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| 0 | Was this a $h!t test? And did I fail it?Why bother commenting if you're not going to explain? | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you make conversation more fun?Almost all girls give me this response though. I recently audio recorded some of my interactions and I was horrified at how dead/monotone my voice sounded. I think that's my biggest issue. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you make conversation more fun?The problem is when you ask those questions and they still give you one word answers. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ideal time to ask out girl from class?I appear to have been shadow banned from ask seddit which is why I have to ask it here. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ideal time to ask out girl from class?I found her on facebook would it be weird to add her? If so, should I ask her out in person or ask for her number and pretend like I want to study with her? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ideal time to ask out girl from class?Yes I've talked with her about 3 times before class building some rapport. She seems friendly and asking me questions about me but I suppose that doesn't mean much. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?Lately it's been paranoia about other people noticing, thinking I'm a creep and calling the cops to report me or something. It's like I think everyone is watching. I suppose I have to remember that literally no one gives a shit. Also, I fear running out of things to say and it being awkward. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?Act on what thoughts? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 03:21 AM |
| 0 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?but also tell yourself constantly how much we’re “prizes” to be “won” and “conquered” What are you talking about? I don't constantly tell myself that. Sounds like you're projecting. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?Do you have medical insurance? Consider speaking to a therapist. No but yes I think I'm going to do that soon. I'm actually at Texas State but yeah I tried a councilor once but it didn't seem the same as professional therapy. You might struggle at a social outing, but if you don’t go through that pain, you won’t meet more people. That's true. Don’t worry about the first meeting so much, enjoy the ride to three months out of seeing the same group every week. And how do you suggest finding these g… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?I suppose the real reason is that deep down I know I'm not doing everything I could be doing to have a good life with good experiences and friends. I'm alone in my room way too much. I still have social anxiety about going to a meetup or group socializing event. I fear I would just wander around and struggle to talk to people let alone be interesting or intriguing. I think maybe I am just being lazy. This past week I was hit with a truck of existential dread regarding regrets and FOMO. What frig… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?Ok Thanks. Are you still in Austin? Can I dm you? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?One semester left. I graduate in December. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?after college I had my shit together + free time and slept with more girls in a few months than I had in the years of being a computer science major. Please tell me how. It seems like after college with a cs job you're in a 9-5 cubicle most of the time. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:47 AM |
| 2 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?If you are a happy person content with your life as is Yes I aspire to be this but I don't know how to get it. I think I always thought that I would be miserable so didn't see having a happy, content life as a realistic possibility. Trying to seduce women while not having a fulfilling life that makes you happy is skipping an important step that makes dating way harder than it needs to be. This is another fear I have. Not just being able to get women but no being able to have a fulfilling life. H… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?As you improve your life - achievements, fitness, statut - the quality of the women you can retain will improve. Everyone always says this and I hope it's true but how are women supposed to know? I am going to the gym, eating healthy and on my way to 6 figures but it's not like women are going to notice those things just from walking by. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 6 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?Yeah I'm already in a gym and thinking about therapy soon. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:48 AM |
| 3 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?but one gives you the power of controlling your happiness while the other is that. Does it though? I want to live a good life and find a compatible woman to share in the enjoyment but it seems like the only difference is one woman vs many women. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:47 AM |
| 2 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?Same. But achieving that can be just as difficult as becoming a pickup god. Because in order to get that one girl, you have to be good with all women in general. You still kind of have to do the same approaching stuff even if you only want one girl. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?I agree with the validation part as I see now that validation from women can definitely be an addictive drug like heroin. It's never enough. How do you mean I'm teaching myself to respect them less? | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?Deep down, I knew that it was the latter all along. Is that what you really believe or is that what you want to believe to justify not trying? | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:33 AM |
| 6 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?No problem. Yeah it's strange it's like I was happy to get my first sexual successes with girls but now it's turned into more, more, more. It's never enough. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 09:27 PM |
| 25 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?Now with cold approach it's like keeping your happiness in the hands of random chicks and giving them the power. Yeah I do not think it is a good strategy for your life. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menI also want to eventually move to Thailand. Is it relatively cheap to live there? | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 41 | How To Make A Quantum Leap In Your Inner GameThat’s why I think a lot of guys and myself hold back with being too sexual and forward, they don’t want to blow it by coming off creepy - There’s this terrible tension of wanting to be shamelessly direct and not ruining ones chances | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 02:23 AM |
| 176 | If you’re online dating and the questions you ask are never met by questions in response, it's time to end the conversation.If I followed this advice I would be unmatching every single girl I started a conversation with | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.I don’t do keto and think it’s terrible for you but man you sound like you know nothing about nutrition | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 0 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.That doesn’t mean anything, you can also lose weight eating nothing but cotton candy or Oreos. That in no way proves it’s good for you. It’s idiotic because you can literally become a fat blob yet you can NOT literally become a sugar cube, how is that even close to the same thing? I’ve literally read multiple different books from multiple different doctors. If anyone’s uneducated it’s you. | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 06:10 PM |
| -9 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.Truth hurts - I thought the same thing years back, that’s what they want you to think so you’ll keep eating fat Also, that sugar comparison is idiotic and not the same thing at all | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 05:11 AM |
| -10 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.“The fat you eat is the fat you wear” | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 04:07 AM |
| 20 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.It’s a fad diet that’s horrible for you, for some reason people think it’s good for you | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone.but going out to have FUN with your boys is where the magic happens. you don't rely on anyone Seems contradictory... | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 06:13 PM |
| 12 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR ITNot only that but who picks up a girl in a car anymore? We always come in separate cars | /r/seduction | 06/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | The 3 seconds rule. Jump into the cold shower. Just do it. The most motivating,yet simple video!Seriously, unrealistic expectations will kill you | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 34 | The best thing's in life are free.What are you talking about? I've gotten tons of free coffees from 7-Eleven | /r/seduction | 23/11/20 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Gym and dietCan NOT confirm. I've been obsessed with healthy eating and have been going to the gym regularly for the past couple years. Love life is still barren... | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 04:33 AM |
| 61 | There Are Too Many Women Out There To Be Stuck on One GirlGuys spout this advice all the time on here, but the fact is that there being a lot of women out there is not the same thing as there being a lot of women out there who will like you back - Which seems like what guys who spout this advice are getting at... | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Inner game is the real dealThat is one of the most liberal places in the country - You mean to tell me girls aren’t wearing masks everywhere and freaking out on you for approaching and not social distancing? I don’t want to show a girl that I lack self awareness about corona by approaching but at this point I feel like I’m just using that as an excuse to not approach. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Inner game is the real dealWhat should a good opening look like? And where do you live that you’re able to do daygame business as usual? | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 06:21 AM |
| 1 | You're not a "nice guy" You're a pussy and scared of rejection.How is a guy supposed to take being called a pussy, a compliment? In any case, you missed the point. It’s not about me personally, it’s about the message to the group of guys as a whole. Do you think calling a guy a pussy is going to encourage him to get up and go? Or do you think it’s going to make him feel discouraged and depressed? | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 05:13 AM |
| 6 | You're not a "nice guy" You're a pussy and scared of rejection.Why do people continue to believe that putting people down and insulting them is the correct way to motivate them? | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻I am also curious | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 13 | How To Cut Your Learning Curve In Half - Solve One Step At A TimeI mean... Is giving up even an option? | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 06:55 AM |
| 33 | Being Single During COViDYeah idk I smell bull shit with that one | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 07:22 AM |
| 4 | I don’t think it takes that long to get good at game/seductionYeah no, if anything I’m flabbergasted at how many women say no or I have a boyfriend or I’m a lesbian or you can walk away now | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Men cannot outsmart women in seduction (and shouldn't)I mean there’s always that .0000001% chance that she could be some crazy feminist and scream at you for going direct | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 4 | How to stop bailing out of cold-approaches and get the date.I have a different problem, when I run out of things to say I ask for the phone number and suggest a date as a way to eject from the set | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 28 | Guys what is the first thing you notice on a girl?So we're all just gonna pretend we're not all thinking ass huh? | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 03:40 AM |
| 9 | Dating apps are bullshitLike he said, those experiences are the exception not the rule - The vast majority of people on dating apps do not have that type of success | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 09:23 PM |
| 19 | The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me."If the other person isn’t interested, it will be made obvious. The conversation needs equal participation and enthusiasm. If they don’t care, move on. Don’t waste your time." Well there goes 95% of my matches... | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Friendly ReminderDo you have a source for that depressed pua thing? | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 01:54 AM |
| -3 | Friendly ReminderThe constant sex with women is so overrated anyways I feel like that's just something guys who are not having constant sex with women say to make themselves feel better about the fact that they are not having constant sex with women no? | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 30 | Friendly ReminderWhy is it so hard for guys to internalize this? It feels like no matter how times I try to tell myself this I still feel like less of a man for not getting laid on a regular basis | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 6 | Turns out my dad was a player.So basically instagram, snapchat and tinder brought about a whole new generation of simps? | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I bet you haven't heard my excuse before: I already have been trying to improve myself for a few years now with social skills and going to the gym... I've approached hundreds of girls, gotten a lot of numbers and a few hot women have come out to meet me on dates, but I have had a grand total of zero lays from cold approach - It's very depressing and makes me think I'm destined for no sex - Also I get matches on tinder but they never respond so what's the point? | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 01:27 AM |
| 4 | "I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality."I suppose, I've approached many pretty girls directly and asked them out - It's funny how I'm more comfortable doing that than being like "love the shirt bro keep it up" lol | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 01:42 AM |
| 13 | "I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality."I really wanna try this but every time I think of doing a low stakes compliment like "nice shirt" or "nice necklace" to me it just feels so unbelievably inauthentic - I feel so phony that I cringe and want to just crawl into a ball in the corner... | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 01:21 AM |
| 6 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthDamn I definitely resonate with your story - I just turned 30, have approached hundreds of girls and have gotten maybe 5 women to come meet me for a date, none of them led to the bedroom - All my lays have been from dating apps - I definitely resonate with the monotone voice thing, I audio recorded myself doing some day-game approaches and after listening back I'm like "holy shit that's what I sound like?!" - So yeah it would be in my best interest to work on my voice | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 22 | Getting over the “I’m not good enough” feeling?I have not found that to be true at all, hundreds of rejections later and I still care too much - Reason being is that rejections are an external thing whereas caring what other people think is an internal one | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 02:49 AM |
| 0 | Why Self-Improvement Is More Important Than "Getting Women"ELI5: What's game? | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 07:46 AM |
| 16 | Women Are Insanely Attracted To Sexually Disciplined MenWhat’s a simp? | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 11:17 PM |
| 7 | How Changing Your Attitude Can Increase Your Attraction With WomenI think that qualifies as approach pessimism - https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=050mAG7O4LY | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Common traits in guys who suck with womenI never give girls favors or gifts and get little action | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 04:43 AM |
| 26 | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?How were you forced to kiss a hot girl? | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Takes balls and a lot of confidence to cold approach womenI like to think of it like skydiving or bungee jumping - No matter how many times you've done it before it's still gonna be scary af the 100th time you do it. Don't look or think just jump... | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 11:57 PM |
| 8 | The hard, cold truth of cold approaching.I was so excited when I found out the real dating advice was self improvement - I thought great if I just keep improving myself I’ll be dating all these girls and have a crazy sex life - Now I see it doesn’t really work like that, no matter how much you improve yourself girls liking you is out of your control - And just because you improve yourself doesn’t mean You’re entitled to girls - I’ve been pretty disappointed with my results from cold approach, I think it’s in part because I had unrealis… | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 9 | I've definitely been guilty of this...And like I said that notion exists because of the high volume of women out at bars and clubs. Day game is great but the volume is significantly lower so you'll have less opportunities. Honestly I think avoiding bars/clubs because they're "not your thing" is a cop-out. It's just an excuse to avoid the uncomfortable environment that is night-game. Bars and clubs make me uncomfortable as fuck too, and that's exactly why I need to go out to them... | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 03:40 AM |
| 25 | I've definitely been guilty of this...I don't think anyone thinks ALL attractive women go out to bars and clubs, that's not what I was saying. Of course there are other avenues. I honestly hate the environment of bars and clubs. However, there is no denying that this is where large groups of hot women congregate so I think it's good to learn to love that type of environment. Off I go tonight... | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity at 33yo!!Nice! What social dancing classes did you take? | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 01:09 AM |
| 2 | I think I finally get now: If your only criteria for success is having sex with the girl then you’re gonna have a bad time...Lol | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Gentlemen, tonight is the nightChicago?! Damn, and here I am talking myself out of it in Austin because I thought it was too cold tonight lol | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 03:49 AM |
| 9 | Talking to a woman on the phone is not as bad as you think!It is when your voice is monotone as fuck lol | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Should I give upJesus Christ... | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Should I give upJust wondering how much a TNL bootcamp is... | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 02:33 AM |
| 21 | I (M 26) went to the club alone and lost my virginityDamn you danced alone? That’s ballsy son, I get super paranoid people are laughing | /r/seduction | 30/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 3 | The regret is realExcept when you approach her and then her bf comes back from the bathroom and is like “what’s up bro?” - Definitely sorta kinda regret those ones... | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 02:48 AM |
| 6 | One of the most POWERFUL tools to add in your game | Disqualification |Link to cringe video? | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 14 | She asked me if I live aloneI don’t get it | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | My opener was just a joke but she ran with it...Aren’t field reports technically considered to be about specific situations though? | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | So I have this really bad habit of going home at night after the first good interaction...I explained why in my post, I was wondering if my reasoning was sound or not | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | My opener was just a joke but she ran with it...Was I banned from posting in this sub? | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 08:24 PM |
| 6 | I made a huge personal victory yesterdayI wish I could believe that but approaching a girl and having her bf swoop in is definitely a situation where I wished I hadn’t approached, but yeah the emotional pain comes from my reaction to it and not necessarily what happened... | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 08:08 PM |
