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If you want to reveal the bigotry you can say “well- it’s because blacks are killing blacks, that’s not white women’s fault.”
/r/MensRights22/10/24 03:50 AM
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This is very common for "beginners" they will overanalyze interactions... they need to just calm down and learn to love the weird randomness or people and dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/24 12:08 AM
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Glad we live in the USA.. free speech.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 06:38 PM
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This will probably be struck down if, and when Title IX will be struck down with the current SCOTUS.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 06:35 AM
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If you shame men for have normal human feelings you will get depressed and dissociated men. A similar thing happened to this guy, but he went became a PUA instead. https://web.archive.org/web/20131122014253/http://whoism3.wordpress.com:80/2012/11/17/confessions-of-a-reformed-incel/
/r/MensRights03/04/24 01:15 AM
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Yes! but you have to talk to everybody... and "live to fight another day" only some girls you exchange information with. The others are your friends, and the staff are SUPER your friends. In this value is King.
/r/seduction22/03/24 06:10 AM
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One thing that works GANGBUSTERS is "investing" like Barney from HIMYM. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhE9EFWgYVs and I agree with you about "don't listen to the negative comments"... but it's also classic community advice there is no "optimal time to approach... the best time is now... before your 21,000 days are up"
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:43 AM
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Well it's an easy way to guilt people into giving you funding.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 05:56 PM
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Yes, the ideas on fun, "breaking rapport", and test for attraction by "qualifing or moving" are all REALLY good things.
/r/seduction24/02/24 08:04 PM
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This is the first thing I suggest watching.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbB8AuTBouY Stop reading, and workout the one thing you just learned... one of the worst things you can go is give yourself too much information.
/r/seduction24/02/24 07:22 AM
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DJ, Bartender, Waiter, Bouncer at a club.
/r/seduction09/02/24 09:51 PM
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I don't see what the big deal is... there is no crime here.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:04 PM
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There are some really nice studies that account for men's unpaid labor... it ends up with men doing harder, more hazardous, higher paid work that never get compensation for.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 07:32 PM
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Luckily Change.org petitions are and always have been jokes.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:17 PM
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Debt for worthless degrees.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:22 PM
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Eye contact!! 1# One of the most important things you need to learn!
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:12 AM
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Pass and walkaway! 1000% I block cold shoulder girls on Insta, Snap and Facebook LEFT AND RIGHT! Also if a girl is weird, flaky, egotistical and/or difficult, I turn my back and walkaway when she is talking. She doesn't have the right to be shitty before getting to know me. I don't reward entitlement like that with mind-blowing orgasms. One thing you forgot to mention how much rejection you really face. Even with mediocre game if you approach 100 girls, with the right mindset, eventually 1 of th…
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:58 AM
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All the answers you need here!! https://youtu.be/D6MxPx6DBaM
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:39 AM
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There are some coaches that specialize in older guy dating advice. Frank Kermit is one of them.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:42 AM
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The answer is YES but you need to ask people about your "perceived age". (The Age people assume you are.) e.g. a young looking 30 year old can pass for 24 and STILL date college girls (given he lies about his age). an older looking 18 year old can buy beer or cigarettes from a bar in the USA. a old looking 40 year old man will mainly appeal to girls 55+ years old. A young and successful looking vaguely "middle aged" man, can appeal to a 24 year old girl who wants to date "older" men. So my advic…
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:15 AM
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I wish covid never happened I would probably passed this hook up phase over 2 years ago.. I wish I did have a time machine I would have switched jobs YEARS ago and would have been WAY better off.
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:47 AM
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Part for Privacy/Safety, Part Privacy/Hiding bf to make money, Part Privacy/Hiding bf to appeal the the guys they really want. Sometimes 1, many times more then 1.
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:57 AM
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Yeah I has a feeling it would be small and no jail time and mostly community service.
/r/PussyPass12/04/22 04:58 AM
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This was all really good stuff.. next time, before going home go to a 3rd bar and escalate 1 more time, having a 3 stop date makes it feel like you've known each other for years and makes it feel like a romantic comedy. As for last minute resistance you can do 2 things: 1st, if you are getting too much resistance you can say "yeah we shouldn't do this". e.g. Her: "this is only our first date we shouldn't be doing this." *Likes your escalation * You: "Yeah, we should stop" *Keeps Escalating * 2nd…
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:50 AM
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1000%!! Girls are important, but just 1 aspect of life, like only 1 spoke of a bicycle wheel. If you only focus on one you are missing the rest of the tire, if not the whole bike. Whenever I get frustrated with my dating "failure" I go for a walk and engage in one of my other hobbies (walking, thrifting/antiquing, go see a movie alone, Eat out a good meal, etc.) and I let those silly feelings pass.
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:55 AM
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The thesis of this post is perfect! Sometimes I am not even trying to hook up, but with female friends, they are just horny and want to have sex that night, as long as you are fun and cool (not too needy and don't brag to your friends) they will play with you. As for getting better you will have to friend zone some girls and turn them into wings, they will break through women's defenses every time. Finally, just have fun! Otherwise what's the point?
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:39 AM
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I 1000% agree with this, especially when you are going man against man. Even if you lose you still gain something. In fact Dating coach Dr. David Tian has said as much. Here is a good video he produced.
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:58 AM
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I am from AZ and have to agree with you about Scottsdale, but it depends on who you want to date
/r/seduction13/01/22 12:08 AM
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I am on the journey, and I realized outside of women over 40, I am not 'funny'. So what I am having to do is memorize some routines, since those are road tested and get an expected result.
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:16 AM
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I am very much a lonewolf.. and kinda always have been.. the things I like don't really have much broad appeal.
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:21 AM
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I will give you some good advice I follow and have read, then give you my own personal advice. When I see many other PUAs/Naturals my age (18-35) being "more" successful then me because of their beliefs I do get jealous. "you're not looking right or left to see what other people are doing in their lane, you're looking straight ahead, moving swiftly down your path, overcoming and seeing through all the obstacles that you might encounter along the way. That's being dominant in your own reality, in…
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:19 AM
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I am a guy but my advice might help. When I see many women my age (18-35) making WAY more money then me because of their looks (i.e. Strippers or Only Fans etc.) I do get jealous but I remember one piece of advice I got from the pick up community: "you're not looking right or left to see what other people are doing in their lane, you're looking straight ahead, moving swiftly down your path, overcoming and seeing through all the obstacles that you might encounter along the way. That's being domin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/21 04:43 AM
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If she said yes then you can probably get another yes at a later time. As for this case, start to pull away and live your life, talk to other girls, and stop thinking about her so much. You can still flurt with her over text you just should do it about 50% - 20% as much as you did before, and spend all that other time on your hobbies or with your friends or talking to other girls.
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:44 AM
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I am struggling with daygame atm so this was inspiring.. lol cringy is right.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:42 AM
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I love this.. an American Matchmaker already had to complain about women like this. Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage Rebecca Lynn Pope Talks Women’s Unrealistic Expectations of Men, Healthy Romantic Standards + More I suggest you watch both they are pretty good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 06:49 PM
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I've actually heard that female judges are MORE fair.. also I think this is how men in the system SHOULD be treated.. if should focus on rehabilitation and not punishment.
/r/PussyPass24/07/21 06:46 AM
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Dude Run!.. Be safe my king
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 06:42 AM
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Isolate is ez.. when you get attraction and then she starts asking Comfort questions.. you can say: "Can i borrow you friend for a minute?" Then go to a sit-down location
/r/seduction04/06/21 08:39 PM
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This is very important the way you: Walk, Sit and Stand make your whole seduction easier. Walk: More more purpose, but be will to talk to anybody (Young/Old, Rich/Homeless, Hot/Ugly etc.) Sit: With your legs more apart, stretch yourself out more and prioritize your comfort. Stand: With your leg apart more and look people in the eyes it's very powerful
/r/seduction26/04/21 08:05 AM
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Awesome!!.. covid made me switch to daygame. I just bought one product and followed what it said.. small-piece-by-small piece and as a result I saw success. When it comes to: "saw that she was wanting to leave and i did not persist" Persistence pays off! If she's giving you an excuse to leave (Test) you ask another question or just change the subject without addressing it. You have to realize that once you have Attraction she will be a little late for her friends or her job if she starts to like…
/r/seduction02/04/21 07:51 PM
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When it comes to 'overanalyzing' I had to make a rule. "Let her simmer": Assume that once you have 'Attraction' or 'Heat' you can always turn it up again when she is single. So when thinking about her build a different habit (i.e. instead text your friends, or go for a walk etc). What this will teach you is to relax an not worry about the outcome of her having a boyfriend, or being busy too at her job to hang out with you, or her really wanting to hang out with her girlfriends RN, etc. Finally, …
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:21 AM
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I would recommend reading it, not just for entertainment but for inspiration.
/r/seduction25/03/21 12:52 AM
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You are fine. sometimes girls slide into MY DMS.. or CALL me at work.. or or Flirt with me in front of their boyfriend/girlfriends. You can't let an initial failure discourage you from putting yourself out there. I didn't and now I am doing very well for myself. As for getting back out there don't let anxiety stop you from putting yourself out there many people do and it breaks my heart.. if you don't believe in yourself yet.. just remember that I believe in you. For this forum it's designed for…
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:38 AM
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You want to stand next to her.. many times she will just stand next to you for 30-90 seconds because she thinks you are cute and wait for you to say something. Also, stand shoulder-to-shoulder to her and "body rock" (day game is very subtle and way more relaxed) as long as you keep kino low and don't try to kiss during the day 97 times out of 100 you will not creep her out.
/r/seduction20/03/21 11:57 PM
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Lol.. I got interested vibes AND a phone number AND a date from it.. she still told 'the principle' on me, luckily it's not a place that matters to me. In reality if you don't build enough comfort/rapport in the interaction, after the fact she will destroy the interaction in her head, regardless of how much she liked you. This is also why many of the guys learning on their own get numbers, but don't get dates and end up frustrated.
/r/seduction20/03/21 07:51 AM
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Direct or indirect Direct: I just had to say you are really cute and if I didn't tell you I would have regretted it for the rest of the day. Indirect: What are your buying? Anything interesting? What are your going to buy me? :P
/r/seduction20/03/21 07:42 AM
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-Doesn't matter what you say or how you say it, there's always that one bitch that finds you creepy for no reason and reports you to the store manager lol True! This has happened to me and wasn't doing anything creepy. so I learned you have to go to places that have no value to you.
/r/seduction20/03/21 07:41 AM
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I was legit looking for "healthy life balance".. I want to get good. I have no problem approaching, but I want to know how much going out is the 'just right' amount. I was thinking about 1-2 days a week (4-8 hours total). Daygame (2-4 hours at the mall) Night game (4-6 hours at the bar/club) The rest is Work/Studying, Hobbies, Spending time with friends, etc.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:13 AM
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This is perfect!!! One thing "game purists" swear by is that women's emotions are static and never changing, when that is NOT how humans work. it's like winning the lottery and then finding out your father died with in 5 minutes of each other; everybody does this women do it 10x MORE then men do.. So stop worrying about what her current feelings are.
/r/seduction17/03/21 07:05 AM
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For anybody who doesn't think that "ugly" guys can get HBs.. I suggest that you work register at a grocery store for a year, you will see TONS of young couples with babies where the girl is HOT and the guy is just some average slob. In reality most of you guys are average looking or even good looking, but your self-perception is skewed. If you change your mindset to one that helps you rather then demotivates you, you will be way better off.
/r/seduction16/03/21 06:39 AM
