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Oh no, once they're here they become westernized. My point was you would have to go to those countries and be the foreigner yourself. My bad if I didn't make that clear. GLO says find a way to make $ online, move to a country where you don't get tax assaulted, while being a god among Latin American women. Most men want to know how to turn the western woman into a housewife when the reality is you're probably going to have to leave this continent to get what you desire.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:35 AM
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Wrong. Default answer is always imanari roll to heel hook in any environment that you suspect disrespect. Boss, co worker, wife, child? Doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:58 AM
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Must have missed the mark with slavic women but none the less, GLO has had great posts about this topic in the past. Western women are not the come all end all of the sexual market place. Latin American women in their homeland , on average with outliers excluded, will worship you.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:49 AM
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It's only been a month man, it gets better don't worry. Every ounce of shit you go through from now until the end will shape and forge the man you'll stand up tall as in the end. Remember, women are born, men are made. Like a stone that's been chiselled, or steel that;s been heated, slammed and forged. It's the hardships that make that end result. A lot of times when I see a certain type of older man. Proud, still, scars, silent, powerul... I think, "I wonder what type of shit that bad ass mothe…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:33 AM
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That desire is no longer applicable in western society simply because the economy and the sexual market place / economy are directly intertwined. Everything that happens at a meta scale influences the sexual scale. The desire to have what our grand parents had is no longer an option but a rare outlier. Asking why we can't have what our grand parents have is like asking why we cant purchase VCR's and floppy disks anymore at tech stores. Different times. Best advice would be to move to a Latin Ame…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:25 AM
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You already know the fucking answer. You literally said in the post that you cant make yourself go out with her and all the reasons why. This should have been a one and done conversation with your bathroom mirror. The fuck did you come on here for?
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:13 AM
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Fuck it then, cum in her and marry her before the baby gets here.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:04 AM
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Foster childhood? Abusive relationship? Sidebar? Never stick your dick in crazy... Plate her if you want but shoot that load as far away from her crotch as you can young grasshopper. Or,,, you know.. Aim higher and plate someone above the sewer ?
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:56 AM
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" I believe depression is legitimate. But I also believe that if you don't: -exercise -eat nutritious foods -get sunlight -get enough sleep -consume positive material -surround yourself with support Then you aren't giving yourself a fighting chance. " 99% of "depression" in the west today is the lack of most of the above. You do all that ^ and you're still down? Then you might actually have a problem. Had a friend who was to every other doctor, on every other antidepressant, and nothing. He fina…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:44 AM
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I've read every reason here, a lot of good ones, but this one takes the cake. When hardship and grief knocks on my door, I'm reaching out to you. Deepest sympathies to you for what I can't even comprehend the pain of dealing with. True character, strength and fury isn't about smashing through the rocks, it's about finding that one and only reason to stand back up when the rest of the world along with another million reasons are telling you to stay down. Respect to you my man.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:24 AM
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Read the original rational male first it's the core of everything. Then read preventive medicine then positive masculinity. That was the order in which they came out. The first and original rational male goes into the core of what you'll want to know before reading the next two which dive more into specifics.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:06 AM
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If so then even more reason to be clear of her. You could be jesus or satan it doesn't matter, women will make you out to be the devil but at the end of the day it doesn't matter. You can't control anything but your own actions and how you react to other people. The next girl you snag will know that your ex fiance is full of shit when you're plowing her brains out and being that masculine rock she craves.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:02 AM
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It's a huge red flag. I've dealt with a similar situation with someone in the past that I thought was on the right track to be a newly promoted LTR until something like this happened. Your girl should be like a female wolf. You obviously lead but shes there beside you to have your back and protect your throat in times of danger. This behaviour your finance demonstrated sounds a lot like someone who only shows up when it benefits her. To be honest, I was incredibly surprised to read that this beh…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:47 AM
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It's ASK TRP ,its like me writing 2+2=4 on the chalk board and you telling me it took me under a minute to write. It's simple and common knowledge to people who aren't autistic retards.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:02 AM
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The ASKTRP answer would be something like " Not to girls who interest me" The TRP answer would be something like " Why are you taking time from your purpose or mission to write a post about an insignificant fucking western female ?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:50 AM
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I love you but you used to wrestle and box ( not sure if you still do either?) Don't you know tons of people who power lift and dedicate themselves to the weights that still come along and act like drowning babies and anxiety ridden mothers once they hit the wrestling / bjj mat or the boxing ring? Lifting is a must , obviously. Like brushing your teeth. But the ultimate stress test under pressure is learning a quantitative combat system like mma - bjj, wrestling, boxing or kickboxing that you ca…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:55 AM
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Women love that shit because they lack the same agency the cast members lack. Reality tv is a projection for the sake of validation in the same way as social media. When reality tv shows end, the cast are known simply for "being a cast member on that show." The same way most women are only known for "showing their ass on instagram". Zero agency outside of those parameters. That new reality tv show "the circle" where the cast members only see one another's social media and nothing else, and then …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 05:59 PM
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You probably had stretch marks before hand, just couldn't see them. The protein elastin is what allows the skin to accommodate for hypertrophy and excess fat. I would imagine that you see them because you are metabolizing adipose tissue, which requires blood, hence the red appearance. Dont buy into the cocoa butter/vit e BS. thats hollistic nonsense. I would venture to guess that when you level your cut out, they'll fade but will never go away.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:35 AM
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Go back to the sidebar and read the infamous post entitled: "There's this one girl." You either have the memory span of a gold fish or you didn't read the sidebar. What a fucking sewer pipe this place has turned into.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:07 AM
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Keep feeling sorry for yourself. Keep being non social. Keep refusing to travel anywhere. Continue to refuse to approach women. Don't ever kiss or sleep with one. Keep being an uninteresting hermit and most importantly of all, never ever read a book and never pick up a barbell. Keep doing that and you'll be sure to own the world bro. PS. You haven't swallowed any pill.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:36 PM
