| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | 19 year age difference... Marni test | Field Report | Rooke33 | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 12:24 AM |
| 6 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text game | Field Report | Rooke33 | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Inner Game is More Important Than Outer Game | Inner Game | Rooke33 | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Sound Off: What city are you all in? (For people looking for infield wings) | Resources | Rooke33 | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Mostly like gaming girls who are already in relationships | Conversation | Rooke33 | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 0 | I hate when I don’t win - married woman | Conversation | Rooke33 | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 01:16 AM |
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| 1 | This really isn't any different then video games.💯 | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | "Mystery" & "Style"There is still information to gather from those times. Tweak it and update it to fit current times | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Why should I learn how to seduce women when I can never seduce the ones that I want?Close the other women to build up your confidence. Then start upping your game. | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 12:56 AM |
| 4 | I have a girl coming over to smoke and watch a movie, any tips?Be clear with your intentions. You’re not her friend. You’re into her and she should clearly know it | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | 19 year age difference... Marni testNope | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 02:12 AM |
| 3 | I’m a mid-30s ‘OG’ PUA who started in the Ross Jeffries days. I’ve had hundreds of successes over the years and have coached PU sporadically. AMA100% | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 0 | To text or not to textYes, we don’t know the reason he did this but... Dude he’s talking to multiple women. If you can’t keep his attention he’s going to move on. Just being real | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Virgin in CollegeMost importantly you are here with on in this community. We are all in it together. Start with reading the book The Game by Neil Strauss. This is kinda considered the starting point of pick up artists. From there you’ll hear some names in the book and watch those guys videos on YouTube. Start with The Game. Read it this weekend and then pose more questions here. We got you and will support you! | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Having female friendsYour female friends have female friends...... Also having women in your life shows social proof.... Your female friends can wing you.... Keep friends that are cool regardless of their gender... | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Worst case scenarioWorst case was being ignored by the girl | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 02:17 AM |
| -1 | I've spent enough time trying to find women through the internet, Tinder, sliding into DMS, all that virtual bullshit for a life time. It takes basically no real courage, and I feel, for me, it has a low success rate. I know it's COVID era, but I want to know more about meeting women irl these days“It” has a low success rate or “you” have a low success rate? I’m not trying to be a jerk but I am saying we all tend the blame the platforms because we: 1) don’t want to put in the effort 2) don’t know how to stand out of the platform 3) treat the platform like text game, nite game, and day game 4) don’t know how to be interesting. Let’s all stop blaming the platforms and up our game.... | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier to get with 18-20 year old girls vs. 21 to 25+ year old girls?Idk. I’m 42 and been with 22 and 23 yr olds. They have been driven, mature, and career focused. From a relationship standpoint they haven’t been jaded | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | How do men like to be touched??Lol sorry. Correct! Don’t twist. Don’t bend. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 14 | How do men like to be touched??Listen and talk. Move slowly at first. Don’t just grab it. Slide your hand from his chest to his stomach and down. This gives him enough time to mentally prepare that you’re going in. This also gives him time to say “no”. Some guys are shy and don’t want to touched there. Start soft and build up to the pressure of a firm handshake. Ask him “harder or softer?” “Is this okay?” “Faster or slower?” Communication is good and can be sexy. Don’t twist it. Bend it. Be respectful. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 10:48 AM |
| 0 | I hate when I don’t win - married womanAwesome!! | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | I hate when I don’t win - married womanShe has to feel safe and not judged | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | I hate when I don’t win - married womanNo prob I’ve been with many married women. I prefer them married or in serious relationships because they have limited time. They have to be home and can’t talk I’m the weekends so it gives me a ton of freedom that I like. Also I get to be the fun and safe place where she can truly be herself and not be judged. She can be completely free. I do a lot of the same pick up game that we are all pretty used to. I still escalate and flirt. Still move the convo. Etc. etc. and as the flirting escalates a… | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameGood input! | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Guys I fucking did it.Awesome!!! | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | If shes always busy, should you just move along?Move on. If she really wanted to hang with you she would make the time | /r/seduction | 03/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | How can I avoid becoming a girls best friend ?You’re making a lot of assumptions here.... | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 0 | How can I avoid becoming a girls best friend ?Lol not salty at all. I like how you said what you feel and I didn’t take offense to it. I just thought it would be funny to bring it up. I respect your no BS