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Thanks for the post!! :D This is good and bad advice. :/ For following any quality dating coach's advice whether it be Written post, or Ebook, or Video Product. You have to apply it to see what works for you and what doesn't, this can be very confusing with all the contradictory advice that can work for one person and not work for another. So, what do you do?? You have to trust the advice that is comfortable for you and believe your teacher knows what they are talking about, until you get to som…
/r/seduction13/03/21 06:04 AM
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It's ok to feel dejected and hurt when you were cheated on.. but you can't let that feeling effect your decision process.. That is one of the first and MOST important lessons of dating: "A man never lets his emotions get the better of him; he feels but he doesn't let that make his mind up." For the HINGE girl nothing girls do on dating apps should be taken seriously unless she is in front of you and on a date (maybe even until she is f8cking you). so relax.. :)
/r/seduction12/02/21 03:50 AM
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One of the MOST fundamental rules of pick up, is actually being a man, and that means you can't make emotionally based decisions. So when it comes to being Funny, Opening up, or being Sexual it's your job to be able to calibrate and use the correct amount at the correct time.
/r/seduction13/12/20 06:29 AM
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I wouldn't date a coworker... just for your legal protection... it's not a good idea.
/r/seduction11/12/20 05:23 AM
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One of the best ways to tell if a girls likes you: "She isn't freaking out, pushing you away or trying to get away." Other then that she is probably into you.
/r/seduction11/12/20 05:01 AM
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The only time I have ever seen someone selfishly pro-claim that they are "taken" was a former High School crush. That contacted me out of the blue, behind her boyfriend's back... apparently she was also "taken" with me.
/r/seduction03/12/20 05:27 AM
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This is a very good point... to avoid confusion, when learning without a bootcamp, I suggest an ebook called: "Fast Track: 7 Rules to Get Good with Women in Months Not Years" By: Dating Skills Review (Kindle Link) It's an ebook of how to be disciplined and learn smart and not hard. I wrote a review a couple years back: This will give you a good guideline if you want to learn to improve your dating life on your own. (Amazon Review Link) This cheap ebook is a good guideline, if you want to improve…
/r/seduction01/12/20 06:01 AM
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any van wilder.. lol :D
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:51 AM
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This is a very great idea!! I love the idea that you are the master of your own personal universe and who you are is fluid as a result... So from my studies... before you "hit the heavy bags" of approaching women, you have to warm up with bar hopping, by talking to 1-3 men you are not attracted to (old men are GREAT for this), 1-3 women you are not attracted to (old women or married women), finally 1-3 women you are attracted to. Then go to the bar you wanted to in the first place.. and you shou…
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:50 AM
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This is only OK advice.. many coaches and dogmatic "Game Purists" will disagree. However what I think is that 2 easy wins for finding quick success in pick up are: Get a make over (haircut and clothes) Join a gym (Weight lifting, Yoga, BJJ, Judo, Boxing, MMA, any really) As for my success, if I started bodybuilding it wouldn't make me happy, because that is external, and happiness comes for me from internal acceptance of who I am. So for me I would probably join a BBJ or Yoga gym. Finally, If yo…
/r/seduction26/10/20 06:28 AM
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This is actually I how I felt when I first read that book. However looking back a few weeks later. I think he is over shooting and adding toxicity that isn't really there. With that said, the idea that: "You need to prioritize your own needs above other peoples" is what makes that book worth a look.
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:57 AM
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I'll keep this comment short. Please don't fall for de-motivational mindsets like this, and realize that no normal girls or guys, actually believe this. If ideas like this start to de-motivate you, ask your friends who motivate you for advice. I did respond to this post in a comment here but don't worry too much about non-sense like this.
/r/seduction22/10/20 05:52 AM
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First, for a lot of us, we are not as unattractive as we think.. so don't make harsh (and unhelpful) mindsets that de-motivate you. Second, you are right if you add value to someone's life it matters WAY less, what you look like..
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:28 AM
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This is a perfect advanced mindset... but for newbie peeps not getting any success, the beginner mindset of: "Before I can attract what I want, I will take what I can get" e.g. before I can date the 10s (inside and out) I have to date 5s to learn this skill set. is better.
/r/seduction14/10/20 05:35 AM
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I actually believe this... but I will explain. First, Have fun, and don't overanalyze!!! That means all these rules we teach in books and in the community, are JUST guidelines and not 100% perfect hard rules to dogmatically follow. Yes, when in social situations if you want a little more power (controlling the frame) you can't break eye contact first.. I will give a few examples. 1) You are walking the mall and you see a cute girl walking towards you, so you make eye contact and don't break it, …
/r/seduction14/10/20 05:02 AM
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This life balance is one of the best community classic things to remember, i.e. Treat pick up like a hobby. Especially during Coronavirus were everybody is skidish about meeting new people, it underscores our responsibility to ourselves to 'be more then (anything)', e.g. 'be more then pick up guy', 'be more then guitar guy', ''be more then D&D guy' etc. I know this time is frustrating, especially for me, since I JUST started getting success, but now is the time to focus on our REAL hobbies like …
/r/seduction16/09/20 09:00 AM
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This is a very good reply. During daygame with a mask, you still should approach ANYBODY you think is interesting (old men, old ladies, saying hi to babies, meeting random people's dogs and even attractive girls, etc.) But from my time Daygaming (because bars are closed) is that you have to realize that (for social/societal reasons) peoples "boundaries" and sensitivity of personal space are heightened. On the positive side, when this whole thing is over if you still approached you will probably …
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:02 AM
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Yeah, this year is shit and nothing is fair.. Covid killed my dating life.. So, for now, you might just have to wait this one out. I too notice my skills are starting to weaken, same thing for people that haven't been to a gym in 3-8 months. But, we still need to look up and think positively, I do it by lookin back and reaizing just how far I really have come by and also realize that in 18 months we will have forget about any of this covid nonsense.
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:48 AM
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This is a very good and basic question of Calibration. and about controlling 3 type of feelings during any interaction (Sexual, Emotional, Logical) I am still trying to control my Sexual emotions when dating.
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:30 AM
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This is a very good start, but what you needed to do is build with a little MORE banter (Attraction) and then build WAY more Rapport (Comfort). You will have to be the leader in these types of interactions.. e.g. "LOL looks like someone knows how to take pictures of hot guys high five :D" then later "Hi Shakes hand my name is @1amem0tion nice to meet you." and then start to open up about yourself. The hard part about learning on Seddit is that you don't have really good examples of proper energy…
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:24 AM
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It really depends on the level of sex drive of the girl. So if the girl has a high sex drive you will have fun eating out a lot. However if she has a low sex drive you will eat out less often. As for being bored, it really has more to do with weather or not you get bored easily. The only real possible problem is with personal health over time. "Let's Talk About HPV and Throat Cancer"
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:41 AM
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This time to move on from this absoult nobody... but the hypocritical thing is that she damsels and and wants to be saved... if this was the 1950s she would be. Just pathetic and weak.
/r/MensRights12/05/20 03:20 PM
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I think it's supposed to be "BPD"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:23 AM
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This is a good learning opportunity.. to learn a new mindset... it called the "Down for anything vibe" That means you are down to do anything with your "target"/"person you are attracted to" lets say you are walking to a bar and a group of cute girls are walking toward you one dressed super sexy and walks up to you and gets very flirty in your face and tries to kiss you... if you are work with this mindset you will allow her to kiss you and then you will hang out with them for the rest of the ni…
/r/seduction08/01/20 07:58 AM
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There might actually be something to this... I recently had it out with a friend (who is showing toxic feminist ideas) on insta a few weeks ago.. I traded comments with her about how these ideas aren't helpful and how they're dangerous to be playing around with, her more recent shift toward these ideas, worried me since these ideas can poison someone and they will start to sabotage even healthy relationships with men. So when it comes to having toxic ideas about men, all that will attract is tox…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 08:57 AM
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I agree!!! women don't like sex... even in the 1950s women like hated sex, it was only like when the first NOW poster was printed that women like started enjoying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:08 PM
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In short No, if you kiss her when the time is right, but it really depends on what you want out of this and it depends on the types of girls you want to date, a I actually have a recent experience with this... I was at an "all souls procession" a couple of months ago, (If you want to read about it link) but after the ceremony it's like a massive party with drinking, music, dancing, songs and hanging with friends. I go every year and take pictures of the people in their colorful and beautiful cos…
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:56 AM
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I will give you the classic community advice and tell you about "value". Many people have a lot of theories and ideas about "confidence" but from my studies and the products that I bought, one of the things that women (all people really) find appealing and attractive, is your "ability to give off value". What that means is your ability to make people feel valuable when it comes to interacting with them. This is what people call "confidence". So when it comes to your personality you have to learn…
/r/seduction17/12/19 09:24 PM
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A second date.. but while still on the first, backing down a little and going back into attraction and then rapport again. Really it's about pacing a date. Here Extra Credits explains, while it's with video games, they use Star Wars as an example of how pacing i.e. (excitment then backing down, then excitement, then backing down) is both fun and sets a tone for the date. I do am learning to and also I do this all the time, and it seems to be working.
/r/seduction26/11/19 08:16 AM
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This was me but the reason was my unbelievable amount of Approach Anxiety due to my normal shyness, it was so bad that it made me want to cry. If you've ever seen Vh1's The Pick Up Artist Season 1 I was exactly like Spoon (Steve Poon) in fact when I was watching him not being able to approach and crying, made me start to cry, I had to stop the video to keep myself from crying. It was only after watching both seasons did I realize that I can do this and since then I have laser focused on this aga…
/r/seduction26/11/19 08:09 AM
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Have you read any online dating manuals? The ones here seem good, but if you want something MORE comprehensive I have heard good things about "The Gentleman's Guide to Online Dating" by: Love Systems Here is a review from Dating Skills Review.com It's not about tinder but it's probably translates.
/r/seduction24/11/19 05:24 AM
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Chillax buddy I am on your side!! Success in this hobby depends on how hungry you are, and yes being hungry might mean completely changing your entire live and life circumstances and you know what buddy that is all right.. have you tried online dating?
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:10 AM
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Thanks this one is very inspiring.. I hate daygame.. my current excuse is that I can't get same night lays off of daygame and won't do it.. but the very first time I was ever successful and the very first time I ever got laid off an approach and the first time I ever had sex, in fact the very first approach I ever did was a daygame approach. So I need to squash my anxiety so I can approach.. I highly suggest the classic: "Hey, I just had to come over and say, you are absolutely adorable and I ju…
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:07 AM
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Go to the big city my friend. I have to the same thing. I go to the part of town with the nice bars, in my city to get some real practice in.
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:00 AM
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This should just go to show you that. Never assume how someone is going to react to something. Yes, even (extreme) male hating feminists will give people they know a pass.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:59 AM
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The Framing around it is what we PUAs are doing, that's our power.. and one of the things that is the most important in game.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:56 AM
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Here is a very good video about the topic.. "The Definitive 'How To' Guide to Stripper Game" -James Tusk I am all about practiceing... and from my time in strip clubs you need to practice infield first. For me to get to the point where I wanted to approach women at night I had to have a job that forces you to socialize, like a waiter or a barista or bartender. So I suggest night game and willing to suck shit.. but I think improvement it a good idea.
/r/seduction10/11/19 09:44 PM
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I like this... the only problem is the last time I tried this... I got every frustrated very fast.
/r/seduction09/11/19 09:05 PM
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SNL- Same-night lay. This is when you meet a girl and then fuck her that same day/night.
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:04 PM
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This is very interesting. It's like Frank Kermit says (for adult male virgins): "When you're starting out, take what you can get until you develop enough experience to get what you want." - (Kermit, Frank. The Adult Male Virgin Handbook. Lulu.com, n.d.) Many of the girls that I have gotten SNLs from and are still dating are the "Yes" girls. (All from the last 6 months.)
/r/seduction06/11/19 07:39 AM
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Many of those "Yes Girls" are the same types of girls that I have gotten SNLs from and many of the girls that I am still dating to this day. I guess I am at the age, if you want to get a second date from me... fuck me on the first date.
/r/seduction06/11/19 07:17 AM
1

