I've tried many different photos and bios, and I think it doesn't matter all too much. I have concluded that well over 90% of girls on these sites are just on it for validation.

Granted you can start something with a girl, take her out and create something together - But I think that is the exception not the rule.

Anyways, I am just wondering if you send a witty/funny first message and she doesn't respond, is it ever ok to send a second message? Or is it just best to unmatch her and move on?