There is this concept **nihilism**, a philosophical thinking where life is essentially **meaningless**. I'm not a fan of such belief but a little dose of it does help in game, it helps eliminate any ego -attachment feeling, when you play like there is nothing to lose, your chances of success in pulling a girl improve.

Few weeks ago I was visiting a town, I pulled a milf from a street where I just do small leading, since it was evening time and she was just walking around. I invited with excuse get to know each other, bought some soda drinks from 7/11 proceed walked to some tourist spot,we talked and suddenly I say *I'm tired let's go to my hotel we can rest there*. Once we reached my hotel room she refuses to sit on the bed with me, a *LMR scenario*. So I persist talking for few minutes while she was sitting on the sofa ,15 minutes later I said "ok let's go now it's late" , as she was leaving i push her against the wall then started kissing her, she resisted at first then she started to kiss me back, tongue shoving action, hand reach in her shirt , next thing I know she said "Turn off the light" and rest is history.

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Point is I was playing like **there is nothing to lose**, probably cause I was on vacation that time and the thought of never seeing her again and i went fuck it, and well, fuck her I did. But if scenario changed she was in my city I might think " I wanna see her again I can wait."<and if that happen i may never have sex w/ her. I believe it is almost impossible to play to extreme end of "I HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE", example in social situation it's probably best to play safe, but in most cases pickup, seduction with woman that is not your mutual friend, I say go ""nihilism"", you might thank yourself one day.