feel free to PM me if you wanna chat or ask me any questions.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:45 PM
2

Exactly!
/r/askTRP20/09/20 04:26 AM
2

She's trying to get back at you. Just ignore it. On the same hand, you having girls texting you is going to cause her to be insecure. Why does she know girls are texting you? Im not a big fan of dreading her unless she's doing something to provoke it. Thats just me though.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:58 PM
7

Dude..this is so bad. Im sorry but you need the truth. My ex wife red pilled me 5 years ago. In that time I have more stories than you would believe and for better or worse, I have more experience than 99 percent of the dudes on here. Run now!!!!! This is serious shit and im not kidding....Feel free to PM me.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 02:02 AM
2

Solid
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:55 AM
7

As others have stated, you should go to therapy and deal with this. Its things in our childhood that allowed us to stick around for this shit and the issues usually run a lot deeper than the shitty relationships we had. Unfortunately, I could write a book on it at this point.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/20 05:11 PM
8

It happens man! Thats why it's an iron rule. Cut yourself some slack though. It's all a learning process. Theres some good advice on here. Just get out now and rip the band aid off.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:49 PM
2

"In a way I just want women to appriciate me, And show me that they see all the shit I'm going through and be there for me." Man I think we can all relate to this. I was married for 15 years and thought that this was owed to me and part of a marriage. WRONGx10. Women dont care about any of. And it's not just women. People dont care.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:35 PM
3

You said she replies quickly and is down to do stuff. Right? If that's the case I dont see what the issue is. Now if she starts not responding or canceling dates then yes....you can soft next.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 04:45 AM
8

Some girls are like that. As long as she is receptive keep leading.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:22 AM
1

I just got really frustrated with life! Like not wanting to live anymore kinda frustrated. Nothing was making me happy. Quite the opposite actually. I'm still working on it. I needed to get away from women for awhile to work on myself.. Once youre away from women for awhile you realize all the time and energy you have wasted on them. It's a real eye opener.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:02 PM
1

Long story but I went postal last winter around this time. Told my plates to fuck off and went full monk mode all winter. Was really struggling with my purpose and getting over some personal shit. I have only had a few bangs in the last few months and I honestly feel a bit weird now. I was totally addicted to chasing pussy for validation after my divorce and now that I dont really need that I feel kinda weird in some ways. Not sure if going monk mode was the right thing but if you think you shou…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:06 AM
2

She fucked one guy from work she proabably had a crush on before she knew you. This is a big deal to you? Compared to most thots these days..wow. This wouldn't bother me as long as it was before we met.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:42 PM
4

Just bail. Totally cut her off. Dont give her closure. Dont worry about the money. Dude! Dont loan girls money! Take it as a lesson.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:25 PM
5

Well man you're WAY ahead of the curve for kids your age. I would say you're well on your way to being a major slayer. Apps for the hottest chicks are pretty tough. They match with EVERY SINGLE GUY they want. That's makes it pretty tough. Also, if they're truly that hot, they dont ever need to be on the apps and if they are, it could be solely for attention. If you wanna get to those girls, having an in, like social circle, or common hobbies, is your best ticket. Otherwise cold approach and be r…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:21 PM
1

She most likely sees you as relationship material and she wants their input on you. Youre basically auditioning to her friends tomorrow for boyfriend role. I would go along with it and have them eating out of my hand by the end of the date.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 02:58 AM
6

Man most girls are not gonna come straight to your house without a phone call or anything. I push for it sometimes too but it's a way low percentage play. I had it work a couple times but not very often. Try and get them to the bar. Get them drinking and then back to your pad. And sometimes a copy a lot of women out of principle are gonna make you wait till the 2nd date, so slow down just a tad, and your percentages should go way up.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:08 AM
2

Not saying you have to be fake man. If you're introverted you're just gonna have to push yourself a bit. You can be social once in awhile and not be fake. Get outside your comfort zone. Put some work into this and it could be a good thing.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:21 PM
2

Thats just proves what everyone is saying. Just get them to meet up off of Tinder. Dont go to their IG acct!
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:18 PM
1

The flashlight part got me rolling🤣 You can't make this up. Dude this chick is a drunk THOT. Why are you dealing with this shit. Their are better women out there. For fuck sake, read what you wrote 3x and ask yourself wtf you're doing?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:33 PM
8

Great advice. I was thinking the same thing.. if dude plays his cards right, this has so much upside. Dude needs to be on and social AF during the interaction though. Work the parents, her friends, the whole damn room.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:25 PM
1

Yes!
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:19 PM
3

This is pretty simple.....If you're gonna try and DM these girls (which is a bad idea) do not get sexual. At all. Just try and get them to meet up. It's a low percentage play, but it has worked for me before. It can work, but if you get sexual forget it. They will just see you as another thirsty douche. If you wanna try and get girls to meet up use a dating app! Any one of them would be better than DM on Insta. Go check out Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube and internalize that shit. Like deeply.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:18 PM
0

Racist bullshit response. Jesus fuck. Dude looks fine. His issue isnt looks.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:12 PM
2

You must be 18 years old or something? I mean, it's not bad to put a positive spin on it ..BUT.... I disagree personally. I think it's all quite depressing. At 45, I have seen/experienced more bullshit from women than you could ever imagine. I'm low level MGTOW at this point and am just flat out tired of all of it.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:04 PM
4

Who knows what shes thinking but shes doing you a favor by being straight forward and letting you know it's over. I repeat, shes doing you a favor. Not all women are so kind. Trust me. Frame doesn't mean shit right now. Time to move on. Sorry man, but we all go through it. It wont likely be the last time, so get used to it my man. Also.... You dont wanna be in LTRs where you feel like your frame is being tested all the time. Dump those types. Quickly.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 06:33 AM
1

Can you invite her over to your place? If so, that should answer your questions?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 03:56 AM
3

I stay away from married chicks.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:31 PM
5

If you truly want to go, then do it. Stop thinking
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:48 AM
1

