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1

Seriously.
/r/seduction14/08/20 04:14 PM
1

TBH, if you don't get them off the app there shouldn't be a high level of investment either way.
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:51 PM
1

Reflecting on your interactions is 10000000x better than doing nothing while reading
/r/seduction02/07/20 08:31 PM
1

Thank you. And the reading about approaching is bullcrap. It will not reduce your anxiety until you approach multiple girls, and even then, it will take some time to get used to it. Heck, even at times I second guess myself before making conservation.
/r/seduction02/07/20 08:31 PM
8

I know a guy who is male-model esque in terms of his looks. He's struggled at times in the past to talk to women.
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:54 PM
1

Don't lie. Of course you don't have to tell her you've been out for hours
/r/seduction21/06/20 03:57 PM
19

Also, if she has her instagram in the bio with nothing else, doubtful she wants to meet.
/r/seduction21/06/20 03:53 PM
3

I doubt it unless you do the same routine.
/r/seduction13/06/20 02:15 PM
1

No. Get out there an approach. Nothing will help you more than actually doing it.
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:42 PM
3

Don't add girls on social media unless you've know them IRL, or you've matched with on an app.
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:41 PM
16

Another option is to notice if she's looking at your lips.
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:27 PM
5

attractiveness is not all about appearances, but yes
/r/seduction21/04/20 09:28 PM
4

Pretty much. There's enough women out there that you shouldn't be with every girl you go out with
/r/seduction21/04/20 09:27 PM
3

As an aside, only chance she goes to her place is if there's no roommates right?
/r/seduction16/04/20 06:05 PM
2

You should've asked her out the first time you met her
/r/seduction29/03/20 06:01 PM
2

I've taken action before... and still fallen back into bad habits
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:07 PM
5

The very best get rejected LOTS on cold approach. And 1/2 the time it's not even due to looks/your vibe, sometimes the person just doesn't want to meet new people/is taken
/r/seduction29/03/20 03:48 PM
2

Yes, because for both sexes people have different tastes. If you're in ok shape/look average, you'll be attractive to some and unattractive to others. An attractive girl could think you're ugly why another attractive girl think's you are handsome.
/r/seduction29/03/20 03:48 PM
1

You hid your intentions dude
/r/seduction29/03/20 03:46 PM
7

He became a business coach. Still on youtube, but most of his old videos are gone.
/r/seduction29/03/20 03:45 PM
2

Eh you can go out, just literally go somewhere that no one else is at for a walk. That’s the extent you can do
/r/seduction28/03/20 03:18 AM
10

It’s possible confirmation bias, but attractive/cute girls have been more receptive to me more than average/non attractive, even when they rejected me
/r/seduction28/03/20 03:14 AM
1

People have different tastes. It’s a great thing
/r/seduction25/03/20 01:51 PM
2

Man, 6 feet and 140 is borderline unhealthy. I'm 5'10 and 160 and I feel gaunt at times.
/r/seduction22/03/20 06:43 PM
2

Ehh I’d lean towards uninterested here. Hit her up in a few weeks as a Hail Mary
/r/seduction20/03/20 03:17 AM
1

She likes you man, though if you’re not into her, don’t force anything
/r/seduction20/03/20 03:14 AM
1

It’s more of “Just going about my day and holy shit an attractive girl walked by I gotta talk to her” vibe versus one of “if I don’t approach x girls in this timeframe today is a failure!”
/r/seduction19/03/20 09:32 PM
1

Yup. I’ve had better results when I’ve run into girls that I didn’t plan too.
/r/seduction19/03/20 09:25 PM
1

Yes. I never approached in the past without having some reason to be in the area I was. Mindlessly approaching is weird as hell.
/r/seduction18/03/20 10:16 PM
1

Ask him out/suggest to do things with a guy
/r/seduction18/03/20 10:01 PM
2

That’s the only opener I’ve ever used (a variation, but the core message is the same)
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:31 PM
1

