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| 1 | Great video discussing male loneliness and filling social/romantic voidsPretty sure dr.K address this issue of the feelgood advice " just love yourself bro" recently you should check it out. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/01/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What happens to the men without money looks and status?You need at least game. And not game in sense of being fake charisma. True authentic self to be expressed without feelings of shame. Being honest you like someone and expressed in playful way and genuine. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Men who date younger women not more likely to be abusive, studies showYes but same goes to the guy no? If the guy is valued by his wealth and status, surely he has his own pool of pick. In this scenario it depend solely if the guys want to put up with it. Same goes to woman. If she willingly put herself in situation where the guy solely want her for her beauty. She can draw her own boundary too as in things she won't put up with. Eg abuse, cheating etc TLDR : girl exert power over guy if only the guy willingly allow it so. In that the case guy is at fault for putt… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/23 08:19 AM |
| 6 | Men who date younger women not more likely to be abusive, studies showWhy so? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/23 02:13 AM |
| 9 | Men who date younger women not more likely to be abusive, studies showSometime I really get the hint this people are just jealous lol | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/23 02:12 AM |
| 9 | Men who date younger women not more likely to be abusive, studies showThank god for this conversation. I thought I was going insane with the amount of crazy age gap take by this leftist. Pissed me off | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Is dating over for me as a 28M?Yea jumping in here . I'm in my late 20s and dating has never been easier Get your grooming right, your finance and your shit together. Dating be it OLD or meeting irl it's like playing on easy mode | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 02:38 AM |
| 13 | All disagreeing comments were removed due to "derailing"Yea the misandry in this Reddit is always ignored . Trust me misogyny is a huge problem too but at least it's taken seriously lmao. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Is redpill really that bad?Agree, there's a lot of bad teaching from redpill and you have to weed through all the misogyny bullshit. But the nugget of improving yourself stands true, but you can replace self improvement stuff without the redpill if you get what i mean. Commend for your bravery posting this topic here, people going to automatically downvote you because this subreddit doesn't encourage healthy discussion. Hopefully you found your answer through your own self reflection | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Is redpill really that bad?The problem with "anti-redpill" argument is they argue from a very losing ground even if they have good intentions of challenging toxic narrative that redpill try to spread. Example redpill will say young women would go for higher value older men. People of anti redpill (I seen again and again) providing example of statistical study saying young women would mostly only go for men their own age. To me both are true. And where anti redpill fail to acknowledge is ( they maybe purposely done so) is … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | The left doesn't seem to care about men's problemI deleted it, I discovered a healthy subreddit that is better than this sub called the bropill. This sub is hit and miss, they try to bash people that fell into redpill rabbit hole yet offer no sympathy for those said group of people. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | The left doesn't seem to care about men's problemI'm not asking for help 😬. I am saying I understand why people fell into the redpill alt right pipeline. If you don't seem to connect the dots having no sympathy for those sort of people it's ok. But don't be surprised when people like Andrew Tate take advantage of this lonely misunderstood men and turn them into profit ☺️. This is why I hate this sub, why did I even bother to write this up | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 08:15 AM |
| 8 | Andrew tate YouTube removedI think you misunderstood my point, or maybe I conveyed it poorly. There need to be more dialogue of challenging definition of masculinity and addressing men loneliness in a way that doesn't put down woman. A good example is contrapoint video addressing men, in a critical lens without dismissing their problem. And if the narrative of woman are suppressing masculinity or woman are evil keep perpetuated. Silencing this redpill people alone isn't an effective strategy | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/22 11:32 AM |
| 18 | Andrew tate YouTube removedNothing gonna change, give it few more months another weird redpill guy will pop up. As long as the discourse of gender war keep going men will feel they are not being understood | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate got banned from Facebook and InstagramAnyone celebrating this banned is as stupid as the rest of them. You're basically removing the threat without treating the symptoms. Misogyny is still very widespread and people just gonna view this as silencing equals he is doing something right. Want prove? Look at Donald trumps ban, do you sincerely believe banning Donald trump change anything? There's still widespread of Qanon conspiracy and his supporter. Fuck you guys, he is still going to be relevant after the banned I guarantee you. Hund… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?If you're looking for one night stand/ hookup advice. Women are terrible in giving it. Idk but that's my experience. But if you're asking relationship advice, women seem to have good insight | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I figure out why I hate the red pill philosophy so much and it's not what you think.This is very insightful thanks for sharing | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 02:16 PM |
| 4 | I am an underdog in datingNot trying to invalidate your struggle, 5 years of being stuck in this sort of negative mindset will take a toll on anyone. Why do you feel good look is the only be-all and end-all factor.in having successful romantic interest? Do you think there's a slight chance that ideology is false? If not why? And why do you feel that being nice is an act for you to.gain something. But instead of thinking being nice because you just are nice? Do you feel that being nice is a sign of weakness? And that you … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 11:07 AM |
| 7 | I am an underdog in datingFair enough, when you're in this rut for so long any advice might be unhelpful, but I don't think you're hopeless. One thing that stuck out like a sore thumb in your post is you seem to have this assumption that good man just aren't attractive to woman. Do you really believe so? Or just in the heat of a moment rant | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 09:18 AM |
| 13 | I am an underdog in datingHi this gonna sound weird, but do you want some advice on how to improve your situation or just want to vent? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | All interactions with women feel like a competitionI think there's two paradigm you can go for One is looking it lens of its a competition, can be beneficial if it propels you to better yourself. And those self improvement led you to become a better attractive version of yourself. The next is not seeing it as a competition. Because ultimately we are not entitled to a woman attention. But if you're genuine in your interaction and getting to know them. Without endgoal in mind. This frees up a lot of negative behaviour. Less you care about insignif… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | All interactions with women feel like a competitionTechnically you are not wrong social media and porn skewed man taste in woman. But don't put yourself in victim mentality. Get out of this skewed superficial taste that only this spectrum of woman are beautiful. Edit : oh look first downvote of the day, fuck you beta cucks 😍 | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 09:40 AM |
| 2 | All interactions with women feel like a competitionBy understanding the moment you feel like it's a competition you have already lost. Woman are human too, hot or ugly. I don't care if she's Victorian supermodel hot. They have problem like everyone else. Connecting with her like human being. If you feel like you're beneath her she can smell it miles away. Fighting for attention is social media game. In real life is different | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels diedI have a policy to not speak ill of the dead unless that person is Hitler or serial killer. That said rest in peace to Kevin, i might disagree w/ a lot of things he said but he is still human. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What are they leading?Hmmm thanks, you make a sound argument, think I have to reassess how I view relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | What are they leading?Maybe I'm bias I had seen several relationship fail whereby man don't have the backbone to stand up and had their wife constantly making decision for the family. Ideally relationship as you said should be about partnership. But what's wrong with the narrative man leading the relationship so as long the man treat his wife with respect? Sure maybe you're right most woman don't like the idea of following a man. But my experience tells me differently. Just think about courting for example, most woma… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 02:26 PM |
| 0 | What are they leading?As oppose to what exactly? Unless the man is abusive and doesn't let his woman making decision in a relationship. Then that is problematic I get it, too much of the end of spectrum whereby man are overly "dominant"in a relationship is stupid, but let's face it woman feel much more safer and relax when she know her man are capable of making decision. Hence the message man must lead in a relationship. Its only sexist and abusive if he doesn't respect the man doesn't respect his SO. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I will let her know my past if conversation ever got there. But it is also my responsibility to curb my impulsive addictive behavior | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 01:58 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]That depends if you want to view your "addiction" seriously. I can tell your firsthand there's no glory and satisfaction down this path. I been 6 month sober from my escort addiction and never want to go back. Write down the pro and cons of finding escort. And think about it seriously. Only you can decide if its worth it. I was lucky cause I have good healthy support system I can turn to when I'm feeling lonely. I have a good female friend I can confide to when my lust out of control. I have few… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 12:17 AM |
| 5 | This man expresses so many of my worries for young men right nowThere’s a reason women aren’t present in his audience. I would have taken your answer seriously if this statement couldn't be any more further from the truth. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rfS7IAv7uU and even if it's so, why is it almost like you're framing it as insidious notion ? A group of man coming together is like somehow wrong ? > The red pill as a whole uses this tactic start with cleaning your room So we are jumping straight to Jordan Peterson is associated w/ redpill now? I'm not de… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 07:54 AM |
| 6 | This man expresses so many of my worries for young men right nowWhy are you being downvoted? I don't get this echo chamber subreddit. Jordan Peterson preached about self responsibility and cleaning your own mess before helping others. I'm pretty much answering my own suspicion here, this subreddit is not a good place for open discussion. Heck I hate this subreddit, I'm leaving | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | What the hell does being alpha even mean?Assuming the ideology of alpha male is true, I think real alpha are the one who uplift people around him, who went out his way to help people. They don't have to be "dominant" to prove their worth. At least that's how i see it Lion don't have to roar to prove they're lion, they just are. A lot of redpill guru who keep insisting they're alpha or high value are funny to me. Reminds me of a quote from GoT, "Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king." — Tywin Lannister. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/21 04:28 AM |
| -1 | Women, is the whole "women love dominant alpha males" thing a myth?Yeap, I know I would get downvoted the moment I start defending some aspect of PUA . I supposed when I said technique people immediately jump to conclusion about negging and jumping in front of girl stopping them in middle of street. I found those cringe, PUA movement are scattered , there's a lot of masochistic and manipulative PUA. but the one I'm defending are those whereby teaching about confidence. Eye contact, vocal tonality, teasing, how to lead woman when on a date, verbal escalation. Ho… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/21 12:54 PM |
| -8 | Women, is the whole "women love dominant alpha males" thing a myth?Just addressing your last paragraph, a lot of the technique do work. The whole foundation is built on seducing woman who, in their term, higher calibre than you a.k.a out your league. Pua get a lot of hate due to some of their misogynistic philosophy but in early days is all about flirting and reading woman cues. Early days PUA community always have this concept "Leave them better when you found them". It's all about fun, the understanding of "it takes two to tango". But I'm not defending some t… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/21 05:16 AM |
| 7 | I still don't trust womenI think in general we all have a reserved suspicion for everyone we come across, man or woman. So your feeling is valid, even if it's only entirely on woman. I think the challenge isn't to convinced you logically but you have to start interacting w/ woman more on a platonic level. Not looking for romantic interest, just platonic. It seems to help me so it's just my advice Know that any gender, man or woman, cis or trans, has the capacity to hurt human being. Gender has nothing to do with how tru… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do people praise players?Wow, I never thought of that | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentI learn PUA and did those stuff. I have mixture of good and bad experience. Bad experience as in I have unintentionally made the woman uncomfortable, good experience whereby the girl find me attractive and we went on date. So I'm not really sure to entirely dismiss PUA as not working. PUA is the only reason I learn how to connect w/ woman, I miss out on early youth development I don't have a male role model that taught me. PUA offer me that. But still I'm sorry it happen to you. I could had been… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentOn that I guess I have to agree, maybe I overreacted. There's just some nuance in the way they're criticising ticks me off. I got into redpill after years of unsuccessful dating w/woman early days and battle huge insecurity w/ looks. Redpill offer an illusion of success. So when they attack their looks I get hugely upset. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentI guess I have to internalised what you said. Thanks for the interesting dialogue | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentI love Contrapoint video, she is always insightful. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentJust search on YouTube kurtis conner rich Cooper. There's video of Cooper giving dating advice to his "client" on video call. And Conner and this other guy continually resorting to personal attack on Cooper "client" It felt like a very low tier effort going as far as insulting people being weird looking or socially weird. It is one of the many example. Attacking random people. Edit : I think Rich Cooper is toxic af and he is bad influence for man, but men that listen to him are mostly not bad pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentTouché, I see your point. For many years I always hated their repetitive comment on woman hitting the wall, or many uncalled misogyny comment on woman appearance. I don't know what I'm really debating here at this point, there's a lot of nuance and I can't make up a strong argument for now. Let's just agree to disagree | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentGood point, still I find some jokes to be off limit though. Again the idea of punching up and punching down. There is difference between joking about the powerful and the powerless. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentI'm talking about susceptible young men who had fallen prey into them. It's one thing to criticise the peacher (who I think they should be call out) but to criticise some of their followers are just punching down. I stand by my argument many of them are just mislead, which I believe large part of the community are. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentI will check them up. I'm not denying it's good that redpill are called out for their bullshit. But I am against the idea of of completely dismissing what this group of man are going through. Punching down on someone is the low tier criticism and I think people can do better | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 02:53 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on Kurtis Conner/ anyone make fun of Redpill contentLook up a YouTube Dr K who talk to incel and other form of people who are shunned and outcast. His approach is better that tend to listen and understanding rather than judge. You can only let those people who are so down the rabbit hole realise their own hypocrisy and chose a better path when you first actually acknowledge their struggle and don't judge. I agree some of them require the harshest of judgement and ridicule But most of this people, average folk who are just lost shouldn't be judge … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok if I don't want to pay for a woman on a first date?Which country you're from? I'm from South East Asia and pretty much this isn't how it works here. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 05:49 PM |
| 4 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoWhat bothers me is bunch of young boys in the comment section idolizing them. Don't get me wrong is great to be attractive to bunch of woman and hitting and picking them up as long is done respectfully. however Austin and this other guys doing is selling this illusion of this is the peak of life. Its just very problematic. I have fallen prey into this sort of narrative before and it just pain me how many don't see it | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Bad RP dating mantra: The woman is acting like an asshole because you're not assertive/masculine enough. Her shitty behavior is on you, somehow.This a good explanation, and if you explain this to any redpill person they will still be in denial and double down on their belief | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 19 | Is it ok if I don't want to pay for a woman on a first date?Short answer to the title, yes. But in this case, equality talk aside. It's a bad move to just shoot her a direct message like that. I had never told woman directly I won't pay for them unless she is being rude | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Looks being important is not a new discovery or a novel idea...when in my comment that I said it's a norm? I will just say this, I know people in my life that are definitely in the lower end of the look department. And I had seen time and time again how they manage to get girls out their league, be it relationship or just hookup. If I seen enough of it happen in my life, it's difficult to dispute what I saw. And if you don't believe me it's fine. Guys who are just average or ugly having beautiful girls is not a norm but it happen. And you're right, girl out… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Looks being important is not a new discovery or a novel idea...it's based on what I saw and observe :). There's other commenter who said the same thing I said I am not saying this to make myself feel better. I don't wanna argue about this, cuz I disagree with you 100%. Let's agree to disagree. I hope you find peace and happiness. Have a good day | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Looks being important is not a new discovery or a novel idea...I think people don't understand the context of where redpill came from "looks are important" redpill mindset to me is sort of like a counter movement to the whole PUA thing where the emphasis of look doesn't matter. (I'm not saying Redpill was solely to go against PUA ) So naturally redpill content creator has this urges to let their viewer know to "wake tf up and take care of your looks". So to the outsider it looks like what they are preaching sounds like they just discovered fire. It has noth… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Who do you look up to now?it means that if you're not careful you could fall into the Redpill trap but to each of their own | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Who do you look up to now?to me Kevin Samuels has a lot of dangerous redpill mindset too, be careful | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Seems like the type of guys we discuss here. Thoughts?yes I agree, though I'm not sure what point are you trying to raise here | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 11:10 PM |
