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ConversationMrAnonPoster/r/seduction07/10/24 02:26 PM
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Your stroke made you lose your brain cells. Chucklehead's issue is that she fucks men she is attracted to but she would date (without fucking) him. He is a needy short guy with an inferiority complex. It is obvious from his other posts. Women do not get wet when such men try "dating" them, especially when such men try coming up with a super complicated plan of getting into their pants. You know how i know? He wrote paragraphs. You know what he should have done if it mattered to him? Left and for…
/r/seduction13/10/24 12:32 PM
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Ah comedy. A knucklehead on this sub trying to get into girl's pants is making a Surprised Pikachu face the girl who entertains the idea of considering it isnt a virginal creature
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:59 AM
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Black pillers come up with the darnest fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:26 AM
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Lolz..this is pure nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:35 PM
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If he needed to reproduce, he would nut into 5'3 375lb woman. He isnt because it is not about reproduction. It is about pleasure. Just like for an obese person that soda is not about sustenance but about pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:17 AM
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Without getting his dick wet he wont die, no matter what he tells himself Without that extra large soda drink an obese man wont die, no matter what he tells himself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:45 AM
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Both are addicted to what they think is going to get them the next hit of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:56 AM
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I'm fascinated by men's obsession with being "average" in dating. Telling them to become above an average is like requesting them to beat Mr. Bolt's time. At the same time tell the men that their favorite sports team should only draft "ok" players and they will absolutely lose their shit screaming that it is not how it supposed to work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:53 PM
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Have you ever tried to convince an obese person to stop shoving extra food in their mouth? They are convinced unless they have that Grande Frappucino with extra cream and extra syrup they will immediately starve. You cannot reason with them. That's an equivalent of an average man who last got his dick wet 3 years, 7 months, 12 days, 4 hours and 39 minutes ago chasing a chance to reset that clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:19 PM
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If you need to fake your height to feel worthy, your insecurity will seep through your pores
/r/seduction10/10/24 09:37 AM
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A guy asking on a bumble sub if he should double text a girl as he is confused about double texting writes what he believes deep in his heart should work for short guys and a bunch of dorks upvote it as if he was Jesus giving a gospel. This is a pure comedy, folks P.s. No, professional basketball players dont lie about their height. Their heights are well known and irrelevant. Their scoring and defense ability is well known. If a midget could outscore LeBron, the midget would be signed P.p.s. Ti…
/r/seduction10/10/24 09:28 AM
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Get better partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:43 PM
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Men call hot women hot. Men call hot women who sleep with other men sluts. Men call hot women who sleep with other men and don't sleep with them whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:46 PM
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I can assure you what you are describing is not how it works. I do, however, encourage my competitors to follow the advice of ChatGPT
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:06 PM
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Reverse. It would be the exact thing that currently happens on apps. Homer Simpsons whine and complain how no one swipes them. They are the vast majority. Guys who have their shit together are cleaning up as Homer Simpsons rage.
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:03 PM
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Why the fuck are you trying to date a 29 year old with a child?
/r/seduction08/10/24 12:31 PM
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She wants to get the great deal for herself. That by definition means a shitty deal for you. The only reason why you are even entertaining her asks is because on a back of your mind you care about her before she has demonstrated she provides any value to you.
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:25 AM
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Do you understand how machine learning works? It assembles weights based how the training data set it gets. The data set comes from the internet. What do you mostly get on the internet? Trigglypuff like women screaming how men are rapists and should never ever ever approach women and simps, nice guys and incels complaining that they cannot get women by doing anything, including approaching. Hence the "AI" answers.
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:04 AM
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Yes, she is not into you *enough*. You, like 99.9% of men, are invested in the outcome. You should not be. Stop putting any individual woman on a pedestal - it reeks of desperation. Women despise desperate men.
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:02 AM
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Thats not the point - women openly state they find most men unattractive. The point was that the claim red pillers make about men being open to dating most women is total bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:13 AM
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They arent. Average (use to describe median) woman in the US is 5'3-5'4, 170lb wearing size 16 clothes. Even without accounting for size inflation thats Lizzo's size except Lizzo is 5'10. That means half of the women are even larger. No, men, especially men who keep screaming that women have way too many standards for attractiveness do not want to date even average women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:59 PM
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Yes, compared to you, i am You keep illustrating standard male problem: men, especially men who are unsuccessful with women are dumb - they come up with the most complicated playbooks that dont work and instead of simplifying them they make them even more complicated. Guess what? They also do not work. Want to get somewhere? Simplify
