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I've had many women fall for me when they wanted casual. It's part of being fantastic in bed. It's a gift and a curse. 😂 It doesn't seem like he wants a relationship, so you can either: a) Keep fucking him (if he wants to) b) Find someone else Usually being dick drunk will pass once you have some new dick.
/r/seduction06/07/26 06:42 AM
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This used to be common knowledge in the PUA community, before the industry got taken over by algorithm pleasing grifters.
/r/seduction06/07/26 06:10 AM
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I don't experience this because I know how to talk to women. Learn how to seduce and you will too.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:33 PM
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So you're surprised that sleeping with someone you worked with has consequences, and you're also wondering how to pick up women while you're on a date with another woman? Either this is a troll post or you're incredibly self absorbed.
/r/seduction24/06/26 07:32 PM
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Who the fuck is John Cooper?
/r/seduction24/06/26 07:08 PM
0

It sounds like you're polyamorous. Welcome to the club!
/r/seduction10/06/26 08:02 AM
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If you didn't want to infect her, why tf did you go on a date in the first place? That doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction31/05/26 02:49 PM
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I always do a first date at a coffee shop. I don't know where you live, but I regularly get laid on the first date. Where do you live?
/r/seduction30/05/26 06:20 PM
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I've been to a few. Some are fun, some aren't. If you're going as a single man you should expect to still put some work in. Single guys at an orgy already have a creepy vibe about them whether it's deserved or not, so you better be super charming.
/r/seduction30/05/26 12:02 AM
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"u/city088 likes to keep their posts hidden, but check out their stats to learn more about them." Every time. Getting real tired of bots making troll posts just so we'll all scream at each other.
/r/seduction30/05/26 12:00 AM
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Oh, I do great at meeting women. I wrote a post about approaching with social anxiety
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:57 PM
10

For me it's because I have rejection sensitive dysphoria
/r/seduction24/05/26 08:41 AM
2

I learned about it by reading The Chaos Machine by Max Fisher and Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport, but here's an online article about the Default Mode Network and how it works to influence how to handle social interaction: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352154625001044
/r/seduction22/05/26 09:40 PM
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Get offline. Seriously. Like I tell folks all the time, the excessive amount of social media and cell phone use has killed the part of the brain required for social cognition, because that part of the brain can only be activated when we’re bored. The longer you spend on here, the worse you're able to hold a conversation irl.
/r/seduction22/05/26 10:53 AM
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Lol why would there be a ranking for this?
/r/seduction22/05/26 10:51 AM
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I learned seduction, and then I used it until I got good at it. No secret. Just a ton of work.
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:17 AM
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"u/ethe_ze likes to keep their posts hidden, but check out their stats to learn more about them." Any time there's a hint of rage bait, just go to the profile and you'll find this.
/r/seduction21/05/26 06:32 AM
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Practice. I'm also more bold when I'm extremely horny.
/r/seduction21/05/26 05:55 AM
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"u/Vibejuice-official likes to keep their posts hidden, but check out their stats to learn more about them." Lol! This is obvious rage bait incel shit, probably made by AI to increase engagement to the site.
/r/seduction21/05/26 05:53 AM
0

Why are you here if you think it's that hopeless?
/r/seduction20/05/26 06:37 AM
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The daring coach is probably a professional rage baiter and should be avoided. I've dated a lot of women and there's a lot of reasons why they say no to having g sex right away. Maybe they were burned in the past by moving too fast with a guy, maybe they have past trauma. Maybe they're worried you won't call them again. If they don't want to move at your pace they don't have to. You also don't have to date them.
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:42 AM
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A whole lot of practice and failure
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:39 AM
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Yeah they've weaponized therapy speech twice in the title alone
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:36 AM
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I like to use wood glue and nails
/r/seduction16/05/26 11:06 PM
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You're not going to learn to do this in a comment section of a post. You have to put in the work of learning seduction.
/r/seduction15/05/26 07:09 PM
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We've all been there. If you're too intimidated to go after her, find women that you won't be intimidated to approach. It'll make it easier to approach as time goes on.
/r/seduction11/05/26 10:58 PM
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"u/TameYour likes to keep their posts hidden, but check out their stats to learn more about them." Troll post
/r/seduction09/05/26 10:37 AM
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I appreciate you telling me that you're upset that I didn't give you the validation that you seek.
/r/seduction05/05/26 07:02 PM
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Aside from when you said that seeking external validation means that you're incomplete? You felt like responding to me because my response did not give you the validation you seek. Does it mean that you're a loser? Does it mean you're incomplete? Or does it just mean that you're a human being and part of being a human is wanting acceptance from others?
/r/seduction05/05/26 09:04 AM
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The "you're bad for having normal human feelings" posts are always the most hilarious.
/r/seduction05/05/26 04:31 AM
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That shirt is very becoming on you. Of course if I was on you, I'd be cumming, too!
/r/seduction30/04/26 10:41 AM
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You bagged a bartender? Either times are changing or you hit the jackpot. Bartenders used to be the holy grail of seduction. Nice work!
/r/seduction25/04/26 01:18 AM
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Young guys always come on here and try to make a name for themselves by bragging about how many women they've banged. For those of us who are experienced at game, we know that the only way you could sleep with that many women in a couple of years is if a lot of women didn't hit you up for a second date. It's not the flex you think it is
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:59 PM
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I'm autistic and I get laid way more than you
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:57 PM
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No. Heartbreak does that, but heartbreak is part of growing up. It doesn't matter if you're the best in the world at pulling or the worst. Eventually you will end up falling for someone that doesn't love you back or ends up falling out of love with you. And when that happens you'll spend a few years being unable to trust women. It'll pass when you end up with someone long enough to trust them.
/r/seduction23/04/26 01:59 PM
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Why aren't they calling you back?
/r/seduction22/04/26 05:39 AM
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Why did you delete this?
/r/seduction19/04/26 01:49 PM
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I know. You said that in the post. I wasn't calling you a liar. I was saying my experience is different.
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:24 PM
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That's interesting. I usually have the exact opposite experience. Women stick around because I'm good in bed and later we end up fizzling out because we didn't have much else in common.
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:00 PM
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They're flirting with you because it's safe. If you want to go further with them, start dating other women.
/r/seduction16/04/26 04:44 PM
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It's because influencers depend on rage baiting people instead of giving good advice. It's the way algorithms work. What gets the most attention (good or bad) is what brings in the ad money
/r/seduction13/04/26 10:34 PM
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Just say you're rich enough to be able to travel abroad and leave it at that.
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:51 AM
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The brutal truth is that you're probably a bad kisser. Not trying to be mean, but if a woman cuts things off after they got physical, that's usually why.
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:01 PM
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Except the ladies were not, in fact, there for him.
/r/seduction10/04/26 12:10 AM
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Do you need an engraved invitation? She's already expressed interest in you and she's asking to crash at your place. The only way she could be putting out more obvious signals is if she showed up naked with "fuck me" written across her body in magic marker.
/r/seduction02/04/26 07:13 PM
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When you get older you probably won't want to pull women that young. I'm in my 40s. I don't want to date anyone under 35 because we won't have anything in common and women my age are usually better in bed.
/r/seduction02/04/26 07:10 PM
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Because of the old school and completely inaccurate idea that women will cheat if they have a high body count. In my experience, the ones that cheat are the ones that have low body counts because after being with just a couple of guys they "want to see what they're missing".
/r/seduction02/04/26 10:50 AM
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Well don't worry. This was written by AI, not a man.
/r/seduction02/04/26 09:29 AM
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How many bots do you use to up vote your posts?
/r/seduction01/04/26 03:49 PM
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This feels...obvious and true regardless of gender.
/r/seduction01/04/26 03:45 PM
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Because the other guys have game and you don't. Because women are allowed to find some guys attractive and others not. ETA: I'm guessing you wrote this while you're drunk and in your feelings, seeing as you also wrote similar posts in other subreddits. Sober up, and lay off the sauce. It's probably the reason why you're having problems losing weight. I didn't lose weight until I got off the alcohol. Excessive drinking also leads to anxiety disorders and increased panic attacks.
/r/seduction23/03/26 07:49 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_empathy_problem
/r/seduction22/03/26 11:43 PM
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As someone who used to be that big, I think you should lose weight just for your health alone. Diabetes and hypertension are no joke and they will follow you when you get older. Trust me when I tell you that you don't want the consequences of what you're doing now to affect you in your 40s, so make the change now. You will attract more women if you lose weight, but attracting women doesn't mean you'll date or sleep with more women. It just means the initial approach will be easier. You still hav…
/r/seduction21/03/26 10:08 AM
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Stop buzzing your hair. I used to be clean shaven and have a military crew cut. I also looked like I would break into your house and murder you. At least grow your hair out if you can't grow facial hair. If by some miracle your face learns to have facial hair, a well trimmed beard helps make you look a little more tame.
/r/seduction20/03/26 10:17 AM
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Nice
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:46 PM
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Stay off social media. Especially the ones that make you use your real information. If you don't see it, it's not there. Remember that any lies told about you online, at least if you live in the US, are considered libel. Don't let them take any pictures of you. You probably don't want to date a woman that hangs out in Facebook groups dedicated to trashing men, anyway. And they probably don't want to date you. Social media has a way of putting the worst ideas in our heads, and if they're in those…
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:29 PM
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Your response to being called insecure is to demand that I show my finances? Thanks for the laugh! 😂
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:42 AM
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The only folks that talk like you never get a woman themselves. You don't even show your post history because you're scared of what strangers on the internet think of you. If you don't want to learn seduction, tf are you doing here?
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:34 AM
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Someone is jealous
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:23 AM
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They don't know that we get accused of that a lot 😂
/r/seduction19/03/26 09:45 AM
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I'm also autistic and get laid like it's my job. This is a very good post. Another thing for the neurodivergent folks reading this to know is that we are better at attracting neurodivergent women than neurotypical men because of the double empathy problem. Neurodivergent women are more likely to relate to us. And they're incredibly fun in bed.
/r/seduction19/03/26 09:31 AM
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I'm an old guy, and I always recommend the same old book. How to Succeed with Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. Teaches you how to attract women without being an asshole. Stay away from anyone on social media. They make their money from views and brand deals, so they incentivize rage bait instead of giving good advice.
/r/seduction18/03/26 09:02 PM
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I used to say that stuff before I was married, too. Long term relationships take work. You have to sacrifice time and energy to make your partner happy. You have to be able to forgive them when they fuck up. It doesn't always come naturally. You don't have to do any of that shit when you're seducing. You seduce when you're in the mood. You do the relationship shit even when you're not. And you do it because you love them.
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:23 PM
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I hate that Reddit gave me a notification for a reply to a comment that I wasn't even directed at me.
/r/seduction15/03/26 09:04 AM
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Here's my advice to you from a guy that gets laid like it's my job: Go out and enjoy life. Get the fuck off of social media. When we use social media too much, the parts of our brain that can only be activated when we're bored go unused for too long. Things that are needed for seduction, like social cognition, end up going unused. Your dopamine levels are used to being high and so it's hard to enjoy life anymore. Women will be with a guy that's chopped if he's fun to be around. The constant scro…
/r/seduction15/03/26 04:30 AM
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Fair, but I don't think women are really throwing themselves at him.
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:53 AM
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Social media influencers are fake. Everything they're showing you is staged.
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:42 AM
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I'm in a polyamorous marriage. First thing I'd ask you is, are you really non-monogamous, or just not ready to commit right now? It's common when you're young and single to be in the latter category. You date around, eventually find someone that you enjoy being around exclusively, and you enter a monogamous relationship. That's great and definitely a part of the experience of being a young adult (I'm in my 40s so I know I sound old), but it's not non-monogamy. Real non-monogamy means that you're…
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:33 AM
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That seduction is far easier than maintaining a relationship.
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:27 AM
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You're on here to learn how to get laid but you're worried that you'll find a woman that loves to fuck? ETA: Saw your previous posts, so I see more where you're coming from. You've been around the block for a while and you have some trust issues with women as a result. The best advice I can give is that dating just sucks when you're in your 20s. It sucks for everyone. Most of y'all, regardless of gender, are in your hoe phase. You're in that weird period in your life when what you actually want …
/r/seduction04/03/26 07:40 AM
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This is the way
/r/seduction04/03/26 07:39 AM
1

Dr. Mantis Toboggan?
/r/seduction04/03/26 07:32 AM
1

Im 22 and Ive slept with over 150 girls Every time I see shit like this, all I think about is how lousy in bed the dude was that the women don't call him back. You can't rack high numbers like that in a short amount of time unless they're ghosting you afterwards. ETA: Your profile reads as a racist incel. You aren't getting laid, lol
/r/seduction04/03/26 07:29 AM
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She's with a guy that treats her like dirt and she's not going for you, who treats her great. There's a lesson to be learned there, champ. She's into dominant guys that feed her degradation kink. However, if you try doing that you won't have a snowball's chance in Hell because you'd just come off as an insincere asshole who is giving her shit out of nowhere. So your only option is to shoot your shot as is and risk failure. Or go date someone else. That's it. That's your choices.
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:31 AM
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Yeah, I know. I had to let the conversation go because he's a waste of time
/r/seduction27/02/26 05:08 AM
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Asking strangers on the internet if you're masculine enough is a sign that you're not. When you're secure with yourself, you don't worry about appearing masculine. Don't waste time worrying about what we'd approve of.
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:43 AM
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Ask her out and find out
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:13 AM
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You have a username that a man would use. Quit being a troll
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:10 AM
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u/count_saveahoe likes to keep their posts hidden, but check out their stats to learn more about them. Lol
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:09 AM
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Here's some advice from a guy that's been doing this for a long time: Work on your bedroom performance. You can't rack numbers like that if they're calling you back, my friend.
/r/seduction10/02/26 01:15 PM
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You were talking about capitalism. 🤷
/r/seduction29/01/26 11:26 AM
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You didn't know I was talking about leftist theory? Start with the basics. Michael Parenti, Bell Hooks, Angela Davis, the Black Panthers. They're easy reading.
/r/seduction29/01/26 11:23 AM
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Dating isn't exclusive to capitalism, either. Read theory.
/r/seduction29/01/26 11:18 AM
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If anyone told you that reading is capitalist, they didn't have your best interests in mind
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:10 AM
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My friend, learn to take the hint. She told you about a party because she wanted you to go. She messaged that it's snowing because she wants you to come over and keep her warm. She sounds like she may have ADHD, as not texting back right away, being flaky, and over sensitive to potential rejection (like telling her to shut up even after she said it first) are often signs of that. So next time she drops a hint, take the hint and meet her then.
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:49 AM
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Your whole post sounds like the bitter ramblings of a man whose wife left him. None of this has anything to do with seduction. It's pure shit.
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:40 AM
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The comments are passing the vibe check. Jesus, this guy sucks.
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:37 AM
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I'm not sure what's funnier. You acting like I'm a rookie or writing an entire novel just to say the exact opposite message that influencers say is a "high value man".
/r/seduction05/12/25 02:18 PM
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It's a bullshit term to make me feel bad about themselves by setting unattainable goals and then not being able to meet them. It's horse shit created to sell ads. All the while telling teenage boys that if they don't have washboard abs, a perfect asymmetrical face, and don't make at least a million dollars every year that they couldn't possibly hope to find love. Fuck that.
/r/seduction05/12/25 05:48 AM
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The concept of labeling people high or low value was created by a now dead professional internet troll and I wish that phrase would have died with him.
/r/seduction04/12/25 08:28 AM
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u/Nabbzi likes to keep their posts hidden, but check out their stats to learn more about them. Person who calls people weak is scared to let complete strangers see what they wrote on the internet 😂
/r/seduction29/11/25 07:55 PM
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Zero. I tried to use alcohol to make myself feel better in social situations. It led to alcoholism. Don't do it.
/r/seduction29/11/25 10:57 AM
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I absolutely hate dating coach influencers with the fiery passion of a thousand suns. They're not interested in what works. They're interested in getting views and likes. I'm glad I got into learning seduction long before social media. You had to know what you're doing to get a following. Now all a guy has to do is bring out his phone, scream, "Women are bitches!" and ride the rage bait all the way to the bank
/r/seduction29/11/25 10:50 AM
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Your post history shows that you aren't very good at seduction. Wait until you know what you're doing before making an advice post.
/r/seduction27/11/25 09:41 AM
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Tf does autism have to do with this? Rhetorical question. Quit being an ass.
/r/seduction27/11/25 09:40 AM
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It's generic because it's supposed to be. You're not going to find the answers you need here. It's like going to Reddit and asking how to win a fight without ever taking a lesson in fighting. You gotta take the time to learn it.
/r/seduction27/11/25 09:35 AM
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You're going to fuck up sometimes. You'll fuck up a lot early on. Just keep at it
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:38 AM
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So learn seduction
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:34 AM
1

It's hard for me to describe, but anything that gives me a vibe that makes me feel like I might be on a date with a psychopath. I've learned the hard way to trust my intuition with people. If you get a bad vibe, leave.
/r/seduction27/11/25 06:47 AM
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I used to work in a place where it was 18:1 male to female. When I got back home I became fearless in approaching because I was picking up signals from women that I wasn't seeing when I was at that job. At the job the women had trained themselves to completely ignore us. I did very well when I got home
/r/seduction27/11/25 06:42 AM
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Yeah, whatever. I'm not going to endorse your shitty AI bot.
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:48 AM
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We already have spell checks and auto-correct
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:46 AM
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A coach would teach someone how to do the job themselves. Do you even get the long term damage AI chat bots are doing to people? They're killing people's ability to think. Don't bother learning. Don't socialize. Don't fail and learn from failure. Just mindlessly let a machine tell you what to do. And then when you actually need to think the skills aren't there.
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:43 AM
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Posts like these aren't helpful at all and just encourage people to give up. Fuck all that.
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:40 AM
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No, it means OP is giving doombait
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:39 AM
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Why tf would I want a machine to do the talking for me?
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:38 AM
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Well, there's the problem. I always tell people to get the book How to Succeed with Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book but the advice is still solid, and I've found it way better than all the bs influencers out there. I'd also recommend Digital Minimalism by Cali Newport. Looking at your history and it seems like you're lonely in general. Being on here too much will make that happen.
/r/seduction23/11/25 05:56 AM
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u/spacemangoes likes to keep their posts hidden, but check out their stats to learn more about them. I'm shocked.
/r/seduction23/11/25 05:13 AM
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Then why are you here?
/r/seduction23/11/25 05:10 AM
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Have you learned how to talk to women?
/r/seduction23/11/25 05:09 AM
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Another day, another "just be confident, bro!" post from gusolsen.
/r/seduction22/11/25 10:57 AM
1

Then they're going to be real lonely.
/r/seduction21/11/25 04:07 PM
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Gay people and autistic people are pretty fucking great, so feel free to leave
/r/seduction20/11/25 10:41 AM
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Yeah, the amount of slut shaming I've seen on this subreddit is weird. If you want to get your dick wet, it's counterproductive to be shaming women for wanting to fuck.
/r/seduction20/11/25 06:36 AM
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It's a little alarming that this has been up for a few minutes and there's already adults asking a teenage girl about their fetish.
/r/seduction19/11/25 08:09 AM
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Get Cialis
/r/seduction19/11/25 02:05 AM
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I'm married and in my 40s with kids and I do very well. However, my wife and I have an open marriage so we're honest with each other about outside relationships. What you're asking to do is cheat which is fucked up. Would your wife be interested in non-monogamy? And if so, are you okay with her seeing other people? If not, fuck off with this whole thing.
/r/seduction19/11/25 02:02 AM
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Yeah, I'm in the same boat. Most ONS I've had end up evolving into a FWB relationship and that's cool, but I like to feel a connection with women I'm with, so the whole "hump and dump" thing never sat well with me.
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:48 PM
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It took a lot of practice. Even now I still get anxiety. There's no real secret to it. You gotta do the scary thing until you succeed sometimes. I have a couple of posts about social anxiety and approaching in my profile.
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:39 PM
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Learn how to talk to women. That's the best way
/r/seduction16/11/25 08:42 PM
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I would like the same. What's the context of this conversation?
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:04 PM
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Ask them what they're into
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:03 PM
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They did that because they're weak cowards. That's it. No other reason. You ever seen the old Pepe Le Pew cartoons? There were only two where the female cat showed interest back, and when it happened he freaked out. Because Pepe was a wimp who knew he couldn't back up his promise of "making beautiful music together". ETA: After seeing your profile (and assuming that you're not just doing this for self promotion) they're definitely intimidated. Suddenly they gotta back up all their talk and now t…
/r/seduction14/11/25 10:45 AM
0

Good to see another poly person on here
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:48 PM
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Free concert in Madrid? You're from Vancouver. FOH.
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:47 PM
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There's no such thing as a "high value man" or "low value man". That shit was made up by a now dead professional troll that made a living saying repulsive shit about both men and women knowing that the outrage would boost their algorithm and get more views on YouTube. The reason why some women like guys that do that is because they're submissive and have a degradation kink. Being treated badly turns them on. I learned this after I got really into BDSM. If you're looking for a woman like that, ge…
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:31 AM
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You're complaining about the wrong thing. People aren't negative on social media for no reason. It's because social media makes people negative. Algorithms attract negativity. Social media companies learned this a decade ago and purposefully altered the algorithms so that most of what we see is rage inducing. Blame the system, not those propagandized by it
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:22 AM
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Quit dropping hints and be direct
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:15 AM
1

It sounds like you're more educated on feminism than the misandrists you were dating. Most "feminists" don't bother to do any reading and just get all of their information from social media, which really does make people think that patriarchy=man does bad things instead of acknowledging it as a system that both harms and is perpetuated by both men and women. You did the right thing by not going out with them again. There's no advice to really give here. If you're on a date with a woman that is c…
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:50 AM
1

This doesn't work for me because I like submissive women who are attracted to dominant men. What I do instead is ask them how they like to be kissed. After they answer, I move in. Works every time. If you want a dominant woman, this can work, though.
/r/seduction12/11/25 08:54 AM
4

That's the neat part, you don't! I wrote some posts about approaching with social anxiety. They're in my profile
/r/seduction06/11/25 10:54 AM
1

That's not what red flags are. And it's obvious that you're a grifter. "I banged a hundred women in a year!" Yeah, that means none of them called you back. It's an obvious lie, but for those of us who know what we're doing, lying about high body counts in a shirt time means that the sex was so bad they ghosted you afterwards.
/r/seduction31/10/25 01:39 AM
2

Dude, relax. Most women my age are grossed out by the thought of dating men in their mid 20s. They see y'all as children.
/r/seduction30/10/25 07:26 PM
0

It means they don't want you to send a dick pic within an hour of messaging her
/r/seduction30/10/25 07:39 AM
1

I do the same when I approach irl. It works well.
/r/seduction30/10/25 07:38 AM
1

Nothing she did sounds like a red flag. It sounds like she just has a personality that doesn't work with yours, which is nbd. Red flags are things that make you wonder if she's going to stab you in your sleep or be a stalker. That said, it sounds like she has a dominant personality type and I've accidentally matched with a few Dommes on dating apps. Since I'm a Dom myself, I just told them we weren't compatible and moved on. No big story to it.
/r/seduction30/10/25 07:34 AM
8