Interesting..
/r/seduction15/03/20 03:20 AM
1

It’s fine as a supplement
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:13 AM
4

It’s fine, but once weather gets better it’s a secondary option to meet people
/r/seduction04/03/20 03:51 AM
1

Most of cold approaching is luck and reading the signals the right way. Most girls you talk to that way will lead to nothing. Just how it works out
/r/seduction04/03/20 03:49 AM
1

Actions > words tbh
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:14 PM
9

Another tip... don't end the conversation with getting her phone number unless she really has to go.
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:13 PM
6

The mindset should be you should want to get to know her better before asking her out.
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:12 PM
1

No but it felt platonic as hell... and yet she wanted to do something again
/r/seduction24/02/20 01:11 PM
1

The whole league thing is nonsense when you realize women have different tastes in men
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:09 AM
1

Wtf is a Barnum statement?
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:07 AM
1

Jesus Christ that sounds almost to a tee what happened on my last date
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:06 AM
5

Just say hi
/r/seduction05/02/20 04:43 AM
1

Didn’t max clean his old channel to like 10 vids or so? His new channel is all business stuff
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:56 PM
1

The moment you talked to her, you won
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:22 AM
6

If you’re direct, yes. Doesn’t mean you won’t get rejected.
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:22 PM
10

At least attractive women usually are more receptive to approaches
/r/seduction15/01/20 02:00 PM
1

Anything
/r/seduction11/01/20 08:33 PM
1

I don't do it often, but I go indirect/platonic for a while, then tease and if she seems interested ask her do something together fitness wise (doesn't have to be in the gym). Ask her to join you doing something.
/r/seduction08/01/20 05:31 PM
1

Sure, but just invite them out!
/r/seduction08/01/20 05:30 PM
1

Honestly, not if you want to learn about it. I always go indirect at the gym and see how we vibe. My rule of thumb is you only go direct if you know you’ll never see them again in all likelihood
/r/seduction08/01/20 04:45 PM
1

I would add, go to a park/secluded but public area where you can make a move.
/r/seduction08/01/20 02:38 PM
1

I’ll say this: I’ve only approached in the gym if it’s an exercise that allows for talking (no dumbbells). If it’s an exercise or something you’re genuinely interested in, ask her what it is since you want to learn, if that’s the angle you want. Don’t approach her and feign interest indirectly
/r/seduction08/01/20 02:37 PM
1

Double texts are fine... but if she doesn’t respond to the 2nd one, move on
/r/seduction08/01/20 02:35 PM
2

Haven’t even posted for a year, only keep the app to stay in touch with friends/girls
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:05 AM
0

Cold reads are assumptions lmao
/r/seduction05/01/20 04:16 PM
2

Yeah, I’ve gotten really lazy with approaching in the last year or so
/r/seduction05/01/20 04:09 PM
2

Powers of observation are critical there
/r/seduction05/01/20 04:05 PM
4

Yeah, I’ve found more attractive women to be direct with the yes/no dichotomy
/r/seduction04/01/20 01:54 AM
25

The moment you said hi is when you won.
/r/seduction03/01/20 10:45 PM
4

FWIW just act normal around them
/r/seduction03/01/20 12:40 AM
1

It’s more hit and miss, but I’ve found the hits to be better than IRL.
/r/seduction02/01/20 11:13 PM
0

It’s not what you say, but how you say it and what your convictions are
/r/seduction02/01/20 03:02 PM
2

Girls also have unique tastes too. Shoot your shot, you never know.
/r/seduction01/01/20 06:08 PM
1

Quite a bit
/r/seduction26/12/19 03:25 PM
2

Interesting.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:47 PM
1

Yeah, I only slide into the DMs if I matched with them on an app before.
/r/seduction22/12/19 02:18 PM
1

I use it as a place to meet only
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:36 AM
1

