Well I chicken out at the first bar. At the second I manage to open two different two-sets, neither of them were very receptive and the second was just rude and flat-out ignored me. It obviously doesn't feel too good but I surprised myself by not getting as upset as I usually do. I carried on to the next bar. There's an indoor section and outdoor section. Inside I see this woman sitting by herself, I hesitate because girls are like never by themselves and I figured her bf was in the bathroom, there were also two macho dudes standing by her that looked like they were gonna go talk to her. Instead of just waiting there to see if she was actually with someone I passed the time by opening another two-set in the outside section. My opener for all 3 two-sets was "Alright who's birthday is it?". The last two-set wasn't so much unperceptive as they were confused. It was a pretty bad interaction but whatever, I said nice to meet you and went back inside. I see she's still sitting by herself. Fuck it I thought. She was a bit of a bigger girl but still in the thicc territory. She's pretty and has full ginormous breasts with the cleavage out and everything. I walk up to her as she's immersed in her phone. "How's your night going?" She surprisingly puts her phone down, looks up smiling. I introduce myself and we shake hands. I say she looks bored, she says no that she's with a bachelorette party and she just had to step away for a second. I ask where she's from, not here - She's just visiting and tonight was her last night here, perfect I thought. She seemed receptive so I play this stupid game where I try to read a girls sign just to get physical. I hold both her hands and start guessing, she calls me out "You just wanted to hold my hands" I just smile and think busted lol. I tell her her eyes are really green, and ask if she's Irish, she says yes and we high-five over it. She's wearing a green dress too and I tease her a bit saying something like 'wow you look really Irish'. She tells me she did the ancestry thing and shows me what her heritage is on her phone. She's having a beer, and I'm drinking water and she asks me about it. I kind of playfully ask "oh is water not cool?" She says something like she just didn't know what I like. I tell her I liked the booze a little too much and had to stop. She asks me about it, how long I've been sober for and if I chose to get help on my own. 5 years, I tell her and that family kind of pushed me into it but deep down I knew they were right. She then asks me "Why are you in a bar then?" - "To meet pretty girls like you" I respond. She smiles and I get closer and put my arm around her. She asks me if we can go hangout back by her friends. Fuck I thought, I thrive at one-on-one interactions but not so much in groups. I think I said something to change the subject and get her to stay. She asks again to go hangout by them - I respond "Ok, but one thing before we go." - "what?" she says - And I lean in for a kiss, she's receptive and all of a sudden I am making out with this thicc cutie in a bar! After knowing her for like 5 minutes, it was awesome. I think shit maybe I actually have a shot at getting laid with this chick. We take a break from kissing and I hold her hand. She leads me back to her friends holding hands on the way there. I know as the guy you are supposed to lead, and it was kind of emasculating having her lead but I guess I didn't know where her friends were so it had to work out that way.

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It was bizarre though, the second we got back to her group it's like a switch flipped in her and she seemed almost completely indifferent to me. She immediately starts diving into conversation with the bride. I know how bad it looks to just stand there, so I made an effort to befriend the friends, none of them were very receptive. She stops talking to the bride and so I try to reengage the convo, I fall prey to the boring topic of asking what she does. She says she manages a doctors office. I tell her I'm a musician in a desperate attempt to try and get her back into me again. She breaks off again to talk to her friends and I again try to befriend some other friends, no dice. She pulls away from her conversation again and I go up and try to put my arm around her again. She gives me a look that says "please go away". She then tells me that she's going to the restroom and that she'll be right back. Ok I thought, maybe we'll go home together lol. I stood there for 5 min looking like an absolute chode, actually believing that she actually went to the bathroom and that she was coming back. I walk back inside to the indoor part thinking maybe she went back to where we first met. Nope. At this point I figured she ditched me, I waited a little longer and walked out. On the way out I see her to my left at the bar, immersed in conversation with two taller dudes. Fuck I thought. Oh well. I had my first instant make-out though! Any pointers on what went wrong? Thanks.