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Generally yes. That id how nature works. Persistence and perseverance will prevail. That is why you have to work to spread your seed or be left in the gutter for everyone to forget.
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:17 PM
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If you were happy with yourself and you got results from being passive your post would be encouraging others to do the same. Instead you question it obviously because nothing of importance has happened to you that would justify this type of approach. Now you seek encouragement here from people that will tell you to keep doing this (and keep failing). Maybe someone will approach you. But you are really missing out on many options while sitting there and not being proactive because you want to liv…
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:14 PM
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Not if you start approaching instead of taking OPs route of just sitting calmly and doing nothing. Average guys havd it on hard mode. Want to procreate? Act !
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:03 PM
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Nope, you are just deluded without presenting any counter arguments. Also you are too pussy to approach a woman thinking that you can just sip martinis and women will do all the work for you. The fact that you made this post already gives us enough info to tell that you are a. Not that physically attractive b. Are of low social value Good luck in your fantasy world
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:57 PM
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Yes, sexy shy guys
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:39 PM
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You are just coping heavily. Admit that you are too pussy to approach. Sexy shy guys are succesful.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:55 PM
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You don't need to get noticed. You are trying to find shortcuts and excuses not to be proactive and approach yourself. If you are average or ugly and have no social value you can do almost anything you want to get noticed and women will not approach you or in worst cases you might get reported lol. You have to approach or have high social value. You can stay silent at one spot and enjoy the evening but as soon as you see someone you are interested in you have to approach. You don't need to becom…
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:05 PM
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How is he an asshole towards them? They use stinky and probably illegal substances and the smell bothers him. They are probably loud as well. Get fucked, junkies. I smoke weed too and consider myself a degenerate at this point so you have nothing on me. It can mean nothing. What is your deal anyway, you are not a part of that equation
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:21 PM
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Have to agree with the other guy. If you are not physically attractive or socially valuable your silence will be taken as insecurity to speak rather than chill attitude. Anyway, women will not approach you
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:15 PM
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Unfortunately this. That is why sex is basically a primal necessity in Maslov's hierarchy of needs that comes before confidence. Here we have to work top layers first to get to lower ones which is counterintuitive. It would be like to have a need of self fulfilment in art in order to be able to develop an appetite for a burger. Idk maybe my analogy sucks
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:28 PM
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I meant with her specifically - more 'no sex' than 'sex'. Good for you for spinning plates.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:22 PM
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Start approaching other women and don't talk to her that much just keep a friendly vibe.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:24 PM
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This entire sub is putting pussy on a pedestal while furiously coping through "be yourself, better yourself but not for women" mentality. World revolves around pussy whether you like it or not. Only way is to manipulate your way through it and mitigate damage done to your confidence in this competition.
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:29 PM
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Well listen to other guys saying to reschedule some time later and be aware to not get catfished.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:29 PM
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Ask her if she believes in witchcraft and magic. When she denies it, tell her you believe in magic and paid hefty amount of money to reverse the spell put unto you by African penis stealing sorcerer that shrunk your penis to 3 inches. If she doesn't ask how big it was before she doesn't give a shit and you need to invest in building more rapport. If she asks, you tell her the spell reversal will be complete this night, fingers crossed.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:13 PM
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You were obviously too late. It was like lighting a match and you let it burn out before putting it in tinder. You should have given time and location before going into radio silent mode for several hours. She has a smorgasbord of dudes lined up , some of them probably set up dates while you were doing what you were doing.
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:52 AM
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Read the rules. There is a sidebar covering basic questions
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:47 AM
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Your cocky comes off as fake Your laid back comes of as disinterested You got game but you are not attractive enough (probably looks wise) for them to salivate around you and blow your inbox. Not trying to offend. Go on with the laid back approach and show some more engagement by setting up a date rather than relying on text convos.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:08 AM
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I think you are vibing pretty well.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:47 AM
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Yes, have other options. Sounds like she has some too. From what you wrote I understand you are not having sex more than having it.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:11 AM
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Stop acting gay. Read what u/MrBlack_ wrote here and go bang her
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:53 AM
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You don't escalate. You just withdraw yourself from communication slowly and stop responding. Sounds like she is an attention seeker and probably has someone on the side as well or is monkeybranching
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:49 AM
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Seen enough socially calibrated dudes with good eye contact and smiles that brought guys and girls around them only later to get blown the fuck out by a girl he tries escalating on later only for her to approach some random dude and go with him home. Countless times.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:24 PM
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No. She was just attracted to you. Doesn't matter whether you ignored her or not. Of course if you went full on clingy manbaby creep she would buzz off.
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:56 AM
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I still imagine it being a good possibility to happen
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:09 PM
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What do you usually do if she doesn't comply when you tell her go sit over there like she starts asking questions?
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:04 PM
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Female has to choose the best option for her to mate. A male has to present himself as the best version for her to accept his seed whether it is through looks, courtship, social status, or other factors. Some have it easy, some have to struggle to get their genes passed down. Others will never have a chance to do it. You are somewhere inbetween. Will you give up?
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:16 PM
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He probably has non-needy aura and seems absolutely on his own and comfortable to be around with. That doctor can be an outlier or she has some severe insecurities or abandonment issues we are not aware of that she has to latch onto some unattractive dude so that he loves her and doesn't leave her
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:53 PM
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When your peepee don't work.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:54 AM
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Smoking gives you additional ways to socialize. E.g. in a bar or club if you go out for a smoke you can hit it up with a girl or guys who smoke too and it is not weird because you share the same activity. I quit smoking for 7 years and started doing it again a couple of months ago. Much more options to socialize. But it is bad for your health. Find a gf and quit that shit. If my post did not answer your question then no, smoking does not boost attractiveness
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:02 AM
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Lets say I am from Baltics.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:57 AM
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Life
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:19 PM
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I am saying they are hopeless here as well for us locals. You are an outlier in these lands
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:06 PM
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I wouldn't be so sure. Foreigners give off their own vibes. Your name might give you away, your bio or even quality of pictures and setting. I can tell most foreigner girls from Tinder. Maybe USA is indeed a shithole for OLD but this place is not that much better.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:42 PM
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He wasn't that ugly. He was very very average.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:51 PM
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You are having a foreigner bias. Eastern Europeans dream of running away with a foreigner. They are extremely picky and bitchy towards their own.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:57 PM
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Reported. Downvoted
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:11 PM
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It is needy and comes from insecurity. Low quality women will probably take the bait. You can take stories of food, wine places you visit without explicitly telling anyone it is a date. That way you show you have stuff going on but not necessarily shove in everyone's faces that you have a date. If chicks ask you, who you went with, you can say it was a date and that is it. You don't talk about what is happening on your dates with other girls
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:08 PM
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Immature and insecure ones like fighting. Normal girls like feeling of safety. Fighting someone might bring that but most of the time it brings unwanted attention and possible repercussions and even damaged reputation because people don't want to be associated with brawlers and partypoopers therefore taking away that feeling of safety. Dissolve the conflict with confidence and ability to convince someone to apologize or to piss off. Generally insecure pussies that overcompensate their lack of ot…
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:25 AM
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I am average looking and live in Eastern Europe and swipe right around 30% of profiles. 6 years ago I got many matches and multiple dates. Recently I got some proffesional photos and decided to try Tinder once more. In 2 weeks I got 6 likes. Only thing that changed is that I am 33 years old now. The app is absolute trash.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:26 AM
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Waiting for that one seddit user who will tell you to ask permission for a kiss otherwise it is considered sexual assault.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:34 PM
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She probably has hundreds of views and guys giving her immediate validation. You think she is screening if some dudes she has probably no interest in are following her stories. That would only work if she liked you but wanted to play games hard mode.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:28 PM
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chads waiting on the sidelines At least stick to correct blackpill script. Lol
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:28 PM
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Finally some breath of fresh air
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:21 PM
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In most cases it is needy and a sure way to friendzone and screams "Please, rate it. I hope our tastes match" plus there is absolutely no intent.
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:13 AM
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Let her go. She will say 'hello' if she wants to when you see each other in real life. Then you can proceed. Otherwise it is a waste of time. Focus on other chicks
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:09 AM
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Do not feed the troll
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:27 AM
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Downvote and report this troubled individual troll. Once again fresh profile and 4 rants across different subreddits. How can you live like that?
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:26 AM
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You give me vibes of a karma points collector judging by your post volume and history. I have seen you posting different questions here about approaching and its potential trials and tribulations as well and my question to you is - have you even started approaching?
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:17 PM
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Again this Asian with his Ted Bundy seduction techniques. The last part is pure seduction finesse. Mystery would be proud.
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:38 AM
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You have to keep in mind that this is the mindset you will eventually have to develop. No problem to be awkward in the beginning. Just know when to exit the set when it gets too weird and continue onto the next one later, learn from mistakes and keep growing
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:12 PM
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So they are "NO"s? Because usually "NO"s in PUA sphere are the ones who explicitly show disinterest. Many may confuse validation seeking girls with "Maybe"s
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:23 PM
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Comes down to inner game. You dgaf when you are outcome independent and content with yourself in any environment. Imagine judging her whether she is good enough for you to enjoy your true self when you get along. Screen her first. As far as convo starter goes, just ask what she's drinking at that moment and go from there. If that is a good drink, you can compliment her good taste but don't overdo compliments. She has to earn them by investing in conversation.
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:32 PM
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You are giving a fuck and probably pedestalizing them without even noticing it (your body movement, the way you approach and talk). Try to emulate workspace environment. Think of what gives you the energy to be confident there. Maybe the fact that you are comfortable around them and they know you and trust you? It is direct opposite with strange girls. Try giving less fucks.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:39 AM
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Where do validation seeking girls that have no intention to go anywhere fit in all of this? As far as I understand he slid into her DMs and hasn't met her IRL
/r/seduction23/05/22 10:38 AM
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You need to seek help. You have been posting too much gibberish these days from your different usernames.
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:07 PM
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Just messing around. It really depends on who you are
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:50 PM
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Go on dates lol, it is just that easy, bro. Just be yourself!
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:46 PM
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5'5"?
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:37 PM
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Just downvote this shit
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:36 PM
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Okay
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:07 PM
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For starters he should try to put some thought into process from himself as well and stop for a moment and think whether it is useful to say that line over and over again if you get the sane question you can't answer. Be witty or be genuine. Or be both. He is neither at this moment
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:52 AM
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Or you can be the pool boy
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:04 AM
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Why do you say the line if you don't know how to follow up? Is it because you read online that it is a cool line to use? It just seems ingenuine to spit out opinions you can't back up with observations. And women pick up on that.
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:53 AM
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That is what you get when you blindly follow PUA advice and blabber the lines and hit the wall when you have no gameplan to follow up. Now you are doing the same again asking us to extend your script. Think for yourself otherwise you are getting nowhere.
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:41 AM
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By "pulled" I meant for a hookup and subsequent relationship which did not last long as I ended all of them. Some of the girls were disappointed. This will probably not relate to me that much as I have never had one night stands.
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:03 PM
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Can you elaborate,please?
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:43 PM
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No, it's the children who are wrong Well I have pulled a lot better quality women than their offered ones (and even them) so I know my capabilities for now. I am still bad at this but I will not tolerate useless interference and sabotage. You are allowed to think otherwise. I do not care.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:52 PM
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I have already seen this thread couple of weeks ago.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:07 PM
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Simps.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:56 AM
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Well I have those that do not care about my love life. Which is far better than before
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:38 AM
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Not my case. My female "friends" only have criticized my pickiness and have openly sabotaged my pick ups or tried to hook me up with their low value lazy friends. That is why I don't have them anymore. And they were unrelated.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:28 AM
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you'll feel being watched and stuff if you make bigger moves quick So you are going to stall your progress because someone might don't like it or will have questions about it? Wtf, man? It is your life. It is none of their goddamn business how and why you change something about yourself for the better.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:22 AM
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Imagine creating 4 profiles this day and every time posting this in 4 different subreddits
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:32 PM
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Because you are insecure. Don't get naked yourself. Undress her and just go for neck, tits, belly. She will eventually begin to undress you. Should give you a bit more confidence
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:33 PM
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Ah, the Ted Bundy Richard Ramirez bloke.
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:13 PM
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<3
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:45 AM
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Weird flex but ok!?
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:08 AM
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You were talking about Baltics in your post? Sure as hell you did not. You need to take into account cultural differences and history that formed the current society and whether it wants to change. Not going to delve into details but people her not cold approaching each other has more to do with past oppressive regimes than human nature in general. As I said, many women appreciate the cold approach and some of them have formed relationships that way.
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:41 AM
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Just asking a question. Your thread comes deep from within I guess. Either you tried cold approaching/dating coaches/courses and failed or you just have nothing to do but just rant about it. Here in Baltics cold approaching is almost nonexistant and many women want males to approach them sometimes randomly but not creepy. I have talked to many girls about this. Cold approaching should be a complimentary method.
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:31 AM
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Got your first rejections that you cannot stomach, huh?
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:21 AM
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Not reading all of this. Smells like that transgender post troll from couple of weeks ago. Edit: fresh user (created 1hour ago), already posted this in 4 different subreddits . Yup, that is him. Downvoted
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:13 AM
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Pick better ice breakers. The dress one is okay. The other two are weird and without context. Better ask them for directions to some cool coffee shops (you don't trust reviews online) etc. Then you can ask further questions about pricing or variety of drinks. Then you can bounce off
/r/seduction15/05/22 11:02 PM
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Before you say any of these lines take a moment and imagine yourself being a girl who is being approached by a guy and what would these lines sound to you.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:41 PM
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Sexualize and kino
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:23 PM
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Yesterday it was about Ted Bundy from a different username. Grow up or seek mental help
/r/seduction13/05/22 05:15 PM
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You don't need to bring up the age at all. She maybe doesn't care to ask. Hook up and see what happens. If she asks, tell the truth
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:14 AM
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What a cunt. Good riddance. You shouldn't even have tried to ask her what was wrong. It is still investment from you. Don't bend the knee ever again
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:27 AM
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You already posted this 11 days ago and people gave you answers, probably not the ones you wanted. That is why you have negative 50 karma and your post is hidden.
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:23 PM
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I text from time to time Stop texting rubbish and getting chatzoned. You have to ask them out. You are just chatting and asking them to disregard you as a man. This however is a done deal. Find next one
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:13 PM
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For women it is different. Most women secretly desire a male that has a lot of female attention. Don't mention or brag about it. Just live your life
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:26 AM
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Keep bringing fwbs to your back house and keep it just friendly with K and don't overinvest. She is messing you, probably wants you. It is now her obligation to hop on your cock. Do not tell her how you feel anymore. It is her duty now.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:36 AM
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And it's another "just carve your wooden spoons and go to gym and women will sense it and come to you" useless post without context. Why are they upvoted I will never understand. You set goals and achieve them. And you pursue women on the side. If you are an average guy. That is it. No one will come to you unless you have extremely high social status. If you are good looking and not a complete autist, none of that "just work on yourself" shit matters.
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:52 AM
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It would be a sarcastic joke if you didn't mention zero and I was taking a dig at you. That was a short summary of your own comment. Don't get offended, relax.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:32 AM
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0x2=0
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:17 AM
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Shit, I messed up, lol. Depends on her facial expression as well.
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:33 PM
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...but... But what? What did she say at the end?
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:44 PM
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On "Maybe" you train your game until it is a "Yes". Will not work most of the time but you have to do the work.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:42 AM
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Inshallah! Have you grown your jihadi beard?
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:54 PM
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Sorry to hear that. On to the next one!
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:44 PM
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Did she reschedule?
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:22 PM
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Because you are afraid what she and others might think of you if you look her in the eyes or start talking to her. Also you feel unworthy of her. Start practicing casually looking at her and smiling once in a while and just turning back.
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:39 PM
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This is what I am talking about. "Just better yourself,bro, everything will fall into place and she will come by". You will still have to learn how society and women brain works and you will have to approach and get rejected before you get to that mindset "Ok, I am tired of validating myself, something is not right. Let's see if she meets my standarts instead".
/r/seduction04/05/22 05:54 PM
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If you drink alcohol you are yourself. While impaired your true character shows its beautiful or ugly head. Your frame is an act and when you get drunk desperation kicks in. You know what to do.
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:56 PM
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Don't turn ir into a relationship material if you don't want that. A walk in a park or down the street with no sightseeings is a max... on a way go your place or hers.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:33 AM
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Good for you. Maybe find some interest like guitar playing or some sport. Will have your mind busy at least. Then hit on women but don't expect anything. Treat it as a path to success, a ladder that you climb, rather than treating every approach like the ultimate last one.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:13 AM
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You should start with yourself. Get your shit together, find something to do and enjoy life for a while. Being fixated on your lack of success will ultimately push you into the shitty mood and insecurity zone (which you already are in) and women smell it like sharks smell blood in the water.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:44 AM
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Depends on what you want but it is cringy manipulation and not genuine by my very humble standarts. It was nice when it happened naturally.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:10 AM
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That is my guess. Will probably try them and then sell as his own. Well done, indeed
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:03 PM
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He is fishing for tactics for his course
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:53 PM
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I am tired of all those "grind your life away" and a woman will come by meme stories. Beta cope. And it actually makes newbies hate themselves even more because of their shitty position in life after they read it. Even if you get drowned in pussy, good luck getting rid of trash that you don't want and all those manipulative hoes. I will go with "approach whoever you want whenever you want". Confidence and self love is all that matters. You can be a chainsmoking writer with no success in industry…
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:26 PM
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Ignore it. You made a good first impression then. I can feel she is somewhat checking on performance but don't act insecure. Hit her up next time and continue doing these things. If she becomes hesitant, ignore her and let her come to you. If she doesn't, her loss.
/r/seduction01/05/22 11:47 AM
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You absolutely don't understand female logic and point of view of dealing with dudes that approach them. You can have them show intetest in you. Screen for IOI's or wait for them to approach you. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:28 PM
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I will have to agree with u/CocoBabeNYC at least in the confidence part. Your comments here are rash and almost angry. Seems like you are very disappointed at these results. But good work nonetheless. Thank you for sharing with us.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:45 PM
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Learn to tell the difference between an insult and a test and don't be so easily intimidated. Try again.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:41 PM
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Also, judging by the pictures he was dishing his own number as well (maybe after those 40 second interactions). 73 approaches a day sounds tiring. How can you even keep composure after 25?
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:36 PM
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Because this exact question post gets posted almost everyday by the same person under different usernames that get disabled.
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:10 PM
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Sometimes asking for a kiss or telling her you want to kiss her can be sexy but this guy takes the cake. I don't know where he lives (some meetoo'd district) but judging by his comments I wouldn't be surprised if he asked if he can put his penis in her vagina after they were both fully naked. Also, constantly asking for a kiss will ruin your game because you will rely on her answer (even if she gives you one) rather than her body signs which just shows you can't read social cues
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:38 AM
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Asking her out on a date is sexual assault. Kissing her is straight up rape.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:28 AM
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The main objective is to be able to be yourself without giving a fuck. Right now you are not you. You are most likely encapsulated in your self-made shell
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:50 AM
1

