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Field Reportalittletoosmooth/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 11:46 PM
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He did the work before coming famous. Obviously he didn’t get famous at birth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:39 AM
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Could be she’s trying to piss you off so you “hate fuck” her. She could just be itching for a good stabbin. Try giving her a dose see how she reacts
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 11:35 PM
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Better late than never. My night club game is trash, but I clean up at house parties. Solution: cultivate large diverse friend group and organize events/parties. Get peoples to bring their friends and added benefit that you know almost everyone there. Additional points if people actually like you. No better pre selection than everyone excited to see you
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 05:23 PM
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The general rule I’ve noticed in my life (40y.o) is that it only ever goes down/worse . It rarely ever gets better with time. Women are on their best behavior up until they have power over you. You lose power as you commit and so the game gets harder. Nothing wrong with sticking around to find out for yourself especially if you are young. Better to have experience in the trenches than reading about it from the sidelines. Just protect yourself and draw hard lines. When a guy is owned by his woman…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 08:31 PM
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I’ve been lurking for years. Most of this stuff I knew through my interactions with women my whole life, and lessons from my father, just didn’t know how to put it in words or make sense of it in a way that I could use it efficiently.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 08:23 PM
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You have a point, but it’s too universally accepted to be punching down. Its like making fun of retarded kids. Law 38: Think As You Like, But Behave Like Others When you go against the grain you communicate you feel superior. People will resent you. Blend in, instead
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 07:59 PM
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You asking this question is a bad sign for your ability to survive on these streets brother. Yes- it is. It’s a rising trend but good luck dealing with that emotional roller coaster.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 07:53 PM
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Lol so specific. I love it.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:07 PM
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Only you will know. How do you develop that spidey-sense? By dating 100s of women. And failing. If something suddenly feels off, it’s probably because it’s already over.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:01 PM
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If you like steaks, why would you be with someone who is vehemently against the killing of animals? I see the BJ thing similarly, the problem is society has tried to shame men for liking what they like. Don’t be apologetic about your desires. It’s your life. Live it how you want and fuck everyone else. A life without BJs is not a life for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 06:39 PM
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y'all are fuckin crazy eating out strippers
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:17 AM
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‘where things are going’. which I assume is about our relationship. You can play stupid until she comes out and says it explicitly, but eventually she will ask you very bluntly. Up to you how you want to respond. Some guys have no problem lying "yes I want to be with you but I'm just not ready yet". I prefer a more straight forward approach when the dodge/evade route doesn't work. "I'm not looking for anything serious" If I wanted to be monogamous, should I still never ask her to be my girlfrien…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:25 PM
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It's all perspective. I'm assuming you are young. I used to have the same attitude. Wanted to prove something, to God knows who. But you live through things and hopefully you learn from them. The real smart ones learn from others mistakes. Thankfully I never had anything that was so bad happen. Life is very fragile. In those handful of times I knocked someone out cold to the floor, my life could have been drastically changed for the worse had their head landed on something sharp, or they fell th…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:19 AM
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A friendly bit of advice. A smartassy "he never learned how to properly socialize in primary school did he?" with a "poor little fella" vibe- directed to anther person in the group while completely ignoring the guy works a lot better than most of what you're saying. I understand that you feel comfortable fighting, but even if you win the fight you lose. I've knocked guys out cold in bar fights (lost a few too), and it's never been a good outcome. Even if nothing bad happened to me (arrest, injur…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:39 AM
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It works for guys too. Don't get defensive off the bat. AA, pressure flip, etc is always a better first move. If they keep it up or cross the line (the line is wherever you set it) then it's ok to be "serious".
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:30 AM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:19 PM
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Prenup means nothing in a lot of places.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:27 AM
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Bingo. Man controls his destiny. Life happens to a woman.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:34 AM
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Seems too quick to me too, but we don't have all the context. Is she a heavy drug user? Does she have other slut tendencies? If no other red flags and she's a otherwise good girl then ya, she could be a candidate. OP also needs to consider his needs/wants here. I've come across many LTR worthy girls in my life and didn't LTR them bc I didn't want that at the time.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:14 PM
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Are you on the autism spectrum? Serious question.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:31 AM
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If you have experience on the dark web why not go that route? Or, you can fly somewhere that it is legal like Amsterdam maybe. I wouldn't say it's "life changing". There are studies that say people who have done psychedelics live happier lives, but I tend to think people who are willing to try them probably have a more open mindset about life, and so maybe correlation =/= causation. Personally I think they're great, but as with everything else in life, moderation is the key. Baby steps would ser…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:07 PM
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Telephone number. Keep it simple. Everyone has a phone. Not everyone has instafacechat
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:50 PM
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It doesn't matter. What you say in a text isn't going to make her go or not go. She's already made her mind up about you. Force her to make a decision so you can stop wasting your time with a girl who isn't enthusiastic about wanting to choke on your salami sandwich.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 02:51 PM
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Solid reply.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 08:13 AM
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You surely won't- unless you change your attitude. Chin up, and nut up.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:03 AM
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It's ok to feel hurt and pain. It's not ok to sulk in it. Acknowledge it, analyze it for useful information, grow, and move on. You are a man. The sooner you realize no one cares about you, no one is going to baby you, the sooner you can stop feeling bad for yourself and get to work. You have one life. Don't waste it.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:24 AM
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Not sure how old you are but I have felt that same feeling 4-5 times in my life. Guess what, each time I found someone better. Don't worry about finding someone better. BECOME someone better so that you deserve better. The rest will work itself out. If you are busy with your life, you will not have so much time to be bending over backwards for women. You have better things to do. Work, hobbies, friends.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:09 AM
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Well, there you go. Here's anther one. You need to plan better. And I don't mean having an itinerary to share with the group. I mean be intentional with what you are doing, where you are going, etc. When a bitch is with you, she should not have to do any thinking. She's coming along for a ride when she hangs out with you. You already have it planned out. This is where so many men fail. When you plan things out, you are in control and you minimize the chances of stupid shit happening. What kind o…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 01:48 PM
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If you had any balls at all you would have ditched the other clown and had her on her knees by 11:01am so you can go to sleep by 11:05am. You got work to do and need to be ready to handle that. If she wants to make out with ole what's his face afterwards, well, hope he likes the taste of your jizz right? See how that played out a little differently?
/r/askTRP25/12/20 01:32 PM
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Fortune favores the bold. Don't pussy foot. Be direct. Tell her that you want to take her out or whatever.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:35 AM
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You are probably right. But you wouldn't care if you had 5 other girls lined up.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:30 AM
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Ass before boobs. Making out --> grab/massage her hips --> Grabbing Ass --> Lick her neck --> kiss/lick her upper chest --> grab her boobs --> undo bra --> if youve made it this far you should know what to do
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:35 AM
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So what's the problem? Was she sucking his dick or something?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:31 AM
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Why the fuck did you go out there?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:17 AM
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You have to live your life man. You start living for other people and next thing you know you're going to hate yourself. I know what you mean about not asking for help. But just remember, you have to reap what you sow.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:30 AM
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The problem is you think by "gaming" her you are hurting her. That's the problem. You're coming from it from the wrong frame of mind. Don't treat girls like fragile princesses just because TV says you should. Even "good girls" like to get fucked hard and choked. It's not exclusive to hoes. Think of it this way: do you give a child everything they ask for just because they "want it"? No, because it's potentially bad for them. Might "spoil" them, right? So why spoil an otherwise good girl by showe…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 07:19 PM
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Keep it playful. She's probably texting you because she wants to see you and maybe insecure if it was just a booty call or maybe she thinks you are going to pump n dump her again. If you want her to come over, something A&A (agree and amplify): "Yes. Its awful. Could use a sexy nurse to help me with this growth in my pants. Hurry, I don't have much time" ... Or whatever stupid sexual innuendo you can think of. If relevant to your time together last weekend even better
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:54 AM
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You want your cake and you want to eat it too. You want to be able to relax and be successful. You can certainly do that, but there is no "trick" to it. Be good at your job and people will trust you to get things done. You do that by creating a history of delivering. Once they trust you, you have more flexibility (i.e. They won't micro manage you). As far as the relaxing goes, why not spend that time pursuing your goals? Have you earned it (relaxing) yet? Did you accomplish something?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:04 PM
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Who says I only have one?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:13 AM
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Just show her your test from before when it was negative
/r/askTRP20/11/20 11:36 PM
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Whatever floats your boat man. It's no different than a comfort test from any girl. Just give them a little blue pill every once in a while. Doesn't have to be elaborate plan. Watch some rom coms for ideas if you have to.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:40 AM
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Ha, with that attitude you should have no problem with chicks. Just take it slow, do what feels "natural". If you are completely lost, just mimic what she's doing until you get into a rhythm.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:35 AM
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Unless she's going to use all that extra money to pay to have a dick bigger than yours surgically transplant onto her, then you should be ok if you just do what you're supposed to do. You can start with the sidebar
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:33 AM
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You are a pussy and your girlfriend should leave you.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:29 AM
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How old is she? If she's <23 she most likely isn't as "freaky" as she says. If I was you, I'd start with some light spanking, light choking (squeeze moreso by her ears vs her chin, hopefully you dont have little bitch hands), and just be "aggressive". Hold both her hands above her head while you fuck her. Pin her down. Be dominant. On a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being the roughest), start at like a 2 or 3. If she's responding favorable, turn it up little by little. Since you don't really have a gau…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:37 AM
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With that logic, why date any girl at all? You are being a defeatist. Date that HB9. If she dumps you, who cares? Just make sure you try to figure out why. Maybe it has nothing to do with you, but maybe you can learn something. That's why the saying is, "she's not yours, it's just your turn"... Don't think about the finale, just enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:23 AM
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I wish I would have known this earlier in life. It's so true. If you just SHUT THE FUCK UP... they will figure it out. Do NOT let on that you're mad even when confronted. "Why you being so quiet.. Talk to me babe".. "I'm just tired/hungry/whatever" just make something up
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:17 AM
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Every woman is only easy with "men they really like"... But some womens standard for what they "really like" is: "is he currently breathing"
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:26 AM
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It hurts them because by the time they realize they were sold a lie, it is already too late.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:19 AM
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Maybe you're annoying as fuck? Or maybe they just think you're a douchebag. Are you? It doesn't really matter. Story time: One of my girls told me she doesn't tell her friends about me. When I asked her why, she said "because they will judge me". What was implied was that they don't like the fact that I don't "commit" to her and as a result they "don't like me". Then she said, "but I dont care, I always enjoy spending time with you". Don't try to rationalize what girls say. Even worse, trying to…
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:48 PM
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Yes. Exactly. Turn your perceived weakness into a strength. If you get out on a dance floor at a party with some crutches, you can guarantee chicks will be looking. "Look at that crazy bastard dancing with crutches. I wonder what happened to him?... I can't believe he picked that girl up! Omg! He looks like fun!"... Up to you to capitalize on that.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:14 PM
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If you are on crutches and have any kind of game it should be like fishing with dynamite. The same is probably true with a sling. People will naturally want to know what happened. Think about what people will ask you and have a couple of responses teed up. Not rocket science. Hopefully you have a good reason why you are injured and it's not just because you are an idiot and fell down the stairs. I would not show weakness though. Just play it down if youre in pain or come up with a "bright side" …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:55 PM
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Bingo!
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:16 PM
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You need to change your mindset. You're thinking with scarcity mindset. There is nothing special about this girl. She is one of many. You lived 17 years without her and you will be no better or no worse off without her. You are the prize. And if you don't think of yourself as a prize right now, make yourself into what you think one might be. Until then, act like you are.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 08:54 PM
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Honestly, you can't. She's probably fucking someone or multiple people. Don't waste your time, but to clarify it's not wasted time to keep in touch periodically and keep the bait out there. I have girls in different cities that I randomly text to see how they are doing, and plan a potential meet up, maybe in a city that neither of us live in. Be fun, don't be judgemental, and keep it light. It would be unrealistic for me to think these girls dont have other guys. I don't get jealous when they br…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:16 PM
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Except don't apologize.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:27 AM
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TRP is amoral. Don't need that kind of shaming here. If this was the relationship sub they would happily tell a woman to go get her needs meet elsewhere. If he wants to get his noodle wet, that's up to him. I'm not saying that's what I would do personally, but who are we to judge?
/r/askTRP16/08/20 04:30 AM
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One push up at a time. One page of a book at a time. One dollar at a time. Little by little you gain momentum and next thing you know you look back and you won't even notice your old self.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:52 AM
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He is the godfather of fingerbanging
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:17 PM
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Bro you never fucked to Bach? Sidebar is over there noob --->
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:15 PM
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Keep some video tapes on your nightstand for plausible deniability
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:26 PM
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You speak the truth. I would bet he isn't dicking her down. The level of disrespect is just too damn high. He should've cock slammed her that night when they got home from the gas station...and then tell her she owes him $ for the fuck
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:36 AM
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You might be feeling like something is a shit test when maybe it isn't. When you're used to getting shit on, you're going to be on high alert. Try letting some of the more subtle ones go. Some of the most alpha guys I know can laugh at a good joke even if it is at their expense. Lighten up, you'll live longer.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:17 PM
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Trust, but verify.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:07 PM
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I fuckin LOLd at the peeing part
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:52 PM
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99 times out of 100 a girl worthy of being friends with, one of two things happen. I eventually end up fucking her. Or I am not sexually interested, and we can be friends exactly as long as it takes the issue to boil up to a confrontation. As soon as I deny sex, it's over. She's bitter and can't deal with the rejection.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 10:50 PM
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A-fuckin-men brother
/r/askTRP19/07/20 08:17 PM
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One of the most "civil" places is a maximum security prison believe it or not. You wouldn't believe how respectful people are when there is risk of getting shanked just for looking at someone the wrong way.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 08:08 PM
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Exactly what I was going to say. Sometimes you just have to fake it to keep them on their toes, but better if it is for real.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:06 AM
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You're doing the right thing. By having her stay over until noon you're signalling to her that it's not just a hookup. That or you don't have enough shit going on. Either way I say just keep it up and let her bring it up. She will eventually. How old is she? As others have mentioned don't be surprised if she has other guys too. Don't put her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:08 AM
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Bingo. Scared to be honest = weakness = dry vagina
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:01 AM
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You wouldn't believe how many times I've said to myself "Holy shit that actually worked?"... You will never know unless you actually try.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:31 AM
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I had a similar experience to what you're going through. She will test you more and more. The disrespect will grow. She's trying to bait you into being a prick so she can trash talk you to her friends. Just rip the bandaid off.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:29 AM
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I see a long road and a lot of sidebar in your future
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:30 PM
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She's got a real Chad's dick in her throat right now while you're crying.... .. Does that hurt? Good. Use that pain and go to the gym. Find another three girls hotter than her.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:22 AM
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We all like to be where we fit in. Its human nature lol
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:39 PM
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Every nurse I've ever fucked was insane.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:23 PM
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I mean, not to that extent but this BLM thing is gaining a ton of traction. It is most certainly a political movement. I'm in shock as to how far they have come in the last year. I don't agree with their politics. The mantra is fine, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 04:52 PM
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We were discussing men's hygiene at a bar with a group of friends (male + female). One of the women said, "if I wanted to feel a set of nice, soft, manicured hands on my body, I'd finger myself. I want my man to be rough with me"
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 02:30 AM
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Given your level of excitement about this I'm going to assume 3some (or more) is not in the cards. Unless there is cocaine involved. Then anything is possible. My suggestion is to survey the group, see who is throwing IOIs, and do your best to build rapport during the first day. Try to make her jealous once you have her attention by switching your focus to another gIrl. Later at night once some people start to get drunk, find a way to isolate with your target. "Hey let's get some fresh air" take…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:24 AM
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I guess. I don't see anything that is that bad but everyone has different "thresholds" for bullshit. Just proposing an alternative. I am usually way too cold/harsh and have a feeling I've been failing comfort tests so I'm a little hyper aware at the moment as I try to improve.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:37 PM
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Agree but I think HSV1 is actually more like 80%
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:49 PM
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Sounds like a comfort test to me. Because OP posted about this and how he described her, I think he actually likes her too. Just because this is TRP doesn't mean we aren't allowed to (gasp!) "like" our plates. The problems only happen when you let them get away with shit you otherwise wouldn't, just because you like them.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:45 PM
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Could be a comfort test. She just got dumped she might want to know you at least care about her a little. I would invite her over the next time you're feeling randy. Don't go into detail about missing her or anything (let's be honest it sounds like you do, that's perfectly fine) but make it known you want to see her.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:42 PM
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If you want your test to be accurate you have to wait a few weeks after latest sex in order for everything to "develop".. I think 3 months is good. Otherwise you might get a false negative.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:08 PM
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These are really good. Anyone know of a better one from condomdepot for us "larger" bros. These magnums are about the perfect size, but wouldn't mind thinner.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:03 PM
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If you're interested, look into the "Western Blot herpes tests". They are a more accurate form of blood testing. Works even when you don't have visible sores.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:01 PM
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Not true. There are different tests that yield different quality results. Read about the "Western Blot" herpes tests. This is not the standard test that is given when you ask for a herpes test. The normal one is notorious for giving false positives. Anther thing that many people don't know is it can take a few months for the virus to show up in the testing. You can fuck a girl, get tested a few weeks later, and be negative. Test again in a couple more wks without having any more sex and all of a…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:00 PM
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Performance anxiety. You're putting too much pressure on yourself. It's easy to fall into a negative feedback loop so try not to give yourself a hard time about it. It happens. You're probably worried about ejaculating too fast. Chicks don't care as much if you cum fast. Some are flattered, really! PME literally happens so often there are wide spread jokes about it dude! Lol. Lighten up. Just embrace it if it happens man. If youre young, you will be ready for round 2 in 10 minutes. Shift the foc…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:46 AM
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Keep practicing. Just imagine how rewarding it will be when some girl you previously thought was unattainable says something like "You are too smooth. I don't know if I should trust you. You probably sleep with sooo many women"... You'll feel great knowing all of the practice is paying off... Then months/years later, think about how good it will feel when what she is saying it's actually TRUE.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:36 AM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:32 AM
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It's really quite simple. You just have to ask yourself, "is the juice worth the squeeze". Some juices are tastier than others. I've had some of the finest juice available to man and put up with some idiotic conversations during the "squeeze" and I honestly can say without a doubt that it was most definitely worth it... the first time (or first few times). After a few tastes, it loses its value. I'm willing to do less for it now (including new juices). For a more in depth discussion of the "why"…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:37 AM
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It's not about "getting pussy". They watched the same Disney fairytales we all did. They grew up thinking women are "special snowflakes" just like everyone else. The indoctrination does not escape them just because they are athletic. The advantage they have is the exposure to more woman, so they are likely to uncover their true nature before Billy Beta who only meets 1 new girl every couple years when his mom sets him up with Karen in Accountings single daughter/cousin/niece/etc.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:25 AM
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Yes, I do. And I've slept with 3 women who "dated" others. Obviously stories the women tell me have to be taken with a grain of salt, but they've shown me text messages which were cringe worthy. Put it this way, the majority of MEN are simps. What makes you think a pro athlete is any different?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:05 AM
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This. My father said it best. "The bitchier she is, the more she is starved for a good fucking." The ones with the loudest bark are the ones who cuddle up into a little ball in your arms after you fuck their brains out.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:03 AM
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Pro athletes are often simps. Yes she is going to fuck him for obvious reasons but if he is a lame or can't fuck right you think she's going to be loyal to him? No way. Girls want it all. And even if you have it all you can only have it all for a period of time because one of those things she requires is you being "new".
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:59 AM
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His income is irrelevant. Chicks fuck bartenders who make $10/hour all the time. Don't make excuses for him.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:39 AM
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Assume she is fucking him. Proceed based on if you care or not. If you care, then move the fuck on. This is not that complicated guys.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:38 AM
8

