Field Report: How to Pull to Your House During COVID-19, Open to Close from Online

Disclaimer:

I understand that a lot of you aren’t a fan of the idea of anyone going on dates of any kind during this pandemic. However, the decision for two people to meet up is theirs and theirs alone. It’s only information. If two people should decide to meet up, then it is up to them to understand the risks associated with such, mutually, and accept them.

Are the risks and possible rewards worth it to you? This is the question you should be asking yourself. Now, getting down to business. That being, this field report was written for all of my players and pimps who either live alone, can’t figure out how to get a girl out during this time period, or just want to keep living their lives. If you can figure out how to pull girls in a quarantine state, your game when the quarantine’s effects are gone will be tripled. I’ve had quite good success using this method during the quarantine.

Field Report (Yes, women still want to go out and have sex):

Background:

This first girl was by my city’s standards, an 8.5 to a 9. I met her on Hinge. I find Hinge to have higher quality women on there. I believe due to the formatting and level of effort the app wants you to put in, it automatically filters out women of lower quality, as high value women are used to putting in effort, because they know they will reap a reward from it.

Due to very limited likes, and the abundance of higher quality women, it is our duty to vote out lower quality women so the app, in its algorithm, doesn’t recommend them to you, and have you thinking that those are your only options.

Basic Online Messaging Format:

In online game, you don’t have to spend a whole lot of time texting them. At most, you only need three to four messages in order to get them off of the app with a phone number close. As I learned from experimenting and texting hundreds of women the exact same script with little to no variation, most of them prefer a direct approach. Online messaging is like speed seduction or going for an instant date in person.

What I mean by this is that in the same way you approach a woman on the street doing a pick up, building comfort and attraction, pulling for an instant date or back to your house in an hour, you’re doing the exact same thing. In online game, women really prefer an expedited version of this.

And similar to how in real life when women give you a heavily neutral, “I’m not sure” kind of vibe, this usually leads to flaky numbers and women leading you on without ever displaying the sexual attraction they would show to another guy. It’s the same online.

If she’s giving you a lot of shit in getting her number, she’s likely not going to give it to you, and if she does, will forever take her sweet time getting back to you, and likely never giving you any specific dates for when you can meet up. If you two do end up meeting, she will likely display little interest in getting with you sexually because your whole interaction up to that point, was you over qualifying yourself and trying to get her to like you.

However, if you have a really good live game, you can easily turn this around. But for the majority of women you meet online, they will comply with whatever you want in three to four messages. If it gets to five it should be because you’re handling an objection (we can’t because xyz/no). As a general rule, if she gives you more than one objection, there’s an extremely high chance of her wasting your time and never trying to actually make anything happen. Finally, the longer you text without making anything happen, the higher chance she’ll drop off out of nowhere.

The Text Conversation (Basic Messaging) and Text Mindset:

This first girl that I’m mentioning, surprisingly enough, was a medical student. When sending out the first message of the three, I’ve found that the first message is actually the most important.

By the way you talk to her it will tell her how to view/vet you, what your personality is like, what your intent is, if you’re the buyer, not the seller ( the one not in a position of lack or need; the prize to be sought). The goal is to showcase all four.

As this sets the tone. So how do we want her to vet us? As someone she could potentially go out with. What does she want to see in our personality? That we aren’t needy, have a sense of humor, and that we are extremely smooth talkers. Give her nothing negative to work with. What is our intent? To get her to ultimately meet up. In the second message now, we want to softly ask her to meet up with us. With this, we don’t want to use any direct yes or no questions. Why?

Because when a girl here’s the word no in her mind, and then acts on it, she’s forced to be congruent in her thoughts, words, and actions. Her saying no is doubling down on whatever she was thinking. Second, subconsciously, when a woman tells you no, it turns her off, as women desire to be submissive and compliant to a sex worthy, dominant man. So if you make her tell you no, you’ve dug yourself into a whole that isn’t worth digging out of.

This goes for both online and real life. Third, it makes you chase after her for approval, which turns her off and makes you look unworthy. Because in her mind, if you were really worthy, of high value, she would just say yes to you. With this information in mind, instead of asking yes or no questions, you use soft suggestions like let’s, we should, we could, etc. This language allows you to keep conversation open and still lead if she throws things off the rail. If you have a suggestion or an idea, say it in the form of a statement.

Instead of saying, “Would you like to go to the park? Would you like to get drinks with me tomorrow”, you would say something like, “Aye girl, we would for sure have the most lit time at this park in our area, if you like fun experiences.”