You had/have nothing to lose by messaging her. I mean its low percentage for sure, BUT....walking away without trying at this point is a zero percent play. I would send a very blunt message like "hey let's grab drinks/whatever...on Friday pm. If she says shes busy or any BS like that then you're done, but at least you gave yourself a shot. You have already approached and done the hard part. I have had a few crazy and very unexpected meet ups/lays happen from sticking it out just one message more…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:39 AM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 07:25 PM
3

Whatever you feel most confident in!!
/r/askTRP10/11/19 04:57 PM
10

So you have confirmed HSV1 antibodies but you're negative for HSV2 I assume. If you havent had the bloodwork done yet you need to. You probably did acquire HSV1 its probably from getting head. You proabaly wont have many outbreaks. You may never have one again. You need to not raw dog it for awhile though. Give it a year and see how your body is doing with things. It's unlikely to pass from genitals to gentials though if its hsv1 Remember though, you can pass it on going down on girls. So it's a…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 04:54 PM
16

All you ever need to say that is: Come over
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:58 AM
2

I do stupid shit all the time and I'm an idiot plenty. Just busting your balls a bit. It's pretty cringey situation though man.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:48 AM
-3

You're an idiot man. Get out now. You're her taxi.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:29 AM
7

If you pull off a date 10 days from now from Tinder that will be some kind of world record.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:28 AM
4

Dude. You better be wrapping up your shit. Seriously. You're a fuckin idiot if you are just doing pull and pray.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:25 AM
8

Respond with "ok"... Nothing else!!...do not text her again!!! If she doesnt text you in a week or two you can try again to ask her out but its low chances.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:23 AM
1

Depends on the girl and if we ever/how we met. What's your history w this girl? I mean if shes a plate and she blew me off for a week I would hard next. If it's some Tinder chick I never met, then a week of no response to suddenly re appear is not a big deal. If I met the girl it had a date then its totally unacceptable. Make sense?
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:22 AM
218

I have found out later that girls had huge crushes in me but gave literally no chosing signals. Some girls do not feel comfortable showing much interest. Always assume attraction!! I have lost out on a lot of ass by fucking that up.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 04:35 AM
3

I dont see how this is good at all. Not respecting others, socially isolating yourself, and having a shitty attitude are not "red pill". Glad to hear that you're applying yourself more in the classroom.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:05 PM
1

This!
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:42 PM
1

Perfect. Good job!
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:13 PM
2

How clean and nice is your pad?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 05:26 AM
12

If you wanna get a direct pipeline to some of the most entitled, pain in the ass, and crazy chicks in your city go and try SA for awhile.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 05:21 AM
4

45 here. Have one son whos not quite a teenager yet. I have him 4-5 days/week. Been divorced for three years. My ex wife got me here. Been working on RP principles for about 4 years. Feel free to DM me if you have any questions.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:27 PM
5

Exactly. The 2x/week thing is so important.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:35 PM
4

That sounds so insecure and lame AF. I would.never say that. Just wish her well and ghost. Period. Done.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:11 PM
2

I know it stings. It does get better with time. The road is long and bumpy though. My ex wife pulled the same shit on me only way worse and my only LTR since my divorce didnt do me any favors either. It's kind of the norm these days. One of my friends just realized his wife of 22 yrs was banging her plate while he was out of town w the kids. When confronted he was told she wasnt feeling it anymore and wanted to ride the CC for now. If you need any advice or someone to talk to feel free to messag…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:17 AM
11

She seems like a possible wacko. Good job though.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:45 AM
2

We all know this paradox. You just said you would rather work on yourself than get laid. Obviously you feel conflicted. Go awhile and just work on yourself man. Go watch some AMS videos on YouTube. He makes a lot of good points.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:16 AM
5

You fuckin kids and your texting. Just wow. You're in constant contact with her all the time. Like others have said. You're in her frame 24/7. I don't know how you can operate. l didnt evem text my ex wife that much.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:09 PM
1

Interesting. Well man there is a level of social calibration that we all have to live by. I mean certain situations call for different behaviors. I think you may have unrealistic expectations about people. How old are you? Let me give you a little perspective man. I have worked as a physical therapist for 2o years now. All I do all day is talk to people. My job is as social and hands on as they come. I have probabaly met and worked with 3k people in my career. I own a gym. I know most of the 300…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:26 AM
2

Man I hear that you're saying. You're way in your head. I think you need to work to get your confidence up. Who cares what people are thinking. Are you really small/skinny? Why do you think that you're a "frame bitch"?
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:05 AM
1

Set plans. Grab your nuts and just fuckin do it. Every day you dont it's going to get more awkward.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:52 AM
1

It's all implied. Dont worry about that. Go for the number faster. Dont waste any time. Keep in mind shes texting about 200 other guys.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:50 AM
1

Just dont meet up. She will fixate on someone else. Just stop texting back. Dont fuck this girl!!!!
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:48 AM
9

Man you can really fuck yourself up trying to overdo it. Always worrying about holding frame is the biggest mind fuck ever. I mostly stopped caring about this and I feel a lot better. Just dont be a pussy and dont take any shit from these hoes and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:45 AM
4

Start going out and show up around 1 hour before the bars close.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:38 AM
1

This! Well done.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:31 AM
2

^ Truth.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 02:25 PM
2

You don't care?! That's why you're posting in an online forum full of strangers. Ok man. At least be honest.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:17 PM
1

Yes..I shouldn't respond late at night
/r/askTRP27/05/19 02:39 PM
5

Not really a shit test man. More of a disagreement about the fact she didnt like the way you stayed non emotional about her friends business when she asked for your opinion. I generally agree with you, but shes a chick. They need to get their feels about each others lives and emotions all the time.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:22 AM
1

