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Dopaminedetoxing/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:41 PM
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Dopaminedetoxing/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:46 PM
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Dopaminedetoxing/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:22 PM
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I disagree. At least in the RP space I got educated on, "Alpha" isn't a demographic, it's a mentality or to be even more specific its a behaviour to use in different scenarios. Doesnt matter if you social or not, Alpha is Alpha and shouldnt be separated into smaller categories to (from my point of view) boost some ppl's ego with all the weird lingo. Alpha = behaviours to gain attraction and sex (Alpha fux). Beta = behaviours to display comfort, especially useful in LTRs. 3 Ps (Protection, Provis…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 03:55 PM
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The idea is that she should be lucky to go out with you. I Thats key. Good one
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:12 PM
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Unrelated to post. Does this apply to all flakes? Like the proper "response" is to wait to them giving a date and if not then break
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:57 PM
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😂good one
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:55 AM
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Facts. And when she realises she cant get the type of man she was in her 20s is what we call the wall OP
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:51 PM
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Forgot about that - also how at 30 ppl stop lying to them lmao
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:20 PM
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The wall isnt a magic curse that makes a woman ugly once she turns 30. It is a psychological fear once a woman realises she cant compete in the SMP as well as she could in her prime. Look at any beautiful "older" woman. You can tell she is old even if she has surgery and you generally prefer her younger version in terms of looks (yes there are exceptions but this only proves the rule of the wall). At this stage (30) her ability to have kids also reduces. And progresively gets worse up to 40-45 i…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:30 AM
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Facts. Approached some super hot trainer at the gym (im 18 she is like 25ish) and she was kind of sub. I thought she would be much more confident as you could say she is out of my league but she was shy lol. Not gonna do anything w her but it was a good reminder
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:35 AM
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Fr😂😂
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:01 PM
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oh you sweet summer child. 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:28 PM
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More responsibility without authority is slavery. He should get out
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:26 PM
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Maybe they werent super close friends but the only way to not lose them is if they have some level if RP awareness. Otherwise the feminine inperative overrides their thoughts. And it makes sense why. If they do not know RP then BP is all they know. They kniw subsconciously that if they go againt the feminine narrative not only will they also lose all their friends but their sexual options too (becaus they dont know RP as an alternative).
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:38 AM
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Happened to a very popular guy at my school. He had a great reputation. In just a day of 3 (very fake) accusations he lost all friends
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:49 AM
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Appreciate that
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:49 PM
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Ignore him. Find new ones
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:45 AM
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learn to take a punch. My only worry about this is the mental aspect of it. I had a really bad concussion 4 years ago (lasted 3 weeks in which I couldnt walk) and I dont want it to affect my mental performance. Any advice
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:14 AM
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This worked for me
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:09 PM
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These bitches need to learn how to act right or the right directions back to wherever the fuck they came from. Relax big man. I don't think saying anything overtly will solve anything. It would just make OP look like a beta mate guarder. Not sure on 100% what would work but maybe bit of dread here and there is useful (early stages). And changing topics in a subtle way. However I do agree with the overarching message of this guy. Which is dont be a bitch and dont allow a girl to walk over you. My…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:06 PM
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I hope this is a joke. But good for him, you pussied out and he played his cards. Spin plates, you got infected with oneitis. And no, don't stop being friends. Swallow your emotions and try to learn from this dude
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:49 PM
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Empathy however can be used as a tool by both. 100% agree. Good post nontheless💪🏻
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 07:55 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong but I disagree. Alpha and asshole aren't mutually exclusive. You can have alpha behaviours and be a total dickhead. I agree with Rollo in that Alpha is starting to become an identity to also be morally correct when Alpha is ammoral. It is a definition for behaviours which allow arousal and many other things, it is not an idolised man. The Alpha Buddah was a total asshole but dude reeked Alpha. Finally, I don't think people should be assholes but wanted to get my thoughts out in h…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 05:27 PM
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Example of stepling on your own dick and analysing the footprint
/r/askTRP15/06/21 05:21 PM
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Don’t waste time on anything else except maybe boxing. How come
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:59 AM
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How can you lrotext yourself then
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 01:57 PM
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Read it. Stayed the same. Whats your point?😂😭
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 01:56 PM
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You got time to get better than that. So put the work in, doesmt have to be too hard just consistent as fuck. Start small and do more every month.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:49 PM
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I also heard it doesnt but I may be wrong. Pretty sure its only temporal
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:00 PM
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Will do thanks
/r/askTRP11/06/21 03:01 PM
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I see thnks
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:53 PM
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Thanks! And recreation?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:55 AM
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Thanks. And my bad for the autism but examples?😂 Context: we hella young (18)
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:45 AM
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Women like to talk. A lot. Tips to make them talk tons? This plate is not opening up as much, aks me more than i ask her
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:04 AM
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Logistics meaning place, time, plan etc?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:03 AM
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Break up. Check out Rian Stone and learn frame and dread. And I might be wrong but I am against the open communication shit. You told her many times what was wrong, she didnt change anything. A better way of doing this is boundary enforcement. Instead of DEERing just state a boundary and act accordingly. Act do not explain. Finally, you already know what you should've done ages ago. You said many times that you dont like it but for some reason you came here without breaking up with her, why is t…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:15 AM
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😂😂
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:36 AM
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I think I have some if this drive but unsure how to increase it. Great post btw, saving this
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:49 PM
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how ambitious you are (doesn’t matter what the ambition is, just that you ARE ambitious), your drive, the masculinity that emanates from you essentially This is hard to measure thus achieve. How do you go about getting there
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:57 PM
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Thanks man it acc makes sense. I just need to keep it in mind and put it in practice. And yeah the problem I have with Briffault's law is that dont we (men) also get out if there is no value in the relationship? Not financial but deffo sexual or emotional
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:56 PM
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Still cant find it
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:43 PM
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Must've missed it thanks
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:36 PM
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Thanks for the explanation. Still slightly confused. Is this the women love opportunistically point? how you are, and to an extent what you are. Can you give an example of how this deviates from the "who"
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:36 PM
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Aka oneitis. Been there, done that☠
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:32 PM
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RP brahs in this dark corner of the internet? yeah. Though I dont think you should hard next because you are young, you have no options and you are both still learning, thats still a huge red flag regardless. So I disagree with your "im secure in my masculinity hence why im okay with this" response. She was ready to go with another dude, call it a mistake or misinformation but thats not genuine desire. Learn dread and how to set up boundaries because that is a dangerous place to he if her frame …
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:30 PM
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Dofference between fwb and plate?
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:49 PM
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No option is better than 1, I think I get you but explain your view.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:48 PM
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cliff notes of red pill, a woman never actually loves you. New to this. Can you elaborate on this part?
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:47 PM
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Good one😂
/r/askTRP08/06/21 05:33 AM
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Will do
/r/askTRP08/06/21 05:33 AM
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I said something on those lines. Im trying to figure out the reasoning of that question, I have never got it and its something I would expect a post wall girl to ask not an 18 yr old
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:13 PM
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Elaborate
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:09 PM
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I should read that thanks. What are some good ab workouts?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 10:20 AM
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Wat
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:10 PM
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My bad was a typo. Say no more. And how should I do abs? I was doing chris heria's home workout for it
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 05:39 PM
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Awesome post and amazing physique change. I will work on these goals. I have a question regarding abs. I naturally have abs as I am an endomorph so I have stopped training them recently. A friend told me I should focus on other muscles as I look pretty skinny (18M 6'0 75kg) and that they are made at the kitchen. He claimed that if I train other muscles I will naturally gain a but of fat which will hide them a bit and I can then lean down after I get my other muscles bigger. Like going caloric de…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 04:47 PM
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I agree. Good point
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:28 PM
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From my perspective you first plate and then upgrade or demote accordingly. LTR being at the top. How do you go about LTRing then?
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:22 AM
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What foods make you lose hair wtf
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:14 AM
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I don't want to go out on some platonic bullshit. So I don't filter anything. Wdym here. And gow do you usually tell them. Over text?
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:42 AM
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Fr? Overt? Damn I thought they would leave once you told them that
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:41 AM
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How do you ket them know?
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:12 AM
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I agree. But thats a hard fucking goal. And girls dont care if you go your own way. Its a very hard problem to solve, especially when most people are blue pill. Imo just be RP, focus on your mission, be charismatic etc is much better. But I admit I agree.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:34 AM
