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I stopped doing things for people that I expect a later return from. Bloke, Sheila, doesn't matter. I do thinga if I am willing to give it up for free, and if they return a favour later it's just a bonus. Or whisky, buy me good whisky and I'll be your hitman.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 09:20 PM
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"We've tried nothing and we're all out of ideas". The difference between you and your friend is only that she spends her energy improving things in her life, and you spend your energy complaining that she has things you don't. You will never improve, or attract the man you want, with that poor attitude. It's been pointed out that all the things you have whined about are fixable by discipline. Instead, you're lamenting your bad luck for it not being handed to you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 11:39 PM
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First, is your action here a long term plan to improve your situation, or a reactionary stunt to in response to emotions. With that question alone, you should be able to know if what you've suggested is a good course of action. Leo is not making a move on you here. He's not starting a fight, he's not trying to take your girl, he's not trying to ruin your business, to break your frame or to turn the world against you. Do you NEED to give him a reason to want those things? Do you need to give the …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 07:43 PM
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They made terrible examples, because it's not THEM making the example, it's the picture that the media paints that you are taking the example from.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 07:14 PM
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Bezo's has the frame of the average red piller. Fucking zero. However, this was for media attention, plain and simple. Tabloids were all talking about Leo. He wanted them to talk about him instead.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/21 08:11 PM
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If you're reading advice on how to invest money, do you get upset that they didn't tell you how to get the initial money to invest with? There are countless posts about how to give good dick. Read them.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 11:47 AM
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In this instance, they are dealing with shitty men. They're reading the angry LARPing of wannabe "alphas" in TRP. If I thought that was a legitimate representation of society, I'd be as upset.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 09:17 PM
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Just pump out an extra rep in my honour. Fuck reddit and their awards.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 02:01 AM
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I'll just add that there's plenty to adjust when you hit a plateau. Add weight, lower weight add volume, change rest period, deload and build back up to the weight, try complimentary excercise (bench problems? Add decline/incline bench to build supporting muscle groups)
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 01:29 AM
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If someone said to you "I did callisthenics for years and still can't do a pull up" would you say the problem is callisthenics, or that they didn't really try? Here are the facts. If you train hard, are consistent, and eat at a surplus, you WILL get stronger. You did not do all these things, despite feeling like you did.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 10:44 PM
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The problem is that you're seeing TRP as NOT respecting women. It's understandable that you feel uncomfortable with that. TRP is about respecting women for being women, and not expecting them to behave like you would or your friends would. Because expecting women to act like men causes you two problems in life. First, you get frustrated by women who act like women. Second, you find yourself surrounded by women who are frustrated because they have to act like men. A woman is not LESS than a man i…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/21 09:16 PM
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Op: so there was this Austrian guy named Adolf. Here's how I would have handled it better... What do you think TRP?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 10:29 PM
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How to emotionally react 101. Get your emotions in check mate. If a woman acting like a woman gets you overreacting like this, you're never going to have frame for longer than she decides to let you.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 03:05 AM
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Why limit yourself to one a night?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 08:38 AM
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Let me just add that we are still problem solvers by nature. Once you believe he's worth the effort of continuing to date properly, tell him about your diet. You don't have to choose to tell him exactly WHY you choose not to eat specific things, only that it's important to you. He may then take that into account when he plans things. Maybe going for the best fried fish in town isn't his next date idea anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 08:26 PM
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This is another question where I suggest you ask yourself one thing, "to what end?". You simply need to decide what your goal with these tactics is and choose the one that gets you in that direction. Lying. If you want to bang girls who want a relationshipxby pretending that's a possibility, this is the option that works. Marriage in bad shape. If you want to bang girls who want to be home wreckers or who are damaged and want to save a poor, broken down man, this is the option that works. Tellin…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:14 PM
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It is supposed to upset you. Actions like these are supposed to make people feel upset, because some people will change their behaviour and thoughts to prevent themselves being upset. They do this in the hope that you start to think like them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 10:32 PM
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Translation: "I can't manipulate your emotions if I can't see them" They're uncomfortable, because they can't control you. Continue as you are. You don't have to hide all emotions to have success with women. But showing too little emotion will show more success than showing too much emotion.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:23 PM
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Add that it can only ever be a self reported and voluntarily reported statistic, it's pretty hard to get an actual, working average.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:11 AM
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Anything that I've applied myself to and not really achieved, I can look back and recognise where I didn't actually apply myself. It really is that simple. Giving up. Getting complacent. Getting comfortable. Trying harder next time. These are the moments where I didn't succeed. Overall, I am successful. Good money, house, women, friends, etc. Can afford most of the things I like, I enjoy my work (pre covid) and it's challenges, and I keep getting better. I could have been MUCH more successful on…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:18 PM
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Averages are bullshit. The average person has less than one arm.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:14 PM
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She's not wrong because she is still making you think about her. Still making you have emotional responses. Still trying to figure out "what did she mean?!" Many men fall from that to "wanting closure" so bad that if she suggested "just grabbing a drink" you'd jump at the chance to hear her out. Then if she explaining how it was "just a silly mistake and she realised she wants you" and then your brain connects these dots to say "ahh, knew I wasn't crazy. Of COURSE all her actions meant she reall…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:27 AM
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I believe around here it's always best to give advice that sits in the "always fucking do this!" (until you know better) bucket. Anyone with the frame to re-plate a cheating ex doesn't need you or I to tell them they can.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:35 PM
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That's like telling a dude who just dropped a 225lb deadlift that he could totally go for 500lb if he's got the strength and training for it. He doesn't, this post proves he doesn't.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:30 PM
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There isn't a "right" answer, but there are a few very wrong answers. Don't always pay everything for all dates because you believe that is your job. It is not. Don't refuse to pay for a full round of drinks because you're "not a simp or beta and don't pay for sex" I enjoy a couple of rounds of drinks with good company. But I also go to places where I know if the company is shit, the drinks are good, the staff are fun, live music, etc. So if I end up footing the bill AND she was boring, it's wor…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:28 PM
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3 weeks until OP is asking "So, my ex cheated on me and left me for her ex. Now she wants me back. I'm going to steal her back and plate her and then break her heart to get revenge for my fragile ego. What's the best way to do this?" then 4 weeks after that a "My ex came crawling back so I spent heaps of money on her again and gave up everything and then she walked all over me and went back to her other ex. Which she was still fucking THE WHOLE TIME! How could he be such a loser to take her back…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:40 PM
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Her experience has proven otherwise. She got back with her ex just as easily as she wanted, while you supported her. This is just how life works for her. The fact you arw STILL asking questions about her, how you should feel, and what her intentions might be suggests she's still got your messed up brain running circles for her. So she's not far wrong either. The sooner you stop giving a fuck about why she's doing whatever, and instead just focus on what's more important to you, the sooner you'll…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:36 PM
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"working on the assumption OP is uncomfortable" is exactly what I told OP to be weary of. It's not wrong for any person to think this is weird, it IS wrong to tell someone else they should. If her partner asked OP to eat a human for sexual pleasure, do you assume she'd think "hmm, should ask rpw what they think" or would OP be capable of knowing her feelings on the matter? They asked because they are uncertain. I'm just pointing out to OP that she doesn't HAVE to feel uncomfortable because other…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 08:49 PM
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A few things jump out here "psychologically sane" and a few people saying "tell him you're uncomfortable" or "if it's more than once it's weird" This may be uncommon and unusual. But it would be a huge and dangerous stretch to go all the wane to considering it not sane. And as for weird, WE are weird. Having an understanding of and preference traditional genders roles is considered weird and makes people uncomfortable. So be cautious of simply assuming the popular opinion. What does it mean to y…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 11:33 AM
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This bloke working for free for someone else's business and thinks he's won the lottery.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:01 AM
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"hey slim". They either take it as a weird generic greeting with no thought. Or an insult. Either way, they're right.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:52 AM
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Seems like such a waste of money though, especially if the goal is financial independence. Because it IS a waste of money. If you're thinking "I'll buy this expensive thing because it might get me laid" you've already lost. You've lost your financial independence, because your finances are being lost to imaginary future pussy. And you've lost your frame as a man who gets pussy, because you're spending money on pussy that doesn't even exist yet. Wealth is a good tool because it allows you to NOT …
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:58 PM
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He's updating us to show what he's learned, and maybe it will hell others who refuse to see the truth in their own situations.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:30 PM
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If I've signed up to a course about motorbikes, you damned well better start by telling me the way motorbikes work. If you point out when certain things would apply to other motor vehicles, great. But if you start by telling me the history of the car, you've lost my attention.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 01:29 AM
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I'm glad you're here to tell the founders of The Red Pill that they don't understand what it's about. They really should have asked you to write the description instead of making the mistake of writing it in plain English.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:32 PM
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Your comparisons don't have consequences. The main argument against marriage is that "doing it right' gains you nothing you didn't already have, and getting it wrong costs you half your material wealth alongside whatever other issues it introduces. If someone told me half the people who took vitamin c saw no benefit, the other half reported feeling better sometimes, I'd see no problem taking it. If someone told me half I'd the people who took vitamin c lost a limb from it and the other reported …
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:15 PM
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LEARN HOW to listen to your body. Novices can easily feel gassed out quickly and think they can't work harder. Or they're sore in the legs for 3 days after a proper leg session and think they overdid it. Or that the burn in a muscle group while working out is a sign they've gone far enough or too far. The body gives signals that tell you "you are working too hard" because it knows its going to have to repair this damage. You need to learn from experience that you know your body CAN repair this d…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 12:14 AM
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That's a lot of words just to say you don't think you are worth fucking. Every sheila you know would beg a bloke for HIS dick while turning down 100 others. Just become THAT guy.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 10:22 PM
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I directly quoted what you got wrong. Your dick should be the reward, not the price. You should be the prize. She should suck your dick because she wants to, because it turns her on. Not as an obligation or payment for something. You can't negotiate attraction.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 10:05 PM
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Nostalgia is you worrying you won't get that back. Throughout my life I've repeatedly thought my best sex and most exciting social experiences were behind me. Usually towards the end or at the end of a relationship. Then when I pull my head out of it, get off my arse and work harder, go and do things that make me happy, I end up having more fun and better sex than ever before. Your life just gets better when you work for it. The only thing you will miss is having more time to do it all over agai…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:14 PM
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“Dick” is no woman’s reward; it’s the price she pays There's your problem. If you don't think a Sheila would be happy to get your dick as a reward, why would they? You need to internalise a lot more before giving your advice. You are still dealing with blue pill conditioning.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:35 PM
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You're playing as a team, she's playing against you.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:02 PM
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Except you won't be invited back to any gardens. And I know when I'm in a war. Fight when something important is in the line. Pussy is not that thing.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:10 PM
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Is she attractive? How likely is it that she will stab you if you dance with her then go hook up with someone else? Those are your only two concerns. If she is attractive and still trying to win you back, yes. Get it on record by dancing with her. But do so only briefly and move on. Don't let her try and monopolise your time. This is preselection. It is currency in social situations. The crazy hot, but crazy ex GF not being able to get over you means you are crazy hot. If she's going to stab you…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 10:00 PM
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Here's your reminder. You aren't important. And the world doesn't care about you. You think fucking up a direct approach is going to be awkward because it's going to be some sitcom where every interaction forever is going to be about what mattered TO YOU. That every time you talk to her, she and and her friends are going to be thinking abiut that time you hit on her, and there's a laugh track. The reality is, if you are plain, simple, direct and not a creep about it, she will forget it in a week…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:51 PM
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"Not getting enough matches? Our marketing team has told us based off misinterpreted data that men like you get 250% more matches by paying for this bullshit premium service. Just $30 a month." - Tinder "Well, I haven't been laid in 3 years, maybe THIS will be the thing that works" - Hopeless Beta. It's the same old tinder story guys. It'll probably jump you to the front of the profile stack for a few lonely Sheilas for a week or two so when guys sign up they feel n increase in matches and swear…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 08:13 PM
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You can leave them. Sheila's with a 1 star rating will still get just as many matches from thirsty guys, so it won't matter.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 08:08 PM
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You don't just think that's the case. You know it is. You're just wishing there was an easy out. There is an easy out. Stay a whiny little could-have-been and you can stay up late, stressing, eating garbage, and never have to work hard again. Or you can step the fuck up and hold yourself accountable for your actions and find results. The second option might be harder at first. But to me, the other option seems harder forever.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:50 PM
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The point is we all know she doesn't want to be friends either. She's trying to get him to cave and say "oh, but you're too good to lose! I will stop seeing anyone else". When she doesn't get that, she still wants to fuck and knows she can't pull that manipulation on you.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 07:42 PM
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I watched my dad slowly die to cancer, watched my mum lose her second partner to cancer, and she's currently supporting her third through his battle with cancer. I am also a survivor of cancer myself. Although my battle as thankfully not a long protracted one, it was still a year of fear, uncertainty, and MAJOR physical and mental challenges and stresses. You let him be strong. You let him be weak. You focus on the positive possibilities and you listen to his fears of the negative. Your post men…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 08:52 PM
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12 Levels of Dread You're not doing it, and you should be. Look it up. She's not fucking you because she doesn't have to. She's not fit because she doesn't need to be. She's not scared of losing you, because it's not a risk. Keep yourself as fit, active and social as if you were single. Make sure she knows that she is replaceable. Not through words, but just by the fact that she sees that other women are making themselves available for you. It should become increasingly obvious to her that she w…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:26 PM
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I just think of the challenges I've faced and bear before this one. And they are most CERTAINLY harder than whatever I'm facing now. If I let this beat me after dealing with those, what have I become? I'm proud of the man I've become through my trials and efforts. I'm not going to let some shitty little challenge change that.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:57 AM
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Translation. My standards are currently higher than you.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 07:23 AM
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Well, you've mastered the art of making excuses to not go do things. You could find a way to market that.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:00 PM
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You've spelled out exactly the problem. It isn't rocket surgery At night, you watch Netflix and play video games. Are they the things you WANT to be spending your life doing? You have spare time to do anything, and instead of finding something interesting or exciting to do, you default to an easy timekiller. Most of us are guilty of this same mindset at different stages of our lives. It's up to you to shake it off. The moment you think of sitting down for a 10 minute round of your favourite anim…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:02 PM
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I was posting to support exactly that point with more information.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 08:55 PM
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This is the reality of the wall, it is a cautionary tale, not an apocalyptic prophecy. Many young women remain desirable simply by virtue of being young, not overweight, and wearing makeup. As one approaches 30, youth slips and remaining not overweight isn't enough. Remaining physically attractive after that point requires a lot of effort and maintenance. Starting that effort and maintenance when you are young builds better habits, lifestyle and is vital to keeping you looking young. Beyond that…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 08:17 PM
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It is in the sidebar! Soft next, stop reaching out to them. Don't respond till you have decided they have earned a response. Hard next. Block and never look back. Optional tell them you're walking away.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:52 PM
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So you want someone from here to be the big strong man in your life to tell you what to do? You know what to do. You don't need someone else to tell you.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:55 PM
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You're over thinking. So many people over think their tinder profile. Yes, having perfect photos would be ideal. But it's not a requirement. Just find a neutral background, whether it's a white wall inside, a brick wall outside, a park, whatever. Set your phone into timer mode, prop it up on an object so it faces you. Boom, photo that looks way better than a selfie. Crop as needed. The perfect is the enemy of the good. Don't wait weeks trying to be perfect when you could be doing well tomorrow.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:56 PM
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You don't need to run away to make big changes. People can only hold you back for as long as you let them. Start making changes in your own life, and ignore people talking shit around you. Some will stop contacting you, some will like you less and talk shit, some might accept the changes over time, and there might even miraculously be some that see you make changes and want to do the same for themselves. Focus on what YOU need to change, and how you need to do it. Other people are a secondary co…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:11 PM
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No, I have no business telling you what other people here are doing or trying to do. All I've told you is that the person you argued with on whisper is not worth this much consideration. Whatever this person has said holds about as much truth as the kids on call of duty who have all fucked your mum. Somehow, you have assigned so much self value into this argument that simply being told that it was a pointless discussion has you claiming everyone is attacking your masculinity. I don't know you, I…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 01:26 AM
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Glad you were able to turn this into an intelligent discussion. You're right, everyone else is being childish but you.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 01:06 AM
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You talk to one crazy person online and it's enlightened you. Now you think everyone is full of shit for not taking that discussion seriously. That is confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 12:54 AM
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You said it yourself, it's an anonymous bullshit chat app. The same kind where someone says they're a hot 19 year old girl so they can jack off to random dick pics. Nothing is "openly espoused" if it's discussed only on an anonymous chat with a stranger on the internet. She's not achieving her goal anymore than you were achieving the goal or helping promote logical discussion about gender. It is equally likely it was some fat neckbeard who is talking shit to get an argument and make people hate …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 12:46 AM
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She's anonymously arguing with a nerd on whisper. She's not getting any closer to any goals. This is not "openly espoused", this is LARPing.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 12:42 AM
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"I know what I need to do.. But it's hard! Please tell me there's an easy way" - OP
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:10 AM
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There's your problem. Nothing she does matters. You need to become the guy that can get what you want.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:57 AM
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I used a coffee cup at a Cafe earlier and it's probably being used by someone else right now. How does that change my life? It doesn't. She's your ex. Nothing she does should change how you go about your life, because she isn't in it.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:53 AM
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A LITTLE more nuanced. But it's not hard to figure out. "OP would be bad at sex." "I will not have sex with you OP" "Hey OP, don't expect to get sex today" "what is your favourite sex position OP?" yes, these mean they have thought of sex with you. "hey OP, let me tell you about this amazing sex I had last night" or "so I was having sex with this random guy" "that guy over there. I want to fuck him soooooo bad!" no, you are not someone who they think of as a sexual option.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:38 AM
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She's an attractive girl who shows you some affection, and you're 14. Don't blame yourself, this is literally what you are built to feel. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:19 AM
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Ok, ignore the wording of the last part. You have regret for fucking up with a woman you weren't attracted to. Now you're fat and bald and she's improving. You feel like shit because you won't find anyone as good as her. It took sex with one hot Sheila to make you feel better for a while. You are reactionary. The resulting problem is scarcity and you're managing your feelings. As well as not improving yourself. I don't give a fuck what you say about your son. It's irrelevant. You don't need to c…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:36 PM
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You selfish fucking idiot. Your title is about your son, yet the entire post is about you regretting losing this Sheila because she looks hot now and you miss her. She's in his life, she's just not in yours. There is literally not a single line in your whiny little rant about how this has or will affect your son. Only your feelings. You've just used your son as leverage to try and have your feelings heard and feel justified in them. Read your post to yourself on a regular basis. Do not delete it…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:22 PM
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Every 6 months. I've had a couple of doc's try and tell me I don't need particular tests (like AIDS) so regularly because I don't fuck men or hookers. Don't listen to them. I have no idea what other cocks have been in a woman's mouth, and where they've bene before.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:30 AM
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Find more active and social hobbies. If your non-work time is spend working out alone, doing hobbies alone, and self-improvement alone, then it makes sense that you're feeling the pinch of a very rigid routine. Team sport, martial arts, a band, whatever. Something that gets you around other like minded people, bonus points if it's nature has the possibility of short-term successes (eg. Sports wins)
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:57 AM
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You escalate. That is your job. If you want to know if a girl wants to hold hands, you hold her hand. If you want to know if she will kiss you, you kiss her. If you want to know if she will let you play with her boobs, you play with her boobs. At some point, you have to stop thinking "I wonder what she's thinking" and just find out.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:03 AM
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Remember, she can get laid by a hot guy with relative ease. Often, they are trying to get something more than sex. Remember sex is emotional for women, they want to feel a particular way. Usually it's enough to just show them that you are interested in more than JUST sex. But many times, that won't be enough. Admittedly, some expect more effort than they're worth. I have learned to recognise the difference in desire for me vs desire for someone to fawn over them.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:58 PM
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Don't take it as rejection. Remember that she came over repeating "I will not have sex tonight. I will not have sex tonight. I will not have sex tonight". It's not rejection for her to not break out of that mindset. If you think you're being rejected, you may act like it. And if you act like it, you project that feeling onto her.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:34 PM
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You mean, why wouldn't she stay for the family and her like-a-brother boyfriend while fucking other blokes she's attracted to.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:30 PM
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It was a genuine "I SHOULDN'T do this now" response. She kept remembering that she doesn't do this anymore. She was into you enough to want to do it. But not enough to forget about her 'rule'. That's normal. She just wanted to make sure this isn't a pump n dump. Sounds like you might have acted a bit butt hurt when not responding to "it was nice meeting you". Don't stress, this stuff happens. A lot. Ideally, you want her to WANT to break all her rules for you. But it's great to know she has some…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:28 PM
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Almost any sacrifice that can be made at 17 to make the rest of your life better is a good choice.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:27 AM
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Except when those political ideologies lead to behaviours. Like when OP specifically pointed out she wants to sit around and smoke weed all day. This seems like an obvious case of tip of the iceberg.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:24 AM
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If you mean your mouth cannot fit the length of an average penis, or get it in very far, that's normal. If you mean you cannot open your mouth wide enough to fit any of it in, that's a challenge, but no insurmountable. Blow jobs, as with anything sexual, should be about desire more than ticking the box. Showing an interest in it, using your hands, licking around it, using your mouth like it's a corn on the cobb. Just try to imagine what MIGHT feel good, give it a crack, and pay attention to how …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/20 11:48 PM
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"I there my rubbish out. Now I'm trying to negotiate it back into my house" You broke up with your ex, you decided it wasn't working for a reason. All this rubbish about his former ex is just added noise and confusion.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 01:53 PM
2

Captain Save-a-ho just became Saint Save-a-ho.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:17 PM
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If it's consentual. I can't just decide to beat a girl black and blue and call it bdsm.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:36 AM
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You're missing the point. It's not about who you called a slut, you could have said it about a hooker on the street and she'd have the same response. She is trained to try and get this word that judges women to stop being used.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:00 PM
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Yes. It's called learning what is socially acceptable. For example, if you see someone in a wheelchair, you should not just blurt out "cripple!". If you see someone who is super fat, best not to shout "Fatty!". First, these are terms that have two uses. The first is the true meaning, the person is crippled. The second is pejorative, it is used to diminish and offend people. Most people don't accept the first one because someone COULD be offended by the second. Second, women are being trained tha…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:38 PM
2

I'm the most.... You're narcissistic and can't stand losing. That is all. She just embodies your "but that doesn't make sense! I'm better than you! There MUST be more to this" self talk.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:46 AM
1

What are you doing to improve. When I look at my bank account and think it's not as high as I'd like it, I find ways to make money. When I look at my lifts and wish they were higher, I increase my efforts at the gym. You are in the unique position of being able to improve your own life. That should inspire excitement, not despair.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:09 AM
12

3 days. Very few things in your body recover after 3 days. Wait longer. Try again. If it happens again talk to a medical professional. 3 days mate. Really?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:06 AM
2

Not big on science or the news eh mate? Sweden has fucked their own shit. They had 3,500 new cases yesterday, Australia had 13, New Zealand had 1. They've had 2,600 deaths, Australia has had 907, New Zealand has had 25. I know in comparison to the great old US of A you think Sweden is showing those stupid lefties. But the Sweden experiment is failing, and it's getting worse. The science behind these things isn't just guess work. We know the mechanism for spread. We know that masks and distance h…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 10:31 PM
13

This is known as an x y problem. You've asked how to RP your cousin, when really what you want is to avoid being on the hook for this slut's baby. A Sheila that let you two tag team her after a night out (and didn't give a fuck about a torn condom) has a list of possible fathers longer than your phonebook. Did you finish in her with the torn condom? If not, then assume this ain't yours and act accordingly. That means, you don't tell your cousin you're worried about it, you don't try to explain t…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:00 AM
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Just a side note on corona. We do KNOW that masks work, we do KNOW that isolation works, we KNOW that social distancing. New Zealand has shown it. Australia has shown it. I've heard other places mentioned before, but paid less attention to it so can't name them. This is one of those cases of if you have ANY doubt in the science, you are already believing the lies.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:19 PM
4

Keep killing it out there man. It looks like you're on the right track. And thanks for the field report.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 10:37 PM
7

I'll only mention the ones where you mentioned good/bad sex. c. 7/10 insane body and great sex. a. 4/10 Terrible sex s. 6/10 Great sex y. 5/10 body and sex was bad h. 7/10 Great sex and cooks for me s. 6/10 great sex on first date. y 6.5/10 good sex b. 6/10 good sex m. 7/10 best, tightest body and best sex of the year So each 7 that you mentioned the quality, was great or the best. Each 6/6.5 was good or great. 5 was bad and 4 was terrible. I assume everyone else was average. This is only going …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 10:21 PM
4

I think what you're missing is that hotter girls aren't more work. They are they same amount of work, sometimes less bullshit and crazy (5s need to hang on harder when they think they got something good). You just need more confidence. Be braver.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 09:10 PM
3

Great report. My only note is that you said you'd take a 5 who's great in bed over 7 who isn't. But it seemed like most of the 5s were bad sex, and the 7s were great sex. This may be because you were more into it because they were hot, or because 5s are lazy. I dunno, but maybe you need to realise that the reason to go for 7+ is because they are more attractive AND the sex is better.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 09:05 PM
3

Sounds like too much work. Obviously she's shit at dealing with her emotions, so anything more than a plate is out of the question. And she sounds like far too much drama for a plate.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:30 AM
4

That's OK, you thought wrong. A UTI is an infection. Hormones (even hormonal imbalances) don't give infections. She doesn't know how to keep her snatch clean. Stop making excuses for her. It's up to you to decide what your boundary is. Like I said, unless you ARE doing something to cause this, it is not your fault. Her taking her issue out on you is her problem. There is no negotiation.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:26 AM
13

She doesn't know how to look after her junk. Unless you're rubbing shit into her pussy, this is most likely her doing. The rules are simple. Keep it clean. Don't use soap inside. Pee after sex. Don't let foreign stuff go in urethra. Don't go ass to pussy. If she can't keep her shit clean, and she takes that out on you, she's more hassle than she's worth.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:16 AM
1

You have a weird way of categorising jobs. "so since animals are either casual types, like orangatangs, goldfish, or copperhead snakes. Or there are the formal types, like magpies, jaguars, and killer whales..." The creative jobs you've mentioned requite a LOT of "order taking" to get anywhere in the beginning. They are not inherently fun or exciting at all. Just better for people who get more out of being creative.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:08 AM
1

Abacus.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:02 AM
1

Always assume attraction. She will never say yes if you don't ask. Paraphrasing Uncle Vas, "The Timid Prince never fucked the Fair Maiden" or some poetic shit like that.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:57 AM
2

"I am very rational" Here's the crux of your issue. Sheilas want feelings. They want excitement, fun, adventure. Not rational, safe, secure. You don't need to dance to pull them. They were just dancing because it was the "fun" that was provided to them. Bring some excitement and mystery away from the dance floor. Don't be afraid to take control and tell one of them to stay and talk to you. If they have ANY interest then they'll be excited to be singled out.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:50 AM
5

There are four steps in this process. Figure out what you want to be doing with others, then figure out who those other people should be. It's all well and good to say "I want male friends", but if you want to hang out and talk about renaissance art, don't look for people at the dog track. Figure out what those people would be doing, and go do that. If you want to hang out with people who sail, makes sense to join a sailing club and meet blokes there. Be someone who is worth being around. When w…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 11:00 PM
4

Someone with experience told you the truth. You denied it outright. You are indeed closed minded.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:43 PM
4

Ah, the dude who's never had an LTR is now the expert. If you want advice from Red Pilled men, ask away. If you want to argue that your Blue Pill friends know best, there's a people pill debate sub for that. You don't have the experience to correct anyone here on LTRs
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:40 PM
2

No. Not really. If a girl's self worth going up makes you worry, then you have your own self worth issues. She should ALWAYS be chasing your value.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:57 AM
2

Don't give gold on reddit! Go buy a mate a beer or something.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:54 AM
2

First, you spend any of this frustrated energy doing something noticeable for yourself. You've mentioned you're pretty fit anyway, so there's no quick gain there. Maybe pick up some nice new clothes, some new kicks, something for a hobby of yours. Whatever. Find something that makes you happy and put sometime and energy into it. This is important because you NEED to train yourself that her pulling away from you is better for you than for her. If she walks away, you just have more time for shit y…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:47 AM
12

What benefit do you think that has for you? I can see downsides, picking a fight, her now bringing it up regularly, her trying to flip the script and paint you as untrustworthy, her turning to an orbiter because she doesn't feel validated by you anymore. I don't see many upsides. Sounds like a stupid game.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:33 AM
1

First, you've made it clear you haven't really given the gym real go. You've fucked around a little and given up. Give it 18 months of committed, disciplined effort and then tell me it doesn't do shit. You've spent more effort trying to convince people you never had a chance than you have at doing something about it. Also, fuck off with your comparison to cancer you entitled little cunt. Spoken like a true piece of shit that hasn't actually faced a hard day in their life.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:23 PM
1

I'm not uncomfortable discussing this at all. You keep asking if I'd be ok with your problems, you just refuse to accept my answer of yes. You have a choice. You can DO something, you can hit the gym like your future depends on it. You can build the sexiest little manlet body you can. You can look like someone who's put in the work even though they've got a disadvantage. You can TRY and prove the statistics wrong. Or, you can complain to people on the internet that you never had a chance and arg…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:19 PM
1

Bullshit, I'll be getting to the fucking gym. You might have wasted all this time, but I won't be wasting any more.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:05 PM
1

The one thing that is in your control, and you decide to not even try. Then you claim your not a quitter? No wonder you can't get laid. I imagine talking to your for five minutes makes any woman want to punch you for being a bitch. Would I switch places? As long as I got ZERO off your personality. You could wake up tomorrow, in my body, with my roster of women. You could look in my phone and quickly figure out which ones would come around and fuck you with no questions asked based on recent mess…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:18 PM
2

You have "objective truth and empirical evidence" of millions of people, their satisfaction in relationships, and whether they are beta or not? That's a pretty impressive dataset mate. You should stop wasting time here and monetise that shit asap! You are making shit up based on your limited life experience and extrapolating that to millions. Let's use your made up numbers. 4 billion men on earth. Millions of them are happy betas in great relationships. That means nearly 4 billion are not happy …
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:28 PM
2

I have to disagree with one very key point. There is EVERYTHING wrong with remaining normal. You now know what mediocrity will do to you. It's a slow, painful, depressing death spiral. Accept nothing short of excellence for yourself. Fight to be better than normal. Skinny? Hit the gym like your life depends on it. Stuck in a dead-end job? Find a way forward and don't let anything get in your way. You've already started courses, but don't stop there. The only life you get to live is this one. Why…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:16 PM
2

Imagine for a second that a girl might want sex to be fun, exciting and adventurous. Not a lesson from her 4th grade health teacher about consent and empathy. People want to feel desired. Fuck her like you couldn't resist. Every time.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:11 PM
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If I had to choose between having your looks with a better attitude and discipline, or your victim mentality with top 5% looks. I'd be writing posts about how to get laid as a 5'3" ugly motherfucker. Your attitude (eg. I tried the gym, but gave up because I decided it wasn't going to work) is your problem. I bet you could talk a hooker out of sex.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:53 AM
1

If you had put as much effort into the gym as you did finding excuses, you'd be one if the ones getting annoyed at people complaining they can't get laid because they're short. Your personality is shit, your discipline is shit, AND you're short. Life is fucking hard. Get fucking harder.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:48 AM
1

Your core won't pull your ribs in. And the gut thing you mention is the same thing EVERY skinny bloke has. You're so lean that a full stomach makes a noticeable difference. Put on muscle. It's amazing how having pecs that fill a shirt, thick shoulders to give you a wider look, wide lats, all of a sudden that little extended gut isn't visible.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:43 AM
5

