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Outer Game loofyd/r/seduction05/12/21 01:50 PM
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this is the next step right ? i need to get a date first, correct ? i feel scared to cold approach and have never gone on a date i presume this escalation part is ONLY when i have a date, correct ? and u/hunterpua, thanks for these posts - you are very helpful in guiding me !
/r/seduction28/07/23 02:01 PM
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thanks buddy, i will try to check it out my only problem is that, in such context, i feel very hesitant to make a move since i think that if i go for a meet up event, it is very bad to ask a girl out there, since the context of that event is not dating but something else, something professional this really kills me from inside
/r/seduction21/06/23 11:45 AM
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i am not interested in taking advice from a girl
/r/seduction20/06/23 02:38 PM
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Dude you put a lot of thought into this As i said, i have been here for quite a while and i have been trying to sincerely learn seduction i had female friends in another country, but i am in a new country now and even though i managed to make friends here, the situation is a bit different here i was living in campus before, now i work in an office environment - not too many chances to meet new girls so don't really know what to do .. P.S : i am in a really nice, western and modern country - hope…
/r/seduction20/06/23 02:32 PM
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Who composed this? i wrote this from memory i have sincerely tried to learn how to seduce women but some difficult times in life have greatly hampered me from doing so .. i really wish to get out of the rut feeling
/r/seduction20/06/23 02:30 PM
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Just masturbate that's bs
/r/seduction20/06/23 02:27 PM
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rub and tug what's this ?
/r/seduction19/06/23 08:30 PM
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ah .. if only i was psychic ! i wish i was brave enough to ask more girls out .. i asked a few girls out who i knew in January 2023 .. its funny how that time was the best time of my dating life i NEVER went on a date, but i felt happy that i asked other girls out .. now i just feel dead
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:58 PM
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i remembered a few more ! Man to Woman interaction - make sure you DON'T give any platonic vibes ! you're not there to teach her some language or subject. You are NOT her business partner. Keep it non-platonic.. if she is being non-compliant, walk away ! no need to waste energy / effort on time wasters ! Walking away is a great and powerful tool ! women normally do not expect men to walk away from them, so walking away is in fact a very powerful option you can exercise on women being too difficu…
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:55 PM
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just find someone as needy as you xD well .. how will i know if a girl is needy ? lul
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:39 PM
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Are you talking to any girls at the moment? not really, i am stressed with some work and some other stuff in life - trying to get it all under control in the next 2 weeks so that i can calm down more to find the right emotional setup to approach girls Is your notch count low? yes, its dismal , since i have never seduced a girl - so effectively my notch count is 0 Don't be shy, man. We're all here to help each other. thank you so much , i have been extremely fidgety about the topic of sex and sed…
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:33 PM
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You say you're not a virgin. it's too sensitive to disclose publicly, i dm'ed you about this
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:17 PM
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i don't want to die alone :'(
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:11 PM
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how do i learn to act ..
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:10 PM
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How long have you been on this sub? i am ashamed to say that i have been here for 2 + years now .. And how long have you been trying to talk to/get girls? since Feb 2021 i have become serious about game / seduction and started believing in this principle you suggestions and advice are highly appreciated now that i am in a more liberal country, i can be more adventurous with women - so please don't hesitate to suggest anything that require me to go out and apply those processes to women thanks ma…
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:04 PM
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i am not trying at all :'(
/r/seduction19/06/23 02:51 PM
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Because you're more relaxed, not in hunt mode how can i emulate this behaviour, if have not yet gotten laid yet ? ( not a virgin, but i am kind of insecure / unsure on how to game girls )
/r/seduction19/06/23 02:47 PM
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there must be something seriously wrong with your approaches its an absolute must to work on yourself, but approaching should be done just to get the reps in and keep your chin up in the face of rejection
/r/seduction08/06/23 09:56 PM
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What if i can't work out because of back injuries
/r/seduction04/05/23 05:47 PM
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Build a body you're proud of Hi Seduction community, i am all for self-improvement BUT i have back injuries and injuries in my knees Is there any way i can build a decent body without aggravating my already existing injuries ? I will be grateful for guidance
/r/seduction01/05/23 09:41 AM
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Thanks for the detailed explanation I suffer from anxiety when approaching girls i know absolutely nothing about So, judging from your explanation, his products might not be for me I do like nerding out sometimes, but i believe actions speak much louder than words Still working on my fear, nervousness, anxiety and self-judgement issues Thanks again for taking the time
/r/seduction11/01/23 04:50 PM
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can you tell me the name of the product thank you for your kind and fun suggestions !
/r/seduction11/01/23 11:51 AM
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thanks for this awesome post - will def try using this ! can you please tell me, if the video product of Steve Jabba is any good for shy guys who are too anxious to approach women ?
/r/seduction08/01/23 06:59 PM
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Gonna need elaboration on all these points
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:21 PM
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How did you communicate your intent to girls who didn't know English ? I would like to know because most girls here simply suck at English and don't want to talk to guys who don't look like the locals
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:39 AM
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Ok, then what's the best way to make it clear to her that this is a "man to woman interaction" And not some platonic bs
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:34 PM
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How can someone build sexual tension with a girl they cold approached
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:46 PM
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Hey mate, i know you're a very longstanding member here May i ask a simple way to break the touch barrier with a girl i cold approach (and whose English-speaking skills might be okay but not too strong) I don't want to come across as a harrasser or an over touchy guy PLUS I'm originally from a touch-averse culture so I sometimes hesitate initiating touch with a girl Would appreciate your advice and perspective
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:45 PM
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Let me help you out by paraphrasing to your questions What Behaviors and Attributes give off a masculine vibe from a man ? I'm looking for an answer too, so feel free to use this in your original post
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:53 PM
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It's NOT Beta unless you're expecting something from her If you're friends with her and secretly hoping that she leaves her preference for the other guy and suddenly becomes attracted to you, then it's beta If you do nice favors for her and secretly hope that she will start liking you, then it's beta But if you, with a clean heart remain friends with her WITHOUT expecting anything in return, enjoy hanging out with her and spending time with her without any secret mission to magically woo her - t…
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:14 PM
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have you tried talking out of your mouth instead of your ass
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:05 PM
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Any other methods to kill the need for female validation ?
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:25 PM
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This is a great piece of advice
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:24 PM
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Don't think a quiet library is a good place to approach girls UNLESS it's socializing event, where people are actively talking to each other Even then it has to be pretty calibrated and social, instead of straight out saying i found you cute etc
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:42 AM
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great answer
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:40 AM
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Guys that stir up emotions are always the first choice. How to become one of those guys ?
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:49 AM
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you delete yourself, jackass fuck off
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:06 PM
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If you can’t get direct dating experience living with your parents you can probably still get experience interacting with women your age - join mixed activity groups if you can. fantastic advice get comfortable being in close vicinity to women and touching them in a friendly way goes a long way
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:04 PM
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Thanks Joe, you're awesome mate !
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:48 AM
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Fuck society, focus on what gives you mental peace and resolution
/r/seduction15/05/22 02:31 AM
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good way to filter
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:12 PM
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thanks mate
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:23 PM
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probably i am curious though, why doesn't she confront me about it ? or call me out about it ? shouldn't she be uncomfortable knowing that i like her ? she still hangs out with me ? can you suggest why she is being passive about it, instead of clearing the air ?
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:50 PM
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thanks Just keep talking and remember to take a break once in while to reflect, look back and be grateful for what you have now and what’s ahead of you i will Bless you for bearing with me !
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:04 PM
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Sounds like you may need to seek some professional counselling or therapy for this i agree the university counselling system is in shambles, their schedule is packed but i will try to get an appointment, no matter how far away anything else you want to suggest ?
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:52 PM
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well, there are other things i am worried about about a month ago, an incident happened regarding something else ( totally unrelated ) and it made me feel emasculated and depressed - it is something that is still affecting me ( because there is physical pain on my body because of it ) then i have a lot of pressure, some pending work to do so yeah, my head is in utter chaos right now and i am undergoing extremely high levels of anxiety currently but i am able to observe these feelings for her sep…
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:43 PM
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regret comes to mind and i will feel horrible, confused emotionally unstable it will feel like lying to myself if i don't tell her i'm curious, why do you ask ?
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:21 PM
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That’s the scientific answer as to why your feeling the way you feel thank you, i guess you are right - i did feel a lot of 'feel good' sensations in my brain and chest when i am with her - guess those were the hormones and being away from her makes me feel really shitty - which is what has gotten me worried sick, i don't want to be reliant on her it is concerning observations that she's the one who added color and dynamism to my life ( she's mature but she does goofy stuff and i really like it,…
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:12 PM
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Pretty much
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:46 PM
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agreed and i want to do this exactly as you put it
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:43 PM
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insecurity and vulnerability? so basically therapy, to treat this ?
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:43 PM
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It depends on how serious her relationship is with the boyfriend. Are they about to get married? they're not, she intends on finishing her career before marriage and that's around 7+ years but see, i don't really care about what they are planning to do . it's irrelevant to me However I wouldn’t get hung up on one girl unless you are looking to have a long term relationship, have kids and get married. i am not hung up on her, i swear .. i just don't know why i feel for her and i have no intention…
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:39 PM
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oh yeah, i was aware of this but thank you for highlighting this in very elaborate manner ! see, my gameplan is to walk away from her literally - so, stop spending any time with her and cut all contact ( there's pretty much no reason to talk to her after i tell her ) and tell her i'm too busy to do any more outings with her take the rejection and move on, and most importantly work on yourself so this doesn’t happen again absolutely ! and thank you once again for your kind help !
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:14 PM
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thanks ! i was really unsure but i have no bad intentions - i just want her to know and then live my own life i just want to get it over with, i hate being in emotional disarray i promise to be honest and sincere with her and i will walk away from her i am not going to lie, i am scared at how i will feel afterwards ( hopefully i feel better ) and how lonely and colorless my life will be after her but that is fine, at least i will not have emotional turmoil any more thanks again, this is all i ne…
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:08 PM
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you have some extreme insecurity and vulnerability issues i am aware of these but i have no idea how to resolve these
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:01 PM
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oh i want to get rejected, sounds strange but that's what i am looking for but i guess it will grant me some closure ? You simply need to move on, if telling this girl your feelings will help you do that then do it pretty much what i was looking for Unfortunately it seems like you’re way too emotionally invested in this girl for anything good to come out of it so don’t let your feelings cloud your judgement can you elaborate ?
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:53 PM
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Your advice implies taking action, regardless I am not hitting on anyone currently, but your advice is way too dense and full of overthinking
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:11 AM
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You're telling me men shouldn't take action ? And just wait for a woman ?! WTF
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:26 AM
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Okay this is a bit overwhelming .. Are you saying i should just play the numbers game ?
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:20 AM
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HOW DO YOU ATTRACT THAT'S WHAT I AM ASKING
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:10 AM
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the way it works is the girl has to worship you first & most likely bug you about wanting to be your GF Yes, so.. How does one even reach this point ?
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:43 PM
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Nice !
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:31 PM
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This is fantastic advice actually
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:27 PM
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Hey mate I don't have the advice for you but i do truly hope you find what you are looking for I am going through a really bad mental / emotional phase myself and it's not easy, so i can understand what you might be feeling For me, it's a girl who has a boyfriend and she is really fun to hang out with - i hate that she and i will never be together And that destroys me from the inside Shit happens in life and life can be very hard to makes sense of sometimes You are definitely not alone Hopefully…
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:23 PM
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Thanks mate, that is helpful I admit i am a very bad overthinker, a very analytical kind of man And that often fucks me over Probably the reason I never had a girlfriend I'm tired of living life in fear I will take my chances from now on
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:31 AM
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Basically success with women So how did it start for him ? How to reach the initial success so that you get that reputation of being great in bed / sexually
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:24 AM
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What if you don't know how to dance
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:18 AM
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I have disc hernias in upper and lower back, which is why I stopped going to gym What kind of exercise can I do to kill approach anxiety
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:16 AM
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Excellent advice, i wish i could meet people like you in real life ! You were immaculate in your description
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:10 AM
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How can i become this high value man ? I know i struggle with mental health at times and i don't know what an unshakeable frame is Can you please explain and guide me ?
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:06 AM
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I'm curious then, where does they bad boy get his confidence from ? What exactly keeps him unapologetic and upfront with women ? I'm struggling with oneitis for a girl and i hate myself for those feelings I would appreciate your input to my aforesaid questions
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:05 AM
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Your next post should tell about HOW EXACTLY CAN WE BECOME THIS BAD BOY
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:03 AM
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This is a point i have drilled into my head as a way to cold approach more women Even if most of them have boyfriends etc, it shouldn't really matter because you behaved like a classy man, paid her a compliment and were direct and upfront with her That makes her day AND it increases your confidence And even a small confidence boost can go a long way
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:01 AM
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Thanks Joe good post !
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:51 PM
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Wish i had the confidence of OP
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:33 PM
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I watched one course of someone named james marshall can you tell me which course did you watch ? a Youtube link would be splendid ! And your reputation matters. Big time can you elaborate ? You should be talking about nothing, like Seinfeld:)) a bit more detail would be greatly appreciated ! Last question - were all these girls Cold Approaches ? or how did you meet them ?
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:48 PM
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I am a decent-looking short brown guy Underrated ! more people need to be upfront like this man right here ! thanks bro !
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:58 PM
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Great, thanks Kyle ! Do you have any videos / guides for vibe? Esp how to generate good vibes ? I'm not from the West and i am currently undergoing a massive mindset abs cultural shift - so anything to help me adapt would be greatly appreciated !
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:50 PM
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Great, thanks Its just that i worry about coming off as too old for being a night club promoter (I'm in my mid-late twenties) Being a graduate student, who's promoting night clubs, will not come off as weird/creepy to girls, will it ?
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:59 AM
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Can a student do this, as a part time job ?
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:38 AM
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should be tagged as Inner Game
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:27 AM
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Great to read posts like these ! and the fact that it's a cold approach success ! give me courage too ! congratulations !
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:03 AM
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only one way to find out
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:17 PM
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Thanks mate, I appreciate you sharing these !
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:27 AM
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Thanks mate 🔥🔥
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:52 PM
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Also, men need to get in shape and start dressing better. Aim to be visibly muscular with below 20% bodyfat. That’s a fair goal. No one says you have to be Arnold, but people should be able to see your biceps bulge & a good shoulder to waist ratio. this is my only struggle, i am too shy to go to the gym and i am too scared to do exercises wrongly in front of other people hate myself for being this way
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:46 PM
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i am always nice to others helps anyone even though i am in not in a position to help Stop doing this, for starters
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:44 PM
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You go cold
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:43 PM
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my question : how did you get into the nightclub ? reservation or did you have to pay anything ? or was it compulsory to have girls with you ?
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:08 AM
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They flirt more and better Any guidance/resources for how to do this ?
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:28 PM
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Go out and approach some men lol
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:27 PM
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You just have to know how to work the system. Can you tell me how?
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:26 PM
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Can't change height, so just go care about other things Like actually approaching and talking to taller women P.S. I find taller women hot as well but haven't had the balls to approach lately
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:27 AM
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Tell her to go fuck herself and move on to approaching women
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:24 AM
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Why are nightclubs so expensive
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:23 AM
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Abundance Mentality Go read up on it
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:20 AM
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Might not be much but some men (even good ones) might be intimidated by women at the gym or well built women Try being approachable as that could help you
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:17 AM
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You're going to have to go with your social circle to find someone like that
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:11 AM
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It's hard to get into clubs here otherwise i would do Nightgame weekly
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:09 AM
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The kiss demand was unnecessary
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:08 AM
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Wait.. Some girls actually kiss on first meeting ?
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:08 AM
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Well at least you're not scared of getting caught by nearby boyfriends and getting killed because of cold approaching So that should help
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:04 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:42 PM
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Ah, i see.. I'm good with compliments, i don't give them out too much since i feel nervous with girls at times but i often give really good ones where i can Negs/teases however, i don't think i have ever done that to a girl.. I fear being thought of as an asshole by the girl or that she would walk away from me or hell even complain to someone and get me in danger / trouble etc I just.. I don't know, it feels incongruent to me but i do want to learn a little bit if it how did you learn to neg/tea…
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:59 AM
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But do show intent here and there that you find her sexually attractive and want to get to know her. How can he show intent And let her covertly know that he finds her attractive ? Can you explain a little bit ? I think the OP might be better at this but i would appreciate if you could elaborate on it a little bit as I'm still somewhat learning
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:40 AM
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here's a numerical answer : ∞ where " ∞ " means no upper limit change your approach rejection has different reasons, find yours
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:52 PM
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Heard the news Cancel culture fucking sucks
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:36 PM
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thanks mate, this means a lot i need to stop being so harsh to myself
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:58 PM
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This is potentially the perfect answer for me
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:57 PM
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Thanks mate Oh I'm all for supporting the authors, i just don't want to keep physical books I just want to know the best way to use technology to read books online without getting distracted by the tech itself E.g reading on a phone oh well might as well play games on it kind of distraction
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:50 PM
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How to make friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie thx my man what's a good and effective alternative if i can't buy physical books and don't have one of those e-readers ( kindle etc ) what would be the best way to read books , to absorb most of the content of the book effective and without getting distracted by technology would appreciate this !
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:25 PM
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tryin to fit a good book in your schedule can do wonders to brain activity what kind of books can achieve this
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:37 PM
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I’m very good at reading body language and nonverbal cues how did you learn this ? I make sure I look and smell good every time I walk out of my door how do you do this ? look good , i mean
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:35 PM
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now it was up to her to either give me an indication she was interested as well how did you know she was interested ? what indication did she give ?
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:33 PM
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i am just too shy to go to the gym ..
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:32 PM
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I recently found an awesome friend group what gave them away ? i want to find a similar friend group but i don't know how or where to look i am looking for something similar but i am in a campus as a senior student (older than undergrads) would appreciate if you're still here and can reply to me
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:49 PM
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also need help with 10
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:18 PM
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thanks for this post btw
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:18 PM
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need more elaboration on 7,8 and 9
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:17 PM
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some of the most wisdom-infused shit i have ever read on this sub
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:13 PM
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be upfront with her and that's it no need to be incongruent just because a certain woman isn't willing to fuck you next
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:22 PM
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You're going to change your behavior just to prove her wrong aka incongruency
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:21 PM
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wtf is cat-string
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:19 PM
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well done now move on to the next girl
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:10 PM
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you text another girl, go out with her, post the fun you had with that girl on your snap story / insta story ( whatever it's called ) .. the girl who ignored you, will atleast get jealous while you should move on to the next girl no need to bother with a girl who doesn't respond ..
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:26 PM
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if only everyone spoke english here .. i can't really talk to anyone when i am outside because the language is so different ..
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:24 PM
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Natural Lifestyles TNL is amazing
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:23 PM
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Someone needs to make a good post on how to decouple expectations from game / seduction Since expectations screw up a lot of beginners in the head ( i suffered from this recently )
/r/seduction24/12/21 01:30 AM
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Wow, you have a great situation I would advise you do daygame and night game almost every day or at least every other day
/r/seduction22/12/21 08:24 PM
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that kind of girl would be a catch
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:06 PM
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thanks mate appreciate your long post Tenet #2: Make her feel something this is what i am looking to learn next, i have no idea how to make women feel something ( hopefully something that gets them attracted to me ) hopefully you'll touch upon this in your write up looking forward to the post !
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:38 PM
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I see you have some detailed posts on the sub to serve as guides When they experience that. As I keep trying to tell everyone, when they feel that, it changes the game Also, telling them they are wrong and having a pretty logical argument goes a long way. Can you make a post/posts on these topics ? With examples ? Like how to effectively communicate to girls that i actually want to 'know' who they are rather than being interested in their body proportions or what they look like on the outside Fr…
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:34 PM
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If you can manipulate the way you tell them that they will more or less be inclined to try and gather your approval of them How exactly can i achieve this ?
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:14 PM
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They end up demanding I come over instead How to become this kinda guy, that girls want
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:09 PM
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How to get a dominant woman ?
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:07 PM
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What's your advice for a nervy guy like me, who's ready to eject soon as he hears the boyfriend excuse ?
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:06 PM
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And if i follow your guide, it'll help me regardless of looks / skin color ? I'm not very photogenic .. I do sometimes feel like the inclination to lead but i don't know how to lead women
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:04 AM
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I used to feel very guilty of being jealous or envious, seeing other people in relationships I still do get envious, but, i am starting to realize i shouldn't feel guilty because it's only normal.. normal to want and have affection from a woman Its something I want too .. So it's natural to have an emotional response when i don't have it and see others having it Just have to keep working
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:50 AM
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Next, why not work on something that makes you feel accomplished? Not something that makes you look accomplished. Something YOU feel is accomplished for you Please elaborate more Whats the difference between something that makes you FEEL accomplished vs something that makes you LOOK accomplished
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:02 PM
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Thanks, this really puts things into perspective !