Get friends. Open up to them. Learn to slowly release your problems. After some time you should get off some weight of your chest. But don't sob. It will eventually give you the ability to expose yourself. Practice on that first
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:44 AM
1

Do you have anyone you trust except relatives and therapist?
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:39 AM
3

Lets get to the skeletons in your closet. You think you are above anyone else yet deep inside you feel insecure. All that "I am serious" is just a defense and coping mechanism so nobody dares to touch you. You need to open up and become vulnerable. When you learn that, then the next step is not to give a fuck. Then you will enjoy the life and be fun to be around with.
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:32 AM
3

No
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:28 AM
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"No" women don't shit test and just literally ignore you. "Maybe" women will shit test you. "Yes" women most likely won't shit test you unless you break your frame. I still stand by my words. Shit testing is NOT a sign of disinterest
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:00 PM
1

Probably should've come up with some solid brave moves She was seeking an adventure. Hard to tell
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:51 PM
8

Shit tests are not a sign of disinterest
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:50 PM
1

How long is your exam season? Let her know that you both are tired of studying, find one free day or night , initiate a date and just bang her at the end. Then she might be locked at least till your exam season is over
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:31 PM
1

Let me guess. You don't try to initiate anything during that minute. Do you even touch her?
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:25 PM
1

Extremely based
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:03 PM
1

This is a troll poster. Same thread gets posted everyday here
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:56 PM
1

Research situation with nightlife venues around the town. Either find the biggest bar or find chain of seemingly not related bars that have same owners (so you have secured multiple spots) Start going to these places alone Befriend the staff. Come in early hours where there is less customers and they have time to talk. Tip them well and regularly, compliment on cocktail quality, work performance. DO NOT HIT ON THEM. Do not expect anything from them in your favor for a while. Sometimes ask them a…
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:27 PM
3

This. Especially the sentence about chode. Been there, experienced that. Just watch as she gets with some random dude in a couple of days and gives you the classic "It just happened" shitty excuse.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:04 PM
0

Then start building a social circle. Can't really believe you don't have any friends
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:21 PM
3

If what you say is true, the part about being muscular and being above average in looks, you have very little to do to get laid. Just don't be a creep or antisocial weirdo. Just lead them to your favorite spots, make them talk about themselves and invest a lot in interaction while you remain calm and sometimes humorous with occasional smile. Look them in the eyes time from time with a light smirk and thoughts running in your head about you two having sex. Watch them look away in shyness and enjo…
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:48 PM
3

Fresh user, spammed multiple boards with same question that was posted yesterday from different user.
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:34 AM
7

He also approached them with bricks and metal pipes ... while they were asleep
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:16 AM
4

Because the world has to see the best of you.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:14 PM
2

A lot of knuckleheads lately
/r/seduction28/04/22 05:30 PM
1

Or he is in extreme friendzone, basically a buddy brother and she absolutely has no clue he has a crush on her because he has it internalized so much it is beyond comprehension.
/r/seduction28/04/22 05:25 PM
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You just didn't present yourself the right way. We don't know what dynamics were there. Maybe you kissed at her doorstep and bounced off. Most women in most of these situations can't even tell what is wrong. They just feel it and know when they are turned off. You will just come off as needy and put unneccessary pressure on her doing this interview. Tell her you don't want to be friends or that you only have women friends that go to sleep naked with you and leave it and you maybe will have a sec…
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:55 PM
1

For me it just seems too straightforward sexual like you are not valuing her style but the height of those heels that push up her legs and reveal the juicy... anyway, not for us beginners lol unless you like the colour palette of the shoe and you are genuine about it haha
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:29 PM
2

Needs a paragraph where it is explained when you become the clown or the self deprecating butt of the joke in a social setting
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:25 PM
4

You ABSOLUTELY DO NOT go and ask girls for explanations on why they don't find you attractive. Tell her that you are not interested in friendships on Tinder and leave it at that. No explanations, no nothing. If you really want to pursue friendship then go ahead, but I wouldn't waste my time.
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:18 PM
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Complimenting her on high heels (even though you are not complimenting her looks) might come off as catcalling if presented not right (meaning you look average). I would go for more neutral piece of clothing next time.
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:08 PM
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Basically this. It is almost like a charity event but it has its place and function in society and shouldn't be denigrated
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:57 PM
12

Describe the situation. Was the guy hitting on her? Did she introduce you as her fiancee? Jfc people, please write a bit more comprehensive posts. Him talking to her could be nothing and your hamster might be spinning the wheel
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:02 PM
25

C'mon,man. Give us a brief description of the situation not just one move from her. It might and might not be sexual.
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:55 PM
5

A lot to unpack here...
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:54 PM
11

After or before sex?
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:52 PM
4

They want to watch another episode of Jerry Springer with you
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:09 AM
1

Username checks out
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:46 AM
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You crossed the line. If you had posted a pic of yourself only without mentioning her but mentioning the joke, that would be better imho. It would leave her wondering if she is really intended to be a part of your life. You must let her know that she has to EARN your attention. In your situation you were trying to earn hers. She has to be left wondering whether you like her or not. Too much investment in attention too fast with no reciprocation from her spoils it.
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:04 AM
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He had rage induced by jealousy because he felt threatened that he wasn't good enough. He lived with his grandmother while being a neet. As soon as he fixed himself this issue disappeared. Mike Tyson is calm and collected, bro
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:43 PM
2

You were not talking about defense. You literally said you would fuck him up for her. How is she even a part of this equation? If you don't want to fight then ignore her
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:06 PM
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If you have anger issues you have to fix them. I know a dude who found a passion in his life (became a barber) and he stopped being like that.
/r/seduction27/04/22 08:25 PM
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You are the reason normal men and women suffer. First the dude, then the woman who has to endure your jelly ass if she stupidly gets with you. I hope that guy fucks you up so you maybe stop simping.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:53 PM
1

Too competetive environment. I have been mogged too many times. Also by said friends
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:16 PM
1

Thank you for your input. It is appreciated. I hope to hit that 20-30 mark sometime soon and by that number I mean appdoach girls that I really like. I want to have the challenge and don't want to approach randoms.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:43 PM
1

Thank you very much!
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:41 PM
6

Why are you texting her and not asking her out? Either she is just there for attention or is getting bored you are not doing your manly part. Just ask her if she is free this Saturday and set up a date.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:24 AM
1

Yes, I have a long way to go to be considered a man that pulls others towards myself
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:14 AM
2

Yes, I will probably go the way of expressing my interest to 9/10's rather than wait for an IOI from a 5 like myself. Puts me somehow at a better position and gives me a bigger pool to work on but I am ready for that 1/100 success ratio.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:37 AM
1

Ok. I see.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:32 AM
1

I may be oblivious to IOI's during daygame before the approach because women don't check you out as much as they do during nightgame where ogling people is considered normal. I will need at least 2, 3 seconds of eye contact and probably a smile to even consider it an IOI. Ok. Enough with me.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:29 AM
2

Never tried to object the "I have a boyfriend" line and just bounced off?
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:24 AM
1

That is a rather high success rate. Good for you. Never even got a fake number? As to myself, I will go in with much lower expectations.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:35 AM
2

I have multiple female friends and they are very nice people but none of them have even tried to hook me up with someone plus whenever I have mentioned something about it, their answer is that their friends are either taken or I will not be in their taste. Talking about cold approaching - what was your success rate?
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:25 AM
1

Congrats on meeting your wife! College is not an option for me right now because I have gone through that period 10 years ago.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:16 AM
0

I'd rather stay the way I am for a while but thanks for the tip
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:07 AM
0

Relax, it is an expression.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:05 AM
1

Source?
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:05 AM
1

What were your usual cold approach spots that worked well for you?
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:04 AM
0

Alcohol is good with it's ability to rid you of anxiety and giving that careless attitude but two main drawbacks from that in my experience are : You can not control your movement on escalation ladder and might just misinterpret signals while slightly or heavily drunk You are most likely showing things what you can't do while being sober so you come off a bit fake and that sucks for building a foundation for sonething serious (even if it happens after a simpls lay) Problem with daygame in my exp…
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:11 PM
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I mostly enjoy stuff that isn't usually accompanied by women - pool, hiking. I moved from one part of the country to other. Had to make new friends and the new friends unfortunately/fortunately work in restaurant and bar/nightclub businesses (owners and bartenders + regulars). Most of the time they are preoccupied with work and get wasted a lot too. Those are nightgame grounds and I sometimes have to compete against them and they have this habit of not having any serious relationships as they pu…
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:53 PM
1

Where my Jorah Mormont bros at???
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:04 PM
1

How is your ranking relevant to the question you asked if you didn't give an answer yourself? Attention starved much?
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:58 PM
11

You know what is the best feeling? When you both lock your eyes and you look at her for 2,3,4 or 5 seconds with a thought in your head "I just want her" and she looks down only to look back at you in a short while. This gives me such a confidence boost. Best feeling.
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:43 PM
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Unless you have encountered a near death experience or rape/harassment accusations or developed a mental illness while watching strangers in the eyes I call the first part of the post "I used to be..." a larp
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:04 PM
1

Google 'Apocalypse opener'. I haven't used it as I usually don't stay in venues until early morning,but you might try it out.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:33 PM
2

Zzzzzzzzzzzzz
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:00 AM
2

Still we need context. Roasting implies most of the time that it is being done in front of other people. Edit your post, give us a quick rundown
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:57 AM
4

I don't really dig that mirroring thing. Can become too obvious that you are playing a game after a while. I would probably respond with a short "I like to lead" and just leave it at that. If she doesn't respond, move on. If she avoids mentioning the meetup and doesn't continue with a buildup for a date (like gives exact day when she is free, asks for location or something) but instead goes for chitchatting or irrelevant questions,you just ignore her.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:53 AM
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If someone doubts this strategy then it is actually used by fraudsters and con artists on their potential victims to build trust (WE will make good money; together WE are a good team; WE can do this) Obviously here the premise and objective matters whether you use it in ulterior motives or not. I still like it.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:08 AM
1