As the others have noted, your writing sucks. With that's said, good trying to cold approach and get the ball rolling! Hard to tell where you went wrong, but I have a couple thoughts. You went for the number way too fast. If she brought up movies, you could have asked her what are her favorites, last good movie she saw. Get some conversation going. Try and talk for a bit. If you really wanted to go for it, talk to her about the movies for a bit and then ask her if she wants to come over and watc…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:39 AM
1

They got lots of options man. Happens to all of us sometimes. Keep plugging awasy.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:38 PM
2

If you're meeting these girls online, they're probably only talking to 50 other dudes. Good luck staying at the top of the list.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:51 PM
2

Just realized you said you were gone.My bad. Text her today and tell her you're going to the ranch and you will call her Sunday or Monday when you get back.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:48 PM
2

Why do you think you fucked up? I would say this girl has fairly high interest in you at the moment to be getting her friend to drop you the digits.. You were probably giving the proper amount of dgaf throughout the night. I wouldn't wait till Monday though. CALL HER tommorow. Dont pussy ass text her. Keep it about 15-30 min long. Do not get off the phone without setting up a date!
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:46 PM
3

This is classic pushback shit. Shes seeing how hooked she has you. You were doing to much pursuing,texting, too avaiable, etc. Who knows. Just reply "ok" Then be gone. Obviously do not instigate texts w her and if she texts you do not return them. Do not text her 1st!!!!!
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:41 PM
23

Live your life by YOUR principles man. TRP is a guide. You're looking at things very black and white. Your points are valid. I would probably feel the same. With that said, you should tell him exactly what you just wrote. See how he responds.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:13 AM
1

You're projecting your insecurities about the whole shit test thing. Shit tests only really matter if you care. I'm guessing you got some feelz for this girl. Just tell her you broke up, things changed, whatever. Doesnt matter. Dont talk about it much. Tell her you're still kinda raw and don't feel like talking about it. If shes into you, shes not gonna care. Trust me. Sounds like you have plenty in common. Get connecting with her on those things. And dont get your ass right into another LTR rig…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:33 AM
2

You dont think this shit is effecting his ability to attract partners?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:58 AM
1

I have been seeing a full blown male psychologist for almost a year now and it's been a rough road but I am doing better. Reddit is not even close to what you need man. If you dont feel like you trust/click with your therapist dont be afraid to get another. Good luck.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:08 PM
4

Why dont you feel this is a legitimate post? It's a legit question and Op is trying to get some advice. More legit than 99% of the pussy ass shit I read on here.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:05 PM
1

Yes!
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:44 PM
10

Post divorce, I spent 2 years chasing pussy like crazy. Got plates and rotations, hot girlfriends, everything that was supposed to make me happy. Only late last summer, I wasnt so happy. At all. I was actually feeling suicidal and depressed like never before. Long story, but I'm doing much better now. Pussy is a short term high. Much like a drug IMO. It will not make you happy long term!! You must have a purpose and a higher plan.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:56 PM
2

This!
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:12 AM
2

No doubt! Good luck man!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 08:54 PM
2

That's a very black and white question you're asking. 44 YO here. Divorced 2.5 years. Generally I would say no. They're not worth it. I have tried three times now and it's not working. I have a very very low tolerance for BS though. Dont bring plates,ltrs, whatever around your kids for a LONG time. Vet these girls extra hard. Our kids depend on it.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:16 AM
3

Some girls are so fuckin dramatic. Shes trying to game you man. She wanted to see if you acted needy or butt hurt on the go home comment. So you passed that test. Nice. BUT. Like others have said, do not try and figure this girl out. This girl is going to be a pain in the ass going forward I can almost guarantee it. I would be stoked you got some ass and def move on. Girls who make you wait and then play more games are such a pain.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:34 PM
4

It's the shit's I know. And yes you're hamstering. I can be terrible at times.Trust me though, from what you're saying her ego is already plenty inflated. If you wanna bang this girl you're gonna have to kino and escalate man. There's always the risk of rejection (which is usually what we hamster about) So get out there and start getting rejected!!! Then brush your shit off and do it again!
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:22 PM
3

Hard to tell. You are kinda inconsistent in your behavior. Follow this script: Text her and ask her to come over to your place for dinner on _____ night. If she says yes. There you go. If she says shes busy..You say no worries, text me when you have some time. If you dont hear back, NEVER text her again. It's that easy. And you should be pursuing other women too!
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:40 PM
7

Well man you know what you need to do. You said it yourself. Dont be a dick. Sit her down and just tell her it doesn't feel like a good fit right now. It only gets worse the longer you wait. Trust me. Be prepared to be stalked.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:34 PM
4

Slow Fade
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:39 PM
1

Wtf..You're on multiple sites also..who gives a shit.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:17 AM
57

Man not every girl is going to fuck on the 1st date. So many guys on here think they did something wrong when they dont smash on the 1st date. Sounds like you did really well. Isolated and escalated. Lots of girls won't fuck on the 1st date unless copious amounts of alcohol are involved. Just relax you're doing fine. And usually when the girl says she has to go study or some shit I will back off, then reinnitiate. If she says it again, call it a night and treat it like no big deal.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:06 AM
1

True! I blew out a HB9 one night cause of too much kino and miscalibration. Totally turned her off. Live and learn right..
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:27 PM
2

I actually prefer starting with walks for the first date. Just me, but I am pretty high energy. This way I can stay in motion, easily grab her, retract, move around. If it feels good, grab her hand and hold it. It's an easy 1st move. Hold it for about 1 minute. Even if it feels good, stop. Get her hamster spinning. Maybe throw out a quick qisqualifier. Then a qualifier. Grab and hold again. Get the idea?! And have fun! Then try and move her to drinks!
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:05 PM
1

And good job all together...isolated her and tried to bang her. Its what it's all about in the end. There's no perfect recipe.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:25 PM
2

I kinda disagree with never saying I want to kiss you... I have said come here I want to kiss you. Worked fine. I agree about never ask though! Imposing your will and wants is never the worst way to go. Asking permission is fucked though. And in this day and age of a girl says stop repeatedly you better stop man. Its not worth it. When the girl really wants to bang you will hear none of that shit. She will make it very easy usually.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:23 PM
3

