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Precisely brother!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/24 03:19 AM
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Correct. keep trying and failing until you win. You only need to win once If five and a half of the six million fucking suck, focus on the 500,000 that will work. You sound like you’ve given up before you’ve even tried.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/24 02:11 AM
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What was the point of this post brother?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/24 06:37 PM
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Brother, touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:12 PM
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That ability will only help you at the first step. Your lack of confidence in yourself will always fuck things up for you in the long term anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:15 AM
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You now think you’re entitled to be “too different” or “too special” as if you’re too flawed to find a woman. There’s plenty of women like you out there. Get out and explore patiently and they’ll come.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:09 AM
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I don’t really think about RP and BP anymore. If you tell me the issues or frustrations you’re having I can advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:35 PM
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Solid advice. One crucial additional thing that always keeps me grounded is really letting go of entitlement. No one owes you respect, love, money, empathy or anything. There is nothing in this world you have a “right” to. Once I truly accepted that, positivity was second nature.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/24 02:51 PM
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“Similar”: This word indicates that two or more things share some qualities, characteristics, or features, but they are not identical. They may have similarities, but there are also differences between them. “Same”: This word indicates that two or more things are identical or exactly alike in every aspect. There are no differences between them; they are exactly the same. In summary, “similar” implies some degree of resemblance or likeness, while “same” implies complete identity or lack of distin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:24 PM
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This is spot on. This is why I as a millennial feel very responsible for the way Gen Z culture is. Both genders just see each other as blood sucking vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:30 PM
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Hahaha at least you’re honest. I respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:14 PM
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Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:14 PM
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Similar doesn’t mean same and opposites do not attract. That statement is a massive misconception. We like people similar to us in almost every circumstance but when it’s intimacy we’re attracted to opposites. What bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:13 PM
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Source? Explain where you got 50/50 from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:10 PM
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Again that is not true. I can confirm as I have 15 years of hook up, fwb, situationships and casual as a tall and hot man. The “vast” majority you think is actually a small minority, people exaggerate and lie about their sexual prowess all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:24 PM
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Because we attract people similar to us. So if you’re attracting people who you’re not attracted to, you need to look inward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:17 PM
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Lol, you made the same generalisation about “women’s inflated standards” and now you’re upset i’m generalising men and women as “we” You’ve just proved my about entitlement. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:13 PM
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Hook up culture is largely over exaggerated, most women aren’t interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:04 PM
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Mmm, I mean peoples entitlement naturally only comes out when they don’t get what they want. The actual definition of entitlement is :- “The fact of having a right to something.” I believe if you get what you want you should show gratitude and if you don’t you should show acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:02 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:57 PM
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Yes, They have told every single one of us that we’re special and we’re entitled to nothing but the best of the best. Yet each time our expectations never match reality we experience unbearable pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:55 PM
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You wouldn’t date some exactly like yourself but you are subconsciously attracted to people similar to yourself. For example :- Rich people like to hang around other rich people. Fitness people like to hang around other fitness people. Gamers around gamers, I could go on. So yes the gender could be opposite but the values and personalities will be similar. Your closest friends are very similar to you. If you believe you’re attracting complete opposites, chances are you’re not fully aware of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:52 PM
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Which brings us full circle to my point. Both men and women did this, so in essence “We”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:47 PM
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Their inflated standards didn’t come out of thin air. It came from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:27 AM
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The definition of entitlement:- “the fact of having a right to something.” No, entitlement isn’t deserved regardless of whether you get something or not. We clearly have different views so let’s just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:49 AM
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So what’s the point you’re making? Who’s at fault? If there’s no “we” then what is there? If you have an opinion then make it clear, you’re saying a whole lot of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:27 AM
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Yes precisely. Have standards, just don’t force anyone to conform to them and be prepared for patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:20 AM
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Have standards bro. Just don’t be entitled to believe everyone will share them or accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:09 AM
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Lmao, so you as a man are literally ignoring these women stating what they want while projecting your own insecurities onto them and wonder why you’re struggling. It’s so ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:47 PM
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I agree. We’re all the same, just different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:43 PM
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This is it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:16 PM
4