| 17 | I think one reason why a lot of men go into the red pill is because they genuinely do not know what makes a man attractivedisagree, huge reason imo is there isn't any alternative healthy outlet for man on the internet. Men need to hear other men on internet to acknowledge their feelings and struggle. Unfortunately part of this community comes with a lot of fault too. That's my take | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Seems like the type of guys we discuss here. Thoughts?this is Reddit, people bash on others to feel better about themselves. And you're right ,I feel sympathy for him, hope he get helps and love he needs | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Seems like the type of guys we discuss here. Thoughts?jumping on this thread, I don't disagree with that statement though. Aren't human valued more if you're a useful person?, Say in a crisis if you're someone I can turn to and help me solved my problem, aren't I gonna automatically see you in a better light? I guess the negative connotation that comes with it is because it implies if man doesn't provide he is inherently useless. Which is false. Debate me on this | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 01:59 AM |
| 22 | Looksmax?Hey, improving your looks is always a nice thing, who wouldn't want to feel confident about themselves? My problem with lookmax however is that the environment is super toxic, guys will roast other guys for any minor flaws. Instead of cultivating environment of guys lifting up other guys on bettering themselves physically, my impression of those people was if you don't have flawless cheekbone and skin with 8% body fat you're thrash. my second problem with lookmax was the idea that the only requi… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Hey guys, made a post on menslib regarding tiktok and it’s overlap with RP and such.I never really play tiktok, and this is what worries me. I worry for the future generation | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | For the men in this group, what was the turning point in making you leave the redpill? When did you wake up and how long did it take?Hi, I reread your comment twice yet not sure what you're addressing. I see nothing wrong with it, for me Redpill thought me importance of maxing up your value, look, money, status. But I don't put it up at my forefront motivation, I draw my motivation from elsewhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | For the men in this group, what was the turning point in making you leave the redpill? When did you wake up and how long did it take?Curious how is CoreyWayne redpill, I like to know | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Does a man's value really go up as he ages?as long as you take care of yourself, man and woman alike , your value will go up. I have find woman in their 40's irresistible attractive cause she workout and take care of themselves . Same goes to man | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 04:49 AM |
| 15 | For the men in this group, what was the turning point in making you leave the redpill? When did you wake up and how long did it take?it didn't take long , when I starting to realize I had this overbearing grudge of resentment towards woman. I start to take my mind off it, avoiding all topic regarding redpill, blackpill whatever pill it was Then I realized all this redpill preacher aren't so wise themselves. Then I came across study that disprove the alpha beta wolf study, that further tear down the illusion of what this redpill stand for. I have to confess I'm not entirely off it though, I'm the type of person that is "take w… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Who Is the WORST red pill [youtuber] (I use that term VERY loosely btw)jumping in here, the unfortunate thing is some of them have good advice. but like any self help guru, it's filled with 60% pure bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/21 07:47 AM |
| 5 | I see myself with low “smv”.a healthy amount of comparison is good, it can be motivation and keep you wanting to improve. But comparison often time when go unchecked can easily spiral into unhealthy ego competition. which often does happen. This takes away your focus , instead of staying on your lane, you tend to look left and right, you may trip down and fall cause you're not looking straight ahead. That is one of many examples. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 8 | My redpilled brother ended up in the mental hospitalin some way it is | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/21 05:29 AM |
| 0 | I wish there were more women who spoke out against the redpill. I feel like soon I'm about to even though I'll be dehumanized just for being a womanI agree that teaching of defensive tactics from manipulation is good , but the problem comes when you read the sub more deeper, even on the surface something already smell fishy. Example, FDS always say no we don't hate men , but read the comment they go out their way to shame men. using term like LVM ( low value male) and stuff. I believe there are two division, one where genuinely only teach woman how to be aware of manipulative men and teaching how to get "high value male " ( I hate that term… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 09:36 AM |
| 0 | I wish there were more women who spoke out against the redpill. I feel like soon I'm about to even though I'll be dehumanized just for being a womanFDS is a toxic sub same as the red pill, I'm a guy, took a plunge once visiting the sub and is toxic coated with some self help advice for woman. People who tell you otherwise haven't visit the sub enough. Just like red pill, it had some great advice but unfortunately it is cult like mix with a many toxic mindset that is not sustainable | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 05:54 AM |
| 15 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?Todd is the only legit pickup content to watch. Rip pickup era. It's for the better , while RSD has helped me in large part getting good with woman, their recent content before deleting all pickup related is so watered down and pathetic. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?Definitely business reason. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | AccurateLook I get it is a meme and just for laughs, but I seriously hope the comment here are just joking if not this is depressing. Unless you're beginner in seduction this shouldn't be a problem or issue. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changedTook the words right out of my mouth ， I wished I could gave you a silver or gold. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you differentiate yourself from other guys while talking to good looking women on Instagram?Don't waste time on thots | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Gaming sucks when you have attractive friends.Handsome guy will always have it easier , this is a fact. If anything,I had fair share of story seeing girls going for less attractive dude in club because they make them feel a certain way. It doesn't always happen, but it does. It does make you change perspectives. So it might suck knowing your friend had it easier while you had to put in extra effort, I say be glad that game exist that you're able to tweak the odd to your favor. Game is like understanding inbuilt nature of human behaviour，und… | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Well sometime I take one hour sometime it just happen while I'm on my way to get something done. Usually I will get an instant date and see where it goes. Good luck to you too. Glad my reply help you in some way. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.It happens my dude, but believe me when I said you're better than most guy who barely dare to dance near to the girl, keep going and doing what you do, you will get better I promise! | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.One simple tip is to be dominant and switch tempo, go watch salsa dance video see how guys hold the girl hips as they dance. The closer the proximity the better. Remember the push pull dynamic literally. Gently push the girl away and then slowly close up with her breast touching your chest kind. This create a chasing dynamic from the girl Girls love to twerk their ass, think of any girl in a club secretly wants to be a slut. Gave her opportunity to have her back turn to you and naturally she wil… | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.First off, small club is bad for game, its usually the bigger the better as you are able to be anonymous if you will in terms of approaching woman. I like to preach the mindset of don't give a fuck and just approach the next girl. But there's a truth that small club tend to be more visible as in your approaches are very obvious to girls in other table and staff working there Still it depends, can you be sure when you going to the next girl it be seen less of a guy hitting on girl but more in ter… | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Is “pickup” dead?Strongly disagree. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Yesterday I approached this two hot girls and receive green light from get to, both are very touchy with me and they are still sober , which rarely happen as usually girls especially hot one need time to warm up. Long story short, the girls went out with other guy. But I accept the situation. Does is suck? Yes, yes it does. Knowing you're so close to pulling her or getting a makeup. But you shouldn't let it defeat you. Celebrate the little victory, be glad that you were able to be intimate with … | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Here’s a reminder that even “good looking” dudes can have difficulty on dating apps.Agree,overblown statement | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Here’s a reminder that even “good looking” dudes can have difficulty on dating apps.Goddamn Mike, leave some pussy for the rest of us! | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Financial freedom?Can I ask you in what way can you convey more of a fuckboy frame? What tips or trick that you can give. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 05:15 PM |
| -1 | Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive GirlsYou feel sympathy because you draw parallel the unfairness if a guy is ugly be might dealt the same thing. Well partially true. Difference is ugly girl still get attention from beta male loser who can't get girls, ugly guys however...good luck with that. Point is ugly guys have to put in a lot of work, imagine working out ,invest in good style clothing, learn a lot to be charismatic, work a lot in your life to be successful, be extremely good in certain area of life..combine all this. Now this g… | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 07:24 AM |
| 1 | If you run a good game on someone to manipulate them into becoming obsessed with/dependent you, do you have a right to complain if you decide it's annoying?True, I hate to agree. But I believe it's also up to us to decide where to draw the line. If you have the game to get certain amount of girl, you also can decide how far you are willing to use this "game" to have the girl attracted. | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sYup, I don't disagree with what you said. I'm aware that I desire the sexual promiscuity I missed out on in highschool and my desire for approval. I did soul searching on myself months before realizing length I go to get people approval like I slept with girls. I did state on my other comment that this post is more of a rant of what's going inside my head. So well to be honest I been working on myself coming with a more harmonize way of thinking. I still want to sleep with hot woman, but I also … | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sBecause truthfully I think he's trying to act tough lashing out on people. I'm amazed length people go to act aggressively just to proof a point. And about your assertion PiV feeling, i would disagree, I'm not low standard. I have rejected girls even if I can get easy lays :) Have a good day | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sWeird, i didn't say I totally disagree with what you're trying to say, I was hoping for a discussion that you can give insight why you think this is so and so? You brought up an interesting idea and I like to debate. Because you are stating from your stand of view that a man should only go for his 10. Which is a noble idea and a ambitious idea in that, I believe it's good. But that is to assume that we are talking in same wavelength here, I will stand by my point that I still rate woman by their… | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sSimple idea, but good advice. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sWell that sounds like a good problem to have , not gonna lie :) | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sMaybe my leveling behavior theory has different definition than yours, cause honestly I don't know what you're trying to say here | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sWell I have a decent social circle, but do admit it's lacking in sense it could be better. And both, I like to bang and keep them, nowadays I don't keep 6-7 around me cause ....well...I rate them 6 and 7 for a reason lol. Very objectifying I know but I'm just gonna keep it real , even if it is politically incorrect :) | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sI do admit my post do come across as that, it was a very unfiltered rambling that i decide to post impulsively. But of course I'm also aware the danger as seeing them as trophies and ego boost. If anything take this post as a rant and nothing more, everyone have their bad day. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sI think at my current stage of life I indulge in sexual promiscuity, am aware of the consequences if I let this lust go uncontrolled, so I love sleeping with a lot of woman. So I'm not sure what you are trying to criticize me here for, lot of guys rate girl as how they look, unless you can show me links of article or evidence rating girl is bad for you, I'm open for discussion | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sI do find them attractive, just not as attractive as I desire :) | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9'sThanks for your concern, can you expand more on why you felt my post is an indication I'm lonely? I'm open for criticism | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:08 PM |
| 17 | Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test.So basically they want to feel in control | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test.I know right, I was feeling rage for few second cause I'm having flashback Kuddos for OP pulling this off. | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Felt like this belongs hereVirtual bro hug | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Men Who Chase Women Get Women, Men Who Work On Themselves Keep WomenI'm gonna be that guy, it requires balance. I know successful guy who are financially well but suck w/ woman. The art of how to flirt w/ woman , knowing how to converse that is emotional relevance to them, how to touch them, are all still important in the scene of dating. If you're successful but lack of such knowledge you'll still inevitably struggle. What I'm tryna say is only you know yourself well.Maybe you have to work on your personality, maybe you're already a very charismatic guy and jus… | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:58 AM |
| 5 | Men Who Chase Women Get Women, Men Who Work On Themselves Keep WomenI want to add on, be willing to walk away from hot woman if there was an ultimatum, pussy or purpose? An exaggeration of an example granted but what I'm trying to say is that distraction of pussy is not worth it more that what you're capable of in this life. Some choose party,sex, life of debauchery,endless night of clubbing cause life is short right? That's alright we're not to judge them, but I believe focusing on what you're trully passionate about, your work, your study, your art, music what… | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Chasing Women Vs. Attracting WomenSounds great, did you make any moves on them? I'm envious in a way, I had manage to land couple of girls throughout my life but never really received Choosing signal from girls like you said. (maybe couple of time but barely memorable) | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Chasing Women Vs. Attracting WomenBy what mean? Curious, perhaps shed some light of example that happen to you | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Chasing Women Vs. Attracting WomenIt's a novel idea, however I don't have the will to not approach woman for 90 days. I can jump on board of not having sex or free of mastubation for 90 days. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Should i own the fact that I'm a virgin?Do it because you want to not cause you want to proof something or due to peer pressure. Time will come I lost mine around 22. Girls like to ask stupid stuff. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 08:02 AM |
| 1 | She is rooting for youFinally a good post in this subreddit in a while. Model is a good book and still relevant through test of time. I have couple of objection with some of its content but most is applicable, solid inner game and sprinkle of practicality advice. | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Looking for wingman in Malaysia 🇲🇾Hey, I'm based in Sarawak, Kuching. But I do go KL/Johor area time to time :). Which area u from friend | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Your looks don’t matter, but your LOOK does! - The concept of IconographyYes and no, Todd never said looks don't matter to quote what he said "Looks matter, use your common sense, but it doesn't matter as much as you think". His coaches working under him also stresses how to take care of your appearance, on how you can maximise yourself even to small detail like moisturizing your lips if you have dry lips. In the end of the day they never neglect the importance of looks. But it's the idea that there's only so much you can do to your looks, once it's done, your self g… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Looking for wingman in Malaysia 🇲🇾Sure bro direct chat me, I don't mind sharing what I learn | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 02:41 PM |
| 15 | Your looks don’t matter, but your LOOK does! - The concept of IconographyUPVOTED because its mother-fucking Todd | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 12:36 PM |
| 2 | I can have sex/talk/kiss girls easily but can NEVER get the girl to fall for me. What am I doing wrong?Best book in term of relationship and inner game, for sure. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | I can have sex/talk/kiss girls easily but can NEVER get the girl to fall for me. What am I doing wrong?Do you think you have made the girl felt like they won you over? And at your current stages in life are you seeking more to sexual adventurous side or relationship | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameAren't you such a morally superior intellect, I bet you get all the ladies. Because if you happen to be with a relationship with someone special. Which I'm starting to doubt you had. You will be sharing a lot of different experiences with them rather than TALKING ABOUT GAME. My message was directly replying to the original commentor on him talking about game with girl he is with. Trust me, majority of girl don't processed that kind of rationality. On surface they will praise you of how playboy u… | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameOkay this is my final reply. If I find something repulsive about the girl I am not that desperate to break my bone and have sex with her. It is not how I think and not what I said. You misinterpreted what I said and twisted to your own way of thinking. When I said kept it in down low I'm talking about G. A. M. E, not what you dislike about that girl. You don't tell girl you learn game is basically the core message inside my comment. I beg you're smart enough to decipher what I'm saying here if n… | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 02:48 PM |