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:31 PM
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For you, yes, it would be a groundbreaking discovery. Here is why: You still did not get it which is why your last paragraph when you discussed lawyer you went back to facts. Here is how you would have said to respond to "I am a lawyer" if you go it you would have gone along the lines of: "Lawyer, huh? Tell me, how does it feel to chase ambulances in those heels?"
/r/seduction07/10/24 08:31 PM
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No, I've explained to you why your position is akin to insisting on digging a trench with a spoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:50 PM
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"I encourage my competitors to behave that way"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:56 PM
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It is always funny to me when people who do not get laid keep demonstrating time and time again the Don Quixote quests of tilting at the wild mills in the futile attempt to make getting laid more difficult. In words of a very smart man "I encourage my competitors to behave that way"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:52 PM
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The only thing wrong with what he did is that he gave her a paper and ran away like they're still in school Reverse. It allows her not to tell him face to face "no" which she might be uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:46 PM
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If he was smart enough to just give you a number on a slip of paper, he knows that you not calling/texting him means it is a "no". Slip of paper - asynchronous ask allowing you to easily avoid rejecting face to face. He definitely knows the social dance thus he probably gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:43 PM
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Yes, they are interested in knowing about *you*. It is what is called "culture fit" test. Because in the company you being able to do your job is nearly given - you aren't getting to that point of interview process unless you can. But what is not given is how you are going to mesh with the rest of the team and that's not about performance but about "feelings". So if you come across in your behavior like some crazy conspiracy theorist and they are one of those hippie go lucky teams, you aren't ge…
/r/seduction07/10/24 03:26 PM
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shove a "tell me" in front of it and call it a day. Observe the difference: I absolutely love when people show up to make the point to demonstrate how boneheaded the average man's approach is: "Tell me what you do?" and "Tell me *about* what you do? P.S. Your second paragraph describes triangulation. Guess what? Triangulation does not work on women because they are not men
/r/seduction07/10/24 03:23 PM
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Economy of scale. From rent, to taxes, to food, to shared tasks to income diversification i.e. it is not about "happiness"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:17 PM
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Ah, reddit, the mystical land of 6'4 incels, who work out, look good, have their shit together by their age standards and yet do not get laid yet give one of those things to 95 percent of men on this sub and they are convinced they would be smashing the world
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:14 PM
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No because your entire social social support network will disappear because at that age the social support network consists of immediate family
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:12 PM
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Dont worry, it is worse for millennial and genz but stick to the denials. I hear they work very well pn paying those property taxes for the houses that are falling apart the boss queens going to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:10 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6235879/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:52 PM
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https://www.reuters.com/world/us/women-us-have-just-13-mens-retirement-savings-prudential-report-says-2024-06-24/ Yes, facts over feelings. Boss Queens the hardest hit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:50 PM
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The issue is not all those dudes who are living with their parents - they are lost causes. The issue is that 4-6 on womens scale of desirability think it is 8-10 or bust. If 4-6 paired off with 4-6, between two pf them they would do ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:26 PM
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No, women are not buying more houses - women are on more deeds. No, women's education achievements do not matter as it is in the fields that are absolutely irrelevant for anything other than the jobs of "Future Baristas of America" No, i do not give a fuck about what 99 percent of cat ladies and homer simpsons do - they made their own bed. There is a small percentage on both sides that just did not clip into the non Homer Simpson and non Cat Lady category who, if they paired off would be ok, ala…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:22 PM
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They spend their seventies alone after their husbands die in their sixties leaving them the pension, social security and insurance policies. This is not what is going to happen to the single boss queens
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:20 PM
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No, men do not care if they live on $500/mo or $5000/mo. There are shitload of old men who grunt and live. Women, on the other hand, go completely mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:19 PM
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Oh dont worry, it is absolutely in single "i am too good for the dusties" queens future. The death wont be quick though. It would be more of an existence of a bag lady for decades pushing that cart with scraps in font of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:46 PM
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Nobody (other than other men who do the same) cares for the excuses men who still suck on their family's teat every night while they play video games, polish their meat sticks and caress their bellies come up with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:58 AM
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People are ok being single because they have the attention span of a castrated gnat. Single life is fine in the twenties and thirties....fifties are going to be a bitch and seventies should absolutely terrify one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:24 AM