/r/seduction19/12/21 11:54 PM
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Mate your advice seems awesome Do you have any detailed posts on this sub ?
/r/seduction19/12/21 12:08 PM
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"what do you do for fun" Just to confirm, this isn't an impolite thing to ask, is it?
/r/seduction19/12/21 12:04 PM
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Act like a real man and make meaningful small talk and then ask her out in a date for a specific time and day asap Can you provide a short example of this ? You may take OP's situation and tell what you would have done better Thanks
/r/seduction19/12/21 12:01 PM
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lmao the man made a lesbian jealous - that's a rare feat For what it's worth, that's extraordinary for a first approach !
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:50 PM
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just a quick smile with bedroom eyes This is not creepy, is it ? I mean, will the woman be angry or litigate against me if i smile at her ? I don't want to get in trouble ..
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:24 PM
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Your website is dope can you make a free post on flirting too ?
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:20 PM
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how would you isolate a girl from a dancing floor ? and how would you make sure she's not there with her boyfriend ? or that she's single ?
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:48 PM
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WE NEED A FLIRTING 101 POST ON THIS SUB senior members, plz help
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:43 PM
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When you're done with your night, lmk what Instagram magic did you play
/r/seduction05/12/21 12:29 AM
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where will you go ? clubs or bars ? will they allow you to enter club without a girl alongside you ? asking because here you need a girl to enter a good club give an update on how your night goes !
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:45 PM
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check u/MO_drps_knwldg profile , you'll find it there in his posts he looks very experienced from his content
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:01 PM
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thanks for informing me !
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:02 PM
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and therefore destroying his health for some pussy that could not resist some bodybuilders he would be better off aiming for the numbers game , instead of being hung up on a bad interaction
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:35 PM
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have the attitude in my mind that any woman would be lucky to be with me. It sounds arrogant on the surface, but it’s the mindframe you need to have to be successful Can i request that you make a post regarding this I read both your posts regarding fingering and i found them very informative
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:08 PM
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I’m not interested in a man who can’t do some of the work Read this guys ! And this is coming from a woman who approaches men I myself am scared shit less of being shamed for approaching a girl, BUT the quoted statement says it all ! Men HAVE the burden of performance, we HAVE to do the work to attract a lady A cute girl is not going to fall into our laps just outta nowhere Have to risk rejection and even getting shamed (go to my reddit profile and check my post, where i asked people on how to g…
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:10 PM
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Please, please suggest some resources on how to "read" women's body language
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:54 AM
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Thanks mate reading this meant alot
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:53 AM
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I'm saving this post, I'll look at it every time i feel too scared to approach a girl or ask one to coffee Don’t assume a pretty girl has a bf!!! I do this quite often, any advice on how to throw this fear out of the window ? I would love if more men would talk to me and try to get to know me Hypothetically say if a guy approaches you , what do you like to talk about with him ? And how can he effectively get to know you ? Asking because i want to ask this girl out but I don't know shit about wha…
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:50 AM
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Yo i want to ask one thing I did work on myself What aspects of yourself did you work on ? Can you please briefly tell about that
/r/seduction02/12/21 06:25 PM
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What happens after I find the clit - that's the real question
/r/seduction02/12/21 06:22 PM
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Can you link another post , this one is deleted
/r/seduction02/12/21 06:21 PM
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They want to feel like they worked and earned your admiration. Often for a reason that is more than just how they look. Is this a biological / psychological trait in women ? It is better to appear on the side of the buyer and not the seller. You want the other person to feel good about winning you over. on your journey to become such a man, you may need to consciously employ some self-restraint in order to not initially chase people and opportunities away How do you do this with girls you cold a…
/r/seduction02/12/21 03:21 PM
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"sure" you say for the drink "yeah, here it is" you say for the number request "I appreciate it, but i can handle myself" you say for the drive back home
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:27 PM
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Status is an attraction point for women, but there are different forms of status can you describe these different forms of status
/r/seduction01/12/21 10:53 AM
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good fr how do you do group management
/r/seduction30/11/21 09:40 PM
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you should be less emotionally invested in the conversation Can you give a more detailed explanation for this you should do less for her than she does for you and this And thanks, your overall comment is encouraging !
/r/seduction30/11/21 07:47 PM
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🙏🏽
/r/seduction30/11/21 07:45 PM
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Thanks 😊
/r/seduction30/11/21 07:45 PM
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yeah but .. you see that's the problem, ironically i'm in a better country now ( women are much more empowered here, dress more freely and can pursue casual relationships without much scrutiny of their character ) but i still carry the same fears i did when i was in the previous country i know it's not going to be that bad , but something ( that sinking feeling i mentioned ) keeps me from pursuing women or flirting / approaching them i still feel scared when theoretically i shouldn't be scared s…
/r/seduction30/11/21 02:23 PM
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sure mate , thanks ! i wrote some very lengthy replies and i am going to add another edit to the OP as well for context, i was 12 or 13 years old when that crazy shit happened and you might already know this, but i am not from EU/US - so societal and religious rules are MUCH were different and comparatively stricter for me back then ( case in point , i can count on my left-hand the number of times i saw a lady wearing a sleeveless dress - because it was considered immoral and sinful for women to…
/r/seduction30/11/21 02:16 PM
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i'll check it out , thanks !
/r/seduction30/11/21 02:13 PM
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I think first you need to clearly define what constitutes a “creepy” experience. Being followed by a man, especially a group of them, is creepy. Were other males behaving in a way that you felt was similar/the same as you in the past, and you’re told you’re thirty/needy but they aren’t? If so, start by looking at what you’re doing differently than them, and cut it out. with hindsight, i think i should not have mentioned that incident because it is being taken out of context by everyone here and …
/r/seduction30/11/21 02:12 PM
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I was 12 - 13 years old .. I can't think, especially with retrospect, about what creepiness could i commit at that I didn't know anything about how girls or seduction worked and dating was frowned upon in my society / culture regardless - so even if you're suave you would still get called out regardless because by having a gf / casual relationship you were still violating the societal / theological norms And i have no interest of talking to those people again , because most of them were clearly …
/r/seduction30/11/21 01:42 PM
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Thanks bro I guess cold approach is one way to polish and improve charisma ? Talking to strangers, esp girls (who i am sometimes nervous with) will help with charisma I presume ?
/r/seduction30/11/21 01:00 PM
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People easily forget that women are not memorable, the same way men aren't memorable The women you meet for a few minutes, does not mean you are going to devote your entire life to them It's a numbers game and sure, it's going to hurt getting rejected / ghosted / flaked by a 10 in that very moment BUT there are millions of other 10s in the world Women are just human, treat them like you would treat humans No worse, no better ( doesn't forgive the fact that i am too scared to approach ladies who …
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:30 PM
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Your size won't matter if you know how to use your tongue and fingers on a lady Making a woman Orgasm (multiple times in a single session) is much more important for ladies than having the biggest penis ram their privates
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:25 PM
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How to improve Social Status and Charisma
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:23 PM
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How to start dance classes ? I'm in Istanbul, so would appreciate some tips on what to generally look out for I'm very shy when it comes to Dancing in front of other people Touching opposite gender (women) I presume dancing will be a good way to start to kill both fears PLUS touching women during dancing will kill the 'shame' of touching a girl i don't know too much
/r/seduction27/11/21 08:46 PM
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Next her She's probably crazy
/r/seduction25/11/21 12:42 PM
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I'm sure you have good intentions But i meant to say about the general content I listened to only a few minutes but the advice in the video is pretty good for someone like me who suffers from shyness and fear of being known as thirsty / desperate My previous experiences haven't been great either, so anything that feels helpful and organic is welcome Also, this is pickup BEFORE game was known as game, so it's historically Gold
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:52 AM
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lmao i was a teenager back then
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:46 AM
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It’s important to get out of a lustful frame This is what i have struggled with for 10+ years
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:23 PM
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This is Gold
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:22 PM
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It's kind of sad if you think about it .. so many people shaming him here, even ON A FUCKING SEDUCTION SUBREDDIT for whatsoever reason - maybe shitty people don't deserve a decent teacher like him but i learned alot from him and i will be grateful for what he taught he's a great teacher and i honestly think he was a very good old school pua hope he survives this bullshit cancel culture if he sold recordings and targeted anyone under 18 - that's his fault and he's responsible for that but otherwi…
/r/seduction20/11/21 09:14 PM
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ironic
/r/seduction20/11/21 09:10 PM
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Thanks This is why i don't like indirect game
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:44 AM
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By all means, set yourself a rule that you'll back off immediately if it goes badly, that's fine. This scares me.. Any examples you can give of how things can go badly ? And what can be done to smoothly flee the scene ? Will put my mind at ease
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:42 AM
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This would be too direct , no ? P.S : I'm on campus, should i dare to do it there ? 9r outside ?
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:06 PM
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Not opened my mouth and expressed interest? Yes. How did you do this
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:22 PM
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Having an analytic brain is extremely helpful if your self-steem is up, but it wrecks you in these times when you think less of yourself tell me about it - i fucking suffer from this !
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:06 PM
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how does it feel to become numb to rejection or being ignored by the opposite sex ? can you describe the feeling ?
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:05 PM
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most of us were taught not to make the first move this by far was one of the worst possible things to happen to modern day women Actually if a girl really likes you and wants something serious with you she will try to behave even more hard to get than she is because she thinks that it is the only way you will take her seriously apart from simps and really idiot guys, no one should even think about investing the time or patience for this girls who behave like that need introspection and work on t…
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:00 PM
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wasting time on women who continue to ignore and play hard to get does not translate to them being relationship material quite the opposite , in fact and if you didn't realize by now, you're openly judging the character of other women based on their sexual activities
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:51 PM
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wish it was that easy ..
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:50 PM
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so you only approach ovulating girls who are horny how do i recognize/identify women like these ? and what are some of the telltale signs to look out for ? in addition to what you wrote above ( which can be subtle and easily misinterpreted by beginners ) You can DM me if the information is too explicit for this subreddit i would really appreciate your help !
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:47 PM
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All these women I laid I cold approached great ! i hope to have similar results someday !
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:46 PM
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girls (almost) NEVER make the first move unless the guy is super attractive the onus is on men to make the first move and filter out girls who are not worth the time/effort seduction can be an easily misguiding term but what it really boils down to is; to put in the conscious effort and action to find and meet girls who are worth it, mix well with us and then making a move on them seduce the girls who do want to be seduced us , not those who have little to no interest in us
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:46 PM
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Ok .. What if her home is not at walking distance
/r/seduction13/11/21 09:05 AM
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How can I do this for HER place ? Provided i don't have logistics for my own place at the moment
/r/seduction13/11/21 07:50 AM
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I think i suffer from this Is this a seduction concept, this Groucho Marx effect ?
/r/seduction13/11/21 07:48 AM
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this is quite surprisingly accurate ..
/r/seduction13/11/21 07:45 AM
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What's the best way to pass this "we're not fucking" shit test ? Esp for a beginner
/r/seduction13/11/21 12:35 AM
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if you're short, you aren't short because you chose to be short - there are a million reasons (genetic, medical etc ) if a woman has a problem with your height, then it's her being insecure or whatever rationalizations she has made .. you don't need to feel bad or to diminish your self-worth because she has a problem with something you cannot possibly change it's best to leave her be and go seek out other women who won't give you such petty objections
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:51 PM
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Do you interact with any women I'm too scared to interact with women i don't know :'(
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:49 PM
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How do get into nightclubs is my question - it's fucking crazy insane, ridiculous and very costly to get into a nightclub here in the first place
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:48 PM
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it's kinda my dream to date a taller girl .. so yeah, don't take this as an obstacle - the other way round should be better to navigate seriously, just go out and have fun with her - like you would with a girl with a height same or shorter than yours you aren't going on a date with medusa or some supernatural vixen - you're going on a date with a woman who's simply taller in height and that's pretty much all she's a girl and a human after all :)
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:38 PM
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If height truly was the barrier keeping the relationship going after having fun interactions and laughs then that shows how insecure a woman is this by far is a very, very important concept !
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:35 PM
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I can definitely guarantee it applied to getting me to leave the damn house. Go out, do things, have fun can you describe how you did this ?
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:30 PM
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same bro .. i genuinely hate that mentality ! i hope i am able to overcome my fears and do something as well !
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:27 PM
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can you tell me which country is this, in dm ?
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:23 PM
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Todd V has a ton of content if you don't mind, can you link a video which might be fitting for me ( i already told about my issues above )
/r/seduction11/11/21 10:03 PM
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if you are stiff and seems like a serial killer how to NOT do this I tell them exactly why I'm there, how EXACTLY do you tell them I have a calm and playful vibe how do you ACHIEVE this would appreciate your advice, especially if you can give an example from your own experiences
/r/seduction11/11/21 08:17 PM
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Can i ask how will you take good photos
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:54 AM
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" Look at her actions, not her words " Whoever said this or coined the actual sentence was a fucking genius
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:50 AM
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Interestingly, she just didn't want to come off as a slut or easy, which is why she said what she did
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:49 AM
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hey little guy , it sucked for me in school as well but don't worry - it happens ; might feel like a horrorshow to you but it happens to most young men in school teenage is a bitch , drives you crazy with hormones , confused feelings for girls, horniness and whatnot read on abundance mentality and inner game - that's all i can give you as advice good luck !
/r/seduction10/11/21 04:08 PM
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great answer
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:00 PM
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listen to this guy OP , he's pretty awesome
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:59 PM
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is there a good post on this sub regarding calibration ? if not, can you make one to guide beginners ?
/r/seduction10/11/21 12:57 PM
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more women should think like this !
/r/seduction10/11/21 12:56 PM
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i am about 12 years your junior :) nice to meet you, sir
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:43 PM
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as a millenial, hearing this is actually encouraging for me encouraging for someone who was conditioned to keep his distance from girls for moral/religious reasons encouraging for someone who's experience of casually interacting with girls is psychologically scarred due to horrible misinterpretations and terrible misunderstandings - sometimes leading to physical confrontations encouraging for someone who is too shy and too scared to speak to girls he does not know encouraging for someone who use…
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:32 PM
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this comment deserves fucking 10 million gold awards ! i just need to get over my own fear of approaching and everything in this comment right here is beautifully laid out ! just wow ! i was going to write my own comment to guide OP but u/OrzhovPalatine has brilliantly presented everything I hope i am able to get over my fear of girls and approach them !
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:16 PM
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but no one chases me :'( great point though i wish i was confident enough .. i suck at this
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:57 PM
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Ah i see Can you please give some advice regarding these types of shirts / fits that show off the arms / chest but conceal the belly know this isn't r/malefashionadvice but i just want to ask what kind of fit to look for ( or ask for at the shop) Much appreciated !
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:20 PM
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Wouldn't that shoe off the belly more ?
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:14 PM
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Thanks for the descriptive reply Wish you all the best !
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:14 PM
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Thanks mate i am looking into working out to get fit (see my post history if you want) Your reply is very insightful I truly appreciate that !
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:43 AM
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Also, ditch the bastards / bitches who are being assholes to you You polarized everyone with your success and its showing you who was actually your friend and who was dead weight so it's time to move on to better people You're probably wise enough to know how to proceed
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:21 AM
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Wait wait.. Can i ask something ? Please don't take this the wrong way but.. Can you tell me how to attract women while being a bit fat I am skinny everywhere else except my belly and that REALLY makes me feel nervous, insecure and i feel like I am not enough for any woman to like me Can you please give some advice, from your perspective, on how to be confident with women while having a slightly fat body This could be a literal game changer for me
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:19 AM
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How to find better people to run with
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:17 AM
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A guy I recently dated thought that any concern that was brought up signaled the end of the relationship what kind of concerns ? you can give examples for the sake of privacy .. but i really wouldn't know since i don't have the experience he’d internalize everything until he was so resentful so basically, based on whatever concern you bought up he would alter his behavior, and not in a good way - am i understanding correctly ? have accountability for what you say and do without flip-flopping any…
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:18 PM
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The way a person speaks is a big turn on I hope this applies to Turkish girls because English is the only language i can speak with them (i don't know Turkish)
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:27 PM
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Hmm.. Ok This is weird, because i used to think men and women are different And will thus react differently to their names taken by someone they recently acquainted with I have tried this with my male friends, time to try this with girls now !
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:53 PM
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thanks i originally thought girls would find it very uncomfortable or creepy if their name was taken by a guy who just recently came to know them i guess that was a lie
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:30 PM
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Elaborate in all 3 points please, esp for someone who doesn't have much experience with women
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:04 AM
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Saying her name ? How is that sexy Not arguing, i have very little experience with women i want solid perspective in this before I try it out with an actual girl
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:03 AM
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How has your experience been so far
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:58 AM
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okay .. hope you will cover the topics i provided you with good luck with the video cheers !
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:44 PM
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Fear of getting beaten for hitting on girls, fear of the boyfriend appearing out of nowhere and a bloody /physical fight ensuing , insecurity about my physical body , insecurity about my skin color, insecurity about getting labeled a pervert for hitting on / flirting with girls, resetting my conservative social upbringing , calibrating myself to a sexually open and liberal culture, fear of racially stereotyping, anxiety of talking to girls i don't know AT ALL Hope that gives you enough material …
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:25 PM
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Thanks The gist of it is, if you 'mirror' the actions of the person you're with - their subconscious will make them trust you Caution should be taken not to overdo it Hope i got that right
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:17 PM
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that was fast ! i requested this post yesterday thanks !
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:30 PM
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hmm ok Mirroring is also a good strategy. We trust people more that act similar to us. as for this mirroring, what would you advise ? do i find girls with similar hobbies / interests ? or is it something else ?
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:58 PM
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Ones women know they can feel safe around you they will flock to you can you give a practical example of how this is achievable your example can be 'hypothetical' .. if you know what i mean
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:23 PM
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Thank you very much In fact, i was feeling a bit sexually depraved last night and i felt ashamed for being like that I guess i should stop being apologetic about my sexuality And start owning it instead
/r/seduction05/11/21 10:09 AM
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My main anxiety and fear is about coming off as a creep and sacrificing my self-respect Can you give basic examples (preferably from your personal experience) about how to not be a creep, to have self respect and about having some basic social skills Would sincerely appreciate your help
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:42 AM
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I was just adding to your point Read the following discussion i had with another guy below you comment - you'll figure out what i mean
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:40 AM
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Very, very insightful Thank you !
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:59 PM
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Examples, on how to use body language to communicate attraction to the girl, would be appreciated Think of explaining to a beginner
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:44 PM
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What's green paas
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:30 PM
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Great guide on Why Looks Don't Matter. This is an answered question, proven over and over. No need to re-ask it. This is MASSIVE Eye opening post ! WOW JUST WOW ! 💯 💯
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:25 PM
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can't you just .. fuck your girlfriend ?
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:07 PM
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how do you get inside the club ? that's my first question here it's impossible to go into a club without having a wingwoman or without paying crazy $$ in table fees
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:06 PM
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good discussion, It’s a feminine thing in that, as a man, it’s attractive to have confidence in your attractions. If you say you like her and then stop interacting/giving ioa then it just seems like you’re only saying nice things to get laid. So essentially it conveys mixed messages which are clear to women as a huge red flag. Imo. i think you misunderstood or maybe i didn't explain well .. there's nothing about having/not having confidence in your attractions. oh no, not at all - i am talking a…
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:02 PM
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he girls who were most resistant to me trying to take them home, touch them, whatever, no matter how smooth and non pressured I'd come off, they were all resistant to flirting through text or over the phone. They'll try to change topics quickly, act like they never heard what you said, get quiet, giggle awkwardly, etc. so .. this is a sure-fire way to sexually vet women you're out on date with ?
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:15 PM
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make yourself attractive and you have the photos + bio to put together a decent profile - I'll probably make a post on how to do this later we need this post !
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:14 PM
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sensei, will you teach me some of your Tinder Teachings ?
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:52 PM
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wish i had your problem ..
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:51 PM
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Telling someone you like them and then moving on is such a feminine thing to do how is it feminine ? i would like to know how do women do this to men If you like her tell her if only it was that simple but just because she’s not fucking you Doesn’t make her “a bitch or unreasonable” no it doesn't, but you miss the point i am trying to make i.e not to waste time with timewasters or women who keep you around just for validation I guess your reply just seems like some regurgitated mess of “game gar…
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:49 PM
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Lowest *
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:16 PM
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Start by talking to them
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:16 PM
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You do you girl What's he doing Stay the fuck away from me tho Well.. That escalated quickly
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:14 PM
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What do you suggest then? Its an open forum, you can elaborate
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:09 PM
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. I get laid more than the average guy due to putting myself out there often and general common sense strategy Please tell me a bit about how you achieve this
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:50 PM
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There's a caveat to the not telling a girl theory It should be something along the lines of "tell her and then fucking move on to other girls" If she wants, she will join you happily and fuck you or whatever is it you want to do with her (if she's still being a bitch/unreasonable, that's the clearest red flag you will need - eject her from your circle / harem and move the fuck on) If she doesn't, it doesn't matter in the slightest bit - you have other girls and you can get even more women to fuc…
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:47 PM
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This is why it's important to have multiple options, u don't have to worry about whether u screwed up or not with one particular girl when u got others to call. Wish I had this luxury ..
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:57 AM
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Wish her all the best go fuck other girls
/r/seduction03/11/21 11:45 AM
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lmao this is the DENNIS model WTF HAHA
/r/seduction03/11/21 11:38 AM
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Can you give a short example or basic description for each of these, tailored for beginners ? EDIT : you already did, i see, thanks
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:38 PM
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This guy is the real deal !
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:15 PM
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You need to erase the idea that "only men enjoy sex and only men desire sex" from your head Women equally, if not more, enjoy and desire sex The day you realize this, is probably the day you will stop caring about who rejects you and who fucks you
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:12 PM
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Very, very elegantly put ! I wish i could learn from you in person !
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:08 PM
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the real question , exactly how hot are you ? we need to know , so we can also be hot to women
/r/seduction31/10/21 04:26 PM
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I'm more than happy to help you out if you give me more context oh i have tons of context to provide, but for now i will refer you to a post i made some time ago - which should suffice for the sake of context and while i got answers to that post, it would be refreshing to see your perspective ​ here is the post : https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/oownp2/question_regarding_female_psychology_when_faced/ Secondly, and the most important part, you never ever sacrifice your self respect/ se…