This girl who I ended up seeing for a few months always had "free tickets" to major events and always in really good seats or suites. I was suspicious at first as to why but I did not care because she was inviting me always. A couple weeks in I met her friends and one said something along the lines of "did you know that 'MLB-PLAYER' has been swooning over her non-stop.. You lucky dog you!".. I just gave an uninterested laugh and changed the subject. She had some other red flags but this chick wa…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:34 AM
5

She sounds jealous
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:22 PM
0

Are you afraid she's cooler than you (no offense intended)? I don't understand the internal dilemma. If it's just that it's annoying you then that's it end of story. Either you are ok with it or you note this as a personal red flag and move on. Not sure why this big analysis is necessary. Edit: not sure why you would dump her. If she's hot and all that just stop taking her out in public. But ultimately it's up to you.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:38 AM
1

5? Continued education? I recently stumbled on a collection of video lectures called "The Great Courses". Can find online via torrent. Production quality is a bit lacking but it's interesting stuff with a very wide variety of topics. Finance, Science, Philosophy, History. Most "episodes" are 30-60 min. Easily digestible and very organized.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:31 PM
1

Oh, yes they are. Plenty of shit on Leo out there. You think he cares though?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 11:30 PM
25

Why does it fucking matter? Not a rhetorical question either. Why do have the urge to tell him this? Hoes date guys all the time. Maybe she treats him well. Maybe he knows she's a hoe and doesn't care. You're inserting yourself into someone else's relationship and frankly from here it sounds petty as hell. You frame it as you trying to "help him", but play it out in your head and you'll see it's a terrible idea.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:20 PM
4

You usually need to strike when the iron is hot. If not, she's going to think you don't like her and her feelings will be hurt, or she'll think you're gay. That being said, what is there to lose? Stop protecting your ego. If you want to see her just ask her. Be a man. At the same time, have you thought about WHY you changed your mind? Is she ugly? What makes you interested now? Are you lonely? No other options? Do some self reflection. Find some clarity (i.e. - new pussy).
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:40 PM
4

Show her your pipe. She'll know.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:35 PM
2

"the darkest hour is just before the dawn'
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:52 PM
1

It's both. He goes against his supposed boundaries, but I also think the rule is stupid. But my opinion on his rule is irrelevant
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:24 AM
2

Only real way you be flexible with taxes is to have a business. Without a business your hands are tied.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:10 AM
3

If you decided not to go then what are you on about?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:33 PM
4

I agree 100%. My point to OP is stop posturing. If it's a rule of yours, dump her. If it's not really a "rule" but a "nice to have", then shut the fuck up about it.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:45 AM
2

That's not the point. It could be any "rule". He says its a rule of his, yet he's here asking what to do, because he wants to rationalize keeping her. My point is, stand by your word. I can guarantee this isn't the only self-proclaimed "rule" that OP is breaking.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:43 AM
-1

Acting butt hurt isn't a good look, but hey man if that's your rule then that's your rule. If you really give that much of a shit about tiktok, then dump her ass. If you don't really care that much to dump her over it, then stop barking about it. Regardless of how stupid your rule is, you can't draw a line in the sand and then back down when someone crosses it.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:19 AM
24

If your barber found out you went to another barber and confronted you about it, imagine how you would respond. Bring that same energy.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:15 AM
2

Yup, I left that part out. Regardless of if this works out for you in the short term, the writing is on the wall. For one reason or another you are not appreciated at your job. Don't wait too long to get the fuck out of there.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:06 PM
23

I was thinking something similar. If you have a trusted friend in the crowd who is a "neutral party" to all outsiders, you can have them ask Anne a question during the presentation that only you would know the answer to. Let her sweat for a minute and then jump in and "save the day". Be careful this person asking the question isn't a known butt buddy of yours. Could look bad if your boss knows you set her up.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:22 AM
4

Buy low, sell high. Why would you buy something well on the way down.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:25 AM
5

Soft next her and lift until you recover from obvious case of oneitis. Lack of abundance too. Spin more moms.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:59 AM
3

Throw that shit out or mail it to her. $15 in postage and she's gone from your life. Alternative is letting her control when she comes back. Can always dangle her things over your head.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:18 PM
3

Take all her shit and drop it off somewhere she can get it without bothering you. You need to remove all access that she has to your life. If not easy to give to her, take it to a mutual friend.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:46 PM
3

Definitely a shit test. Just shake it off.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:16 PM
3

Why would you soft next? Doesn't make any sense. Just proceed as normal, because, it's a normal fucking thing. Jesus. Look man if you try to hang out again and she ghosts you then so be it move on, but don't self destruct just bc you busted your load too early.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:16 PM
9

Can vouch for this. One way to supercharge this is to have a reputation of being a big "party guy". Bring a bottle of tequila and a bag of limes and kick open the door saying some douchebag shit like "are you mother fuckers ready to PARTY or WHAT?!?". Be fun. People love fun. It's so stupid but it works.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 10:44 PM
1

Eh, he's not looking at her with rose colored glasses. He's obviously not into her other than the sex. But I agree that if he had multiple plates this wouldn't be an issue.Why? Because he would just go fuck another girl instead of complaining about this one to us. When you have options, you tend to complain less, but the tipping point where "the juice" is no longer worth "the squeeze" comes much quicker, too. Case study: When I was in University, I had much more time on my hands and could mainta…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:11 PM
4

When you play Russian roulette, every time you pull the trigger the chances of you blowing off your head increases.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:28 AM
1

Did you ever Google "how to wax your asshole"? I'm guessing no, because you probably never thought about it. What's my point? Most guys find this place because they experienced some kind of heartbreak or are in a tough situation like a sexless marriage.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:12 AM
13

I disagree. I think she rationalized it in her head that it WAS platonic. That way when she ends up fucking the guy, she can rationalize lying bc "it just happened", and "it didn't mean anything so I'm not going to tell him bc it would crush him" or other shit like that
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 04:52 AM
13

I think it was a boss move. It's like the kiss of death. He's so done that to him she is like a child liked you said. You can't be angry at a child when they do something they don't even realize is wrong. However, unlike a parent, he has no obligation to stick around and help her learn. If he stuck around and gave her the opportunity to cheat, she would've never understood that she was wrong to go in the first place. You can't coddle ppl, you have to let them figure it out for themselves. I forg…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 04:48 AM
11

Not gay unless you lift your ankles up next to your ears
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:23 AM
25

I believe that you truly believe what you're saying. I'm just telling you to be wary. Its your dick, pal. Not mine.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:31 AM
26

She TELLS you this. Doesn't mean it's true.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:16 AM
38

Power belongs to the person who cares the least. Do you think she cares enough to ask strangers on the internet for advice? I'm not sure how old you are but women are very manipulative. It took me a while to figure that out. That's why they say watch what she does, not what she says. When I was 15 my gf and I used to tell each other "I love you". Then one day I heard her say ILY to one of her classmates. Stupid me asked her why she said that to someone she barely knows. She looked at me as if I …
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:14 AM
2

You: "I'm in consulting" . Them: "What kind of consulting?" . You: "[Insert whatever the fuck you feel like depending on the person, place, location of Saturn in relation to Mars, wether or not your vagina is bleeding, etc.]"
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:55 PM
7

No fucking chance we lock down for a year. This virus is barely killing 3% of people that end up in the hospital. That's almost a rounding error compared to how many ppl get this thing and don't even notice. More people will die from starvation if the global economy collapses. I give it 2 months.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:51 PM
48

She owns you. I can tell just from the "babe" comment. You lack abundance. This is not going to end well (for you). My only advice to you is "every time you have sex with her, fuck her like it's the last time you'll ever see her again". That MIGHT work to prolong the inevitable.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:46 PM
1

Like any other career, it is what you make of it. You can be processing invoices for a manufacturer as an accountant (accounts payable/receivable), or you can be a partner with a a large multinational firm. You can end up at either end of the spectrum. But each has their own pros and cons. AR/AP clerk is stable 9-5 type roll. Not much responsibility, not much stress, but you aren't going to get rich on it. Big4 partner you can forget about 9-5. That is a 24/7 job. But you can make millions poten…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:47 PM
6

Always assume a girl that you haven't had the exclusivity discussion with is actively fucking other people. It makes everything so much simpler. She doesn't respond to your text? Fucking someone else. Cancels plans? Fucking someone else. The good thing about this approach is, even if she isn't riding the CC, this helps you keep from wasting your time wondering why X, Y, or Z is happening and lets you move on with your day. Also encourages you to pursue other women, which you should be doing anyw…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:39 PM
2

I think OP is missing that completely. He thinks he Alpha'd her but reality is his sister's gf was the one to make all of this happen. She USED him, and he fell for it bc he has no self control. The GF can leave this fucked up situation whenever she wants. She, like any other woman, was looking for drama. She was bored bc of the quarantine and she decided she wants to live in a reality TV show. Congrats OP, you fucked yourself.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:44 PM
2

Nice
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:41 PM
7

"If you play your cards right it just might be your lucky night"
/r/askTRP12/04/20 05:16 AM
1

👍
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:29 PM
1

Would it bother you if it was a loser vs a NFL player?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:26 PM
1

I suspect that it bothers you even if just a little bit. If it didn't you wouldn't have posted here. Flip your mindset bro. She's with you. Maybe she's telling you bc she wants to be honest and not hide things and you're just blowing it out of proportion bc you're insecure about it. Regardless of how good you look, fame is another level of SMV. That's why I'm saying, you can't win this the way you're playing it. Play a different one. You don't care, and if she leaves you she's worse off. You hav…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:16 PM
1

You answered your own question. There is no winning move here. If you acknowledge it and fact that it bothers you, you lose. If you ignore it and it keeps happening, you lose. I'd just ignore it. If you want to-you can A&A but YMMV. "Cool you should give him your number"
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:10 PM
1

I'll only chill out if you come build my tv stand for me first. In all seriousness, like guy above said, recognizing the tests is half the battle. More "IDGAF" would probably help you, but that also comes with time/practice/abundance.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:28 AM
1

Stop the "haha jk I was just playing". Say what you mean and mean what you say. Own that shit. When you think about saying "jk" or anything like that. Pause for 3 seconds and think, "am I worried that I offended someone? Would I be offended if someone said that to me? " 9 times out of 10 the answer will be no. If you want, say lol, or haha but don't explain yourself too much. Not sure how old you are but think to yourself, "am I trying too much to be a clown?" Don't be a clown. Be a man, have a …
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:04 AM
2

You already lost. Under no circumstances should you make sex transactional. Now the next time you want a blowjob she's going to make you wash the dishes. Reward her good behavior. Don't let her flip it on you.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:29 AM
1

Why not cum in her mouth? I just don't understand the added risk.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:58 PM
6

Waste of time. Use your downtime to improve yourself. Learn new skills. Life skills. Learn to build something. Workout. Read books. Work on your car. Do things around the house you've been putting off. Reconnect with old friends via FaceTime or phone call. There are literally thousands of things you can do that would be more productive. Stop being a "time hoe" as Patrice would say. If you don't know what I'm talking about, watching Patrice O'Neal Black Phillip podcast would be great actually.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:51 AM
2

What's with the cumming inside of random tinder girl? Do you hate yourself? Oh, let me guess, she said she was on the pill?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:43 AM
1

If I had to put money on it, I'd bet she's already fucked 1 or more guys, and if not, she is certainly thinking about it.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:29 PM
9

Sometimes it's good to just write everything down. He is definitely aware of all/most of the issues with this situation. It was kind of refreshing to see OP realize things presumably as he was writing them down. I'm not against these types of posts. Sometimes you know what you need but just need that swift kick in the ass to get moving. Ideally that comes from within but hey, that's what we're here for, to help those in need. Now stop being a faggot, OP, and get to work.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:27 PM
3

She will find a way for the state to help her take what she "deserved" (thinks she deserves), i.e getting pregnant, married, etc
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:10 PM
4

What did we learn today kids? Don't listen to anything she says. Anyways, you shouldn't be asking girls what their number is. Shit doesn't matter. If she tells you, it will most likely be a lie anyways. You should be able to disqualify for LTR via other methods. Read more about red flags. Demote to plate. Thank you, try again.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:43 AM
3

28-35 should be amazing
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:13 PM
1

