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1

You have no idea why she is avoiding you. It would be wrong to attribute it to your lack of texting. The reason probably has nothing to do with you and more with the other dicks she is getting. The less texting the better. It means you have a life and maintains a level of mystery, both critical to attraction.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 02:20 AM
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"I have a boyfriend" is shit test 101. "Don't worry I'm not jealous." Not saying you should fuck her tho.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:21 AM
5

No, in fact it's good practice. It makes you feel good because she reinforces your masculinity. She is chaos and you are order. But like I said, you need to keep the addiction in check because it can easily turn into oneitis. Then she will destroy you.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:56 AM
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I mean honestly, as long as you are careful and don't get her knocked up then you do you. I totally get it. She adds a level of excitement you can't get with other chicks. Seems like you have solid frame but keep in mind her goal is to break you. And if she ever does, she will leave you for good and thoroughly enjoy ripping your guts out.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:26 AM
4

You do nothing. Do not mate guard. Any reaction from you will be seen as jealousy. Apply passive dread by maintaining high SMV and continuously demonstrate that you have options, that she is always replaceable.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:00 PM
1

Never answer these questions directly. Teasing and deflection are your ultimate weapons.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:42 PM
5

You need to go find other women to fuck. Demote her to a plate. Do not commit to her and definitely do not marry her. Your oneitis will be the death of you.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:38 PM
1

Trickle truth, look it up. She is just telling you what you want to hear to keep the relationship going. Women will always lie to avoid the consequences of their actions if they can help it, remember that. Also, she will lose respect for you if you actually buy her bullshit. She already admitted to "doing stuff". The only thing in the way is your denial of what really happened and she will let you believe it if you want to. Do whatever you want, just know that this girl has already cheated on yo…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:47 AM
1

She fucked him. Go fuck other women. Stop being exclusive with her and stop agreeing to be exclusive with any woman. You should not be an LTR if you actually believe the shit she is spewing.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:53 AM
5

Stop being afraid to be overtly sexual. It's fucking Tinder dude, that's why she's there. "Work will be smacking my ass all day." She gave you an in and you dropped the ball. That was your chance to escalate. "Come over after and leave the ass smacking to me."
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:11 AM
5

Yes. You came on her face, I'm pretty sure she knows you had fun.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 10:36 PM
3

Some control. Complete control? Not even close.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:14 AM
9

They all cheat dude. Doesn't matter if you are deployed, if she's "BPD". Break it off with this one, the next one will eventually cheat too, and the next one. It's part of what you sign up for with an LTR. At least this one actually confessed. Keep 2 in the kitty and this shit won't even bother you.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:14 AM
2

Exceptionally beta move. You made up a story, so now you are a liar too. And for what? You hope that this will somehow get her to come clean or feel guilty? Far from it. Covert contracts are for pussies. Be direct.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:03 PM
1

No contact until she reaches out obviously. There's a decent chance she will come back and pull the "OMG i totally didnt see your messages!!!" Or some bs like that. Dont respond for at least 24 hrs to that message, then act as if it didn't happen. Set up a time to bang and pull waaaay back with your time and attention.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 03:23 AM
29

It's one of the great cosmic jokes. Women will do anything to lock down an alpha male. Except that by giving them what they want (LTR or marriage) they lose respect for you and thus attraction. Life is funny like that.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 02:16 AM
1

You messed up by giving her way too much comfort. You only knew her for 2 weeks and you let her stay at your place alone? That early on you should be treating her like a hooker. Once the sex is over it's time for her to pick up her sweet ass and gtfo. Would you trust a hooker to stay at your place and not steal all your shit? Her acting so keen was just a test to see how quickly she could insert herself into your life. In actuality she wanted you to treat her like the whore she is.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 02:00 AM
3

Why the fuck would you agree to be exclusive? That's a woman's game. She just doesn't want YOU getting other pussy while she gets other dicks. Always be fucking other women.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 01:46 AM
2

Yes walking away is the only option. In fact she should run away from you, fast.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 06:36 PM
1