Feeld is a good app for that in my experience
/r/seduction30/10/25 07:16 AM
2

Hey, thanks for what you said. I'd reply to the comment you made directly, but I already blocked the clown so I can't respond to that part of the thread. I don't hide that my wife and I have an open marriage, and there's a lot of dudes that are insecure about it for some reason
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:26 AM
1

Sure
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:36 AM
1

Well, you're doing something wrong. Problem is we don't know what because your post didn't go into specifics. What are you saying to them? Can you provide screenshots of the conversation?
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:11 AM
2

Why are you here, then?
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:10 AM
2

Get physical on the first date. Can I ask why you're not?
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:59 AM
1

Like I said, money was never an issue for me
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:56 AM
1

I got laid plenty when I was broke, and I do now that I'm middle class. Money was never an obstacle. Women don't care about that stuff nearly as much as you think
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:43 AM
3

I know that social media is the problem because I spent years studying the harmful effects of it. The idea behind hating porn is that it kills motivation to go out and meet women, right? Well that's what social media really does. The part of our brain that is responsible for social cognition can only be activated when we are bored and doing nothing. When we're engaged in a task or have our mind stimulated, it's not functioning. It's the reason why we've become so anti-social in the last fifteen …
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:32 AM
2

Absolutely not. People pushing this are trying to push evangelicalism without the religion. I watch porn all the time and I get laid like it's my job. Most of the folks that tell you that porn is the issue (aside from religious clowns) are the problem because they're influencers. Social media use is the problem and they're part of the problem. Excessive social media and cell phone use kills game because the longer you use it, the less the part of your brain that's required for social cognition g…
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:48 AM
1

Learn seduction. That's the secret. I know that sounds vague, but you're not going to get all the advice you need in a Reddit comment section. You have to put in the work of learning. I always tell newbies to get the book How to Succeed with Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book but the advice holds up. Avoid all influencers that claim to teach seduction. Anyone who gets paid through views isn't interested in teaching. They're interested in getting views and nothing more.
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:43 AM
1

I usually sleep with women on the first date. If the guy doesn't make that happen but wants to, it's because they suck at seducing.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:33 PM
3

Idk, I usually use Feeld and #open
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:32 PM
3

Dating apps
/r/seduction19/09/25 10:57 PM
4

Reddit says they're suspended. Whether or not it's permanent, idk
/r/seduction15/09/25 07:55 AM
0

I checked out your profile and your lack of self esteem is likely coming from you shaming yourself for your love of sex. Porn and sex addiction usually isn't real for most people. Did it cause you to lose your job? Go to jail? Fail to pay a bill? If it didn't do anything to harm your life, it's not an addiction. You're just horny. You are a sexual being so own that shit! Be your horny self and make no apologies for it. Just be safe about it and make sure everything is consensual for all parties …
/r/seduction15/09/25 06:21 AM
1

This is something you'll need to ask your boyfriend about. I'm assuming boyfriend, you didn't really say what your relationship is. Is there anything holding you to him? Do you have kids or live together? If not, you might want to consider whether or not a relationship with someone who is selfish in bed and doesn't match your sex drive is worth having around. Or consider opening up the relationship.
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:53 AM
3

Maybe don't blame her for stuff she didn't do 🤷
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:50 AM
1

S class. It means top tier. When you're way past the stage of "How do I get women to like me" and are in the stage of, "Why do they just want to fuck? I need love too, dammit!" The noobs think it's a good problem to have. It's not.
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:31 AM
2

Welcome to the S class, friend
/r/seduction14/09/25 10:24 AM
4

Practice. That's it. That's the secret. I also wrote a post about approaching when you have social anxiety. It's in my profile.
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:52 AM
2

Most women aren't going to admit that they just want casual sex due to a fear of slut shaming, being assaulted by a man who thinks that a casual hookup means that consent doesn't matter, and meeting men that put zero effort to attract her. Putting it on a dating app also means RIP to her DMs, which is annoying. Here's the thing, though: Every woman on there, unless they're asexual (and they'll usually disclose that right away) want to fuck as much as we do. They just want you to make an effort f…
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:28 AM
2

You already know the answer. Express sexual desire.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:34 AM
3

Have you tried learning seduction? That usually works.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:53 AM
1

If I said 4' 11" or 6' 5", it would have no effect on your sex life at all.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:04 PM
3

Yeah, and that's stupid, too. How does that sad sack mentality help anyone get laid?
/r/seduction07/09/25 03:45 AM
1

Weird that all the commenters are saying that you're lying or getting big girls. I do this and I get laid like it's my job.
/r/seduction07/09/25 02:04 AM
2

Well, this is the seduction subreddit. We learned seduction. That's it. That's the secret.
/r/seduction05/09/25 10:17 AM
3

I'm in my mid 40s. Yeah, y'all are horny and I love it.
/r/seduction05/09/25 10:14 AM
2

I'm a soft Dom too. Talk to them. We need to know what your needs are. Communication is essential to good BDSM.
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:20 AM
1

I get laid plenty, and I couldn't give a rat's ass if strangers on the internet care or not.
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:58 PM
2

I do approaches the same way. It works very well. It's really good for people with rejection sensitive dysphoria, and also helps to gauge if the person is worth pursuing.
/r/seduction01/09/25 06:10 AM
1

Well, you don't know her, so other than her being hot you don't know if she's even worth dating yet. For all you know, she could be self centered, rude, and be mean to the boys she does date. Or she could be awesome. Go talk to her like she's a normal person and find out.
/r/seduction01/09/25 03:44 AM
9

We are losing social skills. A lot of us are on our phones for nearly every waking minute of the day. That kills our ability to socialize because the part of our brains that are responsible for social cognition can only be activated during periods when we're doing absolutely nothing-when we're bored. The constant distraction of a glowing piece of the internet constantly in our hands has made that part of our brain become unused as we constantly distract ourselves with mindless scrolling.
/r/seduction01/09/25 03:18 AM
2

I wouldn't be surprised if it was rare. Constant cell phone use has eroded the parts of our brains that use social cognition (it's also why so many of us are angry bastards on here) so we don't really know how to talk to strangers anymore and have an overwhelming sense of social anxiety.
/r/seduction01/09/25 01:41 AM
0

I agree with this. I'm a Dom in the kink community, so my type (and what I usually draw) is a submissive woman that's into kink. However, I'm in my 40s. I had a lot of time to figure out who I am and what I want. When I was in my early 20s I had no clue about either. So when you're young, you do have to date every type of woman to find out what you really like, instead of what you're told to like.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:35 AM
4

It means she wants to cheat. So help a woman out. They ain't married.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:23 AM
1

I have a date tonight and I'm thinking of doing a protracted push pull technique where I'm all touchy feely and affectionate, then I go to the bathroom and come back and don't touch her and rarely make eye contact. I'm one day too late, but I'm guessing the strategy of deescalation didn't work.
/r/seduction15/08/25 09:23 PM
3

"Real romantic, babe. Also, yes."
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:51 PM
7

That's for jobs and parents giving their shitty kids jobs they don't deserve. It has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:19 PM
8

You've confused kindness for being soft and boring. I'm very good to my partners and I get laid like it's my job. Learn to be good to women without being boring or a pushover. And quit with that "high status" bullshit. That's just something grifters say so you'll listen to their shitty podcast.
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:14 PM
3

Flirt back and see what happens
/r/seduction30/07/25 12:40 AM
8

Dating is easy when you know what you're doing. I'm in my 40s now. They said the same thing about dating back when I was young. They blamed a lot of the same stuff back then. Feminism, the "crisis in masculinity". All that shit. It's made up. There's always been guys that can't pull that are looking for something to blame other than themselves. I think social media does have a role in making dating harder, but only because of the harmful effects that social media has on maintaining all human rel…
/r/seduction29/07/25 04:47 AM
1

I don't know if they have the book in your language, but I always tell people new to the game to get a copy of How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. They have examples you can use to learn how.
/r/seduction29/07/25 04:44 AM
1

Heh
/r/seduction27/07/25 03:51 PM
1

I had the same experience when I was your age. I eventually fell in love with a woman and married her. What made me love her is finally trusting her enough to know that she's going to stick around. That took a lot of time. If you're already successful with hooking up with women it'll happen eventually.
/r/seduction27/07/25 03:48 PM
1

Are you talking to them in a way that causes them to feel feelings of emotional connection and sexual attraction?
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:49 AM
1

Bye!
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:55 PM
1

It is overplayed, especially when you give no way to help people get that confidence.
/r/seduction24/07/25 07:22 PM
1

I do and I get laid constantly.
/r/seduction24/07/25 06:21 AM
1

It's been two years. If she hasn't come around now, she never will.
/r/seduction24/07/25 06:17 AM
2

Do you know how many posts we have on here that say, "Just be confident, bro"?
/r/seduction24/07/25 06:16 AM
8

Don't slut shame women if you want to get laid. Well, just don't do it at all.
/r/seduction20/07/25 07:09 PM
6

This is an AI account
/r/seduction20/07/25 07:04 PM
4

My wife and I are polyamorous, so I'm still in the game while married. Maybe monogamy just isn't for you.
/r/seduction20/07/25 07:02 PM
1

When you're in your 20s nobody knows what they want yet. It's the stage of life when the person you were taught to be is at odds with who you want to be. It's that way for everyone. When folks get older they've figured out what they want in their relationships so folks don't have to play 3D chess just to get a date.
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:44 AM
1

Sensitivity to criticism will kill your game. If you're needing the approval of strangers on the internet, real life is going to be brutal.
/r/seduction05/07/25 11:30 PM
1

Christ, dating sucks in your 20s. I said all the same stuff when I was 23.
/r/seduction05/07/25 11:18 PM
1

https://youtu.be/VVvVSAn_g2E?si=LPh_gc-meIkONju_ This is a common experience when you're young. The video will explain it.
/r/seduction03/07/25 07:42 AM
2

You're not being used as an ATM. You invited her to dinner. You offered to pay. You offered to do that out of your own free will. From what you told us, you did a few things right and wrong. Let's go over them. Pros: Your first date was cheap. A fun date for the price of some animal food. Good shit. Cons: While it was a good idea, your first date should have been your second date. Going from a huge farm to a restaurant is a downgrade. Start in a coffee shop next time. You didn't do enough touchi…
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:06 AM
2

I'm in a polyamorous marriage and I've had many threesomes. The trick is to find a woman that's into it and date them. That's it. That's the whole trick.
/r/seduction01/07/25 10:13 AM
2

I'm pretty sure the OP uses ChatGPT.
/r/seduction21/06/25 09:30 AM
1

Feels like a universal experience
/r/seduction11/05/25 10:12 PM
2

She's not into you. When a woman is hot and cold, it's usually because she's a little flirty naturally, but she pulls back when they think you want to have more.
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:04 PM
1

Oh boy.
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:02 PM
3

It sounds like you've done everything except learn how to talk to women in a way that establishes an emotional connection and increase sexual attention. You know, the stuff that romantic partners want to feel. Work on that.
/r/seduction08/05/25 10:55 AM
0

Four generic truths about dating that get repeated ad nauseum in this subreddit.
/r/seduction08/05/25 10:52 AM
64

I saw the "double hook up" in the title and the saw you and her meeting her sister, and I think the internet has ruined me, lol
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:46 AM
1

Let us know how it goes
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:56 AM
1

We're back to the "just be confident, bro" posts.
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:55 AM
2

I did that once. I did not recover, lol
/r/seduction03/05/25 04:15 AM
5

I thought that when I was a lot younger. Didn't think anyone would ever love me so I stopped looking for it and just worked on sleeping with as many women as possible. Fortunately during that time I met a wonderful woman that finally convinced me that she wasn't going anywhere and we're happily married.
/r/seduction02/05/25 11:27 PM
1

Who cares? Focus on yourself instead of other people. If you found out which one did better, how would that impact your life in any way?
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:35 AM
2

Unpopular opinion here: Herpes isn't even that big of a deal. Two thirds of the world population has it already (either HSV-1 OR HSV-2), and half of Americans do (assuming you're American) so you probably banged someone that had it already. You could have it and not know. Most people that carry the virus have it dormant. The few that don't will usually have an initial outbreak but will otherwise be fine for most of their lives. Years will pass before they even notice a cold sore. Herpes was made…
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:57 AM
2

I'm in my 40s. Dating is on easy mode now. I love it. Women my age aren't interested in playing games. They've done it (as have we) when younger so now we'd rather everyone just be up front about everything. They've already been having sex for decades so they don't have shame about it and are too old to worry about people thinking less of them for having casual sex.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:52 AM
7

It's a load of bullshit that influencers say so you'll keep viewing their content and they can make more money doing that instead of working a regular job with the rest of us proles. It's unhelpful and detrimental to the study of seduction for those shitty influencers to say that. If you're already doomed then what's the point of learning? I hate relationship influencers with the firey passion of a thousand suns. They don't care about helping people. They only want to get attention.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:47 AM
1

That was my first post to this subreddit. Just be careful. If you think it's fun being used for sex when you thought it was something more, it's not. It sucks.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:43 AM
1

Sure.
/r/seduction28/04/25 06:19 AM
2

Why would I have a problem with an OF girl or someone that "throws their ass around"? This is what I'm talking about. Women aren't open sexually because we don't allow them to be. Then dudes wonder why they don't get laid. I love sluts and I get laid like crazy. When women are free to be sexual with you, they will fuck your brains out.
/r/seduction28/04/25 06:18 AM
0

Being insecure isn't a sickness. It's just part of being a human being.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:29 AM
0

I'm a Daddy Dom and I love the DD/lg dynamic so insecure women who were mistreated by their fathers are often what I attract. It seems like she's already into you. Make the move already instead of chit chatting. Next time you're flirting, kiss her. Women like her are attracted to men that nut the fuck up and make the move. They usually want you to make all the first moves. If you wait too long she'll move on and find someone who will.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:12 AM
1

Yeah, I think he took the criticism we've had of him to heart and he decided to make a post that wasn't, "Just be confident, bro!"
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:57 AM
4

Women are told that being up front about wanting sex is bad (even on here, just look at all the "she's for the streets" comments), so it's rare that women will tell you up front that they want to fuck.
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:54 AM
-5

Every one of your posts read like they were made by ChatGPT.
/r/seduction22/03/25 08:26 AM
2

Unless a doctor is frequenting this subreddit, nobody here is qualified to advise you on this.
/r/seduction22/03/25 06:24 AM
1

I don't know what the percentage of guys that don't know how to talk to women are, but I do know that I had to learn this stuff.
/r/seduction22/03/25 06:23 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction19/03/25 05:18 AM
1

It's not a self esteem issue. OC just spent too much time listening to Sunday School teachers.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:51 AM
-2

Shit tests aren't real. They're just something that grifters made up to make women sound intimidating.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:48 AM
1

I don't really know what you want us to say. You already made your mind up that you can't do better with women.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:41 AM
0

Wait three weeks and take an STI test. Then do it again after three months.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:39 AM
1

Lol, this happens to all of us. Just find some new women to talk to.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:38 AM
1

I wouldn't.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:37 AM
1

I've never had a woman lose interest after three dates, and that's because I can make them cum.
/r/seduction16/03/25 12:44 AM
3

Your mistake was not sleeping with her when she said she wanted to sleep with you. She said point blank that she wants you to bang her and you decided to keep cuddling instead. You friendzoned her. You might not have intended to do that, but that's what happened, and that's why she doesn't want to see you. You rejected her. Next time you're dating someone, you want to smash, and they say they want to smash, fucking smash. Otherwise you look like someone who doesn't want them. My best advice to y…
/r/seduction15/03/25 10:04 AM
21

Another post where your advice is, "Just be confident, bro!"
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:47 AM
1

I think it's a problem of a shortage of people able to actually teach seduction. I started learning seduction twenty five years ago. I stopped after I met the woman I eventually married. However, we opened up our marriage a few years ago and I used all the old stuff I knew and it worked just as well now as it did back then. I'm seeing people that are new to seduction and they're talking about influencers teaching them, and every one of them suck. Not a single one of them are telling men what to …
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:45 AM
2

My dating profiles have one face photo and it's not even that good. I still get laid like crazy from the apps. All these folks complaining just strike me as odd.
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:38 AM
-2

Be better in bed. I'm being serious. They'll stay interested for longer if you're making them cum.
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:34 AM
1

How can we ignore it? This is literally every advice post on here.
/r/seduction01/03/25 10:56 AM
2

I lost my virginity that way
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:41 AM
2

I haven't seen a single influencer teaching seduction that wasn't a grifter. Back in the old days of the early 2000s when I started learning seduction, teachers charged for their classes so if they sucked, they wouldn't last long. Now, influencers don't have to know what they're doing because they get their money from views and likes instead of people investing time and money into learning. They only have to know how to manipulate the algorithm so they get as many clicks and views as possible. S…
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:03 AM
2

My brother in Christ, that is what I'm talking about. Changing inflection, not your whole voice 😂
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:56 PM
1

You're saying that you never change the inflection in your voice, ever? Like it always sounds the same even when you're expressing joy, anger, or really any other emotion? Okay, well that's uncommon. Most of us have different tonal inflections. This is a pretty common part of the human experience. I've never known someone to not do that. And I've done great with women for years. Why are you talking to me like I'm new? I've been giving people advice in the comments for years. You know that.
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:51 PM
1

It seems like a common theme you have when you post here is that you don't know how to talk to women in a way that captures and leads their imagination. I always tell folks that are new to the game to check out the book How to Succeed with Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. The book is old but the advice holds up and it'll help you better than 99% of the bulls hit influences are spewing these days.
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:45 PM
1

What are you saying to them? I don't get huge numbers of matches, but when I do I usually get a date.
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:31 PM
1

I don't know why you're trying to be pedantic here and pretend like you don't change the inflection of your voice on a daily basis, but whatever. Have a nice day.
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:28 PM
0

Give it a try. It's not a change in your voice. It's bringing out your sexy voice. And I've used it very, very well.
/r/seduction18/02/25 10:47 AM
3

Wow, you've decided to give advice for a change. I guess nearly being banned and having a bunch of us calling you out worked. Yeah, that strategy works great. I'll add that to know what that voice is, put your hand on your chest and talk in a way that you can feel it vibrate. Doesn't matter what you say, it'll come out sexy af.
/r/seduction17/02/25 02:02 PM
2

I stopped doing that the more I talked to them. When you get to know them you find that they all have flaws. They're not deities. They're just people.
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:59 PM
3

Lol, my dude, this is just part of the game. We all do this, especially in the beginning. And if anyone who is experienced in seduction tells you that they still don't do that sometimes, they're full of shit. We all have bad days.
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:56 PM
0

This is the way
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:52 PM
1

Agreed. Also want to add that 9s and 10s aren't real. When we start out with seduction, we think it's all about looks. We want to get a hottie. But then we end up dating the hotties and we find that they're just...normal. They have their own flaws and insecurities. Some can be insufferable because they had guys kissing their ass their whole lives so they never had to develop a personality, let alone empathy or bedroom skills. A six will turn into a ten real quick when you enjoy being with them, …
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:33 PM
2

Nice work, friend. If it helps, I have AuDHD with bad social anxiety and I still do great at seduction because I made it my special interest many years ago. If you keep learning and practicing you'll get there. Plus ND women are really fun, lol. Love your username, BTW.
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:15 PM
8

I was halfway through making a similar comment before I saw yours and deleted mine. No point in being redundant, lol. OP, this is the way.
/r/seduction15/02/25 07:57 PM
1

That's a sign that she's into you. Talk to her about it.
/r/seduction13/02/25 11:20 PM
1

What I'm reading here is: "I pissed off a woman by making fun of her and instead of taking responsibility for my actions, I'm going to declare that her feelings are irrelevant and she was really just testing me." This is why you didn't get her. Be an adult. When you do this, it's a signal to women that you're lousy in bed. If you're not going to see their emotions as valid, they know you don't care about their orgasm, either. I did the same shit when I was young and stupid and I lost a lot of wo…
/r/seduction13/02/25 11:09 PM
1

Cheating requires deception, not consent.
/r/seduction12/02/25 10:31 PM
1

You already know what you need to do because you described the problem very well. Say, "fuck it", and escalate. You already know not escalating is cock blocking you, so get after it already.
/r/seduction11/02/25 10:41 PM
1

This is why I'm glad I'm polyamorous.
/r/seduction11/02/25 10:37 PM
10

Fiction books have been proven to increase empathy in people, which is a necessary component of both romantic and platonic relationships. This is good advice.
/r/seduction11/02/25 10:36 PM
1

You definitely caught feelings, which is good, but be sure she feels the same way or it'll be really bad for you later.
/r/seduction06/02/25 06:25 AM
0

Thanks. That made me chuckle.
/r/seduction03/02/25 11:13 PM
1

Well, you're being argumentative now. Are you saying you don't deserve to be loved? Women initiate most divorces so that's a moot point, too.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:57 PM
1

How long have you been married? Also, would you be in love with someone that acted that way? If not, then it's a moot point.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:48 AM
116

Another day, another post from gusolen telling people what to do but giving no direction on how to do it. Only now it's combined with the repackaged evangelical Christian talk about "porn bad".
/r/seduction03/02/25 09:54 AM
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A completely made up thing that grifters say women do so they can pretend that women are an unstopable enemy that needs to be conquered instead of seeing them as human beings with their own lives, thoughts, feelings, and flaws. I've been on hundreds of dates in my many years of life and not once did I ever get a shit test.
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:05 AM
1

The only universal traits for marriage material is that you love them and they love you. That's it. Nothing else. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to sell something, like OP.
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:36 AM
3

That's his whole thing. Just tells people to do things but never gives advice how.
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:24 PM
4

So basically, just date a lot of people. I'm so glad that you gave this piece of advice because it has never been said before by anyone, ever. As far as your title goes, did you actually read a study saying that most men are unhappy in their marriage, or did you just make that up?
/r/seduction02/02/25 09:32 AM
1

Man, don't be lazy and make a post that actually gives advice instead of saying the same shit over and over.
/r/seduction02/02/25 09:27 AM
0

Most of us, regardless of wealth, want to be loved.
/r/seduction01/02/25 08:41 AM
5

Every one of your advice posts can be summed up as, "Just be confident, bro." Are you ever going to get around to telling people how to be more confident, or are you going to keep posting the same thing over and over again where you tell people what they need to do but give them no advice on how to do it?
/r/seduction01/02/25 08:40 AM
3

Consider polyamory. I was in your spot after a few years of marriage. My wife and I opened our marriage up and we're very happy now.
/r/seduction01/02/25 08:38 AM
1

I wrote a post about that a while ago. It's at the top of my profile.
/r/seduction31/01/25 07:44 PM
1