Just be very clear with your roommate what your expectations are. One way to be able to control that interaction is find a place that you like that has an extra bedroom (or two), sign the lease, and then look to sublease the bedrooms to people. You can do this with renting or you can buy your own place if you can afford it (look up "house hacking"). If you're looking to save money you can't beat having a roommate. Keep in mind you may have one or two months where you have to float the rent/mortg…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:34 PM
7

I don't personally dip below 21. In my country you can't go to bars unless you're 21. But, I'm mid 30s and look very young. Don't have a problem with 20-25 year old women. They are usually shocked when I tell them my age but if you just own it and don't "act" like a grandpa then its no big deal at all. I've been told that they like hanging out with me because I'm not a "boy" like most of the guys her age. I have my shit together, and they never have to worry about anything other than looking fuc…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:32 PM
7

Losing things UP HER PUSSY? Wut?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:41 PM
0

No, it's not the promiscuity that caused their cancer, it's the patriarchy limiting their access to quality medical treatments/screening.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 12:55 AM
8

These situations require a "rip the band-aid off" approach. Cold turkey is the only way. Hope you enjoyed the ride OP! She sounds like a good time! What app was this? For research purposes of course.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 09:29 PM
1

Fair enough. Did he get her number at least? I just don't understand the logic behind making out with some random bar girl just to pass the time. Maybe if he was a high school kid?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/20 07:20 AM
2

Your friend wasn't interested in the girl. OPs friend was making out with her. I get what you're saying and I've been there myself. I just don't buy that this dude was getting all hot and heavy at the bar with this chick and then just went home without her as a choice.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/20 07:17 AM
16

Exactly. I agree with the message. Don't put pussy on a pedestal. Sure. But don't go out pretending you aren't searching for pussy, then claim you went home bc you had "a lot to do", when in reality you just failed at your mission. I'm ok with failing. I'm not ok with lying to myself.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 07:56 PM
62

This makes zero sense. If he REALLY had that much to do, why was he out in the first place. My take: he struck out for some reason and felt salty about it. If he's got her in the bag like you made it sound, he should have left the club with her, bang, and go to sleep. This is like going skydiving and pulling the parachute cord while still inside the airplane. Why?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 07:45 PM
1

It is what it is. You win some, you lose some, but we each have to play by the rules of the game we are in. Better to know where the hazards are beforehand in either case.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:54 PM
11

I agree with you 100%. "Shut the fuck up" solves a lot of problems.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:18 AM
2

I respect the IDGAF attitude, but in my line of work it's a bad look to be fucking a 18 year old for the exact reasons the other commentator pointed out. It's not that you ARE fucking your bosses teenage daughter, it's that he knows you're capable of it. That changes the way he interacts with you. Maybe he doesn't invite you to his dinner party. Maybe you don't give a shit- and that's awesome that you don't- but OP is just saying be aware of the possibilities of negative publicity. I'm more of a…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:14 AM
2

Okie dokie 👌
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:43 AM
2

You said "oddly". Nothing odd about your observation.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:42 AM
17

It depends on your location. In the USA, what you said is generally true. Stick to 21+ if you give a shit. But let's be realistic here. If you are 35 and getting pussy from a 25 year old, you better believe that your buddys' wives and or female friends are going to bust your balls about it. This is where cocky arrogance will help. I just tell them that I'm a vampire and I'm stealing her youth. It helps that I look very young (read: good) for my age.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:40 AM
2

I get it. Are you sure you do?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:35 AM
9

"Legal" or "Not Legal", my friend. I personally don't like to go under 21 but only because I don't want to be restricted on where I can or cannot go. That being said, I also find most girls who are <23y.o. a bit annoying.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:32 AM
13

... And in other news, water is wet.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:29 AM
1

How was the recovery? Might have my tonsils removed soon as an adult.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:14 AM
2

Totally true about repetition. The more experiences you have with women the easier it is to anticipate where things are going before they actually happen. I usually try to think of a few ways that they might come up if I feel something is coming and play out the situation in my head (I.e if I get the vibe she's mad about something, see if I can figure out what she might be mad about and play it out in my head).
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:07 PM
1

What if my only move is a jackhammer 360° piledrive?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:48 AM
5

Damn, she was almost in the clear until that last test
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:43 AM
1

This. Have fun, party, but more so than when you are back home don't even fuckin think about blacking out. Other guys might be able to tell you more about this but I avoided any and all drugs while I was out there too. Especially in the Philippines.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 08:33 PM
2

Whenever you are thinking about things that are questionable related to women, jerk off and see if you still come to the same conclusion. This has saved me from many possible mistake like calling an ex, going to places I shouldn't, etc.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:28 AM
9

Ding ding ding! Winner winner. Dont let them dictate the night. I usually schedule 1st, 2nd, 3rd date purposefully after standard dinner hours. When the waitresses/bartender asks if we want food, I quickly respond, "I already ate, I'm guessing you did too?". Have never had a girl tell me they wanted food. Occasionally if I think she is lying about having already eaten I'll get some light apps because 1, I don't want her to get too drunk if she skipped dinner, and 2, kind of as a little reward fo…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 12:20 AM
3

Exactly. You won the lottery, OP. Most poor guys don't find out until after they have a kid or two. Congratulations on the fresh start. Time to celebrate. Ding-dong, the bitch is dead!
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:06 PM
3

I agree. And even further I would suggest turning off all notifications for any app such as Facebook or Instagram, Facebook, etc. Nothing is that important from those apps. That includes dating apps too.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:36 PM
53

Are you looking at your phone when you are with her? If so, boom, she knows you're a lying sack of shit. Keep your phone in your pocket when you are with them. Lead by example. None of this phone on the table shit. Live in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 10:14 PM
5

Watch the movie "Swingers" https://youtu.be/tu-QjTNtDz8
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:52 PM
2

The higher your SMV the more she wants to lock you down. What do you think? I have all of the subjective SMV things in my favor with the exception of lifting. I'm by no means out of shape, but I'm a bit soft. I'm tall, attractive, great money, great social circle, etc. so I get this shit all the time. Chick tries to play nice girl and I usually play along but once I fuck her like a caveman and she has her guard down I usually start digging. Be sex positive, non judgemental, and never under any c…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:28 PM
3

Just force her to make the commitment or not. If she's not into you then move on. This is what most guys get wrong. Wasting too much time trying to negotiate attraction instead of moving on or doing things to improve their SMV.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:06 PM
1

You don't know a girl until you've slept with her for at least 6 months. All of the girls I've been with who seemed perfect were just putting up a facade to achieve their goal of locking someone down. If they are still perfect after a while and your goal is a LTR, then go for it. Just keep your head on straight. Don't be blinded by the beauty.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:04 PM
1

To be 100% honest, I did not think it was going to be that serious. I had never broken any bones and so I thought if it was actually broken it would be excruciating pain. Figured at worse it would be a sprain or maybe a fracture.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:26 PM
1

Story time. I once totaled a car in a freak accident while on vacation with my girl. I was not driving recklessly or anything, but an animal (deer) popped out of nowhere. We could have been killed easily. It was a 1 lane (each way) mountain road and we crashed just before a blind corner. Seconds after we crashed a semi truck came barreling around the corner but luckily it had just enough time to swerve/brake. We would have been toast if he was not paying attention. The first thing I did after th…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:12 PM
12

Bitched out of winging my wingman when he approached a couple group sets. Just curious- why did you bail here?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 05:51 PM
1

No. You are focusing on the wrong thing. It's not about HER. It's about YOU.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:49 PM
1

I don't understand a lot of what you said but it seems, despite your efforts to be alpha, that she has you wrapped around her finger. I would NEVER go on a vacation with some random skank I have not fucked. That's WAY too much effort. You are setting yourself up for this shit.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:58 AM
12

You lost the moment you got butt hurt that she was dancing with other guys. First of all, if she's not your girlfriend why the fuck do you care? As others have said, she's a hoe. Now, that might sound like we're being mean or unfair towards her, but we don't mean it in a rude way. It's like saying a dog is a dog. You can't get mad at a dog for eating your steak that you left out on the counter. You were the one who made the mistake of trusting the dog to be alone and to not eat your steak. The d…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:25 AM
6

The only thing that this highlighted to me was rule #1 and rule #2. You do NOT talk about fight club.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 12:43 PM
26

Dude, just put the movie on. What the fuck. It takes 4 seconds. Then you have something to watch while she's blowing you.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:51 PM
3

Well, if you are certain there is no oneitis, and you're still gaming other women, then go for it big dog. I think the consensus here is to err on the side of caution that any "this one girl" posts are beta leaning. Is the juice worth the squeeze? Only you know.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:12 PM
14

You're responding to someone who doesn't have your self control. If they wrote this post it's obvious they don't have that kind of will power. The only answer here is 100% no contact. Move the fuck on
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:41 AM
1

I appreciate the perspective, but "just so we're clear" gramps, there was no pretending at any point. I don't have time to babysit. If you want to put up with nonsense to have a chance to fuck, I'm happy for you. I'm not there yet thankfully. Maybe in a few years after life beats me down a bit.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:18 AM
1

Sounds like you're doing everything right. Next level: actually have abundance. Start working on other plates. I don't blame you as I am very similar in that I rarely have time for more than 1 or 2 girls. The difference is that I am always "planting seeds", maintaining those leads, and actively keeping old plates within a phone call. Faking it works, but real abundance is bulletproof.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:22 PM
2

Do exactly what you are planning. Make yourself scarce. Do NOT let her know that you are doing this. She WILL ask you "is everything ok?" "Is something wrong?".. As much as your inner bitch wants to tell her that you're mad at her for X Y Z reason, under no circumstances will you talk about your feelings. "Been busy, what's up?" Should be your go to.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:00 PM
5

Haha. Just fade away into the night. Work on yourself. In 6 months when she wonders what happened to you, you'll have put on 15 lbs of muscle, right?!?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:55 PM
1

Nice @ the milk line.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:47 PM
1

Sounds stupid if there is no reason for having a coat. Is it 90 degrees? If it's cold, why don't you have a coat already? I'm not saying it won't work but if the girl is the slightest bit aware, she's going to shit test you for this dumb ass line. Having to use the bathroom is way better. Make sure you actually use the bathroom, then distract her with something else like come back from the bathroom with two wine glasses already poured. YMMV. If you know the chick is ready to go, sneak attack her…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:45 PM
4

Normally, we get together on Fridays and have sex Don't let yourself get into this habit. Keep things fresh. Keep her guessing when she is going to see you next. And don't ever schedule anything while you are with her currently. Make her wait. Let her miss you. Almost every one of my plates has told me at one point or another some form of "sometimes I wonder if I will ever see you again" or "sometimes I think that today will be the last day I ever see you".
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:20 PM
2

Not terrible on your part. Don't initiate any kind of conversation about exclusiveness. Doesn't matter your angle. Assume she is fucking other people, and you should be fucking other people. If you are not, don't ever let her know that she is your only source of pussy...speaking of... don't ever give any of these bitches a rose...it makes you look like a pussy.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:18 PM
1

Cleanliness is next to godliness.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:01 PM
4

Have you ever heard the phrase "Never Wrestle with a Pig. You Both Get Dirty and the Pig Likes It". The same applies to arguing/yelling with women. Agree and amplify is best. Or a pressure flip. If she continues, ignore. If you can't ignore anymore, then a stern "that is enough" or "cut it out" should be enough. This only works if you use it infrequently. Don't take her so seriously all of the time. Be unaffected. ...Or, escalate and give her a rough fucking. She might appear to be upset about t…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:03 PM
3

Yup. He's hurt. He thought he was all big bad and alpha but he has oneitis big time. I've been there before, and of course it hurts a little bit. The key is to act unaffected. When this happens to me now I'm actually HAPPY for them if they go about things like an adult I.e. Not trying to throw it in my face.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 06:09 PM
2

Sounds butt hurt. Don't be afraid of a little competition. She doesn't owe you anything. Unless it's a date. That's a different story.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:46 PM
2

Nothing wrong with playing along, just make sure you use a condom and never under any circumstances nut inside of her. I don't care if she's on birth control, just finished snorting a 30 pack of Plan B and she's close to a stairwell that you can push her down for good measure. Never. Even with a condom.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:26 PM
8

Tried it last night. She responded with a chuckle and "I'm just your little fuck toy aren't I?"... I waited a sec until my cock was deep inside her again and responded with a rhetorical "and you love it don't you" ..... SPLOOSH indeed
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 06:18 PM
2

No. My degree is from a well known/respected university in my region, but looking at it from entire US it's not that popular. It's not necessary to have a top tier degree if you stay in a specific region and the school you go to is big in that region (assuming that the school is well known for your field- locally).
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 06:09 PM
1

24 I was going through a rough patch. Had recently broken up with my gf. She worshipped me at first. I ended up breaking up with her because she was being annoying, but we kept seeing each other periodically. I had other chicks on the side, but I turned into a bp faggot when I suspected that she was seeing someone else too. I did some cringeworthy shit like hack into her email, etc to spy on her. This went on for a few weeks until I finally found concrete evidence. She was sending this guy nudes…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:30 PM
2

6 in looks is good enough if you have everything else. Focus on building strong frame. As a doctor you're prime target for gold diggers. You'll probably have good success with women just from that and your height, but if you have zero frame these chicks are going to eat you alive.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:12 PM
2

This goes to show it's so rare to have it ALL. I think the important thing to remember is all of those "stats" likely were built up over time. People get so focused on the end result that they are intimidated by the process of improving. Like the old saying goes, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step". Regarding your situation specifically, if you're not happy you're not doing yourself or your gf any favors by keeping up the status quo. Either dump her or start helping her get…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:07 PM
5

Forget spinning plates. Need to start spinning hamburgers,
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:59 PM
3

Highly recommend looking into nonprofit organizations that align with something you are passionate about. Not only do you get to do something you enjoy, you meet others who feel similar. I've met many women this way, and a fair amount of good male friends as well. Depending on the cause you're likely to find a lot of the people are hardcore liberals, so it's tough to sit through a lot of the bullshit conversations, but I'm in a major U.S. city so pretty much everyone is liberal. Good luck out th…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 09:45 PM
4

Not exactly, but close. We work with investment bankers all the time. I worked at one of the big national consulting firms for a while, and then one day a head-hunter found me on linkedin and made me an offer I couldn't refuse to come work on the "client-side".
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 08:01 PM
6

Translation: I was tall and hot I'm still tall. I'm still hot. But that has nothing to do with why you're failing.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 08:35 PM
1

Smells like oneitis. Fuck 6 new girls and report back.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:54 PM
3

You cleaning up on Tinder or something? That's a ton of vagina. Actually about 7 tons assuming ~135lbs/vagina.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 07:34 PM
21

Just a state of mind I guess. Experience helps too. When you've been with enough girls, you develop a 6th sense that when you say "X" it's most likely going to elicit "Y" response from her. So sometimes I'm already thinking of my reply before she even reacts to my initial action/words. Slightly off topic, but one of the biggest reasons for my IDGAF frame is my relationships with my close guy friends. We all bust each others balls CONSTANTLY. If you didn't know any better, you'd think we hate eac…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 07:11 PM
8

2 of those excuses are direct results of personal choices (chubby, low income). Another 1 you can fix with little/no money or time ($1 razor to shave your head). If the remaining 2 excuses keep you warm at night, then hang on to them. It's your life to waste, not mine.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:54 PM
8

Anger phase is real. I was there too at one point. I still get full of rage when I see bullshit in the real world, but I take the internet storytelling with a grain of salt. No one ever tells the full story. Guy's wife might have cheated on him and took all his money, but he won't tell you about how many times his wife was horny and he didn't fuck her like she wanted because he was "too tired" or wanted to play video games instead. Some women can be downright evil. I've seen them myself. But mor…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:42 PM
34

Eh, I literally just do what I want/what I like. Mechanically that usually involves moving them around a ton, keeping things new/interesting, but the biggest thing for me is not taking it so serious. Keep it light/playful. You know how they say you're not supposed to act worried when a kid falls down and scrapes their knee? The kid is looking at you for how they should react. If you look concerned and "baby them" they are going to cry, right? It's the same exact thing when you're having sex with…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:54 PM
9

Keep it light & playful. You'll live longer.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:37 PM
12