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I would disagree again. I agree with MGTOW in the sense that you shouldnt make a woman the metric in your success and to make your mission your primary goal. Now, lets analyse what you said. Pussy is extremely overvalued From a logical and rational perspective it is. However we have evolved to want it even above eating, thus I understand why most guys are tryna hunt the pussy. If you dont want it thats fine but overvalued really depends on the context and goals. If they come they come, if not oh…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:50 PM
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I disagree. I agree with MGTOW's sentiment but in some aspects its a waste
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:03 PM
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Its still pretty good
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:51 PM
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I disagree. You are forgetting the main purpose of the red pill. It is a praxeology, not a philosophy. I highly doubt all red pill wannabes or experts have the same goals. The red pill is simply a tool box from which you take what you need and take the rest. Plate theory isnt bad like you argued, if you are honest about it then there is no moral dilema there. Two rational consenting adults should not get hurt if the intentions are laid out clearly. Imo I use plate theory to become more socially …
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:32 PM
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Got another question. Is it dumb to post a pic of a girl that im hanging out on snap? In terms of plating etc
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:06 PM
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Needles? And thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:50 PM
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Sure but I want to avoid the mayor ones
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:22 PM
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Exactly. Some red pill creators always throw the idea of being with as many girls as possible but it can be dangerous
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:16 AM
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Wdym sores? And calm I'll keep it in mind
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:58 PM
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Thats a good post cant lie. I agree
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:57 PM
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Yh thats exactly what I have observed. My ex used to use sex as a weapon to get my past BP version to commit. I remember after being in another country for holidays for a month (wasnt my gf at that point) I met her at hers and she was only wearing a hoodie an a thong. She was trying to get me to commit. However, isnt this a bit of a bad thing? Its like they dont use it the same way we do, for them is much more transactional, shouldnt getting sex be enough for them? Im still hamstering my brain o…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:47 PM
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If she wants your attention she needs to earn it Unrelated question. I have heard about the whole how sex shouldnt be transactional but isnt sex transacted for attention in a way? Wondering on your take on this
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:52 AM
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On it my man. Left her on read for like a day cause I was busy so good stuff.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:45 PM
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you know what to do. Yup Is it a good idea to text back and forth or should I 100% disengage. Wouldn't I lose out on interest/attraction/rapport? Genuine question
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:39 PM
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Rollo tomassi always says that we are ALL indoctrinated by feminism, really doesnt matter if you go college or not
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:25 PM
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With a plate?!
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:33 PM
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MM for openers?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:20 PM
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How do you meet your plates? And what do you do with them before sex etc
/r/askTRP24/05/21 08:45 AM
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Thanks, solid advice. Looking retrospectively I probably asked thst question to "get it right" with a possible plate which may be inefficient (that mentality I mean). Aim is to have a good time, improve my game and sleeping together would be good. Thus I dont want to be the beta chump she'll just use for dinner/attention, so why im kinda reluctant to be the "gentleman" to pay for drinks or whatever but I also dont want to give the impression that I am cheap. I guess the best thing is to test the…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:06 PM
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Must be nice man. I'll try to get a plate like that😂
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:01 PM
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Yh Im 18 so probably dont need to worry about that part much
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:02 PM
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So going out with plates should be quick locations and then bakc to place, like in MM right?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:50 PM
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How do you "fuck her right"
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:49 PM
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Facta
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:29 PM
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What does it mean for the red pill to be in quarantinw?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:33 PM
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Amused mastery 101
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:45 PM
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The pain you've got right now isnt the ego hit. Just a theory but I think its your hivebrain fucking screaming because your gf cheated (biological fear of cuckoldry) amd you didnt see it coming. All of the thoughts you are having is your brain putting everything together. But its still fucking scared because you didnt see it coming and thus it will meed some time to accept this new reality.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:04 PM
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CPA? Also, how come you dont like it?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:44 AM
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Didnt expect to see this here. I actually got a job offer for a salesforce pisition but I have no fucking clue on some aspects on it. Can you DM me to ask you a couple of things? The first question is if you see salesforce being used in the future as it is slowly being replaced and outdated
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:42 AM
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Following?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:36 AM
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Practice man. Trial and error. Sometimes its funny and sometimes more akward. But if you can be confident regardless and play it off then its calm. Meet more people and hang out more often. This is all social calibration. As for specific examples its simple man dont overthink it. Lets say they joke about your dick. You jsut smirk confidently and say something like "I am actually very proud of my shrimp" if its playful and not tense you can follow up with "your mom/ex/etc would agree with me". "Y…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:35 PM
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How does it help you pass shit tests? Read the book but I dont know what part you mean
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:09 PM
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Any you recommend?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:08 PM
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A&A even with your mates it works. You esentially agree with them and make up and even crazier scenario. Its effective because it shows you arent affected by the joke and have the social skills to eben make it funny and laugh at yourself a little bit.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:08 PM
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How do you do that btw
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:05 PM
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6'3, 200k and you are in a LDR with a fat girl who hasnt even finished grad school? Bruh they arent talking about your SMV, they are talking about your stupidity
/r/askTRP27/04/21 10:54 AM
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I disagree completely with your opening. In any RP space you will find that most men who have come from a BP background have "monogamy-as-a-goal" mentality. TRP tells you why that is detrimental for you.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 07:46 AM
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I disagree with most responses you have gotten.im open for discussion but I think your response is natural. Your value as a human being (morality, dignity etc) should not be derived from external factors, and thus if you define self-worth in that sense then I would agree this needs to change. However, you are probably not refering to this. Im assuming is social hierachy value (dominance), monetary value or sexual market value. These values are IN FACT put on by others. A product which believes i…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 10:20 PM
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Bad advice. Desire negotiation
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:38 PM
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I agree. Men face the wall at 18, and they gotta jump over it. E.g:workout, dress nice etc. (Taking the averages ofc)
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:26 PM
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Calm I'll check some out
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:58 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:53 PM
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Gotta eat roughly 3000+. How do I get track of this though? Weighting my food?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:43 PM
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Understood half of that but I will deffo try. Thanks for the help. Will ask more in the upcoming weeks if thats fine by you
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:28 PM
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Is the 5x5 on the sidebar?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:27 PM
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Good point. Are they expensive?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:26 PM
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What are some supersets you do?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:14 PM
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Super new to gym so wdym by compounf lifts. Wow a lb a week? How much should I eat
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:14 PM
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So saving a day after a push/pull to train tricks? Btw how long should a gym workout be. I did 2 hour sessions this week but it felt a bit like an overkill. Like my muscles are recovering much slower than with cali
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:56 PM
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Thanks dude sounds calm. I want to save two days for pure calisthenics as I want to learn all hard calisthenics exercises and the bars at the gym fucking suck. How should I adapt what you gave me to fit these goals. Rn im working on cleaning my muscle up
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:11 PM
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Say less💪🏻
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:59 PM
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Look out for yourself first. Even if you are objectively more successful than he is your perceived value (by her) was lower. So she got the money from the beta and fucked the alpha😂😂 Sorry g but move on, focus on you for a while, let it all out and mess around with plates till you get confident and more knowlegeable about this. If I were you I would focus on mental point of origin and amused mastery
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:24 PM
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What is your job if you dont mind me asking
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:38 PM
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Yh I agree. There are always reasons to so something and disadvantages of everything so i find it quite odd that some people are incapable of seeing other peoples perspectives. I personally dont want to get married but I can at least understand where people come from when they do even when removing the blue pill lies. So I think its quite stupid to say "wHy WouLD yoU do ThAT". It just makes people look dumb
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:10 PM
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I dont need to read this long ass paragraph. Just remember this: "rejection is better than regret". More quotes to stop your beta mind from freaking tf out: "Failure is a necessary component of growth. Let yourself fail. Don Juans are made by failing, not by succeeding" "A failure can teach you more than reading every damn post on this board. Failure will aid you much more than the whole DJ bible" "It is not the victory that defines the man, it is the fight" "Are you alpha enough to take rejecti…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:11 PM
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I agree with you but I also understand him. He is not saying there is no one to be in a good relationshop with, he is saying that there is no ONE. Marriage and all that aint a fucking dream like the blue pill had us believe and there are multiple women which would be good for a potential LTR. watch the mgtows get triggered lmao
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:06 PM
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I dont want it yet but there are a lot of benefits of commitment. But your 20s should be spent to decide what you want to do first. No problem if you dont want to,but I can tell you arent very smart if you dont see why people would do it. There are trade offs for everything g
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:03 PM
