I'm(20M) about to lose virginity, can you advise me?

  1. Fast or slow strokes? Hard or soft ones? Long or rather short?
  2. If i want to edge for the sake of lasting longer, can i stop during stroking for a 10 sec like during masturbation or it's momentum losing and stops are only for switching positions?
  3. What are absolutely crucial positions to know and use? The most popular ones
  4. For people leaving in apartments : do you turn on the music? If so, Which one suits best?
  5. Do you start with eating pussy and then go to piv or it's either this or that??
  6. How to play with flat boobs beside licking nips, do i squeeze them?
  7. If you want to fart/pee, is it a big problem for you? I always feel very uncomfortable

Sorry for being so misinformed. Im stressed about it