Finance world. Worked in consulting for a few years. I struggled in my career at first, but I've done really well for myself as of the last 4-5 years. Coincidentally, my career and dating life progressed in a pretty tight correlation (and exponentially). A big part of that was being more assertive, asking for what I thought I deserved, and also a lot of luck/being in the right place at the right time when an opportunity presented itself. I definitely "took advantage" of a few difficult situation…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:29 PM
7

I'm really bad with comfort tests man. If you read some of my older posts on AskTRP you'll see this is something that I've struggled with. I've very narcissistic, and I used to do a lot of dumb blue pill stuff. I've gotten better but at first I think I swung a little bit too far towards being a dickhead. I had some good FWBs through the years that I probably could have sprinkled some beta in to maintain them, but alas, I did not. 100% "Alpha" is not the right answer I've learned. Good experience…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:25 PM
8

Social proof is really huge and a big part of my game. Probably 50-60% of my lays are through introductions and friends of friends. I've got a bit of a "ladies man" reputation in my circle. It's not uncommon for me to be at a gathering where I've slept with multiple women- and everyone knows it. Girls usually "break up" with me when I don't commit. I usually let them down as softly as possible, so while they may be hurt at first, things remain very amicable. Sometimes they come back, othertimes …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:21 PM
7

I wouldn't say that my personality is "larger than life" by any means. I'm actually more of dark and mysterious type. I was really shy when I was younger. My success with women is more based on frame and IDGAF attitude. Even when I was not as successful with women, people THOUGHT that I was because I'm attractive and I never let them hold power over me. Basically I faked it until I "made it".
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:15 PM
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I will take all 100% of your recommendations into account the next time I decide to post, and I look forward to reading more of your contributions to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:34 AM
32

You can't change your height, but you can change your mindset, little brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:41 AM
13

To be honest, I have no idea. I think she is mid 20s , maybe 25-27? She works in a STEM field. I think she makes decent money too- probably 60-70K if I had to guess.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:21 AM
14

Not really. I am very private with my life for the most part. People ask questions and things come up always but I don't really share unless asked, and only with my closest guy friends.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:18 AM
84

I work in a very specialized technical finance field. Think consulting and hedge fund/private equity industry. Big portion of income is bonus/equity (e.g. stock options) based. Highly recommend the asset management industry if you can get in.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 01:48 AM
37

Practice makes perfect. I've fucked up plenty of times. Looking back at my younger years (20-25), I'm so surprised that I had as much success with women as I did. It was just dumb luck and being so busy with my life that it instills passive dread on chicks. I have had more than a handful of chicks say that I'm "so mysterious". Anyways, this shit isn't rocket science once you know the basics. I realize being good looking gives me a huge advantage, but its more about having a solid frame and fight…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 12:48 AM
5

You underestimate how much attention chubby/fat bitches get from beta males.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 10:07 PM
1

Lost it at the beep boop. "You don't have an InstaSnapFace? Wow what a weirdo!"
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 10:06 PM
5

To a certain extent. Giving a girl mind blowing orgasms will have her coming back for more, until you fuck it up so much that she can't take it anymore, or until the next guy comes and fucks her as good or better.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 09:56 PM
7

If you fuck a girl well, this gives you plenty of leeway in the other areas. Think of it like money. Money doesn't give you all of the answers, but it gives you options.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 09:55 PM
4

Money = options. It's not necessary, but it sure as hell makes things easier.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 05:09 PM
9

Do not intervene with domestic situations. Mind your own business.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:43 PM
1

If she says she's busy on that day, give her a second to finish her sentence. She might say "I'm busy Saturday.... But Sunday works". If she just says "I can't" wait like 1-2 sec and then say "ok , another time maybe" and that's it. Read the sidebar this is discussed in detail.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:06 PM
1

"Hey. We should do X on Y day. I'll pick you up/I'll meet you there (YOU PICK ONE, not her) at Z time." Keep it simple.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:42 PM
9

Definitely see a lawyer but the joint account thing is especially important bc she will for sure do that as soon as she suspects/knows you're dumping her ass. Better to have the money and be forced by a court to give it back then to ask a court to retrieve it for you. Could never get it or may take years.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:10 PM
3

Exactly. Which is why the old saying goes: "why would I buy the cow, when I can get the milk for free?" Most guys over pay for pussy.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:20 PM
13

"Is that all you are good for?"
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:33 AM
1

You mother fuckers need to shut the fuck up more
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:12 PM
1

If I had to guess your failures have more to do with your game/frame than anything else. You have an attractive face. That's half the battle. Focus on getting to a place where you know that you are the prize. That may mean more lifting, or it may mean reaching higher levels of success financially, or both. The good thing is you are aware and are hopefully doing things to improve. Good luck.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:44 PM
2

Ya, stay busy. When the time comes, make your move. There's nothing I like more than scratching that itch. When you see her in a few weeks or whatever, you can invite her to hang out and mention that you "have unfinished business to discuss" with a shit eating grin on your face. When you get her alone, escalate escalate escalate!
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:43 PM
2

All good man just play it cool. Turning down a woman is a high risk reward move though. She's either going to think you're a pussy/gay, or think you're the man. Time will tell. Dont hang out and turn into her gay bff. Just pull back and re engage once the "coast is clear". Make it about not "hurting his feelings" vs avoiding confrontation with your friend group.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:04 PM
3

Seems childish on his part. I personally don't give a fuck if my friends or acquaintances make moves on my ex. What does it matter? If you're a high value man you could have 100s of girls over the course of your life. Are you really expecting not to have a few eskimo brothers? The older you get the more youll see this shit doesn't matter. I personally don't like to go after girls that have fucked ppl I know, but it's personal preference, not bc I give a fuck what they think.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:53 PM
1

Focus on your future self. Go to school, get your work done, lift, and out you have extra time keep gaming girls. I have plenty of plates, a great job, and overall great life. But I would trade it all to be 17 and ability to "start over" with the knowledge I have now. Forget the girls, chase success.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:46 PM
8

"He got really lucky"... Stop putting pussy on the pedestal. You are the lucky one. You're lucky you didn't put a baby in that broad. You're lucky you have the rest of your life to become a better man than you are today. Don't waste that gift sulking on the past. Today you are the lucky one.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:40 PM
2

"You have a very strange way of flirting" .. .. "Are you always like this when you're horny?" .. .. And as others have said, "You're so cute" with a light pat on the top of her head is always a good one
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:32 PM
7

Its not about the request, it's about the intent. You have to use your judgment but if she says it just to make you her little bag boy, then no. But if there's a legitimate reason why (like in your story) then just hold the damn bag. Don't be a dummy. If she's doing it to be a pain in the ass or for no reason, an easy response is: "eh, it doesn't match my outfit" or something like that
/r/askTRP12/08/19 06:46 PM
0

What are you gaining by showing your hand? I prefer to appear to have an open mind so they share things with me. If they share something that I don't like, then I just use that to disqualify them. This is basic shit. If you make it obvious you hate sluts, she isn't going to not be slutty, she's just not going to tell you about it anymore.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 06:41 PM
148

Yup. That's how you do it. Was out and met two girls recently. We made our way over to the dance floor. Two guys were like creepily inching closer and it seemed like they were trying to "box me out" from the girls. Instead of grabbing the girls to try to "protect them", I forced the issue. I turned to the guys and said it loud enough so the girls can hear too.. "hey guys, you don't have to be scared, just go talk to them. They don't bite" and then I smiled at the girls. The guys lingered for a s…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:13 PM
1

Maybe you should talk to a doctor/therapist.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 05:06 AM
2

It's about timing and balance, my young padawan. Have you properly escalated via kino? Have you whispered in her ear a few sexual innuendos. Is she already dripping wet at the thought of you taking her home? Ok well if so then go for a quick make out. Pin her against the wall in a little walk way or secluded area, or when changing locations. Is she pressing in against you? Pull away a bit, make her come to you more. Literally push/pull. Then you have to be the one to let go. Put your hand on her…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 06:35 PM
1

Too much unnecessary drama added by going your suggested route. Better you fade out of existence than to crash and burn. Next time she wants to hang out, just say you're busy. She will get the hint after a while. You think you're doing her a favor by telling her all of this bullshit but in reality you're only doing this for yourself you relieve yourself of the mental burden of kicking this "friend"to the curb.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 06:05 PM
3

If you work in a highly technical field you should find a way to explain it to people (I.e. Not just women) in a way that they can comprehend. You're probably proud of what you do and you should be, but getting to detailed will either make them think you're a weirdo/nerd, or will make them feel stupid. Neither of which are good results for trying to get your dick wet. Tone it down, Einstein.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:45 PM
4

Keep telling yourself whatever you want buddy. Hope it works out for you. You seem insecure and uptight. "Sluts at a club"- some people God forbid want to go out and have fun, sounds like you went once or twice and those "sluts" weren't nice to you. I'm sorry. Stay at home with your princess, weed, and video games. A lot of my friends claim to be "happy" in their relationships too. But yet complain that their girlfriend doesn't suck their cock, or she complains when they want to hang with friend…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:30 PM
9

I agree. Guys that get into relationships early and experience that "heartache" will be stronger for it, and it's easier to recover when you're still in school with easy access to 100s or 1000s of new women.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:35 PM
49

Don't make the mistake that she "likes you too much". Enjoy the time you spend with her and be honest if she asks you what you're looking for. She an adult and can make decisions for herself. If she asks what you're looking for or some other "the talk"-esque question, just be honest with her. You'd be surprised how many girls are ok with keeping things casual.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 03:29 PM
2

It's fine. My plates usually move on in the same manner. You can't be mad at them. Just keep that IDGAF mentality. She will break up with her bf eventually and will come right back. They always do.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:00 PM
14

The only problem with this is, he probably doesn't know what he likes yet just because he hasn't tried enough options. If the only thing you ever ate was mac n cheese, I'm sure you'd love it and be happy with it every day. But have you tried fried chicken? Have you tried ribs? It's the same with women.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:57 PM
2

Dappered..com not only do they have good articles about clothing, but also tell you about sales and promotions. They have apartment style recommendations too. There is a lot of blue pill bullshit but if you ignore that it should be helpful.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 01:52 PM
1

Unless her mom is actually dead and you are 100% sure about that, then you're seriously over thinking this.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 09:21 PM
2

You reheat in sous vide or microwave?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 01:05 AM
2

You cook them or prep/freeze them then "cook" them again? What else do you do as sides?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 11:10 PM
1

Yup. "I'm gonna grab a condom" is usually forward enough to force the issue, if you aren't sure.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 08:00 PM
6

Does your boyfriend ever let you leave the house alone?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:15 PM
15

You seem to have a good grasp on this one at the moment, but you're going to fuck this up. I can already tell by the smell of oneitis. You don't know anything about this girl yet. She hasn't been "real" with you yet. It takes at least 6 months of them having sex with you you reveal their true nature. It's a green flag IMO that she cut you off while helping her ex get back on his feet, but if she chatted with you, she'll cheat on you. That's a red flag.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:08 PM
3

Find a place that is "cool". Take her there to "show her something 'cool ". ... Show her your dick
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:04 PM
0

You asked, I answered. He wants to see OPs face so he can say, "OP stop bragging, you only got laid because you're soOOOO DREAMY!"
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:22 PM
1

Be attractive Dont be unattractive He's just mad that he's ugly (rightfully so).
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:54 PM
3

In my experience, unless you did something to "cross the line" like punching someone or physically hurting people, most of the time ppl will laugh it off. "Haha Holy shit you were FUCKED up last night". Laugh it off with them if that's the case. This is generally not a problem unless you make it a habit. No one wants to hang out with ppl that can't handle their liquor. You may not think you have an "alcohol problem", but if you have recurring problems when you're drinking alcohol, its "alcohol p…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 12:40 AM
2

Exactly. If you can host, set your place up to be a easy crash spot for your friends. Sofa bed, blow up mattresses, extra pillows, etc. Not only is it good for building friendship, but if everyone is going back to your place, is a easy way to pull girls back from the party/bar/etc. "Hey everyone is coming back to my place to XYZ, you should join us". That, or just host stuff a lot and encourage ppl to bring their friends.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:09 AM
1

Playing devil's advocate here. How were people in the trades doing in 2009/2010 during the great recession? Trades are doing well right now because the economy is doing fantastic. I know plumbers and electricians who are so busy they have to turn down work. It's definitely a good career but if you wanted to work in the field the better bet is as an engineer or something. Trades ppl are a dime a dozen. Of course there are those few who are worth their weight in gold, but I feel like most of those…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 02:34 PM
3

Next time if she wants to change the venue just tell her that "No worries, we can try again another day." And that's it. Reschedule another day that is more convenient. You're setting yourself up for failure by entering her frame like you did. She doesn't respect you which is why she didn't care if she left you waiting. You did the right thing by leaving but could've avoided the whole thing all together. Would you make the same concessions for a fat ugly girl?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:32 PM
2

Some men would be perfectly happy with two/three/four different women who each fulfill a separate need. I am one of them.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:26 PM
1

If you didn't care you wouldn't be here asking us.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:23 PM
1

Wrong. You should always assume she is seeing someone else. Girls get offered dick more than you can imagine. If she's calling you late at night, that's a good sign, but don't get too comfortable/cocky.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:20 PM
2

Yea, OP strikes me as try hard. Maybe he is in anger phase, or hasn't fully digested TRP. OP, you should read up on being "outcome independent". Do you have other girls you're fucking? You sound butthurt in this post, I wouldn't be surprised if you came off the same way in person.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:12 PM
1

When you're 35 and still easily slaying 21y.os you won't mind
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:11 PM
1

My FWB started the same way. She actually commented something along the lines of "why do you trim your pubes so short, I like them longer" the first time we hooked up. I laughed, said "next time I'll braid em into dreadlocks for you" and shoved my dick into her mouth. She regularly complains about a certain position I put her in ("ugh. This again") and I just ignore it and bend her exactly how I want her and smack her ass hard if she's not complying. Then I fuck her hard and aggressive. Afterwar…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 07:58 PM
30

My hero. Keep on trucking, brother. Anyone who is talking shit about you eating her pussy is simp. Focus on what YOU want. Be BOLD.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:26 PM
3

Very true. Too many guys put up with shitty behavior. It's really a shame because it just makes it worse for everyone. Almost like a "prisoners dilemma" type of situation.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:18 PM
10

Options. This is the only real way. Or faking it. If you have 2 cars, are you going to let a mechanic rip you off by charging you double on some maintenance when you know it's a bad deal? Hell no. You just drive the other car until you can figure out another plan. If you only have one car and you need it to get to work tomorrow morning, you don't have a choice. You are at the mechanic's mercy.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:24 AM
1

"The only options are to forget about her, or pretend to forget about her until you actually do forget about her." https://youtu.be/tu-QjTNtDz8
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:05 PM
1

She is, i'm just trying to get out of this cycle I can't crack the code. Basically she gets bitchy, i soft next, she comes around, everthing is fine for one or two hang outs and then she gets bitchy again, commence soft next, rinse/repeat.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:07 PM
2

The thing is I've been kind of waiting for her to behave well again so I can show a little bit of beta but shes just either neutral or bitchy.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:03 PM
1

Not cancelling but instead she's saying "I'm busy X night. Can we do X +2 night?"... basically being less available.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:02 PM
2

Was on a date the other day and had a hard time getting some kino in due to the set up (my fault for not doing diligence on the place). The tables were too big and felt like I was 100 ft away from her. She asked me something and I was going to show her a pic. Instead of sliding the phone across the table, I got up and sat next to her. Showed her the pic, put my arm around her, started making out, and then low key grab her tits, etc. We were sort of secluded so it worked. We had already made out …
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:59 PM
1

This is the dumbest thing ever. That's like saying don't squat because is going to be hard. Just like any muscle, your bitch management skills need to be trained. No one ever gets better by skipping the hard shit. But hey, to each their own.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:59 PM
4

Legal repercussions and social are two different things. Your life is fucked if you get publicly accused of rape. Doesn't mean you're going to spend longer in jail than it takes to bail out.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:17 PM
3