Yeah, it depends on context. If it’s a random girl in a park/street that is just walking/sitting that opener is fine; but in a place where you can use observation powers, just go for the easy tells
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:35 AM
0

Don’t go the kiss at the end of the date, it’s too cliche
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:31 AM
1

Pretty damn interesting perspective
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:17 AM
2

Apps are fine when the weather sucks.
/r/seduction19/12/19 08:06 PM
15

The only person who will fix your life is you. Not anyone else, just your own actions.
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:18 PM
1

That’s true, I’ve approached in the past going in cold with success, it’s more about trying to find situations where I can know beforehand, a small advantage
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:46 AM
2

There’s also a certain look you get from a girl that you know is different from normal eye contact. I’ve only gotten it 5-6 times ever but it just feels different where you know there’s something.
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:52 PM
3

Interesting
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:00 PM
1

That’s interesting.
/r/seduction14/12/19 06:58 PM
7

Once you realize not everyone will like you (it’s math), life gets clearer
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:28 AM
0

P much.
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:27 AM
4

Honestly, outside of subtly pushing it towards a 2nd date, successful ones I’ve been on, the girl always mentions future stuff, not me
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:20 AM
2

Stuff like “let’s go to x..., on this day we’ll do that etc”
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:51 PM
1

It all depends on context
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:51 PM
1

I can count on one hand how many girls have had a negative reaction to being approached
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:47 PM
1

Huh
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:45 PM
1

Yeah... I’ve only ever hit on a girl once at the gym (and it wasn’t even direct). We were both doing a similar exercise and challenged each other to do more. (Never met before) I then asked her to workout again, got her number. I avoid girls at the gym on purpose, since it’s a bit douchey to approach them while working out, and you’ll see them again if you work out at the same time.
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:41 PM
1

Once. It really sucks.
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:38 PM
2

That’s a good point. And don’t assume one is lonely or taken just because of how they look. Results will shock you!
/r/seduction10/12/19 03:04 PM
3

Before the first date I agree
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:06 PM
5

Yeah, I’m not jacked, but I’ve found that when on dates, women feel up your core region if they can sense you’re in shape. But I like going to the gym for personal development, not for anyone else.
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:05 PM
1

Every new girl you meet is a new experience. Of course it’s different
/r/seduction30/11/19 02:53 PM
1

Or as the former rsd max said, “let’s exchange numbers.”
/r/seduction30/11/19 02:46 PM
1

What are those copy and paste messages?
/r/seduction28/11/19 02:43 PM
1

Nice dude, but I wouldn’t have admitted the first part. Hopefully it goes well though.
/r/seduction27/11/19 08:30 PM
1

Yeah I had a girl say the first one a while back. It’s appreciated
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:21 PM
2

Before you meet her for the first time, yeah. After a first date if it goes well then all bets are off
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:31 PM
1

That’s the issue I have all the time. I don’t get invested enough.
/r/seduction02/11/19 01:06 AM
3

Deal with rejection before you develop feelings.
/r/seduction02/11/19 01:05 AM
1

Pretty interesting
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:51 PM
1

Wtf
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:10 AM
1

Never sit across from a girl at a bar
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:59 AM
1

It works wonders. If she’s looking at them a lot/leaning into you sitting down just go for it
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:45 AM
1

Look at her lips often and see how she reacts
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:30 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:21 AM
3

Yes, do that
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:34 PM
1

Most of the time, the convo doesn’t end with them wanting to go on a date. Just talk to them with no expectations of a result
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:13 PM
2

I’d try for a make out here
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:12 PM
1

Bingo
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:10 PM
1

Don’t ask for a number without a purpose
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:10 PM
1

If you guys haven’t even kissed yet... I would just build up to that for the 2nd date
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:10 PM
1

Have you kissed?
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:09 PM
3

Without context she wants you to be exclusive.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:03 PM
2

Like most guys I worked out at the start to attract women but now it’s more about a healthy lifestyle + discipline.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:01 PM
1

