Hey there,

Been in a LTR for 1,5 years now. She told me bout some guy who she said she had slight feelings for when we first met. Then she said it was nothing serious, they‘d seen each other just for a week and didn't even kiss. They were following each other on social media. Over time she said that, they had kissed and that they even wanted to meet up again but her parents didn't let her visit him. As he was living far away (in another country. SHE wanted to GO meet HIM) and then she met me. Also said, he told her he was gonna marry her one day no matter what. Funny how this beta bullshit can stick to a girls mind.

Honestly man, she is having anxieties of losing me all the time. She is heavily invested etc and her attraction seems to be 10/10.

Told her to block him when she told me bout the kiss and stuff, she brought up how I used to follow girls too. Said fair enough. Went on.

Few weeks ago I told her to block him. Cuz I got rid of all social media while ago and she couldn‘t bring up me following others no more.

She said she blocked him Already a while ago. then I checked. She just unfollowed. The day I told her to, prolly right after she went home. He still following her.

Honestly, I don‘t care bout that guy but I just wanna understand her. There is plenty of my time I got invested in her.

why she was following him for so long? (Obv they was talking lol)

For real though, never seen anything like this before. My SMV above that guys.

When I do say I had feelings for some chick who I had dated and still keep in touch with her while I‘m in an LTR and refuse to cut her off. Wouldn‘t it mean that I‘m keeping her as an option?

He prolly also hitting on her lol, so lets keep in mind I‘m refusing to cut off a chick who I liked a lot and who liked me too and is constantly trying to flirt with me who I initially left for someone of way higher SMV I‘m in love with?

I just don't understand whats going on, my level of curiosity is at 100. Kinda wanna see what they talking. Shit got me feeling like a child again.

What should I do?