I typically text girls the morning after or two days after on the first lay. But, a big reason for that is my frame is very IDGAF and girls often confuse that for disinterest. I prefer to dangle the beta carrot every so often just to keep them coming back for more. All of the above assuming of course that I do want to see her again.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:10 PM
5

I think there is some of that for sure but it's really not that difficult to do to potentially have at least 1 piece of evidence in your favor should the unthinkable occur. Think about it. You meet a girl at a bar or tinder or whatever. You guys go home together and fuck. 3-6 months later you get a police officer showing up at your door arresting you for rape. Obviously you are innocent until proven guilty (in most developed countries). But- you have nothing other than that presumption of innoce…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:07 PM
1

Don't let a little feminist talk scare you away. A lot of girls have been trained to say/act that way by society. Many of them don't actually want a lot of the shit the feminist "movement" calls for. They'd be much happier staying at home watching the children, etc.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:46 PM
10

This is that kind of shit that I love coming here for. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 11:48 PM
7

Hate to break it to you, but you have AIDS. Just kidding! Maybe. Relax dude. Unless you're going down on hookers you're probably fine. Use common sense. If it smells bad or looks bad (bumps, discharge, etc.) then get the fuck outta there. Otherwise, eat up, big dog!
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:36 PM
3

Jokes aside, you're over thinking it. Women who work with you or whos job requires them to be nice to you (waitresses, flight attendant, etc.) should not matter this much to you to even think twice about it.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:01 PM
10

Oh shit bro.. She took off her JACKET? You could've probably fucked her right there. Classic sign that you've reach Peak Alpha. Congratulations!
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:41 PM
3

Like what
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:25 PM
10

Pressure flip: "Is that all you're good for?"
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:25 PM
43

Could've done without the emoji
/r/askTRP17/04/19 11:35 PM
2

Fuck, this is good. I like the evil vs. weak comparison. Hits hard. Old ex kept crawling back over and over. I showed a tiny hole in my armor one day and that's the last I saw from her.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:41 PM
4

Exactly. It's all about setting expectations from the beginning. If you're running multiple girls and restrict PDA, there is so much plausible deniability that your options are almost unlimited. Not only that, if it feels "secretive", you can actually INCREASE tingles. Whisper in her ear how you're going to ravish her later, etc. Grab her waist when saying hi and see if shes wearing panties.. If she is, demand she go to the bathroom and take them off and put them in your pocket. In one instance,…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:00 PM
6

Without looking back
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:18 PM
8

Probably all in your head due to length of time since last fuck. Performance anxiety. It happens to a lot of ppl. Don't beat yourself up about it. You can still salvage this. Next time don't make such a big deal about it. If you want just acknowledge it,"hey not sure what's going on, this hasn't happened before" and just take it easy. Your life depends less on the things that happen to you, more on the way you react to them.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:15 PM
2

Invite her out anywhere close by. Act interested in her place. Ask questions. When you find something interesting, "you have a fish tank? oh that's so cool, you'll have to show me that! " .. Later in evening, "hey why don't we go check out your fish tank (or whatever stupid thing you think might work)! Ok, we can stop and get a bottle of wine on the way". This is called plausible deniability. Read about it. Everyone knows you don't give a shit about her fish tank, but then she doesn't feel like …
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:52 PM
3

This. You're entering her frame a bit by showing up. You're putting more effort than her. Depending on her personality she might try to strong arm you into stuff wth the fact that it's her place, her friends, etc. Think "well, if you don't like it, you're welcome you go back home". If you haven't fucked her yet, it's possible she brings you to a party and ends up fuckin some other dude. Are you going to get butt hurt if that happens? You shouldn't (you should just go find anther girl), but you s…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:36 PM
1

Why? If you think she's attractive and she is into you, why not just make a move. You're not responsible for her feelings. If you don't want to feel guilty about it just be honest with her that you're not looking for anything serious "right now". That last part is key. It leaves the slightest glimmer of hope that one day maybe, just maybe, you'll change your mind. That's all a girl needs to rationalize (hamster) in her mind why it's ok to fuck you with no strings attached (NSA) for the next few …
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:27 PM
1

It's good that you're recognizing these things. If this was social setting, I'd recommend being more aggressive/comedic with your response, but since its work related just show that you're not a pushover and that should be enough.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:34 AM
1

I don't know. Hard to tell. You could easily be over reacting. When ppl are new to TRP, they often tend to over compensate. If he's not my boss and it was clear he was being disrespectful, I probably would have had ignored him or gave him some side eye. Alternatively you could go with a pressure flip: ".. And what makes you think that?" with an amused look on your face. Look up some shit test example responses.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:23 AM
5

Don't be too quick to be snarky. Make sure you prove yourself first. But don't take shit from anyone either. It's a delicate balance. Walk with your head high, and try not to stutter when someone asks you a question.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:32 AM
1

Agreed. My response to "I'm on my period" is usually "... And? That's just extra lube"
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:18 AM
1

This. I don't usually spin more than 2 plates. I'm too busy for that shit. But, even if it's just 1 plate and she's acting up, I have no problem showing her the door bc I'm fine on my own.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:41 AM
1

GTFO
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:38 AM
1

No reason? May be on your period ay...
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:36 AM
1

Step one is realizing what your weakness/problem is. Step two is to do something about it. Sounds like you're on your way. Don't give up. One of the things I'm really bad at is being on time. I know it's a problem. I could be like a woman and pull the "if you don't love me at my worst" nonsense, but I'm not. It's a shit quality. I get so fucking mad at myself when I'm late. What I've done to try to help is make sure that I prepare for my day in advanced. Iron my clothes, lay everything out, make…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:29 AM
3

I love this place. Constant source of laughs. Now I understand why people have to put those disclaimers like "don't rape anyone".
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:23 AM
16

Who hurt you?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 11:50 PM
66

So, a bit more advice. This is GOLD, but before you start chucking this stuff out there in all of your conversations, make sure you calibrate to the situation. If you've worked in some kino and she's receptive and you think there might be some sexual tension, go for the sexual innuendo. Read about the "escalation ladder" if you haven't already. If you use this innuendo too early, it's like a waiter asking if you want dessert after you just finished your salad. Most people will be confused/annoye…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 07:43 PM
3

Yes. If she's interested and he's running interference, this is the exact move. Add a chuckle like if you're amused for extra effect.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:29 PM
5

Pull out and put it in her mouth. Effective and more fun.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:07 PM
2

No. 2 is huge. I'm an attractive dude, and if I ever have a bad first performance it's almost guaranteed she will shit test more, will "break" faster, and less likely to come back around.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 06:45 PM
2

You have to know your audience. Works most effectively on hotter women who have an obvious "flaw" (in their eyes). I've had some women get pissed and others laugh. "You know who this is".."I can't believe you talk to women that way", etc. Just hold frame. Warning, this will not work if it is not congruent wth your daily frame (cocky, "asshole").
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:22 PM
4

Women will crawl through a mile of broken glass on their hands and knees to suck Chad's dick. Become Chad.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:08 AM
66

More commonly 6-9 months for me. At that point they usually give me an ultimatum (shit test) which I laugh at but subsequently causes them to A.) Tell me they have a boyfriend the next time I text/call them B.) Tell me to delete their number (I don't- they always come back), C.) post to social media a couple days/weeks later with a picture of some beta schmuck who jumped into a relationship with her who she's "in love with", and D.) Proceed to text me late at night 3-6 months after said proclama…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:09 AM
1

This reeks of oneitis and you have too much free time. Be more productive instead of sitting around waiting for this chick to text you. One of those things keeping you busy should be gaming other women.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:03 PM
1

Tips on where to procure said restraints?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:56 PM
4

I'm in my early 30s. Every single girl I've had a LTR with, when I look back now, I'm thankfully it ended. My life has done nothing but improve year after year. She did you a favor. Go fuck vajeen like your life depends on it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:26 AM
1

Not a problem. Just make sure you address any issues you may have with him right away to avoid him getting comfortable. If he is messy, you gotta handle that shit ASAP. Chicks will infer that you are dirty if the main areas are dirty, even if it wasn't your fault. I have a roommate and I'm similar age. We barely see each other and girls often comment that he's imaginary friend bc they have been to my place 10+ times before even seeing him. Encourage him to be active and out of the house as much …
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:17 PM
1

I'm in the same boat. It's fun to do the dance with them. Those girls polish your game to the next level. It is exhausting, and I usually get bored of the nonsense, but man is it fun at first.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:36 AM
3

I doubt they can handle the chicken nuggets. Let's be realistic.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 07:49 AM
2

Leave the defeatist attitude out of this sub. This guy clearly fucked up in one way or another, but you're suggesting that guys have to accept mediocrity. No fucking way. If I happened get my jollys off by dressing up like a god dam rhino and banging chicks with my horn, you can count on a lot of chicks nope-ing the fuck out. Does that mean I should give up on my fantasy? Fuck no. You just find a chick who likes to be rhino fucked, or one who likes you so much she will do whatever sick perversio…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:00 AM
-1

Don't shame the guy for wanting sex. What kind of shit is that? Look, I don't think he's gone about this correctly either, but him wanting sex at night and then again in the morning isn't that unusual. Last night I fucked this chick twice, and twice again in the morning. Just because YOUR libido isn't high, doesn't mean no one else should. It may be that they are incompatible, or maybe he just fucked it up with weak frame. I've had girls claim to not give blowjobs but then after getting her so w…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 05:50 AM
10

Keep on keeping on, bro
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:03 PM
1

Exactly. Make up literally any excuse to get them to come over when you know you'll have place to yourself. Then escalate. Just be sure you're careful given current "#MeToo" movement. For inexperienced chicks, especially virgins, you will have to be good at reading their body language for signs that they are uncomfortable. They might not say "no" or give you any verbal push back. Take your time, and if you think she's not into it for some reason, fuckin pull back and start again with making out,…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:49 AM
2

This. You can't be the one to push for it. Just let it happen naturally. She will give you her commitment, you decide if you want to give her yours when the time is right.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:46 AM
2

You decide what you will and will not tolerate. It's that simple. No one can tell you where that line is. The important part is to understand your boundaries, and not bend when someone pushes your limits. That's what "having a backbone" is.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:43 AM
3

Im in complete awe. I've been using reddit for a long time, and I have NEVER given this many upvotes in one thread. Holy fuck this made my day lol
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:56 PM
2

Don't follow her like a lost puppy. Make her chase you. Most importantly, when she is with you, ESCALATE. If ultimately rejects you, then at least you know where you stand. Then you don't waste your time with her and can change your focus. Fake abundance until you actually have it. Hit the sidebar and the weight pile. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:01 PM
5

You might act like it didn't hurt you, but her not being there when you showed up made you salty. You wouldn't be in that position if you were LEADING her. She knows she has you wrapped around her finger so that's boring her.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:37 PM
1

Haha didn't read 99% of this nonsense. Your mom sure made a shitty investment by giving birth to you.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:24 PM
14

Gay men are 100x worse.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:18 PM
2

You must be attractive and she is interpreting your insecurity of not texting her as you "not being interested". You shouldn't be embarrassed about the whiskey dick. Don't keep making the same stupid mistake, get your shit together dude! But, seriously, it happens. Like most other things in life, its not about what happens to you that matters, it's how you react. She might even interpret it to be that you're not attracted to her. Don't beat yourself up, keep your head high even if your dick isn'…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:14 PM
2

Logistics... Pick literally any movie and tell her to come over to watch it, that you've been wanting to watch it for a while. Watch 2 mins of the movie then put your hand on her thigh. Work your way up to the vag. If she stops you, reset. Try again shortly after. If she declines the hangout just next her. She might bring up "you just want me to come over to have sex", if she says that, it's just a shit test. If you pass, you're in. If you fail, game over.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:09 PM
1

You're vomiting words. It's simple. Strength of average male> Strength of average female. A woman who's nerdy but lifts weights will easily beat up your average Joe. No fucking way. Your average incel neckbeard male who plays computer games and never lifts a single weight will still beat the living shit out of a 120-130 pound female who "lifts weights". You're delusional.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:14 PM
1

You're literally making the exact same point. If a woman needs a knife to equalize things, she is inherently inferior- physically.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 04:34 PM
1

It happens. I usually don't last super long the first time, but I always go for round 2. Round 2 is where I hook 'em. If the girl is not open to rd2, that usually fucks up my mojo. But, I'm a horny guy and like to fuck a lot so I just view that as them screening themselves out of my life. I don't want to waste time with a woman who is denying me sex in any form whatsoever on day 1. The only way to self improvement is to be brutally honest with yourself, and commit to spending the time on improvi…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:14 PM
3

Good chance that you're awful in bed. I've had poor performances with girls who were crazy about me that completely shift their attitude. Going from texting me immediately to barely responding.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:05 PM
1

I know a hand full of women that can kick some serious ass. However, the point is that if I pick a male and a female at random (no trannys allowed), the likelihood of the male winning in a fight would be ridiculously skewed towards the male winning.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:41 AM
1

Finger bang her and then stuff your fingers in her mouth/nose.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:37 AM
1

I'm just a few years younger than you, and as far as dating apps go, I've had a lot more success with younger women on Hinge and The League. They don't display the age as prominently on your profile. Generally you just have to own it though. There are chicks who really dig the older man vibe. Be a rock. She'll worship you.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:01 PM
4

Never were friends on social media. They request, but I never accept. Keeps things simpler.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 09:03 PM
1

clitoridian sex hahahahaha.... i laughed so hard I think I came....or maybe I peed myself. Not sure.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:38 PM
1

Have you smashed? "That's cute. I love make-up sex too."
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:32 PM
4

Agreed. Have had a few relatively young plates (23-25) which broke when they decided to LTR one of their orbiters. Most of them come back for more NSA sex after 1-2 years if you maintain frame (IDGAF).
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 06:24 PM
1

Haha, agreed. Thanks for the tip. I generally don't have confrontations like that with women anymore since I don't lead them on. I keep it light & sexual so they usually get the hint.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:38 PM
1

Ya, I definitely DNGAF about awkward. The only way it could backfire is if I were riding the elevator with co-workers and happened to have a "scorned" woman go off on me. I could probably diffuse that. My co-workers know I'm a single dude and the guys are generally jealous of my freedom, and the women try to set me up with their friends.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:00 PM
3

This 100%. Let her do her BF thing. When he fucks up (he will, either in reality or just in her mind), she will reach out. The most important thing is to play it cool like you don't care that she "left" you. In reality, you shouldn't care anyways. When my plates get a BF I'm happy for them. It's what they want ultimately and then we can separate on good terms. Better than things ending with a ultimatum.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:43 PM
1

You did fine. Next time: "you should meet me for X on Y date at Z time."
/r/askTRP26/12/18 04:41 PM
2

Sounds like you're on the right track. You're the prize. Don't forget that.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 06:44 PM
5

If logistics are good, invite her to chill. Don't take it personal man. I have girls that come in and out of my life periodically. I don't take offense to it as long as that are respectful. Most of the time they just fade and it turns out they got into a LTR with someone. They then break up and she comes back. I've got a "player" vibe, so girls usually think I'm just trying to fuck (I am). When they meet a softy they know they can lock down, it is usually very clear. They bring up the "where is …
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:32 AM
1

I appreciate the straight forward tone in this, but I think it's too serious. I personally prefer to keep things light/playful. When she's acting like a child, tease her like one. If she keeps it up, then maybe a stern talking to is in order, but not out of the gates, IMHO.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:20 AM
2

Are you afraid if your girlfriend? Did you actually call her fat? Do you feel sorry for what you said? I don't think you are. If you say sorry you are encouraging poor behavior. She is twisting your words. Just ignore it. She'll gives up eventually. If she gets upset next time you see her.. tease her like you would a child... "come here my little chunky monkey" and tickle her stomach/sides
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:16 AM
57

Didn't read any of this. It doesn't matter. She's now dead to you. Block on every form of communication. Let yourself be angry. Take that frustration out on the weights at the gym.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:07 AM
6

Focus on the reason why you think those other things are important. Set attainable goals, and reward yourself as you make progress. Read 50 pages then spend 10 minutes on the computer. Something like that. Work your way up.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:05 AM
5