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Your tribe should consist of those who share your purpose and add value. If you allow people into your tribe that negatively impact you then you either have to accept the grief they'll bring you or cut them out. You are the product of the tribe you keep. Took me a while to learn this one and there are still people I care about in some capacity that I had to let go of because they weren't willing to work on themselves nor did they share the purpose I was after. I'm on my path now and they're on t…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:35 PM
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Bodybuilding and fitness forums would be a better place to get all the info you're looking for. Also just asking for an ideal weight isn't helpful because it says nothing about body composition. You could be 6'2 200 - 220 lbs with 25 % body fat or you could be 6'2 200-220 lbs at 10% body fat. Not all weight is created equal in terms of bodybuilding and body composition. Go to the fitness websites and use their caloric calculators. They'll factor in your height, weight, age, body fat %, activity …
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:09 AM
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No. You're fooling yourself if you think have the fortitude to entertain a no strings attached dynamic with your ex. Just by reading what you wrote so far and the language and tone you used to describe how it ended and that you've just "finally" become happy in your life again, and you think the moment you get your shit together and heal from the loss of your oneitis that it's time to jump back in the pool with her? She'll be your reformed unicorn in less than a month. Steer clear. Lift, read, d…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:16 PM
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GLO said it best when he said quote: "A nice guys definition of Moral and Good is a product of their media consumption and 12 years under the super vision of midwit public school teachers. The purpose of schooling isn't to create pussy destroying alphas, entrepreneurs, rock stars or anything exciting or fulfilling. The purpose of schooling is to create dull compliant employees the kind you see at the DMV. That's the kind of worker corperations need and that's what the Pearson and McGraw Hill tex…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:03 PM
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Well you could take the Paul Elam victim hood approach and turn yourself into a screaming, crying little bitch. "Waaaaaaaa im a non lifting beta bitch who's only agency is to cry about how unfair life is for men :( :( ;( ;(" People like him are a disgrace to TRP and it should be made clear that he's the furthest thing from what TRP is at its core. Or you could start lifting heavy and reading intellectually challenging books. The goal should be a wilful mind and body. Working out for big muscles …
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:00 AM
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Great post. Anyone can do anything when motivated. There isn't anything impressive about grinding when you feel like grinding. But it's not about being the best you can be on your BEST days. It's about forging yourself into being the best you can be on your absolute worst days. Like Yoda said, " Do or do not, there is no try." Just do it. That's it. If you want a little extra motivation like the cherry on top, however, just think about how pathetic and to shit men are headed during this pandemic…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 07:31 PM
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1 month later = world lockdown Yeah GLO, it's just media sensationalism... The world and its economy is now on it's knees. But you were still over reacting...
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 05:11 PM
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Lifeisfuckingcrazy writes: "I seriously can’t believe that you would write something like this GLO. Is this just a test to see if your readers will blindly gobble up any bullshit you randomly come up with as long as you use humor and a condescending tone?Surely someone as intelligent as yourself is smart enough to realize that Coronavirus is just media sensationalism. The entire time I was reading this I was thinking about how this is just a low-effort shitty ripoff of GLO. Then I saw the author…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 05:09 PM
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Women aren't mass shooting because they're too busy drowning their children in bath tubs.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 11:45 AM
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I live in a smallish town and I feel like boundarie maintainence has an advantage even more so here where more people or women may have a general idea about your past relationships. For example the girl you're dating now knows or has heard that you've cold dropped your last couple of relationships for boundarie slip ups and not only takes your word for it but realizes by your past actions that you're not bluffing and if she doesent want to be dropped in the same manner she better not fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 11:52 AM
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It's a shame this post is already taken down. Censorship once again trying to conceal the truth. You can still read it over on the other subreddit " The_Red_Pill ". But at least it looks like the 21 con is finally being seen for what it really is. I look forward to another 2 hour Red man group podcast about how this doesn't bother them... lol "We're not at all bothered by GLO's truths and we just ignore them but here's 2 hours of us yelling about why it DOESN'T BOTHER US! " - The Red Man Group. …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 06:31 PM
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only the opposite
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:28 AM
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The 1st push was that I've seen 2-3 other girls wearing the same dress , the second push was that she should shop more exclusively and be a peacock instead of chameleon , the pull was that it was a nice dress .
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:02 AM
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I work carpentry and I took a 2 year carpentry trade 10 years ago. You have theory and you have hands on. It's easy to sit in class and understand the type of scaffolding you need to construct to safely reach and bracket a 21/12 pitch roof . It's another story when you're on that 21/12 pitch on a windy day navigating those roof brackets with a 50 lb bundle of shingles. Theory means jack shit. Hands on is the only way you learn anything. I'll take a guy who's spent 1 month on the job over a guy w…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:52 AM
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I feel like I'm on the episode of The Office now where Michael asks Oscar to explain to him what a surplus is, as if he was a 5 year old.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:33 AM
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I approached a girl last night wearing a sexy red dress. I said Hi what's your name ? She said her name is Katie. I said Katie I have good news and bad news about that dress. What do you want to hear first , if any? She looked at me with a suspicious grin and said " the bad news, always the bad news first. " I said , "I've seen like 2-3 different girls wearing that same dress in the past week ." She said " is that so?" I said " yeah.. So you might want to consider shopping at a more exclusive lo…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:15 AM
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I would go into it assuming the mental frame of a white African space Christ.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:41 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:16 PM
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Rollo has "outliers " at the end of each chapter to explain why some women may not follow the behaviour of each phase. For example a girl gets pregnant young , so spends the party years in more of the "developmental " phase . It's likely once the child gets older however , shel have her party years later in life. There are outliers for every scenario and obviously Rollo doesent claim to have the objective know all of each individual woman, however a guide for men to get the jist of how female hy…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:52 PM
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I started reading Ride the Tiger this morning. I feel like I'm in over my head . Would you suggest any warm up reads or any particular way of approaching the material ? I'll literally read the same line over and over trying to grasp the context. At this rate I may finish the book by the time I'm 80 lol but I refuse to read through blindly without understanding... Maybe my iq isn't quite what I thought it was haha
