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Okay James Charles
/r/seduction24/05/19 02:38 AM
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Wait for her inside, order your stuff and get her something on the side (not exactly coffee, maybe a cookie or something for both of you). When it comes to conversation the person that asks the questions is the one in control. You want to know as much about her as possible asked open ended questions. After she tells you things repeat some of the things she said so she can see you were paying attention. Make sure you establish eye contact (when she’s talking to you keep eye contact about 50% of t…
/r/seduction23/05/19 11:49 PM
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That’s fake. Your life should be interesting enough so that you have your own stories. If you don’t have them then that means you need to cultivate your inner game and work on yourself more. It doesn’t have to be something that happened to you it could just be knowledge you learn while you’re working on yourself.
/r/seduction23/05/19 02:52 PM
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r/waterbros
/r/seduction23/05/19 01:51 PM
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I think you should try and isolate her instead. Kissing isn’t seen very well at a club. Normally it only happens if the girl is a slut of if she’s really drunk. It’s even harder for it to happen if she’s with friends. Women tend to be very conscious of their surroundings and the scenario when things like this happen. So if she rejects you it may no necessarily mean she doesn’t want one, it just probably isn’t the right place/time.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:11 PM
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Just go for it, usually older women catch on faster and know what’s up so you’ll get a response rather quickly
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:44 PM
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Could you go into detail as to how exactly you worked “hard on yourself”
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:43 PM
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Being a white knight gets her to fall in love with you
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:03 PM
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Can confirm from experience
/r/seduction16/05/19 03:32 PM
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Sounds like you lack inner game bro, sounds like you got all the tools you just don’t know how to use them
/r/seduction16/05/19 03:27 PM
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Ahhh a Corey Wayne student I see, classic my friend
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:40 PM
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In order for there to be a spark both people have to feel it. You can only do 50% of it the other person has to do their part too, you create by being yourself. You just can’t expect to work on everyone. It’s not something you can force. You’re right on feeling a spark after hanging out multiple times though. Everyone is different. If you want to try and cultivate it, then go on more dates with the same person and see where it goes.
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:55 AM
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So I’ve had thoughts similar to this as well and this is the conclusion I have come to: It comes down to not giving a girl everything right when you meet her. Let’s say you meet someone you feel you have a connection with. You shouldn’t just go all in. You should give it time and see if it develops. You should still be willing to go out and meet other women while you’re seeing the person you feel you have a connection with. Ultimately women decide yes or no to make things official, so until then…
/r/seduction11/05/19 11:37 PM
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Bro nah this ain’t it, move on and live your life, have abundance mentality, meet people near you
/r/seduction08/05/19 02:15 AM
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Dude wtf delete that shit, life is happier without it.
/r/seduction30/04/19 10:47 PM
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Nah bro you gotta take the lead, you decide what to do, all you gotta do is make it fun.
/r/seduction30/04/19 09:27 PM
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You just don’t give a fuck and do it, you having out with her and walking down the street? Just grab her hand, women like men that are assertive. If she’s caught off guard then don’t react, act like if it’s normal, the less it bothers you the less it will bother her. Men are meant to break boundaries and barriers. If she told you the guys meant to do 100% of it then she was probably hinting. Women say things for a reason. They will never be direct like men since we tend to use logic over emotion…
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:17 PM
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There is no competition only 3% of men know what they’re doing
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:31 PM
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Why is make up considered insecure, just asking to learn. Something similar happened to me. Asked this girl out and every time we went out after she wore makeup, and before she wouldn’t
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:57 PM
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I made a list of all the things that make me great, it has over 100 items. Whenever I get down I read it and remind myself of the value I have to offer. Taking deep breaths, looking at myself in the mirror and firmly telling myself that I love myself and I define my own success also helps a lot. It’s also helpful to remember that everyone has ups and downs even those who are the most successful, no one is perfect. You can’t change immediately. It’s something that happens over time. It’s called g…
/r/seduction29/04/19 08:11 PM
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I needed to hear this for my own case, thanks. Saved this shit for whenever my head gets to me
/r/seduction29/04/19 07:58 PM
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*Neiman Marcus, if she’s classy
/r/seduction27/04/19 09:37 PM
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Either or
/r/seduction27/04/19 01:41 AM
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Love how you assume he won’t read 3% man, this book is a must and people never take that piece of advice seriously and end up back where they started.
/r/seduction26/04/19 06:01 PM
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No...wait until she’s back, if she remembers you then that’s a good sign, if she doesn’t then move on
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:56 PM
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Don’t message her. When she comes back just dm her and ask how her trip was. Then ask her out to talk about it. Meanwhile you need abundance mentality so go out and meet other women. Women like men that have options.