So essentially, “the past generations felt entitled about this, so I’m entitled to feel entitled about this now”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:14 PM
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So… you just sling dick at any woman who’s your type physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:47 PM
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I absolutely agree! Classic entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:42 PM
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It will give you results, I cannot guarantee however when you will see them. There is very little things in history that do not succumb to human willpower and determination. If you want proof of the time and effort I put in, DM me and I’ll show you. Let me shatter your warped reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:32 PM
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No I’m not saying be yourself. I’m telling you to stop being an entitled brat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:18 PM
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How is that wishful thinking? I’ve been on over 50 dates, approached countless women while constantly working on myself and hobbies. You think you’re entitled for the woman of your dreams to just fall in your lap?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:12 PM
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Are you able to eat pussy to a stellar standard? Are you prepared to put the time and effort to teach a woman how to give a stellar blowjob? If the answer is no to either of these, you’re entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:03 PM
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If you say you are able to meet all the standards you seek in a partner then go out and start socialising with women more. Go to social clubs, hobbies etc. If you don’t want to then that means you feel you’re too entitled to put the effort in. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:00 PM
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The first part was just an example. The point of my message is, I don’t care about what works for other people, I only care about what works for me. In regard to your other part I absolutely despise special treatment. So if I was a thief, I would accept my partner being one. Special treatment and entitlement go hand in hand. You think you deserve special treatment in one aspect and I promise you, you will meet someone else who believes they deserve special treatment in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:57 PM
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Try not to focus on what women say they want and what men say works. Focus on what you want and what works for you If you really want a chocolate bar, you’re most definitely going to get it one way or another. If men say buying chocolate bars with money works but I can’t afford them, then I’ll steal them. I got the chocolate bar in the end and my way worked for me. Hope that helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:16 PM
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I agree. Delusion of grandeur is one of our if not the biggest obstacles we face in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:10 PM
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I personally don’t believe so you know. It’s in our DNA to want to social, be loved and etc, heck I believe that even more so in women actually. Try not to believe everything you hear about women and men. It’s mostly bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:08 PM
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I disagree brother, what makes you believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:01 PM
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Absolutely! It’s like how children behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:54 PM
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Fair enough, I like the guessing game and the unknown. It removes the facade of hiding behind a profile, I’m able to be fully present and have a woman’s undivided attention. Bars/clubs are just as bad as online dating, I’m more about approaching while doing hobbies and interests. Each to their own.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/23 11:54 AM
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Bro the golden time of online dating is long gone. Like any business, unless you’re paying money on these dating apps, you’re not going to get matches. Then, after you spend the money you have to swipe endlessly on women who have 1000 other dudes just like you to pick from without a guarantee that She’s going to see your interest. She’s even going to be interested back. Don’t even get me started on the importance of location too. All this plus so many other factors going on before you even get a…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/23 01:35 AM
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Regardless of your goal, unless you’re in that top bracket it’s a pointless and lazy coping mechanism for your own fear of approaching. Not to mention the time, money and effort put into online dating is much more than approaching. Wanna smash? Approach Want a decent/average woman? Approach Want a wife? Approach Get the message? Fuck online dating and approach.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/23 04:13 PM
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Online dating is pointless unless you’re in the top 20% of men looks, money and status wise.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/23 11:32 PM
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Read my thread again. I said girls who YOU do not like. Not every girl you like is going to be 100% into you, the most important thing is you like them.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/23 10:50 AM
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Approach one woman a day. Whether it be on the way to the gym, work, store, whatever. Just approach one girl a day. It’s like any craft. I’m gonna be honest and tell you bluntly you’re gonna suck at first. You’re going to be awful, you’re going to get laughed at, ignored and probably shamed. You’ll also get praised for your confidence, smiled and blushed at. Then one day, like any other craft it’ll just click and the instinct will come. Just start off with one approach a day. Any other tips righ…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 08:23 AM
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Look into “The defence mechanisms of humans” The one that I urge you to look into is “Sublimation” It’s when you redirect all your negative and traumatic experiences into positive. For example, regarding your traumatic experience, you could run your own classes, workshops or charitable activities into educating people about driving safer. You could also donate/support to those affected by driving accidents. I will not tell you to forget or try to move on from what happened to you because you pro…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/23 09:09 PM
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Good fucking post bro, need more shit like this
/r/TheRedPill09/11/23 09:02 PM
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Don’t read into it too deep, it just means banging girls who align with you and your values. Same way you wouldn’t go into business, hire or be friend’s with someone you don’t like/align with. Don’t bang girls you don’t align with just because they’re attractive.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/23 04:43 AM
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You’ve asked majority of the young men in the world? The polls were confirmed to be taken by majority of young men in the world? Are you actually proof reading what you’re typing? You even proved me right in your final sentence, “her objective hotness” All you’ve confirmed is that Jessica Simpson and Britney Spears are attractive. No numbers, no scales, no nothing. End it there. All this ranking of 9/10 is simp shit that doesn’t need to be said or done. Call attractive women what they are, attra…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 04:06 PM
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This is why I say it’s pointless and stupid. Jessica Simpson was never a 9 to me, projecting your opinion as “obvious” and “ a spade a spade” as if it’s a fact is childish. Your opinion is not a fact. Stop with the sweeping statements.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 03:44 PM
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Please do, you’re amazing at breaking stuff down. It helps me a lot
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 11:31 AM
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Honestly bro, the point of walking away is to geniunely show that there is no competition and to build attraction. I build attraction by showing that I’m genuinely fine with letting her go and I also show that I’m high value by talking to other attractive women and giving them an intense connection It takes 3 seconds to tell if you’re physically attracted to someone and vice versa (look it up, it’s scientific fact). So a conversation building attraction in a club, shouldn’t take longer than 5-10…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 03:31 AM
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I’m breaking it down for people who don’t understand, not for myself. I do have experience, just at a higher level than yourself and I don’t mean this in any disrespectful way. Approaching girls in a club is a waste of time for me personally, I know this from experience. 90% of the extremely attractive women which are the ones I go for, are there for attention, the music is too loud to really have a conversation/build attraction and unless you’re in the top 10% of guys it will be alot of effort …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 07:06 PM
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If you’re not in a fun mood, you shouldn’t be anywhere near a girl. That’s all there is to it.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 05:15 PM
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I’m not most guys, I turn down average and even above average women all the time.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 03:58 PM
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You been on fire with your posts and comments. You’re one of the few reasons I’m still here, seriously. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 03:07 PM
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Yes she will. Look I can only go off my experiences and after speak to the OP, I’ve realised my experiences differ from 95% of guys. I’m genetically blessed so when I tell girls to come find me they do. Girls don’t forget attractive options. Especially for hooking up. If one dealership offers you to test drive a Ferrari and another tries to “steal” you away offering a test drive of a Mercedes. You will find your way back to the Ferrari dealership. I’ve experienced it first hand and seen it happe…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 02:39 PM
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You know what bro, you’re right. Thanks for the feedback. Appreciate it
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 01:12 PM
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Thank you brother, hit the nail on the head.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 12:15 PM
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Why do guys love this logical explanation for getting women? I can’t stand it. Have you ever been out/friends with another guy who’s MUCH more attractive than you but also had shit game? You’ll quickly realise that you can have as much “game” or try to “steal” as you’d like but ultimately it won’t make a difference if a more attractive offer is in her face. Especially if it’s just to hook up It’s happened to me time and time again and I’m an extremely attractive guy, there’s levels to this. Anyw…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 12:13 PM
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Bro you plan whatever you want. If a supermodel approaches you and a less attractive option comes trying to “steal” you, you’re gonna find your way back to the supermodel. You can achieve your objective as much as you want. Doesn’t mean it’s going to make a difference in the end.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 07:50 AM
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I didn’t go into details of what I do. Read my reply to King. Also that is still not true, If your game and attraction is good enough she will come back to you. If it ends in failure for you, then it just means you didn’t build enough attraction or you just weren’t compatible. Once another guy comes over to a girl you’re speaking to, no matter how you want to spin it. If you stay the girl becomes a prize, she sees two men fighting over her and is put on a pedestal. I’m not doing that shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 07:32 AM
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I disagree with the “stealing his girl part”. She was never mine and she’s not yours, it’s just our turn. Whenever guys like you try to “steal” the girl I’m talking to, I just say “come find me when you’re done” to her walk away and start talking to other girls. From that moment on, your timer starts. You now have to prove you’re more attractive than me while under pressure, she will be constantly comparing you to me throughout your conversation. All the while I’m not even there and I’m putting …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 07:30 AM