| 0 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameGuys who find girl heavy makeup repulsive is comparison of girls who find man that learn self improvement learning game repulsive. It is irrational. I'm drawing an analogy here. Perhaps less jumping to conclusion when I'm making a statement next time | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 04:04 AM |
| 0 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameI meant down low in terms of you learning game. Try telling every girl you met oh I learn game in date and see where it gets you | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameWhich part did I mention trick woman? Seduction is a dance of two parties, you let her invest and you add in value and the dance kept going, you pull back and let her have fun chasing you. In which part did I mention being desperate for vagina??? Are you replying to correct post? Damn aren't you an expert | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 03:18 AM |
| 1 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameI'm trying to understand what your saying at first paragraph but gave up. Which part did I mention sleep with girl that you repulsed by? Lol fuck outta here with that bullshit. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 03:16 AM |
| 3 | So I’m about to start college soon and need some tips from the pros for approaching femalesTrial and error brother. No easy way, and have fun! I started learning game as soon I enter college, its 3 years now my game have improved, from anxiety level to intermediate. Lots of dates and fun lays. Just approach and write field report, analyse your problem and eatcg infield video. Internalise what you could do better, read theory and game psychology. Whatever tool you can get. Remember it's a journey | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Don't want to hurt girls feelings"do not do upon others what you don't want happen to yourself" is the rule I stick by when it comes to game. Everyone have different moral outlook in life, but if this is something your conscience tell you is wrong, then don't. Personally after fucking the girl I usually blurt out line I'm not looking for relationships, yet I still remain the cool funny guy she knew. I limit our encounter to once a week and rarely text her. But if worse come to worse she catch feeling you then have to force to e… | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls in a small cityStill doable, but don't get your hopes up 😉. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:15 AM |
| 4 | My Girlfriend Reacting to my GameIt's same with any woman, you don't tell them you "learn game". Now the intention of you learning could be good in fact empowering. But woman might internalise as you manipulated her and felt lied to. Same as some man who find woman that used heavy makeup or breast implant repulsive. You kept that shit in the down low UNLESS she ask, which doubt it as she's too heavily invested into fucking you and falling for you to care about it✌️ | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:07 AM |
| 2 | The Most valuable advice you’ll get in Life | Overcome your past and focus on the NOW |His advice work well to every style of game. He cover a lot of fundamentals. One epiphany I had was when he brought up the idea of premise and importance of disqualifying. My game have improve a lot. In summary, yes. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 01:13 AM |
| 18 | I feel shit about myselfFacing a breakup and getting screwed over, is one of the most terrible feeling ever. You're normal to feel like shit. Take time to grief for your relationship lost even if she's the one who cheat and broke your heart. In case you haven't done it delete everything about her and block her on all social media platform. You want to change thousand of things about yourself. But take it one day a time. You're already hitting the gym so that's great. public speaking is also good, trust me the story tel… | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Need helpJust do it. Took me one week walking around a mall to finally said a word to a random girl. My first approach is so terrible I swear I cringe my ass when I think about it. But you know what? Nothing Happen. As in NOTHING BAD happen essentially, I'm still alive and girl didn't scream for police or harassment. You just gotta take the first step. Get yourself comfortable talking to random people girls or boy, old or young. Warm up then muster up the courage. Feel the butterfly in your stomach and o… | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | What's the right way to use kisses when online chatting?Rule of thumb is if you felt that the text you send is like 90% guy out there, then don't do it. Stand out from the crowd and text creatively. Be fun, be engaging, be sexy, be masculine. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:24 PM |
| 25 | Does pretending to be in a relationship work to attract women?Rather than pretendong to be in relationship I have better preposition. Pretend you are a man in high demand. That imagine there are woman blowing up your phone every hour. The cute girl down your block are always trying to flirt with you. The cashier lady u saw daily when u do grocery shopping are always checking you out. The regular girl in club are always chasing your attention. Concept is you have to believe you are man of high value. That you are the 10 % of guy that is different and unique… | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the right way to use kisses when online chatting?You said it yourself. You are trying to get her invest in seeing you. Like making statement and story telling convo. DHV stuff. Being humorous. Unless you felt that the kissing emoji does have some DHV value or it is humorous then don't. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I posted here a year ago: 600 approaches, 130 make outs and 0 lays.U tried escalation touching them? Try to learn some dance technique the classic spinning the girl kind, moving their hips whatever. And also sometime u have to bear through the awkwardness and try to use that to build sexual tension. The classic game rule "whatever you feel she feels". Just try something new and play around it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Helping my homieYes, you can't help people who is not ready for change. It's up to him and himself. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 07:13 AM |
| 3 | I want to flirt with someone but classmates around are annoyingLol Reading this made me glad that I'm not in school anymore | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Escalating in the bedroom1) getting the girl chase frame- when seducing them touching them or lifting their skirt. Say with sly smile "we shouldn't do this" "oh my god why are you seducing me" "slow down Stephenie you can't keep doing this I'm shy" and speak it in very slow masculine voice. 2) Push pull - once a while you can get up close gently pull her hair down with her head up and gently bite her neck. Then look her in the eye "I fucking want you" kiss and pull back. Then talk some other random shit. Get the girl th… | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 07:03 AM |
| 2 | How to get over fear of approaching a girl in her group of friends?Went in take the hit, start slow. Soon u will get numb to it. Maybe approach the less intimidating with only girls in pair. And only girls in group around 3-4. Then work your way up. Some theory to remember always befriend everyone in group. Some general tips you can use 1) Know the group dynamic relationship - example are you girls sister (works well on two look alike pretty girls) depending on answer oh how long you guys know each other. (this is so you get to feel who know who longer and play… | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I lie if a girl asked me if I’ve been in a relationship before?Just say I dated around had several but never last long. Girls usually don't mind it. It's an insignificant thing to lie about. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 06:41 AM |
| 1 | I hate all women that have rejected meI got 99 problem but a bitch ain't one | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I posted here a year ago: 600 approaches, 130 make outs and 0 lays.If you're tall good looking but not getting laid something is wrong. If club is playing some sexy grinding music say "this music brings out my inner hoe, can u twerk to this song?" or "only good girl dance to this song". Random stupid shit like "my mom tell me to come to the club to find true love" or "my mom tells me to go out tonight and lose my virginity". If you are having hard time reading social cue just plow through it with stupidity since u are good looking as u say, u can get away more … | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | If you're learning seduction you're already 50% better than most guys out there.I was generalising so you get the picture. Yes if done wrong in almost every place it will have same bad reaction. But I say over here the the reaction is double or triple because unlike the US I know talking to stranger seems to be a normal day in the city. But any attempt to interact with stranger is seem to be weird. There's a cultural difference. Since I'm aware of it I had my own recipe to make sure the girl I'm talking to doesn't get trip her sense of "wait what's happening I have to go" b… | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | If you're learning seduction you're already 50% better than most guys out there.Context I lived in a country where pickup is not a thing, so there's pro an cons, cons is you look like a fucking creep. But done right, in the girls eyes it just happen, and nothing more ego boosting feeling to know that this girl who got male orbiters circling around them and you just chat with them for few hours and less than 48 hours they are naked in your bed. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 08:41 PM |
| 2 | If you're learning seduction you're already 50% better than most guys out there.Wrong, it's 2 seconds | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 02:19 PM |
| 8 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.Cause it's sounds very fake, simple. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.Which city u from. I'm from a pretty conservative country and it works if you do it subtly | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 04:06 AM |
| 15 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.Someone gets it, 2 sex out of 10 approach is fucking good. This post tryna sounds too deep smh. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 04:05 AM |
| 5 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.Legit advice but gay af | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 04:03 AM |
| 30 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.I cringe all the way reading this despite what he say is true, give less fuck and you see how woman come to get your attention, then again homie try to write like he is in poetry club or some shit. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 04:01 AM |
| 4 | When does approaching ever workIt depends, I approach girl with book it works. You just have to open and read her reaction. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Need some serious help on inner gameHey bro relax, I been there I know how that feels. It's normal to feel pissed but realize your value as a person shouldn't depend on the girl that rejected you. Imagine even if you hangout with 7 8 looking girl it doesn't make you anymore valuable as a person (except peacocking or preselection but that's another topic). Your value as a person comes from the life you lead, be high value. When you approach you are offering value, you just show your best self. You have to convince yourself you are … | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 06:32 AM |
| 4 | At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial EraRecently I been having girls take selfie with me and I post on ig story, dancing with girls etc. A girl that is dismissing me (met at nightclub I got her ig) start hitting me up. I go cold for now. And another girl randomly followed me chat me up. Granted they are not 8 looking girl but damn they have big tits. Ig works. But don't overused it. Its like a double edge sword. Do not rely on social media for getting laid but as a by product. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 06:11 AM |
| 0 | How NOT To Neg Or TeaseNot sure why you are downvoted but i guess it's controversial and uncensored, u said some pretty eye opening stuff, I respect that. | /r/seduction | 23/03/19 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Help a brotha out (sex talk)Some classic pua tactic is like "we are. Not going to have sex tonight" or playing the truth or dare question. From innocent question to what's the most dangerous thing u ever done to u ever had sex in the bathroom. Look it up | /r/seduction | 23/03/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Help a brotha out (sex talk)Okay. I'm not a pro myself but I can share what I learn, say some stuff like you are good in massage, usually I have the girl massage me and I disqualify her saying shes good but I can do better, than I massage her thigh, slowly from thigh close to her vagina area but not touching it, than as you nearing pullback and rinse repeat.. It drive them crazy. Massage her back in circular motion slowly nearing her butt massage her butt a bit then pullback. Point is to built sexual tension without giving… | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Getting older and meeting people while also being religious.But you did great on disqualifying her teasing her cooking skill, she suddenly feel the need to proof herself to you. Woman love the chase. Don't ask for possibility of a date, just be straight forward. Because if you are asking for "possibilities" of date it's like you are seeking for her permission. Woman don't like that. If I have to say something is to be more playful, and date more girls. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 02:57 AM |
| 2 | I was stood upAnd how simple it would be if most guy realize this, question like "she's interested but busy" no if she likes you she would make time, if Drake message a girl to meetup that girl will drop everything in a second. If a girls is not making an effort to see you, you're not important to her. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Getting older and meeting people while also being religious.Don't text her you are dissapointed just say alright. Don't give your power away let her wonder. And yea go find some other girl. Curious you point that you are religious, why is that something you want to mention | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Just walked past a dance classIf you going to dance class solely thinking about woman than I suggest you not joining | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 01:00 AM |
| 7 | She doesn’t kiss on a first date but...Generally if she avoided your kiss you just laugh it off then change subject. In another topic you could ask her out 2nd or 3rd time if there's still no kisses or sex leave her. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Help a brotha out (sex talk)Tbh u had already reach the kissing level what's exactly stopping you from touching her? | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 12:29 AM |
| 2 | An Individual Woman's Interest in you is not an Indicator of how Attractive you areThen you are practicing the wrong way. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | IT'S TIME TO GET BACK OUT THERE!.. HOW?Just keep being positive about it, do you have specific plan how to meet this girl? Are you more into meeting girls at night or daytime in bookstore..have a plan. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | An Individual Woman's Interest in you is not an Indicator of how Attractive you areThen start practicing... Or just be more interesting | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | FR: tinder date. Any advice?Awkward silence are necessary, let the silent do the work, she will feel more awkward and she will start qualifying herself. You will then listen to her, make some snakry joke then eye contact. And this is my personal opinion don't give her facebook. Be mysterious let her guess about you and contact her few days later. Don't text woman back immediately after date let her think about you. Now this is just dating rule it can be broken only if you know what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 06:10 PM |
| 2 | IT'S TIME TO GET BACK OUT THERE!.. HOW?Depends, are you looking for quick fuck or taking it slow meeting some girls to get back to state. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Ia game the same in every part of the world?Fundamentally it is the same, all girls like a dominant guy, strong voice tonality, Strong eye contact, positive attitude. But some aspect needs to be adjust. Conservative looking girl tend to not take sarcastic humor lightly. Direct approach doesn't work as frequently good in small city area. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Ia game the same in every part of the world?I'm from Asia. It is true | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Help a brotha out (sex talk)Gently put her hands on your bicep, flex your muscle, girls will laugh, then you say, "press it". Few second later as she playfully squeeze "okay that's all you can get",playfully put her hand away. Wait minutes later "you actually have good thigh muscle", put your hand on it, then playfully squeeze... Then transition to touching leg. I elaborate how it goes in case you want a process leading to it. But seriously just start with touching palm of her hand. Slowly you will lead to her shoulder and… | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Are you in for the ego boost or sincerely for improvement/getting laidYou are on your way to advance, I'm still have long way to go That's the fun in it, heard from a podcast hunter that are pro tend to go to forest with least chances of encountering animal , they like the challenges. We man are built to love challenge. | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 01:57 AM |
| 3 | 1 year on pickup but still no dates no results1)Just gonna nitpick the part you said you don't approach woman when on your way to school or errand where you not dressed well but I would say that's the best time for one to practice because in term of efficiency it make sense. Imagine you on your way to something and you just happen to meet this gorgerous blonde girl with tight waist, so you just happen to meet her and you just strive up a conversation to see if she's cool. It just seem more natural because you're not having an agenda you jus… | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What is she looking for?Just looking to hang i. e I don't have any expectation let's just chill. Girl that is not your social circle friend and willing to meet you alone is a good sign. Well are you hoping to have casual sex opportunity? If so just remember how you would had done with any other girl you date, have fun, lead her and such. | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What goes through girl's head when they are dancing intimately with guys in club?Well you don't have to act like a tough ass maybe i may take your advice seriously :), and I already mention she was grinding on me full body contact, in case you still don't get it, all the shit you listed, I done it :) so typical talking to get a little investment from her that's all When u go to these things the game starts when you walk in. Your energy, looks, and lust all counts, but the most important thing is your body signs. Do slick shit that girls like when dancing on them like pressin… | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What goes through girl's head when they are dancing intimately with guys in club?Go troll somewhere else :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What goes through girl's head when they are dancing intimately with guys in club?Still learning :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What goes through girl's head when they are dancing intimately with guys in club?Thanks just felt like asking, I didn't stay too long, I was hanging out with some other girls earlier in the night, the girl I'm talking about is just someone I danced with 15mins before I was leaving :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 04:02 AM |