approach. It’s not about being proud of it. It’s about being real with who I am and what I’m about. I just don’t hide behind a mask. I am what I am. I have major faults. Two major faults are that I’m manipulative and that I have narcissistic tendencies. I own that and I just know what I am and have accepted it. Not proud. Other people, lik… | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so difficult?Talk to people without expectation. If there is no expectation then nothing “needs” to happen and nothing “should” happen. When we have expectations like “I’m trying to get her to like me” or “I’m trying to get her number” or whatever the expectation is then we begin to put pressure on ourselves. No expectations = no problems | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 3 | 3 areas to focus on in order to meet women100% | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting friendzoned?I agree with all of the above. Don’t be weird touchy but touchy like you are just a touchy person. We all know someone who is touchy and that’s just how they are. We are ok with them touching us because that’s normal for them. If you aren’t touchy now and then time goes by and you try to be touchy it might be awkward for her. Be fun. Be flirty. Make it fun for her. Be touchy. Go for the triangle (look at her left eye for a second. Her right eye for a second. Then her lips for a second then her l… | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting friendzoned?You become friend zoned when: They have no romantic interest They have romantic interest and are not sure if you have it... you do and don’t show it... they get tired of waiting and think “oh I guess he doesn’t like me that way” and then you get friend zoned. Here is what I do: I actually tell girls things like “you’re not my friend. If you’re my friend then I have to friend zone you”. You have to say it funny and playful and not like a jerk. They will laugh but it becomes clear so you can be mo… | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | How can I avoid becoming a girls best friend ?Bruh you can talk to them about deep meaningful things and not get into the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:10 PM |
| -1 | How can I avoid becoming a girls best friend ?But... I agree, total dick statement about “I’m not the person to talk to about this” However, I’d still use it like a game and to my advantage. I’d show empathy but I’m still an asshole... as you know. | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 0 | How can I avoid becoming a girls best friend ?You had me all the way until the “stop treating every interaction with a woman like a game...” | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | No more sex with women I'm not attracted toUnattractive girls have attractive friends | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Just got destroyed as a manYeah but... don’t forget that he will screw up. They will argue. She will learn things she doesn’t like. He will irritate her. Lie to her. Etc etc. You guys will look back and laugh at this story. Now... don’t be awkward or weird around her now that you told her how you feel. Just keep being that fun loving person she knows you as. Not too much of friends but friendly and always be cool around her. Keeping your confidence. The vibe of: I like you. I told you. But I can totally be fine without yo… | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meGreat story and a great reminder for us out there in the field. See it window, know what you want, go for it. | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How to Initiate sexual conversation or be seductive over textRight on. Let me know how it goes | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Game For "Good-Looking" Men - Don't Let Your Good Looks Carry YouMANY of me female friends have told me that the have been out and an good looking guy talks to them. The women are open. Then the guy can’t keep the girl’s attention or the personality sucks. I hear this a lot. I have a buddy who is not that attractive (he isnt and he knows it) but the dude pulls mad women. His personality is on point. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Been offered a threesome, but have little sexual experience and premature ejaculation, what do?They make numbing sprays and gels to help with PE. These are over the counter. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameFair | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Older Women LoveDepends on context and I’d need some more info. Do you just want to hook up or do you want a serious LTR with them? | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | This is probably a very stupid question, but if you’re about to part ways with a girl after a date and she starts applying lip balm is that a hint???Lol thank you | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | This is probably a very stupid question, but if you’re about to part ways with a girl after a date and she starts applying lip balm is that a hint???Asshole - no Manipulative - yes Thanks, I am. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | This is probably a very stupid question, but if you’re about to part ways with a girl after a date and she starts applying lip balm is that a hint???Jet, I’m in agreement with you; however your analogy is a bit extreme in my opinion. It’s cool though. You and I just run game in a different way and that’s ok. I’m not trying to be decent. I’m working towards my desired result. The great thing is that we all don’t have to agree on stuff. We get to share ideas; take what we want and leave the rest. Have a great weekend! | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 0 | This is probably a very stupid question, but if you’re about to part ways with a girl after a date and she starts applying lip balm is that a hint???Life is precisely sleazy, romantic, a comedy, and a movie...at least in my construct | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | This is probably a very stupid question, but if you’re about to part ways with a girl after a date and she starts applying lip balm is that a hint???I don’t think it’s smooth; however, in my experience it has worked more often than not. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:33 AM |