Same thing for me.. when it comes to Day Game I suck shit... but I don't let that bum me out. When it comes to Night Game I am WAY better, I am learning the Dynamics of night game and Learning that if I stick with a cute girl that likes me, I get numbers, make outs and same night lays (even if I am not doing everything perfect). Action is key.. but for me watching Vh1's "The Pick Up Artist" was the main catalyst for my success, I saw guy just like me, going out and being successful or at least w…
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:06 AM
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I am 24 RN, and right now one of my goals is to better understand 19 year old girls. Some background, I have never understood people, and have always struggled to understand people. So when it comes to 19 year old girls, especially the college aged ones, (which I didn't even understand when I WAS 19, we grew up very differently) I REALLY don't understand them. One thing I noticed is that, even when I was 10, and doing things on the college campus, is that they walk and talk the same and are clon…
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:22 PM
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I have been laser focusing on pick up for the last 6 months or so and I agree that being direct and honest can be very powerful and refreshing for a lot of women.. mainly women over 30 or so and more specifically single mothers. I think that this happens because they get hit on less since (for women) getting older equals fewer guys approach them and being a single mother means fewer men are going to want to deal with a "pre-started" family, so when a good looking guy comes up and says all sorts …
/r/seduction25/10/19 07:34 AM
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In my studies, I have been told that about 8/10 girls will flake, it's just a fact many girls are flaky and won't show. The best way to deal with this is not anger, but it's with being cool and having other plans. Like hanging with your friends or going to a bookstore or a music festival etc.. You can also game girls there. Also texting a girl: "It's fine, I was gonna hang with some friends anyway. :D" I mean think about it, if you are guy with lots of girls like 4-5 on rotation would you cry an…
/r/seduction11/10/19 06:18 PM
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same thing... or pre-op trannies of color... who aren't passing.
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:47 PM
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or guys of color.
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:37 PM
3