Every modern PUA type I've seen is an influencer who is more concerned with getting clicks and views to get social media money than they are helping lonely people learn how to make people desire them. I have yet to see any give good, concrete advice on how to talk to someone. It's mostly just, "Be more confident, bro!" talk without even giving advice on how to increase your confidence, let alone what to say or do when you ARE confident. This subreddit is littered with those people, as is any oth…
/r/seduction30/01/25 10:17 AM
4

Me
/r/seduction30/01/25 10:10 AM
5

So, just be more confident, bro?
/r/seduction29/01/25 11:43 AM
1

"incredibly vague, inactionable advice that doesn't actually help anybody know how to achieve it." So, 99% of the people that make advice posts here? 😂 ETA: I saw your comment below the thread. I'm autistic and I crush ass like it's my job.
/r/seduction25/01/25 11:42 AM
1

Really, anything from any influencer. But Fresh and Fit said that women hold the key to sex while men hold the key to relationships. Anybody who says this has never shot down a horny woman (which probably means they're desperate and don't approach much) or hasn't wanted a relationship with a woman they've been seeing and had them say they just want to keep it casual. It's shitty advice that assumes men only want sex and women only want love. Most of us want both.
/r/seduction25/01/25 11:40 AM
2

The best of us were like this before we learned seduction. I always recommend the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland for beginners. It's an old book (written in 2000), but most of the advice holds up. Avoid getting advice from influencers. They only want clicks and views. They don't want you to do better.
/r/seduction25/01/25 11:26 AM
3

So basically, just be more confident bro?
/r/seduction25/01/25 11:20 AM
1

Kind of hard to explain. I guess the best way to describe it is to do it warmly. Smile, use your charming, seductive voice (basically the same as the voice you have after you just had sex), and say, "okay", and move onto your next question about her.
/r/seduction19/01/25 01:31 PM
1

Hey, that's my advice and what works for me. Take it or leave it my friend.
/r/seduction19/01/25 01:21 PM
1

Ahh. Well for that I just smile, say, "okay", and move on to another topic of conversation. For last minute resistance, I respect her saying no. Which works way better than you think. Trust me on this one. A lot of chumps on here think that getting a woman's consent or respecting her saying "no" doesn't help you, but goddamn do women get horny when you respect their boundaries. They get so surprised by it (since most other guys either get whiny or angry) that they damn near rip your clothes off …
/r/seduction19/01/25 01:15 PM
1

What do you mean by "emotional acknowledgement"?
/r/seduction19/01/25 10:47 AM
5

I'm autistic, too. I haven't been on Reddit in a while so I'm sorry I missed your posts asking for advice. I'm glad other people were here to help. One thing you'll learn about neurodivergent women is that a lot of them are super freaks, lol.
/r/seduction19/01/25 10:42 AM
4

Congrats!
/r/seduction19/01/25 10:35 AM
1

Yeah, most primary care doctors will just prescribe boner pills and send you on your way. I think you need to find a doctor that specializes in ED.
/r/seduction19/01/25 09:26 AM
1

This is definitely something for a doctor to advise you on, not dudes on Reddit.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:54 AM
2

It's just part of the game. When I was 19 I had the same issues.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:53 AM
3

My wife used to do the dating apps. She'd find 100 guys would like her profile, and when she'd text them, they would quickly back out of doing anything because most guys are all talk, no action. They're like dogs chasing their tails. Once they catch it they don't know what to do. She eventually quit the apps because she was tired of guys wasting her time and not having the stones to meet irl. Just because they're getting a lot of likes on a dating app doesn't mean they're getting a lot of dates.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:39 AM
1

Because they're not in a monogamous relationship. They do as they please.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:26 AM
1

My wife and I opened up our marriage just after the pandemic. We're happier than ever.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:06 AM
3

Yeah, you hit the jackpot. Next time get it.
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:06 AM
-1

My dude, I have AuDHD and grew up religious so I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. Now I'm in a happy polyamorous marriage and I crush ass. If I can do it, so can you.
/r/seduction10/11/24 12:24 AM
29

This guy gets it. Not to mention that doing day game for two hours a day and dating 100 women in a year is going to result in neglecting your non-romantic relationships, which will leave you feeling lonely af even when you're dating and getting laid like crazy. Believe me, I know.
/r/seduction09/11/24 11:46 PM
1

I'll make a post soon.
/r/seduction07/11/24 01:41 PM
57

you shouldn’t watch porn - because when you do, you condition yourself to quit on yourself and your dreams, and settle with mediocrity LOL what the fuck? C'mon, OP. Show some scientific study that backs any of this bullshit up. This is worse than your usual "just be confident, bro" posts. Jesus Christ, I jerk it all the time and I'm currently sleeping with two women on the regular.
/r/seduction07/11/24 11:53 AM
2

She went through all that trouble to look good for you, and you're insulting her for it. That's how she'd see your "compliment". That, and you sound controlling.
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:24 PM
0

Lol
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:55 PM
0

I do just fine. I'm just tired of the same bad advice being posted over and over.
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:00 AM
1

I didn’t make an escalation move, still something felt missing (for me) or it was not the right timing. Sounds like you both knew you weren't a good fit for each other and she was the first to say so.
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:08 AM
5

Especially if there's feelings involved. When my ex-girlfriend dumped me a few years ago, I went on the dating apps despite being miserable, heartbroken, and wanting to just lay in bed all day. A week later I went on dates with four women and fucked all of them. Two became my girlfriends (I'm polyamorous and so are they), and I'm still dating one today. Get out there and meet someone, especially if it hurts.
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:06 AM
3

For me, I just suck it up and keep going.
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:35 AM
3

I thought the #1 secret women didn't want us to know was how much they hate click bait titles. These "just approach and be confident" posts are old. If I did a shot every time I saw one I'd die of alcohol poisoning.
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:14 AM
3

Because a lot of the dating coaches on here are grifters that can't give good advice, so they just focus on cold approaches so they can make more "just be confident, bro" posts. They don't even teach what to say when you do approach. Just endless "be more confident, bro" posts that never help anyone.
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:19 AM
1

Feels like every advice post on here is just some variation of "be more confident".
/r/seduction03/11/24 07:36 PM
2

Guy listened to too many professional troll podcasts and forgot that he has emotions.
/r/seduction03/11/24 07:21 PM
2

Stop listening to dude bro podcasts and get out in the real world.
/r/seduction03/11/24 07:13 PM
3

Why would I want to bang a narcissist when there's much better women out there?
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:09 PM
1

I think there's less younger women using the apps nowadays. They've gotten expensive and a lot of younger women have been saying on social media that they're tired of them.
/r/seduction02/11/24 07:35 AM
1

Your coach is wrong. Not only is not every woman going to be interested in you, but as you start getting better at meeting women, you're going to find out that a lot of them aren't going to be ones you're interested in, either. You'll find that some are lousy in bed, like to start fights over nothing, are overly insecure, or have some other trait that you'll find to be incompatible with you. It is what it is. Other times women you approach are just having a shit day and don't feel like talking t…
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:37 PM
1

I used to think a lot of women were like this, but then I became a Dominant in the kink community and it helped me learn the psychology of why some women are in toxic relationships. A lot of women (or more accurately, a lot of people) have a degradation kink, but if they haven't been exposed to the kink community and/or are still young, they aren't aware of having this kink. So they become drawn to assholes because being in a shitty relationship with an emotionally abusive partner is the price t…
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:22 AM
2

You should post here more often. You make a lot of sense.
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:11 AM
7

I was going to say the same. Many years ago I went to a strip club I hadn't been at before and most of the dancers didn't seem interested in talking. They'd just ask for a dance and that was it. I wasn't interested in them. One of the dancers came up and didn't ask for a dance. She asked about me and we had a good conversation throughout the night and I ended up spending a couple hundred on dances from her. Most of the other dancers were more attractive than her but she was the one that had my a…
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:09 AM
2

Good advice, thank you.
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:05 AM
2

I didn't date women in their 40s when I was in my 20s, but I do now and from my experience, women in their 40s just don't give a fuck. Women in their 20s have to deal with slut shaming, they wonder if the person they're with is going to be the one they marry, etc. A divorced woman with growin(ish) kids doesn't have to worry about all that. Nobody is expecting them to be pure and virginal, so they don't need to put on a facade where they pretend to be "a respectable woman". If they want to smash,…
/r/seduction31/10/24 06:42 AM
8

I prefer women my own age. I'm 43.
/r/seduction31/10/24 06:06 AM
1

Gonna put on my feminist hat here The feelings that you have are because of the patriarchy. The patriarchy is a system that seeks to control both men and women through a series of contradictions that are intended to be confusing. They're meant to be confusing because if we spend all of our time trying to live up to patriarchal ideals of what men and women are supposed to be, we don't spend a lot of time thinking about what who we really are and what we really want out of life. It makes us easier…
/r/seduction31/10/24 05:11 AM
2

Your advice isn't bad, but every time I see someone on here talking about groups of people like a monolith (in this case, women) I'm annoyed because not every woman wants a man that's in charge. You said "women evolved to..." so many times that I'd love to see a scientific study on evolution that confirms what you're saying, but I think a lot of what you're claiming is evolution is just social conditioning based on our culture. I know I'm being pedantic about this, but talking about people in ge…
/r/seduction31/10/24 04:33 AM
2

They also like to say things that have been discussed ad nauseum on here and act like they're the first to come up with the idea. 99% of advice posts on here are some variation of "be more confident".
/r/seduction31/10/24 04:20 AM
1

Not sure why you're so reluctant to give a straight answer. I'm in a polyamorous marriage myself.
/r/seduction27/10/24 10:40 AM
0

Read books on how to talk to people and go out and practice what you've learned.
/r/seduction27/10/24 03:54 AM
1

Is it a polyamorous relationship, though?
/r/seduction27/10/24 03:50 AM
2

I make it a point to compliment my date on something three times. Not just on their looks, but when they tell me about their hobbies or work life. It works quite well.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:23 AM
1

In my experience, I usually end up sleeping with them when they talk about sex, so it's usually a good sign.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:20 AM
1

I teach for free, but I'm very selective in who I teach. If I get the vibe that a potential student is going to mistreat women, I don't teach them.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:15 AM
7

A good thing to remember when you're on a date is that the woman is also nervous. They don't want to be rejected, either. A lot of messaging from folks on here revolves around a false idea that women have all their shit together, they don't have any problems, and it's all on the man to impress. The truth is that women have their own anxieties, insecurities, and past trauma. This means that on a first date, they do want to be accepted by you, and they're scared of doing something to fuck up their…
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:12 AM
1

You're in a polyamorous relationship?
/r/seduction26/10/24 02:36 AM
1

Are you in a new relationship?
/r/seduction26/10/24 02:10 AM
1

What you're describing is a one sided relationship. That's not healthy at all.
/r/seduction26/10/24 12:54 AM
2

I'm still in the game, so I know. I went looking for info on the seduction teachers I used to study a few days ago. I can't find much information about them anywhere. The internet has a short life span. The real problem is that there's nobody out there that really teaches you how to talk to women these days. Two decades ago there were entire websites dedicated to it. They taught about linguistics, how to use language to command and control attention and how to capture and lead a woman's imaginat…
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:22 AM
2

It happens to the best of us, my friend. Take a break.
/r/seduction24/10/24 10:39 AM
2

Yeah. There's a few grifters in here that claim to have slept with hundreds, and in the case of one, over a thousand women. All I thought was, "So they never came back for another round, huh?" 😂
/r/seduction24/10/24 09:38 AM
1

I agree. I did the same thing when I was young. Learned a lot from misogynistic assholes and became one myself. I was lucky enough to find a woman that put up with my bullshit, but once we were living together I had to tone my bullshit down a lot. I've looked at the folks I learned from and many of them are still single over two decades later. They knew how to get a woman into bed, but they never learned how to keep them around. I'm now helping men learn how to attract women without being a miso…
/r/seduction24/10/24 08:22 AM
2

This is going to be a long read. Well, this isn't getting salvaged. She's not into you, and absent her finding out that you're dating someone else, she won't be into you, ever. However, this is a learning experience that you can use later. Let's go through it: if we hang out it wouldn’t be as friends Thirty seconds later So we did hang out as friends You set a boundary, she broke it, and you allowed it to happen. When you did this she learned that she does not have to care about your feelings or…
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:28 AM
2

Jesus Christ. Just nut the fuck up and talk to her.
/r/seduction22/10/24 06:46 AM
1

This is the second post I've seen from you today where you're saying that when you opened your mouth she lost interest. What's happening is that you don't know how to talk to women to keep them interested. You're boring them.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:48 AM
4

Many women need to feel a sense of emotional connection before they'll sleep with you. There's two major reasons for this: The orgasm gap. It's a real thing. Look it up. Women usually aren't likely to bang random guys they just met because they don't get anything out of it. Most guys (at least, if the data is to be believed) aren't concerned with making sure the sex is good for the woman they're hooking up with. So they don't have a reason to just bang some dude they barely know. Safety. Women c…
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:41 AM
2

Stop overthinking it and just go on the date.
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:45 AM
-1

Message me
/r/seduction19/10/24 07:12 AM
0

I don't blame her. How would you feel if you were on a second date, let alone married, and they told you that you needed to ditch your female friends? That's bad enough in a LTR. Doing on the second date just makes you look like an insecure asshole.
/r/seduction19/10/24 01:22 AM
2

Sounds like this isn't just a problem with women. Just going from your post, it seems like you might not have friends to spend time with, either. Don't spend so much time on your career that you forget to have a life. I made that mistake the hard way and spent my 30s grinding as hard as I could and neglected the relationships in my life. I'm in my 40s now and trying to rebuild them. I'm not sure what you mean by "dark triad", but I'm guessing it means, "be a manipulative asshole to women". I use…
/r/seduction18/10/24 06:19 AM
2

A whole lot of people are guessing, but truthfully none of us know because we weren't there, and unless you have a video recording of everything that happened that night, we'll have no idea. There's an infinite number of reasons why it might have happened. Maybe she sobered up and decided she didn't like you after all. Maybe you did something that gave her the "ick" and kept pretending to be interested to be polite. Maybe she's already in a monogamous relationship. Maybe she was a spy and didn't…
/r/seduction18/10/24 05:14 AM
1

You're talking about New Relationship Energy. It's infatuation, the first stage of love. Both people in a romantic relationship eventually lose it, not just women. The key to keeping the relationship going is to still love each other even after the infatuation is gone. Not all relationships will survive after the infatuation is gone. That's just life.
/r/seduction17/10/24 07:56 AM
2

If she were needy or clingy, she wouldn't have complained or canceled and would have gone on the date. Needy women don't reject men. They always act like nothing is wrong until the moment they've decided to leave you, most often because they found someone else. Dating women is a balancing act. Pursue too much and she'll think you're clingy and leave. Do it too little and they'll think you're not interested and leave. You put in too little effort for her to want to engage.
/r/seduction17/10/24 03:21 AM
1

You don't know until you go for it. If a woman tells me no, I respect the decision and be cool with it. If the date isn't over, I stick around and be charming and continue to seduce. Women usually find it so refreshing they fuck my brains out on the next date.
/r/seduction16/10/24 10:05 AM
4

Isn't sex universally considered a vice? Sex was made into a vice by groups that want to control women and make them into property for men. It's why the groups most notorious for controlling the sex drive (religious institutions) are both ran by men and also have very high rates of sexual assault by their leadership.
/r/seduction15/10/24 11:10 PM
2

The problem is that you're an asshole and you don't realize it. At least that's how women see you. You're so concerned that women aren't going to like you that you try to show that you're "such a nice guy" and you become a control freak. Never in your post did you say that you're asking yourself, "Is this what she wants?" You assumed that a woman you want doesn't want to be seduced, that she doesn't want a man that has the stones to make a move. You also didn't consider that she might want a man…
/r/seduction15/10/24 10:20 PM
0

It sounds like he might have ADHD, based on the "spontaneous dates" and not planning anything. The rest of the stuff you'll only get answers for by asking him.
/r/seduction15/10/24 09:38 PM
2

No worries, friend
/r/seduction14/10/24 07:16 PM
1

We're polyamorous
/r/seduction14/10/24 07:15 PM
1

I am aware. Thanks. Don't know why you're trying to start an argument when I've been agreeing with you the entire time, lol
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:44 PM
4

I'm in my 40s and married. I learned from a lot of these guys. And yeah, when I got in that long term relationship that eventually led to marriage, I had to quit pulling a lot of the shit that they said to do. Getting a woman into bed is one thing. Keeping them around is a whole different skill set.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:41 PM
2

You'd have to ask her
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:34 PM
1

Yep. A lot of the old coaches are either divorced or still single. They might have learned how to get a woman, but they didn't learn how to keep them around.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:31 PM
5

Every one of your posts reads like someone who read books on seduction from someone else, never used them, and has now declared themselves an expert. All you're doing is repeating the same stuff that's been said for decades that everyone has seen before. Everything you say about women tells me you've never talked to one in your life.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:30 PM
1

Yeah. I'm very selective in who I teach because of this. Anyone who thinks that they should be able to hold women hostage economically is fucked.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:11 AM
2

Yeah. I'm very selective in who I teach because of this. Anyone who thinks that they should be able to hold women hostage economically is fucked.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:11 AM
2

"The will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual and emotional growth" - Bell Hooks' definition of love, from All About Love She was quoting a self help book written by a man when she wrote that. She cited him, but unfortunately I can't remember the name. This is why when you get all your activism philosophy from the internet instead of reading theory you're going to learn it wrong. Online feminism says that men are trash. Real feminist theory teaches tha…
/r/seduction14/10/24 06:38 AM
1

This story is bullshit, lol. We're supposed to believe that your date lied about the amount of sex she was having but let you go through her phone where she had a bunch of videos of her fucking other dudes. Yet somehow she didn't get video of you. And despite having all these other guys at her disposal, she's begging you for another chance after you kicked her out? As the kids like to say, the math ain't mathin.
/r/seduction14/10/24 04:03 AM
1

This is advanced level stuff that most of the dudes here aren't ready to hear. When guys start learning seduction, they think the goal is to get a hot woman. But experts know that physical appearance is far from the only quality in a good romantic partner. Unfortunately, guys who haven't had a lot of experience with women or relationships don't know what they actually want yet, and they won't know until they've gotten good at seduction. It's a paradox, like the whole "getting job experience with…
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:09 AM
3

Being masculine but dropping the toxicity worked for me.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:34 AM
6

It's a fucking cry fest in these comments.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:28 AM
1

You were right in the first half (women were held hostage through financial abuse when a husband was their only option for financial security), but the second half doesn't take into account that there are a lot of good men out there that are lonely and hurting. Nor does it account for the fact that women can also harm men by placing patriarchal standards on them and can also be abusive and cheat. Read some Bell Hooks instead of getting all your info about feminism from content creators.
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:58 PM
3

It's a meaningless saying. Women have to deal with being slut shamed, so they tell people that they're not looking for hook ups or whatever. Anytime I've dated a woman that said that I've slept with on the first date. Most women love sex as much as we do, but if they say they're looking to bone the guy isn't going to put in any effort to make any sort of emotional connection, which also tells women that they'll be lousy in bed and only looking out for their own desires and not hers. ETA: I saw i…
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:43 PM
2

These "I have no game, so I'm just going to blame women" posts are pathetic and unhelpful. I guarantee the people that make posts like this and the folks agreeing with them almost all have the same friends from high school but don't go around saying, "Why is making friends so hard for guys? Why do other guys have all the leverage?" The other people aren't the problem. You just never learned how to talk to people. I was a 19 year old virgin over two decades ago and I was saying the same shit befo…
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:49 PM
1

I'm married to someone I met on a dating site.
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:43 PM
1

Ahh, I see. It sounds like you're trying to see if they can be your friend and not your romantic interest. This is stuff you talk about with your buddies. With a date, you want to talk about romantic things, be flirty, and a little sexual (just not so much that you come off as a creep). I always recommend an old book for people new to seduction, but it works really well and has a great chapter for how to handle a first date. It's called How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland.
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:15 AM
2

Pretend you're me for a second and I'm you. I wrote a post asking for advice about approaching in real life and you gave me some. Then, you saw me make the previous comment. What would you think about that person? How would that previous comment sound to you? Take the advice or dont. But I don't want to hear excuses about how "the thing I never do will never work if I do".
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:16 AM
0

Well, there's the problem. You have to actually approach women irl to succeed at dating g them. In my profile I wrote a post called "How to Approach When You Have Social Anxiety". You can use that as a way to initiate conversation. When you're out an about, find a woman to use it on. Don't ask her out if you don't want to, but use it to relieve anxiety about talking to women. Plus, giving people random compliments is a good way to make people's day better.
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:58 AM
1

I do better on the apps, too. I've always found it strange when guys on here complain about OLD because I do great with it. Are you approaching women IRL often?
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:21 AM
16

Yes, and the truth is that nobody would want to date someone with your mindset. You need to take responsibility for what's happening in your life instead of blaming women for not wanting to date you. Would you want to date a woman that said that all men are trash and that you and all other men are only interested in hurting people and getting laid? If the truth sets you free, how free are you feeling right now? ETA: I looked at your comment history and your common theme on here is doomerism. The…
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:18 AM
2

Well, you got four notches in your belt in a year That's a lot higher than most people, so you're off to a good start. In order to figure out what-or if-you're doing something wrong, we need more details. What are you saying when you text? How about on dates? What does an actual conversation look like?
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:05 AM
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This incel garbage is unhelpful, including to you, as your profile shows that you're lonely and worried about your economic prospects. There's no such thing as "the top 5% of males", and even if there were, I wouldn't be it and I still get laid like crazy. Even by feminists. Learn how women actually think, not how you're told they think by guys that whine about women on podcasts so they can increase their ad revenue. And learn some game.
/r/seduction13/10/24 05:46 AM
1

What do you talk about on your dates? We need to know what's actually happening on the dates before we can know what needs to be fixed.
/r/seduction13/10/24 05:43 AM
1

Some people just have better luck on the apps. If it's working for you, keep at it.
/r/seduction13/10/24 05:40 AM
26

You got better, so she enjoyed being with you more. Don't over think it.
/r/seduction12/10/24 09:02 PM
1

My wife and I are polyamorous, so I don't have to stop playing. It's pretty awesome.
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:43 AM
2

*You're
/r/seduction11/10/24 07:37 AM
2

Sure. It's not like they're people and have feelings or anything. I'm sure that won't come back to bite you in the ass at all. /s
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:19 AM
1

There's a difference between nice guys and good guys. Nice guys aren't nice. They think if they act nice, they'll get laid. Being nice is just a means to and end for them. When that doesn't work, they get bitter and assume that "women only like jerks", when they've been the jerk the entire time. They act like good people, but they are really just manipulative assholes. They assume to know what women want without asking them. Think of just about every character played by Christopher Mintz-Plasse.…
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:03 PM
16

I think they're either AI or drunk at 4 in the morning.
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:45 AM
5

You just posted this a few hours ago.
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:27 AM
1

It feels like all of your posts were copied and pasted from material from other dating coaches.
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:51 AM
0

