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How not to lose frame

betterthan4chan2 · 2018-11-27T01:59:54+00:00

When I'm alone or with my girl or most my friends I have no problem keeping my frame but I have a few friends I consider family I stay over all the time...

betterthan4chan2

November 27, 2018

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Title	How not to lose frame
Author	betterthan4chan2
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	November 27, 2018 1:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/a0q5ne/how_not_to_lose_frame/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-not-to-lose-frame.69183 https://theredarchive.com/post/69183

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[–]failingtheturingtest0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's a combination of having too much faith and reliance on those you trust, and also having anxiety that you "hold in" when not around them.

You deal with your anxiety on your own because you have to. You know instinctively that you can't trust anyone to do it for you. But when you get around these people that you trust, you can let yourself become vulnerable. You can let all your anxieties bubble to the surface because they will protect you and keep you safe.

The solution is two fold.

When not around people you trust, learn to recognise your anxieties. They're still there. Welcome them, understand that they are there for a reason, and deal with them.

Also recognise that you cannot trust your closest family and friends with your anxieties. Sure, experience this far has shown no consequences. But by letting your anxieties bubble to the surface around them you are not being the best son/friend/man you can be. And they don't deserve that, and you add unneeded stress to that relationship.

Be your own captain!

[–]betterthan4chan2[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link