Paying for a girl on the 1st date is now a fuck up? Dude you banged her 1st date. You didn't fuck up at all. I mean you dont wanna be a long term atm but there's nothing wrong helping out and paying a bit..especially if she forgot her wallet, and she was down to bang. Good job otherwise. Just remember to bang her every time like it's your last bang ever! And push her sexual limits as much as she will let you. If you like being with her that is.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:15 PM
6

That's A LOT of info. Check out Corey Wayne's videos on YouTube and read his book. Stuff helped me a lot. Good luck
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:52 AM
4

No! Too obvious. Listen.. do not text her 1st. Nothing. Nada. If she texts you do not text back for a long time. Like at least 1 hr. Longer if you want. Do not initiate jack shit w her. Disappear basically. Trust me. And if this doesn't work there was no hope anyhow. IF and IF she tries to initiate another date go with it. Maybe tell her you're busy but suggest another time. But be prepared to cut immediately if you dont see a change in behavior.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:39 AM
3

Just go man!! She sounds like she really likes you. Guys always chase these stupid bitches who dont like them and then they are miserable. Have fun. She sounds like a nice girl. I wish I was your age again. I would have done a lot of shit different. Take her and set up a place to fuck her silly after the dance. You both will remember that shit your whole life.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:31 AM
7

We have all been through this shit. When you're married it can happen a lot. When she says you JUST want sex, I would say no, I wanted a night out with you, drinks, dancing, and now I want to fuck your brains out. Tell her if you're too tired NO BIG DEAL. Do not let her see your frustration and thirstiness from this point on. This is VERY important. Act like you hardly care. You must hide your feelings here. There is nothing to gain from pouting or arguing for pussy. But this is not good man. Yo…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:26 AM
3

It's a fixed, vertical path path of motion. There can be benefits and limitations to that. Generally, It's not that big of a deal. You actually getting to gym is first and foremost. The Smith machine is fine. You can alternate between Smith and not if you're concerned.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:05 PM
2

I am 44 years old, but in many ways I can relate..My childhood was shit. I understand how you feel. My biggest mistake was never wanting to get professional help. Please seek professional help for yourself!! This shit is not your fault. You must help yourself. That is a main RP fundamental right.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:01 PM
2

That's a fair question actually. Did you read the part about smashing all night and then SHE wanted to stay the night and morning bang? It was known from the start that I wanted the whole experience. I may be different than the avg. guy on here. To me going to a foreign city and exploring by myself first and foremost has been amazing and life changing. But I have always enjoyed the company of cute, funny, and intelligent girl. So if I need to rent it once in awhile I'm cool with that. Especially…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:12 PM
1

Yes for no messy strings!! Thank you for the input.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:09 PM
1

Thanks for asking! Really good. It's been a mother though. I have been divorced for 2 years now.. I actually just posted about my experiences here in Europe. Are you married?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:32 PM
34

Absofuckinlutely
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:27 AM
3

Totally agree. I am still working on creating a life being more comfortable by myself. Its maybe the hardest thing I have ever done. I am a recovering co dependent. I knew deep in my gut that this was so important. I have been working with a professional for one year now to tackle and kill this co dependent bitch in me. It's been very painful but I am becoming a very different person. I highly reccomend getting professional help with this if needed.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:24 AM
12

Yes!! The last 2 years of my marriage I felt hopelessly alone AND trapped with no way to get out. Unless I wanna lose half my shit including time w my son of course.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:18 AM
2

Yes!!
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:16 PM
1

Even the craziest girls usually catch some kind of feels for the guys they're fucking. What's the problem? I wish I had a little submissive girl like that to play with. I am guessing you're projecting a lot and scared of getting hurt. Next her or STFU and enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:14 PM
1

You already know what to do. Absolutely DO NOT respond or text her. Shes not that into you I don't mean to be a dick but you know it's true. We have all been there. It still happens to me. Sometimes things just don't click. Be stoked you got a couple BJ's. Next time do not text her 1st when she goes out of town. Even if you know shes been back a week. If she doesn't initiate contact shes not that into it. You could even wait for her to contact you, then say you're busy and make solid plans anoth…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:58 AM
2

Hahaha
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:38 AM
1

My Cluster B Def - The high voltage, emotionally dysregulated state, that crazy bitches cannot escape. The more feminine/sexy the girl, the more pronounced the cluster B crazy is going to be. The crazy/hot matrix is unbreakable.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:24 AM
0

And get back on your meds son!
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:20 AM
8

Well man I know you feel like you did something wrong, and there are certainly lessons to be learned but you're doing pretty well. Don't be hard on yourself. You're way way ahead of most people in a lot of ways. Give yourself some credit. We all make a lot of mistakes. Ending the relationship was the BEST thing that could have happened for both of you. I ended a LTR about 3 months ago cause we both needed to work on ourselves. She has/had BPD and I let myself become a nut case too after 20 yrs o…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:19 AM
1

You mean the muscle fiber directions of the pec? I read what you're talking about with different acromion types. Interesting. Makes sense. Again, some people may be able to tolerate forces in their shoulder, that others,(due to their structure) may not..
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:31 PM
1

Well a deep dip puts the humerus into more extension than chest press unless you have really shitty proportions for benching (long arms, skinny chest)..the amount of humeral extension is what drives the head of the humerus into the anterior capsule. Its not a good v bad issue. Its forces! Theres no such thing as good v bad really. some exercises just have different force implications on joints.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:26 PM
1

It has to down regulate force production to the prime movers.. Try doing cable rows standing on a BOSU..see how much weight you can move...then grab a bench sit down and do it. You will probably be able to move 2 to 3 times the weight..maybe more.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:22 PM
3