A bunch of married women in your "orbit"? Fuck off dude you know you work with them. Don't shit where you eat. You are a thirsty bitch with no abundance and no options. Go out into the real world and find an unmarried woman, guilt complex solved.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 06:25 PM
0

Honestly man, based on your responses here marriage with this woman isn't what you want. You two are too close in financial status and too close in age for her to fully respect you as a leader and husband. You've only been together a year. Ideally you want to groom a young girl in her early 20s for a couple years and shape her into a respectful obedient wife. You need to lay that foundation down for a long lasting marriage, and that isn't possible with this one. Not to mention, she will be hitti…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 10:27 PM
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You are doing the right thing by not mate guarding. Just keep in mind that this kind of stuff is going to come up in other relationships or again in this one if you stay together. Are you going to nuke every relationship whenever the potential for cheating happens? It's just a reality you have to accept when dealing with another human. So far she hasn't done anything. Make her dread losing you and she probably won't stray. In fact she'll probably come home and fuck the shit out of you after spen…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 08:27 PM
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It is oneitis. She has had sex with men before you and will after you. The idea that, "she can only ever have sex with me " is not abundance and is motivated by fear. That's not to say there shouldn't be consequences. We all have our own boundaries of what we are willing to tolerate. So no, "the relationship is over" is not a blanket statement you can just apply in all cases.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 07:39 PM
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You have a healthy perspective and it's good that you acknowledge the odds are good she will cheat on this trip. It's up to you whether a fling is worth ending a good LTR. IMO, getting really butthurt about it is just oneitis. The best thing you can do is implicit dread. If she wants to go to Colorado with a slutty friend then make sure she knows you aren't going to just be sitting around wondering if she is cheating on you. Let her know you're going to be out clubbing with friends and/or other …
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:38 PM
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Dude, if you kept no contact for 10 months and she never reached out to you then she has absolutely moved on. There's your answer.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:03 PM
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Go back and read your post and all the comments you've made in this thread analyzing every detail, speculating on her past and potential future. You are completely in her frame. This relationship is already doomed because you are putting her on a pedestal. Spoiler alert: your LTR is a fucking slut. Just like every girl you will ever have a relationship with. What are you going to do, analyze the ever living fuck out of the next red flag you encounter, and all the ones after? You're stressing out…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 02:44 AM
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Keep in mind a couple of important things: First your spike in attraction for her comes from her rejecting you. It's human nature. It's not real attraction, it's just your damaged ego looking to repair itself. Second, what you want back isn't really her, it's your sense of control. Except you never actually had control anyway, just the illusion of it. Go and fuck another woman asap, I even recommend an escort. Just having sex with someone else will help a ton. And whatever you do, do not contact…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 02:16 AM
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Don't think you understand what I'm saying. You are her first place right now, but that can change. Hence why you said yourself that self-improvement is always ongoing. And it could very well be a mistake for her, except women act in the moment because of tingles not rational decisions. If you're so worried about Chad, why aren't you that guy? Because idgaf about your wife? And as a side note, I would never fuck a married chick. Yeah TRP is amoral but going for a married woman is oneitis. Why wo…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:09 PM
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Well said. Really it comes down to our attachments and desire for control. Let go of those things and you can enjoy relationships with women for what they are.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:30 PM
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If you're worried about your wife finding other men attractive and exploring other options you're not doing something right Not true. You can be the perfect RP husband but nothing is going to stop wifey from getting her tingles if one day Chad decides he has a thing for MILFS and spits game well enough at her. You can only ever be her best option at the moment, nothing is going to stop her biology. That being said, once you realize you are powerless against nature and understand that infidelity …
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:43 PM
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So I end up eating her food and drinking half her soda just so she doesn’t have it. You are a dumbass and you are completely in her frame. You are putting junk you don't want into YOUR body because of HER choices. Do you have any idea how big of a pussy that makes you? You're only doing it because you are worried your precious oneitis will get fat if she keeps eating like that, and then you'll be stuck with a fat bitch. If you actually had a mindset of abundance you'd know that if she ever did g…
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:14 PM
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You did the right thing. You polarized and put in her in a position to reject you outright. Now you can stop giving this chick a single moment of time in your head. Next.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 06:55 PM
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Recognize the impermanence of all things. Are some women worth settling down for? Some, maybe. But what happens after 10 years? 20? 50? Eventually one of you will die or want something different. In general women aren't actively trying to manipulate, they are just being human and we are very fickle creatures. Don't get too attached to anything, including women, because eventually you WILL lose everything at the moment of death.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 06:24 AM
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A lot less than you think. The conversation isn't important, the words don't matter, what matters is building attraction through frame, kino and escalation. That alone should turn you on and her if you do it right. Save the intelligent conversation for dudes, unless you think that what she read on buzzfeed that day is important to you.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:22 AM
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The reason women fall out of love is always the same. They don't see a future with you. The contributing factors are different for every relationship but the reason doesn't change.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:01 AM
2