One of the things that you can do to "be the alpha/be a leader" is talk louder then everybody else, (I am working on testing this out) because everybody makes a snap judgement about everybody else when they see them enter a room. I will give you a real world example. Imagine being in an elevator, with 3 other guys and your walk in with your friend, and everybody is quite. Your Friend: whispers have you seen Tom recently? You: almost shouting Have I see Tom recently?!?!?! No! You will look more d…
/r/seduction27/09/19 07:49 PM
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This is one of the things that guys who call themselves "ugly" should do before anything. It's called a "quick win" when you do that you start to realize just how attractive you really are. I am the type of person that is naturally good looking, and even I forget that fact.. When this happens I hop into my head and start to be my own worst enemy. So my solution is what Mystery and company did in VH1's the pick up artist, they gave the guys makeovers and they got to see just how attractive they r…
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:31 AM
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This is an interesting conundrum, especially for beginners/super newbies or people doing this completely on their own with no training/bootcamp. If you have no success with girls and you have 1 successful pick up after like 5 failures, because one girl took a chance on you. You might start focusing on that 1 success and get "oneits" and all your efforts will start to work against you. The most logical and community classic solution to this is to have multiple girls that you are seeing at the sam…
/r/seduction17/09/19 07:17 PM
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fuck it! That is what I said, when I did my first daygame approach. It worked and I got laid off of that approach.
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:37 PM
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Thanks buddy! Inspiring... I am sucking shit right now, during day game and at night... but I am still trying and getting better.... thanks for the post.
/r/seduction04/08/19 05:09 AM
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I can't get into the mentality. You can't get into the mentality that "your life is not over at 21 or 24 or 40 or even 80?" If you can't and you believe that your life is over, then you might have to kill yourself LOL... since you have nothing left and nothing more to contribute to the world. Here is the truth, DON'T kill yourself. You have so much that you gain value from in your life, that you can go several years without dating and you will be just as satisfied. That is what I had to do since…
/r/seduction16/07/19 07:36 AM
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"You really think that? Cause I see 21 as wayy too late to get started, all me friends have been actively dating and having sex since 16-17. My sole readon for wanting hookups is that I want to get my numbers up, cause I'm seriously lacking any kind of experience, despite going through 5 relationships." Sorry I didn't get back to you, I forgot about this comment until I was looking back at my Reddit comment history. So I will address it now. It's long but it's real, and you should read it. "You …
/r/seduction14/07/19 12:10 AM
2

