Hey guys,

So since TRP applies to life, and not just girls, I have a situation for both.

So this past weekend, a girl invited me out to a party. Friday she saw me at the gym, and basically begged me to come. She’s a girl I’ve slept with once. I end up telling her okay, and without texting her I show up to the party. She said she would be there at 10, and I show up at 10:10ish. She ends up not being there, but this was a party where both me and her have mutual friends. I show up and have a good time, but about 10:30 I get a text saying “DON’T LEAVE YET IM COMING”. Remind you, I have not texted her at all since she invited me, as I believe in contacting to confirm plans right before. So, I just ignore the text, and she walking in at 11. Mind you, none of this is a problem.

However, earlier that night she and her female friend she brought made plans to go out to the bar around 12:45-1. Did not know this at the time, so I just end up having fun with her. Lots of talking, dancing, and kino. Ended up drinking, and she drank a bit before also. Both of us are drunk having a blast.

We end up cuddling on the couch, and I during so I see her and her friend confirming plans for the bars. As I’m with her, I can see her texting a guy to meet up at 1 at the bar. This was a red flag, so I pulled back attention. 5 min later, she crawls back to me (I moved to another couch and hit it off with another girl). She sat next to me to cuddle again and this time I on her boobs, caressed her shoulder and ass. Then came 12:45, and her friend pulls her to the side. They both end up leaving, citing to me and the host that her friend doesn’t feel good.

About 2 days later, I find out they deff went to the bar. So, I’m not going to let a girl disrespect me like that. I’m don’t want to act pissy, but if someone invites me to a party, makes plans to leaver early without me, shows up late, and ditches me, I kinda feel I should stand up for myself.

I haven’t contacted her yet, and I don’t plan on it. Say if she contacts me again, and asks me to come hangout, would a good response be “Sure, but only if you don’t pull that crap on me again”

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Second, I made plans with a guy friend. He’s been in the hot seat for being a bail already. I made plans to come visit him, and then both of us would drive to visit another friend. (All 3 of us go to different colleges). He is one one that made this plan, and last week when I was giving some resistance (ie saying idk of this would be worth it), he begged me to come. So I bought the round bus ticket, $80. Yes expensive, but I’m willing to pay up if the trip went according to plans.

Earlier, I received a snap asking if I could get a refund for the bus. No, I can not. I decided to not respond. If later on I receive a text message from him asked the same thing or “I’m gonna bail”, what should I do? In this situation I feel like I’m going to text him this:

“I went through all of break dealing with your crap. I just waisted $80 for the bus. I deserve better, and before this stunt you were in the hot seat. Now it’s time to cut your bullshit out of my life.” After that is sent; unless he responds with an apology that tickles my fancy I will never contact him again.

Thanks redpill, still learning and love y’all advice! I feel that I am gaining respect from my piers!