| 0 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffGreat advice but dating apps aren't only for guys afraid to approach, plenty of guys who game also use them - It's fine to use them but yeah you should make the bulk of your interactions in person... | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Physical looks get your foot in the door, character and personality keep you in.I think I’m really attractive to girls on the other side of the bar - Once I go over and open my mouth not so much | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 03:18 AM |
| 18 | Trying is better than regretting so approach them girlsYeah, I’ve approached a bunch but I realized that it was mainly because I was crossing my fingers and hoping that they responded well - Not necessarily because I was comfortable with a cringey interaction, need to change that | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 12:37 AM |
| 7 | Read this if you feel depressedDamn, props to you - when I was 19 I was binge drinking in my room alone with a crippling porn addiction :( | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them.I would discourage a guy to think women want a guy who gets a lot of girls. Besides, a girl who would want a player probably has her own issues going on. This is a classic example of looking at what girls respond to and NOT what they say they're attracted to - Girls like to say they aren't attracted to a ladies man to seem like they're strong and independent or whatever, but at the end of the day they flock to him | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 07:44 PM |
| 3 | You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them.And yet girls are also turned off by a girl who can zero girls - So is there like a magic middle number thats attractive? | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 06:52 PM |
| 34 | You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them.Guys like to feel special too and we never get approached | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 06:51 PM |
| 12 | Swallow this.So what are the wrong sources then? The right ones? | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Swallow this.Agreed - Now how to get social skills? | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 4 | What girls do Todd and the like actually get? Does anyone have a picture of his current girlfriend?I've wondered this myself too - I believed for a long time that a good reaction in an infield clip proved that he dated and banged that girl, but after having plenty of good reactions myself and very few results I'm becoming increasingly more suspicious that their infield amounted to anything - Girls responding positively != laid | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 03:03 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: Reddit is not RealityI remember the last cashier bc it was me - Self-checkouts are taking over these days | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Boomhauer with the proper mindset on rejection...Never for a second did I take from this video that you should go to a woman’s shoe store and mass approach. No, of course not. That would be desperate as hell. The mindset was the only takeaway, that is all. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 11:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Number-close after class...Thanks - I think I’m gonna text later about following up on one surprising thing about her... | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Boomhauer with the proper mindset on rejection...Bruh, it’s a cartoon, you’re taking this way too literally. You missed the bigger picture point which is that when he was rejected he was unfazed by it and kept going it. I suspect most of us here have a tendency to get butthurt when we get rejected, to react the way Bobby did, give up and assume we’re just not cut out for it. Boomhauer never even considered this, he just kept going. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Random Game Thought #223: Stop Trying To Seduce Women Who Make You Work For Their Sexual (&Non) Attention.Yeah idk - I think too much women’s lib and empowerment went to their head, so now every fat unattractive girl views themself as some amazing women that’s more valuable than they really are, it’s like they’ve put their own pussy on a pedestal lol | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Random Game Thought #223: Stop Trying To Seduce Women Who Make You Work For Their Sexual (&Non) Attention.Working on that | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 05:39 AM |
| 43 | Random Game Thought #223: Stop Trying To Seduce Women Who Make You Work For Their Sexual (&Non) Attention.Damn I’m definitely guilty of this - Its really hard though, bc if you go long enough w/o a woman’s touch you start to look at girls who aren’t that attractive and not that into you, shrug your shoulders and say “better than nothing” - I’m getting better at walking away though, I went on a date last week with a not so attractive girl, wasn’t that into me and who looked like it wouldn’t have killed her to see the inside of a gym - She wanted me to go down on her, 3 years ago I probably would’ve p… | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsFor friends it’s probably been since high school since I’ve felt a strong friend ship bond. I’m in my late 20’s now, I’m sure it’s largely of my own doing bc I don’t put forth as much an effort as I should to make friends but its definitely is harder when you’re older. For girls, it’s bc the first half of my 20’s I fully convinced myself that no girl would ever like me - After finding seddit I challenged those beliefs and started pursuing girls, I’ve attracted multiple girls now and even had my … | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsI’ve been without 2 & 3 for so long I start to wonder if I’ll ever have them again... | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been doing day game cold approach for a couple of weeks. I’m by no means amazing at it, but I’m improving and getting more numbers/snapchats and some dates (not a lot). However I would also like to improve my night game.I never understood guys who think this - Daygame is mostly one-on-one with a girl where most guys thrive - Night game is nothing but groups, groups, groups. Fucking groups everywhere | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 01:34 AM |
| 2 | What's easier for cold approach?Plane | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 12:52 AM |
| 10 | What do you feel about this?If I could fuck how often I want I wouldn't be coming to this sub religiously everyday... | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 03:53 PM |
| 8 | All You Need To Know To Have A GREAT Night.Thanks I was searching for that rsd video | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Do you ever feel like both bad AND good reactions keep you from approaching more?One does not simply 'become' outcome independent... | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The tinder date cheat codeI have a great profile - That doesn’t change the fact that like 95% are on there solely for validation/attention and have no intention of meeting you | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | The tinder date cheat codeTruth - Most of the girls I’ve banged on there I’ve felt I was out of their league | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 06:47 PM |
| 6 | The tinder date cheat codeIronically I’ve gotten laid more times from tinder, daygame is hard | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 03:56 PM |
| 566 | The tinder date cheat codeYou skipped over the hardest part: Getting matches | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 06:00 AM |
| 10 | Going out aloneIn the same way alcoholics use alcohol as a crutch, most people use their friends as a crutch to go out or have fun | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | This got me 😂Who’s vice? | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Street approach to instant date - I think I might've really messed up here...Fuck - Oh well - I realized today I didn’t have a condom with me at the time, at least I won’t have to pay child support lol | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Street approach to instant date - I think I might've really messed up here...Thanks man - Yeah I definitely proved it’s possible - I also think my foundation is pretty weak, I really need to internalize “all women are attracted to me until proven otherwise” - Easier said than done though | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 10:12 PM |
| 3 | The fool-proof way of making more connections, meeting more women, and meeting likeminded people. This is impossible to mess up.I want to go but it's like $100 a month for membership | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Whenever I relax into it and pause for silence, almost every time as if on cue, the girl goes “alright well I’ve gotta (fill in x activity here), it was nice to meet you” and then walks off. That shit stings. I approached a girl in the library a month ago and took her on a date, our interaction was only like 3 minutes, I suppose that is the exception though. I already shake her hand and high five her, sometimes even hug, I never viewed those as escalation. They seem too non-sexual to be consider… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Yeah, many times I ask for the number solely bc I ran out of shit to say, and I feel like getting the number gives me justification to eject from the set. 10 minutes isn’t enough? I feel like that’s an eternity talking to a girl you just met lol - I’ve tried malls and out door shopping areas too without much luck - How are you supposed to escalate in the bright of day on a public street? I feel it’s much easier at night | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?My standard are pretty low, I’m not too prideful for a fat chick | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?I day game mainly at my local community college so can’t really take her on an instant date as she needs to get to class - But yeah 1-2 approaches at night I can probably commit to, every time I go out at night I think I need to be an approach machine, it puts too much pressure on me, stresses me out and I end up doing nothing | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Yes I’ve gotten laid multiple times through dating apps and a job I’ve held - But cold approach has yielded me virtually nothing | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Not romantically | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Word - They told me I’d be seeing a new girl every week lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?I heard New York is like one of the best spots for single guys though | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?No I’ve never said I was on the autism spectrum | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?The thing is it’s not the initial period anymore, I’ve been trying off and on for a couple years now, something is very wrong... | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:09 AM |
| 3 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Thanks. I feel much more comfortable in daygame environments - I say some version of “hey I don’t usually do this but I think you’re very cute I had to meet you...” - I then make some observation about her, ask basic questions about her, some improv making her laugh, then I ask if she knows a certain spot and tell her that I want to take her there, I then hand her my phone for the number. Like 99% of my numbers flake, I feel like most of the time a girl gives me her number so I’ll go away, not n… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:04 AM |
| 3 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Because if you wait for signals you’ll be waiting the rest of your life... | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:00 AM |
| 3 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?The scary part is getting all these no’s does not guarantee you will eventually get yes’s | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:31 AM |
| 63 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?I would be ecstatic with 11% or less - The problem is when it’s 0% - I’m fine with getting all these no’s if it means there are yes’s at the end of the tunnel - I start to question if those yes’s will ever come... | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:30 AM |
| 4 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Yes I agree and I know I’m very lacking in the confidence department - It’s just hard to be confident when I go months on end without a woman’s touch... | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:27 AM |
| 6 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Social circle, focus/concentration, and dating life... | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:26 AM |
| 11 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?It’s like a catch 22 - I feel it’s difficult to enjoy life and be happy when you’re starved for a woman’s touch and embrace... | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:25 AM |
| 3 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?That’s what I’m saying though - I’ve approached almost that much too, I’m fine with most of them rejecting me, what hurts is when all of them reject me | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 02:45 AM |
| 7 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Yes. I’ve improved my job, started going to the gym, going back to school etc... | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Ain’t that the damn truth | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 09:50 PM |
| 5 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Did you ask her to elaborate on that statement? I’m not giving up I guess I’m just kind of depressed that I haven’t gotten nearly the amount of girls I would’ve hoped by now... | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl dancing on the dance floor kept looking over at me but appeared to be with some guy towards the end...Thats the thing though - Idk if it was a missed opportunity bc she was with that guy | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | A guide on how to stop giving a fuckI wanted to get it 'the art' but saw some pretty bad reviews on Amazon... | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Seeing a girl I approached well a few hours previous AGAIN...Yeah - My first text was just "gtrman571 from the library :)", I'll probably text something like that tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 12:02 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Seeing a girl I approached well a few hours previous AGAIN...I pretended like I didn’t notice her - Was this seduction suicide? | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 10:41 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...Yeah on the date she was wearing a ring - I asked about it and she said it was a 3 year celibacy ring 🙄 | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 11:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...Agreed - Yeah I got the approaching part down, as for the confident part that's still a work in progress... | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...Asking her what she's studying, her major, and one interesting thing about her... | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 03:01 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...39 and still going? That's awesome man, you give me hope. I'm 29. The funny thing is I actually have been approached by security/management in a grocery store awhile back while approaching women, granted one of the times I was kinda acting like a creep and just starting out but still... Because of these experiences I sometimes feel like my fear is somewhat justified, but yeah 99% of the time the fear is irrational... | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 02:18 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...I don’t and she told me she does - I am in complete denial when I say maybe we can make it work aren't I? | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 01:59 AM |
| 17 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...Dammit where were you 30 minutes ago lol | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 01:58 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...Yeah I think I’m gonna ask her first, hopefully it doesn’t come off suspicious | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 01:18 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...I feel like if I say yes she’ll say shes not down with Jesus and if I say no she’ll say she’s all about him - Her fb says she’s a republican 🤔 | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 12:57 AM |
| 22 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...She told me her schedule and asked if I believe in Jesus, hmmm.... I feel like only girls who believe in Jesus would ask that right? | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 12:50 AM |
| 39 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...She just texted me her availability then asked if I believed in Jesus? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 12:49 AM |
| 83 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...Thanks! She texted back! Edit: We’re meeting up Sunday! | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...Thanks! Won't stop! | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 11:21 PM |
| 11 | Always go for the kiss on the first dateYeah I think it's fine to start out across from each other. Only after some rapport/comfort has been built do I invite her to come sit next to me. I feel like it's too aggressive to start out a date like that. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | One year in only to realize I've been approaching not to win but to "not lose"... I hate that I'm like this3 - Yeah for some reason I have a really hard time internalizing that girls like guys and sex too. Even after banging multiple girls and them telling me my D felt good. I have a bad habit of disqualifying the positive, which I'm trying to work on, the book 'feeling good' has been helping me. I feel like modern society tells us it's a bad thing to simply have a penis, a shameful thing, and part of my subconscious has bought into that idea. Anyways, yeah I'd be willing to give that salsa thing a s… | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | One year in only to realize I've been approaching not to win but to "not lose"... I hate that I'm like thisSo essentially that's a limiting belief because you don't need to be the life of the party? I suppose I can give that first one a shot though I apparently am an alcoholic and it feels weird to be out with drinkers. I definitely always wanted to try salsa dancing. However, I feel the girls are catching on that guys are going just to meet chicks. So less chicks go, and more dudes go. So my biggest fear is I'll show up and there will be like 20 dudes and one girl. Any sites for this? I'm not really… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | One year in only to realize I've been approaching not to win but to "not lose"... I hate that I'm like thisA lot of anger and frustration can build up because of that Yeah I really want to avoid being that guy who's just old, lonely and bitter - It terrifies me that I might become that - But I've been alone for most of my life it's hard to imagine it any other way. I've never been the life of the party and I don't really expect to be or necessarily want to be for that matter... Are you talking about meetup.com or what? I have gone to some meetups years ago, I never saw them as "too easy" - There's a … | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 06:33 AM |
| 2 | The human mind is the great tool ever.29 yr old newbie - Glad I’m not the only one... | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | You are better looking than you thinkBanging only gives you short term bursts of confidence, it’s not a good long term strategy - CBT is the way | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | You are better looking than you thinkNot true - I’ve had multiple girls like me and I’ve banged multiple girls since finding seddit and yet I still hesitate and chicken out sometimes - This proves it won’t come from anything external | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 04:08 PM |
| 4 | You are better looking than you thinkThis is definitely like 90% game and also the hardest part of game... I tell myself that I'm worth a damn and that women find me attractive but I just can't seem to really believe it deep down... | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 02:35 AM |
| 2 | You are better looking than you thinkGotta love yourself before others will How though? | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 02:09 AM |
| 3 | You are better looking than you thinkDid you mean to say it's "not" bad? | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 09:05 PM |