Is this some elaborate scheme to discredit u/GayLubeOil? I mean if I believed this is how people turn out after life changing advice from him, I'd avoid his advice like it was chasing me in a prison shower block
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:30 AM
3

What a dumb argument. If he wants to believe he shouldn't put in work, you're wasting time arguing with him. You can only EVER help a mate like that by getting out there and proving it yourself. Nothing else will work, and even doing so will often be ignored.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:58 AM
26

Be cautious talking about TheRedPill in college. These people might be peers, recruiters, bosses in future. Being "that misogynist from class" might come back to bite you.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:56 AM
3

I forgot that I spent the whole time wishing I was touching her, but paralysed in fear. Man, I just felt really nostalgic for those days when I was younger and the very thought of brushing arms in the cinema had my heart racing. OP, don't beat yourself up about it. Enjoy the ride. Be nervous, but be brave.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:37 AM
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"used sparingly" followed by "once a week"... Ways to spot a habitual drug user. If you feel like you might need a drug once a week to maintain confidence and frame, you have none.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:46 AM
2

Great descriptive, but your first paragraph is wrong and discouraging for the newer blokes. You don't have to have lived experience to pull it off. But when you pull it off, it makes it seem like you have lived experience.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 09:21 PM
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First. Stop trying to assume you know someone's ncount. You don't. You really really don't. Even less so when you've just met up for the first time. Second, when a girl says "I don't kiss on a first date" it usually means "I just thought about kissing you. But I shouldn't". Always escalate. "I don't kiss on the first date" very often becomes "omg, I can't believe I just fucked you on a first date. I totally never do that! Tee hee."
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:51 PM
2

No. Reputation is PART of your status. Have you read the sidebar of this sub and r TheRedPill? Because this is a concept that is thoroughly explored in those materials.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:16 AM
1

It's not a 100% fail rate. But if you make a long winded post on the sub, have doubts about it being a good idea, and then need to defend yourself when someone says "you don't need your ex", then you are too committed to this. She's in your head, you're getting in your own head.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:24 AM
12

Don't do female looking for female. They are FLOODED with threesome accounts and get pissed off. Think how often you see "not on here much, add me on snap". Male looking for female, you will get sheilas who want good dick, and most of them will consider experimenting with the right couple. Pictures are spot on. I'd say change "laid back" to something like "fun and adventurous". Sheilas on the fence about trying a threesome want it to be exciting not boring. Try to avoid anything that seems like …
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:29 PM
3

Men lead, women follow. They pick up on signals from you. If you think going back to your parents is an issue, so does she. If you treat it like it isn't an issue, so does she. Fucking in a car, park, public toilet, sports stadium, abandoned warehouse, cemetery, whatever. Just get her excited and it'll be one of those "I can't believe I just did that!" moments. Hotel is fine, same thing. If you act like it's a non-issue, so will she. I just don't see why you think there are zero other options th…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:36 PM
11

Understanding The Red Pill and being a decent person are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:26 PM
1

Very bold. You can double down in how bold it is by doing it in the rain with flowers, with her favourite song in the background. Or maybe chase her to the airport and stop her getting on that flight. That would be super bold. Your fantasising about make "the bold declaration", and not onlu putting her on a pedestal, but telling her that you have. Just ask her out and escalate.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:07 AM
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You don't want an LTR that snapchats her ex behind your back. This sheila snapchats her ex behind your back. Therefore, she is not who you want as an LTR. Make it so.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:44 PM
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Is it fair to jump to conclusions? Maybe not. But relationships aren't fair. You need to look after you. And sounds like you don't want an LTR that is snapchatting her ex behind your back (and rightly so). Sounds like it's time to do the hard thing and maintain your boundary. There is no negotiation here.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:41 PM
2

"I know a girl who would REALLY enjoy having some fun with you, and I think she might even be your type."
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:48 AM
2

She's trying to make it clear she wants you tuition, for cash. Not sex. It's business, keep it as such.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:36 AM
3

Don't confuse random posters who are happy to finally get some pussy as the community on a whole. People who create useful TRP content and actionable advice warn of the dangers and low quality of MILFs.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:34 AM
1

So you're going to tell her you're happy to be a cuxk? Do not fucking congrats your plate on ditching you for another cock. Did you lose you self respect somewhere, or just never have any?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:58 PM
9

Girl pulled my pants down, put a condom on my dick and pulled it towards her vagina. I wanna smash. What should I do?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:57 PM
16

Many people don't make that distinction. Being knowingly involved in cheating, is being a cheater.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 07:41 PM
8

By not being upset when someone calls out a shit joke. Here's then deal, if you're so fragile that someone saying your joke isn't funny is going to upset you, ruin your day, or embarrass you in front of people, you have zero frame. You don't need to correct them, you don't need to save face, you don't need to win over the audience. You need to not give a fuck. Either it was funny, and they are being butt hurt. Or it wasn't funny, and now you are being butt hurt. Either way, the only response is …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:32 PM
1

Yep, and that's when the most pressure is on you. My general guide when I'm on a date at a bar (very different circumstances, but you give you an idea of timing) During the first drink if I'm close enough to touch her hand or her leg, I will do so in response to something she says. Around second drink I'll visibly move my chair closer while talking and not making a big deal out of it. Then it's either a second venue, or if the vibe at this venue is too good, I'll head up to the bathroom. If it's…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:20 PM
5

Correction: you've now been taught by nerds on the internet about something that comes naturally to masculine men. Check that ego OP
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:56 PM
0

What is that title? Are you trying to submit a philosophy paper without the content? If you want to explore random concepts, write out your theory in full and share on TRP. AskTrp is about asking for advice or clarification. The question in your body. Yes, treat men and women differently. Also treat dogs and cats differently. They are different. They have different wants, needs, motivators and fears. This is the very core of TRP, so I suggest you need to familiarise yourself with the sidebar mat…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:26 PM
1

Take a breath, relax, and think like the prize. She wanted you before, there was a reason. Don't get in your own head about it and try too hard. Escalate. Flirt a little, then kino. Push pull. Don't wait for "the perfect moment" for each little thing. Just make moves, if she's receptive, make more. That's it. A walk is good to get away from everyone, but by then you should have already been flirting and kinoing.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:22 PM
1

Ah the old "if God didn't want this to happen, I shouldn't be able to do it" mental masturbation. I don't give a fuck if you blokes want to fuck married chicks or whatever. But you're a fucking mental case if you need to use "God's Will" as your own excuse for it.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:39 PM
2

"Don't worry, abbi_kadabi will guide you through it. All you'll need to do is relax, do what your body tells you, and we'll have a blast. It's OK to be a little nervous." You want to reassure them that YOU are in control because you make this safe, easy, fun, and "just get it". Not demand control because you say so. Sheila's get intimidated by blokes with more sexual experience, but absolutely bow to us when they get wet.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:57 AM
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Don't try and fit in with someone who thinks they're cool. Don't correct him, but don't put in extra effort to seem "cool" in his eyes. If he wants to do Molly, whatever. But if he uses that as his yard stick to measure "cool", he's a loser. He's still your boss, so you smile and don't disagree with him. The fact that he brought up praising you to superiors suggests he feels a need for you to like him. Probably needs everyone to like him, to think he's cool. If that's the case, he'd sell you out…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:13 AM
2

Only if you don't measure your TDEE properly. TDEE is total daily energy expenditure. NOT total daily energy expenditure (if you weren't working out). You calculate your tdee constantly while you continue to workout. It will change as you get bigger, leaner, work harder. But if you keep a calory surplus over THAT number you are golden. The common 500 calory surplus is a "I'm too lazy to properly track things" cop out. It will work, but if you can spare the extra effort to track better, you can d…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:15 PM
-1

Right, so based on fuck all. Lucky you doubled down on your point Dr Dipshit
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:40 PM
0

Based on what medical experience?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:26 PM
6

Yeah, exactly why I was questioning the expertise of "not medical. He was hard" above me.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:14 AM
13

What's your speciality, doc? I only ask because that seems to have fuck all to do with this possibly being a medical thing. So you are obviously a medical expert to rule out a medical issue because he can briefly get hard.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:17 AM
1

If you have even the slightest of good relationship with a superior who has genuine sway in your future (the president) you should have already have had the "what's next for me here, and what should I be doing now to make that happen" conversation. Not every time you talk to them, and don't expect a personal coaching session. But let them know you're in the running and not just cashing a cheque. At minimum, they recognise that yoh are looking to the future and willing to do more. At best, you're…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:50 PM
4

You recognise that your problem comes from relying on external validation for you emotional stability. Your conclusion is to buy a creature that will give you external validation on demand. I suggest you work on removing your reliance on it. Dogs are great, all pets are great. But if you are lonely without a pet, you will be lonely with a pet.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:33 AM
2

You didn't make a date for Friday. You told her you'd call her Friday. Super low commitment from both of you. Just call or message her to "sort out the details"
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:14 AM
-1

The reality is that you're handling your shit and this is going to be hard to hide. Just make it clear that it's no big deal, and don't get stuck into unneeded details. She'll read the cues from you. Besides, there's no stigma attached to insomnia. Just tell her what you need her to know "hey, I've been on some insomnia meds for a while and my doc and I are thinking I can come off them soon. Hopefully it won't make much of a difference, but it my sleep is messed up, that might be why."
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:51 PM
1

My point is, that hairline hasn't stopped him from being a fucking sex symbol for his generation. Why would it stop you?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:32 PM
2

think Harry Styles shit SMV Here's an example of you being able to describe exactly how NOT bad this is. Then conclude that it's a death sentence.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 11:49 PM
1

She chose to make it her mummy's business. You are the only person in that conversation that doesn't understand why your GF brought it up.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:08 AM
1

Haha. Righto mate. No recurring pattern here that we can all see. GF "gets love message from ex out of the blue", GF disrespects you in front of friends, GF tells her mother you are cleaning, GF ignores when you disagree with the evenings plans. GF shot tests you regularly. You've got this all under control chief. Nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:08 AM
1

Your GF chose to tell your mother she was cleaning. You are an idiot for thinking your GF doesn't know her mother would read that as OP doesn't clean, I do.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:04 AM
1

GF chose to tell mum she was late because SHE was cleaning. This isn't an accident. She's communicating like a woman.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:28 PM
2

I think you glazed over the fact that after the MIL has made her position clear by bringing this up, the GF chose to say they were late because she was cleaning. This isn't an accident. GF is communication and everyone here is missing it.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:27 PM
1

It seems no one here is reading the real message. Your girlfriend and her mother are both women, and as such they communicate covertly. They are masters of manipulation. The fact that this conversation is happening is not an accident or the mother's doing. Your girlfriend doesn't accidentally bring up the fact that you were late because SHE had to do chores. She chose those words very deliberately. Your girlfriend is trying to tell you that she isn't happy with the dynamic. Mother is picking up …
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:22 PM
3

First, The Red Pill is about understanding the reality of social dynamics and discussing strategy to navigtlate them in the modern feminised society. It is about seeing what it really is and how to make it work for you. NOT about being good, right or just. Second, what about "OP does what makes him happy, his GF chooses what makes her happy. If the two don't match, she can leave" sounds like it has anything to do with personal responsibility, for or against? I think OP is lazy and complacent, hi…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:10 PM
1

Have you a source for your claim that women who don't masturbate get off easily with PIV?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 12:10 PM
1

As you can see by the majority of comments, fun beats accurate. "I'm a vp of my fathers company" or "I'm a vp of a (whatever) company" is boring as sin. Be interesting. Either make light of the question with a fun answer you can both have a joke about, or talk about something interesting to do with your work.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:56 AM
23

I'm going to focus on the one part of your post I can address. So yeah, it's hard to see having a very fulfilled life being alone, single, and fucking plates the rest of my life. How long have you spent being fit, healthy, active, single and fucking plates? I have very fulfilling relationships with women and friends. 'plates" to me aren't just sheilas to fuck. Some I get to spend some genuinely fun and memorable times with. Most are fleeting, a few months at best. Some leave and get a boyfriend,…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:21 AM
8

Help! girl is throwing her pussy at me! What do I do? Mate, she has made it clear and fucking simple. She's even TOLD you she like to be dominated, and you're still trying to figure out how to fuck it up. Don't try to prove anything. Don't try to show smv. Let her imagination do the work. Make a clear plan to meet up, tell her exactly when and where and what to wear, then tell her not that to think about you too much while she's away and leave her be.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:25 AM
2

Having them on display is inviting trouble. But, if you ever need to explain having them or having read them, it's just a passing interest. "I find social dynamics interesting. It's why I like film, people trying to understand other people by pretending to be someone they're not." You're a curious mind. You aren't looking to change, you're looking to understand why others choose to.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:15 AM
4

You know what, I agree that it's not 100% a Covert Contract. Well pointed out. But the "I'm just looking for a nice girl" is absolutely hiding your intentions because you think it's what she wants to hear. And it is NOT what she wants to hear. Consider this, and I note that women and men are different but it helps to paint the picture. You're looking for an LTR, and a sheila says to you "I'm just looking for a nice guy". That immediately reads as either "I'm sick of fucking hot guys", "I want a …
/r/askTRP20/09/20 04:25 AM
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There is a very large gap between making her feel like she's just a one night stand and telling her you want a relationship. You'll learn to be a little more nuanced with practice. The reason a lot of advice is given as absolutes is because making the mistake you did (being too forward) is often going to be get the result you were after if you have built attraction, making the mistake in the other direction (trying to convince a girl through covert contracts to eventually sleep with you) will of…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:57 AM
1

It's called a Covert Contract, and clearly explained in the sidebar. You don't understand TRP. Stop giving advice until you do.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:52 AM
12

All of the above, plus you two both need to go and get tested for STIs. She had multiple unprotected partners, he willingly got involved in that. He's a risk, and many don't have any symptoms but can cause serious issues for women.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 01:48 AM
1

Try reading it again. My advice was for seeing if it's a shit test. In my experience, the majority of the time previous plates bring up a 'bf' it is to try and show value and not seem unwanted. Then they hit you up on a week or two and say "it wasn't really that serious/it's over/we really only went on 2 dates/whatever" bullshit to cover their lie and get back into your bed.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:31 AM
2

First, precum does not have semen. End of story. You can ejaculated without it being the big end of story spectacle if you were getting too close to finishing though. But it's unlikely. Second, never, ever, EVER assume only one other guy has fucked her without a condom. You know NOTHING about her sex life. She has no incentive to tell you about that one time she got super turned on and let the bartender fuck her in the bathroom. Third, why did the discussion of her ovulation come up? I would be …
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:46 PM
0

My weak lungs make me a badass!
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:40 PM
1

You texted an old plate out of the blue and she has a bf. Shit happens. Could be a shit test, just say something like "He's not invited. 7pm" and she'll either follow up or not.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:30 PM
3

This is a bullshit response that will get you other people's scraps. "I let them make plans" also known as the "I'm a passive spectator in my life" plan from a MGTOW. Don't let the up votes fool you into thinking this is a working strategy.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:29 PM
1

Join a criminal organisation, or join the military and set your target on a small, elite unit.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:23 PM
7

First, a couple of dates with no sex and you're considering an LTR? Learn to value yourself. No one can show their worth within a couple of dates. Second, learn to shut the fuck up. Your response should have been either silence, or when you have multiple sexual relationships and this one doesn't count, just say "sure, hit me up when you realise".
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:22 PM
1

Read the 12 Levels of Dread. It explains everything. You do NOT explain stuff until it's time to save a marriage.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:18 PM
1

You're too attached. If you have all this time for her, you obviously aren't in demand. No mystery, no time for her to be missing you. Each place should get once a week, or 2 times in 10 days. Keep this in mind until you know better from experience.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:11 PM
1

My girlfriend is acting single, so I'm acting more attached. This is the very core of RP. She's (intentionally or without knowing it) dreading you, and it's working. Read the 12 Levels of Dread. The first few (up to and including flirting with other women) should be your natural state. As uncle V would say, "this wouldn't be a problem if you were maintaining sexual relationships with multiple women"
/r/askTRP17/09/20 11:09 PM
2

You don't need to "get her back". Your answer should have been "Sure, better make it a good one, give me something to remember you by". She's trying a new tactic since crying hasn't worked. And you fell for it and have started worrying about losing her. If she wanted to ditch your arse, why would she be coming for one last fuck?
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:38 PM
4

Does the prize watch his girlfriends social media, get shitty that she doesn't post Jim, and try to convince her to post him on her social media? Or does the prize instead go out and have an amazing life, flirt with other women, having people trying to get him on her story, and his girlfriend tries to convince him to be on her story? Do you want to be the prize, or do you want to be in her social media? You're not acting like the prize. You're acting like a butt hurt bf. In short, focus on you a…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:39 PM
3

You can address your feelings by being open and honest. All of my plates know the deal early on. And they knowingly stick around because I never make it their problem, I keep things fun and interesting. Sheilas care about feelings. If you make them feel good and fuck then well, they're happy. Sometimes they push for more, and you simply remind them that it's been great, you enjoy their company and would like to continue, but you won't be changing the rules. They almost always come back. Women th…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 06:01 AM
3

You need to do a lot more reading. Red Pill simply says "Here is what we've figured out so far about how things work. Here are examples of succesful strategy" The majority of successful strategy posted here boils down to "don't be a pushover, keep fit, make them work for it" and it works.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 05:56 AM
1

What's stopping you from having an interest in the arts and food now? Join classes, go to events, galleries, theatre, you can do most of this shit online if you're area is locked down or high risk.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 05:09 AM
52

"I feel like I'm a fun guy" who chooses to avoid fun... You're not tired, you're bored and lacking direction. Stop waiting for motivation to hit, waiting to be invites to something cool, waiting to be dragged out of your hole into some miraculously fun life just because you feel like you deserve more. Go and fucking take more. Take action like your life depends on it, because it does. Go and fucking lift. We all know you don't have a good gym routine (or maybe any). It's hard to have a shitty da…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 05:07 AM
20

Social pressure. If she has a strong sense of home and family, there is pressure to not be seen negatively in their eyes. So her behaviour needs to pass the "will this somehow get back to my parents" test. If she hates her father, the ¥will this somehow get back to my parents" test is the opposite. She wants her shitty father to know had badly he fucked up. If she has a strong sense of community and friends who look poorly on alutty behaviour, she doesn't want to be ostracised from the group by …
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:12 AM
2

Power will just shift to higher and higher value men. Just like wealth.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:26 AM
3

"I don't expect apologies. I expect action. If you care to improve, don't do it again. If you don't think it's an issue, don't bullshit me." but in a more pleasant manner. Generally I don't bother with most people, if I need to be THAT explicit, it's their problem and I've already moved on. But if there is any reason that this conversation shook ukd continue because them taking it seriously has a benefit to me, I make the point crystal fucking clear that only corrective action holds value.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:11 AM
3

The truth is, he seems to be showing you that he cares more about you than how your boobs look. He's tried to reach out, he's trying to fix it. He's still showing interest, despite what others here are trying to paint as him outright rejecting you as a person. If all he cared about were perky tits, why would he be trying to reach out and resolve this? Now, it sounds like this has caused you a lot of doubts, and you can't ignore that. He handled it terribly, even if you did pry it out of him. Ask…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 02:10 AM
2

You're overthinking, and that's normal as you learn this stuff. So first things first, this was all a pretty normal experience. Places you can improve. Don't stress about describing the plan too much. Even if you plan to go here, then there, then drink, then back to yours. She doesn't need to be in on the whole thing from the start, just when you're ready to move things to home say "Let's grab a drink back at my place, I've got a nice dining setting". What you say here is not important, just say…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:53 AM
2

A couple of points you should focus on. Your "game" at the restaurant was NOT pretty terrible. I joke with friends that my best closer is "let's go back to mine for a glass of water/cup of tea". It works. It's is the easiest way to say "we both know where this is going, let's not bullshit each other" in a lighthearted way. Every plate that I have used this on brings it up at some point later as a thing that they "just couldn't believe a guy would be so brazen to pull" "Well, I didn't expect that…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:18 AM
1

How to proceed? Like nothing has changed. Does it stop your career, your personal fitness, your health, your mission? No. Does it change your perspective a little? Probably. You only have so much time. You know that a little more now that time you could have spent knowing someone was taken away. Don't waste that time being angry at your mum, blaming someone, or worrying about what could have been. Talk to your mum to try and find out what really happened, if you want. You might find out a little…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:27 PM
5

I agree not to waste time blaming his mum for anything, but "she deserves it"? Fuck off with that shit. She doesn't get a fucking medal because she didn't abort a pregnancy. What a low bar you set for women. She doesn't deserve a thing. OP deserves to not waste another minute feeling angry over this. That is all.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:21 PM
1

how does sleep work? this is how sleep works. no
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:36 AM
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The point is that you don't take her question seriously. You have fun, she has fun. You make it a problem, she has a problem. People on a date don't want the truth, they want a fun story.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:15 AM
3

Both. All of your accounts are linked, whether you explicitly linked them or not. If they are showing, it's because they've been marked as "OK to show them we know they know each other". That means you've explicitly linked an account, they've searched you, you've exchanged numbers and either yours or their number is on their Facebook and the other's phone has contacts linked to Facebook. Facebook know, but now have a plausible reason to show you they know.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:10 AM
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Try and continue your basic habits. Food, sleep, water, workout, work. Don't beat yourself up over slipping up on these though. You WILL find some things just a little harder for a while. Don't let falling behind on these things be a reason to get depressed. Just accept it and try again tomorrow. Always be appreciative. Many men never got the father you did. They either had no father or worse, a shitty one. You get to go out there and prove that a great father builds a great man. Talk to people.…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 09:57 AM
2

Read the sidebar on the main sub. Read the top 20 posts of all time, make sure to skip all the posts complaining about shit said in other communities or about men who got cheated on /divorced. You can come back to the whiny shit later, focus on the process.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:08 PM
7

They know they can't get your attention the usual way. But they sure got your attention now!
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:55 PM
0

Lies, deceives others, uses false identities or nicknames, and uses others for personal gain. TRP does not advocate this and in fact tells men to be upfront about whether marriage, LTR are possible when asked. '9. Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you. And I said a cursory read of the top 20, not a cursory read of the titles of the top 20. Read the sidebar, read the content. BTW. I've added more context to my previous reply that might help.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:44 AM
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You've only proven your ability to copy a list without reading the content. I'm not saying we are sociopaths, or that TRP tells us to become them. I'm saying that your points to the contrary aren't based on TRP theory or discussion. They are based on your own moral judgement of the implications of TRP. I'm not going to go through point by point. We discuss strategies that are intended to make people feel a particular way, to get what we want. It's not a bad thing. It is manipulative, because the…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:33 AM
9

Red Pill is not unconditional love and your opinion of most women is not relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 11:34 PM
1

A cursory read of the top 20 posts on TRP would categorically disprove every one of your points except maybe the aggressive behaviour. You've assigned your own moral code onto TRP here. 'being a good person", "not to be a POS and spread STDs". Point 7? We can't feel guilt because we avoided being a sociopath. Your post feels good, but is not accurate.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 11:28 PM
3

I disagree with your conclusion. An LTR (fake or not) with this woman sounds like a pain in the arse. OP has just proven to her that nagging gets what she wants. She isn't into him, she just wants him to do what she wants (see point 1) OP is not interested in her, but has become complacent and stopped gaming other women. A man with options would never be in this situation. Why aren't you a man with options OP?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:59 PM
3

TL;DR I'm dating someone I'm not attracted to because I don't think I can do better. I've gotten comfortable with the attention and am scared of being alone. She's trying to force me to marry her and I'm thinking about caving. You don't want to be with her NOW, why would you commit financially to do so longer? She's right, you need to man up and find someone worth your time and effort.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:33 AM
1

Your choice isn't if you want to fuck her. Your choice is if you want to deal with the drama it will cause. It's like parking in a no parking zone. You are accepting that you will get a fine. As long as you know you won't get towed, is the fine worth the convenience? If so, do it.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:08 AM
3

She will 100% tell your ex. If you can't handle the consequences, don't do it. No pussy is that good.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:06 AM
73

When a woman tells you she's crazy, believe her.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:51 AM
24

I have a slightly different read of feminism from my experience. Any feminists I've known WELL (close friends, long-time work colleagues, long term plates), have a hatred and rejection of poor masculinity. This shows outwardly as a rejection of femininity, but as a response to poor masculinity. They are constantly bombarded with shit examples of masculinity and push back on that. When they see someone who can be masculine without bullshit, they fucking eat it up. Whether it's being fixated on yo…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:31 AM
4

There does seem to be a trend of red pill truths being made palatable for the blue pilled masses. Notice how it seems like the men in each scenario as the bad guy. Light switch effect: Something has changed in her mind, and is now turned off! The Ick: He has done something that causes me to feel icky. The bonus being that by labelling it "icky" it's not just my feeling, it's something that everyone should be repulsed by.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:44 AM
14

Except for one important detail. There is no difference between being a 4/10 and being an 8/10. If you're a 4/10, the right action is to focus on your mission, lift hard, eat well, sleep well, be confident, and always assume attraction. If you're 8/10, the right action is to focus on your mission, lift hard, eat well, sleep well, be confident, and always assume attraction. Point being, you don't need to know if you're 4/10 or 10/10. It's not up to you to decide how attractive you are. It is up t…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:52 AM
2

Thanks also to people who report the dumb shit so it can be dealt with.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:45 AM
3

Take that effort you're putting into making excuses, and move that into other areas of your life. You're bald, you're told to embrace it and it won't be a problem. BUT they just don't get it. You're different. You're special. You need glasses. You're told to own it, that glasses aren't a problem. But they just don't get it. They hurt your head, or you're too active, or you're trying to look sporty not nerdy. And contacts, they were irritating so you gave up on them. A bald head and poor eye sigh…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:21 AM
2

I'm not suggesting your intention is a negative but that it should be a considered and measured approach. Otherwise it can have a negative outcome. It sets an agreed precedent that we will change when married. You have an idea in your mind what that means, they have an idea in their mind what that means. You think it means going from being a pleasant, supportive girlfriend to a pleasant, supportive wife. He may think it means going from trying to keep you happy to "I gave you what you want (marr…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 11:54 PM
2

Are you asking me to explain something, or pointing out that if you're not giving wife bonuses you need to explain the reason to your partner?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 11:37 PM
8

If the goal is a wedding, this is a useful strategy. If the goal is a happy marriage, this puts you at huge risk. It is a sure fire way to have no idea what you're getting yourself into. I would recommend a measured use of this strategy. If you make it clear that the relationship is different when married, then the relationship will be different when you're married. "OK, good were married now. So I can stop the doting boyfriend routine and start the demanding husband routine."
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 09:44 PM
19

She got the joke, she didn't care. OP was beta fucks; he stopped providing, she showed him the door.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:33 PM
7

If the only way you can relate to a bloke is by talking about picking up women, you're a pretty boring friend. And if it's such an issue to you that he won't talk about it, I can see why hid GF doesn't respect you. Some of my friends don't talk about picking up women any more. Luckily, we have always had far more interesting things to talk about. Even my single friends it's fucking rare we discuss picking up.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:52 AM
1

Your answer is in the sidebar. This isn't an opinion polling subreddit. If you want to debate reality, go to r askpostwallwomen
/r/askTRP15/07/20 10:21 PM
4

So what are you doing about it? You're comparing yourself to blokes you think women find attractive, what are you doing to BECOME a bloke women find attractive? Women don't just find the LOOKS of a good looking bloke attractive. We've all seen blokes that seem like they've got it all, yet seem to repulse women. Women find the lifestyle and attitude of good looking men attractive. Good looking men live a life for themselves, an easy life, where they get what they want. They don't work hard for th…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:05 PM
1

What is your actual question? Is this just a confused rant?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:24 PM
1

It sounds like you know what's what. You know, logically, it's not an issue. You know how to use what you have to make it even LESS of a non-issue. But you still have a tendency to be in your head about it. I read advice on here a long time ago (I think it was a little tongue in cheek) that I've used to improve my confidence of my physical appeal to women. Masturbate to nothing but yourself in the mirror. Full body mirror. Think about what a sheila would be enjoying about your body, what she wou…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:07 PM
2

A woman's enjoyment from sex is so heavily based in her emotions. She wants to "feel" like she's being fucked properly. That's why sex God method works. I'm quite good at getting my plates to open up to me. It's a good way to find red flags I might have missed, and sometimes some info to help me with others in future. And the VAST majority can recall only a few guys who've fucked them properly, if any. I'm talking from athletes, models and strippers, to lawyers, doctors and scientists. All the s…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:58 PM
1

Don't listen to blackpill bullshit. They prefer to blame their failure on things that they can't change, forgetting that everyone else has managed to find success anyway.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:52 PM
5

The reason you see most advice for "fucking her real good" to be based around fingerling, foreplay, tongue, etc. Is because most men won't make a woman orgasm through fucking. Most women have a hard time orgasming through fucking. And some women who can orgasm through fucking, it takes the planets aligning for it to happen. It's not because most men are below average! So don't let orgasms from fucking affect your confidence.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:48 PM
22

This is a useless post. Your step by step analysis is bullshit. You're trying to read subtext in shit that isn't there. You seem to get some justice boner about an e-girl taking her own life. Focus on your own shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 09:08 PM
1

Then you're in the wrong community, bub.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:29 PM
6

First, not the same thing or even close to it. People don't have even remotely the same pressures to stay in a relationship as a job. So a good person in a shit job has much more reason to stay than a good person in a shit relationship. One doesn't need to find a relationship immediately. It's easy to oversimplify things to illustrate a point. But this is not the case where it's useful.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:24 PM
6

Except its the ECs who seem to have the issue with him for not being open to discussion. So maybe don't be so sure if what he would accept.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:18 PM
2

If it's our may and probabilities, then the poll that are available is 50% / 50%. In reality, that is probably also the case. "good women are in relationships" is bullshit.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:02 PM
2

23 years old in a 4 year LTR and you KNOW you'll never find better. "we've tried nothing and we're all out of ideas". She doesn't want to stay with you. She's already made that clear. You're starting to be the one pushing for commitment, so at least you know it won't be too long before she makes that swing and puts you out of your misery. As for the job, you're so fucking uncertain of anything to do with this job. You either need to jump in and risk it, or walk away. If you're going to jump in, …
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:15 PM
2

Look after yourself mate. They are wonderful and caring when it suits them. Don't feel guilty for enjoying that time while they offer it.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:09 AM
1

Why would a negative result change anything. It just says that you still have your health to protect. A negative result for you is NOT a negative result for her. You've kind of got 3 options. Politely drop her, get tested, do better in future. The choice for a man with options! Get tested, start using condoms, be prepared to deal with her being upset that you're implying she's a risk to your sexual health. I don't have experience in changing back to condoms, but usually if a plate wonders why I …
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:48 AM
1

There it is. Her requirement for unprotected sex with random is to just state that they "better be clean". My guess is she didn't even wait for you to answer. Please do a bit of research into common STIs. It sounds like you haven't been given any information. Most don't have any visible signs for a long time. Gonorrhoea, chlamydia, hepatitis (aids), etc. Can all spread without any visible symptoms. Don't check your dick, go and get tested. It's a simple process and can let you know very quickly …
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:20 AM
1

Don't press her on it, it's pointless. Her answers will be what she thinks you need to hear. Use your own fucking brain. Did she get pregnant with a condom? What did she require from you before you fucked her raw? Was it the first time you fucked her? In what circunstances did she bring up her past condom use? I don't mean for you to answer any of those things here, it's all irrelevant, I'm not going to get syphilis from this chick. But all these and more are information that you have available …
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:06 AM
1