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I just walk away, If she likes me enough she’ll come back.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 06:06 AM
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I can tell you don’t exercise cause even this post is lazy.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 11:06 PM
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It’s nice to see simple yet effective stuff. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 05:41 AM
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I have a personality disorder and ADHD. I used to enjoy fucking with people, either way, women love an emotional rollercoaster. Probably why me and I believe Sarsaparilla get alot of them.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 04:57 AM
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Alright let’s do it, I’m always up for a healthy discussion. Bro honestly, the reality is you will never truly know someone, you don’t even truly know yourself. Who you are now, compared to last year could be two different people. That’s why I believe it’s pointless to go through such harsh vetting conditions. You could have a perfect dynamic with a girl in the getting to know stage but as soon as shit gets official it falls apart. You could have a great girlfriend but as soon as you move in tog…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 10:23 PM
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Nonsense, there are few elite animals that hunt in the desert and there are many that hunt in a forest. If everyone now follows your advice and runs to the forest to hunt, the forest will now become over saturated and we’ll be back in the same spot again. You have to adapt to what you have in front of you. It’s survival of the fittest right? No matter how much you want to spin it, these same guys who tried to crucify me when I said life isn’t a competition, cannot now complain about the competit…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 04:08 PM
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I would love for there to be more morality in the world but, in order to achieve that people would have to shine their own eyes well and look in the mirror. Something I think most people can’t bear to do. They’d much rather judge others before judging themselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 01:58 PM
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If 70% are fat then that means a lot of people here are in that %. If they’re not in the % then, that’s even more the reason to not go for fatties and go compete with the guys in the top 30%. These are the same guys hailing life as a competition right? Well then go compete.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 01:50 PM
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You’re right. It’s just always sad to see bullshit being gobbled up
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 06:18 AM
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I think it’s best we agree to disagree at this point because you’re honestly assuming a bit too much. I’m going to give you grace and clarify some stuff. I want to make it clear I respect your view but it’s clear we have a different approach and that’s ok Just because I’m emotional doesn’t mean when I make a mistake I’m not going to learn from it. You also assumed I’m overly emotional which is not the case, I’m exceptionally well at controlling my emotions. Being emotional doesn’t mean I’m stupi…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 05:49 AM
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So sad to say but you just might be right.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 10:19 PM
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Great post again brother, People just don’t seem to understand that women operate emotionally. They’re not supposed to make sense. They want to experience a rollercoaster of emotions to feel alive They want you to push them off a cliff then catch them at the bottom They want you to be both the hero and the villain of their story I just don’t think people will ever understand cause they’re trying to rationalise it.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 10:12 PM
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Some points I agree and understand with, some I don’t. To summarise, I disagree with your point to not get emotionally invested until after 6 months as I am an emotional man. That’s who I am. I don’t believe you can go from neutral into fifth gear when you need to. Especially with women. You’re someone who’s calm whereas I’m someone who’s intense. if you wanna keep your emotions on a leash for 6 months, good for you. I ain’t doing all that, if I fuck up, oh well, I’ll take the experience and mov…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 08:55 PM
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Pahahaha! I love my girls crazy to, give me that push pull energy baby! Honestly bro, you nailed it. That’s exactly what I do, I tell myself this isn’t going to be the only attractive girl that I like for me in the world. They’ll be others. Same thing goes for personality too that a lot of people here seem to try to give stick for. If a girl is boring, why would the sex now be fun? I love making a girl cum, squirt and dominating them in the bedroom. Why should I give someone who bores me the fuc…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 03:28 PM
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Hahaha, that’s I forget I’m typing to the world sometimes. It’s my sarcasm, appreciate the feedback.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 01:26 PM
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Bro what the fuck are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 12:05 PM
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The last two paragraphs of my last post clearly explained strategy. Also, where the hell did I state anything to do with relationship preferences? You stating a woman dropping her panties for a superstar after 10mins is something we already knew. It offers nothing in regard to navigating the sexual market place, 99% of the population will never be Di-Caprio.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 10:12 AM
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TRP is also about sexual strategy. Banging girls you don’t like 9/10 leads to shitty sex, like Leo having to put earbuds in to cum which is detrimental to your game long term. Not to mention a potential sexual assault case that I won’t even need to get into. Whereas banging girls you actually like will, lead to amazing sex which will improve your sexual prowess, confidence and game in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 08:35 AM
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Is that honestly what you want though op? Sex so boring, he’s basically using a girl as a human blow up doll with earbuds in to cum. Honestly I’ve had so many hook ups I dissociate sometimes cause I don’t feel anything. Sounds like Leo did the same, I get the message but I wanna enjoy my sex man.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 07:06 AM
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I’m gonna go ahead and say it. I’ve noticed all your posts are very manufactured, calculated and regurgitated. They’re very safe and generic to the point I can’t help but believe you’ll say anything seen as “right” just to gain traction to your website that you keep posting. There’s no personality behind your posts. I don’t believe you actually care about what you’re saying. What you’re saying isn’t wrong however it’s not you personally that’s right. It’s the post that you’ve copied and pasted w…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 01:41 PM
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Yes! That’s my biggest issue with a lot of the guys here now. They just keep regurgitating theories without even applying them because they’re scared to fuck up. They’re logicians, 1+1=2 gamers and it’s annoying. They’re happy to not be right as long as they can’t be proven wrong
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 06:20 AM
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Please do get all true Scotsman. It’s a breath of fresh air to see the truth. I agree wholeheartedly with your analogies! How can we truly understand and appreciate pleasure if we refuse to experience pain? I’ve learnt a lot more from pain than I have pleasure in my life.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 05:56 AM
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Amazing post, I’m the same. Now this might come across as batshit crazy but when I was constantly developing my game, I would put myself in positions with girls who I knew would test my game to its limits. As a result, my game is so good now that most of the times I don’t even need to say much to women. I just give them a look, gesture or short sentence and they completely understand. It’s all good knowing all the tools however, if you don’t know how or have experience applying them, then all it…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 05:40 AM
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I never assumed anything. I love the fact that all I spoke about is my experience yet, you now go on the defensive talking about how great you are and I assumed you’re like me. I never mentioned anyone directly. Lastly, all those things you mentioned you are, fit, sociable, great job etc. I was too and even more yet I still didn’t feel like I was a great person or shall I say, who I truly wanted to be. So who’s making assumptions about who now? All I did was stir the waters and like fish, you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:27 AM
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I think the most important aspect was treating people how I wanted to be treated. It sounds simple, but you’d be surprised how many times we tell ourselves “this situation is different” to when people confront us about our unkind behaviour. Ask your friends/family/colleagues what are some things you can improve on and whatever they say, accept it. Don’t make any excuses or try to dismiss it. You’re already half way there as you had the courage to ask how to become a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:00 PM
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I have no doubt you are your type’s type. Someone who knows himself will know his women.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 11:41 AM
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If my message comes across as portraying love then that’s on me.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 05:47 AM
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If you continuously attract trash women, it’s nothing to do with you. If you continuously attract high quality women though, it’s all because of you. Got it
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 09:37 PM
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Bro I’m not talking about physical or material attraction and this is the point I’m making. I’ve attracted multiple of the “precious few” you mentioned and it’s actually a lot more easier than you think. When two people come together in a relationship, one will dominate the other. If one person is confident and the other is insecure, either both will eventually become confident or both will become eventually insecure. So if you’re confident man who continuously attracts and entertains insecure w…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 07:33 PM
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Why are you entertaining trash if you’re so above them? I don’t let trash people let alone women even near me. If I’m on a date with a woman and I don’t like/align with her, after 10mins, I politely excuse myself and leave. Don’t care how attractive you are or what else you can offer me. My presence cannot be bought.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 07:19 PM
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It’s nonsense. Can a bum attract a millionaire? Are you and your friends complete opposites? We preach that we should meet like minded successful people in the gym, business world and life but it’s only women we should be attracting opposites. If you’re confident man, why on earth would you want to attract an insecure woman?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 07:04 PM
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What does what you just typed have to do with mine or the OP’s point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:28 PM
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You can be both strong and kind. Just place the right sort of boundaries and avoid people who make you feel shit. Whether it be friends, family or partners. Spare no one in your path to becoming great.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:33 PM
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Seriously bro, why should women have to limit their options for men misbehaving? This shouldn’t even be a question, this is stupid. Men should be correcting other men not limiting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:59 PM
3