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Women do not do well being single post menopause. Women also do not do well unsingling themselves at perimenopause and after. Women have low to no money saved for retirement and have higher expenses, especially medical expenses compared to men in the premenopause to death. Thats the fifties to eighties. Thus it is absolutely stupid for women not to pair off unless they are that one in a million absolute exception to all those general rules (and surprise: those absolute exceptions pair off in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:20 AM
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There is also a subset of women who prefer broke men. They, as well as men who prefer fat women, are exceptions and mostly flukes. Men with options do not go for fat women. Women with options do not go for broke men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:08 AM
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This thread would be a lot more fun if the participants were required to provide their relationship status, brokeness status and fatness status. P.s. OP, you absolutely nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:05 AM
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Being unfuckable and undateable is not a flex. Go fix your life to be better than the other unfuckable and undatable men. Signed, Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:34 PM
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Your legs were made for walking... As in getting up and walking away. Do that with a few women who disrespect you, your attitude will change, it will seep out of your pores and the next ones wont be doing it
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:21 PM
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You are a boring nice guy. 7-8 arent interested in those.
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:11 PM
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Women do not test interest - they arent that conniving..if they were they would be running the world as they would: a) be conniving to outsmart most men b) have a pussy to bend the will of the rest This entire thing was invented by clueless dating coaches to provide handwavy explanation to their students why after nearly closing the students failed. The handwavy explanation was "She did the interest check and you failed" This what it actually was : she wanted to see if you were the best she coul…
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:26 AM
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Dont listen to coaches who at most date cave trolls
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:21 AM
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Dont text.
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:20 AM
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Whatever club is popular on GrindR near you
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:19 AM
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Read a book called "Models"
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:18 AM
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Yeah. Ready? Dont be a knucklehead who can only get hoes
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:18 AM
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Being intense about shit that matters is masculine trait. Being intense about a brand of toilet paper is a feminine trait
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:17 AM
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God, i love when clowns use ChatGPT without understanding how machine leaning works. It is just * << chef's kiss >> * beautiful
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:16 AM
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You caught the case of one-itis and she knows it. The fix is simple: stop being a whiny little boy. Have boundaries and enforce them. If she respects you she will be ok with your boundaries..if ahe does not she wont, but at least you would know it
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:13 AM
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No. I am explaining why they are being rejected - their "decency" is not even being considered because they do not qualify for consideration. Contrary to the shit women say on the internet (and actually on a street during interviews) for points (stated preferences) they dont date men who do not visually qualify (revealed preferences) unless those men bring amazing amount resources or social status that allows them to temporarily settle for less. Men cope differently - they blame datable women fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:26 PM
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I was slightly off: Us average: 30 Millenial 40 Gen Z 30 https://www.statista.com/statistics/1257041/average-weight-gain-reported-by-us-adults-during-the-covid-pandemic/ Data sources are there Considering they were already overweight, the point stands. Men on dating apps are mostly fat and obese. Women's revealed preferences expose they dont date 350lb guy with a fantastic personality no matter how much they state that it is personally that matters Bonis fun: Percentage of men being swipes "yes"…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:12 PM
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Very simple: decent or not if they are in the undatable category it is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:58 PM
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GenZ and millenials on average added about 50lbs during COVID according to CDC. That's why they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:39 PM
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Nah, he is correct. He simply refuses to understand the full picture: vast majority of women are overweight to obese. He does not notice those women. The ones who aren't are the new pool of datable women. The ones who are overweight and obese are in the pool of undatable women. the vast majority of men are overweight to obese and broke. The men who are in this pool are undatable. The ones who are not in this pool are undable. men do not notice undatable moven women do not notice undatabale men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:37 PM
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If she is not all over you, then yes, she is just bored and she wants attention
/r/seduction03/10/24 11:13 PM
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She knows it because you arent special. She did it to dozens of men before. If you were different she would be crawling all over you like a kitten
/r/seduction03/10/24 09:18 PM
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A) you dont have a reputation so dont worry about it B) you will probably become sloppy so one of 8-9s you approach tells her jock boyfriend about your indiscretion and you will end needing a very expensive dental surgery