Now cater this to whatever you want to do with the girl. I like to suggest something very generic that all girls like. Why? I want as much compliance as quickly as possible to get her off the app and make something happen. What do all girls love? Ice cream, dogs, pizza, beaches, tours around the city, arcades etc. Just pick something generic that you know she won’t say no to.

For better effect, suggest two or three things at the same time. If she tells you a suggestive no to all three, she’s probably gonna waste all of your fucking time. Now, for the last message, you’re simply going to directly ask for her phone number. Asking for things like a facebook or snap requires too many extra layers of compliance, and it’s too easy for her to ignore you or fall off altogether.

A phone number, you know she saw that shit. The name of this game is to lead her to where you want her to as easily as possible as to avoid setbacks. I can’t give my exact script for reasons, but this is a carbon copy replica of something I might say to the girl, and every other girl in some form. I keep three exact scripts depending on the kind of girl I’m dealing with.

Me: I’m definitely interested in what I see so far. I’ve always been a fan of (insert unique or generic feature in her profile). With that, we can for sure go out if you’re not a serial killer. I think milk is trash.

Her: Lol I should be telling you the same thing. How do I know I won’t die Mr. Milkman

Me: I guess you’ll have to be the first fortune teller I’ve ever dated. Perhaps you could read my future over some pizza from my favorite spot. I’m open to anything.

Her: That does sound like a decent idea. But I’ll need to see some ID to feel safe.

Me: Text me your phone number and I’ll show you whatever your eyes can handle, if you’re feeling brave and adventurous.

Her: Hmm you are a bit too smooth. You’re dangerous. XXX-XXX-XXXX

This is how most of your interactions should look. Like you leading her through a smooth process. You keep everything on topic, short, easy to digest. Anything that sounds remotely unfavorable to you, you quickly reframe it into something in your advantage. That’s just game in general. If she takes days to respond, don’t try to say or do anything special. Stick to your script.

You know you’ve got a good script when 7/10 women all respond the exact same way to your message. As much as women like to believe that they’re different, they’re not. Same-same, but different. You want to be able to replicate results. Not waste time trying to be overly unique. Save that for in person, not online.

Dealing with Regular and Coronavirus Related Text Objections:

Because we’re in a quarantine and a good portion of women are panicking somewhat, my usual script wasn’t working. Originally, the focus was to meet up, but I would keep running into hard objections, “ Yea, no thanks/When we can talk when the virus is over/Lol, that’s a long ways away. We can talk on here in the meantime.”

So what I’ve discovered to work consistently, is to slightly shift the focus to just having fire conversation with the girl. You also want to approach them with more of an heir of someone trying to vet someone hard. Then, you get her on facetime or over the phone, and you run smooth verbals and get her turned on and excited enough to want to meet up with you in the next two days or so like you would regular game. This could end up being five or six messages depending on the objection thrown. This might like look:

Me: I’m definitely interested in what I see so far. I’ve always been a fan of (insert unique or generic feature in her profile). With that, we can for sure go out if you’re not a serial killer. I think milk is trash.

Her: Lol I should be telling you the same thing. How do I know I won’t die Mr. Milkman

Me: I guess you’ll have to be the first fortune teller I’ve ever dated. We can have a date or whatever, but for now I think facetiming would be best. Gotta make sure you’re not sick or something. And I want to know who I’m talking to.

Her: What makes you think we’re gonna go out during a quarantine? You sound crazy boy

Me: I might be crazy, but seeing women like you can do that to a man. Let’s just take it slow then. You and I talk for a bit on the phone, and we see where it goes. I might have a hot voice. Who knows.

Her: I don’t give out my number on these apps, we can talk on here for now. (This sounds like a total shut down. But remember, reframe, reframe. If you really care to get her off the app you can do it.)

Me: I think texting is kind of weird, but if you have a snapchat or something like that we can do that. (Remember, you want to get her on the phone, face to face so you can screen each other and present your product in a better light. In this context, snapchat isn’t a bad thing.)

Her: That works, it’s xxxxxx

Ultimately, the objections women can give you are endless. All you have to do is reframe it. That goes for height, distance, bad spelling. You just need to lead. Women want you to fucking lead on these apps. Women. Want. Men. Who. Lead.

Now, after you get the number, you’re going to softly ask for a time when you can call her. If she says stuff like, “Idk, I’ll let you know, etc.”, you just tell her to let you know. That’s timewaster language. Pushing through this is a hassle. But, if you really want to make it happen, here’s how. You estimate the time she or any woman is most likely to be free on any given day.

