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Plenty of great advice, I would add - effort vs energy. Imagine 4 youtubers, with different style of comunication. First one is talking slowly and silently, does not show emotions, is kind of boring. He does not tries hard, and his energy is low. Second one is still talking loud and fast, but his emotions are stiff and repressed. He tries hard, but his energy is low. Third one is talking loud, fast, and is energetic, showing emotions but with outbursts without controll. He tries hard, and has hi…
/r/seduction11/04/24 07:51 PM
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Every man can be attractive, given he knows how to present his value in ways other than beauty. Humour, charm, social circle, money, achievements, sport, fame
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:07 AM
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Easy, start like you would pick up any other chick, keep her talking about herself, when probed if you agree with whatever policy is most actual - just agree. Keep doing regular chick attitude + you know all the answers if you do some prep
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:39 PM
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My 6'3" fiancee would agree
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:23 PM
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Get yourself some british pith helmet, long rifle and a good spot to observe the water reservoir. When they approach to dring, approach them with a smile and confidence and let them talk about themselves. While building rapport, make them laugh and be a little naughty to spark attraction. Take them down by offering an official date.
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:16 PM
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Well then you must bring balance in your behaviour. Attend improv classes, learn about humour
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:32 PM
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Women will prefer a guy that does not have to try, over a guy that has to try hard. You know that guy that enters a room and the room gets quiet? He does not have to try. A guy cant even get people to shut while hes talking? Yeah he has to try really hard. There is one benefit - a guy that has to try hard will keep trying hard in other parts of life like a work ethics, valuable skills, networking and business. Guys like this usually has career and money, and will enjoy girls attention because of…
/r/seduction13/09/22 09:38 AM
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Learn approaching. Hi, my name is (blank), you seem like a nice person to talk to, wanna hangout? I have a free (time period). Dont overthink, dont overdo. Be chill and cool. There is no pressure, no judging. It will feel weird, but be ok even if refused. Just say - cool, maybe next time then, have a nice day.
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:02 AM
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Wow, I should stop reddediting and driving, I wrote only half of what I wanted. Europe is 1st world, but men dont get vilified here as much. More east you travel, more traditional people are there, understanding traditional roles of men and women. Things are progressing, but nowhere near USA level
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:40 AM
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What I said is not carved in stone. Honesty and not giving a shit is a way to got
/r/seduction10/09/22 09:41 AM
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Funny, I would say entire Europe is 1st world. Except we have kinda lower income, lower prices, fewer homeless people and free health care
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:03 PM
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Agree, I have seen an two times Afghanistan first line type of guy, that has seen some real shit, this guy was still nervous to talk to a girl. The worst part is that some girls enjoy that power, so it is up to us, experinced guys to help them not be a victim
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:27 PM
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That is sad and it supports individualism and selfishness. Luckily, I live in more traditional part of Europe, and here its normal that I want to be better for her, and she wants to be better for me. And when either of US gets out of line we talk about it and try to improve it. You know, like a familly should
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:16 PM
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Well the name is kinda fitting, because those test usually feels like shit
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:49 PM
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My friend, dont brag. A, noone cares, B, they dont believe you, C, it makes you look cringy
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:48 PM
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Yes it is manipulative, I agree. It is a mean to an end. Some guys just want to fuck, untill they meet someone in whom they will see potential. Not an average girl that is boring and has nothing going on, sitting with IG collecting likes, but a girl that will help him, care for him, make his life easy so he can make her and their babies life easy. Lets not forget, relationship or marriage with best possible candidate is a female goal. Male goal is providing for many of his offsprings with many d…
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:44 PM
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Indeed, but for some people it is the only way to find their way into becoming cool. They have to fake it, suck at it, crawl through denial and disrespect of peers, only to learn how about its nuances, and then become actually supercool
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:29 PM
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Mostly you have it right. It actually is about hiding your personality, but the reason is good eventually. You know how its said - fake it till you make it? Some people see no other way to became courageous enough to talk to a girl, for example. So they hide the coward, and sometimes it works. And more they do it, less cowardly they actually are, and better are their chances. And after few years of faking they dont have to fake it anymore, they actually are courageous, which improves many parts …
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:25 PM
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Bad approach, you will never just meet a person that will check all your boxes. But people will totally pretend to be your soulmate for any number of reason. You need to filter out genuine ones, and keep them. Are there posibilies of making someone angry or losing one in the process? Yes, but benefits are far greater
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:51 PM
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Wow welcome to real world, Columbus, people are not allways honest with you, specially when guys want to pork
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:34 PM
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My approach is - if it can be easilly turned into a joke, do it, but never more than neccessary, dont turn into a clown. If its not easilly turned into a joke, or its degrading, I just get annoyed. In grey zone - say no with a smile. Allways quickly follow with some iniciated action - lets change venues - like you dont give a shit ProTip: actually dont give a shit. Women you want to be with will appreciate if you wont just accept their shitstorms
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:32 PM
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Its not invented, its discovered. It is an observed behaviour. And it is true. It is a test to see if a person is genuine in their behaviour. When introduced to an unexpected question, fake personality will be revealed
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:18 PM
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Its not invented, its discovered. It is an observed behaviour. And it is true. It is a test to see if a person is genuine in their behaviour. When introduced to an unexpected question, fake personality will be revealed
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:17 PM
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Thank you. If you want someone to walk you throught self-improvement stage of life, you better hire full-time coach. Just identify what you want from life and hire a person to walk you throught it
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:49 PM
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You want someone that will take your hand hand and walk you through it, telling you what to do. You dont want to take the responsibility. You like the feeling of people feeling sorry for you, while you whine. Yes, those traits are undateable and unf-able
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:27 PM
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Try not to view girls as the prize, putting them on the piedestal. TRY (and fail many times) TO THINK THAT : Those girls approach you to actually talk to you about stuff, life, friends and familly. Just talk about values, politics, what you like and dislike. No hidden agenda, no lies, no sexual innuendos. View them as your potential friends .... (in case you look for LTR). ​ [... if you are not looking for LTR, or the girls is hot but for the streets, well, treat her accordingly. Never respect h…
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:58 PM
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Geez, what is the problem? In 66 % less then 3 will show up. Next, you talking to more obviously single girls will only increase your social value in eyes of other girls (even not included), reinforcing their idea in you being a good fuck candidate. Next, those girls will not open up about your relationship to a stranger, unless heavily intoxicated, which is a condition you can actually control. Next, a probability of having a x-some is real if you have the balls to pull it off. Next, even if no…
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:50 PM
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Once you learn seduction on drugs (even prescription), you will need them always. Once you will get of them, lets say in LTR, you will never be the same. Addiction for life guaranteed. Worst solution possible
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:59 AM
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For da booty
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:56 PM
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Never go 0 flirting never go 100 flirting. Always go for a little polite funny callibrated flirting
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:45 AM
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Welcome to the real world. There are no achievments for meaningless things
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:57 AM
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reductionist perspective that has little to do with evolution No. We evolved this way. There was never in history someone going around houses advertising cheating as an alternative lifestyle. It is in our genes and our minds. gender biased perspective of cheating Yes. I am a man. I have experienced this life from a perspective of a male. I would say you have perspective of female. Your view is biased as much as mine. Only from the other way around. I think it's rather common Maybe, you know it d…
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:25 PM
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Oh years and years of giving so much shit about every shit and shitty people, then slowly realising that I am better than this and not giving shit anymore
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:17 PM
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No, its literally a way of life. Dont be easy. Dont be that guy that is available all the time. Not being negative, but saying no has so much power over people. Make them want you, and then refuse, but redirect a little. So much power
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:15 PM
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(hint - that was actually the answer in a way)
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:27 PM
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no
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:26 PM
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If you want me to give a shit, you need to give me a reason. Some people dont need to, you know, familly, loved ones, those whom trully deserve it. But if we just met? We are friends for 2 weeks? Nah, you want me to give a shit? Give me a reason
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:21 AM
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Ok, most of this is really watered down and filtered, but not too far from the truth. Yes, men and women cheat roughly equally, but for different reasons. Female cheating is in majority of cases driven by not being attracted to current partner, and seeking a better one. In minority of cases, it is the thrill of adventure, but this usually occurs in younger girls that do not put value in long term relationships yet. And vice versa. male cheating is in majority of cases driven by the thrill of adv…
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:14 AM
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Best would be to so not needy, that she will want to go out with you. Show her just how much fun you have without her, and that you might want to have this much fun with her, but you dont have as much free time now
/r/seduction04/05/22 09:42 AM
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Because with new people you give a shit. With people you already know you dont give a shit. As I always say - Shit is something I dont give.
/r/seduction04/05/22 09:35 AM
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I dont think there is someone who would say - yeah X is not enough but X+200 is enough. You will not see any difference between 300 and 400 there and then. But in retrospect, there will be a gradual increase of callibration and success. Also me approaching and you approachin will have different learning curves. Some people has previous experience, and will get good quickly because they analyse their mistakes and work hard to improve themselves. Some will take a decade, because they do cold appro…
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:17 AM
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Since noone actually cares about your job untill they care about you, when being asked for a first time by a new person, you should express your funny nature and joke about your profession. So when asked what do you do for a living, tell them you are a butt-double for Jack Black. Or that you go with your scissors to hair-hunts in night clubs for toupee making. Be obviously joking, create something your own that might lead to a talk about some topic you like
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:16 PM
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With this amount of effort from your side? No
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:02 AM
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Well, I would say - who cares? In this case, the retrospective confirmation takes place. If things works out, people will eventually only remember the things that lead up to the success. The how and why is forgotten, only the feelings and events are kept in memories. Look at Donald Trump. Would you say he is an attractive male? From a physical standpoint, no. From power/money perspective yes. Would a top 10 supermodel fuck him? Yes. Attraction for males and females is not equal. You would not fu…
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:22 AM
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Well there are still plenty of women with no standarts
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:12 PM
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This plus you can teach her what you like, how she should treat you. 40 smth lady will rarely change for you.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:07 PM
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Understandable. I believe that you will get better
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:06 PM
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Just as I said in my answer to Krukoslik. Same thing. Also - Fun, charisma, interesting hobbies, adventures - promise of a lifestyle. I never talked about money. Lifestyle can be travel in caravan
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:05 PM
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I don't doubt that it is not mainstream to tell the truth. But you know, it will get to people sooner or later, so I try to help
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:00 PM
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Noone deserves anything. You have got to earn what you want
/r/seduction12/04/22 02:57 PM
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Cool yeah, you might be right. They might not marry him. What do you want to say by it?
/r/seduction12/04/22 02:02 PM
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Well if you think that most women has chance of having high value men, then I am pigeonholed. If you think that we all are special and deserve to be treated specially, then I am pigeonholed.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:48 PM
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Well think about a different location with lower rent or cost of living. Even different country. The good part of financial crisis is that there are opportunities to be taken. If you start sth now, when companies collapse, when the market stabilise more, you will have fewer companies competing
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:45 PM
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I know I have a lot of learning. I love learning. But what does a lady in her 40s got what ladies in their 20s has not?
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:34 PM
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I agree. I will just specify that I never said anything about money. I stated correctly - provide a lifestyle. If a girl loves low cost travelling in a caravan - then provider of this lifestyle is high value to her.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:24 PM
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Well, I know this is not popular opinion, but this is how us men view the sexual market place. For men, our future is what matters to us and our potential wives. For ladies, their past is important, because it is an indicator of their future
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:17 PM
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I know this is getting worse and worse. Us men, we just got to suck it up, get better, learn skills. Starting after 30 means risks. If those risks are well calculated, then it may be worth the time. Learning AI in python when you have free time and starting some idea, or anything else. Chances are there, you just have to grab it.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:15 PM
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Yeah, I know that plenty of them already got the memo that they have no chance of winning high value guy or worse, still think they are unique and deserve to be treated as princesses
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:58 PM
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Yes, sexual value is what you said, I pointed what gives a high value to a girl. Look at Bezos/Musk/... wives. No supermodels there. You say between 20 and 30. Ok I wanted to keep it short so 25 on average. ​ Ok lets break down the relationship/sex dynamics. Most men will will want sex from women. Women are the ones that has to say yes. Most women will want a relationship from men. Men are the ones that has to say yes. So women controlls access to sex, men controlls access to relationships. I am…
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:43 PM
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Woman commits to a man and to be faithful. Man commits to protect and provide. Men's value is not increased by being faithful. Just ask any girl - Would you marry the new superfamous rapper/singer/actor/youtuber, if you were to share him with other girls? 90% of ladies will say - Yes with this guy I could do this if I was the main chick. Now ask any men - would you marry this superfamous rapper/singer/actor/youtuber if she had hundreds of sexual partners? Every man will say - well no, this is no…
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:32 PM
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I know, but you just let this small "issue" get in your way unnecessarily. You need to acknowledge that females are ones that needs to be physically attractive. Males attraction comes from confidence and social dominance.
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:48 AM
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It is the easiest form, they do something at least, so they are trying. And they usually try to "give/provide" what theyself want and lack - attention, compliments, invitations, approval, and so on.
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:33 PM
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Well they will get older, less men will want them, you will look great still in your 40s. You will attract 20y/o and they will only envy. Play the long game
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:26 PM
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Yes you need to get over it and start making friends. Even if you will have really introverted girl, you will never keep her if you will have no friends. I know it sucks, but thats reality
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:22 PM
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There are boring things to compliment, obvious things to compliment, earned things and original things to compliment. Boring things are - u r beautiful. You have nice eyes. Does not work. Ever. Its boring Obvious things are - complimenting big boobs. Its like she hears it every day and she did nothing to earn it. If she has fake boobs it may only works if they are very new. Earned things are athletic body, medal, promotion. It can work if done properly. Original things are little things you noti…
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:20 PM
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Well, I talked today to girls about it, it usually spreads in two groups - an OK group and BAD group. OK group had an ok time, compared to sex later in life. BAD group had terrible sex, painful usually. It depends usually on guys experience and comfort of location. If you have experienced guy who knows what to do, and makes you relaxed in an ok location, you will have ok time. If you have bad location like car or whatever where you are not relaxed, you are more prone to have bad time. Guy not ex…
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:01 PM
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Oh in real life, best scenario is to have cool friends that actually likes you, go out with them and have the most fun possible and show it. Then any girl will be ok to join you because they are bored and want to share that energy
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:15 AM
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Intrigue - invite her to sth private and intriguing, when meeting, intrigue her more Rapport - after 1 is ok, make her feel good, relaxed and safe Attraction - after 2 ok, convey (assumed) attraction, touch, strong eye contact... Escalate - after 3 ok, go for more, if she withdraws, repeat from 1
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:42 AM
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Okay heres what you do, text sth close to this: Hey random stranger from campus I just met, I was in a hurry and I totally forgot to introduce myself! I am ___, nice to meet you! I know its totally random, but today(tomorrow) I am going to _____ (multiple people thing with your friends, like open seminar/party/event), feel like joining me?
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:37 AM
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There is a crazy competition online, from a statistical point of view, like 20% of males are able to attract 80% of females, and the rest of 80% compete for 20% of females. So it is either compete for 20% or git gud for 80%. The point of getting to top 20% of men is not what you do, it is about quality of your "online dating profile." So no selfie pics, more professionaly (not linkedin style professionaly) taken photos - ideally with multiple hot ladies who look at you and laugh, "inconspicuousl…
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:31 AM
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Good for them. Nice sum of important life lessons
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:19 AM
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Just ask, there is no shame in that. Ask, and tell him your feelings. Its better than any other alternative
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:36 AM
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Nothing, ignore that person
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:36 AM
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Ignore the fact, treat her like you never even knew she was with someone a minute before
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:35 AM
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Oh like so many places. Forrest on a blanket/in a sleeping bag/in a tent, hayloft, abandoned places, car/truck, holiday cottage for rent, on a beach at night, top of a flat tall building
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:33 AM
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asap as she feels good and fun
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:22 AM
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NO. Life is not a romantic movie. Movie is a movie.
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:19 AM
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Yes absolutely. The point is never let it hurt you, its not personal. You know each other minutes or hours, its not personal. Just accept it and move on. Also analyse what did you do wrong given the specific girl
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:57 AM
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Well if you dont want the best approach I know - improv classes, then there is second best. Forcefully push through your fear, using baby steps method. Find sth that rewards you Find relatively safe situation where you are ok to talk in front of people #justdoitman Reward yourself right after Repeat
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:13 AM
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Your fear what you dont know. You fear judgement and negative response. You are not used to taking a leader postion. Also, you fear previous punishments, for example when your parents were angry at you for speaking at "inapropriate" occasions. Overcomming is easy, join improv classes. They are literally making this whole thing begginer friendly and to get rid of "stage fright" which is pretty much the same thing. You train in front of amateurs on same or simillar level, and only if you feel ok, …
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:08 AM
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This. Be an active listener(dont think about what to tell next when she is talking, just think about what she is saying and talk about that and develop it), Dont overcompliment (one compliment during date is fine - pick something interesting on her that can be talked about), If things go well, tell her some small secret and ask for one in return (nothing crazy, like - I have a secret, you wanna know it? sometimes I sneak in middle of the night to eat ice cream, I feel realy guilty about it but I…
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:32 AM
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There is literally thousands way, and different solution will work for different people in different groups in different cultures. There is no "one size fits all solution"
/r/seduction03/04/22 10:23 AM
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Rougly 30% of men are like this. Read this sub, there are plenty of advices around here, from start to finnish. But always start with you, being someone people likes to be with
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:04 AM
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Look, she wants attention, you will never meet. Texting is literally waste of time
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:06 PM
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There is only one way to find out. If she wants to meet you, she will. If she doesnt, she wont. You can always try to meet her by "accident" and talk to her a little
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:04 PM
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Friendzoned. Go to next one, this is no go
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:16 AM
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No. Just text her - Hey I have some free time tommorrow evening, feel like hanging out?
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:14 AM
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Only person that actually cares about your body fat is you. Noone is going to be impressed by your abs/muscles ALONE Attached pretty badly - yes you most likely will. Get over it asap Diversify what is interesting about you. Dont be obsessed about gym. Actively listen more than you talk Girls want sex too. Make it easy for them to have it with you. No judgement, no shaming, good experience. You dont have enough experience? No real problem, just comunicate this, you want to learn how to plase you…
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:11 AM
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I think highy of everyone that deserves it, and lowly of those that dont, males and females alike. Respect is earned, not given. If it was given freely, it would hold no meaning. I believe in equality of opportunity, not equality of outcome. If you boil people down to their instincts, we are social animals. Society provides luxury of having posibility of survinig alone. But is it really desirable? I think its egotistic. If you are alone, what is your purpose? You work because you must to have ro…
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:58 PM
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Online? Hardly. There are so many sources of enjoyment you can get within seconds online you are competing with. But also, you know that feeling when someone really hits the spot right? Girs has it too. It is just not easy to be unique and properly calibrated with so much competition and also so many experienced players. But in person? Oh so many ways. Number #1 technique you should use everyday - emotional rollercoaster. When talking, just plow your way through all diferent emotions and make he…
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:38 AM
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It should all boild down to what you like and what likes you special one, what both of you tolerate and where you set your borders. Having this talks, talking about problems openly is the best thing you can do in relationship. Also, having this conversation before relationship also reveals how well can the girl handle relationship problems, because there will be a lot of them. I am detached because I had some problems and issues and broken hearts and so on so many times after years of LTR that I…
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:23 AM
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I would say IG cosplayers are nothing but AW. Easy to work it in person, just give them attention, then show some value, make her laugh, be awesome, and retract that attention and make her feel a little boring, and she will beg for your attention
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:24 AM
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Well dozens of dicks definitely. But you forget one thing. There is a girl turning 18 every day. She can be easily replaced, and as you keep improving, there will be endless suply of yound impressionable girls for you to try on. And one you are ready, you will find one that suits if, if you keep getting better
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:42 AM
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:D I understand, but my main girl whom is ok with my life, is still in college, so when she graduates, I will marry her and go for kids. Perks? Oh so many. I dont give a shit about her crap. You can complain like anyone else, but if everything you do is complain? I am out. I dont care what happens tonight. I keep learning, I talk to talk, to make her laugh, to meet new people, learn new stuff I dont have time to research. I call her bullshit out. If you say some stuff wrong, I dont correct all t…
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:21 AM
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If you advance just now, I think it will lead nowhere. You need to improve your social standind to have them approach you, or start to appear more available to you. This is signal to you that you can start. Before you cut contact with that group, look for people that are there but dont really want to be there, and "rescue" them. Offer them better time, and you will make a friend for life, male of female. Being stern and hard on people is ok if you are in position of power. If you assume position…
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:56 AM
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Well then, you need to find the ones that actually try. Its low supply, but hey, there is a girl turning 18 every day. You have literally years of perfecting your skills. Hooking with 18yo is easier in your 30s, because now you have money, you have skills, you have experience and you can pull them with a "boiled noodle". I know I did last night. I am 32, she is 19. No problem, easy win, rocked her world. When I was 22? It would never be as easy. In time you will learn to spot those personalities…
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:32 AM
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You need to start to put value on your attention, values and time. If you just keep adding value to someone who does not care and offers nothing in return, then you do not add real value, you are just a next guy in a crowd who tries too hard. I think I can relay, I was kinda like this. Agreeable, helpful, not really complaining, just happy to be there and help. Literally, someone that is known as a tool. Those values are like an invitation that says - I have nothing going on, please invite me, I…
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:21 AM
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Lol no. It just a filter to siff through people. Most girls on Tinder have so much options they have to filter like crazy. Imagine receiving hundrets messages a day. And everyone wants your body. It sounds great now, but after some fuckfesting, you will want someone who will actually like you who you are instead of using you like a f*cktoy. Its sad that most guys will fall into - filtered - category. Well its your job to improve in game to have higher chance
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:08 AM
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Just dont give her too much attention if, once you start ignoring her, she will text you - Hey can you help me with ... - Treat her like she treats you. Ignore her for days. You can be as "busy" as she is. Familly events, school, work, internship, other girls
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:02 AM
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you want a GF, if you have to .... No you dont have to do anything. You have to be confident about who you are and about the values you provide. Values are not only money. Its social status, contacts, experiences, fun, future, intelect, understanding, support .... so much maintenance that having a girlfriend might be actually a burden If you offer no real value as a man, expect to find a girl that provides no real value as a female. Then both of you are a burden to each other. Higher value you p…
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:58 AM
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Geez dont listem to them, they have no idea how life works. There is no respect me to respect you. You have no obligation to respect anyone, and noone has any obligation to respect you. And just respecting someone will never guarantee theirs respect. If someone wants your respect they must earn it by actions. And if you want to be respected, you must earn it by actions. You want to have sex? Its not that problematic. Learn less talking more actions. Less talking more active listening. Get into i…
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:47 AM
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I have no idea what emotions animals have while mating, you do? Of course it makes sense. It is called drive. If you feel pain by envying status of a high value person it drives you to be evolve to be higher value to not feel that pain. That is literally evolution. Well If you say: "Hey I love you, but I can only boil chicken, nothing else, promise me you will never pursue anything else for food." and you wonder why he cheats Well usually he runs from the lady not from the kid. Usually guys want…
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:39 AM
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I have plenty of help, from people around me. I, as male, can survive alone no problem. But for any women, being alone is much worse.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:09 AM
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You dont need people your age. Aim for 18. There are inexperienced girls turning 18 every day
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:31 AM
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If you lower your standard, you will lower your selfesteem even more. If you improve yourself, you wll feel better regardless of what other think. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you can never win.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:29 AM
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Way too broad question - context matters. Can it mean something? Yes. Can it mean nothing? Yes. Can it be an insult? Yes.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:16 AM
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Invite him over for beer but plot twist, its non alcoholic beer, buy he does not know that so he will be excited and but sober at the same time :D
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:13 AM
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Best way to invite her is - Hey I will be doing (something you like) this evening, wanna join me? There is no pressure for you or her, you will be doing it anyway.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:11 AM
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Look, if I barely know you, and it is not clear what my intentions with you are, and I say: "Yeah, suck my balls", you would have to think for a moment what is going on, and I think it would not feel well. If you I know each other little better, and you know that there are no sexual intentions between us, me saing: "Yeah, suck my balls" will be joking because its obviously not serious. So yes, threat them like a friend, but make it obvious there are no sexual intentios
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:07 AM
1

Take your date to the group thing. Show them you are the boss here with multiple ladies choices
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:45 AM
1

