Girl I've been seeing went a bit cold, most likely due to some fault of mine. No biggie.

Last time we spoke was a week ago, she didn't reply to my last message. My last message was a statement and did not require a reply.

I'm impartial about her, I don't mind if she breaks and I'd be happy to see her again. However I'm stuck in two minds:

One - messaging her shows lack of abundance and I should just wait for her to get in touch if she has any interest.

Two - If I want to see her I should just man up and ask, if she rejects me it is what it is, life goes on.

My problem is finding a balance between neediness, abundance and everything in between. I don't want to miss out on opportunities because I don't chase, but I don't want to chase too much and seem needy or as if I lack abundance.

Could do with some advice on how to find that balance.