| 0 | What goes through girl's head when they are dancing intimately with guys in club?True, but it happen more than 3 times I kinda want to know is there a way I could turn it around? Just wondering :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Tinder adviceConversation mostly went dead cause she stop putting effort. You can avoid this if you're different, assuming you're already funny and charming before it went dead, get her number asap while there is a connection and emotion run high, like "hey I'm not on Tinder often how bout I get your number you seem cool" then talk from there, and set date next few days. Convo goes dead on Tinder mostly cause girls are bombarded with messages, you're competing with many guys, but once you got her number you … | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).We call that the dark side of pickup. Once he tasted small amount of success from pickup he will start to be convinced this is it and will be dedicated, and sometime unwillingly use a lot of manipulative tactic in the learning process which may indirectly mold his character, in this case to an extreme end of "alphaness" . It's a common phase most guy experience, fortunately most guy are self aware to realise when that happen and will readjust their behavior back a bit to more socially acceptable… | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).You are a good friend while your intention is good, how you voiced it out matters. People get defensive when what worked before is being challenged, so think about that. Plus way I see it pickup is not the real culprit here but the people so called "lair" he hangout with. He has to realize that pickup method is still viable and he doesn't have to act like an ass to get woman. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).For some reason illuminati meet up sounds more acceptable | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).Doesn't sound like a very sustainable lifestyle | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy)."... Neurotically insecure and desperate for a simple answer in order to make sense of the world", "we become very defensive about having them challenged" nicely put there. Often pickup/seduction has this black and white mentality unfortunately it is often gray and most people fail to realise this. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Can you bounce back from a boring first impressionThat's entirely on you. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is making me depressed.I got my first date and kiss at 22, sex at 23, then slowly pile up from there. Before this I thought I can never attract a girl. I say this a lot, many guys are late bloomer, I understand what you feeling it's not end of the world, chill down a bit, pickup/approaching /seduction should be fun, if your not enjoying it you gonna have bad time. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How to Proceed? Date planned but I'm sick.Implying as if strong man doesn't get sick, you're reading in a bit too much on this. I'm all for maximising chance but this is ridiculous | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Can you bounce back from a boring first impressionDon't wait for next term, please don't, I made a similar mistake once, girls emotion will change with season. Hit her up again while semester hasn't end. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How to Proceed? Date planned but I'm sick.No sorry, why is it wrong to say you are sick? Assuming if op intended to reschedule. Its not like the pussy wall will close up if she heard the word sick. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Seduction is making me depressed.It's common, you have days when girl is jumping on your laps or you just have bad day with seduction like God forbid your peepee to enter a woman vajajay. Slow down, take a break, remember why you got into this in first place. Think what you did wrong how could you do better, but for now just relax. The only way to break the cycle, eg thinking about girl and being more desperate , is take a break a while and come back in fresh, if not you are just banging your head against the wall. You are stil… | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?I'm from Malaysia, girls here are unused to pickup so I know what I'm doing. I won't blame you I done enough in field to know what works and doesn't, being direct doesn't work as effectively as you like if you are not traditional good looking. I'm done debating my gamestyle it still in midst of experimentation and so far I had decent success and I will tweak it based on my own analysis. I'm only here to ask specific question only and don't want to further go off topic. Peace | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?I appreciate your concern, my ego gets in way when what works previously is being criticised. But I had seen and done it infield to know what's good for me. I pickup girl base on my method. Its not what I said but how I say it. I can pull in a milf and said your old enough to be my mother and I pull her back to my place. Did she got crept out by it? I don't know but I manage to fuck her to know it doesn't matter. How many girls have you pickup from cold approach? Unless you have a high pulling n… | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?I don't think u get the idea, I like to play with this, I playfully pull a girl in close and escalate them, I say stuff that doesn't match my action to confuse the girl. Plan is to separate myself from other guy Edit :just to be extra clear I believe no gay guy would hug a girl very close and said u smell very nice.. Im curious about you. Adding in a lot of eye contact and just go silent and looking at her. I just like to be playful it pushes my button and amuse myself to get in state Not a fan … | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?Lol 😂😂... U guys are starting to make me doubt myself.. But I cold approach her and said "we should be best friend while hugging her intimately"... Then I set date on next following day. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?Haha I don't use the gay friend card... Or do I 😏... But seriously though I set the frame of I'm a cool guy and lead her around...typical premise. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?I usually sensed the timing for kissing but I detect none so I foolishly thought increasingly touching her would turn things around. So probably I still have to work on my kissing game. One comment said I could ask her to close her eye and go for it. That's a good idea. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?Yea I want sex, normally I will tolerate one more date and see how. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?I never though of that, great idea | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 01:25 AM |
| -1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?I only met her once too fast to draw conclusion. Its not like I disagree but I consider this a learning opportunity and like to hear what are some alternate way to turn things around. Just because the fish that I hook are very resistant to my pull doesn't mean I would let it go immediately and went to fish for others just because there are many fishes. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?You're not wrong per say, she's interested enough to go out with me but I'm still water testing is she sexually adventurous. However I'm questioning how far can I push the escalation, cause last thing I want is I cross threshold of attempt rape. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?She's very cute that's the reason I put up with it. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What size of campus should you do daygame at?Then you should do fine, you are gaming at large campus capitalize it. Christmas is coming most college girl will be in holiday mood use this chance to ask them out haha | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Charming A Girl In 4 Minutes (Uncut Infield Footage)I don't even have wingman to game with me not sure who could I asked to film me haha, This 2 year of me gaming is 95% solo. The guy who filmed you does he game also? | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Charming A Girl In 4 Minutes (Uncut Infield Footage)Overall was authentic and natural which i like, but you could be more unreactive and add more pauses. At least that's what I notice in my game current flaw which I'm fixing, this day I might say some super sarcastic stuff and I don't react when the girl laugh, I smirk a bit and looked them in the eyes and said that's not funny, a stern look for a second then switch back to goofy look and casually say " just kidding you look cute when you laughed " which they giggled even more. Main point is be m… | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The approach of a kingWell canned line are typically frowned upon by seddit community, but if it works than it works. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What size of campus should you do daygame at?What's your history of approaching woman, based on the number of approaches how many gave the disgusted face to ratio how many are happy/giggled after talking to you. If the more girl felt happier after you talked to them any only scared off a few, then you should do fine. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Probably a better book to give to newbies than "Models"?Not sure why you're getting downvoted, it is really a good book for beginner, I didn't read it anymore as I'm trying new stuff in my game. But it is very beginner/intermediate book | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Tips on making a connection when your interactions are extremely brief?Do you see them repeatedly? If so play social game, just be nice and occasionally flirt and be genuinely interesting, repeat 3-4 times later and you can extend the talk for few more minutes then yada yada. If you only see them once and never again then go "2 minutes before I go, what's your name.." learn to close within few minutes, rate of success is low but since you not seeing them again there's nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Today I succeeded beyond my expectations!To keep the orgy machine wheel churning | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 04:15 PM |
| -4 | If giving a girl too much attention comes off as needy, how can you give her a balanced amount just so she stays attracted to you/doesn't lose interest?No, a real PUA create attraction under the radar, the girl that initially that is not interested will find herself slowly chasing guy for approval, before she know it she is the one doing the closing. A medicore PUA will force thing, the high level PUA make the girl chase them | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else have trouble fucking slim girls?I know this is an old post but thicc girl for life 🙏 | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate from 'Hey how are you'Read your college approach great stuff, but I have to be honest, I cringe when you wrote the wink part... Who winks this days. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | I need some helpRead the guideline, lots of advice for newbie, guys who just wanna get started | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Decent conversation skills but i will get bored. How to make conversations more enjoyable?Also note conversation is a two way thing. Let her invest. Add pauses or use open ended question to let her invest, if its still boring then maybe you are not the problem, she is just boring person. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever hit rock bottom and bounced back?Every good player or great womaniser u known or may heard had previously once hit a low in their relationship life, whether a bad breakup or a harsh rejection from crush. It's as if a universal truth, to be good at something first you have to experience the pain. In spiritual sense it also mean universe know you are strong enough to handle the pain, and it's a test, once you made it out you will be a stronger person that you once were. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Struggling against my circumstances - plz help!Nope I from Asia Country. U can always go online dating if going out is really a problem. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 01:50 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Daygame , holding tensionYup.. I notice most of my interaction that go well is strong eye contact. I just like this set was because I don't have to say much and stare at her and she's the one reacting to me as I stay emotionally unreactive. If only she wasn't rushing back to work I may had transition the tension part to more conversation of letting her invest more. Well its something I want to think about and apply to my next practice set. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Daygame , holding tensionSorry another flaky number, I wrote this FR specifically to jot down on the holding eye contact tension part cause its something new to me. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 02:45 PM |
| -1 | [FR] Daygame , holding tensionIt's my 69th language. Yea I'm not from land of America | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Successful Approach and got a call backMix feeling when reading this, but congratulations I guess. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being bitter/angry/resentful?....Resentful is easy to grow when you are not actively taking result to better yourself. It's easier to complain then to ask what can I do next to better myself. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 10:14 AM |
| 7 | When a Nice Canadian Player Expertly Dismantles an American Douche at the Club.If you ever dealt w/ whiteknight in a club before, yes it is satysfying | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 10:00 AM |
| 1 | When a Nice Canadian Player Expertly Dismantles an American Douche at the Club.And why is that bad really. Not a fan of RSD but you can't deny the message sent here is good. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 09:59 AM |
| 3 | When a Nice Canadian Player Expertly Dismantles an American Douche at the Club.This also add on Conservative part of society deem man who try to learn game is creepy. So any attempt of man trying to "pickup" woman is creepy. But it is true bad pickup is creepy, good pickup however doesn't even look like pickup. So be ready for people who shun you when you wanna get good at this shit. Cause their value system is different. However at the end of the day as long as everyone's having fun, some guy who trying to shun you. Fuck them and continue being you and keep gaming. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?But still either he is some Handsome fat broke to be able to match with hot girls on tinder or he used hack ,I'm curious how does that even work. | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedPersonally I'm not type that use eye contact game for two reason. I have bad vision at night and I'm not conventional good looking guy to attract girls , especially hot ones. That's why I approach either way. Home base is where u mingle with a group, doesn't matter whose inside so as long they are friendly and accept you. I'm trying out ways to do per selections game. Where you slowly get some girls talking to you, it doesn't has to be much as long you let the surrounding girl aware you're with … | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Well put it simply if you guys are living under the same roof you guys occasionally hangout once a while. I tend to ask question about woman once a while and to my surprise natural have answer that often caught me off guard and I learnt something. I mean I watched a lot of infield and think a lot of theory before hitting the field but I underestimate natural capabilities. just sharing I ask once how do you usually pull girl back to hotel don't girl usually show some resistance at first. He told … | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?I agree to disagree, natural do have stuff we can't relate to. Mainly cause lots of natural are just genetically gifted from start terms of look, coupled with earlier sexual experience gave them a lot of edge most don't. Still they do have stuff i can always learn if I observed carefully. So far I only met two natural in my life who I considered really good w / woman but none them lived with me and they at point of life stop really finding woman [guess they are sick of the game] so unfortunately… | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 05:28 PM |
| 10 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Nah I wish I live with a slayer. The amount of things you can learn from them is priceless. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 03:12 PM |
| 7 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?Hey quick question how do you go about splitting bills? Like you casually bring up we are splitting bills ? | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Did I miss-read this girl's intentions? Did she want a hookup despite claiming otherwise?Good to hear that man. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Struggling against my circumstances - plz help!Sometimes when I go nightclubbing I didn't even taste a drip of alcohol and able to mingle in fine. To be fair even if I do drink I never had rely on drunk state to get good. I guess that's also kind of my problem because after certain hour there will be too many drunk people and I usually leave the venue early around 2am. Just tryna prove a point it's possible to practice pickup girls in this environment so as long you trust yourself enough to not drink. But how to get good in this venue is ano… | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 04:41 AM |
| – | Did I miss-read this girl's intentions? Did she want a hookup despite claiming otherwise?To answer in short yes she is looking for a hookup. She invited you in the house upon few minutes of meeting who does that. And even if she doesn't just assume it's so. It's been said a lot we as guys have to be the one who lead , even when it comes to sex. I don't know about you but I'm a horny young male and if a hot milf is cuddling with me I would escalate and touch her more to seed idea of sex. I don't care if she was from religious background, been with girls that are Muslim and she's a fr… | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedThanks for encouragement. What are some of your go to tactic to set a homebase? | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedProbably cause when I was trying to think of finding another group to mingle with. Things start to get heat up and I was left like "how can I get into a group?" And more and more hot girls walking by my mind spinning"okay typical opener doesn't work at this point,what are some random stuff,pre selections? OK but first I need to find a group..." Then more and more in my head. Ad I get some few more rejection before I know it I lost my state. I know I need to be less reliant on what I'm feeling an… | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedThat's what I plan to do but he I turned salty and left. Yea I know I shouldn't let it bother me | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 06:38 PM |
| -1 | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedHow is that? I just extend my hand and wait when they shake I try a bit pulling in close. If they pull away I do one last tiny nudge 的,if they still resist I let them go. It works before and I'm just trying to keep master this technique. Enlighten me. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Pinky finger and pull a girl from a group.Typically I extend hand offering handshake and pull her in. So I tried something else and using pinky finger. I guess what I'm trying to drive home is being a bit more creative in nightgame interaction for my own self amusement and how actually it will work. I pinky finger pull her halfway from group and turn back and said some shit. And then put a shhh sign on my mouth and continue to pull her few feet away from group. Whole time i was just using pinky finger and no force used. she was just tag… | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Question on clubbing, how to stay till the endTrue. Your comment makes a lot of sense. Would u think it's good idea to continue practicing night game if I gave myself permission to go back early at 2am (if I couldn't pull any girl back that time). Cause like I said I don't like stay beyond 2am cause people are starting to act drunk and without friends I felt annoyed. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Question on clubbing, how to stay till the endHow late would you put it? I'm aiming for the top quality for sure, but my game is at point where I can get them hooked but not committed enough to leave with me. I'm was thinking maybe I have to wait 3 or 4 am before I can pull them back. Or maybe I just didn't get them hooked enough. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Question on clubbing, how to stay till the end11pm, but if I'm going with friends it will be 10 | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Something I learned when I was 22 years oldSummary. Be emotionally unreactive. The reactive party loses the power. As a guy in dating courtship you maintain that power. Woman will be drawn to you. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 04:22 AM |