I would say yes, competency but not just I am excellent at counting taxes. Something other people cant do. Thats why sportspeople, musicians, artists, craftsmen are desireable, because they stand out, and most of all, they are seen doing so. If there were tax accounting olympics, the top accountants would be like athletes in desire level.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:43 AM
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Just treat a girl like a potential friend, and if things gets better then good for you
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:35 AM
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Because animals dont live in fairy tale. Nature does not decide, we evolved in millions of years like this. Only if you think you are special, then you feel pain from cheating. Girls control access to sex therefore kids. Men control access to relationships. Just because girl allows sex, does not mean men is obliged to allow relationship. In today society there is no fear of kid not surviving.
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:47 PM
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He must be deceiving, right? Because if he isnt, then girls only controll access to sex, and guys controll access to relationships. And that is scary to girls
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:30 PM
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Depends on priorities. If You are your priority, then no way. If familly is priority? Then you will take it. It brings you more than it takes. Because it only takes away your feeling of being special
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:28 PM
1

Good, now go reflect
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:25 PM
1

If I am incel regarding to ladies, then you are Cassanova
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:23 PM
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Well I hope you will remember my advice when you will be 70 and dying alone
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:20 PM
2

Well if you live in fairy tale, real life situations bring massive traumas. Incorrect wording in"finding a “high value” male" - you can find high value men everywhere, but its not about finding, its about making him stay. If you are hot, he will have fun with you, no problem. But if you are not high value in your mind, he will not stay. Women will settle with less value guy, and then she will try to have the high value guy genes. Also, today you can raise a kid as single mom, its not easy, but i…
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:18 PM
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No I stay away from cults. But look for youtube of people who were JWs and left. That is some crazy shit
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:12 PM
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Yes I agree. But mental boundaries are not real, and they can be adjusted. Just because you think you are special, and deserve all attention, sex and everything, does not mean you do. Most people today have superinflated egos, thinking about themselves. Oh no he crossed my arbitrary boundary, lets end our marriage of 15 years and make our kids suffer beause I feel bad
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:12 PM
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It is. You really want to live single for 50 years? Watch all your friends and familly grow old and happy, with kids to take on their life, while you have your cats? Sure you have money and can go travel alone now and its blast, people want you, you are hot and sexy and people look at you and you feel the need. But in 30 years you will still want it but you are not gonna get it. It will drive you crazy if you will be alone to deal with it.
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:08 PM
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If she is from Jehovahs Witness, get ready for some crazy shit. Think about cultits but socialised to look nice on first look.
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:27 PM
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Ok cheating is a word. The way you process cheating/infidelity/exercising options/... is life. So lets talk life not words
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:24 PM
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I understand why you dont like this lifestyle. If a man can choose girls, it is threatening to low value girls that they will be left behind, and they have no chance to relationship with high value men. They should know they have no chance, but low value men keep telling them they are pretty and princesses, till they start to believe it
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:18 PM
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Talking about this kind of people is quite useless, you cannot reffer their experience, you cannot replicate their experience. You dont really know what is behind that curtain. Talking about people we know and can talk to is more informative for all sides
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:11 PM
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Depends, when you are young, this conquering of women is challenging, and exciting. As you grow older, you learn how to do it, and it stops being a challenge. So you focus on more challenging things. But you can still fuck them, because you know what you like and how to achieve it quick
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:09 PM
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In this case, the high value men who can fuck around are like top 15-20% of males
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:00 PM
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You absolutely can be happy with one average woman. But imagine you having top 18-22 years old just throwing their hot bodies on you no strings attached, just for some recomendations, job interview, social media attention, money, whatever. Day after day, year after year. You will absolutelly fuck around, and still be happy with your average wife
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:57 PM
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I know, but we evolved from animals not that long ago, and society is even younger. We still have instincts, our mating strategies are pretty much the same
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:51 PM
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It does not. Meaning is the same, but conditions change. If I offer a 50cent hotdog from street to homeless, he is happy. If I offer a 50cent hotdog from street to millionare who is hungry, he is happy. If I offer a 50cent hotdog from street to millionare who is not hungry, he would not eat it. Same hotdog, different conditions
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:49 PM
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Being single is ok now, while we are young. I cant imagine the pain and misery for being single in my 40s,50s,60s,70s,80s. Watching other couples having fights, but being together anyway. Having kids and all that pain and love. To have someone who would actually take care of you when you are in trouble. Someone who would call you for no reason only. You have friends and lovers now, but in 30 years they will have famillies and you will not. You will be miserable without a partner. And to think th…
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:45 PM
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men really don’t gaf about women feelings Do you actually care for mens feelings? I dont think so. ​ how is it ok for y’all to cheat Male cheating makes him higher value by being able to have more kids with different women. ​ when women cheat it’s wrong Female cheating means she is not with high enough value men now, she wants her kids to have better father, and current partner will provide money and care for next 18 years to not his kids.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:40 PM
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It is cheating, I agree. But it is quite a bad reason to breakup/divorce. If you are already in relationship with high value men, walking away can be devastationg for your future. While it is a simple decision under emotions, from long term perspective, it is only your ego that is suffering by not being the only one. And if he can afford to provide high quality lifestyle to multiple partners, if you try to actively stop him from doing that, than you better leave him to others that dont have such…
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:34 PM
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Well that is win for him, he is high value, he can get mid/high value women anytime. It is loss for you, because high value women dont settle to mid/low value males
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:27 PM
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80% of females would have sex with of 20% males. That is a fact. Those 20% of males are the "succesfull" ones, either genetically or via money/power/charisma. Then there is remaining 80% of males and 20% of females. They just have to get by and find appropriate partner, meaning for females to be rejected from relationship from 20% male and settle with 80% male, for male to either choose 20% bottom female or wait your turn on 80% female. Cheating is no reason to breakup, according to psychology. …
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:23 PM
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Yes, but let her come to you, make her qualify
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:57 AM
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You dont have to take insults. Some people just tests you how much you can take before you take action back. They need you to fight back to earn respect. If you dont, you are just a tool, and will be treated accordingly.
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:41 AM
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You cant go wrong with - I am a fcking daddy material, girl
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:26 AM
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That is called a shit test. Girls actually like older guys more. They just want to test if you, since you are older, are experienced and abundant? If I (the girl) spend time with you, will it be worth it? Or will you creep me up, blow my phone, beg for attention? Do you choose me because I am worth it, or are you trying everyone, just waiting which one says yes? Now, this is a mindset thing. If girl starts getting annoying it is ok to call her bullshit out. Not only ok, it is neccessary if you w…
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:38 AM
1

Cum in that throat gent
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:12 AM
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Why do you care so much about what they think? Do you do it for you or for them? Its not - you are so great and they are so wrong. Always look for problems on both sides. If they tell you that you do sth wrong, that you should be more like this, so what? Will you just keep changing your attitude according to whatever person is close to you? Do what you want to do, listen to what they say but take it with a grain of salt. It might be true, but only partially, from their point of view. Just like w…
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:58 AM
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Always situational. If she wears sth really excentrik, focus on that. If unsure, like her style or better, her vibe. Never her boobs/ass/legs. Hair can be tricky, but can work if shes extra caring about it. If she works out, you can always provoke a shit test by asking e.g: That is some hardworking body, is there a personality behind it? - The trick is that you know what is going to come after this, a shit test, trying to see if you are real or not: What a dick, is there a person behind it? Now …
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:54 AM
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I surely do, but you are the one whos gonna say them. If they come from you, they will be more genuine than if I make them for you
/r/seduction01/02/22 01:45 PM
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Lets analyse it together, no hard feelings. "Hey, you look pretty, can I talk to you?" - I would call it - being submissive, tryhard and also definitelly not enough. Why submissive - You are asking for permission. This is view as a non-confident act. It can work if you want a dominant girl, or if you stumble on an inexperienced simple submissive girl. (very rare) Why tryhard - You open with a compliment. While "you look pretty" may work as - I dont give a shit attitude - followed by asking for p…
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:45 AM
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You can be open about this issue. Tell the girl about your problem. There are two people there about to have fun, so be open and let her help you. Care less about what is going to happen. Do it for you, and for her. Dont put it all on your back, you are there to have fun. Do plenty of foreplay, fingers, oral for her. You will have time to rest and gather your stamina
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:25 AM
1

Not true. Charisma can totally be learned.
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:58 AM
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Way for her to let him go without breaking her promise. I dont know her, you must think it
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:54 AM
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Dont overthink it, just do it. Invite her to a beach party. It will be fine
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:27 PM
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I agree. But being really social and charismatis is a skill. And skills are to be learned. Anyone can learn them. Even you. But you would have to want to learn it and then gather the energy and actually do it. By being a bartender or any other way
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:25 PM
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Join an improv classes. They will remove the stage fright and make you always ready to be witty
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:10 PM
2

Or become bartender on friday/saturday nights. Pays well, girls dig you
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:09 PM
1

Makes you think about a person. What does it mean to him? Does he have more? What have gone through to have such a tatoo?
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:35 PM
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do it and let us know
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:29 PM
1

Escape your comfort zone. Join an improv theater. Start talking to random people to make them feel good.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:28 PM
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Thats like one method out of millions, called social proof. Pick one bar, become regular, befriend locals and employees and owners. Its not quick fix method, you need to invest time and effort. Yes you have to do plenty of indirect investments before things get easy with every method. And as with all investments, its not luck if you know what are you doing and will not stop midway.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:27 PM
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Too soon is when its not agreed on. If you hog tie her with butt plug and mouth gag on a first date its ok if you both agreed before. Hot and cold feelings are usually candle-wax dripping and ice cubes on body, usually while blindfolded to be suprised by the feeling. Ask her about kinkier fantasies, experiences and what toys she has
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:22 PM
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Why do you need her to be your age? If she is older, good for you, go ahead and experiment and learn. If she is too young, keep her as "friend", she will not be young forever
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:18 PM
1

Approach and see. Make her laugh and make her horny. Dont judge her and dont make her look bad
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:16 PM
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Even virgins can have their butt plowed by different guys every Saturday. If I were you, I would ignore such non existent problems. Make her have the test and learn how to make a lady squrt. She will be all yours after that
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:13 PM
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If you are ok with tricking girls into having sex with you till forever, go you. If you ever want a relationship with a girl, I think you should man the fuck up, gather a pickaxe and go mining for some balls ore. Then refine them into pure heavy metal balls and then you might even find yourself not alone after tricks start failing
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:08 PM
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Go on
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:03 PM
1

Yes. Thats why married guys are turnon for girls
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:03 PM
1

Your girl dumped you and then friendzoned you. Get over her
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:59 PM
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Have you ever been a bartender in a bar? I had, you dont have a lots of free time if any. Yeah girls hit up on you, and since they do it a lot, you are veeery much picky and dont just give numbers around. Or you might even have a familly. You are looking why its not going to work. I am saying how it might work. If you keep your current mindset, you will never succeed, and only blaim others. Take responsibility, take your life into your own hands
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:51 PM
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Good attitude from her, she wants to keep her promises, thats nice. You need two things - patience and strategy. You need to think of a way for her to let him go without breaking her promise. And you need to apply that strategy over time, not forcing her decision.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:44 PM
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Cut the alcohol. If you only know how to talk to girls drunk, it will only get worse if you keep doing it again and again. Re-learn what you know sober. Basic layout that works for me - Create an Intrigue Establish a Rapport Spark an Attraction Escalate further When meeting again - repeat from Intrigue, more you know each other less rapport you need.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:41 PM
1

Ignore girls that wants your attention. Smile and look keep for those more shy girls.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:37 PM
1

Learn how not to fail by not sparking attraction. Learn how to make women horny, how to make them feel lust. Then apply it anytime its appropriate to exercise. But dont defuse the tension with humour or romance, which will create frustration towards you. Leave them bathing in the feel of sudden horniness. They will start thinking about you in a very different way
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:36 PM
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Learn how not to fail by not sparking attraction. Learn how to make women horny, how to make them feel lust. Then apply it anytime its appropriate to exercise. But dont defuse the tension with humour or romance, which will create frustration towards you. Leave them bathing in the feel of sudden horniness. They will start thinking about you in a very different way
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:34 PM
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You failed by not sparking attraction. Learn how to make women horny, how to make them feel lust. Then apply it to her. But dont defuse the tension with humour or romance, which will create frustration towards you. Leave them bathing in the feel of sudden horniness. They will start thinking about you in a very different way
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:32 PM
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Learn how not to fail by not sparking attraction. Learn how to make women horny, how to make them feel lust. Then apply it anytime its appropriate to exercise. But dont defuse the tension with humour or romance, which will create frustration towards you. Leave them bathing in the feel of sudden horniness. They will start thinking about you in a very different way
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:29 PM
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You failed by not sparking attraction over text. Learn how to make women horny, how to make them feel lust online. Then apply it to her. But dont defuse the tension with humour or romance, which will create frustration towards you. Leave them bathing in the feel of sudden horniness. They will start thinking about you in a very different way
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:28 PM
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I get where that insecurity might come from. But here is where experience comes in play. Bouncers and bartenders are working. Girls cannot have them right now. But they can have you, and you know them and make them laugh. So you are the next best thing in this scenario
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:27 PM
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Experience - get lessons in singing/talking. join an improv theatre. start talking to random people with no expectation other than - make them have fun/laugh/good time Logistics - Find closer bar. Think about relocation. Find a friend with spare bedroom. Find a good cost/looks ratio hotel close to bar Strategy - Read more seddit/books on pickup Social proof - Pick one bar, get to know every one employees, owners. Have fun with them. Become a regular. Bring friends/windman Positive energy - alway…
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:24 PM
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Lol nope, you just have to start with more Social proof. Get to know the barternders, bouncers, owners, and once a girl will see you having a laugh with that jacked-up bouncer and super hot bartender, you will not be ugly in her eyes anymore.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:18 PM
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Not true, she dont want friendship, but when she looks at you, she dont feel "butterflies" aka attraction. It is up to you to create that feeling. You dont need her permission to try. It is up to you to use your mind and make her feel horny and lust while shes looking at you. Actions my man, study how to create attraction, how to make her feel lust, then do it. In the meanwhile, dont go to her like a hungry dog. Leave her be, and prepare. And when you want to try, go ahead and do it. You might f…
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:11 PM
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The point is, this is ballance heavy kind of thing. If you provide too much "Friends" value, like having fun every day, talking long into the night, doing things for her very frequently, you fall into the friendzone. If you start providing lots of "Partnership" values, like emotional support, sharing secrets, no judgement, shared experiences, eventually one of you will fall in love. Even if you provide waaaay too good sex ( like her first squirt orgasm ), she might fall in this weird "love" wher…
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:04 PM
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You failed by not sparking attraction. Learn how to make women horny, how to make them feel lust. Then apply it to her. But dont defuse the tension with humour or romance, which will create frustration towards you. Leave them bathing in the feel of sudden horniness. They will start thinking about you in a very different way
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:55 AM
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Cool, yes, be aware of those, but live by the Triple A rule: Always Assume Attraction.
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:51 AM
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Preferences are like like freshly fallen powder snow. If you piss on it, your name will appear. Ugly guy with no money, but with experience, charisma and wit will score chics you would not imagine. Rich handsome but inexperienced and socially awkward will only be abused for money and left in dust. Feel free to ignore any preferences from any girl. If you play your cards right, you can always win 90% of the time
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:50 AM
1

Well maybe it would be better to star your own religion. Find one or two devoted fanatics and make them believe in you shit. Then have then spread your words. Soon you will have a small herd and you can take their money and buy some secluded villa and have them serve you and worship you. Or pray to god or whatever
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:44 AM
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Or even better start actaully organising events! You will actually be in charge! Say a few words here and there!
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:42 AM
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Actually being a duche is great for FWB. If you still think about her, girls will try to get you to like them because you dont
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:39 AM
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You mignt not feel ready, but single approach is more valuable then week of reading. Approach, you can even covertly record it, then analyse your mistakes few days later. You will see your mistakes. Learn from them. Dont try to learn from your imagination, learn from an actual life.
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:38 AM
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Experience Logistics Strategy Social proof Positive energy
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:35 AM
3

Never give her everything she wants, and always ask for more in return. Set your boundaries.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:49 PM
1

Message her next week asking if you can meet her at the same bar
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:43 PM
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She messaged me asking to draw her as a superhero -> I did and the pic was a hit. Wrong. If a girl you barelly know asks you for anything you need to work for, you ask her for sth back. Once you do it for free, you establish wrong kind of relationship. "Sure I will draw you like one of my french girls, but I want to do it free hand on our next date"
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:32 PM
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If you want to just open any convo, while you are meditating ask - Hey can you help me up? - She will help, of course , then keep talking about how you find meditations after workout the best, or sth in this regard. If she joins the conversation actively, ask her out. If not, leave her be
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:08 PM
0

I am fucking 17 year olds ever since I turned 23
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:04 PM
1

Or maaaybe, thats just what you dream about
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:23 PM
1

Well maybe thats just what you want
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:23 PM
4

First you need to realise that these jobs are used mainly by 50+ females
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:13 PM
0

I’m pretty good don’t u think Mhm, you know that bar over there?
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:13 AM
1

Ask yourself - did I spiked her emotions? Did I made her think about sex? If not, its kinda likely you are in a friend zone. Just ask her out via a text/talk, have a date and place ready, nothing extra fancy, just coffee will work out fine.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:03 AM
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My fiancee is 6’1” or 190 cm, exactly like me. She said that finding a taller guy was always an issue, finding a taller guy who would approach her was nearly impossible. So mostly she would be with a guy couple of inches shorter. But mostly she was hit on by guys around 5’4” :D
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:59 AM
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Ok you seem to have a too big goal foar a conversation like that you have to win her over. Just approach with a mind set of - I am going to have fun, and if possible, make other feel happy and fun
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:52 AM
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Record yourself talking. Compare your talking to a passionate youtuber. Have a hobby you would talk about with passion Talk like that
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:42 AM
1