Really good advice here. Your highest priority right now should be to fuck another girl ASAP if you haven't already. Get an escort if you want. Most of your oneitis is your subconcious believing you have lost access to pussy aka your means of reproduction, a literal life threatening situation to the psyche which triggered your fight response. Trust me, you will feel so much better after.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:44 PM
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It really is a form of oneitis, don't expect anyone else here to admit it though. The quick reflex to hard next by so many is usually because of a past heartbreak, basically PTSD. It's really up to you, generally I think a lot of dudes will throw away a good LTR for such minor offenses due to past trauma.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:01 PM
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Only a fag gets upset at someone pointing out an objective truth. If he's hot, he's hot. It's like getting upset if she said "water is wet!" It's a shit test to see if you get butt hurt over simple facts. A&A is always the best response. "He sure is! Do you think I have a chance?"
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:11 AM
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The way you control her behavior is by removing time and attention, your actions not your words. She is getting too comfortable because you are giving too much comfort. Turn up the dread and watch how fast she gets back in line.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 05:26 PM
1

Not to mention lats are extremely important for aesthetics. They will make you look way more filled out.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 09:24 PM
5

Of course, that's what spinning plates is. You keep hitting 'em up until the plate breaks.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:37 AM
5

Don't confuse chasing with leading. Girls rarely chase. It happens, but it's extremely rare unless you are very high SMV. You have to pick up on IOI's, find out if she is high interest then lead her into sex.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:31 AM
3

Cliche but -- Greg Plitt videos. He was one motivational son of a bitch.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:42 AM
17

There's just so many things wrong here. You shouldn't have been texting her in the first place. Text only for logistics. You aren't her philosphy tutor. Don't fucking text her anything. Ever again. She was using you to pass the class, nothing is ever going to happen with this chick. Dont ask for an explanation and dont tell her how much she hurt your feelings. Delete her # and start reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:42 AM
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Game over dude. Could you have possibly been any more needy in the last text? You literally said, "I need." Hard to turn a girl off more than that. Chad doesn't need shit, and he's probably fucking your crush tonight.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:26 AM
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God I hate chicks who try to act like dudes. Nothing more unattractive really. You should next her just for not being feminine. And don't tell us she is your "friend". Do you often want to fuck your guy friends too?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:55 AM
1

It's a risk you have to accept if you want to be spinning plates. But honestly if it worries you then (legal) escorts are the superior option. They have to be tested regularly.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:03 PM
36

"You're right I should have gone home with him instead of you."
/r/askTRP02/12/19 10:25 AM
3

They absolutely do, but believe what you want.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:16 PM
1

So give them a high SMV man for a change. It also helps tremendously for negotiation on price.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 07:24 PM
2

Old men are NOT the prize. They're past their prime. Any girl you've ever slept with would rather be fucking Brad Pitt (yes, the old one). How many will get to? Probably none.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:27 AM
9

If it's something we both enjoy, why should I have to be a chump by signaling I'm lesser value than her by paying? The BP mindset is thinking that paying for sex signals that you are lesser value. That mentality has been instilled in us because it inflates the value of pussy. If prostitution was legal everywhere and not seen as shameful by society, then the price of pussy would plummet. You'd be surprised how many celebrities pay for escorts. Because they know that when you pay a bitch she fucki…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:05 AM
2

