I am still in the beginning stage of this (Nightgame) as I am uncomfortable simply being in the environment of a loud bar or club.

Anyways I go out with low expectations. I pass a sexy girl in workout pants standing on the sidewalk. I walked past at first but knew I had to try and talk to her. I turn back "hey how's it going? You look very athletic". She shakes her head, I say "no? So a couch potato? Just sitting on the couch eating those chips?". She replies loudly "yeah I'm not trying to talk right now", her response had me spiraling down into negativity. My big sticking point is thinking that I'm worthless and no girl could be into me. I felt her reaction (and other bad reactions from girls) confirmed this belief. I know I need to destroy this belief and am working on it.

I decided to stick it out and stay out a little longer. I went to a bar, got a water and sat down at the bar by myself. After about a minute this sexy Latin looking lady came up to the bar next to me. She asked me if she could order a drink (it was crowded bar). I nodded, I hesitated for way too long but again knew I had to talk to her. "That's a good choice" pointing to her drink. She says yeah and that she likes vodka. She was refreshingly receptive. I told her I was a musician, showing her my YouTube channel on her phone, allowing for good kino. I was amazed at how receptive she was with me touching her - arms, back, lower back. She's smiling, and flirting and having great eye contact. I take her hands and say we should dance. She takes my hands and dances over to me. She turns around and starts rubbing her butt against my dick allowing me to touch her body all over, and she didn't push my hands away. I was in awe, this kind of shit never happens to me haha. I even went in for a kiss, she pulled back but that was a first for me at a bar and felt great to go for it. I asked her to come back to my place for some music played "live", she said she couldn't. I asked if we could hang out again to the same response. Even so it was amazing. A great positive reference experience proving that sexy women are nice, flirty, friendly - and also that some of them like me.

Just wanted to share thanks for reading.