Just pretend it didn't happen and move on. Don't over complicate things. You made it clear if she's fat you'll lose interest. She's been warned. Now just say Merry Christmas to her. And tell her to stay away from the cookies.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:03 AM
1

The Lion doesn't lose sleep over the opinion of sheep. It bothers you because you for some reason feel inferior. In that specific situation, you could have easily just made a potty joke. "Oh no, poor Billy was never potty trained, he's about to have an accident" or some other childish joke. The content doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is that you clearly show his temper tantrum doesn't bother you. Depending on the joke you can also make it seem like his social skills are not calibrate…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:27 AM
1

As others have mentioned, use more kino to build up to the kiss. Look up the "escalation ladder" for specifics. You made it clear that your frame is a sexual one, not here to be her "bestie", so good on you for that. Just watch out for looking butt hurt. There is a fine line. Brush it off and maintain a playful vibe. I personally would have backed off, withdraw a bit, literally make a bit more space between us (nothing drastic) and see if she tries to close that new distance. I'm talking a few i…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:20 AM
1

Never hurts to have access to other girls., and obviously the professional aspects
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:23 AM
1

Don't get there too late. You want to be there before 50% of people show up. If you know the host, even better. I'm usually the last one to show up when I know everyone at a party but I make effort to get there early if I know only 2 ppl or less. Just ask questions. "How do you know so and so" is a good opener if it's just one person alone. If small group, "How does everyone here know each other" If you're at the bar/fridge and someone is having trouble deciding which drink to get, make a sugges…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:55 AM
2

You're letting something so stupid eat you up inside. All of my best male friends call each other by the most demeaning garbage names. It's all in good fun. If this is the only thing that makes you question his friendship, then you either have to confront him or stop being so sensitive about it. It's very likely that him calling you a cunt is doing ZERO damage to you in the girls eyes, but the butthurt reaction you give is the reason why they lose interest. If your feelings get hurt from someone…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:38 AM
5

When I was younger (college) I would get a decent amount of girls even though I was pretty quiet/shy. I never really approached girls. They would come on to me, and I would get "you're so mysterious!" all the time. I also had more than 1 girl tell me "you're an idiot" because I wasn't picking up that she was throwing herself at me. Too often I would fuck it up, but every so often I'd shut up long enough to trick them into thinking I was this certain guy they had dreamed up in their head. I still…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:10 AM
1

Not enough info regarding the convo. Seems not interested. Soft next for 4-7 days and initiate convo again like nothing happened. Invite again. If she declines again next until she reaches out. If she never does, you got your answer.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:23 PM
1

A parent must protect a child from external dangers, but also must protect the child from itself. If you let a child have everything that it wants, it will likely poison itself with candy, television, etc..The same goes for your woman. She thinks that the location feature is a good idea but it's just another form of poison. It's going to eat her up from the inside. Do not bend.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 12:30 AM
1

You don't need to be that direct here. "Can't, made other plans" is enough. Too much words = you sound butt hurt.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:27 AM
1

Nothing says alpha like CTE
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:11 AM
1

Are you projecting your issues on me? Or did you just not read the post?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:09 AM
8

Regarding the Gatorade thing. I think you may be over thinking it, but it's probably in your best interest to correct for the past. With your bros (assuming you're friends with your roommates) I think you can just do whatever you feel normal about. The problem comes when you are doing stuff to "gain points" with peeps. For example, last month I offered to help a good friend of mine move. He has a pregnant wife, and no male family members that are able bodied. I know with 100% certainty that he w…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:57 AM
1

I've never had issues in these situations because I avoid PDA and always work the crowd as others have mentioned. You can even isolate one girl at any point in the night and sneak around maybe get a BJ or something in a closet then go back to being normal non PDA. Give her that look from across the room while you're talking to someone else like "oh you dirty girl, no one else knows, but I know what you just did"... Be fun, they'll love it.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:33 PM
5

Ye
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:36 AM
3

Lmao blow jibber. You fuckers make me laugh.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:56 AM
2

Plausible deniability is your friend. Arrange a meet up somewhere for reason X (this could be anything). Escalate. Profit.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:02 PM
17

She's trying to signal to you that she's a "catch". The guy obsessing about her story is her saying "hey look! I'm sexy! That's why that weirdo keeps staring". The ex-bf stuff is her signaling that "oh this guy had me, lost me, and now he misses me". Don't be surprised if she pushes for LTR soon. Read up on how to handle "the talk". Godspeed brother.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:57 PM
3

Crazy how no matter how much abundance you think you have, they can ALWAYS smell it.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:36 AM
2

Exactly. I've lived with plenty of women in my life but if you aren't careful it can work out terribly for you. If you guys fucked and her SMV is not at least 3+ pts above yours, be ready for major jealousy issues if she's lonely at any point and you're out there fuckin girls where she can see/hear/infer. She will ruin your shit so you can be miserable like her. This is as close to literally "shitting where you eat" as you can get. Or is it eating where you shit? Whatever, don't do it.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:34 AM
3

The right answer is that it shouldn't matter. However, for this specific interaction, it sounds like you're in her frame so I would advise as others have mentioned to opt out. I personally like to keep it simple rather than some "cute" response though. ​ In other cases, if that time is convenient for you what does it matter what she's doing afterwards. A girl will cancel her plans if she wants to keep hanging out with you. Similarly, if you meet at 9pm on a Friday, she could just as easily go ge…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:31 PM
6

She can do whatever she wants. And he should want to next her because of this action.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 06:07 PM
4

If you truly care about your friend, then you shouldn't care. Stop acting like a woman.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:15 PM
4

Had a LTR tell me somewhat "jokingly" that I should pay for her food/drinks/etc. more often. I laughed and then she brought up her friend/roommates Sally, Jessica, and Brittney who's boyfriends all pay for their stuff. We had plans that night so I asked her to reach out to her friends and see if one of their boyfriends would take her out to dinner instead so that my night would be free. This never came up again.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:31 PM
1

Besides the other obvious stuff, you need to do more leading, less following. Everything was initiated by her. She even fucked you- not the other way around.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:32 AM
2

Focus on what you CAN do. Lower body, abs, etc. And focus on your rehab once you're given clearance. I broke a leg a while back and kept a positive attitude about it. Went out to the bars with some friends and had high energy. You wouldn't believe how much attention our group received from girls. They were wondering who the crazy bastard was on the dance floor with a cast + crutches. I guarantee there were guys there who were jealous of ME, the guy with a broken leg! The thing is though, those s…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 06:36 PM
0

Well, sometimes her arms have bruises too. I honestly think it's the diabetes. Also- I may be a bit paranoid, but don't be so naive. You have plenty of examples in the media of people spinning things to fit the narrative they want.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 06:53 PM
5

Well, the thing is, she's just a plate, and it's going to break eventually. I do my best to let them break gently, but I don't want her having all these pictures of her body all bruised up in the event things go nuclear. You catch my drift?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 06:26 PM
6

OP, don't leave me hanging like that.. What did her breath smell/taste like?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:11 PM
1

Exactly. She is acting dumb. She knows why he doesn't want to meet with the gay friend but she's testing him. Ask stupid questions, get stupid answers.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:56 AM
1

Easier =/= better
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:25 PM
9

Have some fuckin respect for yourself dude. I say that as someone who has been through what you're thinking about doing.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:17 PM
18

If the party is as sick as you think it will be, just go alone. Don't bring sand to the beach. You'll have more fun not having to baby sit her.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:14 PM
1

I broke my leg a few years ago. My buddy was jealous when we went out bc I got all the attention. Everyone was wondering who the maniac on the dance floor was with the crutches and cast on his leg. Mind you, this was the middle of winter. I'm not the most outgoing guy, but I refuse to feel sorry for myself. You have a broken leg, but you still have legs at least. Life is what you make it, brother.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:09 PM
2

She works out a lot actually. One of those crossfit weirdos. Just a really sleepy one.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:55 AM
1

I get it if it's a special meeting or something unusual but if it is just a normal day that's pretty lame. Seems on the same level as a chick saying she doesn't want to have sex bc she has a headache, etc.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:49 AM
2

You could have just texted your roommate that you were leaving with Becky and ask him to buy you an hour or so. If you were sure Becky was DTF (it sounds like she was), then it shouldn't have been a problem. Girls only say that "I would never leave my bff at the club" bullshit when criticizing other chicks that left them behind. When they are the one chasing dick, it's always acceptable in their mind. Minimize the ASD by sneaking out, and normal rules about giving her a reason besides sex for wh…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:05 PM
1

Accurate emphasis on Isolate, because you (OP) failed at that point. Your bro could've helped you out, but it's ultimately your responsibility to make it happen. Send the cockblock to go pick up a pizza for you guys, make drinks, whatever. Keep her busy. Bring Becky to your room and make a move. Once the door is closed, Sally would have to be a huge cunt to interrupt.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:00 PM
1

You shouldn't even say the word "plate" in real life unless you are talking about a broad, concave, but mainly flat vessel on which food can be served.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:47 PM
5

Sounds like you were following her like a lost puppy. Remember to LEAD. "Come with me- there is a shortcut/better view/whatever this way". As you get more experience with women you'll see they generally have no idea what they want. They want you to tell them what to do. Be decisive. This applies to almost everything. From what activity you will be doing, to what you order at a restaurant/bar. Do this with your friends, family, etc. Practice being assertive. Lead the group. Lead your life.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:12 PM
3

She cheated on you, she will cheat on him. Why are you jealous of some beta loser who is on a highspeed train to cuckville.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:02 PM
1

I definitely understood all of that, and I appreciate the genuine response from you and a few others. I gotta try a condom variety pack or something man, cuz the ones I've bought are all horrible. Ironically, the ones she had weren't that bad.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:30 PM
1

So what did you do after her suggestion of wearing a condom?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:13 PM
1

How old were you when you got a vasectomy. Never plan to have kids or did you preserve some of your soldiers?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:13 PM
1

Any recommendations?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:16 PM
0

No death grip. I used condoms my whole life until LTR. Almost impossible to go back.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:04 PM
-35

Easy now, Einstein. She's on the pill and my pull out game is phenomenal. Not saying it's fool proof, and yes she could be lying about the pill, but my concern isn't kids. STDs, I see the argument.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:30 PM
1

That isn't something I thought of. Thanks for the fresh POV. I didn't get that vibe from her as a "friend" (coworker), but didn't notice anything in our few interactions. I'll have to think back through things
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:47 AM
1

I know you're being facetious, but for clarity, I've done nothing to make her feel special. Including nonchalantly jerking off on her when it was clear there was gonna be no sex. She started it, I finished the job.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:06 AM
1

I'm thinking you just keep ignoring her. The other thing that worries me is if we finally do fuck that she's gonna #metoo me.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:03 PM
2

I know, which is why I haven't called her back. I admittedly am in a bit of a dry spell (only 1 plate) so- bad or not- I could use the sex.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:57 PM
1

The old arm tickle... 60% of the time it works every time
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:48 PM
2

Lmao... Not changing it screw it
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:47 PM
1

I think once he clears that first hurdle (kissing) the rest of it should be easier. The point is to get the ball rolling that's all.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 01:33 PM
1

Smells like oneitis. Why do you have so much time to stalk her on snapchat. Go fuck another girl and be the guy she cancels plans for.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:59 AM
3

Isolate somehow. Offer to drive to pick up the pizza instead of delivery. Tell her to come with. Go make poocorn in the kitchen. Grab her by the hand and duck into the closet. Or any other idea they isolates you two.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:53 AM
1

"Hopefully he tipped you well so you can buy daddy (You) something nice"
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:51 AM
4

This won't work unless you actually do attract her, but it's the best strategy to employ. No matter how well you think you're doing (unless she's grabbing your cock maybe) you have to leave on a high note. Leave her wanting more. If you want to be a real mother fucker, get her worked up with sex talk, build the tension, and then fake like you're going in for a kiss and then whisper in her ear "it's a shame I have to go" or something like that. Good luck. Keep your head high no matter what happen…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:42 AM
1

She's easily HB8, what I'm saying is she FEELS lower.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 07:58 PM
1

She actually said something along those lines. And stuff like "most guys are nonstop complimenting me-you haven't even so much as acknowledged that you're attracted to me". Mind you this is after we've already made out. Bitches are crazy dude.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:50 PM
1

Yea she contacted me the day after saying she wants to make it up to me. Been busy but planning on inviting her over and having her grab some take out
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:37 PM
2

Yea you're probably right. Any tips on how to get better in that area?
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:33 PM
1

It's good you recognize your oneitis. Step one to curing it. The thing is, there is nothing for you to do. Just keep doing what you're doing. You live 5 hrs away from this chick. Let her do her thing too. If you're in town and wanna see her, text her to meet up. All plates eventually break. At least you enjoyed it. That's why they say "always fuck them good and hard like it's the last time ever" bc you never know when it's over.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:53 PM
2

This is the right answer. Most high value guys are just like you. They want to have a good time. Figure out what they like, and invite them to experience it with you. If they throw a party and invite you, bring booze/drugs(if that's your thing) and hot young women. If they like sports- invite them to play or see a game. I feel like you're pedestalizing them like a hot chick. Remember, those "high value" guys half the time are big time pussy beta fags half the time. Don't psyche yourself out thin…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 02:46 PM
1

This seems like a winner. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:53 AM
2

If you want help you need to give more details. What reason would they have to want to set you up?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 10:49 PM
2

Sooo...do you want to kidnap her? If so I'd start by tracking her location based on her recent snaps. Before anyone can answer your question, you should explain what your goal is.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 10:44 PM
1

Yea I've also occasionally just ignore the question and move my cock towards her face so she gets the hint, or flip her around if I want to doggy, etc.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 07:43 PM
7

Do I have to take off my fedora too?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:01 PM
2

I get that. Like I said, I've had mixed results so looking for other options. Feels kind of autistic saying "I want to shove my cock down your throat" but I've also had a girl literally shove it down her throat as hard as she could.. Sooooooo seems worth the gamble. I think maybe some of them could've just been hinting that they're ready for sex, others literally just wanted me to tell them what to do.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:59 PM
1

"There's the rub.." Watch this... https://youtu.be/tu-QjTNtDz8
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:12 PM
3

He might get that "can I suck you off" text, but only after he nexts her.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 10:59 PM
43

Exactly. Had a plate ask me out of the blue while we were laying in bed.. Her: "are you fucking other women" Me: something along the lines of "... at this exact moment? no obviously".. Her: "cmon seriously" Me: "yes, I am fucking other women.. why?" Her: "Do you use condoms?" Me: "three.. and one for each of my balls". She slapped my shoulder, laughed, said something along the lines of "you're ridiculous".. and then nuzzled up next to me. You don't need to lie, just keep the IDGAF attitude.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 11:31 PM
1

You have to make changes to your life and expect that it will take a while to see those changes materialize. Read the sidebar on /r/TheRedPill/ ... When you're done, read it again. After that read all the recommended books (no more Mr. nice guy, how to win friends and influence people, etc.). LIFT! When you think you're lifting enough, lift more. Start talking to everyone you see on the street. Male, female, old, young, it doesn't matter. Get comfortable with awkwardness. Get comfortable with si…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:32 PM
2

backwards?
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:57 PM
1

That's some borderline autistic shit, but if that's your "thing" then tell her no. If she pushes the boundaries then fuckin ghost her ass. Either that or stop being a fuckin weirdo and kiss her. Choice A: Fart in her mouth next time she kisses you and ghost her. If she breaks your rules and you keep seeing her you're the bitch. Choice B: stop being a fuckin weirdo.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 03:26 PM
1

here's another good one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_cbZwR717Y
/r/askTRP02/09/17 07:30 PM
1

At school its so much easier actually. There is always plausible deniability as long as you can read social cues. Invite girls to do stuff with you. Like i said before you should work on your hobbies and as is said around here "Live a cool life". If you're going rock climbing, then invite a girl (assuming you've already - you know - talked to her before this invitation). If she comes, that doesn't mean she wants to suck your cock, but it doesn't mean she DOESN'T either. Only one way to find out …
/r/askTRP02/09/17 07:14 PM
1