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Yh thats how it links to TRP. A grown dude shouldnt be doing that shit and if he doesnt have the options you mentioned then he has something to work towards. And what I like it that none of you threw that bs of "you'll become a millionaire in 5 years if you do it🥴". Semen retention is overrated in that aspect, its esentially a way of not cucking yourself, being more motivated to get sexual options and respecting yourself I guess. Aint super pretty but this is the type of response I wanted to see…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:41 PM
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Maybe but I still would. She doesnt want to give you sex and you arent exclusive.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:16 AM
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How so. Only negative thing I experienced was BB from time to time
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:37 AM
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Yh I agree. Watching porn is pretty weak imo.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:35 AM
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😂😂
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:33 AM
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Save the retard comments, no point insulting people online g. Safe for the recommendation though
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:33 AM
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Doesnt upset me g. I'll check it out
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:31 AM
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Yeah this is the type of response I wanted to get. Semen retention isnt giving me super powers but at least is allowing me to not cuck myself which does hold some confidence benefits
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:30 AM
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Thats what I think too. It can fuck up your brain right? And its not natural
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:28 AM
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Yeah the read the part of the pheromonal beta
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:27 AM
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Can you explain how porn applies to his situation? I swear it would just not make him cum if he overwatches it. Curious to know your stance on porn
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:48 PM
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Lol why is this nsfw
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:39 PM
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Huh?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:38 PM
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Must've missed that. Whats the translation? "Im jealous asf?"
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:37 PM
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🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:35 PM
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Bs. Try harder
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:46 PM
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OP. Or you either control your emotions or you cut the relationship off. I generally find it useless to have female friends but there may be some exceptions. However, you like the girl, for me I would distance myself. I did this when j got into the TRP with an old oneitis I had and it feels good. You gotta be honeat with what you want from the relationship. "Girls have boyfriends and girlfriends: if you are not fucking her, you are her girlfriend'
/r/askTRP13/04/21 10:36 PM
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😂😂😂 jokes. One thing that I heavily disagree with in your post is what you said about her (paraphrasing now) being too dominant and bitchy and bow she wouldnt "allow you" to be in control. Bruh, power is taken, not given ffs. Bitches treat you as bad as you let them so it is actually your fault not hers (this happened to me too). So start by watching Rian Stone on Frame, Dread etc. I always recommend him for LTR. I agree, first you need her to respect you so i would actually use passive dread fo…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:57 PM
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Whats stopping you from getting with her?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:34 PM
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Yh I agree. OP hasnt understood alpha yet. Is not about the women in itself. Its about mental point of origin too
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:21 PM
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I disagree and agree. In reality, we are not nice, but quite selfish and also pretty confident Facts. Learning who you truly are is also a great thing about RP. You stop giving into society standards such as the classic nice guy and other dumb shit like feeling guilty for not being attracted to an overweight girl. However, being yourself isnt always a good advice. If you take in on a vacuum like you did then yeah but you always need to improve upon yourself and "build" your character better. Rol…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:06 PM
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Nah. OP has a good point. Try to understand what he means
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:02 PM
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Move the fuck on and stop being a bitch is the best advice anyone can give you. He is rich? Start earning more and make a plan. He is stronger? Go gym. Take the L, understand he got the girl and move on from that situation. You arent ready to stay in that relationship so hang out with other friends. Learn more RP and break oneitis. It just makes you feel like shit and waste a bunch of time. Learn Frame, Game, Dread and start spinning plates. Enjoy it too, having sex with multiple girls is fun
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:59 PM
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Emotions are signals. They dont dictate what you should do, they just nudge you to do something. Once you internalise that you will slowly manage your emotional nudges better and decide which of the triggers are beneficial to you and which ones aren't. Easy example, you may feel like you want to punch someone because of something they did. Maybe you dont feel safe and your adrenaline pumps up or whatever. However, you step back and think "shit, if I punch this dude then he may report me and then…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:47 PM
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I think people are missing the point with this one, lmk if Im wrong. The argument shouldnt be 'is she cheating or not' or whatever that may be. You shouldnt care too much about it. The best way to mateguard is outcome independance. "You want to start an onlyfans?? Say less girl. kicks her out of the house" If she cheats, big deal. You were working in yourself anyways, you are happy and have shit going on. A replacement should come in no time. And if she isnt, then why should you worry? "Never wo…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:32 PM
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Not a great RP creator imo but he may be useful for this. Check out stephiscold
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:49 PM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:43 PM
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Interesting. Can you give some examples
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:42 PM
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You seem pretty red pilled to me
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:40 PM
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😂😂😂facts. Exes be fucking new dudes within days bruh
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:32 PM
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Facts
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:44 AM
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Sucks for you, I can imagine what it must be like. You already know what to do, even if it hurts. She has got a lot of red flags, and I personally would have broke up ages ago. You also sound quite unexperienced in the red pill so dont worry, it will get better. Break it off asap and learn the following things: 1) Improving frame: Rian Stone 2) improving vetting: rich cooper before the trainwreck 3) Becoming the prize and mental point of origin: Rollo tomassi and fresh and fit podcast 4) Dread g…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:42 PM
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Exactly😂
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:19 PM
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Great stuff bro. Slowly work harder everyday, if you at a rut then slowly give yourself objectives thst are easy to acomplish everyday. Use todoist to do this. Slowly increase the amount of stuff you do. As for the gyms, dont use it as an excuse. Do calisthenics. Finally, hang out with male friends, do dumb shit and go get more plates. You are getting the grasp of the red pill so you should be fine
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:05 PM
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Pretty sure a guy who has a visible physique (widers shoulders, big chest, defined abs) is much more attractive than a weak and skinny dude most of the time. Reaching bodybuilder level is purely for personal reasons but it does increase SMV. Lmk where you disagree
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:36 AM
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You arent an 8 or 7. You have a weak frame, you are fat, you have anxiety and the attitude of a kid. Do you honestly think you are in the top 20%? Increase SMV, hit the gym, fuck 6s and 7s and practice your game.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:39 AM
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I honestly think he is trolling. Wouldnt waste my time. Told this guy 3 fucking times to get experience with this bitch and now mentions he is a fatty with no experience with kisses and some anxiety.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:37 AM
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Listen bro. You are caring too much about this bitch. Lemme explain what is going to happen: Lets say you are successful, everything goes amazing amd she likes you a lot. She finds you super attractive and want to fuck you etc. It is almost guaranteed that a 9 is gonna drop your ass the second you drop your guard. She is going to perceive all of the beta emotions you just explained on this post. Now, even if everything goes as well as it possibly can, you will still lose the bitch eventually ("s…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:34 AM
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Wrong again. You see, you are limiting yourself so much. You must learn outcome independance and frame in much more depth instead of giving me shitty excuses. You kiss the bitch, its awful, you dont give a fuck. The other guy was right, you DO have oneitis. 1) Dont worry about this girl: think of her as experience because she is going to leave as soon as she vibes you out. Meet her, act however you want (applying RP) and move on to the next. You can get a kiss? Amazing, you just got experience. …
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:59 PM
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You've got no frame. Read the fucking sidebar😂. Only partly joking, if you aint gaining info from reading then I suggest checking out rian stone for frame. Ans fr dude, with that attitude, you may be able to smash but she will eventually realise your insecurities. Better bachelor aka joker is bald, always mentions how he has a belly yet he has very strong game. A dude with frame and prize mentality doesnt do what you just did. Work on yourself, and think about all this. Edit: no one gives a fuck…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:44 PM
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Not related directly, just an observation. Orbiters is the norm nowadays not a red flag. If any more experienced red pillers disagree lmk.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:42 PM
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Haha no worries I enjoyed reading it. I agree. Even loolikg back in my blue pill days I remember using text too much but got me lays with the girl as she was very innocent/taking it slow type I guess.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:40 PM
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Yup man great response. Thus, practice makes perfect. Most people learn the theory and never apply it. Gotta apply it more, get out there and bend rules as experience increases. And wdym with the text for logistics rule?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:47 PM
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New arent you. Yes she probably is, but why do you care? Sidebar bro, you dont seem to understand what TRP is for
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:04 PM
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To me too
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:01 PM
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Listen to them bro!!! PLATE ONLY. Do not FUCKING LTR
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:44 AM
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Tomassi's rule: time is better spend finding new prospects
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:42 AM
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Got that dw😂😂
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:31 AM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:14 AM
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Lol do you honestly think OP should be in an LTR then? Thats what people mean with plate spinning. Its much easier. LTRs are for RP experts or you finna get hurt if you aint careful
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:40 PM
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That's a very dangerous situation. She is seeing your weaknesses. Proceed with care. I recommend watching Rian Stone on dealing with LTRs as I have low experience on those. Good luck
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:36 PM
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Remember though. Fond more options. Options are the cornerstone of confidence. If you were older I would say you got oneitis or overyhinking, but is safe to assume you are simply trying to figure it out. Don't keep this habit of overthinking once you are 18+ and have tons of options. Otherwise you run the risk of having strong oneitis for random bitches
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:50 PM
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Legend
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:59 PM
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You could've said that in 10 words or less but good stuff. Ask her whenever you want and keep finding new plates
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:47 PM
1

