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You have to ask yourself what tangible value does being a “community manager” in a FB group actually bring you. Has it made your career more successful? Is it something you can monetize? Has it widened your social circle? Or is it just a bunch of randoms online. Also what has it directly/indirectly cost you? Is your porn addition due to a lack of socialising and dating real women? What’s the driver, i.e too much time online? Not enough time in the gym? Not enough time with friends? Only you can …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:20 AM
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You also haven’t told us your age. If you were late twenties-thirties it probably makes sense to choose a stable guy like your boyfriend who is decent all around. The part of the equation is that being alpha doesn’t always mean more sex. There’s guys who are alpha as fuck, e.g big brawny, oversized bodybuilders who have no career prospects and/or game.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:10 AM
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If anything you’ve only proven the Red Pill / Hypergamy theory. You admit that you were viscerally attracted to this guy from a physical standpoint however that his personality was a massive turn-off. Personality / Charisma / Game are all factors of the SMV equation hence why you prefer your current bf. I know guys who are great looking with good personalities and no money to their name who pull a lot of girls. I also know guys who are successful and highly charismatic but who have terrible bodi…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:26 AM
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Short answer is while she may genuinely miss you and think everything’s fine now SHE has moved on, she’s still hoovering for attention. If she dumped you just open and leave her on read.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:30 AM
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Fair. My perceptions clearly skewed by my own count
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:29 PM
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I think statistically it’s that women in general only find the top 20% of men visually attractive on a relative standing. That doesn’t mean 6/10 Brenda isn’t attracted to guys who are 6 or 7. It just means if you lined up 100 random guys, from a pure visceral response she would be looking at the top 20% as a starting point. Obviously this is looks only and doesn’t take into account, personality, banter, social standing, wealth etc. As for the sex part, most guys are getting some level of sex. Th…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:02 PM
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He’s also one of the 50 most cited psychologists in the world so safe to say he knows a thing or two about resilience and character development. I don’t agree with his tradcon views but given OP can’t seem to manage basic tasks then it’s probably a good place to start..
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:38 AM
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If you want constructive advice, do a free trial on audible and listen to Jordan Peterson’s “12 rules for life” as it sounds like you need to master the basics (cleanliness, personal hygiene etc) before moving onto grander ambitions (fitness, education, money & women). Your other issue is you appear to believe/expect that motivation will just happen and you’ll magically be productive. That’s not how it works. You need to build daily habits so you’re on autopilot. Try reading/listening to Atomic …
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:02 AM
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Your wasting your time by even posting on here. I’m sure noone cares about your inability to act, let alone maintain basic hygiene. Maybe try therapy.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:32 AM
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It’s in the rationale male, we live in a feminine primary social social order. The collective masses of women will use whatever tools they have available (e.g guilt/shame/gaslighting/manipulation) to consolidate their collective power base. Tradcon’s are wrong as we ain’t going back to the old days (religious/traditional patriarchal model) so you need to learn how to navigate this new society. A good place to start is by not arguing with women about their nature. From there, focus on building/im…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:19 AM
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Bruh, it sounds like you’ve improved, and she’s still a fucking whale but now 3 years closer to the wall. Ignore her and move on. By your own admission you were wasting 2-3 hours a day on her so she was dragging you down. As soon as she left your life you improved. I can’t see what she can add to your life, can you?
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:15 AM
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Dude you’re 16, the only thing you should be worried about is getting in the gym and getting swole. Be the jacked guy by 18-20 who everyone wants to be around
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:11 AM
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Trial and error my man but I find that an ultra direct approach like “hey, wanna fuck” usually triggers ASD unless you already have strong rapport/previous sexual history. In terms of being direct, per your quote: “hey, I think you’re cute, let’s go on a date” - this is something girls love if you’re high SMV. The grey area is direct references to sex for new girls. Each to their own but I find plausible deniability far better in terms of isolating/escalating. When you’re ripping each others clo…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:52 AM
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I met an insanely hot bird through friends, vibed well and had her grinding on me in the club. Went for a kiss and she shot me down in front of my friends. I had her number so followed through with texting, kissed her on first date however she refused to come back with me, setup the next date and banged her on second/third. Sometimes girls are just random. Plough through like it ain’t a thing. Often it’s just your ego holding you back.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:40 AM
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I can’t speak for others but I fucking love my job/career as currently have my dream job, am getting paid well (top 1%) and am constantly learning/being challenged and am meeting influential people. If I think back my career pathway is highly aligned to my natural interests, so I never really wake up not wanting to go into work (unless i’m hungover..). I have a good work ethic but definitely have had a lot of other jobs where I was clock watching or didn’t want to be there. That in itself is the…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 10:18 PM
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“How bad do you want me to fuck you”
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:49 PM
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“Why rule the kingdom with fear when you can rule with respect.” What’s better than dread game is actually being a solid likable dude with actual tangible fucking options. High quality girls aren’t too fixated on jealously/dread. They’re driven by FOMO.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 10:34 AM
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If you want to get in shape get a gym membership and do 20 mins light cardio a day, e.g treadmill (full incline) or stair climber. Then do about 40 mins of weight lifting. Cut all sugar and alcohol and start counting calories with myfitnesspal.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:09 AM
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If you’re recently single i’d suggest the following: 4-6 weeks of solid gym work, 4-5x per week. Eat clean as a motherfucker. Skip drinking during this time. Do some healthy hobbies with the boys. Save some cash and upgrade wardrobe. Once you’ve done the above you should have a decent boost to SMV, be feeling good so get some good photos for social/online dating and go HAM. I always recommend a break like above as its easy to turn to alcohol/partying and chasing dumb pussy only to feel like shit…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:21 AM
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Unless you’ve fucked them then generally not. Sometimes girls will sporadically regain interest if they blow out with another guy. Take her low interest for what it is, lack of investment and therefore invest nothing in her. Spend your time improving yourself and engaging with people who are actually interested in you. In 5-10 years time you’ll be leagues ahead and she’ll just be another average girl whose not that special.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:16 AM
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Good work. It’s a lesson i’ve well and truly learnt that trying to hold off contact just to appear abundant is basically ego preservation. Making contact (inviting for a date) is generally always the best course of action as it’s polarising, i.e they’re keen or not. You’ll actually find over time that you waste less time with girls who are uncertain, and talk to more girls and get more success. You’ll also find you start to get less of a IDAF attitude as you’re living a life of action and once y…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:10 AM
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Don’t engage in her emotional babble. She wants comfort but is also testing your frame. Just say something like: “baby, everything’s fine, i’ll be in a few days when x, then we can go do y and then after that you’ll have to show me how much you really missed me (bedroom connotation).
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:20 PM
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Re-read both of your options. You’re acting out of a place of fear / caring what she’ll do. Even guys who are good with girls will have rejection, plates that break and girls who don’t text back but what matters is they take action and go for what you want. If you want to fuck her reel her in. Stop being passive and waiting for her to initiate.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:14 PM
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But on the other hand maybe your jokes were disrespectful and it’s petty that you care how she left the room, so much so that you’re dwelling on it and willing to punish her? I bet if you truly analysed your behaviour, you sense she’s less invested than you and as such you overcompensating with negs/sarcy jokes. I don’t even know you and I get this sense simply from your comment (read: overanalysing) about how she doesn’t initiate conversations/is diff around others.. Either way you don’t sound …
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:30 PM
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So you want to soft next a girl because she didn’t exit the room in line with your preferences? Do you know how fucking autistic that sounds? It’s likely your jokes/chat was ill-calibrated and when you said “k bye then” she felt like you were dismissing her.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:06 AM
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Direct in intentions however utilise plausible deniability, i.e never explicitly saying come back for sex, rather come back for a drink (insert alternative).
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:40 AM
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Without putting up a convo we can’t tell if it’s your chat or your face..
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:56 AM
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You did the right thing, now delete her off socials and never look back
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:53 PM
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Counter gaming?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:08 AM
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The books written by a married dude who plays warhammer and magic the gathering... ain’t no pimp.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 02:33 AM
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The point is they’re not that special. Once you have them, after a few weeks / months you’ll start wanting other girls. Rejection breeds obsession. When she’s pulling away you feel the scarcity and crave her. Once you have her and have her chasing you stop thinking about her every 5 minutes.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:16 AM
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If it’s any consolation i’ve been banging my oneitis for the past two months and are getting kinda bored of her
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:12 PM
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Rejection breeds obsession. You just have to find another girl who spins your wheels
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:26 PM
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Point is it’s not about just bodyfat. Your ageing cycle is determined by genetics.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:39 AM
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It’s not just bodyfat and test levels. Dudes are balding, poor skin, bad teeth etc. I see it all around me.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 04:46 AM
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Brad Pitt, Clooney etc are a handful of men who arguably look physically better in their 30’s than they did in their early 20’s. Their SMV also rises as they are full-stack alpha males (rich, handsome, famous/socially proofed) and given their dating pool only widens as they age. Rollo’s SMV graph is a relative graph, i.e male SMv relative to female. Do not mistake this for an absolute comparison. I.e generally speaking the majority of males will look far better at 25-29 than 35-39. If you want p…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:54 AM
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This is ridiculous logic. Brad Pitt is an A-list movie star, top 1% man looks wise, has insane genes and fame/status.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:39 AM
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Forget your shortcomings and failures. Step 1: Build a story board of what success means to you and use a picture to visualise each tenet of success. For example you may want to get in shape so put a photo of a ripped guy. Then a photo of what visualises career success, relationship success and so on. The point is to remind yourself of where you want to be. Step 2: Incremental gains. You need to build a series of habits that will get you to where you’re going. Get your diet in check, cut out sug…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:04 PM
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I can’t fucking stand the word “privileged”..
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:32 AM
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Well you’re not telling her the true, which means you’re not communicating effectively. Stop tying yourself in knots and just tell her it’s not a long-term thing.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:03 AM
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You need to work on your communication skills. If she’s a good girl but you only see it as a short-term thing then just tell her you’re not looking to settle down and let her decide if she wants to keep dating you.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:15 AM
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Find a girl in your own city - end of story
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:53 PM
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The problem on here is people are too wound up with traditional conservative beliefs. Both the left and right are fucked because they’ve been polarised by Big Tech who feed people content that reinforces their belief systems. Is extreme left/ SJW belief patterns misguided? Sure, but in 2021 that’s the majority of what western girls believe in. You should act/operate as wiley as a fox and get along with everybody in order to gain advantage for yourself. I don’t discuss politics and social issues …
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:40 PM
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No, there is no hidden agenda or concerted effort by politicians to feminise men. If anything the government needs strong uneducated men to police the world as soldiers. The battle of the sexes is being fought and won fairly and squarely by women.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:00 AM
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He laid down the foundation to TRP but NOT Seduction/Game, there’s a very very big difference. Mystery etc were writing about DHV’ing and negging well before Rollo. I flat out told a 9/10 that I had gone home with another girl the weekend before (long story but she left me hanging) and she was initially shocked them jumped on me. It doesn’t always work and I personally prefer to be mysterious but this girl was used to guys simping and my throwaway comment showed I had plenty of fun without her.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:48 AM
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Not sure if i’m reading your question right but are you asking will your Oneitis go away after YOU fuck said girl? Yes it CAN happen but it’s kinda of a mixed experience. It’s not about your SMV rather the power dynamic, however increasing your SMV can improve the power dynamic in your favour. Rejection breeds obsession so if the balance of power remains with her then you’ll always feel off-centre, slightly insecure and on the back-foot. This means its hard to maintain frame and you get your a b…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:28 AM
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LMR on first time is fine but if it’s a repeat thing you have an issue. Some girls are just like that and play games. IMHO the juice ain’t worth the squeeze. If she does again just politely ask her to leave and don’t give her any explanation.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:18 AM
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This is true but as a guy with a high-powered job I can offer a little more clarity. Most hot younger girls don’t care about my job. It’s not a negative and at best is a slight positive due to the money, connections etc. Some girls, it adds considerable points to the SMV as they see i’m smart/competitive or because they understand what it entails and realise there’s an element of status to it. I would say others, particularly those looking for an LTR/Marriage may give it bonus points from a fina…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 07:17 PM
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Micro games bro. True Alphas are persistent. If they want a girl they’ll shoot their shot and if it doesn’t work they are already onto the next one. You think Alpha male lions sit around wondering if it’s the right time to make a move? No they pony up as soon as they’re ready. Also your not texting back. You’re initiating a date.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:15 PM
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Bro it’s fucking simple. You are the man so take some risk and lead. Text her to invite her on a date and she’ll either qualify/disqualify herself. Just keep it simple, like “hey stranger, it’s [xxx], let’s go for a drink/coffee/walk etc etc, let me know when you’re free”. If she’s interested she’ll make herself available, if she’s not she won’t. Very simple.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:58 PM
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Early 30’s bro and the breakdown would be 10 or so LTR’s, 40-50 short-term plates/FWB’s and the rest one/two night lays. I did live in a college town for a few years where I racked up 80 or so of those. I’d wager 20 or so were from cheating on my early LTR’s which is not something i’m particularly proud of. Personally it’s nothing to be envious about. Yeah i’ll admit that I was fortunate enough to be blessed with looks and height and a top 5% income.. but the biggest factor for men is always acc…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:51 PM
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You only work 39 hours a week so you have plenty of time on your hands, so why not do it if you’re getting paid. Working in a cafe/hospo is a good way to improve your social skills.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:59 AM
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All of the above posts cover it. I find the best girls to LTR are the girls who are generally in an LTR with brief but healthy periods in between. Watch out for the ones who spend most of their late twenties single on the carousel. They are generally flippant, often slightly bitter and hard to pair bond with. From personal experience my n-count (200+?) hasn’t really changed anything other than making me more confident around women. I got bitter after stumbling across TRP theory (hypergamy etc) b…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:36 AM
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Just casually ask him (the owner) what the deal is with pay / training period. The HR lady could be skimming you (pocketing the difference without him knowing) so worth checking. Not sure what country you’re in but it’s generally standard practice to have contracts etc for salaried employees.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:24 AM
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I think it’s pretty equal. But there is definitely a mother/son and father/daughter bond.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:58 AM
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I don’t live in the states so generally I think 80-90% of my friends /co-workers etc have normal, happy, healthy relationships.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:18 AM
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The problem is nobody is “happy” all the time, at best people are generally content on average as they need a range of emotions to motivate them Read Everything is F**ked by Mark Manson who talks about the Blue Dot effect, summarised below: “The conclusion of the study was simple: When humans are on the lookout for something, like bad behavior or threats, when instances of that bad behavior or those threats lessen, people will expand their definition of “bad behavior” or “threats” to include thi…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:03 PM
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Again confirmation bias. Your small social circle of married couples is not evidence of a wider trend. You could be in a certain (e.g lower) socio-economic or age group that’s more likely to be either unhappy or unsuccessful in their relationship. Do I think there’s a lot of unhappy individuals or couples in relationships out there? Yes sure. Modern society, modern dating is ruthless. But the types posting about it on reddit will likely represent the most extreme cases, just look at the Am I An …
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:35 PM
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To be honest bro, yes any girl can make you jealous with a throwaway comment (and some intentionally to shit-test/get a rise) but jealousy comes from within. I’ve had super hot girls I was into make me feel jealous which is usually a test if you have strong enough frame to be with them. I also once dated a really hot girl I was lukewarm about and didn’t give a shit whatever she threw my way. This girl literally was dying for my validation. She still messages me years later on snapchat despite ha…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:21 PM
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Confirmation bias. People in happy successful relationships are unlikely to be writing about them on reddit. I would suggest that’s the majority of people.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:01 PM
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TRP and other sources (e.g Corey Wayne) commonly suggests waiting for “the talk” at which point you can agree on exclusivity aka an LTR. I think if you’ve been banging and going on dates for a number of weeks (7+ plus) then you should naturally have a feeling of it being time. Some girls are shy/too chill to bring it up and others either want to or get anxious you’re seeing other girls and want to lock you down. The point is whatever their state as long as they actually want to be in a relations…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:00 PM
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Online datings great.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:31 AM
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Interesting. You’re probably right, I should just let go of my ego as i’m getting the milk without buying the cow. As for kids, to be honest I wouldn’t care. I want kids, but aren’t really sold on the prospect of marriage. She’d be a better mother than 99% of the chicks i’ve dated/banged so I’d likely be happy for some sort of amicable arrangement for access rights.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:34 AM
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Bette Clausen. You deserved it you rat fuck. You’re weak and don’t deserve no red flags hoe.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:19 AM
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Depends what you’re looking for? The seduction process is well articulated in the original content, e.g Mystery Method and Magic Bullets, was elaborated on by various other PUA guys. I’ve never read Roosh’s Bang and Day Bang but understand it’s good, and the likes of Mark Manson/AFC Adam offer a more socially calibrated approach. Just try find one of those mass pdf files with all the books and chew through it.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:54 AM
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Low: 0-10 Medium: 11-25 High: 25+
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:55 AM
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I followed a lot of early PUA material/game and like the name suggests it’s all games. Most of those PUA coaches are insecure losers, and they operate a high volume / low success rate strategy. That being said they were onto something. By creating “game” they quite clearly broke down and easily articulated the seduction process and what and how women’s attraction works. You can be successful, wealthy, good looking etc, but if you have no chat/banter then you’ll dry girls panties. A lot of the ga…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:54 AM
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It’s always an interesting concept but looks wise I usually date up (i.e 9-10’s, 10 being some of the hottest girls in the city or the peak of my attraction scale). I frequently get told i’m punching but that’s because people often only take into account raw looks, and not social circle or businesss/career success. Reality is I earn 3-4x more than these broads and am only just warming up in my career. I also have some cool friends in my social circle. Always try to date at least your equal.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 02:01 AM
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https://youtu.be/d4w0gnJr8c0 ^ this guy
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:27 AM
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I’m with the above poster. Generally I just say “sure” and never initiate contact. If they come back around i’ll try escalate and smash otherwise rinse & repeat. Girls are weird though, they literally crave the validation of knowing they have you in their back pocket.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:23 AM
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Lift + Eat Clean + Read + take up improv / acting classes. Avoid alcohol to improve gym consistency & results and avoid computer games as they are a time sink and a false trap in terms of keeping you happy whilst isolated.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:02 AM
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Define stood up because where i’m from that’s a no show which would warrant a hard next. Being cancelled on last minute is a very different proposition. I’d put her on ice for a bit and make her make up for it later.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:45 AM
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If it’s come on recently, and assuming she hasn’t been name-dropping or talking to a “friend” or “co-worker”, liking their photos etc on social then it seriously could be the pill. I had an LTR change when she changed pills and apparently it’s pretty common. Maybe talk to her and just say you noticed she’s been acting different since changing pills and just ask her what’s going on, if she’s noticed it etc. This doesn’t come off as a random insecurity about another dude in the picture, rather you…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:03 AM
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How old?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:20 AM
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You shouldn’t, i’m just clever. AMS wouldn’t be happy with your pussy ass, ring/hang up, oh no she might hurt me approach. Your basically the guy standing at the bar saying yeah i’ll go talk to her soon once I get another drink.. then cry she’s not your type when chad takes her home 15 mins later. Invite to a drink —> flirt —-> kino —> escalate to sex. Literally no other strategy matters.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:19 AM
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It’s all meaningless. Invite her for a drink, flirt, kino, escalate the old fashioned way. Quit trying to anticipate what she feels or her ego wants. I’ve done it before with someone who was a good friend and fucked first night. Point is no girl is sure where she stands until you act like a man, game her, escalate and fuck her. She’ll obviously have a few decision points along the way, but anything less is passive/safe beta bullshit.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:14 AM
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There is no program. There’s qualify/disqualify and escalate. Ask her out -> yes equals qualified, no/unsure = disqualified. You either qualify and escalate or cut her.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:27 AM
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Didn’t you respond to one of my earlier replies about AMS? If she reaches out, ask/set a date, have fun and escalate. If she says no to the date or is unsure hard next - she’s disqualified. Ain’t no fucking about talking about emotions or what she “feels”.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:59 AM
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Rollo trying to act Alpha while taking about Warhammer 40k on twitter and looking like an old lesbian.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:45 AM
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Assume she read your message so no need to reply. It’s either fuck yes or no. We ain’t out here wasting time on no “maybes”.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:10 AM
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Just cut her out of your life completely and time will heal all. In a year or two she’ll be s distant memory. I’m fascinated with the topic of oneitis, as I’ve banged a lot of girls and generally feel next to nothing then sometimes feel attraction for certain girls under random circumstances. I’ve had extremely hot girlfriends whom I’m bored with and at the end of my rope, then once it ends suddenly I crave them, re-attract them and start having amazing rebound sex until the familiarity kills it…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:38 AM
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Basic theory suggests to try set the terms of the date but in reality it’s binary; if a girl wants to meet you she’ll want to make it easy to do so. So if she’s legitimately busy say weds and offering you tues night that’s a good thing. She’s throwing you an alternative because she wants to meet up. If she’s saying let me get back to you, she’s basically curbing you. She’s being obscure because your a low value/low priority option. So going back to your question 90% of the time if a girl propose…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:16 AM
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If you on here (askTRP) there’s always going to be a lot of fear mongering around getting cheated on, cucked, divorce raped, or having a girl dump you to jump on the carousel. These are legitimate concerns. The flip side is most of the men on here came here due to failed relationships, present company included. The majority of my friends are married, engaged or happily in an LTR and most are pretty good managing (leading) the relationship. What i’ve learned recently is that compatibility is huge…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:01 PM
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Great question. For me my preference is settle and have a family/kids. If for whatever reason the marriage doesn’t work out and you are civil and don’t get divorce raped then at least I’ve finally sired some offspring. As much as the bachelor lifestyle is touted here on TRP, I can see there’s a point where i’ll no longer be able to pull women in their twenties at which point you’re stuck dating girls who are 30+ who’ve spent years on the CC or whom are ultimately single mothers, or worse damaged…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:44 PM
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Story of my life mate. It’s basically genuine chemistry vs fake chemistry (game). This is likely due to the hot girls being into you, feeling your confidence and sensing your true desire for them which turns them on. In 95% of the situations where i’ve bought a girl home and it’s fallen flat with LMR etc is when the girl knew I wasn’t into her and probably sensed I’d have low/no interest afterwards.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:38 PM
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You’re being beta. It’s not mate guarding against some random mofo. It’s setting appropriate boundaries with your friend. Betas let their mates walk all over them. Alpha’s tell them to check themselves before they wreck themselves.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:39 AM
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You’re being passive here.. waiting for it to happen knowing you’ll be salty if it does. I’d tell him if he goes near her it’s over between you. Bro’s before hoe’s. Don’t wait for him to transgress your personal boundaries before attempting to defend them.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:27 AM
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You need to re-frame your thinking and possibly read more material (sidebar etc) because you ARE being a creep by getting her socials, not being direct and orbiting with some passive ass low investment strategies. It’s less creepy to reach out and say hey lets go for a drink. That is the direct masculine approach. You’re making it clear what you want (a date and chance to get to know her / creating an opportunity for sex to happen). If you ask her out up front this is polarising (i.e leads to a …
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:14 AM
4

This some bullshit. While you’re friend technically right about her not being yours from a TRP perspective this is wrong on many levels. Firstly if he’s truly your friend then he should respect YOUR boundaries which includes your plates. If any of my friends tried to get with a girl i’m banging i’d spark them out. It doesn’t matter what your relationship is with her, it’s your relationship/boundaries with him he needs to respect.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:56 AM
1

She has an emotional imprint with her ex. You can’t change that. If you’re attached I suggest you work on finding someone new.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:02 AM
3

Mate this is so weird. You did the hardest part, a semi cold approach, got digits and then didn’t reach out, and did some weird random message to a Christmas card which I couldn’t be bothered reading about. She prob just thought you were weird / playing games so un-followed. In future, just ask her on a date, whether it be “hey finally all settled in, let’s celebrate with a welcome drink” or ask her to show you a local bar or something. You don’t need to be analytical, you just need to stop bein…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:50 AM
1

Untrue. Yes men and women age equally from a biological /physical perspective, but the SMV chart is about relative SMV not absolute value. For instance, a 27 year old guy will physically look better than his 35 year old self. Assuming same weight/body composition, he will look similar but simply older. But where the difference is on the chart is that a 27 year old guy can only date down to 18. A 35 year old guy can also date down to 18, or more likely 22-23 in reality so has a wider pool of avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:59 PM
1

Yes level up and don’t waste your time sticking your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:46 PM
1

Nobody likes being treat bro. It’s just these guys hold frame and don’t fall head over heels for their shit. They’re digusted/lose respect for all the beta dudes who worship them, so most of the alphas they date are bad apples as high value/well adjusted alphas can find hot girls who aren’t damaged.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:36 PM
1

Yes, that’s what these girls often LTR bad boys who treat them like shit.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:56 PM
1

Yes - only if you don’t have any feelings. If you’re not attached their games simply don’t work.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:44 PM
0

I banged a young SJW feminist whose studying gender studies, and writing papers on heteronormative viewpoints or some whack shit. It’s kind of funny because i’m a right leaning, hard-nosed capitalist. Goes to show that hypergamy really doesn’t care. I think she was actually falling for me at one point before I left her on read for months.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:11 PM
4

My man, I love this post ^ I was listening to AMS today and he touched on something similar whereby we (men) fight fair however women generally don’t when in comes to dating, as in they flake, curb dudes, chase you for your validation then pull away once they have it, date multiple guys simultaneously without an ounce of remorse etc whereas we men are out here for the most part trying to play fair and be good honest dudes. It’s 2020, these girls have never had it so good in terms of validation f…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:40 PM
3

Lol that’s some fucked up. Girls want to be with guys who are well liked by both guys and other girls so if this girl is working against you it could be your undoing. For future reference you as soon as it happened should have confronted the girl head on publicly and called her out on her BS. I would be very firm/dominant in this situation and say right, when did I say this, where, who else did I tell. Then tell the gf to ring them on the spot and ask. You have to socially dominate people like t…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:28 PM
3

It’s a pretty simple formula in life. Confidence breeds success, success breeds confidence. This is both within specific domains in life (e.g work, the gym or dating) and across domains. Continue mastering your body, feeding the mind (reading/listening to podcasts) and mastering your craft (your work/studies/valuable skillsets) and building your social circle(s). If you keep gradually improving across each then over time you’ll naturally become more confident, happy and successful and the feedba…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:35 AM
18

Haha literally nothing worse than hearing Boss Girl shit. For me that’s the male equivalent of turning a vagina to sand.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:10 AM
1

Be more fun
/r/askTRP10/12/20 12:22 AM
0

Online generally shit. The professional environment is best way to meet quality girls.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 12:03 AM
3

You obviously have oneitis/strong attachment but the but that’s concerning is she cavalierly told you she can be very manipulative and you brushed it aside because she had be “sweet”. This is a massive red flag. I dated a girl like this once (with abandonment issues) who would act sweet and put on crocodile tears, but who i found to be very manipulative, to the point she would take advantage of her friends for financial gain. You cannot trust people like these to display authentic emotions. This…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:59 PM
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I think it’s pretty easy to be calibrated enough to know.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:40 PM
1