Not true at all. You are assuming that because it's "harder" there is more stimulus. The main reasons it's harder is because of all the instability of the rings, awkward hand/wrist placements, and diverging line of force to the bottom. This doesn't translate to greater force production..aka..strength. In fact, the CNS has to downregualte force production to the prime movers (pecs, serratus, ant. delt. to deal with all the other stuff I previously mentioned. Bench press and pec fly of some kind a…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 03:52 AM
1

Most of you are going to fuck your shoulders up. The bottom of the range in ring pushups and dips puts a ton of force on your anterior capsule of your shoulder. Don't take my word for it. Look at how many Cross fit brahs have torn their pecs lately from this and muscle ups.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 06:58 PM
0

Dips put a shitload of force on the anterior capsule of your shoulder. The lower you go the more the head of the humerus drives into the capsule. Not saying it's all bad but a lot of my clients need to stay away from dips to manage their shoulder issues. Be careful.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 06:52 PM
4

I was thinking of writing a post about this not so long ago... I think the word love means something different to every person out there. It's a word/emotion/chemical state that I let play a lot of tricks on me. My biggest problem in life has been attributed to the fact that I dont love myself or really believe on a deep level I am loveable. My childhood was shit and to this day I struggle with codependent/ and even some borderline type traits. I didnt even realize it at the time, but I used to …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 03:29 PM
1

My ex wife had one foot out the door when I had a back injury after being together and maintaining leadership after 13 years. Needless to say, she left me and my son the day I got home from the MAYO clinic a couple years later after getting sick for a year after a lengthy round of Cipro...the writing was on the wall...Never again.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 06:54 PM
1

Great response! It seems like it's just in their nature for most women. At the same time, it's such a big red flag.I have been very successful at attracting women who want to emasculate me the second I lose frame. I think a smart guy will intentionally, yes intentionally, lose frame temporarily just to see what happens. Not a huge loss but maybe get a tad emotional after sex after a few months, complain a bit when sick, maybe once in awhile to test the waters. If the bitch starts reaching for yo…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 06:51 PM
55

It's impossible to have perfect frame all the time. Dont worry so much. If a girl really likes you this isn't that bad. If a girl starts cutting you down the moment you lose frame, get out now. At least you were smart enough to cut rather than stay the night. You sound kind of young. I know it's hard, but understand it's ok to have oneitis. As long as you're aware of it and you really know when to cut your losses and get out.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:27 AM
2

I feel like that reply was something that I needed to hear and applies to me in a lot of ways. I almost posted about this exact same issue. I was crazy thirsty the whole time I did no fap. Good stuff..thank yoy
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:50 AM
3

LTRs are such an epic waste of energy sometimes.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:54 AM
3

Make sure she's the one calling you. Do not call/text her 1st!! I would feel it out when she contacts you. But do not contact her 1st no matter what man. If she contacts you 1st, don't ignore her. It's bad form IMO. You're gonna have to start dreading the piss out of the girl going forward though. If it were me, that is WAY too much work and I would plate her at best. This girl is gonna make you crazy with your abamdoment issues.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:52 AM
6

Youre just getting to the slowdown phase of the honeymoon period and things are starting to wind down at 3 mo. You're gonna start seeing a lot of her true colors. These are not great signs. This is usually when I start preparing myself for the worst...It's all about her feelz now. At the same time, it's impossible to be perfect and in frame all the time. I mean we all fuck up sometimes. Christ, you were sick.This girl is gonna be a pain the ass going forward. I know everyone is gonna tell you sh…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:24 AM
3

When we get dumped/girl loses interest it lights up all of our self worth issues. It's crazy. I have accomplished WAY more at 44 than most, but same man, I feel like a loser when shit goes south. It's normal and part of the game. Like everyone else is saying, with her mom, be glad you're getting out. She's more like her mom than you have yet to discover or understand. Why do you think she's pulling this shit with you in the 1st place. Keep your head up man. You have overcome much much bigger shi…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 12:05 AM
3

These types of situations always sting. Sorry for you brother. You have been through a lot to say the least. Its impossible to know what goes on in these womens' heads. Do not think this is about you. She maybe found another guy too. Its hard to say. I would trust what your friends are saying. It seems plausible. Sounds like her mom would drive you crazy long-term anyhow. Its hard to convince you younger guys of this stuff, but at least she ended it now and didn't string you along. It only gets …
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:37 PM
1

Hope things work out for you bro BUT we all know shit can change fast so enjoy it while its good! That has basically been my attitude too. My last relationship, I admit to catching some feelings for awhile though. We sexually connected in a way I had never experienced and it wasn't always easy but I generally kept it together. I have some BPD/NPD traits so I'm thinking I need to not be in a LTR for a long awhile.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:49 PM
2

Nice work.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:33 PM
1

Absolutely! I have put way too much emphasis on looks. The crazy/hot matrix is real!!
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:32 PM
1

I have had an incredible sex life since my divorce. I think that is part of the problem? I had lots of sex. The best of my life at times. I am no happier today because of it. I was temporarily happy at the moment when it was happening. I now see how short term it all is. In retrospect, when I first got divorced I was so thirsty. I thought pussy was the cure for all my problems..sad but true
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:28 PM
1

Agreed!
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:23 PM
2

Thanks Buddy!
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:33 PM
1

True about the friends w shitty wives. My.best friend has a great wife of over 20 yrs. It's all about the people/ women we bring into our lives. I have chosen horribly. I hope we do better in the future.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:32 PM
1

Great advice..thanks!!
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:30 PM
1

God I hope I can get to the part where my ending the relationships or them leaving doesn't affect me as badly. I ended this last relationship. My ex wife def left the marriage. I have dropped plates and didn't think a second about it..BUT when I really care for the girl or have strong feelings it's just brutal. I have some BPD traits myself especially regarding abandonment that make things interesting. It's crazy how variable it can be.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:29 PM
1

So true on all fronts! Def have been double down w my son!! Thank you!
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:26 PM
1