As far as I can tell about Naturals: They are good looking. (Makes it easier) Prioritize fun. (Working with the current, rather then against the current) They assume that rejections will happen (They aren't completely bummed about rejection) They talk to girls (What we would call an approach) They don't Ask Permission to Talk to Anyone. (They are very social) They throw innuendo at anything that’s got long legs and a vagina. (Finally, they are very flirty. With hotties.)
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:42 AM
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This happened with my last relationship, after that ended I started laser focusing on this again. I am glad that I got this education, both in self-respect and in self-esteem. I am also glad that I got my first girlfriend ever. Both helped me grow.
/r/seduction01/07/19 02:58 AM
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Good, we are about the same age. :) I think the "Seduction Community" (this sub-reddit and other similar forums) is good, but should only be for men at least 21 years or older, since this stuff is like being a charming guy but on steroids. When it comes to dating, guys who are 18 to 25, should give themselves some time to mature and find out if they are good with girls to begin with. I didn't do that, I threw myself into it when I was 18 and started fucking strippers and got a huge slice of how …
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:45 AM
1

link plz.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:23 AM
1

What this? like a online video course?
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:16 AM
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FR= "Field Report" On this subreddit we use the classic PUA acronyms to help better understand what happened when interacting with a girl. You can find more info in the sidebar. May I ask how old you are?
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:05 AM
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well I can't tell from your post, so you might want to do a FR to explain what happens. Just be present, but after post about it and we can help you figure out what you are doing that signals that you want LTR rather then just a Fuck Buddy or FWB relationship.
/r/seduction28/06/19 08:48 PM
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Many times you are sending off signals that you want a long term relationship. For example, you might be too emotionally supportive, too powerful or too needy and you will draw out a reaction from her, and attract women that only want to date someone with those personality qualities. If it's a casual thing, you actions have to be inline with that behavior. Remember to stop if you start being a boyfriend and not like a fuck buddy. Remember that pick up is supposed to be fun. So be sure to have it…
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:10 AM
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What kind of job do you have, I know how you feel. If you want to get over your shyness, just like when you want to lose weight, it's gonna have to take a lifestyle change. This is what is working for me. First, I am still working on this as well, one thing that you need is to get a customer service job, you can start at a grocery store (since they hire anybody) and do whatever you can to talk to the customers and add value to the store. If you can move to a barista, waiter or bartender job, whe…
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:51 AM
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This is some excellent beginner advice. One thing that I will need to remember is that: "Rejections can happen, run towards it rather then runaway from it." and "There is always another girl."
/r/seduction22/06/19 04:09 PM
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This is really good advice.. one thing that is hard for me is when I get a girl to like me.. I start crawling up into my head and start being my own worst enemy.. my last relationship that I ended up messing up I did this. One problem is that I am not approaching other girls, and making huge emotional choices, that are a result of neediness. Speaking to your "other awesome stuff" point, one thing I did do right, is when I was talking about something that I liked (the science behind coffee, I thi…
/r/seduction21/06/19 05:59 AM
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Still true though.. shrug
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:28 AM
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It sounds like you are college age... at this age we need to realize that the girls are still as nervous and excited to flirt with cute boys as you are to flirt with cute girls. I also need to remember this. cuz, when I do I worry less about the out come.
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:13 AM
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Here is the thing... pick up is supposed to be fun..
/r/seduction19/06/19 06:53 AM
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I think the starting point DOES matter. He is only 17, he is still High School Age, he has so much life ahead of him. He should also focus on High School and then college (if he chooses to go) and just do pick up as a side thing.
/r/seduction15/06/19 05:43 PM
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Because when you are 22 or younger, you haven't yet given yourself a chance to see if you ARE good with girls in the first place. Many people when they get out of the social facade that is the K-college system, they are finally able to relax and realize just the kind of power they really have to attract someone new. My advice for this person is to wait until he is at least 18 to start gaming. I mean you have the rest of your life to get good with girls. So just treat it like a hobby, that you do…
/r/seduction14/06/19 07:01 AM
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This is something that happens to me, she is clearly wanting to be alone with you, you see and you know this. You are also trying to sabotage your own success, by telling yourself that "you won't be successful" or "that you don't want or deserve success with women", don't worry I do this too. Here is what I do to get past this emotional lock and freeze up. I remember that: "As long as I am not a psychopath I deserve success with women." and Fuck It! "Spoken like a true gentlemen, right? Here's w…
/r/seduction10/06/19 07:38 AM
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I agree with this, I am getting out there and I got a soft and polite, no. I would rather get that then not approach at all.
/r/seduction08/06/19 06:32 AM
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This is why I suggest guys, with crippling AA (i.e. like me), get a job that forces you to socialize, like a Barista, or Bartender, or Waiter. It will force you to give everyone value and talk to everybody, if you are a super-introvert, it will retrain you out of your shyness and start to make you talkative to everybody. When I say crippling AA, I mean AA so bad it makes you want to cry... cuz you can't approach, it's that bad. Now that I have done one of these jobs, I can approach and talk to a…
/r/seduction04/06/19 08:56 AM
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I am not a natural, but I am a good looking guy and I get approached by attractive women. I think it's how good I look, how I dress and also my body language. It's nice but it's not all it's cracked up to be, when she assumes you are that high value, your mindset and behavior, has to be in line with that assumption. Or she will become disappointed very fast and leave. It's one thing that holds good looking guys back.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:53 PM
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I am the type of person that doesn't care about eye contact either, but I realize that when it comes to other people they care. Then I watched a youtube video with a aspie girl that works at Forever 21, she dealt with the same problem, and her hack was "look at someone's face" and that was all she needed to be successful. I can't find the video so I can't link it.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:20 AM
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My hack for that was not looking people in the eyes, buy in the face, and your eye will naturally meet theirs.
/r/seduction30/05/19 07:38 AM
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What is working for me is: thinking that it's cute she is being mean "for no reason". So I just tease and be playful, and "punish" her for chosing to be just SO SILLY. 😂😂😂 I might respond: " 'I swept wrong' Weird Flex but OK!! 👌👌 You are adorable though so it's fine. 👍👍👍" and if she dosen't respond, just move on. It's not worth it getting caught up on one girl (i.e. oneits). Sorry if this is formatted weird, I am still learning reddit mobile.
/r/seduction23/05/19 10:36 PM
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Good on ya man! Shit like this inspires me. It makes me want to do much better..
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 03:59 AM
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"#MeToo is going to change the world, our game, and make things harder." In reality nobody in the real world cares, except a small number of self-involved people on the internet. All this will do is, scare off the guys that have "respect" for women (i.e. fear) and scare them into not approaching, and empower "Creepy" and pushy guys (i.e. have very little empathy for women), who shaming tactics won't work on in the first place. If it does anything it will just make it easier for us, this will be …
/r/seduction17/05/19 08:44 AM
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cool welcome
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:36 PM
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I also struggle with this, your brain is working with really only 2 settings, and they are always fighting for control of your mind. Logical Emotional (Because your brain has two hemispheres.) You are sabotaging your own success, isn't a logical response, it's an emotional response. I do this also, and I am working on getting better with it. One thing that I have done is I will see 12 attractive girls and 1 fatty and I will approach the fatty, (Note: I am a good looking guy and think that fattie…
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:05 AM
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This is how I feel sometimes, do you have a job that forces you to be social? Like a waiter job, or barista, or bartender? Because for me to get past my approach anxiety I had to get one of those jobs, it forces you to be social and to talk to everybody, no matter if they are male or female. For AA as bad as mine and for shyness as bad as mine, just like when you want to loose a lot of weight, it takes a lifestyle change to be social and get over AA. My advice is: Get a customer service job, you…
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:36 AM
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I am not in college but, I live in a college town and the bars have TONS of college girls that go there. You can approach them there, and slowly get better. I have a feeling that with a huge state school like ASU, UCLA, USC etc. "That one girl from that one night" probably won't remember you when she sees you again, even if you did 'creep her out a little that one time' the best thing to do is to move on and approach other girls at a different bar. Also, Most college towns have TONS of bars you …
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:22 AM
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I still do this, it's about relaxing and remembering what step in the attraction formula you are in. I too attempt to sabotage my own success, it sucks.
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:40 PM
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IDK it seems to me that she was trying to "Qualify" herself to you... but also seems like she was drunk at a bar,
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:22 PM
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Social media seems to feed into these people's natural narcissism
/r/PussyPass01/04/19 03:32 AM
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Your problem is that you are being too emotional, and you are letting your feelings in the drivers seat, what you need to do is STOP, BREATH and start to become logical again. This is also the problem with someone that is suffering from AA, that is simply an example. In this case you are talking too much and not using the tone control that you need to seduce someone.
/r/seduction09/03/19 07:23 AM
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For me, when stuff like this happens I try to 'stop and breath', that helps break the emotional thinking that limits me. Remember this about emotional thinking: "Seduction is nothing more than an overload of your emotional brain and a deficit or a weakness in your logical brain. Your emotional brain and logical brain don’t typically work together. Instead, they’re almost always fighting over control of the brain’s resources. When your emotional brain is in control, you make emotional decisions. …
/r/seduction09/03/19 06:55 AM
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Has anybody actually read this book? I mean I have to know if it actually says that.
/r/PussyPass25/02/19 03:41 AM
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I liked this one, pretty normal nothing hard to believe and something that could have happened. "sometimes girls are just horny and need you to be persistent without being needy to get past their ASD" Something similar happened to me, I had a nice date with a girl and we went back to my place for a "nap" and to finish up her meal in a to go box, I knew we were going to have sex, and she knew it to. I got the idea to watch a movie and cuddle, and when we were laying in bed, I tried to make a move…
/r/seduction05/02/19 09:07 PM
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LOL... I don't use Tinder but I get the impression that it is a very superficial website.
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:04 PM
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I commented: Thanks Bobby this really was helpful!! 6:08 and 7:14 I like what he said about doing something that is not you, to become a better you. For example if you follow Mystery Method Super Religiously, by the book, with the hats, the jewelry and boots and nail polish. What you are really doing is becoming Mystery, the problem is, that you are not Mystery and Mystery is not you. become someone that is not you, you might have to become Mystery. Later, once you have it down, you will have to…
/r/seduction13/01/19 05:34 AM
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There you go! If that's true then you don't have much to worry about then!
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:05 AM
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"I feel like I can't even do seduction because this event has caused me to just be bitter and negative." First off, no one will take you seriously until you are 35 so don't worry about "wasting your time" you can always go back to school anytime, even at 50!! "The school was 99% dudes, there was no college life at all (no clubs or greek life)" "I feel like the fact I didn't have a college experience" As far as the is concerned "College Experience" I wouldn't worry about it, if you are 18-26 year…
/r/seduction10/10/18 05:45 AM
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My relaxation with women comes from, the fact that I socializing with everybody, not just men not just women, but everybody! Like Making cute faces at the babies, :O for example. I grew this muscle because I worked a Coffee Shop customer service job where you are supposed to talk to everybody, and I knew that would help with dating. I mean I know that if I can relax I can do it, even with the Supermodel girl with her Supermodel friends in the VIP section of the night club. Even with limited expe…
/r/seduction09/10/18 04:45 PM
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Good, if you are too hard on yourself then, you won't get anywhere.
/r/seduction09/10/18 06:55 AM
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That could be a test. ​ Double down on flirting and push/pull.
/r/seduction09/10/18 06:52 AM
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Cut yourself some slack, we all have to start somewhere.
/r/seduction09/10/18 06:51 AM
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That could be a test, that is when you double down on flirting and push/pull. ​ You have to start taking those interactions over again.
/r/seduction09/10/18 06:49 AM
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Well I literally couldn't tell if a girl liked me or how much a girl liked me until I started studying this stuff. ​ At least now I know and will never allow myself to make such a glaring mistake again.
/r/seduction09/10/18 06:48 AM
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My response to this: "It's OK. I understand, but it's good to know that I you are thinking about sex with me." But the last girl that did this to me was a drug addict so I didn't escalate. It's not about just getting laid, it's about having standards.
/r/seduction04/08/18 03:08 AM
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LOL I have looked around and said (Cocky Funny:) "I don't see him back there." That got a cute laugh, so that is a good sign.
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:28 AM
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I still approach women that are "not my type" good practice and good killing of Approach Anxiety. I am just trying to grow my skills, and get better, always trying to get better.
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:26 AM
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Feminists at the end of the day, are still women, women with a personality disorder, but still women.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:45 AM
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Nah, it's just when a movie or TV show wants to portray a character as creepy, it shows them with far TOO open body language. This might be an issue of trial and error for me and you. My current mindset for this is, "I find you interesting" and not "I need to get to know you."
/r/seduction03/07/18 07:59 AM
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I think it's a autism issue. IDK if I have autism but i would make sense.
/r/seduction01/07/18 10:30 AM
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"Whats the difference between holding eye contact and staring?" Neediness and positive body language, anytime a movie wants to portray a man as creepy, he always shows WAY TOO MUCH positive body language. Think friendly, but not MEGA frendly. I am still working on this one.
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:11 AM
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When it comes to eye contact and a, to me, BS alpha stair down I have never related to the boxers wisdom. I can stair for hours until the other person looks away not ever having known that I intimated that guy.
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:08 AM
1

You can build, non-verbal attraction, with eye contact and subtle face movements. Also you can build intimacy for a nice F-close. Before I found the seduction community i discovered an easy way to create an IOI: It was my 17th birthday lunch with my mother, (I don't like Birthday parties, I like small lunches with friends and family) we had ordered and our food was about to come out and (I drank a little too much soda so) I had to go to the bathroom. (This is a new place, I didn't know where the…
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:32 AM
1

Oh, I agree, I just simplified for the sake of brevity.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 02:34 AM
2

One thing I realized a while ago, about Milo, is that he is only useful to piss off feminists, out side of that none of his opinions are very intelligent. While, I think feminists hate men and are toxic to equality, I can't in good conscious support the people that are almost just as bad for men's rights, that being the conservatives. Feminists will, Think all women are weak and ban men from certain areas because all men are monsters and can't be trusted. Conservatives will, Think all women are …
/r/MensRights23/02/17 06:44 AM
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It was at the same event... That has happened at multiple MRA talks not just that one.
/r/MensRights05/11/16 11:22 PM
1