This will likely be the evening. And even though a lot of people are out of work and are at home, your girl could be working. So what do I suggest? Anything after 6:30 or 7pm typically. Do not call women on their breaks at work. Do not call them first thing in the morning. The best time to call women is after work when they’ve gotten time to relax and receive you properly. A woman’s mood at any given time can seriously fuck up whatever you wanted to do with her.

Think about things from her perspective. Next, you phrase things as if you’re taking up as little of her time as possible. “It’ll just be like five minutes, but a fun five. You’re favorite five.” In pickup, yes you all know, this is called a false time constraint. Now, once you set up the time, call and make it happen.

Dealing with Coronavirus Objections Over the Phone/Facetime:

This is actually the easier part of things. The hardest part is actually getting her off of the app and responding to your calls. When calling a woman on the phone or facetime, you want to focus on four things: emphasizing how safe you’ve been and your limited, non-existent contact with the outside world, qualifying her to see what her health habits have been like, getting her excited and/or aroused at the thought of seeing you, and meeting up as quickly as humanly possible.

Dealing with Coronavirus Objections is fairly easy because all they really care about is their chances of getting sick. Now how you choose to get these women to fall in love with you over facetime is up to you. Verbal seduction is a whole nother topic in and of itself, but I can give you some tips on how to structure the interaction. One, once you’ve exchanged pleasantries and have a decent rapport where she’s laughing a little bit, has relaxed a little bit, you’re gonna start inquiring, genuinely I hope into what her day to day has been like, who she’s been exposed to if anyone, etc.

You kill two birds with one stone here. You qualify her which shows her that you’re a man of value who doesn’t just fuck with anybody, and you actually get your answers. You want to sound seriously concerned like you’re making a hard decision. After you’re satisfied, all of this in the ebb and flow of conversation, you want to segway into talking about yourself.

You’re going to want to overstate and then some that you’ve been a quiet little angel this entire time. And remember, at this point, you haven’t said a word about meeting up. Don’t yet. You want her to have a full picture and profile of what she’s dealing with, the full picture of the prize she’s dealing with, before making a decision on anything.

Second, rather blended with one, you want to still keep talking to her with that fun, seductive tonality. You still want to keep teasing her, being suggestive, utilizing push pull according to the sensitivity of the girl, using future projections of how hot you two would look together doing an activity, developing commonalities, being mysterious.

All of the standard attraction based stuff. Third, you’re gonna want to start closing. It should only take about ten minutes to start doing this. As with any pulling you do in real life, you do it over the phone. You seed ideas by talking about things you want to do casually. Just things that are enjoyable. Since quarantine is in effect the only options really available are car dates and her going straight to your place.

But that doesn’t mean you still can’t get take out and eat in your car. You think she won’t be down for that? Trust me, if you frame it as something fun she’ll be down. Ultimately, you want a woman to be in love with the idea of just being with you, your energy, not the activity you're doing. This is how you get them to want to fuck you consistently, respect you. Third, you actually close. Most women aren’t doing anything and even if they are the results should be the same. An easy way to ask is to casually ask if she’s still working.

If she says no, asking for the hang time should work at just about any time of day after 1:30pm. If not, just stick to around 7:00 pm and later for hanging out. And as with all objections, you don’t try to handle them with logic. You speak to her emotional brain instead. You pull back and go back to it later if you get a hard no. You reframe it to sound like something sexy and fun. You agree and amplify. In the case of my girl, the medical student of all people, she was really unsure about meeting up. Do you think I tried to convince her of anything logically? No.

I kept talking smooth, fun, and sexy to her making jokes about the situation, getting her to relax. Random shit about how it would be an epic story to tell at our wedding years from now. And how taking a chance on love is the best decision. Stuff like that. Last, I went for the date as soon as possible. That meant an hour or two from then. You think coffee dates are dead? Nah. Pizza or sushi? Nah.

You just take it to your car. You take it for a walk with warm jackets on. And that’s what I did. The way I like to close consistently, and so should you, is by having everything planned out ahead of time. This is part of being a man in general. I don’t want her to ask me anything I can’t answer. I tell her what kind of food we’re getting, where from, how long we’ll be together, etc.

You want to quell her anxiety. And if you have to make her ask, you’re shooting yourself in the foot. Address the objection before she has to give it. This earns you brownie points as she can see that you’re socially aware, which women adore. You really, really, want to meet up as quickly as possible.