Baby steps. Talk to a girl. If she seems interested ask her out. Go on a date, become comfortable with being intimate. It will be hard, but you gotta experience this
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:00 PM
1

Texting is fine beyond logistics, but only if you’ve been on multiple dates with her. Those are to get to know the person, not over the phone
/r/seduction21/09/19 03:28 AM
1

Of course looks matter but, if you’re boring as shit, she’s going to leave
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:44 AM
1

FWIW, numbers I get from tinder have led to more dates than IRL approaches
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:43 AM
1

In person works so much better.
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:42 AM
1

Be honest dude. Just go up to a chick you’re attracted to and say you think she’s cute
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:42 AM
1

I’ve noticed that with girls after class are more receptive to talking about the class/other stuff than before
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:38 AM
1

The half hearted approach is so true, I remember approaching this one girl and I was planning on going indirect by asking directions and two words in I realized it was a bad idea. I was doing it for practice this one but made me realize direct is the only option for women you’re unlikely to ever see again.
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:37 AM
1

Girls care but only at first compared to guys who care for a lot longer
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:35 AM
1

Yeah he could just be really sociable
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:31 AM
1

?
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:02 PM
1

Very interesting
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:28 PM
5

A woman’s “move” sometimesid just hovering around you during a date/talking and waiting for you to take action
/r/seduction29/08/19 06:46 PM
2

Also would add that looks at where her eyes are when you too are talking. If she’s looking at your lips, you know she’d likely be receptive to a kiss
/r/seduction29/08/19 06:46 PM
47

Yeah I’ve found with the truly attractive women, they either get hit on all the time, or almost never. Rarely in-between
/r/seduction28/08/19 01:56 PM
1

Be social
/r/seduction26/08/19 11:09 PM
1

Status matters
/r/seduction26/08/19 11:09 PM
2

Yeah if she says after you guys talk for a small bit then it’s usually legit. If she says it as the first thing between you two then maybe not
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:01 PM
2

Nk
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:06 PM
1

Women have unique tastes in guys. For one attractive woman, what it attractive to her is a turn off another woman and vice versa
/r/seduction24/08/19 04:41 PM
1

Dude, I don’t wanna buy anything for a girl on a date, let alone first meeting them.
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:24 AM
1

No
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:06 PM
1

Yeah if you’re going to do it, do it on weekends
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:18 PM
12

Rejection helps you sort out women that aren’t compatible with you anyways
/r/seduction18/08/19 12:50 AM
1

Should be a supplement, not your main source
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:19 PM
2

Yeah it started off as a hookup app but I know plenty of people how met their SO on there
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:18 PM
1

It’s a slog at times but turns out to be worth it
/r/seduction14/08/19 10:51 PM
1

Keep on going. It’s not due to you, it’s mostly up to them
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:55 AM
1

After doing a few approaches, realizing that rejection doesn’t hurt so badly is quite the uplifting feeling
/r/seduction13/08/19 12:26 AM
1

Depends on how much he values the job
/r/seduction12/08/19 06:51 PM
1

Yeah, pick and choose your spots.
/r/seduction12/08/19 06:51 PM
1

Eh. It depends on the girl.
/r/seduction09/08/19 07:53 PM
1

Bingo
/r/seduction08/08/19 09:51 PM
1

Hell even the beach girls care about fitness Go where you want to meet your type of girl (book store/gym/library/clothing store/park etc)
/r/seduction08/08/19 09:51 PM
14

Wait for her to get back
/r/seduction08/08/19 09:50 PM
1

Go indirect
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:06 PM
2

Eh. You just can’t be direct at the gym.
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:06 PM
1

How so?
/r/seduction08/08/19 03:39 AM
3

She was begging for you to ask her out dude.
/r/seduction08/08/19 03:38 AM
1

Never expect a girl to text first
/r/seduction06/08/19 08:25 PM
1

Validation from other guys
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:55 PM
1