| 5 | Something I learned when I was 22 years oldUnless you can make her perceived you are more higher value than her. Based on your action, confidence. Execute right you make yourself become a source of validation for her. This can be done by not giving your power away and dismissive yet flirty,unpredictable. I'm just talking theoretically cause I have yet to make a hot woman feel this way. But I had seen it done by people. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | 19 and never been loved before need adviceI understand, but I'm saying I was where you were once, then as i began experiment picking up I gain confidence in leading girl and spiking her emotion, the confidence of knowing i will be a good lover does project on your body language and girls can't help but to notice you. I'd like to clarify picking up isn't about obtaining every girl in existence, it's about projecting the type of guy you are and attracting the cliche of girls that are into that type. Still back to topic, that's up to you… | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | 19 and never been loved before need adviceI can sympathise I was like you. Most guys on this sub are a late bloomer themselves so cheer up. That being said, I don't think ethnicity is a thing to discuss because you can't change that. So start asking yourself what can be done to change my circumstances. Working on yourself? Getting into pickup? Start practice flirting more? You need a plan what you want and how you can get there. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 04:25 AM |
| 2 | How to ask a guy out?I second this. I know all guys will say just ask him out he will be flattered. But it's better to leave a little room for him to be the one who ask you out. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Tried merging set, end of night girl ask for my numberWatch more Todd V video on YouTube..Or old Julien infield video. | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Tried merging set, end of night girl ask for my numberAn underrated technique honestly...😂.. | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Why come I feel confident in cold approach but uneasy when comes to social warm approach?Do u have advice on how to be more high value? I know I'm a stranger of Internet you don't know me much but I workout had good physique and dance. Not sure how that's relevant but that's it. I guess it's true I have to ask myself, how can I be more better. Earn more money, be a better leader or travel more. Edit:"tough love but maybe all this while I'm putting on a facade, as much as I have inner talk of I am enough, I believe deep down I am not satisfied with my current self and I want to chang… | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How To Approach A Girl In College (Without Creeping Her Out)I haven't reach that level yet, I'm just venting cause too many generic advice on this subreddit these days. Which is good for beginner. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 11:01 AM |
| 1 | not going out again until i am confident/congruent enough to approachMy number 1 rule of going out practicing/sarging at night is >NEVER GET DRUNK. And yes if you're going consistently and take no action that's really bad. You have to force yourself to the uncomfortable in order to grow | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach A Girl In College (Without Creeping Her Out)Generic advice, nothing new or interesting, yea this will work for beginner, once you reach point where u start aiming for the really hot ones, this kind of generic advice can only work so far. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 07:19 AM |
| 7 | How To Approach A Girl In College (Without Creeping Her Out)It becomes a joke after a while, there's no creativity in the opening | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Sliding into DM's on instaI agree that it's not the best but do be open minded a little, sometimes DM do work when done right,though personally I'm not into this method cause I'm not good looking by standard | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm a straight female and welcome any serious questions from guys wanting advice on how to approach women/dating etc. (if this isn't the right place to post - sorry!)Also it's a projection he is sending, if complimenting on how beautiful a woman is from start despite his genuine intention, it may perceived as ass kissing or " he just want to get.in my pants" lacking challenges. Most woman like challenges, if he compliment a girl on her look but does it in way that is slightly cocky , dismissive and playful. This had to be done depending what type of girl she is. It will work better. I admit this subject is gray area.this is not black and white thing but my e… | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Remember that your emotions will try to fuck you upI mean...Yea if that makes u genuinely happy lol | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 04:15 AM |
| 1 | How do you be confident when you don’t have any positive refinforcement?Honestly there's no quick fix for this,u been living under this mindset for past 20 years. So I would argue, to a extend you still need to fake it till you make it,not just externally but internally. I would recommend reading "Models" by Mark Manson or "how to be 3% man" by Corey Wayne. Understand the theory and apply it, inner game has to work before outer game can start to really florish . | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 12:34 AM |
| 3 | What to do when a girl grabs my hand while dancing?Damn Canadian girls with their tounge sucking action | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 12:28 AM |
| 6 | Remember that your emotions will try to fuck you upUnless you reach a level of game where u start rejecting date potential girl cause u had to much sex last week,than a good old lock yourself in your room playing video game is rational. | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 12:24 AM |
| 8 | Remember that your emotions will try to fuck you upTwo days is still not long, text her back soon while her green light is still on | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I didn't know girls could be this fucking hot.I had period of time where my life is down but going to club and improving my game is fun and get my worry away so I can understand. For your case ,It's just inspiring honestly in a funny way, :). Yea have fun and tell us how it goes. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 03:12 AM |
| 4 | What is the best way to create an Instagram profile from scratch?well do you have certain hobby that stand out? If you're like say fishing stuff you could go for fishing hashtag shit, consistent photo of a certain genre could attract follower. or you could just go shirtless,bitches love good shape body. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | My flirt game needs some serious work.I had always use the assumption line on opening,but I had never knew there are much more better way to capitalize on it.nice read thanks | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 06:51 AM |
| 1 | "Abundance mentality" when you're extremely pickyObviously she's special,chased her and keep us updated | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | 4 dates in one week, how do you juggle multiple women!My reactions when reading half way through,this guy has reached a next level of game I would probably never comprehend lmao | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 06:32 AM |
| 1 | First time trying to pick girls up on InstagramUnless you are very good looking picking up hot woman on ig is almost impossible. There is no game on social media,it's basically are you hot or not, do you have social status? | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Found this on another subreddit, relates to seduction, kinda?I believe what most guy trying to say is "be prepared to move on", not "give up on her". Because flaking is common and oversending messages could lead to disastrous effect. I assume you send a simple follow up message in which she replied. Which is how it should be done. I agree on your criticism that this community of seddit tend to be too black and white sometime but to be fair your post situation isn't much uncommon either which make the comment tend to be "black and white". But it works out … | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Found this on another subreddit, relates to seduction, kinda?It's been nearly two years since my seduction journey, went from kissless virgin to multiple dates and sloppy sex kiss. Yea people need to stop doubting themselves and start taking chances. Applies in all area of life really. | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Found this on another subreddit, relates to seduction, kinda?Well glad that it worked out for you, but thing is when it comes to dating or seduction advice it is not all black and white. You have to understand there will always be a grey area, I'm the guy that responded and I did said send her a simple message and assume the worst. | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Tinder is a confusing placeI'm an average looking dude with some decent good Tinder bio. been using tinder on and off for almost a year, match over 100 woman and only date 4 girls and 2 hookup. Which I still hookup once a while. So yeah used it as secondary tool to get woman, not your sole dependant source of getting laid. If not you will drive yourself crazy and depressed lmao | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Post hookup guilt...Maybe, but after some thinking maybe I was just disappointed. She was one of my few dates that I look forward to cause I felt emotional connection last time, only to be proven it's not what I want. So the sex that happen at end of night though is mutually enjoyable, lack of emotional connection definitely made me felt "she's hot I wanna fuck her but then again I don't wanna".. So made me feel guilty for" I just used her for this huh? "feeling | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Post hookup guilt...Thanks for the pat on my back, I supposed so. Maybe I am overthinking a little. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Post hookup guilt...Well I suppose girl I hookup with previously had always been more "slutty", like they shown dtf sign from start. So I know whatever happen after sex they can handle it. This girl look more, idk not dtf sign, like she's not the type to go casual sex. And I probably scare she will feel slutty or used after that. Well she just texted me seems all is good, so I don't know maybe it just my monkey mind. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Post hookup guilt...Thanks I will take note into this, I suppose it was when she was riding me she kept hitting the roof of car. Maybe my car was smaller I don't know. Her roommate is in, impossible to do at her place. Edit :just realised I could had lie down while she ride me... I was in sitting position that's why she hit her head | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Post hookup guilt...Thanks for asking, it's my first time having sex in car, it's so cramp at backseat and I have no experience thrusting in small space..so my worry is I may not be hitting right..though I did try best to cater her need by asking "you want me go faster?" . I did most thing right from fingerings part and giving her oral . The intercourse part is lackluster . So yea I doubt she cum Part of my guilt right now is feeling I did not gave her my best. If it was in motel room it would been different. She d… | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Game is 100% skill! Follow these four steps and you can't lose...To me Game can only work if you're at least decently attractive in the girl eyes, so as long she thinks " hmmm he's not so bad looking" then the rest depends on your seduction skill. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Same pattern, Dead numbersKeep upping your looks and other area of your life. Game is not total shit. You're doing well, pussy will come along eventually. (just tryna give encouragement lol :) ) | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Same pattern, Dead numbersCan I elevate and masturbate at same time | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Girls give me stares but when I approach they show no interestThis is why I ignored most night game this day. But if I would give me theory, rsd Tyler did mention once it was the vibe. Like they are seeing you having fun so they believe you are the cool guy and source of fun so they dance near you. but when they are near your vicinity your flip of switch to suddenly just want to know them might drove them away like "ugh so he was just pretending to have fun I'm out". Solution might be to just keep being fun and make silly eye or body contact. Few more minu… | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:24 PM |
| 3 | If a girl finds you physically attractive, can you really fuck it up? If so, how?Thanks for saying the truth, seduction community hate this cause it breaks their reality. But what's good about this is it forced u to take care of your looks and personality, vice versa. Some people only keep focusing on game and go great length of ignoring their looks. | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl with BF super flirty with me, She seems like she wants to branch swing.I know cheating is frowned upon this subforum but if you really want to. You can just keep being flirty while being distance while you are meeting other chick. You can't be the one initiating too much... You can just hint and see if she would take the bait. | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:14 PM |
| 3 | How can I make myself WANT to go and talk to girls?I was once like you. But when you start to have really hot girl reciprocate your advance. When you have girl you just barely met brush your arm because you took the chance and talk to them. Then one thing led to another. The good feedback you received will become your motivation and in some way become an addiction. Whether it's good or bad. Short answer is just do it. Eventually you would crave more of it. Or just like the above guy said. Stop masturbating lol. | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | The "one thing" routine, adapted from Neil StraussBecause it only works in situation if you feel the need to qualify yourself to the person cause you find him intriguing. If someone you adore be it guy or girl chatting you up and you find them interesting, and you are not in hurry. It works very effectively | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | The "one thing" routine, adapted from Neil StraussThis only work if the girl are at least somewhat invested in conversation or started qualifying herself to you. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in public transport?If u mean in station while waiting for bus and train. To me thats the best opportunity to approach rather than in bus/train. Cause in case it goes well you can continue talking when following her in to bus/train. If it doesn't you still can like avoid her to well... Not stand the awkwardness or whatever. Whereas in bus/train you don't have opportunity to relocate to another place where the space is cramp and people are listening. But that just me cause I don't have a very thick skin. And in my c… | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in public transport?Unless you have a fucking thick face and bear 5 min awkward feeling trapped in bus in case of rejection. Then do it. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Statement + Empathy = Instant DateO I see. Looks like I'm more the push pull technique kind. This example u giving sounds really good, I might have to give this a try lmao. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Statement + Empathy = Instant DateOK, so what u prefer is guy being indirect. What we usually call transitioning from platonic kind of topic to something more intimacy about the girl like what she do and what brings her here kind. I understand. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 10:41 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Statement + Empathy = Instant DateOK funny questions, if I saw you walk by all. I noticed is your appearance I went ahead and commented on your shoe saying it's badass where you get it and you look like a sporty girl do you workout. Which obviously sounds like an excuse to get into conversation. Would that work? | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 10:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Statement + Empathy = Instant DateInteresting insight, I will keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | 23M, having a really hard time to seduceMany people has started same place like you and had overcome them. So you're no different. What you have is fear of making mistake, unfortunately social interaction especially man to woman always will encounter awkward moment when you try to make any sort of advance. But what will make you different is willing to learn and practice it. You're still young and have lot time to learn. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 08:02 AM |
| 3 | They Keep Losing InterestMaybe this is the cliche' "your strength is also your weakness" , maybe you were too honest . Girl generally like excitement, tease more, be more unpredictable, be willing to push the woman away when they get too close , metaphorically and literally. Generally the push-pull concept. At least that's my judgement based on way you describe. As you said you're looking for something less commitment , so a player vibe with those trait can really help a lot | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:55 AM |
| 16 | Seeing the same girls that rejected me on CampusHoooo boyyyy, I can relate. Dated a girl that rejected me cause I'm desperate. Thing is she has wide social circle of hot female friends also. So the fact when I saw them I felt the sounds in my head "she's prolly talking to her friends that's the guy that I thought is cool but turn out to be needy" No easy way here, what I did is expand my social circle. Hangout with people who I think is cool and do interesting stuff, I dance so my niche of people are dancer. Once you have your group of nich… | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:47 AM |
| 2 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.It depends, sometime once a while going out with a friend that good with woman kind of put things in perspective. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:34 AM |
| 3 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.I think he meant going solo at night where venue like bars and pubs are kind of money waste if you were to buy bucket of beer kind. Yea same boat here that's why I switched more to daygame this days and some other personal reason. Still nightgame once a while. Jumping in cause I like to hear some thoughts on this too. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Statement + Empathy = Instant DateOut the topic here since u stated your age, I always believe that older woman prefer a direct approach and no beating around the bush. Based on my experience at least they are more direct in hinting what they want. They may still have resistant if your approach is too direct but still direct works better. So how is commenting on looks is not good for you? Do you prefer if they say, "do you wan the D right now?" | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:17 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Statement + Empathy = Instant DateThen how would you preferred to be commented on? curious | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Statement + Empathy = Instant DateTo me it's a playful neg. "you smell wonderful like a cherry blossom in summer she laugh but something tells me you smell like trouble as well look at you " noooo I'm not". Makes you unpredictable rather than a pleaser that compliment every second. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 05:58 AM |
