Do you orbit her by watching her Snapchat/Instagram Stories?

cant__find__username · 2019-01-06T01:23:55+00:00

Wasting your life

latinasonly · 2019-01-06T01:46:46+00:00

whether your "alpha" or "beta" in her mind depends on how you carry yourself , your demeanor , and the fundamental way in which you interact with others not on whether you watch a girls story or not . you choose whther your an orbiter. do you watch her story because you like her or because your trying to get her to like you? are all your hopes and dreams on this one girl , or are you out meeting new people.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-01-06T03:56:05+00:00

To a woman, the greatest asset you have, your greatest currency, is your attention and validation

The more you give your attention and validation, without them earning it or offering anything in return, the more she will lack respect for you and look down on you.

Follow them all you want...if you want chicks to never be attracted to you. They will assume they don't have to do anything for you to watch her.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2019-01-06T02:55:43+00:00

Gay.

bigflame123 · 2019-01-06T01:24:02+00:00

If you do so frequently, nothing wrong with checking once in a while but if you become a consistent follower, you’re just another number on her list of people who watch her stories that will make her feed off of the validation that gives her, so mostly yes you orbit them

shneakypete · 2019-01-06T07:01:50+00:00

I am going to disagree with the crowd here and say no.

-Don't be the first one to watch her stories.

-Don't be the first one to like her pictures.

-Definitely don't leave any creepy comments like "you're gorgeous."

-If she posts a story with a meme, pay attention to it. If you can come up with something witty, fire it.

-Slide into her DM's. Follow texting rules. Send a message and only reply if she replies.

-get good at stories and be sure to include as many girls as you can.

A lot of these guys are hell bent on not giving her validation. I think to a certain extent that is correct. On the other hand you need to show intent. Make a move.

I was following a chick on IG who was a model. Also an acquaintance. One day I sent her a meme and she replied. Then she sent memes. I escalated. She sent nudes. Then we fucked.

IG is huge. You can build your brand on your profile and you can present yourself with great control. If your stories are fire and your profile is fire then you've got some form of social capital. You basically put in some work and you can build comfort by detailing your life, gym time, hustle, family post, etc. By the time you slide into her DM's OR you hit on her in real life she already knows what your life is like. For her, it's a win win because she can stalk you from afar and she can see if you're worth it or not. For you it's a win because you put in the leg work to build comfort on IG and then it applies to ANYONE who follows your account.

Watch Tyler rsd's YouTube video on social media game.

https://youtu.be/x5IUxKrMDHo

Bedtimeshine · 2019-01-06T16:57:06+00:00

This isn’t a question you should be asking because, as a grown man, you shouldn’t be on Snapchat or instagram.

PolesWithGoals · 2019-01-06T01:41:58+00:00

Don’t do that

MarriedWRP · 2019-01-06T02:37:02+00:00

Does she watch your stories?

jenovajunkie · 2019-01-06T06:14:51+00:00

I watch Whitney Cummings stories because her everything makes me happy. I don't religiously keep up, but when I have time I check it out. If I could have anyone in the world, I think I'd opt for her.

I do that with a lot of my friends as well, just to get a glimpse of what they are up to. Sometimes it's shameless promotional stuff for something they're trying to push and that's okay. You can skip that if you want you know. I genuinely am interested in these people and they're lives, but I know I have a life too that definitely takes priority over whatever the IG/SC is about.

I don't know what orbit means though. I'm guessing it means like "hover".

ggggggggee · 2019-01-06T08:19:09+00:00

I don't like, view stories or comment for shit. It's free validation.

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-01-06T12:55:53+00:00

In my ig I don’t look stories except of my 3 friend (and artist) and I don’t follow anyone I use it for work

richasalannister · 2019-01-06T06:01:38+00:00

Unless it brings value to your life, then no

blingbladeade · 2019-01-06T05:42:51+00:00

Yes is the short answer

Caper67 · 2019-01-06T06:06:42+00:00

Trolllll

Title	Do you orbit her by watching her Snapchat/Instagram Stories?
Author	cloudboyss
Upvotes	22
Comments	38
Date	January 6, 2019 1:19 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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