It’s going to happen from time to time. Just surround yourself with as much people that won’t trick or use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:46 PM
11

Don’t be kind for rewards. Be kind because it aligns with your values and it’s who you are. Being rejected for being kind has nothing to do with you. I promise you, once you figure yourself out, you’ll have too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:40 PM
34

I think one of the biggest awakenings I had was being completely honest with myself. No filters, no blaming others, most importantly, no judging. I took a month away from everyone and did nothing but observe and reflect on all my actions for a month. I literally turned into a monk and ultimately I realised, I am not a genuinely pleasant person to be around. Honestly it almost broke me and I felt like I was losing my mind. I finally realised, how could I be such a nasty person to be around but ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:44 PM
8

Yeah I’ve also checked it out. I’m probably gonna head there too. Makes sense to jump off a sinking ship
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 06:48 AM
78

I’m very conflicted. I’ve been here since 2013 and agree wholeheartedly with everything you’ve been saying. On one hand, I believe in fighting to restore the true meaning and purpose this forum was made for. On the other, I believe all good things must come to an end and this is just one of those things. I’m sad to say that I’m leaning more towards the latter.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 06:41 AM
1

You will go crazy trying to figure out women, best advice I can give is don’t bother. Just have a limit for time wasters/flakers. Also don’t ever cancel pre-made plans, specially ones with friends for a girl. You got this.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 06:01 PM
7

Your unavailability is a reaction though. You’re being reactive as opposed to active. I actively offer one chance of grace when it comes to rescheduling. After that, no matter the reason I next. If I put my middle finger up at the sun and scream fuck you at it, it is still going to actively shine. It won’t react to me. Be active with women not reactive.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 12:05 PM
26

No it’s not, Women are not logical. Guys please stop with the 1+1=2 logic with women. Women operate in an emotional realm A woman will cancel on you because she’s too insecure on that one day. I’ve had a woman cancel while I was on my way to the date because she felt too insecure. A woman will cancel because her friends talked her out of it. I’ve had a woman say she almost cancelled because her friends were unsure of me. A woman will cancel because she’s not that interested or her ex called her …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 09:29 AM
1

This dude has followed my comments on three different posts, screaming about how great his life is and how much money he makes. If you guys disagree with what I’m saying so much and I’m such a loser, just ignore my post/comments. It’s so strange.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 08:37 AM
0

People would call me a nihilist. Life is simply what you make of it. If there’s six million ways to die, then there must be at least six million ways to live. You decide.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 04:59 AM
0

You want all those things you said about me to be true so badly, cause your reality is warped. I’ve met people like you my whole life. People who I make feel insecure because I don’t care about their games,competition or rules. If you are an “alpha”, I am a “sigma”. You chase, I attract You will never win games with me because I will never play
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 04:51 AM
20

I understand, for me personally it’s important to not get tied into power games. If she cancels and offers another date which I’m not doing anything then I’d just take it. Her rescheduling shows high interest as opposed to just cancelling.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 04:38 AM
186

Sounds like to me a more attractive option came up. Just one of those things you can’t control. I think you should have more options/try not to seem too attached as you can unconsciously come across as too needy.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 01:24 PM
3

You can having multiple passions i.e I enjoy reading, skating, gyming, swimming, martial arts, socialising, business etc, but I only really focus on socialising, gyming and business. Those 3 which make up 20% of my total passions will result in 80% of my total life’s success I.e making money, great health and great connections. Does that make sense now? Have as much passions as you want, only focus on 20% of them to make your life 80% better
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 11:46 AM
1

Nice cope. Can’t rationalise an explanation, so resorts to insults. You won’t explain because you can’t. The only competition you got going on is one with your mind and reality.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 11:13 AM
1

