I owe it to you guys so I think I will write what I had learn over the years. A lot of time I realize I would have a shot with a girl, but because of unfamiliar territory you are thresholding you prefer to end the set quickly and move to other set maybe because Eg. 1 you told yourself this is warmup set so let's end before things get ugly Eg.2 you told yourself he's just being friendly anyway let's end this find other girl.
Too often I guess we are our own worst enemy. In pickup people alwaY's preach persistence. So as long the girl is #1 there with you and not really trying to leave #2 complying to your question and still putting in effort to conversation. There is still, I repeat, still a chance you can turn the attraction around and make her like you. So persist in doing so as long you are being congruent, own your masculinity, make the conversation flow avoid the generic question as much as possible, connect with her emotionally. There is still a chance.
Sometime you don't need a girl to be all giggly and shit to really say "oh shit she wants the dick". No. Sometime all you need is just the kind "hmm well he's seem interesting but I'm not that interested yet, I will listen to what he has to say".
I met this girl while I was out shopping alone, I was in kinda bad mood but I said fuck it. Approach her, and she was scared for a second. Instinctively I told her "I'm not trying to sell you anything I just thought you look good I wanna say hi what's ur name" and let the conversation flow from there. When I said she's cute , she gave a bit of urk facial expression. I was bout to leave but for some reason I kept talking. Mainly I think I was just honestly want to find out about her. This ties back to the part being congruent, because I am talking from a place of really want to know her. So her reaction to my compliment doesn't faze me much. Some reason we just kept talking, and I leading. One thing led to another we went for bowling and finally with solid number close. How's a solid number close? When the girl double check the number she gave to you " did you enter my number correctly?" :)
Not claiming to be expert but all the pickup stuff I learn along the way really helped me. Being empathy, being able to Kino comfortably, sense humoe Yada yada.
The conclusion to my post is, please do not leave the set too early. I did it so many time in the past telling myself shit I don't think she's interested. Welp time to go. Or well I got to know her now I can just get her number and leave. Don't quit early. Do persist. So as long she's sticking around, she's giving you a chance, show it to her, show that you are a fun guy to hang around, show her youre not perfect but you're a fuckin cool guy. The persisting attitude can turn her impression of you from "he's just a stanger I met on the street" to " I want to meet this guy again" end of rant.
[–]GameAndGains 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]SocialReject101 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]GameAndGains 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link