Overdue FR anyway, I had time to kill before went for practice I stroll around mall. Felt the same feeling like couple cute girls pass by but just not in zone excuse to let them by. Finally said fuck it. Cute girl wearing a traditional dress came up escalator, waited few second then just went in approach by rear. "You have an interesting style of dressing it's like you came up from a movie" *she look at me no respond* "I mean it looks good on you, I just can't help but to say hi"
>Due to past experience if I just said hi and wait girl respond they may freak out and walked fast then instant rejection, So I adapt using Todd Valentine style where he always make a statement about a girl upon opening right from get go follow b playful neg and disqualify, works better.<
Found out she's coming here for job interview "Oh that explain your outfit, you just stand out". I genuinely say "well it's bad timing for me to flirt with u, I can understand why u look stressed , if you're going xxx place it should be other way". I showed her to the place while building rapport and trying to find her logistic. I was nervous myself cause what a bad timing but I persist.
Talked a bit where she is from **conversation here went platonic a bit cause I don't wanna flirt too much in this situation** I try to get her comfortable with me. Head to shop I said " I don't wanna follow you in the shop cause that's just awkward, how bout we meet up for some drinks later once u done your interview" *I was totally not sure where this is going but I went for it* "sure " she said. Got her phone number "Good luck with interview don't stress".
Then I went on and hit on couple of girls (2 more sets in general). Trying to focus instead of opening with just general hello I make statemnt about the girl "your curly hair is so wavy it actually suits your style, not a lot can pull that off ". Very positive response from both set but didn't close. Sent a text later to the first set I approach after 15 minute. She respond and we went for drink. In text she went with " Where did you follow me from? " kind of general questsion cause she's skeptical but I just honestly replied " Sorry that I scared you like that haha" "It's ok :)" she replied.
Went for 30 min instant date. Across the mall. playful teasing and get to know her hobby and stuff. Subtle small kino to get her comfortable and hint to her what I want. I had to go cause I had training at night. I think I overall gave her good impression. "Text me when you're free " she said before I left. Will ask her out again sometime next week.
Overall I learn empathy goes a long way, The girl didn't know who the fuck you are and to just light heartedly apologize for scaring her kind of response is not beta. The same concept still applied however be a man, have confidence, and always ready to disqualify her and tease to spike emotion. Still more to learn.
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