Okay, so where does competition tie into any of these things? What does any of these things have to do with you? Where do you receive “blows” in any of these things? Seems like you’re trying to create examples you don’t really care or understand about
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 10:44 AM
2

Lack of true purpose goes hand in hand with being overly competitive for no reason. People just want to compete and win just for competing sake. The whole point of my post is to find your passions and be competitive in that.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 09:17 AM
0

Really? Give me some examples.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 05:17 AM
8

Honestly bro, people think if they accept what the rich say it’s going to make them rich.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 08:48 PM
1

Thank you bro, it just takes patience and effort. Your game will get there
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 08:09 PM
2

Bro, been there, done that. I got way too many injuries
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 07:20 PM
2

Don’t confuse cooperation with competition. You should only be competing with yourself. You should strive to be better today than you were yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 05:57 PM
6

Literally this is it. I’ve learnt a lot more from cooperating with people in better positions than me as opposed to competing with them. I will take the knowledge they share with me and become a better person, I may even surpass them.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 05:52 PM
16

I couldn’t take it anymore.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 03:18 PM
5

Why does somebody else have to factor in everything you do? It’s so strange, I don’t get it. Just focus on yourself man.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 03:14 PM
4

You gave me all this pointless information about your chubby friend, his chubby girlfriend, your roommates, your “tip top” shape and you making six figures all without me asking. All for my approval, like a girl wanting to be reassured she’s pretty. While I gave you fuck all information about me yet you STILL think I’m in your frame and you’re not in mine? Delusions of grandeur. I’m done playing with my food so this will be my last reply.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 09:18 AM
17

Okay,so explain why you felt the need to list accomplishments and call your friend a loser who has zero going in his life to strangers on a sub who never asked? Do you walk up to strangers and list your accomplishments while shitting on your friend without being asked? Let me see you “frame” your way out of this.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 05:29 PM
16

Rather be a “loser” on Reddit than be defending another dude on Reddit who doesn’t even know you exist. If I wont get it, you definitely won’t get it either as you’re focusing on another man more than yourself. It takes a loser to spot a loser sweet cheeks ;) Btw, we can see your post history on Reddit about porn and reverse creepiness. I hope you found the amateur porn star you were looking for and I’m sorry 3 girls stared at you and made you cry about it to your mom!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 03:21 PM
15

Michael Jordon is a winner to you. Michael Jordon is just Michael Jordon to me. In 100 years time no one is going to give a shit about Michael Jordon Just like Michael Jordon doesn’t give a shit about the basketballers before him or you. If you want to be like Michael Jordon good for you. I want to be like Tzar_93 who is me.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 02:14 PM
69

I’m on the fence with things like this. I’ve realised not everyone wants to be number 1 or is as competitive as I am and that is okay. You’re not a loser for being content with having 16% body fat working out 3 times a week. Likewise you’re not a winner for working out 5 times a week having 6% body fat. You’re just yourself. 9/10 the great names you mentioned didn’t even focus on others, they’re just obsessed with doing that one thing and having fun. The number 1 basketball player won’t clown or…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 11:24 AM
20

“do you think i give a fuck?” I can tell you don’t give a fuck about alot of things, especially yourself. Your whole comment history is basically trolling and insulting others on multiple different posts. Who hurt you? Heal bro.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 10:42 AM
28

I hate posts like these, why not just offer the advice part without having to insult or make the dude feel bad. He’s a fucking 19 year old kid for goodness sake.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 08:47 AM
1

Best way to get over oneitis is to experience more women. There’s multiple “soul mates” just gotta find them. Although you won’t be able to if you’re currently tied down. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill04/10/23 05:25 AM
1

It’s a rite of passage my brother. I went through the exact same thing. My new girlfriend, I’m always happy and excited to see and the sex is always amazing. Trust me, a woman who you’ll be content with and excited does exist
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 08:07 PM
1

Cope is the second most powerful force, the first is complete honesty. Credit to yourself for being able to be completely honest with yourself. Nobody is perfect, show me a perfect human and I’ll show you a liar. You got this.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 11:15 AM
1

You should feel excited to see your girlfriend regardless of what you’re focusing on, if you don’t then you’re settling. If you do, then you’re content and that’s a great thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 06:24 AM
1

You’re not settling, you’re content. There’s a big difference between the two. The language you tell yourself is extremely important.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 04:08 AM
1

I’m looking at it from all perspectives. I’ve fucked multiple 9/10s, turned down 3somes etc. What has a 9/10 woman done other than look great, which is down to a genetic lottery to be :- Ranked as a 9/10 Deserve to fuck me. When you rank girls, you’re subconsciously putting them on a pedestal. This makes them receive more value and respect than they deserve, which makes your game weak. That’s why most of the guys in this thread can’t control them and claim they’re too much work. It’s because the…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/23 07:18 AM
10

I think rating scales are bullshit. If a girl a 9-10 looks wise but has barely any intelligence or anything else to offer then she’s not an 9-10 to me because she’s an airhead. She will only ever be capped at a 7.5 max to me. Since a young age, most 9-10s would have experienced many offers from all types of men just because they look good. So they won’t feel the need to have anything else to offer. Literally the OP has given a girl a ranking of 9-10 just based off her looks which is crazy to me.…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 07:17 PM
2

If I get bored of something then that means it’s not for me. No point looking back or even thinking about something I don’t want. Stop hitting that copium my brother.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 07:03 PM
0

How is this not a settlers mindset?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 10:57 AM
10

“I can walk away at any moment from the 7, but the sexy 9 I just can’t seem to control” It crazy right? Sounds like insecurity to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 10:54 AM
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Sorry to break it to you buddy. There is no difference between the 7 and the 9. If anything the “7” is the true “9” It’s your mind that’s doing all the work here. All you’ve mentioned about the “9” is pure physical lust which in time will fade and you’ll find yourself moving onto the next once you’re bored. The “7” is the one with lots of layers to herself and the one who constantly improves herself and has your relationship as a main focus. Sounds like a true “9” to me. Lastly, I’ll be damned i…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 08:42 AM
8