Does that make sense though? So many times when I meet "beta" guys I think "man, if you were in my circle of friends we would eat you alive" from the things they wear to the things they say/do. Men do a lot of stupid shit bc of scarcity mentality and pedestalizing women. "Happy wife happy life" type shit. "She wanted to wear matching outfits so I'm wearing this clown shirt" .. Grow a backbone dude. I'm not saying don't so something bc your friend might make fun of you, I'm saying that if you wea…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 06:11 PM
1

busting balls = trash talking = making fun of each other For example- if your buddy is wearing something ridiculous- make fun of him. You are toughening him up. So when he goes up to talk to some girl and she makes fun of him, he doesn't give a shit because he has you pricks making fun of him all the time. What the hell are you wearing?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:25 PM
1

Keep focusing on school and lifting. Look for the hot nerdy girls or at least with nice body. Read as much TRP theory as you can and add some cool hobbies. Guitar, rock climbing, sports, etc. Those will help any social anxiety bc you'll instantly have something to talk about. Agree on above poster re: No More Mr. Nice Guy.. Good book for you to read. Patrice Oneal Black Philip Show on YouTube is great too. Once you learn to take women off that pedestal society placed them on, you'll start to hav…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 03:06 PM
2

All girls will get like that if you do your job as a man correctly. Not your problem. I tend to be more honest re: my "intentions" than most guys, because if a girl wants to settle down/get married/etc. I don't feel like I should string her along. You have to make that decision for yourself though.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:59 PM
1

Lol at Megatron. That's the right frame. Deal with it, and laugh it off as much as possible. Don't let it control/devour you.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:58 PM
1

This is a simple example You: "I'm on my way over" Girl: "I'm making food- are you going to be hungry?" You: "I've been hungry for you all day" You get it? She was talking about food, completely non-sexual. You sexualized it. Her: "*sends picture of sister doing some stupid splits move*" You: "hmm.. does that flexibility run in the family?" It's not rocket science really- just take normal conversations and turn them sexual.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:26 AM
1

Dude- first of all, that really sucks and I understand how you might be feeling like shit because of it. I had a debilitating injury a while ago. It was lower body so couldn't even leave the house without a hassle. The one piece of advice I can give you is you need to find something productive to do with your time. Even if you have to stay home, read, exercise your mind. Find something that you enjoy doing. Guitar, painting, modelling, etc. Second of all- if you are feeling depressed- DO NOT tal…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:06 AM
3

I usually go with "we should", but yes I agree it sounds more suggestive than demanding. But either way I think she's just a bitter hag.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:47 PM
2

Ask yourself this question. When you text her to "meet you at X", did you mean it disrespectful? Were your intentions to belittle her? It's not your fault that she walks around with a chip on her shoulder because she is a woman. You should not apologize for that. Would you get mad if one of your guy friends texted that to you? Exactly. Reminds me of a girl I went on a date with. I asked her on our 1st date if she could pick up something on her way over. "Hey can you stop and grab X before you ge…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:45 PM
6

Sidebar obviously, but look just keep things simple. Do NOT bring up the fact that you guys fucked. Just play it cool like you fuck girls all the time. Do you make a big deal when you eat lunch with a girl? I sure fucking hope not. So treat this the same way. Now, if she brings it up and she wants to know "what your intentions are", just relax and say something along the lines of "I'm just looking to have some fun, you seem like a fun girl" or something to that effect. You want to give off the v…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:30 PM
1

Oh I agree 100%. Thats why I thought about saying that to her as opposed to A) she thinks I'm an idiot for not asking her out B) She thinks I'm not interested... like you said shes going to lose interest if I DONT say anything, so I figure if I do say something it wouldn't hurt me by any stretch, and mayyyy help. Thanks for reply
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:20 PM
1

Are you saying by me telling her "I'm busy for two weeks but we should hang out after" or something to that effect would come across as coming from a position of scarcity?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:12 PM
2

This this this.... She wanted to "hang out" as in have your balls in her mouth. Any time I've ever went "out" with a girl that I've already fucked and I'm alone with her, it doesn't take long before we go home to fuck some more. Sure if there is a group and I want to see my other friends I'll hang for a bit, but why do you need to be in the bar at that point if you're already making out and feeling her up? Take her home and fuck her.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 05:14 AM
1

Podcasts. Audiobooks.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 05:07 AM
6

Other guys nailed it. If she's locked in then go fuck her stop dicking around on text. But other than that- I've always had success being subtle about it. Never direct. Just be sexual.. be fun. Easier after you've already fucked her though. Example- I got new bed sheets so I sent a plate who was coming over the next day a picture of them on the bed with the caption "looking forward to getting these dirty with you" or something like that. She responded with a mirror pic of her ass saying "what do…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:10 AM
2

She's def. cute, and a blue-er man would fall for her tricks, but I see right through her. She played the innocent card very well- trying to pull the wool over my eyes- but after a few drinks and getting her undressed (both mentally and physically) all kinds of red flags started flying. From daddy issues to drug abuse in her younger years all revealed after one lay.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:45 AM
1

What's your threshold for ghosting? Last chick that pushed hard and overtly like that (after 3 months), almost ultimatum like I just said "cool well it fun while it lasted" and ghosted, she came crawling back 2 weeks later. But that was very confrontational. This is more subtle, so ghosting seems kind of butt hurt. I think of it persists I may consider it though. I think I just need to get her in the sack again. First time was good but not my best. Feel like the first time is always the worst th…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 02:09 AM
1

Yea, I am very honest about that always. I'm not against settling down, but not at this moment. I don't bring it up until they do of course.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 02:03 AM
2

Fake it till you make it, my man
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:12 PM
2

Yea, that might work since social circle is lacking. What about joining a club/meetup.com group for beach volleyball or some other activity? You could always just go to the beach and tell people you're a tourist and want to have your pic taken? Doesn't have to be "with" people, as long as it looks like you're doing an activity instead of staged
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:00 PM
1

To be honest, the pic looks a little try hard. Try an action shot (do you play sports?), or beach/tank-top, where its more natural.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:48 PM
1

Yea I'm fine with not being the center of attention. That's not me. But I feel like if I did want to sleep with the HB6 at the end of the night I wouldn't really know what to do. I guess I could have offered to walk her home (it was late and she lived nearby) and this way if AMOG tried to tag along it would be weird/awkward of him. She could also accept/deny the offer which gives me/her plausible deniability to each other and the AMOG since he is in her friend group (ASD).
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:49 PM
9

Its unfortunate that you have to go through this awakening due to having the rug pulled out from under you. The truth of the matter is that for 95% of us here that is exactly how we came to that realization- through pain and suffering. Some experience it early in the teenage years, others not until later in life. The good news is that you now know that the fantasy that you've been sold is a lie. It's up to you to put in the hard work to make sure you don't make the same mistakes over again next …
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:14 PM
4

Let her think you might flake. Don't text her until about an hour and half before and say something like "hey running behind, will be a few minutes late"...this way she wonders anxiously if you forgot about your meet up plans. Where are you meeting?
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:04 AM
1

This is the key. For new women, own that shit and they won't know the difference. For those who already dropped you into the beta bucket, it is in uphill battle that I wouldn't bother trying to win. Keep your new confidence with them if it is genuine, but don't expect them to buy it.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:49 PM
1

Been there before. We fucked for about 5 monhts then I ended up slowly fading away. Less contact over time (course of 4-6 months). I went on vacation for two weeks and didn't contact her much if at all and that was the end of it. No one said anything at all really. We were a secret, and always kept things on the low so it wasn't much of a change around the office. I think she knew and just got a new boytoy.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:47 PM
2

RKO that bitch and fart in her face while she's laying on the ground next time.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:40 PM
1

10-4 captain. Thanks for the insight. I really don't care abt the other guy(s). Like I said, I'm just not experienced in this area so looking for some tips. Much appreciated. Cheers
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:37 PM
2

Saved. Thanks for the tip!
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:34 PM
2

They have flavored vibrators now? What a time to be alive
/r/askTRP25/07/17 12:59 PM
13

So no-go on vibrator up my ass while she's blowing me?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:27 AM
1

This. Moist feels, mostly. Sex. Its the single easiest way to hook a woman. Make her feel amazing in bed and you can almost do whatever you want outside of the bedroom and she'll keep coming back.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 05:45 PM
1

Why would you cancel? You're going anyways with other friends right? Just forget about her and stop contacting her. If she comes, cool.if not, you're going to have a great time anyways, right?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:09 PM
1

I can see how ignoring it would be a good move. However, I don't think she was doing it it to cause any problems/drama per say. I certainly didn't take it that way. She seemed sincere in that she wanted me to know she is trying to respect "whatever it is that we have" in her own little way.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:55 AM
1

She def. wants more than I'm giving. She tried to walk once about a month or two into it. I called her bluff and said "ok" and she came crawling back. I'm giving it about another month before an "event" like that happens again.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:47 PM
1

Yea, I didn't recognize the dread game aspect. Thanks for pointing that out. It honestly had 0 effect on me.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:45 PM
1

I'm not saying its wrong to be upset. I'm saying you're overreacting by blocking her and then posting about it here. But if you know seeing her on FB would piss you off in 3 days or a week then sure, block her. I personally wouldn't give a fuck bc I can cut people out of my life at the drop of a dime. Thicker skin would help in your case.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:26 PM
1

Who cares? If you don't want to talk to her anymore then block her. Weird that you're getting so butthurt over this though.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:20 PM
2

Just keep it up. With porn you likely trained yourself to cum as fast as possible. Takes time to re-wire your brain. Like months to years, not just a couple days. As others mentioned, don't be apologetic at all no matter how fast you cum. Focus on the girl and get ready for round 2.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:44 PM
2

Kind of hard to follow that exchange. However, if you propose a day to meet with her, and she just says she's busy or "no", then she probably isn't interested. Normally if she is interested, she will be apologetic about not being available that day and then offer an alternative day that works for her. If she doesn't offer an alternative, I typically just soft next and then wait for her to reach out to me next. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Either way its a win win for you.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:26 PM
1

60 days? Wtf? Burn that book and forget you ever read it. Reread the sidebar ------>
/r/askTRP16/07/17 05:41 PM
1

If you know her from class its probably fine. Just introduce her as "a friend". After all, that's what she is. Have fun, try to isolate her a bit after a while. Dance, be awesome. Why not try to leave with her, fuck at your place (or at least try to), and come back to join your friends later? Male/Female relationships should be you trying to fuck her, and her trying to get you to commit. It's normal for you to want/try to fuck her. She is the "gatekeeper" to sex. A man should be wary of a female…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 05:26 PM
2

The point about fucking on first date is that YOU should be aiming to fuck her. If SHE is worthy of LTR she probably won't let you. I screen for general craziness. I don't want crazy bitches interacting with my friends. Partly for my privacy (don't want crazy bitches knowing anything about me), but also to shelter my friends/ppl I care about from having to deal with that. Crazy girls will do stuff like buddy up with your girl friends and add them on Facebook/trade numbers within minutes of meeti…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 05:05 PM
1

I don't know, I don't like to bring girls around my social circle until after I've screened them. Not necessarily a bad idea, but if you're not trying to fuck her what's the point? Just reschedule for another day and have fun at the concert without her.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 04:01 PM
4

My philosophy is if a chick isn't grabbing my cock with the hungry of an Ethiopian child staring at a steak, trying to stuff it into one of her holes as fast as possible, then I didn't do my job with everything leading up to "the moment". Usually she is the one stuffing it in her vag. Maybe I'm the one who's getting raped.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 08:17 PM
1

Darth Vader mask... It helps you breathe better at night. Stays strapped to your face.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 08:11 PM
1

Is this something new? I've never heard of it.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:08 PM
4

Follow-up: While I don't hesitate to call someone out on their bullshit, I do give them a chance to correct themselves with an apology and a chance to change their behavior. A lot of women have only been in relationships with blue pill men who let their women walk all over them. As Patrice O'Neal says, "train your bitch".
/r/askTRP27/06/17 12:19 AM
8

There is a scene in the Departed where Matt Damon says the following: "If we're not gonna make it, it's gotta be you that gets out, 'cause I'm not capable. I'm fuckin' Irish, so I'll deal with something being wrong the rest of my life." This was me, to a tee. I didn't care how badly we fought. I loved her. The problem is that women don't love the same way. It took me a while to figure that out. In every instance my relationships deteriorated the same exact way that TRP says they would. Trickle t…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 12:10 AM
1

So how is it that you're sure it's not open on their end? And how did the initial conversation go if you don't mind. I've had plenty of plates, and plenty of LTRs, but the in between concept I've never explored. I'm almost positive some of my plates were only fucking me, but we never talked about it. I'm not in a position to promote any plates to that level anyways, but just want to be prepared.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 05:07 AM
1

Don't go off on her. Would you scream at a child? Be "disappointed in her". Withdraw attention. She'll understand what she did wrong and correct her own behaviour. Or you bounce.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:50 AM
2

Password protect your phone. Did she snatch it out of your hand while you were using it? C'mon. You can rationalize (hamster) it all you want, but there is no reason she should be going through your shit.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:37 AM
1

So, this could have all been avoided if you just didn't give her your phone. I don't think you're "ready" yet overall, but don't ever let them see your phone. Even if you "have nothing to hide". You want them to think you might have something going on. Keeps her on her toes. I can tell you're young, keep reading, it'll do you good.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:26 AM
1

If you learn one lesson out of this, I hope it's that you can't get MAD about this kind of stuff. And more importantly, if you do get mad for some reason, you can't let her KNOW you're mad. Off to the Sidebar you go.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:20 AM
1

Hey just came across this. How do you manage the whole "monogamous plate" thing? Is that a conversation you have with them or what. Or is it OLTR?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 12:49 AM
1

Yea, I wouldn't MIND bringing her, but I don't think she's done anything spectacular that deserves going out of my way to make it happen. Maybe another time. Like you said, I like things to be fluid. Maybe I meet a girl there and want to find out more. I don't mind meeting her friends, most of them are hot from what I can see, but I don't want to spend 5-7 hours with them.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 12:28 AM
1

True. I know she has somewhat of a hoe-ish past so LTR is def. off the table. I'm very sex-positive with her (thanks to reading TRP stuff) and we joke around a lot to keep things "light" so she opens up a lot. She's young (fresh out of college- I'm early 30s), and she has talked about sleeping around a bit while she was in school. I don't really care, but I don't like to know about if she sleeps with people NOW. I think FWB would be fine eventually, but it's a slippery slope like you said.. She'…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:06 PM
2

My game isn't to the point where I typically get laid on the first date. I'd say 1-2 out of 10. I have decent batting average for date 2, and almost always hit on date 3. For this reason, I don't typically care about logistics for F close. I pick whatever is easiest for me. Bar close to my office or my home. Not going to go out of my way for some chick who might turn out to be 50 lbs heavier than her tinder pic or uglier in the daylight than she looked when I saw her at the bar/club. You probabl…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 04:05 AM
1

Agreed. Don't get into long conversations, but hit her up every once in a while. You don't want her to forget about you. Give her time to initiate it too.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 03:55 AM
1

I find the comfort tests the hardest too. I'm still working on identifying those. Any good guides out there?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:34 PM
7

Their upbringing/media/movies/friends/etc. tell them that they should feel bad when you're not texting/calling her all the time. As you know, if you actually did that, they wouldn't like you any more. One day my main plate started bringing up the topic of facebook. I text her maybe every 3rd day, and she'll randomly snapchat me some sexy pics to which I rarely reply. Anyways, I turned and gave her a wide-eyed, eyebrows raised look, like she was a child who was about say something incredibly ridi…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:21 PM
1

How long do you feed her vegetables until you can do one or two "boyfriend" type things? Obviously can't switch to an all candy diet. I've got a plate who was great up until she tried to give me ultimatum about "spending more time together", I told her something along the lines of "it was fun while it lasted" and then she came back a few weeks later. We've been strictly sex for a few weeks now since, but I'm the kind of guy who likes to do a lot of active stuff and go to events, things like that…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 06:02 PM
1