You could also be friendzoned for years and misinterpret her walking over you or just friendly bantering with a shit test. Too little information
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:03 AM
1

I don't know. Maybe I framed myself incorrectly then and there but I had options. And I exercised them - got tired of her insecurities and just left. Still doesn't change the fact that I did not enjoy her tests of reassurance aswell.
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:35 AM
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Thank you for your comment. My post is more about challenging shit tests which I want to ignore from now on. I haven't experienced blatant disrespect yet so I am fine. One note/question on comfort tests. I have seen people that claim to have experience that you should always let your woman feel that you have options and you can leave a relationship if she misbehaves but how do you balance things out when assumptions like "you have chicks on the side" start to arise and you tell her "that she rig…
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:06 AM
1

I don't know how well I can describe it but it is a feeling when she asks, says or does something that makes you feel like someone is trying to pull you out of your own self or questions your ability of being a healthy human being. Normally it got me startled whenever a girl would pull something like this when I was young and I didn't know what to do. Probably the most explicit shit testing was when one girl who I was having FWB relationship with would constantly comment how I am probably having…
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:38 AM
1

I need to master my look so it doesn't look too condescending. What are your usual and most unusual reactions from women when you ignore their tests?
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:45 AM
2

Start calling her 'baby' but in a sexual way not comparing her to a toddler
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:32 AM
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I am a virgin. But props to you for your bragpost
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:56 PM
1

Big love*
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:13 PM
1

You have a good nickname. Feel the same way about your life!
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:02 PM
3

Say that you have a boyfriend too. If she tells you she really has one or after the joke the convo seems dying on her part, wish her a good day and exit the stage.
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:03 PM
3

Built a circle from zero to around 40 people in 4 years. Bar staff, regulars, their friends. But it takes a toll on your health. Most of these people own the places and very rarely have time to get outside of that environment. We have parties, I have helped them with business etc. Buikds your confidence and lets you feel like a fish in the water in those environments
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:21 AM
4

only 10 minutes Be happy you have a guy that can last that much. Most of us are two pump chumps lol
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:12 PM
4

Comment of the year
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:28 PM
3

I really hope you don't buy them drinks on the regular without same attitude from them and have befriended all of them(you say that she usually invites you) If they are keeping you in the loop and not leaving you alone there, then it is a good group to boost your social value around everyone else if you keep mingling with them from time to time during clubbing sessions
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:19 PM
2

Online dating is absolute garbage for a majority of average dudes. To get women interested you have to have superinteresting life at the very least (travelling, animals, parties, martial arts etc). Many people can't afford all of that to compensate on their average looks. I am not going to fake and stage pics to get matches only to show them that I don't do martial arts. It is equivalent of getting a boob job. Go fuck yourselves. Second issue is there are many good looking dudes being oblivious …
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:31 PM
2

Blobfish
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:24 AM
2

Ghost her first. Cunt (sorry, not sorry) is playing attention games and posting private moments to millions of followers. Get rid of that low life
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:23 PM
6

Wingmanship done correctly
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:44 PM
1

I don't even understand what is "smooth" considered nowadays here. For me it is probably being natural and going with the flow while being yourself and expressing INTENT
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:53 AM
1

Yes. I don't compliment on things I have no affinity for exactly because I hate giving artificial compliments and I would hate to receive them as well. Best you can do is be non judgemental and ask her more questions to get more info hopefully finding something sincere to compliment on.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:52 AM
1

I explained what I meant further below. I am still of conviction that you approach only ones you are attracted to.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:28 AM
2

You know how to depreciate your real estate value.
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:07 PM
1

Men usually do pick up on women they find attractive either to have sex with or to date with a potential for relationship. Some are open about the first part, others hide that and lie to get what they want - these instances should be adressed. And then there are newbies that go on with compliments as best as they can while being told here not to expect results and just train. How else he is going to get over his anxiety? Hardly considered harassment. Don't know which part explicitly stated that …
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:48 PM
1

You used the word 'harassment' to describe the act of random approach even with OP's circumstances mentioned (I didn't see him talking about using sleazy PUA tactics). So I don't see any other way you would tolerate cold approaching
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:28 PM
1

I meant cold approaching. Night or day.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:03 PM
1

As I understand you are against men approaching women no matter what their intentions (honest or not) are.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:43 PM
1

Guy asks an honest question and reveals his insecurities and this is what you come up with? You can do better
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:14 PM
3

You have to identify where is this coming from. Maybe try therapy If not, my advice would be to shift your focus from what you think others might want to what YOU want. Women are people, not gods. They are imperfect, they suck at conversations and many of them actually are gross. Read my last post in my profile. If you want to minimize your anxiety, imagine them doing same gross things we men do.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:15 PM
3

Usually it is the other way around unless you are in high school
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:17 PM
1

Do you enter the relationships without banging?
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:11 PM
1

You should start shifting your focus to what you want (not need) and look at everything from that perspective. If it is a 10/10 chick in looks (not judging you) then go for it. If you want a meaningful relationship,strive for it. You are probably good looking guy already so there is less "hoops" to jump over to get to a date or bed in conventional Seddit sense (I don't like the term "hoops" but it it what it is),so you need to concentrate on probably what u/vardarac said when you have gone furth…
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:43 PM
1

I am a virgin at 33 y/o
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:13 PM
0

Tell her you won't go. But she can let you know when she is available exclusively for you two. You probably haven't built enough attraction so she wants to pull you in her frame. Don't do this. If she ignores you for two or more weeks, just forget about her. If she hits you up but doesn't mention anything about meeting up, don't chat and don't waste your time
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:51 PM
2

How long have you been working in that particular bar? Bartenders, especially those that like fwb scenarios, get addicted to the feeling that they can get more women. They usually tend to have very many options because they grow to be socially intelligent, get hit on a lot because they have higher social value. If she is not your girlfriend or wife or and fwb with exclusive relationship, she will probably get turned on or jealous if she sees you with another woman. Prepare for many confessions f…
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:59 PM
0

English is not my first language so I probably didn't word my comments correctly. I am all about giving value around you. What I was refferring to when I mentioned prey/child was perception of the situation to overcome your initial anxiety. By treating them like a child I meant to do it in your head not in actual convos acting like a dick. It should be helpful at the beginning because in the long run it is absolutely not viable.
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:32 PM
0

I do understand that sometimes it is almost like inevitable to consider woman something else than a goal or a prize if you have to approach. But you can approach considering them as a human being; hunt them like a prey; or at very mysoginistic levels treat them as a spoiled child all while applying fundamental social skills
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:12 PM
1

Thanks for the response. I will think about it when I get back to dating and pick-up.
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:54 PM
2

Women are better at 'emotional intelligence'. In most cases it helps them weed out fakers, liars and attention/validation seekers. If you are honest and non needy you shouldn't have any problem. A sane and normal woman will welcome (give a chance at least to) a scared dude who expresses interest via honest means over a douche that tries to bullshit his way through to get into her panties while acting all serious.
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:51 PM
5

Yes, women get nervous too. This is a sentence I probably should have added in the OP. And I am talking about situations where man and woman are of similar value not where there is an interaction between HVM and LVW
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:40 PM
11

Because it was a clickbait And I ate it up
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:22 PM
5

I would be careful with romance movies. You should wait for someone to name those movies and literally pinpoint the moments you should pay attention to. The movies that I have watched have this terrible premise that needy and outright stalkerish behavior gets rewarded which is absolutely not true.
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:14 AM
1

She might have multiple dudes on rotation and is seeking attention from you. Don't think about her for now. Focus on local chicks. When you are in her state,hit her up and meet up if she is willing to. If not, drop her.
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:29 PM
1

"I am your boyfriend"
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:21 PM
5

Most of them are grifters essentially.
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:37 PM
4

Milking upvotes,eh, lad?
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:39 PM
1

This goes out to all poor chaps that have 'oneitis'
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:17 PM
3

started flirting just for fun Are you an attention starved female? Just ignore her until she backs off or has a meltdown and confesses or shit. Then you can lie once again by saying you are interested in someone else
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:12 PM
1

I am bald. It is frustrating when you have to shave it off every couple of days. When I am completely bald I feel very nice. I can joke that I don't need shampoos and can swipe my head with damp cloth. I am not jacked and don't have a beard (like Dan Bilzerian), feel ok. Generally speaking wonen wpuld not prefer bald men. But if you don't give a shit you might get a gf who will say that you 'got her heart although you are not her usual type' ..
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:08 PM
7

Listen. This could be a bad idea. If you have to do this, you probably will need to go for threesome, because you can't leave the other girl out lol. And you will have to do this all summer and suffer all the drama. They have no abundance (I guess so) so most likely if there is something going to happen you need to let on or the other come at you. If that doesn't come to fruition then too bad.
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:02 PM
2

I get confidence boost when I accomplish some goals related to my self growth - currently these are different problem solving situations at my freelance job that help me get smarter and more experienced. I hear lifting does help. I lifted for two years and didn't feel a thing unfortunately
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:57 PM
1

Marriage
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:17 PM
5

I don't know how did you manage to get to those conclusions and assumptions from OP's post.
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:09 PM
1

This. Always complement the actions not genetics and only do this when you really like the particular thing. If you fake praise and she still goes with it you might later enter places and relationships built on fake premise and you will want to get out of them because you are not satisfied.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:21 PM
6

Autism is a strong drug
/r/seduction04/04/22 09:39 AM
2

If he is not getting the hint when you put his around you then he is probably super timid. Tell him (demand) you want him to kiss you. That should do the trick. If he doesn't comply then either he is too timid or he doesn't like you that much. In both cases you should be better off without him
/r/seduction02/04/22 10:49 PM
12

By talking to other women and drawing your all attention on this crush across multiple other options
/r/seduction02/04/22 10:38 PM
11

Ok, you are fifteen and edgy af. But somehow fail at grabbing up someone else's "sloppy seconds'
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:44 PM
1

Read sidebar. "Cool" pick up lines are not a prerequisite for a successful approach. If you convey confidence about your profession and you are passionate about it but not overly passionate (when you talk about it nonstop) she might still find it attractive because it is a rare occupation. I suggest you to make up some jokes about your occupation e.g. some people have fallen out of the basket to their deaths under your watch. See her reaction and level of engagement and proceed further.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:42 PM
23

celebrity crush Are you twelve?
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:34 PM
4

Pushing someone to do something will force resistance from that person. So your inability to approach is the direct result of your father's actions. What he should have done was picking up or chatting up women to show you how it is done while not vocally acknowledging the fact of his approaches. Just everyday deeds. Of course it bears huge risks if your father was in marriage and probably would create big problems. If he was single,that would be the action to do.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:33 PM
61

These girls are all in relationships Why would you do that? Just forget about them
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:56 PM
1

Because you think it is "going well". You already are too invested. You shouldn't care.
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:11 PM
1

Still no need to lash out at opposite gender (in Minecraft)
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:30 PM
1

You are very weird. Period.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:25 PM
1

Why don't you keep your wallowing in your depression alone and stop dragging everyone down? That would be a good start for everyone
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:21 PM
0

She is holding onto you for attention. Drop her
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:06 PM
1

I am asking OP 🤗
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:46 PM
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One thing that worked out for me was ignoring everything good about her and starting to nitpick on negative things and overblowing their impact on percrption of that person. It helps you de-attach her from yourself. Then pursue other girls and after a while she will be a fading memory and you won't remember that much. The negatives will be gone, the positives will remain but they will not be impacting you that much
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:35 PM
1

Wtf is with these incels filling up this board?
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:28 PM
1

Stop what?
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:20 PM
3

Super high IQ take
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:09 PM
2

I can say only one thing. Don't listen to those who tell you that you have to improve yourself (gym, reading, hobbies, style) and everything will be fine and people will approach you. No,they will absolutely not. This can lead to even worse confidence issues that you already have when you start getting rejected. You will have to work hard. I am giving you reality pill, not trying to demoralize you. For them to approach you,you have to have genuine confidence. I don't know how old are you but I c…
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:09 PM
2

It seems that you don't bring anything to the table to be considered high value. High value is someone who gives value to others without asking anything in return and (most importantly) not expecting anything in return-this has to be sincere with no ulterior motives and this person has to be confident. You can be a megastar that poops out music singles every fortnight and pays for champagne in a club for everyone else or you can be a small time man that has huge charisma and is generally a chill…
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:21 PM
7

Have multiple options. Become a plate spinner but don't go for the low hanging fruit. And don't become an intorelable asshole.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:58 PM
1

Depends on the tone. She was probably seeking validation from you and was interested in your approval hence interested in you. Or completely drunk. Should've told her "Hear , hear, my little hobbit!" and see where that could go. [Edit] I misread OP. Her winning the contest and asking the "Are you proud of me?" were separate occasions. So, most likely she was interested in you and was seeking validation. You could probably agree and amplify by saying e.g. something stupid "You deserve a golden st…
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:36 PM
5

Could be possible. I was holding mine for too long. It just looked atrocious
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:20 PM
5

No, it just looked ugly.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:08 PM
14

Not a mod,but you will get a ban.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:41 AM
5

Women will still go for "good looking = most likely trustworthy" because that is the perception. In their minds good looking people are smarter, more succesful and still deserve to be given a chance. You can't change online dating.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:28 AM
2

I get your point but your are a pissant in an ocean and you won't bring down online dating. What you will do is probably sow doubt in many girls that will further stray away from average males and their date offers. They will still trust "Chad" because of his looks. You are making life harder for men there and reinforcing the thing you want go combat.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:20 AM
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I sent so many girls into the middle of nowhere or to some dead end bus stop like this. What was the point of doing this? You could have just unmatched or ignored them. You already got your proof that looks on Tinder are the primary focus and you get insane amounts of compliance. Sending girls to middle of nowhere just shows how insecure you are and you need to cope with repressed anger. You are not ready for a gf or ONS.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:53 AM
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It will most likely decrease your chances if you don't develop your other aspects. There are a few women that prefer bald dudes. You can grow a beard and get jacked. I am bald at 32 and started shaving just 2 years ago. I am not jacked and I can only grow stubble. I'd say women pay more attention to me because I socialize more and have started giving less shit about anything. If I was as timid as 6 years ago, I'd say baldness would make it worse.
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:51 AM
1

