Having female friends

hunterpua · 2020-09-15T19:44:50+00:00

It means women are very comfortable with you. That will actually help your dating life because they know other girls and you might be attracted to some of the ones they know.

Also, when girls outside your group sees how comfortable all your female friends are with you they will assume you're at least a cool guy to hang out with and they will be more approachable to you.

Heck, you can even have your female friends approach girls for you by doing things like daring them to.

Girls also pry into things like your dating experiences and how you groom or dress yourself which causes them to give you tips on how to put yourself together and what to do with the girls you like, and if the girl you like is a friend of theirs they'll even ask her what she likes and tell you to give you better odds.

And like you said, the company is enjoyable so that's a plus.

Nourishing friendships with girls is one of the most beneficial things you can do for your dating life.

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NateHate1402 · 2020-09-15T19:31:43+00:00

It says you have female friends. If anything it’s beneficial as other girls will know your not a weirdo because other girls accept you.

causeNo · 2020-09-15T19:34:01+00:00

It's good. Shows you are pleasant to be around for girls and if they even share intimate details they feel very secure and comfortable with you.

excentrik-art · 2020-09-15T22:42:07+00:00

It makes you a human.

I have dozens of male friends I dont want to be closer friends with, I have dozens of female friends I dont want to fuck.

If you want to leverage your female friends to benefit you, go to party with two or three. This makes you instant center of attention

Rooke33 · 2020-09-16T02:19:12+00:00

Your female friends have female friends......

Also having women in your life shows social proof....

Your female friends can wing you....

Keep friends that are cool regardless of their gender...

Ierax29 · 2020-09-17T15:42:46+00:00

Female friends can introduce you to more girls and if they like you they will "vouch" for you

2020-09-15T20:49:47+00:00

It’s not bad but it’s a slippery slope. Pull away from them for a few months and shag something else. Then go back to them.

2020-09-15T20:11:57+00:00

Should you get rid of them?

Wouldn't make you a very good friend....

Do you have a lot of male friends? Why aren't you sexually attracted to them?

What does it say about you

Could be any number of things:
You might have intimacy problems with men.
You might have some gender-issues, maybe you have some gay tendencies you're afraid to face, maybe you're scared of males due to childhood trama.
Maybe none of this is true and it's just random.

If women share details of their intimate life, but not men, that says something, maybe good, maybe bad, maybe neutral, you'd have to have more insight into why this is true.

I've generally found that well-rounded individuals that are good friends and great to hang with have a variety of friends, male, female, old, young, different races, sexual preferences, etc., and that they have friends who are sexually attractive but that they don't have sex with because they are friends (or maybe, in some cases, they have a fwb arrangement and that's fine too).

The company is enyojable.

The only time you should consider decreasing time spent with friends that's enjoyable is when it's become a hindrance to other things you'd really enjoy (like a sexual relationship or sports or hobbies or whatever).

Doesn't mean to ditch them, just find a balance. There's no reason not to have a balance and variety of friendships.

As a sidebar, it's both frustrating and great to have female friends who are platonic but that you'd totally like to fuck. It's good practice to be around them and not violate their space and it's good for social value to be friends with attractive awesome women that you're not only not fucking (although you'd like to) but that you wing-man for because you care about them.

Title	Having female friends
Author	SocialReject101
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	September 15, 2020 7:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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