Learn martial arts, take up more hobbies and interests. Once you know self defence and have more hobbies a-lot of the comparisons will disappear. You’ll start thinking less about what others can do and more about what YOU can do.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/23 09:54 AM
5

Women don’t care about what you have they only care about how you make them feel.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 05:38 PM
42

I agree, also it’s worth mentioning a girl sleeping with you doesn’t equate to how much she likes you. Attraction isn’t like maths. One girl could like you a lot but still not want to fuck you on the first date. Another girl couldn’t care much about you and fuck you on the first date. Most important thing is both of you are having a good time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 04:25 PM
15

“Creating a fake social profile to interact with your girlfriend or gathering information about her from trusted sources” I stopped reading after this. I’m not stalking my girlfriend or doing all this testing shit. I don’t care enough. I just set my own boundaries and values. If they align with the girl, perfect. If not? NEXT!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/23 01:31 PM
2

My best advice is go home and confront her as best as you can right now. Vent your frustrations and issues as best as and calmly as you can. You’re most definitely going to lose your head and that’s ok too. Get it all out and then afterwards start making steps to better yours and your kids lives. No more thinking or needlessly explaining. Time for action. You need to get used to confrontations and difficult situations you’re not used to so the best way to do it is to confront it head on. Whateve…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/23 01:05 PM
0

Can someone explain to me why the body count of a girl I’m hooking up with matters? I genuinely don’t see any point in discussing it. Whether they’re lying or telling the truth I couldn’t care less. I just wanna fuck. I honestly believe it’s an ego thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 10:58 PM
7

This is it. Too many fucking times I see people on this sub laughing and mocking at other because of their own achievements and experiences, thinking it makes them a high value man not realising it just makes them look the complete opposite. If you have a different perspective which you feel can help someone, clowning them isn’t going to help. You just look like an insecure prick. I can bench press 220lbs and if I see someone struggling to bench 50lbs at my gym I’m not going to clown them. I’m g…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 01:19 PM
1

Bro all I’m saying is be the best version of yourself, I cannot believe this isn’t sticking. Everything else you’re saying is garbage. You are what you project. It takes a loser to spot a loser. You being happy to point out losers and make fun of them isn’t gonna make you feel anymore like a winner. Winners NEVER focus on losers You’re pretty much just the king of losers but guess what? A king of losers is still a loser.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 09:43 AM
2

Who decides someone’s a fat broke loser? You a stranger or the person you’re looking at themselves? What you literally did just now is look at someone and project what you see aka your “opinion” onto the world. If that “fat broke loser” is genuinely happy and self assured with himself he’s not gonna give a fuck what some random stranger in the worlds gonna think. Look at Patrice o neal for example. I’m sure you’d look at him and assume he’s a fat broke loser at a first glance right? However you …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/23 05:37 AM
3

I promise they will want you when you finally start to want yourself. That pain and trauma will always linger in your subconscious, I know cause I experience the same. It will never truly go away, just find things and people that make you think about it less. Overthinking is the biggest cause of anxiety, depression and self doubt. Find more hobbies. I skate, swim, go to the gym, do martial arts, read and more. Do whatever you can to keep your mind and body active and it’ll get better bro. No gir…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/23 03:44 PM
3

Hey man! I didn’t mean killing yourself physically! I meant the old you! The old traumatised and weak you. Have you ever thought about moving to a new country/city? You’re right! People do get what they want and you need to know what you want. Do you want a long term girlfriend who will love and accept you for who you are? It’s possible, I promise you. I’m talking from experience. Chances are you’re looking in the wrong places. Unfortunately the majority of super model looking women will be too …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/23 09:20 AM
13

Brother just a question, have you ever deeply questioned the reason why that stays in the back in your mind no matter what you do? Chances are it’s tied to a traumatic memory you’re repressing. You need to ask yourself who decided that no one wants you and do everything you can to rid yourself of people who remind you of that feeling. Even yourself! Who you were or what you experienced has nothing to do with who you are now. You deserve great things.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/23 06:15 PM
6

This post is the truth. Until you genuinely accept yourself without judgement you will never be happy. With or without women
/r/TheRedPill02/09/23 06:11 PM
1

Never really understood people who want to have their cake and eat it. In my experiences it never works out favourably. All people regardless of gender never take kindly to double standards. So she may agree and she could very well be committed to you but who knows how long that will last? There could come a time where you’re both going through a rough situation, another option becomes available to fuck and she’ll do it. All she’ll tell herself is “well you’re not solely committed so why should …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/23 10:55 AM
2

It’s made me so happy to see this, I’m currently in a transition that feels so strange. I used to be able to pull chicks effortlessly, my confidence was bullet proof and I was the life of every party. Then I discovered TRP got older, wiser and started getting rejected more by not just girls but also in life. Now I feel so bored, empty and lonely. I’m always overthinking too. All this knowledge I gained, although priceless is a gift and a curse. This post is a breath of fresh air. Now more than e…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/23 12:01 PM
-2

Honestly, this is it. I feel like men really make opening up much more complicated than it needs to be.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 10:58 PM
125

Gonna be honest here, I’ve opened up on a rare occasion and my girls been very supportive. I have given myself permission to do what I want when I want. If I can’t be myself around my girl then I’ll just get rid of her.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 09:39 PM
28

Exactly. He might as well just fuck escorts.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 07:59 PM
57

Honestly bro, after reading this post, I’m pretty sure you don’t like women.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 07:45 PM
4

Is it just me or am I seeing the same posts over and over again?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 08:30 PM
0

But you can have your cake and eat it without lying though? Just tell her you wanna fuck someone else lmao You just don’t want anyone else to fuck your girl or you’re scared she will leave you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 12:41 PM
0

Oh brother, I’ll spell it out for you. There a no moralising here. I don’t give a fuck if you wanna lie or cheat. Just don’t make excuses for it. You’re just a coward who’s afraid to tell their girlfriend they wanna fuck other women cause you’re scared you’re gonna lose her.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 12:12 PM
5

You do know, you could just not get into a relationship right? Then you can fuck as much women as you like without having to lie or cheat. Stop making excuses.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 05:16 AM
4

Alright, so lemme ask you something. What do you do when you find a girl attractive and she hasn’t given you any IOI’s?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 06:05 AM
27