Why do such "advice" posts get so popular? There was nothing told about how to raise your value. Newbies aould like to hear...pro's already know. A bit redundant if you ask me
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:26 PM
9

Not every time. Depends on the situation. You have to follow her actions not words. For example if you see her enjoying herself in your company and she mentions you are not having sex tonight chances are she wants to have sex with you but wants to see whether you will get thrown off guard. If you remain unfazed, you are golden. Some of this behaviour is explained in shit tests. Google it
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:16 PM
0

You simply wish her to get well soon and let her inform you when she is available and you drop her. Sounds not cool,but you shouldn't overinvest over DMs in this age of internet. She might get someone via internet, IG,snap or whatever,who cares. Ask yourself what has she done to earn your attention during her isolation? If you want to lureher out during isolation it might backfire if she is not well adjusted to you - might come off as needy.
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:53 PM
1

Listen to u/Disastrous-Wasabi400 If she is not giving IOI's (I am not talking about being nice in general) you may risk putting her in an unsafe position - she literally has no way to escape if there is no interest or even worse everything is getting awkward. You need to let her have exit options; that is why it is better to chat her up in the open. Women love the feeling of safety
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:42 PM
3

praying Waiting on a field report lol
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:40 PM
1

Do you get results that align with your intentions? If not, start changing your attitude by finding other things to do to lessen the exposure to that one date or if you can't do that then start having more options.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:43 PM
3

Also befriend regulars and bring some of your friends. Change these venues and make them your hunting grounds eventually. Rinse and repeat. If you are not a Chad, this is the way
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:38 PM
3

You have to put yourself in correct mindset and up your confidence levels. If it is a bar you frequent and it is quite packed and popular, get acquainted with staff, bartenders- befriend them. It is needed as a social backup in case you get dismissed or rejected by a girl , so you don't feel completely alone in the environment at first. Later it will be more useful. Befriending bar staff will let you enjoy some perks and build your social value. Don't drain them. Bring value of your own, let the…
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:28 PM
19

Perfecfly good. Gets them curious, little bit of banter
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:01 PM
3

Depends on the situation and uour value in the group but you might save the dude or dudette by amplifying or diverting from the situation in a non awkward way for example if there is some unfunny joke coming from them you might jump in saying something like " I know a similar joke" without acknowledging whether their joke was good or bad. Yours has to be a bit funnier to lighten up the atmosphere. You can try mimicking/mirroring the other person in a non offensive way thus probably giving them s…
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:08 PM
2

Sometimes you need to call someone out on shitty and really agressive behavior. I just don't think this is the case. She wasn't walking over him. Second flake without rescheduling from her side is normally a red flag in most cases with women (if you haven't established yourself as an interesting person to them). If you stay for the third flake that is already your problem. Most girls are 'maybe' or 'no' girls. I wouldn't waste my time trying to distinguish which is which after two flakes so it i…
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:04 PM
2

The word "nice guy" was used in quotation marks. These "nice guys" are known to be assholes, that is why women avoid them like plague. They always hide their intent and get pissy and uppity when rejected, flaked or ignored.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:13 PM
5

Treat me like what? She doesn't owe me anything if she is not interested. Why would she have to reschedule the date if she doesn't like me anymore. She is not even stringing me along or using me. On what grounds are you going to accuse and lecture her on "bad behavior"? You talk like a "nice guy".
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:56 PM
37

Start calling her David. See where that goes
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:51 PM
6

They might not act like her and may even be very decent people but most of women don't want to be around butthurt and highly reactive men. It dries them up pretty quickly. Walking away is the most efficient way to show someone you actually don't care that much and you are not needy. The way you describe this activity as "tucking your tail between your legs" most likely stems from your insecurity and fear of being perceived as a lesser human and loser in that situation because she flaked so that …
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:48 PM
9

The less you invest the better. Blasting her is a butthurt move and makes you look like a little bitch. If you ghost her, chances are she is either gonna forget you (most likely) or express some interest later (doubtful and could be suspicious). If you bitch out she is probably tell her girl friends about you and it will limit your dating pool (not in this situation but in similar ones where you live in less populated areas)
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:14 PM
1

Imagine having a main Reddit account where you can be identified as a real person. Yikes for the crave for upvotes.
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:24 AM
1

If you are using alcohol it should be a non- issue. Your or hers horniness will take care of it. If no alcohol: While sitting- if she is keeping a distance, warm her up with convos, teases, jokes etc until you get her really warm then ask her to sit closer to you to test her reciprocation level. If she does that, you probably know the rest of things that needs to be done in accordance and correct "tempo". If she is really into you, she will do it (sit closer) on her own. If you feel that she is …
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:50 PM
1

Tricky situation. Read side bar for more info. My advice would be (numbered by order of importance) You have to take a shot. This one is already in your mind, so good. You have nothing to lose. I hope you don't go far away because potential long distance relationship is a waste of the time in most cases Approach her but not in the last day of job. If you start hitting on her on last day it might seem as a pussy move. I guess she already knows you are leaving? Just catch her looking at you and ap…
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:36 PM
1

3 things: Number 1 Sometimes it is exactly the opposite as she smiles at me and trying to flirt with me. What are those times? Number 2 Do you talk often and what are your usual convos? How long do you work together? Number 3 Not a good idea to date work colleagues
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:14 PM
1

No, we don't. You are getting thirsty and switching to scarcity mindset. We have too many topics about approaching at gym as of lately.
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:32 PM
2

Exactly
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:41 PM
1

But OP was referring to “after getting her number and meetup” scene. So we’re talking about that And I was referring to that. All that I implied was that your situation of her "commenting on bodyweight" wasn't the best example. Now that you clarify about negative perception I get where you were going with your comment. All good.
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:32 PM
2

I didn't really get why would you ask that because I wasn't referring to it in my first comment. And if you read my second comment you would understand that I didn't talk about rejection when approaching.
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:19 PM
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Women will shit test you during lifetime not when you just approach her. You were obviously talking about a date situation because that is what OP was referring to and you opposed him by giving him an example of "disinteterested" females that were making statements about your bodyweight or lack thereof that you banged therefore reversing the state of disinterest. I wanted to humbly correct you that it is not disinterest but a shittest and she has some interest in you. Everytime you say or do som…
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:02 PM
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any times women brought up my body shape (underweight af) be4 moaning in the bed. You confuse a shit-test with disinterest. If she isn't interested, she wouldn't even want to give you her time of the day. When she mentions (not outright attacks you) you are underweight she probably thinks you could be ok,but this particular feature is a sign of weakness (biologically speaking) so in order to see whether you are sure of yourself abd confident enough (which achieves a lot in modern society) she me…
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:42 PM
1

Former. If it was a more mixed environment I guess the thought pattern and preferences were to change
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:36 PM
1

I am from Eastern Europe, so I don't really want to date outside my race. Not a lot of other races here
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:23 PM
20

Your title is incorrect. You are good at being friendzoned. If you were good at friendzoning that would be a non-issue to you. Be real to yourself. Reading the sidebar would be a good start I guess
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:46 PM
3

Make sure she doesn't string you along calling herself 'demisexual'. Maybe she is healthy sexual and has sex on regular basis Ask yourself why this has 'become' a friendship instead of what you internet people call 'online love' or whatever. Transition from friendship to love status by building emotional connection ( you just have to start somewhere, idk, compliment her, show her what your life looks like etc) Decide to meet up But you have been warned. This is a highly unlikely scenario and I s…
/r/seduction24/03/22 12:28 PM
10

99% you can't 1% is not worth the effort of wasting time if you can go out and have other options
/r/seduction24/03/22 12:12 PM
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I am gonna nitpick here. If you cut out toddlers, infants and elderly and only focus on your preferred age group,e.g 7 years down and up, you are left with hundreds of millions. If you don't date out of your race and ignore poverty stricken people it is just a couple of million. Then there are singles so you are probably left with you know what I mean.
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:21 AM
1

Why do you snap when you can interact in real life? Go and talk to her in real life
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:26 PM
3

I'd say you are wasting your time. Offer her either a walk, or coffee. If she starts coming up with excuses, you drop her.
/r/seduction20/03/22 09:06 PM
2

Why would you ask during makeout if she wanted sex? In most cases that would be a turn off as you are asking permission. You just go with the flow (after such long time she was probably begging to run your hand down her pussy) and see what she tells you or does with her hands. If she tries to stop you, you back off, but keep it chill. After a while go in again.You made out for on over an hour. Better hope she is forgiving and patient which is a rarity
/r/seduction20/03/22 08:48 PM
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First step- you stop going out with that friend. He cockblocked you on purpose just for the sake of it or he is just dumb and potential hazard for your future interactions with girls. As to what you could have said, there is no point. This situation and exact wording probably won't happen again.
/r/seduction20/03/22 06:52 PM
1

If you are in a neutral situation with a random chick (not a date yet) you should switch to opposite mentality - let her seek validation from you. Tease her, make her question her beliefs but don't be an asshole about it and keep your cool. Check out other chicks.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:20 PM
3

If she isn't interested in you and there are no clear signs of it and you want to keep your group, I'd say don't even try. Plenty of women out there
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:55 PM
1

r/Tinder
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:23 PM
1

Why are you putting yourself in your own prison? Did your ex sentence you to be celibate ? 2 years? You don't owe her a goddamn thing. Time to get rid of those shackles
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:19 PM
2

Tell them to get well and go on about your day
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:51 PM
1

30 min and profile deleted out of embarassment. I hope he learns
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:56 PM
1

You were dishonest with her and yourself. This --> "Yes I do, and I don’t want it to let it get in the way of our friendship, but yes I do like you" is a lie. If there even was a chance (which I think there was not) you blew it. If you wanted to keep her as a friend you would duck the question. Instead you put yourself in the friendzone by admitting you want to salvage the friendship. Now you come to us. You have to sort yourself out, dude
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:49 PM
6

If you get multiple girls (not one isolated case) 'above your level' you should automatically throw any doubts about yourself out the window and pump that confidence up. I am very average looking and have scored women above my level and it never crossed my mind that they would leave me. If they did, I can find a beautiful one just as I did before.
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:12 PM
3

Can agree. Something of sorts: I got my first gf being the only one publicly debating lecturers in university. I landed a solid job then and became very confident in my abilities (finance, economics) so I debated and questioned professors whenever I got the chance (not in spite) and got a solid reputation. I was timid before that. Too bad I lost that mojo after graduating and I hate my job now
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:01 PM
1

Post dick size (if it is big enough) in bio but that will limit some potential candidates who would be willing to go for casual sex but don't want to come off as whores. The ones that match you (if they read bio) will probably be down for it
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:35 PM
1

Nice one
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:15 PM
3

Most good looking people are confident and socially adept naturally because of the attention they get throughout the life. Rare ones are inept. So basically it still boils down to "good looking people have it easier" and the average folk have to work their asses off. Simple as.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:32 PM
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If that guy is not catching it, he is not a catch and should go and work on himself (if he was even imterested to begin with) She doesn't need to carry this load on her own-men do the work her, women invite them. As far as your advice (out of this post) goes, she hasn't given much info to work with but her going in full throttle might look needy. Most men don't appreciate if women throw themselves at them as much as they say otherwise. For a quick fuck maybe it will work and they will settle but…
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:05 PM
2

I explicitly said "gently, almost invisible". Not that overt but enough to send a good signal that she wants him sexually. Rest is on him. If he is interested he will do what needs to be done to connect and as OP clearly stated that she wants him, she will be more than forgiving if he messes up now and then.
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:57 PM
20

Look him in the eyes and lightly smile. Bite your lower lip but slow,gently and almost invisible. That should do the trick for us. It will work if he is not an autist
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:17 PM
18

OP, do this even if you have no date. Make her feel a bit shitty. Not the adult move,but she kinda deserves it. If she asks how your date went to check for a bluff politely respond tgat you are in the process and need time. Never contact her again on your own. Let her do it herself but keep answers short until she fucks off completely out of your life.
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:12 PM
1

I got prescribed Priligy(Dapoxetine) that I have to take 3 hours before intercourse. It is expensive and is only a temporary solution which quite frankly doesn't work that well. No other advices were given
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:19 PM
1

Never lie or exaggerate (unless it being an obvious joke) because there will be more questions. I just shrug it off or don't reveal too much detail. When she puts on extra pressure I tell her I am a virgin with no experience even though I am not. Sometimes they lay off
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:15 PM
5

There are levels to confidence. You don't become a confident guy overnight especially if you are struggling with anxiety. That takes time.
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:25 AM
1

No, it means you have a small brain and a big heart
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:51 AM
7

I don't mean it is impossible. I just argue whether it is necessary unless you want to be a gym bro. Those are high numbers and it would actually take you more time lifting these weights and benching than doing anything else to maintain these stats.
/r/seduction16/11/20 04:46 PM
1

Have you done something like playfully pointi a finger gun on her and pulling a trigger while looking in her eyes? Just to add some playfulness disregarding what the outcome would be?
/r/seduction16/11/20 03:19 PM
12

Benchpress 1,5 BW. That is not natural. Stop gloryfying fitness industry. For a 6'2" weighing 200 pounds a 200 pound benchpress is already more than enough to look good.
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:49 PM
11

I once read from a prominent seddit user that bringing a girl on a first date to a gathering where you know most of the people is needy because it makes girl feel like you are showing off her like a trophy or behaving in a needy way towards your own friends to make them see that you got it. Can't find the comment nor have I favorited it. What are other people thoughts on this matter?
/r/seduction15/10/20 07:50 AM
2

What is so stupid about acknowledging one's lizard brain and it's quirks?
/r/seduction12/10/20 07:48 PM
1

Stop pleasing people. You are funny when you want to be funny not because you need to be funny
/r/seduction01/10/20 01:57 PM
2

She wasn't imterested enough. Numbers game, move on to the next
/r/seduction21/09/20 12:09 PM
2

"Thank you" is a very good response
/r/seduction09/07/20 07:03 AM
2

That is just a shit test. Agree and amplify. Ask her where is the prize for your accomplishment.
/r/seduction09/07/20 06:29 AM
2

I don't consider myself more than 6/10 but have been blown by 7s and 8s
/r/seduction15/05/20 04:49 PM
7

Yes, I had the same thoughts actually a couple of times. Should get rid of her before she destroys my life
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:05 AM
1

Dan is the man. He has the most down to Earth advice. His examples may be a bit corny, but ideas behind them are golden.
/r/seduction06/01/20 12:52 PM
1