Heard the dont eat paint from Rian. Can you explain?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:48 PM
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Don't get ahead of yourself big man. She probably doesnt see him as such but if OP calls her/text her/carries on without smashing, she will
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:45 PM
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Yup. Careful with oneitis. Find the next plate
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:40 PM
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Those 2 responses are enough tbh. And you did break frame. Check out Rian Stone for that type of stuff
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:31 PM
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You got oneitis, don't try deluding yourself into sounding tough. Its good that you are asking for help but the reality is that no one with frame would ask that question. If she decides to cheat, there is nothing you can do. You should be the prize, and I ak guessing she is starting to realise you aren't hence why she speaks more about him. Any RP expert correct me, but it seems like she is testing you. Ignore what she says and watch what she does. She is your complement, NOT you focus.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:08 PM
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Missread the who was drunk bit, thanks. But if she was drunk and he wasn't, he wouldve still gotten the blame
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:20 AM
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Oh God. Then what are you planning on doing on a dating app? Your life isn't interesting and you've got no frame. Work on yourself first
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:47 PM
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You haven't mentioned working out. You should be working out. I agree with Aaron Clarey on this, worling out give you a much higher ROI than dating apps. Plus, if you aren't going out, "don't have much going for yourself", then why bother with women? A woman should be to complement you, not to be your focus
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:45 PM
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Ffs. Thank God I got the red pill
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:42 PM
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He told you the best advice. Don't overthink abundance. It doesn't matter what she thinks or how she perceives you, stay in your frame. Men that truly don't care don't follow all rules to the extreme, they can bend rules, just dont be stupid and waste your time if she isnt interested after 2nd attempt
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:41 PM
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I hope thats why
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:35 PM
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I agree. Truly hope that advice doesnt get me into trouble. People need to see that women can say 'no' and arent some weak people which is how the media portrays it
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:32 PM
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Enlighten me if I'm wrong but that situation just pisses me off. They were BOTH drunk and HE is the only responsible? She said that its because "that's what she thought he wanted", then shush? In my opinion if that crosses a boundary and you are going to bring it up the next day as an issue why the fuck would you not say it then. It just makes it seem like she is a poor and weak woman who couldnt do shit when in reality she could've.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:30 PM
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First thing is to drop the "getting in touch with...". Thats feminine😂. Jokes aside I kinda agree with what you said. I live in the UK and most guys are very weak. For example they are super protective with their gfs etc. I would honestly recommend you to not give a fuck about your past and what you went though. Masculinity is not limited by that. Best thing to do is to go to the gym, start doing competitive stuff (fighting is the best for that) and hang around similar minded men. You can also l…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:24 PM
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Caaalm
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:00 PM
1