It’s really good to see you’re pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 04:56 AM
14

If you only wait for IOIs then you’re playing it too safe and you’re just waiting for women to acknowledge you. I think it’s fine to approach any woman you find attractive even if she doesn’t seem interested. Sometimes their in their own world or a nice conversation increases attraction.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 04:46 AM
38

Precisely this. I don’t even bother asking how many other guys she’s seeing. I’m not committed to her so she ain’t gonna be committed to me.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 04:30 AM
56

Yeah that’s cool. Don’t be surprised if your “loyal potential girlfriends” just lie and bang other guys behind your back.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 04:28 AM
3

It’s crazy, typing a novel about how he thinks women view his dick.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 12:52 PM
-2

It’s common sense that we are the prime mover though? It’s also basic knowledge to believe you’re the prize. I’m not hating on the OP. I just believe there’s a better way to inform people that they’re the prize without turning it into some erotic novel about his dick.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 08:06 AM
3

Hey bro, honestly speaking, you’re now growing into an adult and you will now experience people letting you a lot. You’re going to start realising that you’re not as special as you think you are and the world doesn’t give a shit about you. So what I will say is pretty much, expect the worst but still hope for the best in life and people. Also don’t work associate with people you don’t like or who don’t like you. Whatever you can gain from them isn’t worth it.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 07:52 AM
-1

Oh brother, what’s with these guys thinking they have some magical wand like dick. Before I had a LTR, I was only doing hook ups and FWB’s. They would tell me my dick is so amazing, they came all the time and my dick could cure cancer. Wanna know why? Cause they really liked ME. That’s it. When a girl likes you, she’ll say whatever she can to make you feel good and spend time with you. Fast forward my LTR it was the same but only in the initial stage. She finally told me what she likes - eating …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 06:43 AM
-4

Oh really? Lemme break shit down to you since you think you’re so experienced. You know heterosexual women orgasm the LEAST amount out of studies shown. Chances are the women who claim you are sooo good at sex are just lying to you to stroke your fragile ego. I’m gonna be transparent enough to say my LTR of multiple years was lying to me in the beginning of our relationship of how many times she orgasmed because she wanted to please me so bad. So please. Put your ego in the bed. Most women you h…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 11:47 PM
-7

Sorry to break it to you bro. This post is garbage. You’re talking about experience you had. The more experience of pussy you have the more you should realise it ain’t that deep. I ain’t playing games or doing dread with girls cause I don’t care enough. If I wanna fuck you I will and if I don’t, I won’t. Simple as
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 11:31 PM
5

Yup I can tell this is the truth. I’ve had 3 women on rotation and honestly it was exhausting too. Once you get what you want, you realise it ain’t all that.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 10:23 PM
3

What the fuck am I reading?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 09:28 PM
68

With all these recent posts, it’s gotten to the point where I now check this sub for my amusement.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 07:14 PM
11

He can’t advise on something he doesn’t know. He’s talking about his favourite 7 pornstars on rotation on pornhub.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 04:27 PM
22

Who actually has time to have 7 women on rotation? Have you ever experienced 3 women on rotation before? I honestly don’t think so.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 03:53 PM
1

Looking at your recent posts in purple pill I struggle to believe you are good looking and get regular sex.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/21 04:53 PM
4

Bro, you’re a better man than me. I can’t be fucked with these guys trapped in their own despair. Fuck em. More pussy for me and you.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/21 08:16 AM
2

You actually don’t get it. Yes looks matter getting a guys foot through the door but if he has the brain of a child or comes across a creep do you think a woman is still gonna be as wet as a waterfall? Do me a favour and go look up what sex appeal is.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 08:49 PM
3

“Men who have had lots of success due to their looks have natural condidence and abundance due to positive feedback loop.” Sorry this is just incorrect. They will only have natural confidence and abundance of girls below them. When it comes to girls who are on their level they will crumble again and again. I’ve seen it happen time and time again. Yeah they may fuck girls based on their looks but that’s it. Sometimes the girls make them jump through hoops to fuck. After the girls got her ego stro…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:23 PM
6

Honestly have the guys on this forum heard the game of guys who rely on their looks? LOL it’s actually pathetic. Once they meet a girl who’s equally as good looking as them or isn’t intimidated by their looks they are pitiful. They’re absolutely clueless on what to say. Do me a favour guys. Listen to that hot guy who’s looks you’re jealous of talk to girls. You’ll instantly clock that looks will only get you through the door and they aren’t everything.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 05:08 PM
7

I’ll be dammed if I let someone who struck lucky on the physical features lottery think they’re better than me.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 04:53 PM
7

Honestly, after a while direct approach becomes so boring. Nowadays I just chill and have a nice conversation. Builds a much better attraction.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 03:43 PM
1

Ok, I’ll give you the grace of waiting til part two but you’re still wrong
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 02:50 PM
2

Lol you really expect me to believe a man married a woman and had no idea she was a prostitute? If so then natural selection is doing its job and we have one less stupid man who didn’t do his due diligence on the earth.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 01:08 PM
7

Sorry man this is bollocks. The main reason a woman will leave is down complacency and laziness on the man’s end. You met her with a six pack then 2 years you don’t lift anymore - she will leave. You lost your high paying job, became depressed and didn’t bounce back - she will leave. You had your own sense of individuality when you met her but now you’re head over heels for her and become a yes man - she will leave you. The common trend here is the man changing for the worse. A woman would NEVER…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 11:48 AM
1

While I would like to believe this is a great report, surely this could be summarised shorter?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 11:28 AM
10

Good post man. However I think we as men see women as some deep rubix cube that we must spend hours trying to figure out. You’re literally just having a conversation with another human being.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 11:15 AM
12

How is it cringe to just be having a normal conversation with girls at a bar? Also contrary to what you believe I have had multiple experiences where women admit their deep drives to me as a stranger. Honestly bro your response saying this is “cringe” says more about YOUR experiences than anything else
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 11:01 AM
1

“Bro she lives 2 hours away and my train back only came on that day that I was going home....” Subconsciously this is how you told yourself to put up with it. “Ah I’m two hours away and I go home tomorrow, this is a waste if I just leave” Doesn’t matter. Even if I had to walk two hours I’d do it. Or I’d book a hotel locally. I might waste some money but at least I ain’t putting up with disrespect. You continuously put up with her disrespect by keeping your presence there whether you checked her …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 10:56 AM
4