Wear plugs
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:54 PM
1

It’s either a yes or a no. (Varying levels of attractiveness for a yes but that’s the main point)
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:54 PM
1

I usually just leave if there’s no vibe
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:53 PM
6

Well the single ones... yes
/r/seduction04/08/19 06:01 PM
2

My own guide is indirect is for nighttime, direct for daytime
/r/seduction03/08/19 12:37 AM
1

Most girls if you’re not creepy won’t react that way. Of course sometimes you get someone who overreacts but it’s less common.
/r/seduction02/08/19 01:25 AM
1

They are.
/r/seduction01/08/19 07:10 PM
1

Confidence is a great quality
/r/seduction31/07/19 12:58 AM
3

Yeah, occasionally you get a bad experience but even when you get rejected most are nice about it and say you made their day. Oh and at bars/clubs go indirect.
/r/seduction30/07/19 11:50 PM
1

Never ask for a number without a purpose
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:09 PM
3

Being ok on your own is necessary here.
/r/seduction28/07/19 09:57 PM
1

Bruh
/r/seduction28/07/19 01:08 AM
16

Honestly, I don’t talk to women at the gym unless I’m asking to work in a set on equipment
/r/seduction27/07/19 08:57 PM
1

How is it chick crack?
/r/seduction27/07/19 03:51 PM
1

Long buzz/short Caesar
/r/seduction25/07/19 08:32 PM
1

NYC has less men than women
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:16 PM
1

Yup.
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:16 PM
1

The takeaway is that attractive women have varying unique tastes in men.
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:15 PM
1

Interesting
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:27 AM
1

Parks
/r/seduction25/07/19 01:17 AM
1

Or just common knowledge that can be applied.
/r/seduction24/07/19 09:56 PM
1

Yeah unless you’ve interacted with them, it’s creepy
/r/seduction24/07/19 03:38 PM
3

Ask them out
/r/seduction24/07/19 02:15 AM
1

Just say you’ve seen her around, don’t want to be rude my not saying hi
/r/seduction24/07/19 01:37 AM
2

You are right in that it’s part of a validation thing.
/r/seduction24/07/19 12:31 AM
1

See if they look at your lips. If she does, then there’s a good chance she’s waiting for you to make a move.
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:05 AM
3

Internalizing methods is certainly a challenge
/r/seduction23/07/19 02:41 AM
1

Yeah it’s the fight or flight response.
/r/seduction21/07/19 07:32 PM
2

Yeah eye contact is the best method
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:55 PM
1

Positive thinking leads to better results
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:02 AM
1

The benefits certainly are immense
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:56 PM
1

I disagree because if it’s on the street go direct. You’re not going to see her again in all likelihood.
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:40 AM
2

Interesting story
/r/seduction18/07/19 04:13 PM
2

Great series so far!
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:02 AM
4

It’s an amazing feeling
/r/seduction17/07/19 09:57 PM
2

Could you expand on body language?
/r/seduction17/07/19 03:28 AM
4

Put that in the trash, and say that first line to her in person
/r/seduction17/07/19 03:23 AM
1

It should be used a supplement, not your main source of dating
/r/seduction17/07/19 03:18 AM
1

Point still stands
/r/seduction16/07/19 09:46 PM
1

Let things go. It’s hard to do but the necessary option
/r/seduction16/07/19 09:46 PM
2

Online demeanour means close to nothing
/r/seduction16/07/19 09:44 PM
1

You’re right. Standing out can be a good thing
/r/seduction14/07/19 07:47 PM
1

Leagues are more about social class/wealth than looks.
/r/seduction14/07/19 04:03 PM
6

Going for the kiss when you’re unsure is so hard man
/r/seduction14/07/19 02:18 AM
6

My god dude she’s giving you great signs. Invite her to a bar in your neck of the woods
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:46 AM
1

Yeah. I’ve only kissed quickly on a date once.
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:44 AM
1

Bingo
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:43 AM
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