This is at its core a game of energy, and lately I've realized more and more that in order to be successful you have to have your shit together at a spiritual level as well. RSD Tyler said that (even though I think a lot of his shit is wack), and I think it's actually true. Girls want your energy, its why I've also realized its important to absolutely quit porn and at least severely limit fapping and ejaculating. This is probably more useful to someone at a rookie level though. I guess I finally realized it one night when I was horny and wanting to jerk off and I heard a guy fucking a girl next door, it turned me on but it also made me realize theoretically, under different circumstances, I could be projecting that same energy on the girl instead of porn/my hand etc.

There's just a very 'pure' feeling from horniness that is caused by IRL circumstances. Don't believe me, be a peeping tom or listen in one someone and compare it with the feeling you get watching porn. Somehow I feel that's the same energetic frequency you need to chase to be able to get a girl in the mood because she will feel what you feel.

So I guess you make a decision, I mean so many a guy have just become discouraged and jacked off for years or whatever, that has been me too, or I could work with what I have (not using looks as an excuse etc) and fine tune my shit at an energetic level.

If you're feeling blocked at an energetic level try focusing on rekindling your ability to fantasize about girls you have seen or met IRL. For me at least that is key

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Hope this makes sense but I think it's important. Keep it real out there bros 🙏