Depends on situation and geographic region. In Eastern Europe it is considered rude for a male to reach his hand out. This right is reserved for a woman unless the male is of upper social status and generally a respectable person or he is much much older than her. I got a gf that way -by being intentionally rude in this manner. Second thing what this subreddit always rambles about is to not be boring and not give your name out. I don't know how to react to this one.
/r/seduction05/12/19 09:51 PM
8

You are like most of the guys here. You are doing these things for the sake of doing them. You are still lazy, because you are trying to tell us that you are "going out of your way". Why does it bother you? Because you aren't enjoying it. That is not who you are. You are still in your old shell playing the make pretend game. If you had enjoyed your activities including "going out of your way" you would literally not give two shits about people flaking because you would already have so many peopl…
/r/seduction09/06/19 02:42 PM
3

What is her rating without whiskey?
/r/seduction03/06/19 02:37 PM
-1

Tell them next time that you haven't yet found your perfect soulmate and girls are all sex and not being capable of serious commitment and if that is her case too then you can offer her friendship at best.
/r/seduction29/05/19 09:26 AM
1

What is with all that shilling? RSD losing money?
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:25 AM
2

Introduction (as you did) Assumption about her appearance, ethnicity or nationality, her activity etc. A little talk about that after which you engage her to invest more in conversation. Conversation where you exchange information and she talks about small things like traveling experience; hobbies etc. At the end of all her investment she will ask you something (where are you from or what do you do). You can play around a little bit. Make her guess the right answer. Make her compliant to you. Us…
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:14 AM
4

I see this as unproductive way of thinking and a reason why many will fail. Something that has to come by natural being changed to an algorithmic process devoid of true emotions and based on playbook rules.
/r/seduction24/05/19 08:58 AM
-1

There is probably a youtube storytime video or a reddit post or tumblr entry about a priviliged male Lyft driver that was trying to get sexual advances and that she has reported him to Lyft and justice has been served. all the girls cheering about her brave actions
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:54 AM
1

You don't have to sperg out about it, you JOKINGLY tell something that is not in your taste if there is anything. Or you keep being on your best behaviour... afraid of speaking your mind. Why would anyone like some stranger who is all of a sudden giving compliment handouts? Women get their guard up
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:57 PM
1

I agree. So many of these new cold approach trainers keep using apologies , it makes me sick to my stomach. Also I don't see any posotives when you tell her she is beautiful. She knows that already. Compile that sentence with some remark about her style with a little disqualification so you are not putting her on a pedestal e.g "Hey I noticed you walking there. Just wanted to say that you look really cute especially in those heels. " after she tells you thanks, you tell her jokingly something th…
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:10 AM
3

Write a more detailed report. You lost your voice because of anxiety or because you tore your vocal cords?
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:43 AM
2

You did everything right. Just set your move a bit quicker and that is it. This worked. Perfect your method. You can add teasing and qualifying questions to make her invest more. She told you explicitly that she will make up for it. Don't text her now until you arrange the time. If there is no location invite her over to your place.
/r/seduction21/05/19 08:25 AM
5

It looks like you are texting too much and giving her attention when instead you should be dating. You text her only to arrange dates in this stage. If she asks you this question it means you are probably overinvesting at this point. You don't become soft nor indirect. Tell her we'll meet , then we'll see what happens. Leave some mystery. Edit: formatting
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:15 PM
0

Why do you even let her lead? Take her to the places you like and know that are good and absolutely ignore her expertise. What do you mean you don't make the best choice? The food or service was bad? If that is all she remembers then either she is shallow or you are just plain boring. You can make a fun date even with bad service and food. Use it for your advantage. Start making jokes about it on the spot before you head to the next place. Mediterranean soup takes too long to get to your table? …
/r/seduction20/05/19 11:44 AM
1

I am a simple man. I see Tusk, I upvote.
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:39 PM
1

There was no question filter in OP regarding results you want to achieve. Either a fast fuck or a relationship. So there is no right answer here either.
/r/seduction17/05/19 04:45 PM
1

The whole PUA and human psychology is based on your 'double standard that has been long since disproven'
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:48 PM
0

Not a double standard. Pure biology which drives our decision making from emotional perspective. Men fertilize as many females as they can. Women need to get the best mate as their life and life of her child she is bearing and will need to raise with said male depends on him. If she has a high body count then either she is bad at judging people and has low standards and is low value or she is going yolo mode. Both point to serious daddy issues. Either way she is bad relationship material and pro…
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:01 PM
1

Don't stress it. Approach next girl. You also exited the convo very well. Good job!
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:49 AM
5

Your frame was shaken the entire time. I know a few guys that wouldn't give a shit about them not learning to dance and would have fun doing it. You on the other hand were under constant pressure which she saw and felt. You described your event like it was a job interview which you failed. To add on top of that you told her you didn't feel good about the date (which was your idea to begin with). You have to give value. Did you tell her that she is a good teacher or ask her how does she know how …
/r/seduction17/05/19 04:57 AM
1

Dan Bacon has some nice videos on this topic. If she is shit'testing you on regular basis consider dread game. You are the bottom of the relationship atm. It should be other way around.
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:39 AM
0

If you read my comment and thought a bit more then you could imagine her giving you an answer. If she started giving you objections it would be a clear sign that she is a freeloader. Also you fucked up by overanalyzing and missing a potential date that was initiated by her.
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:31 AM
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You wrote more than her. The idea was good bit your repetition "Lets find out" probably drove her off a bit as it seemed a bit innocent and needy. Your intro wasn't very needy but you should put more humorous options. The total shouldn't be more than 3 as otherwise it will be too much investment. You also shouldn't come off as too commanding without building a bit of compliance with her. She can feel cornered at first. But good effort.
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:21 PM
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You tell her "You bring the bottle, I get the glasses and some snacks". That way you are even at worst. You can skip the snack part too. Don't buy glasses specially for this occasion if you don't own any. Bring plastic cups. Also. You fucked up.
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:02 AM
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"Hey did you see that patient spew all his guts out and nurses slipped on them? Funny sight." "What rhymes with USA? ... MRSA". " I will offer you a rose while my patient's comatose". Ok. But on a serious note you could start with a chit chat like "my day was crazy... I hope your shift was ok. You don't look tired." And then proceed further. Also we have a sidebar here.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:33 AM
1

Your consideration is obviously misleading unless you live on a feminist island.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:34 AM
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Gaming married or taken women and promoting this beta activity to others is like plague and should be bannable offense in my opinion. Go do it on your own time. There is enough promiscuity already to deal with without you shits trying to stick your pee pee in places you don't belong.
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:44 AM
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Kudos to you. This is what I had to say in a thread about approaching girls with growing #MeToo movement and what potential risks might it have: No they won't perceive you as a bad guy. If you stop a hottie and get her to talk to you and laugh: 90% of bystanders won't even notice. Most of people walking by won't notice and those who do will probably think you are old pals. Girls who will notice will admire that and be jealous of the approached girl. It will also give you higher SMV (sexual marke…
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:34 AM
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You talk about moving on. Where is your success part? Are those one night flings; fwb situations or relationships? You also could be an emotionless trunk of tree that offers nothing and gets nothing in return and 'moves on' every time a girl doesn't recipocrate. Cancel a first date because something came up? move on There are different situations. If you haven't built enough comfort and 'something came up' but she reschedules why would you move on?
/r/seduction14/05/19 10:10 AM
2

You are not interesting. She has a sausage line waiting on her. And you are somewhere inbetween all those sausages
/r/seduction14/05/19 08:33 AM
1

It shouldn't be a confidence hit. It is her loss anyways. Why would you feel bad about it? You should pity her
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:52 AM
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There is no such thing as "take it slow" if you get a response like this. She has put you on a lowest priority because she isn't that attracted to you. Imagine some of the situations where a girl says this and is with another dude in like two weeks. You have friends that have experienced something similar or you've heard or read about similar situations, have you? It is her basically saying "Listen, man. I will go out and find a buddy to fuck. If I won't find any, which I probably will even if i…
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:22 AM
2

Monkey branchers should be avoided.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:01 AM
2

Just eat more. Even if you think you are full.
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:59 AM
2

You potentially dodged a single mom or a future crack whore. Remember one thing (if you have a crush on her or haven't) - if she comes back in your life after a couple of years, do not let her in. Her ship sailed away after this conversation.
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:57 AM
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Well I am 30. And without a gf or wife. Lost my v card when I was 26. I don't see any problem with that. I don't feel tainted. Be more persuasive and confident and stop running circles with your I mean I never had a woman consider me attractive enough for a date lol line. We read that already. Four or five times, ok?. This repetition is a bad habit that leaves more damage to your self esteem and wires your brain in wrong mindset. I am not going to continue this conversation and feeding you pity …
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:02 PM
1

You'll be fine and you will find your woman and have children. Most mentally unstable people and most gays don't have children. Unless you are on of those or an extreme case of disability or obesity, you will be fine.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:29 PM
1

Where I would agree with you however, is the building comfort part...before....inviting her to my place. That was an obvious mistake I believe it is yet another mistake to tell her 'my place or the highway'. That's not helpful. It could or it could have not worked. What matters is which path you choose. If you can let her go then it it your right to demand a date at your place if you wish so. If she is not down, then she is not for you anyways. You have to be ready to drop them. Of course if you…
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:26 PM
1

I wouldn't say this is entirely accurate. I have fixed my life and I do now have the time and energy to have fun with my new friends and do more with my time than I ever have before. But given that, I've never had any woman consider me attractive looking enough so I wouldn't say that "chicks came to me" you know. That is not how romance works mate. If you are average and without charisma you can forget women approaching you. Most of us can forget that really. It is our job to pursue them and app…
/r/seduction13/05/19 05:47 PM
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THIS 👉 (u/hdfhfddhfd) is the same as (u/Jjghggfgggg) and (u/Hshshshjspwp) These are the same. That I saw. The other ones - didn't have time to check.
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:45 PM
3

If you want to simply fuck then fake the shit out of yourself epic PUA style. You can be indirect and almost to the point of lying just to get in her pants". If you want something meaningful then approach only women you want genuinely want to meet. In your case you could approach her and ask silly things like "hey. I looked at you and judging by your dress you could be down to Earth person and could help me answer one important question: do rabbits plot to.take over the world?"
/r/seduction13/05/19 02:13 PM
2

What the fuck am I reading? Is this full moon when every beastie comes out of their lair?
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:58 PM
1

This yellow fever needs to stop
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:57 PM
1

What are your skills? E.g. guitar, sketching, any sports. List them here for everyone to know.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:57 AM
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You must improve yourself for yourself and not for women. Now you have to become a fun guy. You have to be able to not give a shit and not be serious and you must enjoy every moment not thinking about women. Once you are able to do this chicks will come to you. You hVe to value yourself as a man that has his shit fixed and you are the one to choose who and when comes along with you on your journey.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:44 AM
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In one of Todd Valentine's videos he admots that he also had similar situations where e.g. during a bootcamp he wasn't able to approach moving sets because something just clicked in his mind so he had to sleep on it and next day he was able to do it again. Mood sometimes is a tricky thing.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:07 AM
2

Maybe you should stop whining and quit your pessimism? It has boiled down to such an amusing sight - you fiercely fighting and proving anyone you are not worthy of being attracted to. I mean how retarded is that? You have to get rid of that aura of insecurity. Women feel it a mile away no matter how ripped you are.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:00 AM
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You did not calibrate. You should have sniffed out beforehand if she would be hands down to go to your place or built enough comfort. Instead you caved in and tried to please her with your plan B. That does not make her feel protected. Her feeling of protection comes from her readiness to go whefever you want her to go. You should have left her with option A. If she bailed, you could end it right away or let her invest in you and come up with her date ideas. However you did all that investing an…
/r/seduction12/05/19 06:59 PM
1

Drink one or two drinks. If you drink more, do it slowly. Keep drinking one type of drink (beer or cider) or a single spirit. No cocktails or shots. Don't mix drinks. Drink water inbetween. Don't consume alcohol at all.
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:18 AM
2

You will only know she is "perfect" after you have been together with her somewhere between 2 to 3 years when all of her closeted problems and insecurities start to surface and you see how she deals with them and what she is on the inside. Till then your perfect girl is what u/DarthKaldar mentioned.
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:14 AM
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Excuse me? But where is her investment? Why do you allow her to cancel on you and keep planning and doing the work? She sees you as a guy who does not value his time. What you should have done after she first cancelled on you is that as soon as she came forward after almost two weeks you should have just told her that you are busy too and have to run some errands. If she asked for a date then you wpuld only come back to plan A - the one you should never have walked off. That was probably your fi…
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:57 AM
3

It's ASD
/r/seduction11/05/19 08:17 PM
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You have to remember every negative thing about her. Then stack it up. You will eventually grow sick of thinking about her and you will move on. You already describe her as toxic. That means your ego and your needs have not been fulfilled. So she was bad at it and you are better off without her.
/r/seduction10/05/19 10:24 AM
1

Thanks for your reply. It is appreciated. Maybe you could put some disclaimers in your next videos something along the lines of your comment. It could give clearer view that the picture is actually bigger than it seems so some of more unfortunate people don't get the message wrong or get discouraged. Good luck with your future videos! Looking forward to them!
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:54 AM
1

I do not agree with this video completely on one main particular reason - it discourages men from approaching hot women and desensitizing themselves to beauty just because they are low on SMV required elements The video is a good summary of how to have critical thinking for guys who want to get their willy wet without any serious intention (be a Chad, a rock star or a millionaire banker or something inbetween) and need to improve on one of the three offered ingredients (Social Status, Money, Loo…
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:22 PM
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I live in the Eastern Hemisphere (Baltics) and as modern Western degeneracy creeps in with all its "glory" I have come to conclusion that males (counting myself) have been taught and parented not in the right ways if we touch the topic of relationships and courtship. We too have this disease of "nice guys will eventually get the girl" that turns women off and with rise of social media this sickness has spread to unbelievable levels. For that reason only I think the competition actually has went …
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:09 AM
1

You ask her number and tell her you would like to keep in touch during summer and maybe hang out as you find her quite interesting. If you she refuses then accept it. You have done your part in man to woman communication. None of that "class related assignment" bullshit as she knows very well you can get that number from people you are communicating more often than with her. Also that won't be your true intention and girls sense that shit. Even if she doesn't sense it you will most likely enter …
/r/seduction06/05/19 07:05 AM
1

Did she change gradually or was she like that from the beginning? What about the second question?
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:53 AM
1