Hey man, There was nothing wrong with you telling her how you felt. It was how YOU acted after that. I still believe you shouldn’t have pulled back cause regardless somewhere later on the line you would’ve messed up. I think where you messed up is that you were allowing her to fuck with you. From the moment she started raising her voice and giving you attitude you should’ve said “maybe todays not a good day for us to hang out, you seem to be in a negative mood” and left. Secondly you lied to you…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 10:38 AM
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Best advice I can give is, change the location. Take her outside or to the smoking area to talk more and build attraction. You could also look into her eyes and tell her you think she looks damn good and you would fuck the shit outta her, give her a kiss on the cheek etc. Just don’t think too much, it seemed like you’re so attracted to her you don’t wanna mess it up which 9 times outta 10 messes it up. Lastly don’t be too horny for sex. You should be wanting to go out and have fun, don’t be afra…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 08:11 AM
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I agree. I made a transition from pick up to attraction a while ago. Best decision ever. Most pickups put on a facade, take things more seriously than they should and put on a weird sense of power dynamic. Attraction however is me being completely myself, I may come across as goofy, weird, charming or whatever but I am telling you to this is who I am whether you like it or not. Got much better sex and relationships from it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 08:00 AM
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I don’t really see the point of taking pictures of girls nude. I just see it as guys wanting to stroke their ego or just wanting to show off to their friends like “hey look at this hot chick I banged, I’m so cool right?” But hey, that’s just me.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 07:35 AM
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I can appreciate that you tried to post something simple and helpful, but this post is no different to the thousand other ones that already exist.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 06:04 PM
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Literally, every single post I see here now a days is about women. What makes it worse is 90% of them have no idea what they’re talking about.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 11:53 AM
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Honestly! I’ve been apart of this sub for almost 10 years and slowly find myself coming here less and less. There’s just too much spam.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 11:48 AM
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Hey man! As an introverted somebody who doesn’t really have an issue with talking to girls I’ll give you a tip that works like a charm all the time. Stop focusing so much on just talking to girls. Talk to everyone, talk to a guy or girl, be it old or young. I noticed even with myself, when I take time away from everyone to recharge my social battery, my speaking confidence just ain’t the same. So what do I do? I call it getting “hot” I talk to strangers. I talk about anything and everything. I t…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 08:12 AM
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What an amazing feeling that will be when I get it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 09:15 PM
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I agree, I, myself am currently on a similar journey. I don’t want to be a manufactured alpha. Someone that has to constantly think “am I doing the alpha thing?” “How does an alpha act” “is this guy more alpha than me?” “Does so so respect me?” All these things just make me second guess myself constantly and I find myself always comparing myself to people mentally trying to one up them or making myself feel bad. I’m trying to put aside my ego and find a new level of confidence and control. One t…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 01:12 PM
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Lol please explain to me what is a whore
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 07:00 AM
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I see a lot of comments here bashing the girl, calling her a slut etc and saying no true alpha will put up with that which to me is honestly bullshit. Once I started having sex with a lot of women I stopped caring about how many men they slept with or are sleeping with. I realised if I can be getting my dick wet with a lot women I found attractive then a lot of other guys are experiencing the same and also women are having just as much sex as we are if not more. Honestly speaking I don’t care if…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 05:56 AM
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What’s funny is, in these situations I tend to just stay for like a minute, anything longer than that I ask for the girls contact details and then move onto another. Sometimes the girl will end up right back with me, we bump into each other again or I contact her the next day and it all fizzles out. Sometimes the girl will like to try and keep me and the other guy there for as much attention as she can then probably end up getting scooped by another dude. Whenever I get interrupted by another gu…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 03:22 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly my brother.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 08:19 PM
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I feel like you’re trying to purposely poke holes in what I’m saying to make me look stupid. I don’t even think you’re reading what I’m saying to understand but just to argue. So this will be my last response to you. “By clinging to and over repeating your "cold emotionless monster" point of view, you are being disingenuous about men raising their emotional strength and maturity.” Brother no matter what way you want to spin it, not wanting to express your own emotions or feelings with your girl …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 05:17 PM
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I can agree with this wholeheartedly brother.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 05:00 PM
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You know what bro. I’ve think you shouldn’t think about it as some sort of thing where there’s only certain times to show it and anything else is a massive no. It’s about whenever you feel too. Could be after watching a soppy film, rough day at work, someone did or said something that really disturbed you etc. Most important thing is to be comfortable and confident in yourself enough to show it so that no matter what response you get, you don’t care. Youre not supposed to feel like you showed it…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 04:59 PM
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Honestly. You haven’t got to be a pussy to show some emotion or vulnerability. Just know when to show it.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 03:29 PM
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It’s all about perfect balance. I’ve been there with the whole nothing bothers me, I’m an unbreakable spirit bullshit you fake to yourself. While I can be vulnerable with my closest male friends, I believe you can also rarely be like that with you women. Key word is RARELY. I’ve been with my girl for a year and we’re in an open relationship. I can fuck whoever I want, whenever I want and she can do the exact same. I see too many guys make the game about the girl when the game is about themselves…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 03:23 PM
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To be honest, while this works for girls you’re seeing, this can only go on for so long in an actual relationship. I’m speaking from experience currently right now. After a while, the whole “I’m a superman with no problems in life” facade will wear off on women and you’ll just start to look like a cold emotionless monster. Also it’s not good for your own sanity imo. If you’ve been seeing a girl for a year+ and you still can’t show one moment of vulnerability I’d say that theres something deeper …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 11:13 AM
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I don’t understand this whole “promiscuous” woman view. What is a “promiscuous woman”? Is it a woman who has fucked 5, 10, 50 or 100+ men? Everyone’s view of promiscuous or slut is different. In my opinion as long as your game is tight and you’re the best option a girl has, she will for the most part commit to you. There is no sure factor that a woman won’t cheat or fuck someone else. Also when I realised that I like to have sex with a lot of women, I thought women will like to have sex with a l…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 03:49 PM
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