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:47 PM
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In Preventative Medicine Rollo digs deep into the different phases of a women all the way from teen to elder. He breaks down how they act, change and what to expect within these different phases of their lives. There's the teen phase ( 15-19 - mostly attracted to guys purely on looks alone because daddy takes care of anything and everything provision wise and she has no need to seek security or provisioning yet. The break phase (which is an extension of the teen phase where she goes off to colle…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:46 AM
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All 3 Rational Male books Original, Preventitive Medicine and Positive Masculinity, I think , are equally as important as the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:10 PM
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There were a couple of times in the past when I believed my anger phase was over but there came times where it would sneak back in and I realized I still needed more improvement. When I realized the anger phase was gone for good it was when I seen my ex gf ( ex oneitis ) at a get together at a mutual friends house and to my surprise she approached the (new me?) and showed IOIs and chatted me up after going no contact for almost a year and a half. I didn't want to fuck her and dump her like I ori…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:01 PM
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I'm 30 and steady lifting has turned my penis back into the organ it was when I was 14 years old. ​
/r/askTRP07/02/19 05:51 PM
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I remember this one time in this one place where this one woman actually used this one guy to reap all kinds of benefits even though she didn't love him ... ;) ​ No reason why you can't reap all the benefits while remaining level headed and still maintaining your own growth, goals and missions. Milking this cow is fine as long as it doesn't become your only source of milk. And no I would never LTR someone like this when you can just plate or FWB them and get the same benefits. Enjoy her while sh…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:59 PM
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Because they're beta AFCs who think women who go from the cock carousel alpha fucks in their prime into the beta bux during their epiphany phase that it's their time and all the patience and nice guy acts are "finally" paying off and the women finally "mature" and understand now what a "real man" is. Then they'll still fuck the alpha when possible and poor Billy Beta will pretend he didn't see the semen on her chin when she got home. Read the Rational Male.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:57 AM
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What Vynxe-Vainglory said ^ Like Rollo says so often in the Rational Male women want a man who "just gets it." It's a meta shit test.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:33 AM
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Heel hook
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:46 PM
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Girls where I live ( eastern Canada ) do that all the time with hockey players. The gals love their hockey players here and you've never seen hypergamy at its finest until you see a Canadian woman find out that a guy plays pro hockey in the QMJHL, OHL, WHL, AHL , ECHL etc ... I'm talking "happily married 2 Kids " "unicorns" taking it in the ass in a fucking bathroom stall...
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:18 AM
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Abundance doesn't always or only mean an abundance of women. It means an abundance of options with how you spend your time. Lift, read, grow, chase that mission. You don't get an abundance mindset when you get the things you desire. You get the things you desire with the abundant mindset. Acknowledge everything you can control, and light it up. Get to work.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:36 AM
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Develop and/or mimic a sex-satisfied, not a sex-desiring, mental disposition. Women don't consciously agree with this but their psychological firmware nevertheless insists on being attracted to men who are already getting laid. This is a very primal form of pre-selection as her mind conducts this subconscious logical syllogism: "I don't know whether this man is fit for reproduction but the fact that there are signs that he may be already getting laid (he's not desperate, he's barely trying, he's…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:26 AM
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That doesn't change the answer.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:36 PM
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The medium is the message.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:32 PM
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Approach. That's it. Always keep your pencil sharp. It's the same as lifting. If you stop your body gets soft. ​
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:29 PM
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Have your own mission independent of her and let your goals and aspirations become the "other woman" that she tries to compete with. I just treat them like they're my bratty little sister because that's what comes most natural to me and they seem to love and embrace that dynamic. I don't sit there and try to unnaturally be Conan the Barbarian. I'm a generally nice person who doesn't take shit too seriously including women. Amused mastery and a little Agree and Amplify is something I've come to n…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:51 PM
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You're going on vacation for 10 days bro. Just focus on having a wicket fucking time. ​
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:08 PM
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The AFC ( Average Frustrated Chump ) / Nice guy is someone who displays Beta behaviors as a form of currency to earn the affection or approval of women. This is conditioned by the feminine imperative from a young age through school, teachers, media, blue pilled parenting etc. This is what the Nice Guy truly believes is his best approach to get the pedestalized attention from the feminine that he so badly craves. He's not being nice because he's nice. He's doing it for her approval. That's the de…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:39 PM
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If I had a dollar for every time I've seen a fella doing good with a woman while early in the night only to absolutely blow it up like the fucking death star because he kept pouring the alcohol down his throat, id be rich. My past self included. Like AnyDoughnut said, if you need any substance to mask and buffer more serious underlining issues than it's a big problem. Most young people obviously use alcohol as a form of "balls" to finally approach women but the problem most of the time is that b…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:06 PM
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Just take two plates out of the cupboard, stack them, shit on them and then smash them on the floor. There's my field report.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:33 PM
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Someone who invented the wheel and built the Eiffel Tower out of metal and brawn. Unlike women with a small brain. A brain a third the size of ours. It's science. ~ Ron Burgundy
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:27 PM
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Are you familiar with meditation? As people we always tend to focus on the hardware ( body, diet, money, job etc ) while very important but we tend to neglect the software ( meditation and mindfulness etc ) My advice would be to to practice and improve that facet. There is a wealth of info on Reddit and beyond about meditation and you can start with guided meditations which there are endless categories. Perhaps look up a guided meditation for overcoming feelings of failure ? Start there and take…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:21 PM
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First off you have to change the attitude that your success or failures depend on getting attention from people. Your success is based on conquering things that make you happy and better you as a man. You dress well for you. You workout for you. You eat healthy for you. If people notice cool, if they don't who cares because you aren't doing it for them. Create your world for you and then bring people into it if they bring you value. Meditation is also extremely important for developing a strong …
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:48 PM