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:49 PM
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“I’d like to hangout and get to know you better in person, if you don’t that’s cool, let me know if you change your mind”
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:19 PM
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Fuck yea
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:21 PM
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henryblazer is right don’t put up with the bullshit, you know what you want, you shouldn’t have to wait on anyone. The strongest negotiation strategy is walking away and meaning it. Pull away
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:16 PM
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Don’t tell them you like them. It kills the mystery. You need to go out with them more and be more direct regarding hand holding and kissing. Just go for it, there’s nothing wrong with a kiss, you have a right to want one. If they’re not interested then walk away. The more unclear your feelings are the more attracted she’ll be. It doesn’t make sense, but what happened to you doesn’t make sense either. It’s just the way things work. Let her be the one wanting you to commit. Women are the ones to …
/r/seduction23/04/19 10:59 PM
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DM should only be used to set meet ups/dates. When you go back tell her you’re in town and you wanna go out for coffee or something.
/r/seduction23/04/19 12:43 AM
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You fucked up, you come clean when you see her and deal with her reaction. You brought this upon yourself
/r/seduction22/04/19 10:57 PM
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Well said. I wouldn’t want to be deceiving either. Be yourself, if it happens it happens, if not then...cool...you met someone new.
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:10 PM
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You started off well but then showed too much effort. Pull back and let her come to you. Who cares if she got pissed, probably a subconscious shit test.
/r/seduction22/04/19 03:28 AM
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No I meant sometimes girls reject guys, then those guys work on themselves, and those girls that rejected them come back
/r/seduction20/04/19 04:18 PM
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Same thing happens with girls to guys who work on themselves, change for the better, and reach their full potential.
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:42 AM
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Nah bro there’s no issue with it. You just gotta own it. You’re not weird for not having social media. Personally, I just give a bigger shit about myself and the things I have to do rather than other people’s lives. It sounds selfish, but it’s the truth. As long as you have solid reasons for not having them people will respect you. It’s actually helped me out because you end up being more of a mystery to girls you go out with. They can’t just look you up like they do with all other guys, take sc…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:24 AM
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I know 10s that don’t even have Instagram
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:16 PM
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Would you mind telling us your story since you mention “trust me. I was the same guy”
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:58 PM
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Let it slide, have abundance mentality. Trust me man college is a whole new level, if you play your cards right you’ll actually get to choose.
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:56 PM
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Christian Grey
/r/seduction15/04/19 06:49 PM
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Nah, shows you’re grounded and know what you want
/r/seduction14/04/19 10:32 PM
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Look man, you didn’t do anything wrong. It’s in the past and hey you said she’s really hot now. Believe it or not some people really do change, especially when religion is involved, sometimes people gotta go through those bad moments to become a better person. If you fucked up wouldn’t you want a second chance too? Keep your guard up though, but don’t dismiss it either.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:34 PM
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You sure they weren’t trannies
/r/seduction13/04/19 09:15 PM
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Nah bro, some people realize they lack in specific aspects of their lives and come here to grow. This sub reddit has helped me out and I know I don’t just speak for myself. We don’t need this negative energy here.
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:11 AM
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Yes, have abundance mentality
/r/seduction12/04/19 11:18 PM
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You do you man, in the end you shouldn’t really give a fuck . Get some Christian Louboutin’s to go with your outfit and you’ll definitely get attention.
/r/seduction11/04/19 11:43 PM
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It’s better to get rejected for being too alpha than for not being alpha enough
/r/seduction11/04/19 05:42 PM
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Those seem like important details worth mentioning in the original post don’t you think?
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:25 PM
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If you haven’t even met her in person it’s too far
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:24 PM
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Get out there and grow, have some respect for yourself. You gotta be able to walk away and not look back, you’re looking back right now.
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:38 AM
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Who gives a fuck if she can’t text, that’s even better, you don’t have to waste time texting her. Ask her out on a date. Do all the talking and more in person ;)
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:26 PM
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Ask her what she’s doing over the weekend or something. Then ask her out. Be direct, don’t hesitate, you should be strong and centered, you need to show you know what you want and that if she doesn’t give in you’ll walk away. The strongest negotiation strategy is walking away and meaning it in other words be willing to not look back
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:48 AM
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You gave too much of a fuck. Text as little as possible. The phone is for making appointments. See her in person instead, make her fall for you. Once she has, then you can text her all you want. Otherwise she’ll grow bored of you. Women are the ultimate deciders of whether or not they want commitment. Men can engage their emotions instantly, but women take time. Have abundance mentality and don’t get hung up on one girl.