Stefiscold is not saying that, he’s saying that’s what girls are saying. He’s saying Girls set the bar high.. they want tall, rich and handsome, oh and a social guy and a guy who chases them them, treats them right and takes them on good dates blah blah blah. He’s saying these same girls probably work at planet fitness etc.. nothing special. But what Stef himself IS saying (3 mins 15) is that socials do matter in this day and age, and they’re a big driver of women’s sense of inflated ego’s due t…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:12 AM
1

Major metropolitan city. https://youtu.be/6ne1e4-kWcA ^ 3 mins 15 - sums it up perfectly.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:59 PM
2

I shouldn’t have to explain this basic shit but “status” is one of the biggest factors in the SMV equation. Instagram is an indicator of social status - que Dan Bilzerian.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:55 PM
10

The games changed Hayek, the Feds inflated the stock market, crashed bond yields to zero and inflated women’s ego’s more than shitcoin. If you don’t have socials you may as well be playing chess against AlphaZero
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:30 AM
1

Mate you’re so hung up on these false beta mile-stones on the highway to marriage. She invited you because that’s what she wanted to do / felt what was right in the moment. Maybe it was a big deal, maybe it wasn’t, maybe she’s invited lots of people, or maybe her parents demanded proof of life, who fucking knows right? The point is her actions speak louder than words and HER actions indicate her feelings have changed. Women aren’t like men, they’re far more fickle. If she’s not feeling it anymor…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:18 AM
2

If you spent less time trolling the forum and more time improving your life then you wouldn’t be writing such drivel.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:12 AM
1

Haven’t you heard of try before you buy? She probably like you and dated you, and then lost the excitement while actually living with you and facing normality. Deep down you’ll if she was into you. Were you waking up to blowjobs in the morning, and her rushing home to bang you, and constantly wanting to download every minute detail of her day.. Or was it friendly, amicable, countryside drives and idle chats, slightly passionless.. you get the point.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 02:54 AM
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Her actions have already spoken, she’d rather stay with her boring old conservative parents than you. Read between those big wide lines. If she was really into you she’d be RUNNING to get back to you.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 02:42 AM
1

You got curbed
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:13 PM
1

It’s not necessarily. I think it’s mutually exclusive. I’m personally turned off by any girl that doesn’t want kids at least from an LTR perspective. I just see them ignoring their biology as a massive waving red flag. From a fatherhood perspective I have my own preference (want someday) but that has no bearing on my attraction to a given girl. But agree it can be somewhat selfish. I think as long as you are upfront its okay.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 10:11 AM
3

With that attitude, the general scientific consensus is that you’ll forever be an incel.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:17 AM
1

You will never get a sure thing. You’re the man, you lead. Say, cool, how about I meet you at xyz for a drink at 7pm. This will get her fo qualify or disqualify herself. If the latter you know where you stand so you back away and re-engage in a few weeks.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:13 AM
3

If you’re worried about appearing desperate and not busy enough on a Saturday night then odds are you’re desperate and not busy enough. When a girl genuinely wants to re-schedule this is not a game, shit-test, or frame battle. She’s making it EASY for you, and in this case she is offering up her Saturday night to you instead of her friends. Women who are into a dude will make themselves available.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:38 PM
2

You failed to escalate. Kino alone is unlikely to trigger her attraction triggers. You actually need to have playful banter /convo. That’s why people have been saying for a long ass time never take a girl to the movies on the first date.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:34 PM
9

If you’re asking to see her phone and trying keep tabs on her, you’ve already lost the battle
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:54 AM
1

Do you also think he’s too scared to text his wife to communicate that he’s ready to leave the movie set and on his way to dinner? Of course not, it’s healthy communication. Nowhere did I suggest/advocate texting all day. I said “some” people keep texting to barest minimum simply out of fear of rejection. I used to play it cool and wait for a girl to reach out to me before a date to confirm. Now I actively just tell them i’m getting ready per the following: My time is precious so I want her to c…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:43 AM
3

Unless you negotiate/agree to exclusivity you can’t expect it.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:21 AM
2

Read the Fuck yes or no article by Mark Manson. If you actually start living by it you’ll experience a lot less disappointment and you will likely experience a lot more success with girls as you’ll only give your attention to those who deserve it (i.e rewarding good behaviour).
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:43 PM
3

1-3
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:18 AM
1

Look mate, you can lie to yourself, but you can’t lie to me because i’ve been in your exact shoes. It’s obvious you care because you are measuring your interactions. It’s similar to oneitis, you’re overanalysing every small thing, i.e did I say the right thing, or how would she have reacted if I said this etc etc. Sure you may not be in love with her but if not, it’s def an ego thing. As for what she wants you’ll never know but it’s likely she wants to remove the tension from the workplace by ha…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:08 AM
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You’re letting fear dictate your actions in order to protect your heart/ego. You need to let go of that. The first step is to accept it and rebuild yourself. Learn from your mistakes and grow into a better man. Better higher quality men attract better higher quality women. It’s that simple.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:31 AM
1

When I was younger I had a similar experience with an ex in a workplace. All she wants is validation and frame control. Once she gets it and thinks you’re “friends” again she realise she’s won her game and won’t give a fuck about you. She may even start hooking up with half of the boys at work just to get a rise out of you as she longer feels the need to win back your approval. Given the length of your post, it seems like you’re constantly measuring all of your interactions, which is the opposit…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:21 AM
1

Since 21, as in your developed one after 21, or had one until 21? Out of curiosity, what level of bullying are you talking about? I’ve been through horrible shit that would fuck most people up and used that adversity as jet fuel to keep rising in my station in life. It wasn’t bullying through it was other adversities, although I have had the shit kicked out of me 2 or 3 times, but I don’t really classify that as bullying as they were brawls/sucker punches and I wasn’t taking any shit emotionally…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:37 AM
1

Pretty simple my bro, if you have PTSD from it then you need therapy plain and simple. Talking it through with a clinical psychologist will help. Self help books, not so much.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:11 AM
2

Sounds like you need to go lift and put on 10-15 pounds.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:03 AM
0

Date 1 - a common thing I see on here is guys have limited text game and keep things very basic (i.e limited to logistics) for fear of fucking up. There’s nothing wrong with keeping it simple, but I get the sense a lot of guys are coming off robotic/distant, and by limiting communication are creating the very outcome they’re seeking to avoid. Case in point your date with girl 1. You already know this girl and have banged her before so why are you scared to text her on the day to confirm the date…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:02 AM
2

Well I think the reason it stopped evolving because there wasn’t much to cover. It’s ultimately about male-female intersexual dynamics which Rollo’s work largely covers. The rest is (alpha) lifestyle, Game/PUA then adjacencies like lifting, getting your money right etc. I don’t think there’s much more left to unlock.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:39 PM
4

Criticism is healthy and necessary, but from reading your post you’re not really criticising the red pill, rather many of it’s proponents, or more specifically its promoters who market TRP material for $$$. As a body of work TRP (the Rationale Male books, sidebar, Book of Pook, PUA material etc) is largely on the money. My biggest criticism was similar to yours, many of its promoters are degenerate snake oil salesmen. I respected many of the PUA’s because at least they lived the life they promot…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:02 AM
4

It’s not even necessarily higher value. Sometime plates break just because they want to LTR some billy beta. I’ve had a few break to lower value guys just because they’re willing to commit or are more compatible personality-wise.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:42 AM
3

How about you Unfuck yourself first before wasting our time asking questions you appear to know the answer to.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 05:18 AM
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90% of the time Chad is an illusion. Sure some girls may get a better offer from a better dude (Chad) but a lot of time when a girl flakes she’s staying home and probably watching tv. The reason she flaked is for whatever reason she’s decided she isn’t into you or is simply luke warm and couldn’t work up the energy to get ready. In Op’s case they were probably into him initially and all he had to do was NOT fuck it up, by keeping it simple, setting a clear date and escalating. Without seeing the…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 05:08 AM
3

Do what feels right. Personally I refuse to do it to 95% of girls, and then absolutely love doing to a handful of girls (mainly LTR’s) who I actually like/trust etc. Some people think it’s beta but I think that’s absolute bullshit. I’m very dominate with my current FWB and pretty much go down on her every time because that’s what I want to do. When I want head I just tell her, by saying I want her to put it in her mouth, or I’ll guide her to do it. As for your LTR some girls just hate doing it a…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:48 AM
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You should have a few messages back and forth and be escalating towards a date by your 3rd to 6th message. Believe it or, girls don’t want to sit around and text some stranger all day. They want a decisive man who’ll take them out and show them a good time. Asking them on a date is also a qualifier/disqualifier. If they’re not keen they’ll change topic or ghost. This is actually good as you’re not wasting your time. Once you have a date set you can roll back to just logistics/light banter.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 11:44 PM
2

You needed the suffering to grow. If you were mediocre, kind of happy, not overly dissatisfied then you probably would have cruised for another 15 years until you’re brain exploded in a midlife crisis.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 02:05 AM
1

Lol that’s like saying you’re going to die a painful death at some point so why bother enjoying life when you can embrace it. Can you even possibly comprehend how pointless life would be if there weren’t any good emotions?
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:32 PM
1

100%. I think it’s a general rule and was always in reference of the AFC “nice guy” who was conditioned that buying her a drink was the right thing to do, and doesn’t understand female behaviour. Mark Manson actually covers this in “Everything is F**cked” in a slightly different context when he talks about creating Moral Gaps. I.e When you buy a random stranger (a girl) a drink due to human conditioning she feels that she is somewhat expected to reciprocate with something which can make her feel…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:28 PM
1

Welcome to reality, break ups are shit and they hurt. The pain you feel is simply the ‘cost’ of love. It’ll wear off over time. Time heals all. The best things to do are hang out with guy friends, read and gym and other physical hobbies. Use that anger and pain to try and focus on building a good physique.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:12 AM
1

C.H.A.Z summed it up but i’m sure in the wider state there’s some great places.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:07 AM
1

Yes they’re important. If you know anyone whose super rich they’ll always have an inner sanctum.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:24 AM
0

You’re clearly talking to the wrong people. Where tf you live? Oregon?
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:21 AM
3

All the original game books taught not to do this as buying drinks was considered DLV, however from personal experience it can go either way. If a girl asks you to buy drinks you should definitely walk away as she’s using you, however plenty of times i’ve order tequila shots and said something along the lines of who wants to have some fun, or which if you wants to get f**ked up with me in a playful manner. You can certainly do it in a way where it ain’t no thing, i.e you’re so abundant that buyi…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:19 AM
4

Maybe just exposure therapy.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 02:00 AM
1

Post the convo next time as hard to have proper context of who said what..
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:16 AM
2

Basically how Bilzerian rolls.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:56 AM
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Societal conditioning
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:36 PM
3

Haha very true, can’t complain on that front
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:12 AM
3

Just do the classic fade out bro. Communicate less.. and les.. and le........
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:39 AM
1

It’s probably banter. You need to up your game and have some comebacks for him.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:37 AM
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Your ex is literally a cum dumpster for some trash felon so she doesn’t deserve free rent in your head. Move on son.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:33 AM
6

I get what you saying and in some ways plays into the dilemma I often face. RP says you should be abundant, have plates, and you don’t own/possess them so in effect they (and you) are free to fuck who they (you) please. You’re interpreting this as a form of soft cuckholdry as you’re condoning her fucking other people. I would disagree for two reasons, the first she’s just a plate so i’m not particularly emotionally attached (if at all), and the second being she’s not yours so it doesn’t actually…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:27 AM
3

Fight Club? Yeah I think Tyler was a nihilist... god is dead, your father is dead, tear down the symbols and live dangerously. He thrives on chaos.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:28 AM
2

Yeah I have a friend whose very good at this. He’s a decent looking guy but his real skill is he can talk to anyone/banter with them and make them feel good and chicks love him. Was doing some study into first impressions recently and people don’t remember what you say, it’s all about how you make them feel so a bit of light teasing will generally elicit a playful response from a girl. I don’t blame girls for how they act in today’s society, women have won the sexual arms race and this current s…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:23 AM
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Sounds like you need to find your frequency. Spend some time alone in the wild hiking etc, deprive your senses from all the bullshit stimulation of the modern world and search deep down for what you want, i.e self contentment. As Tyler Durdan said: It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we are free to do anything”. I’m not a nihilist but I believe there’s a lot of truth in that quote.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:54 PM
2

Well you’re free to live your life how you want and in whatever way makes you most satisfied, and if your LTR’s fulfilling then that’s great. Curious that you say you girlfriends way out of your league looks-wise. I’ve had some bombshell girlfriends who were way better looking than me comparatively but I never once felt they were “out of my league”. Sure they were beautiful but I was far smarter, more ambitious, social etc and always had potential whereas all they had were looks that would stead…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:36 PM
3

Oh bro, I wholeheartedly agree. I wasn’t disagreeing with your post, I just didn’t want anyone to have the illusion that being a top 10-20% guy would suddenly mean lifes easy and that you wouldn’t have to do any work and that girls would simply chase you. You still have to do the work and if anything the games harder as you’re playing at higher stakes (hotter girls, good looking competition, more demanding career and more work to stay ripped). I think that other then looks, money, career, status…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:30 PM
5

It’s not the same for men as women. The top 20% of women have men absolutely fawning/simping over them and they get thousands of matches on tinder and even more likes on insta. If you’re a top 20% guy girls will definitely notice you and put themselves in your orbit for attention/an opening, but it’s not like they generally approach you. Sure it’s easier though than being in the 80%. Because of insta/online dating the goal posts have definitely moved for men, i.e the Top 10% is the new Top 20%. …
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:42 PM
2

Tell her you have homework
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:58 AM
3

Lol just read it. Kinda a weird post with all the talk of demons etc...
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:42 PM
2

Lol I understand girls that won’t bang on the very first date but it’s a fucking kiss.. it’s not like its fucking 1865 and it’ll tarnish their families reputation or anything. Personally, any girl that doesn’t want to kiss can get fucked. If they’re actually attracted to and playing that hard to get/playing those games then they’re either too much of an entitled princess of going to be a nightmare later on.. or both. Respect her decision and walk son.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:45 AM
1

Just do it. Any money + experience beats a stagnating skill-set. It’s not like you can’t apply for other jobs while doing it. If you sit there for a year with no job on your resume it’ll look a lot worse.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:49 AM
6

Two things. You should have put reality over your dream and got some experience in a full-time grad position before leaving NYC. Everyone says follow your dreams etc. It’s bullshit. Freedom isn’t free, you need to earn it. You’ve pointed out the pathway to get a full-time job. Do another internship and get an offer. Maybe combine 1 & 2 and intern out of NYC.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:27 PM
7

This happened outside the US in a smallish city/farm town in a western country where most people have fairly decent values. For context, they were a young couple soon to be married. The guy was a cool dude, affable/social and was naturally alpha, and the girl was completely head over heels for him. I’m not 100% sure but if it wasn’t her first boyfriend it was def her first serious relationship. The girl was actually a nice girl too, the doting girlfriend type and wasn’t a party girl in any sense…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:22 PM
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Lol. I knew a guy whose fiance was having second thoughts after he was run over by a truck and left bleeding out on the side of the road with a crushed rib-cage, pelvis, legs and arms. Somehow he survived and recovered physically after a number of operations however for a good six months he had severe PTSD from lying there in a pool of blood thinking he was going to die. She was complaining he’s “not the same”, and was having second thoughts about their eventual wedding. Like bitch, your finance…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:24 AM
1

DM
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:13 AM
1

You sound fun at parties. People fuck up, it happens. Not everything in life is black or white or worthy of a hard next. His real problem is his friend, he sounds creepy af and not sure why he’s trying to cut OP’s lunch.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:15 PM
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Dude, yeah disrespectful but sounds like she was so fucking drunk she didn’t know what she was doing. Legally that would have been rape if you hadn’t of intervened, so you should prob give her the benefit of the doubt that she didn’t intend to be that fucked, do any of that shit. If it was me in that situation i’d call her out for being a mess but wouldn’t hold it against her. We’ve all done stupid shit drunk.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:21 AM
1

A number of reasons, some which are sensible, some to do with the nature of women, and some dark triad. Firstly, why do you feel the need to tell her the exact reason (something which creates a sense of dread/insecurity in you). There’s only two real reasons you’d want to tell her specifics: She broke your trust and you’ll calmly tell her so and that it’s irreconcilable. She hurt you and you what to pin the action as the cause of your decision to hurt her back. Based on your language, I think it…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:04 AM
10

Nothing wrong with it. Some people fuck actual whores, not my thing but each to their own. Good, care-free, unattached sex isn’t that easy to find so is always worth plating. Just be careful with your health.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:08 AM
3

You plan it carefully. Set a date in your mind and work towards it. Start gyming more, being a little more distant/unpredictable and gaming/lining up other girls. When that date comes and you finally pull the trigger, just tell her you love her but can’t do this anymore and wish her all the best. Then you walk away and don’t look back. Don’t ever tell her that it’s over some high-school BS. If she contacts you, which she will, tell her you need some space and that you hope she can respect your w…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:01 AM
3

I’m not sure how old you are but the real question is why are you pressing on her high-school relationships. You’re talking about high-school (teens), not even some college type debauchery. It’s in the past so who cares? Again it’s high school🤣
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:57 AM
1

Hate to admit it but I don’t quite understand your perspective. If she did this in the past before you then who cares..? As for her supposedly betraying her friend, it was HER ex so it’s questionable why the friend was fucking around with him in the first place unless she gave her a green-light to do so. What probably transpired was the friend was seeing her ex, she found out, it hurt her and they got in some competition over the guy. It’d be a worse story if it were the other way around, i.e sh…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:35 PM
2

TRP or not, mental health is a real thing. You should speak to a therapist. Other than that, life is full of adversity. You mention a problem of imbalance which likely means you feel like your losing on all fronts. You need to lower you expectation bar and stop comparing yourself to others to begin with, i.e you wont be in a $200k job and at 9% body-fat overnight. Set clear specific goals and focus on small incremental wins. I.e spent 3-4 days a week in the gym, make incremental improvements, sa…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:27 PM
1

Works both ways g. I’m sure there’s girls you would have settled for last year that are now off your radar
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:29 PM
2

I think you’re partly right although they’re not necessarily demonstrating that they did have a hookup stage, rather than they don’t do that (hard to get) therefore they are a “good” girl or high value. Reality is they’re all the same and you’re definitely on the money with the jaded part. By in large women in there 30’s are unbearable to date as they’ve seen it all and expect that some guy whose rich, highly attractive and funny will magically appear. They also get more bitter as time goes by a…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:11 AM
1

I can see both sides of this. I definitely don’t want to catch it for health/career reasons but can see that she probably wants to live her life with some degree of normality. What’d she say when you dumped her?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:07 AM
2

I was kinda a joke but kinda partly true. What is a shit test? According to one definition: “A shit-test is a premeditated social challenge set up by a man or a woman, but usually a woman, to test and assess the target’s reaction to the social challenge.” Feminism as a collective movement is a social challenge to hegemonic masculinity (the patriarchy) which has existed for tens of thousands of years. As a collective movement, for better or worse it is testing/undermining and challenging collecti…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:55 AM
4

Instagram 100% can work. The crux is it won’t work for most guys. I know heaps of guys who pull hot girls via Insta as they have solid looks and a solid profile. Unfortunately for many younger guys girls will now ask if you have Insta as a shit test or test for social proof which is putting most men at further disadvantage in the dating game. The guys killing it on insta understand that it’s the ultimate free online personal marketing tool. If your overweight, have no friends etc then sure you p…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:25 PM
3

Bruh, had this scenario 3-4 times, 90% chance she has a boyfriend or an ex she’s chasing on the scene. Just play it cool and don’t chase.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:06 AM
3

Get ripped, and get lots of photos at social events
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:46 AM
1

Had plenty, some great, some good, and 1 that was a little toxic. I’ve also banged a lot of chicks being single. Personally I prefer an LTR but each to their own. There’s a certain comfort factor of being in a relationship, and it’s nice being able to rawdog a chick without worrying about Std’s and babies. Both being in LTR’s and being Single are good. What’s key though is that you’re happy with who you are, where you’re going and your social circle. An LTR isn’t a magic bullet that will solve a…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 02:31 AM
18

You’re going to die alone someday so may as well enjoy this life as much as you can regardless of what other people think. Don’t waste time fighting pointless battles. Women for the most part don’t hate men - they’re biologically disposed to wanting/needing men - they just hate weak men. When you break that down, Feminism is pretty much a mass-scale shit test.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:55 AM
10

This is completely normal after a proper romantic relationship (LTR) comes to an end. Your brain is going through physical chemical withdrawals. Focus on rebuilding your life and finding who you are as a person. Chasing pussy helps but as another poster said is only a short-term fix. The best course of action is to now remove her completely from your life as currently she is as toxic to you as heroine is to a smack addict. Do some introspection, read, lift, listen to podcasts, rekindle broken fr…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:31 AM
8

They’re looking for dick. Your question shows you don’t understand women therefore don’t deserve them.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:26 AM
1

Why not game girls on tinder/bumble if bars are closed? I’ve had some easy lays off there from HB8’s. Also even if it’s a bit of a waste of time it keeps me sharp with my text game / banter. If your jacked/good looking then all you practically have to do is get them to meet you.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:11 AM
1

Great point. There was a lot of bitching about lockdown here but I say roll with the punches, and take the time to grow, upskill and refocus. Personally it gave me a lot of time to do some introspection and re-focus on matters. Has also been good for the bank account.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:07 AM
3

TRP is amoral and apolitical. As for my personal view, lockdown is effective when done in the right way, and definitely more effective for certain countries (e.g island nations who control their borders). The lockdown would have been most effective if every country had done it simultaneously in March-April for a six week but the world wasn’t prepared. If you’re case numbers are low enough then it’s probably worth doing it. Obviously some countries like the States are beyond that point. A lot of …
/r/askTRP12/11/20 12:49 AM
2

Escalations definitely something that you get better with through practice but simply put: The hardest part is actually the first kiss as this is the biggest phase shift. Once you’ve broken that ice it’s easy to escalate sexually. For first time dates the best method I’ve found is to start kino from to get go. I.e meet the girl, give her a hug, grab her hand and walk her to the bar. This tends to work better for foreign girls (south american etc) than western girls but does still work if done sm…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:41 PM
2

Thanks will look into it. In terms of “selflessly” building a network, I presume you mean help connect people/provide value with no expectation in return? I’ve done this a lot in my career (connecting clients/investors) and while it pays off in spades professionally, this doesn’t necessarily equate to building a strong personal relationship with the person. The asking questions piece is always good advice (be interested) but I feel that isn’t my problem. I was doing some research last night and …
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:56 PM
1

Stop worrying about microgames and focus on the macro. You got head and also smashed. The next step is to smash, and the answer as to whether you will is binary, i.e she either likes you or doesn’t. Just reply with light banter and set a firm date (preferably a drink or movie at yours). If she changes the topic, flakes or shows disinterest you know
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:40 AM
1

There’s a few things to unpack here but firstly on your point about failing in Small business due to covid or whatever, whilst i’m sure that’s something your not exactly proud of, and something that may even been a point of slight embarrassment / shame, it’s a very different to her situation. Sure you failed in business but it happens all the time to many people and happened in a particularly eventful year. You’ve obviously come to terms with it so can express vulnerability or just straight reso…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:42 AM
3

Not sure what you’re asking here...? Why do girls give you different stories/narratives? Why don’t they tell the unadulterated truth..? Why do they speak in part truths? What’s your actual question here? If it’s any of the above Rollo would suggest it’s classic female solipsism. The truth is guys do this too. I’ve move cities before partly to get away from toxic situations and partly to get new experiences, personal growth, new friends and career opportunities. I got all of the above. If anyone …
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:17 AM
2

Yes.. your mom
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:54 AM
2

KISS rule of texting. Keep if fucking simple stupid. You already banged so of course there was chemistry. No need to text her and tell her that, that’s pure approval seeking behaviour. Your messages reek of it. Play it a little cooler next time man. Pick up your balls, be the man and assume she’s already well into you. With that in check then all you need to do is to text in a non-austic way and make the date. The best option is always drinks. Save the dinners for your next LTR.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:38 AM
5

Tend to disagree. Moving cities forces you out of your comfort zone and literally forces you to find a new job, house, social group, set of plates. Sure it’s not an instant change but it gives you a fresh start to re-invent/improve yourself without being type-casted by your current peer group/social standing. I’ve had my greatest personal growth moving cities/countries and met some amazing people.. and banged a lot of girls. If I had stayed in my home city I would have stagnated for sure. I left…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:29 PM
4

Most of those guides are shit, cheesy or generic. Think about the question thought: “What type of guy are YOU interested in? This completely gives her all the frame and you have to qualify yourself to fit into her category, i.e jump through her hoops. Surely you can find / come up with something better. In fact you’re probably better off thinking up some way to tease her from her photos.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:25 PM
10

That is literally the worst opener i’ve ever heard.. You’re framing the discussion around what she’s attracted to in “other” guys. Garbage openers. Make it specific to you, or her, or her photos.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:57 PM
1

Female solipsism and the age of the internet. They like to display high value on social media and put shit out there like how they’re a “boss bitch” and won’t settle. Reality is, the same girl will be on her knees in a truck stop bathroom for the right chad. I met a girl at a party once who was pretty hot and I would have banged. Flirted with her a little and she had this massive “i’m so entitled, no man’s good enough for me vibe”. Funnily enough when she saw me dancing and kissing two hotter gi…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:52 PM
3

Well said. There’s countless guys on here who want to be a hero and hard next a girl at the slightest indiscretion. Girls will be girls. You can try rule over them with an iron fist but generally it’ll backfire. If they actually both admire/respect you as a man and are attracted to you then the blueprint is there for them to fall in love. I generally want to see a girl put her best foot forward on her own volition. If she’s fucking around texting other dudes behind your back or being shady then …
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:33 AM
5

If you don’t have real friends at 26 then you probably need to work on two things: Your social skills - read how to win friends & influence people, watch youtube vids, work on striking up conversations in your daily life etc. Your lifestyle - right now you’re clearly either got a lot of idle time on your hands or are doing very solo activities (gaming..?). From personal experience, friends are built through a combination of spending time together (quantity of time) and shared experience (quality…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 01:34 AM
2

Walk away
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:44 AM
1

Well statistically i’m fucked
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:19 AM
3

This is normal. My suggestion is change jobs. I don’t suggest this as in terms of running away from her but in terms of starting somewhere new giving you’ve already shit on the table where you make your bread. New environment, make new friends, find your groove, and maybe some co-workers with hot friends or a different social circle.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:15 AM
2

Because Women are emotional creatures. If you fell them the truth and they don’t like it they’ll use it against you. If you’ve slept with too few your a simp. Too many and she’ll find justification for her actions.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 12:32 PM
22

So once upon a time I dated this HB9, she was super cute, a lot younger than me and was super family orientated. Only had one prior boyfriend who took her virginity, and I became the second guy to date her properly. She seemed so nice and innocent so I banged her on the second date with no joey. AWALT..
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:18 AM
4