| 3 | How to get girls to admire you.I guess I’m more so trying to say “don’t spill everything out all at once”. Like, story tell and leave breadcrumbs. I know know a lot of guys who tell a girl everything about themselves in a short amount of time and then ask the girl a bunch of questions to learn all about the girl and before you know it.... there is nothing left to talk about the then “learning about each other” process is gone. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Giving a girl your numberTotally depends. Sometimes they don’t want to give you theirs because: Dealt with creeps in the past Aren’t interested Have a significant other If you ask for theirs and they seem off you can also ask if they would be more comfortable taking yours. But you have to know that they are really vibing on that. You can also just go for an Insta connect right then. Other people said it too... grab the number and put it in your phone. I’ve done the ... talk about a story and give an excuse to text a lin… | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 02:50 AM |
| 0 | This is probably a very stupid question, but if you’re about to part ways with a girl after a date and she starts applying lip balm is that a hint???“Are you applying lip balm because you want to kiss me” —- you have to say this with a smile and kinda joking but not If she says: No - then you say “I didn’t say you could. I was just asking” Yes - kiss her Maybe - you say “well let’s find out and go in for the kiss” This is a old Mystery patter | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 02:39 AM |
| 3 | How to get girls to admire you.It’s all about being comfortable in your own skin. Knowing what you what and where you’re going. Adding in mystery and ambiguity. Always being respectful and allowing the girl to be her unapologetic self. To be true and to express herself anyway she wants. That is what creates admiration in my experience | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to ask my science teacher about sex ed?I’m sure your parents would much rather you ask them then to go to someone outside the family or to potentially get into an unsafe position by starting a thread online. Your parents want to help and answer questions for you. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | MEN, ITS OK TO HAVE STANDARDSWord | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Mostly like gaming girls who are already in relationshipslol okay | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Mostly like gaming girls who are already in relationshipsI really like the counting my rejections too. That’s a very good point. Fuck I love winning. Ugh the rejections I want SO much more lol | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Mostly like gaming girls who are already in relationshipsLol def not | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Mostly like gaming girls who are already in relationshipsWhy the hate Goldshire69 ? | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text game4 others right now. I have narcissistic tendencies so I actually don’t get attached to anyone specific. Only 4 because I don’t use dating apps to “boost my numbers” | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Why some guys refuse to be friends when I say we could be friends, as a female?Because he lacks self confidence or because he is cutting his loss. Sometimes you know your desired outcome and if it’s obv it doesn’t meet your short term plan... you cut bait. I don’t ever cut bait... why?? Well because you have female friends 😏 So we can stay friends and I’ll game your friends. | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameAwesome | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameNo prob | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameProb. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameI don’t use dating apps. I don’t typically use texting for full game. I do use it for interesting and fun openings and playful banter and flirting. I’m also not so forward BUT I was in the FZ and we aren’t besties so it wouldn’t be like I was ruining a friendship here. It was late and I could have passed it off like I was drinking or whatever should things have gone south. So I guess I typically prime through text and game in person. She wanted to talk on the phone last night but I wasn’t alone … | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameLol me too | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameYup. A lot can happen. And you’re right she got attention. So did I. Fair exchange. Now for the friend... | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameTruth. But I don’t have oneitis. I’m friends with all the females who have come in my life. This one just went straight to the friend zone first. I can’t have oneitis. I have deep narcissistic tendencies | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameRight?!? Normally I wouldn’t even try. I’m like Once you’re in the zone you’re stuck. We texted this morning and I just got off the phone. She doesn’t have her kids next weekend (not this weekend) so we are scheduled for Sat. A lot can change between then and now but we shall see. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | 3 years in the friend zone... Now I’m out of the FZ - Text gameMaybe. Or there’s a ton of context missing because I’m not about writing a book... and someone will read this thread and use the Checkers text in their own way or the I want to kiss you and change it to fit their own text game. I pull things out of other people’s posts and tweak them and test them too. I’m not anything special sstwweif It’s about sharing ideas. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:44 PM |
| 2 | If she says she has a boyfriend do you immediately stop trying to get with her?No I don’t stop. It can be a shit test or a blow off. But frankly, I prefer if they have a boyfriend. Then I can be a fun and safe place and she can tell him to put the dishes away and to clean up after himself. Just bring real. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | 19 year age difference... Marni testAhh yes. Good point. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Looks are not #1Ooohh sorry about that lol. My bad. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 11:45 AM |