| 38 | You are better looking than you thinkThis is why attracting women has been a struggle for me - I honestly think I'm really good looking, but girls don't so much care about that as they do confidence which is something I'm really lacking in... | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever feel like every lone girl you see out in nightgame is just waiting for her bf to come back from the bathroom?Best group opener? | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever feel like every lone girl you see out in nightgame is just waiting for her bf to come back from the bathroom?What's your group opener? | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys ever feel like every lone girl you see out in nightgame is just waiting for her bf to come back from the bathroom?So this would be considered a rejection? | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever feel like every lone girl you see out in nightgame is just waiting for her bf to come back from the bathroom?Me: “Is there someone you came with who— “ Her: “Yes” Me: “Oh...” | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | One year in only to realize I've been approaching not to win but to "not lose"... I hate that I'm like thisNot really - I'm really great at one-on-one interactions, I get unnecessarily anxious with groups. I have a couple friends I talk to on the phone every month or so but we rarely hang out. I am by myself most of the time. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | 11 Proven Tips For Overcoming Approach AnxietyBest way to find wings? | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men have shame about admitting to themselves that they want to fuck hot women? And how do we get rid of this shame?What? No I said admitting it to themselves - You don’t say that out loud to a woman, that’s just common sense | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men have shame about admitting to themselves that they want to fuck hot women? And how do we get rid of this shame?I suppose I can believe girls have those dirty thoughts, it’s just difficult to believe that they have them about me... | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many men have shame about admitting to themselves that they want to fuck hot women? And how do we get rid of this shame?I guess I mean I have a really hard time internalizing that girls love sex the way we do too - So it feels like sex is something we’re taking from them and not a mutually enjoyed experience- Hence the shame... | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else think it’s ironic that pickup teachers tell you not to make women your life’s purpose while they have literally made meeting women and teaching how to meet women their life purpose?James Marshall is one of my favorites - I guess I should’ve said most pickup teachers not all... | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | One year in only to realize I've been approaching not to win but to "not lose"... I hate that I'm like thisHmmm I definitely have that problem - How do you not feel like a loser by staying in on Saturday night and watching Netflix or something? | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else think it’s ironic that pickup teachers tell you not to make women your life’s purpose while they have literally made meeting women and teaching how to meet women their life purpose?I kind of agree - I think a lot of guys are pressured or “bullied” into settling down when that’s not necessarily what they want to do themselves, and sadly I think a lot of them cave into that pressure... | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 11:21 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else think it’s ironic that pickup teachers tell you not to make women your life’s purpose while they have literally made meeting women and teaching how to meet women their life purpose?It interesting that you say that because I’ve been focusing on fitness, fashion, finances and health and find that those don’t take up a lot of my time - I still have a ton of time to be approaching girls - I don’t think it’s one or the other... | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | One year in only to realize I've been approaching not to win but to "not lose"... I hate that I'm like thisWhat kind of trouble do you mean sitting alone? | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 04:58 PM |
| 10 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.I’ve done way over 100 and still suck lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Just an advice I want to give my fellow brothers: "Girls should not be your destination but should be part of the journey." If whatever you're doing is to try and get girls rethink your mindset.This is great overall advice but to say “rethink trying to get girls?” Yeah no. Regardless of how much we improve ourselves, most of us are still gonna have to keep approaching... | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | One year in only to realize I've been approaching not to win but to "not lose"... I hate that I'm like thisYeah I definitely think I'm slowly but surely getting more comfortable with myself. If I had a problem staying in on a Saturday night it would be about FOMO and lost opportunities, not necessarily that I hate myself - But then again maybe the two are connected idk... | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Moving abroad was one of the best decisions I ever madeAny particular place in Europe? | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Moving abroad was one of the best decisions I ever madePost got removed before I could read it - What was the gist of it? | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Dinner and a movieDuly noted - It’s difficult to pull when opportunities are not plentiful but will try this - As for the pants thing, like I said when I tried pushing her back to the bedroom she stopped me and pulled her pants back up, I didn’t want to keep pushing | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Dinner and a movieSo you think there’s still a chance to lead to the bedroom? You don’t think she means it when she insists on being the gatekeeper? | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Dinner and a movieLike I said she already did text me again about a new recipe - You think I should ignore it for the entirety of this week? | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 06:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Dinner and a movieIf you’re patient you’ll definitely get some sex. What makes you say that? | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 02:52 AM |
| 36 | The Essence of Game from a former awkward guy who didn’t know how to flirt (reposted due to some filtering problems)"The more you approach, the more your approach anxiety will fade and the better you will get at approaching." This isn't necessarily true. What the lesson should be is that mass approaching will fade your aa ONLY if you have the right mindset, only if you don't fall apart if a girl has a bad reaction to you. So it doesn't matter if you've done thousands of approaches, if you take every rejection as a personal affront it will be too demoralizing for you, you will never get good at this and you wi… | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Why some guys never achieve happiness in their dating lives.The current subreddit you’re on | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 06:20 PM |
| 4 | I ignored some basic foundations of seduction and found success. Warning: those foundations are still recommended.Oof that hits too close to home | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 03:39 AM |
| 59 | Why some guys never achieve happiness in their dating lives.I was kind of surprised and disappointed to learn that that's not how it works - Since finding out about seddit I've been with more chicks than I ever would've dreamed of - And yet here I am more or less still very insecure, and have the same limiting beliefs, it's crazy - I always assumed I would be Mr. confident after the having sexual experiences I've had - But nope. It just goes to show you that confidence and a strong mindset don't come from external experiences. Getting laid provides extre… | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What the hell happened here?Maybe like one girl thought it was funny, mostly 0% success rate - But like I said I’m not sending that and seriously expecting a response, most girls don’t respond back no matter what the opener so that opener is almost like a swipe left hoping there’s 1% chance it’ll work | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What the hell happened here?How do I avoid this in the future? | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What the hell happened here?Respect her wishes meaning never have sex with her? | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What the hell happened here?Yeah it's super frustrating - As guys we're expected to initiate and not be a pussy, but then when we do initiate she regrets going along with it - FML | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 02:15 AM |
| -1 | [FR] What the hell happened here?I only open with that with girls who are very obviously on there only for validation - The girls who essentially have "Instagram hoe" profiles... | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What the hell happened here?she seemed to reluctantly agree to my pool and movie suggestion | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What the hell happened here?Tinder idk - Hinge I opened with "So you do you spit or swallow watermelon seeds", some girl got butt hurt over it I guess | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Guys who’ve gotten a vasectomy, what has been your experience?If you could go back in time would you get a vasectomy again? | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Guys who’ve gotten a vasectomy, what has been your experience?98% ok with condoms or 98% ok with Vasalgel? | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Guys who’ve gotten a vasectomy, what has been your experience?So condoms right? Vasalgel doesn't sound much better... | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Guys who’ve gotten a vasectomy, what has been your experience?I think you might've successfully talked me out of it and idk if that's a good thing. | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 01:10 AM |
| 0 | You’re only young once. Take risks. If you want change, do something different. Anything is better than sitting in your room, depressed and alone.Why is everyone so convinced that we only live once? The fact is that none of us can say that for sure, maybe we have many lives, no one knows for sure... | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Guys who’ve gotten a vasectomy, what has been your experience?To prevent accidental babies | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Guys who’ve gotten a vasectomy, what has been your experience?So I take it you’re not getting one... | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | FR - Girls DO care about looksHow exactly does one not sound stupid? | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 03:18 PM |
| -2 | Girl wants me to eat her pussy this weekend but I really don’t want to...The smell | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl is super into me in-person, forgets I exist when we're apart...Duly noted thanks | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl is super into me in-person, forgets I exist when we're apart...Do elaborate | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl is super into me in-person, forgets I exist when we're apart...I don't think you read the whole thing | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I feel so worthlessDamn I need to work on that - Read enough seddit and you start to think not getting laid is literally the worst thing in the world lol - Deep down logically I get that it's not - Feeling and truly believing it on the other hand... | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 11:58 PM |
| 5 | There is no fucking difference between cold approaching and swipe right on tinderOne time I approached a girl trying to meet her and she said "Sorry I don't talk to strangers." I'm thinking "hey wait a minute your friends were strangers once!" | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 08:28 PM |
| 0 | So we’re supposed to approach to get laid and not for validation yet sex is the ultimate form of validation for guys...The idea is that needy or not, sex is subconsciously validating for all men whether we admit it or not | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How to stop relying on women to make you happyWhat worked? | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 02:10 AM |
| 2 | I need help - Deep down I don’t think I really want to change and it terrifies me…Are you in Austin? | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 11:20 PM |
| 2 | I need help - Deep down I don’t think I really want to change and it terrifies me…I like basketball but more as a spectator - I guess bowling would be cool - Austin TX | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | I need help - Deep down I don’t think I really want to change and it terrifies me…I’ll keep trying but sometimes I feel trying with no results is actually worse than a guy who never tries, this thought definitely brings on much self-loathing bc I feel I am the former - I have a couple friends but we’re not too close, I talk with them maybe once every three months - I haven’t tried any sports/groups, I think if I do I’ll be the outcast and weird guy, I’m just so I’m my head with socializing I end up being awkward- I definitely have never been the life of the party, but I’m slo… | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Study buddies...Hey so she responded “I’d rather meet in public” - So we met in a coffee place and she was pretty distant - She was also like 30 min late again second time - I was mad at her but more mad at myself for putting up with this behavior - It sucks having no options - Anyways I’m thinking of just texting her tomorrow that I wanna be more than friends - She’ll probably say no but I’d rather here it now than at the end of the semester - She didn’t seem like she was into me anyways... | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 04:29 AM |
| 64 | Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls?No it comes down to the golden rule of don’t listen to what she says she likes - They say they like one thing and then respond to another... | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 06:15 PM |
| 3 | How do hookups, fwbs and one night stands even happen? How does it work?Being with wings has worked against me - I spend the whole night talking with him and letting girls go by, it's like I end up using talking with him as an excuse not to approach lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How do hookups, fwbs and one night stands even happen? How does it work?What if you have no wings? | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Study buddies...Hey thanks I think you're right - Anyways, fast forward to this morning's class and she texted me to sign in for her bc she was running late - I did and we smiled at each other, we are gonna hang out/study again this weekend, she says she is volunteering both Saturday and Sunday from 6-8 pm. I think I'm gonna just invite her over earlier in the day to my place, study in my room, joke around a bit and and pull the trigger. Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How to Handle Lying/excuses/ghostingI suppose it can be powerful in becoming less needy - But when I walk away she just continues to ignore me like she already was doing in the first place... | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 01:31 AM |
| -4 | Girl at the gymThat’s just another excuse to not approach though - Most girls I’ve approached have been receptive in the gym, and the interactions are like 5-10 minutes, that’s not cutting into too much of their workout | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Any older guys here? 30's or 40'sTeach me | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:32 AM |
| -1 | Girls of seddit: If a guy from class asked you to study together, would you think that's all he wanted?“To girls of seddit” yet you answered. You’re not too bright are you? | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Girls of seddit: If a guy from class asked you to study together, would you think that's all he wanted?What's it like being a girl? | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceTouché | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 08:06 PM |
| -4 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceLol - you don't even know what the word “wish” means haha - Also you’re a piece of shit, only a piece of shit would go through someone’s post history | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 01:54 AM |
| -3 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceOh so you're just socially retarded... | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 11:41 PM |
| -1 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceWhat do you mean you wish you could? I was waiting for the "But" part to that... | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 11:19 PM |
| 1 | 7 Simple Lessons About Attraction (Which Are Often Forgotten)Agreed - The problem guys make who tout this advice is they assume we can eventually create a life of status to the likes of a rock star or movie star. Slim chance. For the vast majority of us no matter how much we work on our selves and our lives, women aren’t really gonna notice, we are still going to have lives that are pretty average. And that’s ok. Average is awesome, and quite honestly underrated... Not everything you do in life has to be as exhilarating as jumping out of a plane. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Please, please, please read "Models" by Mark Manson, the holy grail of seductionThat’s exactly what the book is though | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Read enough of this sub and you start to subconsciously believe that every guy everywhere is cold-approaching women...Fuck I think that’s me sometimes - Sometimes I feel it’s hard to tell if a girl doesn’t respond well because my game sucks or because she just had something else going on in her life unrelated to me - My voice can be really monotone, I don’t know how much that hurts me... | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Read enough of this sub and you start to subconsciously believe that every guy everywhere is cold-approaching women...Karma | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 05:34 AM |
| 9 | Read enough of this sub and you start to subconsciously believe that every guy everywhere is cold-approaching women...“Never done it” Thank you for proving the point of my post | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 12:56 AM |
| 8 | Read enough of this sub and you start to subconsciously believe that every guy everywhere is cold-approaching women...No reason you can’t do both at the same time - It’s not an either/or thing - At a certain point that can become just another rationalization to not approach... | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 12:53 AM |
| 12 | Read enough of this sub and you start to subconsciously believe that every guy everywhere is cold-approaching women...Disagree - I did almost exclusively day game when I first started for like 2 years and got fuck all - Granted my mindsets and how I was coming off is a huge factor but the biggest advantage to night game is the sheer volume of hot women everywhere - Most day game sessions I’d be wandering around for hours just to find maybe a handful of cute chicks... | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 11:44 PM |
| 7 | What’s really holding you backSo true - The really hard part is I feel motivated at home, once I get to the venue I clam up... I'm approaching more though, and I've noticed that a lot of times I take a rejection as an existential crisis and I try to think about how hilarious that actually is which is helping I think. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 03:11 AM |
| 2 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...And my personal favorite “ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone” | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 03:54 PM |
| 2 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...Your point? | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 06:38 AM |
| 6 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...How do you mean generally? Yeah I’m feeling burned out today | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 12:35 AM |
| -10 | A question for the girls of seddit...I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | When you take a step back and look at your reaction to rejection, it's actually pretty hilarious...What? | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Fuck itPretty good except algae oil > krill oil - But also I've been doing these things for awhile now and still struggle with confidence. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 02:54 AM |