Agree.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:00 PM
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NPCs? This is good btw. I am going to marinate on it
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 06:41 PM
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This some gold. Appreciate that
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:39 PM
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How did you experiment that? Like you suddenly just "became dominant" is probably not true so what exactly did you do. What mannerisms did you change?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:14 AM
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Yup go out and get it. I had a mentality similar to yours yesterday which caused me to relapse a 215 semen retention streak. That mentality is dangerous. To stop those habits you have to stop that way of thinking. For me I had it for ONE day and it fucked me up. Though its probably because I didnt fully internalise my healthy one. Dont worry about chicks bro. Improve yourself first. Post-nut clarity hits hard after sex when you realise it wasnt even that good and your strength has depleted. Edit…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:11 AM
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Facts. I usually get the its a natural thing to do response and I have to frame it like you did. Btw. Have you read the whole if you masturbate you reduce prostate cancer risk? Whats that about?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:02 AM
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Couple of things. The HVM stuff was pretty dumb. Like JJJ says, its not about actions but about mentality. It doesnt matter what you do if you are doing it in your frame. The other thing is you guys sound young. Games like that aaalways happen when you are young and she will bring up stupid drama time to time. Solution: option 1) break things off if the drama is getting out of hand and spin plates 2) ignore the drama, mainain frame and practice amused mastery. You seem pissed off at her and what…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:55 AM
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I have to disagree on this one. OP if you are reading it is your choice but here is my view. Pd: if you REALLY want to lern game then by all means. But take the advice feom the dude above me and dont think its a gospel. Experiment with it. The guy is 16! And has been on the RP for what it seems 2 years so the mf was 14!!!!. I think he is way too young to learn game and its best if he can try to get women naturally (he is allegedly on of the best players so he has the aptitude for it). Game can b…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:35 AM
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Always been good with girls but my blue pill ideals killed my last relationship. I always did the nice guy shit and the girl never reciprocated. I had a strong Oneitis and was so scsred to lose her. She always disrespected me, used sex as a weapon (BRUV and I was 17!!). During the relationship I tried stuff out from the red pill and she was drippiiing. But I realised that the damage was already done and she woukd never respect me. Broke up and moved on.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:24 AM
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I an planning to do a similar thing here mate. The costs of living in Uni are outfuckingrageous. So i think that was a good call. Just make sure you "force" yourself to go out. Another thing yki could do is staying over sometimes at a friend's apartment so that you can go party in the night. There are so many alternatives so dont worry, your social life shouldnt cost £60 000 in debt (degree included)
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:18 AM
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Damn thats some crazy shit. I guess part of me always understood thst the patriarcal societies also have their bs to go through. I think I get what you are saying. Most people have an ideal Oneitis instead of getting into a serious relationship and make it succeed. Like people always want 'the perfect' marriage and never want to fix shit. I agree with you. Thanks for sharing
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 08:07 AM
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😂😂😂 funniest yet most accurate analysis
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:51 AM
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Oh shitt. You just reminded me of my reason. Jacking off to porn makes you pedestalize women you dont even know! Oneitis behaviour in a way
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:44 AM
1