First of all, even the hottest ladies are often insecure, feel ugly sometimes, are jealous of status, more height, bigger boobs, more round ass, curlier hair and whatever. We all look into mirror and see flaws, yes very physically hot women too. Second, if you see such lady, most guys feels intimidated, and are scared to approach, and even if they dare, they stumble. It might sound weird but plenty of girls will think - what have I done wrong to scare him off? Third, guys who actually approach h…
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:41 PM
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Low possibility, most likely they will all act like they adore you, making you feel good, fighting over you, but actually when confronted, noone will accept the escalation. Noone will want to be the one (or two) to actually "win you over", because other girls might find out, give her shit, call her slut and force her off the group. You are welcomed to try, and with some alcohol you might get them all to kiss/flash - but only if majority does it. Two best possible scenarios - you get all other gi…
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:46 PM
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I do not understand the question. You have FWB. Do you want more? Then do. Do you not want to fck with anymore? Dont.
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:14 AM
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Well it can work, only problem is you are just giving them validation without them working for it, and giving out free stuff usually never gets you far. It is better to steer away from looks and aim for vibe. "Hi, I got to say, I really like your vibe. Someone might say its a bit (over the top/edgy/last year/......) but it works on me and I think its hot. Anyway, I am _, nice to meet you." I know its kina pushy and if you appear scared, you will came out cringy and weird, but if you approach wit…
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:54 PM
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This if you desire LTR. Similar scenario but with intimate fantasies, experiences, and kinks if you want FWB. Either way, you need to spike her emotions and make her a bit horny. ASAP to FWB or ONS, later to LTR
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:42 PM
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Usually it means you did not spiked her emotions and did not made her feel horny. Most likely you were "just" talking. Not enough in todays fast paced world. Try next time being a little bit more physical with her (with consent), talking about a bit dirty things. Tell her some experience or fantasy and make her tell you one fantasy. Spice it up.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:37 PM
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Depends on your endgame. If you want LTR, dating and good guy behaviour is you foudation, but you must make her horny and spike her emotions. You show her you want her but not because you have noone else to choose from, but because you do and you chose her. If you want ONS or FWB, you make her horny first, spike her emotions, dont release it with humour or romance and fuck her good. You can start with awesome fucking, fantasies and whatever. If you add treating her good, she will fall in love wi…
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:26 PM
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This. Also make her horny and sexy. Then push her away just a little and make her chase you.
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:57 AM
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The real question is: Will you make it awkward? Or will you make it fun?
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:30 AM
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You need to develop basic approaching skills. Which you develop only by approaching. Allow yourself to fail. Failing is what teaches you how be better. If you always win, you learn nothing. You have everything you need. If you only miss body language and self confidence - join improv classes. Tell them what you think you miss, and improv with them. Your results will skyrocket
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:28 AM
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Just return to ignorance of this "issue". You know I am taller than you, right? Huh? I guess so, well anyway ...
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:10 AM
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I would say that instagram/tiktok models are way more hurful than porn, if you watch porn like up to 5 times a week. I know porn might create unrealistic sexual scenarios in your head, but once you get real with a girl, that will fix itself. But those social networks will create unrealistic picture of women and how to approach them, trying to give them value in order to receive attention, which will never work for you
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:03 AM
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Intrigue Rapport Attraction Escalate
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:58 AM
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This. If you are litereally an unlikable idiot good at pickup, girls will use you for sex once if you suck at it, multiple times if you are good at it, and nothing more. If they want sex and then fall in love with you, well you are not a jerk. So you can either be a jerk, or use u/BensonInFL great sexual depravity advice
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:51 AM
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Talk about it. Make your condition getting married with prenup - have failsafes for you and your familly. If everything fits, think about your work, how possible is it to work from home or working less hours, outsource....
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:44 AM
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Make yourself rare strategy. Meaning - I will pretend to be busy. When she will get to know you she will know you are not busy. So get busy ;) Workout, hobbies, friends, work, study... So much time
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:41 AM
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Sorry u/thelambofdeth you are the one who thinks you know how the world works, and all is rigged against you. But its not. You just dont know how the world works. If you know, you would know that nobody cares about you enough to rig something against you. There are just hurdles for people to overcome. Most of those hurdles are inside of your head
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:34 AM
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This... And also - be interesting yourself. Get interesting hobbies but watch out! Not to pickup chicks, because that is an interesting hobby you want to. Doing kitesurfing to impress ladies? You will get hurt. Doing kitesurfing because you love the feeling of water, wind and freedom? Ladies will find you interesting. Just look at someone who talks about something they love - with passion and fire or just monologing trying to bore you to death.
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:22 AM
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Well thats like the best possible outcome for you, and now you know she means good for you. So try, in your head, to shift this "love" feeling to - she is a really good friend that is worth keeping. It will take a while, but with help from other girls, it will work.
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:17 AM
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Ask if you can help with anything, this might help you to get in if you dont know much of anybody. Dont try to outshine bride/groom or best man/girl when trying to get a girl. Be in genuinely good mood (not drunk) and spread good vibes and positive atmosphere to everyone who seems a bit down and create fun, again only to spot a light to bride/groom. This is calibrated in this setting
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:13 AM
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Yes its called dancing. Also, its a movie. Not a real life situation. Someone wrote that and the actor said it because it was written. Develop your own strategies based on your approach and your personality and proven systems made by more experienced people, not actors saing lines. Also also, being close is not being close to actually kissing. You need to make her think about kissing you and then allowing her to kiss you.
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:07 AM
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You can waste your time alone or in relationship. Set a goal for YOU, career, sports, in anything. Become best version of yourself, join improv, run, jog, excercise, pick a hobby. Be awesome, have life you love, hobby and a goal and girls will beg you to allow them to be with you
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:01 AM
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You can always try to be honest to her, you wont lose anything if the other option is to never talk to her again. At least she will know why, she might not be "friendzoning" you for bad reasons. Just dont be bitter, sarcastic, or mean about it. Just tell her how you feel, that you cannot live like this and she inhibits your ability to think about any other girl. Another thing, you can always ask her to be your wing girl
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:53 AM
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nicely said
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:36 AM
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She was horny and a bit tipsy perhaps, she liked you and she wanted you. You turned her on somehow, then did nothing, which is frustrating to her, so she hates you now. There is little you can do to reverse it. Maybe by throwin party yourself, being a center of attention, having girls around you, she seeing it.
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:35 AM
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Be intriguing to her, not by trying hard to win her over but just by having great time yourself and inviting her to join
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:32 AM
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Exactly, stop worrying, start grooming yourself and getting experience. Even charisma is taught. Join improv, its the best for banter, wit, quick thinking
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:04 PM
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I see what you mean. Well and how better you want to establish yourself than by throwing a party? I dont really care what is the reason, I have way too many friends and not enough time. I cannot invite them all everytime. So I try to ballance somehow. I repay what I owe and invite whom I want to see and whom I want to be with and whom I have fun with
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:02 PM
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I understand your issue, but from my party planning perspective, I keep inviting to my parties people I either like a lot, know for a long time and want to see them again, new people if I want to meet someone new, people I want to get sth from or I owe them something. If some of those people turn me town for whatever reason I turn to people I like a bit less - only reason I would keep inviting someone who never invites me back.
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:20 PM
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Early childhood memory, must have looked or sounded like your mother most likely.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:43 PM
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Attraction is created, not inherited. Also not only body is the attractive part, but more so your behaviour. Once you get experienced you will find out, that there are no rules. An ugly guy with great banter, wit, charisma, improv/theater experience, that is well groomed and behaved will pickup way hotter chick than you can imagine.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:40 PM
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Create an Intrigue Achieve a Rapport Spark an Attraction Further Escalate
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:32 PM
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They surely can say - Fuck off creep. So what? You think they will call security, why, because you came to say hey lets get coffee? And even if they would, they would just say - Leave them alone, which you would. There is literally no risk for you, unless you look and smell like hobo, have a dick out, or you say it like a horror movie quote. Just make yourself groomed, wear sth you like, create good mood in your head, approach with confidence and goal to spred fun and joy, and be prepared, that …
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:23 PM
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Well depends on what you want, just be Hey, you seem like (cool/hardcore/funny/shy) girl, lets (get coffee together, go to my place). Just be confident about it and lead the way.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:19 AM
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Yes sure, on submissive girls and also on busy girls
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:20 AM
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Not really, you fust failed at spiking her emotions, you came out as flat - just talking about stuff
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:01 AM
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Ok it is difficult to know for us, because we dont know her. Maybe find some people that do know her, ask about her gently. Ask your friends who know her, what they think. It is easy to trick you if you are in love, but friends usually sees red flags before you do.
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:05 AM
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Agreed, thank you for a debate and happy new year ;)
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:37 PM
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It might be not healthy I agree, and I can imagine myself to not agree if I had a daughter. But you have to touch a hot stove and burn a finger to find out what does it mean if yout parents say - Its hot dont touch it. It is and it isnt, people manipulate all the time. In families, between friends and loved ones. Outcome is different, the manipulation not so much.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:56 PM
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Not really. It is quite common, it happens to me if I am too focused and think a lot about what I am saying. Focus more on your presentation. Listen to how passionatelly good speakers talk about mundane things and how much closer you listen, that works much better even if you are distracted
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:52 PM
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https://www.news24.com/parent/Teen_13-18/Development/the-age-of-consent-in-sa-and-around-the-world-20171116 https://www.worldatlas.com/articles/age-of-consent-around-the-world.html America is not the world. World average is 16. I desire to be with girls aged 16 - 35 rougly... 15 is age of consent in my country, I am less than 35. He is mildy famous here in CZ. People know that name and like one song. But come on, its 2022, you know that browsers on phones and PC can translate from any language, …
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:57 PM
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Sure, beginner will say tis to himself. No shame in that. After a couple of fails And successes He will learn to see signs when and why its neccessary
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:26 PM
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Yes normal to me is not normal to you, is not normal to japanese guy or iranian girl, punk-rock girl or shy introverted guy. There is no universal normal that just works everytime
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:24 PM
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You dont know what is normal to the girl when you meet her
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:15 PM
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Its not war crimes discussion, its morality vs law. No link. Nacis were lawfully persecuting jews. Hiding jews was a crime. Common knowledge or google. Bohus Matus (1973) and Lucie Palkaninova (2003), married 2021, daughter Natalie (2020) Ok 40 y/o can easily manipulate 17y/o. You are right. And 17 y/o can easily manipulate 40 y/o. Anyone who knows how to manipulate can manipulate. That is called a real world. That is what familly and friends are for, to teach her not to get manipulated. And if …
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:11 PM
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I was blunt and interesting, she though I was a cute idiot, then I kept making her laugh, then I established rapport, then I kissed her, and then I fucked her like noone before. Push pull? Sure, many times
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:50 PM
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improv theater
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:32 PM
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Have someone record you walking. You might be frowning, head down, hands in pockets, hoodie up ... negative energy signs. So chin up, straight back, wide smile, bright thoughs, positive energy, handy where they can be seen, and just spread joy just by looking and smilinig. Also some situations are two guys talking laughing being open and generally spreading fun, and two girls just wants to be part of that so they approach
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:32 PM
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Well thanks, but I have my 190cm model engaged to me at home. This behaviour is fake if you dont believe in it. Just as is yours. If you believe, it will work
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:24 PM
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Also this
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:21 PM
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I am from Czech Republic, after you turn 15 you can have consensual sex with anyone older 15. It is not too weird to hear about kids 13-14 having sex here. And that is true for more parts of Europe. Its not a big deal because we educate our kids to be safe and responsible.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:20 PM
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You dont have a goal. You need LTR. Since now you know what are you doing and have results, you can now pick what kind of girl you want to spend your life with. Boobs or ass, hair or eyes, sub or Dom, kink or normal ... Create a list and start selecting. You can even be totally honest on tinder about it: 1 180+ 20 points 2 >17 BMI 20 points 3 submissive 69 points 4 bisexual - 69 points Have fun man
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:35 PM
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Improvise, adapt, overcome. You see a weak point and you use it. Good for you
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:31 PM
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I can see that
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:29 PM
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No problem, just look it up, you can find plenty of material how to achieve different stages. Everytime you meet, you should start with this list. Create intrigue, establish rapport, spark attraction, escalate to desired outcome. I would Comfort her after "escalation" (sex). Everytime you want to have sex, start with the list. Longer you will know each other, shorter time at each stage will be needed, and rapport can be oftenly skipped, because it already is established. But Comforting with attr…
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:28 PM
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Comfort releases sexual tension. You want sexual tension. Start talking about comfort and being together after you have some mutual experience and you know more about her and she knows about you IRL
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:15 PM
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Cool, lets give it more structure and plan. Instead of - you are really inteligent, say "Although you are not perfect, you can be really smart sometimes. But anyway, have you seen the new Matrix movie?" - It is a push pull and also it anchors it subconsciously
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:13 PM
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Intrigue Rapport Attraction Escalation
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:10 PM
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Well get a friend in a view distance to support and watch out, but not listen, summon some balls and go and talk to him. Start by stating that you and some other people notice he stares at you a lot, and ask if there is something he wants to tell you. If he just says there is nothing and he is sorry, then just say to him to stop starring or you will have to bring it to higher attention. If he says he is attracted or sth tell him how you feel about such a thing and if you want more or you want hi…
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:08 PM
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Because while you listen you focus to listen. When you talk, you focus to talk. And you personally dont have focus on your eyes and dont control where are they looking. It is a thing of mindful practice
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:30 PM
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Well what is more important, morals for the day or fuck for the night?
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:12 PM
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No she wants to get you drunk and fuck you. Your call friend, I would do it, you obviously wouldnt be her first lover nor her last. But wear a protection
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:46 AM
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She might like you, but someone else may be making her feel sexy and horny, so that is more interesting than what you had for lunch. And dont doubt for a minute that every week you are not her primary sexual satisfyer, someone else might be
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:18 AM
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And what you expect, that you will just miraculously learn everything by approaching 5 girls that we learned by hundrets of rejections followed up by hundrets of successes? You though it would be just like a movie montage? Or someone will walk you through it holding your hand? No, its scary, it sucks. But it will make you stronger. More confident. Or do you think that you will fear rejection number 68? It will get exponentially easier as you progress. I mean, only if you will analyse what went w…
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:53 AM
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You did not spiked her emotions, you were probably just talking about stuff. That is boring. Why should she continue?
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:43 AM
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You have to lose a bunch of times to learn how to win. Life is the most difficult teacher, because it requires you to take the test first, and then it provides you the explanation.
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:41 AM
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Reciprocity is a thing. If you invite them to a bar, party, club, whatever, they will invite you back
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:35 AM
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True, true, that should work
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:25 AM
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Why do you event want her attention? So you would feel better about yourself? You think she is some perfect soulmate because you like her jewelry?
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:12 AM
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I would suggest othervise, sexting almost never leads to actual dates. Stay adamant that you want to skype with camera
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:11 AM
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Sorry to break your world perspective
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:06 AM
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Well it is an opportunity for sex workers to charge you more. Also for a girl to use you as a spare wallet. It is also an opportunity for a lower morality chick to try to steal it. Also, having cash alone is not alfa. Imagine yourself: You are with a girl, she takes out her purse and its full of 100 dollar bills. Will she be hotter in your eyes?
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:02 AM
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Depends on what you want, and who you want. Do you want mentally unstable girls with whore mentality to fuck like a sock puppet anyway you want? Be an overconfident and cocky/arrogant. No judging here, it can be fun for you. Do you want stable normal girl to have LTR with? Be confident, little cocky when its appropriate, be gentle, be friendly, be caring, be loving. As there is no universal pickup line, there is no universal mindset.
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:49 AM
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I dont want to be cruel, but life is, and this is life. From my experience, "private lessons" are usually exactly what you fear they are. You seem like a good guy. She seems to have low morals. She told you she done "some" sex work to test how will you react, and also to follow up later with "maybe some more here and there" sex work and probably later with "much more" sex work. I have seen this before. She is usually an aging beauty that needs to find a good guy to finally settle have babies and…
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:43 AM
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My best choice was 4K projector. Now can have 5m*2m screen with perfect 4K resolution anytime I want. In the meantime, there is no distraction on the wall
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:40 AM
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Depends on whom you invite and what are you going to do. If you will be playing board games with 5 people, there will be just some chips and breadcrumbs on floor, worst case scenario some spilled pepsi on couch. If you invite 60 people you never met before to a house party to drink, do drugs and get wild, expect some damage. Start with small groups. 5 people max, and get to know all of them, talk to them about their life and what they like. And those you like invite again. They will also ask you…
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:14 AM
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Can you talk to a guy and look in his eyes? Try convincing yourself in your head, that that girl is not really an attractive girl, its just a person. Just like your friend from childhood you vibe with so much. Ignore the guys that tells you hold your seed, that is just nonsense.
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:07 AM
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The point is - you dont need to touch them, kiss them, fuck them. You need to make them think and dream about touching, kissing, fucking you. If you get in their head, implant an image of something they like and desire, and put your face on it, they will want you. If you are impatient, you will forge it to FWB. If you are careful and patient, you will forge it to LTR
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:03 AM
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Ok lets start planning from where you are. You have no local friends, this is where you start. Question 1 - what you want to do with friends in your place (IRL) you dont wanna fuck? Tabletop games, music jams, sports, etc.? Decide. Now, you have cash, buy some stuff. TT games, music stuff, sport stuff... Go online, find local facebook groups and ask a question - hey I live here in Canada or whatever, I would like to meet some new friends so we can do (activity) in my place. Also go on dating sit…
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:55 AM
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Nice :) Well, you have a thing that works, is the question how to improve it?
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:46 AM
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Well, imagine a guy doing everything you can think of to get a girl he has little chance to get without her even lifting a finger. There are also girls doing everything to get a boy without him ever reciprocitating, only using her, no flirt, no tension. But that is some expert level shit
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:13 AM
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Clean and personalised. Have paintings, posters, pictures or anything on walls. Show some hobbies (not from 10 years ago). A living plant also helps for romantic interests because it conveys - I can take care of sth. Have a place for people to sit, like a couch but I personally removed the TV. It is such a distraction. Go for better sound system over a big TV. If the girl is already inside, you can usually only mess up. So be ready. Offer her water when she comes in. Have towels/paper towels and…
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:08 AM
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Ok ask a guestion - why would someone write "I WILL NOT HOOKUP WITH YOU" on theirs Tinder bio? Because it happened, and definitelly not once, not twice, but veeery frequently.
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:52 AM
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It is not that they have to do it all for you. But you more you leave to her (knowing how) more she will have to try to chase you, therefore like you more
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:49 AM
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Looking on the eyes of the partner can feel nice for a girl, it is a sign of domination. Never looking in her eyes, or even avoiding her eyes might be sign of fear or being unsure. Also, there is no shame in asking her. Not while in the heat, but for next time after its done
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:30 AM
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Ok if I want to influence her to be more "adventurious" I would say - It might sound strange but I always imagine my future with a girl that wants to be really adventurous. But anyway, you talked about boarding games, have you ever played Dig Out?
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:21 AM
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Happy New Year to you too u/Disastrous_Airline17 and keep us posted :)
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:17 AM
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Well I would organise an event/party/board gaming night, where I would invite some people and also another girl I fancy, and there I would give most of my attention to the another girl
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:15 AM
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Well... You can be gay. Just sayin. You might need some more kinks/D/s/fetish stuff. Think about it or watch some specific porn. You might need some specific type of arousal, like head, feet, glove ... You might need younger/older/different body type. If nothing works, visit a doctor. Better safe than sorry
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:19 PM
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Only way is to make her change it without trying. That means you must make her see you naturaly act the way you want to be seen with different girl
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:32 PM
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Also it is a first stage block to filter out weak ones
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:21 PM
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Depends what you want to achieve, push pull is always good mechanic for stirring emotions, but you usually want to end with good emotions. Statement (Compliment) +question is different, the followup question will (usually) help transfer the statement from conscious to unconscious and will help to take the statement as your own
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:34 PM
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Singing classes, improv classes. I bet you can even find singing classes online. Find someone experienced and before buying talk to them about what you want to achieve. They will help you or guide you
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:18 PM
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Depends, I dont know her style of humour nor do I know yours. Sarcastic person will find it hilarious, serious person will think you are a bit pesimistic
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:16 PM
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Sure, no doubt in there. But you analyse it only from your own point of view - like looking through a keyhole. You will never see full picture. You either need to analyse butload of material and read and so on, or talk to people who have more experience. In improv you have experience, analytics - usually after a session you will talk about your performance, and you can ask questions about everything you watch in the meantime
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:14 PM
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Basic rule is - Tell pretty or not smart girls they are smart, tell smart or not pretty girls they are pretty. second rule - 75% of girls think they are not pretty or smart deep inside, so telling her compliment needs to be hidden to make it not seem too obivous. Therefore you need to follow up immediatelly with any question
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:11 PM
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I need attention, please say you like me, say I am beautiful. I never want to meet you though
/r/seduction02/01/22 10:36 AM
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This. No needy things, no clingy things. Stay cool, keep it short
/r/seduction02/01/22 10:34 AM
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The point of fcking is to rock each others world. Make her cum as much as possible, ask her what maker her horny, about her fantasies and talk about yours. Fulfill those fantasies. Dont try to pussy around having safe sex, anticipating negative response from any "kink" fantasy or whatever. Comming itself is just the tip of the iceberg. What comes before is usually more important. You must make her horny, make her desire more. Reach just before the top and then relax a bit, and then again. She wi…
/r/seduction02/01/22 09:19 AM
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Do you feel like reconnecting in 2022? New year, new possibility to fuck things up
/r/seduction02/01/22 09:04 AM
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There was never any universal line. Even if it existed, it would be used differently on different girls. No TV, show, stream, youtuber, PUA etc can actually make you funnier. You must make you funnier. Grow some balls material and join an actual improv classes. Tell them you want to be more wity and talkative, dont be afraid, they will help. You will make an actuall progress in matter of weeks.
/r/seduction02/01/22 08:55 AM
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Ask them both separatelly in person while horny if they would enjoy having their pussy licked by a girl. If yes on both sides invite both, have a threesome
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:33 PM
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Open with hang out proposal. If not directly refused, make her laugh and horny and try again in couple of days. If not reciprociated, tone it down, keep her horny and laughing one or twice a day and try again in couple of days. If nor reciprociated, rething or leave
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:21 PM
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She asked you to hangout, you havent had time. That is ok. Now it is your time to ask her, so do it, ask her to hangout. Not work related stuff, just to get to know each other
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:18 PM
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My idea to escalate: Make her horny AF in first 30 mts without major release. Every further decision of hers is now affected by horniness. Fucking is now only thing on her mind, and you are there to allow it. Fucking flowers man ...
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:13 PM
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Hey girl, I am in town for 2 weeks, do you know about some nice places to hang out?
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:05 PM
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Text her when you have sth funny or real interesting to say. Text her sth in a frame of: Wow funny thing happened to me, blah blah .... Or: I just did realised that .... Do not ask stupid questions. Make her either laugh or horny.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:56 PM
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Well some possible probles here: 1) She does not want to have LTR right now and you did not made her want to have FWB with you 2) She checkes all your boxes, but you did not check all her boxes for neither LTR of FWB What can you do... Well not much, first impression is crucial. But you can always organise some event or party and invite her in. If she comes, dont make her center of attention. Think about what you want, LTR or FWB? Make her feel happy for LTR and horny for FWB
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:53 PM
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I usually never let it reach over 1 year - it helps to keep emotions weak enough. Also younger the FWB, less time spent together to reduce possible love.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:40 PM
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Do you know difference between winners and losers in this scenario? Winners knows they are winners. Losers things they are losers. Start thinking like a winner to become one.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:17 PM
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Going for stereotypes here - appology if not correct. Your Snap pictures: selfie in mirror, selfie in gym, selfie of muscles His Snap pictures: pictures of him having fun, he partying, he with girls. Differences: 1 - Picutures. Selfies vs pictures by others. Selfies - I am mostly alone, no friends around to take pictures of me. Pictures by others - I am too busy having fun to take pictures. I have friends to do this for me. 2 - Activities. Keep doing the same thing vs different things. Same - I …
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:02 PM
1

Well depends how you will treat it. You can either go ahead and try it or think about trying it
/r/seduction23/12/21 03:31 PM
1

On dating sites advertise by stating - sub (m) looking for Dom (f). IRL look for signs of dominant behaviour, telling people what they should do, what they should wear, controling behaviour and so on. Then go on being a sub type you are, but have some value
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:50 PM
1

Ok, I understand. Do you care enough to tell me why you dont want sex?
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:47 PM
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This attitude creates an obstacle for weak ones to break over. If you really want her, you must be persistent even if she gives you initial shit. If you dont care and just plow over this mask, then you will see what the hype is for
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:32 AM
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Dont ask her stuff, just banter with your day from time to time if sth funny happened. Or send her funny/mildly sexy stuff. If you dont want to call, leave voice msg. Girls find that hot
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:27 AM
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You need like 4 hours in a country to get laid including airport taxi, not even paying for sex. Just remember one thing - Ladies are people too, and people, especially from 15 to 20 are horny as hell. Yes ladies too, very much so. Even kinky and messy, not only romantic and dreamy. Trust me. Ok lets assume you are in a relative proximity to a city with clubs in it, hoping they are not too covid restricted. Go online dating and in your bio state you are looking for companion to clubs because you …
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:25 AM
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Friend, dont feel bad for wanting sex. This - AM LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP. NOTHING ELSE - screams walled up sexual frustration. You are 18. You dont need to have a kid and stable adult relationship in your next 10 years. Focus on yourself, get good in sexing, making ladies scream, making people around you having fun. When you let yourself go and returned from that journey then you will be ready to have a really serious relationship and nothing else.
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:12 AM
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Cool story bro
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:07 AM
1

In Balkan for example that is normal. In Norway, that would be disturbing. It can mean many things, like trying to get your attention, to really focus on what is the shoulder-toucher saying, and making you to agree in a dominant way. Or in a friendly banter scenario just a friendly gesture from a person that is more touchy or just needs an assurance gesture. Or the paper towels on the toilet were gone
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:05 AM
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Go for - Life Experience. It is free (restricted) access, mostly due to Covid. It is quite difficult, because it first requires you to took the test, and only then it offers the explanation
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:00 AM
1

I would start by disclaiming this "feature" of yourself. You have life. You dont have time. If you (the lady) have either time yourself and feel like joining me and helping me, or having your own life and scheduling time together, great, lets dive deep. If no, sorry no sorry.
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:56 AM
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Yes you are a loser. Accepting you situation is your first step to improve it. Now, the real question is - what are you going to do with it? - Noone will help you. You must improve your life by yourself, or face the reality - you will spend you whole life doing shitty jobs, playing games, smoking weed to feel good, and having endless arguments with your aging parents who are dissapointed. Step one - Stop the weed. Not forever. Use weed as a reward. Save the money. Make new friends that dont smok…
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:25 AM
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No. This is called evidence. You cannot keep sth like this hidden forever. And your special one might find out you that your party ended in a different fashion
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:08 AM
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If you really want to try, which is cool, then you have to do it indirectly. Organise an event, party, board gaming session, whatever. Invite plenty of people - especially people she knows. Make sure there will be whatever people around you - and her - like to do/eat/drink/smoke. Now if you have everything prepared, people agreed and so, talk to her. Say that you are having a party/event/.. and she can come. If she cannot make it, say ok no issue, smile and leave. Dont push. If you cannot meet h…
/r/seduction21/12/21 07:49 AM
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If you need someone to hold your hand and bring you through some change, get a dominant women. Become her sub and she will push you through gym and some change. If you dont like to be a sub, then you need to learn to lead, starting by leading yourself.
/r/seduction21/12/21 07:33 AM
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My friend. Labels are not neccessary. The "girlfriend" label does nothing. She will not be "yours", even if you marry her. She agrees to be with you, know your familly and friends. You are a couple. If she asks, say - Of course we are (together/pair/...). Now postponing sex is usually a good thing if you want to have a long term relationship. But to keep a healthy relationship, it is good to have sexual experience. Learning together from low is fine, but it has disadvantages. You being more expe…
/r/seduction21/12/21 07:31 AM
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Cool, easy fix for you here. Maybe not quick, but easy. You are a MMA fighter. You can beat 90% of living humans into submission. You are 6'3 having hundrets of matches on Tinder. Now trust me, when a girl meets you, she is the one getting anxious. You are tall, well build and most likely not stupid, all attractive qualities alone, regardless of your facial features. Now she is anxious, because 75%-85% ladies does not feel beautiful. That is the truth. Now when they see you, and you talk to them…
/r/seduction21/12/21 07:22 AM
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No. Confident people are hot. Are there people attracted to lack of confidence? Hell yes. Physically fit people are hot. Are there people that want petite/normal/fat? Hell yes. Well groomed people are hot. Are there people who dont care about grooming? Hell yes. Trendy/retro/style outfitted people are hot. Are there people that dont care about style? Hell yes. There is no universal guide on how to be hot. Find what works for you, experiment.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:38 AM
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You missed your oportunity there, not making a move. Now if you push you will be needy. You need to lay low. Create an oportunity she will like, party or whatever. Invite her in, repeat last mistake, dont repeat it, fuck close.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:31 AM
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Ok go to store, buy a shovel, spade and a pickaxe and go mining for some balls ore. Then at local smelter ask them to refine it into pure heavy metal balls. With your new found balls approach ladies, get rejected, analyse why did you get rejected, learn, adapt, improvise, overcome till you get rejected no more
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:54 AM
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People dont really talk about other people standing by. Question is what reason you have for talking, and what reason would they have for talking back? If answer for you is - to meet new people, make them feel good and have fun - then everyone is open to talk to you. Their reason might be general friendliness, boredom, interest in what you have to say.
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:38 AM
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There is no one size fits all banter. A punk rock extremes loving girl that is in gym to pleasure her Daddy will shrug your friendly banter and dis you if you dont pickup the signs of her nature and adapt to it. A shy introverted girl who goes to gym because her parents told her to do it, will get anxious if you make a too straightforward nag banter, because in her head you are being mean. A horny cougar who goes to gym to pickup young men will laugh at your try to show off with some romantic ba…
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:00 AM
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We dont take noone from anywhere to anywhere. You need to take you from where you are to where you want to be. Dont rely on advice, help, guide, assistence. Use them when neccessary, but dont rely on them. Have a lot knowledge but always have more experience. Bad experience is useful experience. Use your failures, analyse them, take them apart. Talk about your fails. Listen to critics. Use the advice for more experience, good or bad. If a young chess player always win, he will never be as good, …
/r/seduction17/12/21 10:41 AM
1

