Backstory:

We linked up for hookah, but she couldn’t smoke it (her lungs couldn’t take it) so she asked me if I wanted to smoke a blunt in her car w her. I said sure. We smoked and vibed and listened to music, and her music taste is surprisingly just like mine so we got along great. I’ve never gotten along this well with a woman on a first meet up. She was playfully touching and shoving me, and laughing at my jokes, and I escalated further and further until we were making out. First time it was me who initiated the making out, afterwards it was her, and she told me I was a great kisser. I was feeling her up and she was all about it, she felt me up too and when I was kissing and licking her neck or lightly choking her while kissing her neck she would moan my name and tell me that I’m tempting her. She would even lightly put her hand on my half chub. I tried taking it to the back seat, she said no and that I’ve got to earn that and have to get to know her better. I tried saying we should go back to her place because she’d be more comfortable (too many people at mine) and she said that she had people at hers too. She then proceeded to climb on top of me in the cowgirl position and stare into my eyes and talk to me, laid on me, let me slap her ass and play with her tits, let me dry hump her, and made out some more. I told her that I should get going, and she said that she should let me go bc she didn’t want to keep teasing me.

I wait 3 days to ping her, and she laughs at my message, I respond, and then leaves me on read/unopened (while still being active on social media). Complete switch around from before the date when she would get back to me within 5 mins or less.

Since y’all are the best consultants, wtf did I do wrong? I 100% made sure this chick does not view me as a friend with all the sexual stuff I did and all the innuendos I injected into our conversations. I never appear needy and she’s even called me out for leaving her on read and was wondering why I took so long to slide in her DMs and was asking me about my “other hoes”.

Did I fuck up by pinging her first?