What does strict "mean"? Does she social-test you often or neg you?
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:47 AM
1

If you are sure she will be able to free herself or you can handle rejection you can ask her number. If she gives you her number without being very receptive on going out you may get too attached and desperate as the summer goes by and you won't have as much physical interaction. Or you can just forget her. Do what your gut tells you to. But never become emotionally dependent on her.
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:42 AM
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Give some examples for 3, 6, 10. People would like to know.
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:17 AM
1

I would advise otherwise. Forget her for a while. Find other girls of interest and become more friendly with girls. Maybe you will find someone better. If not, you will have built enough confidence and non-neediness that asking for her number will be rather you giving her the opportunity to join you the cool guy in your adventure and not you being a second option or a possible doormat. It will also cure you of oneitis
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:14 AM
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No they won't perceive you as a bad guy. If you stop a hottie and get her to talk to you and laugh: 90% of bystanders won't even notice. Most of people walking by won't notice and those who do will probably think you are old pals. Girls who will notice will admire that and be jealous of the approached girl. It will also give you higher SMV (sexual market value). Normal guys will be jealous and wish they could pull it off like you did because they don't have courage. Only on very rare occasions y…
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:08 AM
1

There is no next meeting until there is next meeting. If your date is mediocre askimg for a second meeting during the date or in its end phase comes of as a bit needy. I don't see any problem with you not dropping her off unless you wanted to get in. You should only do these things if she deserves them e.g. she behaves well, falls into your frame, complies to you. Then you can reward her. Otherwise you are putting her on a pedestal. She is not a baby. She knows how to get home.
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:01 AM
1

Girls don't do that. What are you even up to?
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:45 AM
1

Agreed on first and second part
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:16 PM
1

Be sure you are not on her storytime. But good for you lad! Keep it up. Also how intoxicated was she and why was she asking about you?
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:15 PM
5

They are not dumb. Most of them just aren't the sharpest tool in the shed when it comes to logical thinking. Males on the other hand have this fairly huge subreddit and PUA culture and business ventures based on top of that. Guess what that tells about us. *edit. Misssed a word
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:54 AM
1

As I mentioned. She could be crazy. Women do many unintentional things that have intentional consequences.
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:28 PM
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Throw a party of your own. E.g. birthday or other special occasion. That way it won't seem that you are trying to win everyone back from the group you left.
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:26 PM
5

Literally nothing happened. I was just mad at myself that I let that insecurity of being a virgin eat away at me for so long.
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:23 PM
1

She is very insecure. Her make-up is a giveaway. Also she wants to string you along. Also she could be a tad bit crazy
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:21 PM
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Next time when you have a party bring some random chick preferably a date and ignore your coworker as a woman. View her as a friend. Be polite if ypu both talk but mostly concentrate on date. If you can make it happen, do it. She will soon forget your beta mishap.
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:18 PM
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To answer your exact question: throw a silly joke back at her e.g. "None taken. My mom also says that to me. She wanted me to become a ballerina." and ignore her comment and just make an assumption about her (her style, her profession or whatever if that hasn't been touched yet) and steer away from her comment. You shouldn't throw a joke like this if you were timid from the beginning. Your frame has to be constant. Maybe you should be more playful before you get the number. See below. I see two …
/r/seduction27/04/19 06:53 PM
3

Need more practical tips here
/r/seduction26/04/19 01:05 PM
3

Why are you making multiple user accounts and trolling this place up?
/r/seduction24/04/19 02:58 PM
1

10/10 quality post friend t. Cuck
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:37 PM
3

You reek of insecurity and that is why you have no luck. I can tell right away that you hold grudges and contemplate your previous approaches and those negative thoughts are stacking up leading to more diminishing results. Cold approaching is like a chore for you. Not the right mindset. Here is what you do. Next time you cold approach you do it to make someone feel good for a moment and with no intention of pick up. You just want to see someone smile and realize that it is in your power to shake…
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:07 AM
1

A bucket on the head
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:49 AM
4

She wanted to have sex and didn't pursue anything further. Neither did you. For a couple of months. Maybe she anticipated something more from you but you made it clear that it was just a hook up and you are not interested. So now you are friends. Minimize contact and concentrate on other girls. If she comes around you know what to do.
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:25 AM
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Don't state anything in such manner. It will make you look hurt. And that is needy. You don't owe her that sort of attention. Your time is too valuable for you. Only after some time when she hits you up out of the blue and this date mishap has been forgotten you can tell her that you would better like her as a friend if you intend to capitalize on that and get her attracted and keep her as a side chick. Otherwise just move on and don't engage in any further conversations.
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:10 AM
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I get the idea of uncertainty and anticipation but why in that exact moment ? Why ruin a date and punish her for asking a question before the date? I get that they (girls) are better at game. But if you kill (ghosting) the convo before the date, she can get her option number 32 and go on date with him because you are busy ghosting. Or am I missing something in your explanation? No, I am shit at seduction. Trust me. Anyway. Have a nice journey!
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:11 PM
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You sound needy at this moment. Why would I need to ghost a chick if she asks something? Am I that insecure that I can't hold my frame? You are the one telling here that we can change plans on the spot so this option is still viable. I can tell her that we will feed bums on some Brooklyn street and then change the venue to feeding bums on Compton street . Why the ghosting part? It is just a cheap show off. I liked you better when you posted top rated posts here. Now you are shilling your Youtube…
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:52 PM
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Set up a date, but don’t give her any information until 2 hours before meeting. If she asks in advance, ghost her sounds like manipulation to me. You are not being true to yourself or her. Anything other sounds nice and good. I like the concept of Certainty/Uncertainty. Good food for thought.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:27 PM
5

Were you lifting the bottle and making sounds or somehow you managed to push air out of the bottle with similar sound? Got a bit confused there
/r/seduction23/04/19 12:26 PM
1

Supreme Gentleman.
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:21 AM
2

Good. Waiting for that date
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:24 PM
3

I liked how you made her comply with your polite request of watching your stuff. If she wasn't pressured, it is great. Tell us how it went.
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:41 AM
2

As you see most probably the chocolate has nothing to do with your failed date. You missed her points long before that.
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:26 AM
1

You came off as nice guy because you chose a restaurant that served food of her preference. You should have gone somewhere else where she would get new emotions. She views you as a nice guy on his best behaviour ready to please her. You could ask her out to an Italian restaurant or make a home dinner experience of you both cooking Italian food later on sone next date or when you are in a relationship. That way it would show your protective side (You care for her and remember her preferences but …
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:24 AM
2

Tell her to eat less. Then tell her it was a joke and tell her to move closer to you.
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:27 PM
1

Nobody said she has to start off as your gf. While you go plowing every chick and checking whether you have anything common with her many other would filter out most of them before even approaching. Because for them the first thimg that is hard to come by is a perfect chemistry. You can still keep.side chicks that are a good lay. Does not mean that you need to Amtrack every simgle chick to find a suitable gf material. Your main goal is a good lay and it is an undeniable prerequisite for you. You…
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:58 PM
1

Do you think with your dick? After the comment I can totally tell you are oblivious as to what you really want from along term meaningful relationship. Not meant as an insult. You have your own preferences at the moment. Sex plays a big role but it is not the endgame in Models. First you have to filter out the garbage. It does not necessarily mean physically unattractive girls. It can be those that are cute but act in a way that is not in your taste. Here are two examples: There is a hot girl in…
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:41 PM
2

You missed the point of book entirely. It is not about getting laid nor Mark Manson advocates promiscuity or engages in relationship for the sake of sex. The book is about taking care of yourself and learning to filter women out and only pursuing meaningful relationships with those you can be comfortable with while being true to yourself and honest with her. Its about learning to let go and not being desperate hence the term "Fuck Yes" where you pursue anything with a girl only if that is the an…
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:01 PM
3

You could be more specific and not just fish for controversy. What exact parts were contradicting his subtitle "attraction through honesty" engage!
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:36 AM
2

Make them imagine something and do that together e.g. share an imaginary and funny situation/scenario like " Imagine if we were shopping together at a fruit stand and you dropped a melon on the floor and it squished all over the tiles" to which she might reply with a laugh " Why would I take it in the first place?" and you could ask her " You tell me!? How should I know. You took it and now its on the ground. We need to call the Veggie ambulance right now. ". I know this is silly but if you buil…
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:32 AM
0

That's a big yikes from me
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:17 AM
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It is good to hear someone crushing his fears and it looks like you are having some major improvements in conversational skills but I have to admit that these types of approaches are stalkerish and your "interrogation style" convos pressured them into corner and made them uncomfortable. Half of them probably didn't have boyfriends and they were lying to you. Same goes for those chicks who suddenly don't have FB or don't know what LinkedIn is (I mean wtf). Your canned opener doesn't bring her any…
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:50 AM
2

I wish the kinds of you slimey cash grabbing schmucks would vanish off this Earth and stop rubbishing this sub.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:25 AM
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You made your bed when you flat-out 'rejected' her. Now you must sleep in it. Should have kept her at side while filterimg options. You coming back in the picture 'to compete for her' will only lower your value and give her the chance to choose. Move on. If she comes back on her own, you can further develop you relationship. Don't be that asshole that comes barging in and interrupting communication just because you failed one of your options or whatever.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:20 AM
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You are insecure and your friends are insecure. Let me tell you why. First, your need of being validated made you say out loud that you are dating that chick. Note to yourself: don't overdrink. Get your shit together. Stay true to your intentions, don't let the emotional weaknesses set in. You are on the right path as you tried to keep that to yourself as long as possible. Bragging comes off as needy. Second: your friends were pushing you around on this matter. A real friend would respect your c…
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:31 AM
1

You are already contradicting yourself with this statement whereas we are all perfect zero but later on you mention that all you have to do to game her is to be 'high status'.
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:31 AM
1

I don't really think the thing he wrote means what you think it means. The question could come off as needy but it could also be meant in this (also needy) way "If I like to cook and I am passionate about it, should I chat with women about it and will it be an interesting topic or will I come off as woman-ish and umanly? Should I better talk about car repairs?" / He may not know anything about seduction and that women love men that have passion in life/ He could also have written "is hunting rat…
/r/seduction19/03/19 04:30 PM
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I will be a bit off-topic here and won't answer the question about what 'uttering a sound means' but I am seeing that you are overanalyzing the approach. You are thinking like this: 1. I need to approach this girl 2. Now I need a line to go along What is required of you is that you should verbally express your mood/preference or reactions to environment. You see something happen. You get a thought about it, form an opinion or question. For example you are at a bus stop and a loud bike goes past …
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:48 AM
1

Yes you probably are a hot dude. I don't know about clueless.
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:38 PM
1

Congrats mate. Now get rid of the cold
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:49 AM
2

A guide to clueless hot dudes. Won't work on average looking dudes.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:09 AM
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This is a huge advantage for him. I have never had any friends want to hook me up with hotties. Only ugly ones with "good personality".
/r/seduction01/03/19 12:20 PM
8

This
/r/seduction17/11/18 11:28 PM
1

Thanks. I will only agree to go on a date if she offers it herself. Right now I have no intention of speaking to her.
/r/seduction17/11/18 11:26 PM
0

Too bad I am not the overly active guy that uses IG though. Thanks for the advice nonetheless. And as I previously mentioned before I am not investing myself in her. Right now I have no intention of speaking to her anymore so I am okay.
/r/seduction17/11/18 11:24 PM
1

Don't you northern Canadians have a pet seal to feed the bears in such situations?
/r/seduction17/11/18 08:23 AM
2

Thanks for the response. I won't play games with her. If she pulls this thing once again, I will call it quits. I cannot make a decision based on assumptions at this moments since ai don't know what happened exactly and I definitely won't ask what was up at that mean time. Not going to invest myself heavily either. Also you didn't answer my first question
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:10 PM
1

Shit I am 30. And I wasted my 20s. Kids, take notes!
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:06 PM
1

Tell her that you think it will be better if you stay friends. Then cut her off immediately. Don't engage in explanations and stuff. See what happens. If she doesn't come around then it was never meant to be because she had already made up her mind.
/r/seduction13/09/18 01:30 PM
1

I get what you are saying but seduction in general has to go toe to toe with your own growth. If we are talking about being successful and happy. Many people here will use the "fake it till you make it" approach and end up on the losing end. You can't develop charisma and charm because some article says you can. You have to truly want it. Lazy salty dudes will fail your scheme and will return on here whining that it doesn't work. The ones that have mediocre results and just want to bang will pro…
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:21 PM
1

All in all ok and nice but the whole concept looks a bit fakey from the surface. By that I mean I completely agree with the article but the delivery described here sounds more like "Manipulate her!" instead of "Learn storytelling and make people feel good about themselves!". At least that is what most newbs will probably suck out of this. Note : the sexuality aspect wasn't even discussed here yet the title makes you think it is something about it.
/r/seduction12/09/18 11:52 AM
1

You have to be comfortable by yourself. You don't make girls uncomfortable just by saying something they deem to think makes them uncomfortable. You make them uncomfortable because you value her thoughts and judgment of you too much and feel uncomfortable yourself which in turn makes her uncomfortable. When you say something - OWN IT!
/r/seduction12/09/18 11:06 AM
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We moved to her car, were we escalated she gave me a blowjob in the car and started to stroke my penis haha ... haha intense sex for hours I have two questions for you. Are you a troll and how frequently you cry yourself to sleep from being lonely?
/r/seduction09/09/18 10:03 PM
0

Get the condoms. Hide the laptop. When she comes over, tell her jokingly you already sold it.
/r/seduction04/09/18 05:27 PM
1

Although I agree with the main points it still was painful to read because it was written by a roidhead
/r/seduction04/09/18 01:49 AM
0

Back to r/incel you go
/r/seduction04/09/18 01:40 AM
1

"I know but do you?"
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:00 AM
0

Das Kapital
/r/seduction03/09/18 07:02 AM
0

Don't do drugs. It warps reality around you.
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:27 PM
2

Get drunk at least once but not to the stage of passing out or shitting yourself. Never ask questions that can be answered with simple blunt answers. Use "How", "Why", "What made you do X". It will open more angles where you will find a space to input whatever your boring life has. Believe me, most of us have pretty mundane lives and share like 50% of activities so there is a huge overlap of topics to discuss. Everything else is just exclusions and specifics. Get a pack of jokes and funny storie…
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:14 PM
5