Sounds like you have rejection sensitive dysphoria. I do, too. One thing that can help is to get off social media. People are way worse on here than the real world, and spending too much time on here can make a person assume that people in the real world are just as awful. They aren't. Digital Minimalism is a great book that can help you get off social media. I left it for nearly a year and was surprised at the tone of everything when I came back. Cyberbullying is the norm here, not the exceptio…
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:38 AM
1

Relax, Jack Harlow.
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:34 AM
1

Truth is you won't know unless you ask them. They could be seeing someone else, they could just be using you for sex, or they could have a million different other reasons. Just know that the problem isn't you. It's her. Move on and if you're worried about catching feelings I'd suggest staying away from her forever.
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:33 AM
3

Folks don't like it when I tell them to go to a coffee shop on the first date, but this is one of the reasons why I do it. I always pay, and if the date is boring I'm only out $20. The only time I end up paying over $100 for a first date is when we have to get a hotel room after.
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:24 AM
1

I don't believe you. You make posts every day on here saying that you can't get a woman in bed despite going on about two dates a week. First you said our advice won't work, now you're saying that they didn't work. My advice to you was to buy a book. Did you buy that book, Mr Rising Sun?
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:16 PM
1

Apologies. I reread the comment. At first glance I thought you were ripping on the "gorilla warfare" copy pasta. I'm being serious when I say I thought you were fucking with me. Here's my serious answer: I learned a long time ago that there's a difference between being mean and being strong. Between being dominant and being an asshole. The approach I use on my initial encounters kind of has a Matthew McConaughey vibe. Think of him saying, "Alright, alright, alright". Nobody would think of that v…
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:13 PM
1

Yeah. Look at his history. He's trolling.
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:28 PM
2

Why are you trolling this subreddit?
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:27 PM
1

This was a great copy pasta. Thanks!
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:13 PM
2

I'm unsure of how to explain that coming across as an arrogant asshole is a turn off for anyone, let alone women.
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:26 AM
1

I gave you a smart ass answer in my OC below because in your last post you didn't seem too interested in advice and I couldn't tell if you were serious or trolling. You seem sincere now so I'll tell you what helped me. I always recommend the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. They have an excellent chapter on what to talk about on a first date. I still use the advice from that chapter and I almost always get laid on the first date. The past few years the only reason …
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:24 PM
1

I always recommend How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It was made back in the year 2000 but most of the advice still holds up.
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:14 PM
1

It made me come off as an arrogant asshole instead of someone genuine.
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:11 PM
1

You must be as swift as the coarsing river. With all the force of a great typhoon. With all the strength of a raging fire. Mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
/r/seduction08/10/24 08:44 AM
1

Do you want to talk about it?
/r/seduction08/10/24 06:13 AM
10

Yeah, I tried that aggro stuff in the beginning. It never worked. When I was friendly, open, and honest I did much better.
/r/seduction08/10/24 06:09 AM
3

I asked her if is from Latin and told her she looked exotic. I'm assuming you mean Latin America. Yeah, if there was a line that killed your chances, that was it. I'm guessing you're white, and calling a non-white person "exotic" screams racial fetishization and definitely comes off as rude, if not a bit racist. I'm sure that wasn't your intention, but that's how it will be perceived.
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:21 AM
1

Based on your comments here and your very hostile attitude, you're absolutely not a nice guy. The truth is that you act like a nice guy to get what you want, and when you don't get that you show your true colors. Women see through your game.
/r/seduction08/10/24 12:50 AM
0

The advice posts on this subreddit might as well be written by AI at this point. All the same shit, nothing original. The reason why "nice guys finish last" is because they aren't actually nice guys. They're men who think that they can bribe their way into a woman's pants, and once that happens, they end up ripping off the nice guy facade and become a control freak. Women see through this shit. I'm an actual "nice guy" because I respect women and they feel safe around me because of my chill vibe…
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:55 PM
5

It's an issue of balance. If you don't show any interest, she'll assume you don't want her and move on. If you show too much, she'll get overwhelmed and bail. You'll find that sweet spot between too much and too little interest with experience.
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:45 PM
2

On the internet, yes. In real life, not so much.
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:05 PM
1

She didn't tell you anything that she enjoys in her own life?
/r/seduction07/10/24 04:36 AM
1

What did she say that she enjoys on the first date?
/r/seduction07/10/24 03:19 AM
1

I just take dates to coffee shops for the first time. I don't know why you'd spend $200 on a date.
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:12 PM
2

I saw your profile history and it looks like you have a crippling social media addiction, and it's ruining your ability to have real world human connection. That's probably the reason why you assume that women in the real world aren't worth pursuing. On social media, relationships are disposable and easy to discard if the person you're engaging with doesn't agree with you on everything. When you spend all of your "social life" online, you end up applying that idea to real life. It makes it impos…
/r/seduction05/10/24 07:45 AM
1

Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction05/10/24 07:19 AM
1

My friends said I was texting like an autistic person I'm autistic and I crush ass. Your friend can fuck off. That said, we'd need to know what you're texting before we can know what you're doing wrong.
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:55 AM
1

Most dating or seduction coaches don't have a great understanding of how the mind works. Daniel Kahneman wrote a great book about how the human brain works in Learning Fast...and Slow. He explained that there's two types of conscious mind. There's the fast thinking brain that makes decisions on the fly, and makes most determinations based on past pattern recognition. The fast thinking brain tells us that 2+2=4 because we've known that for so long that it's now a pattern lodged in our mind. The s…
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:44 AM
1

And that's a good thing. Whatever makes you feel "manly" is masculine for you. You should decide how you express yourself as a man, not society.
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:18 AM
4

What's actually going on is - women are taking men for granted more and more. Its partly because of how they talk to each other, constantly telling each other they're amazing and that any man would be lucky to be with them simply because they exist. There's also the fact that in 2024 it's extremely easy to get unlimited access to simps. I heard the same thing being preached when I started studying seduction twenty four years ago. I realized when I matured and started meeting women that it was al…
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:10 AM
2

Looking at your comments here and your post history, I can see what the problem is, and you're not going to like reading it: You don't think anyone will ever love you. You convinced yourself of that, and that's why you lash out at anyone who doesn't do what you say. It's a defense mechanism. I know this because I was like you a long time ago, including the severe devotion to my church/cult (I've come to learn it was a cult because they were trying to control every aspect of my life). I'm guessin…
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:08 AM
1

Solve the problem of whatever it is you're giving a fuck about. If it's lack of a love life, get a love life. If it's money, start looking for a better job. If it's lack of friends, go find some. The only thing that has ever made me stop giving a fuck is winning. And the only way I started to win was by solving my problems.
/r/seduction04/10/24 06:39 AM
3

That's a good way of putting it.
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:49 AM
6

There's a lot of nuance to it. We do need to chase somewhat. We usually do the approaching, we ask for the number or date, but we also have to give them space to put energy into the relationship as well or they won't have any emotional investment.
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:47 AM
1

I'm in my 40s and I crush ass. I also got my college degree at 33.
/r/seduction02/10/24 05:46 AM
2

There's a guy that posts here called u/FireTexts. His info is pretty good for this.
/r/seduction02/10/24 05:31 AM
1

I'm in my 40s and I get laid like crazy. Dating is so much easier than in your 20s. Most of the women are divorced, they're too old to give a shit about being slut shamed, they've had the time to figure out what their kinks are, and they want to fuck. They don't like playing games, either. I often tell people that mastering seduction in my 20s was like beating a video game on hard mode and doing it in your 40s is like the video game got reset to beginner. ETA: Your dad is jacked!
/r/seduction30/09/24 10:04 AM
2

If you're constantly looking to be the one in power in all your relationships, including friends, family, and coworkers, you're going to be very lonely. I tried this when I started seduction. My friends stopped wanting to hang out with me, my family was constantly yelling at me, and everyone started to believe (rightly) that I was an asshole. When I went back to being chill, they were too.
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:53 AM
4

Well said.
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:49 AM
1

This is why I'm glad I'm polyamorous. I don't do soul mates. I do multiple relationships with wonderful women.
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:21 AM
2

Fear of rejection is hard wired into us as a factor of evolution. Humans are pack animals. Prehistoric humans learned to devolop the personality traits of their tribe as a form of socialization and to avoid being rejected as an outcast. There was a very real danger involved in being rejected by people. It meant that you were on your own to get food, water, shelter, and couldn't depend on anyone when injured or sick. This fear is real for a reason. Even today, loneliness is one of the biggest rea…
/r/seduction29/09/24 05:22 AM
1

Is weed legal where you live? Switch to that. Your liver will thank you. Trust me on this. I also agree with the others that tell you to avoid doing drugs while meeting women, though.
/r/seduction28/09/24 05:49 AM
1

I also saw you're a Dom. I too, am a man of culture. 😉
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:05 AM
1

Tbh, we're all like that in the beginning. Hell, I'm great at seduction and I still get anxious when I get left on read. Rejection sensitive dysphoria is a motherfucker. So you're not alone, my friend. The only thing that really helps is success. Keep grinding until you get it. It took me two years of grinding hard, going to clubs to meet women, constant rejection from online sites, and studying seduction for just about every minute of my free time before I had my first hook up. Think of it like…
/r/seduction26/09/24 03:56 AM
9

I know I told you this before, but it is nice to see someone give advice that specific with examples, instead of the usual generic bs we usually see here.
/r/seduction26/09/24 03:51 AM
2

Seduction in your 40s is easy mode if you're dating women your own age. I can tell you from experience. Most women in the dating pool are divorced. They're too old to give a shit about slut shaming and are more than happy to smash with just about any man that is a decent human being. Don't try to be a jerk to impress them, they're too old to be dealing with that bullshit. Hell, they're too old to want to play games in general. And the pool of available men is much smaller now than twenty years a…
/r/seduction25/09/24 05:18 AM
1

I'm a Dom in the kink community, and you're definitely a submissive woman looking for a dominant man, so I can give some perspective here. I asked you in another comment how long you've been dating and as of yet you haven't responded, so I'm going to guess it's not been very long. Probably not more than six months. I think you have what's known as "New Relationship Energy". It's infatuation. The beginning stage of a relationship where you see your partner as perfect because you're high on new ro…
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:41 AM
2

Then you'll need to have your own source of income.
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:05 AM
1

How long have you been dating him?
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:53 AM
1

I always tell new guys to get the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book and some of the advice is dated (like their advice on not growing a beard-something that would be weird today) but they do give tips on how to talk to women and use words to create feelings of attraction and arousal. That said, it looks like a problem you had with past relationships is setting and enforcing boundaries. I had that problem when I was younger. In high school I had a gi…
/r/seduction24/09/24 05:05 AM
1

Well, in the end they fucked him up with a voodoo doll because when they wanted to leave him he put a spell on one of them that made them so sick they nearly died, so there's that.
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:49 AM
1

So you're going to make your girlfriend have a sexual experience that she doesn't want to have, just so you stop getting jealous of what she did before dating you? This isn't a seduction issue so it really doesn't belong here, but my best advice to you is to grow the fuck up. You're in your late 20s. Do you really think everyone you date is going to be a nun before meeting you? Here's a hard fact that a lot of guys don't want to admit: If you want to be with a woman that loves to fuck, you're go…
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:31 AM
10

Well, most people that care about age gaps generally have the rule of "Half your age plus seven". So mathematically, you're good.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:43 AM
3

Can I ask why you are still with her? That might help determine the reason.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:34 AM
1

I usually swipe right on everyone. That helps. I also like to use apps like OkCupid, where you can send a message to the person before getting a match. It helps improve my odds. If you're into kink, Feeld is fantastic. My last two (including my current) partners were on there.
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:49 AM
1

I like that you provided a specific example in your article. A lot of the advice here is too vague and generic to be useful.
/r/seduction21/09/24 04:54 AM
4

Do you have problems getting matches, or do things fizzle out when you start chatting?
/r/seduction21/09/24 04:51 AM
1

Message me. I have advice about work but don't want to say it on here because I don't like to talk about my job on here.
/r/seduction21/09/24 03:14 AM
1

Sounds like it's an approach that's working for you. There's a lot of reasons that your date wouldn't say they want to get closer that doesn't have anything to do with lack of interest. Sometimes they want to test you to make sure that you're going to respect their boundaries and consent. Passing this test is easy but it's a big deal, and in my experience it almost always leads to good things later (and disastrous results if you don't). If your date is neurodivergent, they might just not pick up…
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:17 AM
2

I was going to add an ETA to my previous post now that I've watched the video, but to answer your question, a big problem with many men is that they confuse kindness with being weak and being mean with being strong. I've learned to master being kind and strong at the same time. I respect women, but I'm also a Dom in the kink community. The combination of having a strong father figure mentality with listening to my partners and being respectful (and also able to satisfy them sexually) is a panty …
/r/seduction12/09/24 07:48 AM
3

I've been surprised how few people here know about Ross Jeffries. I bought a $300 speed seduction package from him 24 years ago and it's one of the reasons I'm married now, lol. I think The Game is one of the reasons he isn't mentioned much anymore. He was kind of a dick in the book. I learned over time how to combine his and others' strategies and be less rough around the edges. I guess if there is a "nice guy game", I've mastered it.
/r/seduction12/09/24 07:01 AM
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Well, this is the seduction subreddit, so the goal is to, you know, seduce. 😉 A lot of relationships start out as hookups. My wife and I were supposed to be a one night stand. We've been happily married for well over a decade. Looking at your profile, you seem to have bouts of depression along with a love of philosophy. I'd recommend checking out Alfred Camus. His philosophy of absurdism got me through some dark times. As for being unattractive, I'm far from the best looking guy on Earth but I d…
/r/seduction07/09/24 03:55 AM
3

Who cares? Ask her out.
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:22 AM
5

She's showing obvious signs of interest. Instead of wasting time looking for ways to keep her texting (which will eventually bore her) just ask her out already.
/r/seduction30/08/24 06:19 AM
0

They have Domme energy. Or they're Brats.
/r/seduction30/08/24 06:03 AM
2

I never read Models, but I did read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck and Everything is Fucked. Both books felt like they were written by a 14 year old Reddit edge lord.
/r/seduction30/08/24 05:26 AM
0

Seems reasonable. I can't stand Mark Manson, though.
/r/seduction30/08/24 05:20 AM
1

Perhaps you're polyamorous?
/r/seduction30/08/24 05:07 AM
1

Is that your type, though? Seriously asking. No judgment.
/r/seduction30/08/24 04:10 AM
3

Yeah. Has an average rate of return of 10% per year. Guaranteed money maker.
/r/seduction30/08/24 02:47 AM
1

Throwing insults towards people for no reason is one of the reasons you're not succeeding with women. Bye bye!
/r/seduction28/08/24 06:56 PM
-1

I'll be sure to tell that to the women I'm currently sleeping with.
/r/seduction28/08/24 06:40 PM
-1

I always recommend a 25 year old book for newbies (How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland). I still use the stuff in that book and I get laid plenty. The new shit is all about attitude and never actually tells anyone what to say to capture and lead a woman's imagination.
/r/seduction28/08/24 04:31 PM
0

Because they project what men desire onto women and use that as an excuse to give up.
/r/seduction28/08/24 04:28 PM
1

No, I still think they're hot. So attractive women get treated better than non attractive women. Big deal. That doesn't affect my ability to seduce.
/r/seduction27/08/24 08:49 PM
2

This is a great post. I started giving random compliments to both men and women when I was out and about a few years ago as I was trying to get out of my terminally online mindset that had been over developed during the plague. I found out that people in real life are way nicer and open to compliments than they are on the internet, lol.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:25 AM
1

Sounds like a good idea. I'll give it a shot next time I approach.
/r/seduction27/08/24 05:52 AM
10

you’re not used to someone like me responding to you. I'm actually quite versed in people being hostile on the internet. I'm older than 12, lol. But I do appreciate you showing that you have the same emotions and need for validation that you tell people to not have. And of course I want validation and love from my community. I'm human. I never pretended otherwise.
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:48 AM
1

The consensus here and elsewhere seems to be to just send the fucking text. I'm in agreement with this. Send the text already.
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:45 AM
10

Your past two responses have shown why your post is bad and impossible to follow. You need validation, too. You want to know that you're loved and accepted, even by an online community. And that's okay. It's not weakness to want to be accepted. It's part of the human condition. We all want to know that our community cares about us, online or otherwise. The reason why I responded to this post and not the others is because the post said to deny the parts of us that you can't shut off yourself. Tel…
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:06 AM
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Sounds like I touched a nerve. You responded because you were denied the validation that you accuse men of being weak for seeking. Mentioning how many up votes you get was your attempt at showing how loved you are by people that don't know you. All of your posts are the same "be more confident" "be dominant" advice that anyone can get from a million YouTube videos. Hell, I've wondered how much of your articles were just ripped from Charisma on Command. I didn't say anything in the past because I…
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:45 AM
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I've been watching you for over a year post the most generic, overused advice that anyone can find anywhere on the internet from any number of grifters trying to make a name for themselves. I've avoided saying anything about it because I'm trying to be a more positive person. But I need to say something here because your post is worse than generic. It's harmful. We've been told our whole lives to not ask for help and then we wonder why as adults we're lonely and depressed even as us lucky ones h…
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:55 PM
1

I'll admit that I had a hard time typing out an answer for this because it's been a long time since I've had to worry about not being my "authentic self". I've already retyped this a few times. The real answer for me is that I just don't mess with women I'm not compatible with. In the beginning of the seduction journey, we're so anxious to get ANY WOMAN to like us that we act like someone we're not. I tried to change myself to make myself more desirable. As I got better at seduction, that wasn't…
/r/seduction25/08/24 07:30 AM
2

It means you meet up to have sex
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:14 AM
1

This feels like a shitpost.
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:13 AM
1

Every post you've made says that you need to learn to talk to women; to capture and lead their imagination. This subreddit isn't up to that task. I've not once seen a post here that tells you what to actually say to a woman. Get the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's good for helping you talk to women, especially on the first date.
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:40 PM
5

Men use love to get sex, and women use sex to get love. Fucking hell, that's a load of shit said by inexperienced men. We all need love. I've been used for sex plenty and it isn't nearly as fun as movies and TV make it out to be. And since I'm amazing in bed I usually sleep with women quickly so they'll want a second date.
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:28 PM
2

Go date other women. Either she'll get interested or you'll stop caring.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:47 AM
5

Welcome to seduction. You're at that moment where after you get good, you realize that you want someone that you connect with more than a super baddie. I've been doing this a long time and I've come to learn that I'd rather be with a 6 that I enjoy being around rather than a 10 that's boring as shit. You might not get a woman that hot again, but who cares? You're not happy with her. Find someone or more than one that makes you happy.
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:25 AM
5

I lost my virginity when I was 21. I was late to the game because of religion. I also thought I could learn seduction but not have sex. I was wrong. There's no such thing as halfway crooks. If you're going down this path, you're going to have sex. Expect that or don't go down this path at all. Also, you're 26. Make it happen already.
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:20 AM
4

Sounds like a good way to break the ice
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:52 AM
1

The problem is that you're not greedy. You've made post after post admitting that you don't put in the work of seduction and then wonder why shit didn't work out. If getting a woman to sleep with you didn't require work, seduction wouldn't be a thing. You have to put in the work. Even when you don't feel like it.
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:45 AM
1

I have to ask a serious question and I absolutely am asking this without any malice and am NOT asking this to be insulting: You've made nine posts here in two weeks. What are you really trying to accomplish in this subreddit? Are you just venting and looking for bros to support you? If that's the case, I got you. Are you hoping that if you post enough you'll get the perfect advice to turn you into Don Juan? If so, I can tell you that won't happen. Most of the advice here is generic and doesn't t…
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:36 AM
1

First of all, you didn't fix the post. ETA: Now it's showing up with paragraphs. So nevermind. Second of all, who cares? She's not in a monogamous relationship with you. Like Logan said, she doesn't owe you anything nor does she need your permission to live her own life. This isn't a seduction issue. This is a jealousy issue
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:02 PM
2

Loganjr said most of what I'd say already, but I will add this: Learn how to use paragraphs.
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:44 PM
1

Yes. Keep dating until you find one.
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:41 AM
1

It's irrelevant. Every woman on a dating app, with the exception of maybe asexuals, are looking to fuck. They wouldn't be on the app otherwise. Like another commenter said here, I've also lost count of the number of women who say they're demisexual, "not into hookups", etc., only to bang them within an hour of meeting. What women who say those things don't want is to be slut shamed or approached by a creep with no game who just texts them dick pics or says "let's meet and fuck" within two minute…
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:38 AM
3

Probably the cause of the problems for whatever country you live in.
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:28 AM
18

Date other women. Problem solved.
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:24 AM
1

"I work in private security. My job is to make people feel safe."
/r/seduction09/08/24 05:55 AM
0

How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. I always recommend the book for newbies.
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:59 AM
1

I am autistic, only slightly above average in the looks department (I have a dad bod), and I crush ass. The Game can be taught. Problem is that all the current teachers all teach the same generic advice over and over again about being confident or approaching while telling you literally nothing about what to actually say.
/r/seduction30/07/24 05:08 AM
0

Women complain just as much about finding a man that's worth a shit just as much as men complain about finding a decent woman. Just because it's easier for them to find a man that will fuck them doesn't mean the man will be able to sexually satisfy them.
/r/seduction30/07/24 05:02 AM
2

I'm going to be blunt. Asking questions like these are pointless. You live in today's world with dating apps and social media. So adapt. Accept that this is that way it is and use it to your advantage.
/r/seduction30/07/24 04:57 AM
1

You have a distorted view of what a good relationship is. That's common with folks your age, especially when they lack experience dating. This will change when you get more experience and learn what you want out of a relationship. If you're only focused on looks and not having a good emotional connection and common values in a relationship you're going to end up with someone you don't want even if they are physically a "perfect ten". You won't know what those values are until you've been dating …
/r/seduction30/07/24 04:44 AM
3

Yeah, we know. He's been posting here for a while.
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:38 AM
0

Seriously. I'm autistic and I pull way more than they do.
/r/seduction11/07/24 11:24 PM
1

I always escalate on a coffee date. Its a date. She's already interested. Make that shit happen.
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:16 AM
3

I'd recommend brushing your teeth and using mouthwash after.
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:14 AM
2

If she agreed to a date with you, she likes you. If she agreed to a date with you, she likes you. If she agreed to a date with you, she likes you. Typed it three times so it gets through your head. She already likes you. She's interested. You need to let go of all that anxiety and replace it with the knowledge that she already wants you. You went through the hard part. You got the date. She showed interest. She's into you. Now go out there and finish what you started!
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:13 AM
11

Lol. You'll be saying something different in ten years when the stress of putting up a front wears on you. But whatever. It's your life.
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:09 AM
27

Instead of making up stories (that she'll eventually find out are lies if you stay together for a while, which will create a whole entire set of problems), call her out on it. My wife, back when she was my girlfriend, said the same thing. I told her, "No you don't. Any time I show vulnerability you freak out. That's what women do. Either that, or you use it against us later and laugh at us." Her mindset changed immediately. Anyone that you're with for a long time is going to see you in a vulnera…
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:23 AM
3