| 6 | The mindset of Initiating sex during the daytimeThis is a hard lesson to learn - I've had multiple girls who were super into me ditch me because I pushed too fast too soon - It's funny because I came from the nice guy mentality where I didn't initiate at all, now I've gone too far to the other side of the spectrum and initiate too much - Gotta find that balance... | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionI hate that shit - Essentially what it translates to is “I’m too afraid to go talk to a girl”, at least coming from guys anyway... Why do women say this? | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 12:52 AM |
| 5 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolLmao - Why can’t you just answer the question? How do you know? Are these women telling you or what? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 05:13 AM |
| 10 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolAgain - How do you know that? Are you reading every woman's mind or what? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 04:34 AM |
| 6 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolHow do you know? Can you read every woman's mind? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between embracing rejection and assuming that she won’t like you?No I meant in the approach | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Height doesnt help.That’s like saying I usually like food that tastes good lol | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 12:52 AM |
| 3 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?But internal beliefs are connected to the vibe you give off which is what I was saying - Also, Damn that last line is true for me | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 4 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?Damn dude are you me? I was literally about to post something about this exact situation - I think a big part is the life-long belief that I assume girls won’t like me, I think it can show in how you interact with them - I’m trying to break out of this bad belief but god damn is it hard... | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 05:28 PM |
| 3 | How much do yall value looks?Easier said than done considering most guys are sexually starved... | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like 'game' = be brave and go for it!!I used to think this but no - Being brave won’t get you girls, it just gets you talking to them | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met her online, dated, got marriedAnd how exactly does one “find oneself”? | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Tulsa meetupF | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I just can't do it captain, I don't have the power.Same thing happened to me last night bro - The best thing I can say is keep going out - You will eventually and inevitably get to a point where you can’t bear going home again without trying, and getting rejected or having a train wreck of an interaction will be less painful than not trying.., | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 12:32 AM |
| 2 | If you think you are not good enough, read thisBut I’ve had multiple experiences like this and still struggle with not feeling good enough... | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Going for my first approach in about an hourWhat did you say? | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Going for my first approach in about an hourr/woosh | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.I mean what happened to texting? | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Two days?!!! That’s a lifetime with girls - Girls lose attraction insanely quick... | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.The usual “hey I just thought you were cute” opener - I make some observations, ask her about herself, make her laugh. I suppose I’m not very present- Always thinking in my head “don’t fuck it up don’t fuck it up don’t fuck it up” I got 3 numbers this week, no response from any of them. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Wow, you’ve gotten more results in a week on campus than I’ve gotten in years. Idk what I’m doing wrong | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 10:27 PM |
| 0 | For the love of mankind please don’t be a needy personDon’t you feel smoking weed brings out the self hatred in you? I found it was pretty damn hard to love yourself when you’re sitting around smoking that shit... | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Simple Question: PORNIt boggles my mind that this is still a debate - Literally nothing good will come from indulging in it... | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 02:45 AM |
| 50 | An example of how not to approachBecause he's too much of a pussy to approach her in person... | /r/seduction | 03/04/19 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Do you let women use your computer when you're not looking?Translation : How do I stop looking at porn? | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 06:24 AM |
| 13 | I've made it!!!Definitely not - Continuing to grind through after the validation high from your first approach wears off is the hard part... | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 06:21 AM |
| 18 | I've made it!!!That’s definitely the hard part lol | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 03:48 AM |
| 25 | Do you get more rejections with street/daygame or nightclub game?Sure you can - You’re rejecting yourself | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Did quitting porn motivate you more to work on game?Of course - When you’re not constantly gratifying yourself your only option is to go out | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 07:19 AM |
| 45 | The Bait DollarI feel like most people would just take it for themselves | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 05:45 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First instant make-out ever!!!Why could I have done/said to make her stay? | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 05:42 PM |
| 3 | How to be better than 90% of guys at attracting women (10 ways)Why would it be? | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 05:39 AM |
| 3 | My Golden Rule of pickup and how it helped me overcome approach anxiety.Sorry but it’s hard to buy this - say a girl tells you “fuck off” right from the opener - You did not make her night better... | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Any advice would be appreciatedI like to hold a girls hands and pretend I’m reading her astrology sign - It’s complete bs but an excuse to incorporate touch - Most girls are pretty receptive... | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 06:27 AM |
| 1 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?What’s the difference? | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?I’ve tried daygame for the last couple years with virtually zero results - A bunch of numbers, like 5 women to meet me for a day 2, 0 of which led to sex. The problem with daygame is that you’re wandering around looking for a hot girl sometimes for hours. It’s kind of rare to find one. With nightgame they’re literally everywhere. | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?Why do you think going out and meeting women/improving your social skills doesn’t fall into the category of bettering yourself? It does. | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Cool story bro | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?Consistency is king applies to meeting women too though. Same thing with goals. | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?I haven’t had a drink in 5 years | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 05:22 AM |
| 2 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?You’ll never get good with just once a week | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?But that’s what I’m saying what if I always have morning routine/obligations? | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 02:35 AM |
| 2 | I’m exhausted. How do you guys manage staying out at bars/clubs late at night and then having to get up early for work/gym the next morning?I’m not going out every night until 2. It’s just Thursday Friday Saturday but I like to be at gym by 9 am on Saturday and Sunday. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Thank you | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...I like to do “hey I have to tell you something, it’s really important” while slowly inching closer to her face, she says “what?”, I say “this” and then I kiss her. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...U mad bro? | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Jesus Christ man you’re reading into this way too much... | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...The lesson still stands, this translates to “I WON’T escalate because I’m afraid to” | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Yikes, and I thought I was a downer... Maybe try r/nihilism | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Then why are you here? | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Hells yeah - I had a similar situation with a girl I gave a lyft ride to - Didn’t ask her and still regret it today. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 12:29 AM |
| 15 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...“I like salad, and so does my mom” | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...I never said it wasn’t warranted... | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Translation: “I’m scared to approach girls my age” | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 11:39 PM |
| 9 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...I fucking hate when that happens - Maybe just own it: “Yo girl I have to take a huge dump right now but I think you’re super cute and I wanna talk to you, I’ll be right back ok?” | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 09:15 PM |
| 29 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Touché - I was mainly talking about when you’re out and about | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Top 10 Easiest Countries to Get Laid - WikiSexGuideBut how many of these countries can you get by with only speaking English? | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 12:55 AM |
| 16 | Has anyone else notices once you decide to stop chasing girls and truly have an abundance mindset your dick just has a gravatatioal pull?Ahh yes, more advice guised as justifying not approaching... | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 06:33 AM |
| 2 | NO RESULTS AND HUNDREDS OF APPROACHES.....I'm in the same boat - I've approached hundreds of girls mostly in the day - A bunch of numbers, 5 women to come out and meet me at a different location, 0 of which led to sex - I'll keep trying though... | /r/seduction | 06/03/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | NO RESULTS AND HUNDREDS OF APPROACHES.....But what if the thing you enjoy in life is pick up? | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Number close in the library...Thanks but there’s a scratch that part 2 lol - I responded to her text like 6:30 on Thursday, almost 48 hours later and no response - I think I might double text her later today about where she’s going out of town... | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Number close in the library...Thanks - This morning she texted me “Morning. Is that what you think? I’m pretty picky about music” | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 11:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Number close in the library...Scratch that! She just texted me “Morning. Is that what you think? I’m pretty picky about music” | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Number close in the library...Still no response - I’ll probably text something short like “today is great” later today | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Number close in the library...Thanks, but I often feel I have no idea what I'm doing lol | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 07:05 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Number close in the library...Please elaborate | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 05:20 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Number close in the library...I only open with that in a library bc I know girls are trying to study, it shows situational awareness... | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 04:54 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Number close in the library...Thanks! | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 02:04 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Number close in the library...Thanks! I decided to text her that music line after all - So far no response : ( | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Never Give Up.Yeah for the first time I feel really committed to nightgame - It’s hard to imagine Netflix being painful though | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Never Give Up.What do you mean your brain requires itself? | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever experience tunnel vision with pick up? How do I avoid this?Well I guess that was exaggerating a bit - I’m still a hardcase and still wander around way more than I should | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever experience tunnel vision with pick up? How do I avoid this?> You're problem is the one that 300K subscribers on seddit all want. How so? What problem is that? | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 06:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...Ok but you don’t think I should try just being her friend? | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...Any thoughts on how to proceed? | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...So today she says she has to rain check coffee bc her boyfriend is coming into town to surprise her - gotta be honest that stings a bit, she didn’t even apologize | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.I hate how the second class ends all the hot girls literally sprint out of there - It’s like “shit can you wait up a fucking second?!” | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...I feel like I should text her again today so she won’t forget about tomorrow, what do you think? | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...I texted her at noon today about meeting Saturday and she responded within seconds! She said “see you then :)” | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...Thanks but gotta disagree about the texting part. In my experience if I wait to the day of the date then she’ll usually either be like “who is this again?” and/or she’ll already have made plans with someone else. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...We didn't arrange an exact time yet just a general Saturday early evening. I'll have to text her for the specifics. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 05:20 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...Thanks! I feel like I should send the first text tomorrow bc she already texted herself with my phone today. | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 10:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I think I came off as too "friend"ly...Barbs? | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Once again I had what I thought to be a great interaction, or so I thought...Thanks! It’s easy to get discouraged when stuff like this happens but I’ll keep trying... | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How to become better at flirting?I think you responded to the wrong comment | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 11:08 PM |
| -1 | How to become better at flirting?> Cold approaching is going up to a woman who you have no idea about her interest level in you. Which is exactly what you described. > VERY different from if you already know her interest level. You don't already know her interest level. I mean maybe you can pick up one some signals and have an idea of her interest - But at the end of the day you can't 100% know for sure that she's interested until you go over and talk to her. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 03:00 AM |
| 4 | How to become better at flirting?I don't really even have to cold approach. Hmmm... I just pick up on which girls show IOI's and pick the ones I find attractive and go up to them. Oh so you do cold approach. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 02:48 AM |
| 9 | How to become better at flirting?This isn’t always an option for socially awkward guys like myself - And then this advice just justifies not approaching... | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes I find it hard to differentiate if her disinterest is because of something personal going on in her life or because I just suck at this stuff...You’re the one calling women objects not me - And I never said I only want women for sex. And no it’s about both. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 06:39 AM |
| 3 | No verbal communication - PowerfulDo you actually know sign language or were you just bs-ing these girls? | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I find it hard to differentiate if her disinterest is because of something personal going on in her life or because I just suck at this stuff...- I don't think that's him, he had an AMA on this sub which seemed to be well received. - I want to follow that last rule I just get nervous that if I persist too much then she'll talk to management about me. It's actually happened to me once. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 08:27 PM |
| -11 | Sometimes I find it hard to differentiate if her disinterest is because of something personal going on in her life or because I just suck at this stuff...- Same thing every guy wants, sex. - I don't think I said my name, girls never seem like they give a shit what my name is. - I didn't think her shirt counted as her appearance, I thought appearance was more like her physical body | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I find it hard to differentiate if her disinterest is because of something personal going on in her life or because I just suck at this stuff...- What's wrong with that line? - Which youtube guy are you referring to? - And no I don't know which one which is why I'm here. In this type of situation am I supposed to persist and keep chatting her or just leave her alone? | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 08:13 PM |
| 10 | I don't have confidence to reach out girls coz I have 4-5 inch dick. I feel bad about me. What should I do?“I’ll take things girls say to make small-dicked guys feel better for 200”... | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 02:27 AM |
| -36 | Woman committing sexual assault at “Women’s March” identified and arrestedAre you serious? | /r/MensRights | 04/02/19 02:35 PM |
| 13 | MindsetThe past two years of cold approaching as a newbie I’ve had virtually zero results - I think I finally have to accept that a big reason is because I really don’t like myself that much - Girls can sense it, they think “ewww go away”. That shit is demoralizing and the cycle of self hatred repeats... | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 11:30 PM |
| 0 | So why have I got had a date / got laid in years?Welcome to being a guy... | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I try my best to not take it personally but constant rejections can really be demoralizing...Me too but it looks like my post got buried | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I try my best to not take it personally but constant rejections can really be demoralizing...I’ve mainly done day game, night game makes me anxious bc girls are ALWAYS with their friends - I just say the usual “hey I thought you were cute and had to meet you” - I guess I ask too many questions and sometimes the convo gets stale and platonic - I try to tease sometimes though - But yeah I think I’m taking value rather than giving it, idk how to give value. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ?I’m gonna need a source on this one... | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 12:59 AM |
| 3 | I've had more sex this year than any other years of my life combined. Still, thoughts of "unworthiness" have not gone away, not even in the slightest...No sorry I’m 29 turning 30 next year. I wish it happened around 21 lol. But I see your point I will try to be more grateful for said ass I am getting. And no I lost my virginity long before I got that better job. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 05:55 AM |