| -1 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.To people that downvoted this cause I spit the truth. Either you're good looking and ignorant to this or ugly and not getting laid. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Blood, sweat and fucking tearsRead your comment and hope you doing well. I say go out and do approaches but also do , like you said "build a good life foundation" at the same time. While you're not approaching, fix your life. This is a journey and life process so take time and slowly groom it. Edit: You can have a normal life, You just need help, and help comes when you start helping yourself first and slowly fixing yourself, be it woman or life. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:42 PM |
| 2 | [INFIELD] The Art of Picking Up Girls in a Bookshop 📚I like the indirect opener, very calm and relax. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:30 PM |
| 2 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.Seen this kind of topic get post a lot and honestly it seem sugarcoat and all wu-hoo feel good. Looks do matter and if you're very look good. You have to be at autistic spectrum to fuck things up with a girl. It's reality hot guys have it easier and just normal social skill can get them laid. Facing the reality is better , so you could shallow it and if you're not at the traditionally view of hot guy. You work harder on yourself. You dress better, you groom better. And you went out and practice … | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | The only way to get the girl effortlesslyMy friends had a whole plate of woman, a glimpse of his whatsapp is bunch of woman hitting him up. Granted his handsome but his nonchalant attitude is what drive woman crazy. You're right the lesser fuck you give the better your game is. I'm not there yet I do have woman lining up but time being couldn't really bed them. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Cocky smile and good number closeYa man I read it. I agree to some degree with what you say. I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Cocky smile and good number closeSup bro, I don't know what to reply. Not sure why u sound uptight lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hot girl was very compliant, but flaked.Just focus on observation. And asking questions or making comments based on what you observe. Not the assumptive questions that are the hallmark of cold reading, which can bite you in the ass whether you get it right or not. This is the biggest takeaway from your critque..thanks that's a good statement. I will re-read few more times to drive that into my head. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hot girl was very compliant, but flaked.I'm not saying I'm 100% right but at that moment because while I was talking to her It was in quieter spot. not many people. And I not facing directly at her,no blocking. So i assume if she wanna walk away she could. Like most girl...that's my experience and assumption. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hot girl was very compliant, but flaked.And yes..I'm kind of a bad addict at times. I will think about it Thanks | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hot girl was very compliant, but flaked.Were you expecting to be fucking some girl in the bathroom when she was bringing groceries home and you were already meeting someone there in a few minutes? Just read your comment I must had missed it, Thanks for giving me your insight. I did set a date but not strongly driving it , I say like "maybe we can get a coffee sometime when you're free" I don't/cant push for a specific date cause ...i don't know that moment just doens't feel right to push it. I guess my 1 year plus of game never had I … | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hot girl was very compliant, but flaked.I agree on smart ass comment. Indirect opener or stuff. But I just off work I'm not best at witty remark when social momentum is not there. So I opted for direct approach cause I only had few minute left before I go pick up my date. Its a hit or miss situation in limited 5 min interaction. At my current level I'm not Mr James bond smooth seducer so eye contact may not be my best suite. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 05:51 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Hot girl was very compliant, but flaked.Replied my comment and don't divert the topic. I could argue that you are based on some stupid play safe rule to get girls. I had seen infield video of people pulling off girls by just doing little talking. What I meant by staring is stopping /pausing at moment and allow the sexual vibe to kick in. Hank moody style. This is the illustrations I'm going for. And you just straight up indirectly trying to draw me as socially awkward and not giving advice what could be done. And my mean of touching i… | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 05:44 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Hot girl was very compliant, but flaked.Alright let's discuss my method while I dislike you calling me out for being socially awkward. 1) i only tailed her for 5 second as I recounts. It's just the space is crowded at where she's at. And then I opened immediately 2) by that logic I cannot approached 90% of woman cause everyone is busy. When she's walking out of food stall I could see she's not totally not in rush. Argue with me, I had approached girl who's in rush before and managed to number close into date. 3)my default opener was c… | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Question on purposely getting friendzone?That's nice man..I mean I'm sorry for your lose but how did it go after that | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Question on purposely getting friendzone?True, I guess I'm coming from mindset that if I try making move on them might be hard to use them as "pawn". I'm currently trying to expand my social circle of cool/hot female friend. Just make a couple of them few days ago. Not making move on them just befriend. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 04:50 PM |
| -1 | I fucked up yet another date. I really don't know what to do anymore.Hey Man can I recommend you a material that might help you out? Try searching Coach Corey Wayne on youtube or read up his material "How to be 3% man" *it's free* . While we could guess what went wrong in your date, nobody no for sure unless there's a video to analyse. But how bout you do some searching yourself to the guy. Personally i felt his stuff mostly dealt with people who are having trouble getting 2nd date or a self-check for people who always accidentally screw themselves up. | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 04:03 AM |
| 1 | (Nightgame) Girl dance with me but I still lack ability to pullHey Scrub your comment timing couldn't be better. Thanks I gain some insight. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 08:29 PM |
| 3 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?As oppose to if you had continue kissing with her, the chances of you pulling her back would decrease? | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?What's your idea of displaying high value in those chaotic scenario ? | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpJust search Todd valentine on YouTube. He had néw channel and bunch of awesome content. Most his old. Content are deleted but there are other. People who uploaded his old video. Some stuff happen basically you can read it up. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpHe can man, he's a former RSD instructor, I could say his the most technical dating coach out there. The way he break down every single step when comes to talking to woman is phenomenal. My game had improve substantially from applying his advice. Good luck man I wish u the best. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpIf you search an interview on YouTube of this pua todd valentine interview(two girls interviewing him) he talk about his beginning, basically he has a lot of girls hitting on him but never had proceeded further than date cause he was afraid of the consequences of what if screw up. But eventually he learn pickup and rest is history | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpDon't mean to be insensitive, it just like what I said. If a girl want to hug you but you scared that it will lead to something bad or awkward happening. The same concept apply, you just have to go ahead and hug her. That is babystep. You can't be confident touching woman if you never try something new. Todd Valentine pua has a similar topic regarding your situation. If u still not insistent to do it within social circle, then cold approach woman outside of your social circle. That's what I did | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 3 | MysteryMethod only for US people?Hey your comment pique my interest. Although I'm not from Europe but I would say even in most country other than America gaming are more in your favor if you gear your energy towards the cool side. I'm from S. E ASIA country and after many months of trial and error. When I tone down my energy when interacting with woman I would see a substantial increase in closing rate. As opposed like what u said being a monkey, it rarely gets me anywhere. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Is this a problem?You definitely should if you have the time, I usually stroll half an hour around mall before heading to gym. Surprisingly woman are more receptive around those time. Look for woman in working uniform that walking in slow pace. Those are the best imo. Open and maintain a strong man to woman frame/premise. Talk about her day teasingly. Then close when you feels it's right. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Is this a problem?Hey Im 23 y/o guy that start working 8-5...I pack my own lunch also. But have you tried strolling around your area after during lunchbreak? Doesn't mean you necessarily needed to eat out as a permission to pickup woman. I done my fair share of quick 30min daygame few times a week at work. Sometime even after 5pm around mall nearby. And I had decent success in terms of conversion rate. (eg. 4 woman a day, getting 2 numbers, then dates) | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpDidn't read entirely but what you need is experience. Everyone start somewhere, go out and take baby step eventually you will get there. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How can I get this girl ?Sounds like a oneitis OP, try mingling around with other girl also. Escalate kino playfully if you saw her and if she's not interested bounce to other girl. Worst thing you wanna do is to cling to this one girl the entire night. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Would it be messed up to ask someone on a date if you only want to be FWBFinally a comment that talk some sense | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | 24 Techniques and Mindsets that Immediately Attract FemalesI'm ashamed to say I subconsciously pucker my lip when reading the advice ..smh hand me the L | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 07:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Slowly overcome fear approaching 8's, trying to be more cultural sensitiveI agree, thanks for reading. I just personally felt it just my way of describing the girl where I subconsciously put above my league. But yea someday in future I hope there's no more this number assigning thing. | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Let’s take a vote. Do I tell her I had a sex dream about her?You are not contributing slightest and only attacking people for no reason, how does it make you feel being a sad troll? | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | On my way to solo a club, advice appreciatedWell if you're introvert like I am it takes some time for the social mojo to kick in so best to start interacting with any stranger on your way to the club. If it's a big club you can afford to game aggressively as any rejection/failure can go unseen, if it's small club game accordingly. Yea have fun | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing , overgaming is hurting me?Thanks I may take sometime to gather my thoughts on this FR, if I happen to written it I could notify you. Your insight could help me a lot. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing , overgaming is hurting me?I know the theory and everything. Okay sorry if I sound insincere. I just felt like being attacked but I try to view it as criticism. Here goes My history of hooking up with woman sadly is when they are drunk. I rate myself as intermediate when comes to kino escalation. Established light touching from start of interaction to slowly building up. Holding by hand and spinning them if her energy is high. Push pull done quite seldom but I trying to ramp it up. Example hey don't get too close to me we… | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing , overgaming is hurting me?My sticking point is simple, if I'm just having fun and girls enjoy talking to me is when I'm not looking for anything. I can look like the guy that get girls from outside but I know interaction isn't going anywhere. But if I try to escalate and push (playing number games) it's shooting barrel till I found one girl that like me. I despise writing FR (correct me if I'm wrong) is that it's rare to find a good criticism on seddit. But I will try to articulate my thoughts and write one today. I agre… | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | How to become more physical/touchy person?I'm the kind of guy that doesn't dare to touch a girl hand when starting out. Now physically placing my hand around their shoulder or slowly touching their palm felt like second natural to me. Start slow, when I starting out I always go for high five, anytime girl said something right, tease her "wow u like that? High five" Practice makes perfect | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkOP quick question, you mentioned Seattle is a desert compare to NYC, is it in terms of daygame or nightgame? Gratz with your successful approach btw | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to keep escalating/pursuing until you get a hard no?If she's saying no yet kept staying while as long you don't block her exit way. It's a good indicator to keep escalating | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 08:13 PM |
| 12 | Here's Exactly How to Improve Your Game InstantlyThis put a smile on my face | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Make up with 30y/o milf in club and she started crying?I hear you, it just I was feeling caught off guard. I try comforting her for few minutes to no avail and kinda make me question should I stick around longer. It just to feeling of being fake to comfort her to point of overstaying my welcome. Thanks for your insight | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Make up with 30y/o milf in club and she started crying?Nice and simple, maybe I'm making things complicated, cheers | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Make up with 30y/o milf in club and she started crying?Btw I just started sarging more on night game for this one week. Could been the high stimulation environment with constant ioi, touching and rejection from girls make me can't react properly in situation like this. | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | APPROACHING A GIRL IN A CROWDED STARBUCKS - 100 WOMEN IN 50 DAYS - DAY 10Pick what suit you best, it's just an example. For me personally, I usually just go for "hi" "what's up" and go from there. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | APPROACHING A GIRL IN A CROWDED STARBUCKS - 100 WOMEN IN 50 DAYS - DAY 10I guess it's the delivery and way you structure your sentences, the difference between the natural and amateur seducer is that natural know how to make their flirtatious nature subtle. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Did anybody actually get from zero to an adequate pua? Can you tell your story?Moral of story don't jerk off yourself at friend's apartment 🙀 | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | APPROACHING A GIRL IN A CROWDED STARBUCKS - 100 WOMEN IN 50 DAYS - DAY 10You're essentially giving your power away if you straight compliment her in first few seconds of introduction, doesn't mean you can't compliment but do it in subtle way, instead of "I want to talk to u cause you look really beautiful ", it can be" you have an interesting style you look kinda cool, hi my names.. ". of course there are exception to this rule. But generally idea is girl like challenges, don't let her know you are interested in her from get go. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | APPROACHING A GIRL IN A CROWDED STARBUCKS - 100 WOMEN IN 50 DAYS - DAY 10Yup, I would suggest todd valentine or rsd julien, they make a good video about opening | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Did anybody actually get from zero to an adequate pua? Can you tell your story?I jerkoff to myself in the mirror | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 03:42 PM |
| 0 | This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progressOkay why is this getting upvoted so much? | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 01:58 PM |
| 2 | The power of eye contact (success story)Yup, OP is lucky cuz he just happen to be attractive. This tactic alone usually doesn't work for average guy | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 01:41 PM |
| 2 | What questions do you have about attracting women?Could be unrelated how do I deal w/dating/pickup burnout？ I realize over the months I get burnout fairly easily often once twice a week. This past week I had been doing some daygame while out buying groceries, went on dates from Tinder, pulling girls from nightclub(decent success). But all said and done I havnt got laid. So the frustration kinda gets to me. As I'm typing this couple of hot girls pass by and I had flat zero motivation to approach. What's your take on this? | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:11 AM |
| 5 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?How does stating the fact you turned down a high paying job has any correlation to do with the topic of subject? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How Does game work in India? (My Personal opinion)East Malaysia | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How Does game work in India? (My Personal opinion)I read your post in quora and had to agree/ There's seems to be not many subject covering on the topic of cultural aspect. As I had experience a few times now, context do really matter. Currently studying in a small campus where many times I seen beautiful woman walking by, my instinct to approach is strong but I know it would be futile effort. I'm starting to see pattern that direct approach just would not work in general. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 01:12 PM |
| 2 | How Does game work in India? (My Personal opinion)So what would you suggest is the best way to meet girls (for date) in India then? I'm not from India but country I'm from I can feel the similarity and your analyzation could be a bit close to the truth. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Feels like all my progress is worthlessWell am at the same place, I quickly skimmed through your post the typical advice always come with things will get better, move to bigger city, lay off pickup a while, get a bigger social circle yada yada. Obviously you are trying to better your life by going gym and stuff is good. Don't have a concrete advice I can give, despite how amazing I feel about myself. I'm not sure if girl ever think I'm attractive. Stuck in a loophole of feeling good then feeling like shit next second when I think abo… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A Painful Lesson. Well, more pain than "lesson".This is the most relatable subreddit post I seen lately. Your introspection is very much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Get My Shit Together Or Get Better with Girls First?Logically that's how it should be done, but we tend to give excuse to ourselves. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Get My Shit Together Or Get Better with Girls First?That sounds reasonable, would be nice if there is advice reference out there. Many instructional video focus on getting good w/ woman w/out any emphasis on fixing life stuff. I been trying to fix my life and only try to do my pickup hustle on the road but sometime i do ask am I trying hard enough | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Get My Shit Together Or Get Better with Girls First?This is prolly the trickiest thing, is like juggling two balls on a unicycle. Balls being things u want in life while holding balance. Might be exaggerating but this is how I definitely feel | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Corey Wayne adviceInteresting thank you for the thoroughly reply. I just read it hours ago To me few point taken that is most useful is the importance of masculine energy,being centered and calm, and how important it is to think woman are like cat, give then space to miss you. And woman love require time to grow slowly. Don't rush. As common the idea it is I only wish I had read earlier. Could save me so much hassle in dating game.definitely will reread it couppe of times. I agree he definitely sounds old fashion… | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on Corey Wayne adviceIn what area of advice did it help you? Like any particular relevation that made you "thank you Corey that fuckkng work!" . Well I haven't considered myself having success with woman, I found the shift in thinking of how to I chase her to how do I attract her definitely help me the be more confident and calm when talkinf to woman though it still need more work. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 08:23 AM |