Relax, big nose pedo. Go find something better to do.
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:39 AM
3

He's a troll. Makes a new profile everyday. He once said he wants to rape my kids. Dude is a pedo.
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:28 AM
2

Yeah, but this post doesn't discuss that.
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:15 AM
5

But you tell people you're an unattractive incel in need of a nose job, and you talk about fucking children.
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:14 AM
7

Yep. Dealt with that when I was younger. When I was willing to walk away that turned around. I'd also suggest to OP to not go on 15 hour dates unless she's already your girlfriend.
/r/seduction08/07/24 09:37 PM
23

I'm autistic and found this post to be a lot of words without any real advice.
/r/seduction08/07/24 08:56 PM
44

You wrote a lot of words to say, "Sometimes she's interested in you, sometimes she's not."
/r/seduction08/07/24 08:55 PM
1

Well, I certainly don't want to mansplain feelings that women have to other women. However, I will tell you from my own personal experience that I usually date women my age (late 30s to 40s) and many of them have gotten out of bad marriages that were sexually unfulfilling and are now ready to let their freak flag fly. We men also crave the intimacy you describe. We're supposed to pretend we don't because the patriarchy says that all men are supposed to be emotionless sex crazed robots, but we ne…
/r/seduction08/07/24 04:11 PM
2

I believe it's called "being rude".
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:22 AM
0

Liar
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:35 AM
-1

Why are you telling me this?
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:54 PM
0

You're the alt. Lol. Couldn't come up with a new name? Had to have Google do it? Pedo.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:49 PM
2

Well, thanks for letting me know not to teach you. Bye!
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:16 PM
4

Every time I see someone on here drop the R-word I find that they're from outside the United States. Is it just not taboo to use that word, or is something getting lost in translation?
/r/seduction07/07/24 06:18 PM
2

Women, with maybe the exception of aces and aros, want a partner that can make them feel feelings of emotional connection, arousal, lust, and love. Looks can help make that happen, but it's far from the only way to do that. Sometimes I feel like a boomer when I'm here because back when I was young seduction teachers taught how to do that. Now all I see are guys on YouTube and TikTok either calling women hoes (because God forbid the person you're seducing would ever enjoy sex) or they'll tell you…
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:52 PM
5

You told people that if they didn't win the genetic lottery they're destined to fail. A good looks post would give fashion and hygiene advice. You did none of that. You just said that if they're not Chris Hemsworth they'll be lonely forever.
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:26 AM
27

Wow. An advice post on here that actually gives good advice. Nicely done.
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:24 AM
3

He's a troll. He makes alts every day to say horrible things. Earlier tonight he used a previous alt to say that he wants to rape my prepubescent daughters.
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:23 AM
5

You're in violation of Rule 6. And nothing you're saying is helpful. You're just telling the whole internet that you have no rizz.
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:15 AM
5

To be happy. If you know how to make women feel good and be happy, looks won't matter.
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:54 AM
4

Then why are you here? If you're so convinced that seduction doesn't work, why tf are you in a seduction subreddit? Your admitting outright that your post has nothing to do with seduction, so why are you posting an off topic post that violates the rules of the subreddit itself?
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:20 AM
8

It was a very polite way of saying that your post sucks. No amount of seduction or manipulation can alter a woman’s or man’s lack of physical attraction. Then why tf are you here? If seduction doesn't matter, then your post doesn't belong here. I'm not the best looking man in any room. I still crush ass because I know what women really want.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:54 AM
-1

Because they're scared of being attracted to a trans woman.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:30 AM
2

Well, you can always curl up in the fetal position and cry if I hurt your feelings.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:24 AM
19

Half the posts on this sub today have me hoping my daughters grow up to be lesbians. This is one of them.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:21 AM
1

Yeah, it's easy to troll when you don't have a life.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:13 AM
3

You made a new profile quick. Too bad you can't find anything better to do on a Saturday night than be a troll. I just got done fucking for the second time tonight. Too bad you can't say the same. 😂
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:11 AM
3

There's way more to this story than you're telling us. The night before, did she say she wanted a rough sex session, or did you assume she did? Sometimes women don't want sex or a sex act, but they don't say no because they freak out or freeze up. Sometimes they worry about saying no because of fear of a violent reaction. If it really was because of what you did the morning after, she probably has past trauma. I have a partner whose uncle would wake her up to...well, you get it. Because of that,…
/r/seduction07/07/24 04:24 AM
0

Hilarious. We need more satire like this.
/r/seduction07/07/24 04:23 AM
3

Don't you have anything better to do?
/r/seduction07/07/24 03:12 AM
2

We're not going to know the reason if you don't tell us what you're texting.
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:16 AM
5

You're not teachable. I'm completely serious on this. Your profile shows that you have shitty politics, want exclusively a Christian woman, are waiting until marriage even at 26 years old, and don't want kids. You're going to be one of those guys that asks for my advice and doesn't take it. You don't want to know how to find a woman, you want something out of The Handmaid's Tale where a woman is provided to you regardless of the feelings or consent of the woman. You want a woman that doesn't exi…
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:43 PM
1

Yep. Always annoying when they're begging me for advice and then never take it. Until I realized that they never actually wanted advice I was wondering why they were wasting my time.
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:17 PM
10

I've found that most of the people here asking for advice on getting "that one girl" aren't actually here for advice. They're here to vent and get validation. I've lost count of the number of guys that DM me for advice. I give them the advice and a few days later they're messaging me back, saying basically, "I didn't take your advice, and the thing I did instead didn't work. What do I do now?" Then I'd give more advice and the cycle would repeat it itself.
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:56 PM
1

Always dudes that don't pull that say that shit. I'll be sure to let my two girlfriends know that when they double team me again. But I love it when folks do say it. Let's me know who not to teach.
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:38 PM
-3

Nobody steals my women. I'm polyamorous, so it's not possible anyway (little hard to steal when we're all sharing), but I've never had to worry about it because I'm a great catch. Your advice is always horrible. It's like you never actually succeed with women, but read a bunch of books and listened to podcasts about seduction from grifters that give generic advice and now you think you're an expert when you're just giving the same generic advice that has been preached here a thousand times befor…
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:13 PM
11

Nearly all women say they're "not into hookups". Nearly all of them are lying. Its not because they're bad people. It's that society shames women for enjoying casual sex. Ironically, it shames men for not wanting casual sex. Go figure. So we men have to pretend we don't want to be loved, while women have to pretend that they don't want to be dicked down. So don't worry about what women tell you. Just seduce them. Do what you'd usually do to hook up.
/r/seduction06/07/24 09:59 PM
2

This is the way
/r/seduction06/07/24 09:21 PM
1

You'll start turning women down when you're less focused on looks and more focused on personality. I recently turned down a woman because she said she doesn't like being kissed. She still wanted to have sex (and was very up front about it), but I said no because not kissing is a deal breaker for me. Another woman said that she was a Domme and refused to switch. I'm also a Dom so I told her we'd be incompatible, despite her swearing up and down that we can keep our relationship vanilla. I don't w…
/r/seduction06/07/24 08:46 PM
1

You're boring. Like if AI was ripping off stuff from 4chan pages.
/r/seduction06/07/24 04:15 AM
2

You're the alt of the guy that complained about not being able to find a woman that wasn't PC the other day, aren't you?
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:46 AM
1

We usually just have sex and go out to dinner sometimes.
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:44 AM
1

I usually date them for a long time. I've been seeing one of my girlfriends for over a year.
/r/seduction06/07/24 12:30 AM
2

I always tell new folks to get the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book but the advice still works.
/r/seduction05/07/24 11:47 PM
1

Really? I'm in my 40s and they all just want to smash
/r/seduction05/07/24 11:46 PM
1

You said something that upset her. If she's into you she'll get over it. It's not the end of the world. If she's still mad just apologize. When are you going to nut the fuck up and ask her out?
/r/seduction05/07/24 10:40 PM
11

This is the way
/r/seduction05/07/24 08:40 PM
0

Well, I'm just telling you all that so you avoid stressing about it. Obviously still take precautions, lol.
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:08 AM
0

Unless symptoms are present, it's hard to pass on. Also, I'm gonna get down voted all to hell for saying this, but herpes isn't nearly as big of a deal as it's made out to be. For starters, 2/3rds of the world already has some form of it (seriously, Google it). In the US, half the population does, so we're slightly ahead of the curve. Second, aside from the initial outbreak, people very rarely develop symptoms. Most people that have it don't know it because they will never have any symptoms at a…
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:55 AM
-1

Throw Currie away. Seriously. Delete whatever e-books or videos you have of them, unfollow them on social media, and if you have any books from them, toss them, too. This whole "absolute honesty" thing you're trying isn't working, because he's got you saying things without any regard for how the woman might feel when you ask. I guarantee what goes on in a woman's mind when you ask a woman about STIs after you got their number is A) Its very presumptuous of you to assume we're ever going to fuck,…
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:38 AM
1

Hello, fellow kinkster!
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:47 AM
2

I was having a bad day until I read this.
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:41 AM
38

Nearly all women, even those that are have casual sex, need an emotional connection before they'll sleep with you. There's a few reasons for this. For starters, society shames women for enjoying casual sex, so they aren't likely to just hop on someone's dick without feeling a connection with their sexual partners first. The other major reason is that they need to feel safe with you. There's a reason why the "man or bear" debate became so big on TikTok. Men are scary, and if you're going to be a …
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:32 AM
2

Not everyone is made for monogamy. If you force someone who isn't built for it into a monogamous role, they'll either cheat, find themselves incredibly depressed and not know why, or both.
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:43 PM
0

Tf is wrong with you? Is this a troll post?
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:42 PM
-1

You seem obsessed with balls. Anyway, have fun with your video games. See you in two weeks when you make the inevitable "What am I doing wrong I keep getting ghosted" post.
/r/seduction04/07/24 01:13 PM
2

I am the Dom.
/r/seduction04/07/24 01:04 PM
7

Well you made a post that has nothing to do with seduction and managed to tell everyone that you're boring in bed. Congratulations! Sincerely, non-monogamous guy that's into lots of fetish shit.
/r/seduction04/07/24 12:57 PM
1

Tell her to shit or get off the pot. If she wants to be with you, she needs to quit fucking around. If she just wants to be friends she should tell you that, too.
/r/seduction04/07/24 12:03 PM
2

I was out of the game for a few years. I don't even fuck with these new people. Feels like they're all grifters that give the same generic advice. If like Wing said is true and there's nobody at the top of the industry, it's because nobody has earned a spot at the top.
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:20 PM
2

They're actresses. It's all scripted.
/r/seduction03/07/24 06:28 PM
3

Way too many of the people commenting didn't read until the end, lol
/r/seduction03/07/24 04:20 PM
1

Well, I'm way to the left of liberal, and I like to screen out reactionaries and potential abusers before I teach them, because I'm very good at seduction and don't want to teach awful people. Thanks for letting me know not to teach you. I'll be blocking you after I'm done being entertained by the comments.
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:13 AM
4

I like you
/r/seduction02/07/24 09:07 PM
1

I know. That's why I'm loving this comment section right now.
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:20 PM
6

The comments here did not disappoint. 😂
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:18 PM
5

Sorry man, your outta luck. It's called "Proud Boys", not "Proud Persons".
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:15 PM
3

Well said.
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:57 PM
14

Well, if you find the answer to that, let me know.
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:46 AM
1

You're in your 20s. Nobody is expecting you to be rich.
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:07 PM
7

Anyone dating that much younger is looking to fuck. This date is easy mode as far as seduction goes. Have fun on the date, be charming, and it'll most likely lead to some happy fun time at the end.
/r/seduction01/07/24 12:38 PM
4

Then take a few moments away from your screen, come back, and reread my first comment. I was telling you where you went wrong.
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:42 AM
2

I'm going from what you posted. If they're saying that they don't know you, you fucked up.
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:29 AM
7

I don't think you want to know what I think. But since you asked: Your game sucks ass. It's not going to improve by texting because a) Women don't like being called bitches, and b) They don't like it when random guys text them asking to fuck. You didn't make any effort to put in any ground work. No attempts at making an emotional connection, no making them feel good, no showing your worth. You're just begging for sex. I'm surprised they didn't screenshot your texts and make you the main characte…
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:26 AM
11

If you had a good second date with a woman, she texted you after thanking her, and then didn't text for a week how would you feel about it? Probably not great. You'd assume she lost interest. Then if she texted you out of the blue would you want to text back right away or make them sweat it out a few days? I'm guessing the latter. The fact that she messaged you at all means that hope isn't lost, but if you get another date you're going to have to show more interest.
/r/seduction01/07/24 07:36 AM
14

I think the general idea is that you don't spend so much time chasing women that you forget to have a life.
/r/seduction01/07/24 07:31 AM
1

Yeah, that skit felt like I was 17 all over again. 😂
/r/seduction01/07/24 06:17 AM
1

If you want me to give you advice you can DM me. Another guy in this subreddit asked me to DM them and then they spent all their time giving me excuses for why they can't do anything I advised them to do. Anyone who wants advice from this point forward needs to take the step to come to me.
/r/seduction01/07/24 06:09 AM
1

Here's a skit that explains your situation.
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:57 AM
2

Well, one of the things I've learned after I got what the kids call "an abundance mindset" is that there isn't any one type of man that all woman are going to want, with the exception being Ryan Reynolds (heh). And along with knowing that, you're going to want to make sure that their personality is your type, too. If you're already a guy that likes to crack jokes, be that guy, and attract women that want that guy.
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:46 AM
8

Depends on the woman.
/r/seduction01/07/24 04:43 AM
2

Many don't, but those that do have a degradation kink but aren't experienced enough to know what their kinks are yet. If you know how to utilize that, you can attract them while still being a kind and caring person.
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:32 AM
6

Well, if you know a way to get an ex back without coming off as a creepy stalker, let us know.
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:06 AM
1

Yes. We're polyamorous.
/r/seduction30/06/24 09:08 AM
4

I'm a 7 on my best day and have high functioning autism. The idea that only hot guys can be good at seduction not only is projecting men's desires onto women (they really don't care about looks nearly as much as the black pilled clowns on here claim), but it also is an excuse that men use to not put in the work to be good at seduction, and I will never entertain it.
/r/seduction30/06/24 05:32 AM
9

We seriously have this post once a week. And I always say the same thing: I am autistic. I'm also a fucking God when it comes to seduction because I made it my special interest years ago. I have trouble making guy friends, half my coworkers think I'm a weird quiet guy, but goddamn it I can charm the panties off a woman while barely trying. Make seduction one of your special interests and you'll do fine.
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:54 AM
3

Only if you're worthy.
/r/seduction30/06/24 03:14 AM
1

WTF did I miss?
/r/seduction30/06/24 03:08 AM
3

I have a wife, a girlfriend, and a fuck buddy. I'd say I'm good on this, lol.
/r/seduction30/06/24 02:20 AM
5

All your dates have a common theme. They end when you start kissing. Something is wrong with your make out skills. Date 1 tried to power through it but couldn't. The others didn't bother. Work on that. If you're getting to the point where you're kissing them your other skills aren't a problem. You just gotta work on kissing.
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:27 PM
0

Buy them Ensure. Old people love Ensure.
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:43 PM
2

It sounds like you need some guy friends. Not saying this to be an ass, but that's what it will take. You need some friends that can bring you out of your shell.
/r/seduction29/06/24 08:46 PM
10

Jesus Christ. You've done the "Well maybe" response three times now. You asked for our thoughts. I gave mine. Do what you want.
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:32 PM
7

We're polyamorous, so it wasn't that. She just got tired of trying to do a workout without some asshole harassing her.
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:20 PM
0

Not sure who ripped out your heart and took a giant shit on it (sorry, bro), but I promise you there's good women out there that aren't trying to destroy you.
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:32 AM
3

I've dated my share of weebs. They're pretty great.
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:24 AM
2

I can't play video games. My daughter hogs the Xbox!
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:23 AM
4

I stopped watching after two minutes. Dude is insufferable.
/r/seduction29/06/24 05:54 AM
1

Well if you're not interested in continuing the relationship that's fine. You asked for advice on what to do though, so I gave it. Do what you want, buddy.
/r/seduction29/06/24 03:29 AM
25

I don't think there is. Folks used to hit on my wife all the time at the gym. They'd be direct, they'd be subtle, they'd just "try to start a conversation". Eventually she stopped going to the gym because she was tired of being hassled.
/r/seduction29/06/24 03:27 AM
1

Modern Alpha? Is that a furry thing?
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:19 AM
86

No. I'm there to lift.
/r/seduction29/06/24 01:45 AM
26

This is the third post you made asking something like, "Do you think I can do this?" I have two things to say to that: Why are you asking permission from strangers on the internet to live your best life? What's stopping you from doing it?
/r/seduction28/06/24 12:40 PM
2

You haven't kissed yet? What's keeping you? Everything you said in your posts indicates that your partner is submissive. If that's the case, she's going to put herself in positions for you to utilize (like the shower), but you need to be the one that takes action. Submissive women rarely make the move.
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:05 AM
10

There's no mixed signals here. She tried to fuck you in the shower. She's expecting you to take the lead and you're not taking the hint.
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:30 AM
2

Why do you need permission from strangers on the internet to ask out someone over a height difference? Stop asking us permission to live your life and just live it!
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:45 AM
1

Go find someone else. I'm not going to tell you to fuck a minor, and fuck anyone here that does. Go find someone else. That's what you do.
/r/seduction26/06/24 09:54 PM
1

That's not what I asked. If you don't have hope, why are you here?
/r/seduction26/06/24 11:18 AM
1

If you don't have hope, why are you here?
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:43 AM
1

Well, I'm not a Chad by any means. I'm just very good at seduction. If you know how to talk to women getting laid on the first date is easy.
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:33 AM
2

I bought a $300 course from him back in the year 2000. I honestly have no idea what he's selling now, lol. Since you're new I'll warn you: RJ is great for teaching you techniques on how to talk to women, but the rest of his stuff I didn't care for. In his early days he taught how to lie about running over a dog so you can manipulate the woman's sympathy into sleeping with her. Kinda shady. For ways to act with women, I recommend How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. They're …
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:37 AM
1

Yeah I do. Was he Major Mark?
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:20 AM
0

What's happening on the dates? Where are you going? What do you talk about?
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:18 AM
1

This is a troll post. The poster goes to random subreddit and makes posts asking questions in a single sentence.
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:14 AM
0

Just saw the web page. The guy sounds like he took a lot of inspiration from Ross Jeffries (that is a compliment). The patterns he put into his sales pitch are very good.
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:12 AM
0

I often do, but sometimes it just doesn't happen. There's a variety of factors at work that can cause it. They're worried that it'll be a one night stand if they don't wait. They're religious, or (more common in my experience) they have trauma from being raised religious. They're demisexual, so they want to wait until they feel an emotional connection (this can be done on the first date if you know how to talk). There's no place to go. You're too broke for a hotel, she's got parents at her house…
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:05 AM
1

I never thought of myself as a Chad 😂
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:52 AM
17

You have the money to travel overseas but you're worried about the cost of a date? Normally I'd say to go out for coffee as it's cheap, but I'm baffled as to how you have money for one but not the other.
/r/seduction25/06/24 10:58 PM
1

This isn't a dating subreddit. You should try elsewhere.
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:49 AM
0

No, it's actually very easy for people who are good at seduction and know what they're doing. You started this conversation with an insult but you just showed everyone that you're really bad at this. Its really weird that people are saying that the same thing I've done for years with incredible success doesn't work "in theory".
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:27 AM
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So what you're telling me is that in a lit room where you're sitting next to each other at a table (not across), and in front of other people, you can't close. Got it. Any other ways you want to tell me you can't close?
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:24 AM
2

Oh please, explain. Grabs popcorn
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:18 AM
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Coffee shops are best for first dates. Bars are okay as a last resort, but you should avoid ones that are overly noisy. Your job on a first date is to use language to set a romantic and sexual mood, and you can't do that if you have to scream to talk.
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:47 AM
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I spent the last fifteen years making it a point to deconstruct what's known as "toxic masculinity". I did it because I was tired of putting on a front of being a stoic, emotionless jackass. I did well. I'm more vulnerable around my wife and my other partners, and I haven't had any issues getting women. In fact, it's helped. A lot. But I also recognize that I'm 6' 4" tall, lift weights, shoot guns, and do martial arts. I'm able to show my vulnerability to my partners because I spent decades turn…
/r/seduction20/06/24 04:47 AM
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There's no paradox. If you think that telling women what you want without giving any consideration to what THEY want, you're going to fail. I've never read Models and I never will. I've read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck and Everything is Fucked and found Mason's writings to be what a fourteen year old would find edgy and insightful. His advice is bad all around.
/r/seduction19/06/24 06:18 PM
6

I always recommend the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book but the advice still holds up.
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:45 PM
9

Feels like we see a post like this on a weekly basis these days. I am autistic. I'm also an expert at seduction. Make it your special interest and you'll do well.
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:29 PM
1

You're doing average for someone that's 21 and living in the US. Nobody expects you to have a nice car and good paying job at that age. As long as you know what to say to women to turn them on, you're fine.
/r/seduction17/06/24 09:18 AM
1

Well as someone who has a similar situation as yours, let me congratulate you. Going from game in your 20s to 40s is like mastering a game on hard mode only to be told you have to restart it on beginner mode. Women our age are secure with their sexuality. They don't give a fuck about being slut shamed. Most got out of a sex less marriage and now they want to let their freak flag fly. Forget about techno parties and all that bullshit. Women our age are on the dating apps. Or they're at munches, b…
/r/seduction16/06/24 04:50 AM
1

Sounds like you know what to do, then. Focus on romantic and/or dirty talk.
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:06 PM
2

I remember being young and doing martial arts that much. I wish my body could handle it now, lol
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:04 PM
8

I'm autistic and I'm a goddamn genius at this. Make it your special interest and you'll be good at it, too.
/r/seduction14/06/24 07:56 PM
5

Sounds like traveling is something you really want to do for you so you can have more life experience. I say go for it if you can afford it. Visiting new places is always fun.
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:46 AM
0

What's stopping you? Do you not know what to say? Are you worried about being rejected? Something else?
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:44 AM
1

Thanks. I'll tell my wife of fifteen years that I can't show emotion in front of her because some stranger said that she'd lose respect for me.
/r/seduction12/06/24 05:03 AM
2

Can't speak for OP but I've been married for a long time and we're polyamorous.
/r/seduction11/06/24 07:46 PM
1

Have you considered asking them?
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:21 AM
22

Don't change. You sound awesome and the guys putting you down don't know what they have. Anyone making me pancakes the morning after is marriage material.
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:00 PM
1

Best advice I've seen on here.
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:39 PM
9

I always recommend How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book but the advice holds up.
/r/seduction07/06/24 03:52 AM
3

I'm in the kink community, so I usually make her say they're mine as I'm smacking them and telling her she's a good girl.
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:01 AM
0

I give my Google Voice number until I trust them with my real one.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:28 AM
1