Just like all those other blokes during her Ho phase. Here we have the exact reason why you do not put your sexual health or contraception the hands of a woman! She's told you she makes shit decisions, that's she's fucked around with anyone and everyone, that she went and got pregnant and has no idea who from. And you went "cool, so you'll let me go in raw?"
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:57 PM
1

Then enjoy it for what it is. A temporary situation. But make sure you don't do ANYTHING to put yourself at risk here. Wrap your shit up.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:40 PM
2

You thought she was damaged goods, she acted like damaged goods, and now she's told you outright she's damaged goods. Your takeaway is "but what if all goods are damaged". How hard is it for you to get pussy?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:37 PM
2

How many other women were you fucking when you decided to drop them all for this GF? How is the sex? How attracted to her are you? How crazy is she?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:26 PM
3

So you have few other options?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:22 PM
4

So I said to the Judge "I've been looking up how to get away with drink driving"...
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:20 PM
11

"every time I dreaded her" I've said this probably 100 times, Dread isn't an event it's a state of being. Read the "12 Levels of Dread". One should always be somewhere along that scale, the first 4 being pretty much the bar minimum. A partner should always be aware that other women have sexual interest in you, and not because you tell them.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:18 PM
2

Take a step back and look at what you're doing. "when I offer help to stroke my own ego, it leads to indifference and weak bonds". Why does this cause you cognitive indifference? Seems like a pretty obvious connection to me.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:48 AM
1

Wplay stupid games, won stupid prizes. From what you've explained here, it does suit your goal, it makes you feel like an ass, it's introducing risk (lies introduce risk), and you're not enjoying the process. Why did you introduce this arbitrary idea of numbers as the thing you need to do? What the fuck is your ACTUAL goal? In your "no regrets when I'm 60", do you think you'll look back and think "I wish I hadn't tried to go for what I really wanted, and instead banged 100 sheilas I wasn't attra…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:42 AM
3

You might want to spend a little more time with the sidebar material before giving your brand of "advice"
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:37 PM
1

Are the little ones important? Does the business seem to think of them as important? Are there enough little ones that they make it a big one? Important, is the person to whom you report reasonable and not part of 'the club' of people you're having trouble with? If the above are true, speak to the person to whom you report. State simply "I have noticed <things>, which of themselves may not be critical. I've tried to address them individually, but it's not taking. Before I press harder, I'd like …
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:56 AM
1

Play stupid games, won stupid prizes. Stop hiding sexual intentions, or you'll get what you've asked for.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:07 PM
1

This is terrible advice. HR has one purpose, protect the company. The angry, outspoken, Post-wall feminist is a protected class. The stupid child who sperged his anti-feminist hate speech is a risk to the company. Do not get HR involved.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 09:15 PM
11

Mate, we've all done it. Having the strength to look at it and think "yep, that was dumb. I'll accept the consequences and try to be better next time." is all you need.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:13 AM
33

You know, I wet the bed a few times when I was about 6. It was a VERY big deal to me at the time. Think it has made a difference in my life in the 30 odd years since? If I see someone I knew from back then, do you think I should worry about what they think about me wetting the bed when I was 6? You made a mistake, the only person who's opinion you need to change is yours. And you can only do that by not making that mistake in the future. Her opinion on this doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:40 AM
1

Honesty is a Virtue. If you want sex with different women, then be clear about it. The issue is that we're conditioned to offer something on exchange for sex. We offer time, commitment, money, services. Too often these are all offered as covert contracts. That is "I will spend time and money on you, and I expect sex in return, but we aren't going to say it out loud". If I like a woman's company and enjoy having sex with her, in exchange I offer my company and sex. I remain clear and honest about…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:50 PM
3

There's not enough context here since two things immediately come to mind. Option 1. You admitted a mistake and someone thinks they are in the right position to tell you how to correct it or not do it again. Option 2. You admitted a mistake and they get a justice boner and think they've "justed owned a <insert slur>" like they see on the shit YouTube videos they binge watch. Try and recognise and separate the two. If it's number 1, consider the advice fully (ignore whether they are the right per…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:25 AM
1

I don't like that analogy. The basketballer actually makes the shot. The physicist talks about it but probably can't hit the shot 19 times out of 20 Which admittedly is still pretty accurate for TRP. Those that get out there and practice hit more shots.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:22 AM
2

Yep, I had plenty of sex while people were in the next room. Teenagers are good at convincing ourselves that people don't know what's going. We certainly tried not to be loud though. That would just be weird.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:43 AM
1

You are thinking too much. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy her company. Don't smoke too much if it has negative effects.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:39 AM
20

Dangerously close to a covert contract here mate. Trying to hide your intention if getting sex in the hope of getting sex is not just dishonest, it's usually less succesful.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:01 PM
2

Escorts and brothels are legal in Australia. There is no difference. Spending a couple of hundred at a knock shop for guaranteed pussy is mostly shunned and socially unacceptable. So some blokes try spending hundreds - thousands to keep the interest of a sheila who might fuck them.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:56 AM
8

Possibly unsolicited. Or she's been flirting back and now that big bro is talking to her, she can stir up feelings and attention by mentioning it.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:37 AM
3

Because you're putting pressure on them to up their game, which they don't want to do. This is the #1 point. If you say "hey, you should come to the gym with me. We can work out a plan and do some meal prep to lose weight" to someone who doesn't want to put in that effort, all they hear is "you're fat". Then they need to defend their decision to not go to the gym and fix their diet. They either need to say to themselves, "yeah, I am fat. But I'm too lazy to fix it." or say to you "fuck off nerd.…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 11:30 PM
2

Yeah, 27 - 36. Younger girls are great, but the ones that grow up to be the 30 year old I like to fuck, are in a long term relationship with their highschool sweetheart while they slowly become resentful of not being thrown around the bedroom by an angry man. In my experience, a 22 year old does not have much that I find interesting enough to spend time with outside of the bedroom. And in the bedroom they are either just pumped to be there and literally just follow orders, or get over excited an…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 11:12 PM
4

I will preface by saying I haven't spent a lot of time consuming PUA material, just seen a few click-baitey titled videos. PUA success on video seems to mostly be in one of two areas. 1 Getting themselves kept around as a source of entertainment. Like if a wandering magician walks up to a table at a bar and starts doing magic tricks. People laugh, tell him he's amazing, and enjoy his tricks. No one fucks him for making a dollar disappear. 2 Making the situation awkward and being persistent enoug…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 11:01 PM
2

It's just that they imagine a truth, idea or concept and they're brain runs away with it. Like a hamster in a wheel. That hot girl laughed at something he said, she must want to fuck him, he's so attractive, she's still talking to him, she's totally hitting on him, he's not even phased by it, this must happen all the time, omg he fucks hot girls like that all the time, he must be amazing in bed if all these hot girls keep wanting to fuck him, i could never get a guy like that, I bet he's nice to…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:24 AM
2

Sounds like a good plausible reason to suggest going somewhere cooler within 10 minutes of meeting.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:03 AM
3

What is she 'doing" that you find completely disrespectful? What you've described is she's asked for more attention, attempted to get more attention, got upset that you said you would give attention and then bailed, and has finally come to terms with your lack of attention and is now pulling the final ultimatum of the break. Gimme attention or I'll go find attention. None of this sounds like disrespect, it sounds like you thought you could maintain an LTR without any comfort and she's giving you…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:53 AM
3

Yeah, being hurt by "person a" and in turn hurting "person b" as revenge is not being in charge. It's being an emotionally responsive bitch.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:23 AM
63

My personal experience is different. My absolute best, and I mean reliably fucking spectacular every time, have been the hot, intelligent, independent women. A surgeon, a doctor, an HR director and an auditor. One former stripper, but she was an outlier. The combination that they all seemed to share was that their experience dating seemed to be either having to be responsible for a man-child beta, or some fake alphas who quickly come undone. They fucking loved the lack of expectations and judgem…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 05:11 AM
3

I'm Australian, and therefore the tall poppy syndrome requires me to hate you for being more successful than I am, and at a younger age. Looking forward to reading more from you, thanks for taking the time.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 01:34 AM
118

This attitude will make things harder for you. Wanting to "finally put a dent in a girls ego" is a good way to find yourself creating enemies you don't need. Not a major issue here, but something you should keep in mind.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:26 AM
78

No one in that picture looks under 10%. You're delusional.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 02:09 AM
4

Yeah, and if a lion wants to eat you, don't run. That's what they want you to do.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:27 PM
4

You're in a relationship that you aren't in control of. Read the 12 Levels of Dread. What the 12 Levels of Dread will do. - make you hold yourself accountable. - make you take action on becoming the man you know you need to be. - make you start acting from a place of confidence. - make you start talking to other women again. - put you in the best place you can be to continue this relationship, or continue without this relationship. What it might do. - remind your gf of your value. - make your gf…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:31 AM
11

Of course it's fine. You will find many people find it odd, and SOME will assume you're hiding it if you won't tell them what your socials are. The trick is to not make it an issue, and not to talk down on people who do. BAD: "I don't want to waste my time on that vapid cesspool of narcissism." = shit talking everyone who has it, likely including the person you're talking to. GOOD: "I never found the desire to use it. It's good to see inspiration for (thing I'm interested in), but I don't want t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 10:49 PM
12

Does being unphotogenic make a burger taste bad. Your SMV is only affected by photos if photos are your way of marketing yourself. This should NOT be the case anyway. No one dates a photograph. I get that social media is heavily relied upon these days, but it is absolutely a fake comparison. Everyone knows that people who look great in photos took 15 minutes to look great in photos. And people who only have photos while they are falling off a horse or throwing a Frisbee are too busy having fun f…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 10:39 PM
1

If you like fat women, sure. If it's because you can't do what you want with women you're more attracted to, that's on you. Don't think dudes who watch porn are having a harder time getting women.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:21 AM
2

Dude, you're fucking fat chicks because you can't get other women to do what you want. Not exactly the tower to be slinging rocks from
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:27 AM
3

Worst # of girls is 1 Most important lesson. 0 is better than 1!
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:24 AM
1

How did you spew this onto a screen and still think it was a rational thought? Big boobs, weird hair, innocence, tattoos, fat, uggo, nice hair-cuts, good genetics. You've managed to take the 'science' out of pseudoscience.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:18 AM
60

Picture a glass of water. There is some shit in it. Do you drink that glass of water? Now take that shit out. Do you drink that glass of water? Now keep that glass of water in the fridge for a year. Do you drink that glass of water? Now run that glass of water through coffee filter. Do you drink it now? What about one of those supermarket filters? At what point are you personally comfortable with a glass of water that, until all your efforts, had shit in it? A man who has no other glasses of wat…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:03 AM
1

The cardinal sin here isn't your question about cardio, it's your comments trying to argue with everyone who has given you good advice. Why did you ask this question? Because it's been answered over, and over, and over, and over. If you want to do cardio because you like it, who gives a fuck. It's not a topic of discussion for TRP. If you don't want to discuss successful sexual strategy for men, you're in the wrong place.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:55 AM
1

Please. This is a set shot. It's a gym. It's like telling a bartender you'd like a "multiple screaming orgasm". It turned her on because you're attractive. She has heard it a thousand times.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:32 PM
1

You seem to not accept the reality of the red pill. First, being alpha "all the time" is, like you say, not a long term strategy. But neither is being beta "all the time". So let's assume that neither of these is a strategy, it's the lack of a strategy and move on. The point of the red pill is understanding that the world is trying to convince us that beta traits are more attractive and succesful than they really are. We see cherry picked examples in the world around us, whether it's in media or…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:28 PM
3

Guys approach. Gay men included. Women don't approach. It's that simple. (There are exceptions: gay men who don't approach, women that do. But there are also cats that sit on command, and I bet none of you cunts have one) Gay men are also protected in their approach. Because casual sex is much more common for gay men, being approached with a casual sex offer isn't seen as offensive. And a straight bloke is not allowed to be offended by a gay bloke hitting on them, because we're all terrible homo…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:56 PM
11

You've already had a taste of not trying. How's that working out for you? Does life feel great? Do you feel satisfied? Is your life painless? You're here because you think there's a chance that it gets better. Nothing we tell you can make you decide why. All we can tell you is what works. You can spend your days feeling sorry for yourself. Feeling like you aren't getting what you deserve. That it's all too hard. Or you can push through a bit of pain at the gym or struggle with self improvement a…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:06 PM
1

At least you're good at making excuses. Try putting that energy elsewhere. I'm not saying your past isn't / wasn't bad. But it's your problem, not someone else's. If it's holding YOU back from engaging with new people, it's because you're letting it, not because someone else decided it would.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:21 AM
1

What are you on about? You're worried about engaging with people because you'll never get over your past and you think that's because OTHERS are holding you back? I stand corrected. It's not imposter syndrome. You're just a pussy.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:16 AM
2

Because it's not your past. You aren't worried people will find out you WERE are pussy. You're worried people/you will figure out you STILL ARE a pussy. It's called imposter syndrome. Stop feeling like you're acting like a man. And start believing that thos is who you really are.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:12 AM
2

Entitled, yes. The rest of your comment is pretty fucking far off the mark. Bloke literally listed what effort he has put into being the type of man he thinks he should be, and TRP tells him works. He is not saying "I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas".
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:15 AM
6

The problem here is that you think she deserves a response. You've built the habit of responding, because you've nothing better to do. She's built an expectation of you responding, because that's what you do. Stop being so available. Plain and simple. When she asks, just don't answer. Message her a day or two later and just ignore any attempts to find out what you were doing.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:52 AM
0

You nailed it. Nice people can often be boring. They're too busy giving a shot about others to run down the street in their underwear chasing a cup car because it seemed fun at the time.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:57 AM
10

If you're only red pulled when your at the top, you're not red pillled. It's easy to be tough when you're winning.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:15 PM
5

Thanks. I'll remove mine too. Edit: unless you'd prefer this stand as a reminder.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 05:28 PM
24

Why are people up voting an opinion reply from some unknown incel bloke? Women, help each other out, or listen to advice from a known captain. Don't up vote the first "yeah you go girl" response you see. This isn't helpful advice (or any advice)
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 05:25 PM
16

No, you've misunderstood the covert part. People respect a hardass for being a hardass. That is overt. Just as women fuck a sexual guy who acts like he will fuck them. A covert contract is when you act like a nice guy, so they will fuck you for not acting like you want to fuck them. Or when you act like a nice guy so they respect you for choosing not to be a hardass. So a covert contract is acting against your interest, and expecting people to reward you in line with you Ur interest (which you h…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 03:58 AM
8

If she says "then I get try try mmf" then she's bluffing or you were never the leader. The answer is "it doesn't work like that princess". If you suspect you're not in charge of this relationship, then you're not. If you suspect she's going to hamster her way to mmf, then you aren't the prize. Work on you. Seems like you don't see yourself as the prize, and your preparing to negotiate letting you LTR fuck another bloke to get a there's some.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:38 PM
14

You go girl! You are beautiful just the way you are, and don't let society's standards or traditional roles force you to be anything else.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 06:28 AM
1

You're understanding of my comment is about as thorough as your understanding of a person's nature. Leave the complex ideas to others mate.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:27 AM
1

Read again hombre. At no point did I say she would be there for him.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:37 AM
4

This attitude is why you'll do well. Hold onto it. As I'm sure you realise, This isn't a case of "all women are shitty and don't let you have any emotions". It's not the world's fault. You're not a victim. You had plenty of choices up to here. Why did you choose to stay with a shiity, immature girl for 5 years? Why did you hold your emotions in? Why did you rage? These are things you now have the chance to try and figure out. I've kept shit people around me at certain times in my life. Even push…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:51 AM
1

If anyone cannot tell you what product they're selling, the product is not what they're selling.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:52 PM
7

Then make it a damn compliment. You get shy about it, she'll pick up on it as a problem.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:23 PM
1

That's how people learn to become dependent on things.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 04:34 AM
26

Seasoning is king. Simple things. Cook eggs, don't like them, cook them different tomorrow. Cook chicken. Google "seasoning for chicken" or whatever you are cooking. It seems hard at first, but becomes second nature after just a few weeks/months if you commit to doing it every day. My mother and father were both terrible cooks, I just didn't know it until I was an adult and learned to cook for myself. Butter and salt makes everything better. Until it makes everything worse. Do not rely on butter…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 12:44 AM
1

Ah, so you can't fuck well and need to compensate for it. That's cool.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:54 PM
1

Consider what you know. She's attractive and great in bed. She went all in HARD in one weekend. How hard would it be for her to find an attractive guy to fuck her and eat her cooking? She's played this game before. And she's good at it. Be prepared for her to find all the right things to say and do. "wow, you're shoulders really fill out that shirt!" or "you've got such a great arse. So many guys skip squats but you clearly don't!" We've all experienced the one that seemed too good to be true. T…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:41 PM
2

I've known this girl for a weekend should I be considering an LTR.... We get it, she's hot, a great fuck, and cooked for you. There can't possibly be another sheila on this planet that is attractive, attentive, and be interested in YOU, right? Spin more plates, keep her around, reconsider after 6 months of good behaviour.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:24 PM
2

Sounds like the former stripper I used to plate. Tight pussy does NOT mean low n-count. It means tight pussy.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:19 PM
1

TRP is sexual strategy for men. Your advice is good for leading a happy life, it doesn't convey the sexual strategy part. That is why people give a lot of PUA type advice.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:29 PM
1

TL;DR Hi all, here is a list of every reason NOT to even communicate with a girl, let alone sleep with her. But.... And here's the important bit... I want sex and can't seem to get it everywhere. Can someone tell me it's OK please?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:46 AM
1

Or, much more importantly, the professional arena.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:38 AM
1

Sounds like you might be more rural than my experience running bars. But I still think you should consider trying to stop taking new girls to your own business. It doesn't matter if your business is a law firm, a pottery barn or a bar. It is not the place to take new girls. Your regulars can see you on nights you aren't out with a new girl. After you've known her for a bit and she has earned her place as a regular plate or a FWB and you're comfortable that she's not outright insane, sure, introd…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:11 PM
1

Good reasons to go to that bar. Not good reasons to take a "new girl" to that bar. There are other beers at other bars. Might even be some you like This is not the only place that makes food how you like, and you're not taking a "new girl" for dinner. Are there bars within a 10 minute walk? Can you afford a taxi or an uber? I get good service wherever I go, not because I pay their wages, but because I know how to get good service. Are you taking a "new girl" out for drinks, or are you trying to …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:35 PM
0

Seems everyone has covered the other parts, so here's a question for you. Why are you taking a girl to a bar you own? Are you too broke to afford full price drinks? Do you need the comfort of your home turf? Need the validation of knowing "this is mine"? Get the fuck out of your comfort zone. If the bar a sheila invites you to looks good, check it out. Go and hit on sheilas out of sight of your employees. Your business should be your income and passion, not your playground. You're using your bus…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:26 PM
3

It's the same source, just with the ability to read. If you cannot read your own source, I cannot help you.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:22 PM
4

Read more than the abstract We coded personal advertisements available on Yahoo Personals for heterosexual individuals within 250 miles of Los Angeles, California, USA (men seeking women, N = 1000; women seeking men, N =1000). The average reported age was 37.2 (SD = 9.8) for men and 34.8 (SD = 9.9) for women. 96% Post-wall women posting a lonely ad on Yahoo Personals listed a preference of taller men. Amazing how a bunch of depressed researchers can turn that into "women won't accept a shorter m…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:02 PM
5

justbeyourself #justwin Not one piece of actionable advice. And a few pieces of fantasy bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:13 AM
7

This is EXACTLY why you don't hide your intentions. A guy with fewer options and didn't think of himself as a prize would have jumped at the chance to take her on endless dates to validate her. You made it clear that's not you, she made it clear that is all she's after. No one is hurt, no one was mislead. Win / win.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:22 PM
10

There are two ways to stop this advice from getting on your nerves. Get off your arse and start getting healthy again. He started dating a girl who was into fitness. Now you're changing to someone else. If you value your relationship with him, put some effort into being the person you were. Don't listen to his advice, and the problem will resolve itself. He will eventually figure out you lied about who you were and he has to move on to someone else. Or he'll just resent you for the remainder of …
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 08:47 PM
1

If tomorrow you decided this sheila wasn't worth the effort and you went back to spinning plates, how hard would you find it? If tomorrow she decided to upgrade and you had to go back to spinning plates, how hard would you find it? The difference is just your emotions. You keep gaming other women to keep your abundance mentality up, remind yourself you are the prize. You keep worrying about what she might do to hurt you. Start thinking about what she needs to do to keep your attention. On the ex…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:35 PM
4

Sorry, you're not my type. Feed the hamsters and let them run.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:26 PM
1

They prefer men older because guys their age seem like children. They've made and exception for you. This is a good sign that you're ahead of your peers. Keep focusing on what's working. Stop thinking this is negative.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 01:37 AM
1

Here's the trick.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 11:51 PM
1

If there was some secret strategy, I'd totally just try it and find out if it works... But alas, nothing comes to mind...
/r/askTRP24/02/20 11:47 PM
2

A spot = an available place. That is, if you have a car, then you can fuck in the car. If there is room for two adults, there's room to fuck. Stop introducing your own obstacles. She has a place, invite yourself there. She has roommates, don't give a fuck, she won't care when she's horny.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 10:40 AM
4

You need to do a lot more reading. You're explaining this about the same as "if there's evolution why do monkeys exist!?" Women feel right now. If you're fucking her good right now, she's into it. But tomorrow, when you're not in front of her and some other attractive bloke with great game is, you are just a memory. That's why AWALT. She can think your shit don't stink. But HE might have shit that smells like perfume. If she can get away with trying it, why not.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:54 AM
1

What do you want to be when you're thirty? A specialist doctor, or not? If you do, then med school is the right path. If you don't, do something else. Getting started on your career earlier is an advantage, if it's a career you want. If it's not your first choice, then why rush into second place?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:50 AM
7

This is fanfiction at its best.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:46 AM
3

Are women less responsible? You fucking listened when they said don't bother? You don't care about catching diseases or the costs of paternity? Here a hint, when a Sheila says "you don't need a condom" what she's saying is "I talk all men out of using condoms., you're next"
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:45 AM
1

Which is why TRP is supposed to be non prescriptive. It's discussion of strategy. The question was "why do people recommend not to let a girl sleep over", and above is one of the main reasons. It's not an order.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:13 PM
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They are two good reasons. It also gives them more comfort so the "what are we" talk tends to come sooner. Sheilas who get fucked good and go home remember the great sex. Sheilas who get fucked good then stay to cuddle all night remember the warm fuzzy feeling in your arms.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:03 AM
1

Goals and discipline. Talk to him about hid goals. Does he want to be strong, big, fast, look like Brad Pitt, run a marathon, get laid? There are a million different ways to approach the gym, and they start with talking about what you want to get out of it. For example. SL or SS are good if you want to build strength from a weak start, maybe put on some weight, and possibly have a long term view to looking fit later down the line. If someone's goal is to look sexy ASAP and they are not terribly …
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:08 AM
2

Poor women are looking for money and stability, rich women are looking for fun and interesting.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:40 PM
19

If a homeless person follows you around asking for money, do you stop to think if it's for drugs, beer, food, medicine, to invest in a ponzi scheme, or to put it in a tower filled with change and swim around a la Scrooge McDuck? No, the reason is irrelevant, they look desperate. You have rationalised in your head why you want their attention. It's irrelevant, you look desperate for their attention.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:20 PM
0

Two things. You said you like it when you are accepted and respected. That isn't happening in one off situations. The fact that you're asking makes it seem like you at least WANT to have a social network beyond a single night out. Second, mdma and psychs are a crutch. Just like saying "I don't feel pain" but being on opioids all the time. Ditch the mind altering shit if you actually want to figure anything out for yourself. You don't have to, but you're not goi g to figure this question out if y…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:54 AM
2

From this and the other things you've said, it sounds like you WANT to be able to be more emotionally invested in people and life, but fear the outcome when it doesn't work. In that case, you need to find ways to limit the negative impact of your emotions, so you can better enjoy the good emotions. Look at things like "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" and "everything is fucked" by Mark manson. Life is here to be enjoyed. It's also pretty terrible. But find the joy that you can, while just ac…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:07 AM
5

Yes.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:04 AM
31

Single attempt to correct her. Some girls want to be put in their place. They still have this "I'm such a free spirit and only a real man can tame me" image of themselves. They melt when a man calmly, but confidently tells them to shape up. Failing that, just pay your bill and leave. There is no reason to try to not look buuthurt. At that point, it's irrelevant what her opinion is. I've only had to walk out on one date who was just super dry and boring as fuck. Just got up and said "well, I've g…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:00 AM
2

This is an emotionally charged topic for both of you. So consider the fact that both sides of your conversations are only an indicator of your thoughts and feelings on the matter, not the full picture. There are some key things that seem to have been ignored throughout the discussion here and I think you should keep these in mind. You previously discussed children, and from what you've said, he was on board. Until it was a reality, then he couldn't get out fast enough. Do you want to be with som…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 10:45 PM
2

As with all emotionally charged topics, the "reasoning" behind it is usually pretty poor. Because it's taking a lot of complexes thoughts, feelings and emotions and trying to put them into a single argument. It's likely that there's more to his reason to want to end a pregnancy than finances, but finances are easy to put into words.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 10:30 PM
10

It's not black and white. There aren't "quiet" and "talkative" people and nothing in between. Talkative people are fucking annoying. They have a need to talk even if they don't have anything valuable to add. Quiet people are fucking annoying. They want to say something but you have to pull it out of them. Learn when to speak and when to shit up. When you have something fun or valuable to add, just do it (don't "wait for the moment"). If you aren't heard, move on. Don't expect immediate feedback …
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:57 AM
7

So there's two options. Your friend is somehow breaking the laws of physics and biology and he is in fact eating more calories than he burns without putting on weight. If that's the case, he needs to submit himself for research because this could change the world. Or, he thinks he's eating heaps but actually isn't eating enough.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:49 AM
1

That's the point. If she's into lifting, mountain biking, and clay shooting, but in all ways that are important she's feminine, then she isn't a masculine woman, she's a woman who enjoys things I enjoy. Hobbies alone don't make someone masculine (just as my hobbies don't make me masculine by default)
/r/askTRP23/01/20 08:31 PM
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It seems like you're very insecure about your own masculinity. I say this because you've pointed out a number of times that it's "more so when she is more into it / has done it longer than you". Maybe spend a bit of time reflecting on that. Think of a bloke who you think is the epitome of masculinity. Would HE think this girl is too masculine? Or would he just like that she's into something he's into.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:40 AM
48

Don't look for when it's "safe" to go for the kiss. Then it's too late. The worst thing that has ever happened to me when going for a kiss is getting the cheek turn. That's it. In my 30+ years of life, I have literally never had a girl laugh at me for going for a kiss. You're worried about something imaginary.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:37 AM
7

Don't try to compete with him. Work with him. Treat him like an equal, not like you are his understudy.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:41 PM
23

Practice. There are a million tricks. And I think they're all lame. Think about her taking a huge shit before hand, think about how easy it was for some lame chump to pump a load in her mouth because she was drunk and horny one night, think about her spending 15 minutes trying to line up some perfect instagram shot of her ass in a mirror and looking like an idiot the whole time. All it comes down to is taking her off the pedestal. The more you approach, the more you realise that they aren't that…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:38 PM
1

First, don't compound TRP with MGTOW. There are many MGTOW things that just aren't red pill. Second, my point is to work for yourself. For you life. To get what you want. You are saying that there's no one as good as her, and then you're saying "but there are no unicorns". I'm saying, you're looking at a horse, and saying no other horses will compare to your unicorn. Focus on you. Focus on what you can improve. Not on what one Sheila was able to bring to your life. The results will come.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:07 AM
4

You got complacent. You haven't even considered that someone could be "as good as her" because you already had someone as good as her. Sounds like you stopped striving for more. You had a saftery net. A backup plan. And now that's gone you're scared that you don't have what it takes to make it without it. The real sign was that you think you're not getting and younger, healthier or more accomplished. You absolutely SHOULD be getting healthier, and you most certainly should be getting more accomp…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:03 AM
9

Really, you got her number and are worried what an LTR would be like? You need more options mate, you aren't going to LTR the next sheila that remembers your name.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:02 AM
3

I do similar, but instead I squeeze it between a pair of lips. (Either a sheila's mouth or her vagina.) I don't know if my erextion is getting bigger, but it's certainly way more fun than trying to pull my dick off before a shower. Go get laid, worry less about size.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:00 AM
4

You're great at making excuses. The scenario is irrelevant. What would have happened if you DIDN'T get mad at him? Nothing. Literally nothing would have happened. But you wouldn't feel important, he made a difference in your day and mood, so you had to do the same in return. My advice remains the same. Get the fuck over yourself. He's a dick, nothing you do is going to change that. Stop having emotional responses to other people's bullshit.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:15 AM
1

She will be grateful, because you will stop focusing on her (she finds that unattractive) and start being the guy she WAS attracted to.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:12 AM
9

Don't feel so fucking entitled. He cut you off, so fucking what! You aren't that important. It didn't cause an accident, you just felt like it "could" and so made it an issue. If you're pissed off, that's your shit to deal with. Abusing someone for changing lanes or pulling out in front of you is like shouting at the clouds for raining.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:40 PM
6

This is a pattern you will notice when you start seeing scarcity. You start to put more pressure on things working with one Sheila and all of a sudden you're less attractive to her because of all that effort. Spend much less time with her, and don't communicate in pleasant little text exchanges. Focus on you and adding more plates to your roster. You owe it to yourself, and she will be grateful.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:38 PM
1

What habits do you think a super succesful 27 yr old you does? Start those habits today. Nothing else will matter once you start acting like the man you want to be.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:36 PM
4

Stop having imagined conversations in your head. "I know she'll bring up confrontation to confirm I was ignoring her". No, you don't know that. There are many reasons why she will avoid that topic. Most of which include "because she doesn't want to hear the answer". If she does bring it up, you were just busy. She already read the subtext, she knows that she lost your attention, whether you do so intentionally or not. She will either work to correct it, or she won't. But nothing you explain will…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:34 PM
2

Yes, calls are great. However, doing it out of the blue can often lead to unneeded awkwardness. Generally if I'm about to set up a date and she texts while I'm near my phone, I'll respond with something like "great, I'll give you a call in about 5 when I'm done with this" that way she is ready and actually answers. Phone call is always less than 5 minutes, just a little light opener and logistics. There's almost always a comment about the fact I called rather than text.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:17 PM
4

Yih can treat an oncoming train as your lady if you like. It doesn't feel the same. An escort may be incentivised to play along, but if you can say "looking a bit fat, but we'll get through it" and still get laid, you're not exactly going to improve your social skills. Escorts are to having any healthy with women what buying KFC is to being a chef. Counter productive for literally every reason that matters.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:12 AM
5

Dread. Why does your LTR think that treating you like a bitch is a good idea? Why isn't she trying as hard as humanly possible to make sure you don't walk out the door to the next sheila in the conga-line of supermodels waiting for your attention? The answer, because she thinks you're bitch enough to take it. She doesn't think you have other options. She doesn't think you are man enough to walk out. She doesn't think you can easily replace her. The only answer is to read the 12 levels of dread, …
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:11 AM
1

Not relevant to this discussion. It's a very broad role in a very niche market.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 04:49 AM
1

What's your diet, what's your gym routine, what're your lifts? You don't "become fit", you make it happen. You're too busy waiting for shit to happen to you. Stop theorising, go build a body and lifestyle for others to be envious of, and then realise how pointless this discussion was.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:54 AM
5

TL;DR Don't expect to get it right straight away. But don't stop working on the process and don't stop looking for a purpose. There's a few things going on here. You're comparing things that give you short-term rewards with the concept of something that should be a long-term process. As such, you're expecting short-term dopamine boosts and when not getting them, pushing the whole thing aside. You're also looking at things that are the short-term process and expecting them to have a long-term mea…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:11 AM
1