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Nor would I. True story...
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:21 PM
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How to win friends and influence people is a great read for this topic .
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:18 PM
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Also, don't fucking discuss your views of this on Facebook. Remember , think as you will but act like everyone else. Two men on my FB got into a heavy debate about this three days ago and by the end of it , everyone in Facebook land sided with the white knight and the other man using nothing but calm and pure logic was labeled " no different than someone standing there doing nothing while a women was being raped."
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:08 PM
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Perfect example of the ever more prominent feminine emparitive that Rollo Tomassi talks about. Notice it's all white males in the commercial that commit the toxic acts. Never a minority. Wanna talk about the toxic masculinity in Islam for a minute ? Didn't think so . The point is , abuse , harassment etc is all wrong and we know that. Abuse , harassment, bullying is all forms of effeminate - beta behaviour. What the feminine emparitive is doing , is taking these things and attaching them to the …
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:48 PM
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My bjj /mma coach uses fb to advertise his gym so my FB is littered with pics of me that he's tagged me in while training , rolling , competing etc. That gets me a shit ton of likes from girls and I'm not the one posting them so it doesn't come across as validation seeking or needy like a shirtless selfie mirror pic.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:23 PM
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That's her ASD kicking in. Remember , covert not overt. Pressure flip and ask her why she has fucking and touching on the brain so much? She's notorious for saying things that don't line up with her actions? - -Really? You actually mean a woman's actions contradicted her words? DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS WATCH WHAT SHE DOES She wants to fuck you. She's going to fuck you. She's just simply being a female. ​
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:08 AM
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^ This guy reads the Rational Male Books
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:54 AM
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That's your call. The RP is amoral and is simply a tool box you use. Tools can build hospitals and tools can build nuclear bombs. It's up to you to decide what your personal morals and boundaries are. Personally I wouldn't get involved in any capacity with a woman that any of my friends had a history with simply because I value the relationships I have with my close friends a hell of a lot more than a hole between a woman's legs. I also don't want a plate, an ex plate , a FWB or an LTR having an…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:25 AM
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Tel her your're a busy fella but you enjoy spending time with her when you're able to.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:02 AM
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Why can't people read the sidebar first?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:28 AM
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Material on IOI is in the sidebar. Just assume attraction and escalate. If rejected move on and game another. Getting your mind wrapped up with IOI can cause hesitations and uncertainty and just wastes time. Assume you're the cock of the walk and escalate. If you score great if not you've saved time by not wondering and now onto the next.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 12:25 AM
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Abundance my friend. Pleanty of more cute girls out there that future you is going to game.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:20 AM
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It doesen't matter. Don't worry about why a tinder girl unmatched or said no. The potential reasons could be infinite. Move on and game others.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 12:38 AM
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You can be higher status than her and control the frame , but she'll leave you for someone that has higher SMV than yourself if the opportunity presents itself. No sense stressing over someone you have no control over. Why waste your emotional energy and your life on a semi-permanent feature in your life, it just beats logic. When it’s your turn, just set boundaries and if they cross that line, or whatever it is you put, pull the kill switch. End it. No argument.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 01:27 AM
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It's going to be hard to put on serious mass without the weight and equipment to perform the old faithful compound lifts. My advice for the pull up bar would be to get a back pack and put some weight in it once you can do 8-10 pull ups un weighted , then move onto weighted pull ups. Also rig up something that allows you to do dips and follow the same rule as the pull ups. I've used chairs in the past for dips. If you have the $ I would invest in an Olympic bar and some weights along with a squat…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 01:12 AM
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She's never yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:52 AM
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Sounds like the typical ," you're like a brother to me." If you read the sidebar you wouldn't have asked this question. You're describing a cliche AFC orbiter.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:44 AM
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Trolllll
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:06 AM
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Eat healthy and pick up and put down heavy weights...
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:05 AM
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!00% - Rollo Tomasi preaches that any time a woman says anything to you, you place , - "Right Now I Feel." infront of what she may say...
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:50 AM
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What this guy said ^ I have a very blue pilled friend who bases his entire worth on the validation of women. He went 8 months without having sex and he just recently "kissed" a girl at a new years party and he now acts like Hugh Hefner... He's still the same blue pilled guy hes always been, but he will now walk around for 2 months acting like he won the lottery, not because he had sex with a girl, but just because he "kissed" one. He is the same person pre and post kiss. - which means he did zer…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:38 AM
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You only failed 3 times? The masters of the game aren't the ones who've succeeded more than us but the ones who've failed more than us. 3 isn't a sample size for anything. You need to fail a fuck ton more times than that my man. Aim for 10 rejections per week. Ten rejections or more is a win. 9 or less is a loss. I met my favorite plate on a night that I was shut down at least 8 times.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:09 AM
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Improved posture, fixing muscular imbalances, bone density, discipline, endorphins, strength, increase testosterone, confidence, enforcing habit and routine to my life, complement my jiu jitsu training. I also enjoy playing hockey. ​
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:23 AM
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What she has written on her tinder profile isn't meant to be read and taken overtly. It's an anti slut defence. Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does. All of this is in the sidebar man soak it in.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 11:26 PM
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Just be friends with benefits and hook up when you're able to. Unless you want a girlfriend who's getting banged 3 hours away by a different Chad every weekend. ​
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:57 PM
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Never mind these titles of bad boy, jerk, etc. Think of a "man". A man is someone who is not afraid of his testosterone nor afraid to embrace his sexuality. A man follows the passion in his life. A passion of women? Of course not! A man has goals and and desires that go above chasing women. After childhood there are winners and losers in life. A man desires to be a winner. A man wants to win in what he does, because of his passion a man can sometimes come off as arrogant and egotistical, he does…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:44 PM
5