I’ve tried harder than 99% of other guys but my results aren’t there No, you haven't . You probably have tried more than me but I am barely doing anything so your boastfulness without results rather shows that you are entitled. It looks like you haven't even done the basic part - WORKING ON MAKING YOURSELF A BETTER PERSON
/r/seduction02/09/18 11:22 AM
2

Go get 'em!
/r/seduction02/09/18 06:38 AM
3

This was a bad example because you were jealous of him. Your statement 1. "that you've become a better man" and her 2. "sitting with him and sending you signals and basically trying to break your frame" and 3. her being your ex (If I understood correctly) proves it and yet it doesn't really match the situations that are required for discussing your general question. Your question comes out of neediness.
/r/seduction02/09/18 06:35 AM
1

God I wish that were me
/r/seduction02/09/18 06:25 AM
3

The best solution is to be loaded with dopamine. You have to find something that makes you really happy and confident for a period of time e.g. got a promotion; stuck it to the college professor; a girl complimented you; you helped someone so you feel good abput yourself etc. Something that makes you feel better than ordinary. Then you go in and share your happy time without any expectations and day game. This is probably the only hack to short curcuit that underwhelming feeling of "preparing fo…
/r/seduction02/09/18 06:12 AM
2

Ask him playfully that there is this popular thing you want to try. Just before you go all in
/r/seduction02/09/18 06:05 AM
1

This sub is turning to shit. Now white knights that bow to their queens and tip their fedoras with a gracious "m'lady, can I have Your hand?" speches are considered seduction masters.
/r/seduction28/08/18 05:08 AM
-8

They also say "you are not my type", "you are too short", "I don't like bald guys", "why don't you have a decent car" and every other thing that you won't be able to change on spot or maybe ever and lowers your chances to zero. Same with this line. Some even say " I like girls". There is absolutely no need to bail on chick if she tells you she has a boyfriend. Tease her and try to get her to fail at her own shit test. You don't need to be an asshole about it
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:03 AM
12

Not a single comment that this could be a shit test. Is this sub changing? Better question woould be "How many of you have gotten past this line and hooked up with her only to discover she had no boyfriend?"
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:54 AM
1

Your statement is spot on if you talk about ugly dudes.
/r/seduction12/07/18 02:19 PM
3

Why are you giving me your explanations? I don't need to refute anything. Just stop posting if you have nothing valuable to add.
/r/seduction11/07/18 08:37 PM
1

You atalk like a roidhead. That is why my statement is valid. For women it doesn't symbolize dedication. For your gym buddies it does. Women don't analyze the cause or the process. They just react to the effect. Big abs are good genes in their head. That earns attention. Nothing more.
/r/seduction11/07/18 08:34 PM
1

Another roidhead. Tell me why should anyone give you respect if you simply go to gym? Muscles have no substance.
/r/seduction11/07/18 07:07 PM
3

Stop commenting, please. You are not giving a single valid advice. Just making empty critique.
/r/seduction11/07/18 07:05 PM
1

I smell confidence issues.
/r/seduction12/05/18 08:19 AM
2

What I struggle to understand here is that most people talk about staring and how it is creepy and how it has all to do with looks. You have to smile(smirk) a bit too you know and your smile has to be genuine and not forced. More to follow... If I imagine myself couple of years ago standing there and a random unattractive chick looked at me and smiled I would turn away. So naturally I think it all comes down to looks but it is all about my confidence. If I was disgusted or creeped out by her loo…
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:01 AM
2

If you are from Northern hemisphere, then I have some bad news for you. There is no social conspiracy. It is just nature. Spring brings more sunnier weather (everything seems more colourful), more sunlight, fresh air, blossoms and less depression. Also women dig this stuff amd are more romantical, clothes are more revealing amd it is just the general sense of wanting to copulate when nature awakes from its Winter slumber.
/r/seduction01/05/18 02:00 PM
3

You didn't answer my question. Specifically the part about 'what did you like about this girl'. In details...
/r/seduction25/04/18 07:13 PM
5

Stop using "You have great style" openers. I know that these sedditors have given you Level 2 seduction codes (Level 1 being openers like "you look beautiful" or "you are cute") , but let's be honest. Chicks pick up that you are not genuine. So let's start with simple stuff. Tell us what your last set did look like. More specifically - what did you feel towards the girl before ypu approached her (what made you like her) and what line did you use. Cringe or not, I won't judge. I will give my hone…
/r/seduction25/04/18 07:04 PM
1

I suggest you change your world views or just don't date until you have done that. - Leave this choice up to the readers. This has nothing to do with bettering yourself. People are different.
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:35 AM
1

Haha. Nice reference
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:24 AM
4

You are not dominant. You are insecure
/r/seduction25/04/18 08:30 AM
1

OP. Those guys. Do they have hobbies or other social activities besides their work or clubbing/social events? Do they do something without their gf's?
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:47 AM
1

You have to go with "Hell yes" and not "Maybe". With "hell yes" you don'nt need 2 weeks. So if you are sure about your indecisiveness because you don't know whether you like her that much I suggest you to stop it alltogether.
/r/seduction23/04/18 05:20 AM
1

This is the real mindset. You know you like attractive girls so you will like talking to them. Why on Earth would you restrain yourself from such opportunities?
/r/seduction22/04/18 07:54 PM
1

Clean your room bucko! Sort yourself, kid!
/r/seduction08/04/18 08:31 AM
1

Punch them in the face and loudly ask "Who is the 4/10 now, bitch?". Make sure everyone sees and hears it!
/r/seduction08/04/18 08:25 AM
1

Befriend the bar staff and bar owners. They will be your best friends there and you will gain social value.
/r/seduction20/03/18 06:20 PM
4

I haven't had these situations since I hate ONS but to me it looks like it was a shit test bordering on her feeling like a slut for real. Two rules that come to my mind: 1. You should always jokingly blame it on her when escalating. Making her feel that it was not your intention to have sex yet it comes to this e.g. "I was having fun and minding my own business at bar and look now we are making out" - it lets her know that you are not a player (of course she knows you are) and eases her a little…
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:54 PM
2

She responds 3 days after your initial text giving you BS excuse. She doesn't offer a chance to meet. She doesn't ask you if you are interested to make it some other day. For me it seems it is a lost cause. But you can use some practice. You don't text like "don't sweat it" because it will leave everything hanging. You text her "Don't sweat it! I'll be there again in 2 weeks. Lets grab a drink then. I'll be free on X". If she starts to talk about plans, cut contact. If she accepts, you check on …
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:42 PM
1

The reason why you don't have meaningful relationships because you have taken advice from seddit and turned it into a manual : X hours in improving life (check), get fit (check), have a career path (check), get laid (check), what else am I missing? I can surely tell that you are not satisfied with something in your life (not talking abput the relationship issue) You are not true to yourself. Find it and fix that. Maybe you are too clingy and too afraid. We need something more
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:22 PM
1

Sounds like they don't have their shit together etc they haven't accepted themselves and still give too many fucks and its just the fassade that stems out of need to abide social definition of success and to prove something to someone rather than themselves.
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:58 PM
1

For 9 that I tried this tehnique 8 worked out. I used differemt approach on other matches and didn't get a success rate as close to.as this. It won't work on thots obviously. Also. Nobody forbids to shorten it and use less expression.
/r/seduction13/03/18 12:15 PM
1

It worked every time for me (except for once) and I sealed the date right away. I just failed the next part by texting too much afterwards and being boring on date or realizing that she is too boring for me.
/r/seduction13/03/18 11:59 AM
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The one opener that helped me almost 100% of the time was using the tactic of Observation, Approval of her Competence, Mystery and Compliment. For example you have a cute girl with profile info that says she loves dogs and there is a tulip flower she is holding in one pic and a sushi in other. Example: Me: Hi, after inspecting your profile I have come to the conclusion that your expertise will be able to help me solve this one urgent matter and I would really need your opinion on this situation?…
/r/seduction13/03/18 08:33 AM
5

Wrong. Many newbies are depressed and inner game should be considered as curing mechanism for a disease (lack of inner game). I'll give you a simple example: You have a disease (and you are of poor health in general). You can't expect to cure your disease by doing daily running routines to set a new world record. You will only make yourself sicker amd eventually die. That is why you first cure your disease and then begin your running training which gives you better health over time which in turn…
/r/seduction13/03/18 07:42 AM
5

Why are you discouraging me ? :( I am not 10% and I don't want to get banged up with booze. So I assume OP also is not 10%. Basically from your 2 comments I get the vibe that girls won't approach us (only drunk or not cute ones will maybe try to approach you in a bar if you are out of 10%) and neither should we approach them because it will almost certainly not work.
/r/seduction12/03/18 03:28 PM
25

So basically your advice is to never approach unless you are hot ?
/r/seduction12/03/18 02:19 PM
3

Low self esteem is unnatural therefore you probably won't click with anyone. You will maybe find someone as depressed as you but that will be a toxic relationship. Perceive yourself as an animal. Getting laid means being close to the top of your species. You are a survivor. Low self esteem is the opposite. Nobody wants a sad insecure sob because he is a high risk to security and well-being of a family/tribe. Forget all that shit your mum told you about you being the best and how being simply rom…
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:49 PM
1

Why are you talking like this is the end of the line? Go quickly get some rejections!
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:21 AM
1

To.add to the gym comments I'd say Kaizen is your solution. Search for this method and you will quickly make a habit out of everything you want but are too lazy to do.
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:19 PM
3

Make an eye contact so they blush away (if you are decent looking. If not se point 2.) Make an eye contact amd genuinely smile but not for too long. See if girls smile back. Don't intimidate people
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:10 PM
5

I want to see how a poor depressed nice guy schmuck that hasn't sorted himself out will get laid tonight. It was a metaphor which was meamt to be read this way "Bad boys act. Nice guys wait".
/r/seduction09/03/18 09:19 PM
19

Bad boy reads the sidebar. Nice guy is too lazy to do it.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:59 PM
39

To correct myself. This post is useful for hot dudes that are socially retarded.
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:52 AM
24

What is the point of this post? You already gave her plenty of IOI's the first time you met and now you are talking about it like it is a fresh set. You already created an artificial situation where her IOI's were created out of previous experience with you which you never mentioned in detail. She was already into you and dtf so that is why she agreed to meet at your place. I don't think the message you are conveying here will help a lot of dudes because building attraction involves some work fr…
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:50 AM
1

After reading through your rant one can assume that you just want to find an excuse why nothing can help you.
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:44 PM
6

"What a feisty lil thang"
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:11 PM
2

Wrong. If you are confident enough and present yourself very good you give her number like you don't give a fuck if she calls you back because you have this abundance mentality. Texting is not a courageous form of communication so if she sees that you can talk and you present yourself well she will assume that you are not afraid to text. You are not needy. But if you act like a shy weirdo and hand out your number written on a paper it most likely means you are afraid to lead. It always comes dow…
/r/seduction27/02/18 12:47 PM
-2

Pls give an example
/r/seduction23/02/18 07:19 PM
5

Allstar
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:02 PM
3

But what if it is just two girls? Same? My bad I didn't include it in my text. Gonna go edit
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:58 PM
6

" Yeah it's all cool, but can they cry during the ending of Titanic?.. "
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:39 PM
1

Written by a feminist.. mm okay?
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:34 PM
2

I enjoyed these actually. I know you got downvoted on your own comments because they were probably considered weird some times. My recommendation would be not to engage in responding or trying to keep the thread alive as it is time conduming. As you see your latest shit test hit off really well while previous didn't - idk why. Probably because people are seeking some comedic value in these threads and some of the shit tests are hard to respond in a funny way so people don't try and the thread is…
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:30 PM
1

Did you close any of those chicks or were you just clowning around?
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:58 PM
18

Didn't you already get an answer that you are up your own ass and full of shit insecure beta boy the last time you posted this " look at me. Im alpha, they are all insecure" post?
/r/seduction17/02/18 11:15 PM
1

If a guy is overly drunk and wants to escalate to a fight no matter what, you leave the scene. Fighting him won't accomplish anything. Neither will picking on him - it will more likely either drive him mad until a point of physical confrontation. You either ignore him or be cheerful and let him see that he is ruining the party. Once again, if he's drunk the scene is best left alone.
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:54 PM
2

Could be this or it could be that she is just being friendly. Idk how long do you know each other. That is why context and basic info matters.
/r/seduction17/02/18 07:56 AM
1

What are the details and the context of conversation? What does "the same way" mean - is it her tonality, speed at which she talks, recurring words?
/r/seduction16/02/18 05:57 PM
1

+1 will try
/r/seduction16/02/18 05:50 PM
1

It doesn't grow that much. I can have sexy stubs though.
/r/seduction16/02/18 12:27 PM
2

Needs more context
/r/seduction16/02/18 09:39 AM
2

What hair products should I choose to improve my game? P.s. I am bald
/r/seduction16/02/18 09:38 AM
7

"Even my dance teacher gave up on me."
/r/seduction15/02/18 10:06 PM
0

Because you are a Russian (judging by your username) so it is entirely different story therefore your commemt doesn't count
/r/seduction15/02/18 06:52 PM
2

"If you could offer anything else too maybe we could see where this goes"
/r/seduction14/02/18 05:33 PM
1

On a serious note - if the communication is going well then initiate physical contact. If it is a beginning : shout out loud "Look at those tits" if there is a boobed woman, then ask her if she thinks they are real.
/r/seduction13/02/18 07:11 PM
22

Dump her. She does not value you, therefore she does not deserve you. Get that through your head. You can remain friends only on condition that you have moved on. Otherwise cut all the contact and don't leave her options of putting blame on you.
/r/seduction13/02/18 10:50 AM
5

:D :D
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:40 PM
27

Wtf am I reading? Idk why, but it seems funny af. Gosh this sub...
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:40 PM
1

"I know right!? Like Miley Cyrus. Go figure"
/r/seduction11/02/18 07:02 PM
3

Wtf? Why is there a push and pull 2 years into dating? If you are still unsure about her commitment and investment in you then you should have ditched her a long time ago. But as you mentioned you have sex every date- so why even try something else? Or you have just overread and oversimplified this whole board from "seduction" to "manipulation". What is your problem?
/r/seduction11/02/18 10:45 AM
1

Self deprecation should be used just for laughs in apropriate situations. The joke should not be about something you are insecure about but on the contrary. You should use self deprecation only on things you are confident about and the joke should be absurd e.g. during the scene it is well established that you dress well and you feel confident about your style (you even get compliments from guys and girls). You can answer to one of these compliments with a comment like "Yeah I guess I owe my mom…
/r/seduction11/02/18 10:19 AM
1