| 3 | I've had more sex this year than any other years of my life combined. Still, thoughts of "unworthiness" have not gone away, not even in the slightest...I want to I just can’t afford it | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.But that could be a leftover receipt he had from a previous day... | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Learn to Seduce Women with Math!Is truth or dare part of it or your own spin on it? | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Men Need a New NormalI love this in theory but putting it into practice is something else - When you tell yourself that you have abundance with women but you actually don’t, your brain knows you’re lying... | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How to approach any girl with zero fear whatsoeverI can approach fine, it's the attraction building after the approach that's the hard part... | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | One of the worst things that can happen...Alright fine one of the worst things online | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Girl lets me bang her once a week but never initiates anything...Get comfortable with what? | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Girl lets me bang her once a week but never initiates anything...We kind of both agreed within the first two weeks that we were keeping it casual, even still though, it would be nice to hear from her about wanting to hang out again. Is that too much to ask? | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Stop what you're doing and ask yourself, am I mentally healthy?This is all well and good but how much is a therapist running you each month? | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Daygame: I think it's a seriously bad strategy to tell the girl you think she's cute right in the opener...Definitely yes to the last question - It’s just so hard to assume attraction when most girls seem like they’re trying to get away from me... | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Daygame: I think it's a seriously bad strategy to tell the girl you think she's cute right in the opener...My thoughts exactly. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Online dating: Girl complains that I use the same "copy and paste" messages but makes no effort to initiate or invest...Exactly, who do they think they are? | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Online dating: Girl complains that I use the same "copy and paste" messages but makes no effort to initiate or invest...Yikes, you have a lot to learn - See the other comments... | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Online dating: Girl complains that I use the same "copy and paste" messages but makes no effort to initiate or invest...Yeah I know I already unmatched her I was just seeing if anyone felt the same... | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 03:34 AM |
| 2 | I SELL my nudes, videos, phone sex, FaceTime, and more😍 Add my kik brooklynntaylorr_but why? | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 02:48 AM |
| 2 | I SELL my nudes, videos, phone sex, FaceTime, and more😍 Add my kik brooklynntaylorr_In all seriousness though, what is the motive to make a duckface? | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired of approaching just because it's better than regret, I want results now....And how do you instantly let them know you’re interested in them for sex? | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired of approaching just because it's better than regret, I want results now....I was a cashier at a grocery store and they were customers, I asked them out... How did you hookup through cold approach? I’m curious how that happened lol | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm tired of approaching just because it's better than regret, I want results now....So how do you give off more of a casual “let’s bang” type of vibe? | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Hottest girl in class gives me her number to study then doesn't text back...She didn’t say yes she said ‘when?’ | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl jokingly tells me she'll be my late night booty call...I did! She fucked me on top while kissing my neck and I came in her :) | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How I cured social anxiety and depression after 9 gruesome years.Yeah that’s what I meant, just fruits and vegetables | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 03:13 PM |
| -1 | How I cured social anxiety and depression after 9 gruesome years.Well I'm vegan and anxious as fuck so idk man.... | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 05:52 AM |
| 8 | Going for nights out alone is so liberatingyou kind of do though, finding solo people to approach, particularly girls is extremely rare... | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 11:36 PM |
| 12 | Going for nights out alone is so liberatingWhat I hate about going solo is that everyone is in groups - How do you approach groups? | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl jokingly tells me she'll be my late night booty call...Do you think I should text her tomorrow too? Something about our interaction to keep me in her mind? | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl jokingly tells me she'll be my late night booty call...Do you think I should text her tomorrow too? Something about our interaction to keep me in her mind? | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Girl jokingly tells me she'll be my late night booty call...As I said above she declined because she had to be at work at 7 the next morning. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...Thanks, I’m working on it but sometimes I feel like if I don’t move fast with a girl then she’s going to figure me out, she’s gonna get to know me and conclude I’m not good enough. I suppose I just have to trust that I am good enough. I moved much slower with a girl last night and it looks like she’s coming over again on Friday :) | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | ENOUGH! How to Stop Being TIRED All the Time: Julien's Top 5 Sleep Tips (Overcome Chronic Fatigue)He honestly looks like tyler in the thumbnail... | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 11:39 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...Cool story bro | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 09:44 PM |
| -1 | Women, how would you like to be approached in college?Ask her if she wants to “study” together | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...You honestly expect me to believe that you would turn down a consenting 18 year old girl? GTFO | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 05:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...Ahh so that’s where the hate comes from - Dudes here are just jelly lol | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...I love how I'm downvoted for just seeking advice and asking questions lol | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 04:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...Fair enough | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 03:27 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...The thing is she was 18 - So I don’t think there was much to know about her, she just graduated high school, smokes weed and watches Netflix. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 03:24 PM |
| -2 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...But what shit tests did I fail? And how was I trying to be edgy and cool? | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:09 AM |
| -5 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...What I'm confused about is that if girls feel that I am coming on too strong, then why are they extremely receptive to my advances? Am I too assume that all of a girls reciprocation on a first date is just to please me? And that she doesn't necessarily want to? | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:01 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...So as a good rule of thumb is inviting her back on the first date too much? Like I said though, I've had first date sex before and so sometimes inviting back can reap benefits, I suppose that girl was much more aggressive with her kissing though... | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 04:59 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one...Please elaborate... | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | A year of approaching women - This is what I learntWell then ok, but what I'm saying is still approach, but maybe not as much like a hard-case newbie, and that girls will be more receptive to your approaches if you have a fulfilling life without them. And if that's not the problem for 90% of guys then what is? | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 11:56 PM |
| 2 | A year of approaching women - This is what I learntI don't think the message is "either/or" - The point he's making is that a huge majority of guys here put 90% of their focus and goals on getting pussy, and only maybe 10% on other life goals - He's not saying to stop approaching he's just saying flip the percentages around to where the majority of your focus is on building an all around fulfilling life, and by doing that you'll ironically have more success with girls... | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Why do you game?Because what's the other option? | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Unnecessary persistence makes you needyThat was my whole point: No, I'm not investing in one girl, because I forget her and go on to the next girl but the new girl ends up ghosting me too. It's frustrating as fuck, when do I meet the girl who won't do this? | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Unnecessary persistence makes you needyYeah but don't you think having sex with her and then her ghosting is better than not having sex and her ghosting? | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 04:18 PM |
| 10 | Unnecessary persistence makes you needyI always see advice like this and I think "great, yeah that girl ghosted me so I'll just talk to other girls". And then the new girl I meet ends up doing the exact same thing, the cycle repeats, it fucking hurts man.... | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 05:08 AM |
| 0 | I'm curious, what do you guys think about the people who call seduction manipulative?I didn't say that, he just seems not easily manipulated... | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 06:34 PM |
| 0 | I'm curious, what do you guys think about the people who call seduction manipulative?But Jordan Peterson said this... | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 06:07 PM |
| -6 | What are some flirty, funny and teasing texts to send a girl when she doesn’t reply for a while?Did you go to school in a haunted house or something? Because you have a Ph.D. in ghosting hahaha | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Just a reminder guys: Don’t ghost on women you had sex withBut what if girls always ghost me after sex? | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Should i just quit tinder?It used to be good, I even lost my virginity thanks to it, but agreed nowadays it's garbage. I have no idea. I took some guys advice on youtube, he said to put "It's a match!" at the bottom in your first picture, apparently it gets girls to swipe right more, my guess is some girl saw it and didn't like it, so she reported me and now I can't log in. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Should i just quit tinder?From someone who got banned from tinder, this is exactly what I needed to hear, thanks. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Got rejected, am still aliveThat's literally exactly how I feel. Gotta keep trying I guess, what's the other option? | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Guys, what is your first default text to a girl after getting her number?But don't you think one word conveys to the girl that you don't give a shit about meeting her again? | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Guys, what is your first default text to a girl after getting her number?I mean of course I asked because I wanted to set up date. I just thought the first initial text should be somewhat of an introduction, then the second text tells her the where and when. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 12:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop coming off as the boyfriend type?Not necessarily. I hand hold girls on the first date, am I doing it wrong? | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop coming off as the boyfriend type?Ok well can you explain the difference between kino and PDAs? I feel like they are bound to get blurred... | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 02:56 AM |
| 8 | Online dating, waste of time or holy grail?Over 90% of girls are on there for validation - But I lost my virginity thanks to tinder so it's not all bad.... | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 03:51 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Guys I'm a newbie and I just had the best night ever...Lol - it can't be cringe and hilarious at the same time | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Guys I'm a newbie and I just had the best night ever...Thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 07:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Guys I'm a newbie and I just had the best night ever...Yup, said it with a big grin on my face. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Why having the wrong friends will destroy your success with womenI feel I have gotten better at talking to everyone, all I have know is several acquaintances, not necessarily friends. | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Why having the wrong friends will destroy your success with womenRealistically how often are you hanging out with friends daily and/or weekly? And where have you found most of your friends? | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 04:12 PM |
| 8 | Why having the wrong friends will destroy your success with womenWhat if you don't have any friends? | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 02:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First-Date with smokin'-hot, Jesus-lovin' girl ends in hot makeout, then she ghosts me...Thanks, becoming less of a chode everyday lol - I feel like that idea would only work if you've built rapport with the girl in person, a lot of my dates come from online - Has that plan worked for you from online game? | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm John Mulvehill, JMULV from JMULV Pickup, Ask Me Anything.How do you deal with approaching a hot girl at night when she's in a group of 3 or more? | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm John Mulvehill, JMULV from JMULV Pickup, Ask Me Anything.I'm new, where can I find good wings? And is it worth going out solo if you haven't found good wings yet? | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...It's been a little more than 2 weeks but yeah you're right - The hardest part is truly believing that some girls will like me... | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 04:30 AM |
| 2 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...He's one of my favorites and he definitely uses this line in a lot of his infield. | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | I keep deleting tinder concluding that it's a waste of time for a guy, I come across some "top 5 tinder hacks for guys" post, re-download it, try out the tips and get the exact same results, the cycle repeats...Do you speak fluent Spanish? | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | I keep deleting tinder concluding that it's a waste of time for a guy, I come across some "top 5 tinder hacks for guys" post, re-download it, try out the tips and get the exact same results, the cycle repeats...Austin Tx | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 01:29 AM |
| 2 | I keep deleting tinder concluding that it's a waste of time for a guy, I come across some "top 5 tinder hacks for guys" post, re-download it, try out the tips and get the exact same results, the cycle repeats...I lift at the gym 5 days a week - I have a gym photo, with my guns out - Hasn't helped one fucking bit... | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 12:31 AM |
| 2 | I keep deleting tinder concluding that it's a waste of time for a guy, I come across some "top 5 tinder hacks for guys" post, re-download it, try out the tips and get the exact same results, the cycle repeats...Which Latin America countries? | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 11:38 PM |
| 2 | I keep deleting tinder concluding that it's a waste of time for a guy, I come across some "top 5 tinder hacks for guys" post, re-download it, try out the tips and get the exact same results, the cycle repeats...Same here, even when I get matches they don't respond, idk why I keep downloading it, I guess I stupidly believe "it's gonna be different this time"... Never fucking is lol | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Women are now far more promiscuous than men, and cheat more, says unsurprising new studyThat's because girls have an easier time getting laid... | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | No results going out soloI got the hi part down, after that is where the train goes off the rails... | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Supposedly an attractive guy, how to start acting like it?Right but believing you're attractive makes it easier for the other person to think so no? | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Supposedly an attractive guy, how to start acting like it?That sounds like neediness as Mark Manson described it: Being more invested in other people's opinions of you rather than the opinion you have of yourself... | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 05:25 AM |
| 6 | No results going out soloTrust me, there’s nothing worse to witness in a club than a cute guy just looking lost as heck and too shy to go up to a girl. Shit, that's like me at every bar. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 05:54 PM |
| 4 | The first time I saw sexual subcommunication in text. Texts w/ inner breakdown, for purposes of discussingAnd isn't it bad to ask the girl to pick a place for the date? It indicates that you won't be able to lead her... | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 04:49 PM |
| 0 | If I'm trying to see the girl again, is it bad to try and bang her on the first date?Apparently you can't read... | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Holy shit. If you don’t get matches, visit NYC.Can I ask why? | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Holy shit. If you don’t get matches, visit NYC.What big city are you coming from? | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | No idea what to do with tinder matches.So what's yours? | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 05:31 PM |
| 0 | No idea what to do with tinder matches.What do you guys think of this one: "I'm guessing your name is (girls name)? I don't mean to brag or anything but I'm a really good guesser... " | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Did I do something wrong here?My only fear now is that if he sees me again then he'll ban me from the store, what should I do? | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls are super into me on the first date - After that, not so much...So what are you saying? Regrets is inevitable? | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Girls are super into me on the first date - After that, not so much...No you missed the core message: I already do this but the cycle of girls losing interest in me repeats itself. Nowhere in this post do I mention one single girl. | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Girls are super into me on the first date - After that, not so much...Do elaborate... | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Girls are super into me on the first date - After that, not so much...Probably just inexperience - Was a virgin for a long ass time, finally lost it last June and now I have sex with a girl once like every 4 months | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Girls are super into me on the first date - After that, not so much...Thanks but I've tried this - If I wait for them to text me then I will be waiting for the rest of my life... When I leave them be they don't chase me, they just continue to ignore me - Also, being mediocre at sex probably doesn't help... | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | That feel when you hesitate and you know you blew itThis isn't always true, sometimes the girl is so uninterested that it brings me down and I feel it was definitely better not to approach... | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | 9 Things That Make You a Mentally Weak ManPreach | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | If you find yourself lashing out at girls rejecting you, it's because you lack deep inner self-love...I don't understand the question... What if you do?so what? | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 05:36 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about just being friends with a girl?Ok cool, but should I initiate or her? | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is Approach Anxiety actually evolutionary?NO - It's a theory pick up artists invented based on zero evidence... | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm John Mulvehill, JMULV from JMULV Pickup, Ask Me Anything.Ok cool - Your video about how your lay count matters made me feel shitty and felt it might deter beginners from even trying with you being over 800 and all - I guess you were saying lay count is correlated with skill set and not self worth, is that about right? | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm John Mulvehill, JMULV from JMULV Pickup, Ask Me Anything.Do you believe your self worth is determined by how many girls you sleep with? | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:07 AM |