No. This was a weird move. Women like guys who "just get it", and that includes things that they must be a kind reader or fucking rainman to understand. The basics are this. Periods last less than a week. If she's on her period, and you only see her once a week, you cannot get a period meet up twice in a row. If you're seeing her more than once a week, you are over invested.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 10:57 PM
1

Interested in seeing you at the gym. Not interested in you messaging her and seeing her outside the gym OR no interested in all the other buff blokes at the gym thinking she's hooking up with you.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 10:54 PM
4

Limit your attention. She's losing and/or lost the tingles for you, possibly because you are too available or possibly because she's looking for attention elsewhere. By limiting your attention and focusing on other things you achieve two things. One, she has to start being affectionate to get your attention again, if the issue was that you were too available, this will help correct that. Two, you are doing positive things, so if she is looking elsewhere, you're in a better position to make the d…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 09:03 PM
29

Remember, cheating is often a form of validation seeking. People who feel "less than" can find the allure of someone new desiring them to be quite the drug. Dating below you in presumed SMV is going to exacerbate that if they aren't very confident in themselves or aren't used to attention from women. They get a new found confidence from having someone they see as better than them, and they aren't desperate to find a lay. This becomes an attractive quality to other women, so his perceived SMV act…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 11:24 AM
5

You spergs and your justice boners. You got butthurt and wanted to get revenge. This is how a woman reacts. This is a covert contract. I will give you Web support as long as you keep fucking me and not talking to your ex, but I won't tell you those are the rules. Next time, don't mix pussy with services. If you wanted to close it down, send her a message saying "since we're not talking, it's best you have someone else manage your Web needs. I'll be closing it down on x date. If you'd like it to …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:48 AM
4

Most importantly, the moment you think "I see women behave this way, should I emulate that behaviour" you've already lost. Don't act like women to get women. Second, having women near you on social media is not the important part. A mirror selfie in an elevator with the hottest sheila on the planet is worthless. A shot with you doing something awesome with a slithly above average sheila looking on in awe is way better. My socials are almost exclusively me being tagged in other people's shit. Whe…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:00 AM
7

Most endorsed contributors here, by their own admission, are not natural Chads at all.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:48 PM
1

First, porn is fake. Everything in porn is fake. They figured out we like it when women cream, so they put extra lube in them before fucking. It's all marketing. Second, from my experience (don't know the science) it is about reaching somewhere where juices can normally settle without being expelled regularly. There are areas either side of the cervix that are a little deeper than the cervix. Getting angles where you reach in there are the most likely to get more discharge. I'm sure there's more…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 01:58 AM
4

You feel like you're missing something. So you're trying to replace it. The reality of what your missing is nothing like what your hamster has tuend it into. It's now this unsullied, beautiful, perfect thing that you can't seem to fill. What it really was, was someone you were both attracted to and enjoyed the company of and gre to like each other more because neither of you fucked it up. Start with the basics. Don't pine for what's missing. Instead, learn to make the most of what you've got. Wh…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:25 AM
20

First, it happens. I've had it from either being bigger than she's used to, rougher than she's used to, or something just being a little too excited with the fingering. Don't stress. Second. Why the fuck are you fucking a new girl without a condom on? Sexual health is not a fucking joke. If she's willing to fuck you without a condom, she's willing to fuck all the previous guys without one too!
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:21 AM
5

Then you don't reply. Silence is golden. If she's got the tingles, the silence will let her hamster imagine the man she wants. If she doesn't, you can't create tingles over text. Keep you mouth shut (fingers off the keyboard)
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:09 PM
2

Dunning–Kruger effect
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:08 PM
13

To what end? Why do you want her to break up with him? You want to start an ltr with a Sheila who you've proven will branch swing onto the next best option if they game her for a couple of weeks while you're not paying attention? This is the definition of "play stupid games, win stupid prizes"
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:12 PM
3

That is not how genetics works.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:18 AM
10

There is a universe of grey between "doesn't talk in meetings" and "chat chat chat at work". Stop being butthurt over this. You work in a feminised workplace. This seems to mean that the go to way for dealing with something they don't like is not to talk clearly and openly, but instead to pretend it's a highschool playground and they need to find someone's pressure points. That is THEIR problem, not yours. YOUR problem is you missed the cues leading up to this moment that they expected more inpu…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 01:52 PM
4

https://lmgtfy.com/?q=Learn+to+code+reddit
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:01 AM
1

She's already keen. Just organise to meet up. Stop adding steps. The more steps you put between you and fucking, the more you can fuck it up.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:43 AM
1

Is your goal to get nudes or to meet up in person?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:38 AM
3

How can you get out of bed without woman's touch? How can you eat without a woman's touch? How can you work, study, play, shit, drink, fart, trip over and stub your toe, get your haircut all without a woman's touch? The pain from lifting isn't eased by a woman's touch its eased by your own success. Either watching the numbers increase, checking yourself out in the mirror, or whatever other metric matters to you. Stop finding excuses to stay a skinny fat slob that you seem to despise, and start g…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:06 AM
4

She's interested. Just make another time to meet up. Simple Don't ask for or send nudes. It'll give her some validation and lessen her urge to meet up.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:00 AM
2

Condoms have 2% failure rate because they include people who are spastic. Correctly using condoms is the key.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:55 AM
1

She accused me of rape, but I managed to convince people it was false with evidence. So then I took her to bed while she had a boyfriend and made her cry. You're a genius. Not many people could talk their wack BACK into a rape accusation.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:36 AM
1

This might be a crazy idea, but maybe instead of trying to anti-amog-counter-offensive-pre-de-amog you could just fucking talk to your mate and say "hey, you keep coming in and trying to pick up sheilas I'm talking to. Can you not do that in future, cheers."
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:21 AM
6

You were giving her free attention. Now you're not. She wants that free attention back. Nothing more.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:08 AM
7

"you will find out tonight", replace tonight woth the time you've organised to meet.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:00 AM
1

Ah, I misunderstood part of it. If you're at a bar or club, yeah being too brief is going to invite more flakes. I think finding a balance where you remember you are the prize will be the biggest place to improve. Find something to do to keep her involved, that doesn't require YOU keeping HER attention. Play a game of pool, dance, etc. Ramp up Kino early. Just like it's harder to hear people in a busy bar, it's also hard to pick up on physical cues. Pull them in to talk, physically lead them som…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:45 PM
1

Sounds like you're doing a performance. Based mostly on the fact that you get high interest early in a high energy place, I think you're starting out too well. Then trying to keep or up the energy to maintain it. It gets stale real quick. Does that sound accurate? Are you trying to entertain them and keep their attention? If so, you really need to focus on being the prize. You're already better looking, fitter, taller than most. You've even upped your value by being bold enough to approach. Pull…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:19 PM
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We're here to help men with their sexual strategy. Sometimes that calls for tough love. Just being a cunt and mocking them isn't helpful. If you want to help, choose different ways. If you want to be a cunt, be elsewhere.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:14 PM
1

Thirteen sets of 5 x 500lb deadlifts summons them.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:48 AM
3

Which is exactly why many on trp say "your face is irrelevant, stop acting like an autistic sperg"!
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:53 PM
3

We agree on at least one point then. The reason why we do or do not do well in relationships with women, is us. And trying to place the blame anywhere else is pointless. That is why you've misread hatred where only understanding exists. It is understanding people's wants, the secret thoughts in us that we like to think aren't there, and accepting those. It is through this acceptance and understanding that we can have more honest relationships with ourselves and others. Tell me, what brings you h…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:52 PM
2

It's a shame that you read all that and see hate. It must be lonely.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:04 PM
263

"Every woman is hypergamous". It is the same absolute like we teach in firearm safety, "every weapon is loaded" When someone is holding a firearm, it is loaded. When someone hands you a firearm, it is loaded. When they tell you it's unloaded and clear, you check it. When it's in your hand after you've checked and cleared it, you still don't point it at anything you don't want to shoot. "Every woman is hypergamous" means always be aware of their nature. Many will actively work against that nature…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:24 PM
6

So the 100 guys she fucked before she met you don't have dicks, or is it the one she fucked after meeting you has a dick that dissolves in pussy?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:35 PM
-1

Why do you care about anyone else's relationship woth alcohol? You're clearly concerned about yours, mine doesn't make that OK all of a sudden. The issue is that you feel like you can't stop. 2 glasses of wine is calories, not a health concern. Not being able to stop is a health concern. Write a book, build a cabinet, learn an instrument, teach yourself to juggle. Do something interesting rather than find an easy way to feel comfortable.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:46 PM
3

That's not an indicator of body fat in any way, shape or form. OP could be at 3% or 30% body fat.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:28 PM
15

She didn't say gynaecologist by mistake, she just didn't mean the type of pussy doctor OP was thinking.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:26 PM
9

When in doubt, escalate and find out.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:24 PM
5

Wait a couple of days, if no attempt from her, just suggest another time. If it's just a hookup and the first time she flaked, you will probably need to take the lead again. If she flakes or can't make the proposed time and doesn't try to reschedule, her interest was too low.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:24 PM
1

If you're high relationship value, but not high sexual value, sure. Wanting to make you wait to not seem like a slut is a good thing. Actually being able to resist her urge to tear your clothes off is not a good thing. And there are plenty of blokes who can tell you all the stories of when a girl was making his former blue pill self wait while fucking coked up drug dealers at night clubs. Or when they were railing some Sheila after talking to her for half an hour, only to find out later that som…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:00 PM
18

Assume attraction, escalate and find out. Stop waiting for a fucking written invitation.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:30 AM
0

Introspection time : Maybe your music is shit? Maybe they just don't like that style of music and can't recognise if it's good. No, of course that would be impossible. It's everyone else who is wrong. You're music is the greatest and that's why you've found so much success with it already.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:24 PM
1

They are your best friends, figuratively family. And you laugh at them when they give you reasons they think are holding them back. And you think THEY are the shitty friends?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:19 PM
17

Are either your responsibility? It's irrelevant if they're "truly abusive" or "just don't know better" if they cause you feel abused. Find someone who doesn't make you feel that way.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/19 11:23 PM
1

Yes, it should lead to you fucking other women if she doesn't pull her head in Dread means you imrpvoing yourself and reminding her why she's into you, whil at the same time getting yourself back into the swing of talking to other women. In this case she would find herself attracted to you and stop pulling her shit. If you aren't higher value than her, step one is fixing that. The fact you are worried about HER infidelity says that you believe she's higher value than you. Read the 12 levels of D…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 02:22 AM
7

Have you tried it? My guess is no. Becuawe you can hear an alarm next to you through ear plugs. Stop making excuses. This is your issue. Learn to manage it
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:03 AM
3

Waiting to lift is counter-productive. It will take longer to get results. The body burns more calories at rest to keep muscle. That means that burning 20lb of fat AND gaining 20lb of muscle (2 separate things) both cost calories to do, then the muscle costs calories every day after. The net result is that you burn more fat as you build more muscle. On top of that, you look fitter sooner, so you will feel better about your results. The cavaet is that you won't lose numbers on a scale as fast. If…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:08 AM
8

That's why it's referred to as abundance mentality. I don't need to see food on my plate to know I can easily get a meal when I need it. I also don't need to have pussy in front of me to know I can easily get laid if I want to.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:31 AM
14

Relationship Market Value. It's how you might be perceived as a long-term prospect. Comfort, reliability, safety, etc.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 12:31 PM
8

To unpack this, I think what's making you confused about all this is assuming that "status" means faking status. This is not the case. The same way that having a nice car is not being successful. I'll use my father and brother as examples. My father worked in a very particular field. Everyone who is moderately successful in that field knows each other around the country. After he retired, Men in his field would contact him or visit to get advice. After he died, many VERY successful people who re…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:29 AM
1

Trying to diffuse a situation with humour is not frame. It's often a cop out. Learn to be comfortable in uncomfortable situations, whether they are created by you or someone else. If other people step out of line and are uncomfortable, don'take it easier for them. Let them feel the social pressure of an awkward situation while you happily go about your business.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:35 AM
3

Hope you got your virtue fix there. I did not suggest fighting them at all, I was replying to someone who said gay men aren't aggressive in hitting on men. It is false, they are. The other commentor's reasoning was fear of being attacked. That is also bullshit, for the reasons I've outlined. And no, I have literally never experienced a gay man stop hitting on me after saying "I'm into women". The goto response is usually a combination of "how do you know if you haven't tried", or "I could make y…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:41 AM
3

Your overall reply is spot on, but this part is bullshit. As far as guys hitting on you, gay guys don't hit too hard on straight men (out of fear of violence), What rock do you live under? Gay men are super forward and aggressive about hitting on straight men in public places. You're a homophobe and fascist if you tell them to fuck off, let alone fight them.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:03 AM
0

We appreciate the value you've brought to the conversation.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:39 PM
1

The important thing is you have the wherewithal to walk away when they really push your boundaries. A lot of blokes would hamster that "she's really good to me" or "we've been together so long" to excuse her behaviour and put up with it longer. Keep yourself at the top of your game and you'll be fine!
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:30 PM
2

It's a tough realisation sometimes. It's not her fault, she wanted something you don't and she's learned from life that if she makes demands of men, she gets those demands met. She's now learned there was a limit to that. You've made the right call, and it sounds like you've done a good job this far reflecting upon it. One thing you missed is that her behaviour previous to this already showed you how she would behave. She would have a one night stand when angry with you. That is how she deals wi…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:10 PM
10

I won't tell you what you should do, but I can give you some tips on how to do it with her and her not to fuck up your session. She's asking for all this attention because she's loving having her big, strong man tell her what to do. You give her a workout plan. You spend the time to go through her goals, how to do them, train her on particular exercises, set her a routine. Set aside some time each week to go over sticking points, where she's improving or lacking, what she needs help with. If she…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:04 PM
10

Someone cut me off in traffic yesterday. I still got where I'm going and they are no longer in my life. Why would I spend time and energy worrying about their shitty behaviour?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:56 PM
-1

To what end? Why are you here? Why are you talking about this? If you have your mind made up that height matters, and don't want anyone to tell you otherwise, why the fuck do you want the internet's permission to buy lifts? You'd do a whole lot better focusing your energy on building a rock solid frame and some fucking self worth. Get to the fucking gym and get 2-3cm where it counts.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:52 PM
0

Read: expect her to take the leadership role. This is not a strategy.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:01 AM
2

"as long as everything is verified" exactly, op needs a lawyer before signing a contract
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:42 AM
8

"this will totally help my confidence" - every woman who ever got into stripping, porn, prostitution. That's why prostitutes, strippers and pornstars are known for their confidence and high self worth. Do not do this to improve confidence. Do it only if you have an over-abundance of confidence.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:09 AM
10

Don't liken it to speeding on the highway. Speed kills people, sex on a hiking trail doesn't.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:59 PM
3

I'm saying neither men nor women deserve anything. We all have to work for it, nothing is deserved. The moment we feel we deserve something, it is owed to us. And it's someone else's fault for not providing it. I would also say that the flip side to a woman is like water is that if you want a woman to be virtuous, a man must be a virtuous shaped container. That is, he must also hold himself to such a standard.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 08:50 PM
2

Your first paragraph is trying to diminish a valid point by stacking it with a shit one. They aren't associated. Women are like water. It is actionable advice for men at TRP. And it is not incompatible with striving to deserve virtuous women. It is simply the "do something about it" part. The issue for a lot of blue pill society, is they want what they "deserve". The more they are told they "deserve" something, the more disenfranchised and hard done by they feel when they aren't getting it. They…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 08:16 PM
1

No, they're commenting based on your impulses. You made a decision, no LDR. She's sent you a cryptic message and now you're trying to find meaning and purpose in it. You had meaning and purpose, it just doesn't include her. Get on with it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:13 AM
5

You're delusional. She wants validation.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:01 AM
2

You don't need to give her closure. You make no assurances or talking another time, and don't need to explain why you're not talking now. You're still trying to make someone understand your motives and feel "comfortable". That's not your responsibility.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:48 PM
5

She can only be a plate, and you aren't strong enough to plate an ex yet. You send her a polite message saying it was nice of her to get in contact, you hope she's doing well, and "don't be a stranger". Don't say you've been thinking of her, don't tell her about your improvement, don't mention thoughts or feelings about her or her message at all. If she tries to make it a conversation, be brief, light hearted and do not encourage any more conversation. No "so how have you been?" shit!
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:26 PM
2

No one wants to see how the sausage is made. Don't talk about progress, let the results speak for themselves.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 05:31 AM
1

You're in the anger phase. It'll pass. Keep working on you and you'll realise that they are the disposable ones.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 05:31 AM
3

There's a sales game. He who talks first, loses.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 05:29 AM
4

You're in the wrong sub. This is sexual strategy for men. A place where we talk about taking action to get what we want from life. Not a place where we give up.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:22 AM
2

Don't blame me because you chose shit examples to illustrate your point. I don't think little white lies are the only way to avoid saying "Yes you are so fat". It also seems to be part of the point of this post. Lying to your mother, or ugly friend, or whoever else to save their feelings is a cop out and you can avoid it in a better way. If your mother has gained weight, then ask her about it. "Why do you ask? Do you feel like you're putting on weight? Is that an issue for you? Why? Are you conc…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 01:16 AM
2

While it is moralising, it is also true. Being shameful can mean you should feel shame for the act. But it also means that you are already feeling shame and are lying to cover it up. Lying about something usually means you want to hide the truth. That means if the truth came out you would be worse off. That is absolutely being ashamed of something. I agree that OP didn't explore that very well, but I don't think writing the statement off as moralising covers it.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 11:35 PM
4

You're making such a strong point for why lying is a weakness. I've never lied about not being and average employee in an interview, because I've never been an average employee. Don't be fucking worthless and you won't have to lie about your value.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 11:31 PM
5

The difference is being clear about not being genuine in your response. The only wrong answer to that question is a genuine answer. Truth or lie, it's the wrong answer. But socially, saying "I'm not going to answer that" makes the other person feel uncomfortable. So making fun of the question says that, while still putting them at ease.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 11:29 PM
11

It is, but "the enemy" shouldn't be taken literally in discussion of social, sexual, relationship or professional marketplaces. The truth is, as social creatures we are competing for limited resources. Whether it is physical resources (cash, food, shelter) or intrinsic (time, attention, affection). When someone is unsure of you, they subconsciously ARE looking for weaknesses, while trying to shield their own. It is best to understand it so that you can avoid making simple mistakes that get in th…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 11:27 PM
-1

You've had several girls who hate the way they are being fingered. Either you're doing a shithouse job, or they're still worried about the last guy who tried to start fire using his boyscout training inside her.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:16 PM
2

Does x work? Yes. But really, does x work? Yes. OK, but be honest. Does it work? One of two things is happening. Either it works and asking the question again isn't going to change it. Or it doesn't work and it's all a conspiracy to trick you. no one is going to then say "well since you told me I had to be honest I'll finally tell the truth"
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:49 AM
2

You replied with the wrong account hombre.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:15 AM
1

For various reasons, around once a week or Max twice in 10 days is ideal. You should be trying to be busy enough that more than that is hard to maintain. If you see her more than that she will get comfortable with you being available and either think you're easy, or try to lock you down sooner. Seeing her more often can make you complacent, comfortable and not bother looking for more plates. It also means when you get more plates you won't be changing the dynamic abruptly.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:02 AM
3

If you have no idea, going into sales is actually a great way to learn some life skills and find out if you can hack it. If you can weather the sales lifestyle, there's fewer careers that can allow you to do anything. And the skills are 100 transferable to any other industry or area of life. If you're like most people and end up finding sales should crushingzyou can move in with new marketable skills.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:33 AM
2

It's amazing how "being spontaneous" can be a turn on. Grab a drink at the hotel bar. Then "hey, wouldn't it be crazy to rent a room?"
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:28 AM
2

RED FLAG! You might have figured out the not-very-difficult dilemma of buying non-latex condoms. She's managed to spend all this time not even thinking to Google or ask anyone, and instead having unprotected sex with any one night stand. Her shithouse decision making will put your health at risk.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 07:15 AM
14

Pick a couple of attractive male stereotypes. Brad Pitt, troy. Hugh Jackman wolverine. Jude law. Luke Evans. Pick about a dozen. Find one's that have similar height and you could possibly match in physique if you'd trained for years. How far are you from that physique. If you could go and get a 500 dollar haircut, get a fully tailored wardrobe, and dress like they did on the red carpet, how far are you from being able to pull it off. Pick a physique that looks possible for you, and work your ass…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:55 AM
1

Yep. I completely misread. Somehow I read that you then asked the second girl for her number.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:50 AM
1

I assume you haven't picked up a pair of girls with a wingman before? I'm not saying you WERE hounding the second. I'm saying that by not accepting that the first number was enough to make the agreed night (4 people go for cocktails) happen, you showed that your actual intent didn't match your words. So in their mind you are either a) actually not interested in the 4 people cocktails deal and the wingman was never on the table, or b) you are socially awkward and if they decide to ignore your mes…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:36 AM
1

You have entirely overestimated your game and misunderstood the "sexual" in Sexual Marketplace Value. No woman has ever said "Oh my god, your humour has me so wet!". Humour is a way to get attention, not build tingles. Your estimates of "gold-plating" your SMV boil down trying to qualify yourself with humour and leaning on two others being attractive. None of this works against you, but it's not going to get you laid. Your game might have been decent up until the phone number. As you point out, …
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:28 AM
1

What's your goal calories each day and what are you eating to reach it. I leave for work at 7-730am and usually get home about 7-730pm. I'm at the gym 5am so I hit the fart sack about 930. I still get a shake in and eggs in toast for breakfast. I have a full meal for lunch and another shake during the day. And a full meal for dinner. That usually hits my target (3800kcal), if I'm short I'll either have another shake or something like a hot chocolate. The easiest way is to drink and snack your ca…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 06:18 AM
2

What he said is still actionable advice, don't get defensive. Being attractive makes life easier. It includes working relationships. No fucking required.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:08 AM
1

"or she could be lying and using that as a very convenient excuse". You are being disingenuous now.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:32 PM
7

"If what she says is true"... You're not concerned for her health. You're suggesting he call her bluff. It's a shot game with no winner. How many times do false rape cases get posted here because a Sheila cheated and had to double down on her lie to save face?
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:24 PM
11

Don't even joke about the rape kit. Stop conditioning women to think they need to claim rape to cover their cheating ass.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:15 PM
4

There's nothing wrong with being able to pull a Sheila who was looking for cock. I'm just pointing out that you wrote a thousand word essay that boils down to you were targeted at the start of the night by a pair of sluts on the hunt and didn't fuck it up. It's actually good advice that we need to remind people "stop giving her reasons not to fuck you".
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 08:11 PM
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First, he didn't approach anyone. Second, being the available target for a pair of sluts on the hunt is not exactly the pinnacle of success.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 03:28 PM
5

Also, I can not think of 3 occasions in the last 1.5 years where a sheila has stopped me doing something I wanted to do. So while you may think that 3 times in 1.5 years isn't a lot. It's more than it would be if you simply didn't allow it.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:37 AM
3

If a girl keeps drawing attention to her looks, it's not because she doesn't like her looks. You're just not good at picking up on the obvious manipulation tactics of women.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:35 AM
13

I will continue to do what I enjoy. If someone fits into that, they may stay around for as long as they git into my life. I've happily dropped plates and remained exclusive with a single plate/fwb for a few months when we got along well and everything. Each time something eventually caused them to behave differently, so I ended the exclusivity. To me, that is the abundance that is important. I'm as happy with multiple plates as I'm happy being exclusive. I enjoy building relationships with peopl…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:34 AM
32

You are asking the wrong question. I am happier doing things that make me happy. Things include having sex with a woman to whom I am attracted. Doing activities that I choose, whether it's going to a great whiskey or cocktail bar, going camping, or building something. Spending time with people who's company I enjoy. What I do not enjoy is being expected to do something because someone else wants to do it. Nor do I expect to have to debate if I really NEED a new microphone or is it frivolous spen…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:18 AM
8

Pay attention to what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:45 AM
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FR: easy slut was looking for sex with any bloke that didn't fuck it up. I didn't fuck it up.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 03:44 AM
2

Because, in this case, when the wheels fall off you are paying child support for someone else's kids and/or have herpes. All for the pleasure of fucking one particular Sheila? You can choose to drive a car that's falling apart and already shown it will break down under a stiff breeze. Many others would recommend to move onto your next car before you're left stranded. This isn't about "protecting one's feelings" (of which your other comments show you have an abundance), it is about what is a heal…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:50 AM
1

You're missing the point. Girls don't rock up naked with blindfolds on. If you're pathetic enough that you can't get in shape, she's not going to close her eyes and think about your photos while she blows you. Sheila's who are willing to fuck a bloke from instagram want the body they're sold. If you have the body, the rest is irrelevant. If you don't, you've wasted your time and money.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:51 AM
1

The part where your delusion breaks down is where you think that it's somehow different to social media today. What makes you think that sheilas willing to go to hotels with random chumps with a convincing instagram are somehow worth a dollar? As someone else pointed out, this is the game of men who don't have what it takes on the market place and so come up with imaginary plans that aren't worth the time wasted thinking if it.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:43 AM
1

Are these all in the same social group? Are others starting sexual relationships in this group?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 07:51 AM
1

In your post it seemed like none of these men slept with you. Is this about one in particular who DID sleep with you? If so, your generic information has me confused. The point of my response was that a man who won't sleep with women who are part of his social circle, is a man who won't be outcast from his social circle if a sexual relationship goes bad.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 07:37 AM
3

Yeah, it totally would be if that was the reason. Luckily, in the post it clearly stated the reasons. None of which were to Dread his wife. In short, read the post properly before making dumb assumptions.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/19 01:06 AM
57

On the contrary. It worked perfectly, he got to move on to better things.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/19 01:04 AM
0

It's been discussed around trp quite a bit, so it's possible your friend might be red pilled. That aside, it's OK for getting girls that think their smv is lower than you, but not much else. Instead of Brad hitting on some 20 year old "part time model" at a night club in your scenario, imagine if Brad Pitt walked up to a sexy young a-list actress / model and asked her out for a date tonight. She'd probably laugh at him and tell him she's busy. Because even though he's Brad Pitt, being that easy …
/r/askTRP09/10/19 10:53 PM
1

First, play to your strengths. How the duck did you end up at a bar full of 20yr olds. You're a successful man. You should be at a nice whiskey bar, or cocktail bar, or anywhere that she doesn't get to experience with the boys her age. Second, don't be boring there's no excuse for it. Age, success, status, none of that removes the ability to be fun. You have 10 years more experiences than these people and somehow they have more interesting stories? That should not be true.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:59 AM
5

You should reread the linked post again. Dread is NOT a punishment that you whip out when things go wrong. The first steps are simply a reminder of what you should be doing normally, listed in a simple to follow manner. Dread is like exercise. Exercise can be a remedy when someone has let themself go, to get them back into shape. But it is also what people do refularly to stay in shape.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:48 PM
20

I gotta be honest, this sounds like a creative writing experiment from a neurotic trp follower. It's almost like they had a sidebar check list they went through point by point. Stoic, handsome, rich, self made man marries a club slut who's looking to settle down. But then she can't resist the club slut urges and starts to resent a stable, red-pulled life. Pulls the cord, happily losing her trustfund, thanks to the advice of her club slut friends who then instantly start hitting on him. Our hero,…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 03:56 AM
-6

Delusion is a wonderful drug
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:04 AM
8

Life is fucking hard. Get fucking harder https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn%3AANd9GcRu0tFyU2Xyg3N6EQOjDvC2xHtwrN_cQH6kRu7v2fTRm0JFYDa8 Is it JUST his body that changed in these photos? Or does he have a better facial structure thanks to the weight gain a testosterone boost, better haircut, ditched the shit facial hair, holds himself better, looks confident, and looks like he respects himself? Ignoring any third party influences, The way one holds themselves guides others what to thi…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:47 AM
2

If one of these men you like broke your heart next week and all of your mutual acquaintances found out about it, how much could this damage their social or professional life? You may just be a risk. Dating you briefly, having a bit of fun, and then it ending all seems fine when they don't know you. But then you become a protected species: a petite, pretty, timid girl who's bubbly and fun and caring, doesn't sleep around and doesn't seem to date a lot. If I'm the asshole who breaks your heart in …
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 08:43 PM
1

Wow, I haven't seen a more useless string of words strung together in the guise of TRP wisdom in my life.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:26 PM
3

Why are you so stuck in one single format of a date that when he's asked her out for a drink, you're advice is get ice cream? And then logistics of ice cream?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:25 AM
19

To help get more specific advice, it might help to edit some more information into your post. How old are you/they? Can you give examples of what they do that makes you think they are interested in you? What sort of friendships are these? How long does it take for them to change into sister mode? Are they successful with other women?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 06:47 AM
2

And history has thought us that winning a direct confrontation once will prevent any further conflict. Definitely NOT cause the person who you've worked up to be angry enough to fight you to find "other" ways to win. You can't guarantee that this dude isn't going to lose his shit and jump you when you're not looking, or convince friends to join, or stab you. So why hive him more reason to want to?
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:02 PM
2

First, let this be a lesson in not making a decision that will be the foundation of your next year without doing your due diligence. Next time, meet the housemate, view the living space, don't move into a connected room with a drugged out loser. If you can get out of this lease, do. Too many levels of bullshit to have to deal with here. And remember, the only thing more reliable than a friend you can trust is a friend you can mistrust. You can assume from now on that if there's a 10 dollar note …
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:51 AM
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Right, but to her these are intrinsically linked. Her having a boyfriend only matters socially. A boyfriend who doesn't exist in her social circles doesn't exist. She wants/needs to prove to her friends that she's caught the alpha. If you can't own it in her social circles, you don't fill her fantasy. If you don't want to, that's fine. But understand why it's being pushed on you and it's your choice to fail the "everyone look at my awesome alpha" comfort test.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:41 AM
2

it sounds like the vast majority of your issues would go away if he found some success. That's the problem here. The description sounds pretty clearly like someone who is waiting for success to arrive. Not applying for jobs you don't like because you're overqualified. Not applying for jobs you do like because you're underqualified. Refusing to improve your qualifications. Pretty solid combo to never achieve success.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 12:11 AM
3

That doesn't sound the same at all. This is a boy who can't get the job that he wants, so he doesn't apply for jobs. You are working despite it not being your dream. One is ambition and action. The other is talking about ambition and completely lacking action. The latter is locally referred to as "full of shit".
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 12:08 AM
3

If you're stuck in the middle of a river and need to swim to shore, you have 3 options. Swim to left bank, it's rough water and will be a challenge, but staying is certain death.. Swim to the right bank, it's rough water and will be a challenge, but staying is certain death.. Stay in the middle of the river and drown. He's chosen to stay and die because surviving is hard work.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 12:03 AM
6

Cons Lacks everything you're looking for in a partner Pros Managed to stick it out long enough that you're codependent. Result The ONLY reason to stay with this man is because you believe you will not find anyone who has any qualities you like that will want you in return. Is that reasonable? Do you truly think you could never find someone who you can love who actually makes an effort to get anywhere in life?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 11:58 PM
10

On light days that is not enough. In fact, girls can be "on their period" and even putting your dick in will not show obvious blood. But after sex you will find a red condom and red around the base of your cock. It's not an on/off thing, the early and last days can be hit/miss with how much blood is around. "no sex" on a first date/hookup isn't uncommon. And blowjobs are a thing they learn that stops a guy pushing too much for sex cos he "got his". Avoiding getting fingered is also common practi…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 07:29 PM
2

To what end? Why are you wasting your time chatting to some imaginary sheila online? Why are you spending energy thinking about how long you should take to reply instead of approaching women in the real world with whom you might actually build attraction and get somewhere? This is a waste of resources. You're investing in a product that doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:13 AM
2