Quit wasting time texting her stupid bullshit. You should set a firm date and escalate.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:16 AM
1

It won’t workout it never does, 100% so if she left you. She’s 100% trying to be friends with you, or stringing you along to win the frame battle. Say you don’t want to be friends and wish her all the best and move on with your life. If you don’t do this and still have feelings then you’ll likely waste a year or two of your life chasing her like a puppy and stressing about every interaction. Rip the fucking bandaid off, get in the gym, stack cash and find new girls to slay.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:17 AM
2

You asked how to get in the top 1% and when get a top 1% body you say “i’m not in bad nick... could do better.. improve every day”. If you want to be in the top 1% you’re going to need a lot more self confidence, sheer determination and ruthlessness than that. Also i’m not a personal trainer. For out for a programme online. If you have decent musculature then shed down below 10-11% for aesethics and clean bulk from there.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:24 PM
-6

“Well aren’t you a naughty girl.”
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:49 AM
3

Well game, money, status, massive social proof aside the one thing that you can do that’s most in your control is get insanely shredded, like a Instagram level rig. That’ll make you stand out from the crowd as i’ve seen plenty of dudes with 7 faces and formidable rigs pull easily.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 10:48 AM
2

Hmmm it’s a tough question. Women are naturally hypergamous and solipsistic so even if you are too good for them they’ll chalk it up it as a win. That being said, if you’re showing signs that you’re not interested then she may sabotage the relationship/situation in order to protect herself from getting too invested. I’ve definitely had girls bomb it where I was showing signs of being to aloof as that created insecurity.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:00 AM
10

It’s all about lifestyle, i.e having and being able to afford the lifestyle that not everyone can enjoy, whether it’s fine dining, priority access to clubs, awesome holidays etc. If your living that kind of lifestyle then you are likely rolling with a certain kind of people (successful people) and that in itself is attractive. Money doesnt make the man however. It’s just another tall for getting want you want.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 01:00 PM
3

Two words: Tag and release.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 11:54 AM
3

Here’s the rub. It sounds like you have your shit together in terms of physicality etc, but based on what you’ve written you are coming across too nice, and potentially too needy. You don’t need to randomly be a dick to people to be “alpha”. Believe it not you can actually treat most people well and be very Alpha, look at say Chris Hemsworth who physically is very alpha, can control conversations with humour etc and who treats friends and family extremely well. You sound like a pushover with you…
/r/askTRP12/09/20 05:44 AM
6

Use it to build a lifestyle. Spend some money and go do some crazy shit so you have stories. Not that he’s my greatest inspiration but that’s basically how Dan Bilzerian rolls. He has the money to live free and built an attractive lifestyle that people want to be part of. There’s a massive difference between buying girls drinks/gifts, and having them buy into the lifestyle you fund.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 02:56 AM
1

I guess Top 2-3% of girls that I would even consider, in my target range, preferred ethnicity etc.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:10 PM
5

Obviously everyones ratings are subjective, but even so, i’m not sure how you’d say Victoria’s Secret models (if that’s your thing) are only 9’s. You’re talking about a handful of girls from a population of 7.8 billion. A 10 notch system doesn’t make sense to be fair but i’d say those girls were in top 2-3% of population.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 11:46 AM
20

The hotter the girl, the more bullshit like this you have to put up with. I’ve had LTR’s who were 9.5’s and you get it all the time, and as soon as the LTR’s over co-workers, friends etc will all have a crack at her. It’s common so d.w about it. If she’s telling you it’s generally because she wants to be open about it. She’s also looking to see how you handle it. I dated one girl, who was really hot but I really didn’t give a fuck about her. I saw her in photos at a gig with her ex (friends with…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 10:40 AM
7

There’s only really one way that girls will throw themselves and that’s to have “fame” the ultimate SMV trait. That’s why girls get WAP over dudes from Zac Efron, to Jason Mamoa to insert rapper. Fame is the ultimate form of social proof. Regardless as a guy, even a high SMV one it’s your job to initiate, lead and pursue. That’s your role.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:57 AM
10

Combination of things. They’re not into you. Yes generally more picky. Younger girls have more options but often they’re a bit more aloof and less weary than 28-34 year old girls who are often jaded, particularly the current generation that came to age through tinder. I know plenty of these girls who are perpetually single and go on dozens of dates. By the time they’re 34 they’ve prob racked a 30-50 n-counts and hundreds of dates, and plenty of dm’s. The female psyche/ego wasn’t built for that m…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:52 AM
3

If there’s no body shot you can almost guarantee they are fat, or at least out of shape.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:48 AM
2

Yeah, for me personally I have a low level of agreeableness (i.e highly disagreeable) so I hate being forced to do something e.g. study, but if I randomly chose to read the same book out of interest and outside of a course then i’d have no problem chewing through it. You just have to realise that going through life you’ll have to do a lot of stuff you don’t like doing. This is where you need discipline. It’s a muscle and you need to train it. Freedom is being able to play playstation all day and…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:58 AM
4

If a girls into you she’ll make herself available. She’s testing as she either senses some weakness and is waiting for you to crack, or her interest in you is waning. Go quiet for a few weeks then randomly ping her in a few weeks and ask her out on a date.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:51 AM
1

A few questions: Do you hate what you’re studying (CS) or just the process of study itself? Do you actually enjoy what you’re doing for a job, or do you simply find it easier to being motivated to do it than studying per above? If you stayed in your job is there any avenue for advancement. Would you be fulfilled doing this job for the next 5-10 years if your “investments” don’t work out. Think carefully and be honest with your answers as the issue might be your attitude to study than what you’re…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:37 AM
2

Precisely. Real men aren’t afraid to go after what they want. It’s a fine line but there’s definitely a difference between Alpha’s chasing and Beta’s chasing. Alpha’s reach out, shoot their shot (i.e light banter and try lock in a date) and if they miss no harm done, they just walk away. Beta’s sit there liking her posts, responding to her snapchat stories and having endless pointless conversations. From time to time, I’ve had girls shoot me down, or stop just short of sex who I later banged sim…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:06 AM
10

Just your ego. Real alphas don’t really give a fuck as men should lead. If they want to smash they’ll reach out and if a girl doesn’t respond/comply they’ll jump onto the next one. That being said, don’t sit around pinging her phone all day. Reach out, warm her up and arrange a date.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:57 AM
3

Yes you can get that in Thailand or the Philippines. Women will marry foreigners for the promise of a better life.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:10 AM
6

Keep it simple with first dates. Always drinks or a coffee/walk but never dinner. I prefer drinks as the girls always drop their barrier and it’s easier to escalate. FYI most girl HATE guys paying on the first date. In Mark Manson’s book “Everything is F**ked” he points to the concept of ‘moral gaps’. By buying a girl (a stranger) dinner on the first date you are creating a moral gap for her (unless she’s entitled). You’re paying for something for her and this creates a sense of needing reciproc…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:47 AM
22

Dunno man, could be looks or lack of personality. Maybe you come off too aloof/disinterested? If i got a girls number I wouldn’t wait two days. I’d text her that night. Assuming a girl was into you, girls won’t put themselves out there too much if you appear cold/disinterested. You’re supposed to lead.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:42 AM
8

You’re acting weak. I can’t even remember what you wrote but if you’re going to set a firm boundary like block him and she didn’t follow through then you better follow through on it and enforce your boundary. You shouldn’t care about her past relations. Every girls dated/hooked up with people. It’s either bothering you because you’re insecure or she is really into him and talking to him. Either way stop being a bitch. You either shouldn’t care, live your life and focus on having a good drama-fre…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 04:33 AM
8

Lol the point isn’t to rote learning material, it’s to learn how to think on your feet and understand what triggers emotional responses and what doesn’t (i.e talking about mundane daily activities). Take my line for example, i’m sure others come up with better, but if you break it down into components what is it actually saying/implying: I’d invite you to roll with me BUT (i.e well you can’t - push/pull)... I’d probably end up on top.. (suggestive). In one fairly basic sentence you’re saying I w…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:06 AM
13

I can’t seem to cut and paste to paraphrase your texts off my phone but the jist of it is that your messages are too ‘matter of fact’: You: how are you? Her: Fine, wyd, You: I did this, I did that. Her: Cool, I wouldn’t mind doing that.. Girls literally get bombarded and worn down by these apps so unless you’re really fucking good looking, you’re gonna to have to trigger some emotions when you text to get her interested. Her hearing about you doing paperwork or going to your BJJ class is literal…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:11 AM
7

100% agree. Rollo’s SMV chart is a relative chart, i.e men vs women for each given age. So women’s SMV peaks relative to men in early 20’s, and men peak on a relative basis in mid 30’s. What people fail to understand that there’s a big difference between relative and absolute SMV. For example, looks wise, social circle wise MOST guys generally peak around their late 20’s. As you get older, a lot of people don’t age too well past this (depending on lifestyle factors). Offsetting this obviously is…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:59 AM
14

The answer is who cares. Do what feels right to you to establish boundaries of behaviour that are congruent with your own values. If you find yourself angry and wanting to exact vengeance it’s likely because one of two things (i) your boundaries were weak and YOU let someone take advantage of you; or (ii) that person is a shit person. If it’s the latter just walk away and cut your losses. Obviously get any money/personal effects back within reason but no point going overboard. If it’s the former…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:38 AM
3

Because if bald guys had higher test then OP is claiming he has higher test than say Arnie (pre Juice) or I dunno pick any NFL player whose drug tested and not on gear. Androgenic alopecia is simply a genetic anomaly that makes the androgenic receptors in your hair more susceptible to inflammation from DHT molecules. Yes you are correct that juice can trigger balding as you are messing with your hormonal levels. Particularly all the DHT based roids. All guys lose some of their hair hair over tim…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 10:02 PM
3

The concept of masculinity has changed over time and through various societies. For example the Spartans lived a very harsh but disciplined existence. There was even a subgroups of spartans (the Laconians) who were known for their blunt/direct manner of speaking. I.e they said the bare minimum and got to the point. The Spartans are often referred to when it comes to masculinity because of their strict discipline, basic (spartan) way of living and feats of war. Obviously this is definitely “mascu…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 12:04 PM
2

It was probably a comfort relationship. It seems she was far more into her ex. You just had a quick turn. And no it’s not to spite you. Let go.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:43 AM
16

This is untrue. You simply have a male pattern baldness gene from your mothers side that makes your hair follicles more susceptible to DiHydrotestosterone within the androgen receptors.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:41 AM
5

^ This is true, but you gotta know half the time she’s not even blowing you off for CHAD, she’d rather have a quiet night in or a night out the girls than hang with a guy she’s not really interested. It’s no different to us and unattractive chicks.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:13 PM
1

Totally, lead that bitch on and let her think she has options.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:18 AM
2

Level the fuck up
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:01 AM
1

It sounds like you need to work on your self first there buddy. Try reading Mark Mansons books (Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck & Everything is Fucked). Some may hate him but I also rate Jordan Petersons work/youtube vids. As he says self-esteem is largely a joke. You need to focus on addressing all the little problems in your life to build yourself up. Make gradual improvements and compare yourself to only you yesterday. I.e 1. get your health in check - done for you. 2. Get your career/money i…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:25 PM
1

American Psycho
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:25 PM
4

Simply put, the vast majority of girls won’t fuck on the first date. If your experience is a lot of first night lays then you are pulling the minority. Girls know instinctively that if they put out on the first night you’ll have low odds of following through. Sure if you’re insanely good looking, they’re slightly drunk/horny, it’s the right time of month or the moon happens to be right then they may put out. I normally give them 3 dates max, with two probably being the average. I have rarely rec…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 11:43 AM
1

Be more direct/polarising. If she reaches out, propose a date and escalate. Be clear it’s a date, i.e not hanging out as friends. If she shoots you down just next. That way you either get the cherry pie or save your time.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:35 AM
1

Oooo sassy
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:30 AM
1

Go get in a fist fight. You’ll learn more about yourself after 5 minutes than all that shit in those books.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:24 PM
16

Club game - pre covid. Bumble - if i can get a girl i’m into out for drinks then 95% of the time I convert. I don’t fuck with tinder. On a hiatus from everything though due to covid so just shredding hard for summer and stacking cash.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 11:29 PM
2

It’s true. I told a girl to go fuck herself for pushing my limits. She came around like four weeks later fucked me and left. I never text back. I guess she did fuck herself🤣
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:34 PM
42

What age was she op? Feminism/social media has ruined young girls
/r/askTRP23/07/20 11:57 AM
7

Did it work? Personally i’ve found extremely direct game like this less effective but it may well work for an ex who knows you. I just would have said, “well maybe you should come over and show me” The implicit assumption is there.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:33 AM
4

Don’t solve her problems. I would suggest active listening and letting HER talk through/solve HER problems. Her: my boss stole my tips.. blah blah. You: oh that’s really shit babe, what are you guys going to do? Her: blah blah pointless drama.. You: follow up questions that her talk about the problem and coax out what she thinks/how she feels. IMHO this is the masculine way to provide comfort. Be there as her rock, don’t be a sappy emotional bitch and steer the dialogue with questions so she can…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:27 AM
1

Disagree. Most people won’t resort to throwing down over a well placed cutting remark providing it’s witty and kinda funny (executed with humour/dry humour/sarcasm). We’ve all experienced this where someone has such a good comeback that you have to laugh at yourself. The english are very good at this. This is very different from an outright insult/put-down which may result in you getting yourself punched in the face. It’s all in the nuance and like game is a skill worth practicing. In fact women…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:21 AM
6

Banter - own them with your wit
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:40 AM
31

Hard next
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:43 AM
4

Assume the dates happening and text her half an hour before
/r/askTRP18/06/20 11:59 AM
5

It’s a difficult situation and it sounds backwards but from personal experience, the less a guy cares about the fact that he cheated on a girl (i.e I told you it only happened once, it’s in the past, so what?!) ; the more likely she will want to stay with him. Conversely the more apologetic and sappy the guy is (e.g i’m so sorry baby, please forgive me... i’ll do anything, I love you more than anything) then the more likely she’ll leave. If you really want it to work and you’re at the point wher…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:56 PM
8

People on here often say find your purpose but it’s a highly reductionist statement. There is no magic “purpose” in your life. You can have a number of purposes, some ranking higher in priority than others. A good exercise is to create what’s called a visual storyboard. Take a sheet of paper, or create one on your computer and pick four of five areas of your life and find an image of what you want them to look like in 5 years. For example you may pick health, wealth and career success. Your pict…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:13 AM
6

Here’s the rub. Focus on her actions not her words. She broke up with you, meaning after a lot of consideration she came to the conclusion that she doesn’t want to be with you and ultimately wants to date someone else. Unless it’s a heated breakup during a fight women generally don’t make these decisions lightly and it’s likely she’s been thinking about it for some time. It could be you were acting weak/needy, you weren’t compatible or she just had stronger feelings for someone else. It’s a pain…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:58 AM
2

I think everybody suffers from this to a degree when they say incredibly hot girls, it’s just the bar is a lot higher/lower for each guy. I’ve seen really good looking/cool/calm collective alpha guys lose their shit over that way girl who stood out for them. They key is to increase your value SMV. If you have a great body/career or business/social life etc then as a man your stock keeps rising. You also have to realise that for all those HB8+ girls out there, there is a lot of retards/simps/low …
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:17 AM
-3

That’s absolute bullshit about being too weak. Most people have relationships in their 20’s have relationships, including pretty much all of the naturally alpha guys. You know who doesn’t? Mostly weird units.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 11:52 AM
22

Wish 1: a divorce. Wish 2: no alimoney
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:33 PM
2

Be normal
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:31 PM
1

I haven’t been married so haven’t experienced dead bedroom per se, but I have had several relationships where I got bored of fucking the girl and the sex life dwindled a little. I think the key is to add some spontaneity and change the environment to mix things up, i.e if she’s at home she’s prob thinking about the kids and a million and one other things so take her to a hotel, tie her up and assert your dominance. Make her feel like your college slut and take her to a place mentally where she’s…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:57 AM
6

Demote to plate and find a hotter girl whose in early 20’s.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:00 AM
2

She won’t fucking change, because you haven’t changed. You’re acting like an emotional tampon so she’s walking right over you. Even if she’s not hooking up with other dudes already it’s a matter of time before she either cheats on you or dumps you for some other dick. IF she cheats/dumps you it’s going to destroy your ego and tear your heart out. Take the initiative to dump her and at least end the relationship knowing you did it on YOUR terms because SHE didn’t treat YOU well. Pick up your ball…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:47 AM
5

Depends if you truly believe that your girlfriend loves and respects you. That second one is especially key. Or does she often exclude you etc?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:39 AM
1

Costa Rico or Cambodia would be epic
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:32 AM
1

You sure? https://seetefl.com/best-countries-teach-english-abroad-no-degree/
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:31 AM
1

Can you move to somewhere like thailand and teach there? Low cost of living, fun lifestyle for a bachelor..?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:43 AM
2

Find your own girl. If you’re all worked up about what to text her just to appear funny/cool then it’s clearly not your turn.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:13 AM
5

Dont stress. Just tell them nothing happened, you weren’t aware and that if he’s been making allegations you’d also want to make a complaint.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:29 AM
2

Lol you gotta be a bad boy to fuck with bad bitches
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:20 AM
1

“I understand all the concepts I’m just hoping that I may be a special case cause my SMV actually is way higher than hers loll, and I really am the prize. I’m gonna have to give it another read and really internalize it this time.” This isn’t quite true. You’ve made multiple posts on your ex (oneitis) and from what you’ve said it basically ended because you got jealous (rightly or wrongly), lost frame and had an argument where she wanted a break. The relationships over, let go. Even if you got b…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:12 AM
1

I’m all for helping people but sounds like this guy has a wicked case of Stockholm syndrome. If you try to help him it’s likely that even if he does leave her then he’ll probably relay everything you’ve told back him to her. This could put you at serious risk of false allegations if she tries to hamster her way out of the situation to keep him. Either way be careful, you’re treading on dangerous ground and in future don’t tell guys you’ve fucked their girlfriend.. there’s no upside in revealing …
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:24 AM
1

Perfect situation. Next time think two steps ahead and tell Jen: sure we can be friends😉 then slowly line up her friend. This gives you plausible deniability. If the friend asks, go Jen? Haha no we’re just friends, besides (insert line to escalate).
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:55 PM
12

Telling yourself you’ll do it next session/next week is a common trick of them mind to get you out of doing what you’re doing. The real trick is you don’t need “motivation”. You need discipline and habits. Once you have those you have motivation locked in on autopilot. Set a firm goal, say 30-40 mins of weights with a list of sets/reps and force yourself to do them all. Make yourself accountable and do the lot. After 2-3 weeks of this your brain will stop fighting you.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:28 PM
18

It’s not about not showing emotions. You can tell her you had a good run or whatever. The point isn’t to be a robot, it’s just not to be a needy little bitch. You’re taking it as a man, cool calm and collected. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t sting inside but as the man you will always carry the burden of performance. End things cordially and at the very least she’ll respect you. Cry like a girl and beg for her back and she’ll feel disdain/disgust. My best advice for you now (other than no contact)…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:21 PM
30

Look i’m assuming you got dumped over text because of lockdown. Here’s the deal. 1. It’s over there’s no going back. 2. Even if she wants to try again, she fractured the relationship because of some heavy heavy doubts, lack of attraction/respect for you. Be cognisant of this. 3. If she’s wanting to get back with you it’s because her CURRENT options are limited. They won’t always be, meaning she’ll branch swing as soon as she meets a hot guy who gives her the tingles and is compatible. 4. Regardl…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:01 PM
13

You seem aware of the situation and reasonably calibrated but here’s some advice. No LTR wants to hear the I love you, you’re my girl blah blah BUT if you’re not into me/feeling if blah blah just tell me. It’s a flip flop statement. By saying it you’re instilling doubt either on your side or her side. You’re conveying that either you’re insecure that she’ll leave you, or if you come across as alpha you’re conveying you don’t really care. No girl wants to hear this either way, it’s a weak stateme…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:50 PM
7

Sex life will always decline in an LTR, marriage, it’s just human nature. There’s a saying I once heard: for every hot girl there’s a guy whose bored of fucking her. I’ve had two perfect 10 LTR’s and I got bored of fucking them both and even used to fantasise over past exes/lays who weren’t as hot just for mental variety. I know guys on here stress about girls n-count, but as a guy when you’ve smashed 200-300 decent girls, there’s a lot of data in the memory banks. That’s just life / human natur…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:42 AM
5

Welcome to 2020 bro, these hoes ain’t loyal.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:24 PM
16

No don’t say anything, just walk away. By offering to “take it slow” you’re trying to negotiate desire. Go google/read “Fuck yes or no” by Mark Manson and move on with your life. If she has any interest in you she’ll reach out when she’s ready.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:15 PM
1

Because you care so much. You “hit it off” with a girl you’ve never met. Sure it may have been a good interaction but she may be getting 20 of those a day. Care less. You can’t control the outcome, particularly at a distance. Focus on yourself now and hit her up when you can actually meet.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:13 PM
1

Cheat codes.. the rock takes roids. If you want better mental performance take nootropics, but realise it’s very hard to burn the candle at all ends, and it’s unsustainable if it cuts into your sleep/recovery time. This means you need to prioritise/re-balance your life to hit the goals that are priorties. If it were easy we’d all be ripped, rich, well-read and drowning in pussy
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:10 PM
1

You need to challenge your ego and learn to accept it.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:07 PM
3

Why would you neg if they’re treating you fine?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:02 PM
1

Suggest you end your relationship when you can, improve yourself physically & mentally, improve your self-esteem and social circle and try find another girl where you have a more balanced interaction (i.e no oneitis)
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:00 PM
1

You’re so obsessed by this girl that even if you had her you’d fuck it up. You worship her every move, you’d try to treat her and nice and special and she’ll break your heart and leave you
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:20 AM
2

Some Constructive feedback. Not clear if you did, but incase you didn’t, you should have pressed the action and escalated to kissing etc to the point she wouldn’t go further. Kino/touching etc is pretty meaningless for a girl once that moment has passed. Girls also want you to lead/escalate. In terms of the other dude she’s throwing it out there, partly to let you know, partly to see if you care/how you act, and also for plausible deniability. Sex has to be your fault. She may want it but she wo…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 09:42 AM
7

A few things. I would be very careful about your estimation of when your SMV peaks. Yes i’ve seen Rollo’s SMV chart which is based on comparable SMV, but in absolute terms I think a lot of guys peak looks-wise and socially in their late 20’s to low 30’s. Some guys are luckier and can age well and look comparatively awesome at 35 (relative to peers) than they did at say 28, and also benefit from a wider pool of women, but I really do think this is the minority. I work with a ton of guys in their …
/r/askTRP05/05/20 12:32 AM
1

By virtue of your answer life isn’t meaningless. We all have to compete. That is the game.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:15 AM
5

Your probably not going to like it but take up boxing and do some sparring. That will get your fight or flight response kicking into overdrive and then you’ll realise everyday situations aren’t so bad. You’ll also feel more confident and less intimidated by other guys.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:29 AM
5

Fuck that. If she broke up with OP (i’m assuming over facetime because of lockdown) it means two things: She no longer has the feels for OP want wants to move on; or She’s young/immature and manipulating him for attention. If it’s scenario (1) there’s nothing OP can really do or say. Given it wasn’t a heat of the moment thing she’s made up her mind sometime back and finally worked up the courage to do it. Good for her and good for OP. Let her go, don’t chase and she’ll probably come back when sh…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:24 AM
3

Shave and get a haircut
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:50 AM
2

You’ve been “talking” for two months and haven’t fucked her? Stop wasting both her time and your own and sack up and put your dick in her. If she’s really interested in you then that’s probably what she wants YOU to do as the man. Stop projecting some childish disney “good girl” fantasy on this girl. You can’t fight tens of thousands of years of evolution. You also need to realise that the odds of you dating and staying with this girl for life are low, so you really should fuck her while you get…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:37 AM
2

Why the fuck would you go for a 30 year old when you could go 18? Does Hector Beaman’s stock standard bumble line normally get you results?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:41 AM
2

If she’s not fuck yes then to fuck with her
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:22 AM
6

So you live with her? If not you can be more aloof/distant with your communication. Also use this time to get in shape and lift your SMV. If you don’t live with her you can still pull back your attention. Be more hot and cold. For example be flirty, sexual and dominant; fuck her hard, and then go do your own thing (reading, tv, playstation.. whatever).
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:14 PM
1

Hard Next Get jacked and improve your SMV You should have escalated instead of worrying about closure. IMHO oneitis often is the result of hot and cold patterns that these bitches give you. If this girl was all over you and texting every 5 mins you’d feel more confident/abundant and less needy/scarce. Can’t remember your story but if you’re at uni focus on improving your smv and banging girls.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:58 AM
3

So you haven’t fucked her, aren’t fucking her, and are getting pulled into some weird 3-way drama with the dude who is fucking her? Next this chick bro, and unless she has hot friends who she can set you up with, you shouldn’t even be wasting your time being “friends”. Just fade your attention out slowly, and be pleasant but disinterested at work. Then go game chicks who actually give you pussy and opposed to he said/she said stories about their boyfriends.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:54 AM
9

Look put it this way, if a girls been on a date and hanging with you alone after, i.e on a sofa, bed, in a car, or just standing outside her house, she probably wants to you to make a move. These scenarios don’t invent themselves. Women will only put themselves in scenarios like that with guys they want to hook up with or are considering hooking up with, unless you that friendzone dude
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:04 PM
2

Go watch Band of Brothers or read some good books on WW2 for context on what adversity is for a 20 year old. Then realise you have a ton of time on your side and an unprecedented opportunity to go monk mode, read a ton of books, self teach some stuff etc. There are so many courses in everything online now either dirt cheap or that can be found on sharing sites.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:58 PM
1

You think Pete Doherty’s good looking?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:20 AM
1

It would come down to Frame control. When a girl has no sway over your frame she’s more likely to submit to your masculine polarity. From a game perspective, it’s because your indifference is a display of higher value. I could give you heaps of anecdotal examples but literally every guy on this forum knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that it’s always the girls that you aren’t into you who chase you (because you’re IDAF) while the girls you really like who are harder to get (because you’re investe…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:32 AM
1

Who?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:21 AM
18

Rollo’s example is Corey Worthington. He’s the guy who literally just doesn’t give a fuck. I know plenty of guys like this. It works better when you’re young, but unless your incredibly funny and social it generally stops working as you get into middle age. But if you really want to get into specifics as to why they can do it, it comes to human hierarchy. Guys like that don’t fall into line and girls sense that. When 99% of guys meet a perfect 10 their attitude, behaviour, social cues change. Ev…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:03 PM
2

Why’d you leave the Russian?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:43 AM
2

So true. There’s never been a greater time to do monk mode as there is literally no “FOMO”. Makes it easy to slow down, focus on yourself, your diet, your habits and your goals. I’ve also never found saving money easier.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:06 PM
3