I may disagree with Milo on almost all topics... but the fact that he russels feminists jimmies makes it all worth it. :)
/r/MensRights05/11/16 11:07 PM
2

I don't like that smack talk and I never liked it... but I can see why LOT of boys do.. eh I don't really care that much.
/r/MensRights18/10/16 01:10 AM
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it makes me want to cry with joy! seeing something so beautiful.
/r/MGTOW18/10/16 01:05 AM
5

Hey they hate people telling them this almost as much as they hate all men.
/r/MGTOW18/10/16 12:47 AM
3

the only time men ever critique other men (or even care) is when men ask for it.
/r/MensRights17/10/16 11:53 PM
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Relevant.
/r/MensRights17/10/16 08:12 PM
1

Yeah, it is important to let her know you like her. But It's even more important for her to get a clean break. you can easily recover from a scenario where you "got off on the wrong foot" but next to impossible to recover from a scenario where she is "still in love with her ex". Just saying.
/r/seduction13/10/16 06:08 PM
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My question is: Do you guys say that you have studied this to your friends? like he did?
/r/seduction11/10/16 06:42 AM
2

feminist policies have lead to DNA tests not even mattering.
/r/MGTOW06/10/16 10:08 PM
5

Former "nice guy" here, When I was in High School I heard from girls, that all a girl wants is to: "Date her best friend." and I was this one girl's "Best Friend" (as far as I can tell I was one of her closest male friends) and she didn't show me that same affection that I showed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:30 PM
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It is probably an emotional position.
/r/MGTOW03/10/16 11:35 AM
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They do care, but anything that is remotely positively male, must be stopped. It might just be there hatred of men.
/r/MGTOW27/09/16 03:28 PM
2

game works, I have used it. and game goes a lot farther then r/socialskills. There is a lot of sub communication that needs to be done that makes seduction work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 04:20 AM
5

and wasn't that subreddit created BY feminists?
/r/MensRights23/09/16 04:37 PM
4

I am sure feminists will still find a way to reject that evidence in court rooms too.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/16 12:39 AM
2

The thing about hitting back.... I wouldn't suggest it... feminist have constituted the laws to say, basically, if you hit her back that means you deserve 25 years in prison, even though she is the one that abuses you and not the other way around. :(
/r/MensRights15/09/16 09:13 AM
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I think the point is that she DID think slapping (really abusing) someone when they make you mad was a good thing and that this idea was perpetuated in the media (i.e. movie, tv shows etc.). and when she saw how it effected her boyfriend she stopped. Also she doesn't want that perpetuated in the media any more, because she saw how it effected her and concluded that it must effect other people in the same way too.
/r/MensRights15/09/16 09:09 AM
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the fact that we even have to state that I think is telling. and what do feminists do about this?.... try to erase any evidence that it happens at all. :(
/r/MensRights15/09/16 09:01 AM
2

If that's OK then Brock Turner only getting 3 months in prison is A-OK too!
/r/MGTOW14/09/16 10:18 PM
1

The thing about the hot chick from that video is that she IS a total bitch. I mean she told another girl, she hope her son dies. Video. Tweet. So maybe there is something to that "Attention whore" claim?
/r/seduction13/09/16 12:40 AM
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Even if we lived in the society I would like to see (a libertarian socialist society, where men are no longer disposable, Domestic Violence against them is taken seriously etc.) I would still critique the things that I find disagreeable.
/r/MensRights12/09/16 01:10 AM
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I have seem some mentally handicapped adults that haven't been taught not to touch other people tickle people for fun.
/r/MensRights11/09/16 10:52 PM
1

Yeah comparing Peter Kropotkin to Milton Friedman is kind of a sad joke.
/r/MensRights11/09/16 10:50 PM
1

Just a projection of there insecurities.
/r/MensRights11/09/16 10:27 PM
1

I actually know people that have a kind of Tickling fetish, so I guess you can say.. that once again feminists are against sexual expression.
/r/MensRights11/09/16 10:13 PM
6

Male disposability shows its ugly face again.
/r/MGTOW07/09/16 12:25 PM
1

Here are some books I suggest. https://www.amazon.com/Get-Guy-Learn-Secrets-Deserve/dp/0062241753/ https://www.amazon.com/Its-Your-Move-Play-Game-ebook/dp/B007ZFPIFK They are both great!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 01:17 PM
0

I don't see what is wrong with that.
/r/MGTOW03/09/16 08:13 PM
2

When I heard that, it was from feminists and it didn't make sense ... the girl that put me in the friend zone was sending me ALL the right signals and I had fallen in love with her as a result. I didn't want to have sex with her I rather wanted to be her boyfriend.
/r/MGTOW03/09/16 08:12 PM
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I don't think feminists like that guy see women as sexual objects, they see them as even less then that...
/r/MGTOW03/09/16 08:09 PM
1