She's right. It is none of your business. You should make it none of your business because she is none of your business. This is because you should not be in an LTR with her. She has ended this LTR, she just isn't telling you until she's fully set up her branch swing.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 08:49 PM
15

My experience shows the same. I dated someone from "new money" for a while, and her best friends were all "old money" who had taken a shining to her family so they were part of their social group. There is no way any one of them (men or women) would date someone who even went to a lesser university. They all thought quite highly of me for achieving what I had without ever having done further education. I continue to hold them all in high regard. The flip side is that I, as someone from neither n…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 07:11 PM
8

The statement was that contrary to popular opinion here, some quality men DO value education. It was not that ALL quality men value education, or that some men value only a PHD.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 07:01 PM
2

In future, don't go to HR unless not doing so threatens your job. In this case, you don't work there, he does. Right or wrong, anything outside of that is now irrelevant. I can guess that your complaint won't be proceeding the way you hope. Because that means we've just spent the money in hiring someone, to then spend more money reprimanding them. Or, we can just move on from you and it costs us nothing. Don't pick fights you stand more to lose than win.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:47 AM
2

The optimal strategy is not to report to HR.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:41 AM
11

HR has one job. Protect the company from threats. If 10 people complain about a bully, the bully is the threat. If one person complains about a bully. The complaint is the threat.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:23 PM
4

So you haven't told him you don't love him, you just described to him HOW you don't love him... in crushing detail. Has there been a point in this relationship where you feel like you might lose him if you messed up enough? It seems to me that you feel like you've got a sure thing. You can walk away, "discover yourself", fuck a fitness instructor, a drug dealer, whoever else gives you the tingles. Then when you feel like you're ready to "settle" he'll be there waiting for you. And his being so u…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 08:48 PM
10

Just a reminder that all these conversations will likely not work in the bloke's favour. He already said she's bad mouthing him in those conversations. Solipsism is real, and for her to make herself the victim while cheating, she WILL be painting him as a bad husband. "he never talks to me anymore. He's so distant. I'm lonely. He's always angry. I've TRIED to make it work, but he won't put in any effort. He doesn't care about me. I'm SURE he's seeing someone else." All of these things are eviden…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:09 PM
10

Your LTR was dating someone else and making you feel like an arsehole for pointing it out.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:19 PM
67

Your 5 year plan consists of things that you want to happen to you. You might as well at win the lottery without buying a ticket in that list. It's not a plan. What action are you going to take tomorrow,next week, next month, next year.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 09:41 PM
17

You should probably do some research before making any further diet decisions based on your thoughts then.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:16 PM
2

A threesome with two hot sheilas is natural Viagra. If you don't have erectile problems normally, your body will know where to put all that excitement. Hint, your dick. I've only had a couple of nights that ended up with me in the bed with 2/3 sheilas, and each time I was magically a pornstar. No one slept a wink either of those nights. I've used half a blue pill once on a night away when I was concerned about having whiskey dick (I had drank far too much, she wanted to come back to my hotel any…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:17 AM
6

Just don't feel bloated, need to fart, abs look best, not weighted down by literal shit.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:12 AM
11

At least the hooker would pretend to be into him.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 07:09 PM
2

You've gone weak at the knees for a girl you've just met and you're calling others out for not practising it? You're a paper dragon mate. If you ever decide to actually do something rather than talk yourself out of it, make sure to do a field report. I'm sure many would benefit from watching your hamster explain how it was totally because this girl was classy and some other bullshit rather than just because you went in with a half cocked attempt because you've already convinced yourself she's be…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:32 PM
3

Aww. The "is not oneitis. She's a 10! Literally perfect in every way. I can tell even though I've only met her once" defense. I'm surprised you can still see her that high in the pedestal.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:25 PM
5

Imagine if you were as good at finding reasons to talk to her as you were at finding excuses for her to reject you. I almost want to go through each comment and point out every red pill 101 thing here. It's up to HER to decide reasons not to fuck you. Not you. You have zero fucking idea how "classy" she is. AWALT. You've met her once and put her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:20 PM
5

Sure mate. It's everyone else who's crazy. Not the bloke who's seen a pretty girl once and has decided she's girlfriend material and noticed he got "some iois" so loses his ability to talk to women.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:17 PM
3

I hope you're not a copywriter. Your exaggerated prose and incandescent picture telling makes an anxious reader get needlessly distracted as the superfluous verbiage continues to unnecessarily tumble, cascade and eventually, gush into their glistening ocular receivers. Stop reading award winning author, Dan Brown.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 08:43 PM
1

Right about what? It's just a dude rambling on endlessly with no point I sight.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 08:43 PM
12

I think you're talking to an AI that is stringing together words that make sense into sentences that do not. And I would know.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:26 AM
1

How to know the results of tattslotto before the balls are picked? You know if she is truly interested by escalating. That is all.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:28 AM
1

Yes. So in you scarcity, you have co tonued to think about how you can keep her interested so you can waste another night being bored with a sheila you're kot attracted to. If you cultivate better options, when she messages you will be too busy spending your time either doing things you want to do or being with sheilas you want to be with.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:42 PM
5

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:35 PM
0

Will you be my rock too? What about the single mom 2 doors down that you've met once? How well do you need to know someone before you accept their feelings as your responsibility, Mr Rock?
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:58 AM
2

Its simple hedging her bets. She wants to be able to fuck other blokes when you're not around. She needs excuses to do this without feeling like the bad guy. If she says "we're like bf/gf, but don't label it." and she accidentally fucks a bloke. It's ok because you didn't label it. If you fuck another sheila, she's allowed to be be pissed because you agreed you're like bf/gf. Basically it absolves her of any and all responsibility for her actions, while allowing her to hold secret expectations o…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:56 AM
8

Milk, eggs, chicken, beef mince. You don't have a high metabolism. You have a shit appetite.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:02 AM
8

What the fuck is this rubbish? She's not a plate, she's your warden. How the fuck did you wait outside for half an hour while a 'plate' refused to let you in because she was trying to sleep. That's an instant hard next. Do you find it so hard to get a woman to sleep with you that you stand outside their apartment in the hope they eventually give in? And then because they send a text you want to reward her? Do you really have such little self worth? She's not into you. She's not your plate. You n…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:01 AM
2

Because those who can easily bang the sheilas they desire don't get oneitis.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:58 AM
2

To be crystal fucking clear. GET OUT.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:08 AM
41

You are in an abusive relationship. I know. I spent years in one. The only way she knows how to get her way is to emotionally manipulate you. And she wants you to stop talking to other women. She will start by crying. It will get worse.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:17 AM
6

This is solipsism and it's not your fault. "I am not a slut. That makes me a nice girl. And nice girls like nice guys. I like this guy. So he is a nice guy!" It's how they validate their own choices. 2/3 of my current plates are feminists. One an obstetrician, one doing a PHD in microbiology, one an anatomical pathologist. They all think they are very selective with men and only choose nice guys. They all think I'm great. They all know I'm sleeping with other women. They are all OK with this bec…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:50 AM
1

I fucking love my straps and my chalk! I deadlift up till I feel the bar rolling (usually somewhere between 140 and 155kg) then I chalk. The next time a set doesn't hold well, I use straps. My grip is getting better because I only use straps after my grip begins to fail. My lifts don't suffer because my grip starts to fail.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:54 AM
2

Then adjust according to response. If they're trying to rearrange another time, and generally are amicable, responsive and show eagerness. Then then get an extra attempt. If they don't respond well to the first attempt, they don't try to rearrange and generally seem uninterested. They don't get the second attempt.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:48 AM
3

Yeah. Nothing wrong with your gf thinking you have no value. Hold on to her cobber, no way you could find a sheila who doesn't assume you're worthless. Right?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:16 PM
0

Like a lot of red pill advice, this is a case of "always follow this rule (until you know how not to)" Most blokes here can't contain themselves and think that spouting statistics they read on the internet is going to break the minds of every feminist within earshot and make every bro cheer them on. They are the ones who are best served by this advice. When the loudest voices of your opinion are those of bratty children, your opinion now seems childish.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:13 PM
4

I agree with everything you said, but you're making too little of an important part here. "given you do it respectfully and tastefully" Like most red pill advice, most blokes here need to follow the absolute "do not do this" rule because they don't understand moderation. Look at all the "I love to shut the snowflakes up with my logic!" comments in the thread. These are the autists that need this advice.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:09 PM
3

Arguing with feminists won't solve any of this. It's like saying that arguing with Isis will solve terrorism. It's not the extremeists you need to get through to, and just arguing fact is never going to prevent the emotional manipulation they affect on others.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 07:43 PM
7

First, she's not LTR material according to the sidebar. Because you haven't been fucking her for longer than 6 months BEFORE you start vetting her. Sheilas are chameleons. They're amazing at picking up on what you want to hear, see and feel and being that. For a little while. Only after they've been consistent for 6 months do they BEGIN to be vetted for LTR. More to the point. Enjoy these feelings. They are few and far between and it is truly a bittersweet experience. The reason you are having t…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:53 AM
4

First, That's called a gamble. You're welcome to gamble your future on pussy. My future is worth more than that. Best of luck to you. Second, do you actually think that having your genes raised to be beta by a pair that you've proven to be a beta and a cheating whore is a victory? Or are you just arguing for the sake of it?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 10:03 AM
45

You're ignoring the real reason not to cheat. What happens when you get caught. None of your options include this. You assume that the sheila you cheated with isn't going to blow up your phone. That the bloke at the bar that failed hitting on her earlier doesn't follow you gf on instagram. That you are the sole owner of the knowledge that you cheated. You can get caught. Some are more likely to get caught. Some are going to be constantly worried about getting caught. All this will cause your lif…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 03:40 AM
3

Your question was if your hobby was getting in the way of meeting someone of quality. If you now want it to mean "feminine", that's fine. But to your original question, the answer is yes. Mdma 4 times a year is regularly. This is an exanple where your baseline is messed up due to hanging out with people who use drugs more regularly than you. It makes you think 4 times a year of drug use is not considered regular. For coffee, it's not. For illicit drugs, it is. If you would exclude men who use MD…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 11:38 PM
7

And my answer is about what your are doing that is causing you (and will cause you more) issues in that department. Your baseline is messed up. "I only do MDMA 4 times a year, it's not like I do coke". That is not a quality woman. Your coke enjoying friends would say "I only do coke, it's not like I'm doing ice". Side note, coke is much less of a risk than MDMA. This is why festival heads are a known red flag. You keep saying you want to be feminine, that you are a quality woman. But you're comp…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 11:04 PM
3

Here's the deal. Music festivals are a red flag. At your age, it's not unusual and so many will look beyond it, but it remains a red flag. Music festivals are where people go to dress provocatively, get drunk/high, and hook up. Festival goers do drugs and make poor decisions. You might say "I'm not like that", but you've already done mdma and you've already said you have to ask "a sober one" when getting advi r from friends. So you are part of that culture, like it or not. This is why a bloke is…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 09:30 PM
1

That's not life getting easier. That's you getting better at dealing with life. If you still behaved like you did as a teenager, would things be easier or harder?
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:01 PM
75

No. It gets harder. Life is fucking hard. Get fucking harder.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:22 AM
1

"Text them a secret meeting spot to make out" = a date. You're overcomplicating shit. "hey, we should grab a drink at x. See you there at 8" is pretty much the standard. So just update "grab a drink" to "hang out". Texting for logistics is 100% what you're describing. Get a sheila to meet you somewhere so you can get some 1 on 1 time and put moves on her.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:20 AM
2

Well, let's be honest. A lot of guys here don't get a lot of things. That's why they're here. Best we can do is share what we DO get.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:40 AM
7

Athlean x has a good series on core stuff. Some callisthenics dude named Chris something, lots of tatts, YouTube channel named suspiciously similar to Athlean x also does a few video on bodyweight core stuff. Remembwr that abs are built in the gym, but shown in the kitchen. If your diet is about putting on mass (presume your coached program is), you'll find it hard to get much to show.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:22 AM
3

Does her having add, taking adderall, making jokes about your dead father, or any other problem make her worthless? No. Does it cause problems for you? Yes. It already has. Should you be making excuses and putting in effort for a girl that has so quickly caused you problems? No. This is early days mate. She is going to cause you more and more drama, problems and headaches than you need. Move on and find someone that is less drama. They exist.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:14 AM
2

You have a theory about arses and think HIS theory is full of shit? Well at least your autism made me smile today.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:34 PM
13

Autistic, has ADD, takes adderall, talks shit about your dead father. Sounds like you definitely should do everything in your power to keep making excuses for this wonderful specimen of a sheila. Apart from the dozen red flags she's showing, I had a great time = I don't think I can get any better than her.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:28 PM
2

"I'm an 8 or 9"... "body dysmorphia" Mate. You're delusional.you cannot believe both of those statements unless you're actually in the top 1%. Women in your beta workplace tell you you're attractive. That's all. Compared to a bunch of betas you're the big fish. Don't get ahead of yourself. People will treat you different as you improve. Often it's not because you look different, but because you're acting different. If you used to think you're fat, but now you think you're hot shit, your attitude…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:12 PM
4

I've gotta say, feminism isn't the red flag people think it is. It's the attitude around feminism. I've had a couple of plates that would describe themselves as feminists, even to the point of having half their bookshelf dedicated to feminist reading. Three of the best plates I've had were feminist. And here's the deal. They know society is a shit deal. They know they're not getting what they want. They know they need to do sokmethinh about it. But they have been sold a lie about the problem. Th…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 07:41 PM
1

Since what it seems you are after is a redpilled person to tell YOU how to behave and not focus on your weird fixation on his lack of response. As the chief unneeded advice giver around her, I'll tell you. From now on, you must only ever say "my day was good too, thanks" every time you see him. That is all. Carry on.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:55 AM
3

Hey, not feeling this anymore. Thanks for the good times. No drama. No unnecessary feelings. No over explaining. Just cut it off politely and walk away. Ghost if you're too worried about reading a mean text. But don't bother explaining shit or talking about feelings.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:51 AM
6

Your calculator is very broken. 1g of protein for 1lb of muscle. Keep it simple. More is wasted. You need 160g of protein. Anything else to fill your calories. Make sure you get SOME fat (50g Min is recommended for hormonal balance), and then the rest can be any combo of fat, carbs and protein. So now we're looking at 160g of protein, 50g of fat. And then eat whatever the fuck you want to reach your TDEE. Are you tracking your calories properly? 162lb and 3300kcal maintenance sounds exceedingly …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:44 AM
0

You're not leading. This is hos that turns out.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:34 AM
2

If your "thot senses" are tingling, how the fuck is this a potential LTR? You don't have to next a sheila because everyone says she's a slut. But you certainly shouldn't be considering her as anything other than a plate. It sounds like you have a scarcity mindset. If there's 100 attractive women in a room trying to sleep with you, and someone told you one of them was previously a slut, would you be giving her much attention or just move on to the next? Fill your room, cheif. Keep her around if/w…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:32 AM
10

If I said I would put you in a cage with a lion, would you prefer to know how many men it's eaten before you, or how to get out of the cage?
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:04 AM
1

School yard antics are a terrible measure of attractiveness. How embarrassed would you be if someone openly said that you should date the most attractive guy in your school, directly in front of him? You'd act like it was weird as well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 09:27 PM
6

If he looked like Steve Urkel you wouldn't be bothered. You'd understand why she was avoiding him. The issue here wasn't that she didn't want to be seen, it was that she didn't want to be seen with you. You don't consider yourself the prize. If you did, that thought would never enter your mind. Part of you is deriving your value from being with her. For her to show you off, means you have higher value. Her not showing you off makes you feel less valuable. Do not derive your value from a woman. M…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 09:22 PM
1

One of us spent time in a sub we don't believe in. So who's wasting time?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 08:15 PM
-3

Do you really see him as your captain? If so, why aren't you beaming with joy that he's getting all these compliments. You know that any compliment to him on your team effort also includes you, even if they don't direct them at you. There's a few reasons why people would recognise his efforts and not yours. 1) they want to ingratiate themselves to him. To be liked by him is important to them. So they compliment him. 2) they think he needs the compliments. If they feel like he doesn't get these c…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 07:48 PM
29

This is devolving into romanticising about Blue Pill ideals instead of anything useful. Your imaginary man is exactly that, imaginary.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 02:55 AM
0

20% are getting laid, but not because they aren't thirsty bitches being used by women. Old mate in the story here who gets access to the glorious sex because he does the dishes still counts on the 20% getting laid figure.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:25 AM
2

Take a step back and look at WHY you need to lie about this. The truth is, women will sleep with a bloke without him saying he's her boyfriend. Some will need the guy to be a 10/10 with a clothing line named after him, others will only need the guy to wink at her. But the moment you are negotiating to sex, you've lost. What you have left out of this post says it all. You don't have anything to offer these women except commitment. They can't expect to get any better offers, so will put out at the…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:08 AM
8

But she would prefer to share you than not have you at all. Remain the prize and women will want a pa t of the prize.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:57 PM
1

This is the type of situation where there's no hard-line TRP solution. First, you need a game plan. You need to give her a solution, that is your job. Your problem, as I read it, seems to be that you aren't enjoying your sex life with your missus and you need to have that back. What gets you off that doesn't include putting your dick in her pussy or her arse? Would long, attentive blow job sessions keep you interested? Do you need to fuck other women? Do you just want her to be all over you whil…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:11 AM
2

You're creating your own obstacles here. You hate online messaging. You know you need to ask her to meet up rather than message back and forth. You want to spin a new plate. Your only problem is that you're unwilling to drop attention on a current plate to do so. Give a plate a rest for a week, meet up with this sheila. Stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:03 AM
2

If you have a question, make a post. Done whine at the OP for not giving a shit about your inane rambling.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:59 AM
17

It's irrelevant. I have slept with multiple co-workers in the past. It has had consequences that ranged between nothing except a good fwb situation, to people questioning my judgement as a manager because I was sleeping with someone. Then again I smoked for 10 years and don't have cancer. I wouldn't use that anecdote as a reason to suggest that smoking doesn't increase the chances of cancer. Shitting where you eat increases your risk of drama entering your workplace and therefore your career. Th…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:58 AM
3

A starving man will eat a rotting carcass. A dehydrated man will drink from a putrid swamp. We build abundance so we can stop focusing on how to get food, water, pay for bills, or get laid. We build abundance so we can focus on greater and grander achievements. A starving man did not invent the wheel, a man who had so much food that he needed to transport it did.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:55 AM
5

If blue pill society has taught us anything, it's that the popular opinion is not always right
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:02 PM
1

Who cares? There isn't an answer that matters. She doesn't want what op wants. He should be out doing it what he wants, not limiting himself to a relationship he isn't happy in.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:11 AM
13

We should start a subreddit with a list of them. Somewhere that it can be explored in great detail and stored for posterity. Maybe keep those things easily at hand and call it a sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:09 AM
4

Don't get drawn into a debate on it. You decide if your time is more important than hanging around for her. You've made your choice and don't need to explain it to her. Debating with her and explaining it to her is a natural reflex to want to show that you're NOT in the wrong her and make her understand. She will never understand. She will use it as a way to make you out to be the bad guy. "Maybe some other time when you're not so pressed for time" would work if you want to give her another chan…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:05 AM
1

All day long I have to honor the requests of my coworkers. You've said this is literally your job. It's not their fault it's your job. Own it, or get the fuck out. I am just tired of being subservient by default. Every time I do something for them, they continue to want more and more. Eventually I just stop, and I’m portrayed as the dick, which in turn causes them to ignore my requests if I should ever need them. If you keep doing things, they will ask for more. It's not fucking rocket surgery. …
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:09 AM
3

Fuck morality. This is a risk vs. reward issue. You are risking all the myriad of drama that comes along with being the "other guy", adding in the bonus of being known to them both. Doubling down on someone who hasn't even put the hard word on you but "seems interested". Your reward? Some sex. Is that what a man who has an abundance of sex would choose? Are you the prize for risking so much for a bit of pussy? Make your choice, hombre.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:58 AM
1

You enjoy taking plates on activities. It makes you happy. So do that. You don't want to stop having sex with multiple women. So don't do that. You somehow think these aren't compatible? I really enjoy spending time with my plates, that's why they're plates. If they get boring, or hard work, or quarrelsome, I upgrade. If I find someone I like the company of more, I upgrade. I find the above helps me satiate my desire to "grow" relationships. Stops me being beholden to the whims of one particular…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 10:08 PM
2

You're fulfilling her needs without anal. She's not losing sex. She's losing one form of sex, that had complications. You're in a "good sex" period, in which you're doing a the things she loves. Why would she feel the need to change anything? She doesn't need to give you anal for you to fuck her well, choke her and spank her. Aside from validation or feeling dominant do you really want anal that much? If those are the things you like from it, then get those from other sex stuff (like she's doing…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:57 PM
3

Might have been the self promotional one. It wasn't particularly good examples. The positive you would have got from the video are: Even if you're awkward, and have a hard time closing, approach anyway. Getting rejected is never as bad as you think.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:50 PM
18

It's a classic get out of jail free card. Date not going well? Dragging on a bit? He's nice, and cute, but I'm not going to sleep with him today? "I have to head off to this party. Thanks. Call me" But if she gets the tingles... "they won't mind if I'm a bit late." Just escalate as normal.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:47 PM
8

You're engaging them. Stop it. They want drama. That is all. They want to hear about drama, see drama, talk about drama, cause drama, or be drama. They are bored in their own shit, and yours might be exciting. So they quiz you. The moment you admit to having any kind of romantic/sexual life, it's fair game to push for more info. You're playing into the attention with shit like "I have several gal-pals" and you don't want to admit it. You're leaving little bits of bait to keep them biting. Be hon…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:14 PM
1

As I said. If it's your job, then it doesn't matter if it's a man, a woman, the pope or your worst enemy; it is your job. If you don't like that being your job, then find a new one. If you are doing things that are not your job. Then stop doing them. You seem to blame everyone but yourself for your choices here.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:44 PM
1

One of two things is true. It is your job to do as they ask. You aren't doing them favours, you are doing your job. Continue to do this while looking for somewhere else to work. It is not your job to do as they ask. You are doing them favours and they are ungrateful. This is not your job. Stop doing this while looking for somewhere else to work. All the other shit is you pussy footing around the topic.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:09 AM
12

Oh good. Found yourself a hobo plate. She's more comfortable fucking for food than being at home.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:03 AM
3

With the amount of information you've provided, I can tell you are definitely either talking too much, not enough or just the right amount. So either fix that or do exactly what you're doing.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:14 AM
27

Do not show him the red pill! There is some good, actionable relationship advice in there. But it is surrounded by a lot of stuff that will make him question everything. The risk is not worth the reward. You will get plenty of advice from others that will help you be a good first mate and guide him to being your captain. So I will leave that to the experts. Do not introduce men you like to TRP!
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 06:58 PM
2

Your respect won't keep people alive.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:33 PM
19

"... and as we all saw, the video clearly didn't capture the whole event. Since the accused are all from good, upstanding families with strong values, were going to have them attend a conference on 'please stop getting caught'. That will be all" the judge. "ok, now onto the counter suits. You have been accused of 7 different cases of defamation for manufacturing a situation and sharing a video of it to slander the good name of these poor frat boys. On top of that, this poor young girl has said t…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:32 PM
28

Get to married Red pill in a hurry. "every 10 days I need to do the talk" fuck no! Every 10 days you become less available to her and are out enjoying activities that don't include a nagging wife. Why is she treating you this way? Because it works!
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:39 AM
7

For future reference. Anytime you're thinking of asking a group of people "would you be interested in reading x" you're wasting yours and their time. Either write the fucking thing and find out, or don't. This is blue pill approval seeking behaviour In this particular snowflake case, you've described a field report. So write a field report. It's not a new, unique take on a field report. It's the same as 2/5 field reports posted on the main sub.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:49 AM
7

You're quite actively alone. Half your list of activities are solo. And not just "can do this alone" but "must be alone to do this". Stop finding comfort in solo activities. Online poker is doubly bad. It's an online, solo activity that also gives you a gambling hit. Meet up groups are ok. But often filled with socially awkward people. Never made a friend from a meet up event, even though I eniores the event. Professional networking events are great, but I've only make professional acquaintances…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:52 PM
7

Your issue is impulse control. You feel like doing something, and although you know it has a bad result you do it anyway. Why are you on your phone a lot? Nothing more important to be doing? Get busy with life and this stupid thought process will go away.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:03 PM
0

This also isn't just a rape case, it is actually rape. If we're going to fucking bitch and moan around here about all the unjust false rape accusation, we really need to not pretend that "accidentally" slipping your dick in when she has said no isn't just straight up rape.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:29 PM
2

Go to the main sub and do more reading. It's very well explained, repeatedly, that being obliged to pay for someone else's drinks is blue pill training. I buy a round, you buy a round. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:17 PM
1

You've found plenty of time to make excuses. So you think successful men don't face similar issues? If you have to clean and do cos every night, you're doing them wrong and wasting your time. I get up at 430 for the gym. I leave for work at 7. I get home around 730. My food doesn't cook itself, my apartment doesn't clean itself. Miraculously, I still meet women. We don't have not time in the day than you do. We just work harder to not let that effect what we want.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:51 PM
1

Don't put your hand in the fire or you'll get burned. Op: yeah, good advice, I'll use my foot instead.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:05 AM
2

First, day game is a type of game, not a time of day. Day game is about approaching women in normal circumstances rather than at approved approaching locations (pub/club/bar/etc) Second, most successful men work most days of the week, usually throughout the daylight hours. Leaving only nights and weekends to do other things. The difference is that we make the effort to turn our down time into useful time. So rather than complain that it's dark out so it's not the right time to make things happen…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:20 AM
7

Here are my guesses. You're young (under 25), using dating apps to meet sheilas, chatting to them a couple of days and being jokey/fun before sealing the date, then messaging before the date to keep them interested. You're maybe even going for "thicc" (read: fat) or just lower smv girls because you get less resistance and don't have the confidence to go for higher smv yet. "but totally will once you've achieved x" How far off am I?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:14 PM
3

If you have time to sit on tinder, you have time to be at a bar/restaurant/cafe/supermarket/whatever. Think if how long each day you've done the following. - swiped and chatted on a dating app. - checked social media. - watched a TV show (or YouTube). - scoured reddit. - listened to a podcast or music while not physically required to be doing something (driving, public transport, meal prep). - masturbated. - played a game on your phone / computer / console. Literally all that time is wasted.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:09 PM
13

I'm going to keep this short because I don't have a lot of time right now, but there's a lot you can read on this topic by looking at sales so I'll get you started with some key points. They're already sold. So learnt to shut the fuck up. Knowing when the sale is made is important, and you need to learn to stop trying to sell once they are ready to buy. Just proceed with the fucking transaction. In this case, you have IOI, they have stopped doing what they were doing to spend time with you, they…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:58 PM
2

You're on the right path. Focus on the 12 levels of dread, focus on you. As you've pointed out it is much harder to turn your frame into a red pill frame than to start there. The 12 levels of dread is a process. You need to keep doing it, and not expect instant results. She won't stop being a bitch tomorrow because you decided to go to the gym today. She won't start begging for you to throw her around the bedroom because you bought a nice shirt today. Don't try to change everything at once. Slow…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:33 PM
4

I'd switch the TV off and go to the gym.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:12 PM
8

There is no relationship prospect on a first date. Vet everyone from the start. You shouldn't even be considering a relationship till you've been rooting her for months and she hasn't shown any red flags. Secondly, you choosing to NOT fuck a sheila on a first date hasn't stopped her from fucking every other bloke on a first date. All it did was put her on a pedestal where now you think she's the type of girl you want who doesn't fuck on first dates.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:05 PM
2

Your first paragraph sounds like she's already decided it's over. She's just making you be the one to end it so she's the victim.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:12 AM
2

Seems like right now you're staring at a blue pill and trying to convince yourself it is red. Like I said, you need to do a lot more reading. You don't need to take my advice, but when it comes to pass, remember that we told you it was coming.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:53 AM
12

Then you shouldn't be asking here. Head over to asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 04:50 AM
22

All that means is that the good looking men get to choose which women he wants, and what he wants from them. Good looking men do NOT inherently dislike monogamy or marriage. But they likely have enough options that they won't settle purely the hope of regular attention and sex. Some may be disillusioned with the while concept thanks to today's society. All the advice here at RPW is tailored to help you stand out as NOT a result of today's society. That you are capable of the type of love, securi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 03:36 AM
4

Sorry mate, but you're lying to yourself. If she was REALLY into you, she would dread the thought of losing you and would stop ANY behaviour that could fuck up her future with you. Behaviours that women instinctively (not trained) know could fuck up their future with a bloke 1) not having sex with them. 2) hanging around other guys. She is perfectly comfortable doing these things. She is not concerned about losing you at all.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 03:18 AM
2

Re read the 12 levels of dread. This is textbook dread. Dread is not only making her think she's losing you. Dread begins with using self improvement and social situations to keep reminding her you are the prize.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:52 PM
3

You aren't building enough attraction amd/or you're a terrible kisser. Think of it as putting fuel on a fire. Sometimes you need more wood. Sometimes you need to give the wood there time to catch. You definitely need oxygen. On a first date, constant making out and attention without pulling back just smothers any tingles. Be playful. Kiss a little, then pull back and have a bit more fun doing something that isn't pushing all your energy on her. Give her some time to want to kiss you more. Then g…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:38 PM
1

Do you know the amount she paid, or the amount it should cost? I have friends who work in travel, and when they have REAL good relationships with places, they get rediculous discounts.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:26 PM
7

So you found TRP 8 months ago and have spent that time ignoring all advice given? It's worked flawlessly, and by that you mean you haven't tried to achieve anything, and haven't achieved anything. So total success? You aren't "dating" this girl. You are providing her emotional comfort while she keeps looking for a guy she finds attractive enough to take things further with. Do more reading. You've a long way to go and this situation with this girl is holding you back and going to bite you in the…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:23 PM
1

I've had 3 plates I can think of who's porn of choice apparently flips between as many dicks as possible to sensual, sometimes girl only. They were all submissive in bed with me. 2 of them were never able to explore that properly because other blokes didn't take the lead. The other was an alpha widow of a special forces bloke. None had ever experimented with multiple people in bed. 1 was open to the idea of another girl, but shut down the option of another guy immediately. She got flaky about th…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:19 AM
1

Ah, Roger. The overall point I was trying to make was that it's possible you were infected a long time ago. We were taught in school (many many moons ago) that herpes "usually" appears quickly, but it can also take years before your symptoms show. And as you know, condoms aren't a perfect defense. So don't rule out the possibility you caught it elsewhere.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:53 PM
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Has your plate been tested and come back positive? Symptoms don't necessarily show up straight away. You may have had the virus without symptoms for a long time and only now it appears. So it may have been a previous plate.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:46 AM
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Get more info. I believe there's a statistic that herpes is spread more by asymptomatic carriers than by people who know they have it and are on whatever regimen their doctor puts them on. Condoms DO lower the risk of spreading, by a significant enough margin that the EU advice mentions it multiple times. Treatment lowers the risk of spreading even further. Talk to a specialist about the actual risk of infecting a future partner while on meds and with a condom. My guess is they will tell you the…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:45 AM
6

Herpes is permanent.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:42 AM
4

Internet lawyer comes to extrapolate to infinity. Show a single case of someone being held legally responsible for violating human rights in the EU for unintentionally giving someone herpes through lack of disclosure. Or, fuck off with your imagined bullshit.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:41 AM
3

Sure mate. Someone gotta fuck the easy ones, I'll leave them to you.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:02 AM
0