| 18 | Would be cold approach work for a girl?If a girl did this to me I would wonder where the hidden camera is... | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | The worst thing a guy can hear: "Well it was nice to meet you"Life story? I talked about the gym and television, that's it... | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The worst thing a guy can hear: "Well it was nice to meet you"Our interaction was maybe 30 seconds, so I don't think girls are saying this because I'm talking for too long but because something else about me is off. They usually say this before I even get a chance to start a conversation. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 05:41 AM |
| -3 | The worst thing a guy can hear: "Well it was nice to meet you"Idk if it'd be an hour but I see your point I've learned that if you ask for the number too early it makes it easier for her to forget about you, you have to banter for a bit - The longer the interaction the more likely she is to text you back It wasn't so much what she said as how she said it, like the way girls say 'aww' to a puppy. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | My progress is too damn slow...I never said I refuse to switch it up. And I have not heard that direct openers are trash. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:13 PM |
| 2 | My progress is too damn slow...Granted I do tend to spring my openers on girls without always making eye contact. Yeah I don't know which girls are attracted. So far I've laid 3 different, cute and kinda quirky white girls, not a lot to go on. Thanks, I'll try these. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Best place to look for MILFs and best way to approach them for guys in their mid-20s.Do you find these classes on meetup? | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Chubby chick requests date with me...Little late to the party... | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Losing my virginity didn't make me hate myself any less...Nice! I am jealous of your 8 bar lays - I've found that girls are always in groups at night. How did you do it? | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 05:50 AM |
| 6 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?As someone who's played lead guitar in multiple bands I can say that the notion that it gets you laid is greatly exaggerated - Even James Marshall noticed this... | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 07:40 PM |
| 17 | 28 years old female virginIt's easy to say that when you forget to mention the price tag... | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?I'm not relying on it, but it definitely doesn't hurt | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time?Damn, I think I'm the first one | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 11:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Grocery Store Shopping Together! Advice?A little late to the party here... Also, she did end up texting me back. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl on tinder (a hookup app) say "no hookups" in her bio?So what's your reason? | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Amazing first date to ice fucking cold...Are you saying she's a criminal? | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Amazing first date to ice fucking cold...Trying to learn to do what in reverse? | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Close but no cigar...So fast forward to today and she went ice cold and is not responding, what happened? | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 03:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Close but no cigar...So fast forward to today and she went ice cold and is not responding, what happened? | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Close but no cigar...Ok sweet thanks - One last shit test I forgot to mention, after leaving she texts "Like did you only want to fuck just be honest. U can be up front w/me. I'm not gna be hurt." I think I failed that one too. I felt if I agreed to it she wouldn't see me again. | /r/seduction | 26/09/17 05:24 PM |
| 1 | "You're not cool?"I don't think I said anything I just kept massaging her shoulders... | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Guys who get laid a lot, how often do you masturbate normally?You ever think masturbation causes you to be those things? | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Guys who get laid a lot, how often do you masturbate normally?Yes but because you cum so quickly you're able to go again with said partner for round 2 fairly quickly... | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 06:03 AM |
| 0 | A girl texts a few hours before the first date to say that she can't make it. No apology and no explanation. How do you respond?How do you get dtf hotties? | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 06:22 AM |
| -8 | What happened to RSD Todd?The thing is, no one forces you have to have a kid - No one puts a gun to your head... | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I think I just got played...I'm not an idiot, I am fully aware many girls are just on there for validation. I just have trouble accepting that the girls I match with are those types. And I do approach in real life. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 04:03 AM |
| 0 | I think I just got played...Do elaborate... | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 02:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Chubby chick requests date with me...Did what 5 times? | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Chubby chick requests date with me...My bad hahaha | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Chubby chick requests date with me...Np | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 05:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Chubby chick requests date with me...Even though I'm doing that - How did you get nofap from my post? | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 05:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Chubby chick requests date with me...Thanks - Go for it | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...I call bullshit | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...I was thinking that too - The longer it looks the more needy it looks and that message is pretty damn long... | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 05:43 PM |
| 13 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...That's another thing that annoys me - So many girls are writing "no hookups" in their bio - I'm like "bitch you know this is a hookup app right?" | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Take care of your mind and the rest will followDude gay | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Take care of your mind and the rest will followBut how do you love yourself? | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 05:56 AM |
| 1 | I'll have a great reaction from a girl I approach, she is very friendly/responsive and I keep an interaction going for a good 5-10 minutes - I ask her out but she tells me she has a bf...Best answer yet thanks | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 05:10 PM |
| 1 | I'll have a great reaction from a girl I approach, she is very friendly/responsive and I keep an interaction going for a good 5-10 minutes - I ask her out but she tells me she has a bf...What can you do to find out asap if she has a boyfriend so you don't waste your time? | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 04:46 AM |
| 1 | I'll have a great reaction from a girl I approach, she is very friendly/responsive and I keep an interaction going for a good 5-10 minutes - I ask her out but she tells me she has a bf...What are you talking about? She didn't screen herself and she didn't save my time. She did the opposite. She let me keep rambling for 10 minutes even though she had a bf. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Never has a girl texted me "I'll let you know" and then proceeded to do exactly that...It started online, funny banter, I asked for the number, she gave it, I texted her and at first she was very responsive. She even texted she was excited to meet up, come the next day I text her a time and place and I hear nothing, and then "I'll let you know" But this happens with cold approach too - I think my problem is confidence - As of lately, all the girls I daytime cold approach seem like they're just itching to get away from me - "I'm in a hurry", "I'm meeting someone ", and the worst on… | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Never has a girl texted me "I'll let you know" and then proceeded to do exactly that...I do, this happens from cold approach too - I was just referring to the most recent example which was online... | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Never has a girl texted me "I'll let you know" and then proceeded to do exactly that...I so want that to work for me, but whenever I take a step back she just continues to ghost me - Nothing changes... | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 05:40 AM |
| 12 | Never has a girl texted me "I'll let you know" and then proceeded to do exactly that...I met her online so I couldn't really do it in person... | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 03:53 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Sexy Mexican Milf...How is the change of beverage gonna change that? Also, how about fuck what they think? | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Sexy Mexican Milf...Thanks, yeah it's tough to break out of - Gotta push yourself though... | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Daygame is no problem, Nightgame scares the piss outta me...What do you mean by screened them? | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Daygame is no problem, Nightgame scares the piss outta me...Yeah from the guys I've talked to they seem to be the other way around - I wanna believe you when you say girls are receptive at night, but I just fear at night is when they put their bitch shields up because they expect to be approached... | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Daygame is no problem, Nightgame scares the piss outta me...Yeah I hear you - It's like I don't wanna do Nightgame but I don't not wanna do it either for fear of missing out on countless "opportunities"... | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 05:58 PM |
| 3 | If you flirt with every girl you see you'll have multiple options by the end of the week (if not the same day).And all I'm saying is you don't know anything about me - And you're being condescending af with that texting comment - Like I already do that, don't act like you're teaching something new there - Again you don't know anything about me and are assuming you know - Being nice isn't the only reason girls flake - Trust me, I escalate, express intent and try to move things forward quickly - Sometimes it just comes down to a lack of experience and the fact that it's a numbers game, most women in the wo… | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 01:35 AM |
| 2 | If you flirt with every girl you see you'll have multiple options by the end of the week (if not the same day).Lol - I'm not trying to protect girls from misogyny- I'm just saying I don't wanna go down that road myself because hating women leads to hating yourself... | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 12:01 AM |
| 9 | If you flirt with every girl you see you'll have multiple options by the end of the week (if not the same day).Yeah it's a lot of negativity and misogyny | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 05:33 PM |
| 9 | If you flirt with every girl you see you'll have multiple options by the end of the week (if not the same day).I do this and get nothing but rejections and flakes... | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 06:06 AM |
| 3 | What if she see's you chatting up other women? Nice guys and daygame.What I'm wondering is what if it goes well? What if you get a girls Number and she sees you chatting up other girls, won't that ruin your chances with first girl? | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 06:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Thursday - quick few approaches in barI think that only works in daygame - In a night game environment not so well... | /r/seduction | 01/07/17 05:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I think running into this girl a second time ruined my chancesWell that was my original question so why are you acting surprised? | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 04:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I think running into this girl a second time ruined my chancesWhat are you talking about? I asked her to hang out multiple times, she's the one who bailed on me. I did try and stay longer, I just ran out of shit to say or felt what I said want good enough. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Tinder/okc: Is it ever acceptable to send a double text/message to start?No my point was that I wanna find out as quick as possible if she's not into me so I can move on, isn't her not replying to the first message proof of that? | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Here’s Why You Need To Start Meeting Women During The DayI've started working out, meditating and reading more - Not so much traveling, I really don't get where people are getting all this money to travel as a hobby... 'Having your shit together' is a subjective term, what do you mean by that? | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Here’s Why You Need To Start Meeting Women During The DayI'm already doing all those things & I still have poor results - Also you didn't mention this in the article - You led readers to believe that the magic only consisted of approaching girls in the daytime... | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 02:28 PM |
| 17 | Here’s Why You Need To Start Meeting Women During The DayOh man I so want to believe this but this has not been my experience - I've been "showing up" to improve my dating life for almost a year- Unfortunately, approaching girls in the daytime has gotten me tons of flakes and a few lousy dates... Granted I probably still have some work to do on my interactions but it is definitely not as easy as just "showing up" - Some women are appreciative of your bravery but most aren't, and the ones who are are always taken - "that was really brave of you but I h… | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I find it hard to have standards & set boundaries with girls when getting dates with girls is a rare thing for me...Do elaborate- What about my mindset? And what's a good one to have? | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Hey Thanks for the Input - I wasn't trying to rush it since it was my first time, I enjoyed the pace that we went. As for the nofap thing we are definitely going to have to disagree. The author of the article you sent me is widely laughed about in the scientific community. All he really manages to prove is that he likes to jerk it to internet porn... I would argue that practicing semen retention for 3 months is what allowed me to go again with her no problem. And believe it or not you can watch … | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Yes because like I honestly didn't think it would happen for a long time... Like what's the point in having condoms if you're not gonna get laid? | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...You're kind of an asshole huh? | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Well boys, it finally happened...Absolutely - Knowing that I'll only allow myself to climax when with an actual partner makes you pursue it real intimacy more... | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Her snuggling up to me definitely helped me be more forward... : ) | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Well boys, it finally happened...Thanks! Duly noted - The funny thing is I kind of wanted to her cancel because I didn't think the date would go anywhere, no other date I had ever did... Oh how wrong I was.... : ) | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Well boys, it finally happened...Cool story bro | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Lol - There is no motive whatsoever to make this shit up... | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Really dude? Bitter trolls exist unfortunately... | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Well boys, it finally happened...Lol - I thought it was just gonna be like a scene from a teen movie where I struggled to undo it - I figured it out pretty quickly though... | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Thanks!!!!! | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:53 AM |
| 6 | Well boys, it finally happened...: ) | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR ] I've been Injecting pickup into my daily life.What do you mean by 'knocking it'? | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Grocery Store Shopping Together! Advice?Ok but it's late in the day, should I text her now or just wait until tomorrow? | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Grocery Store Shopping Together! Advice?Thanks, I haven't texted her back yet today because I feel like I waited 3 days for a lame excuse of a text, I'm not impressed with her reasoning, no one is so busy that they can't text you back - I figure she can wait for my next text, that's not bitterness is it? I was gonna try hanging out and going grocery shopping together again, but this time for a recipe that we could make together at my place... | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Grocery Store Shopping Together! Advice?Thanks, I usually wait an hour to send that first text, I thought within minutes it would look needy but maybe you're right... I learned from rsd that if a girl isn't texting back a good text to get her re-engaged is "Can I be honest?" - So I text her this today, and she finally texts back with "My bad I've been kind of tied up past couple of days" Now I know most guys advice would be to move on and I was ready to do that, but I really liked her and she texted back today, it might seem needy but… | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 01:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Grocery Store Shopping Together! Advice?Thanks- Yeah I was thinking about that cooking idea too, of course it only occurred to me after parting ways -_- Oh well, next time... | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Grocery Store Shopping Together! Advice?Taught her how to what? | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Help me find a certain RSD Tyler YouTube video for a friend?https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM | /r/seduction | 19/05/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what happened to your approach anxiety when you approached a lot of girls and got rejected by all of them?How exactly does one "have fun"? | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | In your experience, what happened to your approach anxiety when you approached a lot of girls and got rejected by all of them?But doesn't spam approaching help you practice and get better? So when you see a girl you really wanna talk to you are better prepared? But couldn't that just be a self limiting belief though? If you're saying the chances of girls fucking us is slim to none then that's pretty depressing. And if that's the case then what's the point of all this? Just keep soldiering on until we find a girl that would fuck us? | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | In your experience, what happened to your approach anxiety when you approached a lot of girls and got rejected by all of them?If spam approaching doesn't work then what's the other option? Conversations with girls aren't the end goal here... | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 06:12 AM |
| 1 | So today I got banned from Whole Foods...Hey thanks, I can't drink so I just feel awkward a lot standing around in the bar, I feel like it's a dick move to just order water no? But yeah that's probably just me caring what the bartender thinks of me... | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on Rsd? Frauds or legit?How were you able to leave everything and travel? Where did you get the money to travel? I've always wanted to do that but am just wondering how guys aren't broke right after traveling... | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on Rsd? Frauds or legit?But if you don't approach a lot, don't you significantly lower your chances? | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How many of you guys try to pick up women in Target and Wal-mart?Why are you banned? | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 05:28 AM |
