Weird insecurity

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-06-17T15:25:46+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

DaygameCode · 2024-06-17T12:39:02+00:00

You have this insecurity because you don’t really understand how attraction works. If you did, you would not have any issues at all with this stuff.

I recommend you actually study how emotions impact attraction in a woman and realise that the material things are superficial stuff which really has little or nothing to do with a woman’s genuine interest in a guy.

Attraction is not about what you have/possess, it’s about how you make women feel by what you tell her and what you do to her.

You can be homeless and still smash girls if you just tell women stuff that makes them feel strong emotions.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-17T14:11:58+00:00

You moved here from another fucking country with a different language by yourself. You are paying rent, have a car and take care of yourself. And you are barely out of your teens. My man, you are the top 5 percent of the male US population of your age bracket. Keep grinding. You will wipe the floor with your competition.

FlynnRideHer1 · 2024-06-17T07:00:07+00:00

I can assure you that most people born in the USA your age are working lame jobs and driving old cars

I think you'll be pleasantly surprised as to how well upfront honesty will help you

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-06-17T09:18:25+00:00

You're doing average for someone that's 21 and living in the US. Nobody expects you to have a nice car and good paying job at that age.

As long as you know what to say to women to turn them on, you're fine.

DougA71 · 2024-06-17T06:40:55+00:00

Hey I understand you wish to achieve the things your talking about like a better car and job but I gotta say the fact that your here and you were able to get yourself a car and you work hard obviously if your Ubering over 40hrs a week that's not small accomplishment. Your aren't here looking for a handout you are grinding and doing great and should feel proud not ashamed and anyone who looks down on you or says anything to make you insecure about what you have already accomplished should be ashamed of themselves. It's not easy especially on your own in a strange place with no family around. You are doing a great job and you can accomplish anything you want to but do it for you not because of what anyone else thinks or says. I wish you the best!

Title	Weird insecurity
Author	Dull_Holiday949
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	June 17, 2024 6:24 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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