Strewth, there's a lot of black a white assumptions being thrown around here lately. A) Charm is, by definition, charming. If a "beta nice guy" could pull it off, they would be more successful. They think they are being charming when they're usually just placating, negotiating, begging and all around not being charming B) I emphasised the feel part of that statement for a reason. When some super high value man spends 5 minutes talking about something inane like the fashion choices of a bartender…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:11 AM
8

It's a common misconception around here. The truth is, if Brad Pitt was to walk up to MOST women and say "wanna fuck?" then their ASD would kick in and they would refuse. If he spoke to them for 5 minutes about the bartenders choice in cuff links and then asked if they wanted to grab a drink at his place, they'd be down. Only very low quality women will give it up JUST because they guy is hot and offers. Others want to FEEL like the hot guy charmed the pants off them.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:57 AM
3

At some point you may want to consider if you want to fuck girls that only need to be asked "do you want to fuck" to give it up. Being direct is fine. Banging only the easiest sluts is the very definition of low value.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:24 AM
14

You can also get free food from a dumpster. I prefer to work and earn food that isn't in a dumpster.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:22 AM
9

It's as if a market in poverty is different to a market in excess. This is why "naturals" find some TRP concepts to be false, and holding too fast to concepts as one grows starts yielding negative results. Then again, TRP generally suggests that one takes these tools, apply them in real situations, look for results, then recalibrate. One should be using TRP as a learning skill set, rather than a defined set of actions. It's like lifting advice. There are a million cues to help guide your lifting…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 07:51 PM
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TL;DR married men are valuable because they need reliability. Prove that you are reliable This turned into a massive wall of text because I'm at a Cafe between flights and this is 100% my wheelhouse. There are a few people who you don't give vital roles in your organisation Newly wed women, nearly wed women, promiscuous women, gay men, openly promiscuous straight men. There are differing reasons why, by they all come down to risk and reliability. All of these people are at more risk of leaving d…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 02:18 AM
0

Op asked Does being fit attract more women. You're comparing Jonah hill and Channing Tatum. Unless you think Jonah Hill attracts as many women as Channing Tatum, you're making a pointless argument. Being attractive attracts more women. They should have a word for it... Hmmm attraction could work.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:32 AM
2

What makes you think men aren't slut shamed?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:57 AM
3

It's written all over the sidebar. And more importantly, it's free to find out. There is literally no downside to being fit. The only issue is you have to put in the effort. Stop asking other people for results and go find them yourself.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:55 AM
3

Do you think Jonah Hill gets laid anywhere near the same as someone like Channing Tatum?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:53 AM
2

4... No wait... 5?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:52 AM
30

You're not "full red pill" at all. You're doing a half-assed job and expecting results. You're skinny. Don't be. This is easily fixed and there are no excuses to be skinny. Girls are texting back less frequently. This means you are texting them conversationally. Don't be. This is your purple pill mindset that you need to "keep their attention" Girls are telling you something. Stop listening to them. You're trying to calibrate your behaviour based on text responses from sheilas to texts you're se…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:40 AM
1

"Careful, I dicken pox" The shit you blokes come up with under pressure is amazing. How did you jump straight to "I want a relationship"? Next time you see her in person, escalate like nothing ever happened. You have the new-found confidence of knowing that she wanted to throw herself on you to "just go with the flow". She might bring it up, but just brush it off like "pfft, no one should take advice from 5am Doge-Guru"
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:32 AM
3

How the fuck is this a question? If there is one place in the world where a single man should be fucking single, it's at a wedding. It's almost like you're afraid of accidentally getting laid.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:28 AM
8

Turing's Frequently Asked Questions: #7 Sheila does [thing], does that mean she's into me? Escalate, and find out.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:48 AM
10

Be fun, young girls just want to have fun and be around a fun guy. FTFY. Age doesn't matter here. Unless she's up against the wall and panicked to settle down before her time runs out, then she will always be drawn to someone who makes spending time with them fun.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:44 AM
66

So your LTR started treating you like a little bitch. You said it's unfair to treat you like a little bitch. She said "Are you going to do anything about it, you little bitch?" You said "No Ma'am" ​ Stop thinking "I wonder if she wants to break up? Is she cheating on me? Has she found someone else?" because they are all fucking irrelevant. What you should be asking is "Do I actually want to work harder to get to keep putting up with this bullshit?" Because that is the real scenario. You are goin…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:41 AM
1

There is a massive difference between cherry picked examples on a YouTube video of blokes getting sheilas to "open up" and successful sexual strategy. The emotional tampon routine may get you laid some of the time. But it will NOT get you crazy monkey sex from a plate that would do anything at the drop of a hat for a moment of your attention. To out this in perspective, you spend time with a drunk, horny, sexually open sheila and "it's pretty clear we're going to fuck"? She fucked someone that n…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:01 AM
8

Dude, Justin Bieber still looks 15. The issue isn't that you look too young it's that you act/feel too young.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:08 PM
1

So your theory is that if you are her gay best friend that she can talk to about her ex and her life drama, you are totally the alpha? Fuck me cobber, I hope you're at least getting some pity sex?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:06 PM
1

You don't ask without her having a bitch fit. You ask. If she has a bitch fit, you next her. Gotta be a pretty shitty sheila to not give a fuck about her health to the point that she has a tantrum when you bring it up. Hey, we've been at this for a bit. I've been tested recently, when was the last time you were? If more than 3 months, cool, please take the time to get tested again soon and let me know.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:01 PM
1

Hey, this bloke can loosely wear a magnum condom that clearly she had left over from her last plate. I think he knows what he's doing.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:56 PM
3

Escalate. That is all. Validation is when you try to convince her that your intent is valid and should be reciprocated. Needy is requiring someone else to want you back for it to be ok. Don't do those. If you want something, go for it. If it doesn't work, recalibrate and either try once more or move on. The moment you're more invested in the consequences than the action, you get stuck in your head and don't act.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:54 PM
2

First, you're in the wrong sub. RedPillWomen is for. The discussion of relationship strategy for the Red pulled woman. Nothing to do with the needs/wants/clarification of some confused man. Second, go to TheRedPill (it's quarantined, but you can still read it) and read the sidebar. Your question is answered there, as well as why asking women will never help you. Third, if you still have questions AFTER reading the sidebar, ask in asktrp. If you were to simply ask this question there you wouldn't…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/19 09:22 PM
11

decent girl, no signs of cheating Except for the obvious signs I'm about to list of her not being decent and her intent to cheat / branch swing.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 01:42 AM
5

There's a lot of boys spewing their interpretation of a brief red pill synopsis here. Try and identify the wheat from the chaff as best you can. As much as women are fickle, short-sighted and emotional, they are also attracted to ambition almost as much as success. In fact, the success itself in many cases is only an indicator of the ambition and drive. This is where men go wrong! They stop. Their ambition dries up because they have "achieved success". I work in a novel and intellectually curiou…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:12 PM
2

She was EITHER trying to gain an orbiter or trying to get you to reinitiate. If it was after being shut down, it seems more likely she was trying to get you to reinitiate. Your response shut both those options down. When someone asks you something they could google, they are either lazy, or want your attention. A way to move this forward without slipping into her frame would be to arrange a meet up. "My language classes are normally 100 a pop, but if you want some tutelage you can buy me a drink…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:37 AM
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Kidneys mostly. But a solid liver sells well.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:48 PM
10

Yrah. Let her spend all your money and THEN divorce you and take your house as well. Great plan.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 07:36 PM
1

It took you a matter of hours and a comment from some bloke on the internet to change your mind. On something that will be with you for life. Reconsider getting a tattoo until you're certain.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:33 AM
1

Your tattoo of your name (and whatever the tattooist thinks to add, yolo) will last much longer than any highschool status. After that, the combination of a forearm tattoo and your choice of tattoo just says that you have shitty forethought and the depth of a kids wading pool.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:54 AM
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The fact that you're asking this question already says two things. You're getting it for attention. You can't admit you're getting it for attention. Good luck.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:03 PM
1

Good. I'm sure your decision on what type of sheilas you're into as a teenager will never change.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:02 PM
1

As was already said, hard to say without more info. But if you come off as a slut, then some will use you for some guilt free fun while they find a provider or someone they see with more RMV. If you come off as too needy, pushy, controlling or clingy, then they might enjoy the sex but be wary of any level of commitment with you.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:49 AM
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Here's the run sheet for you Gf checked out of your relationship, and made sure you noticed. You started doing something about it. She called you on it You caved Obvious that you won't have the balls to end it, nor keep her in line, she makes it official. The good new is, you now have the red pill to start seeing where you can correct it for the next 100 girls. She was never yours. It was just your turn. Your turn is now over.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:27 AM
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People to always have on your side. The waitress, the nurse, the executive assistant, the receptionist, the front desk clerk, etc. If these people (mostly going to be women or gay blokes) like you, life becomes MUCH easier. When women at work (just like men at work) take a liking to you, nurture it. Be amicable, easy to get along with and don't ever make anything sexual. I work in a male dominated industry, but with a staff in the hundreds, our head office is pretty well populated with women. Ev…
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:58 PM
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You forgot the next post Dear AskTRP: "Update to my previous post: I safely put this kit stick of dynamite up my ass and now my ass is gone. How does TRP feel about ass implants?"
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:53 AM
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It's all good. Just point out to her that you had to ask random people on the internet for permission to continue acting a certain way and she'll understand that you aren't the boss of your life. You will then be able to fit the expectations of a group of women.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:21 AM
3

How much do bin bags cost? Washing powder? How much is your next car service and when is it due? What about home contents insurance? Until you've lived out of home, there are many many costs you've been shielded from that you will crop up. Just be prepared for them. It seems you're still stuck in the mindset of "why do stuff for myself when it's easier to stay with my parents. Except for pussy, I might grow up for pussy". If you don't get out from under their wing at 25 when will you?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:04 AM
6

Except what OP is doing is unlikely to actually achieve that.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:03 AM
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If you'reooking to move out on your own for the first time, understand that your $350 is probably way off. There are lots of ancillary costs that we forget to budget for that will eat into that shit regularly. If you're moving out for pussy, then you're an idiot. Worst case scenario can afford a noce hotel room once a fortnite and that will be cheaper than moving out. And banging in cars or at her place are always a sound option. Sounds like you're still under the care of your parents. And THAT …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:50 PM
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If you want empathy, go elsewhere. This is a place to discuss sexual (or relationship) strategy for men. And the only winning strategy when faced with a single mother of 12 is to stay the fuck away from her.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 12:58 AM
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Yeah, so don't fucking date the dead beat dad either. Both have made terrible choices and arent worth considering as a partner. It's not fucking rocket surgery.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 12:54 AM
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Yes mate, because she had 12 fucking kids. They weren't a surprise that she woke up to one morning. They weren't a blessing from God one weekend. It was a long string of dumb choices where she put her need to feel needed and significant above the actual needs of her family.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 11:56 PM
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Something that day turned her on. She wanted to make the most of that rare feeling.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:50 AM
1

This sounds similar to getting advice that you should only live off the interest earned on your investments. While having no actual investments or cash. Your TRP coach needs another job.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 10:57 PM
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This is co pletely normal. Doesn't make it "OK" and it's reasonable to keep this in mind when reconsidering what these "friendships" actually mean. But you're forgetting a VERY important part of all this. She is making sure you know about it. So what you see/hear is a) what she's telling you and b) what happens when you're around. She is 100% baiting these guys behind your back to piss you off. She's manipulating this situation to make you want her back and to defend her. Sure, they are thirsty …
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:12 PM
1

Heaven forbid someone uses grown up language and hurts someone's self esteem. Move on chief. If those comments upset you, you're in for a rough ride around here.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:06 PM
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Don't kusten to those phaggots. Now here's how you can get pictures of your nut in your bros mouth. Just go back to your gay erotica websites and leave the advice to the adults.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:03 PM
4

First, take the concept of alpha and shove it far into the back of your mind. Recruiters aren't interested in alphas. They want to hire someone to fill a role, not someone who will shake things up. No matter how much they say they want someone who shakes things up. Internal and external recruiters are opposing concepts. An internal recruiter wants someone who is the best fit FOR THAT ROLE. External recruiters want someone who will fit into ANY ROLE. Learn to identify the difference. Play your pa…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:49 PM
3

Your biggest weakness is you've never had an interview for a real job and so give stupid fucking advice.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:25 PM
1

"Everyone here is a beta, except for me!!!" - GLO 2019
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:13 AM
3

Life is certainly NOT better for 80% of women. They've been lied to like the rest of us. They are more likely to have a string of top 20% pump and dump them while they're in their prime and then settle for some provider when they're older. This scenario sounds great to a bottom 80% bloke or 20% female, because it's better than their options. But it is FAR from their strategic goal and doesn't serve them any better than being able to lock down a bloke of decent means and looks while they're young…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:31 PM
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Oh, you mean this post is exaclty as he fucking wrote it? What a breath of fresh air. Glad you finally came to the party. Good frame challenge, bit thick on assuming anyone not 100% down with your flavour-aid is a beta.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:23 PM
2

Spoken like a true wannabe thug. You've illustrated his point quite well.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:19 PM
2

You've made all of these assumptions "probably walking to her job", "probably living with her family". Stop thinking about her life outside of what you know. You're building.l a fantasy woman about someone to whom you've never spoken. Until she has proven otherwise, she is JUST a pretty girl.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:06 PM
2

That's exactly why he's referring to it as oneitis. Really, it would be more accurate to say you're putting her on a pedestal. You're making her seem more than she really is, because without ANY interaction with her, you've already built an image of this amazing girl who's so out of reach. The problem is, that you're spending all this energy trying to find the "right way" to go about this that you're making it harder to do anything about it. Perfection is the enemy of progress Stop fucking worry…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:03 PM
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Fuck me this comment thread is full of Blue Pill moral spouting, autists and zero fucking actionable advice. What is the goal here? Spending a little more effort you would have her replaced, so consider your question to be "why THIS girl instead of the next girl?" A) they are not dating. It's plausible he's her gay friend who's going places with her and she's using him to bait you. Otherwise, he's an orbiter that she's agreed to go to places with so she can use him to bait you. Either way, it's …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 09:18 PM
0

Take your blue pill advice elsewhere. It's a great moral stand you think op should take, and is exactly the example of "how to make a decision that only has downsides"
/r/askTRP06/04/19 09:06 PM
0

The same reason little, whiney bitches end everything with "lol". Because they don't have anything of value to say, so they just throw useless letters over the place.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:07 AM
6

Ask questions that delve deeper, and try and make them interesting. Her: I'm a nurse. You: oh, so you get paid to stab people? Her: yeah I suppose , that's part of it. You: ever completely messed it up and jabbed a bone or something? Her: some story about her/someone fucking up You: do you judge people you meet by how easy their veins are to find? Blah blah. She's getting to yammer on about herself, she will try to think of interesting stories based on where you lead her. You get to find out mor…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:33 AM
20

"I feel like I won't be able to get jot bitches" is the antithesis of abundance. You don't have an abundance mentality. You might have a few sheilas in the go, but you still have a scarcity mentality. Nip that shit in the bud. Bald guys do not have a harder time. Fat, loser bald guys do. Keep fit, keep your frame, nothing will change. Having hair won't help you if you are scared of losing on sheila.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 11:23 PM
8

From business? As in, she has something to do with your work? If so, don't shit where you eat. There's a billion women ijt there who aren't part of your workplace.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:09 AM
3

You need to learn that it is not your responsibility to look after random people. If you're ever asking if telling someone they're being cheated on is a good idea, the answer is no. It will always cause you drama. Always! So you only do this when you are willing to lose the friend and it's absolutely worth the drama.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:24 PM
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Understand this. If you tell a sheila to stay away from a beta orbiter, he's no longer a beta orbiter. He is now your competition. Sheilas are very solipsistic. They view the world in a way that suits their internal narrative. If she sees you as alpha, and you see him as competition, he must also be alpha. If you are concerned about her spending time with him, you think he's likely to win, therefore he's more alpha than you. She then only needs to warp her perspective to make that reality. "well…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:18 PM
6

Learn outcome independence. Here's how this conversation goes. "Either we're both exclusive or neither of us are". "That's fair." and silence. Some will never contact you again. But... Up to that point if you have held frame and showed your value, and she's seen it, she'll reach out in a few weeks to catch up. She will be MUCH more sexual because she's making a last ditch effort to get that sweet exclusivity. Sometimes it will be that meet up, sometimes the next, she will bring up the topic agai…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:11 PM
4

What you're looking for are field reports on the main sub. They are examples of people applying TRP in the wild. If you can read between the mastabatory and self congratulations you can find some good info in their sometimes.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:28 PM
2

Currently have one. Was a plate for about 6 months before that. She's been exclusive for about 4 months. I went exclusive (without telling her) to see how I liked it, it was good but not for me at the moment. Realised that I was simply better when playing the field. She mostly gets it, I know she wants me to change my mind at some point, part of me hopes I will at some stage. In the meantime, she's talking about picking up women together, well see if that eventuates (had many plates/gfs in the p…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:50 AM
82

Why are you looking to actively find shit that makes you angry at women? Why are you subjecting others to this rubbish. "feminists lecture men on" is your first hint to not give a fuck. This is people talking to get the applause and attention from man-haters and nothing else. "you go girl" Even most feminists don't give shit like this any real consideration, they toss them an obligatory "yeah, you tell em" but still want to get the attention of, and fucked by, the men they complain about. Stop l…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 03:06 AM
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This thought vomit is well written but fuck me if you couldn't have made the point in a couple of sentences. Some of us choose to give up short term gratification for longer, more sustainable results. You think that choosing short term gratification is OK because you're currently gratified. You do you. Good luck in the future.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 01:59 AM
3

I'm not having sex with others to hurt you, I'm having sex with others because I need it to keep this relationship working. If you want to have sex with others specifically to "show me how it feels", then I don't think we're compatible. If you just wanted to have sex with others and are trying to leverage my feelings for you to do so, then I don't think we're compatible. I'll let you make your choice.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:47 PM
1

Yes, which is completely separate from friends. sex ≠ friends Chocolate cream eggs ≠ breakfast.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:48 AM
5

You're STARTING to be honest with yourself. But you've still got to get to the reality. If you can't decide to be friends or fuck buddies with this girl, you are going to fuck this up. She is running the ship. She's deciding if you have access to sex or not. Maybe you do, maybe you don't, and you're waiting for her to give you an idea what you are expected to do. So you're going to play the "maybe I'm being flirty, maybe I'm beigg a friend" game. You're going to avoid trying to pick up other she…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:05 AM
1

Would you like consider a chocolate cream egg as a friend? Would you replace your morning bacon and eggs with chocolate cream eggs. Chocolate cream eggs are a treat, trying to pretend it is something else is going to end poorly.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:59 AM
25

This guy is full of shit. He's playing the part of internet bad ass and this advice is not realistic in any way.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:21 AM
1

Just be of that goes against RP. Being red pulled is to understand the realities of social interaction. We SHOULD all know why sheilas are a protected species in a nightclub. We SHOULD all know when behaving in a particular way is going to end our night. Red pull doesn't give a fuck if it's fair, or right, or just, only what is true. Practice holding frame is great, unless you can't deal with the consequences. Walking in front of a speeding car because you have right of way is going to get you j…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:22 AM
13

Your analogy misses an important point. Men's attraction is heavily tied to a preference of looks. Women do not (generally) pick a man based on his car, if she did she'd already have the right answer to this question. A better analogy would be asking a man what style of women's clothing he prefers.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 08:56 PM
5

Lifting improves the look of your face as welll.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:50 PM
8

Any Great physique is better than an average physique. Ripped/shredded/jacked/juiced/whatever-the-fuck-you-want-to-call-it. As long as you look like you were born from the wet dream of a Greek goddess and can effortlessly throw a woman around, there will be sheilas into you. Some prefer powerlifters. big, jacked up, roided, tattooed bald fucks who look like they'd punch a hole in the wall if a fly was annoying them. Some prefer tall, bronze, bodybuilders who look like they stepped off the set of…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:28 PM
5

Just remember. She can love you like a child, or want you to fuck her like a man. Not both.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:08 PM
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Men love women. Women love children. Children love dogs. This sheila has found a man that she can take care of like a child. Everyone treats her like she's a Saint, she gets to publicly be Mother Teresa and privately be... Well, Mother Teresa. Some sheilas will get their attention from flirting with guys at the bar, some from posting pictures on instagram, some from cutting their hair to look like Lloyd from dumb and dumber and sticking it to the patriarchy! Either way, it's all for that sweet, …
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:45 AM
10

Because they want to get fucked by a big sweaty tower of muscle, and licked by a tender, caring, compassionate pretty boy. You are now the one they want to get fucked by. They might want the pleasure of you going down on them, but not as much as they want you to rail them into oblivion. In the past, they either assumed or knew you weren't going to fuck them we enough so wanted to at least get some head out of the deal.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:58 AM
8

You had a boring date. Now you want advice to be able to get a second boring date? How long is the hike to find women in your area?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:54 AM
1

You can't bulk and cut on daily cycles. That's not how it works. Your caloric intake doesn't reset at Midnight. "oh look, it's nearly 1am. Look how all these excess calories have just floated out of my sleeping body into the night sky!"
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:52 AM
1

Glad you've figured out all your excuses. If sheilas live one thing more than manly men, it's men with a long list of reasons not to be manly.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:50 AM
4

Masturbatory
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:37 AM
0

Because he's either in full denial won't accept anything that doesn't fit his goal of convincing this one girl who doesn't want to fuck him, to finally fuck him. Or he's a troll.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:12 PM
91

You can either be 36 wishing that you didn't waste the last 10 years of your life thinking about what you already missed and ut on. Or you can be 36 thinking how much greater life has been since you stopped being a bitch.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:05 PM
5

You have two types of answers in this thread. And they boil down to How to keep getting sex from a dramatic sheila. Get rid of the dramatic sheila. Choice is yours, but note that either way she is going to be dramatic. My adive is that it's not your job to manage her dramas. Have abundance and next. Find sheilas that aren't drama after 2 roots!
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:02 AM
7

Also known as the "I'm going to cheat on you and here's why you should be accepting when it happens" speach.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 07:59 PM
17

People with shitty behaviours will always try and rationalise it to themselves to be not their fault. Rather than accept that he's an arse for cheating, he'd prefer to believe that all men cheat. Then he follow right back up with "oh, but I'll be different for YOU". Forget about him. Lucky you learned the lesson this way.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 07:56 PM
14

I saw those as well. Honestly I think there was other shit and that was the final straw. I've had a pretty rough run of death by cancer in the family, even had one of them deliver their final message for their wife to me before staring at me and taking their last breaths. I've certainly been comfortable sharing a few moments of weakness with a couple of women and never felt for second that they were less attracted or anything but supportive. Just don't be a pitiful, slobbery, "no one understands…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:14 PM
3

Watch a lot of YouTube videos on form of the lifts you intend to perform. Athlean x. Alan thrall. Fitness iq (might just be insta gram, but he does good form diagrams) If you find a good gym, just ask how much to have a personal trainer give you a form check on your main lifts. None of the PTs at my gym care about helping check my form. I ask someone to have a look every couple of months.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:05 PM
2

Don't wait to lose weight. Squats will help you lose weight not hinder it!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:03 PM
30

You are already winning. Because you are looking at what YOU can do NOW to set up the rest of your life how you want it to be. Focus on exactly that. Things you can do to set you up for later. Health. Every aspect. Sleep well. Drink heaps of water. Develop an active lifestyle doing things you enjoy. Sport, exercise, dancing, lifting. Eat right! School. Get it done! You have a massive advantage that you can learn without the dramatic distractions that high school entails. Socialise. Do the things…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 09:39 AM
3

Problems don't follow people. People create problems.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:52 AM
43

Yeah, but you asked for advice and then ignored the fucking advice.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:49 AM
1

I have a car. I do not use it to date. ALWAYS meet them at the location.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:03 AM
45

Good that you're thinking about this soundly. You're right, don't ever say another word to Bob. The person that speaks to Bob from now on is your lawyer. This is not a social thing, an AMOG thing, a chance to prove anything. This is now your professional future. If you don't already know the 48 laws of power backwards, learn them. This is now the key to your survival. Appear beaten. Let him think he's winning. Do not look smug, or like you have a plan or recourse. The only moment ANYONE in your …
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:57 AM
15

Also be very prepared for the universities code of conduct to specifically make this harder for you. They aren't designed to protect students from slander. They're designed to protect the university from being liable.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:01 PM
76

"ruin you socially" is like saying that someone stabbing you has damaged your shirt. This is organised, targeted slander. This person has enlisted their organisation to defame OP, not socially, but professionally.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:59 PM
2

This is a string of disjointed thoughts. It's a shit analogy and has not I g to do with putting someone on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:53 PM
4

Gday think he understood your description just fine. His point is, taking a class in sitting around discussing opinions with college chicks is taking a gossip class. Your choice in class is one thing. Your thread shows you haven't really learned much from the red pill. Your comments show that you aren't willing to listen to people who disagree with your opinion. So you're in the right class. You'll be able to talk all day about your opiniins like they matter with people who either agree or won't…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:03 PM
4

Do you want the number or not? You've found a good way to negotiate yourself out of the sale. Next thing you be able to explain why you hate girls who are willing have sex in the first date, and think any self respecting woman wouldn't even CONSIDER sharing a man! You go sister!
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:50 AM
0

What gay dudea do you normally come across?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:39 AM
9

That's just a phrase, so that alone isn't the issue. What IS an issue is 3 dates without escalation. You have to stop being so hesitant and waiting for the "right moment". She's not going to stand there, lick her lips, close her eyes and wait for you. Just fucking make a move. "pretty sure she's a virgin" is irrelevant. If she's never had a bloke escalate it gives you a little bit more headroom to get away with not handling your shit. But in the end, she's going to react to tingles. Get her nerv…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:25 PM
10

You sound like a pisces.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:08 AM
1

There are a couple of things that stand out in your post and comments. You said you have the same body hut with better composition, then seemingly contradict that by saying to have bad stretch marks and your "boobs suck". Are you being honest with yourself about your body? Did you always initiate before the baby, or did he initiate as well? Are finances now a problem? You mention that you earn more than him, that he is struggling with work. Stress kills sex drive. For some more than others. Not …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 08:35 PM
1

Life doesn't get easier. You just get better at it. Work hard now so you're ahead of the game.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:21 PM
11

This is your hamster spinning. You're rationalising WHY it's still OK to be chasing her. You're still trying to figure out how to fuck her. Move the fuck on. She's fishing for attention. That's all. She's not interested in fucking you.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:48 AM
8

This is why men lead, and women follow. Go to married RedPill for advice on how to keep an LTR while being a masculine man. Your 20 something LTR says that she doesn't like you being too angry or intense, but that's because she thinks she doesn't like that. When in reality, she'd resent you if you weren't that. She just doesn't understand her feelings. That being said, angry isn't "masculine", so if there's any reality to that particular claim you need to address that as well. There's plenty of …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 05:43 AM
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What you're describing is more that they want a man that is masculine AND does the feminine 'work' as well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:21 PM
17

It's why programs like PPL are so popular. You still get 2 days rest between hitting the same group hard. As long as you get good sleep, eat well and stay hydrated, it works.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:27 PM
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What is your goal? Confronting him to achieve what, exactly? There is no upside to this. The dude was fucking your fiance or at the very least trying to. Do your own research into your health insurance, if you've got a good deal then stick with it. If not, fuck it off. In short, don't make emotional decisions. That's a woman's game. Doing something to get back at him, confronting him, telling his boss, etc. Are all things that could backfire and even if it all goes perfectly, you get nothing fro…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:00 AM
2

Or she wanted breakfast and you weren't available when she wanted it.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:07 PM
2

Like lots of advise, it's best to follow it until you know when to ignore it. And everything in TRP has "too much" focus on it. Some think lifting is king, others think game is king, some think status is all that matters. The repository of information here means I can improve any of those areas of my life. And all of them will help move me forward to my goals. Those who DON'T have a passive income that allows them to do things they want in life without worrying about paying their rent this month…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:18 PM
2

TRP is about sexual strategy that works. We push lifting because the physique that is the most successful requires it. If you want to give yourself the most attractive body, lift. If you are happy being lean, healthy and fit (but accept that you will not appear as broadly fit) then you can drop lifting from your schedule. You are right that being confident, fit, lean and happy will put you in the top 20% comfortably. You won't be unable to get women's affection. It'll just be easier for the blok…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:14 AM
1

That's an old glossary btw. It's more commonly referred to as an OLTR now, open LTR.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 07:48 PM
4

Having other options doesn't need to mean texting and snapping those options. The way I have maintained options when I was monogamous for years was simply through social interactions. Still going out, still being flirty in person, still being the life of the party. When I became single those options presented themselves loud and clear, and more came out of the woodwork. Why? Because I didn't give them extra time and attention. I looked like a man that easily got the attention of women, they want…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:05 AM
4

Either way, you don't know till you try. At my age (30s), I assume anyone I date has their own place. Still, some of the younger ones (early 20s) don't. So I just find out in conversation, there's a few good bars around here... you nearby... what's your place like? They'll blurt out if they have a roommate or live with parents or something. My plans usually involve getting back to my place, but when the opportunity arises (they mention something about their place that's easy to build on, like a …
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:03 AM
3

Yes. I alone am the reason for rule zero in a RedPill subs.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:57 PM
2

If you worry now, or don't worry now, will not change the outcome. Just pay attention to what's happening. You've already picked up on some important clues. She kept something from you for fear of making trouble for herself, until she felt she either couldn't reasonably keep it a secret (you were going to find out anyway) or until she felt safe to come clean (well it's too late to change plans now). The extra information (admitting they are alone for some days) can just as easily be plausible de…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:56 PM
1

That is your hamster speaking. She seems like she's trying to do the right things, but she still feels like she's doing something wrong. That's why she's walking on eggshells. But this comment is you looking for reasons to prove her innocence without anything to go from.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:49 PM
2

Yep. But learn from it. As I said earlier, it's an opportunity to place it in your frame. If her friends are hot, own it. Don't have to intentionally be a dick and rub it in her face, but you don't need to back down from it either. And as for mediocre pussy, you can tell her she's improving. Let HER deal with her emotions and try to improve herself for you. Since you've already apologised, you shouldn't try to backtrack and do the above. but don't try and placate her anymore either. Just hit on …
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:44 PM
1

Which is why you didn't send them to her, but to your friend. I think it would be unpleasant for people to look at my shit, so I don't make them look at my shit. I'm not responsible if someone else forces them to look at my shit. You aren't responsible for other people's actions or other people feelings.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:35 PM
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Getting a sheila (side chick or not) to drive 40 minutes for a first meet is a big task. If she's considering just a good lay, she'd likely find a closer one. It's worth a shot I'd say you're at greater risk of logistics causing issues in future. Her wanting to stay the night, her thinking that it's more than just sex, etc. Hard to tell from this info, but be wary of drama in sidechicks.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:28 PM
3

Fuck off with your moral policing. It doesn't belong here.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:23 PM
5

First, you shouldn't have apologised. You did nothing wrong, you talked shit with your friend. This is where all the sidebar content of "holding frame" is key. By showing that you own what you say, her friends ARE hot and she IS mediocre pussy, she needs to step I'll her game to keep you interested. Instead, you broke and entered her frame where you need to apologise for her friend's being attractive and her not being that great. Now she owns you and you're trying to make up for her lacking.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:21 PM
15

That's all well and good, but OP didn't even escalate, you have no idea if she fucks on first dates or not.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 08:23 PM
3

You're hamstering. Every word you sent her in a text message serves only to get your feelings out, and possibly to get an emotional response. Removing attention isn't a story you tell her about, it's something you do. You either have a boundary that she crossed and you walk away, or you have a request that you hope she'll comply with and you negotiate and think "maybe she won't do it again".
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:13 PM
3