The first rational male is easily downloadable in PDF format. The rational male volume 2 preventative medicine and volume 3 positive masculinity weren't anywhere to be found for download so I ordered then on Amazon in kindle format for like 9 bucks each. That's peanuts for how valuable those books are.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:30 PM
3

Has a society of movies and media that's portrayed men as more feminine changed men's behaviors in real life? Unfortunately, yes.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:20 PM
6

Yep. The male equivalent to a slut isn't a man whore. It's a beta orbiter in the friend zone. If men can get sex from women without having to give attention and investment then a woman can get attention and investment from men without having to give sex. ​
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:12 PM
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Remember, women are mirrors of what a man feels. If you feel unattractive and self conscious and awkward, she will pick up on that. So sexy or attractive isn't as much as what others might consider it to be on you but rather your state of mind. Do what makes you feel attractive, do what makes you feel sexy. If you feel sexy, then she'll think you're sexy. So do what makes YOU feel sexy bro!
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:57 PM
1

I have a bit of a Madonna / Whore complex when it comes to this. I don't plan on being in an LTR again after finding TRP ( might change my mind in time who knows?) But I have a plate that's definitely rode the cock carousal who knows the tricks of the trade and I have an absolute sexual attraction that I just can't seem to match with other women. I just go crazy with her. Zero feelings other than sexual and love to treat her like a sex slave. And vice versa, the more a women seems reserved or mo…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:51 PM
2

I had a friend once who is a girl come up to me and tell me that her friend and coworker told her that she wanted my sperm. So I said, "where does she want it?" and my friend laughed and said no not like that. She has a bf but said if she could she would buy your frozen sperm from you for down the road when she has children. I'm above average, muscular build , 6'1 - 195 but this was the first and only time I've ever heard that type of compliment from a women I've never spoke to or met.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:43 PM
1

Also read. You'd be surprised about how many conversations you can have by simply recalling different material you've read about and learned.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:03 PM
19

You shit where you ate if your plate shares the same social group. Then you showed a complete lack of abundance by reacting to what a plate did. You should have nexted her after the kiss and gamed another chick. Having feelings for a plate you share a social group with who kissed another guy that got a reaction from you is a recipe for disaster man. Fight those feelings and move on.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 11:03 PM
9

I reveal very little about my self while asking people questions about things I know interest them. You can literally just ask questions and someone will come away thinking you're the most fascinating coversation they've ever had. Read How to win friends and influence people.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:56 PM
4

This question about N counts still gets me. Because... ​ 1: if you already know or think her N count is high than shes a slut or you've been warned. Red flag Why the fuck are you talking about N counts? Side Bar If you have to ask this question ^ , you probably need to see a physiologist at the very least.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:01 AM
1

You answered your own question in the title. You just forgot your comma. You said: " What to do next? You meant: What to do, next? - - - Yes, next her. Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:53 AM
1

Focus. It's not a book that's meant to be read once and instantly understood. You don't read it once and become a GOD of the 48 Laws. Use it as an encyclopedia that you dip into for ever as your life progresses in what ever ways it may apply to you.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:43 AM
5

If it's that consciously normal to you, just stop it.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:21 AM
3

Rollo Tomosi touches on this in the Rational Male. He says women want a man who "gets it." So if she has to tell him what would make her feel attracted then that means he doesent get it because he needed to be told. But it's more subconscious and covert than that. A lot like divorced husbands who say if she'd just tell me what to do to make her love me again then I'd do it. Not knowing that the verbalization of that statement and the belief in open overt communication is what killed their woman'…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:26 PM
3