You're 100 percent correct. My vetting process has sucked. And yes I tried for too long in my marriage and last LTR. Absolutely. Honestly, I have some NPD traits that have made things interesting. I accept full blame for all kinds of stuff. I have been consistently attracted to borderlines. I know I know. Not good.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:55 AM
1

I think I understand? You're saying that I am paying my dues and working my way to Emperor?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:45 AM
1

Great advice. Thank you. I have not made great decisions about the "deserving" piece. Also, I have had my own issues. In no way am I ever saying I haven't been a big part of the problems. Even in my last relationship.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:42 AM
1

I appreciate your honesty. Good work on the prenup! Its crazy how difficult it can be for so many reasons. When you say plugged in do you mean BP?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:37 AM
2

I used to be a lot more spiritual. That is a really good idea. I could be better with that mindset. I am glad it helped you. Thank you
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:34 AM
1

That is solid advice. Thank you!!
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:27 AM
1

Thank you for that. Its a long slow death I suppose. Pussy hasn't been the problem though. That's kind of the part that has been eye opening. It made me no happier long term. Maybe less so in terms of the LTR. Ready for and looking forward to the life beyond BP death. Thanks again!
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:02 PM
3

I hope so. Thank you!
/r/askTRP11/03/18 09:58 PM
3

And good job getting out of the toxic bullshit LTR. Its not always easy to do.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:04 PM
4

Thank you. Good luck on your journey.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:03 PM
3

Thank you for the reply. Good point on the spiritual path. No I havent. Maybe I need to look into that. My work has been my mission and that has been good. I work hard and have accomplished quite a bit. Owning a business and teaching keeps me occupied/on my mission.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:03 PM
8

We have all been there. Now do something about it. You have control going forward. You're not a victim. Our feels are basically bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 04:11 PM
1

I think some guys are more "wired" for oneitis than others. I'm not wired for it. I have had friends that always fall in love immediately. I could tell you some crazy cringe worthy stories.... After my divorce, a few plates, and a 7 mo relationship I thought maybe I was incapable of all that BP love shit..I felt nothing. THEN..... Met a gorgeous girl with strong BPD traits. Never felt so much emotional BS in my life. SMH..
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:16 PM
4

Alcoholics usually only get worse unless they quit. If she's blacking out regularly she's a wreck. Yikes man. You can do better.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:19 PM
4

And you better initiate the next meet up if you wanna see her again cause right now she's wondering if you're into her. Trust me. And don't bring anything up about last time..AT ALL!
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:11 PM
3

It's kinda awkward when you can't get hard. Been there man. I really fucks the whole vibe. Her hamster is probably out of control right now for obvious reasons. Shes probably feeling like she needs some validation after you couldnt get aroused. If you get another shot, be aggressive and fuck her good man. It will def be your last shot.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:09 PM
4

Dude your 19? I think we all understand whats going on in your head but your mentality is oneitis on steroids. You cannot change things now. You are going to have so many opportunities with so many girls in your life. Shit youre just getting started. Read some books on the recommended list. Go to Corey Wayne's site and read his free book. As soon as you get some success and getting laid from other girls you will forget about your little unicorn I promose.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:04 PM
1

Be more comfortable in them knowing you wanna fuck them..dude you really do need to do some reading. Read Models by Mark Manson..start there..and go to Corey Wayne's website. He has a free book which is excellent and gives play by play on how to handle all this stuff.. Now get off here and start reading!! And gaming more ladies.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:54 PM
1

That's not a fuck up. At all. There's a lot of over thinking going in here. If she's into you, that part doesn't really matter that much. Just take my initial advice.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:50 PM
1

Well if you are comfortable doing it that way and it's working for you, why are you on here asking us for advice?
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:46 PM
4

No movies!! Or dinner! You have already established she's gone for the weekend. DO NOT text her this weekend. If she texts yoy 1st this weekend..THEN set up a time for next week. Otherwise Monday sounds fine..Calling or text..kind of the same IMO Ask her out to a fun place (bar, pool, bowling, hiking, mini golf) Escalate at your pace, but escalate somehow.. Also, game some new girls this weekend. Don't get oneitis. Its hard I know!
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:12 PM
1

Agreed something is off. She should be obsessed with you of you're her 1st. Not a good sign man!! Sorry
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:26 PM
3

Don't get hung up on it!! It's not true at all that every single girl would fuck Chad on the 1st date. Sometimes it's used as a test. Sometimes if they really like you they don't want to appear slutty. I would def go for another date with girl 1. She paid for your drinks and is down for another date. That's pretty solid.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 01:55 PM
1

Op.Learning to put our egos aside and hearing it straight up when we post is probably my favorite aspect of this board. I have gotten my ass chewed rightfully so a few times on here and you know what, it's what I needed to hear!
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:23 AM
1

Thank you!!
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:29 AM
1

Fuck no. That's all the know how-to talk about.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:13 PM
0

They're all whores right? I live in a rural area and I don't think there at any real escorts here. Actually I think they're all on SA here.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:49 PM
1

So true man!! Had this discussion with her pre breakup and it was just dumbfounding. It means zero to them. I think she justifies ofnthe didn't have penetrative sex it's not cheating.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 09:34 PM
2

Agreed! I'm out man trust me!!
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:13 PM
1

Wow man. Some crazy shit. Thanks for sharing. The splitting is pretty fucked up. There has not been any violence or physical piece to my relationship (now past). Hard for people to understand how crazy all that idealiazation/dopamine/crazy sex is.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:02 PM
1

Haha!! Pokemon..
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:42 PM
1

Did all that. She would go crazy when I did and fuck my brains out without fail. Still didn't slow down her shit testing for long.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:41 PM
0

Seriously! the sex and the way she worshipped me for the 1st three months was insane! I don't think she's full blown, but she certainly has a lot of "characteristics"
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:39 PM
5

She was amazing AF for the first 3 months! Have you ever been with a borderline girl? It's amazing. Scary as hell actually, when you consider it's all bullshit. I plated her for 2 months and I had 3 other plates. This girl fucked circles around all of them and had me convinced I was God. Lesson learned. Should have seen the red flags. I have never been with a girl like that before.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:38 PM
1