Wrong guy my g. Put on your glasses.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:37 AM
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Can you elaborate on semen retention? Havent read about it a kot though I practice it. Why is it benefitial in terms of RP and to his current situation?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:35 AM
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Are you responding to me or the post writer? We talk a lot about Actions>Words, and live in a society that coaches to Actions/Behavior instead of Mindsets/Paradigms. Agree with that. I havent read a lot about frame though. How do you go about building it? Mental point of origin plus building a good ass life? The relationship between Weakness and Attraction is elementary level RP Stuff. Elaborate And I see you saying OP a lot. Wtf is that?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:32 AM
1

Respond to my other points if you can. You seem pretty rational
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 12:15 AM
1

Which idea from Tomassi do you disagree with?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 12:12 AM
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I dont think crying is necessarily a bad thing. Men do it time to time and its uncommon because we normally express our fustration/sadness in different ways. However, cry if you need to idfk. When you are done, move on and make your life better. "Being weak isnt your fault, staying weak is" As for the ex thats a weird thing. 1 year is a lot so I probably need some info about what happened. My ex kind of burned me too but when I used to think about her I realised at one point that it wasnt her wh…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:53 PM
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Yeah thats facts. Got invited for a sleepover and oh man. Thats when I realised its not the same. And on your first line I think I didnt articulate myself very well. What I mean is that you are much more careful with your female friends which is kind of what you said. In NOT saying that they do annoying shit I have to put up with but its more like your protective instinct activates itself unconsciously and you are much more careful in your mannerisms. With my male friends I am much more direct a…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 11:47 PM
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Yeah thats more likely
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:33 PM
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TLDR?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:33 PM
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He might be right but still keep the option open. If you catch yourself with oneitis then next but I am going to guess you are overthinking because you want to apply the red pill in the best possible way. Long story short, try to get that meet up. See how it goes and dont worry too m8ch about it. She gives another excuse? Then soft next and maybe she even comes back if you didnt read her correctly
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:32 PM
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Gun at 17? Tf
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:27 PM
1

So then how do you improve ones chance with women?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 11:23 PM
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Oh yeah I agree 100% percent. That mentality is harmful amd I finally get where you ate coming from. So you recommedmnd 20 year old to become successful basically. Understand thats not the norm though. Im currently 18 year old and looking to find a good path for my life. But dw, aint planning to be single in my 40s
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 09:49 PM
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40 is a bit of an exaggeration but 30-35? 100% agree. If she is 20 maybe not but mid 20s I have seen a tendency. And no guy is successful in their 20s thats bs. A very close example is my dad. He is late forties, has attained some success and eventhough he is not in the best shape he is attractive to young women. I reckon he can get girls on their mid 20s.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 09:20 PM
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A lot of good stuff. I will marinate on it. For now I want to ask some stuff: Im in my late teens (18) what do you mean when you said you wont be attractive until 30s and that you fucked up your 20s? What do you recommend me doing? I think 3 is wrong. From what Ive seen the red pill does not advocate for a tradcon wife. Richard and other red pill youtubers have said that they want their women to have their own hobbies/ambitions and that they wouldnt like to pay for everything. What they are tryi…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 09:12 PM
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Physically yeah. Women do value success and security in relationships. At least from what Ive seen. And its true that men age "better" than women in general. And older men (lets say in their 40s) who take care of themselves can be extremely attracticve to most women. Their wrinkles etc dont matter and its valued much different.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 09:02 PM
1

?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:02 PM
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The vast majority of non-religious relationships have an age gap of two years and if you are peaking in your 30s it just means you didn't try in your 20s. Wdym by this bit? I do thing men increase their SMV in their mid 30s compared to women. (If they put in the work). Though most men DO NOT naturally increase SMV in their 30s
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 08:01 PM
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100% true. RP theory LTRs have to be evalutated in more depth. Plus I want a girl to do her own thing and be happy with her hobbies/career
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:52 PM
1

Agree with this response too. When people get emotional like that I just ignore. However, who is this dude? Never heard of him
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:43 PM
2

100% agree bro. The black pill is straight up bs.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:41 PM
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Yeah good points here man. Disagree with how some of them treat marriages and LTRs. Further stuck in this cycle they are also eliminating their prospects of employment or income in order to get away from these guys. The whole program is about leadership and status which are in the eye of the beholder. If someone expects your admiration it's almost your human duty to disagree, to do otherwise would be self sabotage. Can you explain this part? I dont get it
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:40 PM
1

100% agree with you. Appreciate the input
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:37 PM
1

Oh shit thats interesting good points. I think what they mean by they cant be friends is different of how you are seeing it. The RedPill DOES NOT say women and men shouldnt be friends. They are trying to illustrate the point that the friendship works differently. When I was younger I thought that having men as friends was the same as having women friends. ITS NOT. You take much more shit from female friends and act comoletely different. Are there exceptions? Yeah of course! But in general you wo…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:36 PM
1

What theories do you disagree with and what are the alternatives?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 06:21 PM
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I want to give a more lengthy answer as I think your response is pretty amazong but im hella tired so Ill resume another day. I agree that some red pillers especially MGTOWs can be extremely tradcons and have those dangerous ideas of being with a virgin 18 year old. Its very old order. That said, that is the message Ive seen Tomassi share. To stop and older way of thinking and adapt the new way. That makes me question what made you feel so negatively towards tomassi? And which book? I have read …
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 12:46 AM
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Damn thats very interesting. I agree with it. But in what way would you apply this? Would you want red pillers to overgeneralising the sexual strategies and thinking its a one size fits all? Is that your take?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 12:35 AM
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Whats evolutionary anthropology. Could you elaborate? And I agree that anything deterministic but I dont think TRP should be used as deterministic. Feminism has definetly changed sexual dynamics like you said but it has only made the differences between the BB AF equation bigger. What's the alternative? What are some alternative sexual dynamics that are not red pill based? 1.2. Really? Ive rarely seen this behaviour displayed from males and a lot from the female. Defintely something to pay more …
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 11:29 PM
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Depends on a variety of things. The statistics are against you but if you are willing to create that future its possible. Depends on age, what type of career you want, your partner and other societal factors. The answer is definelty not a no but it isnt a straight yes either. It takes hard work, a willingless to sacrifice and a lot of "love"
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 10:15 PM
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No problem bro
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:59 PM
1

I'll check it out
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 09:55 PM
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Makes sense bro.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:55 PM
1

Im no expert but I dont recommend taking stuff so seriously. I think you couldve talked to them. Not in a "you are a goddess and I am going to give you compliments until you like me" but simply talking to a girl isnt simping. Get to know them as a group and ignore the betas. Dont take me 100% (you should never do that anyways) but maybe work on your social skills before trying to dick this woman? Seems like your social skills are a bit off and comoletely ignoring women ismt going to get you anyw…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:54 PM
1

What did he say?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 09:48 PM
1

Damn man. I hope you can get better. I will take this into consideration in my red pill journey and lense the information with my own eyes. I think thats the part that has the most potential to be damaging. In my life it has been positive though. I dont take it for truth and just use it to see whether it works or not in different areas of my life. I treat the RP as a game to try and I try to discuss some of the ideas with people with other perspectives. I think that the mistake most people make …
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 09:46 PM
2

Whats your goal? Get the girls? If it is that was not progress IMO
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:34 PM
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Mr V guide to texting girls could be a good start. That said, that is a pretty autistic question but no judgement
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:31 PM
3

Like I said. Move on.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:39 PM
4

Pathetic. Acta non verba. Your actions speak much louder. Take their advice, swallow your ego and move on.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:28 PM
1

What are some good philosoohy books. I disagree with you though.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 01:17 PM
1