Money is not attractive. It's only worth what it can provide to a woman. If it is providing, that's beta. If it's not, it's meaningless to her. It doesn't impact attractiveness or get pussy wet. Tell that to the hundreds of millions of women got wet reading Fifty Shades of Grey. Money = power. Women are attracted to power. To think money is not attractive to women is a complete denial of reality and you're living in delusion. To argue otherwise is pretty comical and shows you don't really have a…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:35 AM
2

They go to bars, clubs, etc where the crowd is likely to be young. They don't scour golf courses and businesses to find the top 50 year olds Social norms. She isn't going to actively pursue a relationship with a man 25 years her elder because that is generally frowned upon in modern society, lest she be labeled a slut. However if the opportunity presents itself and she can be sure that he will be discreet enough not to tarnish her reputation then she is all for it. The money you mention older me…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:01 AM
1

Never say, "Let me know." You are relinquishing control to her when you say that. Should have just stuck with, "Cool." If she is high interest she will let you know. Game other chicks in the meantime.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:14 AM
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This isn't to say they won't fuck a guy that age--they will--but the bulk of the guys they're going for are only a few years older, not 10. That's got more to do with opportunity than anything. Obviously 50 year old dudes aren't gonna be hanging out in their social circle. A middle aged RP guy with game, status and money who isnt blue billed with 3 kids and a harpy wife is rare, but if a young submissive girl gets access to one you can bet he will be her top choice. Especially when most of her o…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:37 PM
2

You're making good progress bro, just keep lifting and eating. It takes a good 4-5 years to reach your genetic potential as a natural lifter.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:57 PM
3

You can't say that without knowing his BF. At 8% that's an FFMI of 23, which is damn good for a natty.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:53 PM
13

Use Tinder like a fishing pole. Throw a line out and see if you get a bite, but always be working on your game. You need to be out there cold approaching anyway.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:25 PM
3

The TRP SMV curve is correct. Women are attracted to looks, frame, wealth, and status. For men, all of those things improve with time with the exception of looks, arguably. But even then, men age much better than women and in most cases men just look more distinguished and thus more attractive as they enter 30+. Plenty of RP dudes 30-50+ regularly fuck 18 year olds and girls in their early 20's.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:35 PM
16

Sounds like a great plot for a porno.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:42 AM
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At Starbucks, I will compliment the prettiest girl who isn't with a man on her appearance. Oh god no. Don't give random thots free validation, they get plenty of that from a throng of orbiters daily. Try to start a conversation, but don't just hand out undeserved compliments. That's a major simp move.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:29 AM
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Practice. There is no other way. Fail, fail, and fail some more. Start on girls with way lower SMV than you so you will literally ngaf.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:37 AM
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This is what scarcity mentality leads to. You are so far in this chick's frame you are making a whole post about her, and you haven't even fucked her. If you haven't had sex with a girl you mean absolutely nothing to her. I don't care how much you flirt, tease, make her laugh, etc. she does not see you in a sexual way. She has a million other orbiters thinking just like you, that one day she will "come to her senses" and see how much she "loves" you. It will never happen Forget about this stupid…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:34 PM
3

It just so happens that I wish I could be that guy she so desperately craves so much that she doesn't actually ride the CC. Why? Because I want the sense of satisfaction and "conquering" her. Her falling for me would be victory because it means she'll have entered my frame fully before I enter hers This is textbook blue pill thinking. She is never going to "fall" for you. This isn't a Disney movie. She doesnt "enter your frame", you have to put her there from the beginning. Also, dont shit where…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:10 PM
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Of course she remembers. But you dont. You were too busy fucking other chicks to care. At least that's the mentality you should have.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:32 AM
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No one is going to bring it up. No one is paying attention to who texted who last. Are you serious? And on the off chance it does come up, "I dont remember." And shrug. How hard is that?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:27 AM
3

You've only been together 16 months and you already had a dead bedroom situation. What do you think it will be like in 20-30 years? I wouldn't wish marriage on my worst enemy, but if that's really what you want then I suggest Married Red Pill and askmrp.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:10 AM
3