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:19 PM
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Some people may tell unattractive short guys that they need to become funny, or make a lot money to get women. ... All you are doing is an advanced version of prostitution, sure you may find a girl but if the girl does not find you physically attractive nothing is gonna happen. So. How broke are you in addition to being short and dark skinned? Because I honestly heard a lot about the average height indian guys with 6 packs and $250k/year software engineering jobs who are miserable ( heard in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:47 PM
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Because you would text her without her needing to get her butt to see you.
/r/seduction03/10/24 02:13 PM
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Yes. Regardless of why, you must have an unshakable belief that you are the prize and you have options. Without that believe you would not be able to telegraph it to her. We can divide men roughly into four groups: men who we collectively refer to as losers who know they are loser and who behave like they are losers - they do not get laid. Think black pilled Homer Simpsons who live in a basement, piss in a bucket, spend their days playing video games and barely surviving. men who we collectively…
/r/seduction03/10/24 02:09 PM
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OLD vs random street/cafe/library/subway/bar encounter has or should have absolutely no impact on how you should attempt to get to know someone - that's just how you get them to meet you for the date. From that point on I suggest leaning into whatever your actual style/personality is. Have you read "The Three Musketeers?" All four main male characters have their unique styles of "loving"/"dating"/"getting to know" their dates. All of them work just fine *for them*. Now imagine if Atos used Arami…
/r/seduction02/10/24 09:59 PM
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Do not do slow game online. I repeat. Do not do slow game online. Imagine you are in line at Starbucks talking to a girl. She is responding and she might be interested. But you are in a Starbucks line so there is a catch - as soon as she gets her coffee she is out of there and you do not know how fast the line is going. What would you do? A) would you quickly ask her out? Or B) would you meander? That Starbucks line is onlne dating. Text conversion game is stupid. The more you talk, the more cle…
/r/seduction02/10/24 09:30 PM
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Because you would provide her the attention. Write this on a postit note and tape it to the fridge: * texting/IGing/Snaping/Facetiming = attention * her doing things to see you = investment Women want attention. Men want investment. "Good times" is attention for investment and investment for attention.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:59 PM
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Ignore the demands.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:54 PM
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You get ThisOne-Itis. You know what to do.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:53 PM
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They were not interested to begin with. They just wanted attention
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:52 PM
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You should move the fuck on. This is an actual constraint which dumb game ninjas employing spray and pray approach also do not understand. That's why you should hit *only* on the women you actually want to go out with unless you are outside your native geography. Women *do not like it when they know fifteen other girls you hit on who either told you "no" immediately or after going out with you*. So if you want to date Jenny The Hottie from school you should not hit on Suzi The Whale because you …
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:03 PM
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No, it says you should act like you have options because in your mind you are absolutely convinced you have options. The problem is that it is very difficult for men who know they don't have a pot to piss in or a shit to do that actually occupies their time without raising their dopamine to convince themselves of that as the empty mind, horny mind, and a dopamine fried mind is a bored and wandering mind... and "oh, but if this specific girl likes me i get to finally have sex and boy i want sex w…
/r/seduction02/10/24 07:57 PM
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Bio on tinder moves a needle at +/- 1. "I'm swiping yes on you" min level is 90. You know what is other 99 points (with 1 being bio)? Photos that show you *look good*. Don't waste your time at bio when your photos sucks or when you look like a Homer Simpson/Drunk Homer Simpson/High Homer Simpson
/r/seduction02/10/24 07:51 PM
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The most important is * relative social status which is location, culture, social capital and social skills dependent The other thing is that the height is *always* location dependent. In the US 5'6 is short. In Mexico it is not. So in the US the unsuccessful man maybe coming with the perception that a woman would reject him because of his height therefore starting from a hole while the one who is successful simply starts at 0. etc etc etc. All of those things add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:46 PM
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Imagine you are in line at Starbucks talking to a girl. She is responding and she might be interested. But here is a catch - as soon as she gets coffee she is out of there. What would you do? A) would you quickly ask her out? Or B) would you meander? That starbucks line is onlne dating. Text conversion game is stupid. The more you talk, the more clever you attempt to be the less her interest is going to be because every single chucklehead (see the dumb advice from "experts" proudly displaying ca…
/r/seduction01/10/24 09:31 PM
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Have you ever gone to an interview when you needed a job? Now in your case you have not but hear me out - when you have the last $20 in a bank and the rent is due and you dont have a job or you just have been fired from a job then at that interview you will do everything possible to convince them to hire you. You are going to dazzle them with your logic and persuasive skills. Now. If you have a sweet, sweet gig already and a few more lined up you just might do another interview for shits and gig…
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:22 PM
