For two whole years I just blindly assumed I was going out to get laid. I mean what else would I be going out for? But then it hit me hard recently, I was really going out for validation. I thought 'sure getting laid would be nice if it happened', but really I just wanted the validation. This is evidenced by the fact that when I have great interaction out at night, if we get separated then I'll stop approaching. I'm high off the validation from it going so well, and I don't want it to end - So rather than going on to the next girl and grinding hard, I'll just stand there like a chode with a smile on my face, relishing in the validation.

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It's damn hard and it's been said many times before but I really believe the cure to this is self-love. Approaching, talking to chicks and inviting them back is the easy part. Truly believing that you are worthy of love and sex is the hard part...