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:47 PM
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sleek and what if she reacted in a unwarranted way examples; " eww .. who do you think you are ! " " go away creep " " what makes you think you have a chance with me haha " " gross i would never date someone like you " i know this is mostly fear, but i'd just like to know your take on this
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:56 PM
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interesting perspective do you just want to state what you think? People notice this sounds really powerful .. subtle, yet powerful ! thanks man !
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:54 PM
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btw, how does your club have so many girls ? here it's bullshit, you need to bring a girl otherwise you can't enter a club wtf
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:45 PM
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My landlord hooked me up for a massive night at A-Club you landlord is awesome
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:39 PM
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Because you know that you didn't have ulterior motives and what happens in the flip case ? what if a guy does secretly like a girl ? what exactly should he do then ? i really, really need to know this
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:39 PM
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what's the fine line between being a decent/good guy and a nice guy ? how would you differentiate between that ? If he wanted her attention, wanted to attract her or seduce her , what should he have done ?
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:38 PM
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how exactly could he have passed this 'test' ?
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:36 PM
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how to have a better attitude
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:35 PM
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how do i know if someone is checking me out
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:54 PM
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thanks mate !
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:17 PM
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what is a sixpence ?
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:07 PM
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I would love to go out and wing with a mate like you .. sucks we're so far away !
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:59 AM
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thanks for the link ! in simpler words , how would you define charisma and how do you think it helps in game
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:48 PM
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underrated comment
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:46 PM
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go for women below your standards give an example ? it might sound like a stupid question , but i am in a foreign country and almost every woman i see - i find her cute or at least appealing they're my taste, most of them i see i really really like ! and i might even blush ( which might give away some clues to them ! ) so tell me, how exactly do i find a woman below my standards ? and what would you, for example, classify a woman as being below your personal standards ?
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:46 PM
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19 and already fed up lmao you have a lot to learn
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:32 PM
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You just solved your own problem by cutting her off , go talk to other women
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:31 PM
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Where ? In the OP ?
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:26 PM
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show me too plz
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:12 PM
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Idk why you think this way, do you spend a lot of time on the internet watching feminists cry? Oh no, no.. I would never watch shit like that Its just that my experience with meeting girls in my teenage years wasn't very good, so maybe my subconscious registered it as a bad / scary thing to do But thanks for affirming a new and positive blueprint of thinking for me i.e it is absolutely ok to talk to a girl who's there alone or by herself, i have nothing to fear or feel guilty about Cheers mate 🥂
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:45 PM
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Thanks ❤️ Although my question was about approaching mixed groups or groups of just girls , but this is very useful too While we're at it, i want to ask one more thing Sometimes, i find myself feeling guilty for approaching a lone girl. I would never do anything wrong or unwarranted to a girl or anyone in general But sometimes, when I approach a girl who's alone, i fee like i am being a creep by waiting for her to be alone and then approaching her When in reality, i am just too scared to talk to…
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:33 PM
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Can you please give me an example, something from one of your own anecdotes ? It would greatly help me
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:57 AM
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Understood, we men basically need to assure women that there will be no judgement from us towards their sexual behavior But we can't tell this to her in words, we have to convey this to her indirectly or subconsciously How can i practically achieve that ?
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:53 AM
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Why did people down vote you lmao
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:50 AM
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I got really nervous reading this and i am in my mid 20s How to do this ! I'm so scared P.S : I'm not joking / not being sarcastic - i actually do get nervous about this
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:44 AM
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How to hold frame And how to read body language
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:41 AM
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He is talking about congruency Max from Game Global made a video on congruency at my request, you can check that out
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:40 AM
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Are you suggesting he should build more comfort with the girl And also, he should work harder to seed the pull ? I am basically interested in knowing how would he build more comfort in this situation ?
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:34 AM
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Think about a relationship 10 years later Enjoy life now
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:31 AM
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Thank you, really .. Nowadays I'm too much inside my head instead of living life Always planning but never executing Guess the only way to learn how to handle such a presumingly scary situation is to actually face it and then behave in a calibrated yet polite manner to proceed
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:53 AM
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The issue is when guys stake their entire happiness and self esteem on whether a specific woman or women respond positively to them. This :')
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:46 AM
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What would you advise .. After reading what i wrote in my previous comment reply to you
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:43 AM
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Well, it's a fear in my head I'm sure the real world is different But i am just scared of an altercation Because men often tend to fight for women , to show how possessive they are etc I just don't want to find myself in that fight Especially since I have had some bad and psychologically stressful experience, when i was in middle school /high school (basically between grade 6 - grade 10)
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:42 AM
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Have you heard of the following term : "Numbers Game"
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:39 AM
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I can't help much but i do wish you Goodluck I personally would be too scared if she has a boyfriend who's around and might come out of nowhere Have you factored that in ?
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:38 AM
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But say it in a way that she knows it's a date How to achieve that
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:36 AM
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But the question remains, for many beginners How did you create the circumstances for yourself to get in touch with so many girls ? How exactly did you create the setup that you got enough abundant contact with so many women that you could make them chase you ? And finally, how did you make them chase you ? What else did you improve about yourself Would appreciate some answers
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:49 PM
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Nope, i have been shy since my teenage and women don't give a shit Being shy is THEIR thing , it's a feminine trait ! Women are subconsciously programmed to exhibit shyness and feminity They subconsciously expect men to take the initiative and approach ( emphasis on the word 'subconsciously' ) So yeah, citing from all the reference experience i have had, being shy is not going to score you any girls Have to change something and start being proactive with girls Girls are almost never going to tak…
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:25 PM
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Thanks mate Well, I'm double that age hope it works for me I'll see what I can do ..
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:54 AM
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Pump and dump
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:50 AM
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Is it safe to take ? And what's the effectiveness ? Sorry, i am a bit lazy to read the cited link rn Would appreciate if you could summarize
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:48 AM
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Very interesting perspective ..
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:49 PM
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Any tips on how you were able to attract her ?
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:22 PM
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guys who feel that they need to go into overdrive when a woman acts cold. Some feel ‘instinctually’ that this is the best way to handle things, when in actuality it backfires and pushes her away further. So even if you feel like you’re acting ‘naturally’ in certain scenarios, it still can lead to more frustration This is the dogshit which movies often teach to men And it always backfires in real life, because no woman in real life likes this behavior from men
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:17 PM
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Hmmm good observation the OP should take this into consideration before blindly trying to win his ex back who might not be worth it
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:09 PM
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Dating Apps made me think i was ugly And that women don't like guys who look like me In all honesty it's better to spend your time improving yourself in some aspect instead of wasting time and possibly money on dating apps
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:04 PM
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What is EQ
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:57 PM
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That Disney shit point is 10/10 Same goes for all the shitty romantic films and tv shows Full of pissy bullshit that will lead to nowhere with even a 1/10 girl in real life I can't believe how badly misguided men are nowadays, esp about women and relationships It's a screwed up world sometimes Men need to be aware of what seduction actually means and what it stands for
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:57 PM
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I wish you were in Turkey
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:58 PM
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so .. i presume that the girls you make out with are relative strangers ( you two just met that night ) what i don't get, is that how is it even possible for two relative strangers to make out by meeting on the same day ? how do you actually achieve it ? my question might sound weird, but please keep in mind that i am not from EU/US and was raised in a fairly conservative environment and i am very shy , esp when it comes to women - which is why the possibility of this sudden / quick intimacy (ma…
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:22 AM
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usually making out with one girl at least if you don't mind, can i ask a question regarding this ?
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:10 AM
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I'm just scared of approaching women altogether, fml I would approach 5s but fear keeps me scared ..
/r/seduction11/10/21 07:53 AM
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Can't you just go out and meet people ? Surely there are bars and clubs where you live .. Among OTHER places where people mingle and talk with relative strangers
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:37 PM
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I don't like shady puas either But there are probably some genuine people out there trying to help others, Pro Bono or for a fee Don't generalize like that, it's the same as saying every man just wants sex or every woman just wants money
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:35 PM
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just wear it for safety , nothing much to read into tell her the same
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:05 AM
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What's a dynamic life path And also please tell me more about Raw individuality and 'honestly declaring your intentions'
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:35 AM
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Pretty sure there are other activities women do in your town Look into those - doesn't have to be a bar hopper to score
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:32 AM
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Inspirational af
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:34 PM
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Taking her to a great restaurant sets the provider frame I still don't understand why guys do that
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:33 PM
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She's more from a conservative background This is a massive factor most guys miss If she's from a conservative country / society / religion / upbringing / family etc She will have an even trickier path to expressing herself as a woman, especially when considering casual relationships Tread carefully but don't waste your time if you don't want to Wish you best of luck
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:32 PM
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This comment is offering loads of value itself Well put my friend !
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:59 PM
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Exactly Playing it cool is the bullshit movies teach you - but you forget that movies are scripted Real life is NOT a script It's fucking random with a fuck ton of different factors affecting every decision and choice you make So yeah - no need to be needy with a girl but do go up and say hi to her, she can only get attracted if you shoot your shot Not talking to her at all is a 100 % guarantee that she will not know about you Remember, this is not a movie This is real life !
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:04 PM
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Abundance Mentality That should serve as a solid hint
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:59 PM
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Wish i had this kind of situation lol As for advice, be direct even if you're being polite so that there's nothing confusing to her and she knows what you mean
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:58 PM
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ok , since i have shit logistics my only option is to pull to her place - good to know that it's acceptable to go to her place but i have got to make a bit of progress before i can even think about pulling
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:47 PM
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make another post after you have taken a stand for yourself and told the girl , tell people how it went !
/r/seduction21/09/21 07:13 PM
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for sure ! where can i find more stuff of yours
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:36 PM
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i would award you if i could this comment deserves to be pinned on r/seduction and r/askseddit this is massive inner game advice , absolutely fundamental - something we all should know even before thinking of game or seduction ! wow .. just wow mate , all i can say is thank you ! fucking ego was lying to me and making me shudder with fear all along ! so i finally know i am not going to get killed or arrested for saying hi to a girl who i don't know and who doesn't know me hell it could be a good…
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:33 PM
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what do you think about pulling to her place ?
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:03 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:56 PM
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oh i am not American lmao far from it well , there are no crazy leftists where i am from but i do hope it gets better for you guys in Germany and also those in the US these are humans everywhere, nothing different about that
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:50 PM
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thanks this is massive for guys with no logistics there are so many shitty answers on this post , except yours you're always there with an answer regardless of the situation
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:45 PM
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wish my anxious / coward ass had this level of experience / ease / comfort with girls
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:42 PM
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take in whatever is going on around you how to do this ? explain like you would to a 5 year old
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:39 PM
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was the bar food good ? any tasty stuff ? and i never understood - what exactly is a bar ? do they party there or is that a club ? i honestly don't understand too much about bars - would appreciate some info and If anyone asked I’d say I’m new in town and don’t know anyone. Probably a few people would start chatting and asking what do you do, where are you from. Maybe you might make a few new friends that way I would do this but no one fucking speaks english
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:38 PM
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propellor cap well once you start propelling ..
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:35 PM
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Skyrim called wants its joke back lmao P.S : i don't know which game is it exactly, taking a wild shot here
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:35 PM
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holy shit .. this , this is true ! i felt this just today !
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:34 PM
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Happy for you buddy !
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:32 PM
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yeah it's a crazy world out there i presume you're in the USA an American friend , actually a really senior guy in age .. said that he can't ask a co-worker out because if it goes wrong, she will report him for sexual harassments and he will be terminated i don't condone dating at the workplace , hell i even hate social circle because one bad word and your reputation is in flames in the entire circle but since WHEN did asking out equate to sexual harassment ?! holy shit
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:31 PM
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it's like a puzzle that involves psychological and social skills and the puzzle different with every girl lmao
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:26 PM
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ALSO : There is NOTHING awkward about a woman paying for dinner / date think about it this way - women aren't being subjected to being housewives / being stay at home girls .. they are going out and they are earning money for themselves , they are making money on their own maybe in your case, this girl sounds broke but generally girls nowadays are progressive, independent and earn their own money unless you are actually forcing some girl or manipulating some girl OR worse, stealing from her all …
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:25 PM
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you have gotten a lot of great advice , you should update the sub with what happens next !
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:19 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:17 PM
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Listen to her response with your head, not your heart!! some really good advice in this thread and this is among those !
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:16 PM
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nothing wrong with what you wrote there, quite justified actually it would be interesting to see the rebuttals you get for writing this ..
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:15 PM
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oh boy you have some stories i bet !
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:14 PM
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brilliant advice to find out the truth of your situation OP
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:13 PM
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I'm a total beginner at this - i presume sex is some ways away I am like really scared to approach because i feel women won't like it and might feel angry that i had the audacity to approach them and talk to them as a total stranger Hence why I fear for my safety so much and why i asked the original question
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:21 PM
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Thanks Hope i don't come across as cocky or overconfident Appreciate your perspective though and spot on Overthinking is a horrid tendency i need to shed as soon as possible
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:41 PM
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I think you should not give her much attention - she's not the only girl in the world Talk to other girls
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:52 PM
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I read the post as "Girls avoid eye contact with me" lmao
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:50 PM
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How did you overcoming the fear of being reported / arrested Women can often feel threatened when someone who is an absolute stranger approaches them and they might try to cause a tantrum to get you beaten by people nearby What inner game or thought process helped you with overcoming this
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:49 PM
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Offices mostly
/r/seduction18/09/21 06:00 AM
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Tailor game
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:48 PM
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I knew the general gold digger concept but this is quite descriptive Thanks for opening my eyes - this is just another harsh truth of life i guess.. i wouldn't waste time on a girl who just wants money - come to think of it that's dreadfully filthy mentality for women to have, although i believe smarter and well informed women would steer clear of this Those gold digger type of women aren't worth anyone's time, really
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:41 PM
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Fair enough But why would anyone search on indeed about my position's average salary if they just met me a few days ago
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:01 PM
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Common sense ain't as common as the name suggests
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:07 PM
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It's MAX ! heya there buddy !
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:05 PM
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Malcolm Gladwell “Blink” response Whats this
/r/seduction02/08/21 10:54 AM
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Legit advice I'll try something
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:43 PM
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💯
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:33 PM
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Hmmm .. What if a energetic person is too shy ? Say i am cheerful and laugh BUT I'm too scared and find it weird to talk to other women (women who i don't know) - how then do i attract them ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:25 PM
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Vibrations ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:17 PM
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I see.. This seems important I guess i need field experience to figure this out
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:13 PM
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I can work out pretty quickly what kind of man they want how did you learn how to do this
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:11 PM
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how do you 'practice' cold approaching ? like what if we get a number or a date during cold approach - is that still considered practice ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:14 AM
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They should get out of their comfort zone, put themselves out there, suffer and face rejections. Your personality is not set in stone. It's fluid and it changes. love this ! because being an introvert hasn't worked for me and being in a social circle has only been shit so far i WANT to go out and approach !
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:14 AM
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Where to read more on this stuff
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:11 AM
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But this is not always going to be the case - it can very person to person yea ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:01 AM
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Thanks ..
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:00 AM
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Same question
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:45 AM
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Okay, to each their own :) guess my nationality will remain a mystery to you then ;) It was nice meeting you and knowing a glimpse of your culture ! Farewell !
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:17 PM
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There needs to be an option to add Risitas meme here because that's what this post deserves lol
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:13 PM
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Okay.. Good for you Nordic ladies i guess As for DMs.. iirc , you don't have to accept since you can still read the message without accepting ? Have a good night
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:12 PM
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Okay - you don't want to be approached at work i presume
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:10 PM
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Hmm.. So Nordic men are more loyal than other western men ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:09 PM
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This is your personal preference, yes ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:08 PM
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Oh no, there was nothing political about what i said I don't like bringing politics in between other topics I meant liberal as in " free " or broad minded Also, I'm not American :) - check your DMs You wouldnt be excluded from friends or whatever if ur a woman sleeping with 5 dif men a week. Doesnt matter like that. Norwegians especially never state their opinion regarding such publicly its a private matter. It only matters with the one ur sleeping with, ur partner. Like i said I wouldnt want to…
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:06 PM
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Okay.. 👀
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:45 PM
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This just got creepy (scary?) Or i am reading it wrong
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:44 PM
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Last line had me laughing 😂
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:41 PM
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Absolutely, my friend !
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:40 PM
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Thanks for the detailed description I like the Nordic and the Baltic areas of Europe alot, there are so many interesting historic places and also so many fables, legends and mysteries associated with those two areas I'd love to visit someday for sure As for the culture - well, i don't see much wrong but according to what you wrote, there's a conflict and confusion among people's mindset of being liberal.. Some might be conservative and some not so much? Even if it's not as bad as conservative co…
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:39 PM
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Good, you're also learning to read people God i wish there were English speaking cashiers here - i would at least give them compliments to boost my approaching confidence and to make their day !
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:27 PM
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That's cool, nothing wrong in there How did you know she was not feeling it
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:24 PM
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This .. Sounds good, at least from the outside
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:22 PM
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Gyms are fucking closed and i have a knee injury Can you please guide how to do this with dumbells Thanks for taking the time !
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:21 PM
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Sounds alot like me home country lol And we're wayy different from Nordic people in looks and culture Are Nordic women generally conservative about their sexuality and about men approaching them ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:20 PM
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Cringe and happy face ? What exact happened
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:18 PM
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Why tho - what was their motive None of them had girls or girlfriends to invite ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:17 PM
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What exactly puts you off
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:16 PM
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Yeah.. I mean smiling at her, giving her a compliment and asking for her number IS MUCH BETTER than grabbing her ass wtf - how do people even do this, grabbing someone's ass in public
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:15 PM
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I got my ass grabbed, but never asked for my number Wow... And here i am too afraid to even touch a girl's shoulder out of fear of harassment allegations Hell i feel scared of saying hi because i think the girl would be scared or disgusted ( my post history full of these idiot fears ) Say .. how would you react if while you were working, someone.. Just gave you a compliment OR asked you for your number OR gave you their number instead if grabbing one of your body parts This is a genuine question…
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:14 PM
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Cultural differences? Im nordic What's the Nordic culture like ? In terms of dating and casual relationships
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:08 PM
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Where to get such friends
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:06 PM
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Yeah that's what I was asking Enjoy !
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:05 PM
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After all he didnt take you out to become your bussiness partner 😂
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:52 PM
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ethical non-monogamous marriage This sounds amazing .. Does she get anything out of this ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:50 PM
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“Ugh FINALLY, a guy has been confident enough to approach me!” This is the mystery I'm yearning to discover .. Like what goes on in the ladies' heads Guess the only way is to put myself on the line Even if she does have a bf, ask yourself this “how could I make my leave with dignity intact?” You’ve done nothing wrong in approaching her. I just say “ah not surprised. Have a great day/ evening was nice meeting you” and say that with a sense of “I respect you and your bf” but also with the confiden…
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:44 PM
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Remember, broad shoulders, wide back(lats), and big arms drive women WILD I need to become this so badly ....
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:41 PM
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Yeah he is literally in every post commenting negative shit lol true, that lamb guy is always somewhere in those comments lol I am not going to pretend I am good with women and that I don't struggle but I can still have a positive attitude. Exactly bro - that's the way to go ! Even if my first 100 approaches end in rejection.. I will just analyze what I am doing wrong instead of blaming game Game is on our side ! Improve game, don't blame !
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:37 PM
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Hey at least i made you laugh :p And yes, that's the idea I'm trying to convey
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:29 PM
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At least i was honest about my track record I just know it's better to put yourself out there And i am not shoving this advice down anyone's throat Just saying that it's better to approach and ignore the naysayers The only way to find out is to actually find out
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:17 PM