| 0 | So today I got banned from Whole Foods...But what's success? Is "every approach is a success " a good mindset for a newbie? The thing is while I usually go up and talk to hot chicks I'm socially awkward and quiet a lot of the time when I'm not chatting up girls... I've tried bars and clubs but it scares me, but the fact that it scares me is probably exactly why I need to do it. I feel like women are always in groups and put their bitch shields up at night... | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 03:57 AM |
| 0 | So today I got banned from Whole Foods...All of a sudden I feel worthless, like everyone hates me, like I'm gonna creep every girl out and that I should just give up... | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 03:30 AM |
| 0 | So today I got banned from Whole Foods...Hey thanks for the input. The thing is that I'm not entirely sure that one of the girls I approached complained. I'm pretty sure it was one of the women managers (who I obviously have not approached) who noticed me approaching other girls and got annoyed and complained. I kinda have to remain ruthlessly positive if I hope to make any progress with this. As long as I can reflect that I was making girls uncomfortable and choose to learn from it then it is a positive, it means that I was taking act… | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | So today I got banned from Whole Foods...Hey thanks for the input, yeah I've tried malls, a lotta high school girls though... I guess I see your point about making them uncomfortable, I can be honest and say that most of the time I have no idea what I'm doing... How can I not make them uncomfortable? Do you ever make girls uncomfortable? What's your approach? | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Think of every rejection like thisAgain, you're under the impression that I give a shit - How about just tell me and stop all this bs? And if you'd taken the time to read my comment you'd know I was just curious, wasn't trying to attack it, if you were interpreting that as an attack then that is 100% on you.... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/17 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Think of every rejection like thisJust out of curiosity, how old are you? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Think of every rejection like thisWow, I think you're what seddit warns guys about - Whatever dude, I'm not gonna argue with you, enjoy never getting laid... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/17 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Think of every rejection like thisDamn dude, that's some negative-ass misogynistic bullshit, I used to think like that and that's a dark place to be in... I talk to them nowadays and a lot of them are nice just for the sake of being nice... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/17 06:11 AM |
| 10 | A Letter To Those Who Are StrugglingIt's normal for people everywhere, I get that you shouldn't see it that way, but society constantly beats down the idea that your self worth as a guy is determined by how many girls you bang... | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Is wandering around in a shopping mall for hours coldapproaching girls creepy? If yes, what's a non-creepy way to do day game?I do this, some people probably do look at me and think it's creepy, fuck 'em... | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 06:24 AM |
| 1 | One of my biggest fears is that I'll be approaching girls years from now and still not be able to pull...Lol, try talking to girls instead of commenting and you might actually have sex... | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 10:15 PM |
| 1 | One of my biggest fears is that I'll be approaching girls years from now and still not be able to pull...Pot calling the kettle black... | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Insta-Date! Sort of...Thanks! Unfortunately she hasn't texted back, I found her on fb and she accepted my friend request but didn't respond to a message I sent on there - Fucking flakes man, oh well, off to meet more girls I guess... | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 06:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First Insta-Date! Sort of...Will do! | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 04:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First Insta-Date! Sort of...Thanks! Yeah it was almost better I approached the second time as it happened to be right next to Starbucks, smooth transition... | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Insta-Date! Sort of...Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 04:42 PM |
| 4 | What Every Introvert Ought to Know About DatingYou're speaking about introversion negatively as if it's a disability or something... | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 04:48 AM |
| 3 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.So I don't understand did this happen to you or is it an excerpt from the book? | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 06:30 PM |
| 4 | If you're failing with girls... do this one thing.I totally get this and 100% want to put it into practice, but how the hell can you do this if your lay count is at a grand total of zero? I I fucking hate it but I am kind of ashamed... | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 03:02 AM |
| 17 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.What specifically? | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 08:11 AM |
| 1 | I managed to get over my approach anxiety!I think you might be asexual... | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 10:11 PM |
| 60 | I managed to get over my approach anxiety!You weren't in the mood? I call bs... I think that's only something girls go through | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 04:16 PM |
| 12 | 24yo virgin can't escalate with women. Gonna meet with a prostitute soon to get over my anxieties.I think it takes a little more than 1 approach... | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 08:26 AM |
| 2 | A selection of /u/gotthelowdown's comments related to interaction and seduction. Great read.It makes me feel better because he's willing to share all of the wonderful insight he has with people trying to learn this shit - There was a time when this guy was probably clueless too you know... | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 07:03 AM |
| 1 | I approach a girl, she gives me her number, I find her on fb and it says she's 'in a relationship'...How do I know she likes me? | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | This one particular paradox has been bugging the hell outta me...Damn bro that was dark | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | 'I have a boyfriend'Nothing is wrong with me, thanks for your concern. | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 01:37 PM |
| 9 | 5 unique tips that I have found useful in my experience in seductionHow do you get into a dance class and how much do they generally cost? | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | 'I have a boyfriend'I do pay attention most of the time - If a girl is clearly uncomfortable should I just eject from the set? I've seen some guys turn an initial bad reaction around... | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 02:06 AM |
| 1 | 'I have a boyfriend'What about 'Hey I am totally not crazy but....' | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 04:39 AM |
| 2 | 'I have a boyfriend'British? Where are you getting that from? It's just acknowledging that it is out of the ordinary to approach a stranger in the middle of the day - What do you say? | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 03:49 AM |
| 1 | 'I have a boyfriend'I always open with 'hey I know this is super random but I just thought you were cute and I had to meet you' Am I doing it wrong? Should I be opening with something else? With this as the opener I can almost feel the next thing out of her mouth is going to be 'I have a boyfriend' or 'I have to go now' which is why I feel the need to keep talking - And with this as the opener there's not really much to listen to, at least at first, just 'hi I'm x, nice to meet you' I have recently relocated near t… | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 03:20 AM |
| 3 | 'I have a boyfriend'I am still kind of a newbie and run out of things to say sometimes, when that happens the girl almost always says something like 'well I have to go now' or 'well it was nice meeting you' This is when I feel like I'm losing her so I almost always ask if we could get a coffee sometime to which she almost always replies 'I have a boyfriend ' - I prefer being direct but then how can I not come on so strong and "chill"? | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | 'I have a boyfriend'But I thought shit tests translates into 'I'm interested but I wanna test and see if you're an alpha guy first' - Lying about having a boyfriend translates into 'I'm not interested' as the other commenter pointed out... | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | 'I have a boyfriend'It happens the most often when I say something like 'you seem cool, we should get a coffee sometime' | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Posted a truth in another subreddit, immediate downvotes. You guys will love this.Way to help a brother out.... -_- | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Posted a truth in another subreddit, immediate downvotes. You guys will love this.So how do you get a rich, interesting and fulfilling life? | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | is there anyone who is unsuccessful?Because to get good at guitar you can practice alone in your room for years without fear of judgment (you can fuck up horribly and no one will care because you're alone in your room), without having to be vulnerable in front of people and still get really really good - To get good at seduction you have to get out of your room and face judgement from beautiful women, let yourself be vulnerable and get embarrassed in front of people time and time again to get good... | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 03:04 AM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...But how can you feel like you're rejecting and qualifying them after they say 'sorry I'm not interested'? | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 07:21 AM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...Are they giving you the responses you mentioned, after this opening? Yes Are you having these conversations with girls after they've said something like the comments you mentioned above? No these conversations happen when girls are at least somewhat receptive. And if they're responding immediately with something like what you're describing, then they noticed you and are having an immediate reaction to something in your demeanor. Yeah I notice sometimes that when I first open I just sound so 'ble… | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 07:47 AM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...Yeah they do, people that aren't hungry for it stay in their room and don't approach - How do you give value? And how can you tell? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...What is your opener? 'hey I know this is super random but I just thought you were cute and I had to meet you' What are you talking about with them? Observations, what they are wearing, where they're from, what they do, if they're going to school, what they're studying, why they choose that major, what they wanna be - I am musician and have a youtube channel, when I tell them this it seems to spark some interest... How are you approaching them? Walking up next to them or head on - I'm not sure wh… | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 07:33 AM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...What about a girl who works in a mall that I frequent? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 07:26 AM |
| 3 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...Cold approach is pretty risky. It's not risky it's just that the odds are against you, I am not in any real danger when I approach. Women usually prefer some sort of connection There's no reason why you can't create that from cold-approaching... Attractive women get cold approached in public often They do? My whole point was that most guys will never do it, most guys will never approach a girl outside of their workplace, schools or social circle... | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 06:50 AM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...Mainly indoor shopping malls, but also some parks and outside shopping plazas... | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 06:21 AM |
| 5 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...Bitter much? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 06:16 AM |
| 4 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...And how does one be 'socially smooth' exactly? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 06:03 AM |
| 3 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...I guess part of it is low confidence - I really like James Marshall and have a similar low energy approach, I always open with the usual 'hey I know this is super random but I just thought you were cute and I had to meet you' - It's not always rejection, it's unavailable girls claiming they have boyfriends, I get that some girls could be telling the truth but some of them just say that, I sometimes catch them in the lie and that's what hurts, that they would have to make up some bullshit rather … | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 03:35 AM |
| 4 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...I pretty much only do day game, night game intimidates me, I feel like women are mean and put their bitch shields up at night... | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 02:12 AM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...No but I am fairly new to this, I've been doing it for maybe a few months now... | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to the question: "Do you have a girlfriend?"I thought of saying 'Well not yet, are you applying for the position? Because I am accepting resumes...' | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way I could turn this girl into a friend with benefits?I was mainly talking about the Christian girl because I haven't met the blonde girl yet, and I wanted to be fwb not fuckbuddies, I've read on this sub that they are two different things no? | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 01:18 AM |
| 1 | When you're making out with a girl and then she says 'I'm saving myself until marriage'...But what if I don't want a ltr? What if I just wanna be fuck buddies or friends with benefits? | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 06:13 AM |
| 1 | When you're making out with a girl and then she says 'I'm saving myself until marriage'...Can you elaborate on that last part? How did you do that? I actually tried to kiss her but she told me that me not being Christian is a deal breaker, is there anything I can do? | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Hey Seddit, if you had to start from scratch in pickup again, what would be the 3 things you'd start with?But I am becoming a better man by doing a lot of approaches and pushing my comfort zone right? | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Newbie: First date tomorrow from a girl I cold-approached!!!We did decide on a time and place and she texted back 'sounds great!' | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys usually handle a hot girl you wanna approach who's on the phone?So what's your point? | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 09:18 PM |
| -9 | When you're making out with a girl and then she says 'I'm saving myself until marriage'...Why? | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys save notes related to seduction on your phone? What are the contents?'The reality of the comfort zone is a sexless, lonely, boring life. It's not safe at all, it's the most dangerous thing you can choose.' | /r/seduction | 27/11/16 07:58 AM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting Laid20 minute drive | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Instinctual response I had confused both her and me...I don't work with her.... | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Got my harshest rejection yet today...The second part of her statement is what hurt. And yes but I haven't forgotten... | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Getting halfway decent at opening but how do you guys transition into a fun conversation?Yeah I think the only reason guys say don't open with that is because they can't muster up the courage to say that... A lot of women appreciate you being direct and to the point like that, one woman I opened with that even told me 'that was very brave of you'... ; ) | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidIs 20-30 min back to your place too far? | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Got my harshest rejection yet today...Dude you're an idiot, that opener has been suggested countless times in this community... | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 03:32 PM |
| 5 | 5 ways picking up girls is like a video gameCan I be honest with you? Cool but what the hell do you say after that? | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Got my harshest rejection yet today...What do you usually open with? And what do you mean 'make a move'? What move? | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Newbie:Today I approached more girls than I ever have in my entire life, got two numbers and one of them was a Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader!!!!Thanks!!!! Yes I do know of it, pm me!!! | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 08:30 AM |
| 16 | Approached a girl for the first time by myselfI was at a party last night and I saw a pretty good looking girl just by herself on my phone. How was she on your phone? | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 07:30 AM |
| 5 | The Most Important Mindset to Attract WomenBut what about when a woman says 'I'm not interested'? I feel like then my brain would go 'see? I told you women aren't attracted to you'... | /r/seduction | 04/11/16 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Chicks During Day vs. Night.I feel the opposite - Like women have their guard down in the day and then their bitch shields go up at night... | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 05:58 AM |
| 1 | "We're not having sex tonight."Whenever I've been on a date with a woman or met a woman at a bar, almost every time they say "We're not having sex tonight" it is pretty much guaranteed we are going to have sex. But you said you texted her that, so it's guaranteed sex regardless of which party says it? | /r/seduction | 28/10/16 06:28 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I did it seddit!Tinder was a big help in your anxiety? Tinder made mine worse, it's like I was super cool and confident when messaging through the app, but in person I was awkward as fuck, didn't escalate, played it safe and as a result it didn't go any further. | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 03:49 AM |
| 1 | If they game teacher universal principles, why does RSDTyler struggle to get and keep long term relationships despite his insistence that they are his ideal/dreamProbably because the women he dates find out what he does - They can find all his videos on YouTube - He said in a talk once "I'm teaching guys how to fuck hot sluts..." | /r/seduction | 22/10/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | 5 Easy Ways To Get Past Her Defenses9 out of 10 women have seen their girlfriends naked, felt their boobs, smack their ass, etc. How do you know this? | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Was she bitchy/insecure or am I just inexperienced?I never told her she stinks... She just had workout attire so I asked if she came from the gym, she's the one who said 'can you smell it?', I didn't really reply with a definite yeah, it was more like a 'yeah whatever'... | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 03:54 AM |