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:42 AM
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You failed multiple shit tests, you let her move you from your center, message her and ask if she’s down to go out, if she says no wait a week and ask her again, If she brushes you off wait a week and this time just text her “hey” and just talk, don’t ask her out she’ll be dying for you to ask. Women always test be ready
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:38 AM
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Read How to be a 3% Man and 99% of your questions will be answered
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:57 PM
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Bro why not her number
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:33 PM
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Who uses facebook
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:24 PM
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Nah just say your name is J, and if you’re on dating apps just put “J yourlastname”
/r/seduction08/04/19 10:44 PM
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Send it chief. Women always know what they’re doing even if they don’t
/r/seduction08/04/19 07:31 PM
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Me... I’ve read a couple of books, I’m gone on more dates. I’ve been able to build confidence and work on myself. I’ve gotten more numbers too. I’ve felt surer of myself overall. I’ve come to realize that I actually have a hell of a lot to offer. Oh and all with girls that are 8’s or higher. It’s awesome, but I’ve also realized there’s a limit to put on this. I’ve come to realize how it’s possible to get really good to the point where you can control people and it doesn’t feel natural. Just like…
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:33 AM
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Hitch
/r/seduction07/04/19 05:22 PM
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Oh shit that’s badass same thing happened to me lol
/r/seduction07/04/19 04:41 PM
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Bro no, this doesn’t sound like a good idea. By the sound of it you’re giving too much to this girl without receiving anything back. You’re investing a great deal in one girl. When you met her she said she was in an open relationship. That’s probably what she’s doing right now. Don’t expect too much from this man. You can’t change a person. Don’t make the mistake of putting all your eggs in one basket. Have “abundance mentality”
/r/seduction29/03/19 03:13 AM
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Props, of all problems, this is a good one to have
/r/seduction28/03/19 10:22 PM
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Texting is for setting definite dates. The more you talk the less there is for her to know about you. You want to keep the mystery. The more mysterious, the more she wonders. The more she wonders the more she engages her emotions in you. Women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear towards themselves.
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:52 PM
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Probably making a big deal out of every interaction you have a with a woman. I suffer from this myself it’s something I’m working on. The best solution is to keep things discreet and not really mention anything unless it’s worth it.
/r/seduction27/03/19 03:16 AM
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You don’t really sound hyped up for NYC, try exploring other ways you could enjoy yourself where you live. As for the girl, the fact that she rescheduled and even told you exactly when she’s going to be free is a good thing. It’s a perfect example of how women that are into you will make facilitate things.
/r/seduction27/03/19 02:22 AM
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At the end of the day you have nothing to lose, especially if you’re a centered man with goals, drive, and purpose.
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:38 PM
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Asking them about their relationship status lowers your value. You should go about your way and just do you. If she’s not single she’ll bring it up. Most women will actually stay in a relationship until they find someone else they’re interested in even though they’ve been feeling like that for a while.
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:43 PM
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GTFO
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:54 AM
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Nah, I asked in front of a group, got the chicks number and made a date on the spot. Shows how big your balls really are.
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:51 AM
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Then stop, you’re only setting yourself up for heartbreak and frustration. Find another girl, have “abundance” mentality
/r/seduction25/03/19 11:08 PM
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Bro if you like her why don’t you take her on a date, it’s like you’re just leaving your meetups up to chance
/r/seduction25/03/19 11:03 PM
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You lack a positive attitude, please don’t become part of the people who just come here and rant. This behavior is toxic.
/r/seduction25/03/19 09:12 PM
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Sounds needy af
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:34 AM
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Take this shit post off
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:34 AM
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faggot
/r/seduction25/03/19 02:14 AM
2

En que parte de Guadalajara están las más hermosas?
/r/seduction25/03/19 02:13 AM
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Shouldn’t have gone back with her friends
/r/seduction24/03/19 05:25 PM
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Check out from that shit
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:36 AM
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Faggot
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:34 AM
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Boils down to not giving a fuck
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:48 AM
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See other girls for sure. Have an abundance mentality. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Wait 5 days to snap her. Don’t snap her to talk to her. Snap her and ask her out on another date. Ask her what her plans are for the weekend etc and eventually ask her out for a date. On the date make sure to take her to 2-3 different places. Gl
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:15 AM
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Bro if she’s doing that to her bf and you become her bf later down the line she’s probably do that to you too. This is fucked up man, you deserve more
/r/seduction21/03/19 04:16 AM
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Bro stop taking her shit. Next time you see her say “I enjoy being with you, I enjoy talking and spending time with you, but I don’t want to be your buddy. I want to be more. If you don’t feel the same way that’s ok, but give me a call if you change your mind.” AND JUST WALK AWAY. You gotta be an alpha and set the fucking terms of the relationship. You have to show her how you won’t tolerate just friends. If you guys are really that close she’ll start to see how your absence affects her in her l…
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:31 PM
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Think you got ghosted my guy. Walk away and move on. Have the “abundance” mentality
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:19 PM
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You stop giving a fuck and say what you feel. Who cares what you say, the book you read also says you have to be polarizing. No matter what you’re gonna fuck up. The sooner the better. Fail fast and you’ll learn fast. There’s no magic formula.