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Why the fuck would i want your channel? To try squeezing money out of the clueless broke guys you try convince to buy you courses? They are broke but hey if people want to look at the lolz, here is from the JustTree https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLsa7MnF1kXFyud7OIuv_l9OSiDXLRSyk- Now, she is a total wack job but this is a comedy gold
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:07 PM
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Literally everything. When someone as dumb as JustTree can drop receipts on you over and over and over again and again it is time to give up pretending you have any success
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:00 PM
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I loled at the cope.
/r/seduction30/09/24 08:16 PM
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Dude just say "i am broke and i know i will continue to be broke" Here is the thing - being able to get that $$$ means you have the needed social skills to quickly and accurately assess people, something game ninjas do not have as the skill (because it is a transferable skill and if they had it they would be doing at least high ticket sales) . P.s. i can also assure you that the life of game ninjas would become worse and worse as they get older as the costs will be increasing and the opportunity…
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:36 PM
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Nonsense. Being rich makes game skills irrelevant. Of course being rich in this case means ability to drop 10k/week in frivolous expenses and not feel a pinch which none of the game ninjas or PUA coaches can do.
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:52 PM
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If you think "American women are way more toxic" then you clearly have not tried dating in those countries. American women are sweet, sweet things compared to what you would get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:50 PM
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That's a long way to write "I have never been to Eastern Europe, Middle East, China, Japan or Korea".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:58 PM
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This is so fucking stupid: 6' average look is not in a good shape. Get that through your head. 6' in a good shape at 35 will look as good as a 25 year old in a good shape and since he has more resources and more experience as a package he would look better than a 25 year old. So if you are not cleaning up there you: Dont look good Dont have good photos showing how good you look If you arent cleaning up in a major market you as a man simply do not look good. Get that through your thick skull. Mos…
/r/seduction30/09/24 04:35 PM
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Nonsense. It is about both physical attraction and him paying for their entertainment. If there is no physical attraction she is simply going to be fleecing the Homer Simpson until he can no longer get himself onion rings
/r/seduction30/09/24 04:31 PM
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Ah yes, the clown who got busted paying women to pretend he and people following his "methods" succeeded. Funny shit is... his indian friend (or is it an indian roommate?) clearly did not even know the Russian chick in the video - she had such a "what is this creepazoid doing trying to cuddle me" body language as she was telling how madly attracted to him she was. And she was a middle aged 4
/r/seduction30/09/24 04:30 PM
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Let me guess, you are trying to figure out how Homer Simpson with $$$ get hotties? Easy - it is transactional - Homer Simpson compensates for her throwing up in her mouth whenever she sees him with $$$ he is spending on her. As he looks worse and worse much faster than his $$$ grows, eventually she drains his $$$ and moves on. Homet Simpson is bot a target for anyone. The other side of the pool are dudes in the thirties fifties that look like what you call Chads, except in addition to a V-taper,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:33 PM
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No
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:00 AM
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"Tell her to strip"
/r/seduction28/09/24 09:59 PM
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I am finally going to make a post about this in the next few days but foundationally it is about setting your life to a place where you like living it. Remember, it is not possible to be competent when you bed is a mattress sitting on a floor and you have to piss in a bucket because your toilet is leaking and you dont have either skills or money to fix it
/r/seduction28/09/24 01:28 PM
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Ah yes, another man who cant afford a 1987 4th owner buick says "I reject 2024 Porsche 911"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:10 AM
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No, honey. I get laid with size 0s. You know, the kind you masturbate to
/r/seduction27/09/24 06:32 PM
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This is very good. The only thing that i will add to this is: Confidence and "frame" comes from competency. If you arent a competent man you are faking it and women are very good at identifying and absolutely destroying the fakers
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:56 PM
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Yet i get laid... What does i make you if you cant?
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:48 PM
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If i am in a bad mood i absolutely would not approach. Thats starting from digging a hole.
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:40 PM
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My life is awesome so it really Is her loss. No, i am not telling myself that, it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:25 PM
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Exceptions are irrelevant - there are people who win playing lottery. It is still a dumb idea. You want to optimize for the possibility of success when you approach someone? Dont be miserable
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:23 PM
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Yes, i do. Do you understand that the reason you keep attracting miserable people is because you are miserable person and misery loves company?
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:19 PM
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"Dear Penthouse Letters, my name is Stewie and I have a dream"
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:03 PM
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So, here is my question, what hope have guys that aren't confortable with hooking up? So the actual unicorns i.e. men who would say "absolutely not, i don't do hookups" if someone who looks like WIllow Hand or Vlada Roslyakova asked them to bang her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:54 PM
1