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You're right, that's something I have come to understand from this sub The problem is.. I'm scared of the scary situations, like what if her boyfriend comes all of a sudden and starts beating me - even if he doesn't beat me my face will give off fear Which is bad and really awkward That's all i want to avoid - the fear of 'getting caught' while approaching EDIT : you see i don't even know if she has a boyfriend or not but the possibility really scares me ! I HAVE to get over this !
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:03 PM
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I'm just going to go to the clubs to see wtf happens and adjust myself to the environment i don't know anything about clubs .. this is going to be a new experience to me
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:05 PM
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Be yourself and be comfortable I am really anxious my cultural conditioning taught me NOT to talk to girls i didn't know except classmates / co-workers , i took a lot of (false) shit for following girls around in school when all i did was just hanging in school ( this was class 6 or 7 ) and also was misjudged by girls at one or two times for flirting with them or asking for their number when i had just been friendly i suffer from social anxiety i don't even make eye contact with girls - i am so …
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:52 PM
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Oh.. It's like setting a deadline Do your work in one hour or scram
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:45 PM
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Group theory - have you read Neil Strauss game book ? He talks about how to engage groups there
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:40 PM
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😂 🤣
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:39 PM
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You needed to lead - should have actually met her after you both said you were into each other and asked her to be your gf or whatever You should then have screened her for what kind of girl she was and whether you wanted her or not ALWAYS tie up loose ends NEVER leave a linger of doubt - women have their quirks, better safe than sorry !
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:36 PM
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Did i ask you ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:33 PM
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Lol why are people down voting you Guess there are way too many betas on the sub
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:33 PM
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I just wish i wasn't scared for my life when approaching girls
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:28 PM
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those weekly bangs guys are bragging about are probably average looking at best Which is not a bad thing at all
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:27 PM
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I kinda do all this except talking to girls or opening them That scares me.. What if their father or boyfriend is around and beats me up That's my fear I'm willing to date average looking girls and i don't even judge people on looks - just need to get rid of fucking anxiety
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:26 PM
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Fantastic - does he have a Playlist or should I just start watching all of his videos
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:05 PM
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After that if you aren't fucking it's best to take off because you want to leave them wanting more. Can you explain this a bit more ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:13 PM
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Get coffee ffs
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:13 PM
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And they know what's up ! Which means no more confusing bullshit from their side and things are much more straightforward to navigate Older women ftw
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:11 PM
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There’s no magic boys. You will feel scared. But it’s accepting that, not running, and doing it anyway! Needed to hear that
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:58 AM
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but it seems like being with her like that could mean a bit of pain You know what to do .. I'm about to make some hard decisions myself - they're not easy and i feel anxious and scared, you keep putting them off and running away from them but in the end they have to be made
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:55 AM
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Interesting.. They said that even as you were bailing ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:52 AM
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Well said Point 5 really, really is the harsh fucking truth I wish i could talk to girls without being scared of their 'possible' boyfriends and without worrying about the risk of physical harm !
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:39 AM
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Thanks mate
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:43 AM
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I wish i would be able to approach like you did
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:12 AM
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What if she accuses me of sexual harassment for touching her
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:10 AM
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Brilliant post and i can relate - due to bad experiences in the past, i have some very absurd fears I'm just scared of getting arrested or getting killed for approaching girls
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:09 AM
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And you were driving too ? You're a crazy, ballsy couple lol
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:53 AM
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I'm not a goddess/model, just regular level attractive. Also I am/was actually quite insecure too, which made me always stick around with other insecure people at our school. No matter what I do and how nice I am, I can't seem to climb the social ladder. And I believe getting more popular in general may be a key to fixing my non-existent dating/unsatisfying social life, too. Being an ok or average in looks guy, who used to be super insecure about his skin color (esp the stereotypes that were ass…
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:53 AM
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It's hard to believe that my crush, who is super popular and flirted with by probably every straight girl in our year (and multiple girls outside school too) may have felt so nervous about talking with me/texting me that he replied with like one word maximum😅 This is actually fun.. So it's a numbers game for women too He's not interested for xyz reason, find another guy
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:49 AM
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Exactly, this was really fun to read Wish i had this kind of confidence with women !
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:47 AM
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This guy knows dating and business
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:45 AM
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I see.. Road head i understand but how could he make her orgasm while driving ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:44 AM
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Do you have a type ? The kind of men you might like and want to be with ? Yeah.. Starting sending out signals when you're around those men I'm not a woman but I know women do this often - most times subconsciously but you might want to do it deliberately /consciously Google how women send out IOIs and signals to attract men
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:42 AM
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as they didn't engage in conversations all our encounters felt really uncomfortable and off-putting for both sides This is the umpteenth time you're hearing it.. But yeah, guys probably are nervous around you and with you Haha this is kind of relatable.. I have often found some girls to be very intimidating and serious and i often wonder if they're not as scary as they look I don't think you need to be popular at school - you need to send out IOIs to guys you like Google what IOIs are in seducti…
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:40 AM
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What is a she-gasm
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:35 AM
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Another girl(friend of hers 8/9: 6' Russian Blonde model) says something to the girl I was chatting with and they both completely ignores that guy and starts showing interest in me- asking my name, being friendly and literally says: You will get 2 for 1 and my mind was like wtf just happened, so I think this is where I messed up cause I think I started doing intros or something regular conversation... and the 8/9 girl says ok not interested, you can get out Seems kind of dramatic, maybe they wer…
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:43 PM
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💯
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:31 PM
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This was a great read - please check your dm
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:30 PM
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Eh ?
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:30 PM
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I've never had a woman consider me attractive yet I will be harsh here .. Women RARELY, if ever, chase a guy So no women is going to consider you attractive unless you put yourself in her line of sight with intent And before you ask me the details, know that no girl has flirted with me or liked me yet - haha I'm still working on my social anxiety to talk to women but i watched a seminar from Zan (zac?) Perrion and he says everyone is nervous.. So i guess that's how it is, every man and woman is …
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:29 PM
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Thanks, appreciate it !
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:24 PM
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Thanks, this makes good sense ! Will keep it in mind next time i start getting feels for a girl
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:45 PM
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I see this advice alot on here why don't guys internalize this
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:25 PM
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Would be similar to how married women flirt with other men for 'fun'
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:15 PM
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Heh.. I bet you know better since you experienced it in the flesh (pun not interested lel) But Yeah, i think it's kind of a dream to experience it at least once in my life
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:11 PM
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It's amazing xi hadn't expected this place to be so wholesome Everyone wants to help each other ! Its also fun and laughable to watch some women (SOME, not all - i have seen other women give fantastic advice and make very encouraging posts for guys which is great ) suggest it's a terrible sub with bad advice and then they do nothing to help or suggest absolutely terrible advice that's worse than being a nice guy / doormat - i wonder how these women are in real life Nevertheless, this is a great …
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:10 PM
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Please link the post
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:04 PM
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Another way could be to get something sexual going with just one friend to begin with, and then after a while, suggest the idea of introducing the other friend into the mix. This is good advice and comparatively low pressure
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:02 PM
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Man you just lived the dream ..
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:01 PM
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r/sex Good luck and congratulations Hope I get into a similar situation with a girl soon :D
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:00 PM
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I'm no expert but i would like to know how you went from Forever Alone to banging a 10/10 Can you share your story in a separate post - feel free to dm me or tag my username when you do so
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:59 PM
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You could do " Morning game " and then go to work
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:52 PM
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I still have trouble understanding how do people kiss absolute strangers in the club - yes i asked this question previously but .. Anyone has more elaboration, especially on the cultural aspect ? I just can't seem to wrap my head around kissing someone who i met a few hours ago.. I would be way too shy to even touch her hand or shoulder, let alone touch her lips with mine .. That's way too intimate How do i even know she's comfortable with me touching her ?! Oh boy.. This is so overwhelming at t…
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:49 PM
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Ok i just watched the video (i hate subs like those as they make me really uncomfortable) And she was tired as fuck - her eyes had dark circles, probably from being up all night Even a shy guy like me would smile at her, ask her name and thank her for good service by taking her name - try to maybe make her day a bit by doing that instead of flirting with her, because she clearly was in the worst demographic to even consider flirting with (Models talks about this) And none of them were probably t…
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:45 PM
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lol
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:35 PM
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I am a 5’6 average looking dude with a big nose and I date WAY out of my league. Would be happy to speak more on that if you’re interested. PLEASE DO i have a similar height but my skin color might be a bit exotic to where I am and also i have cultural differences - so alot of calibration to do Your advice can only help ! Please make a post and talk about how you succeeded at seduction with your current physical self and also what improvements you made to your physicality to attract women - beca…
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:34 PM
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This is a great post Senior and experienced Men should do such analysis weekly by finding appropriate videos where terrible game is being practiced and suggest what should be done better It will be a practical demonstration sort of.. Which will be more helpful than what written posts can achieve on their own, although take nothing away i have gotten great advice from this sub but I'm too much of a pussy to try them out Furthermore, the mods can make a sticky which archives such analysis to help …
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:31 PM
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Thanks, friend :)
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:56 AM
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Wish I could go out too - stupid pandemic Just need to do those first few approaches
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:31 AM
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Basically too scared to talk to girls And fucking tired of it - enough is fucking enough Have some very, very bad (nearly to the point of false accusation) experiences with women and i never understood wtf was wrong when i was the straightest arrow and always behaved nicely to women (worst mistake - NEVER be nice, not only will you be used and friendzoned but you might be subject to bullshit accusations - bad boys neve face those though and you should wonder why ) Turns out conservative upbringi…
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:29 AM
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Your third paragraph kinda sums it up Stop listening to what people say and do your thing Just cold approach Zac Perrion video i saw recently should help - it was a seminar in Oslo in 2011
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:16 AM
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Very elegant speaker and a very good video !
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:10 AM
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Oh i have tried the 'long' route - see my post history Never worked for me - the last thing i want is for a girl to consider me as a friend, i have plenty of those and i honestly don't want anymore - it made me think i was not good enough for women to consider me otherwise, badly hurt my self-esteem and self-confidence as a man.. I would rather be direct and intentful with the girls I meet and like I'd rather not waste my time anymore I do have to calibrate more since I don't know the culture an…
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:27 AM
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Oh make no mistake - it is a western country in most ways (bars, clubs, the way women dress, alcohol) But there are some subtleties to it i believe - like girls not wanting to be bold in their sexual pursuit since shit could still go wrong for them and as you know the signals girls send are super hard to read so it makes it even more challenging to ask Turkish girls out I don't think all girls are gold diggers here, in fact at least the educated ones seem decent but I'm scared to talk even to th…
/r/seduction29/07/21 11:57 PM
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Dating apps should be much kinder to you - i don't think you need even professional quality pictures Just some decent looking ones and you're set This sub is not the place for finding platonic opposite gender friends, it should be the last place for such inquisitions Good luck
/r/seduction29/07/21 11:41 PM
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Eh - it's not exactly a fully liberal country so i have to pick my spot literally to avoid religious places, thinking of going out with a wing for some protection if I ever need it and for mutual motivation and analysis if needed Will try to use the 3 second rule if needed Scared of conservative people trying something hostile for talking to a girl but i gotta take my chances - can't stay commenting on reddit forever, if i get punched or hit so be it, takes pain to grow - just hope i don't get k…
/r/seduction29/07/21 11:29 PM
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Goes both ways i guess Man i gotta start daygame, even if i just give a compliment and run
/r/seduction29/07/21 11:14 PM
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All that to say, I'm never EVER going to go back to dating apps. Where all you see is the 40 yo obese ugly ravaged chick with insane standards. Like I kept getting rejected even by these who are honestly 1-2/10. Says alot about how superficial is online dating - your looks are the main currency there In cold approach, at least the girl gets to know you a bit more than just your looks or your hot bod
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:40 PM
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Absolutely king ! Really motivates me to do daygame - just need to shun the fear of safety !
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:37 PM
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Does that help? Yeah it's insightful - i wish this is common among women because otherwise it's very tricky to read women in general And i need to get over my own social anxiety first - i need to become confident talking to relative strangers before i can approach and ask girls out
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:27 PM
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Thank you Nova ( cool name heh ) I'll look up that post and also try to inculcate what you're saying here - it can only help a guy like me who's afraid to talk to strangers, especially girls Cheers and have a great day (or night) !
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:41 PM
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What a woman can do, is make sure to create room for the man to lead in the direction she wants. All of this is low key and subtle. You should be able to play it off as nothing if need be, glances, touches, smiles, jokes, movements (so much can be communicated with your eyes or a lingering touch on the arm or leg.) You're building up sexual tension so that the first time he touches you in THAT way, it's like releasing a damn of energy. Building up that energy is the fun part- seduction. The old …
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:40 PM
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I can't directly answer your question but.. Don't date this girl, save your time, effort and energy for a better woman - because this one is anything but she's playing games with you and not the seductive kind celibate until committed relationship and then wants experienced men ? Gave her double standards away way too easily - thank your stars and move on
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:35 PM
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Mark Manson talks about this in Models
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:32 PM
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You seem like someone who has experience - have any wisdom to share ?
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:31 PM
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Or, its that a lot of people feel shy over their intentions Holy shit - how did you figure that one out ! Part of my anxiety comes from being found out as someone who's horny and wants to talk to girls for their number / dates I am so embarrassed and scared of this.. You want to get laid, so play the part. Thanks for this Fantastic, no nonsense advice !
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:30 PM
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The concepts are probably too advanced for them
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:12 PM
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Where to learn advance game
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:11 PM
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Using a multi-pronged approach FTW 👌🏽🔥
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:01 PM
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Hmm... Makes much better sense this answer of yours Thanks
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:55 PM
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You're probably lucky as fuck You're probably the only dude whose mom is winging him !
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:26 PM
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Female PUA right here ! Also, we guys could do something naughty with this advice like print it out and discretely slip it over to our female partners - they'll know what to do next time lol
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:27 PM
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Reading this.. i just wish i have the courage to approach women in daygame I don't want anything for now.. Numbers, dates lays all these can come later I just want to be able to conversate with girls that i don't know and whose native language i also don't know, with a smile and without getting fidgety sigh
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:19 PM
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Thanks 👌🏽
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:16 PM
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Great - so you're having fun i presume
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:15 PM
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I asked an even more detailed question from this commenter - see if it helps
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:15 PM
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but when you're near she probably has butterflies or emotions that make her uncomfortable/vulnerable so she tries to back off Why can't she just be upfront and ask the man out instead What's the stigma with feeling butterflies in the stomach or asking the opposite sex out, for women ? I'm not siding with OP - but why should they both have to deal with each other's games, why can't she make it simpler instead of being so hard to get - since the OP doesn't look like he will ask her out Don't you t…
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:13 PM
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Is it really worth your time to go through such hard disqualification trials from ONE WOMAN ? Do you have nothing better to do in life No more ladies to talk and have fun with ? I'm sure there are sexier redheads if you get your head out of your ass and look around
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:06 PM
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Isn't being yourself inconsistent with self-improvement ? How does a man become the prize for women to consider dating, sexually engaging with if he stays the same ?
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:04 PM
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Reading these kinds of comments and i say to myself " i just wish i had the courage to cold approach "
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:42 PM
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Ahaha i totally misunderstood.. Thanks for explaining the I mistook it as if a heterosexual couple would shower together after soccer practice
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:48 AM
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I mean if you'd shower together after soccer practice you'd know porn is really bullshit. Can you elaborate on this ?
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:41 AM
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You know that wouldn't be a funny movie 😏
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:40 AM
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You're awesome, thanks for this comment
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:27 AM
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But thinking is not enough, you'll have to take action, as this only works if you adjust WHEN you have the feeling / thought, not if you just imagine the situation. This is by far the most vital and critical condition of this advice
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:27 PM
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Thanks for your encouraging comment - i will try daygame with a wing (for safety purposes) soon as the restrictions are over
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:16 PM
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Holy shit - never knew i had that And with me it's a bit different - any girl i see with brown/blonde hair, fair skin complexion and even open / bold dressing.. All i can think of is how scared i am of even talking to her and how badly i would stammer if she even tried talking to me .. How could i ever even ask for her number - let alone date her and/or have sex with her And i thought i had high self-esteem ..
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:14 PM
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And how did they react ? Also which country ?
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:06 PM
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Thanks Bruno, you're awesome !
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:03 PM
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Thanks mate
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:05 PM
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all of them required at least 4 dates first Also very, very costly if you think about it
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:46 AM
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Those numbers are brutal These were all day game approaches ?
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:45 AM
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Doing cold approach in Eastern Europe was def significantly more challenging How so Can you state the most daunting challenges you faced
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:17 AM
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Improve yourself in ways she wants you Whats this ? so make yourself more desirable How
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:16 AM
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Make sure you call it out and say, "haha bullshit, so anyways.." or "oh yeah? how long have you had that problem?" etc. This is so ballsy and scary at the same time Oh boy .. I'm probably feeling this due to approach anxiety
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:14 AM
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It's inherently high value to be a social outgoing guy. It's also inherently high value to aggressively pursue your goals. Does the same apply in semi-conservative countries ?
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:11 AM
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Thx !
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:26 PM
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How do you take better pictures
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:19 PM
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Wtf
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:26 PM
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What is this Macro Momentum you talk about ?
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:57 AM
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If you build rapport and things start flowing there’s so many ways to close Where'd you learn these from Other areas get that done What areas
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:47 AM
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Are you approaching currently ? How did you overcome the fear to start
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:44 AM
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Looks like you don't know the golden rule of seduction " Leave her better than you found her " That should help your conscience
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:44 AM
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Not an expert but have heard of older men banging younger women - who are way younger than them (like a guy aged 35 banging someone 25) - make your SMV as high as possible and they will come after you provided you have game Again not an expert but they're all women and if they're straight they will be attracted to men who have attractive qualities despite the age difference
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:41 AM
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Appreciate the response here mate So what was uncalibrated in OPs case ? Or what was the poor calibration on OPs part ? I have read a fair bit about calibration and thus would like to know what went wrong in that context I agree with the screening part tho - two commenters made it very clear how to screen for women who are not interested or have stability issues which could cause them to pull unreasonable shit like this
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:37 AM
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What kinda questions - for example?
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:07 AM
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seed the pull with plausible deniability Whats this
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:30 PM
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I started talking to a girl but a while later her boyfriend arrived This is something i am really afraid of
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:28 PM
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Holy crap - are there any YouTube videos about this Because i can see myself being very nervous trying to remember these
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:00 PM
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Okay.. I thought it was a meme around here
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:59 PM
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SpongeBob SquarePants !
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:34 PM
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try to show her who you really are and demostrate some value or something that makes you special on some way and not this average guy who got her drinks in the club How can he achieve this ? An elaborate example would be appreciated
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:33 PM
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So how exactly does one work around this ?
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:30 PM
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That's true - the entire reddit can be a fucking joke, i have seen deplorable and depressing shit written by absolute retards - men and women That being said, he might find something of help - since he's presumably not a legal expert himself
/r/seduction25/07/21 07:46 PM
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Grilled Cheese Sandwich with soup 🤤 🤤
/r/seduction25/07/21 06:24 PM
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Nice - approaching because you found it funny Going to give these a casual spin !
/r/seduction25/07/21 06:20 PM
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Great thanks Which cheese goes best with this
/r/seduction25/07/21 05:53 PM
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Any good videos on this particular style of approach
/r/seduction25/07/21 05:53 PM
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you're better off walking ahead of her then looking and turning back to talk to her Isn't this creepy too ? Turning back all of a sudden to talk to her ?
/r/seduction25/07/21 05:43 PM
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haha what's with the grilled cheese can you explain this to me
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:58 PM
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Eat a grilled cheese got any recipes ? would like to make one someday !
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:57 PM
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I have gone out and approached girls in real life as well as on dating apps but I've only been met with rejection so far and after a while I just felt so crushed that I couldn't do it anymore. there's your problem ( in the bold ) hey, i don't know anything about approaching girls - i am too scared and in my native culture , dating was considered a taboo or even a sin lol but if there's one thing i know - is that there's reward in persistence don't complain until you've exhausted EVERY avenue out…
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:54 PM
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which is why cold approaching those females is a good idea, right ?
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:48 PM
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Assume she was your only one girlfriend there's your problem - was she the only girl in the world you could date ? bet you know the answer behave accordingly
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:33 PM
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Also, idk how you feel about dating apps, but i do recommend them he should get a dating photographer to snap pics of him for Tinder, Bumble - that should really help him also good advice on cold approach - it's a numbers game and he should treat it as such , for starting i think it's all about taking up a challenge that kills his approach anxiety
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:05 PM
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good point - any idea how one should behave on a video call ? i mean , i have never been in a video call with a girl i met on a dating app - so , how to exactly go about this ? i'm kinda shy .. so any pointers would be appreciated
/r/seduction25/07/21 03:59 PM
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And other than that, bring down dons and whatever alcohol, drug, food or toy that she requests and not your wallet or cash. this is fantastic advice and should be on the sidebar !
/r/seduction25/07/21 03:57 PM
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r/legaladvice should help you I met this girl through a friend I hold my name in high esteem and I do not want it to be soiled and this is why i HATE social circle game
/r/seduction25/07/21 03:55 PM
1