I always completely ignore questions like these as they either seeking attention or testing your frame. In either scenario you don’t really care so it’s not worth your time answering. If you want to bang, just say something like hey, hope you’re well, let’s catch up for a drink. If not then ignore.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:40 AM
-1

Lol isn’t the US ranked 27th in terms of overall Healthcare. I used to wonder why your system is so expensive relative to other private systems, and then now I see the Private Equity firms cutting doctors pay during a pandemic with one hand and requesting a government bailout with the other. What a mess.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:19 AM
0

Yes my right is your left. How’s super fucking expensive healthcare treating you?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:51 AM
18

Personally no. If your plating/dating a girl and she’s really into you and wants an LTR then she wouldn’t want to potentially lose you/damage her reputation by banging other guys. If you’ve been plating her for a while (i.e non-exclusive) and she has been banging other guys (which is fine) and you’re banging other girls, it has to be said why would you upgrade her to LTR? I only LTR girls that I have a longer term interest from the get go and after solid vetting.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:51 AM
1

Sounds like a difficult battle to win. Next time you get LJBF’s, frame it so you’re saying no but tell them to reach out if they decide they want more. When they reach out, be clearer it’s a date. You can say hey let’s go on a dinner date, or “xyz, you little flirt. I told you I don’t want to be friends. How about dinner”. If they bring up friends from then on just fucking ghost them because they’re wasting your time for validation.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:34 PM
5

Of course he wasn’t
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:02 PM
5

Ironically it’s not always entirely due to your own level of investment. I had this bumble chick messaging me recently who was really hot but almost a little over the top (i.e waking up to a string of messages). I was pretty nonchalant about messaging back and then she eventually just stopped. The vibe was good and good banter. I would reply hours later and she’d then respond within minutes, and then it just randomly ended. Possibly she picked up I wasn’t as invested or chatty. Or maybe she just…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:57 PM
1

What is your point? I said Joe Exotic is emotionally weak.. as demonstrated by his obsession/revenge fantasy with Carol f**kin Baskin.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:50 PM
2

I can no longer your original post but it was a mess. If you actually follow Corey Wayne then you completely fucked it up. The reason he says assume they want to see you, and ask them on a date is two-fold: Assuming that any girl who reaches out wants you helps you internalise strong frame/inner game. Even if it’s not true you enter the discussion with a good frame of mind. Asking for a date is qualification. She either says yes or no. She’s either in or out and you don’t need to bother dancing …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:47 PM
2

If a girl tells you she wants to be friends NEVER fucking text her again, period. And if said girl reaches out again, then tell her upfront: “look i’m not interest in being friends. If you want something more we can hangout, otherwise all the best” Let HER qualify herself. Anything more and your wasting your time.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:20 AM
5

Lol just be yourself
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:07 AM
100

Revenge fantasies are sign of emotional weakness. If you don’t believe me just watch Joe Exotic on Tiger King and tell me his obsession with Carole Baskin is healthy. From a psychological perspective you need to accept the past and move on in order to be free from the burden of it. In terms of the concept of revenge itself there’s no sweeter victory than having people watch you succeed so keep levelling up across all areas of your life. I’ve said this a few times but the best thing you can do is…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 08:22 AM
4

Lol dudes on here complain when their normal girlfriend has “trust issues” when seeing a text from another girl then 5 minutes later are reading posts on “dread game”. It’s normal for a girl to have an emotional response when she see’s a message/senses the threat of another woman. If she didn’t then that means she’s not invested in you and therefore will likely cheat/leave you on a whim. It’s YOUR role to hold frame/assuage her doubts which if done correctly is the perfect scenario. She’s sees y…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:39 AM
4

Fortunately I learnt this young. I once met up with a HB9.5 at a bar, who at the time and considering I wasn’t in great shape, was way out of my league (looks-wise at least). Her guy friend cockblocked me and I ended up meeting and going home with a really hot HB8 (most banging body i’ve ever seen and her face was decent too..) A week or so later I go around to HB9.5’s house and she makes some lame excuse/apology about leaving the bar and mentions her and some friends went back to the guys house…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:54 PM
-4

Bullshit. I’m getting so many hits on bumble. These girls are itching for the “d” and their little hamster-wheels can’t tell them they’re queens and that every guy in the club wants them. For once they’re getting grounded in reality.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:01 PM
5

Have you ever considered this isn’t necessarily weak frame but your gut instincts which can often be right. I’ve had LTR’s with dozens of girls and only 1 or 2 gave me that feeling. 1 did actually cheat on me early on and 2 was putting the feelers out to branch swing. If I think back to when I was young, naive and inexperienced, I never once feared getting cheated on by the girls I had the weakest frame with. Bottom line: if something doesnt sit right in your gut there’s probably something wrong
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:43 PM
1

Bullshit. They worked out what they want to be good at, i.e bodybuilding, got on the gear and spent countless hours in the gym. Then they marketed themselves well.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 10:28 AM
2

Two things: YOU need to man up and escalate. If she’s not fucking you she’s prob fucking someone else. She may have had a partner but was bored and looking for excitement so you weren’t assertive enough. Be more assertive and if you get shot down then move on. STOP fucking texting these bishes everyday like they your penpal. She slowed things down with you physically so you felt the need to form an emotional connection? Wtf? As you get better at game you’ll learn less is more. You can fuck a chi…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 10:25 AM
1

I’m crushing work and stacking money but it f**cking sucks with the gym being closed lol.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:40 AM
2

I think the age thing and the examples you outline above are the most classic shit-test of all time. They are effectively asking “can you handle me?” which they are generally associating to their youth/beauty (i.e SMV). By flipping it around on them you are throwing it back in their face by framing it around their maturity (or lack thereof) you are effectively saying “your age ages/looks/beauty are irrelevant to me, but can you handle ME?” i.e on an emotional level. It’s the ultimate qualificati…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:25 AM
15

You have to realise they’re all bad girls. I banged a girl the other week who told me she was seeing a guy long-distance for over five months. The night i’d pulled her he’d blown her off for another girl. Literally 5 mins after banging her a text came across her phone from another guy saying how good the other weekend was. I didn’t care but found if funny she was complaining that this guy “cheated” on her but was already banging another dude. Their mental logistics is off the charts.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:00 PM
108

If a girl EVER brings up the age gap, just shoot back “oh, you don’t consider yourself mature..?” then don’t say anything. If they backpedal they’re in your frame, if not just just say that’s cool and walk.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:32 PM
8

What does “we can go out” even mean? It’s a weak answer. Girls hate indecisive guys that won’t take initiative. You didn’t really respond to her question with a firm suggestion or plan of action. Technically your response is deferring back to her for approval/decision making. You should have taken the lead and said either, cool i’ll cool over, what time? Otherwise, i’ll pick you up and take you [xx] To be honest it doesn’t really matter what you say if you take the lead. The good news is your 19…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:30 AM
8

Clubs is all about social proof. If you roll in alone you’ll look like a weirdo. If you roll in with a with a big group and other hot girls you’ll pique their interest. That being said if you’re good looking and confident it’s pretty easy
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:23 AM
2

Above poster is correct. By bringing up what part of her behaviour bothers you are giving power to it/her. If she’s being a whore, let her be a whore. You don’t care as it’s beneath you. Tell her it’s over and where to find any stuff and never EVER fucking look back.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:26 AM
3

It is until they find a guy they actually respect. OP isn’t that guy.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:56 AM
3

You don’t need motivation, you need accountability and discipline. Starting from today you are accountable for every single good and bad thing in your life, so no excuses if you’re not getting the results you want. Discipline is a muscle, you need to flex it and train it in order to strengthen it. The easiest way is locking in some time for each activity and forcing yourself to follow through. Repetition will strengthen your resolve. Discipline is freedom.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:14 AM
4

It’s a double edged sword. If you’re seen doing fun stuff with a normal looking girl then it’ll look good and shows you are socially calibrated. If this girls real desperate and literally tagged you as being on a date then it can appear cringe-worthy. Either way you shouldn’t give a fuck. If sex/attraction aside you liked hanging out with the girl then who gives a shit. Other girls will sense your mindset and be curious about you, as girls like guys who ‘get’ women, as in understand them, tease …
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:04 AM
1

If you’re young, throw yourself into the gym and channel that pain, get fucking shredded.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:45 AM
3

She cried because her vagina went dry and all respect for you disappeared..
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:11 AM
22

Hoes don’t even bother covering it up anymore. Welcome to Open Hypergamy
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:13 AM
11

Yes
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:26 PM
2

Ask yourself which industry is more likely to be replaced by A.I / robotics then to the other
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:17 PM
0

Your communication style is autistic. She opens up, puts her self out there and tells you she likes you and you return a cold serve by saying “I know”, and then try to act cold/defensive. What you should have said is “i’m not sure I fully believe you, why don’t you come around and prove it” or something playful along those lines.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 10:51 PM
11

I’m not actually sure there’s even a correlation between their N-Count and their skills in bed. High N-count girls just want to fuck, they aren’t trying to treat you like a king. I’ve banged a few sluts lately and they were so so and then I got a girl from a small traditional country and she was a firecracker.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:59 AM
6

Don’t reveal your feelings. Next time your “cuddling”, man up and try escalate. If you get shot down don’t take it personally and begin the process of moving on. If some chemistry happens then see where it goes. Either way words are pointless.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 01:08 PM
16

Just say hi politely and keep walking. It’s HER problem. Don’t make it yours. Also if she only wants closure via text she’s a fucking loser.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:35 PM
1

Try meditation apps. They always help me get back to sleep.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 11:49 AM
3

Yeah it’s all about building instant rapport and securing a date. These girls are getting 200x as many matches as you.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:13 AM
1

I’m not sure you understand the definition of Chad. Sure it’s probably dumbed down on here to a 6”2+ ripped dude who goofs around but Chad is literally any dude who gets all the girls. Every city, country, social circle is different so obviously Chad will be different in different settings, but wasn’t different is that Chad possesses certain qualities that make him a top 10% guy, which allows him to get laid a lot. If your in Harvard law then he’s obviously different to a dude in high school in …
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:00 AM
2

If she’s obsessed with you why’s she spending 45 mins on the phone with the guy? If it was a precious long term ex going through a family emergency/crisis then maybe I’d understand but it’ll still raise alarm bells.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:52 AM
1

Practice gratefulness and journaling. As you said previously you were injured so write down why you are grateful, i.e you are grateful that you have recovered and have the opportunity to improve. Also it sounds like you’ve got to where you want to be before so it’s actually easier to do it again. Lastly, improvement shouldn’t solely be about lifting/bulking/shredding. If you’re in full monk mode you should be seeing progress in other areas of your life such as finances, hobbies, career and from …
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:15 AM
3

The reason she wants you back are because things aren’t working out for her right now. Never fucking do this, no matter how good that pussy is or how hot she is by taking her back you are handing her your balls on a plate and saying please fuck me over and hurt me again as soon as you get the tingles for another guy. One thing I know is that it doesn’t matter if a women loves you, likes you or hates you, the only thing that matters is whether she respects you. Just tell her she broke an otherwis…
/r/askTRP17/02/20 09:07 PM
9

Girls get crushes. I’ve seen girls pining and crying over guys, or getting obsessed with them.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 09:04 AM
1

Maybe she was adverse to a same night lay knowing that you were from out of town. Arrange a second date away from your hotel (plausible deniability) go for drinks again, keep the kino up and try get back to yours.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 08:40 AM
2

Read Corey Wayne’s how to be a 3% man. Basically everything you did wrong is covered in there. That should give you an outline as how to hold basic frame when dating. From there you can improve your game with experience or by learning indepth game tactics.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:56 AM
1

Personally I think Rollo’s SMV chart is off. From my general observations men generally peak around 27-32 from a physical looks perspective. Despite improved confidence, career prospects, money etc most guys start to look like shit after 35, which massively offsets the other SMV factors, so on an absolute basis their SMV peaked well before 35. On a relative basis there are more available younger women so they still have more opportunity but they won’t automatically be pulled 22 year old HB 10’s …
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:34 AM
10

Your reddit name reflects your mindset. There’s a whole ton of red flags here on your part: Eager to jam in a ton of dates in a single week Being overly sexual over text - escalate in person.. not on the phone like a bitch Being overly eager in general Chasing her when she bailed on you to hang with other guys.. Double texting after two hours.. Take six months off dating re-read the sidebar 96 times and maybe take some time to think about why you’re such a nice little beta boy at 38.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:25 AM
1

Read the Fuck yes or no article by Mark Manson. Basically if she’s not saying fuck yes, then fuck her. But too many fuck yes’s obviously means you need to raise your SMV /calibrate approaches.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:19 AM
4

That’s not normal, don’t justify these thots behaviour
/r/askTRP15/02/20 11:51 PM
3

I’ve had LMR and girls walk. When you get those numbers up it’s more common than you think, particularly if the girl is considering seeing you again. The best thing you do is let her walk and wait for her to contact you. They’ll come around again and then it’s easy to close on the second time. In the interim pursue other women and build your roster so you’re more outcome independent. If you view it that way you can treat it as a win because by you’ll be on first date with another girl when she’s…
/r/askTRP15/02/20 09:11 AM
1

You’re going to die one day kid so how about living first. Ps: just get rich and get a trophy wife: https://www.cheatsheet.com/health-fitness/these-billionaires-have-stunning-trophy-wives-and-these-photos
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:38 PM
2

Look at girls actions, not what they say. She either has someone else lined up or realised it’s moving too fast and wants to slow it down. Assume the latter, which is more likely and wait for her to reach out.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 09:18 PM
1

Then you have low SMV and game is only a band aid. Get ripped, build solid social circles and leverage them to meet new people.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 09:07 PM
1

Society
/r/askTRP13/02/20 09:05 PM
1

Lift your smv. If you physique or social status isn’t top 10% you’ll struggle to maintain 9’s.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:43 PM
1

Win or lose you would have gained valuable experience
/r/askTRP11/02/20 10:55 AM
1

Ps: you also should have escalated with the girl at the party, but you didn’t and settled for digits.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:07 AM
1

Well it’s clear from your post that you are taking girls on dates and either unable or unwilling to escalate physically. If you knew how to escalate you would probably close. Suggest you find some books on game, get a better understanding of kino and put it into practice. Having good text/tinder game won’t solve what is really in real-life problem.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:03 AM
2

What you’re asking for is magic pills/silver bullets. Maybe try putting some fucking work in for once.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:27 AM
1

Who told you he has a plan?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:56 AM
3

Exactly and I agree, and no i’m not shitting on the arts or people’s passions. Op was asking how to raise his SMV to get pussy and someone mentioned learn guitar which unless it makes you famous won’t really add much tangible value, and therefore is inefficient for boosting SMV. Learning to DJ on the other can massively boost your SMV if you play in clubs or at parties, as you are the guy steering the party, and you can also get people in. I know a few DJ’s and its a massive panty dropper.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:05 PM
59

Everyone on here seems to bitch about club sluts which strikes me odd given the point of TRP is ultimately to get sex. Pulling in the club is a very easy way to get laid from 18-30 if you have good SMV/game. If you’re 18 the best way to raise SMV is to work on your physique (lift), social skills and game. In the background, you should be focusing on your studies/education or up skilling in some form for the employment market. Either way you want to start building your income, living within your …
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:37 PM
3

Delete your IG - it’s the only logical move to make.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 11:26 AM
16

Hate to break it to you, but given you went overt and told her you were thinking about breaking up with her due to her shitty behaviour then you should probably follow through with it. If you don’t then, as soon as you take her back she’ll likely see it as a sign of weakness and hampster her behaviour away. She may get worse or even go further and break up with you to steal the frame so you can’t beat her to it. By going overt you’ve kinda shown all your cards. You probably would have been bette…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:58 AM
12

Why exactly are you soft nexting your wife?
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:25 AM
2

One could argue that this isn’t ‘oneitis’ in the general sense, which originally used to mean AFC/nice guys who fawned over girls who never put out, i.e friend zoned. Rather it’s ‘investment’. For whatever reason, her personality, your compatibility or some cute trait she has you actually like her and feel some level of investment to her. Ultimately this affects your frame as you have skin in the game. I date lots of girls where I now generally feel nothing. Sure dates can be fun/pleasant and I …
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:30 PM
3

This is ask TRP.. I’m not sure what the point of your story is nor is it actually a question... From what I read you think a girl thinks your “hawt” and that some basic juvenile communication and standoffish behaviour would have her gushing and begging you to lock down a date when it didn’t. Because of this you assume she must have a boyfriend right? How about you pick up your balls, game her properly, get her on a real date and fucking escalate until she’s on your dick because all this I’m not …
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:19 PM
3

Says a lesser man.. At least the brothers out there banging lots of chicks. The guy caught the feels which is going to happen the more successful you are with girls, particularly when you start banging/dating 8’s and over. Oneitis is a real bitch though. Often objectively the girl may not even be a great lay or particularly special but something in our monkey brains assigns extra value to them. Generally the solution is to get more high SMV girls, but really it comes down to personality/compatib…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:29 PM
1

“You have to break a few eggs to make an omelette” - Tyler Durdan
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:13 PM
1

A few things: You seem indecisive/indirect in your messaging, as in your beating around the bush hoping they’ll organise a time. Just say something like lets go for a drink what night suits? Or let’s go for a drink on thurs and let them counter if it doesn’t suit. If they flake (art date girl), just don’t respond. Odds are if you say ok fine another time it’ll never happen anyway so often it’s better to leave some them wondering to create some tension, forcing them to compensate or chase you for…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:02 PM
23

If she’s really willing to stay with some fat sweaty slob of a beta and keep you on the side then she’s plating you.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:52 AM
-1

You say she has feelings for him but also put him in the friendzone? Which is it? Also you say relationship but is it an LTR or a plate? If you’re confident she won’t hook up with him then fuckit, go on the trip, have fun, bang her and then peel your attention away. Start lining up new prospects though in the interim.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:00 PM
2

I’m not from the US so imagine the girls are far more likely to cheat there given how they’re brought up.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:05 PM
1

I dated one girl who in my mind was a solid 9.5+ out of 10, aesthetically she just ticked all my boxes and if i’m going to be honest i’ll probably struggle to find another girl who did it for me that viscerally. In the height of our relationship she was loving and sweet, and while I loved banging her, half the time I was thinking about other girls, even less attractive exes. I think as men we just want strange pussy. The sex we ever had was post break-up as she became a scarcer commodity and I w…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 01:09 PM
1

Just laugh at her and walk away
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:57 PM
1

As far as the black out experiences go you should learn to control that. I like clubbing as alcohol is a massive social lubricant and nights out expedite things really quickly. It beats having to cold approach girls at the train station or supermarket, and through leveraging social circles I can meet people quickly, vet their relationship status, if they’re compatible and then try and smash. The downside is the selection bias that clubs have, i.e predominantly party girls or girls having a girls…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 02:16 AM
-1

So the real problem with 9-10’s is that they’re a really small population within a broader spectrum. It all depends on age but a good chunk of these girls are dumb party girls who have fickle interest and a massive sense of entitlement. To get them you’ll need tight game, social status or great looks. You also need a IDAF attitude which hopefully you’ll gain with experience/abundance. Considering most guys shit their pants around them, decent social skills, a sense of self confidence and true in…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 01:15 AM
2

I’ve dated 5+ 9/10’s and despite the massive validation hit at the time; once they go and you finally learn to stop caring you realise they’re just any like old girl with the same issues/insecurities/drawbacks in the bedroom as any other girl. Sure it’s easy to fall for them but trust me, if you really have them (peak of your turn) then once you get to the point that they’re all over you and willing to do anything than you suddenly start thinking about other girls, even exes and past lays
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:52 AM
1

So put it this way, I make good dough, dress well, look good, smell nice etc, but when I meet girls I don’t tell them what I do or what I make. When they ask I’ll tell them “wow [x] that’s very forward, are you sizing me up by my career”. Girls really don’t care what you do, and to be honest if you made 200k as a radiologist they wouldn’t give a shit. They may care if you’re a doctor or pilot etc (for the status) but generally girls get zero wetness from your career choice. What they do like is …
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:01 AM
1

It’s already been stated above but again these things aren’t mutually exclusive. If you want to rely on you looks and work at improving your game, sure that’s great but I don’t see why you should settle for an average job/income. Let that word sink in a little.. average. Do you really want to be joe average with a $40k salary, small apartment and a mortgage? We’re talking big picture here and girls shouldn’t even be a consideration in your career choice so either way you should be aiming to have…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:15 AM
1

So what you are saying is you would rather game i.e DHV (display higher value) or fake having value, than actually being more valuable (wealthy). Just because you have money it doesn’t mean you have to act like an ATM and hand out cash and free meals. I earn in the top 1%. If I want to buy a girl a drink I will. If I want to shout her a dinner I will. It’s great having the freedom to do it but i’ll do it on my terms. True power is the capacity to do something but not having to act on it. I.e the…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:58 AM
1

I guess if you go way back to tribal societies, the alpha (Chieftain) held a significant portion of the resources, so had wealth/status. Now this chief may have become the chief due physical dominance (aggression, combat ability, fear/respect), social dominance (charm, political graft, machiavellian traits etc), or simply by virtue of birthright (royal family). Regardless, women are attracted to Alpha’s who have status, whereas beta’s provide them with security & provisioning, albeit less so in …
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:59 AM
2

Wealth forms part of the SMV equation as it ties into status.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:45 AM
3

Here’s the rub, you’re searching for answers and hoping a book will magically help you. The only thing that will help you is action (or inactive in this case), building a consistent routine and calibrating until it’s a ritual. From personal experience willpower is a muscle and the more train it the stronger it gets. Also, if you’e giving up bad habits then I suggest you replace them with good habits like lifting weights or some other sport/hobby. Unless you have a drinking problem you don’t have…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:15 AM
3

Having this happen to you at 20-22 is the best thing that ever happened to you. It’s a hard and fast learning curve and now you know what not to do. Focus on your life & mission (regain your own mental point of origin).
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:22 AM
1

If you’re good looking and have a decent social circle then most definitely
/r/askTRP26/01/20 07:10 AM
4

Lol plausible deniability. “Whoops sorry that was mean’t to be a group message to Chad and Tyson, they’re coming over for a gang bang later. Hope you’re well x”
/r/askTRP25/01/20 11:25 PM
3

DON’T escalate by text/ask for a date. Just ask her out for dinner, assume if she says yes it’s a date then go for drinks afterwards, flirt and escalate physically. If you flirt and slowly escalate the kino you should get a feel for her level of interested. Also that way if she’s not keen, you can chalk it up to an in the moment thing.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:37 PM
1

This place has become a sperg camp
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:36 PM
13

Your look is fine but your pictures are shit. They’re all staged which would lead girls to believe you have no friends. You should have one or two solo pictures, i.e at the beach, outdoors, playing sports or at an event with you being the sole focus in the image. The rest should be group photos of you having fun. If there’s hot girls in the group photos even better. If you don’t have these, delete Tinder and focus on building a social circle of a good group of guys who do fun shit.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:16 PM
4

Just put it up near her face in a dominant fashion, she’ll get the hint. You need to take ownership in the bedroom
/r/askTRP25/01/20 07:05 AM
1

You don’t understand my point. OP suggested looks is most important. Sure looks counts in the SMV equation but so does status, arguably more so. Fame is the ultimate form of status/pre-selection. A famous singer/actor can walk in the room and every girl knows him. He doesn’t need to run game (a technique to display higher value) because everyone knows he is higher value. He’s in the top 0.01% of the human pecking order. If a better looking guy walks in said room he still has to approach those gi…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:15 PM
-2

That wasn’t even a joke, he literally would. Fame/status shits on looks and game.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:56 PM
-2

I don’t care if you’re a Calvin Klein model, Ed Sheeran would still get more pussy than you any day of the week.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:49 PM
-5

Untrue. Girls care about status far more than they do about looks and a guy that is extremely confident and relaxed around women and who has some status will do far better than an 8/10 looking dude.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:21 PM
1

How does this fit within the framework of hypergamy? Alpha fucks?
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:11 PM
14

If you’re not getting what you want then vote with your feet
/r/askTRP19/01/20 11:20 AM
2

Yeah I would actually date this girl properly but we live a few hours apart and i’m not willing to move, but i’m conscious that sooner or later that she’ll meet a guy and i’ll never hear from her again. That’s ok though as i’m enjoying my turn and am highly focused on my mission.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:25 AM
2

Don’t get me wrong, it’s working perfectly as I just take her to dinner/drinks, she pays her half and then I get to have my way in the bedroom. I was more just curious as my ex once made a passing comment about her that this girls desperate to settle down but I don’t get that vibe. Or possibly she is but still wants to have her fun on the side. I just always wonder how their alpha/beta dichotomy and selection works as from a financial viewpoint I made about 4x more than her and would wager that …
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:50 AM
1

You’re 17 not 30 so I would actually suggest the opposite and NOT avoid her as you have plenty of time to fuck things up and learn from it. The more experience you can get now the better. She reached out so say something like good to hear from you, let’s go do (date activity). Flirt hard on the date, use kino and escalate. [Assume she wants to fuck]. Keep proceeding until you either fuck or get rejected. Either way it’s practice and Oneitis girls are the best practice as that’s when you’re actua…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:13 PM
1

It’s not ideal but offen student debt can’t be helped. If they’re a motivated person, and live within their means with a plan to pay off the debt and increase their income then no biggie. If they wasted four years of college doing a B.A in gender studies, spend more than they earn and are always wanting to keep up with the jones’s ... well you get the picture. Keep incomes seperate and talk to your accountant about asset protection if it exists where you live.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:53 AM
2

She’s never seen you as alpha. She offered to fuck you and you couldn’t man up. This generally means two things: You’re too beta and idolise her and think she’s a good girl, or; You find her unattractive/disgusting in which case you don’t want her and therefore wouldn’t really care what she’s doing/how she’s acting. It’s obvious to HER that it’s not 2. You’ve been pre-occupied with this girl for 6 years. Hard fucking next and start focusing on you.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:51 AM
19

If she was interested she would propose another time. Soft next as she’s using you for validation.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:22 AM
3

You can’t use soft nexting as a tool for seduction. The whole point about nexting is to do with walking away and reframing yourself to get to a place where you don’t care either way. If I had been rejected for physical intimacy twice i’d probably never even call her for a date. If she reached out I’d assume she wants to see me, set a date and escalate. You have to remember that given this girls shot you down she probably won’t even miss you during those 10 days. Is this the sort of person you wa…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:17 PM
7

Not exactly the best way to handle it but to be honest from a dark triad perspective you probably stoked some internal emotions, so it could go either way. Go silent and if she reaches out assume she wants to see you and set a date. Don’t be overt about sex though, give her plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:12 PM
1

There’s always shorter girls. Get over yourself
/r/askTRP30/12/19 12:32 AM
1

“” I want with Cool sounds good let’s get coffee Sunday and maybe you can teach me something I don’t already know” a little less funny but more cocky...she just responded with “I’m going to be out of the city this weekend rain check for another day” “ My feedback is this is a little too passive/boring. By having her ‘teach’ you, you are framing as if she has the value. As per my example above by YOU converting her, you implicitly let her know that you have the power. In terms of your response to…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:33 PM
1