Nonsense. Misery attracts miserable company.
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:51 PM
2

Yeah, this sub is rather sad - men cling to the idea that there's just some magic script they can use to get that magic woman to bestow on them her "like" and suddenly their life would improve.
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:50 PM
1

It is another negative. Why the fuck would you want to add to the pile of negatives you already have?
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:47 PM
1

It is adorable when incels rage - akin to Chihuahas angrily barking while wearing a diaper it shat in.
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:44 PM
1

Now in English?
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:19 PM
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Yes, you know whom women absolutely love? Miserable dudes! Every time a girl wakes up she looks at herself in a mirror and goes "I am too happy with life. I wish some miserable fuck would hit on me so i can be sad. Yeah, that's what I want"
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:04 PM
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Why on earth do you think you having a mental illness should be something other people need to work around?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:00 PM
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Yes, the top few percent of men have the money and yes those men command women's attention. Most men are broke. Thats why they.do not qualify. Yes, because Chris Brown has "fuck you" money. You have "can i get bigly fries" money. When you have "fuck you" money you would have women throw their panties at you. Wait. Never mind. You will never have "fuck you" money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:57 PM
2

Sssh. You are going to make their heads explode
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:35 PM
1

Not always. You have a short time window for that. It is even shorter if you do not maintain a banging body and a banging face and even with that menopause is going to be a bitch and post menopause you are pretty much fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:33 PM
3

The reason for marriage throughout the history was economics of survival. Romantic marriage shows up after the industrial revolution among the middle class intelligensia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:42 PM
1

Cool. What do you miserable "womenz are bad" Homer Simpsons provide? Nothing. Thats why they are left in the dust
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:39 PM
1

Honey, married men make more money because they are older, not because they are married. The older one is the more money he makes and he is still broke because gasp his expenditures increases. This is the actual problem with red pill followers - they are too stupid to play their positions forward. Guess who gets married/pairs off? Men who have their shit together. Guess what having the shit together entails? Discipline of showing up and doing the work day in and day out. Those men apply this dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:37 PM
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But you are broke. Isnt that the red pill talking point? You know, that sub 50k/year income which after all the taxes comes to 3.5k/mo, your rent in your shitty apartment + utilities is $2000, car and insurance is $800. That leaves $700 for everything per month including food. Thats slightly more than $20/day. You think someone is going to saddle themselves with you for $20/day and think they are in it for "da money"?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:12 PM
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Hold on. One of the biggest talking points of red pillers is that women have unrealistic expectations of resources that a non top 5 percenter has as the average man is broke. How is it an "easy sucker" if he barely has enough money to buy onion rings?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:03 PM
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As easy as it gets: when he got into that relationship he also could hookup. But he decided that hooking up was too much work and if he relationships Suzi he would get access to pussy easier. Hence instead of hooking up with Suzi, Jenny and Katie and all other women, all of which required time, resources and money, he just settled on Suzi. In 5 years he became a Homer Simpson and if he is to break up today or try to either hookup or relationship anyone else they would just laugh at him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:01 PM
1