I addressed this comment over here: where I re-posted my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 08:00 AM
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u/gavinok the point of this post isn't to debate if what feminists proclaim is a rape epidemic is true or not Remember that the point of this subreddit is to: "discuss/debate sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill." what is the real cause? I am trying to say, these type of incidents, are not found really outside frats and wild frat/college parties. There are no stories of nerds raping a girl in the computer room. Computer Nerds generally aren't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 07:55 AM
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u/gavinok said this in replay to an old verson of this comment that was deleted: the point of this post isn't to debate if what feminists proclaim is a rape epidemic is true or not, but given what they are reporting, what is the real cause. I am trying to say, these type of incidents, are not found really outside frats and wild frat/college parties. There are no stories of nerds raping a girl in the computer room, or some guy groping a girls breasts in the middle of a lecture in college. Edit: l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 06:55 AM
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89% of sexual assault victims are intoxicated or drunk This number is hard to pindown because the definition of rape changes depending on the source. Many use the correct Department of Justice standard. others use the biased FBI's (males not included because feminists wanted it that way), others use the low CDC's standard that inflates the numbers. According to this video's sources, many of the college sexual assault cases are up in the air (i.e. 50/50 chance it was consensual) many of these cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 06:50 AM
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They may just need to update the website. :(
/r/MensRights30/08/16 03:08 PM
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I don't think the idea that: "he got lucky is a very good argument." I think showing that feminists are the ones that hid evidence and they are the ones that try to silence anybody that says men can be victims too, is a better thing to show that men get the short end of the stick when it comes to rape.
/r/MensRights25/08/16 11:48 PM
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Hi shoe! I love your vids, they inspire me to make my own. But I want to know if you support Title IX? (I don't) and why? If you don't will you support repealing title IX?
/r/MensRights13/08/16 04:32 AM
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IDK, but is should be legal to fondle woman who is shirtless and in the same scenario as that guy.
/r/MensRights11/08/16 05:06 AM
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My butt does not hurt.
/r/MensRights07/08/16 02:33 AM
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Yes, i mean commented, something middle of the road that is commented gets the commenter permanently banned. This happens a lot.
/r/MensRights07/08/16 01:37 AM
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No, most middle of the road things I see get posted, get banned.
/r/MensRights07/08/16 12:40 AM
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No, just /r/The_Donald's users are just that stupid.
/r/MensRights07/08/16 12:06 AM
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I don't think that /r/The_Donald's users can even turn on a computer.
/r/MensRights06/08/16 11:34 PM
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Here is an important lesson: the introduction phase should be VERY playful almost child like, the longer the interaction. the less childlike/playful and the more serious.
/r/seduction06/08/16 02:07 AM
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Here is an important lesson: the introduction phase should be VERY playful almost child like, the longer the interaction. the less childlike/playful and more serious.
/r/seduction06/08/16 02:07 AM
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In these senarios, I would leave the country and never come back.
/r/MGTOW29/07/16 06:56 AM
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It makes sense women don't want to be leaders in a relationship it is just too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 01:32 AM
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I doubt that will ever happen, I don't think women will easily give up there place of privilege in the dating market. I mean just look at how they kick, scream and throw a temper tantrum, when you say that "yes means yes" laws are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 01:20 AM
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While I don't think there was a big crime that bad was committed, there is still a power imbalance present. With that said if a male teacher had sex with there 16 year old student, that is very similar to this, I still wouldn't think a huge crime was committed. but, only one of them will get a slap on the wrist... can you guess which one it will be?
/r/MensRights28/07/16 03:53 PM
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I would agree with you but I believe in higher standards for women. I don't think they are children that should just loose control of their emotions for any reason. I know about "frame control" I don't think that its a good thing, your reactions to somebody shouldn't be leveraged on their subconscious opinions of you or based on a flowchart of cheap tricks to navigate their real subconscious desires.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 07:41 AM
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Yeah, a lot of PUA stuff, from a few years ago, that many guys still use, is about being more of a "social robot" and its hard for them to function out side of trying to pick up chicks. It is important to remember that their is more to life then having sex with copious amounts of attractive women, i.e. having friends, hobbies, education etc. The stuff that is coming out now is more about have a great social life and great friends, so you DO have someone to game with and travel with and have craz…
/r/seduction26/07/16 10:00 PM
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no, I still think women are smart enough to control their emotions, they are not children after all.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:39 PM
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No but I get mad when they jump on the counter and grab it and I train my pet to NOT do that, even if that is something deeply ingrained it doesn't men it is a hard and fast rule.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 07:38 PM
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If you do any number of those things, it might hurt you worse, she could go to the police lie, about Domestic Violence, rape or any number of things that could hurt you as bad as she thought you hurt her. Never dating someone like that is the only solution to that problem I see.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:48 PM
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I would agree with you but I believe in higher standards for women. I don't think they are children that should just loose control of their emotions for any reason. and I know about "frame control" I don't think that its a good thing, your reactions to somebody shouldn't be leveraged on their subconscious opinions of you or based on a flowchart of cheap tricks to navigate their real subconscious desires.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:29 PM
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I know many women that will get WORSE if you don't submit and agree with them. "That's sad that men feel they need to say sorry for nothing. Sorry but I want my man to challenge me and stand up for himself if I'm being psycho, cause I know I can be sometimes. Let your man be a man, ladies. My man loves and respects me, but he also has a mind of his own and I would not have him any other way." and this comment, is almost worse. I mean, can't you control your OWN emotions? Or are you that immature…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 04:39 PM
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Some of the comments are basically: "This is misogynistic because it shows the reality that women are insecure and must have their often times irrational opinions constantly validated." Some of them are a little more aware that this is a part of a non-healthy relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 04:35 PM
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She's a porn star and THIS is the most degrading thing she has ever done?
/r/MGTOW23/07/16 07:18 PM
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Yeah I would tell my friends this story and laugh about it. Don't let this fuck up define you. Other things seemed fine for a newbie. have fun with it.
/r/seduction23/07/16 12:13 PM
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I would rather have Ivanka. When I see her giving a Bullshit speech about how her father isn't racist or sexist. You can see her facial expressions when she says these things, she knows they are lies and she can't hide that even SHE doesn't believe them. That signals to me that she isn't completely morally bankrupt and that she has a conscious that is good. I first noticed this when she was interviewed with her father, step mother and all her brothers and sisters on stage. She can't hide the fac…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 07:24 AM
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Someone commented about the "roles being reversed"
/r/MGTOW18/07/16 03:11 PM
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Well I have good new for you! Someone already did! XD link.
/r/MGTOW18/07/16 03:10 PM
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Well I have good new for you! Someone did! XD Here.
/r/MGTOW18/07/16 03:09 PM
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I have good news and bad news! First the good news: Yes you can be still attractive to women! :) Now the bad news: It always looks better to be fit. here are two products that are good. Adonis Golden Ratio for $37 good for gym work. DDP yoga for many prices depending the package fun! and useful to lose weight with. and one for clothing. 51 Handsome Guy Secrets for $47 With that said image is NOT the most important thing, your personal social skills and development is WAY more important. With col…
/r/seduction05/07/16 11:02 PM
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great breakdown! I have down this before.
/r/seduction05/07/16 04:57 AM
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Here is the majority "assertion" source. This infographic shows that men are 63% of Domestic Violence (DV) victims. Here is a good summary of the source: Men Shouldn't Be Overlooked as Victims of Partner Violence
/r/MensRights02/07/16 10:37 PM
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It doesn't matter to to her that women are the majority of abusers.
/r/MensRights02/07/16 02:38 PM
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FINALLY!
/r/MensRights02/07/16 02:30 PM
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"This movie will fail for the same reason Trump is succeeding." Conservative votes are dumb, is why Trump is "succeeding" not because conservative voters are tired of being called racist.
/r/MensRights02/07/16 02:26 PM
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Good job! baby steps are good for hard case newbies like us.
/r/seduction29/06/16 09:08 AM
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I commented: "Your story fell apart, that is why nobody likes you and nobody believes you." Here: Liar Liar
/r/MensRights27/06/16 03:22 PM
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Yeah talk to everybody!! Boys, Girls, Men, Women, Children and look them in the eyes and try to give value. Example: I befriended a bike shop owner by telling him i liked his shop and how it looked and he says he would help me out if I needed things. Stuff like that, but to everybody this will help you socialize and get used to talking to people not just women.
/r/seduction26/06/16 09:37 AM
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Bahahaha!! The only way to make a first-world country a third-world country is to enact free market policies.
/r/MensRights26/06/16 02:07 AM
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Do you want kids in the Future? Some of us are considering vasectomies but still want kids in the future.
/r/MGTOW25/06/16 12:53 PM
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I personally know stories EXACTLY like this.
/r/MGTOW25/06/16 05:03 AM
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I was reading "no more mr. nice guy" and many of the opinion he holds are inverted and backwards of the truth.
/r/seduction22/06/16 08:08 AM
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I have no problem that she wanted a divorce, my problem is that feminists have given women the power to take half of men's hardened money to somebody who isn't involved in the relationship anymore. I think that is wrong.
/r/MGTOW17/06/16 10:16 PM
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This is what Christian Hoff Sommers believe's in An American Enterprise Video here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 08:05 AM
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I think this might have more to do with having low-self esteem, or low confidence. Remember, The idea is to have fun, if you are not having fun she won't have any fun. And I think that PUA Cajun's idea about inner game is great! "How do I know when I am attractive to women?... I already am."
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:44 PM
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Great post! I like that you can talk about a complex idea and boil it down to simple words. I happen to agree, men have to risk when they approach, and if women approached they would have to risk the same rejection. But, I think dating a high status guy is also playing it safe if you date a guy that has his shit in order, you won't have to worry about you children or yourself being taken care of. Ultimately, I think we are both looking out for what is best for the both of us. Thanks for the post…
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:32 PM
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My advice to is slow down you talking.... Any good coach will tell you that if you slow down that will give you more time to think of what to say and in your head you are talking faster then you think. (This is taken from classes on public seeking)