"don't give me the obvious advice, my situation is different" says every kissless virgin on asktrp. Read the sidebar and start actually applying it.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:04 PM
16

Lucky you get to be the one to finally land this diamond in the rough after she was pumped and dumped by your two mates. You've done a great job locking down this wonderful catch mate. Wish you all the best.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:24 PM
1

Because it's the equivalent of "I'm not racist but..." OP says "I don't have oneitis" and then describes clear case of oneitis
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:23 PM
3

Identify the issue here. You need her to make the moves for you. You need her to make it ok. Stop that behaviour, it's holding you back. You don't need her permission to make a move. A straight forward "let's grab a drink" is all that is needed and she can say yes or no. In this case she has made it clear enough by following up straight away she's into you u and you're still scared. She's lost interest because you're too busy messaging and flirting to actually make a move. Stop waiting for all t…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:53 PM
2

I didn't realise we had places that you weren't allowed to go in a relationship. The only thing stopping you is your need to comply. Want to go to a bar, you know where the door is. Have a chat with sheilas at the gym. Talk to the chick next to you at the grocery store. There isn't a "place" to meet new women. They've been going to the same places as men for a few decades now. You just need to get out of the head space that you need to be in a particular place (eg. nightclub) to approach attract…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:39 PM
1

Never fucking ask! Always fucking escalate!
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:13 AM
8

You think Brad Pitt has time to be checking her fucking snapchat? This is where the Brad Pitt test gets taken too far. If Brad Pitt rolled up to her doorstep with a mictape of her favourite songs, and flowers, in the rain and begged her to love him. She'd be all over it. But Brad Pitt wouldn't do that. Because he's Brad Pitt. He doesn't need to do that. And he's Brad Pitt because he doesn't do that. He would quickly stop being wanted if this was what he's about. So stop putting Brad Pitt in a va…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:35 AM
4

You're taking the easy road and expecting the same results. Approaching in real life has higher risk of facing rejection, tinder has higher risk of flakiness.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:56 PM
3

You're blaming someone else for your behaviour. There's your place to begin. Everything you are is up to you. Want to be "manlier"? There's no secret sauce of having a father (who could be just as weak minded as you), you just fucking work hard and make it happen. Stop "pondering" how manly you could be if only things were different. Make things different.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:16 PM
17

A) I want to quit drinking B) I go out getting shit faced every Friday night Pixk one. Sounds like you have a problem commiting to your decisions.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:12 PM
6

She rescheduled on you. This is better than you can expect from most sheilas. Stop trying to play the "I'm the alpha and no one else has commitments but me" game. It's a losing game. Just organise a time when she's not already looking after kids and stop being spastic.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:09 PM
10

That's why you have a conversation with him. If he's a friend's, he needs to understand the situation. Moving out will keep him a friend, staying will make you dislike each other.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 06:24 PM
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You asked for external opinions to validate your feelings. You got opinions that don't match what you wanted to hear. Now you've gone from asking for advice to justifying your feelings. Yes. 3 nights is pretty common. It's dumb, but true. You need to have a conversation with your room mate about the situation. Because clearly what is normal or acceptable to others is not what you agreed to. I also wouldn't allow this to happen, no matter how normal it is to others.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 06:23 PM
2

Sounds like you've been apologising for her feelings after the fact? If so, Don't do that! Since it sounds like you would have preferred to spend it with her, you can accept this as a mistake. Something YOU can learn from. But you shouldn't be discussing it with her or feeling bad about it. You don't owe her and you aren't responsible for her feelings. You'll notice whenever you start discussing something like this with a sheila, the moment you "validate her feelings" (as women and BP will sugge…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:27 PM
6

Here's the crux of your issue. ONS are easy. And you are bored with easy. So stop taking the fucking easy road! Plates are great because they aren't ONS. There's a little more complexity to it, there's a greater challenge, they work harder for your attention but you have to be more on your game. And you still get to fuck hot women.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:13 PM
1

You have a lot of starting to do. Fuck that program. It's arse. Get to r fitness and look at the beginner programs there. You will achieve the best results by focusing on a starter barbell program for a few months to build strength. You must be pressing, squatting and deadlifting or you are selling yourself short. You're "boxing for fitness" and are 28% body fat, so either your diet is garbage or your "boxing fitness" is like half an hour twice a week. If you want to change, make a real commitme…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:10 PM
1

What are your goals? Where are you starting from? No point trying to figure out the best route when you don't know where you are or where you're going.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:14 PM
1

Look in the mirror. Look at who she is giving shit to. Does he look like a guy that accepts it. What are you lifts? What hobbies/passions do you have that are away from her and the house? She's feeling secure in her LTR, she knows you won't do anything to fuck it up. So now she can tell you what to do and you have to because not doing it means you'll be without her. Be the man that she fears losing. Time to look up the 12 levels of dread. Start putting more effort into YOU. Become the guy that w…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:23 AM
1

Considering the glaring lack of information here, there's fuck all we can help with. Does not giving a fuck help? Yep. Except for the times when it's the wrong thing to do, then it is a terrible idea. I'm sure that clears it up for you.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:16 AM
3

we resolved it No, you didn't. Here's where you fucked up. You discussed it, let her inject her feelings into how you will and won't behave. She later leveraged that. You decide on your behaviour. She decides how she will respond to that. If she wants to get pissy, the good news is there's a 10 not far away that might be less pissy. Go find out.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:09 AM
3

Introducing your friends to her is no longer a plate. Don't put so much pressure on yourself for each thing to go right (eg. Giving her orgasms, her finishing you off with head) . Expect to get things wrong. Realise it's not that important. Fuck up, roll with it and enjoy it. You're getting oneitis. Keep that in mind. You need to be approaching more women. The reason that spinning plates is a successful strategy is because it makes it easier to understand that you don't have to get it right ever…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 08:47 AM
6

So what you MEANT to say is that you've been conditioned to make excuses for your wife putting on weight, and say that you love her anyway. Because it's ok, she'll lose the weight when it's for something that matters to her (wedding photos) and your desires don't count. Stop giving advice here, you should be focusing on your household.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:26 AM
2

Don't listen to the kids role-playing men. If she has self corrected her behaviour, you nailed it.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:00 PM
1

Righto Captain Autism. "consequences equal to the infraction". You kids out here role-playing men should stop giving advice. It was a tantrum. A brief spout of poor behaviour. She is self correcting that thanks to his actions (not his demands, ultimatums or attempts at punishment). That is how it is maintainable. Spank he ass and fuck her good. You mean, reward her for poor behaviour? No woman in the history of mankind has fel "punished" by a good fucking. Now she's learned to play up her emotio…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:59 PM
5

Accepting an apology is not a sign of weakness in any way. As long as her poor behaviour stopped.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:28 PM
4

And it doesn't matter what she tells him. Because you move on with your life. You have removed the drama.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 10:42 PM
2

That's not unusual. It's hard to maintain and it's great for abundance to keep practicing. I've started to get to the stage where I know I can get their number, but don't bother asking because I'm not going to use it. They sometimes give some weird looks at that stage, but I'm sure most just chalk me up as another bloke who can't close. I enjoy flirting with women, so it's not a chore for me to approach and game someone I'm attracted to. Friends still find it weird that I could clearly get a num…
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:19 AM
16

Get out of your head, because you're overthinking things. A) If she has your dick in her mouth, you shouldn't be confused if she's into you. B) stop waiting for "signals" to escalate. You escalate. That is your job. C) don't talk about it! Don't ever negotiate. If you escalate and she doesn't want sex, that's fine. Sure, try to give her tingles to make her want sex, but don't discuss it. Desire isn't logical, can't be negotiated, and any attempt to do so just kills any tingles she might have for…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:22 AM
2

Doing a movies and mall tinder date is more "bf signal" than holding hands.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:43 AM
2

Don't see any "real men" lining up to help you out here, sweetheart.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:27 AM
3

I think "maybe" and "persue" mean different things. A maybe I would give up on is someone who I've escalated with twice, recieved some level of bullshit in return, and doesn't show any other value or interest aside from wanting attention. A maybe I would work on is one who on first escalation is hesitant, or on first approach is a bit shut off and not "hell yeah". If I'm going to "persue", I'm giving them a second chance. I am going to re escalate once more, or keep the tension up if it's an ini…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:12 PM
2

Why choose a woman who has the added risk of possibly fucking up your career if it goes south, even if the risk is tiny. Make sure you have plenty of options, and then you won't feel like taking the risk for the one or two that are decent looking. I smoked for 10 years and didn't get cancer. Honestly, why the fuck would anyone be dumb enough to smoke? It's such a dumb risk to add to your life. Same goes for. Fucking coworkers, plenty of stories where it didn't go wrong. But why take that risk?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:30 PM
1

I am using "boyfriend" to describe things that she perceives as commitment from you. If you take her skiing, your intention is irrelevant, you are now the guy who takes her skiing. And to many girls, that is pretty fucking close to boyfriend. The reason I am making a big deal out of committing too early, is because you're already talking about it too early, while doing things that seem like commitment. Your entire post reeks of wanting to find someone worth committing to. You know, like picking …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:31 AM
1

The reason to limit doing "boyfriend" activities with plates is not because all plates should be boring, but because it starts making them want MORE boyfriend out of you. It brings on "the talk" sooner, makes them expect you to want to not be doing those things with others. This leads to either you doing something dumb like committing to exclusivity early, or the plate breaks. Going skiing would be far too "boyfriend" material in my book. I do go out for dinner, or for cocktails, or just down th…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:08 AM
1

Because of your first point. You find them boring. Step one, don't plate girls you find boring. Get rid of them and find plates that aren't boring. At no point did I say keep sleeping with sheilas who bore you. All of my plates are people I enjoy the company of, and who I also am attracted to, and who are attracted to me. That's the bare fucking minimum.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:53 AM
5

In the same way that every tree is potentially your casket. There are a few steps in between. Just plate for a while. Don't pry into her past, her privacy, her goals, etc. Just let them come out over time. If you still have interest in her after a few months of sex and you have other plates, it means she's tolerable. Then you can start considering if there's more to her than sex. You start noticing how she behaves when things don't go her way, how she responds to direction, how she faces challen…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:58 AM
6

You talk enough for both of you. She's just sick of your shit.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:51 AM
11

Mate, you're working your arse off to build a future and you're worried what some sheila is going to think about it? Your job is not important. Too many blokes think that telling some sheila he's a lawyer or that he earns 150k a year is going to make panties reliably drop. All you need to rember is that you're working harder than 90% of your competition and 95% of the women you're talking to. There are women it will turn off. Ones that want a beta provider who also gives them status points with …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:49 AM
2

Making your position clear will answer the label question. She's asking "can I call you a label that implies exclusivity yet?" By making it clear you aren't exclusive, she knows the answer to that question is no. So you don't need to directly answer the question. I don't like labels. You may call me whatever makes sense to you and your parents. I'll continue to call you (whatever her name or your nickname for her is).
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:54 AM
8

Or he would have ended the night with the exact same result, and just moved on not stressing about one night.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:34 AM
2

Tips for cleansing my "oneitis" ? Go Fuck Ten Other Women. Problem solved
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:52 AM
2

What's the goal? Sounds like the goal is build her comfort a little and reward her for being the best plate so far, but no exclusivity. So make that happen. Don't negotiate. You won't win. If you don't want exclusivity, don't bargain that away for threesomes (you won't get them). You start bargaining and she knows you're willing to give things up to keep her around.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:51 AM
1

Play retard games, win retard prizes. Why are you getting into the "who can be a more childish, vindictive bitch" game with this sheila? Next her and focus your attention on others who aren't this much drama.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:44 AM
2

I spend so much quality time That's your answer. Why would she give you sex (her currency) when you already give her attention (your currency).
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:42 AM
10

Read the sidebar. Last Minute Resistance is a thing for a reason. She had defenses up, wasn't ready, she just didn't have enough tingles to beat through her own emotional baggage at the time. Women are fickle, get used to it. Don't get hung up on one sheila who had a moment of "OMG what am I doing?"
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:41 AM
2

"you realise this is a contract" "sick of these armchair lawyers" Since you're clearly a big time lawyer, where the fuck did you go to law school that they didn't tell you not to loan some slut $20k in multiple loans without contracts and evidence of the ability to pay it back. Your email "contract" will be completely unenforceable.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:32 AM
1

Yet, if you loaned money after they still hadn't made any payments, you're now without a leg to stand on. Because you know they cannot pay back what they already owe.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:28 AM
1

You realise they're the only ones that have physical evidence, right? That's why people who aren't stupid use them. "We both agreed to these set out terms." They're immutable, unlike memory. You now have a fun game of convincing anyone that she not only intended to pay you back, but that at no point did you say "don't worry about it".
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:27 AM
1

The conclusion (show what you have to offer) is not based on the experiment. Because your experiment had no measure. How do you define what was a successful or unsuccessful profile in your "view the competition"? There's nothing in viewing the competition that shows their success or failure in attracting the type of man you want to attract. Or attracting men at all. It's 100% speculative based on what you think of their profile. Now actual success from what you've experienced with your profile, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 12:24 AM
1

I think your advice here is more important than your original comment, and I'm not sure it requires checking out the competition. As with most things, show what you bring to the table (and be honest about it), and expect the same effort in return.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/18 08:45 PM
1

R / MealPrepSunday usually has some rippers.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/18 08:31 PM
1

One never loans money to friends, family or acquaintances. They gift it. It is extremely difficult in many cases to prove that there was an agreement to return any money. Even more so when there are repeated loans. There are reasons why banks and other financial institutions have to check what you currently owe and if you've got a history of paying it back. Because if they know you can't afford to pay the money back and loan it to you anyway, they're fucked. You were very stupid. Talk to a lawye…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:07 PM
1

No, it stopped being your 20k when you handed it to a personal acquaintance without a contract.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:02 PM
8

The bottom 20% eventually get depressed and end up with guys who overthink statistics in asktrp.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:55 AM
7

Oh, in THAT particular case... "I don't kiss and tell. Besides, jealousy isn't a good look on you."
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:53 AM
2

And in 1970 23% of men over 45 didn't have children and today it's 22%. In 1970 16% of women over 45 didn't have children and today it's 14%. In short. This means nothing. It's always been more likely for men to father children with more than one woman. A higher percentage of men don't want kids or don't have them as a goal in life. So women who do want kids find the ones that will knock them up. You guys really like to find reasons to get angry at "society" for life just being the way that it i…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:13 AM
1

Why do you want to LTR a boring sheila?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:59 AM
2

The response is too much work. Next week? My whole week? Do I give him a play by play? Do I look like a loser with nothing to do, or waffle on about all the little things I'm doing. God, this is so much work. I'll try again tomorrow... maybe... Why couldn't he just pick a day to ask me out!?! Until they have become more invested, you need to make it less work. "Let's grab that drink Saturday. There's a bar I want to try called X. Meet up at 8." Then she can either accept, reschedule, or ignore/r…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:57 AM
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Abso-Fucking-Lutely! Even flirt with other sheilas in front of women you want to fuck. There is nothing sexier to a woman than a bloke that other sheilas want to fuck. The key thing here is that you look like someone who sees options around him, and is comfortable with that. Don't stare, that makes you a creep. Don't shy away from them, that means there's no competition.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:49 AM
3

In a nutshell, not much more. Calories. If you eat enough calories (at a surplus), including enough protein. You drink enough water. Get enough rest. And put your body through the stress of a solid lifting routine. Then you will put on mass, and the lifting/protein/rest will ensure that a lot of that mass is muscle. Fat helps balance out hormones. That is why minimum of about 50g a day is important. Carbs give you access to energy. That is why getting some carbs is great, it helps you perform. I…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:47 AM
3

She fits into the good girl category, very petite, shy, gentle, feminine, close with her family, submissive as far as I can tell, non smoker/drinker does not curse. So far she seems like LTR material. That's the pedestal. You're trying to find only good things about her. To the point where even if you don't know, you are assuming good things because she seems cute.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:05 AM
2

You are really good at coming up with excuses. Try converting some of that energy into coming up with results. Your appetite is too low > because depression > because you don't sleep enough > because you drink sugary drinks and caffeine > because anxiety > because you're underweight > because appetite > because whatever. You have a simple list of issues with a clear, actionable path forward. Eat right. Drink more water (Drink ONLY water). Sleep right. Get to the gym You can either do those thing…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:57 AM
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And she's just a plate, so she didn't do anything wrong by fucking someone else, though if she's having unprotected sex elsewhere, you might question whether she's a safety risk. Also note, your mindset needs to be that she IS having unprotected sex elsewhere. Maybe not regularly, maybe not a lot. But it happens. This isn't because she has an STI. She could still get that with protected sex. But ALWAYS assume your plates have unprotected sex, because the next time you think "maybe I'll chance it…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:50 AM
2

The issue may be the *way* you are responding. Because you're thinking it's an issue, that is causing you to react like it's an issue. If a girl asks "What's your insta" and in your head you think "Fuck, well this was going well. But now sh'es going to ghost because I don't have an instagram account" you respond like not having social media is a bad thing, Instead, think of the girl asking who your favourite backstreet boy is. "I never really got into that." It doesn't matter anymore. You don't …
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:46 AM
3

Best "bang for your buck", go elsewhere. Gentleman clubs are an expensive night out. If you treat it as 0ure entertainment and an expensive night out, that's fine. If you're going to get the attention of a sheila working there, you're paying a premium price for a sub-standard service. Examples Part of a night out with friends where you all have an overpriced drink, a laugh, and you flirt with the women (working and not working). Then you go elsewhere. Expensive part of a night out, but the price…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:39 AM
1

This is discussed in great detail on the Maintaining Plates post on the main sub. There was a solid framework and great discussion.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:09 AM
3

OMG, IT'S WORKING. WHAT DO I DO NOW?! You shut up and keep texting to a minimum.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:06 AM
1

sure
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:04 AM
1

Be more attractive next time.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:03 AM
1

Did you speak? That might be where you fucked up.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:00 AM
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Ah, seems like you've got it all figured out. Don't change a thing, you're only getting ghosted because of the #metoo movement or something.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:54 AM
1

Are you saying that she's more accessible? Seems like you put yourself out here regularly, yet still haven't given me her phone number. Or is the issue that she's LESS accessible, and that's why she's prettier than you?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:49 AM
4

And 1 in 4 men here on asktrp have 8 inch cocks and bench 300lbs. I'm not a big believer in self reported statistics.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:46 AM
2

Aww she's back. We missed you! How's your white, brunette friend doing by the way? She was cute. For the spectators here, she is a regular asktrp troll who returns time and time again seeking either validation or to start a race issue. Stop engaging her. Edit: unless she introduces us to her cute friend. Then she's cool
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:39 AM
2

Dial back the edge a little! Pagans didn't have consumerism, so it's one or the other. Saturday is a Jewish day of rest and Sunday is a Christian day of rest. Do you moan about weekends as well?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:35 AM
6

Lift, join a sports club, run for school president.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:28 AM
1

It's NOT going to work in your favour. You're mate-guarding and showing sever insecurity about this bloke. You might as well have said "stop talking about him. He makes me feel like a bitch"
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:23 AM
1

It's a combination of having too much faith and reliance on those you trust, and also having anxiety that you "hold in" when not around them. You deal with your anxiety on your own because you have to. You know instinctively that you can't trust anyone to do it for you. But when you get around these people that you trust, you can let yourself become vulnerable. You can let all your anxieties bubble to the surface because they will protect you and keep you safe. The solution is two fold. When not…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:18 AM
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Going to need more context. Unrealistic expectations of post quality? Expectations of how much pink to expect on a website? Unrealistic expectations of what women should look for in a captain? Unrealistic expectations of what a bloke should look for in a woman?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:10 AM
6

You my be autistic. You had a goal. That was for her to come over. Your action made her fall into your frame and come over. You're now trying to figure out how to be "clever" next time instead of achieving the goal.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:00 PM
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This is looking for her to make it easy for you. Your "technique" finds the sheila that was already prepared to go home with whoever was talking to her. That is, you found a loose woman and managed to not fuck it up. Don't wait for her to make it "easy" or give you "the signal" or give you "permission" to ask her home. Instead, just take action. So many first night lays come from "we're definitely NOT having sex tonight" or "I never go home with a guy before the third date".
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:57 PM
3

You are behaving blue pilled. You know it. You're asking for us to tell you it'll be all OK, or maybe you just want peipl to deride you so you can get those sweet sweet feelings of self hatred. We're not about quick fixes and feelings around her. So go somewhere else for that shit. Man up. Read the sidebar. Take action. Forget her, if you can't make yourself your priority, we can never help you.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:52 PM
1

Very VERY few people around here say "use powertalk". Of those that do, most of them don't actually understand the concept. There are a few very well written and explained pieces on the main sub that cover it in much greater details. Honestly, some people won't get it. It's not vital to success. It's another helpful tool if you get it. Like dark triad traits. Few people have them, and if they do they should be utilised. Yet people around here sometimes think you should try and fake them and beco…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:45 PM
2

Yes. Keep lifting, read the sidebar. This shit takes time. You'll get there. The best approach is to walk up and say "hi". That's it, no tricks. The best way to find out if a girl likes you is to escalate. That's it, no tricks.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:40 PM
1

No. Powertalk is not equivalent to any non direct communication. And it is not a direct answer to a question. It is 2 way and requires both parties to "just know". The words you speak do not contain the message in powertalk. In your example, your words were your message. The words shared when two people are talking make perfect sense, and it will seem to the unknowing observer like a normal conversation. But the message is not in those words. That is why it's hard to give "examples", because the…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:37 AM
2

Fix that
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:42 AM
2

Based on the agenda text, wait. Hitting her up when you're with your buddy screams "I can't stop thinking of you, even when I'm meant to be having fun with others". Next message should be an arrangement of something less commitment that dinner, she lost that commitment when she refused with no reschedule. But it should not be when you should be too busy thinking of her.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:28 AM
2

If you're willing to ditch the 9 to 5, then consider turning the 9 to 5 into a part time gig. That step might bridge the gap. It is hard to get in, once in, attitude (personality, work ethics, commitment and ability to learn) will decide where you end up. My experience is from Manchester in the UK. Was a big cocktail scene, quite competitive. Hiring was VERY incestuous (good bartenders would be poached or jump ship so your favourite bartender at place x will probably be the new bartender at new …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:24 AM
2

Power talk is a secret meaning behind a statement that those in "the know" get, and everyone else only hears the statement. An example of the type of hidden message, but not so well hidden, would be comments on reddit when someone asks for advice on a relationship and lists every red flag known. A comment saying "she sounds like she's just misunderstood, you definitely give her a chance and stop being so judgemental" to anyone with the slightest knowledge of red flags has a clear meaning of "you…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:33 AM
1

Why is a stripper seeking validation and attention? Great question. I hope your follow up is why do dogs lixk their balls. She is a stripper because she seeks men's attention and validation. Her behaviour is her strategy to get more of that because being is a stripper is no longer enough.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:12 AM
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What is "better"? Could you have brought her back to your parents and banged her? Yes. Would that be better? Up to you. Could you have gone back to her parents and banged her? Possibly. Harder. Would it be better? Up to you. Could you have banged in a car? Yep. Trashy? Who cares. Are you trying to win some kind of dignity award? If you both want to have sex, and she's would have been willing to do it in a car, she may just go fuck some other bloke in a car. Since you decided against the rejectio…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:10 AM
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Why are you wasting your time on this bullshit? What did your little test achieve? What does your post here achieve? You've wasted your time and now our time. Get the the fucking gym you spastic.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:36 PM
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Two things. First. Your frame is already visible. They don't need indicators that your masculine, strong and dominant. They feel it when they look at you. You DO need to not break that frame. Shit tests will try to probe for three things. Are you a fake? Are you a dumb jock? Are you a rapist? They want your jacked up roided arse to fuck them, but they want to be able to confirm that you aren't just a whiny bitch who takes his emotions out on a barbell until he can get home to cry on his girlfrie…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:32 PM
2

This makes it even more obvious that you really need to avoid doing anything with girls you work with. It means too much to you at this stage so you WILL put more pressure on it and fuck it up. It is inevitable. And it will make being near them tear you apart. You want to start hating being at work? You know what you need to do. It's in the sidebar. You need to lift, eat right, dress right, and approach girls outside of work. Go do fun things and meet girls there. Practice game in places where a…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:23 PM
2

The REASON you don't shit where you eat is because it puts you at greater risk of it fucking up AND greater risk of consequences from it. Wanting to date within work shows a lack of options. You should be putting that effort into gaining more options, not one chick at work.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:44 PM
3

Is your commute actually 2 hours each way?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:31 PM
2

How have you calculated your TDEE? If it was based on any of the "height, weight, body fat, I exercise this much" questionnaires, then it's lnoy your TDEE. It's a very wild guess. Calculate your TDEE by ACCURATELY measuring your calories every single day. And measuring your weight every week. If you don't gain or lose weight, your calories intake for the week is your TDEE. If you gain weight your are eating above your TDEE, if you lose weight you get the point. TDEE changes as your body composit…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:25 PM
2

Get comfortable saying less. The overwhelming majority of blokes' biggest social problem is that they talk to much with fuck all value.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 12:14 AM
2

I already know the answer Then stop asking people and do what you know needs to be done.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 12:08 AM
0

What's hard to understand? Society had some pretty fucked up ideas in the past. One was that women are equal to animals, not men.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:54 PM
1

Oh, so you're just a boring cunt then. I have hair AND a sports car, why aren't women lining up for my attention! Must be hard to have so much going for you and still fuck it up.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:40 PM
1

One of those things is genetic. The rest can be achieved through hard work.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:37 PM
1

You are out of shape. You're lying to yourself.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:37 PM
1

Sorry mate, you lost me at not Chris Hemsworth. Only people who are Chris Hemsworth should be asking for advice here.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:35 PM
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I want advice, BUT NOT FROM PEOPLE WHO DON'T CONFORM TO MY AUTISTIC THINKING! IF YOU CAN'T BE SPASTIC, DON'T TALK TO ME! Shut up dweeb. You talk too much. Stop worrying about what Chad did 10 years ago. He's either still going to the same bars hitting on the same worn out sheilas he was always hitting on. Or he's made it an is banging a chorus line of supermodels on his yacht. And neither of them should matter to your life. If you are 15/20/25/50/80 and social, then you go to places and events y…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:31 PM
0

You seem to be confusing the word "feminist" with something else. People have been using alcohol as an excuse to get away with poor decisions long before women were considered real people.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:23 PM
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Most of what you've described is about drinking to excess. Admiteddly most people seem to not be able to do one without the other in social situations. But that is where the issue lies. Being able to enjoy a drink or two without going overboard I think is great, just as much as being able to enjoy a night out without drinking. If you can't have one or two without getting dragged into getting plastered, then avoid the stuff till you grow up. I think the main positive of your approach is disciplin…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:21 PM
2

So you used to think she was lower value than you and her personality was definitely going to cause issues. Since then you've gained no other options and are starting to think you can only get this low value sheila and the validation will be worth the trouble of her drama. Did I miss anything? Seems like your choosing is to give up on being the prize and working for something you want to go for low hanging fruit you know you don't really like. Choose wisely.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:06 PM
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It's too broad. Getting plastered on shots to let loose is a huge detriment. Needing a few beers under the belt to get the courage is a crutch. Enjoying a good whisky or cocktail in a social setting works well for me. I am not a different person after 1-5 whiskies or cocktails. So any plates will have just as much fun with me at a cocktail bar, a dip in the ocean or a chilled night in. Don't let alcohol define who you are or your behaviour.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:02 PM
3

Yes, it is his vetting process. That is why he should hard next. Corrects that problem. The behaviour wasn't there to begin with. Now that it has seen it, time to next. That is a vetting process. Nexting isn't getting mad. Nexting is choosing not to put up with poor behaviour.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:22 PM
1

No need to verify shit. Either the abuse was legit, and she's damaged goods. Or she chose to lie about being abused, and she's damaged goods. Either way, massive red flag.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:25 AM
1

What you're asking for is like asking an internet stranger for directions to work. I can tell you exaclty the steps I take to get to work. But you aren't starting and my house, and you aren't going to my work. What's your TDEE? What are your macros? What is your training program. What is your goal? How much are you willing to put into it (time, effort, money)? No diet anyone here can give you will work if you aren't even willing to put in the effort to research the things above.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:05 AM
1

Unless your pictures show you as the top 5% of men, you can only get sheilas a few points below you in smv. But you can get them to bed quicker. You decide if that's worth it to you.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:14 AM
5

Yes. I've literally never met a girl who likes cocaine who hasn't fucked someone who gave them coke. Be a coke dealer or just someone that supplied a few parties. Coke is great fun. Every has a great time and we're all bonding over this shared experience. There's a connection and a huge tension. Of course she's going to fuck someone if the opportunity arises. Don't do coke kids. More importantly, don't do sheilas who do coke.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:11 AM
2

Did she say WHY she got it done? Is she a model/actress, that makes it a career move (although the career choice itself is not without its own red flags). Was she a stripper? Again, career move, still giant red flags. I've plated (and LTRd) sheilas with implants. The LTR was the only one where I didn't consider it a red flag (she had one breast 2 cup sized different than the other. It was an implant to correct that). They all lived up to the red flag. Very self-involved. Very impulsive. Tried to…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:09 AM
3

What you have here is a situation where someone who has more information (can see you, watch you do the movement, and discuss the pain) has given you an educated guess of the problem (posture) , and clear direction to correct it (exercise to correct your posture). Since we have none of that information, all we can do is guess based on what you told us someone else told you. So either go to a lifting forum or the fitness subreddit and post a form check, or do the exercises and see if that correct…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:03 AM
1

Wait, so what count is 5? Anal? Fisting? Hand holding? If it's not PIV sex then she's a virgin. She got weird about it because it was definitely PIV sex but you asking that specifically made her realise you were gunna be weird about it and so she lied. If she's willing to have sex with you after 2 months, and you are the one delaying it, then why would you think she hasn't been willing before with a guy who didn't pussy out of it. She's not a virgin. She's playing virgin because she panicked whe…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:01 AM
4

You failed to escalate and your follow up texts (when are you free, forgot about me already) scream insecurity and lack of options.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:56 AM
3

Everyone relates to ADHD symptoms to some degree. Look up the symptoms for brain cancer. You suffer from a lot of those too. You now have brain cancer.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:54 PM
2

Yeah, you have the worst life ever and nothing can fix it. You should cry to every girl you meet u til one of them accepts you for the beautiful mess that you are and promises to fix you. Or, draw a line in the sand and put all your past bullshit behind you. Hit the gym, focus in yourself, be better, enjoy life.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:52 PM
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You've asked a question and refuse to accept any answer because they don't know every single woman on the planet. So, sincerely, fuck off. Read the sidebar, read it again. Go and experience some of it for yourself. And come back when you actually have a question to which you're willing to listen to answers.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:49 PM
5

Life outside of college isn't different. Get jacked and high status or be prepared to keep feeling the same way.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:42 PM
1

Read what you just wrote. You're not looking to LTR, but after one date you think she might be a good LTR. GET THAT FUCKING CONCEPT OUT OF YOUR HEAD! It's going to fuck you up. You don't have a connection. She's just the best of the very few girls you've met since a break up. There will be others. There will be better there will be worse. Stop putting her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:14 PM
1

The issue is that you sent a dumb text. There's nothing to do with it. You didn't lead. Ignore the "don't double text because you'll look desperate" shit. You need to make your text actionable. And I don't mean by asking about her day, but by setting up a plan. That is why many don't text the day after, because you can't do both (text the next day and set up a plan) without looking too keen. Leave it a few days and set up another meet up. Lead. "Let's grab a drink Saturday arvo, there's a place …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:53 PM
1