Why did you post this on a seduction subreddit? There's no seduction here, no advice on seduction being asked for. You're an adult. You can decide whether or not to sleep with someone on your own. I wouldn't do it because I don't condone cheating, but this isn't a subreddit for moralizing about relationships.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:36 PM
1

I'm polyamorous. I date multiple women openly. They all know about each other. Just be openly non-monogamous.
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:43 PM
2

I'm in a polyamorous marriage with my wife, a girlfriend, and a FWB. I would love to date more but I don't have enough time for more partners. I do approach women when I'm out running errands and have time for a new partner, but I don't have time to do day game. I have a lot better success online as it makes it easier to find women who are okay with non-monogamy.
/r/seduction03/06/24 10:32 PM
1

Well said
/r/seduction03/06/24 12:00 PM
0

I was told that "alpha male" was a furry thing.
/r/seduction03/06/24 05:50 AM
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You definitely got in your own way. She agreed to a date with you, was looking forward to it so much that she texted you to confirm the date, and then fucked it up by sending the second part. You put yourself in the friend zone. When you used the phrase "getting to know each other as friends" you put the idea of her only seeing you as a friend in her mind and killed the vibe. It doesn't matter if you said you don't want that. The subconscious mind can't process a negative so all she heard was, "…
/r/seduction03/06/24 05:49 AM
14

You basically just need to be attractive in SOME FORM and not be an autist. Yeah, my autistic ass gets laid so much I don't even jerk off anymore. FOH with this shit.
/r/seduction02/06/24 11:18 PM
1

I guess all I can say on that is to keep dating until you find someone who doesn't get jealous.
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:08 AM
1

Imagine that someone else posted what you did. Imagine that someone else made a post saying that they're in a monogamous relationship but were cheating on their partner with someone else who is also in a monogamous relationship and cheating on their partner. The other woman got caught and had to break things off, but they're sad about it because they caught feelings. You tell me, what would your response be to that? Because I'm pretty sure that your response would be to tell them to quit being a…
/r/seduction02/06/24 01:12 AM
5

Every year a thread like this pops up, and it turns into a giant pie fight.
/r/seduction01/06/24 01:32 PM
2

Sure. Be able to carry a conversation that causes the woman to feel feelings of emotional connection, love, and sexual tension. Be really good in bed.
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:47 AM
5

Sir, this is a Wendy's.
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:50 AM
1

Lol. If being broke kept me from getting laid, I wouldn't have had sex until I was 40. Women want you to know how to make them feel good. If you can do that, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:47 AM
6

They might be attracted to someone with a more dominant personality. If that's the case, they'll want you to take charge instead of putting the ball in their court. Instead of asking when they're free, say something like, "Come meet me for a cup of coffee." See how that works.
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:54 AM
6

There's a lot less going on here than you think. You're just horny. Calm down, go rub one out, and go approach women with confidence.
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:52 AM
0

I just messaged you
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:51 AM
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Yeah, there's really no point for a woman to say that they're into casual sex on dating apps. They already have dozens of guys trying to chat with them. Add that they're good with casual sex and that just leads to more guys, and those guys aren't going to put in any effort, they'll expect sex right away, and probably don't understand or care about the concept of consent. But 99% of us are on the apps because we want to get laid. The other 1% are the rare asexual folks.
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:48 AM
1

Well, it sounds like you're looking for LTR advice and that's not really what this subreddit is for. Most folks here are trying to get to a first date. That said, I've been married for nearly 15 years so I might be able to give some perspective. What happens in the months while you're dating? What would you say is a common pattern among your previous boyfriends? FWIW, sometimes things just don't work out and it isn't anyone's fault. You just find out you're not compatible with each other. My lon…
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:32 AM
1

The same reason why all of seduction is addictive, my dude. Being desired is the greatest high there is.
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:48 PM
1

She wants to have a FWB to help her get over her ex. You want a girlfriend. You both want different things. Best to move on.
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:31 PM
8

The way a woman acts towards you is going to differ regardless of attractiveness.
/r/seduction31/05/24 09:29 AM
1

The purpose of asking questions on a date is to create romantic feelings and to know how to create those feelings in the future. Many of your questions won't elicit romantic emotions, and some of the questions can backfire horribly. For example, many women were SA'd in their youth. Asking about their childhood will trigger some really bad shit. People very rarely want to talk about their job. Asking about future ambitions can make them feel attacked if they're not trying to chase the bag. You di…
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:35 AM
1

You're rich?
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:55 PM
2

Don't mind SaaS. He usually gives solid advice and yet I think the influx of idiots on here the past few days has gotten to him. Been a whole lot of "I hate women and I treat them like shit. Help me talk to them" posts lately.
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:00 PM
3

Well, I am married (we're polyamorous) and from my experience and the experience of my friends, getting into a LTR tends to happen on accident. You go out, you find someone to fuck, and you start fucking them regularly. So if you're pulling women for regular casual sex, keep doing what you're doing and eventually you'll find someone that you fall for and who loves you back.
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:55 PM
2

she responds very badly to my advances, but acts sweet when she approaches me, and absolutely dislikes my physical contact every time I make a move towards her, she runs away I'd say that's a pretty big sign that she's just not into you. FWIW, you didn't mention anything that would make her promiscuous. But if she's rejecting your advances, move on.
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:33 PM
0

I don't stop it from happening. I love when it happens. I'm polyamorous though, so the women that do fall in love with me know that even when the feeling is mutual, it doesn't mean monogamy is going to happen. Maybe you should look into forms of non-monogamy.
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:19 PM
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You didn't come out of the womb hating women and thinking it was bad to make them feel special or happy. You ended up this way. And I would give you advice, but since your comment history shows you making fun of people for being autistic, my neurodivergent ass is fine with you staying single and going through life without ever having a long, meaningful relationship.
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:45 AM
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This is the third post I've seen on here in two days where it was something to the effect of, "I hate women. How do I talk to them?" It's very weird.
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:38 AM
0

Good post. It does help to remember when you get ghosted or shot down that it really is a stranger doing it and for all you know, she could absolutely not be right for you.
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:44 AM
1

Because she's a living breathing person with human emotions.
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:41 AM
24

I've had a few dates that were like that. We always ended up sleeping together. In my experience, women who don't talk much are very, very receptive to touching. If they're not too receptive to the questions I ask on the date, my touching routine (touch her at least three times, and make sure at least one is her hand), will end up with a makeout session that leads to more.
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:40 AM
2

I read the post. And it sucked. You hate women for getting attention from men, and that stems from jealousy. Acting like attractive women are the bad guy for guys being attracted to them. You're on some incel shit. At least posts like these help me weed out people that don't deserve what I have to teach. It's a real pain to go through and weed out people that hate women before I make a post. Thanks for making yourself obvious by being on your incel shit.
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:02 AM
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"I hate this woman because people admire her" is such a garbage post to be making. If you're going to hate women for being attractive, you should try celibacy. Some of y'all listen to too many stupid influencers and need to join the real world, I stg. If you think of women as "the enemy" you deserve to be single. It's a shitty attitude to have and you're never going to be happy with it. the idea of validating her with an approach and getting turned down makes me not want to approach. And this is…
/r/seduction28/05/24 11:39 PM
3

I always recommend the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book but the advice still works.
/r/seduction28/05/24 10:17 PM
1

You didn't explain very well. Is English a second language for you? I lost my virginity in a one night stand. Cold approach.
/r/seduction28/05/24 12:42 PM
0

Well, I was a virgin until I was 21, and I've more than made up for it. What exactly are you asking for?
/r/seduction28/05/24 12:18 PM
2

It sounds like you're both into each other so you don't have to do too much. If you're noticing a longer gap between replies you might want to text a little less. See how he'd react if you didn't message for a day.
/r/seduction28/05/24 08:15 AM
9

Yes I do. One of your comments noted that you have ADHD, and what you're describing sounds like symptoms of being neurodivergent. I'm autistic myself so I understand. If what's going on with you just applied to dating, I'd tell you to find yourself a dominant woman that likes taking the lead. They're rare but they exist. But I don't think you'd be happy with that, either. From what you've said I have a feeling that even if you were dating someone like that, you'd just want to stay home all day a…
/r/seduction28/05/24 05:38 AM
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Well, given your history of being neuro divergent and having depression, that would explain why you're having difficulty doing things. The best advice I can give is to find resources that help you to manage your ADHD. Find a competent doctor to help you, read books on the subject, and check YouTube for videos as well. There's also subreddits of like minded people that can give you better advice for this than anyone on here will be able to. This goes way beyond your dating life and you definitely…
/r/seduction28/05/24 04:07 AM
1

A lot of phone sex. It kept me and my girlfriend together when I was in the military. She's my wife now.
/r/seduction28/05/24 01:11 AM
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If their behavior isn't harming anyone, no, you shouldn't. Caring about shit that doesn't negatively affect anyone is how the boomer generation was made.
/r/seduction28/05/24 01:06 AM
1

Don't know why you're getting down voted. You're right.
/r/seduction28/05/24 01:04 AM
35

Social media is designed to be addictive. It's designed so that you'll be on it as long as possible. So there's no good reason to be blaming anyone for being on it. A Gen Z woman posting a bunch of photos to her Instagram is no different from the boomer ranting in the comment section of a Facebook news page, a millenial doing a Twitter thread on their latest political rant, or you making a post on Reddit asking for validation about being mad about something that doesn't affect your life at all. …
/r/seduction28/05/24 01:02 AM
4

I second all of this. Especially the condoms. Remember the condoms.
/r/seduction26/05/24 06:29 AM
2

If you just want to have a one night stand with a woman, there is no need to be yourself, but actually be the person the other person wants you to be, you will be a different actor with every woman you know. This is where you and I differ (and that's okay; like I said, I like your comments and your advice is usually solid). I've had many ONS where I acted like a different person in order to get laid. And when all was said and done, I hated myself. And I grew to resent women because I was convinc…
/r/seduction26/05/24 04:52 AM
0

Well, there's plenty of philosophical discussion on what makes you the "authentic you", whether it be nature vs nurture, whether it be what you're taught or not, but it's not relevant here. What I'm talking about, and what's obvious to everyone that I'm talking about, is being purposefully inauthentic; trying to act like a different person to please other people. Not only will that attract women that you don't want to be with, but you'll end up resenting both women and yourself because you think…
/r/seduction25/05/24 11:48 PM
0

I normally like what you say, but in this case, are you being pedantic because you need to argue with someone?
/r/seduction25/05/24 10:58 PM
0

What are you saying when you speak to them? It sounds like you're able to use your looks to attract women but they get bored once you talk to them. ETA: I saw your profile and you passed the vibe check. Message me for advice on what to say.
/r/seduction25/05/24 10:16 PM
9

Agreed. Speaking from experience, if you change your personality to attract women, not only will you hate yourself if you do succeed at getting a woman to like you, but you'll end up attracting women that you don't want to be around and you'll be miserable. Being yourself doesn't mean to show a date all the bad things about you. It's about showing the best version of yourself so you find someone compatible.
/r/seduction25/05/24 08:59 PM
1

I don't know why you're getting down voted. Do guys on here think they don't crush on women that other guys want?
/r/seduction25/05/24 08:47 PM
1

My partners stick around after I do. Maybe you should take a page out of our playbook and make "knowing WTF you're doing in bed" one of your special interests.
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:56 AM
1

It's logical. Hetero guys usually want similar women, so it's not wrong that women that are into guys would also have similar interests.
/r/seduction25/05/24 06:40 AM
3

I wrote a post on approaching recently. It's the most recent post in my profile. I'll post more as time goes on but right now I'm trying to weed out all the guys that want to treat women like shit.
/r/seduction25/05/24 06:37 AM
1

The only real way I've ever gotten over my fear of anything is to do it until I'm not afraid anymore.
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:25 AM
5

OK, boomer. Maybe when you're done being ableist you can figure out why women ghost you immediately after they had sex with you.
/r/seduction25/05/24 03:42 AM
9

I'm autistic. I'm also very good at seduction. You can get good at it by making it your special interest. Also, embrace being weird. If you're confident in being weird people have no choice but to accept you.
/r/seduction25/05/24 12:38 AM
21

When we were together, we were quite tactile—I'd kiss her on the cheek, hold her hand, touch her shoulder, and put my hand on her knee. However, I never kissed her on the lips. This is where you went wrong. You met her on a dating app months ago and didn't make a move. If you don't show interest on a date, women are going to assume you're not into them and go elsewhere. By the time you told her you were into her she lost romantic interest. Next time, make a move.
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:44 AM
7

I literally don't know how to be any more clear on this. You're not going to believe that she's into you no matter what we say, so why did you ask for advice when you have no intention of taking it?
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:13 AM
23

"You're making me wet" and "tell me how you eat pussy" isn't a mixed signal. It's a goddamn engraved invitation. I'm generally patient with these posts because the person that usually sends the "she's giving obvious signals but I can't tell if she likes me" posts are usually written by 19 year olds who know jack shit about the world. You, on the other hand, are in your 30s so you have no excuse. Pull your head out of your ass. She likes you. And it shouldn't take strangers on the internet to tel…
/r/seduction24/05/24 05:11 AM
53

"She says I'm making her horny. Does she like me?" 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:54 AM
1

The same stuff you do to seduce a woman. If you don't know what that is, stick around and you might learn something.
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:08 PM
0

Most everyone else here has told you what you did wrong before she decided to leave, but there's one thing you didn't do that could have prevented the need to write this post. Ask her what the fuck happened. It probably was because you ditched her to check your phone. But she could have told you that if you had the stones to communicate. Next time have the guts to ask them instead of coming on here and asking a bunch of strangers to do it.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:28 PM
1

Buy two dozen long stem red roses and a box of chocolates. Leave them on her doorstep while you stand outside her window holding a large boom box and play "In Your Eyes" by Peter Gabriel. Because if you're going to humiliate yourself trying to get someone back long after you missed your chance, you might as well go out with a bang.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:13 PM
1

I don't think you read my initial comment, because you're asking for advice on how to get her back when I told you you blew it and need to move on. Go back and read it again.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:05 PM
1

You had a chance to get back with her when you met. But you blew it by not closing the deal. She was dropping a lot of hints that she's still into you and you didn't pick up on them. Move on. You blew your chance.
/r/seduction23/05/24 09:59 PM
6

Well, you've been dating for a year and a half, so the typical pickup stuff doesn't apply. Sometimes shit will feel weird after a bad fight. Go see them this weekend and have a good time. If you're meant to be together this will pass. If not, you'll find out soon enough.
/r/seduction23/05/24 08:40 PM
3

Do you need an engraved invitation? It's pretty obvious what she's putting down. Are you gonna pick it up?
/r/seduction22/05/24 01:18 AM
3

Good post
/r/seduction21/05/24 08:37 PM
4

Be mad 😂
/r/seduction21/05/24 02:19 AM
7

This is the type of thing that guys who can't pull attractive women like to post. The whole thing just screams, "I'm scared of women and mad that they don't throw themselves at me despite having absolutely no rizz."
/r/seduction21/05/24 02:15 AM
2

What's the "ask an adult" list?
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:26 AM
3

"Theory is good, but theory without practice ain't shit" - Fred Hampton It sounds like there's two things that are keeping you from going from reading theory to putting it into practice. The first is fear of rejection. When I started learning seduction I had this problem, too. I made it a point to study my ass off so I would be successful with 100% of the women I talked to. That didn't work, and the fear of rejection never fully goes away, even when you're confident af and are sleeping with mult…
/r/seduction20/05/24 04:16 AM
1

You're welcome!
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:19 AM
8

Have you asked her about it? She's the only one that can give you a real answer. The rest of us can only guess.
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:15 AM
6

Nobody can answer if you're attractive or not as we don't know what you look like. That said, there's a lot of reasons people don't hold eye contact. Maybe they're shy. They could be neuro divergent (for us, eye contact can be a royal pain in the ass), maybe they aren't interested. There's an infinite number of reasons. What I can tell you is if they do keep eye contact, that's a sign that they're at least interested in talking to you. In my experience, anyway. Not every woman is going to be int…
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:02 AM
1

Agreed. He doesn't need our help with that body count at 25. He's doing fine.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:55 AM
2

It's easy to have both mindsets when you understand the idea of consent. Yes, go for what you want. But do NOT force anyone to go with you. That's what creates an abundance mindset.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:52 AM
10

Yes, you're moving too fast. You've only been out a couple of times. Take it easy.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:34 AM
-2

Well, unless you have a degradation kink, you found out that she's not worth knowing.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:12 PM
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I'm happily polyamorous. So is my wife. Monogamy isn't for everyone.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:35 AM
11

Yes, you're the issue, but not for reasons you think. I’ve had a few decent successful ones but it always felt like they were doing me a favour Women don't fuck men as a favor. They were into you. Your lack of self confidence is holding you back. If you're being ghosted right after having sex with them, it's because you need to work on your bedroom skills. If you're good in bed they will come back for another round. As for your friends, are you putting yourself out there like them? This is a num…
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:23 AM
1

Well, if you can't at least make her feel like you're having a good time, you're kinda screwed. If you're not having a good time, she won't be, either.
/r/seduction19/05/24 07:35 AM
1

Click on my profile and go to the most recent post. It'll give you advice.
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:38 AM
62

At least you're out of the house, right?
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:36 AM
3

Are you able to fake it? One of my partners dumped me a few years ago. I made it a point to force my heartbroken ass to find someone new and I pretended to be in a romantic mood when I went on my rebound dates (added four notches to my belt that week, lol). Fake it until you make it. Having a new partner is the best way to get over your old one.
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:29 AM
1

If he's not going to do it for $400, he won't do it no matter what we tell him. The man needs to be willing to accept help before we can help him.
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:04 AM
8

Well the good news is that women in their 40s are HORNY. Especially if they're chasing down guys in their 20s. It's why I'm in my 40s and I usually date in my age range, lol. That said, there's really no difference in seducing a woman in their 40s vs their 20s. When you're on the date, chat her up, get the conversation moving in a romantic direction, and as long as you don't give off serial killer vibes you'll probably get laid that night.
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:16 AM
24

Well if she's 40 and she's looking at dudes under 30, she is absolutely DTF. Have you started texting yet?
/r/seduction19/05/24 12:28 AM
-2

Transphobes deserve to be lonely.
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:58 PM
12

Do you have problems talking to women regardless of the circumstances, or just when you want to date them?
/r/seduction18/05/24 07:13 AM
0

It's a good way to approach if you're timid. You'd have to do it A LOT before you'd get someone to contact you, but this has always been a numbers game so might as well go for it.
/r/seduction18/05/24 03:49 AM
1

When I give out money, I generally don't expect it back. The type of person (whether it be man, woman, or NB) who is asking me for $20 is probably not in a good place to give it back any time soon. What's your motivation for giving the money? If you're expecting something in return that's not only stupid, but also creepy. Don't lend money if you're doing it to expect sex. Do it if you just want to help someone out and don't expect anything for it.
/r/seduction18/05/24 03:40 AM
9

I don't go out with the intention of hitting on women. My life is too busy. When I do approach women, it's normally how you described it. It'll happen when I'm out and about and running errands, or I meet someone in the poly/kink community and it'll happen organically.
/r/seduction18/05/24 03:29 AM
3

Your account is new and this unnamed app is all you've posted about. I'm guessing you're trying to do free focus group work by asking about what looks like your new dating app. The idea sounds like absolute garbage. Not only would I avoid a dating app that requires access to my personal information, but I wouldn't want to date a gold digger, anyway.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:39 AM
1

The result of this is that on dates, girls have mentioned that I don't seem to be asking them much questions or seem very interested in them even though to me it seems like to me that I am asking plenty of questions and conveying sufficient interest. Women have made it plain that you're not only boring them on dates, but they think you're bored as well. The solution to your problem is easy and women laid it out for you. Show that you're interested. You've been so worried about playing it cool th…
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:32 AM
1

Yep, next. You don't deserve my teachings, either.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:25 AM
1

I didn't even see that post. ETA: It wasn't even posted on this sub, the post was deleted, and if you took ten seconds to read the comments, they're from guys saying, "We don't want to be accused of harassing you." Not exactly a crowd of simps. Stop making yourself into a victim when you were never harmed. Your post shows that you aren't successful with women at all. It's always the unsuccessful ones that rant about simps and being an alpha male. You've spent no time actually talking to women an…
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:16 AM
3

Or maybe they just don't want you approaching them.
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:59 PM
4

People that are homophobic don't deserve my help. Enjoy being bad at this forever, because from what I've read from your posts, you're just another incel who doesn't realize that they're the problem.
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:57 PM
6

That's ghey as hell. Have you been in a coma since 1997? Nobody uses "gay" as an insult anymore.
/r/seduction16/05/24 10:38 PM
32

Normally they have shit jobs in retail and food service. This guy is ready to piss away his whole ass career, though.
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:17 PM
14

You're a school teacher and you believe this shit? You walk into school every day, trying to teach kids, while convincing yourself that you're an internet meme? Because that's what "Alpha Male" is. It's a meme. It's meaningless. And you're trying to bang another teacher, not even being concerned for your career or the rumor mill that the kids will inevitably make you a part of? But let's pretend that alpha male was a real thing and not completely made up... What part of "I'm thinking with my dic…
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:13 PM
1

Your profile makes me think this is bait.
/r/seduction16/05/24 04:28 AM
3

Not really. I grew a beard and I look great, but my OLD profile started saying that I'm a Soft Dom and that's when I got a lot more responses.
/r/seduction16/05/24 01:44 AM
1

Remember that it's a numbers game. Even if you're really good at this, you're gonna get shot down 95% of the time. And that's just on the initial conversation. I always recommend the old book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. Their advice still holds up a quarter century after they wrote it.
/r/seduction15/05/24 07:38 AM
2

It happens to all of us who end up successful. There comes a point where the game just isn't fun to play anymore. What helped me was finding other hobbies and friends to hang out with until I felt like dating again.
/r/seduction12/05/24 06:15 AM
1

I'm always glad when people that don't deserve my teachings show themselves so I can block them.
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:51 AM
1

I didn't ask what you meant. Your intentions are irrelevant. You sound creepy af. Learn to walk away
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:59 AM
1

Whether or not it's your intention, you really sound like you want a woman to be beaten for not being submissive to a complete stranger of a man, and that is creepy af.
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:32 PM
1

If two guys were exchanging words like that you can guarantee one would be laying unconscious on the ground. Dudes run from other dudes. All the words I've spoken to idiots over the years and none of them had the balls to try anything.
/r/seduction11/05/24 09:40 AM
1

?
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:53 AM
1

You need to talk to your gf about your sex life.
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:53 AM
2

How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:51 AM
64

A lot of folks already said what I'm thinking. There's a time and place for approaching and this wasn't it. There's approaching and then there's catcalling. The guy in the video was doing the latter. In my last post I talked about the importance of gauging the vibe of the situation. A woman walking alone at night to her car isn't going to want to be approached by a stranger.
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:41 PM
1