You are now her conductor of problems, issues and fears. And sice you know so much about her, talking in person now gets difficult and intimate (emotionally) for her. Same problem is with sexting. Once you know she likes to choke on dicks while her BF gets all polite on her, she will never ever meet you, fearing you know too much and you might abuse it.
/r/seduction17/12/21 10:24 AM
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Charisma is combination of skills, energy, approach and leadership. Skills like wit, speech, voice projection Energy, meaning you appear energetic and active even when not trying hard. Approach, meaning you can approach and be approached by anyone and be welcomed. Staying possitive and smiling. Leadership, meaning your opinion is respected, you have friends there for you, and you are the active member of the group.
/r/seduction17/12/21 10:18 AM
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Hey (friend), I am just going to be honest with you, lately I was having some dreams about you and I doing (paint her a picture [in her head with your words] of you two doing stuff you know she likes in bed), and I want to know what would you do in my place? Painting a picture of her fantasy (not your dream or fantasy) works best because you know it will make her at least a bit horny, changing her mental setting. Asking how she would react gives her a reason to process this, and while possibly a…
/r/seduction17/12/21 10:14 AM
1

Hey, you are Fiona, right? You remind me of my ex, Eve, she also seemed so innocent from the outside. Anyway, how are you?
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:55 AM
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Frogs doesnt ask flies how to catch a fly. Depends what are you looking for, what kind of interaction you expect. Smile does not convey erotic feelings, more like husband material or a friend material. If you look for sex, go for no smile. If you look for serious, go for smile.
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:50 AM
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Ok text her something funny, a joke, a funny story that happend to "you" recently, no stupid questions. Make her smile or laugh in work, and little horny when off work with some flirty text. No sexting, that never works out
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:06 AM
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Stop with TV shows. This is passive approach. You need an active approach. Gather some balls material and enlist in Improv theater. Dont be afraid, these are some open people willing to help. Be honest with them, say you need to improve your speech and wit. They will help. You will meet new people and make friends. Let the TV off
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:01 AM
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You are allowed to approach anyone ever in your life. The point is what you expect of this - if that means -> I just want to be nice, meet new people, have some fun - then be just honest - Hey, I see you gals here all the time, and I just want to say Hi lets meet and not be strangers.
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:54 AM
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Time for conditioning and some showoffing. Look really closely - let me see - turn around - make a pose - wiggle that butt - (whatever you like) - yeah not bad at all
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:49 AM
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I am, "wink" Wanna know more?
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:42 AM
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Yes that is quite nicely put. It sets a nice basis for further experimentation. Dont forget, you need to keep trying. There are many types of girls, some will respond to one type of interaction, the other will be repulsed with it. Try to identify types you like and create multiple solutions over - one line fits all. Once you know what kind of girls you want, tailor posible openers based on their profile. Have an interesting opener, follow through with rapport, spark attraction, then close
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:33 PM
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Good emotions are a basis, but you need to push more to the erotic narative. Talking and talking does not lead anywhere. Also sexting is usualy not leading anywhere. It is good to know your kinks and aim specifically for what you like, if she is not compatible, that is an easy selection. So putting erotic images into a willing mind is your goal I would say, and also not overstimulating, which leads to sexting, which leads to ghosting
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:21 PM
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Well that would be more of a friend thing - I want to be with people I feel good with, doesnt mean I want to fuck them. I want to fuck the girl that makes me horny. And same goes other way around
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:28 PM
1

Cool and what do you think that motivates a lady to get down to it?
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:04 PM
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Cool, now what is your intention with said recipients?
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:49 PM
1

to add to all good advice here, improve photo game - never have any pictures of you that you made yourself, always have someone photo you. also in description be kida over the top
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:36 AM
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Nah even I had like 3 months of silence... But for last couple of months, at least 3
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:28 AM
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OK, since you are friends, it is easy to pull her out. So do it. Once out, start playing with her hair then ears, neck while sitting behind her. During physical contact, just say anything in the area of - I wonder what it would be like if we were together. - Wait for her to reply, even 10 minutes, be silent
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:06 AM
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Wow much "fuck this" attitude ... If a hot lady came with such attitude where, if I havent gave her what she wanted in like 5 minutes she would be like "fuck this shit", then yeah, fuck your shit I dont have time for you. Seriously, google patience a persistence, try some of that stuff. But I feel generous - try and text me here some of your "special" techniques, and we will see how we can help
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:03 AM
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When I hear just friends, then there is one thing you neglected when talking to her. Attraction, turn on, the spark, vibe. If you will be a microphone for her to complain, if you laugh to all her jokes, if you respond to her nags... Then you are a tool, not creating emotions. So create emotions. Positive, negative, make her laugh, make her cry. Better then being a tool
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:54 AM
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If you measure a success by lady-numbers, yes, he is correct and you are wrong. What your friend is trying to convey to you is simple - If you need a girl, you have no chance. If you want a girl, you have to try hard. If you make her want you, she will try hard. If you make her need you, she will do anything for you.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:50 AM
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Sex in Europe is pretty much fun activity that everyone should enjoy. I remember some old TV movie from like 1982 that was all about kids in last elementary school year (13-15) going on school ski trip, most of them spending nights smoking, drinking, girl losing virginity to teacher... And that was (and still is) fun family movie, no joke. In Germany, for example, it is ok for whole family including grandparents to go to nude beach. There are no special nude beaches. Just one beach with nudists …
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:39 AM
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Always assume best and be prepared for worst. Assume everyone is checking you out. Assume everyone wants to talk to you, only waiting for you to give them the opportunity. Make those feelings your standart. Signs can be misinterpreted or misleading. Assume whatever benefists what you want, and if proven wrong, reframe the situation that you came out of it on good terms.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:30 AM
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Ok she is investing, so that is a good sign. Question now is - what do YOU want? More sex? Relationship? Next babe?
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:25 AM
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Absolutely, just like communication is critical in relationship, so is ability to take social cues and both should work together and separate to improve these. So for our virgin friend that is definitely not reading this, I would say that self awareness, experience in communication, taking social cues, empathy, emotional inteligence are key factors in having great relationship potential. But he asked about how to not mess up this oportunity... Well respect her boundary, dont let her get over you…
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:20 AM
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Yes that is true, and if that women sees that she is more developed in this regard over her specific partner, she should adjust the situation and lead the communication in required way
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:13 AM
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That is one way of looking at this. But the reading people skill is definitely at play here. If one of them lacks this skill (either one), the other one should notice and take the lead and be more obvious. If both lack this skill, this is where one escalates not enough or too much and the other one either dont get it or gets scared. I would not dare to say one sex is doing it in ok way and the other one just dont get it
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:34 AM
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Quite a lot of women dont escalate at all even if they are aroused and are excited about the possible intimacy, expecting the partner to do "the job." That is usually an issue for newbs, mistaking this attitude (or lack of it thereof) for unavailability or disinterest
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:19 AM
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I loled. You know that you can travel to any Europe country (czech republic for me) for like 200 usd, get your molars filled, nerves removed, bracers applied for like 1/10 of price, in comparable quality in a private clinique, get a week of recovery and still save about 3/4 of what you would pay in US? If I go to dentist to get premium filling, I pay for all the experience like 100USD. Never had any issues. Bracers starts from 1000 USD - everyone got those, again, no issue.
/r/seduction08/07/21 07:41 AM
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I do underestimate anyones massage skills. Especialy vigrins, since what you want to achive is not helping her tired-from-workout muscles to relax, but sensual massage, which require experience
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:42 AM
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You dont understand me fully, the advice is ment - dont get stuck in a loop of - she is not relaxed enough! I need to make her more comfy! Focusing on any single feeling in stead of overall vibe. Sort of procrastinating in the comfort zone of chill instead of processing to the intimate zone
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:18 AM
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Be polite but not too polite. Show her affection and attention but not too much. Massages are out, if you want her to feel relaxed, scratch her back around the bra (not too hard, not too softly) But watch out, too much relaxation will kill sexual vibes, stop when at best. Dont be afraid to get intimate, cuddle her close, play with her hair, but not too gently. If she is ok with cuddling, playing with her hair, gently turn her head to you and go for kiss. If she refuses anything more, say it is o…
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:16 PM
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I would say first learn how be happy with yourself without anything. Then learn to swim in pussy. Then learn how to swim in money. Only then you can appriciate it, because you know how to be happy without either one.
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:23 PM
0

Is there anything else I can do for you Sir?
/r/seduction04/07/21 04:02 PM
1

"You know it just sucks that all of the classes are online now, you cant just meet your schoolmates face to face, right?
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:34 PM
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I am rougly at 60 at 30, my fiancee is at 3 at 23. Ergo, compatibility in this area is difficult. I have all the experience and I let her know I want the best from her. She is passive, not sexually driven person, so I have to push her to make her have results with me and make her progress with her experience and comfort zone. Not an easy job to do.
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:54 AM
0

Goal for casual sex is getting good in pleasing women. You can never be the best in bed if you only had two or five ladies
/r/seduction08/05/21 08:41 AM
1

Tougher then going to a gym 4 times a week and sweat?
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:07 PM
2

Unless you are really attractive or really ugly, it does not matter. You fall into - normal - category. If you want to build physical attractivity, go for muscle, trim, style, in order to attract physically interested people. If you want to build mental attractivity, lose fear, learn quick wits, have interesting hobby...
/r/seduction14/04/21 12:55 PM
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With this attitude you will be carefree and also career-free. There will be times when you have to force through some shit and grind till you win, sometimes for years. Passion will come after success, not before
/r/seduction09/04/21 11:15 AM
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Male comment, from my experience, girls have same feelings you do. Sometimes we all just stare blank thinking about trains or whatever. Sometimes people stare because they are horny for no reason outside of their head. Or your brain get interested in you clothing or patterns, and you just stare.
/r/seduction09/04/21 11:09 AM
1

Your performance was deemed acceptable and you've been classified as a second class booty call
/r/seduction09/04/21 09:52 AM
1

Just text him - hey I got some free time, netflix and chill?
/r/seduction09/04/21 09:48 AM
1

Try it yourself and see the results. Then ask about interpretations of those
/r/seduction09/04/21 09:43 AM
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Keep doing what are you doing. In time she will change your mentality in a way where you will feel like normal is when: she does a bare minimum to take your attention, you then accept whatever she wants from you and then she leaves. Then you will form some sort of toxic based relationship where you provide and execute and she orders and commands. She will grow of course bored of you, but will use you for her benefit. Then she will get pregnant, you will marry her, because of course you will, and…
/r/seduction27/03/21 07:32 PM
1

Keep trying to remember facial features, such as eye colour. It is usualy useful
/r/seduction19/03/21 11:26 PM
2

Problem is when you take a regular pic of you in mirror. It is considered "hot" to have the body and also took pictures in professional matter. However, if on those pictures is you posing, you will seem egotistical. The best variant is a professional picture you, with worked out body, doing something unrelated and looking of camera like it is not there - kind of like - there is a girl with hot body around you doing whatever, and you can stare at her forever
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:12 PM
1

You know you can add some bulk with proper food and home exervise, right?
/r/seduction16/03/21 08:25 PM
1

You improve as long as you want to keep improving to reach your desired goal. It may take a decade. So if I tell you now - you will marry a perfect 10 but only if you hustle hard for 5 years, will you do it?
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:43 PM
2

My friend, imagine 5 years later when she will be done dating studs and will want to settle with a normal guy, she will come begging. You will be fine, she is the one missing out
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:22 PM
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Being creep is a small emotional inteligence, meaning in company you dont pick up clues about situations and dont act approprietly. But EQ can be improved by being around other people every day, talking and coexisting with investment from your side - not only hiding in corner. In time you will improve
/r/seduction21/01/21 08:40 AM
1

Then stop looking and start doing
/r/seduction19/01/21 08:09 AM
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It can also be a warning, for example: "I have all these guys who message me all the time" There is a hint (specific for this example) - this is what they are doing wrong - constantly asking for attention via message. Avoid this behaviour or else become another one of them
/r/seduction19/01/21 08:06 AM
1

It was said: Some values looks, someone career, some look for love and home, some for a smarts. I will add: Some look to be dominated. Some look to dominate.
/r/seduction09/01/21 07:06 PM
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Eye contact and full on listening, laughing and jokes but also sharing secrets, aura of not needing results - simply having fun, strong leading or following attitude - opposite of your partner, "yes, and ..." storytelling, creating "together" moments and memories, not having fear to touch
/r/seduction26/12/20 04:39 PM
9

Mission 3 - approach 20 women, ask for blowjob and come
/r/seduction21/12/20 08:06 AM
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True story. Nice guy has an agenda for being nice. Usually sexually oriented one. Good man means higher principle, one that does not directly rely on female validation
/r/seduction17/12/20 10:20 AM
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General rule if busy: Imidiate answer = Busy now, will answer later if complicated or ok/yes/brb/no/idk Answer within 1 hour = Send answer but few words max one sentence Answer within 8-12 hours = Few sentences, more thought out Answer within 24+ hours = Wall of text is ok If you send wall of text 10 minutes later, you are overly investing. If you send "ok" two days later, you dont give a shit
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:41 PM
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That is no issue, but good for you. Some people use dating apps as last resort for whatever reasons. I used it as a tool to get better at dating and relationships. I would say my third long term relationship is the one I feel like I have enough experience to drive it forward. And that is only thanks to the fact, that I know what I want, I know what I like, and I know how to deal with women. Some say ladies are impossible to read. I can read them like an open book. It took ages, but now I see beh…
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:36 AM
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Europe resident here. You can learn theory of psychology and basics of seduction by heart. But this will never give you success without going out and failing. Because only thing theory will give you, is explanation why did you failed. So learning "people" skills alone will not really work. If you dont know anyone, go to any bar and talk to guys. Be open about what you want. If you cannot approach a guy and have him help you, how do you want to approach a hottie?
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:49 PM
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Start with small. Ask for a lighter or cigarette, or directions, or time, anything. Do it ten times. Then it will feel like no problem
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:41 PM
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Us, who help other now, we were some time ago in the same bad place, and we know what it feels like. We took action, we researched and failed, tested and perfected our methods. Now with our success, we want to encourage and share what we know
/r/seduction21/09/20 08:35 AM
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Hey it is ok, you dont need to apologise. You made a mistake, own it. It happens, just when with girl keep your focus on what you want, and if actual course of actions are going in that direction. If you know you are prone to misinterpretation, always misinterpret in way that would favour you.
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:59 PM
1

You made me laugh man :D
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:39 PM
2

Hey you just popped in my suggestions, haha, feel like going out?
/r/seduction16/09/20 10:38 AM
1

I would say give your money to smaller guys out there. They will provide you better service most of the time
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:06 AM
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Yes you can talk about meaningful things. Why though? Deep discussions have their place, but it is usually not in early dating, when you should - as you correctly said - go for emotions. What kind of emotions are felt during deep and meaningful discussions? Not many are positive, especially if you dont agree 100%. Then one of you will feel quite bad. Not a good start. Talk about nonsense goofy stuff that makes both of you laugh. One good laugh will make her like you more than atempt to dive deep…
/r/seduction16/09/20 06:51 AM
1

And exactly this unawareness will prevent any normal questions from working. I know this is psychology/interogation level of questioning, but it will work
/r/seduction16/09/20 06:31 AM
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What is the purpose of this question? You ask external conciousness about the internal conciousness business, this will leave you nowhere. You need to create an idea based on experience (psychology) and what you know about that person and how they behave and ask in non inquiring way. For example, a lady who desires to peg a guy. This would suggest a hate for dominant males, which is most likely due to father issues like beating/humiliation/neglection/... You would have to ask in a not too suspic…
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:19 PM
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First thing, fucking on a first date/after a party is 95% never going to last. It is just mostly about finding the lady that want to fuck to begin with, and being her best choice. If this will be followed by a relationship, it is usually because this girl want to rationalise her decision to fuck. But this will most likely not last long. Those guys teach success - meet - isolate - fuck, because this is what everyone things they want. But when you discover your own success, you will want more - fu…
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:08 PM
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Lines dont spark attraction. YOU (whoever is reading this) spark attraction
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:45 PM
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It makes you a human. I have dozens of male friends I dont want to be closer friends with, I have dozens of female friends I dont want to fuck. If you want to leverage your female friends to benefit you, go to party with two or three. This makes you instant center of attention
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:42 PM
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Worst case scenario is that you will let words from random stranger emotionally shake you
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:39 PM
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Okay I am quite like you BF, I am also not a fan of lingerie. But reason is different. I find it cheap. Thinking that just by putting on some type of kinda revealing clothes will make me aroused is an idea I find nearly offensive. I would say that the seduction you are used to, and that worked on your previous men is not going to work here. I am an experienced man, and if some less experienced lady would try to seduce me via common methods like dance, strip, lingerie, kissing, touching, ... she …
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:37 PM
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One way of looking at things is - I have nothing better to do. Another way of looking at things - I have things to do, but I chose you. Fix your attitude to more positive angle
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:05 PM
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Happy to help :)
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:39 PM
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I never said try hard to pickup single lady. Try hard methods, try hard to get experience and thousands of fails. I purely stated what kind of situations, if done at correct times and in correct order, with enough experience and many many previous fails, may bring you so much success that you will believe that it is possible
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:28 PM
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Okay as I said, this is just some example that came from top of my head. Use any story you seem fit and insert whatever you feel would express the way you feel and what you want to achieve. And dont be too obvious. You know, girls are more able to read subtle clues. You can just say ... And that made me think about you and I just couldnt stop smiling, and guys in bar were like what is so funny and I blah blah... - Just a note here, when you say I couldnt stop smiling, you must smile like you act…
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:18 PM
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Maybe if you will try hard enough and long, once, you will believe
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:06 PM
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Whatever you want it to be, whatever you have resources to facilitate. You can aim for sex but without a bed/car/safe place, you are restricted. You can aim for number, kiss, fingerfuck, toliet BJ, whatever
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:21 AM
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I would say I could make 75% of single ladies fall in love with me with pure experience, social callibration, friends, parties, events, sports and mainly sex. You can make girl fall in love with you if you pressure and relieve correct points (emotions) at correct times, frequently enough, long enough.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:17 AM
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As stated, popularity. Always have few people with you. Gather youself litteral followers, who will go out with you and make you feel even more outstanding. Then you can be the greatest
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:43 PM
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If you focus on sunset you restrict yourself to a 30 minutes max time window. If you do this every day, no problem. You can approach every time, if there is enough artificial light and you dont look like hobo drug dealer, or start from behind
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:38 PM
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My chess teacher taught me this - You can not win a game in an opening part. But you can lose it in an opening part. Be ok in opening, be ok in the middle game, focus on the endgame. This is what matters the most if you want to win
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:35 PM
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Regarding other girls, depends if those girls know you. Is there any attraction you build? If there is nothing build, i would say it might help in long run if they wont think it is your girlfriend and you will make her laugh and have fun. Regarding the girl with you, depends on you. If you will just be working out, your only hope is that she will get aroused by muscular men a lot, which is quite rare. Girls dig emotions, not muscles. When they see muscles, they dont feel "the muscles" arouse the…
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:28 PM
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I am not from NY. I am not from US. But one thing is same for bars all around the world. More full the bar is, more competition there is, and less chance you have. Go for less known bars on Friday/Saturday night. Less competition, more chance. If you wanna hit some more known bars, go outside of super busy days. Sunday, Monday.
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:20 PM
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Your main issue is ........ None. You are 19, of course you dont have much experience. If I painted for a year, I would compare myself to a painter who also painted for a year, not to a painter who paints decades. Yes, even the one who paints for a year might be better, then study the differences. Maybe his familly paints and he already knows the basics from them. Dont let envy and bad mood ruin what you like. Envy and bad mood will last minutes, days... But your passions and hobbies will be wit…
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:16 PM
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My point exactly, dont worry, on the other side is human too, with insecurities, issues and complex life. I know you know, just pointing it out. Most guys feels girls are these stone walls always , but they also feel like they can mess things up, and will regret some things they say/write. Especially in sensitive girls. Just dont fall into the trap of friend zone. She will probably need a shoulder to cry on, which is ok, if it is 10-20% of the time. Never let her use you as a lightning conductor…
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:03 PM
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The point is that you dont have to talk to the girl at all. You can get her name and all after you get her out or wherever. The point with groups is that you should never try to be sneaky. Allways get the group to acknowledge you at least visually, dance with other girls, make them part of your group. Then it is ok to separate
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:41 PM
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On the party street, me and my friend, who was vaping, were going, and behind us, three ladies made an insignificant comentary on the friends vape, regardless of positivity. I instantly took over those three and my friend, made them laugh and dragged them to dance bar. While I was kissing the one, my friend was jealously looking and vaping, then he left. He did not even tried to pick one of them. So I took two of them home
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:39 PM
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Small successes every day. Little things that count
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:35 PM
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Literally nothing. Less serious the better. Just joke around, turn her questions and inquiries (to a reasonable degree, dont be a dick) to a joke and just have fun while talking. Include more people, and just make fun with everyone
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:34 PM
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Sure you can, only aim messages in a following way - Hey look I got a new bag for our trip! It is so big you could fit inside of it :D Just share some funny small idea, that makes you smile and you want to share it with her. Never be this kind of guy - Hey how are you, what are you doing, what are you watching, what is your favourite dring. .... boring even to write down here.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:28 PM
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It depends on your attitude. I would always insert this - I am interested - note inside of some random banter, like this. ... And then my sister and I went to that theater and she was just so nervous. And since you are interesting and intelligent, you already know what happened, yes, she rocked that stage and we all applauded ... Consider this raw and not callibrated example, but you get the point. Purpose is to never place what you want to say at the end of your story/banter/whatever. Make it a…
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:24 PM
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First of all, talk to him. Maybe he does not like it at all, and it would ruin your session. If you have some sex issues, TALK together. Dont be rude, it happened to everyone. No bad feeling, just talk about what can you do, how can you move on.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:14 PM
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If you want to apologise, that is ok. Just say, oh sorry I was kinda cold, I had rough day
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:11 PM
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Sure, but someone small, who will give you one on one sessions. Not those big ones.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:08 PM
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Keep on leading, say to yourself how far are you going to go tonight, and stick to it
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:59 AM
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She should love you, not your pickup line
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:53 AM
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20% of heterosexual men had one partner, 55% had two to 20 partners, and 25% had more than 20 sexual partners. Average is 7 sexual partners in a lifetime. Which I would say is sad. If you would put this to perspective, from his 18 to his 38 he was able to get a new girl once every 34 months. I would say this is sucky result
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:52 AM
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Okay why would you scream in someones ear? You came there to dance, drink and have fun. You dont acctualy need to talk at all. You are in an enviroment where fun and entertainment is not created by talking, so dont push it. You are expected to have fun, to appear to have 10x fun then everyone else, therefore drawing attention to you. When you have attention you can approach a lady and help her to be in your spotlight. This will create attraction and arousal, also with touching and kissing. Then …
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:44 AM
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Okay if I do something disgusting, it is her right to act disgusted. Well you can say I am wrong sure. But you know what? I have results. You have excuses
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:05 AM
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Datings apps are training for IRL encounters. Not a replacement
/r/seduction13/09/20 09:29 AM
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Creating this whole backstory in your mind puts enormous internal pressure on you. This will affect the way you talk, way you walk and will make you appear like you want something from her, putting pressure on her. Not a good start for any of you. Try instead approaching with this mindset - this is an interesting person, I just want to get to know her better. I will make her happy, make her laugh, not as a clown, but by being actualy funny and in the moment, not taking this too seriously
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:28 AM
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Any update?
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:42 PM
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Search for problém on both sides. Maybe you just dont care, which makes her not care. If you appear cold, or distant, in - I dont give a shit- kind of way, why should she care? Just try to genuinely enjoy every converstaion. Laugh and make her laugh. Dont take it too seriously
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:37 PM
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Sure, some of them are. But 95% are not. And even if you receive milion flaterry comments every day, you still need real emotional connection. Being able to take the responsibility of fucking up is not easy for everyone. Some people will never learn. Some people trest other people rudely. Get over it. 75% it is just facade to appear strong or remove losers. Works on you obviously
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:30 PM
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No not every female thinks she is queen. Some thinks they are sluts, some little lost puppies, some are just normal people and think too highly of themself. I am from Europe, I have no idea what incel is.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:21 PM
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Sure, an experienced girl with no goop opinion of him will think what you said. But if girl likes him at least a little, and she is no queen, she will doubt herself too. Dont think that girls are not insecure too. They also got anxious next to good looking fellow
/r/seduction11/09/20 03:03 PM
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Then what you lack is validation. Perhaps you need to feel that you really deserve it - kiss, sex, girl, whatever. Talk about it with your friends. They will encourage you if you tell them
/r/seduction11/09/20 08:15 AM
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Depends on how you see it. You can view it as negative or positive. I had two 4+ years long relationships and one 4 years long still going strong. Thanks to those "failed" experiences I now know what to do in certain occasions, and when some issue arrises, I can adress it and talk about it with my partner. So for me, good thing. Also I had maybe 5-6 less then 3 months long relationships, mostly revolving around sex and parties and getting to know each other. Also beneficial, as when I start new …
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:46 AM
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Depends on girl. Inexperienced girl will ask herself - What have I done wrong? Why does he dont want to talk to me? Am I not pretty enough? This is truth. Girls are usualy lost just as much as you
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:31 AM
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I prefer instant fuck, but hey, whatever floats your boat
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:28 AM
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Well you better start building a great social life too
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:28 AM
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What is dreaded on maybe? Do you always answer in yes/no fashion? She is just not sure either with you or the thing she studies. Be understanding. Come on, you let ONE maybe to put you off balance. Be more secure man
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:26 AM
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You want mantra? Litany against fear from Dune. Works for me ​ I must not fear Fear is the mind-killer Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration I will face my fear I will permit it to pass over me and through me And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path Where the fear has gone there will be nothing Only I will remain
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:22 AM
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Remove the shyness. Go out more, join a community, find your place among other people
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:20 AM
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and what is stopping you?
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:18 AM
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Let me be honest. Most guys will respond positively regarless of what you say. If you happen to be average looking or better, they will actually want to engage in corversation. If not, you will have to work really hard. But that is no issue. I have no idea about your background or issues, but getting to know each other irl is always better, and online communication is more less just to keep in touch when you are not together. I would go out more, join some community of sport or hobby, and fish t…
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:17 AM
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Okay banter no problem, I agree, then you need to laugh to make it obvious you are joking, that is no problem :) It depends, hardcore biker chick will brush you off, because for her this is off putting. Introverted girl may admire it but also it may seem too straightforward
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:11 AM
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Depends on what is your planned outcome. Do you fish for sport? Money? Sex? Best possible relationship? Love of your life?
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:19 PM
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Is it possible? Sure, I have seen less probable things happen. Will you make it happen? If you let go of her, sure you will. Bang all of her girl friends and make them orgasm through the roof. She will give you attention
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:17 PM
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There are ladies subreddits here you know right?
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:16 PM
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Cool, did she responded?
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:15 PM
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Depends on comfort. 10/10 can be out there when they feel 100% comfort. As you lower comfort, more and more people will close up due to fear of rejection. This is why actors are so "sexy" to girls, because they learned to be out there 100% in absolutely uncomfortable situations.
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:14 PM
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Use inside messages. Write her longer message which will contain just some info about your day, like you would tell your friend about your day, really just like you would talk, but inside you place something that would make her heart jump, just like I was thinking about you yesterday and I really looked forward to see you again, but then my boss came and I was summoned to this and that, but you must not stop with the importatnt message, keep talking after it, which will give it the spontaneity, …
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:11 PM
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Of course woman like womanizers. But not because they want to, but because those guys know what they are doing and actualy learned a skill by experience and coutless fails. Oh no dating is difficult, yes it is. We all went through it. But you are 21. Male is on his top from his 28-45 rougly. ladies are on top 17-25. You are not missing out. Are there guys who know how to make a girl wet in his 18? Yes. It is not you. Get over it and start now. Dont fall into spiral of self pity and pick yourself…
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:07 PM
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Put water in your shots. Make your brain believe it is drunk
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:59 PM
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Not necessary. Unless it is flowing naturally, screw it, you are busy guy. Text her some time before to specify date, place, and to make sure she comes
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:58 PM
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Did you told her you like her? She may not know. Just tell her, nothig to lose
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:56 PM
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If you dont know the girl, and more importantly, the girl does not know you, you will have no real chance whatever you say. If you know the girl and the girl does know you, foolproof way is to organise an event. Make sure it will be awesome, then invite her and buch of other people, but whatever her response, you will have to make it killer. Make her regret of not comming with all the people that will come. In case she comes, never fall in the trap of focusing only on her. Make fun with everyone…
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:54 PM
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Depends on the girl. Did you like hooked up with some hard core biker chick you can slap while choking her with your dick? Or is it the ever busy bussiness lady with tight schedulle and ass. Maybe some introverted libratian with thick glasses and thighs. But regardless, you can make all work. Just really think about the girl, and kind of feelings she enjoys and what she likes. "Hardcore" chick wants to feel dominated. So text her in domineering way. Bussiness lady wants to feel free, so dont tex…
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:53 PM
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Okay imagine a girl with her friend approaching you, grabbing your attention and saying this to you. Overwhelmed is the word you feel. Yeah you will start laughing, because what you wanna say to this? Come in? Come on, in chess they taught us that you can win with the worst opening move, as long as you dont suck in middle game and rock in the endgame. You cannot win in the opening but you can easily lose in the opening. If you open fine like this, that is cool, but you have to deliver after it. …
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:43 PM
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If you dont know the girl, and more importantly, the girl does not know you, you will have no real chance whatever you say. If you know the girl and the girl does know you, foolproof way is to organise an event. Make sure it will be awesome, then invite her and buch of other people, but whatever her response, you will have to make it killer. Make her regret of not comming with all the people that will come. In case she comes, never fall in the trap of focusing only on her. Make fun with everyone…
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:35 PM
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Alcohol inhibits boners. Use like 1-2 shot at maximum to improve your stamina, everything more is flopper hazard. But never use alcohol as social lubricant. You will get used to being funny and open and charming when drunk, but sober "you" will stay boring. Learn being charming and all sober, then it is ok to be drunk
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:24 PM
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Oh no you failed up until now. Okay, throw that away and start. Start learning new skill that will force you going outside - group sport, wedding photography, whatever, just fit it with who you are. But no thinking and deciding for weeks. Just start later today. And stick to it. One thing. And keep getting better. Keep meeting people in this field. Start being a part of that community. Figure your place in that community. Enjoy
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:07 AM
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Love your attitude, more seduction/game for women. I know it can be difficult to get the one you want. But the same issue is being solved with men here. 1, Once you get on top of your game, you will get much more attention, and you even may lose interest in that special one. 2, That energy, spark, charisma and game may even put down some insecure individuals that cant stand next to popular and well socially adapted lady. 3, Showing off uniqueness is not always for better. Showing values and stic…
/r/seduction09/09/20 10:05 PM
2