Abundance mentality
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:44 PM
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Good luck !
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:19 PM
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I would but right now I am working on getting my pics taken by a friend and pics taken by a smartphone tripod ( don't have a DSLR right now ) Going to try shittier dating apps to see if any girl likes my pics
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:14 PM
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Insightful reply mate - thank you !
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:12 PM
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Examples would be nice
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:06 PM
2

Wouldn't she thinks it's creepy, the presumption of dating
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:56 PM
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How do you know she's not with her man What if you get beat
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:56 PM
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Ah have fun then mate !
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:46 PM
1

What type of tone should work for that context
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:45 PM
1

Turkey (I'm not Turkish though) You ?
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:44 PM
1

Haha what
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:43 PM
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Thanks for the award, mate !
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:42 PM
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Heh - well i might have Too bad it doesn't work here
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:42 PM
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Are non Hispanic men allowed there
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:40 PM
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These looks aren’t just looks these are Jennifer Anniston level looks. Super model status. Yeah .. You need work on your Inner Game Her looks don't mean shit for you if you're not going to sleep with her And before you disagree just let me say that I'm a sucker for looks myself, I'm by no means picky but my mind know a truly beautiful girl when I see one - I'm living among foreigners right now and while i think most of the girls here are good looking, i am yet to see someone who's truly attracti…
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:35 PM
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That's actually a girl lol
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:27 PM
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I love this post, even though most of it is OPs own projections but i can understand because i am in a similar position right now I'm just too afraid to look at girls or make eye contact because i am scared of any #metoo allegations or any girl shouting that i am creeping her out ( i am kind of a person of color - so it's very unpredictable how a girl will react )
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:25 PM
3

You lucky fucker (literally lol) Share some tips !
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:05 PM
2

Interesting - i feel like that too But i don't think that's how cold approach works
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:04 PM
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Paragraphs of thanks ? She insecure or what ? If i were you I'd be a bit careful - looks are fantastic, great, alluring even - they aren't everything Other people have given you some tips to regain your frame here - use that advice and report back on the sub
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:03 PM
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He never offered anything - she asked He himself admits he fell for it
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:59 PM
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Username kind of checks out Great advice tho haha
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:58 PM
5

Sensible af Ask her for payment
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:57 PM
2

This is excellent advice !
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:56 PM
1

This guy knows game
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:56 PM
6

Brilliant idea
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:55 PM
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Haha this can be taken both in two ways lol
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:55 PM
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exactly.. Wtf is he thinking Just ask her - so where's the battery
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:54 PM
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Well - you don't have much standing in your way then I am terrified of talking to an absolute stranger because i think she will find me ugly and shout creep or something and get me in trouble - i am very, very scared to approach girls but i hope i can force myself to break through eventually !
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:46 PM
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Thanks for guidance mate I never knew this was ego tricking me, fuck ego !
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:44 PM
1

A chance at her number ?! Thank your stars, you avoided a train wreck
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:41 PM
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Just tell her to write the number on a receipt
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:31 PM
1

What do you mean boring or uninteresting ? Are you sure - or are you nervous to talk to women ?
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:30 PM
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Whenever there is a girl nearby that i find only mildly attractive i get obsessed. I get nervous and every move, like getting some water needs to be perfect like in a movie. I cant even sit next to them on a couch witouth being all tense and wonderibg if she finds me creepy. I get jealous when she laughs or talks animated to other boys even tough i barely know her. And thi happens with almost every girl i meet. Im really just mentally exhausted from it but cant seem to stop it neither. I dont fi…
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:22 PM
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Holy shit - this is quite similar to how I feel
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:19 PM
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If your intention is to “get” anything from her, you are being needy, turning her off and probably creeping her out. yes ! after getting familiar with the concept of neediness , i must admit - i have very, very needy several times in my life and coincidentally , those have been some of the WORST times of my life ! neediness has to be avoided at ALL COSTS ! Your actions should be a deep manifestation of your true-self. can you explain this more ?
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:05 PM
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Lel Very chill grandfather you got there
/r/seduction22/07/21 01:11 PM
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Would your grandparents mind if you bring a girl over ?
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:51 PM
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what if he gets reported for sexual harrassment ? OR what if she complains to the family about him and his entire reputation goes to trash ? OP, i am not discouraging you I am simply asking some tangential questions that might be important
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:47 AM
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thanks, this makes sense i have never been to a bar/club and i was raised in a fairly conservative society , so i am quite shy with girls i don't live that society anymore , thankfully i am trying to overcome my limiting beliefs and trying to calibrate myself better with the new culture and to overcome my shyness with women looking forward to visiting one and seeing how exactly do these clubs work in real-time
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:32 AM
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Clubs are made for raw sexual energy give an example - what exactly does this mean ? so if you’re not attractive you might as well not bother are you talking about looks ?
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:25 AM
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good comment my friend ! The unfortunate club culture that is perpetuated by the establishment is that flaunting money + buying drinks = cool. Fuck that well said ! it's just dumb as fuck to think you can attract a potential date / hook-up by showing a girl money or buying her drinks - honestly , just fuck that shit ! the shitty culture those films and tv shows try to depict when a guy buys a girl a drink to show attraction ( and then the girl ghosts him lol ) - that is cringey as fuck but since…
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:22 AM
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Thanks for your input but i tried being emotional and caring with girls i liked The only thing i get in return was that was never really considered by girls, instead girls used me and manipulated me - for their own benefit, which as you can tell was quite shitty of them and dated other guys - and this is a conservative, religious country we're talking about where dating is taboo - so no excuses there, it's not like they couldn't date - they just didn't want to date me and liked me only for my ut…
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:27 AM
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They should give clearer signals lol
/r/seduction21/07/21 10:42 PM
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I asked this question in two different subs this , by far , is the BEST answer ! As a young man , who hasn't had much luck in hooking up with women - this is going to be a challenge to make into a habit , but in the longer run i can see how valuable this is for men ! that ending in the last sentence took me by surprise and cracked me up haha ! really and sincerely , thank you for the elaborate advice !
/r/seduction21/07/21 10:33 PM
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Found out about game in Feb 2021 , still haven't approached yet fucking stupid pandemic , fucking shit
/r/seduction21/07/21 09:09 PM
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Thanks Andy You're awesome I'm glad to be part of your forums as well this is really motivating !
/r/seduction21/07/21 09:02 PM
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thank you ! this is really mature and descriptive !
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:56 PM
2

excellent stuff , that last line !
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:08 PM
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thank you !!
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:38 PM
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also please answer my two questions
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:38 PM
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does it have any side effects ? any scientific papers to guarantee it's safety ?
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:37 PM
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explain please - this is all very new to me
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:35 PM
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what's the signal that she actually likes me or wants to continue engaging with me or continue interacting with me i'm not sure what exactly is sensual/aggressive eye contact - i am very inexperienced with all this and i am not sure how will i catch ( recognize ) it when it happens to me the first time
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:25 PM
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wish i could help you mate I am pretty scared of large groups of people myself and very anxious of talking to girls i don't know , but if there's someone who i am trying to help socialize and who wants to meet girls - i will be willing to help them and in doing so, some of my social skills will come into activation subconsciously crazy isn't it ! I am scared when i'm on my own , but to wing someone and i would absolutely be slaying it with ladies .. haha ! maybe try finding a wing who can help y…
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:20 PM
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because having people come over at the swipe of your phone is incredible in the context of comparing historical mating doesn't work for everyone , dating apps are a shit show for majority of the men and very, very easy for women so they both get tired - men from not having any matches or girls to mate with and women having way too many mates to select from - could become overwhelming for either or both of them ! also , i am coming from a culture where Tinder and bars/clubs were both considered m…
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:16 PM
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i have 2 questions what happens after you exhaust the venue what happens if a girl you number closed sees you talking to or number closing ANOTHER girl ? I like your goal oriented approach !
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:11 PM
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how - elaborate two dancers who don't know each other at all .. how can they meet by just shaking their bodies
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:09 PM
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I've made out in clubs, nothing more though. how please tell me HOW exactly how and why is it acceptable to make out with a stranger man / woman in a club - which is a public setting ? i am not against it - i just don't understand how it happens , because i am not from a clubbing / bar culture can you explain the social dynamics behind this ?
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:09 PM
1

can i ask about how do you show / make it apparent to the women on Tinder that you like to have sex with them ?
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:07 PM
0

But you must be getting 100s of matches , why would you delete it
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:30 PM
9

Any chance you're from Alabama ?
/r/seduction21/07/21 02:25 PM
2

Leading is something like "telling not asking" Or taking initiative of the interaction instead of letting the woman control it, yeah ?
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:37 PM
2

Cool, thanks I guess I'll try this when I feel there's enough comfort or rapport going on between me and the girl
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:27 PM
2

Give an example of a compliance test
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:15 PM
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made sure to give of NO attraction vibes Can you please define how exactly you give attraction vibes to a girl you meet, so that she knows your intentions are not of a friend but of a potential mate or boyfriend I know this is off topic I am asking because i don't know shit about this - And also, this would really help me Thanks
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:44 PM
2

It probably helps that those girls don't have nuts lol
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:42 PM
1

This guy lives
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:08 PM
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Well, irresponsible women don't But some women have potential in being a mother - a good mother Those are the ones who will actually try everything to get the best for their children Be it money, education or even a father
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:05 PM
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Username checks out lel
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:53 PM
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I already said that real world numbers differ So if you have a child with your woman who is in her 40s, the child is likely to have serious problems You are right about the timing However your last sentence is disputable - it's not about money and i already made it clear - but about grooming your children, a healthy nuclear family would ideally have both parents and also grandparents to help raise the kid Otherwise you see all kinds of messed up grownups out there - who are not well groomed
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:51 PM
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Getting rid of the belly by walking
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:44 PM
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Thought the exact same thing, she could be easier to pull as she's seemingly attracted
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:23 AM
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I always isolate very quickly Not everyone is experienced here
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:20 AM
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I don't know which country is this dude from but it's not entirely his fault .. Some of the blame goes to the mainstream media for making men into lovey dove romantic simps No on realizes that Romance happens SEVERAL MONTHS / YEARS AFTER you are in a steady relationship and fucking the girl regularly Otherwise you just hook up with a girl, have sex with her and never hear from her and talk to her again Falling in love without even getting to know her over coffee or beer, catching feelings for he…
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:18 AM
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A simple " oh i think it's yours, give it a read maybe " Should have been enough A slight and friendly grin would have been a nice touch Better luck next time
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:36 PM
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This is seemingly good advice But the men need to be in shape first You should mention it in bold words, because uncalibrated men will also try this out and think your advice is shit some men, myself included, will be VERY insecure about going to the beach altogether.. Because you literally have to show yourself Also, you should emphasize on how to find targets - like it has to be a 2-set at most, a lone girl is ideal ofcourse But otherwise, don't wade into a group without having a group of your…
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:25 PM
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This is a brutally honest yet excellent write-up I had put a serious effort into bodyweight + cardio but a knee injury means i can't do either I will just lift dumbells and eat less.. I'm thinking of going on a diet I have literally no fat - just belly because of sedentary habits I'm trying my best to go slim from the abdomen and build upper body at the same time If that's what's going to take for women to like me, notice me and to see me as a desirable mate then so be it - I'm going to put ever…
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:35 PM
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Yeah, i haven't approached any girls yet but when i do I'll make sure to move on if they say no Ugh and ew .. Being a nice guy is the worst ! The sad part is the 'niceness' rarely gets them anywhere Better to be a honest, straight out asshole instead lol
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:45 PM
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Brilliant post mate !
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:59 PM
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don't have bad intentions What exactly would these be, in this context ? Keep things light Any tips on how to do so ? It helps to be fit Oh boy, guess i gotta put off the beach visit until i lose the belly
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:55 PM
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That's what i have heard about Europe and North America.. Add in maybe Australia and the countries near it Its not that common in Asia, Middle East and South America.. I would say Don't know about Africa P.S : I'm not from the West myself
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:21 PM
2

your cousin is a good wing lol
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:14 PM
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sounds like a very shitty work environment change jobs if that is possible for you , because currently you are working with a bunch of retards
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:11 PM
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Girls are always on alert from weird or potentially harmful peopl how do you avoid looking like one of these on the beach ?
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:45 PM
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this is a brilliant post that girl had problems , you should thank your stars lol imagine what a pain in your ass she would have been if she had shown her colors after you had gotten to know her for some time well done and as someone who has never approached a girl due to religious restrictions and conservative cultural / social conditioning , this post encourages me to go out , put myself out there and take risks looking forward to getting rejected like this so i can laugh at them lol
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:41 PM
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your point is legit but think from another perspective - not the seduction perspective we read in Biology class that Women can give birth till the age of 45 in the real world that figure might be even less ( mid or late 30s at most ) so a woman can be rich af - but she still needs a man who will be a father to her children this is no way means she cannot raise a child or even several children on her own but if she wants a stable family , she's going to want a man who's going to stick around and …
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:36 PM
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you lucky b*stard , you got milfs drooling all over you you should be having fun with them
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:31 PM
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this is true and i would like to add something i read on this sub u/spicy_simba , you should also consider this - although i appreciate your original advice a guy posted a few days ago about being tested by a woman .. like really , really being tested by her ( it was something about his tight pants and the woman trying to disqualify him by telling him his business was showing through the pants and the pants not being a good fit ) he was able pass her test and make out with her - he did not hook …
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:02 PM
1