Cocky/funny: You: You sound like you’re on the fence still. Let’s go for coffee or a drink and i’ll make you a full convert😉 #?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:45 PM
6

Concentration is a muscle. You need to train it. Stop using distracting apps/social media. Start reading daily Play memory games
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:02 AM
4

Her argument is flimsy. If she’s already been having sex with you and has all of a sudden stopped I don’t believe it’s religious grounds. I’m not religious so I don’t really get the whole “no sex before marriage” thing but if that was her position from the get go then I would be more understanding, giving you would have gone into an LTR eyes wide open. I think she is just using the whole religious narrative as an excuse. Her hypergamy didn’t seem to care about god when she was banging you. I had…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:00 PM
12

You could be too big - muscles and low bf are great but i’ve never understood the mr Olympia thing. You mentioned 8-10’s don’t approach - why should they, that’s your job. If you’re only 20 then start going out clubbing and approaching hard. Hell, even use your size as a routine. Literally go up to a girl and say my friend’s said she’s not really into built dudes, what’s your take? Anything to get a convo flowing. Juicing at 20? Unless your looking at going pro you’re putting your body through a…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:00 PM
35

Honestly you kids who’ve grown up swallowing TRP need to do some serious introspection and grow the fuck up. You don’t need to air all your dirty laundry on a forum for guidance on what to do with it. She pissed your bed when she was black out drunk.. so what. It’s either a dealbreaker on moral/hygiene grounds or you can take a more fluid approach and realise we all do stupid shit, especially when we’re drunk. If she does it all the time, or with no sense of embarrassment then sure get rid of it…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:02 AM
3

Two tools: Go cold and withdraw attention when she doesn’t comply. Treat her like a child then command her.. e.g aww baby aren’t you being stubborn/fiesty etc in a mocking tone, followed by now shut up and kiss me. Escalate physically and assume the lead. E.g right, we’re doing this..
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:26 PM
11

Just tell her you like her but you can’t do long distance so can’t see a future. I don’t know the background but it seems it was her choice to move away, or that’s where her family is so when it comes down to it she made the decision to potentially end the relationship. End it on good terms as it seems she treated you well but life just took its course.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:20 PM
4

Not only is it beta it’s boring as shit. You are literally better off asking them how their weekend went. Look at their profiles and try come up with some observational humour. It’s just a numbers game.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:08 PM
6

Just read any decent book on WW1/WW2/Vietnam war and consider that young men went away for years at a time to fight battles in hellish conditions. Then you’ll realise that 3 months, 6 months, 1-2 years isn’t as long as you think.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:35 PM
2

It got easier to eat clean as I got a little older but to be honest i’m not sure if it’s just a case of stronger willpower/greater desire to get results or a case of incremental improvement. My advice is build up to 16:8 intermittent fasting. If you need to eat during the day for school/work have breakfast at 8 and dinner before 4pm. If you like eating later do 10am and 6pm. Aside from the hormonal benefits of going 16 hours without food/glycogen I’ve also found my sugar cravings dropped off and…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:21 AM
3

Judging by your post your expect people to think that you don’t fit in, so either naturally you won’t, or will simply assume that’s what people are thinking. Don’t worry about what they think. Change YOUR perception.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:52 PM
1

Left/right.. they’re both part of the problem.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:50 PM
0

You did fine, although when she asked about the plans on Sunday you gave her a choice (“your welcome to come over”). In future, i’d suggest just deciding on a plan and command her m: i.e “well baby, you’re going to come around to mine and see what I have planned” etc etc. Don’t defer the decision to her. Make the decision yourself and she either complies or disqualifies herself.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:08 AM
2

Ghosting gets you nothing, it’s simply ego protection. Set a date, text for logistics and isolate and escalate. If she doesn’t agree to the date then just walk away and never message her again (no need to delete). If she reaches out, then ask for a date a second time. If she doesn’t agree then cease contact knowing that you’re no worse off than if you ghosted. Just don’t get caught in the trap of responsing to her snaps like an orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:01 AM
2

Well that’s fine if you wanna do that just focus on improving your social skills and don’t get hung up on the one girl
/r/askTRP30/11/19 10:09 PM
3

Begs the question, why exactly would you go on a date in a group setting. If it was her idea i.e because she had a group activity that day, then you should have politely declined and offered up an exclusive date at another time that YOU plan. A group date isn’t a date. It’s just a new friend joining the gang. If she turns down the opportunity for a solo date then you never had a chance to begin with. If she liked you she would have waited a day or two or suggested a time she’s free.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:08 PM
6

You’re getting hung up on micro-game or tactics (i.e text frequency/initiation). It’s her birthday. Act as nothing happened and call/text her something flirty and try arrange a date. If she’s tied up with friends then try get her around after and smash her brains out.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:04 PM
1

Plates can hook up with other people but if they’re playing games in an attempt to emotionally manipulate you then that’s another story. Personally I wouldn’t tolerate it but that’s just me and my ego. Put it this way, If I had absolutely zero emotional investment, i.e no jealousy whatsoever, then my first thought would be that this girls a loser for even trying to shake me, in which case I would cut her.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 04:32 PM
4

It’s a little different to purposely doing it in front of him after saying she wants to go home with him and then giving him directions to where she was at the time (i.e for him to see her hooking up with the dude) Sure she’s a plate and can do what she wants but that shows a complete and utter lack of general respect. I’d hard next her for being a shit human.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 01:02 PM
3

Doesn’t sound right... possibly she cheated and is looking to scapegoat you. Also as per the above posters comments if she’s willing to go nuclear over a slight misunderstanding then she’s damaged goods. Steer clear.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 04:45 AM
1

Stop fucking talking to this girl. That’s your problem.. talking. She’s not confusing you, you’re confusing yourself by not being a man and taking one of the only two actions in this scenario: If she reaches out, assume she wants a date and ask her to come to you/meet you. If she ignores your request, skirts around the issue or declines you then hard next and block her on all social apps. Then never ever look back.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 04:42 AM
94

Hate to break it to you but “Poly relationship” basically means your a beta cuck. She got some alpha dick and now she doesn’t really need your sorry ass. I know this because I was seeing a girl who was in a poly relationship. Whilst she claimed she loved her bf she was bored of him and loved being dominated in the bedroom. She also let me do things he was never allowed to. In my view poly is literally worse for a guy than being the friend zone. Some other guy/bull is cuming in your girlfriends m…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 01:02 AM
1

Great insight, thank you.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:00 PM
9

You have to learn how to banter. I have mates who are absolutely savage so the only way you can shut them up is to one up them. You should learn not to take offence You should learn to enjoy bantering (as opposed to a genuine putdown). Learn to throw hands
/r/askTRP27/11/19 10:40 AM
1

Thanks mate, makes sense. Just to clarify when I said I knew her platonically before hooking up it was due to me being in a relationship with someone in a wider social circle. As such she didn’t even register to me but I got along with her well and lightly flirted but she knew I was off limits. About a year later I ran into her in a club, gamed her and took her home that night. We live in different towns now (2 hours away) hence the intermittent hook-ups and drawn out communication between seein…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 08:19 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:38 AM
1

Doesn’t work like that. I’ve banged 250+ and pursued considerably more and have had oneitis/significant attachment with less than 10 girls. Most girls now I feel nothing even if they 7-8, and then randomly a girl has something that you can’t put your finger on including the right mix of looks and personality. You’ll find it’s mainly the cute personality factor as icy 10’s are fun to fuck but are boring as shit.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:35 AM
2

To be honest I think my SMV is higher. Sure she’s attractive (7.5-8) and has a good personality/banter but she knows of my ex (9-9.5) who is considerably hotter/sought and has seen some of the other girls i’ve dated. Putting looks etc aside, I earn considerably more than her (3-4x) and know more people. Yes, fair to say i’m more emotionally invested. I think it’s possibly because she’s harder to get that it makes me want her more. Appreciate the plate will break and I could even speed this up by…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:27 AM
1

Walk away and don’t look back. I wouldn’t even bother hitting her up.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:34 AM
17

There’s likely only a handful of possibilities: You’re too needy which scares them off; You’re too cold/standoffish which while attractive at first means you’re not relationship material. You have a bad/inauthentic personality. I don’t anything about you or how you communicate with women but based on your post if you’re making it to 8 weeks but not beyond then it’s likely option 2. A girl should be falling for you by week 8.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:32 AM
3

I strongly advise against. I re-engaged with an ex who dumped me (not so much to do with losing frame but by having the relationship deck stacked against me, i.e her ex was in her friends circle and her friends wanted them back together). I played it cool/unemotional, won her back and brought the relationship another 9 months but ultimately it’s a losing battle because you re-enter the relationship with scars and a scarcity mentality. On the flip side i’ve also banged past exes 1-2 years after t…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:26 AM
1

This is the eternal conundrum that i’ve also battled with recently, as all the girls I date/bang I don’t really want after 1-2 lays and the girls that I actually like, I can’t have due to logistics (diff cities/county). The only solution I found was that there’s no real correlation between the number of plates/options and your sense of abundance. Rather it’s the number of high quality options that matters. For example, you could have 10-20 girls who are ready to bang at a moments notice but none…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:52 PM
1

Are you asking if people are more alpha/beta based on the genetics they inherited from their parents? Yes genes will definitely play a part. Some people are genetically more masculine/competitive which will naturally make them more Alpha at least from a physical dominance perspective. The flip side of this is the skinny nerd. That being said Alpha/Beta relates to mens interactions with women so personality/learned behaviour is a huge component and arguably more important.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:12 AM
4

You’re worrying about too much shit that doesn’t really matter (timing, her previous LTR, your bodyfat in the context of this scenario). You’re clearly still young, haven’t even hit college yet and will fuck and date plenty of girls in your life so there’s an extremely high chance that this girl is a temporary blip. If you like her just go for it, escalate as soon as possible and see what happens. You’ll learn from the process either way. When I was in high school I met this perfect girl, we hun…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:39 PM
3

If you weren’t in high school you would have probably blown it by now in terms of taking too long to escalate. As the previous guy said, man up and escalate. Don’t worry about confidence or anything. It’ll either happen or you’ll get shot down in which case you’ll realise it’s no big deal, and at least learn how to escalate.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:25 PM
16

Biggest piece of advice I could give any young guy in the 20’s is take lifting seriously and your study/career. Lifes a lot easier when you’re in great shape (top 10%) and have your career/money in check. Women will always come and go.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:21 AM
2

Just ignore her until she comes back. To be honest though you should walk away for good.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:59 PM
4

Look even if you hadn’t acted beta if you were actually successful in this relationship you would have hitched your cart to a burning horse that’s running off a ravine. This girl is clearly damaged and can’t be saved. She will go on for years bouncing between beta’s who’ll treat her right (and whom she’ll lose attraction for) and Alpha’s who use her for her youth/sex. I know it probably sucks now but in 20 years time she’ll either be dead, dating some meth head or running tricks on the street. T…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:39 AM
1

Drunk girl was being annoying and counterproductive so you need to isolate and escalated. Not too sure of the situation but take her to the other side of the bar/dancefloor etc
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:38 AM
5

Don’t do it before at least 25. You’ll fuck your endocrine system.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 02:22 AM
1

You can’t replace them per se. It doesn’t mean that you can’t still train legs with a standard leg press, hamstring curl and leg extension machine. Firstly I would focus on getting in the gym and doing some resistance training. Build some good habits (like going consistently) then broaden your routine. If you’re completely new to it you’ll see some surprising/encouraging results.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 12:37 AM
2

You get 84,600 seconds per day like everybody else, stop fucking wasting them. Listen we all look back and most of us were fuck-ups or didn’t have their shit sorted back in their early 20’s, but I can guarantee you the one thing everybody on here wishes is that they put in more work back then. Wake up and stop blaming others and fix your life because nobodies coming to save you. Living at your parents probably wouldn’t be so bad if you got a part-time job, earned some dollars and met some people…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 05:08 AM
7

“they literally can’t help themselves without a calming, external, guiding presence.” Haha that’s gold.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:31 AM
2

Women cheat but I don’t believe for a second that ALL women cheat or would cheat if the right opportunity presented itself. There’s plenty of women who are satisfied with their lot in life, many of my friends wives included. Although in saying that yes cheating is getting worse and thot behaviour is being normalised. FB , SNAP and IG have definitely fucked the game up for young people. It’s literally amazing to compare girls you date who are on it and girls who aren’t. They are worlds apart in t…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:27 AM
6

Possibly they’re angry because they can’t get you, or you make them realise how they missed their lot in life. I also think it’s a reciprocation thing, i.e I have little interest in even talking to low SMV women (unless they are really personable/ funny or part of a work/social group) so they feel that i’m ignoring them and responding accordingly.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:16 AM
0

This has nothing to do your perception of what constitutes being 100% red-pilled. You missed the point of his post (possibly because your reading comprehension is poor..) which is, if a girls in an LTR and starting to look around at other guys, at what point will she actually pull the trigger and branch swing. Again this is a valid question worth exploring. I’m presuming the OP is the new branch and my only answer to him is that there’s no definitive answer. I’ve banged girls in relationships an…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:27 AM
2

He asks a valid question that warrants exploring. Just because you’re not interested in an LTR it doesn’t mean others need to subscribe to your beliefs. If you’re in an LTR it is ‘your’ girl and your turn, until the day its not.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:25 AM
0

This is kinda bullshit. Like it or not every culture has certain racial preferences that can assist or diminish ones SMV depending on their given race (e.g positive for Americans in SE Asia). Given these traits can literally boost your access to the sexual market place it’s a real factor of SMV.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:00 AM
1

I used to work with a chubby english guy who had glasses and kinda of a ratty face. Despite his appearances he had excellent banter and communications skills so was great with people. He also had a really hot foreign wife. If your smv is low then improve your banter. Maybe life some weights too
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:21 PM
7

You’ve probably missed the boat but you could just add her on facebook and say something simple/detached like “let’s grab a drink”. It’s a low investment approach.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:50 AM
2

So true. I once had a tinder date where we randomly got drunk on a Wednesday. We were hooking up in an Irish bar and she’s flipping between hot and cold, I think potentially because another guy was working there that she knew as she kept checking her phone. Long story short she gives me the “we should be friends” speech. I told her fuck that, I had a good time, nice to meet you but gotta go and highballed it out of there. I get home, climb into bed and get a random call from her whining about wh…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:45 PM
4

No. If you have no interest in her or trying to plate her then you should actually be friends with her and see if you can meet some of her friends to bang. There’s nothing wrong with having female friends, particularly if they can deliver up babes.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:28 PM
1

If you’re aready good looking just keeping lifting, keep in the top 5% of guys in terms of physicality and trust me it’ll get easier with age. As Matthew mcconaughey says in Dazed and Confused: I get older and they stay the same age.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:08 AM
4

Fuck and ghost
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:58 AM
1

Yeah it’s bad but it’s probably only a small percentage of married women. They just happen to coalesce there and gloat about how good it makes them feel.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:57 AM
3

It won’t let me do the link but type adultery after the r slash. There’s lots of stories from women who get off on cheating. To be fair most of them complain because it’s a dead bedroom so either the men married the wrong women or a beta chumps who let themselves go.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:40 AM
1

To be honest i’m currently doing mainly heavy weights and slow state cardio to burn calories. I aim for 30-60 mins daily in order to keep me in a caloric deficit when i’m cutting. HIIT is good for fitness and is great when you’re not lifting but I find i’m more likely to injure/strain myself if i’m already lifting heavy and are sore.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:16 AM
24

Try reading the reddit adultery thread. There’s a million stories about women who ‘love’ their husband but don’t feel attracted/satisfied then love getting railed by some random chad. 5 minutes on there and you really start to question the institution of marriage.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:35 AM
5

Personally I feel like a piece of shit if I do no exercise, feel better but weak if I do lots of cardio, and feel much better if I do heavy weights and some intense cardio. It’s a positive feedback loop. Look better/feel better = act better. It’s also kinda nice to know you have enough brute strength to destroy someone in a rumble.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 11:19 PM
9

It’s not that don’t want to fuck you or haven’t considered it, it’s because your not escalating. You need to escalate as it’s YOUR job as the man. Stop thinking that pleasant conversations will make these girls wet, sexual dominance will.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:17 AM
3

You’ve done two dates out so why not offer to cook. That way logistics are in place already and she can leave after you’re done fucking her. Also keeps the actual dining time down and qualifies her real interest. If she declines she’s just looking for nice meals out.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:15 AM
11

Tell her photo quality is awful and that she should come round in person. If she curves you then just block or completely ignore.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:34 AM
5

Ignore her
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:22 AM
1

Yeah it’s ironic that they want to see you everyday which unless your married/co-habitating generally kills it.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:10 PM
2

I wouldn’t worry about dread. Just come home one night, grab her, rip her clothes off and turn her around, then proceed to dominate her. On a side note it sounds like you’re real issue is energy levels. From personal experience I failed an LTR due to working long-hours, always being exhausted, letting the gym and proper sleep hygiene slip. You have to keep all this shit in check for yourself regardless of whether your LTR works.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 11:36 AM
2

You’re really only making bullshit excuses for yourself. I’ve taken plenty of tinder first dates for coffees, or for walks/icecreams when i’m not drinking. You may be surprised as it’s low pressure for them, i.e they can leave once the coffee/walk is over as opposed to being tempted to stay and drink more.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 11:10 AM
5

Just do it and you’ll be surprised. There’s plenty of options like going for a hike or a walk around a beach/park. It sounds like this will also take you out of your comfort zone
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:36 AM
2

Game is short term. Frame is long-term and lifting fits into frame in terms of building both physical and mental fortitude and increasing your SMV. I would suggest improving both however i’ve noticed that as my muscle mass increases and bodyfat goes down that I naturally garner more interest from women. Sure you need some level of game/social skills to close them but they are more naturally interested in me which provides more opportunities to close, thus you get leverage in terms of more opport…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:20 AM
0

Agree, all the girls I meet who are in their 30’s will never settle/truly be happy as they’ve either been fed the feminist lie of being able to have it all or genuinely just like getting banged up by hot alpha dudes. I personally aim to date girls still in their 20’s who don’t have so much baggage.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 06:42 AM
2

You put the ball in her court so now follow up on YOUR words and walk away and wait for her to hit it back. If you chase you’ll just show you don’t actually believe what you say.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:15 AM
4

It’s normal mate. Despite what anyone says on here we all get attached both emotionally and more importantly biologically. This is part of our natural pair bonding process, our skin in the mating game so to speak. The pain of loss is a feedback mechanism for you to want to maintain the pair bond. If you didn’t have this then men and women couldn’t form lasting relationships (e.g a 7-10 investment horizon to raise children). I understand plate theory and it’s true that abundance helps but when yo…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:34 PM
5

I second TF Tobacco Vanille, Creed Aventus and YSL La Nuit de L’hommes. I also rate Acqua dio gio pro-formo.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:46 AM
3

Tell her to relocate if you want a relationship. NEVER LDR.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 08:08 AM
1

No I just can’t deal with people who lack logic and/or basic cognitive abilities. Religion, by definition, is an affirmative belief in something. Atheism, by definition, is a lack of belief (i.e no belief) or a disbelief (affirmative belief against) the existence of god(s). Given religion exists and is widely argued for then almost all atheists fall into both camps, i.e never believed in the first place, and then when were told about various religions, actively disbelieved. Therefore, if I was b…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:53 AM
1

No, it’s not, if you believe this you’re stupid. Atheism is the absence of belief of a superhuman deity/god. For most atheists (and humans) this is an intrinsic state of mind. Religion is a system of belief or worship in a superhuman being/deity/god. I’m not sure how you can reconcile the definition of atheism with religion. Then again, you’re fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:21 AM
3

You’re on a spectrum. Stop being autistic, atheism isn’t a religion.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:24 AM
5

Apolitical. Politicans and religion are just two other forms of cuckholdry.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:07 AM
11

Mate you’re 21. At this point I wouldn’t even worry about girls/approaches and would focus on building your life. Get your career in check Get your physique in check Wardrobe/hygeine Network, socialise hard and develop your social skills. Get some hobbies Build a solid social circle of guy friends that are congruent with the new you. Start building all these positive reinforcing loops and over time you’ll build your frame and feel better about yourself. I can guarantee from your post that even i…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:02 AM
3

“Find your passion” isn’t bullshit. 80-90% of the people I meet work jobs they simply aren’t interested and live paycheck to paycheck and weekend to weekend. I would strongly recommend working in an area you’re passionate about or at least highly interested in, whether thats medicine, computers or high finance. From a guess I would be in the top 1-3% of my field for my age simply because I had a high level of interest in my field which means when i’m not working i’m constantly reading industry a…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:22 AM
5

Awalt refers to womens sexual strategy. Westernisation/Feminism is a whole different subject although both are contributing to a more open form of hypergamy whereby women openly fuck alphas and use betas. To get to the heart of what I believe your question is, Hypergamy exists in all women (AWALT) however has been somewhat suppressed in certain cultures e.g Pakistan where cultural norma include arranged marriage and a partriarchial household. The west has gone the other way and let women takeove…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 08:45 PM
1

Look, the simple answer is if you generate a reaction then there is something there. What i’d mean by this is I’d consider myself in the top 10% for general looks (face, height, complexion, eye colour etc) and on some days girls smile at me or I catch their glance, or even approach me in clubs, however on other days they look away awkwardly, show weird expressions on their etc. I could never understand the mixed reactions until a guy once told me (an absolute master of body language) is that if …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:36 PM
20

Unless she’s a bit autistic she doesn’t genuinely like you. Look at HER actions and not her friends words. She can’t even muster an appearance to a casual date like the fair.. what does that tell you? Soft next and avoid her restaurant. If she reaches out again, act like nothing has happened and ask for a date. If she flakes, hard next and never look back. Ps: why are you asking her what time SHE wants to meet. Grab your balls and tell her you’re keen to go for ice-cream (or insert activity). Do…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:51 PM
1

What OP says is somewhat true. I banged two girls with partners in the same week. Both were getting zero action at home from beta boyfriends/husbands. One was worried about the pill and the other condoms (prob more Std’s) which to be fair I was highly conscious about. Both wanted alpha but only short term. Both hamstered cheating as if it doesn’t hurt the other person if they never know. Who am I to kiss and tell. I understood the married girl with kids and a loving husband but didn’t understand…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:52 AM
5

Be careful with this and don’t let it linger. If you want to break up then get all of your stuff out of any shared spaces and make a clean break for it. Tell her some BS like you love her however you don’t see it working, wish her all the best and suggest not talking for a month to provide space. Don’t let this drag out as she’ll prob bring home some other guy, start playing games and making it hard for you to access your stuff. She’s probably hamstering to still make it work so she can dump you…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:22 PM
1

Is marriage and/or invested relationship really a blue pill goal, particularly bearing in mind that Rollo is in a committed long-term marriage? I’m not saying I want to be blue pill. I’m saying that I only want to enter into any form of serious relationship with someone that I actually like, and therefore this level of attachment will ultimately lead to some degree of vulnerability on my part. Is the trick simply to acknowledge this and check/monitor your behaviour to ensure you are holding a re…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:47 PM
5

Why would you invite her to meet at whole foods again? Ask for a date and take her for a drink.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:05 AM
0

Who do what? Are guys in their 50’s who pull hot girls in their early 20’s? It’s a forum mate, I think you need to take what people claim with a grain of salt. Why would a girl in her peak SMV go for a guy well past his peak SMV? Again, money, status and power.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 09:04 PM
-4

Unless you’re rich, famous or otherwise powerful there are next to no guys in their 50’s plating early 20 somethings. 30’s sure, 40’s yes maybe for the good looking with great personality/game, but def no 50’s.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:48 AM
6

Of course they do. If you’re saying 80% of women only chase the top 20% of males then this is patently false as demonstrated by the aforementioned statistics. Sure many of those marriages could be women marrying beta bux dudes but that doesn’t detract from the fact that at some point the man courted and marriaged said woman. If the beta bux strategy didn’t work to any degree then no betas would be getting laid and/or married. All women would be chasing and huddling around the alphas. The beta st…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:46 AM
2

I can’t speak for America but generally across europe and the west i’d wager that marriage infidelity is actually relatively low. Doesn’t mean it’s a happy marriage, doesn’t mean there won’t be divorce, but a lot of human beings are decent enough to repress their emotions and not cheat. Offsetting this marriage rates are dropping meaning expressions of hypergamy are on the rise.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:22 AM
26

No this isn’t observably true as approx 47% of the population over 18 is married. Also another significant percentage will be in some form of relationship. But yes in terms of attraction they may be wanting/chasing the top 20% but not necessarily landing those guys.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:14 AM
2

This is the funny thing about oneitis, you agonise over every single interaction, text or message wondering if you did too much, too little, were you too forward or should you have played it cool, did you come off angry or butthurt, or just distant. The reality is that none of it matters. You’re looking at the micro, not the big picture. I’ll be messaging girls over text and completely forget to text them back. Will hit them up a week later and either give them a small sorry or act like nothing …
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:16 AM
3

If you think it’s cruel for humans then you massively underestimate how badly our fellow species have it. Take the alpha chimp for example who is the leader of his troop. They can only last a number of years before they are challenged by other troop members for their position of power, which provides them with first pick of food, females and grooming. Often this direct challenge results in them getting badly beaten up, having their fingers and genitals mauled, and in some cases, ending with them…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 12:35 AM
1

If you really want to reference the past then you should know that in terms of evolution natural selection is driven by genes not men (or insert species). This is still evident in all animal species today, however homo sapiens were lucky enough to be endowed with a genetic mutation that could allow us to conceptualise things outside of our immediate environment. Hence why you can talk to me today on a reddit forum (human construct). Sure hypergamy has gone largely unchecked with 40-50 years but …
/r/askTRP02/07/19 11:24 PM
5

Hypergamy, it never fails to surprise me... To answer your question your mate needs to make the choice. If true, this girl has shown him massive red flags, i.e that she would date, fuck and commit to another guy (your friend) while not only being in a relationship, but being engaged to another dude. Personally, I wouldn’t stand for this shit and would probably meet up with the other dude (whose not at fault), find out the real story and then both invite the girl to meet up and see how she handle…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:54 AM
1

Completely true. In terms of looks I think most guys peak out around 26-29, but looks is obviously only one factor of SMV. I guess what i’m trying to differentiate between is absolute vs relative smv. I.e a good looking, socially proofed 25 year old probably has greater prospects with girls 18-22 than a 29-35 year old. However on a relative basis the older guy probably has more options as he can target a wider age range. I’ve managed to keep maintain my looks into my early 30’s, improve my physi…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:25 AM
0

He’s actually pretty smart and at least he’s giving some consideration to the future state of affairs (i.e the rise of A.I). Would love to see him become a serious contender if only to add some flavour to the race however unfortunately I think the field is far too big/divided by a bunch of muppets.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:56 AM
3

Yes I think the SMV curve is somewhat debatable as most guys in their 30’s look like shit so will hardly be competing with 25-27 year olds for 22 year olds. But it’s more about relative SMV than absolute.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:56 AM
2