In her eyes, she is not beauty
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:03 PM
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Take a shower. Dress for outside. Go outside. Go to place where would be someone who could have similar hobbies as you, regardless of gender. Just talk to him/her. Get comfortable with talking to strangers. Men first, ladies next. Eat less more frequently Do some movement activity - sport, run, cycle, swim... Repeat
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:02 PM
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This ↑ ↑ Also, maybe someone hurt you when you opened your real you, so you pulled back, and now you fear that pain again.
/r/seduction09/09/20 11:54 AM
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Well sure there are. Most girls like to feel that you are turn on by her. Either by your boner, or by any other mean, more or less hidden. Whispering into her ear that you have been thinking about sex with her all day is actually a turn on for her. They like to hear what you want to do with her Most girls like to feel the dominance of a man. Holding her strong(not too strong), being over her, holding her head, hear ...
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:07 PM
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No. It just ruins the mystery Only exception is professional art, photoed by someone else.
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:58 PM
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Only move from Friend zone is making her regret putting you into the friend zone, then making her chase you, then friendzonig her, because you already have dozens of better alternatives
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:48 PM
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Don't become the personification of her phone. Don't be available all the time. Make her miss you. Make her desire you. Be unpredictable, making her think about you. Don't try to get to know her over the phone. If you want relationship, you will have all the time you will want to get to know her IRL
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:45 PM
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Well, then if you agree that you are worth it, you want to get the best possible wife-material you can get. This goes the same as with job, bussines, sport... If you want your results to be above average, not only you have to have the experience, but you also have to know the rules, tactics, tips and tricks. If you however feel that average or bellow average is what you want, feel free to ignore this subreddit. Also there is statistical probability that you might get an above average lady by pur…
/r/seduction30/03/20 09:37 AM
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Walking wet dream of a sweet shy introverted sad person. That does not really makes sense. If you want to be desireable, you have to work on your inner state of mind. Stay shy and introverted, no problem. But be happy. Don't look for your happiness in other people, search for your happines in yourself, learn to induce it in yourself. When you distill it, most of it comes down to confidence. Because desirability you must first feel in yourself, believe it in yourself, before others will start fee…
/r/seduction30/03/20 08:18 AM
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The question for you is: are YOU worth the mental gymnastics if the girl were to make the effort?
/r/seduction30/03/20 08:10 AM
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All you need are sociall skills. All you want is bang bang. All you have is r/seduction
/r/seduction30/03/20 07:43 AM
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Yep, it is possible, who am I to judge, I don't really know the girl. But from my experience, sex and life is deeply connected. There are definitelly those people, who wish to be dominated in bed, but stay dominant in life. But there are also those, who wish to be dominated in life and in bed
/r/seduction29/03/20 05:22 PM
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Or maybe I like trains and you don't
/r/seduction29/03/20 05:19 PM
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Yeah you are totally right. Or maybe I am a psychologist and you are overconfident
/r/seduction29/03/20 12:02 PM
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You consider telling a girl - you are pretty - a straightforward approach? :D Dude, straightforward, is not talking to her at all, staring her down into submission, and going for a kiss without saying a word. Straightforward is taking her hand in a club, saying follow me there is no time and fucking her in a toilet. But ok. Telling a girl - you are pretty - says nothing. You said it yourself. You compliment her, she lacks initiation. If you compliment, and then stare her down, she feels bad, bec…
/r/seduction29/03/20 11:37 AM
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We are not going to find an agreement in this issue.
/r/seduction29/03/20 11:24 AM
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I know many people that are honest and nice. I know what do you mean, plenty guys would never say "bad" thing, but there are plenty of those who are not acting nice, they are nice in their heart, but keep their own boundaries and stay honest. Sorry I have to disagree, there are some ladies that really wants an abusive partner. They will never say it out loud, but it is the truth. Even some men want an abusive lady. The lady in the original post wrote it clear, this is how she wants to be treated…
/r/seduction29/03/20 09:54 AM
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Just start some sort of - I want to entertain everyone kind of amateur content. Girls will come
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:07 AM
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Being passive is the opposite of being sexy. If you want to be sexy, be active. Start by emulating success, then keep doing what feels right to you, then just be active in what feels right, developing your own style. Take responsibility of your life
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:05 AM
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Getting your mind in shape will move you forward like flash. Getting your body in shape helps with confidence. Getting your social life in shape will make you king
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:03 AM
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The easiest way to fuck up are: Needing too much attention or no attention. Investing more money/time/emotions then her. Leting her walk all over you. Not sharing fun/exciting/embarasing stories together. Thinking that you need to keep her interested. And thinking that své does not need to do no work for it at all. Making it too easy for her
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:16 AM
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You keep giving her gifts? This is not really a viable strategy long term, do you want more then sex?
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:10 AM
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Girls sending nudes is just an adrenaline spike, with no results expected. They might send you nudes, sext their deepest fantasies, but since you now know it all, going out with you would feel sluty, so you will never meet them
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:07 AM
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First, spoiled girl will point out, and say - I want this. Anyone who will race to get it to her already lost the game. Second, girls love emotions. If the guy never sparks any emotions, there is no way. Third, some girls will never like to be treated nicely. If they had abusive parents, most of them will grow up to desire abusive partner
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:04 AM
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Friend, don't put words in my mouth.
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:50 AM
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Well of course they are not, but this is not conscious decision, this is deep feeling. Do you wanna pork the hottest chick? Why? Because you are nasty scheming guy? No, because you want the best girl you can get. Same as the girl wants the best. And confidence is one of the best indicator of quality. If the guy is not confident, well then there must be something wrong, so I am not going to choose this one
/r/seduction26/03/20 12:09 AM
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I am thinking. The savage thug will attract ladies who likes savage thugs. But if he will not be confident, ladies will not want him. Nice caring father is great for women who had stable relationships with her parents. But not confident caring father will repulse them. Millionare guy might be intimidating to normal girls, but attractive to most. But if the girl find not confident millionare (heritage), they will just use him to get to his money/status/contacts and then leave him
/r/seduction25/03/20 10:31 PM
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Google? But noone can make lines for shit tests for you, because I have no idea what kind of person you are. The point of shit test is to test you, if the way you present yourself is the "real" you. If it is, and you are not trying to be someone else, you will past the test if you will respond without trying and without effort. Imagine like your best friend is teasing you, and you respond to him in a quick and funny way. In this manner you must learn to respond
/r/seduction25/03/20 10:05 PM
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What? That is literally the truth. I know it might be difficult to accept, because you seem to be from ok familly, but for people who had difficult or abusive parrents, they grow up to love difficult or abusive partners. If her father considered her absolutely worthless, she will consider it normal and want this from her partner. But all of "those suckers want to treat her nicely and give her flowers and shit while she deeply desires to be smacked down and spit on and treated like a garbage, bec…
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:56 PM
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Even better, it is shit test. Have some easy to remember lines ready for some shit test to pass them
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:52 PM
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Never ever believe a statement that starts with: "All..., Every..., " No. Not every women wants confident, strong, dominant men. Not even every woman wants a men. There are also women that wants to dominate her man. But it is an easy exploit. It is not that difficult to achieve and it will get you far. Just because some people sells product, that does not makes it less powerful. But yes, most women wants the socialy most successful man. That is biologically wired in human head. Just as males are…
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:48 PM
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It is really interesting how your title says: "Why having a LOOK matters", but you really quickly translate from looks to style, and finally behavior. You out-argument yourself, because it is not about LOOKS. The looks are the visible part of the iceberg. The woman sees men. She sees the look and got quick hint of some behaviour. Then she shit-tests to flip the iceberg to see, if the rest of the personality fits the visible part. If it does, she is satisfied, and courting can take place. However…
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:36 PM
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Great, I love the end of you staying your ground. You should feel about how you did. It is difficult to say if she considered you as sex possibility. Depends how much humor you created and if you created sexual tension. But anyway, you are right before gates to success land :)
/r/seduction23/03/20 09:50 PM
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Less thinking more flirting. Less talking, more kissing. You can literally tell her this if she starts to resist
/r/seduction23/03/20 09:48 PM
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Thanks mate, best of luck to you too :)
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:55 PM
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What I ment was when you never saw each other, met online, and texted 24/7. That usually never ends in dates, but sometimes does :)
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:39 PM
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Before or after you first met?
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:31 PM
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Yup, this will increase this problem, putting more men into situation, that they will be used via phone as human contact supplement, creating false illusion, that they will meet each other when this all will end.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:19 PM
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It is a freedom none the less. It should be treated as an inner problem of a person that is shaming, and not as an issue of a person being shamed. If someone tries to shame you, it is not good, and it does not feel good. But don't shame the shamer. It creates this spiral of neverending hate. I always approach shamer with compassion and understanding. Because shamers usually shame because they themselves were shamed, usually as kids by parents, and this is their defense if someone gets too close …
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:16 PM
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Let us issue the problem of phone personification. If you genuinely miss human contact, you will start to create a feeling towards a imagination of person you type with. If you create this kind of relationship over the phone prior to real meeting, there is literally no chance to meet IRL, because this meeting would ruin the idea you have, and those stories you made in your head about the other person. Let other men be the phone personification, you always aim for real contact. She might not be h…
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:07 PM
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It is a freedom. I am free to shame you, but I don't want to. And you are free to shame me if you feel like it, and I won't hate you for it. If someone want's to shame me, it is okay. That is his opinion, and I learn the hard way how to work with it, and it made me a better person, who knows how to handle his emotions. Because those hard feelings, tests, and roadbumps are what makes us better. Not when the water is calm, but when you must endure the storm
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:59 PM
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As said, start with girls way bellow your paygrade. They will genuinely think that you are messing with them because such a hot guy would not want them. If you will convey message in non needy way that you just wanna fuck, and keep your frame, get over tests and stay confident, it can happen today.
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:50 PM
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People ... Accept some other people will allways be shamig no matter what you do. Get over it.
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:46 PM
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In order to be special, you need to get used to standing out in a crowd. You will be percieved as weird by some, but as you progress, you will find out how not to be weird, how to be percieved as interesting, unique, special, one-of-a-kind, rare ... But you must first master the weird stage, so when people shit test you, you will stay in your frame.
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:16 PM
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Just say - Hey _(name)__, my friend is having house dance on _(date)___. Do you want to come with me?
/r/seduction18/03/20 11:18 AM
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From what you say, it seems you consider women as some being from other planet. They are not. They are like you, only with reversed set of one organ and different levels of some hormones. Try to reverse situation in your head, imagine yourself as the one the girls are approaching to. Like 10 girls a day approach you trying to impress you. Now think about it, do you even want to be impressed? Really think about it, how it would feel like if a girl would push hard, bragging about how successful sh…
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:28 AM
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What are you looking for, ONS or LTR?
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:50 AM
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Just really test for a week or two of everything already posted. You can go in your day for some meals with water + full diet protein powder supplement with minerals, vitamins and trace elements. This reduces your calories intake and gives your body protein and everything else, and makes you feel saturated. In the end it is faster then regular food, cheaper, tastes ok and you know for sure you have everything you need. If you need more energy for workout, there are more energy packed powders. It…
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:47 AM
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This line that was used is very dangerous if you are not calibrated in the way you talk. If you just say it spitefully, you deserve girl to leave and feel bitter about you. If it came out as a cheeky humor, teasing, it works as stated. If not, than you have a problem
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:34 AM
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Drugs are bad MKAY
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:27 AM
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It is less about what you say, and more about how you say it. Girls are not so much different from guys. Imagine it like someone trying to sell a car he don't like. You can tell there is something off. He might have all the technique, but if he don't truly believe that his product will deliver, other side can tell. If you hold her tight and kiss her passionately, she will be turned on. Good turn on for girls is that she notices that you are turned on, even via feeling your boner. Creating tensio…
/r/seduction17/03/20 02:36 PM
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Thank you, it is always good to find someone I can help. If you have more questions, don't hesitate to contact me
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:56 PM
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Well yes and no. If she is negative about you, there is truly little you can do, especially on a date. But if her mind is not yet set, there is a lot you can do. You might think - she might not be attracted physically. Well, I would say, unless you are a model, she is not really attracted physically. But unless you are genuinely ugly or deformed, you are in the category of - regular guy - and you can turn her on if you push correct buttons. Think about it like this: You are no horny at the momen…
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:52 PM
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I would say you did 40% good. You can obviously create intrigue, rapport, even some attraction. But not enough attraction obviously. From what I understand, you created the friend vibes, and kiss in the end was awkward in this context. You need to learn to turn her on. It is difficult, I know. But 999% worth it. Take it as a lesson. Next time, go for more flirt. When she feels comfortable, turn down humor and increase flirt and touch and intimacy. Test your ground, how far she let's you. If you …
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:08 PM
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Good. Don't worry, I know that looking at other peoples achievements might make you feel down, and doubt yourself, but life is a process. Other might have money, but trust me, most rich people are not happy. But if you learn to be happy without money, and then earn your riches, you can be happy with money. People who make money first, are looking for happiness in more money, which is only temporary and never as good. I compare myself to others, all the time. Everyone does. But I don't let it rui…
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:03 PM
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Well that does not matter if she comes today or in a week. Just remember her name, and try to remember the feeling when you talked to her, and try to use that to overcome fear. Thing about fear and anxiety as your aid. Your body has no realistic idea of what is going on, if the thing you fear is a girl or a predator. So it is activating your most basic instincts, you know, fight, flight, freeze, faint, to avoid pain of confrontation or to give you adrenaline power to help you to fight it. Learn …
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:48 PM
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Well that is always a difficult situation. But girls don't really care. You are 21, no girl really expect you to invite her to expensive dinner. Candles and walks, and flowers you collect in nature works really well, trust me. The only person who cares about you being broke is you. If you let it bother you, it will bother the second person. If you won't let it bother you, the other person will be fine with it. If you have a problem, just say it to the girl. Say hey you know I can't really afford…
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:37 PM
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Well you can always go to.... The Nature But if you know a little cooking, invite her for a dinner you make her
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:30 PM
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Don't take it as bad as this guy put it. He is kinda right about the name, but everything else is not as cringy or yikesy as he put it. Even with that name, you had a business running, and not asking a name "on time" is you, not giving a shit, which is alpha. I thing you did good by talking to her, and I think she will remember it for some time, as a good story to tell. And if she ever comes to your coffee place again, you have a good reason to talk to her. From my point, success
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:25 PM
1

And what is hold you back to follow through on things, or working while studying?
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:19 PM
1