That's a good point. The girl is a solid 8 and has TONS of orbiters. We go out and every guy eye fucks her. As far as my frame. IDK. If it was that bad I wouldn't have made it this far. I don't think the Borderline traits help with shit tests man. I think these girls are born shit testing!
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:33 PM
2

True. These Bordeline girls are savy AF. Lesson learned!!
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:29 PM
1

You talk like your 80 or something.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 12:24 PM
1

Yes!!! My fucked up marriage made me physically ill for 7 years. I was so messed up mentally and physically. Hard to convey this enough!
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:33 PM
2

That's fair on the "but" comment. Haha on Forest!! I think it's possibly a good idea because I enjoy truly enjoy her. She's a great cook, cleans up after me, super hot, athletic, pays her way, she def. adds to my life. She has LTR potential, which at my age is appealing. Love Joe Rogan and will def. check out Dave Foley. Thank you
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:11 PM
16

Kind of confused here. Your writing is a bit hard to understand. Sounds like she showed you some Airbnb places that she wanted to go hang out and fuck at and you didn't escalate?? That was your main fuck up. She totally put it out there and you didn't escalate. That makes you look uninterested or a pussy, or something not good. You should have been booking those rooms and getting here back there to fuck. Dude it doesn't get much easier than that. Sounds like you did good enough till you fumbled …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 04:31 PM
5

Man I went on a Contiki Tour in 97..Everyone was hooking up with everyone. I would not be real stoked on this. However, what options do you have? None.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:15 PM
3

YES!!
/r/askTRP07/08/17 11:04 PM
-1

Dude I don't think you did anything "wrong" at all...pretty witty responses actually... Tinder is like that..next time make her wait longer between texts..also I ask what day are you free this week. It makes it so much easier because you cut all the BS...If she says Tuesday and then you say ok meet me at blah blah at 8pm and blows you off you know 10o percent she's not interested. I gave had girls say they're free tonight when they really wanna hook up. Fuck that app though.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:50 PM
1

It's all relative. It feels like absolute shit in the moment no matter what. Stay strong brotha!
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:38 PM
1

THIS!!!!!!!
/r/askTRP20/07/17 04:08 AM
3

Feel for you man..hang in there..it gets better! My partner/wife of 19 years left my son and I after she hit the wall..hard.. Exactly one year ago she left me and my son the day after I got home from Mayo Clinic after a Chrons Disease scare. Everything was/is negative but that's all she needed. I cannot describe how I felt knowing my wife was off riding the CC while my son and I were trying to figure out wtf just happened. The last year has been a trip. You will get better from this in multiple …
/r/askTRP20/07/17 04:04 AM
1

Fuck Yes! Thank you
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:26 PM
1

Agreed..Great recommendation. I actually did that last week with the 4th and all, and took off the whole week and hung out with my son and fished and golfed..Went no contact with my other 2 plates also (which honestly I don't really care or think about much at all) I honestly missed her a lot (more than I expected) and she was out of town also.. I could really feel the oneitis flaring up...
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:24 PM
1

Young 30s.. I know that's the logical thing to do. I know its just my turn BUT like I said, my head is all fucked up.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:17 PM
1

Dude you gotta shake that insecurity. It's a cancer that will fuck you up. You have got to believe 100 percent that you are this girls best option. Women have a 6th sense about this stuff. Put it this way...if you go out and she shows you any disrespect (flirting with other guys, etc..) you want to next her anyhow. Again, go out have fun..dont worry..If she's as hot as you say she is, she's going to get hit on all the time. If you can't handle that, you probably need a plate/LTR with lower SMV t…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:15 AM
1

It sounds like you would like to go to clubs? If that's what you like..DO IT! If she likes it too even better. I don't get what you're worried about. Take her out. Have fun. Have sex with her. Repeat. Repeat. Etc....
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:44 AM
3

This shit happens man. I know it's maddening. I'm sure every dude has had this experience. You have got to forget it and forge forward. Fuck her it's her loss. I could be wrong here, but the post date texting and the sexual stuff you were taking about might have thrown things off?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:36 AM
4

This!!! Don't work out 2x/day..Go for a walk or something and eat clean as fuck..
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 01:36 AM
2

Haha I used to say the same exact shit about my ex wife...good luck with that!
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:31 AM
3

This!!!
/r/askTRP25/06/17 05:29 AM
1

Wow man.. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ak8np/white_knight_definition/
/r/askTRP17/06/17 03:45 AM
1

I thought your opener was money. The follow up was too soon and too results oriented right away. I would have let her simmer for a day or so after the opener..fuckin tinder is so hot and miss though man. Don't worry though.. There's only probably a few hundred other guys on there she's talking to..
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:03 AM
1

I don't know man. It's the norm though. You have to keep your options open.. Some other people on here probably have better answers than me as to the why question...
/r/askTRP13/06/17 01:36 AM
3

It's strange. I'm sure it's just going to take a long time for us. At 43, I dont know how much longer I will even care about plates honestly. I haven't been really excited for pussy since the breakup.. However, I wanted to bang my ex 24/7..Maybe I will just drop the plates and go monk mode the rest of the summer and hope I can hit a hard reset or something. Maybe I will not care one day. L
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:28 AM
1

Pretty standard stuff man. I hear the same thing all the time. I am 43 and divorced but all my married friends say the same shit and worse. My situation wasn't great by any means the last few years of my marriage. Don't get married!
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:19 AM
1

This is the most timely post for me ever. Man I can totally relate!! I feel the exact same way. I have been broken up with my LTR for 2 months and she's all I can think about. I have three plates now and I still think about her. I have moved, been slammed at work, hobbies...the busiest I have ever been, and I still feel somewhat depressed sometimes and like I am missing her. I know this is stupid and unhealthy. I have tried meditation, you name it. I was with my ex wife for 19 yrs and was glad t…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:01 AM
5

