Been using Tinder for a bit just for fun. One moderare picture, a short bio. Used super likes almost every day.

Got some decent matches via superlikes . Two of them were very decent. The convos were swift and I got both of them to agree that we should go out (no discussion on logistics here).

As soon as I tried to number-close one of them, I got ghosted. She came back 3 days later with a question whether I am still intetested in her number to which I replied that If she drinks beer then yes (we had a little mention of beer before she ghosted me).

I wasn't really happy about her coming back because it made me feel like a second or n-th option. I can't judge her though since I also have a list. I brushed it off and kept a short response.

My questions to you

  1. How do you feel in these situations?

  2. How do you think women act when they get approval this way?

P.s. i don't think she is an attention whore. My guess is she went on a date or two or failed a convo with some other bloke or whatever.