In what area you can do way better?
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:58 AM
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Don't expect anything for the girl or a date. Do things you like, and invite her in. Don't take her seriously - but respect her. Just be casual, because it is absolutely normal thing to do. Make her attracted to you. Dozens of "how to" you can find here
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:57 AM
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Well it might be your social group setting, maybe even religious thing. But from what I learned, every person wants to fuck. You just have to give them opportunity to express that emotion freely, without judgement. Less obstacles there is, and less judgement they encounter, smoother will the casual sex happen.
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:56 AM
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Ignore selfies. Always make someone take a picture of you. It is way more impressive. When I see girl's profile with only selfies, I know - this girl has no friends or social life
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:07 AM
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Casual sex is modern phenomenon very few people have actually experienced I am sorry to break it up to you, but here, in Europe, casual sex is quite common. I literally don't know anyone who at some point in his life wouldn't have sex casually. The way to casual sex is as described - casual. Don't take ii too seriously, don't imply relationship, just invite her in to have a good time.
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:04 AM
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I would say you need to think about the reason of your conversation. In the first few minutes you need to figure out what kind of girl you are talking with. Is she here to party/celebrate/drink? Does she need to leave at xPM?How far she needs to travel? Is she here with someone, can they be separated? Is she extrovert/introvert/crazy/shy/virgin/slut ... But asking question in the infamous "Interview mode (are you here alone? do you drink today?....?)" is the worst! Go for your answer first, as i…
/r/seduction16/03/20 01:17 PM
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Well there are some traditional answers and some unorthodox ones. It is up to you whether you want to go via "the well mapped route" or "the dangerous short-cut". But I will tell you this. You have approached some rabbit hole here
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:59 PM
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"Game is a Numbers game" - can be, if done in a traditional - enter bar, approach ladies - fashion. There are more ways to game. Build and lead a social group, invite people in and make them love it. Spread the word and make group grow and thrive. Invite more and more successful people. As an undisputed Alpha of this group, you can then choose the best girl for yourself, regardless of your looks/numbers. As long as you stay in lead of the group, the girls will approach you and beg for your atten…
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:55 PM
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Gym builds confidence - not really. Success and experience builds confidence. Nice guys are manipulative - yes. Because everyone is manipulative by nature. People dislike it only if it is obvious from someone without power. Powerful can manipulate obviously and succeed.
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:48 PM
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Do you feel good enough for yourself? Start there first
/r/seduction16/03/20 10:38 AM
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I understand this, and I was this man before. You need to understand that getting from sheep to lion takes time and effort. Keyboard is a comfort zone. Date is not. Your beauty might be intimidating to some inexperienced guys. But it is all part of his transformation. He will learn it in time. Best for you and him is to be open about what you feel. Tell him how you feel, communicate.
/r/seduction16/03/20 10:36 AM
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Fucking an ugly girl is like riding an old scooter. It gets the job done just fine, but never let your friends see you riding it. *** PS: Ugly/fat girls are usually hardcore try-hard in bed. Most of them (from my experience) will do you just about anything. If you like really submissive girls who are into some kink/threesome, this is a good place to start
/r/seduction16/03/20 10:26 AM
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The best start is, as you said, by liking yourself. When you love yourself, others will join. Then I would suggest creating your own social environment, where you would be the leader. The bigger the crowd around you, the better women will join, wanting your attention. Having a social group you started and lead makes you the alpha. You can make it about anything you want, people will show up eventually, if you keep it going and have a good reputation. With social proof, your looks will not matter…
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:43 AM
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Good for you, study your feelings, try to remember how you felt and recall that feeling of confidence. Remember the feeling and fake it till you make it
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:26 AM
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Good info, but it is ok to text some independent fun - Possibly some silly picture with fun caption - Someone stole my shoes in the gym! Gonna walk home barefoot :D ; or memes, just silly fun - I have great mood and I am sharing this energy
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:25 AM
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Ivan is a good man with a soft heart. You are lucky
/r/seduction10/03/20 06:59 PM
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If you want to go for Pavlovian, treat yourself with sugar after any approach. You will literally build approach addiction, getting anxious not approaching :D Anyway, congratulations man, there is no barrier other than those in your minds. You are on a highway to success and only thing you have to do is keep going and keep improving! And keeping us posted :)
/r/seduction10/03/20 01:17 PM
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Yes this is exactly right. Everyone once was or even still is sucker for instant results. You can read about a Formula 1 drivers. But don't expect to become one week after your first time driving a cart. Everything takes time. It is good to study technique. But more important is go out there and perform. You can perform poorly, as long as you keep improving.
/r/seduction10/03/20 01:11 PM
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Just because they don't fantasy about you, or get immediately attracted to you, it does not mean they don't fantasy about anybody.
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:40 PM
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Imagine you are in a prison cell for life. Your inmate is Ivan, 300 lbs of muscle, and tattooed grammar mistakes. Treat a girl in a way you want Ivan to treat you. Because for a girl, you are Ivan
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:12 PM
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Narcissism and autism can be cured by big doses of self induced humility and generosity. Try a week like this Turn off internet and wifi. Turn off cellphone and other electronics. Turn off TV and radio. Take a book and go outside. Read it. When you see a human being not interacting with anyone, go tell them in a loud and well pronounced manner: "Hello sir/madam, I just wanted to say you look lovely today. Have a nice day" Don't wait a second for reciprocity, just leave. If they will say somethin…
/r/seduction10/03/20 12:07 PM
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Every beginner should read this to start with. You can consume all the books, articles and YT videos you like, but it all stands on breaking that comfort zone barrier, leaving the virtual safe space and allowing yourself to get hurt by Real Life failing, only to get out stronger. Read. Watch. Learn. But you must always apply it. Otherwise there is no purpose in doing it.
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:56 AM
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If you want to say a compliment, don't start with it. It is best to start with anything else. What is important is not how you say it, but what do you do before and after. Imagine situation. You stand in mall. You say: "You have beautiful eyes".. "Thanks". Silence. Awkward. This is wrong for 1 and 2 example you provided. You can be silent before and start with compliment, however it sounds very forced, too much thought through, not really genuine or natural. Best is this: Wow I just bought the s…
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:37 AM
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^ truth is so underestimated. Really man, just tell her. I don't mean confess - OH I LOVE YOU MILLION YEARS MARRY ME NOW - but nice little - Pardon me, I don't understand what are you doing to me, you are making me very nervous. In a good way.
/r/seduction10/03/20 10:46 AM
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Well if you are the Sure thing, she won't be. If you got her to the point she wants you, are you are not the Sure thing, she will be the sure thing.
/r/seduction10/03/20 10:44 AM
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There are issues that are fixable by seduction. I feel this requires professional help
/r/seduction10/03/20 10:26 AM
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Start at top, make your way to the bottom. This is what it means taking action
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:46 AM
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Always assume interest. If there is really none, you will know. If you mess up somehow, there will be none, you will know. But there is nothing to lose if you approach, expecting interest. Only thing is you must not get needy of her interest. If there is none, don't assume fail. Just go with it, staying ahead of things, staying positive
/r/seduction09/03/20 05:27 PM
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Yeah you need to show boundaries, but also respect her boundaries, not defusing every single problem - some problems (in LTR) needs to be treated with serious approach. I did not mean to advice using drama too much. Just to remind the other one you are not to be stomped on, just like you said. Some people just like living in drama, making scenes around mundane problems. Unless it is someones thing, stay away everyone.
/r/seduction09/03/20 03:44 PM
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Maybe you should add - orthodox, who says - what I like is good, what I don't like is bad
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:51 PM
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I agree but just not fully. It is really true to keep up the energy of not being affected, not letting her blame you for whatever flings her nose. But over time, this tension gets stacked up and needs release. You can release with wild angry sex, but also with drama. Women loves drama. Even if they are the ones to blame. Drama is an emotional roller coaster that makes them addicted to you. It is best to defuse with humor and ignore most of her blaming, but also blame her as much when she makes m…
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:39 PM
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I don't have an IG, but if you could pull it off, you would broke IG, but before that you would have success
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:22 PM
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In virgins it is difficult to predict without information about her. Some virgins are eager to have sex, some require months to get comfortable. None of it is bad. Anyway, you keep creating sexual tension in a mild way, keeping her horny. And keep telling her that it is her choice to make, not being too pushy. But always, you must create opportunities for her to drop pants in a comfortable fashion. No judgement, no push, just lust and adventure. If she don't feel yet about sex, say it is okay bu…
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:20 PM
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Good for you, I wish you will find a not-straightforward, not-entitled, not-immature and not-cringeworthy person to be happy with
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:08 PM
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Great list + Smile and be genuinely positive Own your own mistakes. Learn from them Keep your cellphone in your breast pocket and record yourself talking. Review If you wanna ONS you can actually be a dick Be congruent. In your voice, body position, vocabulary, eye contact, topic, close Have logistics ready for best possible success But the number one - execute - actually go out
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:03 PM
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Talking in clubs is usually overrated. If you want to seduce her on the floor, don't talk to her at all. Just dance, touch, get close, kiss, separate. If you want to fuck close, have place/hotel within 5 minutes walk/uber distance. When you feel it ready, take her out of club, figure out her logistics, and get her to your place.
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:57 PM
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Just let go. Don't create scenarios, don't prepare lines. Don't think about what can go wrong. Just get there, flirt and create fun.
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:54 PM
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Great, you can share you anime fanfiction with us! I like creative girls like you
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:53 PM
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I know, not every girl can handle such a straightforward attitude
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:52 PM
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You are friend. You are too acceptable. You create no tension. If you can create tension, you can turn that tension into the sexual tension. And sexual tension needs to be played on, and not to be released by laughter. Sexual tension needs to be released with sex. Flirting is the way of creating the sexual tension.
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:34 PM
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Of course it works. But I would say for ONS/fuck buddy only. It generates massive tension which can be sexualized and released with sex. If you want to establish LTR, this is not really useful. Too bad is that 95% of males approaches with ONS in mind, but use LTR approach and invest a lot too early on and don't create any tension.
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:30 PM
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Have you ever tried jaegerbombs? Oh never, that sounds awesome, why don't you get one for everyone? I will get the next one!- turn your head and stop paying attention to her
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:21 PM
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It seems you just dropped into the LTR comfort zone. Both of you just invested minimum energy into maintaining the sexual tension. In your past, sexual tension was given, no will needed. But usually after 2 years, the initial "given" attraction wears off and in order to create sexual tension, there has to be some form of willful action. This is usual. Happened to me too. It is important to talk about it, find some common ground, maybe some shared fantasies, kinks, new places... You need to learn…
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:06 PM
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^^ this. While dancing in loud club, You can make her all horny without even talking to her. You can pass shit test without saying a word. But you must have perfect logistics to take her to bed in silence. But it is possible.
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:47 AM
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The only thing I would add is simple statement before I leave - Thank you for making my night wonderful, if you feel like seeing each other again, gimme a call. Giving her your number on a card. Kissing her on cheek.
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:43 AM
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Accept that fear. Your body has no idea what is going to happen, so it is giving you all of this extra energy, tensing your muscles, and turning on primitive brain for quick primitive fight/flight reactions. Don't make your brain think it is bad. Accept it, use it.
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:37 AM
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Chance is not a thing to receive, it is a thing to create and take. "To take a chance" "I was given a chance" is a crowd manipulation from a leader who took a chance. What you don't have is an ability to create attraction and sexual tension. Google it, browse this seddit or youtube. Study this problematic. Apply. Test. Fail. Calibrate. Test again. Succeed.
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:14 AM
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I would suggest you should start by liking yourself. When you love yourself, others will join. Then I would suggest creating your own social environment, where you would be the leader. The bigger the crowd around you, the better women will join, wanting your attention. Having a social group you started and lead makes you the alpha. You can make it about anything you want, people will show up eventually, if you keep it going and have a good reputation. With social proof, your looks will not matte…
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:10 AM
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The problem might be - you are older guy, picking up young chicks, asking them out, maybe texting a little bit too much frequently (just a guess), investing a lot from the start, that all might induce a feeling of a needy guy, which is a turn off. Solution seems for me this: you need some social proof. Create your own social group, maybe using shared dog walks in a park as a starting point, then going to bar with those people. Because when an older guy asks younger girl out on 1on1 date, there a…
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:01 AM
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You might be right in everything you say. The question is, are you going to do anything about it other then cry?
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:42 AM
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Just let go of expectations. You feel some need of outcome. Don't give a shit. Also don't be a dick. Find balance you must
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:40 AM
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No. Only way to actually meet her, is to organize some music event you will play in. Invite plenty people, her included. If she comes, greet her, maybe talk to her a little, but be more distant, make her want your attention. You want girls to approach you, not the other way around
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:38 AM
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Being ugly is for 90% of guys a mental issue. I know like 1 actually ugly man, believe it or not, he is married, two kids, ugly wife but he is relatively happy. I know like dozens of normal looking guys thinking - boy I am ugly. Look at body, shoulders, hand, head tilt, eyes, stiffness, voice projection of a man who things he is ugly. He is approaching a girl as a pyrotechnic to a bomb. Stiff, head down, no eye contact, shoulders closed together, crossed hands, fists clenched... From the girls p…
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:03 AM
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Close to reception (safe place) out of gym zone, try something like: "Hey (name), wait a minute, I couldn't help but notice the way you are dressed (she's like - wait what am I dressed bad? I need to hear this[Push] give it a second or two(smiling) to continue to let it land (If she starts taking it personally, just cut her with laugh, say No no, in entertained way, and continue)).... The dress you wear is so inspiring i feel like drawing right now!(be expressive, open, funny [Pull])! It made me…
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:59 AM
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Watch out, as this may be your brain playing games with you. Be careful, think twice. When dating, never assume she feels the same as you. Always assume she likes you, and that she feels attracted to you, unless stated otherwise, but don't think she had the same feeling for you all the time. There is always this red light when I see the old "Forrest Gump" story of the old love returning to town, because she might be looking for beta provider. So watch out, and don't truly believe her when she ge…
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:43 AM
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No it does not. What it does though, is giving you reason to: 1, Go out to walk your dog - not to pick up chicks - you are not here to pick her up, (she thinks) her defense is lower 2, She approaches you in order to pet your dog, a natural way to start conversation. Even if you approach her, you can use dog to make it natural - hey, sorry to bother you, can you please hold Benny for a minute, I need to .... and then she made you a service and thus her brain assumes familiarity.
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:28 AM
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Learn all his kinks and sexual desires. Play with those ideas in his mind. Do what you might enjoy, keep in "near future" (never), what you don't like, but talk like you might try it.
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:52 PM
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A, What problem? That is best scenario possible, not having to fight your own stupid hormones. It is called flow, enjoy. B, You were tipsy. Go 1 drink an hour and half. All benefits of alcohol, none of its disadvantages
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:49 PM
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Get a friend. Talk to him/her. Find someone IRL. If everyone bails on you, consider professional help.
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:46 PM
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Well if you are a model with super high income, greek body, great friends and family, no mental issues and charity spirit, you deserve to be extremely selective and I wish you best of lucks. If not, then you are just a spoiled kid with zero patience
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:44 PM
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Bad approach from the start You don't get motivation for you. You make motivation for yourself. Either find it for youself or stay where you are until you do
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:41 PM
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But to give you proper answer, you ask: I really like cars but I hate to drive. Is there any way to ride a car without driving? Oh and I don't want to pay a driver. You want all results with no input other then - I throw money at it. If you want women you don't have to talk with, find yourself a mute one
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:39 PM
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YES Pay good PUA coach to teach you proper game.
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:31 PM
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Organize events in your area, regarding any topic you like. People - men and women included - will arrive eventually, if you keep it going and event will have success and good name. There you will be socially highest person and if you will make right moves, and indicate out - casual sex only - vibe, girls will come
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:29 PM
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A, You can make her attracted. Mentally and Physically. You don't even have to be there. You can do it via social game. B, You have to game everyone in your life from whom you want something. If you ignore this, you take value instead of give, and you will end up alone.
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:25 PM
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I know you don't mean blocking/unfollow in a bad way, but its like killing a fly with a cannon. Such an overkill indicates that you have to compensate some issues. And the best girls understand that and therefore avoid that. Sure I understand you have women in your kingdom as pleasure only. It is not a problem, I agree that some women are for hunting and enjoyment purposes, and some are for breeding purposes, and you just quickly sort through the selection. The issue I mean is, that you expect f…
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:15 PM
1

If not getting the results I want is what I want, then I will enjoy it
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:03 PM
2

With the hottest girl of the night in your bed
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:00 PM
1

I understand, that it might be really sad seeing other girls getting constantly annoyed by approaching men
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:59 PM
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It is too rational, it would be not confident, how would you thing he would respond? With Yes, he would lower himself. With No, he would lower you. I can't think of any fun response that would not make fun of you or him. I was thinking something like: Yeah she had to navigate me because I was drowning in pussy. Keep it fun, making silly jokes
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:56 PM
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Beautiful virgin is never ending resource. I am 30, dating 21 y/o. She is super invested into keeping me, because for her, I am the price. Once you understand that you will keep being awesome even after 40, while girl loses it usually before 30, this will give you massive power
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:15 PM
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Such incongruence is a massive setback for LTR. But this way is quite useful for ONS. Just pick your target good, don't be asshole to girls who can't take it. Be asshole to girls who like assholes
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:11 PM
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Look into reframing. Example of agree and amplify plus reframing. The use here will never be accepted, since girl have time to respond a the I use it to make her position weak. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fdpexh/girl_18_told_me_she_is_too_young_for_me_21_for_a/fjjpfuz?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x This is exactly why it should not be used in Master/Student scenario, you don't want to try to make you Master look bad. Usually he will have more wits and he will keep playing unti…
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:05 PM
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Start with very little things. The thing that is holding you back is your comfort zone, look it up. Find something that requires little of your courage to do, and do it every day. Keep building up the momentum and add more courageous things to do. Make this your habbit. ??? Profit
/r/seduction05/03/20 02:43 PM
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I agree, that would put girls like you in a very weak position of easy prey
/r/seduction05/03/20 02:40 PM
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It is seriously stalling your progress. I mean your mentality. Because you only approach to "close". You ignore social game. You can approach ugly small girl with no sexual interest, just to make her simply happy, and let her introduce you to her friends, getting yourself into closed group of chicks. Making impression on them, you leave. Then you talk to group of horny men, and introduce group of guys with group of girls. Now you are socially most valuable in mixed set of 16 people. You can pick…
/r/seduction05/03/20 02:38 PM
1

So pathetically simple it is such a shame that only few guys know this trick
/r/seduction05/03/20 02:14 PM
2

Go to Ostrava - Stodolni street, plenty of bars and hotels - I live 10 minutes away, we can go together :)
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:33 PM
2

"I am sorry I don't really want to learn more about golfing. But I do want to learn more about you"
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:27 PM
1

so cringely effective you mean
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:59 PM
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Hello, doctor is great hookup material - you have a little guarantee of male quality and 99% STD-free. There is just one thing that prevents you from being hookup material. You are too serious. Obviously. If you want to hookup, you don't need to share your profession. If however you do, it could indicate you care way too much, which induces subtle shit test, like: Wow I bet you are a good doctor... If you need to prove your worth by saying: "Yeah I am quite good... blah blah..." then you care to…
/r/seduction05/03/20 11:38 AM
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Lol what a standard shit test. Not even that much shitty, just a regular kinda - are you like .. sure with me? (good sign of her insecurity) - And you cowarded your way out. But don't worry. Do it again with, this time be ready. “I don’t know...I’m kind of young.” "Yeah you better do your best." be serious, stare her out for 5 seconds, then crack and laugh it out, "Don't worry you are not your daddy's little girl anymore, you better do some adventure!" "What adventure?" "You are looking at it" "…
/r/seduction05/03/20 11:24 AM
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Friends give each other shit tests, that is normal. It is to test your calibration in group, to make you prove that you are on the "same wave" as others. If he laughed, that is not bad. But we don't know the group so there is no better answer from us. Usually if you lower yourself down, you will came out as submissive, not trying to be alpha, not-a-threat kind a guy. It is okay if you deal with master/student scenario, then it is good answer. If you are both equal, you give him social power over…
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:43 PM
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Ask yourself before writing: What do I want to achieve now/within week/within month/within year. Ask yourself after writing: Is this going to help me achieve the thing I want to achieve? Take a short break, do something different. Then read it again. Ask yourself before sending: If I received this text, would I be compelled to proceed towards this goal?
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:29 PM
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Unfollow/block/unmatch = cringe response. Imagine, some girls talks to you, she seems nice, you exchange IG. Then over text she is not ideal, you have no time to respond, then she blocks you. Would you feel like - "wow what a strong person, how unfortunate of me, not having another chance..." -or- "what a b*tch, f*ck you too..." Does it bother you so much that she is not all over you after she shares her contact? It can be your fault mate. Or maybe she has period. Either way, chance lost due to …
/r/seduction04/03/20 01:09 PM
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When you get it on, first 10 minutes go all fingers/tongue on her, then however long you can last minus a minute so you won't cum, then again on her like 5 minutes just to give yourself a rest, then you again, just before you come, go to her... Do this however long you need.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:40 PM
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Go for questions: Sou you like her, you want to be with her, you want to marry her? You want to spent next of your 80 years of life, every day and minute with her? You never want to kiss, cuddle, fuck any other girl? Can you swear to me right now that you will never even look on a different girl if you will get her right now? Are you so much sure about her you would trade your best years for her? What he needs is to have his heart broken. Only then will he get strong and understand, that there i…
/r/seduction04/03/20 11:42 AM
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Okay do something out of your comfort zone. If you play a lot on Tinder, try some not nice stuff. Tell her right on she is not pretty enough for you. Test your boundaries. Test her boundaries. Tell her you only do threesomes. Tell her you only do kinky stuff. It is a game friend. Don't always choose the good answer
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:20 AM
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Okay this series should be number one post on this seddit. If you haven't even tried this, don't even post here questions.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:14 AM
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Go full ignore. If she responds (ignore what she wrote), try sending: Hey, I am going to _-(some place)-_ this _-(some date)-_. Wanna join me? - You will go there either way. You don't need her. If she will join, that is fine. If not, fine too. Don't get too attached. If she won't respond, forget about her. Open 10 more. Even if she responds.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:10 AM
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Chance is not a thing to be received, chance is a thing to be created and taken. If you will keep this lifestyle of waiting, more waiting is what you will receive. Other guys around her don't wait, they do. Even if she was interested in you in the begging, you ignored her, telling her - no, I am not interested. Organize an event for entire team. Invite everyone. Enjoy yourself, talk to her with no expectation, other then - Hey, lets have some fun
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:04 AM
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Good for you, I am all in for sober game. When she is telling you some BS, just look her directly into eyes, devil smile, not flinching, and go for obvious not paying attention - saing: MHM, AHA, MHM, in really obvious manner. When she calls you out, act like she woke you up from daydream - what? oh sorry I was just thinking about eehhhmm.... you know ... does't matter. How was your day? - It is sightly dick move, but it will make her intrigued about what are you thinking about. - What were you …
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:18 AM
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Try this - plan your shopping approaching near closing hours of shop. Go for regular shopping, establish some basic communication with target and say that she looks kinda tired, that she must have had a busy day, let her talk about her day. Find out when she ends. Ask her out on coffee and some dessert, you know, to make her feel better. Make it about her, you just wanting to make her mood better.
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:56 AM
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Play some board games, dungeon and dragons, pc/console games, watch a movie...
/r/seduction29/02/20 09:12 AM
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She was horny, she wanted sex. Now she is not horny. You can make her horny. Learn the skill
/r/seduction29/02/20 09:09 AM
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Yup, for everyone who never experienced death from up close, or never done some extreme sport, this concept is irrational, but one you get close to death, or see other people die just like that, you get changed
/r/seduction28/02/20 07:30 AM
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Watch out, high energy betas are fun, but really in girls eyes, they are overcompensating - if I try a little harder to do this, maybe she will notice me! - so they jump all night around her There is one guy who is really great, funny, high energy, but such a pain to watch him deal with girls. He needs to be grounded with this energy, not letting it all out in all directions, but keeping it focused on his own goal.
/r/seduction28/02/20 07:28 AM
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Good advice on to how get a second chance, but try to get in his shoes with sexual anxiety issue. Like you can't achieve comfort with someone. From my perspective, you need to think about the source of the problem, which is unrelieved tension. regardless of what you do, if you feel this overwhelming tension, it is good to have some calming mental practice, usually praying is good (to whomever listens). And also - being drunk is a boner killer. Two beers helps you last longer, more will give you …
/r/seduction27/02/20 01:19 PM
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It is okay, you had your lesson. You create initial mental attraction, this i s good start. Now you must learn how to spark physical attraction. If you go for physical attraction first and ignore mental attraction, you are one night stand (if you close, if not, she will be usually angry). If you go for physical attraction first, then mental attraction, you are fuck buddy with some chance to relationship. If you go for mental attraction first, then ignore physical attraction, you are friendzoned.…
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:59 PM
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:D Sorry about that, English is my second language. I though you were massaging her :D Disregard my previous MESSAGES :D If she don't text on her own, that is usually not a good sign. Try to openly ask her - hey, do you actually want ever to meet?
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:27 PM
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Okay, good point, that depends on the reason why you ask - if you ask because you need her validation, then it is needy. But in this case I meant - ask in the way of - how does "what I say" makes you feel, because I am really trying to find a good way to talk to girls because I have little experience with this - you just genuinely want her to help you figure this out. This should even make her invest a little, helping her relax
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:19 PM
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Oh come on, she sent you nudes, you sexted. She gets naked in your place, or she gets naked in her place and you come to her place, and you only message? You act all sexual on text, but chicken out IRL. Slowly do some of her fantasy. Don't wait for permission, you have it long ago. If you have another message, take it as last chance to escalate. But you must proceed slowly. Maybe start with her her buttcheeks. If she complains tell her it is okay and suggest she should just enjoy herself, don't …
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:13 PM
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Like on your girlfriend? Well that is life man, you can't get her wet on command, unless she is submissive and has some fetish fixation, or you during long time program her to respond to certain commands in certain ways, and even in those cases, when she will have some bad mood, or be angry at you, or whatever, it won't work. If you mean your random date, well fuck isn't that a question we would all like to have an answer to? But hey, there are ways, but you have to really calibrated, and observ…
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:04 PM
1

What is wrong with reputation? Even bad reputation is better than no reputation.
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:40 AM
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Just think about the reason you want to approach. Make that reason - To make her share my great energy. That of course implies you have great energy. Make yourself energetic. Drink energy drink, or eat protein drink. Whatever gives you the energy kick
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:25 AM
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Okay, no problem
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:21 AM
1

Message? Why only message? Why not more?
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:20 AM
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That long bus drive was supposed to be full out makeuot. That 4 seconds hug was was supposed to be another makeout followed by you going to her place. It is okay though, you had your experience. You have good buildup up to attraction. You need to learn how to make her feel attracted not only mentally, but physically as well. And I don't mean muscles or whatnot. Flirt, erotic talk, silent luscious staring, body contact, push pull...
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:17 AM
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"Hey I am a total introvert and this is out of my comfort zone a lot, but do you feel like talking?" Start about you for a few minutes, ask how does that makes her feel about you. Ask about her one or two questions, tell her how does that makes you feel. Say some prepared joke. "Thank you, would you mind giving me some feedback?" leave
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:09 AM
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You already indicated. You told her you will take a day off - huge commitment from your side - lots of pressure to her side. She don't want that much commitment right on, so she said lunch only. If she will go to lunch with you, don't put too much pressure on her again, so on lunch, tell her you like her, and if she is okay with that, you would like to step up. Now that means you should learn to create erotic tension and apply
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:04 AM
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It happens she is horny, so she gets all sexual, but tomorrow she is not horny anymore. If you want to have any chance, take it like you never sexted, or sent nudes. Is she texting you by herself?
/r/seduction27/02/20 10:57 AM
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It is okay, it was meant for mature guys anyways
/r/seduction27/02/20 10:52 AM
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No attraction is not attraction. There is attraction for the hot muscular dude, one that makes her horny. - not a boyfriend material, fuck buddy. There is attraction for genuinely interesting, funny and not needy guy, one that makes her want to be with him. - this is standart route 90% of guys do. The reason they end up in friendzone is because they do ONLY mental attraction. You can read it all over this seddit. The girl is super interested, but loses it after some time. There is no point in tr…
/r/seduction27/02/20 08:57 AM
1