"Working out is overrated" - wrong, it is hugely underrated. Check out a vid on the lines of "if workout was a pill". Has huge health advantages, more focus, and many other benefits that I can vouch for. Workout was the spark that made me interested in other areas of self improvement and it is one of the best habits to cultivate. Now, I know you arent saying exercising. You are saying getting super buff and big. And that I would still say people underrate it beause most people dont even go after…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 01:03 PM
2

I get your point but it solely depends on what you want. Trp DOES indicate the benefits of working out and it affects your relationships as well as your career goals. Working out has been linked to inproved learning and other useful things. That said, workout does help you improve your success with women. There are obviously other factors but physical appearance is definetly helpful. Do you wish on doing it? Thats your choice. I take the parts of the red pill that have worked for me and experime…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:26 PM
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What makes you alpha. Mental point of origin plus having confidence plus amused mastery etc?
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:14 PM
1

I see. Btw, first two lines are they just a joke on my typos or are you also trying to say something
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:21 AM
1

Explain
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:19 AM
1

Im alright with people but never clicked with the popular kids. I can peobably get to a comfortable social position if I put my mind to it. Any idea on how to do that?. About bodywise Im working on it
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:19 PM
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Nah I aint. Just wondering if it effective or not
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:16 PM
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So I need to build a good life then😂 rn I wouldnt know what to show tbh Edit: and I mean in terms of hitting up random chicks I dont know
/r/askTRP28/01/21 07:30 PM
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Oneitis, spin more plates
/r/askTRP28/01/21 11:06 AM
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Check out dave ramsey. Can be motivating and has some good basic advice on debt and self finance
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:00 AM
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New here so don't take me 100% serious but here is my perspective. You are 28 so you got 7 years till your SMV prime which is a long time. And 2 years till you are 30 is a long time too. A lot can change in 2 years especially considering your age. I can see that you are angry at yourself and I am assuming its heightened because you want to be with a real girl and you are not able in your current situation. Like i said you got time to get good but you are going to have to apply what most people h…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:57 AM
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Yeah that sounds reasonable. I'll keep learning hard exercises but I can prioritise gym
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:37 AM
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Thanks for the clarification
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:35 AM
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I see what you are saying. My nutrition knowledge is very basic. I know what not to eat and what to eat. I eat chicken, rice and veggies regularly and my breakfasts are stuff like oats with fruit etc. That said I dont count my calories or know the quantity I should be eating. Thats something I should probably learn.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:33 AM
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I'll check it out
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:24 AM
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Wdym😂😂
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:24 AM
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Sn😂
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:23 AM
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Bro thats some cold knowledge. Im going to think about it more. Thanks
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:50 PM
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Bro thats some cold knowledge. Im going to think about it more. Thanks
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:50 PM
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LOL does that mean it would be very easy for me to gain muscle in 4 years of cali?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:48 PM
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Just don't overthink it. IOIs? Then approach. You get rejected? Perfect! You just got stronger and beat fear. Check out a video on YT called: why you should ask out your crush TEDx. And finally: "Are you alpha enough to take rejection on the chin, smile and confidently come back for more? Or will you run, will you block yourself, will you hide in convenient buffers?"
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:47 PM
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So creating and executing a plan
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:44 PM
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Im relatively new but bro "rejection is always better than regret"
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:14 PM
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How do you love the process more? I sometimes catch myself thinking more about the results rather than the journey and with some things I do find em boring. Is there any way to teach myself to like painful stuff? (Like getting rejected etc) or does it come over time when I put myself in that mentality?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:09 PM
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Yeah my routine is calm. Im working out 4 times a week and Im training for the muscle up at the moment. My muscle up routine is pull ups, explosive pull ups, chin ups (I suck at them), straigh bar dips and obviously muscle up. I do that twice a week and Im also doing legs once a week (will go to the gym as the routine is getting to easy only on calosthenics) and then im doing a planche routine which has lean push ups, inclined push ups, lean planche, tuck lean and other push up variations. Edit:…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:02 PM
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Damn I like that idea. So he is saying that you shouldnt over obsess with looking perfect and instead falling in love with the journey
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:51 PM
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So doing weights and cali? Yeah I got a 15kg vest and I need to make a better routine. And maybe I can get those one hand weights? My biceps suck tbh.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:49 PM
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Thanks for the clarification💪🏻
/r/askTRP27/01/21 03:17 PM
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I recommend you don't take it too seriously and instead of "leaving him to it" you should consider talking about each chapter he reads. This way there is less pressure and you guys can have nice discussions with each other and learn a lot more in the process
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:49 PM
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SIMP, I would let him orbit and ignore
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:30 PM
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Yeah man gotta get rid of the AFC mentality
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:11 PM
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Simple and effective. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:11 PM
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Interestingg. I get what you mean. So basically making myself my mental point of origin.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 02:25 PM
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😂simple asf, yh facts. Probably Im still plugged in and it still baffles me. Gotta try Plate theory fr
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:25 PM
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Wtf bro how did I forget that one!!! At the start of this year she fucked a dude she wasnt in an LTR with and her curent guy is getting no friction and has him completely dominted. Daaamn g thanks for that
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:40 PM
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Thanks man. I will
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:09 PM
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What does the logistics bit mean?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:02 PM
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Yeah I think that my blue pill me was shocked not because I want an LTR but because maybe I havent fully internalised that plate theory is a viable option and possible for me. I want to focus on myself and have casual flings with no added trouble. And yeah, girls my age go for 20+ dudes
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:53 PM
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Makes total sense. Thanks. Btw, some of my female friends told me that sex with no strings atrached could make me seem like a dick and that it could hurt women. Are they trying to blue pill me? Or wtf are they doing.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:49 PM
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I think understand what you mean now. I know people that use self inprovement and the psychology stuff you have talked about to sound deep or just to get validation and seem like they are "deep" or "sensitive". Yeah thats beta. However if you are doing it for yourself then nah why would it be?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:45 PM
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Whats the inner child stuff? Never heard it, could you explain it to me?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:41 PM
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Yeah tbh thinking about entering an LTR makes my head hurt. I dont want to "fall in love" aint ready for that
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:39 PM
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Btw how old are you? If you dont mind me asking
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:37 PM
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Reasonable stuff my man. I think thats what Im going to keep in mind. Shouldve left so long ago in my last LTR but I wanted to do "the right thing" and it backfired
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:33 PM
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I enjoy calisthenics. Very fulfilling to learn challenging tricks and you only need to find some pull ups at a park.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:27 AM
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Don quijote? How so?
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:57 AM
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Yeah I fall guilty of doing that tbh
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:51 AM
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Whats the alternative to self improvement? Like what activities could people do?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 01:14 PM