I'm autistic and got bullied in middle school, too. I now get laid so much that I don't even jerk off anymore. I've been in threesomes, orgies, and I'm currently in a polyamorous marriage and seeing two other women. So you don't have an excuse. Do what we autistic fucks do when we need to solve a problem. Read some books and watch some videos. Learn how to fuck. I made sex one of my special interests even before I was getting laid and when theory finally met practice I was doing very well in tha…
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:44 PM
6

Fuck that guy.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:45 AM
1

Moms need love too
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:13 PM
6

Yes it's a legit reason. Telling you that as a parent. She could also be tired of driving two hours to see you. Maybe you could offer to go near her or meet her halfway.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:12 PM
19

It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and you probably dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:57 PM
1

No I didn't. If you got that out of what I said, that's on you.
/r/seduction08/05/24 06:07 PM
0

And?
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:15 PM
1

That's not to mention the fact that wanting to be the dom in a BDSM dynamic does not necessarily mean you don't want a man who's confident and knows how to hold his own in other contexts Never claimed otherwise.
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:14 PM
5

Unlikely. Have a great day.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:40 PM
6

No, ad hominem is calling you a loser. It's a direct personal attack that has nothing to do with the topic. I'm not calling you one, FWIW. You not knowing what women want is shown by your constant posts about how you don't know how to keep a woman around. Go out and talk to them and you'll know how untrue your OC is.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:28 PM
11

Your whole page is filled with posts that tell people that you don't know much about women.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:17 PM
-2

I'm in the kink community and I can tell you that there's plenty of Dommes out there that like submissive men. Don't tell men to be something they're not. If they're a submissive man, they should go find a dominant woman that will make them happy, not pretend to be dominant so they can be miserable.
/r/seduction07/05/24 08:29 PM
4

I had to adapt my use of dating websites to be used for dating apps. Other than that, nothing at all changed for me. I still recommend a 24 year old book for beginners. The game has changed that little.
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:45 PM
6

You got the date. That means she's interested.
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:40 AM
2

It's real simple. You talk to them, create romantic emotions by discussing those emotions, make out with them, and go back to their place to fuck. If you don't know how to talk to a woman you're in the right place. I keep telling people to get the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. Buy the ebook on Amazon and skip to the part of the priming date.
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:23 AM
1

OK, bye
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:35 AM
1

It feels really weird that I have two people in this thread telling me that they don't know how to escalate in a coffee shop. Are y'all new to this? This is seduction 101. I really can't tell if y'all are trolling or serious.
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:05 AM
3

When my polycule closes, so probably never 😂
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:04 PM
1

Is this a serious question? Legitimately asking.
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:00 PM
1

I like you
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:58 PM
15

How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. Yes, it's an old book. Yes, it still works. I still use their stuff and get laid so much I don't even jerk off anymore.
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:17 AM
1

It happens to all of us. There comes a point where you just need a break from the whole scene. I really do enjoy the game, but there are times when I need to take a break because I feel like a customer service rep giving the same speech on the phone to another customer over and over again.
/r/seduction06/05/24 06:33 AM
7

He's just not that into you. Sorry.
/r/seduction06/05/24 05:45 AM
1

TBH, I'm not sure if this is the best forum to be asking this. A lot of folks here think that it's not good to show emotions. Having said that, I don't always express my emotions that well either. Part of the "fun" of being autistic, lol. If you want to show more emotion with women, it might help to adopt "the honeymoon voice". To do that, put your hand on your chest as you talk. Say something in a way that will cause you to have your chest vibrate as you speak. You could be saying anything, it …
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:51 AM
4

You alright, king?
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:38 AM
1

I'm married and polyamorous. I see my gf and my FWB once a week. Sometimes we all meet up and hang out together for a game night or other adult activities. And how do you prevent getting fixated on one if you prefer her? I don't see an issue here. What's wrong with having feelings?
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:34 AM
7

I feel like 80% of the posts here can be solved by saying this: Get some courage Ask them out.
/r/seduction06/05/24 02:21 AM
1

Yeah. I usually have sex on the first date. Why?
/r/seduction06/05/24 02:18 AM
2

Alcohol at a bar? In this economy?!
/r/seduction06/05/24 12:41 AM
111

They probably saw the TikTok where the woman said we should be spending $75-$100 on a date. They're gonna be single for a while 😂
/r/seduction05/05/24 09:33 AM
1

You're over thinking things. Just set up the next date. If she's into you you'll be fine.
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:54 AM
206

I do coffee dates. That way if we aren't a match it just cost an hour of my time and <$20. Also makes it easy to escalate things.
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:51 AM
3

Don't send flowers. It'll come across as needy and will make her feel like she's being pressured into dating you. You've already heard that she's interested. She knows that you're interested. So there's no point in beating around the bush about this. Go ask her out.
/r/seduction05/05/24 05:08 AM
1

I forgot that other countries celebrate Labor Day I May 1st, lol. Sounds like she's not interested.
/r/seduction05/05/24 02:49 AM
2

May I ask why you think there's nothing special about virginity? I've always been told your first time is supposed to be special. Sex is the only thing where we're told the first time is supposed to be "special". It's a completely made up idea that was originally made to control women, and eventually got passed on so the church could control the sex lives of men, too. Did someone tell you any other "first" had to be special? Did they say you needed to be in love with a car before you drove it? D…
/r/seduction04/05/24 10:11 PM
2

It's real simple. You get some courage. You ask her out.
/r/seduction04/05/24 10:06 PM
3

The whole "blame women for me not getting laid" is getting old on here. I get laid constantly, connect emotionally, and I'm an American. It's your game that needs work. Accept that you are responsible for what's happening to you.
/r/seduction04/05/24 08:49 PM
13

Okay, this is much more helpful. Go to coffee shops instead of bars. Alcohol can make people sleepy. It also makes women self conscious if they're on a date because now they're worrying about getting "too drunk", and if your date thinks you're trying to get them drunk, they won't want to see you again. Coffee shops are good for having an environment for talking and the caffeine boost will make you both more engaged. Casual conversation is good, but you need to add some romance to the situation. …
/r/seduction04/05/24 08:39 PM
1

Gotcha. Well like I said, I slept with a woman for a few months that didn't like dishing out compliments. So it doesn't mean she doesn't like you. Some people are just wired that way. Kinda sucks when you have been dating a few months but you're not there yet, lol.
/r/seduction04/05/24 10:10 AM
9

It's a polite way of saying she's not interested. Sorry, bro.
/r/seduction04/05/24 08:15 AM
1

I dated a woman like that for a few months. The sex was good but otherwise we didn't have much in common. She would giggle when I gave a compliment but didn't dish them out very often. Have you been on a date yet?
/r/seduction04/05/24 04:46 AM
5

She flirted with you and gave you her contact information. You already have a green light to ask for a date. Go for it.
/r/seduction04/05/24 04:39 AM
3

If you haven't dated after five months of talking, either ask her out or move on. You're way past the "Am I too available" stage.
/r/seduction04/05/24 03:50 AM
42

This is the way. (The exception is granny panties. Don't wear those 😂)
/r/seduction04/05/24 03:49 AM
41

Your post is really vague about what you're doing on the date, so nobody could reasonably answer your question from that. Where are you going on the date? What are you talking about? What do you say? Do you touch your date or keep her at a distance?
/r/seduction04/05/24 03:48 AM
1

I've never had a woman not come back for a second round. Dude needs to learn to fuck.
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:01 PM
1

How can you show more interest? I really don't know how much more clear to be on this.
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:49 AM
0

Oof. I gotta hurt your feelings on this one because there's no nice way of saying this: She either dropped you because she's married and/or she thought the sex was bad. The first one you can't help. The second one you can. Work on your bedroom game.
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:29 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction03/05/24 07:26 AM
3

Well, if you're cuddling in bed with them and giving them light touches and kisses, that sounds like foreplay to me. Like I said, it could just be because a lot of women in college are still virgins and they got scared. It could be because they didn't like how you were touching them. It could also be because your feet stink, your place is a mess, you live with your mom and they keep interrupting you to tell you to do the dishes; the reasons are endless. I would suggest talking to them to see wha…
/r/seduction03/05/24 07:26 AM
4

Well, as an ultra-woke male feminist who also has a very high body count, I can tell you that there's plenty of women out there that are comfortable with having a casual, no strings attached relationship. When you don't slut shame you tend to get laid a lot, lol. So if you're really looking for that you can do it and still respect women. But it sounds like you're sleeping with a lot of women due to self esteem issues and nothing else. What's triggering that? When I was young and had very unhealt…
/r/seduction03/05/24 07:19 AM
1

If you like doing stuff to be nice, keep doing it. Women will appreciate it if it's coming from a place of sincerity. Plus if you start trying to be a selfish asshole when it's not in your nature, it'll come off as awkward and you'll ruin your chances. When you shouldn't do favors or compliment is when it's insincere. IOW, you're doing it in the hopes of getting laid. Not only do women see through that shit, but they'll feel like they're under pressure to reciprocate. A example of giving stuff b…
/r/seduction03/05/24 06:18 AM
0

I didn't ask for your respect. Don't really care if I get it, either. Since you just posted that you bragged that you got a phone number under false pretenses and I'm sleeping with three women openly, I'm not too concerned with what you think about my life. Also, you should look up what a cuck is. That ain't my fetish.
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:43 AM
-5

Why not?
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:39 AM
2

I've never had a date from a woman whose profile said "not interested in hook ups" that I didn't fuck on the first date. It's not that they don't want to fuck. It's that they're tired of the barrage of dick pics that they get if they tell people they want to hook up. Or dudes with zero rizz opening the conversation with some variation of "Let's meet now and fuck". It also means they're open for a FWB relationship but don't want a ONS. Also, what's "ASD". I assume you're not talking about autism.
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:20 AM
1

That's awesome! Good work!
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:15 AM
2

You should show more interest. A lot of times women need to know that it's safe for them to show attraction before they'll do so.
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:12 AM
3

Can't really tell what you're doing from that. You're also in college so maybe they're virgins and the ly left because of that. But if that's not the case, you should look into getting better at foreplay.
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:00 AM
3

I'll be sure to tell that to my wife and girlfriends 😂
/r/seduction03/05/24 04:58 AM
5

How are you touching them? If they don't like your technique, they might leave before things escalate.
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:36 AM
-11

I'm polyamorous. If she's into it, she can meet him later.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:56 AM
20

Your most recent post is asking why women would rather die than face sexual assault. So I really don't care what you enjoy.
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:17 PM
1

It's happening in Europe, too. See the countries where fascism is rising.
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:04 PM
7

Europe is "The West".
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:03 PM
4

I'm not talking about gender roles being the reason for our decline. Its because we have an openly corrupt government that's easy for the wealthy to bribe to do their bidding while the rest of us get hosed. Has nothing to do with gender roles.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:54 PM
4

The west is in decline because of out of control capitalism, not because women are more assertive or men are more in touch with their feelings.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:50 PM
2

That's every generation of young men. You learn that as you get older. The bravado was always just a cover.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:37 PM
35

A lot of men don't know how to brat tame 😉
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:30 PM
19

So you're mad that women like to drink, fuck, and have tattoos? Lol. GTFOH. Always makes me laugh when dudes come on a Seduction subreddit and complains about woman who love to fuck. And then you wonder why you're not getting laid.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:24 PM
7

I do better online than real life, too. If it works, it works.
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:45 PM
1

Pretty much, lol
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:26 PM
1

You really went with "It's just a joke, bro!"
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:40 PM
2

🤣
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:31 PM
3

Some people have what works for them. If you have more success online, keep doing that.
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:21 PM
7

I'm in a polyamorous marriage and see two women along with my wife. They know about each other, though. So there's nothing wrong as long as everyone is consenting. If you're going to continue dating them both, you should let them know you don't want monogamy.
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:02 PM
2

I hope it works out for you
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:32 PM
1

I saw your recent post. How are you holding up?
/r/seduction01/05/24 10:29 AM
2

My recent post talks about gauging reaction. If I can sense that we're vibing, I'll ask them out. If they don't seem receptive, I move on.
/r/seduction01/05/24 06:22 AM
-1

Well, I recommend doing what Icy said. Send a text message laying it out and explaining things in the way that he described.
/r/seduction01/05/24 05:24 AM
2

You're really over thinking this. If you want to wear a hat, wear a hat.
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:23 AM
1

How long has it been since you sent the last text? She might actually have stuff going on and just didn't have time to get back to you.
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:11 AM
1

This increase in the number of people here giving reasonable advice is very refreshing and welcoming. Great response.
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:10 AM
1

It's from 2000. But it still holds up. Aside from their fashion advice (they really don't like beards), the stuff works. I still use their techniques and get laid like crazy.
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:09 AM
1

Of course you listen it Fresh and Fit, lol. Two perpetually single guys that have no rizz telling guys to be scared or women 😂
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:05 AM
2

Thanks for the spot on analysis, Fresh and Fit. I'll be sure to let my wife of fifteen years know that I need to control every aspect of her life, including making her eat food she doesn't like. We'll both agree that that's totally reasonable and not completely insane at all. Tell me about your marriage, RtistUno. How is your wife doing?
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:55 AM
-2

It's really not. You sound like a control freak.
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:11 AM
2

Two years ago? My dude, I was out of the game for fifteen years. After doing some review I was back at it. It was like riding a bike.
/r/seduction30/04/24 09:35 PM
2

Heh
/r/seduction30/04/24 12:17 PM
1

It's in my profile. First post.
/r/seduction30/04/24 09:01 AM
32

I'm in my 40s. I can't speak for everyone my age, just myself. But from what women have told me, they like that I just don't play games. I'm too old for bullshit. It's like when a guy in his late teens or early 20s is on here asking, "What did she mean by this?" and they show screenshots of a text or mention something the woman said. A lot of young dudes are in the comments wringing the most pessimistic take they can out of the exchange (not all of you, calm down), while I'm saying, "Why don't y…
/r/seduction30/04/24 06:18 AM
4

Sounds like you've already learned from this and know what to do; avoid getting so hammered you're too far gone to hold a conversation, talk and flirt with the one that bought you a drink.
/r/seduction30/04/24 03:43 AM
1

How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland
/r/seduction30/04/24 03:25 AM
10

Sounds like you have brat tamer instincts.
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:32 PM
1

I only know of them from their YouTube videos. I don't agree with everything they say, but for the most part their advice is reasonable.
/r/seduction29/04/24 04:17 AM
1

Don't overthink it. Go enjoy your dinner.
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:52 AM
1

Here’s the kicker - I’m a conservative evangelical. My paradigm has been ‘date only who you can see yourself marrying’ and ‘sex before marriage is a sin’. That's because Christianity is evil. It's a religion that wants you to be miserable and make everyone else miserable, too. I was an evangelical when I started seduction. Learned real quick that one path led to my happiness, and the other led to me being miserable and judging people for being happy and having a fulfilling love and sex life. Rej…
/r/seduction28/04/24 07:43 PM
1

Okay, well have fun being ghosted, then. You didn't want advice. You wanted to be coddled.
/r/seduction27/04/24 11:37 AM
9

Sex worker
/r/seduction27/04/24 09:34 AM
2

Well if you do, make sure you find someone that's more concerned with teaching you how to meet women instead of just bashing them. Way too many of the latter out there.
/r/seduction27/04/24 09:26 AM
0

He makes YouTube videos. He's an influencer. And I watched his videos today. Damn, no wonder you can't get laid. His whole deal is "women bad". If I listened to that douchenozzle I'd never get laid, either. Not once does he actually say how to meet a woman or get them to be interested in you. He tells you to be scared or women. That's why you're getting ghosted.
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:39 AM
2

Who is the dating coach? There's a lot of hacks out there.
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:38 AM
7

Set up the date for next week.
/r/seduction27/04/24 05:05 AM
2

I'm not trying to date men, so I don't care if 90% of them have made themselves undesirable. And FWIW, yes, 90% of men in dating apps suck. My wife and I are polyamorous and seeing the dorks trying to get into her pants on Bumble and Tinder has done wonders for my self esteem. Just a barrage of no-rizz having losers that think that sending a dick pic is an effective means of communication. If you have even the slightest bit of game you're already in the other 10% of men. I gave some advice in th…
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:05 PM
1

I'm polyamorous, so that helps. Think of the feelings you want your date to feel. Find a way to describe those feelings. We're all still a few years out from when we were forced to stay home. Before the pandemic I didn't go out much, but then we were all forced to stay at home. Now that we can feel free to leave our house I decided that I want to live life. I want to feel my heart racing at a hundred miles an hour. I want to feel adrenaline coarsing through my veins. I want to feel alive! With m…
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:02 PM
1

Not that I don't want to improve, but I truly believe the time we are in plays a big role. No, it doesn't. I use dating apps and I get laid so much that I don't even jerk off anymore. They told you you're boring by ghosting you. Do you want help or not? Because it sounds like you want to be consoled and told "women bad" instead of being told how to fix your problem.
/r/seduction26/04/24 09:05 PM
0

Jesus Christ, who let all the black pilled idiots in here? Look, if you're getting ghosted constantly the problem isn't with the women. It's because you're boring them. What are you saying on the dates? What are you talking about when you text? If you're not making them feel feelings of trust and arousal they're going to jump ship.
/r/seduction26/04/24 08:51 PM
1

What are you saying on the dates? What are you talking about? If three in a row ghost you, it's probably because you're not doing anything to excite them.
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:26 AM
3

She might be into you. But you don't seem like you're into her. And unless you're a submissive type that likes it when women degrade you or you're into brat taming (if that is the case, have fun), I'd suggest telling her to fuck off and that her elementary school "hit the boy you like" act just drives you away. Because she's not going to stop acting like that just because you're dating. She's showing what dating her is like.
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:46 PM
2

That's awesome! Nice work!
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:15 AM
1

You don't like approaching women at the gym because it's your personal time, and she is probably tired of guys approaching her at work. Best to move on for both you and her.
/r/seduction25/04/24 05:52 AM
4

Well if they're on a date with you and they're neutral, why are they on the date? Assuming that the woman is interested in you (which is why a normal person would agree to a date in the first place), keep the touch light. Hand on the small of her back, occasional hand holding. Innocent stuff like that. If they pull away it means they're no longer interested and you need to move on.
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:15 AM
3

Very cute that you're thinking about my cock.
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:28 PM
2

Lol. Keep crying about how you don't get laid because women are mean to you. I'm sure that'll help. I get laid way more than you, champ.
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:25 PM
1

I'm starting to see why your profile was put in the group. Your problem isn't that you were put in a Facebook group, your problem is that you: A) Hate women who enjoy sex and then wonder why you're not getting laid. B) Blame women who enjoy sex for their own sexual assault. If I was a woman I wouldn't want to date you, and I'd be telling women not to waste their time, either.
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:11 PM
2

Bragging that you're bad in bed is a weird flex
/r/seduction24/04/24 09:40 PM
4

Well I'm honest about being married and nonmonogamous and I have superior game, so I'm unbothered.
/r/seduction24/04/24 06:07 PM
0

I'm not even on Facebook. Who cares?
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:19 PM
16

"Hi".
/r/seduction23/04/24 09:42 PM
11

They aren't a thing. But neither is your claim that the majority of women just want to string us along. I have a hard time believing that you've approached thousands of women because the way you talk about women being just an enemy to be conquered tells me that you don't talk to them often. That's the mentality that men who aren't successful with women like to have so they can make up reasons why they're perpetually lonely.
/r/seduction23/04/24 09:27 AM
4

Sounds like you have what we in polyamory circles call New Relationship Energy. It's when you just start dating some and you become infatuated. Only real way to get over the anxiety is to talk to her and see how she feels about you. If she feels the same way, great. If not, at least you know and don't have to be afraid anymore.
/r/seduction23/04/24 08:08 AM
1

Your wife does all the cooking, cleaning, wants sex all the time, and for that you want to dump her? You're going to live a very miserable life. And it will be well deserved.
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:19 AM
7

You won't know unless you talk to her.
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:03 AM
16

It's not the morality of it that's getting you a response like that. It's your lack of balls. Just break up with her, damn.
/r/seduction22/04/24 08:18 PM
1

And your partners?
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:08 AM
22

No, you want to start in hard mode. When I was really young I was in the military and I was just learning seduction. I got laid while on an overnight pass in basic training and it was really easy because we had an equal ratio of men and women and the women hadn't gotten laid in months and were told to not have sex under any circumstances, which made them want it more. Getting laid took no effort at all. I went home for a few months and didn't get laid at all. Women weren't responding to anything…
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:39 AM
0

What have you both done already? And when you say that nobody cares, does that include your partners?
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:47 AM
3

Well, then it's a bad example. If you're dating someone and they did something and want you to do likewise, it's not a test. Just do the thing.
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:22 AM
7

This isn't a shit test. Just send the damn selfie.
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:17 AM
3

Because you're under 25, I guess.
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:24 AM
11

Get the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It will help.
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:39 AM
3

I had that happen once. They flaked on the day of the date. Normally I would have accepted the response and moved on, but she said she wanted to date a Dom, and she told me directly that it was social anxiety being the reason she's canceling the date, so instead of that I told her to pick a restaurant and I'd get take out. A hour later we were fucking on her couch. We dated for a year after that. Instead of asking her for a date, tell her to pick a restaurant. If she's still skittish, tell her y…
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:42 AM
1

You've written eight posts in 24 hours. Quit spamming.
/r/seduction21/04/24 10:05 PM
1

Take dates out for coffee the first time. It's inexpensive so if the date goes bad it's no loss.
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:45 AM
2

Is this the guy from work?
/r/seduction21/04/24 05:19 AM
1

Why not directly ask? Its not an offensive question. "What are you looking for?" Done. Nothing offensive. Just directly asking.
/r/seduction21/04/24 02:18 AM
2

Straight people text too. And adults.
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:30 PM
1

Women in their late 30s usually don't play games. It's one of the perks of dating them. She might be seeing the guy at the gym. It doesn't matter because she said she doesn't want anything serious, anyway. If she says she has kid issues, she has kid issues. Best thing to do is be direct and set something up. You will have to work around her single mom schedule.
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:20 PM
1

Both are good. Revised version has more info.
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:04 AM
4

Check your stuff. I'm guessing you got robbed. I know a guy that this happened to. She went back to his house. After he went to the bathroom, she took his cell phone and ran. Might not be your phone, but I'm guessing she grabbed something.
/r/seduction19/04/24 07:32 AM
3

I don't have Instagram and I have no problems meeting women. People that complain about superficial things like looks don't know how to make women feel good. That's what it comes down to with women. It's not about looks or money or status. It's about how you can make them feel. If you can make women feel safe and have feelings to desire you'll do fine without being super attractive or have money or social media clout.
/r/seduction18/04/24 05:33 PM
6

I got How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland back when it was released in 2000. To this day, I still recommend the book above all others. If I get to the first date, the only reason I don't get laid is because I wasn't interested, and it's because of the techniques taught in that book.
/r/seduction18/04/24 04:11 AM
1

My question is, how would you proceed from here? What would your moves be? Ask her out and get her number. Nut the fuck up and make a move. If she says no, it's not a big deal. Take the L and move on.
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:06 AM
8