| 3 | How to close girls on a college small social circleThe classical advice usually is you don't consciously try to game them as you run the risk of "you know what. Let everything be natural Or, YOLO, you can don care about people opinion and went for it, if any of them reject you at least you take risk instead of playing safe. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 11:30 AM |
| 3 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceBut he's not lying, in he's eye it's a 7's, 8's. I date woman who I consider an 8 but is a 'meh' in my friend's eye. U prolly sleep with woman I would never think of approaching vice versa, personal preference. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of reference'And this is my pleasure room ;)' wink | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 04:49 PM |
| 3 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceYou're too humble you look good, growing a beard definitely helped. I'm asian so beard is not an option, thanks for sharing I could see why the ladies would swipe right | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | 22F coworker forgets she has shown me her tat on her hip (lifting her shirt) twice and has shown me a third time all within 2 months...Fucking A-men, learn this the hard way, don't fall for their trick. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 04:09 PM |
| 5 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceA lil bit of how u present your photo on tinder could help, I understand pirvacy is an issue, u can blur ur face for that. An insight of how overall your photo presentation could help. Its not so much on how to escalate on tinder conversation (though your method are very interesting) . But rather how to get enough match is the main problem for most people here. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Problem with being too congruent?i cannot deny social conventions, and they are more strict than i would like, so that i should just censor myself in most cases, even though i don't. True, social calibration is tricky, thanks for answering my question mate. =) | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Problem with being too congruent?So if the girl im talking to, I'm only superficially attracted to her body not her face. I shouldn't say anything? Best I can say is I like your clothing, u really know how to express yourself etc. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 12:36 PM |
| 2 | What is the best book I can read in two weeks before I start college?There's a digital audio file you can find online and download, listen to it while you on bus or jogging | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 03:42 PM |
| 2 | What is the best book I can read in two weeks before I start college?Honestly this is like a go to book for any beginners..I still listen to it sometime | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Today this car has taught me somethingThat's a good read thanks | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Give me the best internal game tools to use to that seddit has to offer!What're you trying to attain from honing this inner game, what sort of insecurities are you facing right now. There's no such thing as best inner game advice only trying and implementing. | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How to stop comparing girls to your last crush?Time heals all wound man. At least you're getting out there props to you, you're doing the right thing :) | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 03:22 PM |
| 13 | How to talk to a girl in a group (3+)That is what i told myself initially...until all the girls I'm interested in are in a fuc-king-group | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Is is weird to ask someone out while they're working. What's your thoughts/experiences with this.Well horribly is an exaggeration, basically I have no idea to gauge her interest, her being nice is just because she had to be nice to customer. I have hit on girls working when they are not busy and had gone better. That's why only hit on her when you feel she's not busy | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Is is weird to ask someone out while they're working. What's your thoughts/experiences with this.Gone horribly for me hahaha, but if you couldn't resist. only hit on them if you felt like they're not busy. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 04:12 PM |
| 2 | What sort of learning curve have you had?Been there done that, don't wait for buddy. I wasted month praying for somebody to help/motivate me. Eventually i gave up the idea, and I push myself out there. The more you wait for a buddy the more it's gonna feel like you're wasting time, don't | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What sort of learning curve have you had?How committed are you to pickup?As in action wise how many times a day have you done it. I'm not trying to sound insensitive but there's no way you wont get number from girls, as we know by now girl simply give out number randomly for sake of it, to really pull a girl require more than that but that's a topic for another day. Then again props to you for taking out dancing,you must enjoy it a lot! I took out dancing 7 months ago (bboy and hip hop dance) and enjoying life more than ever I think yo… | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 03:58 PM |
| 9 | How are you supposed to dance with girls when nobody acknowledges you?Moms spaghetti | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 02:56 PM |
| 2 | What sort of learning curve have you had?My sympathy I know pickup for three years and hit a plateau recently , I'm 23. What makes you feel like its zero progress? There always a solution to any problem I feel most of us (even me admittedly) know the source of problem but just too afraid to overcome it. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Help! Slight introvert heading to weekend-long college camp in 8 hours. Any tips?I been in your place before what I would suggest is focus less on woman and talk to everyone, have fun, be sociable, bring value to the team. Your in college, having a good social circle buddies (male or female) goes a long way. Give you social proof. College camp usually have activities where people are separated into groups, speak out your opinion be brave. Contribute to the team, make mistake , have fun. If you're good looking girls will notice you and it will be easy sailing from there. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 09:20 AM |
| 11 | Help. I just left for a week for vacation alone. Need adviceBurn set, its going to be very uncomfortable, basically I just go around like lost tourist hitting up random girls. Don't think, when u see , approached. Keep failing. I travel alone once and I just kept going, I wish I can tell you a magic pill but you just have to put yourself out there and get shot, soon you will get lucky with a girl and the chemistry just kick. But that's just my way. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 07:36 AM |
| 3 | [22M] I act feminine, is this still attractive?I had a friend who is very feminine still get many attraction from girls, not sure is it applicable to your situation but occasionally he stop talking and stare at girls, he's body posture relaxed and had smirk on his face while teasing, effectively make her feel he's the only guy in the room Maybe tone down your high energy vibe and slow down things a bit | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 02:41 AM |
| 16 | Any tips for music festivals?Be friendly to everyone, have fun | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Need help on how to compliment women7/10 works everytime | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Now guys, this is seriously crucial.Go easy on the lad but I get your point | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 11:56 AM |
| 1 | How to *actually* love yourself.Bless your reply man that was beautiful | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How to *actually* love yourself.I have nothing to add just want to say I'm sorry for what emotion you are experiencing now...if there's anything keep going man. I hope the best for you too. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 12:17 PM |
| 3 | All my life I've been rejected. About to turn 21 years old and only been on two dates. Is it true that I have to approach hundreds of women for someone to be my girlfriend? Is there something wrong with me?Uhm my advice is...stop thinking about getting lay/gf. Treat every interaction as practice, talk to them, notice their body cues, escalate etc.. I got rejected a lot over the months.. surprisingly what kept me going is I have better things to do if that make any sense, of course I feel shitty but after a while I do my own Thang , dance , workout etc..I love what I do and I forget about the rejection. My world is not centered around getting woman I have dreams and goal to get. I treat every failu… | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:27 AM |
| 2 | (16 M) What things do you wish you had known when you were in your teens?Ditch computer game, stop hanging out with loser friends, get a cool hobby ( I dance and workout) social life become better (I still play games once a while😃) | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | I have been told by friends that I am too blunt or rude sometimes, even if I don't mean, I can't help it, how can I improve on this or use it as my advantage?Lmaooo | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches are you making weekly?Quality over quantity?....I mean as long you're getting result its not a race 😀 | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Seduction vs ComfortOmg this (Owh I sounds like I'm at Tumblr for a second) | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | I can't keep girls, any advice?Unpopular opinion maybe try asking girl you went date with what is lacking on your part that made tgem ghost you? ...since you not gonna contact this girl anymore in future might as well hear what they havr to say | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got the exterminator's numberWhat seal the deal here is the couch thing, soical proof is very important I just have this relevation how important is it recently | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesOh no it's a popular club in my part of town..just people there don't dance that much?I left the club at 2am maybe the real party start late? I'm going to focus more on going bar next few days for now. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesI don't have vast knowledge of nightclub yet, but the one I went before with friends has a huge floor space in front of where DJ is playing, you can easily go there dance a bit and I went back your table, but the one I went alone last night has only like a small square space, if I dance there I look too much of an idiot? | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesI tried, will write some FR soon I guess | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesHaha yea Fam, I from SE asia | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesWish I had read your comment earlier, I hop from one plaCE to another like an idiot haha | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesMalaysia | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesYea man you do you, I just got out of busy schedule so I have time | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Hitting the club solo in few minutesI like dancing.. but the venue doesn't suit I guess, will go to some other place next time | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:51 AM |
| 2 | [FR] jumping back the game after long hiatus, first field report, 7 girlsI will, I have two months of break left before going back to study, I'm using this site to keep me accountable I have a lot of inner fear I have to overcome Thanks for reading though its a mess !:) | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Social battery drained up, how to overcomeThat's what I usually do, I guess I'm just not used to opening up to group people I felt my battery drained fast.. trying overcome that | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 06:46 AM |
| 1 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?I just started night game yesterday..I talk to staff dance a bit and head off...lol beta as fuck I'm trying to get myself comfortable..I will head to club early tomorrow night and try meeting some girl..yea I'm going lone wolf style I don't have a choice lol..all my friends are busy | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?Do you usually hit the same kind of club, get to know the staff there? Or you just jump from one club to the other? I'm still new to night game scenario as I'm most into day game. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Sexy Mexican Milf...Gratz man...just to say a postive response from a sexy girl definitely break the believe u are unattractive..still working on it, night game are fucking tough | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?I think seddict made it clear body language is the only option | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 04:46 PM |
| 3 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?Do you usually hit the club alone? I wish I can go with group of friends but ... | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 04:45 PM |
| 7 | Girl I've been talking to sent me this. Does this mean anything? Am I over thinking it?Damnnnnnnnnnnn son | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Finally hooked up with a girl from the friend zone (bittersweet)I think it's not so much of playing game but you have to be grounded with your emotions. When guy falls in love some people accidentally become "betacuck". (hate that word but it paints the picture clearly.) Don't be swoon away just because you think you slept with her, enjoy the thrill of journey/chase, focus on doing your thing, she is secondary not your primary. Edit: not expert just learn this the hard painful way | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Finally hooked up with a girl from the friend zone (bittersweet)"you need to be mature and basically have strong emotional intelligence. You have to use your gut while also understanding the cold, rational advice people here will give you." Wow thanks that's what i been thinking, i can't put it in words but you describe perfectly. | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Female eye contact is a puzzle^ | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How would you get your friend to be okay with you sleeping with his daughter?Lmaoo I smell troll here | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 12:23 PM |
| 7 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.Don forget to insert I'm alpha as fuck I'm more surperior than all you hur-durr on your closing speech. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 06:41 PM |
| -4 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.False, I whip out my dick on bus and do the helicopter-dick dance, works everytime | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 06:39 PM |
| 26 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.False, I whip out my dick on bus and do the helicopter-dick dance, works everytime | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to Become The Master of Your Motivation - what I learned from being too afraid to approach girls, and terrified of pursuing my dreams"this stuff was no longer tied to my identity in such a fundamental way" I guess that is what I'm trying to achieve and pondering for a quite a while now. I hit a plateau in dating life recently eg. not really dating any new girl. Im not satisfied in my romantic life one bit which logically mean I should be approaching more woman. However, this few months I have been investing more energy into other area of my life rather than meeting woman. This makes me question is it because I'm worn out by w… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Lose all your guilt of doing pickup. DO NOT FEEL GUILTYlast sentence was cringy, don't say it's a new science. It's just human nature to approach people you find attractive, it's only few dare enough to do it But yea was a nice post of reminder, don't care what people say, it's your life live it the way you want to. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 11:51 AM |
| 3 | My oneitis has me depressedJust commenting saying I know that feel too well man. Felt like I wrote this post. Stay strong try out new things and indulge in your passion, approach other woman , find a girl who gonna fell head over heels for you. Best of luck we gonna make it brah :) | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 11:32 AM |
| 2 | How to Become The Master of Your Motivation - what I learned from being too afraid to approach girls, and terrified of pursuing my dreamsSo how did this applied in you dating life?after addressing the real issue ( fear of loneliness etc) how did it eventually push you to take action | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?Self-amuse mentality right? Haha I get it thanks for the reminder. True that I have tight schedule this month but when I'm free I'm gonna try hitting the club and have fun , thanks a lot I need it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?I guess the reason I wrote this is sometime I see a girl I like but I'm not in her “gang" . I have urge to cold approach her instead of normal way cuz it feel like it going to take forever to go the "warm approach" way, get to know her friend and shit. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?True that..I know its basic knowledge at this point of game but I'm in a rough spot I need to hear it from a someone | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?So my best bet is to hit the club while I'm here, how can I hit the club without blowing too much of my money..haha sorry if I'm whining I'm seriously in need of some advice | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?Yea but I study in a small campus 2000+ people..would you have done it? Not challenging just sincerely asking here. Edit: I have actually cold approach few girls (10-20] rookies number whatever , few successes but got worn out by it eventually... if only my campus population was bigger [fuck sounds like km whining] | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Finding women you're happy and open with?I feel you...I met one few months ago. She was amazing..not perfect but I connect with her emotionally, then I turn needy and drove her away. Oh well lesson learned I'm currently dating few woman's now but still...yea the emotional connection was not the same man...maybe one day..I don't know LOL..(this more of my own rant than helping) | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Don't know if a girl could be attracted to me.Bro not sure if you can help me but what if I have small amount of success, but eventually the failure just weight in too much. Eventually you just got tired and opt out of the game. Not that I gave up on seduction or anything just that I feel spending my time on things that matter now, study and my hobby (dancing and guitar). Now once a while I will meet a fucking cute girl in campus I feel I want approach but I chicken out if she reject me its gonna be a joke (cuz I study in a small campus). B… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?Quite a FAQ but still...what do you think about cold approaching in small environment, say campus. If theory stand true, out of ten woman one will be interested...that mean out of 9 girl that reject me if goes wrong I will be seen as the pickup guy. Prolly best bet is to hit the club but I don have the money to play night game. Ordering drink in bar and club is costly idk if I'm making excuse here | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 02:19 PM |