| 3 | 19 year age difference... Marni testI can’t run the Marni test on someone my own age... | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | 19 year age difference... Marni testNothing at all. My own age is great. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:53 AM |
| 14 | How to handle and get over nervousness when trying to approach a girl? Nervousness I get not her specifically but people around us.Don’t be outcome dependent. If you don’t care if you get her or not - then doing “well” doesn’t matter. Therefore, what the people think doesn’t matter because none of it matters | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Looks are not #1https://youtu.be/EwExJojBKoY His real name is Owen. He went by Tyler in The Game. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | 19 year age difference... Marni testThanks | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:21 AM |
| 1 | 19 year age difference... Marni testTotally agree. I’ll run it on Friday. The DHV is already there so I’m good on that side. Kino prior so I was there too. Did a palm reading ;) never gets old. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Does sex with hot, new women ever get old?If you’re penetrating her physically, yes. If you’re penetrating her mind, no. The mental connection never gets old. My game isn’t about fcking. My game is about the deep powerful mental connection where you are their drug. The fcking is a byproduct | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Does sex with hot, new women ever get old?Absolutely | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion, do you need a high perceived social status in order to get girls interested?Yes. But it only needs to be one level above your target. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Approaching in front of a girl’s parents?If you’re respectful then you won’t embarrass her and that the key. You don’t want her family teasing her. Win over siblings first. Then parents. Then her. Don’t pay too much attention to her. Talk to the whole group. Then say, “I’m sorry. I haven’t been very talkative to you. (Turn to her family) I’m going to chat with her for a bit. I don’t want to be rude. (Wink at her mom). ... Boom you’re in | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I don’t fear rejection. I fear rejection in public 😭Wear sunglasses. It’s amazing how protected you’ll feel when they can’t see your eyes. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How to properly use statements instead of questions?Don’t interview them. Communicate with them. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How to properly use statements instead of questions?100% I would text “let me guess 50 shades of grey. So predictable! OMG remind me to tell you the story about a grey tie, 50 shades movie, and I was at Starbucks when it happened!!” | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Does asking for a girls number point blank work or does there need to be a little rapport first?Depends. If you are at a place and you guys noticed each other and you get an indication then yes go up and get the number. I know a guy and all he does is use the following: Do you want to f*ck? What’s your number Dude closes big time with that. He runs through a lot of girls to find the right ones. I don’t ask for the number. I give mine. Basically “if you want to continue this conversation here’s my number. Just don’t do the whole -wait three days to call- lol.” It takes the pressure off them… | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:56 AM |
| 6 | How to Initiate sexual conversation or be seductive over textI use the following.... Mmmhmmmm Such a bossy little thing So feisty Such a little Gypsy Feisty little thing OMG you’re in so much trouble. I know just what to do with girls like you. OMG you’re so in love with me right now ...... You can add in smiley faces or lol as you see fit | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Just a small "Hi"Nice! That’s totally how I started! Only I said “hi” to really ugly girls (not trying to be mean here but it’s true) and built up from there. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Ive heard tattooed guys have it easy with womenAnything that you have that is different will get attention. Tattoo = adventure and fun. If you don’t have tattoos then you need something else to signal adventure and fun. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Choosing signalsDo you mean an IoI? | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Looks are not #11000% So many girls I know see the hot guy and talk to him and are bored within 5 min. Looks don’t matter. Tyler Durden proved that. Have you seen the guy?? I mean, how the F did he do it and it wasn’t looks!! | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Pickup During a PandemicIf you want to fish for a shark you don’t throw a worm in a pond. Reverse engineer... Write down the profile of what your targeting. What does she look like? What does she do for fun? What is her economic status? Where does she go on the weekend? What is she a member of? Etc etc etc. After you do this you will have a clear picture of what you want and where to find her. Maybe you want her fit so you hang out around the outdoor CrossFit places. Maybe you want her higher status so yuh hang out nea… | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 02:37 AM |
| 2 | 19 year age difference... Marni testArt, philosophy, photography, university, and what she pictures when she thinks of her future. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 7 | 19 year age difference... Marni testI respect that. No need for me to argue about age differences. Either we respect all women or we don’t. That’s cool. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | 19 year age difference... Marni testAll I did was take what other people have put out (Mystery and Marni) twist it to make it my own. But thanks! | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | 19 year age difference... Marni testWhat makes you assume we have little in common? Respect women and understand that they are unique individuals who have their own thoughts and voice. Treat them as equals and the rest will flow | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 01:27 AM |
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