HAHA WTF i laughed reading the first sentence
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:57 PM
1

Dodged a bullet now go find a sane lady
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:55 PM
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your body will crave it, screen potential mates and obsess about it subconsciously. isn't this neediness ? Chances are the emotional investment of working together caused you to think about the conversation and therefore who you were talking to maybe i didn't fully elaborate - but there's no chance of us working together , we're in different grades ( she's an undergrad and i'm a grad student - we won't work together ) , so i don't know why would i emotionally invest in her at all ? where - from …
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:54 PM
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got it she 'approached' you - subtly , by being calibrated to the environment the gist of it is .. most time , approaching a random means you're interested in them same , if it happens to you
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:32 PM
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A. I will assume you're a PoC ( person of color ) . If so, how do you deal with it. If you feel uncomfortable, you can message me privately about this , i have never really dealt with racism because i was never in such a position in the first place but i probably will be more open to racism when i go out and put myself out there .. so would appreciate the help and guidance B. Got it, it's part of flaunting their youth C. There's only one way to find out .. by finding out heh thanks , nice talkin…
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:30 PM
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The right way of looking (sexually, but not FULLY sexually, if that makes sense) is what i find conveys intent perfectly can you give more information about this ?
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:25 PM
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i am 5'6 , 61.2 kg and 15.7 % body fat according to Huawei Honor Scale 2 I have a belly ( ashamed to admit it , but gotta lose it somehow ! ) because i had a sedentary lifestyle and i work on Computers - alot when i tried running .. i probably went too hard on myself and injured one of my Knee bones - which put an end to my running and also all the bodyweight exercises i did ( bodyweight squats , planks , pushups , reverse lunges etc )
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:22 PM
1

last step is legit till the first 2 words
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:43 PM
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that last line really , really makes so much sense - and it sucks to have so much familiarity to that fuck social media - go out and say hi to girls, let them know you think they're cute , smile at them and literally play with them a little ! who knows you might get a date - or maybe even more ! just have to fucking go out
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:42 PM
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you should also show your profile so others can critique and give you advice edit : good night
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:40 PM
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If you cant look at a woman and not think about fucking her immediately, imna say detox your porn habit i don't watch porn - i prefer women in real life , who are physically with me i don't look at her with the thought of fucking her .. i just , i don't know .. it makes me way too fucking shy to look at her , maybe i feel attracted to her ? maybe it's some other feeling - to provide some perspective - girls here dress much more openly ( or provocatively ) and this is all pretty new to me , so ..…
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:15 PM
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so instead of suddenly whisking you away to a high tempo dance she just took you from qualifying herself , to then separated you to talk , then went to a slow dance .. okay , is this gradual escalation ( for the lack of a better word ) proof that the lady who likes you is socially calibrated to the environment of the bar / club you were in ?
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:04 PM
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or invite and make her wait foreva.. 😂 🤣 And im like ohh cool lets grab a coffee then😁 What did she say
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:42 PM
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After reading this.. All i want to know is how long does it take to get fit
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:39 PM
1

Any good resources to understand Social Calibration
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:38 PM
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Ofc ofc hehe I don't drink coffee but a coffee date sounds nice and cheap for a first date Now - i must work on the substantial part i.e approaching girls and asking them out to coffee dates
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:27 PM
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And 90% of the time dont get even a single coffee.. I think i know what you mean 😏
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:21 PM
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I just cannot stop looking at her looking at just her face ? how .. exactly did you look at her ? I don't care that she sees that i have trouble looking at girls - due to the previous cultural conditioning i feel it's kind of creepy to them or dirty of men , to look at women like that .. but i don't know anymore , can you guide me a bit ? and we keep running into each other during the day and i get VERY nervous while running into people i know .. i realize this spells into something along the li…
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:10 PM
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These might all seem pretty out there and hard to pull off but you need to really get out of the mindset that she will somehow not like you to behave this way. It makes no sense. You are both on a date, you are both attracted to each other, you both want to have sex with each other so you need to start acting like it. well said
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:04 PM
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Don't take them to restaurants for the first date. tips for cheap first dates ? i used to be shy and embarrassed of 'not being rich enough' to date women but i realized that's utter bullshit so .. what would you recommend affordable first - something that the girl would enjoy ?
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:03 PM
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and that you think she’s gorgeous and special. isn't this giving her too much validation ?
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:58 PM
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any guides on the hug ? .. i can't believe i am asking this , but i am a beginner after all
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:56 PM
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It all starts with the hug when you first walk up to each other upon the meet you often talk about this hug does this only work in the USA ? i'm not in North America or exactly Western Europe - i don't know if the girls here will be receptive to a date 'touching' them at the very start with a hug ..
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:55 PM
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If you're sitting just touch them on their elbow or forearm when you're making a point can you provide a very, very 'childish' example like maybe something from one of your dates - i need to see how this actually works in person , real-time
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:53 PM
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Touch them flirtatiously and reassuringly while talking how .. guide plz
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:52 PM
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this should be flaired as Fundamentals because this is the fucking point of Seduction
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:51 PM
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nd i’m pretty lonely so I don’t want to push her away, but I don’t like being lied to and can’t help but feeling used mate .. you sound needy as fuck if you can go out - just fucking go out , there must be bars and shit in your city ! daygame / nightgame - try these out there are thousand of pretty young women in your city of 1 fucking Million people find 10 - just 10 out of several thousands and if you even manage to talk seductively to two of these 10 women .. this 'friend' of yours will soon …
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:33 PM
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I just wouldn't reply but once a week, at most. Keep her danglin' what exactly would you reply - if you were OP ? also, how to keep her danglin' ?
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:30 PM
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yo - specific question here what would be more effective to deal with a girl who's as deceitful as this one ? leaving her on read ? or something else ?
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:29 PM
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She said her friends kept pushing her to pursue other guys and forget about me, but that it was 100% her mistake and she would do anything to take me back this is your chance run lol
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:18 PM
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If I'm being honest I was a bit jealous before these events, but nothing as severe as now. I've always felt disappointed in myself that I was jealous, and to be honest , you need multiple women in your lives .. and before your disagree with me , know that i come from a very strict and religious society where sex before marriage could very well get you disowned and shamed from your own home ( even as a guy lol ) and monogamy is the norm - i don't live there anymore thankfully but you get the gist…
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:17 PM
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but because we work together there's your problem lel
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:12 PM
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Point 4 and 5 are MASSIVE for those who don't know what i'm talking about , you will someday ..
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:10 PM
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Hey mate, mind if I ask you for some guidance
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:27 PM
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Which apps work best for this And which platforms are you most likely to find these kind of "office women" more frequently and in greater numbers ?
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:25 PM
2

Same question lol
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:24 PM
3

This advice sounds genuine
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:20 PM
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Didn't know women disliked being addressed like that Guess that's why I'm on this subreddit, to learn about seduction haha Have a good one 👋🏽
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:15 PM
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Fuck that's terrible lol
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:11 PM
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This is a very good and very detailed answer That insight about that married woman shit testing you extra hard on purpose really opens my eyes - it's not always your fault an interaction goes bad with a girl, there could be a million reasons you don't know Aand your advice about owning the mindset is golden - as Mark says in Models "subcommunication" is wayy more important than what you actually say. This makes so much sense when i read your advice , however you look at it 👌🏽 Really, thank you !
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:33 PM
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Great way to put it Thanks !
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:19 PM
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Your gender had nothing to do with this i would have called out a man by saying 'he' Doesn't make any difference at all honestly - it's more about the advice rather than the gender of the individual giving it ( i did back your rejection advice by referring to your gender, so i don't see what's the the problem with that ) if you think this interaction had a derogatory tone to it - i certainly didn't intend for it to pan out like that in the first place, apologies for that nevertheless Have a good…
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:01 PM
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Eh ?
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:51 PM
2