What is this cuckholdry? Ps: why do you keep posting shit about your ex? You’ve been told multiple times to cut her and end it for good. Stop wasting peoples time.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:41 AM
5

Yeah not sure if i’ve ever seen it in any PUA material but when I was younger I always found it easier to do all that stuff but harder to f-close. One could argue that as guys we’re generally less experienced at that age so possibly our games not as sharp but I also think has a lot to do with girls at that age being experimental yet somewhat indecisive. I guess it’s arbitrary but in my experience girls who’re like 24-25+ were way more likely to bang.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:04 AM
3

What’s your age? If you’re 18-25 this doesn’t surprise me.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:42 AM
1

Like game, socialising in a group setting is a learned skill. The best way to sharpen these skills is through repetition. Now you say that you are already part of these groups so you are getting exposure but what’s holding you back is likely confidence. Given you’re young this will come naturally with time providing that you don’t lock yourself away. The best way to form a bond with people (particularly guys) is via shared experience. This is why soldiers and sports teams have great comradery as…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:30 AM
3

I’m not sure there is any? From what I understand it’s about inter-gender dynamics as opposed to intra-gender dynamics.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:12 AM
2

Dude.. few red flags. It appears you’re her backup guy. She’s on again off again with her ex and keeping you around for validation. You only fucked once and then she’s keeping you at distance. If she’s not fucking you she’s either fucking someone else (her ex) or isn’t into you.. don’t be that guy. If seems she’s chasing for validation again which no doubt you’ll give (based on your post which reeks of oneitis). Here’s the rub. Based on 1 and 2 this girl probably isn’t really that into you and j…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:07 AM
7

The reason TRP advocates not giving compliments off the bat as it signals that you are a beta, i.e telling a girl she is the most beautiful girl you’ve ever seen is a beta move because you are trying to exchange a compliment/validation for sex/action. This is transactional in nature and is also a rather hollow compliment as surely you’ve seen more beautiful girls, even if only on TV. The caveat here is that once you actually know said girl and are escalating/plating then sure you can give her co…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:12 AM
2

There is literally nothing wrong with getting married and having kids. Likewise there’s also nothing wrong with divorcing later to enjoy the single life. Call me old school but if you’re going to have kids then I would definitely prefer to have kids with someone younger who I met within the confines of marriage than to knock up some bird whose leaving the kid at home with a babysitter so she can out fucking every second night. I don’t see anything wrong with marriage if it’s a good marriage (i.e…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:50 PM
1

This is untrue. With the right skillset e.g wit/banter one can definitely build attraction and familiarity through texting. It’s not easy and it obviously depends on the girl too, i.e she needs to have good chat/reciprocate well for it to flow effortlessly. Most girls don’t. I guess as you point out, it’s no replacement for IRL so at best it is a short term solution however I have used it lately to game girls offshore and set up dates for when i’m in town. For home game I generally have a bit of…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 04:03 AM
2

Happens to everyone at some stage. We were all virgins once and almost everyone here has missed cues that a girl wanted sex (and didn’t act on it) at some time or another. The good news is now you know what you did wrong. You didn’t escalate, and now you feel the sting of regret and subsequent fear that you’ve missed out on something which is actually far more painful than being rebuffed/rejected. Learn from it, grow and improve.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:50 AM
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Despite the fact that it’s optimal for men to settle in their 30’s it doesn’t preclude the growing trend of women actually wanting to wait until their 30’s to settle. In my anecdotal experience better quality women (if there’s such a thing) prefer to settle earlier while there’s a bunch of westernised girls preferring to hold out later so they can party/travel/ride the CC. There’s definitely a growing phenomenon of women wanting to have their cake and eat it too without realising that the 34 old…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 12:59 AM
5

Haha I actually have this issue at times but it’s weird, if the chicks really hot or i’m into her (HB8-9’s) then I never have an issue escalating, but where she’s only kinda cute/okay (HB7’s) then often I get lazy at escalating as i’m just not that into them. Unfortunately this is becoming a little more common as my standards keep rising.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:26 PM
3

Young guys with dyed grey hair look fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 05:33 AM
3

This is made up..
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:43 AM
8

I don’t know what you look like but it you look like him then you have nothing to worry about. Stop fucking caring period.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:25 PM
2

Days per week
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:42 PM
3

Don’t be a pussy and start with 6-7
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:29 AM
3

She’s an awesome girl with her head screwed on and I only met him briefly, he was a tall lad and seemed Alpha enough so am happy for them.. But yeah you’re right, especially after she dated me🤣
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:41 PM
2

To be fair it was a pretty generic happy birthday text and then I congratulated her on her engagement etc and conversation struck up about moving cities, jobs, mutual friends and family etc.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:05 PM
1

Sorry mis-typed that. Banged the first ex who is single. Spoke to the second ex whose in a committed relationship. Even thought it was just friendly conversation I cut it a little short out of respect for her fiancé. To some extent I probably Alpha Widowed both although the second seems to have found a great guy. Either way our interactions are very different to being the dumpee in a oneitis scenario as there is no feeling of wanting for either of them.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 06:59 PM
5

Did you dump her or did she dump you? If it was the former then go for it. I recently banged one of my exes (who I dumped) and spoke to another (again who I dumped) who is in a serious relationship and randomly text me out of the blue and we had a good chat about life and reminiscing about travels etc. The sexual connection was long gone with the second chick and she was a great girl so it was kinda nice hearing from her on a platonic friendship level. On the other hand if she left you, then rea…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:28 AM
5

Look at her actions. If she’s distancing herself it’s a clear indication that she doesn’t actually want you. Unless of course she’s mentally unstable, and is trying to end the relationship before she’s hurt, in which case you should avoid her.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 01:18 AM
1

God you’re so fucking dogmatic.. Right so you so want to fuck Hot Girl, Hot Girl makes you wait 3 dates instead of 2 for sex, so you hard next her and never see her again. How exactly is that fulfilling your male sexual imperative. That doesn’t sound like unlimited access to unlimited sexuality at all. That sounds like you limited your own access to sexuality by some artificial construct that you read in a book by some old married man. It also sounds like you wasted two dates then shot yourself …
/r/askTRP22/06/19 04:59 PM
1

“OP's case is not that at all. There is something mitigating this girl's desire. She clearly just doesn't want it that badly. I'm sorry to shatter your worldview, but that's the way it is. Your advice isn't just wrong, it's poisonous. By "hanging in there" you merely play right into her game.” You haven’t shattered anything. I’ve fucked more girls than you, so naturally i’ve seen more scenarios than you. Sure there may be a mitigating factor (her period, her sense of self worth, her personal bou…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:26 PM
1

Ps: read that article, Rollo specifically states: “Now don’t take this to the binary extreme and assume I mean the only good sex you’ll ever have is a first night lay (FNL) with some tart who can’t keep her legs closed. What I mean is that if you’re still trying to figure out what the magic words are to convince some girl that she ought fuck you after 3 dates – or longer – you’re in desire negotiation hearings counselor.” OP was heading jn the right direction (escalation) another date prob would…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 01:17 AM
1

Strawman. Re-read my last post I never once referenced ‘quality’. The value that I place on said girl and what you are referring to as quality (a ‘quality woman’) are not synonymous. My logic was: Girl A puts up ASD Based on a large empirical dataset, I ascribe more value to girls who exhibit ASD with respect to long-term relationship potential. Given point 2 I am more likely to value Girl A as a prospective long-term partner. Conversely, I’m less likely to entertain a long-term relationship wit…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:44 PM
1

“Iron Rule of Tomassi: Any girl who makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait.” Herein lies the crux of the argument? Define ‘wait’? Is 3 dates waiting? What about 3 hours? What about 3 minutes? This sounds rather subjective. I will ask Rollo this myself but I can almost guarantee that Mrs Tommasi was not a same day lay. In which case he waited. You asked me what not LTRing one night stands/first night lays proves? I can only speak for myself based on my own experience (and from an…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:23 PM
1

At the end of the day TRP is still a theory. If you think it’s some immutable law of science then you’re sadly mistaken as your whole thesis is disproven by women who override their hypergamous urges by faithfully staying married to disabled men. I’m not saying hypergamy isn’t a real sexual strategy (it is), or that there’s perfect women (there aren’t). I’m speaking from personal experience of myself and friends who are genuinely high value males. Collectively that is hundreds if not thousands o…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 06:21 AM
23

American Psycho
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:39 PM
-1

Well the simple answer is care less. There’s a reason it’s called ‘game’ because it’s all a big fucking game and you just have to have fun playing it. Can’t bang her today, who cares it’ll happen next time. Once you get this then you become an amused master. The only rule is that you have to stay in the game to win it.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:20 PM
0

This is patently false. I’ve personally LTR’d 4-5 girls who didn’t smash until at least the third date which is normal female behaviour, given female pre-selection. I agree that there needs to be ‘genuine desire’ but girls can possess this and still hold off on fucking immediately. Higher value girls will almost always do this as they will be pickier with who they fuck in order to preserve their value. As long as you are escalating on each successive date then there is nothing wrong with a girl …
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:59 PM
-2

Your logic is shit. If you have five other plates willing to service you at a moments notice then why the fuck are you even wasting your time writing this post and seeking the counsel of anonymous reddit users. You’re clearly frustrated about your inability to close the deal. My advice, grow up, who gives a fuck. If a girl doesn’t put out on the second date then in my eyes she’s more attractive as she just doesn’t go giving out the pussy to any john who can make her a fucking sandwich. Girls kno…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:58 PM
-1

This is ridiculous. I love it how when people don’t get their way on here they throw their toys and everybody responds “yeah hard next that b**tch” You’re seriously going to next because she didn’t smash on the second date? I’m not surprised given she’s 20. It’s called ASD for a reason and if you hang in there you’ll get there eventually.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:49 PM
9

Just keep it simple, tell her you thought she was cute and that you want to take her for a drink sometime. This alone implies intent. If she tries to qualify your status by saying ‘only as friends’ then keep it playful and say something like “hmm we can’t be friends, we’d spend the whole time wanting to rip each others clothes off”, then just say let me know if you’re ever single. There’s zero need to be butthurt in this situation. If she turns you down it’s because she’s loyal which is actually…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:18 AM
5

Haha, fuck i’m glad guys like you have absolutely no idea what you’re doing when it comes to texting girls - more for guys like me.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:33 AM
3

Who cares, sometimes they have to get it out of their system before they commit to a serious relationship with a higher SMV man. Trust me you don’t want to be LTRing a girl who hasn’t had a chance to date/rebound or even chalk up a crappy ONS. They’ll always be wondering if they’re missing out.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:14 AM
1

You sure it’s not candida? Try an anti-fungal regimen.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:09 AM
1

Yes, I saw a girl once and as cliche as it sounds it was love at first sight. I’ve never wanted anyone more, or had attraction so instantly and I barely even knew her which was strange as even if I met some 10/10 instagram superbabes I still wouldn’t have that instant chemistry, like sure i’d want to fuck them but not longing to be with them. Anyway once I dumped my ex and met her properly I gamed her, then fucked her and we dated for a year. The sex was amazing at the start and definitely at th…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:22 AM
9

Everybody gets jealous and just because she plays team sports with a bunch of dudes that doesn’t mean anything will happen. I work in a male dominated industry where there are several hot girls and booze flows easily at parties. Sure i’ve dated/pegged few girls from work but none of them had boyfriends. Sure cheating may happen but it’s rare and fair to say the boyfriends may have had it coming regardless due to weak/needy/jealous behaviour and low SMV. What you need to realise is that this jeal…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:54 PM
1

N-count matters for LTR’s, it’s a good proxy for how capable a girl is at pair bonding (above 10 is considered bad). It’s also somewhat of a proxy for how much they value themselves. I.e a girl who values herself/reputation won’t just give it up to any dude. That being said it’s not the be all end all. I knew a girl who banged about 30-40 guys over a two year period in her mid twenties (post breakup). She’s now happily engaged to a rather alpha guy and madly in love. I also think it also depends…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:35 AM
1

Stop caring Ask her on a date and if she says yes then escalate. If she says no then no biggie.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 10:09 AM
1

A long time ago a girl did this to me (attempting to get me to re-orbit) so Ignore all her bullshit attempts at getting your attention. Let’s be clear. She rejected you which means she didn’t want to date/bang but will prob give it up to some other loser. You didn’t say if she specifically text you or anything (in addition to the attention seeking behaviour) however if she has been texting you at that point you should ask her out on a date (nightime/away from school). If she says no or makes a f…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:55 PM
1

You shouldn’t go exclusive for at least 70-90 days in order to truly vet her. If you ask her after only 3 weeks (oneitis..) odds are she’ll dump you before 3 months. Build attraction bro, have fun smashing, stay aloof, vet her character and she’ll probably be asking you out.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:46 PM
1

Haha i’m sure he’d like that. To he honest I wonder why I waste my time answering these bullshit questions that have been asked a million times before...
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:22 AM
1

Habit is greater than motivation. Motivation is always worthless without a greater purpose. Just build yourself a good set of habits and you will intrinsically be motivated to succeed. Success begets success and builds further confidence which snowballs into further success. I don’t bother with all that fluffy bullshit in your post. If you have to stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself you are a kind and deserving person then you should literally go fuck yourself. No I mean that, as in g…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:20 AM
2

You don’t seem to have much of a grasp about game in general so maybe listen to a few corey wayne videos on first dates. But to generalise, hug when you meet, be a man and lead the date, i.e go where you want to and do what you want to (e.g suggest go there or there, or steer the date towards going for a drink). Having more phases (different activities) on the date allows you to progress things faster. Think of it as a series of mini dates, like going for a walk with the dog whilst talking, grab…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 01:48 AM
6

If you want to get strong/fit then go to gym. If you want to get more comfortable socially (confidence) then you should spend more time socialising. But yes having a good rig can be a good source of internal confidence.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 01:38 AM
4

Shoot 4-5 texts each back and forth and tell her you want to take her for drinks and then sort logistics. Asking for a date off the bat generally doesn’t work as its pretty autistic. You want to build some comfort/rapport so keep it light and playful
/r/askTRP26/05/19 01:36 AM
1

If a girl doesn’t give you her number she doesn’t like you. Whatsapp is obviously similar to getting a phone number. Facebook’s a maybe depending on the girl and circumstances (e.g friend of a friend) but I wouldn’t give it out to a girl in a club. Personally I’d rather trade numbers with a girl than let her stalk for for validation. Snapchat is the absolute worst medium of communication with women. If you have to dance around like a money or pretend you’re “cool” with your stories you either ha…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:09 AM
4

How old are you and whats your bodyfat %?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:14 PM
1

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and to a large extent chemistry = game + frame. There’s one or two girls in the stable who I have amazing chemistry with and mainly it’s because I have no fear of consequences so I can message them with a lot of banter with complete outcome independence. Naturally the conversations are a lot wittier and sometime I find myself cracking up at what i’ve sent them. For other girls often I find the conversations a little more difficult, partly because I find…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:05 PM
1

Why’d you cockblock friend B?
/r/askTRP20/05/19 02:49 AM
5

Who ended the relationship she had with her previous ex GF? If he did, then highly likely they’re fucking. If she did, there’s still a decent possibility. Regardless, even if they are hanging out this is complete BS. See my action list from another similar thread: —————————————————————- You need to break up with her and treat her as a Fwb. As you described above its unacceptable for a LTR to be doing this shit, she’s pushing the boundaries. If you condone it your a cuck. If you mateguard she’ll …
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:11 PM
2

You need to break up with her and treat her as a Fwb. As you described above its unacceptable for a LTR to be doing this shit, she’s pushing the boundaries. If you condone it your a cuck. If you mateguard she’ll hide the behaviour and you basically become a simp. I would tell her its not acceptable and that you don’t want to change her so its best that you end it. Maybe she’ll beg and plead that she’ll change. Tell her you’ll think about it and ignore her for a week. If she keeps begging then sa…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 10:43 AM
3

You have nothing to lose so Flip it.. “hmm you’re right, maybe I do know him and/or maybe he’ll be more fun to hang out with than you🤣”
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:56 AM
1

Or can you... haha good point, I like that. Maybe re-classify to never reaching the point of being conscious.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:47 AM
0

It’s a fair question but it always loops back to subjective morality, a.k.a religion. Aside from religion what I don’t get is why would redpillers not support abortion? If a girl can’t opt to terminate, then the man also has no say (due to government legislation). Why should the government have more say over my unborn children than both me and the mother? (Conceding that the mother has the ultimate say given she carries the child).
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:25 AM
0

“Fuck religion and morality. It literally destroys men's opportunities to be successful biologically. If a woman fucks a dude and gets pregnant, that's fucking survival of the fittest in action.” It’s 2019, not 5,000 b.c. and at this juncture I don’t want to reproduce nor have 25 offspring to different women. I also don’t want a girl to be forced by the government to keep my baby and milk me for my salary until it’s 18. As for the abortion rate, I’m sick of motherfuckers complaining about aborti…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:21 AM
1

It’s not a conscious lifeform. That’s the difference.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:11 AM
-4

To be honest who cares, it’s a fetus. Yes, sure if constitutes a life-form but so does the junk that you so freely discard while fapping off to porn. I get some people are against it (including Rollo) but this largely appears to be for religious/moral reasons. Personally if I accidentally knock a chick up outside of a loving relationship then I’d prefer an abortion. For the record i’m against late term abortions.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:30 AM
25

You need to leave mate. It’s obvious you’ve outgrown where you grew up and bad/toxic environments will drag you down. Even if you have iron willpower these sorts of environments will lead to negativity in your life. Case in point the 14 year old hardman. If you get into an altercation technically you are assaulting a minor which is a serious offence. Leave, go build a life and wealth and get your brothers to join you. If overseas is too far try a bigger city, e.g London. Ps: next time you go to …
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:24 PM
3

I’m not a pua but get her to talk in person and say something along the likes of “baby of course I want to fuck you everytime I see you, I love fucking you” with a slight smirk while proceeding to undress her. Afterwards take her somewhere nice or fun then try bang her in the car on the way home.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:57 PM
1

Did you even kiss her?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 08:17 AM
3

Yeah get a job first bro, then upgrade other aspects of your life
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:23 PM
3

I’m not really sure I understand your question. You want to create a label and/or start a tech company because is what you want/love to do? If that’s the case just start taking action and do it, and forget what others think of you. One thing i’ve learned over time is that progress is like a snowball. I’ve seen people go down a certain path in business or sport, get some results, take some hits, learn from their experience, get more resilient, get more results etc. It’s at the tail end of their c…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:05 PM
16

Dont lie dinesh
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:32 AM
6

You gotta stop messing with girls who send one word answers. They are literally putting in the bare minimum effort so let them get to 40 and wonder why they’re still single and their three cats are the only things that can stand their company.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:42 PM
7

The new girl sounds more interested so flake on the chick you’ve smashed. Just push her out a day.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:46 PM
1

Haha yeah I was gaming a girl on the damcefloor once and it went nowhere, mainly due to the volume. I left with her like an hour later after she saw another girl all over me
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:25 AM
1

Agree. Say hi/acknowledge their presence without acting like you’re hurt/care then flirt with other girls. They may come back.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:18 AM
2

Read No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:51 PM
5

Just act like nothing happened. Generally warm/friendly and nonchalant. Don’t even bring it up
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:48 PM
4

It’s not mixed messages. She didn’t let you escalate meaning she doesn’t like you. The whole dancing thing is her having fun at a concert and using you for sexual validation. There probably was a chance that you could game her harder at the gig, push/pull etc however you shouldn’t waste your time with girls who act like that.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:37 PM
3

Bro, two things: Replace ‘this girl’ with the word ‘heroin’ and what have you got.. real drug addiction. Are you saying the intermittent highs are worth the deep lows and accompanied social, psychological and physiological harm? Re-read your message. This girl has you way outside your frame and is hurting you and emotionally manipulating you. How do you think these relationships end and/or how long do you think they last? My read is she’ll run you into the ground to the point that she thinks you…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:08 AM
3

Read the sidebar, you need to stop caring what other people think. Go there, be fun and amused by others and stop fucking worrying about peoples perceptions. Try game/escalate the girl.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:03 AM
1

Agreed. In my last serious LTR I could see similar warning signs on the wall in advance but tried to hang in there and she ultimately got to pull the trigger first. Despite everything my emotions told me in hindsight I would have dumped and cut contact until such time as I had zero feelings for her. Her loss. You should never put up with someone treating you like that, no matter how much you love them.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:06 AM
1

Then why you asking for advice? Seems like you’ve already determined a low eq outcome
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:52 AM
42

Dump her before she dumps you. That comment is completely disrespectful and questioning of your masculinity. Even if she’s over the relationship she’ll be hurt by the fact you dumped her. She won’t be able to help it, and also everyone will know. Don’t even give a reason.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:54 PM
1

Read your own message three times then the part: “why the fuck is she doing this?” Look how upset you are, how triggered you are, how much drama she created.. Just ghost and never talk to her again. Ever.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:49 PM
2

The girls are catholic? It’s prob more a societal thing where they meet a good guy they want to lock him in, as opposed to being single.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:30 PM
1

Depends on your country, if you are Eastern Europe then maybe more normal however if the west then tell them good things take time.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:45 AM
8

Just do it. If you were a viking king don’t you think it’d be normal?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:47 AM
1

Look I hear this shit all the time. If you don’t have any friends it’s because your inward focused. Your too busy with work/school, thinking about yourself and flaws, playing games, playing more games, and whacking off to cheap thrills. I can almost guarantee that you have no friends because you’ve been wasting your free time playing computer games. The opposite is this is being outward focused, i.e helping others at work/school, providing value to people, having real hobbies, playing team sport…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:20 PM
1

Look I can’t tell without seeing the full convo but you seem pre-occupied on getting the number/date (outcome dependent). You should be focusing on building attraction with these women so they give you clear signals (IoI’s). Focus on improving your SMV with lifting, style and improving your basic game/conversational skills. Once you get better girls will be desperate for you to ask them your number or better yet facebooking stalking YOU.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:12 PM
1

If you haven’t hooked up with her you’re an orbiter too. She’ll be doing this to dozens of guys.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:30 AM
1

This is why you ‘generally’ shouldn’t LTR in college as girls just have so many options and guys throwing themselves at her. My last 3 exes were HB9’s and the amount of dudes constantly flirting or trying to date them (despite knowing they were in a relationship) was ridiculous. Unfortunately social media has swung the world far into hypergamy’s favour. My solid advice is if you’re at college then lift, lift, lift until you have a top 10% physique. It will literally pay pussy dividends for the r…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:11 PM
1

Cut her, if you have oneitis then nothing good can come of being friends. If you see her around, acknowledge her, smile cooly, and keep walking. Never engage in conversation. If she approaches you, you can talk and cut convo early. Never appear salty. Aside from that, campus is a big place so start gaming other chicks. And for christs sake put some muscle on. Use mass gainer if you need to.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:31 AM
18

Two possibilities: You’re not giving enough comfort. Girls like Alphas but want some comfort. Maybe you’re being too standoffish/aloof and it’s making her rethink the relationship as you don’t seem to care. She’s having doubts (read Rollo’s recent post on women’s existential fear), e.g you’re not her best option and/or she may have the feels for another guy and is starting drama. In this case up dread game by finding a potential replacement.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:26 AM
1

Give them limited/no attention and escalate in person. Don’t even try and ask them where they’re at as they are literally validation shopping and it’s just further validation.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:32 PM
1

So you’re asking for advice on criminal matters? Wrong board champ.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:31 AM
1

I know two guys who got braces in their 30’s. One was an alpha chad and the other was another mate who used to be a player and got them before his wedding. The first guy had them on the inside which is horrible but didn’t stop him from pulling. The other guy had them on the outside and while we used to give him shit he didn’t care and his wife didn’t mind. Obviously different if you’re single. It’s all about you bro. If this is a big hang up then get it dealt to for your own sake. There’s low vi…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:20 PM
3

I don’t think it’s the top 5%, statistically that would be absurd and probably wouldn’t make sense from an evolutionary standpoint. I think its prob around 80-20. Also it’s not “all” women sharing the top 20% of men. As a top 10% guy i’m fairly picky. Whilst I may have access to say most girls in the club I’m prob only interested in a handful, and that’s also a pre-selected environment (i.e generally hotter girls go out and are dressed up).
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:11 PM
3

You haven’t slept with her so you haven’t truly vetted her?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:09 AM
2

My dude, start lifting. There’s a reason why it’s plastered all over TRP/the sidebar. Lifting increases your physicality, which in turn increases your confidence, not to mention other peoples perception of you. It’s the reason why a lot of the most popular guys in high school are in sports teams. It’s also the reason why most instagram fuckboys have six packs.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:46 AM
1

n another Chad i Mans decent looking. Def in the top 20% for his age.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:32 AM
2

Pm me a pic and i’ll tell you
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:19 PM
0

Give us some context on what she did? Only them we can determine if the problem is with you or her and what you can do to fix it. PM me if need be.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:41 AM
348

Hey brother, Sorry to hear. First thing, it’s not your fault. Even if you were needy, beta as shit, and had terrible frame, you still didn’t deserve to be cheated on, this shows she’s a weak person. Second, you’re lucky you found out and in the long-term it’s a good thing. The last thing you want is a deceptive partner fucking around behind your back. As the late-great Notorious B.I.G says: if you don’t know, now you know. Moving forward, it’s going to hurt, and it’s going to hurt for a while. N…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:24 AM
8

Mmm this is all petty microgame. To be honest if a girl is interested it doesn’t really matter what you say to them, short of being overly needy/wordy.. they will generally be enthusiastic to meet. She likely had another dude on the go. Otherwise was really busy, in a bad mood, you name it.. To the op, none of this shit you can really control. You can’t negotiate attraction so just go about your business and wait for her to contact.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:34 AM
9

Flip on her. “Would you prefer if I have a girlfriend”, or “should I have a girlfriend”.. then she might be like no because I want you to myself. A boring no, or white knight story about how you would never cheat provides no challenge to her. A girl asked me this two nights ago. I said: well i’m kinda seeing someone (a plate) but she’s definitely not my girlfriend”. She said me too and jumped me.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:28 AM
32

Read some game books. This is last minute resistance/anti-slut defence. You have to give them an excuse, i.e it has to be your fault that something happens. If it was say Chris Hemsworth in her bed do you think she would be worrying about her n-count?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:24 AM
1

Rich people do what they want which is the definition of being Alpha. They do it because they can and its fun. Other than warren buffet, who wants to be rich and live like a shrew. Beta dudes think they can buy sex, attraction, affection, love. They are doing this in a transactional sense and are attempting to negotiate desire.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:32 AM
3

Yes reply. Nothing to lose. I wouldnt worry about frame battles with people you haven’t met. Tinder is a numbers game and action/assertiveness yields results.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:12 AM
1

If she had an account it can take a few days to drop out of the system. Alternatively she deleted the app but forgot to delete her profile, which happens. The golden rule is trust but verify so it might pay to wait a few days and install it on the convert then look for her. Then you can take a screenshot and hit her up.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 05:30 AM
8