/r/seduction19/03/19 02:57 AM
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I know really hot chicks that don’t have social media and I know dudes that don’t have social media that still score big time.
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:48 PM
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Age is just a number
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:28 AM
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Look bro, man to man. You gotta stop giving a fuck about things you can’t control. It happened. Once you realize it - it’s kinda liberating. If it’s meant to be and if she really is the one, then whether or not she’s a virgin will not matter.
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:27 AM
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Gonna be there all summer so if you’re down then I’m down too
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:24 AM
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Your first date was at a movie theatre? Isn’t that a bad move in general since you can’t interact much, props for the contact though.
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:59 AM
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Word of advice bro, everyone’s gonna find out who fucks who, so watch your reputation
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:52 AM
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I did end up canceling the plans, thanks
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:55 PM
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Yea chief I don’t mean to be a dick but I just don’t see her that way. Don’t feel anything. I see her more like a bro.
/r/seduction12/03/19 11:24 AM
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Bro if anything your height should help you. Girls are into tall guys
/r/seduction09/03/19 12:55 AM
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Honestly I don’t know what advice to give. From my understanding guys and girls are wired differently emotionally so I don’t think using the same strategies would apply, try reading “why men love bad bitches”.
/r/seduction06/03/19 06:16 AM
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Yea that’s what it’s about
/r/seduction06/03/19 06:06 AM
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Read the 3% man by Corey Wayne, you can binge it in a day. It doesn’t matter if she’s using you to forget someone else, you could probably get her to stay if you behave the right way
/r/seduction06/03/19 12:36 AM
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If she left you once she can do it again
/r/seduction06/03/19 12:33 AM
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Tacos at a Mexican cafe? That makes no sense and I’m Mexican.
/r/seduction05/03/19 11:34 PM
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You’re trying too hard man, your goal should be to be you and just have fun. These books help you have the right attitude: Models by Mark Manson The 3% Man by Corey Wayne ... they talk about girls too
/r/seduction05/03/19 10:33 PM
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Nah chief, this is when you turn into her “backup plan”. Don’t be that guy because by the sound of it this is crushing you. Get free of that one-itis man, cut contact, if she really does love you she’d be exclusive; otherwise, just move on. There are more girls in the world than you can date in your lifetime.
/r/seduction05/03/19 05:33 PM
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Better to talk to them in person or through mutual friends, so if you do know their friends, like you mentioned, then just go to parties or activities where you have a chance of meeting them. It gives you good common ground and gets you through a couple familiarity barriers especially if you meet them through friends.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:17 AM
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You work on yourself first, and indirectly attract others by doing so
/r/seduction28/02/19 03:48 AM
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Don’t blow it if you didn’t blow it already
/r/seduction28/02/19 02:02 AM
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Sounds like one-itis, wait until you get to college my guy and you’ll see the world for the abundance of women it has.
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:18 PM
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I am in this exact situation right now. I still haven’t replied. Kinda caught up in things rn so I won’t really see this girl for about 3 weeks, thinking of just dming this girl every other day or so to keep engagement but not so much so that it’ll be boring when we see each other. Thoughts?
/r/seduction27/02/19 06:37 PM
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Make sure to read the last one then
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:26 PM
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How to Win Friends and Influence People Models: Attract Women Through Honesty How to Become a 3% Man These books are a pretty good starter. Although the last two are more oriented towards interactions with women they contain helpful tips. You should always focus and work on yourself though. Do what you want, go out and live. Doing this will allow you to project yourself the way you want to, which will indirectly make it easier to talk to others.
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:19 PM
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Wtf no this is needy af
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:48 PM
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Just do you man. Do whatever makes you happy. Do what comes to your mind. Stop giving a fuck. You only have a limited amount of fucks to give in life. If you do you, then things sooner or later fall into place, and by the sound of it you don’t seem so happy dating at the moment. It’s not a bad thing. Stop acting like it is. Be you
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:52 AM
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Why exactly, just wanna make sure I got the right mentality
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:10 PM
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Anyone have a link for the pdf or ePub
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:09 AM
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Don’t tell her anything, you did your part. Move on, fuck her. There are plenty of other women. You made time for her she didn’t appreciate it or have the decency to tell you she couldn’t make it. Don’t waste your time my guy. If she didn’t give a fuck why should you. I think only a tragic accident could qualify as an excuse but I wouldn’t hang on “In the end, it comes down to the fact that if she likes you enough, she’ll find a way to make it happen. If she’s not finding a way to make it happen…
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:39 AM
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I’ll be in Dallas for a couple of weeks, what bar was this, or what area do you recommend
/r/seduction18/02/19 07:57 PM
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