Are you saying ignorance is bliss, in this context ?
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:24 PM
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I can see where you're going with this It's easier to write about this character, rather than pulling this persona off in the physical, real life world
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:10 PM
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Give a good example of how to handle her when she comments on something intangible Also how to treat something like "the fact it is" and move on ? Lastly, what does it mean by "not allowing her comments room to breath" ? And did you hook up with the girl who rested her head on your chest ? Your example was great btw - hope i can use this kind of tactic sometime
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:33 PM
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Good, that means you will hopefully be unbiased when going through the relevant papers Go to the site i mention above and please read the papers, there's also studies done by Philip Zimbardo (iir his name correctly) - he gave a Ted talk, as did the founder of your brain on porn iirc
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:16 PM
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I think most have tried mysterymethod and ToddV's stuff and realised it doesn't work how it does in the books or the cherrypicked infield Wait.. It DOESN'T WORK ? How is it legit then ?!
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:13 PM
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Nice one, fellow computer guy
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:11 PM
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Where can i learn about Push Pull ?
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:40 AM
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Now, if you already slept with her, then she's probably just bad at texting. Im which case, should he call her over again ?
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:39 AM
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What are some good examples of socially accepted topics ? Also, how to actually escalation verbally (i know the Di Carlo Escalation Ladder, I'm talking about veering away from safe topics and into sexual, arousing topics which directly subcommunicate my honest and explicit intentions to the girl - which are to be sexual with her )
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:34 AM
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Can you go into detail about what exactly was the turning point for you ? There must have been a moment where you feel really scared but also EXTREMELY excited + positive, that's what marks a major turning point and propels you to your new reality I need to know this because i am really nervous around girls, even at my age - this is horrible because it communicates that i am socially awkward and ofcourse.. Anxious too All of this fucks with inner game - which is more important, yes ? Oh and happ…
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:08 AM
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How to give less fucks And how exactly does that improve game
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:03 AM
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Probably a comrade is fucking with that guy
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:01 AM
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Why tho
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:01 AM
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Can't disagree with your statement But women are just as much human as any man They retain a part of their primitive ancestor survival logic even today
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:59 PM
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Can you describe your own changes ? I could use some guidance too
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:56 PM
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Wtf is FUD, sounds horrible
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:54 PM
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You can only work with a girl who is attracted How to get girls attracted if you don't have supermodel genes ?
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:23 PM
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now seed the pull to go back to her place for sexy times. No LMR 1.what did you say to seed the pull to go to HER place ? 2. Why do you think there was no LMR? Was she truly interested in you
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:20 PM
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As someone who's terrified of approaching absolute strangers.. I'm not quite sure what to make of this post Good advice though - could at least be a PSA to guys juggling multiple girls
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:14 PM
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Haha holy shit I think i have heard the same advice for the umpteenth time from both these guys on this sub Do all guys make similar mistakes with girls ?
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:06 PM
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Bang more chicks
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:53 AM
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Oh boy. You’d be terrified of me then. Hey I'm not terrified of ya, quite the contrary in fact 😏
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:38 AM
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I feel kinda ashamed saying this lol But if she's hot, just pump and dump Go into the exam with a "couldn't care less" attitude
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:37 AM
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yeah , i'm living in a foreign country
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:36 AM
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best resources to learn how to study a room ?
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:59 PM
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Tip Number One - they're fucking human and have organs that a human does , so they're pretty much the same as your except for an organ or two - nothing much of a major difference unless they're aiming a deadly weapon at you , you should not be afraid or nervous around them think of this next time you come across a gorgeous 10 / 10 oh and a 10 in your eyes be a 5 in someone else's perception , so remember they're not universally gorgeous - another reason not to pedestalize them or be frightened b…
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:51 PM
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This would be a well suited comment for the at least you tried meme - it was a fair reason from her, you'll find more girls there are millions of them ! I'm thinking it's going to be the same for me regarding the emotional surge - except they don't know English and i don't know their language, so it's going to be very interesting heh Good luck with your other daygame sessions !
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:44 PM
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Being cordial does not communicate or get you friend zoned at all so if a guy is persistently friendly to a girl but likes her .. what kind of signal is he sending by being friendly all the time ? assuming the girl is not a mind reader I think a lot of men don’t understand that women make up their minds quite quickly about wether they will ever become sexually involved with a man and it rarely ever changes. this honestly looks very demoralizing and unfair to most men , they could be genuine peop…
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:41 PM
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yeah from years of heartbreaks and being a very, very BADLY needy guy at one point in life - i learned that girls do a lot of retarded shit , which is precisely why pedestalizing them is a bad , in fact fatal idea - because you will always be disappointed by their actions genuinely aware people will bet their asses on the aforesaid fact - it's that obvious ! guys shouldn't take anything women do on face value or take anything personally , women can be wonderful or they can be f**king idiots just…
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:21 PM
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Yet one match was from someone who's looking for a hookup. mind telling why didn't you go for this to bide the time ?
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:15 PM
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yes that's the entire point of approaching i wish i could start doing this as well
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:14 PM
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this entire comment is pretty awesome not only does it give good reasoning for approaching women but it also presents very valid justifications for not approaching society will always have a shitty side to it , don't pay attention to what people / general society says just keep putting in the effort that's how it's going to be i hope to start approaching soon as stupid restrictions end ( soon hopefully ! ) and even though i hope the daygame sessions will be smooth, if they're not and i face chal…
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:30 PM
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how about polishing about your Fundamentals (just google what are fundementals in game, they're the same shit in dating or pretty much ANY social situations ) and just go to a club / bar and try to smile and say hi to people i don't realize why people in North America are having trouble dating ? you have the highest number of dating app users ( apps are shit - but you get the point ) you have the highest number of pubs and bars and you probably have a very open, liberal culture - come on just re…
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:19 PM
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OP just fucking google "Pre-selection"
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:16 PM
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i don't watch porn but yes , there are men who like older women more that's not to say i will rule out younger women - ofc i'd like to date them too just that older girls get me going better than younger girls
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:01 PM
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Yeah well, to each their own I'd love to be with a girl 10 years older than me, the prospect of being intimate with older women turns me on much more than being intimate with younger women I'm mid 20s, for perspective
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:40 PM
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Masturbation is great! But like all things in life, it needs to be in moderation. don't listen to her , she knows close to nothing about masturbation and she's giving terrible advice ( her rejection advice looks sensible tho ) DON'T waste your sperm - it's composed of vital nutrient the only jacking off you should advocate is when you're being jacked off by a sexual partner JACKING YOURSELF OFF IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT AND HAS ADVERSE AFFECTS i know most people are not going to believe me and sim…
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:28 PM
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DM me, I'll tell ya
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:54 PM
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Don’t tell them they look good, let your eyes say that Non-verbals yeah ?
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:38 PM
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In some countries girls would freak out, send angry shit and crazy texts and probably block a guy Or worse, get him in trouble Just because he asked "do you like me" Thus crushing all his self-esteem for asking a very straightforward question
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:30 PM
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I called a senior 35 year old guy out yesterday who was having second thoughts about being with a younger girl and I'm going to do the same here as well This is a really stupid post, dump him if you don't like him but this case has nothing to do with seduction This is more like post seduction, which i believe is a different ball game You're both adults, just make your own choices without thinking too much
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:24 PM
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If you're on phone, add the (>) and paste the entire paragraph after it If you're on PC, there's an option to quote an entire paragraph with a single click in the fancy pants editor
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:27 AM
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great post mate ! i want to do exactly this as well ! fucking pandemic restrictions need to end ASAP just put yourself out there , no matter what happens ! ( you can get laughed at / girls can freak out at you OR you can get a number / an actual lay ) the only way to find out .. is to actually try ! best of luck to us !
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:23 AM
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can you post a sample or even a dummy conversation ? DM if that feels better
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:12 AM
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Sometimes the person on the other side isn't right for you(or for anyone else, that's why they are single maybe). more guys need to know this
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:10 AM
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fair enough ha !
/r/seduction09/07/21 10:23 PM
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haha alright mate !
/r/seduction09/07/21 10:17 PM
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You can always lie about your job if you want to avoid gold diggers. how can he lie ? Asking because i'm not too good in this either AND i want to keep suspense with the girl too it's boring to tell her what i do if she doesn't get curious or interested !
/r/seduction09/07/21 10:14 PM
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this is literally the best advice on this entire thread - tbh it's fair game girls didn't date you in college , you don't have to commit to them in your professional life
/r/seduction09/07/21 10:13 PM
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I see, I'm not good at text So i will start by trying to be direct in my approach Not overbearing, but direct
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:06 PM
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You fucked a milf, that Girl B WTF are you mad about - most guys dream of fucking girls 10 years their senior - it's a very strong fantasy for guys
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:01 PM
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How many girls are receptive to Anal ?
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:00 PM
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Can i ask why don't you do bars and night game ? I don't do social circle because i want to avoid potential reputation damage
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:58 PM
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Maybe you're one of the rare ones.. I don't know you well enough to say that really But being cordial communicates to the woman that you're NOT sexually and/or romantically interested in her , thus she will consider another man Its a fast way to land for a guy to labd himself into the friendzone and a very fast way to become a nice guy - something he should ABSOLUTELY avoid Also, Understand that not every woman is as bold and open minded as you are.. Most would be terrified and nervous of compli…
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:16 AM
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👌🏽
/r/askTRP09/07/21 08:56 AM
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By far the best advice Only idiots, simps, betas and nice guys will disagree with you
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:35 AM
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You're both consenting adults This has literally nothing to do with seduction Its your decision - fuck what the society thinks, age gaps are a human construct, you've go nothing to worry about as long as it's both adults As long as you're both 18 or over, behave like adults and make your own decisions
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:26 AM
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Google the word Photogenic Spoiler :very few people are photogenic, you'll understand what I'm talking about once you Google
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:22 AM
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You need to explain this ups and downs more Especially how those help AVOID being the nice guy to women and be straightforward and sexual with them instead
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:59 AM
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Growing up in a strict, academically focused, religious family didn’t help me at all Oh boy
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:55 AM
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Don't set him up for disappointment At least tell him he needs above decent pictures, better if they're from at least a half decent photographer who knows his way around a DSLR And of course - he's in luck if he is in the US, literally the best place to pursue dating apps
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:53 AM
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You probably are If she likes you what have you got to lose Shoot your shot Good luck ! Once I'm off these stupid pain medicines I'll try to make myself likeable to a girl or two for the first time in life myself heh
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:38 AM
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So a guy should state what they're looking for in the initial stages of a conversation ?
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:31 AM
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i want them to tell me exactly what they want Wouldn't that be too direct abd scare away most women
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:27 AM
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Stop with the beta bucks thinking A man has more to offer than just money
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:21 AM
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Kill that mindset And then shoot it again after killing it Its worthless - doesn't achieve anything at all, so kill it as many times as you have to, so that you can grown out of your limiting beliefs For perspective, i have the same fear of approaching girls - what if a girl freaks out, berates me on my skin color or worse, tells lies to people that I'm harassing her and gets me beat.. That would be horrible But that's just my dumbass mind / subconscious making me fear a possible risk.. A risk w…
/r/seduction09/07/21 01:34 AM
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Great ! Good for you Now please help me out here - how to get over fear of cold approach when all my life i was socially conditioned to avoid 'immoral' practices and something along the lines of (but not exactly) 'lower my gaze'
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:36 PM
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Appreciate the thought I'm not the OP though :)
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:23 PM
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" Leave her better than you found her " Read that somewhere about game
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:21 PM
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If any guy approaches you, don't freak out. Spread the word lol
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:17 PM
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but I find it hard to start talking to guys and make friends with them let alone pursue a relationship with them. Great ! TIL that the other side can be just as shy at least we have something in common lol Start by being friendly and maybe subtly hit on them Google IOIs - you wanna give those off for prospective men to catch and interpret
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:14 PM
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There are no strings attached until they ask What exactly do they ask ?
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:05 PM
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I wish ..
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:04 PM
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I have no lines but I'd request you to teach me :D You sound like a wizard lol
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:00 PM
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But I’m able to hide this by my reading them as people and finding out what they want Can you explain in detail how you achieve this ? You can DM me if you're more comfortable that way
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:59 PM
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Absolute beginner here ( no relationships as of yet and not really looking for one either ) - so official disclaimer lel I’ve always been faithful when in a committed relationship despite the way I sound as a person now and they didn’t return the favor This is called over investment - the worst mistake you can make when you're in a sexual and/or NON-PLATONIC relationship with a girl, you're putting in too much when you should have been sleeping or at least having fun with other girls Hell, even …
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:55 PM
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Well said and truest advice one can give here - theory can only take me so far I'll try to do whatever i can and i just hope that the idiot restrictions end and we can go out again I'm ready to put myself out there ! Many thanks brother 🙏🏽
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:18 PM
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Wish i had this abundance of options when I was a teenager
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:50 PM
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How.. I'm too nervous
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:47 PM
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Works on all girls ? Regardless if they're American, European or Middle Eastern ? I'm inexperienced as fuck and don't know 2 things about casual intimacy with girls
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:28 PM
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And what if she freaks upon the thigh touch
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:24 PM
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but we can see certain emotions on the face and see how people react to certain actions I just have to become good at this
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:55 PM
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This part is for everyone reading this comment If you find this advice helpful and want to be part of a Facebook group where you learn how to approach dating in a way that's actually dignified and build a dating life that's on your own terms then send me a direct message letting me know you want to join. If you are serious about improving your dating life then I'll be happy to welcome you in. Check DM
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:28 PM
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Which song is playing
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:20 PM
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Lol you got down voted for almost nothing
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:18 PM
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Can you please make a post about this ? As a guide to newbies I have trouble taking girls from dating apps to whatsapp - they're very uptight when it comes to asking for their numbers Cheers
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:53 PM
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You're not seeing reality. You're seeing a distorted version of reality. That part of you does not want to die. It is addicted to the chemicals. It is addicted to the self-pity. It is addicted to the anger. Why do you think people lose their minds? They are addicted to negative energy. They have formed an identity around it. The quitting mind wants you to hate everyone. It wants you to hate women. It is frustrated and angry. But it doesn't get results. It doesn't get anything accomplished. It ju…
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:01 PM
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Why does it cause anxiety ? Asking because I'm also nervous of calling girls
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:49 PM
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I think the real problem is pretending to already be at the point that you're trying to get to, like pretending to be rich when you live paycheck to paycheck, that's not a good idea but working on becoming rich, trying to become rich, I'm 100% for that. This is well written, interesting observation !
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:45 PM
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You might wanna post this in that relationship advice sub You clearly have something else to deal with in your relationship / marriage
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:11 PM
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How could he have done it better ? What could he have said that would have maximized his chances ?
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:05 PM
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Can you explain more? How to be upfront about it ? ELI5 if possible
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:19 AM
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When I went through years of trying to hide it everyone thought I was simply arrogant Oh shit that's bad
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:18 AM
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you don't think he would get turned off tho if i keep making the moves If a man gets turned off while a woman makes moves on him - he's probably not interested in girls You can figure out the rest Good day
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:16 AM
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Also, I have a buddy who plays in a rock band and whenever he invites me, there are lots of women from age 20 to 40. Very often have I gotten a hookup out of it. You lucky af !
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:13 PM
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thanks , that a succinct description ! masculine frame where can i read more about this ? or about Frame in general .. i'm an absolute beginner to this and it really confuses me whenever Frame is mentioned anywhere in seduction
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:57 PM
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What does it mean to 'break frame' ?
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:23 PM
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How were you checking her out exactly ? P.S : this is a serious question - I'm very shy of checking girls out because i was taught not to look at women when i was young and to 'lower my gaze' AND i also don't want to be called a creep by a girl who thinks I'm checking her out
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:20 PM
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Here's your mistake - you should have asked her out at after step 2 in your timeline ( called step 2.5 ? ) If she postponed, rejected or made excuses then.. Well you know what to do then ! Hard Next Better luck next girl !
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:13 PM
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Thanks for the tip, mate - most definitely will warn a friend or two to keep an eye on me if i get to drunk or too weird lol
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:41 PM
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Try to smile at a girl you like Ye.. I have heard this before as well And i think i know what happens if this works out - show smiles back or looks down or gives some other IOI or best case, if she's feeling bold she'll come talk to me Thanks mate ! Looking forward to my first ever club visit when the restrictions are finally over and we can go out as we please Might even report on the sub here !
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:40 PM
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Good question - I'm a beginner who's never been on a date but I would say intense eye contact would be a good start Even during awkward silences Looking forward to what the experienced members say !
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:37 PM
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I love Kareoke ! And i really want to sing even if my voice might not be the most singing appropriate voice Women who of course you can also be friends with, but you know what I’m getting at. Oh i most definitely do ;)
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:55 AM
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Would they find it creepy or uncomfortable that I'm checking them out while they're dancing ? P.S : never done this before and never been to a club before - so these might sound like beginner questions
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:51 AM
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then I did molly What is molly ?
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:50 AM
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Thanks mate !
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:53 AM
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Thanks !
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:34 AM
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I see 😅
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:14 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion One thing, if you don't mind me asking - 8s there a high risk of doing something inappropriate while drunk dancing ? P.S : i have never had alcohol either
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:08 AM
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not everyone gets kicked out at 18 from their home more westerners need to know this lol
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:01 AM
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as someone who has never danced and is extremely shy of dancing .. i don't know what to do with this advice good post though !
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:00 AM
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You really think i would ask you if i wanted to read from a medical book ? I know millions of medical books exist The stimulation part is tricky How to stimulate it without it getting over stimulated, because that kills her libido I'll search on my own Thanks for your input
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:59 PM
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I always laugh when this shit is posted HAHA wtf
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:57 PM
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Lol this guy again This is very funny now
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:56 PM
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Oh i have a good idea about the clitoris ( the bean shaped extension yeah.. ) and i have watched some 'videos' too .. But like i don't want to browse porn sites any more A formal resource would be better
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:25 PM
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I need to hear this when i was a horny teenage boy with rampant sex hormones inside my body clouding my judgement, intuition, interpretation and decision making
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:59 PM
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The 3 F's Rule sounds legit this should be added to the sidebar lol P.S : i'm not your fan lol - you just spew out good shit
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:58 PM
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As a general rule you’re better off going for the number and getting shot down than wasting time and energy on the back end Snapchatting someone who isn’t truly interested. If anything go for the number This is GOLDEN advice
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:12 PM
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thanks mate ! this is kind of insightful and helpful !
/r/seduction03/07/21 06:33 PM
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Thanks, makes a bit of sense See you around !
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:48 PM
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Holy shit - alot of this is common i realize ! If you have time - you should write a small blog or something, nothing too detailed or time consuming Something others can follow and also get help from You noticing the bad things that damage your self respect and self-esteem might help others find theirs too And they will also be able to weed them out
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:43 PM
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How to spend more time around women ?
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:35 PM
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As a guy who's never had alcohol his entire life, do you think this will work for me ?
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:20 PM
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What's wrong - you always give good advice Something seems off with this one, are you drunk ?
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:19 PM
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Any good resources to read from ?
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:18 PM
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Please check DM
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:17 PM
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Same question
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:10 PM
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This is fantastic advice Obviously we don't know your culture - which could be a huge factor BUT otherwise, hit her with the this commenter is saying Oh and move on
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:07 AM
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meta decisions What are these ?
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:44 AM
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Thanks Kinda makes sense mate ! You can't be considered a pervert for looking at your wife heh So there's nothing wrong in having eye contact with a girl you think is kinda cute :3 I just sometimes get nervous and all fidgety while looking at a girl i think is cute or beautiful.. Almost like she'll know i am admiring her by looking at her with my gaze I just gotta ignore and bypass thinking like that and just do it !
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:41 AM
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Yeah you're right.. not sure why i would drool at girls tho I'm really scared to look at girls, ESPECIALLY THOSE who i found beautiful I had to go to the infirmary and there was this nurse who i find super cute because she has brown hair and colored eyes i was so afraid to look at her because.. I was taught from childhood that's it's impolite and immoral to stare at girls.. WTF
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:09 AM
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dig on the ladies how to do this ?
/r/seduction02/07/21 11:34 PM
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they won't be seeing me as someone unwanted who's talking to the group ?
/r/seduction02/07/21 11:13 PM
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I would plan something that he can join in this can be very easily misconstrued haha
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:13 PM
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wtf
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:11 PM
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but the world doesn't work this way yeah - i agree , even when i wasn't aware of game/seduction i knew that there had to be a better way because i knew other guys had 2 , TWO simultaneous girlfriends in early teenage - so why not me ? I knew things were done differently , just that in my society it sucked because everyone was religious and conservative , even if deep down the didn't want to be - because no one wants to be ostracized I've never heard of something like that and sounds like being h…
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:10 PM
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very nice - what gave them away ? like how'd you know they wanted to talk more ?
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:48 PM
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great advice ! you're one of the good ones over here , i recall ! whether they truly make you feel connected, comfortable, respected, safe, and cared for most people , even here on this sub say that all these feelings are what the woman should feel with a man and not vice-versa e.g : how would a man feel safe with a woman ? , so how does this work actually ? You shouldn't be too fixated on doing things for girls that you forget to look for girls who really do things for you. how does this work e…
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:47 PM
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and op , listen to this guy - he's like a cool big brother here !
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:28 PM
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document their reactions too ! tell me, how did they react !
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:28 PM
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Brilliant post, brother !
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:27 PM
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You also doesn’t seem to know how Wikipedia works at all. Acting like you’re being victimized by a giant site like Wikipedia is laughable It's all correct and valid until it happens to you today it's men .. tomorrow it could be women what you don't understand is that no one authority is absolved of being wrong and outright biased let me open a pandora's box .. a few years ago a very reputable health site tried to discredit a research on how porn affects men's brain - it was research into neural …
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:26 PM
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explain
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:14 PM
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but i'm scared to approaching too many people - maybe it's social anxiety maybe it's self-consciousness ( too many people watching my every move )
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:13 PM
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do you have very good friends ? anyone you can trust your life with ? ask one them to be your wing and approach a 2-set ( 2 girls together ) with your wing if nothing else , he will get some fun and amusement out of this
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:12 PM
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i haven't approached a girl yet i just vehemently believe day game and night game is better than social circle game and dating app/social media game
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:11 PM
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Thanks for adding Feel free to define something as you see fit ! I'll check out the site in the meanwhile
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:11 PM
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The downside is that far too many men do this and waste genuine effort and time And getting NOTHING in return.. which inflates a girl's ego and makes her think she's entitled to always receive without giving See the pattern ? Doesn't bode well for anyone - girl or boy
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:06 PM
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👌🏽 💯
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:07 PM
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Would also be great if you could explain this a bit more An easy way I’ve learned to do this is this: Imagine you are a girl that is being hit on. Now everything that girl would say, you say to the girl in front of you An example would be greatly appreciated - preferably something you might have done personally
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:51 PM
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Please keep going - this is great stuff !
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:49 PM
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I have a slight belly I'm looking to get rid of because no girl likes belly on a man , so i wouldn't mind if somebody told me to go to the gym And i really want to, too bad the gyms are fucking closed here But i get your point Legit post
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:17 PM
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" Congratulations, you played yourself " Jokes apart, this is why approaching is proven to be better than social media or dating apps Day Game & Night Game for the win !
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:13 PM
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Can you DM me instead ?
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:59 PM
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I see this mentioned SO MANY FUCKING TIMES and it's worth the penny every single time Stop approaching on Instagram - which basically serves as a validation farm EVEN FOR ORDINARY LOOKING WOMEN (no offense - i like ordinary looking girls too but i strongly DISLIKE validation seekers, regardless of how beautiful you are, ladies !) No one can guarantee you this - but there's a good chance the experience might have been different had you smiled at her and said hi in the elevator Better luck next gi…
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:53 PM
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She told me to make a female work for your attention and validation. Lol most men give this advice too, so you know she was spot on
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:42 PM
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What's the next best thing to a casual hug greeting - i have never done this with a girl and I'm currently in a secular Muslim country, so things can be relatively uncertain Anything else that could work ?
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:02 PM