Despite what most on TRP advocate, a soft next probably won’t get you anywhere and prob just makes you look salty. Just say something like all good, lets catch up one night this week when you’re free. She’ll either give you a time or it’s a lost cause which you can’t change either way.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 05:27 AM
3

Your hiding from women by working on yourself. You need to approach / run game. Literally every time I go out now, even if its hitting a bar for 1-2 drinks on the way home from work I force myself to talk to women. You have to get to the point where you’re always engaging, opening conversations. Then you’ll be a well rounded man.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:17 AM
1

Hate to state the obvious but join a dance class. This is one way to get out of your comfort zone and there’s also a lot of decent looking chicks who do it (amazing bodies). It’s also an environment where you can’t/don’t have to drink and can hold conversations.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:55 PM
1

When it’s that loud don’t even bother with a conversation/gaming. I’ve always found both people get annoyed. You just need to dance with them the/kino try break them away somewhere to get a drink.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:59 AM
1

Agree. I LTR’d a red flag girl. HB9.5, perfect face/body, my type, nice personality, good family and relation with her dad, basically everything I ever wanted in a girl. So I turned a blind eye to her sense of entitlement, slightly dysfunctional social circle, history of burning guys/breaking hearts, constant social media activity and flirty behaviour/encouraging orbiters. I’ve seen her around and know she’s briefly dated two guys who were super into her and quickly ran them into the ground. If …
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:58 AM
8

If this girl is LTR worthy then there’s actually not anything wrong with this. Even the most alpha dudes/biggest players I know catch feels and want to lock a chick down, particularly if she’s LTR worthy. Despite what TRP suggests i’d rather have a hot LTR and monogamous unprotected sex any day over four decent plates where I have to worry about plate control, babies and STD’s. If you think she’s the right girl play it cool until she brings up the exclusivity talk. If there’s red flags then over…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:51 AM
8

It’s because she’s probably responding to like 20 dudes out of 100 who messaged her out of 500 who matched her out of 5000 who liked her. Unless your SMV is high enough or you have crazy text game you’ll just be another crab in the bucket.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:21 AM
3

You literally have nothing to lose by asking and sometimes you may be surprised.. for whatever reason they’re wanting you to make the first move or aren’t seeing anyone.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:14 AM
1

Well based on my 15 years of practice in the field of psychiatry, what you have outlined in your post it would appear that you have a classic case of Wittels-Harris syndrome. Obviously I haven’t met you so it’s difficult to complete a diagnosis over the internet. Unfortunately there’s not a lot you can do about it but therapy with a trained psychoanalyst is probably a good starting point.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:45 AM
15

I actually used to find that the older version of the various gym pre-workouts (Jack3D etc) which had DMAA used to work well when combined with alcohol, as drinking would remove inhibitions and the preworkout would take away many of the physical side of inebriation so you could drink more, have energy and not be sloppy drunk.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:09 PM
3

You just need to learn that HB8 doesn’t care about your chivalry or how honourable you’re being by not hooking up with other girls. Her hypergamy cares about your SMV which includes how alpha/beta you are acting. You are likely lowering your SMV by investing too much into her which may cause you to lose her in the long-run. She may also be seeing other dudes.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:28 PM
2

Out of curiosity if you meet cool people easily then why can’t you go out with them?
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:52 AM
9

Yes, China is already doing this. It’s called a social credit system. Google it
/r/askTRP31/01/19 04:18 AM
22

I can’t speak for the average guy but so what if that’s what they do? You can still go out with them, have good logistics for pulling, control your drinking (if cost is an issue) and break away to game other girls, while having the social proof of having people there. To be honest I feel weird going out by myself and I don’t think that comes from a sense of weakness/crutch mentality but I just like going out with people that I would call actual friends. It allows me to bounce around the club and…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 04:13 AM
7

Don’t fall for this bullshit. If she wanted you she would be with you. You should actually feel aggrieved that she’s trying to have her cake and eat it too, i.e the freedom of being single (cock carousel) while having you on the side to be there for her as a “friend”. Trust me, it’s not worth it. Given the relationships over you need to swallow the single pill and move on. You should note that you also can’t negotiate desire, i.e give her the ultimatum between boyfriend or nothing. She’s already…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:19 PM
11

^ THIS. Your actions told conveyed to her that you are weak. You should have smashed and not stayed the night. You are literally trying to attempt to negotiate a romantic relationship before even having a physical one. This is classic bluepill conditioning. In future, progress the physical relationship first before even contemplating a romantic relationship / LTR
/r/askTRP28/01/19 09:39 PM
4

Welcome to the world of getting noticed. Stop complaining and start realising the bigger picture.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:29 PM
3

Fair. Point 2 man, there’s nothing you can do. Especially given she’s moved onto another dude you need to accept that it’s over, and as hard as it is YOU will never take her back. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you can process it and heal. Hell, it’s a tough journey but you’ll come out the other side stronger.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:54 AM
2

You should seek a paternity test bro, may not be yours.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:50 AM
9

Do a year of college and re-assess?
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:31 AM
10

If it’s any consolation I randomly met a HB9 in class in college. Had some small talk. Hung out after our second lecture together then fucked her that night. If they’re into you they’re into you. If she’s into you and busy she would have given you another time to meet. In my case I wouldn’t have even considered my SMV to be that high back then. Was decent looking but out of shape but had good social proof from lots of other girls in class.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:25 PM
7

Maybe they think you’re attractive but don’t like your personality?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:19 PM
2

Technically you have nothing to lose as you have no friends anyway. Can’t you make friends in your stem classes? IF I was in your position I would spend all my time in the gym and getting swole. If you’re not socially dominant or at least socially capable then you sure as fuck should be both academically and physically dominant. People may gravitate to you if you have an impressive rig. Get fucking obsessed with getting built and fuck all your other lame shit like computer games etc. It’s your o…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 11:42 AM
6

Isolate. Suggest going for a walk and kiss her and then invite her back to your room. Or you can go straight to the room.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:18 PM
4

Actually you can. You’re a man so you’re capable of making decisions. Ring her up, invite her around. Have fun, fuck her and then say you’ve thought about the festival and you’re keen to go. It’s literally that simple. And stop fucking texting, you know this ruins attraction for you..
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:16 PM
3

Depending on your age it can be quite hard. The easiest way is through work, find some dudes who are cool and start doing stuff with them like going for beers, poker, gym, watersports etc. Depending on your industry you generally have something in common. Other than that, you’ll have to get out of your comfort zone and find a common interest. E.g join a crossfit gym, boxing/mma/bjj/F45 class etc or through the gym if you’re social enough. Humans are social creatures however you have to realise t…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:41 PM
13

Why you don’t you just get out of your fucking comfort zone and go to a festival for once? Ps: your interaction is weird as shit. You need to spend more time working on yourself (lift/sidebar) and socialising with others.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:31 PM
2

Would beg to differ from anecdotal experience. Girls that dump guys (usually betas) have often been in an unsatisfying relationship for a while and their hypergamous instincts kick in and drive them to look for new (alpha) cock. All the girls I know who dumped their guys jumped on the CC hard, making up for lost time. The girls who are dumped, usually have the weaker frame in the relationship and take longer to grieve. Again anecdotal evidence from friends/exes but they normally take longer to g…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 12:25 AM
4

Ask her on a date. To be honest though these are the worst girls to date, particularly if she was the dumper
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:01 PM
3

It’s pure blue pill mentality, she’s a cute little princess who sits on a pedastal. Disney lied son..
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:02 AM
1

Yes girls cheat, but i’d wager not the vast majority. To be honest it’s culture dependent and i’m sure there’s higher incidences of cheating in the US and UK. From your story what did you expect? If you LTR a girl who cheated on her boyfriend with you then odds are she’ll cheat when she jumps to the next branch. A decent girl would dump you when she loses attraction. A slut will just cheat. Moral of the story, keep improving your SMV.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:55 PM
7

It’s perfectly fine to be concerned and even normal to worry about this. Ultimately you have to face the fact that if the girl wants/wanted to cheat then she’ll find a way to do so. Despite what TRP forums suggest most girls are pretty normal and not that predisposed to cheating, even if the guy is decent looking. You also have to consider that the guy probably knows she’s in a relationship and therefore won’t try anything. It’s out of your hands so stop worrying. If she does do anything then it…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:52 PM
2

Look dude. You’re 21 and seemingly unexperienced in relationships. Instead of being tied down in an LDR you should start dating girls on your own campus and avoid commitment until you’re more emotionally mature.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:15 AM
6

If you get a girl back to your place and she’s kissing etc then odds are she just wants to be fucked. Increase you assertiveness. Pick her up and throw her on the bed. Kiss her face then her naval then start unbuttoning her pants. If you get LMR you can ice her out or go back to kissing and try from there
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:55 PM
1

It’s your mate not a chick. Guys act on logic not emotion. You need to communicate (rationally) that bailing isn’t cool as it’ll put you out of pocket. If you don’t say anything he’ll either assume you can get a refund, don’t care or he’ll simply forget/not be aware it’s an issue for you. Hence why YOU need to communicate why it’s an issue (to YOU) and set him straight. This would be an assertive strategy. Not texting is a passive-aggressive strategy. For the record if a female friend did this I…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:20 PM
1

S1: you don’t need to respond. She’s not your girlfriend/plate etc so she doesn’t owe you anything. I’m presuming you want her so it was on you to escalate. Realistically it sucks (I know) but you shouldn’t care. If SHE texts you and wants to hang, don’t even bring it up, set up a date where you can escalate (eg. drinks/your house) and try fuck her. Otherwise just don’t text her. It’s a shitty cliche, but ask yourself what would James Bond do. He wouldn’t care about what went down, he’s centred …
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:55 PM
3

Hey bro, in both scenarios you seem a bit butthurt. Scenario 1: what’s with the cuddling? You should have tried to escalate by kissing etc. If she pulls back or turns you down then you know where you stand. From the outside it looks like you’re billy beta the friend. Try something on and if she tells you she’s not keen just say you’re not looking to be friends. Scenario 2: Yes it’s shit but your text makes you look hurt/weak as fuck. Just be like dude wtf, I just spent $80.. and see what he says…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:35 PM
2

Lift more, and befriend people from all groups = social leverage
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:26 AM
6

I think you’re taking TRP too seriously. There’s a difference between showing emotion and acting beta. Look at guys like Jason Momoa and Chris Hemsworth. Two guys who could like fuck 99.5% of the girls on the planet. Are either of these guys cold, reserved and distant? No they’re both full of life, funny and don’t take themselves/life too seriously.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:07 PM
9

To be honest bro, tinder is shit and is rapidly deteriorating. In the earlier days girls generally wanted to talk, now its just a validation machine and avenue for them to get thirsty IG/SG followers. I notice now that the same girls have been on there for years and have seen/heard it all. Every guy has a diff experience as their profile/SMV and will attract different girls. I seem to mostly get decent looking girls who want a bf/to settle down. When i’ve tried being forward/direct the convo fiz…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:11 AM
4

Time heals all brother. I’d suggest looking to broaden your male social circle, whether its guys from work, the gym, or join a sports team club etc. You need a wolf pack to hunt with.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:40 PM
2

This is where I battle. I have high standards so only really pull HB8’s or above. I met my oneitis at a tail end of a bad relationship and I just wanted her more than anything. I ended the relationship gave it a month and then pursued her successfully. She had all the characteristics I wanted, good family, low n-count, absolutely perfect body, great personality etc. In hindsight the relationship failed because I wasn’t in a great space entering it, which eventually led to failing her shit-tests,…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:48 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:43 AM
3

Oneitis is a strange beast. I actually don’t think there’s any other cure than time or perhap meeting another oneitis but having the relationship thats more balanced with that next person. I don’t believe abundance is the cure. I’ve banged 3 HB8-9’s since my last oneitis, and while the feelings have died down, they’re still present. Personally I still don’t understand it. My last two oneitises were HB9 girlfriends, but strangely I haven’t had it for some of the hottest girls i’ve banged. For me …
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:41 AM
3

Without these experiences you wouldn’t have grown. Flip it the other way, what if you met one of these girls, turned billy beta, got married then got taken for half of your networth, and both kids at age 40?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:42 AM
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Lol at all these gamey behaviours like acting blue pill to scare her off, pretending you want to be a professional gamer to give her red flags etc. Your a fucking man who knows his value and where he stands. Just tell her that you don’t see it going anywhere and you don’t want to waste her time so it’s best that she moves on. I’ve had to do this before and it sucks to rip the band-aid off but its for her own good. You’ll be surprised but she may still want to be friends after. If you have any do…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:23 PM
2

No it doesn’t. If you’re in an LTR then presumably she gained enough attraction/comfort to be a long-term partner. Listen to corey waynes work. Basically just continue to lead the relationship, set firm boundaries, don’t argue (as it destroys attraction). The dating process never really ends.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 06:32 PM
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The SMV peak/chart is somewhat misleading. Sure at 35 a guy is older, better resourced, generally has his shit together and naturally more confident with women but he will struggle to out-compete a good looking 26-28 male who is on the upper end of the SMV curve when it comes to dating younger girls (say below 25). 22 year old women (as a whole) are just generally not that into 35-40 year old men. Obviously some exceptions apply, and if you’re 35 and instagram ripped, a socialite or wealthy then…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:46 AM
1

You can gauge interest generally by how responsive she is, how affectionate she is, does she initiating texting/calling, touching, kissing etc. Is she always pleased to see you or sometimes cold and cranky. Less directly and from the reverse perspective is how often she shit-tests you, is she constantly on her phone in your presence, does she talk about other guys or vague relationship concepts (that aren’t relevant to your LTR).
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:51 AM
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Don’t be brutally honest. Why do you feel the need to do that? Whenever someone mentions this it always comes from a place of neediness, e.g “I don’t want to lose her” of from a fear of not having control, e.g “I need to know where I stand”. Keep dating her, hang out, have fun and hook up. Girls are attracted to guys whose intentions are unclear. Eventually she will be up the relationship talk (or not). Alternatively, if your old school you can just flat out ask her if she wants to make it offic…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 07:48 PM
2

Sounds like you did it perfectly, cool, calm and unemotional. Part of the shit test is looking for a rise but she fucked up and crashed into the boundary made out of ice. I don’t agree with the earlier posters who said laugh it off or it’s some stupid high school thing. Bottom line is she went out of her way to take your little word disagreement back to her co-workers and make a joke out of you. Even though one of them called you a pretentious idiot, SHE was the one responsible as she brought th…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:59 PM
2

Statements are how “friends” talk.. Teasing/playful banter are how lovers talk
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:43 AM
3

No expert but you response was pretty weak. It’s effectively a cold blanket statement that provides no warmth/challenge/teasing Could have said something like [HB7] do you always judge a book by it’s cover? Again, no expert but serve the ball back over to her side of the court, don’t smash it out of bounds to where it’s not retrievable.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:45 AM
3

Just message her how about we get a drink/ice-cream/whatever instead. You want to meet in person so you can advance the interaction and escalate. Snapchatting is not dating..
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:48 AM
0

Cut her. Also not going to lie, at 34 you should be aiming to punch down into the mid-late 20’s.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:46 AM
1

Without seeing the video I can’t compare, but polyamory and monogamy are relationship structures (social constructs) wheres hypergamy (a sexual strategy) is argued to be a biological construct. Rollo Tomassi does a good video on youtube called Hypergamy: Micro to Macro. Take it with a grain of salt though..
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:27 AM
1

Yes. Alpha fucks is one of the two sexual strategies for women. Beta bucks is the other. Collectively this is hypergamy, a dualistic mating strategy. Men on the other hand are biologically wired for polygamy.. i.e spreading the seed. Read the rationale male or look at some youtube clips.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:08 AM
3

The rich guys often a beta provider while the young guy is an Alpha stud. She may have married a beta for comfort but is attracted to Alphas
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:48 PM
1

Bottom line is if she’s chasing you/wanting to see you she won’t be dumping you. Just play it cool and enjoy spending time with her. It’s always a tough balance to maintain. I’ve definitely been far too comfortable in an LTR before and slipped in the beta frame of mind. The key is balance, and to always be working on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:41 PM
1

Well who knows. It doesn’t sound like she’s ghosting/nexting you so keep your frame strong and see her when you get back.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:39 PM
2

How can you tell? Bottom-line is you can’t but it pays to gauge her interest level. She obviously really wants to hang out with you and your friends, and is coming with YOU which is a good sign. As long as she’s chasing and trying to be a part of your life that’s a good thing and there’s nothing wrong with spending time together. I know couples who get along extremely well and spend almost all their time together. That being said, the girl is tagging along with the guy (the Leader) e.g going fis…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 10:42 PM
1

Look its hard to know. Have you been sleeping with this girl? If so then maybe she enjoys the physical relationship but isn’t anywhere near LTR status in which case it could be reasonable for her to spend her last few days catching all her friends. If you haven’t slept with her then this is the issue. Sounds like you have an element of oneitis (lack of abundance). I’m not going to say soft/hard next. I’d suggest you start listening to corey waynes work and read his e-book. His philosophy is let …
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:37 PM
2

Act the prize. What would a highly sought after high value male do? He would accept her decision as it’s no water off his back and focus on his mission and start gaming other girls. When she reaches out he would be pleased to hear from her, charming/funny but still somewhat aloof and generally un-invested. It’s up to her to earn his attention. And when she’s back he’d take her on a date and fuck her until she can’t walk.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 09:17 AM
10

Third date at you’re house. She’ll get the message or she’ll make an excuse to flake but either way you’ll know where you stand
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:31 AM
4

Agree. There’s actually nothing wrong with texting within an LTR, as long as she’s initiating and you are responding, i.e she’s chasing for YOUR attention. She should be doing the bulk of the initiating unless you’re reaching out to make a date/fuck. Also you should always take a little bit longer to respond. Cold fish on the other isn’t necessary. You’re essentially dreading/playing games when she hasn’t done anything wrong...
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:32 AM
0

Sounds like you have weak frame. Just say “Well, I’m curious why you brought it up. “ If she really wants something more and she can’t bring herself to express what she wants then she’s probably immature/playing games and fishing for validation. She brought it up, she should express what she wants.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:19 PM
1

This is where you flip it on her: “Well what do you want us to be” If she brings up LTR and you’re comfortable with that then great. FWB = good too. Friends = bye!
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:04 PM
1

No, telling a girl “this isn’t working” makes you look like you’ve lost frame. Not saying anything (soft next) MAY make her curious about what you’re doing any why you aren’t texting her. Hypothetically an alpha would be going about his mission and talking to other girls. If you soft next. Wait for her to contact you. Respond warmly like it’s no big deal and set up a date and escalate.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:19 PM
1

Don’t bother blocking, just wait
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:59 PM
5

What are you looking for? Attention and validation? Ask yourself why would you need that? There’s nothing wrong with platonic female friends, plates, LTR’s etc, but why would you want girls orbiting you that you aren’t hooking up with? Makes no sense..
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:39 AM
1

Dude, why are you including amy and the shuffleboard crew in your first dates? First dates should be exclusively between you and her so you can escalate. You failed to isolate and escalate on new years. You failed to organise an exclusive date where sex could happen. Learn from this mistake.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:35 AM
1

If you look at his insta movies of course he does. In the Thor movie they’ve clearly edited his size.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:32 AM
2

Yeah I get that bro and we all do. But how do Alpha guys act, or as Corey Wayne would say.. what would James Bond do? They’d be indifferent. They’d being seeing other girls and pursuing their mission and if this girl pops up in their life, they’d take her on a date and sweep her off her feet into the bedroom, and not even consider an LTR until she brought it up.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:53 PM
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Think you should read corey waynes 3% man. Essentially you set up dates, hang out, hookup and have fun, until SHE asks you for commitment. You did the opposite, got real needy, told her you like her then forced a butthurt ultimatum. I don’t think you can salvage this. Girls are attracted to guys who intentions are unclear. It makes them unsure of where they stand (you are the prize).
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:37 AM
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You appear more alpha and they’re testing you are congruent with this; Your more beta and they’re confirming this; Maybe they’re considering fucking you and finding out if you’re (1) or (2) first. Deep down you’ll know the truth.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:44 AM
5

Testing your metal and where you fit in the pecking order
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:20 AM
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Dude you sound young. Here’s the rub: When you’re young you’re going to fall head over heels for chicks, fuck it up and waste a lot of time. If I could go back I would focus on raising my SMV as early as possible: lift and get bigger/shredded - there’s plenty of instagram dudes who share techniques/programs/diet/inspiration. It takes a few years to get decent results (build lean muscle). You should focus on this at all costs. Fortunately I built lean muscle over the years but didn’t do enough to…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:11 AM
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Nah fuckit sometimes dudes need to be told.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:03 PM
2

She’s your ex. If she loved you she would be with you. Always look at the actions and not the words.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:10 PM
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You should work on your issues first
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:07 PM
1

Yes xx, I love myself more than you do
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:09 PM
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Youtube the snowball theory for debt repayment. Fuck chasing girls right now, focus on yourself including your financial situation, your diet/health and allow yourself some time to bed down at your new job. Even in the first few months of your job, save hard, buy a few essentials like clothes and try to get ahead of the curve. I probably say avoid girls other than cheap easy lays as they can be a drain to your time/resources. Save at least 20% of your income. I can’t stress this enough. If I had…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:04 PM
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I read your other posts and the girl straight cheated on your, smiled when she told you (voluntarily) and got angry and blamed her when you ended it (a very natural response). Cut this girl from your fucking life bro. She’s either a horrible person, fucked in the head or simply has zero respect for you. Nothing good comes from hanging around her long. Trust me on this. The fact that you’ve asked in 3 threads indicates you have oneitis. Focus on building strong male friendships through uni, study…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:40 AM
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Haha. Yeah I think for guys, a good rig (muscular/ripped or both) gets you so much further up the SMV curve as most people are average, i.e either skinny, chubby or lack muscle mass. I definitely notice that guys with impressive physiques stand out from the crowd even where their face is a 5-6. It’s probably an evolutionary thing where we associate them with good hunters or warriors.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:12 AM
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Give us the abridged version.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:04 AM
1

You came to the right place, lift your game bro, I know you got it in you.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:04 AM
1

Agreed but I’ve already built a solid career, good friends/life experience etc. I can’t change my face, and other than stacking more cash realistically my best option is a quick shred.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:01 AM
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Momoa is a 9.5-10. Even the most liberal/feminist/anti-men chick on my facebook (who I f**king hate but enjoy laughing at her posts) gets a moist patch over momoa.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:00 AM
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It really depends bro. I currently get some girls approaching me and some who’re closer to my age tell me i’m hot etc. It’s rarer from younger chicks like 5 years+ younger but get definite IoI’s and can tell me they want me to approach. I’m not sure if shredding would improve this as it may scare them off to a degree by them thinking i’m out of their league?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:57 AM
2

Thanks bro. You look like Michael B Jordan with dreads haha.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:48 AM
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I’ve heard similar statistics but not sure if it’s a longitudinal study. I.e in a given year I may sleep with 10-15 girls, each of whom may only sleep with 1-3 guys in that year (including me). That means that i’m getting a lot more access than joe sub-50. But you have to remember i’m only playing 7’s and up, meaning all the girls below 6 will likely be forced to settle with lower SMV guys. Go to any white trash town and you’ll see low SMV couples together. Fact is some of those guys bang quite …
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:17 AM
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It’s not top 1-2%, it’s more like 10-20%, meaning high SMV guys have a lot of options. I think Rollo Tomassi recently did a podcast on this in which this topic came up and there was a bit of speculation that one day the bottom 80% of men wouldn’t be needed. I think society is heading this way to a degree, i.e the sexual market place is becoming more polarised however what I personality see happening in the future is parents (particularly the wealthy) choosing their children’s genes so they are p…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:26 AM
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I suspect that there’s zero correlation. 83% of stocks are down globally, and given that the majority of these companies are run by males then this would suggest that we’re late in the cycle if not already in a bear market.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 11:27 PM
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Don’t double text. You’re the prize. If she doesn’t ever text you walk and don’t look back
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:28 PM
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Dude, here’s the rub.. the problem with dating/LTRing a oneitis is that it can never work by virtue of the nature of oneitis itself. When you’re in oneitis mode, your essentially craving a person like a drug. You need a fix and their affection/attention is the hit. And when you don’t get that fix you get the withdrawals and go through what is essentially pain. In a oneitis relationship you think about that person incessantly, and far more than is normal. You microanalyse every little action, com…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:19 AM
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Hard next
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:08 AM
2

Sounds like you want him more than he wants you.. he is the amused grand master, and you struggle to please him.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 09:16 PM
3

OP, the honest truth is that the magic of life is CHANCE. i.e. if you don't take chances/risks then nothing really happens. If I look back over my life, most of the time I have been generally unhappy with my body-shape. I'm tall and have good muscle structure however have tended to carry excess weight. If When I look at my dating history, there is zero correlation of bodysize/shape/acceptance with to that of the girls I have pulled. I pulled one of my hottest girlfriends when I was depressed, 22…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 09:45 AM
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There’s no rules if you truly don’t give a fuck. I’ll b texting like 5-6 girls at a time so am pretty nonchalant. It almost gets to the point where I can’t be bothered holding conversations. Sometimes the convo dies and they’ll slip away and hit me up in a few weeks. Sometimes i’ll realise i’ve been bad at making an effort and send out a few texts and arrange a date. If you don’t care about the outcome then nothings going to phase you. This is how it should be. When I used to have oneitis (ex-LT…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 06:54 AM
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There’s mixed thoughts on this. Guys like Corey Wayne and a lot of Red Pillers will say set dates/logistics and get the fuck off the phone. I’ve had success and failures with both though. Sometimes i’ve built great attraction/comfort and rapport through texting.. other times it falls flat. The caveat is that’s its generally about the girls interest level. If they like you they will put effort in to texting you /seeking your attention. If they don’t they will be cold/aloof. Despite the fact that …
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:02 PM
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You’ll find out as you get older it gets harder to get people out to do shit, especially as they get older/more tired/busier/gf or wifed up. Then wait til they have kid.. you need to bring a baby along just to get a ticket to their “day party”
/r/askTRP01/01/19 07:55 PM
2

Just remember she’s not LTR material. You get digits?
/r/askTRP01/01/19 07:53 PM
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She prob has a boyfriend haha
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:10 AM
1

Coffee then. Shit go play pool or whatever you kids do these days
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:09 AM
1

Ask her out for a drink. Banter then escalate
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:02 AM
1