Agree with all points here. Just one question here. Can you honestly say that you are in as good of shape as you were 6 years ago? Are you as fit? Be honest with yourself. A lot of guys gain weight in a LTR and then can't wonder why their girl isn't as wet and horny as they used to be. If you are in good shape and have continued to work out and take care of yourself....DREAD it up..
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:49 PM
1

Get snipped man. Best decision I ever made.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:06 PM
1

Glad it was helpful. I have fucked up knees from skiing and basketball and had to learn to adjust for my issues. The biomechanical realities are often misunderstood or ignored.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:04 PM
2

Some people mechanically aren't going to do well squatting. It doesn't always have to do with a weak core. Please watch this. There's a lot of ignorance about exercise on here... https://youtu.be/Av3LO2GwpAk
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:30 AM
9

Seriously? Has any chick told you this before? Wtf.. I would next this bitch in a half second if she said that to me. You must not of fucked her hard enough or something. Most of the time after sex they talk like 99 percent of the time anyhow..
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:13 AM
1

Gym 3x/week Golf 3 days/week..I could be there at least practicing more.. Hiking 1×/week Fishing..kinda have to trade with golf time Reading..nightly Mountain Biking Skiing Snowboarding Get outside and do anything.. Get a bike..go for a ride Where do u live?
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:10 AM
1

You're totally correct. Thank you
/r/askTRP28/05/17 05:05 PM
4

3! She wasn't interested and you knew it. Good job! It's hard to be honest and not cling sometimes so be proud of yourself. You don't want her back. Fuck dealing with her friend too. You don't owe anyone any explanation. Its not going to do anything. Spend all your energy in positive directions. It's hard I know but don't dwell. Good job man. Keep plowing forward!
/r/askTRP28/05/17 03:05 PM
1

Google social kenny pua and check out his approach to online game. He has a ton of good shit.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 11:57 PM
3

If you think these girls aren't out getting side action you're gonna have a lot of heartbreak man. Who cares. You have only been with the girl for a month. Do NOT get onetitis at such a young age. I know it's hard. I think we as men are more wired for it. Don't waste your prime years!! As long as this girl puts out for you when you want, and is decent to be around who gives a fuck if she's with other guys. You should be out banging other chicks too...Remember it's only your turn! Best advice eve…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 11:54 PM
1

She wasn't on there. My friend showed me her pics back in Nov. I would have def. recognized her!!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:01 PM
1

Maybe. Here's my thought though, and I could be wrong. Her two closest female friends set us up and I highly doubt she was DTF on the 1st date due to word getting back to her friends and the innevtobale slut shaming that would have insued...right?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:00 PM
2

There was no talk of me being on Tinder. She said she used it a long time ago to meet a guy. I haven't seen her on there. My friends wife showed me her pics back last fall she I'm pretty sure she hasn't been on there since then otherwise I would have noticed. The timing of right after the date tells me she was checking me out. Good or bad IDK.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:56 PM
1

Thank you. Ditto man. My ex wife doesn't think about my son's well being either.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:22 AM
1

Recently lost my LTR because she wanted to move in after only 6 months. It was hard as fuck to let her go but I really had no choice. I am 43, recently divorced, and have my 8 yr. old son 5x/week. No damn way I am putting him or myself through any of that shit again. It's been hard im not gonna lie. I had feelings for her and I still miss her. With that said, it's better for her to be free also. She should have the freedom to find a BB or blue pill guy who wants his turn. If you even think you s…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 06:53 PM
2

Jealousy shit test!! Sounds like youre dealing with typical game playing on her behalf...Shes trying to make you jealous. She's obviously trying to see if can get a response out of you. You should steer clear of bitches you work with BUT.. Are there any other girls at your work you can go flirt with?? I would pay zero attention to what she's doing. Show ZERO emotion at all..Go flirt with other girls at work and ignore her ass! Guarantee she will jump all over you.. Prob not worth it though. She'…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:14 AM
4

I fail to see how "you knew she was a keeper" before you ever met or fucked for that matter. You don't know ANYTHING about this girl... Typical female, social media BS. She prob found some other dude to latch on to or has a BF. These girls have attention spans like 10 seconds long. Do NOT take this personally AT ALL man. This shit happens all the time to most dudes.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 02:45 AM
1

In the same position as you and having the EXACT same issues. I have my son 5days/week. Lots of good single mothers out there who are dying for a good chad in their life. If your not going to cohabitate or be a BB for them I fail to see any major downside.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 02:40 AM
7

Why do you feel she's into you? Sounds like a major bitch. I don't think I have ever had a girl say that to me before even the 1st date. Move on...
/r/askTRP20/05/17 03:12 PM
1

Read More No More Mr. Nice Guy right now..total game changer..
/r/askTRP20/05/17 03:13 AM
2

Good points.honest and to the point..all true..thank you!
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:49 PM
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Oh yeah...get back in shape..now! First,and foremost..
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:28 PM
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I feel you man. It's really hard. I broke up with my LTR of 7 months about 3 weeks ago. We were together quite a bit. I cared for a ton. I told her I had no desire to cohabitate or get married. That was a deal breaker. She went postal and dumped me. Like you, I knew it had to be done and there were going to be consequences. So be proud of yourself for sticking to your guns. You made the right decision. We both know how things would have ended, and it would have been WAY worse in the long run. I …
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:27 PM
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I probably wouldn't intentionally bring it up, BUT, if any girl ever asks you straight up, I would never hesitate to tell the truth that you're dating other people. Don't ever underestimate the power of pre selection and playing hard to get!
/r/askTRP11/05/17 04:56 AM
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Some people may disagree with me here and that's ok.IF..she's paying her half, then her desire to travel is totally valid. Make some more money and get off your ass and go travel. Logistics as you age dont make it any easier. Plus some of the best sex and food is always on trips.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 04:21 AM
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