| 2 | kinda need help with a semi romantic issue.If it's gonna make you feel better, human are complicated being, u may did everything right and she may flake even after all the connection you guys had built. Some stuff may had happen in her life, her ex showed up, or she doubt her feeling for you. Whatever, its outside your control. Best advice is go for other girl for now, you will feel hurt by this apparent silent rejection from her but take note its going to make you stronger. If she want to contact you she will be the one to initiates con… | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 05:11 AM |
| 1 | My Confidence is too damaged for me to ever get a Girlfriend.Find a therapist, are u in college? Campus usually have licensed counselor u can talk to. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Oneitis is disturbing meBro happens to me, I'm a slow bloomer. I improved and learn a lot from oneitis. Just saying you dealt the situation better than I do. Keep it up man :) Funny thing of oneitis is no matter how much you read about how to prevent it. You will inevitably fell into it. But when you do you learn from it and rise and become a better man | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | My fundamentals of gameGonna try more on indirect negging, nice shit favourited | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Getting out of the "friend zone" worth it or no?Here's my advice, do not love this girl. See it this way, u think she's cool and would be nice if you guys can further develop feeling and shit. But u only been on one date with her, there are still inherently many things u don't know bout her. She could have multiple personality disorder or a crazy bitch for all u know. I'm giving you a perspective here, u have fell for this girl. If not you wouldn't be asking for advice around this section. Admit it. Now however , you need to pull back. Do wha… | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Went on date but she said I see u as a brotherI will sit back and observe the situation for now, I hate to say this but I really aDore this girl, I will try out and see where it goes, I would regret if I let her go , but I'm ready to prepare for the worst | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Went on date but she said I see u as a brotherHurt,pain anger, questioning myself what went wrong i did all the thing in textbook,Kino her, push pull, tease her sexually, but turns out isn't enuf. Im okay now, I went out to club dancing m worry away, met some new people (guys and girls) , its OK I learn my lesson not to fall too easily next time. | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Have I messed up?What done is done, next time hold her hand then slowly build tension. | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Explain me this phenomenonDon't rate your friend appearance LOL What da fuck. | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 06:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First date in over a year. Feedback wanted.I think u did good. Just pointing out you're just nervous. Just say “sorry I'm just nervous, " next time. It will make the situation less tense. She likes you, don't overthink, you'll do fine. | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 06:37 AM |
| 3 | "Can't" do pickup anymore. Need adviceYou either leave her or you stay with her. Or you would go out your way to take care of this child and flirt/pickup on sideline to stroke your ego. | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Heading toward the friendzoneWell you cant undo the past, not a big fan of texting but like you said, ask her out again and be more sexually confident this time, hold her hand intimately, look her in the eye , compliment her eye. Just to put thing in perspective you can't control how she feel for you, just do what you can and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How To Have An Interesting Conversation With Anyone, When You Can't Think Of Anything To Say [xpost from /r/socialskills]I rather stick to boring conversation, this may sound interesting but in long run it's gonna hurt you. You'd be so obsessed in asking thw right question it's gonna make you very disconnect with just having normal conversation. Chill the fuck out and just talk, lol | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 06:17 AM |
| 1 | [Help] Being emotionalLegit but not easy, a year into pickup I still have this problem, I sympathetise your situation but don give up. Keep working you'll find your answer | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 12:41 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Pulling an Aussie girl, k-closed but failed to take her home.I'm bothered by post like this, what makes you think bedding a girl who has a boyfriend is a good thing? | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | [Help] Being emotionalAlso invest more of your time into passion and hobby. Work on your goal. When woman is just the leisure thing you do on sideline you'll be less invested | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Learning how to fail gracefully could be the keySorry late reply was busy with school work, yea I had but it was with an older woman. She was drunk and all no fun. Depend on the girl, there are date where the giRL is too quiet, lost interest and dont feel like escalating, there are date where I feel there is chemistry so I go for it. But more often than not we just became friends, still learning. I think this is thw advixe you are looking for http://www.doctornerdlove.com/fix-dating-frustration/ I would prolly throw in some 2 cent here and th… | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How Far Do You "Let Things Go?""Sounda like you're playing a win-lose mindset” wooowwww shit nice interpretation there homie. But yea I agree gotta take it light heartedly | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to ask a girl her age?I always go for , "you look like a friend of mine , she's 18" or if she's a MILF and I'm acting sly and said " you look like...25 ?" Point is don't ask directly , most girl will give u the answer | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | if a girl is very comfortable with you touching her but doesn't touch you back, what does it mean?Speaking from experience religious girl tend to act like that. At least the one I dated. Secretly they are horny being just like anyone else and they yearn for touches and affection. Due to strict upbringing they are told sexual feelings is a sin. So her being a Muslim is definitely a huge reason why you are not getting any "touch back*, she will be acting very passive | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | If you hate trying to meet girls in bars and pubs, I'm sharing a few left field places that worked for meI guess its the nothing-to-lose mentality, approaching from street is in state of anonymity. She doesnt know you if things work out great, if it doesn't no big deal you won't see her again. Classes though are different, one wrong move and it would be awkward for both of you and you would be seeing her again gasp | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Do women actually like being cold approached?Not that I disagree but I found a lot of mix message overtime, I got woman who smiles at me turn out she's only being friendly and I got woman who had resting bitch face to whom I approached anyway turn out later on went on dates with me. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:50 PM |
| 1 | First impression is everything, but what if you messed upThanks I think you're right | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How to game in a small town?Which small town is that if I may ask? | /r/seduction | 25/02/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Yea that's a nice metaphor u made a fair point | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 11:09 AM |
| 4 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.I definitely believe he live his life better than mine, but can't help but to feel this sort of lifestyle has it deadline, you can only enjoy so much before you hit the wall. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 05:53 AM |
| 14 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.More like red flag | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 05:51 AM |
| 1 | weak text game?I felt like I wrote this post lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem maintaining the interaction.Not exactly , a big percentage of pickup game comes from your body language, dancing is part of body language. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 12:53 PM |
| 5 | What's your story of going from 0 to 100 in womanizing?There's a lot but one thing I realize I have a better control over my negative emotion. When I get rejected, I have urge to fap every now and then when I have no result with woman. Eg. girl flaked last minute , girl lost interest after few dates. Seem harmless but it leads to a spiralling loophole of bad behavior, porn binge, low self confidence, porn watching habit also objectify woman, Now when I experience negative emotion, I let It flow through, I can bounce back when I fell. I can look them… | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 12:36 PM |
| 1 | What's your story of going from 0 to 100 in womanizing?Like saying "fuck you have a sexy ass" even when you're socially aware it is not the place and time for it? Not joking sometime I felt the urge to say it but it is daytime and I haven't build enough rapport with her yet. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 12:19 PM |
| 4 | "I'm better looking" as my default response to "I have a boyfriend". What do you think?LOL username checks up | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 01:54 PM |
| 1 | "I'm better looking" as my default response to "I have a boyfriend". What do you think?"yea I figure it a girl like you shouldn't be single " if you want to be more playful "well let me know when u are single " | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 01:52 PM |
| 1 | [Story] Went out for Valentine's Day. First V-Day ever.You will, keep practicing, one day brother | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Talked to too many girls in college that I've on several occasions hit on them again without remembering them. Am I taking this too far?Please dont repeat my mistake College game is very different from normal pickup, see firstly how big is your campus? Around 5000 population? Or more than that, an easy rule of thumb is how often do you see the same person everyday? If you live in a big campus (maybe around 50,000) you're safe. Maybe continue ur game. But seeing from your post I guess its not very big, u said ur crush heard about you hitting on random chicks, so words go about really fast huh? Fact is your action will have conseq… | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:27 PM |
| 2 | The Game is very drainingthis | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:11 PM |
| 3 | ejecting earlyThe concept of ejecting early was to "end at a high note" as in u want her to have a last good impression of you after you get her contact. I see that you're fearing you would run out of thing to say? Maybe try pushing yourself everytime from typical 3 min to 5 , 6, 7 and slowly prolong conversation from there. Good luck | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] What a strange dateShe's just not the type that kiss on first date? | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:05 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo Friday nightYou need a right type of friend for that, I did that few weeks ago hitting club with a good friend of mine. I mean I like my friend and all but he just isn't the party kind of guy. Considering getting a better wingman next time | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Don't know whom to talk to @clubQuick question, I thought the club is a very loud place? How do you guys talk with all this loud banging music? (Totally oblivious to nightscene) | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 04:43 PM |
| 3 | "Get better, not bitter" - becomes seemingly harder and harderI really understand, if I could choose I rather spend my time more on my studies, friends whom I care, my guitar , my dancing ,my gym. But NOOOOO fucking hormones is raging inside me, spending hours energy into thinking how to get that girl, how to get good opening, obsessing when to go for the touch, all the thoughts of how to get a k close with her. Sometime I just want to be a monk lol | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Why so many guys are doing it wrong, because you've only addressed half of the game with "self-improvement".Yes please I also really want to know | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 12If she's (the yoga teacher) is in an unhappy relationship why don't she just breakup? Sorry maybe there's a complex reason behind it ? I just don't understand. Either way the storytelling was interesting | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 11:08 AM |
| 1 | I feel so shitty after every (failed) interactionBeen applying this and have a lot of nice interaction because I'm not really seeking anything, but there are times deep in night I wished I could push a bit more getting to know the individual(girl) better. | /r/seduction | 19/12/16 07:27 AM |
| 1 | 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 10Hey this is really inspiring brother keep doing what you doing | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?Sadly I'm that desperate fucker who have that deep seated mindset of seeking validation, working on that | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?Thankfully I only did that on number of girls, shit I can only imagine what happen if I didn't seek your guys advice | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?That makes a lot of sense thanks | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?I think is something like not ask typical question like example " which course u from?" But rather " hmm you look like the creative type, you study architecture?" Which I tend to fall to sadly :( | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?Yea it's my current goal actually I will see what opportunity I can sack | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?Thanks I just like to here seddict opinion on this, got it, can I still approach just being friendly not trying to get number or anything? | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?I'm Malaysian, yes local University here are cheap, but I'm studying in private Uni which is a bit more costly but still cheap compare with other famous international campus here. Yea you do you brother what doesn't kill you makes you stronger | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?Exactly what I was thinking, I will make up time to go outside my campus area and practice elsewhere, thanks i just need reassurance :D | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?I re-read what you wrote and it make a lot of sense, thanks I will keep reminding myself this. Hopefully i can practice to become more 'natural' | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?Wow that fucking sucks, I'm no American but I heard stories like that. really make you lose hope in humanity. Hope you in better place now emotionally | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?I'm trying my best to work on all this, haha thanks a bunch | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?I mean meeting "potential partner " outside of social circle is considered outside the norm here, normally they do it by third party and stuff. Whadya mean it killed your first year there you mean sleeping around damage your reputation?haha | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How many failures before you finally started getting good at "the game"I thinking of doing it, field report. Man my story going to sound cringy but whatever ! | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How many failures before you finally started getting good at "the game"I'm currently doing one girl a day, sometime 3 depending on my time and mood, is that OK? | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How many failures before you finally started getting good at "the game"I actually planning to buy it. I'm a college student so moneY budget is an issue and the currency exchange stuff lol. But I definitely plan to buy it ad my Christmas present haha ! | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 12:26 PM |
| 1 | How many failures before you finally started getting good at "the game"This may be late reply but yea I only approaches girl, some closing but nothing leads on after that. Pathetic I know but I'm in a country where pickup is not a common scene here so understand my hesitation from time to time. Then again I recently I got back to my pickup game, as in talking to at least a girl everyday. Some good some bad. I'm trying my best | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Starting to get really frustrated as I see so many people get into relationships and have hookupsI just want to acknowledge I'm in the same place with OP and don't think I can give any legit advice. But like any good friend who just wanna help a brother out, a good way to think is stop looking at people success. You're being too hard on yourself and this mentality is not good in the long run. Be your own best friend. Imagine if a good friend of yours come to you with this problem. He was bitter ,sad and feeling helpless. What would you do? Treat yourself like how you would treat him, be emp… | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Starting to get really frustrated as I see so many people get into relationships and have hookupsif I only had friends to give me critique. Picking up girls is a foreign concept to them ,seddict is the only few place I turn to when I have problem with woman 😢😢 | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | A problem that I have never come across before regarding women of different nationalities.What are you trying to ask here, seems like everything is going in your favor. Something you odd to know Malaysian woman are not used being picked up so they may not know how to respond to your advance. If I were you just keep talking to her and see where it goes. Good luck | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 02:40 PM |
| 2 | A problem that I have never come across before regarding women of different nationalities.I feel like I could use this advice , less thinking more action | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A problem that I have never come across before regarding women of different nationalities.Malay who are born and raised in Malaysia will enter Islam by default. If she's Christian I would assumed she is Chinese, but there are also ethnic like Bidayuh, Iban with darker skin. You can tell by their skin color and ('hint' eye ) . There are exception of multiracial, is she from the East side or West side of Msia? If East I would assume she is Dayak. You may used this to your advantage, get to know her guess her ethnic, it will show your interest in getting to know her I don't know how wil… | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I have never had a girlfriend and do not know how to start dating.Not OP, but I have numbers of female friend but never been close to them, I think I may subconsciously avoiding being too friendly in fear of falling in love with them, any advice? | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Pls Help Me FASTLmaoo | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Need Motivation pls helpI have close guy friends (1-3) but they all know their SO through friends or studying, so the thought of getting to know a girl through cold approach is a foreign concept for them. Going solo all the time is tireing. Sounds like I need new friends😂😂 Yea its all number games. I don't mind failing if the interaction was fun... I'm just trying my best to improve my interaction with woman. I want to feel comfortable towards the opposite sex, sure is tough. Guess I need a step back for a while. Thank… | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | My friends and I came up with a really fun and easy way to crush AAI wished I can join you guys I need friends like you haha | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Need Motivation pls helpThanks for reply, I can work for either, sorry if it sounds beta but my current goal is I would just like to take a girl out on date and I'm good. I'm a Chinese living and studying in East Malaysia, where it's a bit more conservative as in the word FB , one night stand doesn't get thrown around often ad compared to West. | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 01:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejected, 30 mins later succeededI wish I had your spirit, after 1 to 3 rejection I always felt beat up and tired to try again | /r/seduction | 13/11/16 05:52 PM |
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