Instead of plowing the ass off of her the first night she stayed over, you layed in bed, talked, cuddled and fell asleep. She doesn't exactly see you as alpha Chad Thundercock now. You're now put in the beta box. "Make him invest time and provisioning since he doesn't give me the raw, primal feels." This is the girl you'll spend weeks courting until she finally gives you a sniff at her vagina. Only to be fucked anally in a bathroom stall next weekend by a guy she met 10 minutes prior because he …
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:26 PM
7

10 page memo texts = listening to what she says. Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does. Nexting is the correct play. Even if she was receptive before the club - don't put up with disrespect.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:07 PM
26

That will come with time. Keep improving and keep putting things that serve your highest self first. Feedback loops that you've maintained for most of your life don't evaporate over night. Just keep doing you and know that whatever guilt you still may feel isn't objective but rather the evaporation of your blue pilled self.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:43 PM
18

When a girl ignores and withdraws attention, you always do the same. Move on and game other chicks. The answer is never to chase or show more investment. Never be more invested. A little more side bar .
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:37 PM
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Yeah if she was interested she would have ridden your cock that night, agreed to your request for drinks the next night or at least rescedualed a date. Don't accept her friend request. Social media is her world, her frame, not yours. Don't be another one of her hundreds of male FB orbiters. If she drops some interest later down the line then you can re evaluate. But your interaction with her now is done. Moving on.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:02 PM
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Awesome answer. If you're in an LTR with someone whom you feel you constantly have to mate guard then you've LTR'd the wrong girl. It's like this fella I used to hang around with years ago. He would get us is so many scuffles throughout the years because he was a big mouth trouble starter who couldn't handle any situation without snapping. And if me and my other friends would stand by he would call us pussy bitches for not "having his back." I got kicked out of a lot of places and got a lot of p…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:51 AM
2

Stay the fuck away from anything that isn't 100% Red Pill backed. Fitness YouTuber did not drop some TRP knowledge. Everything has an agenda. This is another example. Instinctively monogamous haha. That's a good one. It's just your turn. Go lift.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:04 PM
3

Rollo Tomasi for the win always! Read all the Rational Male books but the Rational Male Volume 2 ( Preventive Medicine ) specifically digs deep into the natures and phases of women throughout different stages of their lives and how it applies to LTRs and marriages. An excellent manual for any man who chooses to enter an LTR or marriage of his frame.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:03 PM
1

There is a reason I told Lara she was going to hell long before this. Lara is raunchy and has zero shame. Lara couldn't give two fucks about being overt. If you really think that there aren't any women out there that display overt behavior for attention or any other agendas then maybe you aren't as red pill " seasoned" as your name suggests. ​
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:18 PM
7

It was a healthy mix of guys and girls at the outing. More than a fair share of the gals were laughing like hyenas also.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:11 PM
12

I just realized I wrote "diseased" mother. Typo, I meant "deceased". My bad also.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:44 PM
37

He didn't break down in front of his girlfriend the moment he found out his mother died. He broke down in front of his girlfriend 16 years after the fact. It's not about NOT crying over a deceased loved one. Of course you're going to cry and of course you're going to have emotional reactions about that and a long list of other things through out your life. It's about WHO you show those reactions to. Break down when you're alone, break down with a close male friend, break down with your father, b…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:18 PM
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I didn't want to get into it at all. I just nodded and said "Well you were already going to hell long before this."
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:11 PM
4

Yes. But there's a fine line between displaying desire in your eyes and being that creepy guy glaring at her that has the potential to have her tied up in his cellar later that night lol. But it's important to smile. I play the cocky grin game while maintaining strong eye contact as I playfully tease her. I get to the point by upping the kino and sexualizing the conversations. She knows I want to fuck her. But it's sub communicated.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:40 PM
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Read the Book of Pook. Picture you two are 7 year olds in a sandbox. Do little boys sit and talk all day long to little girls? No, they tease them, pick on them, poke them, pull their hair, chase them. Stop being afraid of your masculinity and your testosterone. You don't display desire through seen channels like conversation about Kenya, or flowers and gifts. But through the unseen realm of eye contact, voice tone, posture and getting to the point. Don't underestimate eye contact. People think …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:29 PM
5

When I get asked if I have a girl friend I usually say things like: "Why? Do you want the job ?" "Well we're not Facebook official and I don't cuddle her after sex, so.... No?" "Wouldn't you like to know!" "Woah pump the breaks! We just met and you're getting this personal ? Stalker much ?" - In a playful tone with a cocky little grin "Actually you're the first girl I've ever spoken to in my life." Have fun with it bro!
/r/askTRP18/11/18 07:42 PM
7

Agree and amplify just like shit tests from women. My friends and I trash talk all the time. Guess who gets targeted the least ? Me, because I agree and amplify everything to the point that it becomes no fun for them to even bother. Guess who gets targeted the most? Our friend Jason because he reacts to everything in angry denial. Example: Jason has a tiny pecker! Jasons response- "No I fucking don't !" Everyone laughs and says then why are you getting defensive? He adds fuel to his own fire. No…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 07:23 PM
2