| 3 | My biggest fear is that I'll chat a girl up who appears to be alone and then her boyfriend comes back from the bathroom...Oh yeah, that too.... | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Newbie: I approached a hot Latin lady in a mall and asked her out...Is it for audio too? It thought it was just for visual stuff... | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Wake Up For Hardcase Newbies: What To Do If You're Depressed, Overly Passive, And Socially WeirdI felt the same way when I first saw this - I don't think it was meant to be a dis though.... It's like if your car doesn't start then something's wrong, you don't feel bad about it you get up and go do something to fix it... | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Newbie: Today I was direct as I could possibly be...Your first sentence is simply untrue, just because she has a lot of options doesn't guarantee she'll like and date one of them. The rest of your first paragraph is completely incoherent. As for your second paragraph yes, but I knew she was making it up because there was a long "uhhhhhhhhhhhh" before she told me she had a boyfriend. Girls that actually have boyfriends don't generally ponder whether they have one or not. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Newbie: Today I was direct as I could possibly be...Yes I know, that's why I asked it - I read a great article about why the reason so many guys fear rejection and why they're so devastated by it is because they haven't experienced it enough - My goal was to get rejected and take note of the fact that nothing bad happens, I didn't die, she wasn't mean and it's never as bad as I imagine it... | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to become a pickup artist AND view women in a healthy way?I ask myself that everyday - The obvious answer is probably neediness - Low confidence and self-esteem, just being way too invested in what she thinks - I've been that way for too long and am finding it damn hard to claw my way out of it - I think I've been making progress though, baby steps.... | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to become a pickup artist AND view women in a healthy way?Yeah, I guess I just started to feel guilty because this one woman's post seemed like she was trying to shame us for finding women sexy and wanting to fuck them, but yeah it is normal, idk what she was on about... | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to become a pickup artist AND view women in a healthy way?You are referring to quitting porn yes? This woman posted about how guys quit porn and go onto pickup and how they view women doesn't change - It's like we switch out porn on a screen to real life porn (aka getting laid)... I am just wondering if most guys in this community see girls that way and if it's such a bad thing... Surely finding a girl sexy and wanting to sleep with her doesn't mean I view her as a sex object does it? | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to become a pickup artist AND view women in a healthy way?Let's say he wasn't - Why is that bad? | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Narcissistic men blame women for not seeing their greatness...Do Elaborate... | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Narcissistic men blame women for not seeing their greatness...I don't blame her - I was just noting the similarity between narcissistic guys blaming girls for not seeing their greatness and believing it's her loss for not seeing my greatness - I was just wondering if they were the same kind of concept... | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck" - Mark Manson wrote a (great) new book, here are my favorite quotes so far...So according to the first one, I should go in to approaching girls expecting a bad experience? | /r/seduction | 22/09/16 04:14 AM |
| 1 | More often than not women pick men upExposing her wrist? Can you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 11:13 PM |
| 6 | If you take care of yourself, you will get numbers. Women will message you. They will compliment you. You will get away with shit. (Tinder)What's your bio? | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 06:49 AM |
| 1 | I always thought it was bullshit when I heard that 'viewing porn makes you objectify women'...Do you really think guys and girls can be 'just friends'? How would that work? Would it have to be an ugly or fat girl? How would you go about making friends with girls? | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 01:53 AM |
| 0 | How do you know when to keep pursuing or when to "next her" and move on?But I've heard from the best that a lot of the girls that ended up sleeping with them didn't really like them at first... | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 06:27 PM |
| -4 | I always thought it was bullshit when I heard that 'viewing porn makes you objectify women'...That's the thing, it's not me, it's what porn abuse turned me into - And sorry but I gotta call bullshit on the last part, I so want to believe that girls like sex, but if girls want sex then why haven't I been laid yet? | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 08:26 PM |
| 1 | In 'Models' he says to write down and talk to women about your worst life experiences...I honestly would like to see it as funny, but what's funny about an experience that led me to not approach girls for a long-ass time? I'm guessing it wouldn't be funny if I retaliated and punched her in the face? So why's it funny if she caused harm to me? | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 05:29 PM |
| 1 | In 'Models' he says to write down and talk to women about your worst life experiences...I see women as nice, friendly, caring people as long as I'm not thinking about it and putting it behind me.... As soon as I start to remember and focus in on that memory I no longer see them as such and it fills me with rage - It fills me with rage because it kept me from approaching girls for over 10 years which led me to having no experience with women - I attribute that memory to my complete lack of success with women, this is why I don't wanna write it down or talk about it... | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | In 'Models' he says to write down and talk to women about your worst life experiences...That's my whole point, I'm supposed to get over it and but also write it down and talk about it? It's a complete contradiction... If it engraves it to my memory then I don't wanna write it down, I want to forget about it - And if I do have to remember it then I would like to see it as funny - But how am I supposed to see it as funny when it kept me from approaching girls for 10+ years? | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone had any pregnancy scares when using condoms?Anal. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Holy fuck I've learnt more in two days than two years.How is teaching English in Japan? Is it an easy gig to get? | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 08:09 PM |
| 2 | 30 years old, just got laid for the first time. There is hope after allHow old was she? | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Newbie: I guess tinder brings out the bitter in me...Besides a bar, what's a good venue to seduce girls? | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Newbie: I guess tinder brings out the bitter in me...What do you mean 'hooking up with the pro's'? | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Newbie: I guess tinder brings out the bitter in me...Do Elaborate... | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 01:29 AM |
| 1 | How did you feel after your first day game approach?It was a train wreck and I was operating on 1 hour of sleep but let me tell you: FUCKING AMAZING... | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 06:42 AM |
| 1 | I think I fucked up again...Yes I though about that, but I am starved for partners and neediness has been clouding my judgement... | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Perfect first date techniqueCool, but how have you handled paying on coffee dates? | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Game for quiet introverted peopleDarn, from the look of the title I thought you were gonna give introverts a fun game to play... | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 06:14 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to white girls in the USA, do the good looking blonde ones care a lot more about race than others?Can you say 'generalizing'? | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 06:11 AM |
| 1 | I feel like when a girl says 'I want a guy who has his shit together' what she's really saying is 'I want a guy who makes a shit ton of money'...Do elaborate... | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?I posted those a while ago and yes I am aware that I had a horrible perception of women but I am working to correct that - How would you go about making just friends with girls? Does the stuff here not apply to that? Approaching random girls to find friends right? If what we need is a partner and you're not into this seduction shit then how do you make that happen? Paying a girl wouldn't be the same, part of what makes it good is that a girl liked you enough that she wanted to get naked with you… | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?so what's a good way of thinking about girls? | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?so girls don't have anti-slut defenses? what's your problem? I was just asking, sheesh... | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?yeah and now that I think about it I never got the number of the two previous girls I got to come out with me on tinder.... *facepalm | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?I actually suggested the following night / assumption = dumbass... | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?do elaborate... whats saddening? girls have anti-slut defenses do they not? | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls on tinder do this?exclamation points and smiley faces? | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls on tinder do this?Yes well she said she was only in my area for the summer so I saw that as an invitation to just go for it... | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls on tinder do this?yeah I am, what of it? | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Why do girls on tinder do this?When I suggested drinks tonight she responded 'can we make it friday?' That's not comfort? | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:28 AM |
| 10 | Why do girls on tinder do this?Why do you assume it was a long text conversation? I basically said: - Hey - Who are you? - Drinks? - Number? And that was it... | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 03:49 AM |
| 8 | Why do girls on tinder do this?That's the thing though, I did ask for it around the 3rd message, I felt that might have been too soon no? | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong? Did I ask too soon?Sorry I should've said after I asked for number she went MIA.... | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Becoming less needyThe problem for me is that every time I try to better myself through working out, playing music, furthering my education or finding a better job I think to myself 'this is all time that could be spent going out, approaching girls and getting more experience' I've become obsessed with them lately and I don't think I like it... What do I do? | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 05:14 AM |
| 2 | PoF still working for people in 2016?How in the hell did you get 25 to bed? My experience has been I message them, they look at my profile and then I never hear back... Annoying as all fucking hell so I just deleted it... | /r/seduction | 04/07/16 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Lost my v card this weekend!how did you meet? | /r/seduction | 04/07/16 02:24 AM |
| 1 | A Tinder Experiment - Girls who don't mind you have a GFwould it be needy/insecure to try this if I don't have one? | /r/seduction | 03/07/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...Yeah I was thinking after she tells me the time to say 'sorry I lied, I knew what time it was, I just use that excuse to come talk to pretty girls' - Would that be ok or super lame? | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...Approximately 6:40!! | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...Yeah, I like video games but doing that was more exhilarating than any video game I've ever played, I think I'm gonna make approaching girls my new video game... | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 04:53 PM |
| 20 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know...It was in a mall, she was smoking, body, blonde, yoga pants, victorias secret bag, sitting down alone on a bench, so I just put one foot in front of the other and said 'excuse me, do you know what time it is?' - she actually fished around in her purse for her phone, turned it on, looked at the time and told me - Because I am so new I just said 'thanks' and tried to get out of there asap because of anxiety, it felt amazing though... | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 04:31 AM |
| 0 | I fluctuate: I go from loving myself to hating myself for being a virgin...Thanks, googling it only made me more depressed stating that the average guy loses it at 17... | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I fluctuate: I go from loving myself to hating myself for being a virgin...I just assumed you would laugh at me if I told you... | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 04:30 PM |
| -5 | I fluctuate: I go from loving myself to hating myself for being a virgin...hmmm, if you aren't gonna fuck 'til marriage then why exactly are you here? | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 06:14 AM |
| 1 | I fluctuate: I go from loving myself to hating myself for being a virgin...why? | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 06:13 AM |
| 1 | The hardest part about beginning this journey is believing that I am worthy of having beautiful women in my life...wow thanks... | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 02:15 AM |
| 7 | Was friend zoned on a "date", but completely turned it around.did you pick her up to start? how did she get there? | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 06:31 AM |
| 1 | After breaking dry-spell. Absolute zero desire for sexI am coming out of the same situation, trying to kick excessive porn and neediness - 20 girls a day?!!! How? I can't even approach one, where do you go and what do you say? | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Gave a cute, younger girl a lyft ride - Is this an IOI?Thanks but I am a beginner, now I know for next time... | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Gave a cute, younger girl a lyft ride - Is this an IOI?Thanks | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Gave a cute, younger girl a lyft ride - Is this an IOI?I am new to this, I kinda figured but just wanted to double-check, thanks... | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 03:24 AM |
| -1 | I am a total newbie and I feel 'it doesn't matter what you say' is terrible advice and doesn't help at all - What are the most successful openers you've had when cold-approaching a girl sitting alone?I never said it was all terrible, a lot of it has been great, I just meant that one point in particular... | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The needy, insecure and passive-aggressive beautiful womanApparently I'm still trying to overcome neediness because I'm wondering where these girls are in my life... | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I tried talking about daygame to two female relatives - Both of which are married with kids - This was their response:So am I to understand that approaching and saying 'hey I thought you were cute and wanted to come meet you ' is a big no-no? | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 04:01 AM |
| 1 | I tried talking about daygame to two female relatives - Both of which are married with kids - This was their response:And you are able to pull girls this way? Say I ask about the cafe and she tells me, then what? A question like that is low risk and doesn't express sexual interest so it seems it would be difficult to transition into 'hey I'm interested' | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching without any indication is cringe worthyYou just take the hand of the girl you like and say to the other girls "I need to borrow your friend for a second..." Pull her away and well you know... | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | This was my very first experience approaching a girl and I can't help feeling like I am a victim...No it's not not and quite frankly I think you're a piece of shit for thinking so - wouldn't be so funny if it happened to you.... | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | This was my very first experience approaching a girl and I can't help feeling like I am a victim...Do elaborate... | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Just got approached in public...kicking myselfWeed is so fucking overrated... | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 06:41 AM |
| 1 | How to pull yourself out of depressionSo think positively but not overly positive because that's bad as well.... It's all so confusing... | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have to do jack shit...Thanks, good point... | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Women don't have to do jack shit...Thanks I will have to try this... | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have to do jack shit...Thanks, my go to place in my head is to feel like a victim but I suppose I have a lot going for me... | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have to do jack shit...Than you for your reply, I guess my comfort zone is self-pity and it sucks, I am trying to work on it... | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Women don't have to do jack shit...Thank you for your reply, I'm sorry I guess I'm just extremely frustrated... I like what you said until the end, that's not very nice, I am just struggling and need support... | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Women don't have to do jack shit...yeah you're right it's better to have a cock and be sexually frustrated your whole god damned life... | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Is there a place you can take girls that will be easier to k-close?Wow seriously? That's pretty fucked to just downplay an extreme allergic reaction like that - Years of genetic alcoholism running through my family but apparently all I needed to do was drink in moderation?! Wow! Have self control! Why didn't you say so! And all this time I was looking for the answer! Wow! Moderation! The thought never even crossed my mind! -_- In your next life you will be a raging alcoholic... | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is there a place you can take girls that will be easier to k-close?Are you implying that I can drink? | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Some approaching/conversation tips by WoujoHow in the actual fuck do you do number 5? | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on seducing older women?Are you suggesting I shouldn't go for it because I work with her? | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I Read This In A PUA Book - Have you guys tried this? Would you try this?Do elaborate... | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I Read This In A PUA Book - Have you guys tried this? Would you try this?Are you saying that you should pay for her shit all the time? | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I Read This In A PUA Book - Have you guys tried this? Would you try this?I did not write the book I was just quoting it, why would I take offense? It's called "Forever alone guy to ladies man" | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 05:05 PM |
| 2 | I Read This In A PUA Book - Have you guys tried this? Would you try this?And how do you tell her you're alpha early on? | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 06:08 AM |
| 0 | I Read This In A PUA Book - Have you guys tried this? Would you try this?you didn't answer question... | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Started reading Models, realized I need to work on myself first to avoid crazy needy women. LESSON: Work on yourself first.I just wanna attract anyone with a vagina - Is this a sign of low self-esteem? I'm trying to love myself but it doesn't always seem to be working... | /r/seduction | 01/04/16 06:49 AM |
| 10 | Golden advice to all late bloomers, former outcasts, and guys who missed out: Get your ego trip out of the way first!Well I liked the title and the beginning but 'Sleep with a few different girls rather than marrying the first girl that shows interest in you. You say 'sleep with girls' like you're saying 'go for a walk' - Shit if I could do that I wouldn't be browsing this sub now would I! | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 08:44 AM |
| 3 | I'm Kelley, and I'm here to helpAre you a chick? | /r/seduction | 17/03/16 04:02 AM |
| 12 | Can you ask a girl if you're wasting your time?Namely, the whole world... | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 08:25 AM |
| -2 | Bitterness Consuming Me...I don't care what she thinks - girls have been cruel to me I just wanted to know how to not be bitter, I thought that was pretty clear... | /r/seduction | 10/03/16 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Picking up on easy hints.. anyone else struggle doing this?How do you know she was hinting for that guy to be you? | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducerAnd how long do you give them to respond before you unmatch them? | /r/seduction | 07/03/16 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducerAnd it works? | /r/seduction | 06/03/16 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducerAm I to understand your first message to them is the girls first name followed by an exclamation point? | /r/seduction | 05/03/16 06:57 AM |
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