People fart. Get over it.
/r/seduction27/02/20 08:18 AM
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Okay there are two kinds of attraction. Mental, and physical. If you start with physical attraction, there is not enough comfort to enjoy it. Call it an awkward lady boner. You can follow up and pull it off, release the pressure, no problem. It is more advanced though, to be calibrated well. It is more of one night stand way, but it works, of course. If you start with mental attraction, you might fall into friendzone, I know. Just pass some shit test, don't be needy, and you are fine. But you cr…
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:39 AM
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Signals? What do you need, head lights? Is she interested? I don't know, and you won't either. No one will until you try. But hey, don't worry, if you won't try it, some other dude will ;) Okay so you will go clubbing. Once she will start dancing around, facing you, put your hand on her hips, turn her around, and dance together body to body. Don't be afraid she will feel your boner. It turns her on, really. Once you will feel like you have too much, push her lightly away, turning her facing you,…
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:27 AM
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try silent game https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f1ia1p/can_get_dates_from_daygame_but_continues_to_fail/fh7mhku?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:17 AM
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Mystery method is usually too advanced for most, there are more natural ways. Approach with intrigue and push-pull, then you build rapport with humor, then you leave humor and only then you start sparking attracting with flirt and more push pull, without humor release and go for close. It is less straight-forward, needs less confidence
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:14 AM
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This post in a nutshell nowadays Dem kids these days, GET OFF MY LAWN!
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:09 AM
1

Well that is just not true. I would say concentrate on one bar. I can feel the comfort zone talk from you, so no, not JUST become the regular. Become the Icon of the bar. It will take time. But you will not build it by JUST going to the bar. It will take your maximum effort. You invest time and energy, again and again. And after some time, the bar will start paying you back tenfold.
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:02 AM
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Always start with your mental game. This is you. You better start going serious with what you got, not crying why it is so difficult, and others has it easier. Best idea for you - Use social game approach. Become a regular to bar close to your location, you know to be populated with fine chicks. Meet males, meet females, not in order to date them, but to help them fave fun. Be energetic, sparking with fun. Meet group of males, meet group of females, introduce them together. Then you became the a…
/r/seduction27/02/20 06:58 AM
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" Use texts only to make WTF meme fun here and there and making arrangements. Don't be the friend on the phone " literally
/r/seduction26/02/20 08:56 PM
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Because you start good, intrigue her, create some rapport with humor, play cool, which is fine, but not spark attraction, or not enough. And then you don't escalate, don't lead, don't close. Sometimes not showing is too much, you don't show her your affection, but you don't give her reason big enough to chase on you. So she quits. You must make her crazy about you, begging for your attention and approval You have like TWO dates and some texting to do this, at maximum. Use texts only to make WTF …
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:47 PM
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There are over 200 new posts from the last 3 months with this question from you. There is only one thing for you here - get professional help from psychiatrist. You are the problem. Get help.
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:37 PM
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It is an automatic, learned behavior. I believe you sometimes just answer without thinking and it either works out or not. Then you think about where did it come from, it is like this.
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:25 PM
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(openly, like telling your life story, with believable passion) I hate when someone judges me just because I like sex. If we both feel good and comfortable with each other, what is so wrong with exploring our sexuality together, right? ... Just like you would imagine it with you and I, right? I would feel good, horny with you, you would feel comfort and attraction to me, so we just do it, no hard feelings. I can only imagine some people growing old, thinking (vocal change, ridiculously) - oh I j…
/r/seduction26/02/20 11:35 AM
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Rookie mistake, don't go to shitty bars on most crowded days. Go in Sunday or like that. You have half-empty bar with better ratios, where girls get approached rarely. Less validation for them, more opportunity for you
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:34 AM
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Just don't care that much. Friendly WTF talk full of laughter is 10x more effective to get rapport over questions. You can pull it off without even knowing her name, just joking from second one and once she starts needing your validation, you switch to flirt and create tension and build attraction, and close, and repeat. It is not that complicated mate :)
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:20 AM
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Most Overthinking Texts if a Girl Stops Responding
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:14 AM
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It is good to connect this mental game with social game. Get to meet people in place of operations. You don't have to invest too much, just have a little fun and approach with energy. Open group of males, open group of females, connect them together, suddenly you are the social alpha, even with lower visage score. This gives you so much social credit, that it allows you to approach with so much ease to everyone who saw you being the center of attention of that group you just created. And don't w…
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:10 AM
2

TOASTY! ... Friendzone her ... Fatality
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:20 AM
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Remove her from pedestal. She is not going to make you happy. You must make yourself happy. Then girls will beg to be with you
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:43 PM
1

So funny this US approach... In here, there is popular singer, 45, dating 16y/o girl, all out in public. There are articles in news, but they are not attacking the guy at all, just interviews and so. You can fuck from 15, so it is ok if they both agree. I don't understand why some cultures makes it an issue
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:37 PM
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Best for you is to be open with him. Communication is key here. Why it should be wrong to ask (ask, not tell) him to lead? Maybe even let him know he can come here. Or go around, tell your friend to tell him to come here and ask.
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:29 PM
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I am
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:38 PM
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My best advice: Make your life awesome for you. Invite people in Make it awesome for those you like
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:37 PM
1

Who is the most important person in your life?
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:34 PM
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Have your crush text you instead.
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:32 PM
3

