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Restaurant seduction

meogdon

July 31, 2021

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Title	Restaurant seduction
Author	meogdon
Upvotes	8
Comments	65
Date	July 31, 2021 3:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ov03u8/restaurant_seduction/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/restaurant-seduction.1279267 https://theredarchive.com/post/1279267

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This! A million times over.

Don’t ever waste YOUR precious time on a maybe.

I went out in a lark the other night to an old hangout. It was bikini competition night. I was alone btw. Sat there and chatted people up. Girls, guys I didn’t care. Just looking social and approachable.

Went up to bar for a beer. Two of the contest girls. Giving me a very obvious ((young people are so funny when they think they are slick) check out look. I ignore them (no direct look so they think I didn’t see). Order a beer. One next to me says what do they have here. I call the very female (stacked) bartender by name (ALWAYS be in a first name basis with the staff of your hunting grounds - it enables instant trust that you are safe and not a creep) and ask what kind of IPA ‘s she has (I know but the gal had asked so I played dumb and friendly). She tells me. I turn briefly and ask her which she likes. She tells me. I order her one “on my tab Jess!”

I’m gonna skip the other details it’s getting long. She is nearly half my age and I was fucking her in my car a little over an hour later.

If it’s gonna happen, it will happen THEN!

I have a rule that is like the three date rule for women.

I will give them three shots to give it up. First date is always an option to quit it though if it’s obviously a waste of time. But understand (I’m in the US - it’s different elsewhere) that women here have weird morals driven into them about good girl vs slut. So a lot won’t give it up on date one or two just on general principle. That’s fine.

But if by date three you aren’t leaving early from whatever you are doing so that she can ride you like Secretariat, I’m usually out early and off to plan B - head to a familiar spot to find what’s available to make up for wasted time.

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You did read where I stated “every girl” right?

I’m not a braggart or a liar. I’m posting to simply offer some benefit to everyone from my life experience.

Without exception every initial meetup or later one where the woman brought up a walk or hike I was fucking her on location the minute we were in a place she felt comfortable.

I have a regular FWB that I meet at a local nudist area (her suggestion - we have gone to her place, mine and hotels many times) and fuck out in the open by the river.

The first time she was nervous because she’s a recovering alcoholic and had never done this stuff sober. But the second my dock was in her she forgot about the people around us.

Like I said, all women - ALL WOMEN - no matter how shy or introverted have an inherent and natural need to show. It is genetic. They cannot help it. I have been with shy little wallflowers that let me get them off in the middle of a club. They all have that instinctive need to show and it comes out at different levels and with different society influence dictating how “out there” they get.

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If you go to a restaurant or wherever it is, best thing to do is not overthink and be yourself.

The less you think, the more you will relax, the more you relax the more you will be able to enjoy, the more you enjoy, chances are the other person will enjoy too.

One issue with dating tips, is people take them like instructions and start to behave robotically, that does come awkward and puts pressure on people, something like stage pressure.

So just do the following, trust yourself that you are a good catch.

Let the date go out of your control,, go with the flow, and try to share your emotions. If you are anxious mention it. Your date is a partner supposed to help you make this moment nice, its not like the date is resting on your shoulders, so many people feel the date solely rely on their shoulders, it takes 2 to tango, it takes 2 hands to clap and it takes 2 to date

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Sounds like you're being set up as a "free meal". Cop a squat in the park. Meet at a book store. Coffee shop. There's plenty of venues where you can sit that don't involve providing a meal. It rings suspicious because attraction has everything to do with feelings and fuckall to do with semantics. A woman who is attracted to you will sit next to you in a dumpster filled with shit if she enjoys your company. When she starts making demands before you've actually built her attraction she's testing you, trying to get a "feel" for what sort of man you are. Can i control him? Will he push back and stand up to me? Can i get a free meal out of him? All of which leads to: do i respect him? Get back to her and say a meal is off the table and you want to keep it casual since you don't know if you two will connect or not. BTW this is another reason no meals on first date; you sit down and start eating only to get two bites in and she says she's a nazi or has a husband or 10 kids or... a million other red flags. Pro tip: women aren't susceptible to romance until after being fed.

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