Ok how you normally diffuse the boyfriend shit test and how do you tell the difference between truth or a shit test?
/r/seduction09/02/18 02:33 PM
1

I guess so too. But they will be forced to ask a question, because it is a puzzling answer. From there I can offer her to show that movie at my place or bring this line about Cage saving his brother later on. Be it like a special term only two of us know.
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:53 PM
2

The 1 out of 50 that Nicolas Cage is after to save his brother's life.
/r/seduction08/02/18 06:31 PM
7

Only if you watch me doing it and hold her hand
/r/seduction07/02/18 04:36 PM
2

EU oldest states are also considered Western world. Ding dong
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:53 AM
1

literally break ice because it is such a brick
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:47 PM
12

Yes it is. I use it to beak ice. smirk
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:46 PM
9

This is why the West is crumbling
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:43 PM
3

Congats, bro! I hope it works out well for you! A question on the side, what would you do if she flat out told you she has a boyfriend?
/r/seduction05/02/18 11:09 AM
1

Every book tells me to be quick amd act quick. That is why I think that there is something fundamentally wrong with me because I have talked to hundreds of girls and only after time did I realize that I like some of them. Many of them told me that I was too hesitant and that I can be more suitable just as a friend. I was not slow because I was afraid or something - I just wasn't attracted at that moment. I have been single all my life and I am nearly 30. Had a gf for a couple of months 5 years a…
/r/seduction01/02/18 10:24 AM
3

Shhh... I am just trying prove a point. DELET THIS
/r/seduction29/01/18 10:40 PM
4

That is basically what Mark Manson says about showing vulnerabilities and not being afraid of yourself. Women get emotionally excited if you expose your weaknesses. But you have to own it.
/r/seduction24/01/18 08:38 PM
1

You don't. You are.
/r/seduction05/01/18 07:59 PM
1

She can fuck right off. Tell her you have more than 5000 friends so there is no use for a profile.
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:30 PM
44

You are not a wizard, Harry! Congratulations! Tell us how it went
/r/seduction03/01/18 07:22 PM
1

Looks matter about 80% if you have no status or game. If you have game, this proportion is reduced to maybe 50%. If you have very good status, almost everyone knows you amd you got game - its 30%. Nowhere in the world you will see an ugly dude with no status to have a nice chick by his side. Even if he has A level game. Stop spreading this one sided false paradigm that game saves you. There is more to work on - if you are ugly, too bad for you. You have to work out, dress sharp, have money amd h…
/r/seduction03/01/18 02:57 PM
1

Had 20 matches in 3 months while swiping about 50% of the girls right. It was after I made a better profile. Got 2 dates that went to shitter. When my profile wasn't adjusted, I got 20 matches in 1.5 years and zero dates. So no, for me Tinder is not a goldmine. More like a curse. Restarted it again. Couple of thousand swipes - got 4 likes and 1 match. You have to be a retard to not score a date if you get a load of matches that quick by being good looking and you should be nowhere near this boar…
/r/seduction03/01/18 02:45 PM
1

Explain
/r/seduction28/12/17 09:17 PM
1

How does one work on his attractivness? Not talking about game but about the real substance
/r/seduction27/12/17 07:49 PM
1

How old are you? I am guessing there is an age difference between us.
/r/seduction26/12/17 12:47 PM
1

What do you suggest if they tell me that it is bad that I haven't had a shared household with a gf - because that is the main neg for them that I haven't lived together with anyone. There is little to no explanation for that - one time when I told that I had a gf (that one) but we did not live together, the date started literally giving ne critique on that matter.
/r/seduction26/12/17 11:37 AM
1

Good advice.
/r/seduction25/12/17 09:21 PM
2

Read my previous edit. At OP I was talking about convos this year. I was true to them before.
/r/seduction25/12/17 09:20 PM
0

Isn't that what game is all about at least in the terms of overhyping yourself in order to look confident and maintaining your frame when you get tested all the time? I have been true to myself and people all this time. Now I am here. Every single girl got creeped out after I answered them truthfully. Didn't even get the chance to show my personality. Edit: For the past year I have been trying to not come clean as long as possible but it doesn't work either
/r/seduction25/12/17 08:44 PM
2

Thanks. How many times have you done this?
/r/seduction25/12/17 07:02 PM
2

Ok, but how long will I need to be lying? Those shit tests never stop. If I am not able to make her feel in such way that she doesn't need to bring up the relationship experience question, those questions are going to come in. E.g. what kind of presents did you give your girlfriends etc.
/r/seduction25/12/17 07:01 PM
2

I hàve nothing to tell there. I should improve my storytelling abilities though it won't help me answering the incoming questions.
/r/seduction25/12/17 06:58 PM
-1

Yes, for about a year and a half I have been going out. Generally barmaids are more affectionate towards clientel but not this time. She does not like talking with clients very much and ignores guys trying to hit on her but rather comes to me. It happens even more when I gather a bunch of friends (also hers) around me and become the center of attention. I am not saying this to defend my position rather to explain that she is not using work on me.
/r/seduction24/12/17 02:20 PM
2

Thanks for your comment but I probably wont ask her out. I think in this situation the initial move has to come from her.
/r/seduction24/12/17 11:51 AM
1

I am not trying to interfere. That bar is my second home and I won't leave it over the awkwardness which ensues after a failed attempt. If she's into me, she will probably let me know. Until then I will carry on like I did before
/r/seduction24/12/17 11:49 AM
0

Not trying to ruin anything. That bar is my second home. So I don't want to make it all awkward. If she is into me, she will probably have to show it.
/r/seduction24/12/17 11:40 AM
1

It was not my intention. I have seen and met many girls and there are little to none that have sparked my interest throughout 7 years of my life on the passive dating scene. I probably won't. Are there any signs to which I should react?
/r/seduction24/12/17 11:38 AM
1

I don't know the person. These dates come mainly from dating apps. Yes, I should do more IRL approach so I could use your date suggestion
/r/seduction11/12/17 11:35 AM
1

I get bored and thus the potential attraction fades away. I lose it. I cannot say that all the women have tge same situation with me. Some of them are trying to talk more but it just goes nowhere from there.
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:23 AM
1

I usually joke and use sarcasms with a bit different voice. It is funnier and goofier and definitely stands out. Thanks
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:22 AM
1

It is the way I talk and it is my natural state. I always joke about various topics and use mild sarcasm or humour just to take off the tension. I hate formal talk. To answer your question, the first dates are mostly just eating out or having a few drinks. I take them to more interestimg places like escape rooms or other more active places only later when I have that feeling that it is worth it. Also I am not here talking about PUA just to score with chick as quickly as possible. I am too lazy a…
/r/seduction10/12/17 11:27 PM
1

I talk like a redneck back or look at him calmy with a smile full of belittling contempt like.
/r/seduction02/09/17 06:02 PM
2

Isn't it a sign of insecurity when you become agressive if you haven't sealed the deal yet?
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:42 PM
3

Rationally you know that but still will be drawn to a flirtatious convo. Because women feel and think differently. Stop giving this guy false information. Normal talk is boring and women hate boredom. This guy will have tough time implememnting this advice because some random dude with over the top idiotic and funny but confident statememlnts will steal the girl right from his nose. He will be baffled and depressed because there will be no explanation sine literally every women will tell him the…
/r/seduction31/08/17 11:01 AM
-4

Well. If primal mind took over my senses my dick wouldn't be limp after I put rubber on it. What do you use?
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:57 PM
-2

What is the statistical prevalence of STD's in young women in your area? Just asking.
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:57 PM
-1

Stop memorizing. Start learning
/r/seduction29/08/17 12:09 PM
2

Why would you do that? Next time escalate (she will do it too if she wants it) until not one of you cares about the TV. Then go smoke. After you have finished your job.
/r/seduction28/08/17 11:56 AM
1

Also, you should have cuddled more while the movie was on. That is when she probably realized you are not confident enough. When did you stop cuddling?
/r/seduction28/08/17 11:45 AM
11

Y-y-ou too
/r/seduction28/08/17 11:19 AM
3

---so I told her that I have to confess, that it's beating so fast, because I am nervous that if I try to kiss her, will she kiss me back or slap me? --- Here is your answer. You didn't close the deal and showed her that you are insecure and not able to take what you want. When she asked you for a hug, you just had to pull her closer to you and ask her "how about a kiss?" and without even waiting for answer you had to lean in and seal the deal.
/r/seduction28/08/17 11:15 AM
1

If you are cute. I once made a similar move and it resulted in "I don't really know you and I am with my friends okay?"
/r/seduction28/08/17 10:46 AM
1

Ok
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:46 AM
1

Ok I get it. It means you have 50/50 chance of those girls reapproaching you after you get bored. Because you play the game of possibilities and rely on luck
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:04 PM
-3

Serious relationship. I have got it first without sex or kiss on a first date.
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:49 PM
-1

I answered my question in the OP. What did you not get? I want serious relationship
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:27 PM
3

I am pretty conservative (Eastern Europe) amd I would test the girl. Also my insecurity on this topic probably stems from my need to sort out girls from those who are dtf to solid relationship material.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:11 PM
12

I specifically mentioned: first date I don't understand how sticking my dick on the first date will bring us emotionally closer. Not talking about hookups or ONS.
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:54 PM
6

What has this comment to do with his situation that she jumped off the escalation train? They both knew where this is going. Shoo shoo virgin white knight.
/r/seduction24/08/17 12:36 PM
1

How would you rate your looks out of 10 and how your friends rate you? Asking out of curiosity because I am not sure a non-hamdsome male could pull something like that off without being overly confident and having proven his very high status. Simple confidence from am ugly dude with no status won't cut it, would it?
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:00 AM
1

Thanks for your response. How do you usually respond to "Why did you leave?". You make some bullshit excuse about little unimportant things (like found a long lost friend , had to talk to him) or you try to show off?
/r/seduction23/08/17 10:17 PM
2

How's your fedora?
/r/seduction22/08/17 10:59 PM
1

Tell me more in detail how calling out worked. What line she came up with when she turned to you?
/r/seduction22/08/17 10:15 PM
-1

I had a similar situation but not as sad and depressing. A very cute girl I had gone to a few dates and chickened out to make a move ended up in porn recently. And no. She wasn't the type to go into such thing. She was quiet, not very sexually appealing (great body though, but didn't dress too revealing), studied hard, was partying moderately, liked photography of nature and cultural elements. Well. If I had not chickened out and made a move, I would've provided for her and she wouldn't have to …
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:46 PM
2

If you are new in the workplace maybe they feel insecure about you. Maybe you pose some competition for them and they try to slow you down. I was constantly reminded in my workplace when I started young that I am too quick to judge, too quick to act. I do things similarly now as I did then and nobody complains because I have gained my reputation. If they were older I'd understand as it would probably be age difference.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:17 PM
2

How old are your colleagues?
/r/seduction21/08/17 02:16 PM
6

I have faked a Tinder account myself. I put some random 'jawy' jock type male and tge matches were absolutely ridiculous. I live in a not densely populated area but I got 80 matches in 3 days opposing to 17 matches in a year with my real profile (which had decent photos). I could insult girls and they instantly became submissive and willing to do anything to please my judging character. Shit was just too easy/bordering on boring. With my real account however they wont even respond to whatever te…
/r/seduction21/08/17 12:28 PM
6

If an 8 makes IOI while you are doing basic primal things (eating) then you didn't need game in the first place and you can thank yourself for lifting 4 years straight.
/r/seduction20/08/17 10:05 PM
1

I have never heard of such creature. Women mostly dislike that noise. They like calmness.
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:57 PM
1

Well. You have a lot of time on your hands
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:56 PM
1

I am not a pessimist.People view me that way but I am not. I am a realist. I don't think of the worst possible scenario as if it will happen. I assess situation and mostly make correct assumptions based on my field expertise and I warn people. If things won't go wrong in my opinion I won't say that the worst is about to happen. I'll tell people not to worry.
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:55 PM
1

Sorry If it looked that way. As I said it was chaotic. Probably should've made an edit. I am trying to think of which things I have to change in order to not die alone :) u/immenseimme helped a bit with that
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:51 PM
1

Thank you for your input and clarification. It means a lot. Next thing I will have problem with is probably being too cautious and not taking risks e.g. trying to make a safety net for every situation which will look more like an insecurity and fear from my side which I admit will be generally true in most cases. I am just too conservative and too grumpy for my age.
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:49 PM
2

I am so sorry for the downvotes. Thanks for comprehensive answer. I am ok with analysis (say comments) of the first 4 and 6th quotation. I am having trouble understanding 5th and 7th Also 8th and 9th about creating emotions. Talking about metal music. I want my girl to enjoy it. If it is a no, I can't have her. Do girls really change their taste? I don't think so
/r/seduction16/08/17 01:02 AM
1

I wouldn't call my opinions edgy. I don't always jump in with my input. I only do it in topics I have understanding in. I am reluctant to give opinion if asked in topics I am not very good at My opinionated behavior would have nothing to do with high social status if I had one. People fall for the status meme because of the status not because the way the status was achieved. People love popular musicians, high school jocks and pornstars and if they love them majority of them don't give a flying …
/r/seduction16/08/17 12:49 AM
1

I am not into goth though
/r/seduction16/08/17 12:46 AM
1

I think you are wrong on the matter of grand scheme of things. Every little detail makes up the pattern and fabric of society. I can't turn of my ears. I have to have my attention tilted to something interesting so I could ignore all the bullshit filling my ears. Typical example- my coworker doesn't hear what I am talking on the phone but I hear her and I can't unhear her. And it happens everywhete. If I had a girl gaze at me with her beautiful eyes and I was in love I would totally ignore every…
/r/seduction16/08/17 12:43 AM
0

I don't know what to change exactly. I read that seddit post about accepting and loving yourself being the key to success. I like myself.
/r/seduction16/08/17 12:23 AM
1

See!? That is what I am talking about. I didn't insult anyone in particular and someone already gets butthurt. I wish I could have such capabilities of being so emotional. Maybe it could help me. And trust me. I will reproduce.
/r/seduction16/08/17 12:21 AM
2

Her IRL looks 7 instead of 9 and nutjob attitude shows she has some mental issues. Whether clinical or temporary stress related it doesn't matter anymore. You did nothing wrong. She was a nut case to begin with and even if it was temporary you wouldn't want to continue dating to see it happen again if something doesn't go her way.
/r/seduction15/08/17 02:12 PM
3

Me too
/r/seduction15/08/17 07:54 AM
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