God damn, the truth hurts but boy will it set you FREE my brother! Hallelujah!
/r/askTRP06/05/17 08:06 PM
4

Dude forget about this chick. And no, your response was not good. It was "try hard" at best. I actually cringed when reading it. Butt hurt much? Seriously, how long did you stare at your phone typing that response up?
/r/askTRP06/05/17 07:56 PM
4

I like this. Kind of goes along with the theory of never admitting a prior weakness. Play it off like it's nothing new.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 07:09 PM
1

Ok, thanks. It was a righteous fuck, I didn't have ulterior motives. Just wanted an outsiders perspective. Thank you for confirming.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 07:06 PM
2

I appreciate the thought. I'm genuinely doing great in all aspects of life. Except maybe lifting. Could always use more lifting. It randomly just crossed my mind and made me think about TRP perspective. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/05/17 05:43 PM
1

Years ago, actually. If you don't learn from your mistakes you are bound to repeat them.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 05:12 PM
1

Any other possible negative aspects to this? Just curious how an outsider would see this.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 09:16 PM
2

He said she's an accounting student. You really think she's filing a return with K-1s, capital gains, Schedule C? Give me a break
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:14 AM
65

I don't know if I would do that. For $50 you can find someone independent to do your taxes. I don't want some chick knowing all about my finances.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 08:20 PM
1

I know a guy in a wheel chair who is paralyzed from the dick down. He slays. Cerebral palsy is a bit more extreme, but still.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:30 PM
1

I don't blame either party for their feelings. But reacting with an outburst is not the right way to display your feelings. It's like a child throwing a temper tantrum because they didn't get to stay up late on a school night. Just because a girl doesn't fuck me two hours after meeting me doesn't me she isn't interested in fucking me. You either have to build more attraction, or she might just have a hard and fast no sex until X # of days rule. Maybe she was on her period or forgot to shave her …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:51 PM
2

Absolutely. A woman may not mind that you're overweight. Some girls like it actually. The problem is, they can smell the fear on you, and that is what keeps them from being interested. Good luck to you. However, do it for yourself, not for women.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:50 PM
1

Yea, I just reread it. I think you lost your cool. Not good. She might have been testing you. Could be she wanted to fuck, just not yet. Don't ever get visibly mad dude. Or at least don't show it. If she can get you mad that means she matters. Obviously if it's disrespect she's throwing your way then shut that shit down but this is just ASD/LMR. If you had three chicks you could call that night to fuck would you still have reacted the same?
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:50 AM
1

Checking back in. I let her go softly. She came back the next weekend. Texted me while she was out wanting to fuck. I put her on ice for a week. She texted again. This time she came over. Fucked like rabbits. Guess she's ok with our arrangement after all. Thanks for the game plan. She'll probably break again in due time, but it's clear she loves the cock I'm slinging. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:44 AM
1

They lost pussy bc they lost their frame at some point or just became fat/average/satisfied. And losing a shitty wife is hardly "losing pussy" if you ask me.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:37 AM
2

In that case I don't think there is anything wrong with your kicking her out. Guess it depends how you went about it. I.e. Did you act butt hurt or just something like "hey, it's getting kinda late and I have to be up early" and then kiss her goodbye, slap on the ass, etc.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:33 AM
1

From your post it sounded like she was just "saying" those things but not actually stopping kissing you. That's a little different. Obviously if she pushed you away or stopped kissing thats different.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:32 AM
4

For me personally, it took massive fucking heartbreak to break out of it. Caught my special unicorn cheating on me with her "best friend". I was always good looking, but society taught me to treat women like they were special fragile butterflies. This heartbreak turned my world upside down. Women no longer had this bizarre power over me. Almost overnight I went from BB to AF. Obviously being tall and generally good looking gave me a huge advantage, but biggest hurdle was accepting my new reality…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:27 AM
10

You have to figure out what your insecurities are. Do some honest self reflection. FIX those problems, if you can. Bad dresser? Get some help redoing your wardrobe. Fat fuck? Get your ass in the gym. Cut your calorie intake and put in the work. Are you afraid of public speaking? Join toastmasters. You're a fuckin man. Life is yours for the taking. Do you want it? Edit: not all problems can be fixed. Learn to accept your shortcomings. Like- if you're short- of course.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:18 AM
0

Dude. Wtf? Don't listen to what she says. Watch what she DOES. She was all over you, what more do you need to just go for it. Lead her. She wants to know you're a man. "I know, we shouldn't be doing this, but it feels so good" Carry on like business as usual. Escalate. Be smooth. If she doesn't want it she'll stop you. You failed. She wanted to fuck.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:14 AM
3

Fuck her like a champ, every time.. like it's the last time you might fuck her ever. Every. Single. Time. She may try to lock you down or dread you in to relationship. Keep your frame. "I'm done with this. It's a waste of my time. Its not going anywhere." .. "Ok babe, it was fun."... She'll probably bounce, fuck one or two guys, but if they are weak she'll be back. The key is you can't get mad, or even upset. No cracks in your armor. A&A. "This guy asked for my number today, we're meeting for dr…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:53 AM
5

Who cares? Dude you need to open your eyes. Even if you don't believe that YOU are special, you have to realize that she is nothing special EITHER. There are literally millions of other women out there. Whatever you think is "wrong" with you, I probably know someone worse off who is fucking beautiful women regularly. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 03:05 AM
1

Missing out on what? Pussy? Check your abundance levels.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 11:32 PM
2

If a girl isn't fuckin throwing herself at me, texting me, wanting to hang out, then I don't waste my time. I'm fortunate enough that I have that kind of dynamic with a few HB8/9s, but even if that wasn't the case I would rather spend my time with a HB5/6 that lives to suck my balls dry over chasing a HB7/8 hoping to get some action. But hey, that's just me...
/r/askTRP29/04/17 09:39 PM
14

No one ever lost pussy by chasing money. Plenty have lost money by chasing pussy.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 09:31 PM
1

There's the rub... https://youtu.be/tu-QjTNtDz8
/r/askTRP29/04/17 03:10 PM
1

I guess you're looking at the lower end of my typical range. I generally just get off the apps with 5-6 msgs but move to text instead. I don't like snap due to read receipts, but may consider it if girl is <23 or so. Thanks for the breakdown.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 04:33 AM
1

Seriously? Like how old are these girls? Genuinely curious
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:12 AM
6

This is my strategy 99% of the time when I introduce a girl to my friends. I intro, make some small talk on something they have in common, then bounce. I pay her as little attention as possible throughout the event/party. This allows me to work the room and meet other women (subtle dread) and at the same time display abundance and screen for girls who are overly needy. I've had friends comment that "guy x is talking to your girl for a long time" or something like that, but it doesn't bother me b…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:18 AM
1

OLTR means? Open LTR? I do think it's messing with her head like you mentioned bc she sounds rather desperate now where before the split she acted with a semblance of grace.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:09 AM
1

Gotcha, so you just keep it sex only at that point?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:48 PM
2

I appreciate the response, and that's exactly how I reacted. I have more in my rotation than I can handle, honestly. I'm extremely busy with work and social life/hobbies. I didn't come here to brag, but it's addressing one of your points. I don't think I'm doing a bad job but it's never a bad idea to aspire to be better and see what other like minded people would do in that position. I think people are quick to jump to " more abundance is the answer". You can make an argument that the fact that …
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:39 PM
2

You're suggesting that I not let it affect me. I assure you, it's not. What I'm asking is for tips on how to maximize my benefit from it while it lasts with the least amount of effort.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:27 PM
3

Interesting perspective. I think that may work, since she's very young. 22y.o.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 05:15 PM
2

Con for LTR: You're in a LTR
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:17 PM
9

How about working from a coffee shop in trendy part of town a couple days a week.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:15 PM
6

My pants don't fit me either. Help me take them off
/r/askTRP13/03/17 03:27 PM
1

Small kiss first. Slowly build up.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 02:29 PM
3

Had this a similar situation. This was pre-trp for me but I still had luck with girls. I learned TRP intrinsically I guess through horrible experiences with women (all my fault - typically BP shit). So I meet up with her years later. We were out at a party with other old friends and some new friends. I had her wrapped around my finger. Tons of kino. We made out a bit, etc. But I was working the group and meeting new girls too. End of the night I was more interested in another girl I met so I was…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 08:08 AM
1

No dude. You're not understanding what I'm saying. If it's going well, kiss her. But like a short sensual one. Pull back after 3-5 seconds. Continue convo, don't mention it in conversation. For example, do NOT say, "wow I can't believe we just made out <3!!!" Pretend it's normal for you to kiss her. You kiss girls all the time. No big deal. Just give her the "im gonna fuck you tonight" eyes and if you wanna kiss her later and you get the vibe she's into you, lean in a bit during convo and make h…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:16 AM
1

Kissing at the bar is a great move. But if you're kissing her for 20 minutes at the bar she's going to be bored. You should be escalating. Not plateauing. Always leave her wanting more. That applies to EVERYTHING. Attention, emotions, time, etc. You pull back before she gets sick of it. Too much of a good thing is a bad thing.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:09 AM
2

Jesus.. 20 minute make out at the bar? She probably thinks you're a closet gay or immature. Kiss her first time briefly. Next time max 20/30 SECONDS if you're at the bar still. Tease her. After you've established attraction, go in for kiss and back off. You have to make her want you more than you're showing you want her.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 10:01 AM
4

Take a step back bro, you're putting the carriage in front of the horse. What has she done for you to want a relationship with her vs the next broad? Has she made you a sandwich? Has she improved your life somehow? These are rhetorical questions btw. I can tell she hasn't done shit for you.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:12 AM
1

Any time a liberal girl asks me if I voted for Trump I say, "twice". Agree and amplify. Sounds like you passed her test.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 06:40 PM
2

Live an awesome life + KISS method. Keep it simple, stupid. Just say hi, small talk, and then invite to join you in something fun. Check out 99% of all girls profiles on tinder: "let's go on an adventure! <3".. Be her adventure
/r/askTRP04/03/17 06:27 PM
0

Cmon he's not even tickling the tonsils with 4.5"... Gtfo with that deep throat shit lol. You do have a point re: anal tho! Own her with that little pecker, dude!
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:18 AM
1

Ignore this guy. If you aren't happy then drop it. If you can pledge the other frat then do it. not sure how it works at your school but you're probably going to get black balled by current frat and their friends, but no one will remember that shit after a few months. And who gives a fuck honestly if they suck as much as you say they do.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:12 AM
2

You need to consider your goals both short term and long term. Which option allows you to reach those goals faster/easier. My goal is financial success so I live in a cheaper area and end up going to my plates places to meet up. Rarely bring girls over. This works bc cheaper rent and maintain some level of mystery. I've been asked many times if I'm hiding my place bc I'm married or a serial killer, to which I A&A of course.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:08 AM
5

Plate her if you want, but sounds like your oneitis is strong. I'd hard next and next time keep your mouth shut. It's the same thing I tell my plates: "don't ask me something you don't want to know the answer to, because I don't have any need to lie to you"
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:03 AM
6

Yup. I was shy when younger, but good looking and horny as fuck. I had this hot sorority girl throw herself at me and she mentioned I was so "mysterious".. Lmao, I just didn't know what to say back then. I was practically a virgin and she was cheating on her bf
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:56 AM
11

Exactly. I always was lucky to have had success with women (tall, fit, pretty good looking), but I always thought "lucky me!".. Now I can see exactly where I went wrong or right and I laugh at the shit I can "get away with" saying by just being confident/AM/idgaf. Perfect example: the other day I was with a girl everything was going well, good kino, but I struggling to turn the convo sexual. She asked me randomly if I had my computer in my work bag. A light bulb went off and I said (with the big…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:36 AM
1

If you actually do want to LTR this girl, you better not do it this quickly. Example: one of my LTRs was a plate for 5 months and then I up and left to another city. She came to visit me almost every other weekend. Maybe she fucked other guys when she wasn't with me, who knows, but she sent me naked pics almost every other day while I was gone and hit me up constantly. She wanted to be my gf even though I lived in another city. I came back after 6 months and kept her plated for another 3mo befor…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:14 AM
2

I usually let the bill sit there for a while so she starts to think about it. If she offers to pay, I usually just pick it up (insignificant $ value to me usually), and tell her to get the next one. If she never offers to pay & I'm not interested in seeing her again, I'll just flat out say "hey we should split it" or some variation. That being said, I will typically cut the first date off after 2 drinks to either end it or switch locations. This keeps the $ amount of the tab low. I also never ev…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:58 AM
1

I like to sit at the bar on first meeting. Turn completely towards her and put your feet on her stool. After 10-15 minutes if you're making progress she'll turn towards you too. Put her legs in between yours. Easy way to put your hand on her knee to emphasize a point in the story you're telling or one that she's telling. You have to gauge her reaction but if she's receptive, maybe even leave your hand there. Progress from there. As others have mentioned, start with arm/elbow first though if you'…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 07:13 AM
2

Pool hall, darts, ice skating, bike ride, hike, frisbee, thumb wrestling, concert, take a lesson together, cook a meal, whip your cock out. Edit: whatever the fuck interests you. If the shit that interests you is boring then get better hobbies.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:05 AM
1

Look up push/pull. Plenty of examples by smarter men than I.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:55 PM
1

No you're right, the money doesn't bother me at all. I just want her to make some effort. I guess I'm thinking about this all wrong since she is very compliant. Fuck. You're a god damn genius. Thanks, mate.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:52 PM
1

Yea, I'm just kind of annoyed that I have to say something about it I guess.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 05:53 AM
5

This shouldn't stop you from moving on. I don't understand why my kid decided to shit in her bed when she is fully potty trained, but I'm not going to sit around contemplating what she possibly could have been trying to tell me. I just clean the bed and continue with my day.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:48 AM
3

You can use this to your advantage though, you just have to use push more to get her qualifying herself to you. What's your goal? Do you want to plate her? No interest? If not then what are you wasting your time for?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:34 AM
4

She wants an orbiter. Play it cool, continue to ignore her. Fuck other girls. Keep lifting. You're still obsessed with her. It's only been two months. She has your hamster spinning, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:30 AM
8

Women aren't used to being rejected. If she's being very forward and showing her interest in you and you don't reciprocate she'll think one of two things. A: You're gay. or B: You're stupid. Just the way things go.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:24 AM
1

I see your point. I wasn't always successful, and I think that reading here had helped me see where I may have failed in my LTR, so, yes I've been successful in bedding women, but that's only one facet of the game (at least in my eyes). To use your example, it's more like someone who's made a ton of money, but blows it all. He doesn't have a problem making a new fortune, but at some point you've got to figure out what you're doing wrong once you have that fortune. Or maybe that cycle is the end …
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:00 PM
1

So did you just keep it up until you found one you like enough to LTR or what
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:03 AM
1

So you're celibate?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:31 PM
1

I don't want to fuck them anymore. That's the whole thing. I don't even want to see them. I'd rather spend my time doing things I enjoy, or meeting new women. But after a year it's like what's the point, ya know?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:30 PM
1

Good point. Admittedly mostly tinder but some I've met cold approach at bars, others through different professional/nonprofit clubs I've been involved in. The club/org ones have been the ones where it's been a little more "successful" in the sense that I'm not as unattracted to them after the first lay. Still not much motivation to pursue hanging out with them though.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:06 PM
1

So, monk mode or are you just denying the girls you're seeing?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:24 PM
1

After re reading my reply, I think short term I'd be fine with spinning 1-2 plates but I feel like if the girl disqualifies herself from LTR status through various red flags I don't even want to plate her anymore. In the past I knew right away I would be limiting a girl to plate status but I could still enjoy my time with her for what it was. I used to have a lot more free time, so I didn't mind, but now I'm so busy it feels stupid. Almost like a catch 22 though, bc I don't want to lose the abun…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:22 PM
1

I'll look for it. Thanks in advance.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:13 PM
2

I do want a LTR. Even though I'm fine on my own, I enjoy the steady sex/companionship. It would be valuable for business relationships (going out to dinner with clients and their wives), and I eventually do want to have kids. Marriage isn't something I particularly care for (for obvious reasons) but it's not 100% out of the picture for me.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:11 PM
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