The comment you replied to literally said exactly what to do, and you still had to check for condirmation. Stop trying to make sure everything is safe and right before proceeding. Don't wait for IOI. If you like the look of a girl, go say hi. That's it. If she's already smiling at you, even better.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:31 PM
7

Your smv didn't shoot up, you're now in a different market. This is important because markets react differently, you can't base your actions on what you used to know of the market. There's two types of South East Asians that make themselves easy to non-SEA blokes. And one type that really won't. One type is just after a good fuck and presume white blokes are just better (and bigger) than Asian blokes, as well as more masculine. They are riddled with everything that can be transmitted because the…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:04 AM
2

Yep. Make sure not to placate her needs in the meantime. Don't be a texting buddy. Don't try to "make her comfortable". Don't try to build attraction via text. Just reinvite, and follow your initial escalation plan, albeit a little quicker. If there's any hesitation (either on agreeing to the meet up or to your escalation) then soft next until she reinitiaties.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:54 AM
1

Yeah, God didn't put petroleum here by mistake either. Drink that to lower all your inhibitions. If you need a chemical to help you with inhibitions, fears, anxiety, whatever. Focus on correcting those things without the chemical. Lungs were meant to get oxygen into your blood, best not to fuck with that process.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:29 AM
1

Can you get the social benefit without the cost? As an example. A day when you'd hang out with people and drink excessively, try hanging out with people and NOT drinking excessively. Now you have the gain, without the cost.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:26 AM
3

Holy shit dude. Escalate. Too much texting, snapping, being a gay bff. Stop giving "friend" vibes and attention, start restricting your attention to meeting up and escalating.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:06 AM
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She's way better at this than you are. See how you're stuck in your head about some shit she said? Notice how you're feeling like you now need to prove something to her? She's bringing you into her frame. "I know, it's weird. They seem to only come out when I'm around other fit people" shrug and continue escalating. Stop caring about her words, look at her actions.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 11:47 PM
4

I ran cocktail bars, then managed private events, and some of my closest friends are still in distribution. All of our parties and social gatherings are centred around alcohol. I understand the social dynamics around alcohol. No one cares if you don't drink, people only care if you're a bitch about it.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:39 AM
1

Then you are responding. Stop it! Here's and example Her: good morning how did you sleep? ... ... ... See how there's no response there. She won't continue texting throughout the day now. Then, at a time that suits you, you message her to arrange a meet up. You: Hey, what a week. Let's grab a drink Saturday, that place near the thing is meant to be good. See you there at 4.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:35 AM
6

Just don't drink. You are not important. They don't give a fuck if you drink or not. It makes no difference to any one else's life. You are the only one who cares.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:29 AM
3

Think of all the effort you've put into trying to win back this sheila. Now think of how much success you would have in literally anything else if you had applied that effort there instead. Then go do that. You are wasting time and effort trying to do anything with this sheila. Move on, game other women.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:25 AM
3

Bingo. It's a cardinal rule.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:23 AM
3

Being knolwedage isn't bad. Talking too much is. Sheilas don't want you to show them your knowledge. They want you to show them a good time. Shut the fuck up and have fun.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:22 AM
4

You can either accept your losses, or continue losing over and over with her. Pick one.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:26 AM
11

The Red Pill isn't a menu of actions that you take individually. To refuse to be friends while doing a bunch of Blue Pilled shit isn't doing a Red Pilled thing. It's just being a spastic. Stop focusing in her. Read the fucking sidebar. You're still confused about what the red pill is and you're trying to get instant results.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:20 AM
3

I always use a drink. Depends on how the conversation has gone though. Cocktail if we've been talking cocktails (former cocktail bartender), tea if she's mentioned feeling tipsy or acted like it. Whisky for sheilas who've mentioned it. Water if I'm feeling cocky. I always make it a rapport break. Mid conversation I just pause, grab my things, signal for the bill and say "let's get out of here". Sometimes they just say OK and follow. Sometimes they ask where we are going and I say "let's grab an …
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:10 PM
2

By arranging to meet her in person and then escalating. Here's an example. Her: Hey painstakingly considered little joke. You: nothing Then, at another time that suits you! You: Hey you, let's grab a drink on Saturday. There's this cool place called x. Her: yes, and whatever other bullshit girls say. You: Righto, be there at 8pm. Dress to impress.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:22 AM
12

Would the lightest man on the planet defy gravity? No. Gravity is still there. Mass is what gravity applies to, and he has less mass than all other men, and yet, gravity still applies to him.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:03 AM
20

This is why you people don't get to make your own decisions and need people from the internet to spell shit out for you. Step one. Use condoms with all plates. Once you've been together for over a year and they have told you they are exclusive with you, still use condoms with all your plates. Step two. Your plates will never tell you when they've put your health at risk. It doesn't serve them. If she told you she got drunk and raw dogged some bloke, you might stop fucking her. She doesn't want y…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:39 AM
1

She was hoping he'd beat you up and steal her back. Or that she could catch the eye of the girl and invite her to join you and her for a threesome. Or she wanted to show off her upgrade to make her ex feel bad. Science will never know. But you you need to try and figure out, is why did you become a bitch about it and how are you going to handle it better in the future.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:58 AM
2

She was hoping he'd beat you up and steal her back. Or that she could catch the eye of the girl and invite her to join you and her for a threesome. Or she wanted to show off her upgrade to make her ex feel bad. Science will never know. But you you need to try and figure out, is why did you become a bitch about it and how are you going to handle it better in the future.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:57 AM
2

Through my professional life I am likely to meet DOZENS of attractive women every year I may not have met otherwise. Due the the situations they are likely to meet me, they see me being "the guy". I hold a position of authority due to product ownership of everything I take to market. I'm there to sell and keep our company where we belong, so I look a million bucks and i walk the walk. If I were to avoid all of these opportunities with beautiful women because of "don't shit where you eat", then I…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:18 AM
5

And murder, conspiracy to defraud the sovereign crown, regicide and whatever other crimes you want to list that she hasn't committed.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:09 AM
1

Fitness first. Make sure you diet, sleep, gym routine are all unshakeable. Practice makes proficient. Get more sex more often. You need ton Outcome independence. It doesn't actually matter how well you fuck. You have two things going for you here. Firstly, everything else about you makes her want more anyway. Secondly, you have other plates and can afford to lose one and spin up a new one. This outcome independence will stop you being a hindrance. Just fucking enjoy it. Sex is meant to be enjoye…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:12 AM
3

Except for the second one... which is making a decision in fear of her making it for you... Well done. You should put this over a blurred out picture of a barbell and post it on instagram.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:24 AM
1

You have made a small mistake in the body of your text that actually answers your question. I believe you meant Personification - a person or thing regarded as embodying a quality, concept, etc In this example, the very prime example of what it means to be "Alpha" What you wrote was Impersonation - an act of pretending to be another person for the purpose of entertainment or fraud. In this example, pretending to be "Alpha" when they are not. Men can have all the natural characteristics of being …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:11 AM
5

Why do you care? Why are you asking us? Are you trying to fuck these girls behind their boyfriends backs? Then stop being a pussy and escalate. Would you prefer NOT to be involved with cheating? Then stop fucking flirting with girls who have boyfriends and move on with your life. How the fuck do you kids still have time to focus on this bullshit?
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:52 AM
1

Yeah? So how is she working with you and giving you the benefit of the doubt? What is her input into this relationship? Ignoring you. Going out without you. Going on holidays without you. Spending nights with her girlfriends without you. Seems her favourite part of this relationship is the "without you" part.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:32 AM
1

The begging reference was to his comment. He specifically mentioned having apologised twice and called himself an idiot, AND he's asking if it's ok to apologise another time face to face when she gets back. Even the most blue pilled princess chaser would have to admit that's begging.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:26 AM
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You're pretty good at coming up with excuses. Try changing some of that energy into coming up with results.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:16 PM
1

Www.google.com
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:03 PM
1

Is this one of those autogenerated conversations? The words make sense. The sentence structures are mostly correct. But altogether it just sounds like rubbish.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:57 PM
3

Mate, that's a question for Google.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:59 PM
1

It seems everyone in asktrp has an above average or big dick, except you. Like everything else, assume attraction, escalate and find out. Either she is a size queen or she isn't. Either she fucks you anyway or she doesn't. Either she wants to keep fucking you or she doesn't. Just be confident, assume attraction, and escalate. You'll find your answer.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:53 PM
2

Don't listen to this blue pill bullshit. She intentionally did something to piss you off so that you would do something she could overreact to. She's set you up so that she can fuck around and come back guilt free. And you're wondering if you can beg enough to get her back again. She's planning on cheating on you and making it your fault. Grow some balls, move the fuck on, don't talk to her again.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:42 PM
2

So you're saying you want to treat them as an equal. You spastics really are out in force around here.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:10 AM
1

Exaclty the point. If it's not important enough to call, it's not important enough to waster time texting.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:09 AM
0

The only way I was able to deal with it was cut back. Start fucking plates once a fortnite. Gets me around 2-3 nights a week. A couple of times each night/morning. Not as sore as I used to be and plates are gagging for it when they aren't sure when their next turn will be.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:07 AM
4

Nothing to win, plenty to lose. Go for it mate. Sounds like you've got it all figured out.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:00 AM
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You are talking about a mutual agreement, not a legal proceeding. You don't have "leverage", you have what you consider a moral highground. That won't mean shit. If you start a fight over your belongings, she will fight back. She definitely will not say "well you got me there. I guess you should have more things." She's more likely to list 100 times when you've fucked up the relationship and forced her to cheat on you. You won't win if you try to "leverage" this possible knowledge of her cheatin…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 01:26 AM
1

Yeah, check out that timeline. Been with gf 3 years, so started at 20mgot divorced at 19. Used to try and buy her affection. Then got fat, depressed, worked long hours then went to therapy, then started to get to the gym and get jacked. Then started dating this fitness instructor. Dude either has a time machine or he's been a bit liberal with his story.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:47 PM
1

Don't worry, the phrase "breaking frame" implies that you had a frame to begin with. Since you seem to have been playing by her rules while it suited her, you don't have to worry about breaking frame.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:43 PM
1

If she was interested enough to approach YOU, then you have a lot of capital to work with. Let her know you're busy for the next couple of weeks. Set up a date for when you're free, not just "maybe in a couple of weeks" but a plan for a particular night (don't need to know what yet, can be as simple as something on Saturday the X. I'll work out the details later). That gives her something to look forward to, and shows your frame as being in control of your valuable time. If she messages over the…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:37 PM
3

Don't wear a costume. I if you don't want to wear a costume, then own up to it by not wearing a costume.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:49 PM
1

You're unhappy in this relationship. You're taking a sheilas approach and trying to find things that make it someone else's fault. You were upset with th IUD idea one second, then you're onboard with it but upset that she won't do it. You're moving your goalposts so that you can remain frustrated with her. Your entire post boils down to "my gf won't duck me without a condom but I could easily get all these other bitchs who will" Then go spin plates again and spin the STD roulette wheel. You're n…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:25 PM
1

Who gives a fuck. Stop caring about internet quasi-celebrity drama!
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:11 PM
1

I talk to people. Try using that as a basis.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:05 PM
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"I told a guy to fuck off. How will he ever recover?" Sure thing buddy. He's probably lost his job and tried to hang himself after seeing your message. She'll never date again. Get over yourself. They've moved on already and you're hanging on to this shit because you want to feel like you matter. YOU DON'T
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:03 PM
3

Did you fly him there with a gun to his head? Check your fucking ego, you have very little impact on these people's lives. If they were going to get back together, you having a hissy fit isn't going to stop anything.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:02 PM
1

You know how you're not approaching them and escalating... Try not NOT doing that anymore. I've found the 100% effective way to find out if I'm going to get anywhere with a sheila. Escalate.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:57 PM
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Complain on the internet about it with no context. Now it's a lose lose lose. You win.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:53 PM
2

What's your lifting routine and your diet?
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:03 PM
1

Yeah, I always pictured it that way as well. Seemed off when I wrote it though, so I switched it up. Might revisit. It's the type of question that gets raised here often so might do a more detailed top level post about it shortly.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:30 AM
1

You're not doing anything anything red Pilled here. You're messaging some sheila long distance to talk about her dreams? You don't want red pill advice. The only red pill thing you can do here is stop talking to her, read the sidebar, lift, and game other women.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:15 AM
1

If your other friends/roommates don't have a sense of humour, maybe they shouldn't come drink with us on Saturday. Double down. Falling into her frame definitely won't work. Assuming attraction and ignoring the shit test might.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 08:37 PM
2

This is a wonderful shit test! She thinks her friends will be attracted to you. She doesn't want competition. SHE NEEDS TO SEE THAT COMPETITION FIRST HAND. Make her friends flirt with you. Flirt a little back. Act dumb, you're not flirting, you're just like that with everyone. You're used to girls treating you like that all the time. The more she feels the pressure of one of her friends trying to fuck you, the harder she will fuck you to prevent it. Do not flirt if they are not flirting back! Do…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 08:31 PM
4

Holy shit you need to calm the fuck down. This is simple. Keep it simple. Don't over invest. No complicated plans, smooth lines, tricks or head games. Just tell her to find an excuse to come to your place after the gym one day, or go to hers. If that REALLY won't work, tell her to follow you after the gym and you'll find somewhere quiet. Then fuck her in the back of the car. She wants a tall, roided up, tatted jock to simply fuck her. You start making it more complex than that and it's too hard.…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 08:27 PM
1

Mate, you need to do a lot more. Reading if the sidebar. Givung a sheila attention, making out with her, trying to finger her, grabbing her arse. These are all forms of validation. Even texting to ask "how was your day" is validation. Showing any interest in her is showing that value you her enough to spend some of your time thinking of her and trying to interact with her. That is valkdation Validation itself is not always negative. The issue is that sheilas get it all the time and it satisfies …
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:23 PM
2

Oops, I thought you looked like someone I knew who was into me. Anyway, let's grab a drink. If you know them, there's very little need to build interest or rapport. She'll likely throw some "oh, I just wanted to see if you swiped." or maybe some "maybe we should talk a bit first" just dismiss it. You're interested in grabbing a drink and talking there. She already knows you're not a creep or an axe murderer (don't say anything to that effect, just assume it)
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:17 PM
1

Do you have other plates? It's not "more work" to replace a plate than to try and put a broken plate back together. Too much time, too much attention, want to get her back. You've put far too much energy into this one sheila already. You need to get abundance.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:13 PM
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Oh, don't look so disinterested that you're in your phone. Just dial back the escalation and intimacy. Rough example. If you've got her top off and making out with her, just stop, take a breath, look at her silently, take it in, maybe grab her ass and laugh or something. Completely halt the escalation but stay in the moment. Play a game with yourself to see if you can make her re-initiate escalating. If not, get back in there after a moment.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:00 PM
3

You're describing your blue pill wants. Be very cautious, red pill strategy should not be used for blue pill means. It will only end in you spiralling. Once a week or twice in 10 days, maximum. You want more, that's why you have other plates. Rely on? You can not. That is why you spin plates. 3 plates is reliable. One woman is flaky and emotional.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:55 AM
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You're thinking WAAAY to far ahead. 3 weeks is barely more than a string of ONS that you've repeated. Don't 'push things that way'. Just plate, do things you enjoy, and keep gaming other sheilas.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:50 AM
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Push / Pull, Hot / Cold If you push push push they get all the validation of you trying, without the tingles of doubting themselves or anticipation of wanting more. Escalate then (before you meet resistance) pull back a little and do something else. Getting her hands on you is a great way to get her escalating a little as well. She needs to feel the excitement of not being sure if you're trying to bed her. She knows your intentions are sexual, but she has to put in some effort herself.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:43 AM
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How long have you been seeing her? If you truly would enjoy taking her places with you, then do it. It is a good idea to reward good behaviour with commitment, sparingly! The sparingly part is where blokes fuck up too early. Don't invite her to things every week. Don't put all of your attention on her and forget to keep spinning plates.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:39 AM
1

She's putting them in the wrong way! Seriously, who gives a fuck. You should stop answering questions around here if some innocuous flirty joke from a colleague throws you for a loop for the whole day.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:17 AM
1

Get it done early, or not at all. While waiting on a drink or walking to a second venue, just go for the kiss. That is bold, and you can either say some lame shit like "now that's out of the way", or "Hmm. I thought as much". Either way, it's bold and not what she was expecting. It also means escalation from the rest of the date is easier. You know you can touch her and grab her, you've just made out with her. Waiting till the end of the date to try and get a goodnight kiss is the expected, safe…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:57 AM
1

What was the suggestsed hangout? It's either ASD or a shit test. Safest bet is to go for a drink. If it's ASD she can hamster that to mean you aren't just after a lay, and then it "just happened". If it's a shit test it shows your frame is still solid. Flipping to comfort betrays your frame. If you're just after an easy lay, maybe take the loss and walk away.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:14 PM
1

What did you tell him you were after? If it was "I want to look better and be fitter, maybe lose some fat and gain some weight" or something equally washy, then he's achieved that for you and you can now move on. Either by telling him your goals have changed and you want him to update your program or by getting a new trainer Machines and curls help you look good with your shirt off. Women like touching big arms, curls give you big arms. Deadlifts have changed my fucking life, but they certainly …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:27 AM
3

Tinder Hey, opener You too. Cheeky comment Cheekier comment Yeah, me too. I don't like wasting time on here. Let's grab a drink and have a real conversation. Great, gimme your number and we'll sort it out. Text Hey again. Let's go to x at x o'clock If she hasn't tried to confirm before then, I send a message with about 45 minutes to spare saying "Hey, I've had to sort a few things out. Let's make it half an hour later. Thanks" She will now know that you're still on and has just enough time to pa…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:21 AM
8

Mate, if they are "hella religious", then telling them how he keeps making sexual remarks at you and suggesting that you're gay and into him would be abhorrent to them.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:58 AM
3

Hey guys! Dylan is back! What happened to your shit mate, was it Callum?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:00 AM
5

Yep, will instantly make you the toughest dude who still gets put in his place by some skinny kid's words. So much character and confidence.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:48 AM
16

Someone call the TRPolice
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:45 AM
3

now I want to see her Instagram to check her out Instead, meet her for a drink to check her out and then fucking escalate. Who gives a fuck what is on her instagram? ​
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:42 AM
4

Listen to what they do, not what they say. This is basic shit. You posted a topless shirt. They assumed you are looking for hookups. They swiped right anyway. Anything contradicting that flow of events is a shit test.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:41 AM
8

You need to find people who are good at it. It is a new language, and talking with fluent speakers is the only way to be good at it. REALLY attractive women. The ones that have used their looks AND social acumen to get themselves into positions of power. In general, the Executive Assistant of the CEO of a major company is a good example. They usually are attractive, have very few marketable skills, are trusted with his entire life and can tell other executive level people to fuck off while every…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:38 AM
7

You're taking one line in isolation, maybe my fault for starting with that. The actual point is that you've given up on expecting anything from them, because they previous didn't meet your expectation. Whether that expectation was truly "all things" or just "the wrong things" is kind of irrelevant. If all you think a woman is, is a fuck hole, that's all she can ever be to you. You will never find anything more, and it's your own fault. Some sheilas bring more to the table than sex. Not all, and …
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:35 AM
9

You're looking for all things in one package. I like my butcher because his meat cuts are great and the price is good. He's a fucking pain in the arse and won't shut up, but worth it. I like my barista because she makes a great coffee, is good for a brief chat at 8:30 on a Saturday morning, and pleasant to look at. I like my best mate because we have similar values and ambitions, and enjoy each others' humour. He's a true friend that I can trust with anything. I don't expect a potential plate to…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:45 AM
5

This comment has much more value than your post. The post is rediculous. We should definitely get comfortable with being uncomfortable with rejection. But we should not learn to accept it, like it, or expect it. People that learn to expect rejection will get it. It's the antithesis of assumed attraction.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 11:40 PM
6

Fucking shameful that this has recieved the positive attention it has. Take a long hard look at yourselves, 'men'. You're making excuses for failure. Everything you've written here is the male hamster equivalent of "I love my curves and a real man will love my curves. We all need to be happy in the body that God gave us. Now pass me another 2l bottle of coke" What is the point? Your entire drivel is the same shot that useless door to door salesman spill to motivate each other to continue going o…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 11:33 PM
2

You're* Way to back it up with 5 ad hominem attacks.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:44 AM
2

Great effort. Terrible seller. Don't show anyone your social media.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:05 AM
1

You seem to be in the wrong place. This is exactly how it SHOULD work if you actually do things right.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:58 AM
2

Attraction can only be built in person. Anything else given once a date has been arranged can only do one of the following: Lower her attraction to you Not change her attraction to you You have nothing to gain by giving her your social media, and risk losing a date. Confirmation is fine, but only if necessary. Organise dates that don't matter if they don't show. Helps with outcome independence and means you don't need to confirm. They almost always confirm if you don't. Last minute if they haven…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:31 AM
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> genuinely ready to move on. Then stop thinking about coming back. It can and will only ever hold you back
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:07 AM
2

Because you're not as ugly as you think. Tinder just doesn't work if you're ugly. Gaming other women doesn't mean successfully. You just need to keep flirting with bartenders, cashiers, the girl in front of you at the checkout, whoever. Just keep practising talking to women and getting them interested in you.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:36 AM
4

Make sure you keep gaming other women. That is all that matters at this point. If you put all your energy and attention into "not fucking this up", you'll fuck it up. Your time and commitment is your only commodity. Do not give it away freely. Also, don't give a fuck about 40 minutes of cuddling after sex. When you've had a good hard session, it's nice to unwind, and aftercare after rough sex is important. So keep it limited, don't be a cuddly and shit at other times and you'll be fine. Just be …
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:29 PM
1

amorality means something has multidirectionality No, it doesn't. Not in this context or any common use of the word. Your entire drivel is based off your own misinterpretation of English. Amoral means the lack of a concern of "right" or "wrong".
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:22 PM
5

Don't pretend shit. You don't need to AMOG, game him, play patsy, or tickle his balls. Here's the secret to awkward social situations. They're awkward for everyone. He's thinking about everything he does around this girl and you. He's thinking about the hidden meaning behind what you say, what she does, if people are watching. You just need to ignore all that and enjoy yourself. If you want to talk to her, talk. If you want to dance, dance. That is why TRP says time and time again to build your …
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:15 PM
1

The answer is irrelevant. Giving a fuck about the question is pointless. You made a light comment, she's trying to follow through with another.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:06 PM
6

You've lost interest so wrote a novel on this shit? You didn't "choose to take it slow", you failed to escalate. She wanted to fuck you the night you met, you left her wanting, she either fucked someone else or got annoyed. She wanted you to make up for it by fucking her after the date. You left her wanting. She's figured out that even if she's interested in you, if she wants to get fucked it will have to be another bloke because you can't get the job done. She'll hit you up when she wants some …
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:05 PM
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Yep. You've finally got the pussy off the pedestal. It's amazing how many it takes before blokes can finally come to this conclusion. Now, instead of gaming sheilas to fuck. You can do the things you enjoy, and along the way pick up a sheila or two that actually sparks your interest.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 06:32 PM
3

Capoeira. Two birds, one stone! Honestly. I did a minimal training of both when I was in my early 20s. I've never got in a fight, so learning kickboxing was just an exercise routine. Anything I learned from dance has helped maybe a half dozen times. Either way, it's exercise, learning to move your body, confidence doing stuff in front of others, making a commitment to something and sticking to it. Just pick which one you are more into. If that changes in 5 months, change.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 06:24 PM
2

Don't bullshit us here. You've asked for help. You're not lifting. Walking into the gym and fucking around for an hour or two doesn't cut it. Get on a proper routine, get your diet in place, and lift fucking heavy. There's just no way someone who lifts properly gives a fuck what other people think about their sense of humour.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 06:23 PM
9

Fuckboy, LMR on third date.... Mate, you're not closing soon enough. They think you're a man whore. They agreed to go on a date with you. And then you don't close them. By the time the third date comes around, they know you're not they stud they were hoping for. They were expecting to be smearing their makeup on your pillows the first night they went out with you, and you let them down. Now they just think it's all an act.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:11 AM
5

Lift.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:03 AM
2

Fat appears on your face. Muscle doesn't. Of your face is getting fatter it's because your bf% is getting higher. A) bulk leaner, you'll still put on muscle and gain weight, but overall slower. B) accept that while you bulk you'll have a less defined jaw and you can look forward to seeing it again when you get to cutting. You'll be the only one who actually notices the fat face.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:10 AM
0

100% true. I have light hair (not quite blonde) and any sheila that is with a dark-haired guy I can just walk up and say "she's mine now!" and she'll happily leave him on the spot and come with me. If a guy is more blonde than I, he can do the same to me. If the bloke tries to start shit I just stare at him and shout "AMOG!" over and over until he backs down.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:07 AM
1

Luckily, you live alone in a big city. So you can easily grow your social circle. Stop making excuses!
/r/askTRP18/10/18 01:45 AM
16

I think he was suggesting that 10 people here cold approach.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:00 PM
95

If the bloke is that fucked up, he'd probably like it.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:21 AM
1

Remember. Treat them like children. You don't need to respond to her requests, you don't need to explain why, you don't even need to recognise it. If she's interested, "Hey, let's grab a drink Saturday afternoon. I'm heading to x at y o'clock" and she'll jump at the chance to try and get your attention in person.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:34 AM
3

When did snapchat add a Kino feature? Can you have sex with snapchat? You have her number. Is your goal to see pictures of her or to be with her in person? If you want to see her in person, make THAT happen. If you want to see pictures of her instead, add her snapchat.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:31 AM
62

"You should focus on getting better. We'll catch up next week instead. Lots of rest and water, no late nights thinking of me." LTRs happen after months of vetting, not because they seemed great after 3 dates. You cannot drop plates for one sheila that easily, you'll get played every time. The issue isn't not having sex. I enjoy all my plates' company outside of the bedroom. If I saw any of them in a situation where logistics didn't work, no dramas would still be a great time. But I'm not going t…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:29 AM
4

You just over apologised. Instead of saying "sorry" because you didn't want to break frame, you DEERed and completely removed any shadow of your frame and replaced it with hers. Invalidating her feelings is not a reason to apologise. Kicking her dog is. Feelings are fleeting. Don't bring them back up after the fact. If she was getting overly emotional, she was overly emotional. It's not your job to make excuses for her emotions.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:15 PM
2

You just listed 3 things that would make a relationship with her the opposite of easy mode. What kind of axemurder does a sheila need to be before you realise she's not worth your effort?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:30 PM
2

Be good looking, have a great body, and appear dominant. Talk to her. Emotions spiked.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:21 PM
5

You're right to soft next. From what you've written it sounds like you did escalate and build attraction well enough before going abroad. But that'll come with practice. Good move recognising this early that just moving on is the right play. It's an important step and going to bode well for you.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:43 AM
30

TRP is also against black beans, dark chocolate, aniseed, and any run that is shorter than 10km or longer than 13km. You're not allowed to eat anything green on days that start with a T. Also, don't face the North when drinking with your left hand, unless what your drinking is carbonated, then you can ONLY face north. If you need to ask why for any of these, you're definitely gay and need to get testosterone shots directly into your balls.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:39 AM
8

Two things. Looks He didn't mention looks because he's good looking. He doesn't think looks matter, because he hasn't been held back by looks. Women don't openly say "the only reason I gave you a chance to show your confidence and humour is because you are good looking". Trump thinks that having millions of dollars gifted to him isn't what helped him become a multi millionaire. Everyone who HASN'T had millions of dollars gifted to them knows that is a game changer. strike while the iron is hot. …
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:17 PM
5

It's neurism without an a Because he's a beast!
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:36 PM
2

Just work on your foundations. If you are great at what you do, hold frame, aren't socially retarded, and these sheilas try to cause shit, your frame and foundations will hd you steady. The more you let the opinions of others shake you, the more you look like the loser they might tell people you are.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 08:04 AM
3

My plates are generally 50/50 between 25-30 and 30-35 (a couple younger, a couple older) Date 1 is generally a nice cocktail bar^ for 1 or two drinks, a walk to a second bar (depending on my mood either another cocktail bar or a trendy pub), then back to my place for either a tea or another cocktail (depends on how drunk she seems). We generally don't get to the tea or cocktail. Date 2 is usually another nice bar, no bar hopping, just 2/3 drinks and then back to mine. Exceptional* 2nd dates have…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:09 AM
5

If you have only one plate, she's not a plate. If you're giving her more and more time, she's not a plate. If you "could" plate anyone else at a moments notice, but you don't, she's not a plate. YOU ARE THE PLATE
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:08 AM
1

"Seems like this story would make more sense in person. Let's grab a drink Saturday. I'm free at 4."
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:06 AM
7

She wants to please you! Logic is irrelevant. Give her something to do to make her feel like she's doing something for you. Get her to give you a massage or something.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:54 AM
2

In addition to the other comments, you lean forward a little just as you're about to push out of the hole. This I think is a symptom of your butt-wink, but it puts the weight too far forward and you're pushing at a disadvantage. To get out of the hole, instead of trying to 'push up', try pulling your knees back to straighten your legs. That moment where you shift your weight forward to push is throwing you off balance.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:51 AM
0

You forgot the exchange rate. You're not white so your opinion is a only worth about half ours. So that's $0.01 And you're clearly a little bitch, so the pay gap puts you at what? 73% or something? So your opinion is worth $0.073 Thanks for stopping by. Good luck on your road trip, I hope the cells are comfortable.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:44 AM
14

The issue is that you're putting effort into these matches. Get a date within 6 messages. That's all. Hi Relate Relate Joke at their expense Fuck this app, let's meet Great, phone number. Now you've wasted 30 mins across maybe a couple of days (or same day) and have commitment for a meet up. The next issue is when you don't have enough time to meet up with them all, which just means you get to raise your standards.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:40 AM
4

Can you be YOU and still lift? If so, do that. If not, we can't help you. Be YOU, but understand what you are. Some of these things might be you but you've conditioned yourself to not behave that way because people told you it was bad. We're here to point out that it isn't bad, they're just afraid if the implications. Are you a man that finds women attractive? If yes, great, show that. Don't pretend that you want to be besties and have pyjama parties and help her with her makeup. Are you a man t…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:36 AM
2

I'm not sure to which part you're referring, so I'll answer both. If you're into photography and you take photos of attractive women to put on YOUR social media, you get practice with attractive women without any pressure and you get to show off your passion (plus you get some fractional preselection from your social media). The only true advantage of this is the honing of your photography craft and coming more to terms with how fleeting the looks of beautiful women can be. You might see behind …
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:31 AM
3

If you're doing it as a hobbyist, then the photos you take are for YOUR social media. To display your talent. Not for her social media to get orbiters.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:12 PM
1

You can't be friendzoned if you're not trying to nice guy your way to pussy. It's only a matter of time until the stars align and you're sleeping in a bed together, then the rest is easy. I hope you can see the irony of what you just said... Not being nice to get pussy.. Only a matter of time till you get the pussy.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:15 PM
4

Yeah, the key words "High Quality" have been repeated here and you're ignoring them. The wall does not mean women can't get a man. The wall means they cannot lock down the HIGH QUALITY man they believe they deserve. So they start scrambling for the "rest" of the men they've been ignoring. FFS read the sidebar before you start whining about this shit.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:09 PM
5

I've already said I'm early 30s. I plate women from early 20s (22 is my youngest plate this year) to late 30s. Current roster is 26, 29, 33, 36, 37. 29 and 36 are the ones vying the hardest for LTR. The 22 broke because she wanted commitment and I wouldn't give it so she easily found someone who would (university athlete, not hard for her to find a bloke). My other 26 broke a couple of months back for the same reason. Replacing plates at my age is so easy it's not even worth talking about any mo…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:17 PM
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