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:25 PM
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Also Watch the TV show MAS*H any season. The banter between Hawkeye and Trapper or Hawkeye and Honey Cut is some of the best masterclass banter I can find.
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:22 PM
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This episode heavily criticized the Feminist movement in politics as well. Yes, they come out and say they will protest "I hope you like pie", but then are completely silent afterwards, but saying it was heavier on MRA, who gives a fuck, it's a comedy in one respect, objectively you can say it was slightly heavier handed with the mocking, (mostly because of the westboro style signs... lol) but the round table with he women against feminism agreeing with the guy, who then says "I don't need your …
/r/MensRights11/02/15 09:10 PM
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That is also a great technique for getting out of the friend zone with a girl with a BF.
/r/seduction15/01/15 06:39 PM
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Naaah! He Paaarked his caaaah in da haaarvaad yaaard
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:12 AM
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I am just waiting for Datingskillsreview.com to do a review of it, and they will say if it great or lame.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:42 PM
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You needed to increase attraction more, and then try again later.
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:33 AM
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I think if you take charge then we will respect you more I meant to say the SHE will respect you more.
/r/seduction04/01/15 08:00 AM
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If you want a natural game guide, that is a great one but some of the concepts are very limiting. and by that I mean many of the ideas of PUA seduction techniques are outdated. the ones on this subreddit are too, I mean the game in this subreddit is based on Mystery Method. and the criticism of PUA in that book is clearly based on mystery method. even though the PUA/seduction community has come so far from that.
/r/seduction04/01/15 06:38 AM
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I totally agree! but I don't tell or describe a very physically attractive girl as "Beautiful". a very attractive girl to me is not just cute on the outside, but cool and amazing on the inside! and a woman has to be earn it from me to be called "Beautiful". Calling Amazing on the inside and the outside women also cuts down on confusion when you talk about the extremely high value women
/r/seduction04/01/15 06:09 AM
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"If I talk with someone about my decision, which one would include the most interesting story?" Very interesting! I will have to try that! Great Story Bro!
/r/seduction04/01/15 05:00 AM
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I think you should have made that decision. "we Will get together for supper and a movie at my place Wednesday." and by that i mean don't be a dick and put emphasis on the WILL. just say after she says yes to the date, "For our date we will get together for supper and a movie at my place Wednesday." I think if you take charge then we will respect you more. ~~~~ With that said she sounds like the type that might be a little too needy, so keep that in mind.
/r/seduction04/01/15 05:00 AM
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"If I talk with someone about my decision, which one would include the most interesting story?" Very interesting! I will have to try that! Great Story Bro!
/r/seduction04/01/15 04:48 AM
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"If I talk with someone about my decision, which one would include the most interesting story?" Very interesting! I will have to try that! Great Story Bro!
/r/seduction04/01/15 04:48 AM
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"If I talk with someone about my decision, which one would include the most interesting story?" Very interesting! I will have to try that! Great Story Bro!
/r/seduction04/01/15 04:48 AM
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"If I talk with someone about my decision, which one would include the most interesting story?" Very interesting! I will have to try that! Great Story Bro!
/r/seduction04/01/15 04:48 AM
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"If I talk with someone about my decision, which one would include the most interesting story?" Very interesting! I will have to try that! Great Story Bro!
/r/seduction04/01/15 04:48 AM
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"If I talk with someone about my decision, which one would include the most interesting story?" Very interesting! I will have to try that! Great Story Bro!
/r/seduction04/01/15 04:47 AM
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If you want a good video about "Nice Guys" and the video that got me in to the PUA community. From Men's Rights Activist Karen Straughan About the society the creates them what is going down when they like a girl. Plz Check it out! I think you will like it!
/r/seduction30/12/14 04:45 PM
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I would suggest anyone under the legal age, simply because you will go to jail otherwise.
/r/seduction30/12/14 01:09 AM
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Good on yeah, the program features a tailor made system of exercises and meal plans or your body type, which exercises to do and how to do them.
/r/seduction30/12/14 12:34 AM
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Baby Steps my friend! Baby Steps! and I am glad that you are finding your way through. What exercise are you doing? I suggest that you check out Adonis Golden Ratio Many in the PUA community say its very good! For getting into shape.
/r/seduction29/12/14 06:22 PM
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One of the point in that book says that Nice Guys Hate Women. That is when i realized the book sucks, and was not going to help me.
/r/seduction29/12/14 05:17 PM
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The only thing I think i would add on is that when it comes to Nice Guys they show a lot of interest. They just don't show it in the right ways, like we talk about here. and I wouldn't suggest "No more mister nice guy" it will just make you insecure and make it just that much harder to relate to other people.
/r/seduction29/12/14 06:32 AM
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That was a test! I would just laugh! I am not the kind that does anything illegal! and I look it. But I might have said something like: Her: You don't give off the vibe that I do anything crazy or illegal. Me: (playfully) Is that what you like? Her: (doesn't matter) Me: (shout out loud! and point to her. playful teasing her.) Looks like we got a gangster over here!
/r/seduction19/12/14 06:59 AM
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sup
/r/seduction19/12/14 06:33 AM
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Thanks for the heads up! I will have yet another thing to read!
/r/seduction19/12/14 05:27 AM
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Because some guy whistled at them on the street The last comment was best!
/r/MensRights17/11/14 02:52 PM
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Link to the article just in case! Let's Not Forget About The Fashionable Men On Instagram
/r/MensRights16/11/14 10:00 PM
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Prefix: I am not an MRA, I am not a PUA, I have only studied dating advice for personal reasons. I still like the MRM I think is has a much better view on Equality then Feminists do. and I thought is was helpful if I noted this here. On a website run by PUAs that reviews PUA products/dating advice (ebooks, audios, video series etc.) to see which ones suck and which ones rock, for people who want to pick up chicks, have a relationship or improve themselves. They just posted a link to books that a…
/r/MensRights08/09/14 06:04 AM
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I have to admit that your comment and observation made me laugh, but I disagree, I think the entire reason that actor is famous is not because of how badly all the females want to fuck him it is more general, they are famous because the mass appeal that they have. Take My idol George Clooney, he has mass appeal the the women, as a "lady's man" and appeal to men as a "man's man", you would be right if men in general want to have sex with Clooney, but I don't I just want to be friends with him.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 07:17 AM
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Sure.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 06:53 AM
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He Said that he is an MRA in his video "who is objectifying laci green?" to find it at the 48 min. 45 sec. mark at this link here. He also said that on his youtube channel here. I suggest that you watch the full video if you didn't already, is a great video of RazorBladeKandy verbally slapping Laci Green's Ass. You commented: could someone tell me why they are "disillusioned with the Laci Green level of ridged consent?" here this a direct quote from the article. Moreover, their protestations are…
/r/MensRights23/06/14 06:53 AM
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"he is the very embodiment of the fat neckbeard nerdy white night stereotype." I have to admit that quote this made me laugh out loud. I somewhat agree, While he doesn't think that he is very insightful, I do learn a little about what hipsters love. Even if I don't like hipsters very much.
/r/MensRights14/06/14 07:30 AM
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Congratz! on the views! I want to see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9XDb0nxSO4 hit half a million views!
/r/MensRights19/05/14 08:42 PM
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If they walk in the opposite direction, look them in the eyes and smile, and keep staring if they don't break eye contact keep staring as you turn your head, when your head is as far to the side as it can go stop walking and turn around, facing her and wait until one of you says something. Note: for day game only.
/r/seduction07/05/14 09:49 AM
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Here is a one dollar deal, Here Click it!
/r/seduction02/05/14 02:03 AM
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I think that writer should really and truly be honest with what they want. If you don't know, try dating the nice guy, it might be a lot of work, you might have to play the male gender role (Strong, put your partner in a place where they can feel) you might not like that, because male gender role players have to do most of the heavy lifting, in the relationship, you might realize that the nice guy is too much work. You might have to do most of the leading in the relationship and less of the feel…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 05:58 AM
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Very good advice about being nice/sweet! you can still be nice just in the right ways, and the take charge advice is really good, that is one think to learn about being a nice guy, and making it work in dating life, taking charge.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:11 PM
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A very great post!!!! I love it I wish I could up vote it more!!! You are 100% right!!! It seems that feminists, don't understand how the different genders attract the opposite sex. But I went a different way on this one, I actually joined the seduction community rather then becoming a MRA. Thanks for the post! But this is one of the best post on the subject! but I think that the best video is Girl Writes What Here
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 12:50 PM
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I Disagree! I found that there was a Red Pill to swallow when I was in the friendzone, looking for remedies, that is where I found the video "Look out! It's a Nice Guy! DESTROY HIM!!11!" By Girls Writes What (karen straughan) She talks about how the Scott character, and many friendzone guys, are told by our feminized society, to be these passive type guys, which is what women want, which is what many feminists say that they want. Here is a comic that prepetuates that lie. So, I think that if you…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 12:35 PM
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I think this may be addressing "Coffee shop" feminists or Insane Radical Tumblr feminists. But what some feminists say they want is for men to be more sensitive and break from that tough male genderoll. but they don't want to acknowledge real societal problems, for men.
/r/MensRights08/03/14 06:24 AM
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I have bought it, and Dating Skills review dot com has a good fair review of it, Here. My Opinion is that it is good, but lacks infield application, I got it for the large community for tips and the bonus E-books, and videos. "Never Get Cheated On": A Good Guide about how to manage, a relationship and keep her satisfied in the right ways so she doesn't cheat on you. "How to Break Up Like a Man": A good guide to breaking up and making sure you leave the girl in as good condition or better conditi…
/r/seduction26/02/14 08:15 AM
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I have bought it, and Dating Skills review dot com has a good fair review of it, Here. My Opinion is that it is good, but lacks infield application, I got it for the large community for tips and the bonus E-books, and videos. "Never Get Cheated On": A Good Guide about how to manage, a relationship and keep her satisfied in the right ways so she doesn't cheat on you. "How to Break Up Like a Man": A good guide to breaking up and making sure you leave the girl in as good condition or better conditi…
/r/seduction26/02/14 07:43 AM
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There are several great product about sexual skills, many in the seduction (a.k.a. P.U.A.) community suggest. Here is a link to a website that reviews these products http://www.datingskillsreview.com/sexual-skills/
/r/MensRights21/02/14 07:07 PM
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How laid are we talking? starting to tip my fedora Which Uni/college?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 05:22 PM
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That is perfect where did you find it?
/r/MensRights29/12/13 04:12 PM
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