When you said "you wanna throw hands?" And she laughed and said you probably have a girl, she was interested in you by the sounds of it. This is a form of shit test to test your smv. Never say no or yes directly when asked about wether or not you have a Gf. Always give her fun indirect answers. Pressure flip , etc and always sub communicate to a girl that you're taken or seeing someone in some manner even when you're not. Get that pre selection working in your favour and spin that hamster wheel …
/r/askTRP18/11/18 07:13 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. I guess my next question would be , when in a relationship, why does a women's hypergamy keep governing her but while in a relationship a males polygamy stops governing him? Why are we always seeing the women leave ( for the most part) and hardly ever the man leaving? Shouldn't he too be like , "fuck this same old farmilar pussy I need new unfamiliar holes." It seems like males are a lot better at repressing their polygamy while committed than a women is at repressing her h…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:22 PM
11

Women... No matter how much they scratch, claw and scream. Never want to control the frame. They want a man to control the frame. Be that man who doesn't only control the frame but OWNS it...
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:05 AM
1

I understand 100% and agree with that. But I feel as if that definition is more congruent with the word bond itself than it is true love. I feel this connection with my male friends and my family members but I can not claim that as true love. Just a bond forged by struggle. See Its been the rough times that have made the connections I have with my best friends. It's been the rough times that brought my family closer together. I feel like this definition isn't congruent with romantic love but can…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:00 PM
4

I think this goes back to something I believe Rollo Tomasi said about how alpha and beta aren't always absolutes but abstract mindsets and constructs that can differ in various situations or circumstances or environments. In the work place he displays alpha behaviours and tendencies but in inter gender relationships he displays beta behaviours and tendencies. One example was in regards to a hospital waiting room where the Dr is the alpha who just successfully completed brain surgery while some n…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:36 PM
1

In the town that I live in we call everyone buddy. Our best friends , strangers and enemies. There may be different tones based on the scenario but where I live it's deffinitly a culture thing.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:58 PM
1

Yup. Anywhere in Canada. 18 in Alberta, Manitoba ,Sask and Quebec.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:04 AM
3

If you read the texts and post you'd know I was never "down for her" since day 1. She knew it, agreed and claimed to be on the same page. Men aren't vending machines that you put sex tokins into until a relationship falls out.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:42 PM
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After the 3rd time we slept together she asked about what we were / a title and I explained to her that I enjoy the time we spend together but I'm not looking for anything exclusive or long term. She told me she was on the same page because she got out of a LTR 6 months prior and was also not looking to jump back in.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:27 PM
64

The phone conversation was the day before her ultimatum, it happened on Saturday. I was out Friday at a local pub for wing night with a girl who I grew up with who was home for a weekend visit that I didn't see in 6 months ( actually platonic ) and one of her friends were out and saw us together and ran back to tell her that I was with someone else. She called me on Saturday and brought it up. Instead of saying she was just a friend and explaining myself I just calmly reminded her that I was sin…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:46 AM
5

Read the Side Bar... It's all there.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 11:38 PM
2

Then decide what direction is best after 6 months of body recomp.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:45 PM
1

Now when they reply I usually ask if she wants to get to know each other before running off to vegas or should we just go right now? - All shit ive read from the past lol. If they ever ask why you're on Tinder? You say you're looking for the newest additions to your sex dungeon.. Or Virgins, I hear tinder is a great place to meet eager virgins.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:14 PM
3

Dating apps are a crap shoot anyway but when I use tinder ill send that message to all my matches... Do they all respond? Fuck no lol. But for every 6-8 matches. 1-2 may respond and cut through the crap with an actual text. Saturday nights, down town with your range set to 1 km... Give er
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:05 PM
4

Cute - Cell #. Thats it. The more you validate her the more shell respond for validations purpose while Chad is thrusting her against the wall as shes trying to read what you typed back.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 08:48 PM
2

Just eat clean and lift heavy for at least 6 months. Don't complicate it. Healthy and heavy for 6 months minimum.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 08:40 PM
2

The first thing I would suggest would be to not underestimate the power of diet and exercise. When I was going through a very very rough patch I was looking and waiting for this giant shift in my life. But what that shift literally ended up being was proper diet, nutrition and exercise. Get 8 hours of sleep> Eat avocados, almonds, eggs, fish, tuna,chicken, green veggies, berries, fruit etc. Paleo / Keto / Zone. Then literally experience the chemical make up of your mind change and you'll thrive …
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:56 PM
1

The women who can have any man they want but are choosing Tease Migilicudy is because shes fucking the rest of her needs while acting exclusive to the chump. Jesus Christ this isn't science.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:35 PM
5

If you notice your FWB typing on your phone then she's a ONEitis. Jesus man... If she clicked the screen a certain way and put it back in her pocket it could look like shes typing. Outcome Independence section ?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:10 PM
4

10's? You mean 6-7s who spend 6 hours in the mirror before they head out?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:24 PM
1

Yes they do. If this answer was on a test it would have a giant X mark on it. With WRONG written in red pen.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:18 PM
1

Eat healthy shit and lift heavy shit. The two things everyone on the planet fails to understand for some reason.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:03 PM
0

You're game seems to be very similar to JC Andersons Golf Game! Just rinse and repeat! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQVFhqAKcMg
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:14 AM
1

Is there a way for this sub reddit to highlight you, or Matty Aynons responses? Because it's always the most basic/ simple advice that I ever get to read. Is there a reddit filter that let's people read the endorsed members only?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:04 AM
1