Just because you ask for advice doesn't mean you're going to like the answer. Now go back to getting snuggies from mommy.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:00 AM
1

Don't mate guard. You are displaying low value by doing that. If she wasnt gonna fuck him before you made a big deal about it you can bet she is thinking about it now. Why would you care about some orbiter if you are her best option? Or maybe you dont see yourself that way. More abundance dude. And for god's sake don't get married. Wtf?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:53 AM
3

You obviously havent read shit. You need to polarize. Make it clear you aren't looking to be her friend. Your time and attention aren't free, she has to fuck you if she wants those. Cuz right now she knows you are her little beta bitch.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:14 AM
2

There really wasn't enough of an interaction to know one way or the other. Who wants to answer a bunch of random questions from a stranger, especially while working out? You gotta offer something yourself. Just start talking. Doesn't matter what. Make an observation or tell her about something interesting/funny that happened to you that day. Give her an opportunity to have a conversation. It will become a lot more obvious if she is interested from there.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 01:32 AM
3

Read "How to get laid like a WARLORD" from the sidebar. Specifically this: "6. She tests your frame to test your masculinity. The two are the exact same thing. Women are attracted to masculinity. And masculinity can be defined as a measure of how much pressure a man can endure without it breaking his frame. When you approach a hot woman, she immediately starts trying to break down your frame. She’s testing it for strength. If your frame crumbles in the face of her frame, she knows you’re not a m…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:53 AM
2

But the thing I don't get is why the interest is there although I've really done fuck all Why wouldn't you get that? You must stand out amongst her sea of beta orbiters because you don't simp and validate her constantly like them. That's RP 101. You obviously want to fuck her or you wouldn't be posting about her here. Maybe worth the hassle, maybe not. Fuck her and find out.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:37 AM
1

She hit me up, is showing interest asking me to go out for lunch. We did, I cut off contact, What? You skipped out on a lot of details. Did you try to game her when you went for lunch? Polarize? Make your intentions clear, you are not interested in being her orbiter. Put her in the position to either reject you or go for the D.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:19 AM
2

You plan on moving so this LTR isn't going to last anyway. Stop wasting her time and focus on your objectives.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:13 AM
7

Your username is misspelled, should be Soydude.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:54 PM
2

Stop mate guarding. You broke frame as soon as you asked who he was. Think about it, what are you signaling when you get defensive about her talking to other men? That you are afraid of a higher SMV male stealing her, which indirectly means you think of yourself as low SMV. This is why you should be spinning plates. She is keeping Chads in her orbit to keep her options open so you'd better have options too.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:57 PM
2

There's your first problem. Logistics only.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 09:54 PM
3

Do Chess GrandMasters need security to hold thirsty females at bay? The world champion Magnus Carlsen, actually. He's an uber Chad. He models and even dated Liv Tyler.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 09:47 PM
5

You can get away with a lot of things when you are juiced to the fucking gills.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 09:35 PM
6

You lack abundance mentality. Why the hell are you trying to fuck your friend's gf? You can get your dick wet with a million other girls that don't require betraying someone who trusts you. You call him the beta, but you're so thirsty you would fuck his girl because you can't get your own pussy.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:30 AM
5

Obligatory "Don't shit where you eat." But if it's a job you really don't care about then do what you want. I'm thinking something like "hey tomorrow I'll pick you up at 8, don't eat, well grab some food and a drink or two" Sounds fine. If she wants to postpone or comes up with an excuse don't text her or invite her again until she initiates.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:07 AM
5

Brilliant.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 08:37 PM
3

Women are natural subs. Like red said, "All a Brat wants to do is try to manipulate the man and in a effort to try and talk back or push back she is showing that she isn’t a sub nor you a DOM." Her being a brat and putting up resistance is just another shit test. A DOM-test if you will. Women want to submit, but only to a dominant male. She's not going to get off on being submissive if she doesn't see you as a man worth submitting to. The male has to prove his dominance first. That's where the b…
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