Even absent a quarantine, women are generally very flaky creatures. And contrary to popular belief, the longer you go from first talking to not actually meeting up, her interest decreases because you aren’t a real person. They have time to get distracted by other new men, new fears. You want to get her at the height of her interest. The only time you’re really going to keep tension with her is if she’s really picky and has very few options for men to choose from. This means that she’ll spend longer fantasizing about seeing you. Which could also be bad, because the longer she fantasizes, the more she has time to think about things going wrong. Move quickly!!! You always want to try for the current or next day.

With my cute little medical student, I got her out the same day as the phone call. It took two phone calls an hour apart, but she ultimately agreed to a car date and things went very well. We went to a Starbucks in the area through the drive through, had drinks in the car, and I proceeded to run standard game back to my house. Remember, you're not trying to sell or convince these women of anything. You're offering, rather presenting them, a fun, once in a lifetime opportunity. You want to be the embodiment of the spirit of temptation to them.

Pro Tips for Getting Her To Your House, Pre the Actual Date:

1. While on facetime, casually walk around your house so she can get a clear picture of how it looks. When you try to pull her back later, she already has an idea of what she’s getting into. If she’s feeling you, she’ll already be visualizing herself in your house.
2. Find a random time to set the phone down for whatever reason and walk off, so she can see what you look like in, full body. Obviously don’t dress up. But wear brighter colors so she can distinguish the different parts of your body, again, adding to the fantasy.

Pulling Back to Your House and Addressing Objections:

This is also a whole nother topic. At the end of the day, by the time you suggest going back to your place, you should’ve already seduced her verbally, energetically enough to where she doesn’t have any objections. She needs to already feel that you’re free and non judgmental.

She needs to already see you as that smooth player. She needs to already view you as the kind of guy who casually gets the kind of women he wants. You should’ve already been qualifying her enough the entire time so that she views you as the buyer, not the seller. That she knows you view sex as no big deal and something that’s just natural.

Pro Tips for Pulling Back to Your House:

1. Do not ask to go back to her place. She will be extremely paranoid about getting her roommates infected with the virus. Just assume she’d much rather be in your place than you in her’s.
2. Have something plausible planned that you two can actually do together: cooking, painting, pool, some kind of cool collection. I don’t like to mention that we’re going to my place strictly for sex simply for two reasons. One, I view myself as the prize, and I don’t decide I truly want to have sex with a chick until at least 45 minutes have passed in my home. Two, women hate to feel trapped into sex related decisions. If they ever want to change their minds, they will feel trapped like they have to do it, and give off more nervous energy in your place. We’ll have had conversations about sex, but I’ll most times not explicitly talk about us having sex. I want her to feel like anything is a possibility but it doesn’t have to happen. Women hate sexual pressure. Nothing dries them up faster.
3. Make it a point to casually mention how you constantly disinfect your house to up your chances of a clean bill of health. Washing everything down, spraying your bed with disinfectant. You think it doesn’t matter? It does. Just like how women have the tendency to stare at your nails real hard. You think they’re just looking at your hygiene? No. They’re imagining you fingering them. These women are horny. They also like to kill two birds with one stone.
4. This isn’t really a pro tip so much as it is a rule, but you really do need to seed ideas when taking a girl anywhere from place to place. Bring up the general topic. Make it sound fun and exciting. In game whatever you feel, she feels. So if balloons excites you, your energy says that, and she feels that, she’ll start feeling that way too if you do it long enough. Then you link that idea to you two doing it together. Then you tell her where you guys could do it together.

Closing In Your Place:

If you want her to come straight to your house, the same rules above apply. The only thing I would add is that if she doesn’t have a car, suggest Uber or Lyft. Make it as easy for her as possible. Lead and tell her how everything is gonna go down. If she isn’t comfortable giving out her address, tell her to walk to a restaurant, gas station, street corner, or whatever markable location there is by her house that the Uber can pick her up from.

If she is driving, I like to add the incentive of paying for the $5 in gas she would have used. Sweeten the deal. $5 is a small expense. The same thing you would’ve paid getting a smoothie from a shop. Adding in that little $5 caveat makes her saying yes to you a lot easier. Once she’s in your house you do the standard, but I guess this depends on how good you are at escalation.

This is a whole separate topic. What works consistently, is you have her take all of her stuff off. You give her a short tour of your house, highlighting all of the pretty parts.

Then you sit her down somewhere and leave her alone for five to ten minutes. To do what? That’s up to you. But women like to use that time to text their friends where they are and how things are going. It also takes the immediate physical pressure off of them, so they don’t feel suffocated by the idea of sex having to happen. After, you do whatever activity you were gonna do and escalate from there.

I think that wraps this up. Remember guys, what happens to you is solely on you. Happy hunting.