This is something I realize over my 2 years of dating life, I heard many kind of different compliment from girls I have dated. Some is "you're so brave, I never had guys approaching me in library " "you're different, you don't text much" "I never kissed on first date before, you're different"

Now once or twice I may just brush this compliment off, but when I started dating really hot girls this year and yet I hear them complimenting me saying "I'm different" I just realise how under utilised all this seduction technique is and how many guys out there are clueless about this even very handsome good looking one.

So if you guys are learning beginner or intermediate, I say this learning seduction technique will pay off big time. U just have to stay on course an ingrained this inside of you. And if you are just started learning I shit you not it will pay back eventually.

Some of the general rule I follow 1) don't text much, too many guys are stupid overtexting girls, you should be a man of purpose doing your shit and getting things done. Texting is primary used to set date and that's it.

2)be willing to push her away - too many guys are being Mr nice guy complimenting every chance they had, sometime you have to tease the girl. Think of her like a little sister. Saying stuff like "oh god I can't take you anywhere" "you're cute, like a little sister" "omg did you just insulted my music taste, go away bye". Be a challenge and girls love it.

3)be spontaneous - if you suddenly feel like taking your date or instant date somewhere else like kissing in backalley, spinning her around when in middle of street, do it. The urges inside,that childish instinct is what a lot of adult had suppressed over the years. Childlike behavior when done in right moment are very attractive. I have girls saying "I feel like 18 again". So there a lot to it. In terms of pickup say u met this girl at a club, say ridiculous stuff that doesn't make sense "are you as young as a 12 year old girl? no, i see but can you say " daddy i'm 14 year old good girl can you punish me?" fuck around find your canned line.

4) be grounded - sometime you don't have to talk much, look her into eyes. Sometime even just pull her in closely don't say anything and stare at her for few second, then back away and just smile. Those masculine behavior of not scared to show your desire for her is a turn on. You have to let her know through subcommunication you been with a lot of girls before and I know what I'm doing. This alpha male grounded behavior is something most guys missed out instead they just keep pleasing and pleasing the girls till they lose interest.

I know the tips I given is a bit scrambled about. But I believe there's enough article and books, video out there to guide you guys. The general advice is this. If you're learning seduction you're better than most guy out there, I'm a average looking guy and manage to outwit good looking guys out there. So keep learning boys, be willing to try and keep learning, fail and learn better. The journey is beautiful