It’s horses for courses but for me personally I not a naturally needy/possessive person as I work a high powered job that requires a lot of time, effort and social interaction. Given that, I value time and free time especially and would rather not be struggling to string up a series of consecutive days/lays, so 1-2 is generally max for me. In terms of oneitis yes it comes from lack of abundance but having 20 plates doesn’t mean you’ll not get oneitis when that perfect 10 walks in the door. I thi…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:10 PM
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Move on. If she can’t free up one night for you she truly doesn’t give a fuck about you
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:44 PM
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First thing, you probably have oneitis or at least strong residual feelings so FWB/Plate status will NEVER work as she will always hold the power and you’ll inevitably break frame. I experienced this with my last ex.. trust me it’s a shitty fucking setup as most of the time I felt good and the sex was great but she was single and could go out and meet whoever she wanted. Even though I could and did, it doesn’t give you abundance..if anything it amplifies your scarcity mentality as you’re not get…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:38 PM
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Bro you’re way too invested in this girl. It’s pretty simple, hangout, hook-up (i.e escalate) and have fun. You’re clearly young and inexperienced so focus on talking to as many girls as you can (tinder etc) in order to build a sense of abundance.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:46 PM
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She doesn’t sound like a bad girl.. you’re too hung up on her n-count... quite moralising sexuality, it sounds like she went through a phase. Sure in her time she wanted to try different dicks but how you judge.. you stuck your dick in a herpes infest cumhole, and then blessed her with a lifelong std. My advice would be get over it and work on your issues.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:08 AM
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Jerks/assholes value themselves more than the girl (i.e they are the prize). It’s all about investment. They don’t give a fuck.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:04 AM
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I don’t quite understand this myself. I’m a slow starter compared to most on here as I don’t like PDA so probably don’t kiss til at least the second, but once I get a chance to bang (e.g get her back to my house) then i’m in there for the kill. If you’re waiting 5+ dates / weeks to escalate then it’s going nowhere. Remember there’s always other dudes sniffing for a turn
/r/askTRP25/12/18 08:05 AM
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All you should worry about is fucking her. If you’re not having sex you don’t have a “relationship”
/r/askTRP25/12/18 04:28 AM
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The second date started well, but went a little bit downhill near the end. She was a pretty random girl, very intelligent but very sarcastic so quite hard to read at times. In the end I thought fuck it and asked her outright if she was coming to mine or not. She played a few games, like I haven’t made up my mind i’ll let you know, so I went to the toilet paid the bill and got and uber. Told her I’m leaving as my uber was there and she got in it with me.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:23 AM
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It’s actually better that you went for it and got shot (lack of comfort or possibly lack of attraction) than didn’t pull the trigger at all. Plus you laughed it off. If it’s any consolation I got denied a hug at the start of a first date once. Fucked her on the second.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:01 AM
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If it’s only date 1 it’s not the end of the world. Re-engage and try again.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:24 AM
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Maybe there’s more to it? Maybe his girl had mentioned you before and he lost frame?
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:17 AM
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I’ve read the Rationale Male and understand TRP theory, alpha/beta etc. I also understand that people will only treat you how you let them. If a dude talks to me like shit i’ll confront him. As for most girls I don’t take any shit or orbit. I guess my problem was a bad bout of oneitis from a relationship that ended and was on/off for a long time. I’ve ended it now and agree that monk mode is probably the best way to go at the moment. From pure self assessment and judging by the girls i’ve pulled…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:23 AM
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How did you go about eliminating beta traits? This may be part of the issue, for instance if I hard next a girl (oneitis) that didn’t treat me right then instead of feeling glad for not putting up with shit and ridding something toxic out of my life, I end up feeling like i’ve acted childish and butt-hurt. Logically I know i’m hurting myself and my own dignity for putting up with their disrespect, however emotionally I question the decision. This goes back to my point about emotional toughness/h…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:27 AM
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Yes I generally know what I want, go after it and usually get it, especially in the working environment. ​ In terms of hard boundaries, i'm acutely aware that this is something I need to work on. I'm no pushover by any means (e.g. top 5% of income earners) but I definitely see people who are firm boundary setters getting more success, as they force people to commit to things and/or cut things or fail fast on things that won't in their favor. I work for an extremely good negotiator and he's great…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:18 AM
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Good insight, and I like the reference to ying and yang. In terms of awareness, sometimes I think this is my issue, i.e. I have an active mind and are hyper-aware which makes everything feel more acute. There's benefits to this, especially in my role but it's fair to say it also has its downsides. ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:12 AM
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Thanks mate. Obviously i'm aware that everyone has issues and most people don't wear them on their sleeve. Generally I try not to display any negative emotions (stoicism) but at times I feel i'm just carrying this mental burden that others don't seem to carry. Not sure if it could be related to depression/anxiety or just an over-active brain but other people seem to be more upbeat about life and it gets to me. ​ I don't think i'll ever give up. I work hard, set goals and try to achieve them. It'…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:08 AM
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Delete off everything and never ever respond, she’s a headcase.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:01 PM
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Yeah I get that. I was trying to do 70 hour weeks, hit the gym, prep meals and maintaining a social life and external hobbies, all while spending 4+ nights a week with her being tempted by chocolate, icecreams and late nights/poor sleeps. From what I know in hindsight I should have put even more focus on myself. Then I would have been happier, had stronger frame and she would have been happier. Just do it. Be selfish.. you’ll be surprised that women actually respect guys who go about getting the…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:26 AM
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What do you need to change? Physique etc? From personal experience just do it. Make the time, focus on your goals and do it. And don’t just do it but be fucking obsessed with it. I’m single now as I had a lot of stuff I needed to work through, career, health/fitness and financial circumstances. I was dating a pretty perfect girl but everything else was dragging me down. To be honest she made a few parts harder too. Sure it becomes easier to fix things when you’re single as time is abundant but y…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:51 AM
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True, she smells the weakness/insecurity.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:55 AM
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What's fucked is that guys might think the sister is hotter, want to bang them, and some guys would maybe even do it if they were drunk and knew they could get away with it.. but they would NEVER tell their girlfriend their sisters hotter/better looking/more toned/better curved etc just to get a rise out of them. Shit tests are the most fucked thing.. but they're nature so who are we to fight it.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:52 AM
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It all depends on YOU. Personally i’ve actually wanted to be in the friend-zone with certain girls/flings who I found really cool, were attractive but just didn’t quite do it for me. It’s great having hot female friends. You get social proof, access to events/parties and their social circle. Where it’s not great is if you have any form of attachment/jealousy or oneitis. If you have any of this then cut them. You literally shouldn’t care if another dude fucks them and they shouldn’t be too invest…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:59 AM
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The simple answer is: treat college like a job. Put in a solid 8-5pm or better yet 7am-5pm then you’re free at nights. Earlier starts = greater concentration. Also if you’ve read Cal Newport’s book “Deep Work”, you need to rid yourself of all distractions during the day, e.g put your phone on flight mode, get noise cancelling headphones, avoid social media etc. You need to train your brain to get better at concentrating and getting into the zone. Final suggestion is sit near the front of all cla…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:26 AM
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Not too far past beta behaviour
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:02 PM
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Delete your account because your seem incapable of reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:37 AM
2

A creepy or weird person wouldn’t know they looked that way.. otherwise they would change it?
/r/askTRP09/12/18 09:45 PM
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It’s a quote from Zoolander. Fuck man we don’t know.. you keep asking this question. Did you even PM anyone your pic? Maybe you look weird or creepy?
/r/askTRP09/12/18 09:01 PM
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I’m pretty sure it’s because you are really, really, ridiculously good-looking.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 08:47 PM
2

If you don’t enjoy chatting to her you should leave her
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:03 PM
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If a girl ever says awww walk away. How females curve - courtesy of the Tasteless Gentleman: Awww thats so sweet I’ll let you know thank you!! haha you funny tho oh I just remembered I have to maybe next time didn’t see this until JUST now
/r/askTRP08/12/18 06:10 PM
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No basically not unless you resolve things in a very short time frame (matter of weeks). Otherwise you need about a two year break to clear the feelings on both sides. By this point you probably won’t feel anything for them so you can spin them as a plate.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:27 AM
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Okay now I get you, it wasn’t quite clear. I had a similar issue in a previous relationship, was working big hours and yielding results but she was unhappy with her job and overly needy. Girls are crazy, they’ll wanna hang everyday until they suffocate both you and the relationship. My advice would be to forget the break but establish stronger boundaries. Make a schedule to see her less nights, but when you do see her make it something fun enjoyable (not just netflix on the couch). That way you …
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:30 PM
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Bro I don’t get the time-off thing. Why would you need a “break” just so she can focus on her career.. just help her sort it out. As for the texting, it’s a past hookup but not necessarily cheating. This is what girls do when you give them a”break”. Girls need to feel wanted to they will seek male attention when single/on a break. Based on her no responses she’s treating the dude like an orbiter so I wouldn’t worry too much. She literally didn’t respond to his advances which is embarrassing on h…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 07:13 PM
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Dude you’re 25, you’re still a blank slate. Here’s the deal, lets focus on what you have. A seemingly good job which I assume pays well, a good education, at least moderate looks and a gym membership. First rule of TRP: Lift. This will give you physical confidence. Start taking fucking responsibility for your life. As for not having friends, save some cash and go backpacking around south america for six weeks solo. You’ll meet a ton of people, including girls, and this will give you some cool st…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:28 AM
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It’s a stupid bet, you can’t salvage
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:38 AM
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When she teases just say s-s-s-su-su-suck my dick girl
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:22 PM
1

Read it and tell her you love her
/r/askTRP06/12/18 08:20 PM
1

Yeah 100% agree. Definitely not head over heels for this one... she was a little bit crazy so didn’t text her back (i.e initiate) but accepted her add on facebook. In terms of her body language she was difficult to read. I got a lot of mixed signals/uncertainty. At one point I forced the conversation to asking her back to mine and she said she’s undecided (basically that she would decide at the exact moment I left). Not sure if this was a shit-test but I was keen to leave anyway and wanted to ei…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:01 PM
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You treated her like shit because you didn't appreciate her.. in which case why would you want her back? Go find someone better who you appreciate and have a clean slate with.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 09:09 AM
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Personally I think you've brought this on yourself but not seeking exclusivity. If it was only a plate then you had to be willing to let her go, let her find someone else if you couldn't find exclusivity. That being said, if she slept with another guy, how soon did she sleep with you? Did she use protection? Did she act different that day/week? In one of my previous LTR's I found out that the girl slept with someone early on. Clearly we were dating seriously and hadn't had "the conversation", bu…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:58 AM
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PS: thanks man. Got a second date with that girl and just ended the date by booking an uber. She was like where are you going. I said we're going to mine. She came and she came.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:07 AM
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Hard work and discipline bro. That’s the cure and only you can ingest it.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:16 PM
2

It’s one in the same mate. Wrong audience. You obviously don’t get it.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:33 PM
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Did you get the desired effect? You performed poetry, got ostracised by a group of females and ultimately fired from the company. You do the math.. I don’t know what country you’re based in, but whilst there’s nothing wrong with poetry itself, you should refrain from performing poetry to complete strangers it if you’re socially awkward. Particularly in a working environment. That’s not normal. Go join a poetry club and meet people who share a common interest in it.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:05 PM
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Bro is it the 1700-1800’s? What’s with the poetry, that’s creepy as fuck...
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:42 PM
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It’s not about being “nice” or a beta human. It’s about being a BETTER human, i.e a warm human being who is interesting/takes interest in others, yet still asserts dominance. Suggest some of corey waynes material as a starting block. Don’t try to solve problems with logic. Women don’t think that way and it turns them off. They think emotionally. They want to be listened to/understood. Also try not to argue. It destroys attraction. Listen and ask questions, and don’t try to solve her problems for…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:05 PM
3

The TRP philosophy system is useful. Ayn Rands philosophy is shit.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:46 PM
1

It was only her turn. I’m abundant as fuck and IDAF with 99% of girls, and these days i’m always courting a few which leads to natural abundance. I’ll be honest though, the dilemma of oneitis is that these are the girls who I want to keep and often in the past are the ones I ultimately were more tolerant with. I’m not necessarily talking alpha/beta traits, but where you draw the line with healthy boundaries. You never ever want to be with a girl that doesn’t respect you as a man and who pushes n…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:25 PM
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It was only her turn. I’m abundant as fuck and IDAF with 99% of girls, and these days i’m always courting a few which leads to natural abundance. It’s important to do so for several reasons: You build sound social skills with women This becomes part of your life. It becomes congruent that you are an attractive confident male with options/plates/orbiters. It makes you less willing to take shit When you’ve walked away from multiple women you quickly realise a) that it was never going to work in th…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:14 PM
1

Cut her. One of my self-entitled HB 9 plates did this to me. Corey wayne often says if you listen closely girls will always tell you the truth. She’s clearly interested in her co-worker and is shit-testing and thereby effectively dissing you in order for YOU to sabotage the relationship and give her a free pass. This is actually quite a grey area in TRP. TRP/Game theory will tell you it’s shit test, to hold frame, remain stoic and A&A etc.. This is all true of course, particularly in terms of ho…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:26 AM
1

Dont change - lift and instil dread.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:11 AM
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It’s not taken mate, you should be ok. It sounds like she’s a little concerned about mates from a safety angle, i.e might want you without the NRL styled gangbang. Just do in your room. Or at least share the address and her photos and her number with some mates before you head there. To be fair though if it was Russia it would be a diff story...
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:48 AM
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Fair call, it’s a nice/polite way to end the conversation. If your rapport was good then it probably wouldn’t have any adverse impact. Personally i’d say something like: “Glad to hear, now get some sleep. I need you in good form for our post exam celebrations” 1) it’s less nice/formal 2) it’s more push/pull - i.e do this/get that 3) it closes the convo and frames a second date in the intermediate future. It’s also not sexual so won’t blow your chances if she’s not there on the comfort front and …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:27 AM
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Assuming you’re high SMV and that she was genuinely attracted to you then I think you played it too cold. You asked her to text you (qualify herself), she did (seemingly enthusiastically), she complimented you and the date... and then you somewhat shot her down with a limp/weak text. If she’s a normal girl and decent SMV then given the fact that you met on tinder, no doubt she’ll have options. You haven’t fucked her yet so you probably don’t have enough rapport to warrant her outright chasing to…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:06 AM
2

Hate to say it the the ‘going home to meet her sick roommate’ probably means off to meet another another guy and probably suck his dick. Girls tell lies bro. You need to learn to be less invested, until (i) you know them and (ii) they’re more invested in you. We’re all guilty of oneitis. It’s in our nature. You think Meghan’s special but probably personality wise she’s not much better (or worse) than a lot of girls. She just happens to be attractive so you ascribe greater feelings to her and ign…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:26 AM
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Bro keep you’re head up. By the sounds of it, you’re improving. You said she’s a five with a sociopathic personality.. throw in the fact she’s probably heading towards the wall and you can pretty quickly deduce her lifes going to suck. My oneitis ex was initially bragging about tinder dates when she saw me after a decent amount of time after the break-up (much to my dismay). While she was on the carousel I did the opposite.. I found a nice girl who was super keen on me and pretty decent rebound …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:46 AM
1

Even though you’re copping a lot of heat I think you’re somewhat correct. The advent of tinder/instagram has seen girls get far more validation than ever before, and from hotter guys than before. A girl that’s a 7 may have some decent photos and may start matching with a lot of guys who are 8’s, 9’s, 10’s. Now these guys may or may not be that interested, however the girl is still getting the validation from the match, initial convo. She could be out in real life, meet a perfectly decent 8, and …
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:35 PM
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You’re clearly waiting for that “spurt of intrinsic motivation” but here’s the rub... it’s never going to come. The good news is you don’t need it. Action breeds results which breed confidence and further action. I’m not sure what your goals are but start with the gym. Go pickup and weight and move some shit. I generally find after the odd whole weekend of partying that I feel like a piece of shit and have zero motivation to workout. So what do I do? I just go to the gym anyway. And then I do on…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:57 PM
2

Yeah I always had an issue with them until I found a decent brand, that fit well and was thin.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:05 PM
4

Everyone’s attracted to someone else. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll cheat. In one LTR, I had oneitis and the girl kept shit-testing with comments about other dudes. As much as it annoyed me I casually ignored them, relied on trust and nothing happened, she never cheated. In another short teem relationship, I had abundance mentality and gave zero fucks about the girl. She went travelling and low and behold up pops a photo on facebook of her and her ex. I also ignored as I was seeing other p…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:09 AM
16

Try it. Probably more receptive to women than men. Ironically i’ve found middle married aged men unimpressed by a young guy who dates up a storm. They see it as a sign of failure. Probably because it runs contrary to their blue pill model of life
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:30 PM
37

“Well actually, i’ve just started seeing someone” We met at a friends bbq etc. Women gush at stories of “new love”, provides them hope
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:02 PM
5

Don’t do it. One of her friends/colleagues will see you. You’re better off cold approaching a girl in a club, cafe or retail outlet.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 07:16 PM
4

Sorry just to clarify, my oneitis waxed and waned for my GF (HB: 9). At one point, when the relationship was running smoothly, I found that it was mostly gone and that I felt slightly unfulfilled. At this point I randomly got Oneitis for HB9.5, a girl that I had fucked the year before and kicked out of my house and barely ever talked to again. She was hot as fuck and the best sex that I ever had but I treated her like shit as I was dating someone at the time. I don’t even know where it came from…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:19 PM
3

You’re 20 bro. Just breakup with her politely and move on. When she asks why tell her that shes asking you to change and that you don’t feel comfortable with it particularly as its not having a negative impact on your life. Hell weed is legal in some states. You shouldn’t be the one to compromise, so do this walk away and never look back. The fact that she didn’t text you in a week and that you have to contact her to resolve things shows that she knows she has power over you. This time walk away…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:43 PM
8

From personal experience, it takes a long time for you to lose oneitis status from a former oneitis. Usually it takes a serious LTR or finding another oneitis to replace her. I’ve actually had it multiple times in my life and its still something that I’ve never fully understood. I had it for a complete stranger at college. I’d see this girl around and yearn for her so bad. Eventually I met her and started dating her once I broke up with my girlfriend. Everything went okay for a short while and t…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:19 PM
2

I’ve had girls like these and you just have to let them go. When girls go cold, there’s nothing you can do to re-ignite the spark so set them free and find others who are more loving/appreciative. You never know, they may come back around but by that time you should have a new girl.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:22 PM
1

It’s gone to shit
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:16 PM
4

You have issues..
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:03 PM
2

Either more pussy or become an alcoholic
/r/askTRP18/11/18 07:03 AM
-2

To be honest I don’t even know man. That whole scenario sounds awkward as fuck and it’s hard to read it and think of a witty comeback without being there and/or knowing his persona or what he looked like. In think in your case that he didn’t like you for whatever reason so you were going to strike out and not get served/get kicked out either way so you could have say something along the lines of this: You: Look I get it Richard... I know you work a really tough and physically demanding job for w…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 07:00 AM
9

It’s not the sex, it’s the validation/feedback from the conquest that you’re addicted to.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:32 AM
1

Stop taking yourself so seriously and learn how to enjoy yourself. I’ve always liked drinking/partying and have found its so much more fun in the last few years (early 30’s) than it was in my 20’s, as my SMV’s way higher, I have cash and a way better group of lads to go out. All of them are outgoing so we spark conversations with randoms, or people come up to us because we’re having fun.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 04:02 AM
7

“Hey, you’re rude as hell” Look not to be a dick, but what kind of response is that? If someone offends you, pointing out the very fact that you took offence cedes all the power in the exchange to them. Instead you should rip them out with wit/banter. If you cut someone down with a good one liner it’s completely disarming/effective, and also non-confrontational from a physical escalation standpoint which is why humiliation is so incredibly powerful. The English are really good at it.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 03:54 AM
6

Go into the bedroom, dominate her and then go sleep in your own bed and enjoy the extra room. I fucking love sleeping alone, have such better sleeps.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 03:32 AM
1

Just checking if you’re dressing appropriately for your age..
/r/askTRP18/11/18 03:28 AM
1

Your mission is personal but at the moment mine is make money, excel in my careers, achieve my health goals (diet/physique etc), building my social circle/business network, travel and just generally having fun. Women should come last of all that. Despite the beta bux connotation, money/career is fucking important as it gives you freedom to do a lot of the rest. Just don’t waste it on dates/girls.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:28 AM
10

Get a job bro/career bro.. put your mission first.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:45 AM
1

Thanks for the constructive advice, the logistics/time frames all makes sense and now definitely see where my game-plan (or lack thereof) went wrong. Last night was a tinder date. She was reasonably hot (had nothing on previous LTR’s) but was very cold at the open. The tinder chat had been minimal (some initial banter then logistics) and to be honest I was half expecting her to flake until she followed up with a confirmation text. Bar was 10 minutes from my house so the logistics were good, and …
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:04 PM
2

Yeah ironically sometimes i’ve had it with game. That perfect state where you’re so in the zone and everything just clicks into place. I have to admit sometimes I surprise even myself.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:42 AM
1

“How about we start with pizza and then head for drinks afterwards” By head for drinks I mean buy some wine/beers and head to your apartment. If she flakes she was just looking for a cheap night out.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:56 PM
3

Embrace it. On some of my busiest/most stressful projects I do 16-18 hour days back to back. I find there’s a certain point where something clicks and suddenly i’m in a state where i’m very lucid, clear and alert, at which point I’m far less distracted by hunger pangs, social media or broken attention. I believe that Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi calls this state ‘Flow’, i.e being in the zone (high alertness/presence) which is common among high performing sportsmen. It’s a fucking amazing state. Wish …
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:43 PM
1

Learn how to banter. Say something like ‘at least i’m not the one dressed like a [gay cowboy]’ [Insert reference to a play on his look]
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:21 AM
22

Wait til he’s bench then push the bar into his chest
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:56 AM
1

So you have a mensa qualifying IQ, are naturally good looking and have solid social skills - naturally begs the question, why the fuck did you end up here?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:40 AM
2

Sorry to hear dude. Either there wasn’t enough of a connection or she wasn’t attracted enough. Focus on yourself, you’re the prize. I had a similar incident where the girl ‘forgot’ (it was only like two days away..). Ironically I saw her out a month or two later when I was on a date with a cute blonde. She was oogling me from a far and kept approaching the bar and sneaking glances at me. She later messaged me to tell me that i’m hot. Whoops I guess I ‘forgot’ to text her back.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:19 AM
2

For me, radio silence generally doesn’t work as it fails to build enough comfort with the girl. When I’ve done it in the past I suspect that the girls just think i’m not that interested and that i’ll potentially flake. I think if you’re in the position where you’re worrying that a girl will think you’re needy from a simple follow-up text confirming logistics, then you’ve already lost the battle as any girl whose into you should be responsive. I’m a busy person so I prefer to confirm dates now as…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:04 AM
2

I agree. He’s probably on his way out. I’m not suggesting he needs to buy her coffee or dinner and ‘get to the bottom of it’. He needs to focus on himself, make himself the centre of his universe and have his own social life. This is important as it will allow him ‘to lead’ the next relationship as opposed to going along with her plans.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:58 PM
3

Sure being Alpha means acting on your own terms however prematurely ending a one year relationship with something via text, just because they don’t want to spend all their free time with you seems a little infantile. Essentially you are acting out of fear and trying to hurt them before they hurt you. Re-read between the lines of the ops post. From my take he seems to spend too much time with her and her friends at the expense of his own social life. It seems natural that she would eventually bac…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:21 AM
11

Don’t dump her over text and ghost - that’s not ‘Alpha’.. that’s 12 year old boy behaviour. Two red flags I see (on your part): You’re hanging out with her all and every weekend. She’s inviting you to social/group events with HER friends. Where’s your social circle in all of this? Why aren’t you leading the relationship and inviting her to hang with YOUR friends? It sounds like she’s leading the relationship. Girls won’t mind this while the relationship is still shiny and new but ultimately the …
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:40 AM
1

Everyone’s different but I know personally that my brain runs at a very high cadence, meaning I’m constantly thinking about (distracted) by bigger picture things. There’s obvious benefits to this (particularly from a career standpoint) but it also makes it harder to be present in the here and now, which at times means i’m less interested in other people and in turn less interesting. Don’t get me wrong when i’m in the zone I can have great conversations but it’s fair to say i’m often thinking abo…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:28 AM
2

Read it how you want. From what I read of your post you are much like I was, you’re own worst enemy. I generally didn’t give much of a fuck what other people thought but held myself to ridiculously high standards which in it’s own way is significantly more crippling. Just relax and enjoy life whilst focusing on what’s important to you. I think sometimes TRP is a far too militant/prescriptive system. You don’t need to hard next every chick for the slightest infraction or lift 24/7 and have the bo…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:24 AM
1

If you can’t get logistics for a date and digits in 4-8 messages (per person) then you have no hope in hell. Stop fucking orbiting strangers on snapchat/IG
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:02 AM
3

Lighten up mate
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:56 PM
1

The good news is your young, at college and should have an abundance of time. My suggestion is gym hard, and focus on building a social circle of likeminded guys. Possibly consider joining a social sports team etc to facilitate this or something groupy like cross-fit. I honestly think you’re better building a social circle of good guy friends before focusing on pulling girls. Having wingmen and people to go to events with leverages your dating life x10 compared to solo lonewolf mode.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:49 PM
1

Got a pic of what it looks like generally? What’s your age bracket?
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:38 PM
4

If you had her half naked then you obviously failed at the comfort stage. Learn game/frame. Read up about last minute resistance. If she says so dumb shit like that, it’s a shit test so quip back something stupid, like “No I was actually hoping we could hold hands and bake cookies for the rest of our lives.”
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:41 PM
2

Attitude Age I get more interest from 25 year olds now that i’m in my 30’s than when I was in my 20’s. In college it’s harder to have a distinct SMV advantage. I considered myself good looking, smart, fairly social and had a good friend group. I still got hot tail but way less frequently. Other than an insane physique it was the guys with massive social game that pulled the most birds. Like the guys who were the centre of big groups and did some of the political stuff. Even then they probably di…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:34 PM
10

Actually you can win. You can openly ask her and then hard next if you have the slightest bit of doubt about her response. I’ve found if you have very strong boundaries then you can ask anything that others may seem insecure about asking. It’s all about frame/boundary control. I deal with high networth people on a daily basis and if they see the smallest detail they don’t like they bring it up in the open, give it full consideration and act with ruthless confidence. They don’t fuck around and wo…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:23 PM
2

A few things I learned from TRP: Mate-guarding doesn’t work. If she wants to hang out with other people you can’t stop her. If she wants to text and have secret conversations with other guys.. then you should leave. You’re a lot more valuable than you realise. Oneitis is a terrible drug but when it wears off you literally realise she’s just another girl. If it ends, she’ll start dating around and quickly find that most guys are douchebags, idiots, socially awkward, jealous/overprotecting etc (th…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:00 PM
3

Black v-neck, silver chain, layered hoodie and blue chinos? Don’t mean to be rude but wtf are you wearing.. the cover art of Limp Bizkit Significant Other?
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:31 PM
6

Body - Good workout routine, mostly weights with some intense cardio weekly. Hair - nizoral 5% shampoo or a generic Ketoconazole shampoo. Prevents DHT buildup Skin - use sunblock whenever in the sun and a good moisturiser. Teeth - avoid sugar, brush when possible and floss. Cheaper than dental work. Stress - reduce stress at all costs. This may mean you need to go into work on the weekend to reduce stressful buildups of work. I’ve made a routine of going in saturday mornings when everyones messi…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:48 AM
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