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Its a gradual thing, you dont suddenly feel amazing at day 250 but you just become stabler and happier as you add days to your belt. At least in my experience. Now I can be doing homework and enjoy it whereas when I was releasing I was always craving high dopamine activities to get me through the day. In my experience retention isn't a goal, it is a compliment to my life. You should be doing stuff with the time recovered from masturbation and spend as little time thinking about it. I havent rese…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:05 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:01 AM
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Ma guy. Keep it up
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:18 PM
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Snm
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:19 PM
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Say no more.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:19 PM
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Yeah seen TRM one. Ill check the ted talks. Thanks for the heads up
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:18 PM
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Done most of it but always underestimated mediation. I did it for a while but always felt like a waste of time. What are your experiences with it?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:17 PM
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Is that the kernel or kegel? Edit: does it actually work?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:14 PM
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How can I transmutate? Any good youtubers/books/websites etc? Been on this path for over 250days and I think that Im at that point where I may have internalised the benefits and forgot what it was like to live without them hence why I am craving the relapse. Let me know if you know anything like that or what you think that is happening to me
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:13 PM
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I see...probably thats why I dont like doing it. But man the blue 🏀s are getting bad. Won't relapse though. Any other tips? Edit: where can I get legitimate info on this topic? Tired of the self-help youtubers trying to rationalise their success on no fap without any research based evidence
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:45 PM
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Calm, thanks
/r/askTRP17/01/21 04:23 PM
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Faaacts
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:58 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:00 PM
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My bad, whats the link called?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:28 PM
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Thats so coool dude keep it fucking up!! Quit being depressed! Im 18 and thst sounds like something I want to try at 20. How did you approach the girls? Like were they out on the street, at a bar? And also, remember to be your mental point of origin. It takes balls what you did and unlike many in here you seen very genuine so don't give up yet. Focus on whats important: "chase excellence not women". If you don't get pussy who cares? Convince your mind its some kind of fun training your are tryin…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:34 PM
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Ohhh makes sense. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP03/01/21 10:35 PM
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Oh yh il wth
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:57 PM
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Whats isolate and escalate? Took a glance at the sidebar but no luck, hopefully im not blind.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:23 PM
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Who's AMS? Tried searching it wnd some weird results are displayed. Any pointers?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:16 PM
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I appreciate this, thanks. Ive heard the whole black nail joke, whats that about?😂
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:11 PM
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Whats a trade? As in forex and all that?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:13 PM
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Im like that lately. Before I was cool being by myself and "boring" activities seem calm. Now every second I need to do something or my mind just goes crazy. Probably wants a dopamine high or some shit. And when I revise I always crave youtube when before I could go 8 hours non stop. How should I go about meditating so that I reach thst level again? Force myself to meditate 5mins and then slowly go up? I felt like it was a waste of time so how do I trick myself into enjoying it?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:09 PM
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Thanks, Imma buy that book
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:12 PM
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About game specifically not much. Got introduced to it not long ago but I realised Ive been doing C&F for a while without knowing what it was. Ive beard of some books but idk where to start. Read the first rational male book but its not about game
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:11 PM
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Safe bro
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:06 AM
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I do calisthenics hopefully you csn still help me out. I am considering joining boxing so what foods do I eat to gain muscle? How much? I have a healthy diet (chicken, rice and veggies) but not sure om the quantity
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:54 PM
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Figured. Im going to focus more on my studies and see when they lock us out.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:51 PM
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Thanks everyone, good insights here
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:42 PM
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Lift, dress well, take care of yourself, smell good? Or being genetically good looking😂
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:41 PM
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Valid point bro thanks for the insight
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:40 PM
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I do?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:03 PM
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New so I might be wrong but I swear that it helps you get a better grip on frame. (Lmk if you exoerienced dudes disagree) If you are successful and you got game then its so much easier to control frame as you actually have an interesting world for her to enter to. In addition to that, you are not fazed about what they do and if they reject you or not when yku ask them out. If you got something to work towards then they become unimportant and makes you feel more confident overall. And dude if you…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:03 PM
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Rah I hopes it goes well for him
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:33 PM
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I just understood. In my opinion yeah. When younger I always thought it was a good idea to become friends with girls and not guys but I regretred it. It doesnt get you girls and it makes you seem like the gay best friend. Got a good group of girls dont get me wrong and simetimes its helpful to see their perspective on things but I prefer building a group of strong male friends. There is a saying like you become the average of the 5 ppl you soend time with. As my priorities are pursuing excellenc…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:32 PM
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Wdym
/r/askTRP01/01/21 10:39 AM
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30 is too old for chicks but we got time trust me. Ive heard somewhere: "you don't need to be 50k in debt just to have a social life". Keep grinding and get iut of your way to get in social interactions. Im in a similar situation and my plan is to join some dojo or kickboxing to meet a group of men. That might work for you too
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:45 AM
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Assuming your take on porn is the same as mine, I dont touch that shit. Why is it Beta though? Being highly attracted to pixels meaning they have no options?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:35 PM
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Damn man thats pretty good, I am going to read it more carefully before replying. Yeah please do. Btw I can become an alpha right? Ive had alpha tendencies before (not always) (e.g. before my ex I had many plates without awareness but I fucked up my mentality due to oneitis) Right now Im just working in myself. Edit: my bad you did say
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:30 PM
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Irrelevant but what's your perspective on alpha? Also, lately I've been feeling some type of way if I identify a natural alpha in my circle of friends. Its like they got it sk easy for themselves. I guess the best thing is to invest time into applying TRP and get to where they are but with the awareness. A bit of a rant but I would like your view on that
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:47 PM
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Can't lie that seems reasonable. Imma unfriend my ex
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:45 PM
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I've heard that blocking the girl is negative. Is it? Im assuming its because it implies lower SMV? No clue man I'll let you experts answer
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:53 PM
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Calm, thanks!💪🏻
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:33 PM
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Ohhh I think I understand. Making them qualify for me in a subtle way right? so, when they think that you're not going to give them exclusivity, they will leave you for sure. %100 Meaning that I never want to specify that I dont want a serious relationship just "getting to know her" if she asks. Last question if you dont mind. I should be covert about it then right? Being mysterious about what I want etc. I had a plate but I stopped talking as I was too busy, do I need to talk regularly to them?…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:53 PM
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Thanks for the reply! Okay, just so Im clear. I should be covert about our exclusivity and imply I dont want to be exclusive (ngl not planning to be in a rela in my 20s), date around and if one finds out about the other being honest and next them if they get bitchy about it. Also to not sleeo with crazy chicks and get them out of my rotation if they show red flags. Edit: and finally to not get involved with girls I am going to see on a daily basis. I am going college next year so does that mean …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:30 PM
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