I'm new to this so go easy...
I checked out this downstairs speakeasy type bar for the first time last night. I see two girls that look approachable. I tell myself I'm going to approach them, just got to use the restroom first lol. I'm finding that when I'm talking to people in a loud bar for awhile my I start to get that tickle in my throat and start coughing so I order a water at the bar just in case (I can't drink). While I am at the bar I notice a woman drinking a martini next to me, by herself and she is more to my liking (thick). I open her "What are you drinking"?... She tells me and we introduce ourselves, she is pretty receptive and friendly. I ask who she's here with, she says she came out by herself, awesome I thought. I came out solo too and so we high-fived and I joked that we're brave and that we have to stick together. We started talking for awhile, conversation was flowing, she was laughing, I was kind of impressed with myself. I'm definitely better at one-on-one that's for sure. I took her hand in mine and tried to guess her sign (but really just to incorporate some physical touch), I guessed it on the first time. She joked that I should open up shop as a psychic. She tells me she's a elementary school teacher and that it's really good birth control lol. I guess that her ethnicity is Colombian, she says Mexican. She can't speak fluent Spanish so I tease her for that, she laughs. She's asking me questions about me and stuff. I play guitar, and have a youtube channel so I joke that I'm super famous and that she should be asking for my autograph. She kind of gives me shit for it, wants to look up my channel and read the comments on my videos and she does, luckily they were all positive comments. I then tell her a pretty funny story that happened to me awhile back bc apparently telling good stories is a turn on for chicks right? She thought it was pretty funny. We got to talking about the show hoarders, she mentions one episode where a woman ate dirty diapers which I think she mistook for 'my crazy obsession.' I show my disgust and joke that she's killing any blood flow I got going on down there. She laughs. We talk and laugh more. I make some comment on her eyes, and tell her she's very beautiful. I put my arm around her at times and put it on her lower back, she doesn't object at all. I tell her 'hey I have something to tell you, it's really important, come here" while leaning in, I go for a kiss but she pulls back. I keep talking and act like it didn't happen. Eventually I suggest we get a drink somewhere else, she says "Where?". I didn't think I'd get that far so just said some other bar I knew in the area. She looks it up on her phone and starts playfully giving me shit for it. I just kinda ignored it and kept talking with her. Eventually I ask her if I can show her a song, she says yes, I say it's on my guitar back at my place, then she says no lol. I say ok another time then, she says ok but seems hesitant. I say 'alright well I'll take your number, if you wanna come out awesome, if you don't no worries.' She agrees. I get her digits, say it was nice to meet her and walk out. Did I have any chance of pulling this chick? What could I have done better?
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