Sounds like you haven't made a move. She's told you up front that she wants to fuck you. So get after it already.
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:04 AM
-1

I don't recommend that. If you cum too quick you can always fuck her twice. But if you jerk off before you might not be in the mood to fuck later.
/r/seduction17/04/24 08:12 PM
1

Yeah, it's always weird when folks are like, "She is for the streets". I just think, "Why are you even here?"
/r/seduction17/04/24 06:56 AM
0

Nah, you said that it's gay to be engaging in BDSM with a woman. That was dumb.
/r/seduction17/04/24 05:27 AM
1

You're asking if I was gay why I wouldn't want to have sex with a woman? I don't know if you're in the right subreddit.
/r/seduction17/04/24 05:21 AM
0

You're worried that someone you're dating likes sex and is good in bed? What's the issue? I'm legitimately asking. I don't see the problem.
/r/seduction17/04/24 04:53 AM
3

Don’t let her dominate you or any gay shit . Thanks, random person from 1997.
/r/seduction17/04/24 04:52 AM
4

Quiet women are often the most fun. Ask her out. In my experience, she'll want to get physical early on. You'll have to make the moves, though.
/r/seduction17/04/24 04:17 AM
23

You better be damn sure she's 18 if you don't want to catch a charge.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:13 AM
1

Well, I like to tell people new to seduction to get the book, How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book, but the advice is great and it helps you to get good at meeting women without being an asshole.
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:47 AM
1

I just saw all your posts. Are you okay?
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:38 AM
7

You did something to piss her off. Don't know what that is, but that's the only reason she'd make you persona non grata. Either that or she's married and doesn't want her husband to know. Only way you'll get the answer is to talk to her.
/r/seduction13/04/24 10:41 AM
4

That's awesome
/r/seduction13/04/24 07:30 AM
5

Block those people. You don't need that negativity in your life
/r/seduction13/04/24 07:24 AM
1

Hey, I like the post, but can you edit it so the paragraphs break? It makes it easier to read that way. Thanks!
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:28 AM
1

What are you saying to women? How do you talk to them? As for flirting, you really don't need consent to do some light flirting. There's a big difference between flirting and sexual harassment. And I have yet to meet a woman that didn't at least enjoy a few compliments going their way.
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:23 AM
1

I like your username
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:19 AM
1

You already know the answer for what you need to do. Chill the fuck out.
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:12 AM
6

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. Now I'm in my 40s with a happy polyamorous marriage with a wife and a girlfriend. I regularly have threesomes and go to sex parties. Don't worry about what other people are doing. Worry about you. I promise you'll make up for lost time if you put in the work to get good at meeting women. If it makes you feel any better, virginity is a social construct that's completely made up. Nobody treats other firsts as nearly a big deal, even when they are a really…
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:39 AM
2

I'm a feminist and I get laid way more than you.
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:33 AM
1

I'll forever be baffled as to why some people in this community developed a strange hatred of porn.
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:54 AM
2

I'm sure your style is fine. If not, find some fashion oriented friends to join you for some clothes shopping to see what looks good on you. Get their opinion on what they're wearing. It sounds like when you talk to people you're trying to dominate the conversation; trying to make yourself sound like the smartest person in the room. If that's the case, you know what you have to do. You have to give yourself permission to let people be stupid. Nobody is going to agree with you all of the time and…
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:23 AM
5

unlikely since we did it 4x, she came once I believe That's why she lost interest. Work on your bedroom skills.
/r/seduction10/04/24 05:24 PM
1

Feelings of connection and arousal
/r/seduction10/04/24 02:30 AM
30

I see guys do this all the time. They forget that the women they’re dating are human beings, not goddesses. It helps to put that in the other direction, too. I see a lot of folks on here that treat women like they're some cold, calculating mastermind of men's emotions and they're an enemy that needs to be conquered. Truth is women are just people with their own real world problems, emotions, and trauma. They're usually not experts on men and relationships. They feel lonely, self-conscious, and w…
/r/seduction10/04/24 01:51 AM
4

That's what I did. That's what we all do. We date around until we find someone to settle down with. If you're monogamous, anyway. So once again, I don't see a problem.
/r/seduction08/04/24 08:11 PM
8

Not natural So is there some scientific journal that discusses the nature of women and casual sex? What laws of nature are being violated? disgusting That's your opinion. But you're on a subreddit that's meant to help men sleep with women and you're on here complaining about women that want to sleep with men. Do I have to prove a case about how hypocritical and weird that stance is? Do you want to get laid or not?
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:23 AM
12

You don't care about STIs. You can have one partner and still get one. You're using that as an excuse to make moral judgments about women for doing something that hurts absolutely nobody. If people want to have casual sex with consenting partners, let them. Life is short so enjoy it.
/r/seduction08/04/24 09:37 AM
8

I like you
/r/seduction08/04/24 09:21 AM
7

Your profile says you're 13. You also posted this four times.
/r/seduction08/04/24 06:49 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:17 AM
1

What did she say she was into on your first date? Use that to plan your second date.
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:09 AM
19

So they're dating around while not in a committed, monogamous relationship? I fail to see the problem with this.
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:04 AM
0

In what world are you living where most couples that cohabitate aren't living in a dual income home? Women nowadays don't give a shit about your income. They make their own money. I've dated plenty of women that made more money than me, many that had six figure incomes. They didn't care because I knew how to make them feel good. Also, there's plenty of women that don't hook up with guys for love or resources. They just enjoy sex. Too many influencers and grifters are acting like we live in the 1…
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:49 AM
55

You want my thoughts on this? My thoughts are that making posts hating women, especially for liking sex, is the exact opposite of seduction and a good way to guarantee that you'll be a lonely incel. Really feels weird that people hate women for wanting to fuck on this subreddit when fucking women is the goal for most people here.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:35 AM
41

Well, giving up at 25 is just dumb. What are you saying to women? That's probably something that needs to be tweaked. What's your appearance like? Do you dress nicely or like a slob? Do you work out? These aren't rhetorical questions. I'm genuinely asking. You're too young to give up. You just need a better strategy.
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:15 AM
2

If you're roasting people so hard that even your male friends are abandoning you, that's a good sign to stop, my dude.
/r/seduction07/04/24 09:19 PM
5

Influencers told him it was "gay".
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:30 PM
4

I'm pretty sure this is an 18+ subreddit, but I will give you one piece of advice before this gets deleted: Hating girls isn't going to help you get a girlfriend (I'm assuming you want one). It will make it much, much harder. Making up girls in your head to be mad at is going to make it impossible to get a girlfriend, as will blaming all or most girls for the actions of one. Going from what you said, it sounds like you're listening to influencers about women. Influencers are full of shit. They g…
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:40 AM
7

If you ignore them, they'll think you're not interested and move on. If they think you're ignoring them on purpose to get their attention, they'll think you're a manipulator and move on. On the other side of the spectrum if you go into straight up worship of a woman she'll hate that you're putting her on a pedestal and move on. There's exceptions to this of course, but they're rare. It's best to have a middle ground. Show interest while being willing to walk away if the vibes are off.
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:38 AM
1

Yeah, she kept coming up to you because she was interested. You wanted to know what happened, why she lashed out at you. That's why. If you don't want to hook up because you don't want to ditch your friend that's fine, but next time just get her number. It's unreasonable to assume that someone wouldn't be upset when you gave vibes that you were into her only to keep trying to set her up with your friend. Look at it this way: How would you feel if you were chatting up a woman, she made it very cl…
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:42 PM
4

Let's recap: A woman threw herself at you. She approached you and made it clear that she's DTF. You respond to this by flirting with her friend and making her talk to your friend that has zero game. After she saw you flirting with her friend, she says, "fuck it" and starts messing with other guys. After that you ask her why she's not into your friend. Not you, your friend. After you didn't close the deal, pawned her off on your friend with no rizz, flirted with her friend, asked why she isn't in…
/r/seduction06/04/24 08:32 PM
28

Exactly. He thought that flirting "for weeks" was a good strategy, but that just makes women think you're not into them. He should have set up a date early on.
/r/seduction06/04/24 08:11 PM
1

Honestly, the hard truth is that the only real way to get out of that head space is to start winning. Unfortunately before that happens, you have to lose. A lot. You have to risk failure a hundred times before you finally get the W. In the meantime, to get started I recommend reading the book The Obesity Code to lose weight. If you're morbidly obese, look into bariatric surgery. As far as finances go, you're just going to have to find a good paying job. I know that's tough but it's the only thin…
/r/seduction06/04/24 07:35 AM
2

If you didn't want people to side with you, you wouldn't be arguing with them. In your case, you're showing yourself as the toxic person that you're telling people not to be. I won't be engaging with you anymore because I don't want to try to reason with people that want to be toxic. Have a nice day.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:34 AM
11

That's good advice. I still beat myself up for not knowing what I knew in high school and I've been out for twenty years, lol.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:29 AM
1

I didn't say you were weak. I want people to listen to your message. There's way too many grifters on here and you're not one of them. But spending your time making personal attacks against someone because they say they disagree is just putting people off. People don't side with people that disrespect them, and you of all people should know that.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:27 AM
3

And yes, I'm being combative. It's effective at what I'm trying to do, which is make people THINK about why they believe shit. Its really not. It just makes you seem overly sensitive and insecure, which makes people think you're weak and uncharismatic. Just relax, man. Not everyone is going to agree with you. It doesn't mean they're attacking you, either.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:18 AM
1

I still use it. Aside from their "beards are bad" rant, it still works. It's very rare that I don't sleep with a woman on the first date, and when that doesn't happen, I seal the deal by the second one. They also have the added bonus of not treating women like they're some enemy that needs to be destroyed like the new influencers do.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:03 AM
1

I agree. I've never been shit tested. Grifters like to take advantage of shy men and convince them that women are all some cold calculating group of people that look for any reason to dump a guy, when really the reason the guy didn't attract the woman was because he just didn't have any rizz. There's no test. You just need to know how to talk to women.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:03 AM
1

I think she wanted you to come over and Netflix and chill. A couple years ago I dated a woman who did what you described. She was very introverted and didn't have a lot of experience dating and had just gotten out of a divorce. Day of the date she sends me a text saying she chickened out and didn't have the energy for a date. Normally I would have texted back and said that I respected her wishes, but earlier she told me that she wanted to try being a submissive and she knew I was a Dom, so I kne…
/r/seduction05/04/24 08:50 PM
1

Get the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It'll teach you how to talk to women without turning into a douchebag.
/r/seduction05/04/24 08:19 PM
2

All influencers are depending on ad revenue to make their money, so they're more concerned with getting views instead of having a quality product. Almost every one needs to rage farm to make a living, and seduction and rage farming don't mix. And thirty seconds into watching the link you gave I can say that's exactly what he's doing. He's rage farming. Thirty seconds in and he refers to women as "the inferior gender" while using a professional wrestler voice. Yeah, that guy is trash. He's rage f…
/r/seduction05/04/24 08:12 PM
6

"Hey, it feels like things haven't changed since we started seeing each other. Are you happy with the way things are?" Start there. You've been seeing her for six months. If you can't communicate honestly with her by now you're not meant to last.
/r/seduction05/04/24 12:16 PM
1

Have you tried asking her?
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:48 AM
1

I tried to go to the site but it doesn't exist. At least that's what my browser says.
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:47 AM
1

You should decide what you want and do it. Do you want to date her? Ask her out. You don't? Move on.
/r/seduction04/04/24 11:58 PM
1

This is why my first dates are always coffee dates. But she has said to you with her whole chest that she uses guys for free meals and you're still trying to get a date with her? Why would you want to date someone who openly admits to being a toxic person? I'm really unsure if she really likes me WHO CARES?! You should be rejecting her! Have some standards and self respect! Whether or not she's into you should be irrelevant. You don't date people who see their dates as cash machines. You're sett…
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:47 PM
1

What do I do when another guy I'm poly. I'll tell her to have fun while I go bang my other girlfriend 😂.
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:40 PM
1

Sounds like the solution to the problem is easy. Ask her out. If she says yes, good. If she doesn't, you know she's not into you and you can move on.
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:32 PM
2

Sounds like you have an addiction to social media. I deleted all of mine over six months ago (came back to this account because I needed Reddit for research) and couldn't be happier. Deleting social media is not only practical, it's needed to enjoy your life. Otherwise you'll wake up ten years from now realizing that you spent your face in your phone instead of building relationships with other people. I suggest reading the books Stolen Focus and Digital Minimalism. They'll help you get over soc…
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:22 PM
1

What's going to happen is that girl 2 is going to see you on a date, think, "he's seeing someone" and then she'll find someone that is single.
/r/seduction04/04/24 05:39 PM
5

Maybe he just doesn't like texting.
/r/seduction04/04/24 02:17 AM
14

Good post. Bruce Lee once said, "Before I studied the art, a punch to me was just like a punch, a kick just like a kick. After I learned the art, a punch was no longer a punch, a kick no longer a kick. Now that I've understood the art, a punch is just like a punch, a kick just like a kick." I think for a lot of the people that are young and new to seduction, they're in stage two. A punch is more than a punch and a kick is more than a kick. So they're not having fun. To them, if a woman texts the…
/r/seduction03/04/24 07:23 AM
2

Awesome
/r/seduction03/04/24 06:44 AM
4

Well, I'd say that first of all, don't mention anti-Semitic conspiracy theories like the Rothschilds controlling your life. That tends to put women off. And most people in general. That said, even the best of us are going to be rejected 95% of the time. It's a numbers game. If you approach a hundred women, you'll probably find 5-10 that want to date you, and of them, one will sleep with you. I've watched countless videos and read countless reddit posts and I practiced but nothing works Well, mos…
/r/seduction03/04/24 06:38 AM
1

It's easy to tell when you meet another person who has been in the dating scene for a long time. We're too old for bullshit, lol. ETA: I just joined your subreddit.
/r/seduction03/04/24 05:51 AM
0

This might be controversial, but if she has a ton of male friends in her life, and those outnumber her female friends, be on alert. It’s a sign she craves attention and validation. We all crave attention and validation, my dude. I'm polyamorous. She could fuck her friends and I wouldn't care. Realistically though, there's very few people that meet all of these traits. Including ourselves. I guarantee most of us won't meet all the qualifications on that list, myself included. Part of being human …
/r/seduction03/04/24 04:35 AM
13

Sexual compatibility is a must.
/r/seduction03/04/24 04:27 AM
3

Just fucking ask him
/r/seduction02/04/24 10:45 AM
1

How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland
/r/seduction02/04/24 05:55 AM
16

It's Europe. They don't tip.
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:51 AM
1

Give us an update if she meets with you. Congrats on taking a good first step.
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:50 AM
4

Looking at your post history, you've developed feelings in an LDR for a married man thirty years older than you and you consider him a sugar daddy. I'm guessing you know what a sugar daddy/baby relationship is. It means this is mostly a financial transaction of a relationship. If that's the lifestyle you want to live get other daddies. But these men are clients, not boyfriends. But realistically, you need to work on yourself. You're asking us for ways to punish your boyfriend, ignoring him back …
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:28 PM
4

Usually involves a trip to HR or being banned from Applebee's for smacking the waitress' ass.
/r/seduction01/04/24 05:46 AM
1

They care about feeling good. Same as men. If you know how to do that, you're gold.
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:56 PM
5

That's fair.
/r/seduction24/03/24 11:40 AM
83

The better I've gotten at seduction, the less I give a shit about looks. When you've been on a million dates with a million different women, you find that you'd rather be with a 6 that you enjoy being around than a 10 that's a vapid, boring idiot. The longer you do this, the more you'll care about compatibility over looks, especially when you get the point where you're turning women down because you know they won't be a good fit (as opposed to people new to seduction who will take anyone who wil…
/r/seduction24/03/24 09:10 AM
3

Practice. There's no other way around it. You'll have to go on a lot of first dates to get good at it. However, one thing I do suggest is to know what you're going to say beforehand. Know what kinds of questions you'll be asking and prepare for her answers and be prepared to give your own.
/r/seduction24/03/24 05:33 AM
3

When I was single I went a six month stretch where I stopped dating women. It felt like it was just the same routine over and over, and even sex wasn't feeling fun anymore. Then I started dating again and ended up meeting the woman I married. I think everyone who dates around gets bored with it eventually. Take a break from dating and enjoy it.
/r/seduction24/03/24 05:31 AM
1

Definitely should get yourself a car. Even if it's a cheap one. You're in the "City of Sin" so you should do well once you can get around.
/r/seduction23/03/24 07:45 AM
1

I like How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's definitely dated (written about 25 years ago) but the book gives good, no nonsense advice and doesn't leave you feeling like women are an enemy to be conquered, unlike what a lot of grifters are teaching these days.
/r/seduction23/03/24 03:41 AM
5

LOL! Your post made me chuckle for a bit. What do you think the goal of most of the men here is? Most of us do want to be happy with one woman. It's why we're here. We tried and failed to know what women want. We ended up being lonely. I started learning about seduction over two decades ago for that reason. I was young, I was lonely, and I wanted to learn how to talk to women so I wouldn't be lonely anymore. Now after those two decades I am happily married (I'm still here because we're polyamoro…
/r/seduction21/03/24 03:48 AM
1

Seriously. The sex is so much better.
/r/seduction20/03/24 08:04 PM
3

All girls “degrade” past the years of 30’s. What was once hot and beautiful is probably not anymore after 15-20 years of knowing the girl. Hi, I'm in my 40s and been with my wife for two decades. She didn't degrade. And FWIW, dating women at this age is much easier. Less bs games involved. That out of the way, you're going to have to date a lot to know what you really want. There's no secret method that's going to get your there. Just date a lot of people. It took me years and dating a lot of wo…
/r/seduction19/03/24 11:11 PM
10

She's taking days to respond to you and she stood you up? Take the hint, my dude. She's not into you.
/r/seduction16/03/24 04:52 AM
1

It sounds like you're not compatible. You should be friends if you like her company but otherwise don't bother with dating.
/r/seduction15/03/24 03:40 AM
5

Just going off your post (where you assumed we'd think the worst of you right out of the gate) and your other comments on this post, I think you might have social anxiety. You should consider dealing with that so you can build up your self confidence.
/r/seduction14/03/24 04:19 AM
3

Well said
/r/seduction14/03/24 01:14 AM
0

Some people have a degradation kink and don't realize it. So instead of getting their need to be degraded met in a safe and healthy BDSM relationship, they date "jerks". I'm a Soft Dom and I'm also as nice as Mr Rogers on most days. Women love when you can scratch that itch to be degraded while still treating them great when you're not doing a scene.
/r/seduction12/03/24 09:54 PM
1

If you don't know how to talk to them you'll be discarded. I'm very good at it.
/r/seduction09/03/24 08:54 PM
1

That attitude isn't helpful for meeting women. It's defeatist.
/r/seduction09/03/24 08:23 PM
7

You sound like me when I was a teenager. Like, exactly like me. Here's some things that helped me. Read books on anger management. It'll help you calm down and not go off on people when you get the urge to argue with them. Reread them when you find your temper is hard to deal with. Take up a martial art. This will help you set boundaries with people. Make sure it's a school that has sparring. Sparring is what makes you fearless. Join a gym. Lifting weights increases testosterone and confidence. …
/r/seduction09/03/24 08:16 AM
1

I like this idea.
/r/seduction09/03/24 07:43 AM
1

If you "approach" 100 attractive women in OLD, you might only be "the type" of 5 of those women. And those are five women who I'm gonna be fucking later. I do great online. I'm surprised so many people complain about it.
/r/seduction08/03/24 07:15 AM
2

The growth of pickup was obviously going to attract weirdos and a lot of people who give horrible advice, as well as those who uselessly repeat & re-sell old advice ad nauseam - more toxicity toward each other is a result of people trying to weed out the bs The problem is worse than that, and it's why I stay away from modern influencers and those that speak about men and women in generalities. Old school teachers had to actually know what they're talking about because it's the only way people wo…
/r/seduction06/03/24 09:32 AM
0

I'm a man, so my feelings aren't hurt by misogyny. I do call out people for being misogynistic, though.
/r/seduction06/03/24 09:07 AM
2

Heh
/r/seduction06/03/24 08:32 AM
2

Just warning you up front, I'm going to hurt your feelings a little bit here, but I have to to help you learn. Honestly, you come off as boring and desperate in that conversation. The boring: Talking unprompted about a vacation you're going on soon. Why would anyone who just started talking to you care? The desperate: Joking about traveling to another country with the woman. Yes, you're kidding. But you're kidding about packing up and traveling with someone you haven't met. It feels like one of …
/r/seduction06/03/24 08:29 AM
1

Women like "bad boys" because they don't slut shame. That's really what it comes down to. If you're a bad boy, you want to fuck. So you're not going to hate on women that want to do the same. I was a bad boy in my 20s and now I'm a nice wholesome dad in my 40s. I still don't shame a woman for wanting to fuck because I want to fuck too, and I crush crazy amounts of ass. The thing with a bad boy is that unlike the rest of the world, they let women be free to be sexual beings. That's why they do be…
/r/seduction06/03/24 07:51 AM
1

Well, speaking as someone who actually is autistic (not sure if you made your comment at the end because you're really autistic or just being a smart ass) was average looking (emphasis on was) and does very well with women, the work comes from learning how to talk to them. I learned how to speak to women and it caused me to be awkward looking yet still able to crush ass. If you're worried about being accused of harassment for approaching women, the solution is simple. Use the internet. That's wh…
/r/seduction02/03/24 07:39 AM
12

If she bragged to you about leading other guys on, that's a red flag.
/r/seduction02/03/24 07:23 AM
2

I've never gotten on the socials of anyone I date and when I was on social media (aside from occasionally going on here I don't have any anymore) I never wanted to send them a friend or follow request. I posted some things that I didn't want seeing early on because I didn't want to kill the vibe. I didn't want them seeing my political rants (an immediate mood killer, even if you agree with the politics), my corny #TBT selfies, or to be talking to my friends or family until I was ready. That all …
/r/seduction02/03/24 07:22 AM
1

Close the deal and get a date before the conversation dies.
/r/seduction01/03/24 06:31 AM
1

I've been happily married for over a decade and I can tell you that if you try that "never be vulnerable with your romantic partner", you're going to end up very lonely. That might work for a year or so, but if you keep coming off as an emotionless robot they will eventually leave you. That, and you'll end up with intense psychological damage of suppressing your emotions for so long.
/r/seduction11/02/24 09:19 AM
2

It's a lost cause, but not for the reason you think. For most people, the human brain is finally fully formed when you reach age 25 (if you're neurodivergent, it can be even longer). The personality you had five years ago was partially due to not having a fully formed pre-frontal cortex. Personality shifts as your brain continues to develop well into adulthood are unavoidable. It's also partially due to not having to be a fully functional adult. Sure, you're legally an adult at 20, but most peop…
/r/seduction11/02/24 09:15 AM
2

I second the martial arts. It's a lot easier to be calm and relaxed when you know you can end anyone who tries to hurt you.
/r/seduction04/02/24 11:38 PM
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