On implementing dread:

About a month ago, I decided to pull the trigger on becoming exclusive with a plate. We have been dating and everything had been good. Now I am a college student on break, and wont see her till 2 weeks from now(kinda curious as to how holding frame and this period will go). But on Sunday, I brought up how she should be working out to to preserve her great body. She greatly missinterpeted this as to me calling her fat.

I am ashamed to say I broke frame bad and began explaining my side to her. We all know just about how well this went over. Not my best moment. Anyways, she threw the ball in my court saying I need to apologize to her.

  1. How would you handle this situation? ( right now I am implementing a soft next for a couple a days. I also understand that this could backfire on my plan to get her to come to my frame, meaning I would sadly have to dump her)

  2. Today is Christmas. Now I am well versed in soft nexting. No contact till the period is over. But not wishing someone a happy holiday on that day , when you're in a relationship with them feels pretty autistic. My question is, what would you do in this scenario?

I should also add I do actually like this girl and dont consider her to be an object like other girls I've been with. But i cant just hand over a huge chunk of frame to her as that will only lead to a worse relationship in the long term.

Thoughts on this would be much appreciated