Do I wait for her to setup a date/time to hookup?

failingtheturingtest · 2019-11-25T23:24:34+00:00

Wait a couple of days, if no attempt from her, just suggest another time. If it's just a hookup and the first time she flaked, you will probably need to take the lead again.

If she flakes or can't make the proposed time and doesn't try to reschedule, her interest was too low.

13248 · 2019-11-25T23:26:05+00:00

Yeah. Ball is in her court.

Remember. If she wants to fuck you she will find a way.

The last thing you want to do is come off as needy and that you have no other options.

Also what do you mean you were supposed to have sex with her? Have you fucked her before ?

2019-11-25T23:33:58+00:00

Well from the story you told, you should probably ghost her at least for an hour or two while you go lift.

ChadBroChillington · 2019-11-26T00:14:47+00:00

Never say, "Let me know." You are relinquishing control to her when you say that. Should have just stuck with, "Cool." If she is high interest she will let you know. Game other chicks in the meantime.

MattyAnon · 2019-11-26T03:27:50+00:00

Now, am I in the good by not saying anything else? Since the ball is in her court?

I dunno.... cancelling and not rearranging. Is this ok? Or is this a no-no in your book?

Have sound boundaries and stick to them.

And all this time you're thinking about it? Fuck that, spend that time finding better women.

Title	Do I wait for her to setup a date/time to hookup?
Author	MiggieMind
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	November 25, 2019 11:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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