Asking here because it crossed my mind just now. But is there an Ask TRP Endorsed Member section?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:45 AM
2

Do things that naturally put you outside of your comfort zone. Like most others have said. But for me. the best advice was never to "fake it till you make it." - But to "fake it till you become it." Early on it's like acting, but one day it becomes who you are. Just like a new grip in golf or a new awkward technique in martial arts.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:38 AM
3

She isn't a FWB by definition if you admit to ONEitis lmao.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:31 AM
8

An exact science. You take the diameter of the ear ring in Cm's and you multiply it by 6 in order to get her N count. We always thought my grandmother and grandfather were each others only sexual partners until my granny wore these giant hooped ear rings to my cousins wedding and it was a huge shock to the family to know what an actual slut our granny really was.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:00 PM
1

He's shorter and seems less physically fit than me. lol please never use sizing someone up as a basis for how a physical altercation may go.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:57 AM
2

Inverted heel hooks.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:31 AM
2

You conceded frame to her when you asked "yours or mine?"
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:00 AM
1

I wish I would have gotten into wrestling back in my high school days. Amazing base and a mental fortitude that just doesn't compare to anything else.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:30 PM
4

I quit alcohol for two years but I now drink again. I cut out beer and sugar and that made a world of difference and I feel way better than I did when I didn't drink at all. I drink once a week on Saturday nights and my drink of choice is vodka and water in a large glass with lime or lemon. Keeps me hydrated , I catch a buz and the next day I feel great with no sign of a hangover. When I used to drink beer, I was a write off for 2 days after I drank.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:49 PM
-1

Generally speaking, you should never kiss on a first date until you're at the location that Sex is going to take place. Kissing gives her validation and puts an end to her chase, so to speak. Kiss away when you're ripping her clothes off but only kissing without any other escalation is a bad idea. She'll subconsciously see you as more beta than a guy who didn't care who was around or what the scenario was but took her somewhere and fucked her anyway. I've had sex in some pretty weird places beca…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:37 PM
3

Look her in the eyes and sub communicate that you're going to fuck her brains out. It's really hard to not fuck a girl that wants to fuck you. Toss a little plausible deniability her way , tell her if she plays her cards right she can come back and watch a movie with you or something.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 01:56 PM
3

Me too brother... 3 years of what I thought was the rest of my life, and then one day she just left. I was devistated and she was indifferent. Like she swatted a fly off the window. But looking back now it was for the best.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 11:03 PM
23

You should have told him you're not that easy.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:00 PM
1

No brother, I'm not wondering wether or not I should have replied based on feeling bad for her. I was wondering if I should reply to try and hurt her even more after she said I should have pulled the trigger That's what I meant by harsh. I know the best way is not to let her shit fit get any acknowledgment but I was tempted to use a few of the above responses to try and drive her over the edge even more lol. The oneitis worry was based on how good it felt to know she was fucked up by it when tru…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:59 AM
5

This 100%. Traditional martial arts are memorization and regurgitation of said pre determined movements in a vacuum. BJJ , Wrestling, Muay Thai and boxing are systems developed outside the vacuum and thrive in the "chaos". Tried, tested and true. Also you could throw in other styles of striking and grappling that are similar to these also. Combat Sambo would be another good go to. A black belt in traditional karate is closer to being a practitioner of a said style of dance than it is a combat sy…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 02:48 PM
1

I train BJJ on Monday Wednesday Friday and I lift on Tuesday's and Thursday's and do some minor isolation exercise on Fridays also. On Tuesday's and Thursdys I focus on simple ( not easy) but simple heavy compound lifts. 5-7 reps per set. Bjj is where I train my cardio so when I lift its purely for strength and size I don't do any thing resembling cardio or endurance. I also need to Eat a hell of a lot more than if I was only lifting and not also training jiu Jitsu. Also Amped AF pre workout is …
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:43 PM
1

I appreciate all the feedback thank you.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:34 AM
8

Have you layed pipe yet? If you haven't And you've had 3 dates and she wants to see you more often and to text and talk more, then you know which side of the coin you're headed for.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:22 PM
2

It's their innate nature man. It's nothing personal it's just the way things are. Remember the one about the frog and the scorpion ? The Scorpion asked the Frog if he could ride on his back to get across the river. The frog then said, but I'm afraid that you'll sting me, to which the scorpion replied, " but if I sting you, then I will die too because both of us will drown. This made logical sense to the frog so he accepted and let the scorpion ride on his back. As they were crossing the river th…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:51 PM
9

Sounds like she did this to get a rise and reaction out of you hence doing it with a coworker she knows you're somewhat close to. This was her way of punishing you for not willing to commit and become her beta bitch boy. Hold frame and don't let it bother you. If there's anyone in this scenario I wouldn't want to be its your beta coworker who's being used like the bitch he is to try and spark a reaction from the guy she's truly attracted to (you) . Smile, wink and ask how you taste. Shel be back…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:33 PM
1

haha I wish I could have used that line at the end.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:32 AM
2

Well it doesn't matter if they're from jiu jitsu or from getting jumped or from falling on my face drunk... But those girls were flocking to me that night and I LOVED it. #noshame I never actually revealed how I got them. Just kept joking about it in ways like " I cut myself shaving."
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:05 PM
1

Haha true that. What about a cut and blackened eye though brahh? ;)
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:37 PM
1

It's just that I've been in the game a long time and have never received such attention from women before without having to initiate it myself.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:26 PM
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