Sexual jokes are not prepared. Prepared is not calibrated. They must be made on spot from what you see and hear. Improv is good to prepare the brain to quick reaction. Try with friends. Do you sometimes have when you talk with friends some sexual jokes? It is same, only with girl
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:31 PM
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Girls are pretty much like boys. They get horny, think about sex, has good moods and bad moods, feels lazy or ugly. If you make her horny, she won't care about the reason. Try this exercise in your head: Almost every girl want to have sex with men they are attracted to and feel comfortable with Almost no girl wants to feel like slut or be shamed about the fact that she likes to fuck Your job is: make her attracted to you, make her comfortable with you, convey the message that you wont shame her …
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:23 PM
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Well you called that right, good guy problem. Just accept that it is not your role to make her happy, and it is not her role to make you happy. Make yourself and your life great for you, and attract girl that is happy with her life. And have great life together.
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:08 PM
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Oh okay. Escalation is best done after creating tension. Best practice is to start with intrigue via push/pull, then release with humor, then go with humor and flirt, then flirt, then push pull without release, instead escalate and kiss to release tension
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:00 PM
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You are just stuck in your comfort zone. Don't go straight home. Go to bar. But don't drink alcohol. Just talk to 5-6 people - in order to have fun - , then go home. Nothing to lose. In order to get into game you must start gaming. Outside. Try the 100 refuses approach on your way home.
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:26 AM
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Date game = life game + girl Be good at your life, enjoy yourself, have passion, friends, values. To girl you say: Hey, this is my life, wanna join? If she starts to change your things to her likings, confront her.
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:22 AM
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If you like the book, try the approach by the book. See how it goes. It is no problem to tell her you like her. Problem is if you make it a big deal. Just behave to her like to any other friend. Don't put her on pedestal.
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:20 AM
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Oh okay, not aggressive is ok. Logistics - how far does she lives, how does she travel, is she alone... Usually you need to know in order to plan your move with her. (example- you meet at bar and she is there with two friends who live nearby - you need to find a way for her to leave friends and go with you) It is good that you see the problem, that is first step to fix it. Second step is to consult it, which you are doing too, great! Then you should apply the fix, which is not easy, but I believ…
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:00 AM
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I dunno, is going to work in the end worth it? The journey is the goal
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:46 AM
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At first - You are not my type - is a shit test, and should be treated accordingly. Second - You were born the way you were born. That you can not change. You can get in shape, have career, have money, have passion, have skills, have charisma. Just by having charisma and passion you can attract 90% of girls, regardless of what they would have said about their types
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:31 AM
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Daygame is daygame. There is no better part of it. There is just one part of it - you, approaching. Don't overthink it. Just do it
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:28 AM
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Ignore haters, you are 16, that is an appropriate question. 1 - You think too much. Actions speaks louder than words. Let go. Be in the moment. 2 - Stop thinking about the outcome. Will it work? Who cares. Be open. 3 - You must be cool. What you feel, they feel. Emit grounded energy 4 - You don't have to talk all the time. Silence is tool. Don't be afraid to use it. Let her talk. Start with Hey, how are you. Let her talk a little about her day. If she is nervous, that is good. Means there is som…
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:25 AM
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Hey man, it is not the greatest start of them all, but starting is sometimes the worst, and you did it. Few little rules: Always come from visible angle, don't scare them. Asking innocent question is good way to lose some stress in the beginning, just don't fall into Q? A. Q? A. Q? A. Scheme. Lead. Have fun :) You had friend with you, that is great! Talk, together all the time in the mall, make fun, make so much fun everyone will turn their heads. Approach with this kind of energy. It is so much…
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:11 AM
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Don't be cringy about it. It is no shame. Do you want to get to know her? Really? Or do you want to bark in her kennel? I am not saying - don't give a shit about her. But look for important information you can use. Yeah it feels nice to talk about your cousins for 2 hours and then saying bye achieving nothing. But if you lead conversation, find about her logistics, current status, create some push pulls, humor and attraction, you achieve more in 30 minutes. You can close. And even if not, you wi…
/r/seduction25/02/20 07:52 AM
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It takes time and will, just like anything. But fear not, it will come :)
/r/seduction25/02/20 07:28 AM
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Do you want to fuck? Do you think women want to fuck too? Why do you create all of this friction? You both want the same. Lose the comfort zone man
/r/seduction24/02/20 12:52 PM
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So Munich? I am from Czech, its like 2h drive to CZ border. Go for German girls, foreigner is always more attractive. US girls also look forward to meet German guys, since it is new for them. Also German girls are way more sexual and open. They love nudity. You bore them by going too slow. You wanna f*ck? Go for it asap. They might say no not now, but will let you know about better time and stick with it. They are in college and want to enjoy life, not date boringly. For text game they have bori…
/r/seduction24/02/20 12:47 PM
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Ask her: Are you spontaneous? Nice, lets go now! But problem is usually in not enough attraction buildup
/r/seduction24/02/20 12:15 PM
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Lol don't call virgins bitch :D Instead let them touch your boner.
/r/seduction24/02/20 12:10 PM
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Always escalate. 100%. But you must back off at second/third indicator of resist. BUTT BEWARE!! Some girls are so shy/in moment/submissive, they literally can't say no, and if you are pushy, they will say yes and give in but will not enjoy it. This is wrong. Always aim for mutual enjoyment. This also means, step away if you are not enjoying yourself.
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:54 AM
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I have cancelled several dates. Yeah it sucks, I know. But my time has more value to me than random girl
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:45 AM
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Okay, try approaching men. Not in any sexual way, just be friendly. Improve their mood. "Hey men, I like your shirt. Have a great time." "Hey pal, you have some awesome beard. Enjoy." Just say the words, fist bump, leave. Now do the same with women. "Hey, I just wanted to say I like your hair. Enjoy your night." "Hi, I know you hear this a lot but you have beautiful eyes. Have a great time." Smile, leave. When complimenting, never stare after. If you give them value for nothing, and wait for res…
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:43 AM
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Don't ask for permissions even to introduce yourself. Just introduce yourself. It is rude to join the set and only talk to one and not at lease introduce. When incoming to set, introduce to everyone at first. Talk to everyone, make them laugh. Then talk to other ladies, not the one you like. Give no attention to one you like. When she will want your attention, reward her with your attention, then withdraw it. Use push pull, but release tension with calibrated humor
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:12 AM
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Intrigue Rapport Attraction Close Eye contact can be intriguing. You can achieve rapport using very few words. You can spark attraction with silence. You can close with wordless action. But doing all of this requires TON of experience and calibration. Use words instead. Use push-pull to be intriguing, use humor to establish rapport, use flirt and more push pull to create tension to create attraction. Be calibrated to know when to close
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:55 AM
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Instagram changed way it works. Shows up old posts. She was just bored and you got lucky.
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:34 AM
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You are obviously in the friend zone. She takes work from you, not giving back. She don't want it erotic because you didn't created attraction towards you. Don't buy into her - not ready - status. It's not lying, it's shit test. You can continue to be the provider of free massage, or you can try to remove yourself from friend zone. It will either go well, or you will remove her from your life, which is win-win for you, since you receive nothing from her, other than sad boner. You are waiting for…
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:26 AM
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Invite all your friends + some girls they don't know to some party and be the king there. Show her some social status, show her you are cool, high energy but grounded, not needing her. Hook up with another chick in front of her. Then with another. Show her you don't need her, and that she will not be allowed to use your bed to crush. Only way to win is to deny the fight
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:14 AM
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Nothing special. Just the standard don't write her too soon getting needy. Once you type, be intriguing to her, but not questioning. Go for noncommited messages: "Hey Sandy, this thing just improved my bad work day! Haha" + some funny photo, meme whatever. You don't force her to write, asking questions, just making some silly joke plus giving possibility to inquire about your bad day :) You can do this generally to male and female, not needing replies. If not getting response after 2 or 3, freez…
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:24 AM
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Don't approach with random shit. Approach with a plan. Do the same thing 5 times with different people. Once you will feel fine, do something you are afraid of 5 times. In a week you can improve a lot
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:48 AM
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You need to approach this as cold approach. Since by the time you text her, she is cold with you. I would say text/call while she gives you number. Then let it slide some time. Then you proceed with being Intriguing, establishing Rapport and sparking Attraction. It's just a drill
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:46 AM
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Important question is: Why is she indecisive? Answer is: You do something wrong. Since you provided zero info, we can't say what. Go for leader mode instead of interviewer mode. Only din out her name and logistics. Lead her from intrigue, to rapport, to attraction, to close. More on my other posts
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:43 AM
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Hey, short info, what country are you in? Europe is quite different with girl mentality. Let us know.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:38 AM
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IF that is what you want, than party&sex&rocknroll is what you shall have. Find a way to make money, then use it to throw epic parties in some luxury mansion. Work hard, play hard. You don't wanna kids? No problem man, call your friends, let them meet each other and make babies via your parties. My dream is similar. I learned to attract ladies already, so I am working on money part so far. Parties like this are also great way to meet business people to further progress your business!
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:32 AM
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Start with the two most difficult questions: What do you want? Why you want it? Once you will be able to answer this with resolve, tell it to the girl. Be genuine about it, don't lie. Just say it, and if she is ok, then great, if not, don't make it weird and go on.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:25 AM
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Just stay on track. I believe you can make it happen. Just be high energy but not try-hard, just grounded. Accept the fact that you can fail. There is always tomorrow. If she asks, don't lie, but if you don't feel talking about it, say you don't want to talk about it.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:22 AM
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That is great way to turn disappointment into success. Never let it get to you, never accept it as your reality. I love the way you ditched the girl in the end. That is great self-respect lesson for everyone. Don't let them tread on you
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:17 AM
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Hey man great for you! I love your progress! Keep ramping that challenge up :) Try openers with push pull. Nice backpack! Where did you get it? [pull] ... eh H&M? Great, thanks, I was looking for a gift to my grandmother, this is exactly her style, you think she will like it? [push] ... What? I dunno... She is in her head, thinking if she has grandmother style, angry at you that you suggest something like this. I hope so, she is quite ill... I love her and I want to make her feel happy you know.…
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:10 AM
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Use some vocal exercise before you socialize. Sing, lose your vocal cords, talk to people you know. Then say fuck it, and do it
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:00 AM
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You must inform us of your daily approaches in order to you staying commited!
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:58 AM
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Great review man, start building this aura of casual flirt around yourself. Learn to be high energy but be grounded, not all over place and everyone. ??? Profit
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:57 AM
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Well you sir are on the track to heaven :) You have the difficult part behind you, now here comes the fun part! Because you are aware of what are you doing, you can apply the technique and see results! And also confidence and mind set you have in place, so there is no resistance in your flow. Fist of all, the goal. It is 100% OK to not have a goal. But I would suggest - Plan for best, but be OK with nothing. So the best is threesome fuck close right? Do you have the logistics ready for that? It …
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:41 PM
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It is a push-pull technique. You are supposed to push her away by being jerk and then pull her in by compliment. If you do it right, and do some quick joke after, she will want to get more validation from you and invest more
/r/seduction21/02/20 01:24 PM
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She is nervous? That is good. Use it. "Oh I am so nervous around you. " Confidently :"Yeah that is understandable, but it is also kinda sexy"
/r/seduction21/02/20 08:50 AM
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If there are no viable options, create some. Become organizer of some event. Go for things you like or enjoy. People will eventually show up, if you delivered good service previously
/r/seduction21/02/20 08:21 AM
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Dude... It is ok to put yourself down to match her level, to make her more comfortable. But if she feels above you - hot and "Yeah I can choose anyone (yeah maybe online)" - and you degrade yourself, you just create more distance and less attraction. You need to realize one thing - she is just a girl. There is nothing truly special about her. Yeah she might be hot. Yeah she is texting you. Yeah she makes your dingy tingly. But that is all. To answer: Were those 4 weeks shit test? Who cares. Over…
/r/seduction21/02/20 08:03 AM
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Go for the quick route - you need to overcome FEAR. Just do ANY thing you fear. Touch a spider. Jump from a bridge. Start a fight. For me the best way for kitesurfing/snowkiting. Lots of fear involved with progress, with little actual risk. Made me calm as stone
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:07 AM
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Same mistakes = same results. I will tell you something you will not like me for, this - we belong to each other - you are right for me - is really just crying in less obvious way. Not that crying is bad, it is a good release. But when I want to break up with you, you say: But we belong together! Will there ever be Universe where some one says: Oh you are right, that is true, sorry, let's get back together! Be realistic. You failed at either: inducing intrigue, creating rapport or sparking attra…
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:03 AM
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Dude, yeah ... Think about it like this: You are smoking hot 10. You feel alone and kinda horny and wanna fuck. There are three dudes. One of them is crazy rich and will give you Grands and introduce you to people for letting him weiner-poke you. Second one is super hot horny corn, demigod body, is busy, and also he understands how it sucks to be stared at as if you were a piece of meat. The third one is normal fine guy, who also wants you to whack his mole. The second one will forget about you …
/r/seduction20/02/20 09:55 AM
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Nicely said and will work! Just work hard on your confidence, don't force chivalry where not needed and be cocky :) Oh and don't buy girls drinks...
/r/seduction20/02/20 09:24 AM
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Have you desire for that bushy valley, Moisty button on your nose, Go ahead and fuck her in alley. Value Yourself and Attract More.
/r/seduction20/02/20 09:07 AM
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Depends. You want to use everything in correct time. Let us start with .. Approaching with Intrigue - As an approaching person, you must seem you mean no harm. (if not using social proof, then this does not matter) You should seem open, palms towards person, friendly smile, loud and confident, but not intimidating, approaching from visible angle. When talking, using the same, and incorporating push-pull techniques, keeping friendly smile but starting to test waters with humor Creating Rapport - …
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:52 AM
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As a narcissistic, you dislike people who don't praise you. Too much ego, you get boring. 📷
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:36 AM
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Okay so you say since you have little experience, thing can go wrong. Yes, not only can, but will go wrong. Where is the problem? Fear? Leaving comfort zone? Sexual appeal is not a "feat" you choose when leveling up, it is not for giving. You have to earn it, by trial and error. Sex appeal will appear with experience and social calibration. If you only approach to make small talk, then small talk you will achieve. Be genuinely interested, start with creating intrigue by using push pull technique…
/r/seduction19/02/20 07:08 AM
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I feel bad about religion making this difference, but there seems nothing that can be done
/r/seduction19/02/20 06:27 AM
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Your hygiene is fine, unless you live in a dumpster, even overrated by most people. Appearance is more important, but not that much if you have good approach. What matter the most is experience, technique and mental state. As you said yourself, laid back, "I don't give a shit", hobo-by-choice type of guy could be fucking around no problem, because he has experience, technique and mental state. And fine groomed, muscular, tall, rich, model would be home crying that no one wants him, because he ne…
/r/seduction18/02/20 03:26 PM
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I am 30, and I would say, if you are not looking for anything serious, then do what keeps you comfortable
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:23 PM
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Well it can be cultural matter, by appearing as distant when attracted to you as a student, it sends a message that she is conservative, which is good in your society. In case of relationship potential, this is good, because when she behaves like this, she lets you know, that in case of any future, you don't have to be jealous about her male students who will ever approach her.
/r/seduction18/02/20 12:43 PM
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That is such a misconception. Most of the things are for men because mostly men are asking and answering. But if you go through inner-game stuff, you will realize that this stuff is cross gender. I understand ladies get desperate too. They might have millions (IG models) options, can possibly f*ck every minute of their following years if they chose to do so. But what value would that add for their life? This is everyday reality of models and celebrities (even male). Guys see this picture of stun…
/r/seduction18/02/20 12:36 PM
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Could be your mistake, like ta_red_light implied. But just maybe she was so open and so much into you, that she did not realized it until like 30 minutes later mid sentence. She had to force herself to self-control, to be strong woman like her mama or whatever. Most likely regretting this few minutes after you had left. Text her like you know what is going on: Hey (name), I think we went a little too fast for our own sake. I like you, but am not that sure with you. If you feel like you wanna han…
/r/seduction18/02/20 12:20 PM
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Okay let's get a little deeper here. During lady cycle, they see things differently. When she hits her period, she prefers different things then when ovulating. From the time table you provided, this seems to be the case. On her period, frequent, let's say needy text are incredibly obnoxious. She want to feel good and validated, that is the reason for increased social network activity. But your text are probably more taking than giving, most likely questioning her for activity, values... In orde…
/r/seduction18/02/20 11:59 AM
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So broad question. What should have I done... to achieve what? To achieve - Making her day slightly nicer? Done, by talking to her in calm and funny manner Getting to know her better? Partially done, next time, don't forget the name. Getting to meet her next time? Create intrigue, establish rapport, spark attraction, exchange numbers. Having sex? Ask: "Hello lady, do you smell chloroform from this napkin?" (please don't do it)
/r/seduction18/02/20 11:44 AM
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Could be that she just don't want you, maybe she is taken or lesbian, maybe she has problem with teacher/student relationship. This might be uncomfortable for her. To test this hypothesis, just apologize on text, say that you did not wanted to make her feel bad, that you were genuinely interested in her but you don't want to make her uncomfortable in class, and return to being the student. If she is OK with this, you will see improvement. If not, there is some deeper problem
/r/seduction18/02/20 11:30 AM
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I switched to contact lenses and never regreted a minute
/r/seduction18/02/20 11:23 AM
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Thank you, man, I am glad I could help. I know avoiding drinking is hard, especially in college. But it gets progressively easier as everyone else gets more drunk. I don't think you would have to go all-alcohol free from day 1. Just keep lowering the amount you drink. Just have like 1 shot as for invitation, then 1 shot max in 1 or 2 hour. Remember 1shot(60ml 40%) = 1wine(2dl 12%) = 1beer(0,5l 5%) quite accurately. When asked just keep saying that you just refiled, you have enough or whatever, y…
/r/seduction18/02/20 11:14 AM
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Dude don't worry, we can help you. I know worse cases. One 30y/o no kids hot lady (175cm, slim + D boobs) but crazy mental, manipulator, pretended to be normal to capture coworker (40, beta, nice career), stop taking pills, suddenly child, marriage, and now he is 100% unable to leave this manipulative crazy bitch, she uses their child against him, crazy situation for the man, as she is completely in control of his life. I don't feel right about giving you an advice about how to deal with money i…
/r/seduction18/02/20 10:33 AM
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Great progress man! Kudos to you for taking massive action in the right way There is only one thing for you to improve. Don't drink alcohol to ease approaching - you know how shortcuts works in the end, right? Make it harder for yourself. Overcome this alcohol = confidence "addiction". If you can do it with it, you can do it without it. Why is no alcohol better? Think in long term - your brain starts getting used to being seducer with alcohol. Even more, with more success, your brain will form t…
/r/seduction18/02/20 09:51 AM
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I agree, the point is - to improve your life is the reason you game, regardless of female success ratio. This attitude you can have from day 1. I know you won't have results on the day 1 like pro. But you can have them in mind, thinking - yeah that I did right, that I did not. What can I improve? You keep improving. Then one day you will be ray of fucking sunshine and have a blast. Then you will think - how to get to that state again and again ... Then you will maybe able to simulate this state …
/r/seduction17/02/20 10:20 PM
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Okay, try this: Organize an event. Any, ball, party, sport, art, music, games, board games... Whatever you are into. Don't overthink it, basic, get to know each other and have some fun - type event. Approach colleagues IRL - Hey, you seem like fun person, we are having next week this event, wanna join? In this little approaches you can try different types - high energy, low energy, being positive... And with no problem with getting rejected. Next week or month you can try the same again! Eventua…
/r/seduction17/02/20 02:55 PM
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Okay, imagine you are CEO of business. Two sales approach. One approach with desperation and inexperience, and when you say no, he seems devastated. Second approach with the same inexperience, but is confident, laid back and even if you say no, he seems ok and even thanks you for lesson. Second-guessing, who would you cooperate rather with? I am not questioning your resolve, kudos to you for being resilient! But regarding inner game - approach from position of - I feel awesome - wanna to share t…
/r/seduction17/02/20 01:43 PM
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Hey, no problem, check my profile for more advice or ask :)
/r/seduction17/02/20 10:32 AM
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Hey man, Kudos for having the courage. It might not have been the most calibrated approach, but an approach non the less. The point is, scenario like this is crazy not in your favor. Anything would improve it, having friends and laughing all the time, then going to apologize for being too loud and trying to talk some fun with her, or the place being full, just trying to get some spot for you, or anything... But just like this - hey I wanna sit at your table for no reason - is never going to work…
/r/seduction17/02/20 10:12 AM
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Good start, but ask yourself: Why do you approach? Do you need her to give you value to feel like a man? Then you will fail(or be abused). Do you want to meet a new interesting person? Then it is alright(like 50/50). Are you having awesome time and you want to share this vibe and energy with so many people? Then your only problem will be choosing the best girl, because every girl wants to be around this kind of energy.
/r/seduction17/02/20 09:18 AM
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Sure, we can analyse this together
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:57 AM
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Good point about the rare find. But if you know how to talk about it with her, how to make her want to fulfill your desires, how to make HER want to suck you good, she will learn it. And by reinforcing it as described above, she will feel good about it, wanting it more. You will most likely find uncut diamond, but then you have to do the cutting
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:55 AM
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In like two weeks (not sooner), or even later, go for fake group text invite: Hey gang, as usual we have this month friday party, this time in club __ please confirm your attendance If she don't give a shit, she will stay silent, and its time to move on
/r/seduction14/02/20 01:35 PM
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Don't interview her, be funny to yourself and keep developing in to what she is saying. Begin with getting her interested, then be funny and establish rapport, then you can stop being funny and spark attraction by being flirty. Use push pull techniques. Example: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f358vh/girl_tells_me_she_didnt_feel_connection_on_date/fhh7nux/?context=3
/r/seduction14/02/20 01:31 PM
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Just the same, like you have no idea any problem happened. If you accept the mess up, it will be there. If you deny it's existence, you own that this is you and its okay
/r/seduction14/02/20 01:27 PM
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I felt that too, when casual one night stand sex just wasn't enough. Getting emotions means investing emotions. If you are all cool and hard and distant, that is sexy for women from ONS point of view. To make her like you in long term, be funny, and if sexualising, insist that: "You are making me feel hot [pull],thats a little scary[push], but I like it.[pull]" more in here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f3p2v7/everything_ive_read_on_seduction_and_pu_focuses/fhke0ts?utm_source=shar…
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:58 AM
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Be interesting, create rapport, spark attraction. Don't be needy, approach to make her feel good. If she actually have BF, make them both your friends(not right away), maybe next time you meet, have some friend with you, invite them to an event. Organize events, invite multiple groups, introduce one to another. Be leader in social interactions. Use social circle to find girls. Less cold approach = more success
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:53 AM
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Approach every girl like you know her from somewhere, even on cold approach. You will never be surprised. Also, even if this happens, don't feel bad. Make it seem that she should feel bad by not making enough impression to be rememberable
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:41 AM
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obvious troll is obvious
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:37 AM
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Nice man, make it rain:) Next time try to make the other hot girl see you having so much fun with other girl, let them be jealous
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:35 AM
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Hey, getting good at girlfriend game is about experience too. Nice practice is subtly telling her you can't believe she could behave this way (the way you want her to treat you). Example: She prepares awesome dinner before you come/she sucks you reaaaal good with no prior asking/whatever you dig: That was really nice, thank you[pull]. I had no idea you had this in you, but I might actually keep you[push/pull+pressure+quickly change subject]. Some little joke [release pressure+secure previous mes…
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:30 AM
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You will never know. But don't be butthurt if she refuses. Continue standart routine every time you text her - be interesting to her, create rapport, spark attraction. Every time it will be easier. Do the same IRL
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:58 AM
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Don't be drunk. Why is less alcohol better? Think in long term - your brain starts getting used to being seducer with alcohol. That is no problem, the problem is when you will want to seduce without alcohol, this will be problem to you, starting to get nervous and you will need to drink. If you stop this from beginning, you will avoid it. Just be confident, don't let friends or girl talk you into drinking. They may call you party killer or whatever, but girl will respect you more if you stand yo…
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:55 AM
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Usual scenario is: Girl wanna screw around. Guy wanna screw around. Girls is satisfied. Guy is satisfied. Girl have what she needs, and can go on with her life. Guy starts to feel weird tingle in his stomach area when thinking about girl, trying to get exclusive. Girls starts feeling weird, because it is not only about screwing, but commitment, which she is not sure about. Guy starts to go all out on her, forcing her to decide. Girl leaves, trying to find new screw around guy. Guy has no idea on…
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:50 AM
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Good start, but ask yourself: Why do you approach? Do you need her to give you value to feel like a man? Then you will fail. Do you want to meet a new interesting person? Then it is alright. Are you having awesome time and you want to share this vibe and energy with so many people? Then your only problem will be choosing the best girl, because every girl wants to around this kind of energy.
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:38 AM
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Hey, I just got a letter from Ministry of Single people, that they will be providing handout to couples today! Lets be a fake couple and collect some free stuff!
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:35 AM
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Scale waiting with length of text. Text her back quickly short or important responses - Yes, No, will be there, don't have time... Give yourself time to respond to more complicated stuff Feel free to take longer time to more deep messages
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:28 AM
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Thumbs up man, perfect example, just talk to girls for fun :)
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:23 AM
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Hey man, how are you keeping your cool?
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:46 AM
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Any update in this case?
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:39 AM
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Try: Tell me, where would you take me if you wanted to have a date with me? It's a little manipulative technique, implying he should take you on date, but if he does it, it will be his idea
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:08 PM
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Depends what you want, do you want to get relationship? Do you want to keep fucking? Do you want to ditch her? Do you want to use her to get other girls? Do you want a threesome? More info needed
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:02 PM
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You and none of us will know for sure. There are only chances. Try it, or leave it like that. Maybe she likes you, and tries to form some sort of connection, maybe she is just being nice. I recommend trying simple talk, then coffee out of work. If you do it casually, even if she says no, your reputation won't suffer
/r/seduction13/02/20 12:58 PM
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The beauty problem - just try to think about it this way - imagine that girl can feel the same as you. You feel inadequate because you think you need more muscle. She feels inadequate because she thinks she need more boobs/ass/makeup... Yet you look at her and think - man, what a hottie! Too bad she looks so distant, she must be snob... She looks at you, and thinks - What an attractive man, too bad he don't want to talk to me, I have such a messy hair, why I must be so shy... more here https://w…
/r/seduction13/02/20 12:54 PM
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You don't have to wait for her to ask. You can talk about stuff you love and do without asking. And when you talk, be enthusiastic and laugh. About asking questions, she clearly means the infamous Interview mode: Where are you from? How do you like it? Where did you grow up? Do you have siblings.... questing questions... but no direction. You ask questions for a reason. Let's face it, this is some random girl. Do you really care all about her having little brother? Try this, confidently: Nice ba…
/r/seduction13/02/20 12:25 PM
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Well it made me laugh, so use it, it is fun :) And be prepared for 3 scenarios - negative, positive, dismissive. Negative (No?) you have. Positive (Yes its like 250 degrees or whatever) - (So you say its enough to break the ice! Great, let's get coffee together). Dismissive (I don't care) - This needs lots of experience, because you approached and got immediate shit test, and you need to respond quickly and with confidence - (Good, I don't really care about the coffee... - here is best to use kn…
/r/seduction13/02/20 11:22 AM
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Nice going with scientific method, appreciated, it is good to keep track. There are more variables for you to think about. You can try to fix your results with more quantity. That is no problem, and in following approaches, you will get better, more experienced, more socially aware how to talk to different kinds of girls, in different scenarios, more vocally projecting and confident, better at reading situations, body language and social cues. This will get you better results. What you should al…
/r/seduction13/02/20 10:58 AM
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14 years ago when I was 16, in middle Europe, having no idea about the power of internet and knowing only little English I started to approach with no help from anyone, without any theory, getting baby steps results. Little later lost my virginity to an ugly girl, then got my first real GF, small, busty, but nice, spent 5 years together. We were young and not exclusive, so I got many more girls during this time, because I was not needy, because I was not needing the girl, I did it for fun. Then …
/r/seduction13/02/20 10:30 AM
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Car sex man, I fucked like 20+ girls in my first car, I am 190cm tall, but I can tell you, better to fuck a girl in a car, than to not fuck her at all. It is not really comfortable, but if it's not winter outside, you can do it on car, or leaning on it. Inside is more for shy girls, but even if she is shy, sometimes they like the adrenaline of being outside. Just move your seats so you have maximum space, have towel, tissues, condoms ready. And turn her on to max level
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:31 AM
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You had your validation taken off from you. You need to have other sources of validation so you can approach with no expectation. Have friends, hobbies, fun, experiences, passions. After that, girl rejecting you will be like - Well, that sucks for you girl, I have plenty of other opportunities - Another post for young people on this site: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f1wx3z/how_to_prepare_for_whats_coming/fh95tgm?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:23 AM
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You have few months. Even if she will all out blow you away, it will be gone in no time. You will think about it all the time that you let her go without trying harder. As to method, don't overthink it. Be free of expectations, not needing her to react in any way. In friendly manner, go to her directly. You need to have some plan in mind, other than interview. Some tiny push/pull will work nicely, like - Hey you looked like you were spacing out the whole class in your mind. ( (she's like wait di…
/r/seduction12/02/20 01:14 PM
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No problem man, I am 30, had one 5 years long relationship with tough breakup. I was thinking about marriage, that would have been a divorce later, definitely. Then 4 years long with tough break up, almost married. Dodged a bullet twice. All the time since I was 16, in and out of relationships, I was training skills to be better at dating, and picking up girls. What you invested in success at work, I invested in dating and pickup. I can tell you everything you wish to know, from picking up 18y/o…
/r/seduction12/02/20 12:34 PM
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Great for you man! Getting positive results at age 22 is ideal for further development! From what you said, you managed to get good at being intriguing and establishing rapport, which is the way to success. Humor and sharing personal stories are best practice to achieve this. But to proceed further, you need to create big attraction and close. Usually - what you feel, they feel. So she will feel this attraction too, because sharing personal stories creates bonds, because it makes you vulnerable,…
/r/seduction12/02/20 11:46 AM
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I would say it is more connected to your inner game. With age, success, money, etc., you learn to focus on yourself, giving generaly less shit about unimportant stuff, being more proactive and less reactive. Being self sufficient, having great social status and social life, friends, job. You get more training in public speaking, more confidence in making people do what you say. You have more experience in reading body language and social cues. And all of this, which you use at work, you apply in…
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:49 AM
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You seem to fail at creating attraction. Study this part of seduction. Remember, you need to create tension, but in this fase, humour relieves tension. Use push pull
/r/seduction11/02/20 10:59 PM
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OOoooohhh... Well then, you're lucky man. Disregard first half of my post, concentrate on the second part. She on 256% means "different" kind of interaction, and even gave you permission and time to prepare. Don't do flowers, music, candles.... Proceed as normal, have some kinda boring movie ready (you want her attention on you, and your attention on her, not movie). Have usual sex stuff ready close by, but not visibly(condoms, tissues, towel). If (this case seems fine, but you never know, be re…
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:47 PM
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Could work well if executed right, but approach out of training area. Wait for her inside gym close to reception, on way to building exit (it is safer place for her mentally). Try something like: "Hey, wait a minute, I couldn't help but notice the way you smell (she's like wait what do I smell bad? I need to hear this[Push] give it a second or two(smiling) to continue to let it land (If she starts taking it personally, just cut her with laugh, say No no, in entertained way, and continue)).... Th…
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:33 PM
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If you say no, you will regret it. If you say yes, be casual, funny, laid-back. Listen to what she wants to say, don't be afraid to touch her or be erotic. In her age its worst to appear to her too shy than overly straightforward. She wants some action. Be a good man - don't screw it up by overthinking.
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:05 PM
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#1 way to escape friend zone is to ignore it. Consider her an open case, possibility. But don't focus solely on her. You said all you need yourself. Don't fix your physique for her, do it for you. Get hobbies not to be interesting, but because they interest you. With attitude like this, you will never have any problems with girls. And also, low self esteem girls will respond well to push pull. - You look weird in this shirt. I like it -
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:00 PM
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I don't know if she is a movie fan or not, but to text this, is serious. She is into you, definitely. The question is - did you invite her tonight to watch movies? Because she obviously did not came to watch movies. She wants to interact. It is your job to find out how far is she willing to go with you, in this "interaction". Because it seems you were not really talking witch each other, just watching. You don't invite girls to your place in night to actually watch movies, and girls know this ve…
/r/seduction11/02/20 01:22 PM
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If you are under let's say 20, you can easily fake relationship to lose virginity. I know this tactic is messed up, not nice, but it works. You just lie about commitment, exclusivity and so on, maybe with girl you don't really like, but it is a start. You wouldn't believe how my first girl looked. I got some basic experience with her, and then I let her go. - you know what they say, fucking ugly or fat girls is like riding an old scooter - its easy, cheap, delivers... but you can never allow to …
/r/seduction11/02/20 12:53 PM
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I believe this too, though I haven't tried the audio yet, good idea, thank you. But I would suggest this tactics aligned with sexual interactions with some partner, not only hookup, but longer term. Important factor here is getting the experience, and finding what you like and how to get it.
/r/seduction11/02/20 12:40 PM
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In long term, interesting is not what you say, it is what you do. Be proactive instead of reactive. Join stand up comedy. Start with some interesting sport (kite surfing). Start playing an instrument. Organize weekly group of friends playing some team sport for fun. If you share some hobby/interest, organize weekly groups to discuss and get better together. Make a band of board game players and organize board game evenings/weekends. Start making Youtube videos together, or start a podcast talkin…
/r/seduction11/02/20 12:12 PM
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RSD Max - The Natural, tinder game extension
/r/seduction11/02/20 11:26 AM
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So you say you travel those 2 hours only to meet her, or you would travel there anyway? You can try saying you got there 2 days early because of business, but you have no time to meet till weekend, just to see how she reacts. If you fear flaking, add little comment suggesting you fearing her doing something stupid like - hey I hope you wont embarass me in my home town by making out with me in public:-D
/r/seduction11/02/20 10:50 AM
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Okay, but this is problem only inside of your head, unless you make it weird, or become needy. If she will ever have problem with it, she will tell you. If her parents will have problem, ask them what can you do to help it. My girlfriend is 1cm taller than me(191cm) and like to wear high heels. There is nothing I can do about it. It makes us both feel weird for example on a dancing ball. She would prefer to have me taller, but she loves me. Unless I start to consider it a problem, or have dumb c…
/r/seduction11/02/20 10:08 AM
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No you don't want to impress her. You want to be cool, charismatic, with great life, plenty of friends, having hobbies/y you are passionate about, work you like and plenty of female options. Concentrate on your life, not on impressing her. She will not make you money, she will not make you happy. You must be happy with yourself, and let her join the fun. Don't try to appear perfect. We are all work in progress, having bad habits and moody days. Even if she likes you for who you are, it is okay t…
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:26 AM
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People like to complain, it is a form of social bonding. Also it is a sort of modern mating call. Girls get desperate too. They might have millions (IG models) options, can possibly f*ck every minute of their following years if they chose so. But what value would that add for their life? Imagine you would be expected to fuck 1000 females 18-40 in your local area once. Wow what a great idea. But no sorting, random access. Oh boy. 50% would be overweight. 20% would be right on ugly. Bad teeth, def…
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:17 AM
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I would say you always needs 100% congruency. Make yourself awesome during your life, and be yourself. Don't put that much value in number close. It's nice, but usually useless. Observe real player who can really turn girl on. Don't take lessons from obnoxious drunk dudes who force their way. Being a little fake is also not much problem. Being too perfect is usually worse, than being a little shy, but working your way to be bold.
/r/seduction11/02/20 06:55 AM
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"Its okay babe, no problem, I will just have sex with someone else, but I want to be with you."
/r/seduction11/02/20 06:43 AM
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Okay, you need to calm down a little. She is just a girl. Yes, there is a possibility of you two getting married eventually, but dont act like she is the only fish in the water. Try for a minute to think about that situation, as if she was a friend you met this one evening, you had some great fun with that did not worked out the best it could have. How would you act? Would you keep texting all the time? No you would here and there post some fun, some memes and be thrilled to see this friend in p…
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:50 PM
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Don't force it man, she is home, enjoying time with her family and friends. Don't be that guy who keeps ringing her bell. Keep it cool, leave her making the last message. If you will in following days find something intriguing, Spanish themed or so, send her picture of you having fun, ideally with people, most ideally with people she knows. Think of a world where you enjoy yourself, feel great, have fun and friends, work you like and hobbies that you feel passionate about. To attract her you mus…
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:51 PM
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Yes, get familliar with that tension, let it come to you and through you. Get rid of that fear by submerging yourself into it. Make it your daily bread. Talking about sex in the begining can be clumsy. You will fail. But soon it will become your comfort zone. Get a IRL female friend. Maybe online, maybe some local girl. Explain her situation. Dont be afraid to tell her your whole story. She will appreciate it and help you. And if you will have balls, you can go for an attractive girl. Make her y…
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:33 PM
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You should get rid of fat pad, but not to get laid, but to be healthy and fit. You dont have to prove anyone anything, you dont need anyone to validate you. But it is not fat that is holding you back. I have seen worse with better results. Concentrate on your mind. Fix your attitude. I know you suffer, but you are on a downward spiral. You still have time to fix it. But if you dont do it now, you will be like this till you die. Instead of taking, you should give. Instead of asking what others ca…
/r/seduction10/02/20 05:24 PM
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Compliment itself is fine, if done right. If you compliment just like that, then you just stop, stare, and just wait what is going to happen, you put terrible unsolicited pressure on her, forcing her to leave and feel awkward. Because if you start conversation, you start it with a purpose. If your purpose is just to compliment, that is absolutely fine too. But you must say that compliment and leave. No waiting, no staring, no thank you. If you want more then just to compliment her, you must fash…
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:42 PM
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If you do hobo-look BY CHOICE, then its fine for pretty much any girl. They might bitch about it, but if you stand your ground, they will respect you for it. If you do it by neglecting yourself, you will attract similar girls who neglect themselves, or girls who hate well-groomed men, or girls who love their father who is neglecting himself.
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:32 PM
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Being serious and polished got you this far. To go further, do as you said. Play everybody. You are used to play women in order to get something - sex, validation, fun, respect by other men etc. Now you must get over another obstacle. Don’t fear to play anyone. You have mastered talking to women in a smooth way, go for another level! Smooth talk your boss, parents, co-workers, shopping assistant ... Do it like you mean it. Do it from giving - not taking - perspective. Don’t take from them, give …
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:22 PM
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If you wanna be dumb, then you gotta be tough. Suck it up or learn the skill. But if you do your things right - make her laugh, touch her, get close to her, kiss/close, there is no need to look for some deep signs. Escalate when the 3 main talk topics are spent. Don't interrogate, just start being really care free, lead her, not needy but funny, not taking but giving, high energy, then get less funny, and more flirty, isolate, then even more flirty and even less funny, and then get all in flirt …
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:09 PM
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Alright, prolonged eye contact are nice, but don't forget to put a smile on yourself. Not "I want to murder you", but genuine "I feel nice" smile. Practice on mirror. Also shopping malls are not the greatest of places to long stare at people. With this kind of lack of skill, you can hope to get some basic results at work. You need to feel happy alone. Emulate this feeling however you can. Get rid of fear by doing things you fear. Be kind and generous. Never be needy or butthurt. Take a shower, a…
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:59 PM
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As was said, be ready to let her go, and make her know it. The one that is ready to leave anytime, is the one who is secured. If you know she could leave you this quick, you would work extra hard to make her happy. Make her know you are best for her, make her know you always have possibility to exchange her. But don't push her. Make her know it, but don't escalate. Once you will go down this path, be aware, she will shit test you, because she will not like it. If she was used to be safe in this …
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:40 PM
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Hello, good job! :) But don't forget, that this attraction was that night only, you can not just "follow where you started". You have some solid foundation, but start from begging. If you type Hey, lets continue with that night! You would have lost the game. Intrigue her, build rapport, spark attraction again. It will be much easier this time, but you have to do it in order for it to work. Make it a habit, it works with most people, no matter what continue - business or friendship. Just don't be…
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:28 PM
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Try being silent more. Let her take the responsibility of talking. But you have to make that confidence of staying silent, looking at her confidently, not relieving that pressure. Learning confidence on silence will build your confidence in talking and will open you up more. See my other post on this topic https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f1ia1p/can_get_dates_from_daygame_but_continues_to_fail/fh7mhku?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:16 PM
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Think about confidence. How much confidence you build over those years, working knowingly to increase this skill. Now, how much confidence you need to talk to 9/10 girl IRL. Now girl needs confidence to start talking to this 9/10 male IRL too, but rarely builds this skill. So 9/10 males got most attention from confident 1/6 girls, just as 9/10 girls got most attention from confident 1/6 men. Now let’s talk about that attention. Do you really need that attention? Then you don’t ask for it, you ta…
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:06 PM
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Hey man, lets focus on the main thing: You are 50% doing well, 50% not. From what you’re saying, you can be interesting, create rapport and spark some attraction. Great start! Now let us think together. Giving a real number is an act of faith. To whom you show faith? To those you know you can trust, and to those who are harmless. If there is no way to escalate with that number, then there is no reason to ask for it. Try next time different approach. Tell the girl - I am leaving day after tomorro…
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:52 PM
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Be strong and passionate, but not too rough. Anything from collarbones to hairline/jaw is good for kiss or tongue tip dry lick. Light neck, earlobe bite is fine. Hand in hair+pulling is fine unless she is very keen on her hairstyle. Hand behind ear, on neck is with light/moderate grip is fine. Just don’t drool on her too much. Don’t hide boner in passionate kiss, it turns her on. Watch for on ear kiss, don’t make a kiss sound, its super loud. Don’t ask after you have kiss permission. Test if is …
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:29 PM
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She seems to respond well to push - pull. Try some basics - confidently, strong eye contact - You are like so _____ (neg: skinny, pale, weird ... ) I like you! - don’t pause more than 1 sec, change topic, just break eye contact, in slightly shy manner - So well, how is your evening? Pause, keep pressure on her, don’t relieve it for free, she should make some move on you, touch or proposition, if accept, then relieve pressure. She will want to laugh even on bad joke, cause she wants to relieve th…
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:58 PM
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First, you should get intimate with silence. Take into consideration that silence is a tool. Keep light smirk, firm eye contact. Use it to build pressure, when you plan to close. Talk, talk, then pause, eye contact, devil smile - look into her eyes as you were studying a work of art (not boobs/body check). Don't waver. She will feel the tension, start to question your staring. Don't jump on this bait to break your resolve. Be congruent, hold your answer few seconds after she has stopped talking.…
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:35 PM
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