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So as a beginner who's never kissed before.. Would it be safe to go for the kiss on the second date instead ? Please keep in mind - I was born in, and for a long time used to live in, a VERY conservative culture where even touching a woman you were not married to was considered a very serious violation and would automatically make you a profligate and libertine, no matter how educated or respectable you were individually So I'm very nervous and fidgety with such intimacies with women - not becau…
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:28 PM
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Example ? This is kinda new to me .. Would appreciate the help !
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:17 PM
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I'm seeing a pattern here, it's like you qualify her for something good / common and disqualify her for something bad / uncommon I might be wrong We will be grateful if you make a post on it ! Also you mention building comfort - can you describe that too ? These are completely new concepts for me And I'd like to know about them before starting daygame
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:16 PM
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I have 2 questions What exactly is this Qualification ? Can you please give a clear example that outlines the difference between being a goofball and having fun ?
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:59 AM
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I can't help you much I did read your post though and i could feel part of your pain - horrible what you went through Know that similar shit happens in many places and cultures - as a child i was ALWAYS compared to how good my cousins were doing academically, being pushed and verbally criticized to be more like them and that fucked up my perceptions of success - that was a shit show made up of lies and presumptions I also had a bad, BAAD perception about losing - so much so that i became habitua…
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:55 AM
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How accurate is the FORD model ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:37 PM
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Thanks 💯
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:19 PM
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Thanks mate !
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:18 PM
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Thanks !
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:17 PM
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Someone should make a list about topics to talk about on dates, so guys like don't don't get stuck in awkward silences
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:26 PM
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Interesting ..
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:25 PM
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Yes ! That would help
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:22 PM
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Thanks !
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:21 PM
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Damn bro you’re my biggest fan today lol Haha did i ask you somewhere else too ? Thanks for explaining
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:20 PM
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Whatsapp is used by everyone This should be a great screening criteria for who wants to go out with me and who doesn't
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:09 PM
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Also feel more comfortable with a phone call Can you please describe how this works in a guy's favor I'm really shy of talking to a girl over phone.. Like i worry what if she doesn't like my voice or thinks something along those lines ? Just a fundamental description would be much appreciated
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:08 PM
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I got a few hook ups from there but it was more difficult to keep it casual Why so ? What do the Bumble girls demand ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:07 PM
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How do you know exactly When girls.. Grind on you ? And like.. How exactly does this happen and where ? I have never been in this situation hence the question
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:59 PM
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Get the number - if she won't give it to you - she'll never go out with you. Is this a universal rule ? For girls all over the world I'm not questioning you but curious about the reasoning I'm not in America - if a girl refuses to give her number, should I quickly rule her out ? P.S: i haven't approached yet.. Just trying to understand
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:57 PM
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Is there a good material for this ? For an ABSOLUTE BEGINNER to understand I never understood this technique
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:55 PM
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How to avoid women like these WTF are guys supposed to do then I mean how do they initiate knowing she will not play such shitty games with them ? Any tips ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:54 PM
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How to build up a reputation during night out P.S:serious question - i have NEVER gone to a nightclub, I'm originally from a different culture
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:48 PM
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Perfect - kill two birds with one stone Vibe with her, get to know her a bit before initiating physical intimacy with her AND Verify her age
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:32 PM
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In the future ask for ID lmao lol - shag verification procedure
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:59 PM
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Don't give a shit about who gets triggered, wayy too many people in this world to even consider giving a shit - cut yourself some slack and don't give a shit at all you've got to focus on yourself only You should ask in the legal advice subreddit about what to do - provided your account is a throwaway account If possible save all the messages she sent you on snap so you have proof that she was also aware of this and it wasn't just you - in case shit goes south Next time try to be careful if poss…
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:58 PM
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Ah.. The last line explains it
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:07 PM
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Can you please DM how did you achieve this ? I have never approached a woman before - does being emotionally unavailable help ? Tease her and make her work for your approval. How to do this ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:07 PM
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Great comment !
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:04 PM
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This has been one of the main keys to my daygame success for sure. Can you please provide some anecdotes ? I don't see how someone can be irrationally self-confident while NOT coming across as an asshole or as creep I have limited knowledge of course, on this subject, hence the question
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:01 PM
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Ok guess i gotta be more outgoing.. Fuck shyness and awkwardness, no one remembers that haha ! Have a great day !
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:51 PM
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Even the most conservative girls I’ve been with haven’t really waited long when they wanted me What do you think attracts girls to you ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:46 PM
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So, it’s time for some tough love. You have a crush on her because you’re shy with girls. She is the only girl you talk to, and now you have feelings for her. You have no abundance. The cold, hard fact is that while you’re sitting in your bedroom having a crush on her and asking reddit how you can get a FWB out of her, she is out taking all ten inches of Chad and loving it. She isn’t thinking about you at all. Might sound harsh but it’s meant to snap you out of this funk. You can still be friend…
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:44 PM
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always go for it on the first date (unless the vibe is way off, but you had a 2nd date) 2 questions How do you know the vibe is off ? Does the second date means she likes you ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:54 PM
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Thanks, this will be very helpful in establishing intent instead of wasting time - once i get there, that is These are beginner questions.. But since I am a beginner so, bear with me What's the difference between waist and back ? And which one is considered more intimate than the other - in contrast at least I always thought it was VERY unwarranted to touch a girls thigh area near the knee. Since you term it as good and not huge.. is this a safer bet than the waist and the back ? Pushing her hai…
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:50 AM
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Thanks, this is good stuff ! hover handing is creepy What is hover handing ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:45 AM
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waist, back, pushing her hair behind her ear is a huge one Huge in a good way or bad way ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:42 AM
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Ok first time i say I'm a CIA agent - what reaction should I expect from her and how should I handle her ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:09 AM
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How to lie to them about my profession ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:25 AM
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Your first mistake was giving credence to fucking mainstream bullshit I don't swear but when i am irritated i don't hold back Mainstream is bullshit - all the movies and show the hero as the simp, beta jackass who is chasing after the heroine or is crazy about her Being crazy about a girl in real life only means you're foolish and she can use you at will - unless you two are married and she's just as crazy about you (so both sides have equal investment in the relationship, that's the only except…
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:12 AM
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Are you sure you want to marry at 21 ? Ask yourself that question when you're alone somewhere - where no one else can hear you talk to yourself sincerely Good luck !
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:04 AM
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Thanks ! That's the part the spine is, yeah ? Yeah i wouldn't dare touch a girl's butt or the area of her bra strap, especially in public - i was raised VERY differently, so alot of the things are like absolutely new to me I bet the first time i do this I'll feel very embarrassed but that's a small price to pay to grow up as a man Trying to adapt to all this as smoothly as possible Thanks for chipping in , lady !
/r/seduction30/06/21 10:41 PM
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right in the dip What is the dip here ?
/r/seduction30/06/21 10:33 PM
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Thanks mate Can i dm you instead?
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:16 PM
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Yeah that sucks I wouldn't want to be anywhere near such a culture where I have to do social gymnastics to court a girl I hate that because it almost always leads to much higher investment from men or it leads to absolutely nothing in such interactions because the men come off as needy (due to higher investment) No offense to your country though I am originally from a similar culture and i wouldn't want to be there ever Plus the conservative nature of those societies forces men to adopt a nice g…
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:31 PM
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A guy lightly placed his hand on my lower back while waiting in line for coffee 2 minutes in and it was CREEPY. Felt like he was already saying “you’re mine”. You weren't dating this guy, right? but I found myself accidentally touching his leg when while we talked and laughed Interesting .. So what is the moral of the story? It’s about not trying too hard, not having anything invested in a certain outcome on a certain night, laughing, especially at yourself, keeping things light. I don't know ..…
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:16 PM
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Which country ? And are saying the guys in your country act too open and too eager around girls ?
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:42 PM
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Yeah i don't want to be part of any culture that is so shitty and conservative when it comes to intergender interactions I just don't agree with that and i don't feel comfortable at all I disagreed with it when I was living in that culture and i maintain my stance even today P.S : porn is wayy different and i don't watch it anymore. and no women Asian or Western, save for a few, would even think about doing the things that porn stars do in that shit. Your Brian on porn website is a good place if…
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:38 PM
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I have never gone on a date in my life I have never held hands with girl Kissing is still some way to go I am just scared if a girl thinks i am being too direct by holding her hands or even slightly touching her shoulder or back of her arm Holding her back would probably make me blush more than her because i probably interpret it as a very strong intimate interaction with a girl I am currently rewriting my understanding of women because the previous culture i lived in discouraged close contact b…
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:10 PM
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You need to build attraction, and typically comfort as well Any good resources for this ? Especially the topic of how to build Comfort and Attraction with a girl
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:00 PM
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Thanks ! Hope i get to realize it !
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:56 PM
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I'd be very curious about the opposite case 😏 Taller girl
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:34 PM
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Username checks out lol
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:33 PM
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I tried holding hands with a girl on our 4th date and she pull her hand back. Ye this is the shit I'm talking about I wonder how guys in the west pull off making out with a girl they literally met a few hours ago or even touching girls intimately on the first or second dates, simply mind boggling ! 4th date wtf.. Holding hands should not be a problem, there's literally nothing perverse about holding hands
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:42 PM
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Check your DM mate
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:39 PM
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You lucky af
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:57 PM
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Great advice as always from this awesome veteran
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:56 PM
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What made these opportunities apparent to you , can you explain?
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:55 PM
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Great advice but i have never touched a girl intimately or even playfully (fucking stupid conservative culture in the previous country) What would be your advice for me ? As you write in your post, I'm scared of being a creep and being seen as desperate
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:54 PM
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Lol someone's stalking you lol
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:52 PM
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It's your personal well being and social life on the line, not anyone else's. Massive !
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:12 PM
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Haha wtf
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:56 PM
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Holy shit i didn't know Tom and Mark were under 6 feet of height !
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:56 PM
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This is great stuff ! Once I started doing more shit IRL What did you do exactly ? noticing I have options other than OLD and in multiple locations How did you make these two realizations ?
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:53 PM
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Go ahead - you've got nothing to lose Why do you want to wait for some stupid approval from this other girl ? What power does she have over you exactly ? Just approach the cute friend and maybe update the sub if you want Good day
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:42 PM
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This was confusing as fuck to read .. I haven't approached anyone yet and this scares me
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:39 PM
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It’s important to be vetting them more than they are vetting you I see you've read Models 📖 😏
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:34 PM
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Provide more details and perspective of what else happened Also, veterans and senior members PLEASE review what happened to this guy and provide tips that could help everyone
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:31 PM
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I just have ONE advice for you that can potentially change your entire situation Read Models - by Mark Manson I'm no seduction master (yet haha) but i have faced this absolutely shit statement of "any girl would be lucky to have you" Its bullshit and you don't know anything unless you've put yourself out there and be vulnerable - be honestly vulnerable ( people who have read the book will understand, you can come back to this comment after you've read the book ) But enough talking You have to ta…
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:57 AM
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No but I'm just considering the possibility of weird shit happening, cold approach is something very, very new to me Plus the language barrier is barely going to help - according to what Turkish people have told me themselves , not many people are confident speaking English in the country
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:06 PM
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Brilliant reply and thanks ! I always wondered how to express myself to women in a sexual way and this is how ! Yes, there's the risk of coming across as a creep but if that happens i can simply say " you seem uncomfortable, i will go on with my day . Have a nice day" and leave her there. I can then approach the next girl (after a few minutes - don't want to get caught spam approaching lol) I might DM you later - after i have done my first approach
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:14 PM
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I somewhat get it what I do is polarize a women. Don't talk to her as if she's your friend. Talk to her like an attractive men would talk to a women. Can you Explain these 2 a little bit more ?
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:32 AM
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Oh no you got me wrong I'm am only talking about the "asking for the number" part being too direct Pardon, i should provide some perspective.. At least that's the way it was in my previous country - way too much of a big deal to ask for a girl's number
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:21 PM
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It's about finding the girl who is attractive to you by Expressing yourself fully and unapologetically. How exactly does one achieve this ?
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:04 PM
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What constitutes an area ? What if someone doesn't have a big enough area to work with ? Not taking any sides , but this is a question out of genuine curiosity
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:03 PM
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Don’t give attention to people playing games. Golden advice !!
/r/seduction22/06/21 06:44 PM
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What is a neg
/r/seduction22/06/21 01:01 PM
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“I thought you were pretty cute/ attractive/ etc. Could I get your number? “ That's too direct, no ?
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:56 PM
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If you're straight - I'd say watch out for your ass during the 3some 😂 Everything else is good to go lol, she literally wants to bang it seems
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:54 PM
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there was a clock on the nightstand next to her bed. A whole new meaning to one night stand lol
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:50 PM
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‚Hey, you’re cool, give me your number, we’re gonna get a beer/icecream/coffee/buttfuck behind a dumpster’. Haha wtf
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:46 PM
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Keep the sub updated if you can - the information could be useful to beginners like me too ! I'd also like to know how a harem operates day to day and what does a guy have to do to manage it !
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:45 PM
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If somebody tries to do something, just apologize and leave. Thanks - this is a elegant way of ejecting I needed this contingency plan, just in case Thanks and regards !
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:43 PM
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Probably not - no one wants to go to jail But there's always the danger of getting pushed around, manhandled or attacked This is not my experience, because i haven't approached yet but this is what i have heard from others and locals - going as far that even waiters might try to interfere in dates or cold approaches (wtf) I am not a local but i am from an even more conservative culture, so you can see where the fear comes from Not that i am making excuses, i am willing to overcome it at any cost…
/r/seduction22/06/21 03:48 AM
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I'm in Istanbul It's not the women who i afraid of - it's the other people (probably men) who will try to be 'conservative', i guess I'll learn to handle them on the go And yeah, it doesn't matter anymore even if a girl ridicules me or says some mean shit like "you're too ugly" or "you're brown" etc Something's gotta give.. I need to get this over with Thanks for the guidance and encouragement mate Have a great day
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:54 AM
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Thanks mate.. I hope i don't get beaten or ridiculed
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:49 AM
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When using not just positives as part of a compliment, it shows a degree of acumen because of the push/pull nature of the statement, it leads to more banter. If he just said her eyes were beautiful it would have been "ohh....thanks", but adding "dark" and "mysterious" he is giving her material to work with to keep the convo fresh. This is vital But what do I know? I only have a lowly psychology masters. You should post more lol
/r/seduction21/06/21 05:57 PM
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. You don’t wanna do too much honestly, all most guys need to do in the first date is not talk too much to keep the mystery, strong intense eye contact at times, some flirtiness and let her talk her head off about her passion and by the end of the night she’ll think you’re a mysterious, sensual good listener and probably fuck you bro can’t lie lol Which country is this lol
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:25 AM
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Can you describe the concept of social acumen that can be achieved with this partial compliment ?
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:19 AM
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How many types of openers are there ? Can you tell me if there is a comprehensive list ?
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:14 AM
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Yes you should her leaving the work changes the dynamic of this ? how so ?
/r/seduction21/06/21 01:34 AM
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not the answer to your question - but can you summarise what he taught in there ?
/r/seduction20/06/21 10:37 PM
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maybe what u/expensive-sugar0199 said is probably true OR she's insecure and keeps using this to keep you in line go out on a few more dates with her and see if she pulls this again next her if she keeps doing this - you don't want that
/r/seduction20/06/21 10:13 PM
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what the fuck what the actual fuck what the fuck is this i'm not very huge either but i wouldn't do that if i was with women who are willing and excited about sex dick size really doesn't matter if you know how to use it - look something up on the internet or do something ffs being awkward socially is ok , you can improve, but here you're just being awkward to yourself - which is probably not ok , figure out your inner game or something there's lots of variables at making a woman sexually happy …
/r/seduction20/06/21 10:03 PM
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This is a great list and BOTH genders should read it !
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:16 PM
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SMOOTH
/r/seduction20/06/21 07:39 PM
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wouldn't want to date her then , would you ? that's not a good match
/r/seduction20/06/21 01:34 PM
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A lot of you hated how I said “make the decision for her” what I meant is to say something to make the date seem desirable and then tell her she’ll love it. Those people missed the fucking point as a man , at least as a masculine man , you're supposed to lead ! men are supposed to initiate, men are supposed to court - does that ring a bell ? regardless of the bullshit that the mainstream and the media tells you , you HAVE to make the decisions and be the leader of the interaction - that's what w…
/r/seduction20/06/21 01:33 PM
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Also what is your stance on conflict; are you being overly considerate to others due to a fear of conflict? This is the case for many people and it is critical to work on conflict management and find the right balance of assertiveness. How a person deals with conflict can largely impact their success in life. Can i get more guidance on this I am scared of conflict
/r/seduction18/06/21 09:53 AM
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There's always someone taller, better looking, better dressed, better at this, that, or the other. Just focus on yourself. Explain more please
/r/seduction18/06/21 09:41 AM
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Thanks mate - this is going to be my first cold approach and i just want to get it over with
/r/seduction18/06/21 09:26 AM
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Just work on turning the dial on her a little bit every time you talk. A bit advanced for a beginner like me, but I'll learn Thanks for guiding !
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:40 PM
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The point is don’t get overexcited in the beginning this FUCKING point i suffer from this ! how did you avoid and overcome this ! pls
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:10 PM
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your other points are valid
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:07 PM
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First, she knows that the reason you're talking to her is because she is cute. If she were ugly, you wouldn't talk to her. Don't mention it at all. Just start the conversation. what's a good opening then ? i could watch different PUA's suggest different things to open women with but i want to keep it very simple when i do it for the first time - i know i will be nervous as shaking probably out of fear of getting into trouble .. i don't know how to start conversations for cold approach
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:06 PM
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Some women are just shitty people, that's all. Men need to realize this instead of pedestalizing women all the time
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:03 PM
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I don't think there was anything dangerous Just that guy was super uncalibrated and probably rough as fuck in his approach If anything, he should have came up to you, smiled at you and said hi and then tried to talk to you instead of asking your friend I think him treating you in third person is what got to you on a subconscious level P.S : you line of sight incident did make me a bit afraid of talking to girls who look at me - but i will do it nonetheless because it's better to find out !
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:02 PM
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i'll probably say " have a nice day " and ignore that crazy woman , faster than the speed of light !
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:53 PM
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what the hell is that ?
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:51 PM
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Never ask the fish for fishing advice, couldn't be farther from the truth You have problems
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:38 PM
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Girl - " GT FO you have 3 seconds before I call cops on you " You do realize these women have problems ? They're as much human as men and they can have mental health issues too Ignore the crazy kind and just we warm to others
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:37 PM
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Last line says it all lul
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:36 PM
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but then, my b-meter is fairly well-tuned, and I don't approach potentially stuck-up women anyway. How did you achieve this ? Please share some of the wisdom I'm new to this and i might get genuinely scared for my life if a woman starts screaming and shouting if i just say " hi i thought you are cute and i had to come and talk with you "
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:34 PM
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Huge balls for approaching a girl group - i hope to do this too someday soon
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:26 PM
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I don't want to shove anything down your throat but 90 says is the time to get out of withdrawal phase for masturbation / porn addiction After that you can start replacing your PMO habits with other fun stuff in life
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:25 PM
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Fuck i forgot to mention i do 3 circuits but recently did 4 circuits of the bodyweight routine As for the running what would you suggest - i don't have access to a trainer right now
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:23 PM
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I run empty stomach 3 days a week - 3 sets of 300 m slow running and 100 m of walk (that's all the stamina i have), still haven't seen my belly go away For exercises - i do 10 reps of backward leg lunges for each leg, about 10 push-ups, 20 reps of full body squats and one minute of planks I'm about 5'6 and apart from the belly i am kind of skinny everywhere else .. Do you have any recommendations for me ? Have been doing the exercises for a month
/r/seduction17/06/21 08:19 PM
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Great ! have a nice day then !
/r/seduction17/06/21 08:13 PM
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good, spread the belief among your social circle then
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:48 PM
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Load of absolute BS Only the most stuck up women do that, even those in a relationship are pretty cool about it and politely let the guy know
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:44 PM
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Let me get my first ever date first 😂
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:31 PM
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We have solid proof now ! Thanks ladies, as someone new to all this dating and seduction arena - i find it really encouraging to hear from women themselves
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:17 PM
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be a charty approachable and magnetic personality + good SMV How to get these three ?
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:13 PM
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You're lucky if you know the language Where I'm at i don't even know the language I keep thinking how the first approach is going to go .. Opening girls is going to be be so much fun and scary lul
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:03 PM
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Don't masturbate - try it for a month and journal your results Report back to the sub !
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:00 PM
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Ok thanks Much of the body features can be developed by going to the gym I have a question about jawline - how do you determine if you have a jaw line ? And how can you get one in case you don't have a jaw line strong beard Does the beard have to be bushy ? Or thick ? My beard hairs curl after growing a certain length, so i don't like keep them long. I try to trim them by using the 1 inch trimmer machine blade on the cheeks, 3 inch on the goatee - which is not perfectly connected btw AND i use t…
/r/seduction14/06/21 10:59 PM
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I went from 180 to 145lbs, most of it muscle btw, in a year (on 5"8) Weightlifting or bodyweight Asking since gyms are closed here EDIT : also, quite inspirational !
/r/seduction14/06/21 10:01 PM
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It doesn’t mean that you should stop approaching. It’s actually attractive to most guys. Just be realistic with getting rejected. You can lower your standards and get more succes or keep them high and look for a lucky chance. Basically the same advice that applies to men for approaching women
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:59 PM
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Talking to strangers is so nerve wracking! Ah.. Now you know how it feels
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:58 PM
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What are masculine features for body and face ? Please ELI5
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:55 PM
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can you .. describe one of your successful approaches with the context / reference to what you wrote ? I think this is too abstract for me to understand - would appreciate if you elaborate !
/r/seduction12/06/21 07:15 PM
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u/lululenox please check dms at your convenience
/r/seduction12/06/21 07:12 PM
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Lady, you're clearly missing the point here you don't even know who i am - and you're already judging me by words like "low value" and "needing therapy" As another poster said, women will probably not like this advice and he wasn't half wrong (although a well meaning lady did reply to him and she actually liked this advice) You're thinking only men can be manipulative and hunt for low self-esteem women to bed - which couldn't be farther from the truth Just to give you a sneak peak - i tried givi…
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:35 AM
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That lucky bastard
/r/seduction11/06/21 10:57 PM
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Women are weird Men are weird There are prettier and sexier girls out there Next !
/r/seduction11/06/21 10:55 PM
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great *
/r/seduction11/06/21 11:24 AM
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Great fucking advice ( pun intended ) Might be a bit strong for the newbies but this is the only way to go !
/r/seduction11/06/21 11:21 AM
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Thanks ..
/r/seduction11/06/21 11:16 AM
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Thanks much
/r/seduction09/06/21 04:47 PM
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Just hang out, but don't pretend that you're not attracted to her at all, that's hiding your intentions and women can tell Also please define how NOT to hide your intentions and emotions from women - how to let women know without being abrupt, needy or thirsty all of a sudden Thanks much !
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:13 AM
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Grown, mature people are flirty all the time for fun. It doesn't mean we're trying to smash everyone we flirt with. Can you describe this a bit more ?
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:11 AM
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Holy shit this is detailed af Nice to meet you Uncle Andreas !
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:08 AM
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I'm addressing both ; the op and the subreddit community here Is there anyway he can tweak his opening lines a bit ? Just to have a better chance of building a bit more comfort and rapport before asking for the "coffee date"
/r/seduction08/06/21 10:58 AM
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Thanks much ! My first ever day game session will probably be with a friend, so we will be winging each other I was wondering how we would manage the approaches This here provides a good win-win solution !
/r/seduction07/06/21 12:54 PM
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How to excite girls ?
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:50 AM
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How can a wingman help with the cock blocking female ?
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:43 AM
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i gotta start reading that book soon ! sounds like a life changer !
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:07 PM
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she would have made you miserable - you probably would have regretted approaching her lol ALSO , said she had a boyfriend and then started flirting with you / agreeing to go on a date with you ? yeah - either she was just trying to blow you off at first OR she was a cheating skank either way , you should thank your stars and proceed to find better , saner women
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:01 PM
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someone please define what is minimum level of interest and how to screen girls for it , ESPECIALLY during daygame !
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:59 PM
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you seem experienced and senior you should make instructional and advisory posts for the young members of this sub
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:57 PM
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I went out alone for the first time to 6th street in Austin, a huge nightlife spot. Never been to a bar or nightclub before. Walked into a couple of bars and had some brief convos with some people, but that was it. I didn’t drink if that matters. you should be thanking your stars you can go out at night clubs and bars i can't even have a night life due to bitchy rules where i live this was your first time , try making some friends or even approaching guys who look cool to make casual friends - s…
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:55 PM
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Best to have the uncomfortable discussion golden fucking words ( pun was originally not intended but whatever .. )
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:51 PM
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And then we started talking for some days , even scheduled a date which I ruined because we fought one night before when she sent me a photo and I left it on "seen" because I was in the club and couldn't respond. She started bitching about it and decided to unfollow me all together which was weird on her part but I took this as a positive experience. dodged a bullet there
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:46 PM
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lol wtf haha !
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:44 PM
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wtf are you waiting for exactly
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:40 PM
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she's being a bad girl spank her
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:39 PM
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Men don't always have to initiate the conversation Spread the word among your fellow women !
/r/seduction06/06/21 02:59 PM
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Ohh i see now Big, big realization ! This is great stuff Thanks much !
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:31 AM
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