It is generic. The problem is that you, game ninjas, look like a generic Homer Simpson sucking on an onion ring.
/r/seduction27/09/24 12:26 AM
0

If it walks like a duck, if it quacks like a duck, if it looks like a duck and if its DNA is the one of a duck, it is a duck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:35 PM
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Have you tried fucking other red pilled guys? It seems you are all very much aligned. Good job at working on losing that Homer Simpson fat dude weight. Should you succeed at that and put on some muscles you will realize women arent that out of reach
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:35 PM
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It's a red pill/black pill cope of men who think they are rejecting the "boyfriend" status because they aren't hot enough for "a hookup" status without realizing they never qualified for the "boyfriend" type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:02 PM
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Nah, is is very well known he was not any good which is why he "departed". That's also why they were running a bucket shop at FTX - our friend did not actually know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:18 PM
0

And? He was not any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:12 PM
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So you're saying he was still able to pay for a very extravagant lifestyle. No, he was not. Read the filings. That's why he could not get anyone else. It's not easy to find a woman down for both polyamorous orgies and massive cryptocurrency fraud. He found one. Reverse. It is super easy, especially if he is approaching a cave troll. To the cave troll his lifestyle looked amazing. To a 7 in NYC it looked pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:12 PM
1

You engaged in a normal social interaction and *surprise* non-braindead women responded in a non-braindead/non-angry cat lady way. Congratulations! You have figured out how to socially approach women. Now do this a few hundred more times so it is completely effortless to you as right now you still need to psych yourself into being calm, collected and not thinking about pussy. With time you would start getting a feel for their responses - some of them may respond out of pure politeness/shock whil…
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:10 PM
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A lot of guys have those fantasies.
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:02 PM
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He was not a billionaire. He was a geek in shorts he did not wash for weeks with body odor similar to the one from NYC homeless playing with monopoly money. He got himself a geeky and basically unfuckable by the standards of men with money girlfriend who also played with his monopoly money. If you look at their expenses from the bankruptcy trustee filings you will see that they did not actually have the money as they were spending money the way poor people spend a little bit of extra cash they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:18 PM
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The level of bullshit here is mind boggling. Literally none of this matters. The only things that matter: Look *good* and have *good photos* that show you look good. This is your USP. It is what makes you a shark in a pond of barely alive tilapia. Most men are tilapia. Only swipe in the "will have a date today" radius - this means no over your commute to work distance Match either the same day you want to go out or the day before - if she is not "yes" she is a "no" 5-6 messages max. With every m…
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:46 PM
2

100 percent agreed. Whenever I see a woman online posting how men should not approach women I know it is coming from someone whose visuals as a perfect male repellant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:12 PM
1

Those men should not worry about gold diggers as they dont have any gold
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:43 PM
1

Not men. Broke men. And lots of men are broke. So they are coping
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:42 PM
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Yes, someone whose life can be described as that will be an asshole when he interacts with others. His life will be shit as the result of him being the asshole, not because the society does not accept his video games playing, reddit posting, masturbating self.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:57 PM
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Maybe I could save all that infinite effort trying to mask and appear normal. That's the point - our friends here don't do that. Instead they play minecraft, masturbate and whine on reddit. Notice that unlike you, who goes out of your way to overcome your barriers to make it possible for you to function, they wan the world to accept them as they are without them doing anything. You: autistic. Them: assholes. You aren't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:32 PM
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No. People, mostly men, are assholes unless they are socialized as children. When autism became a sexy diagnosis, the parents stopped correcting their asshole children. What you are seeing today is the result of parents treating Johny as a special autistic child, instead of correcting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:25 PM
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Nah. I described the asshole who says he is an autistic loner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:11 PM
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I’m not good at conversation Start talking to people.
/r/seduction24/09/24 01:52 PM
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You still shouldn't be a dick, but nobody will judge you for spending the last 3 days playing Minecraft in your mom's basement because they don't have to know. ... There's one great advantage to these environments for the autistic loner - nobody knows you. In most cases he is not an autistic loner. At best he just lacks social skills because he spends way too much time play video games, posting on reddit and masturbating; more often he is an asshole who has been an asshole for a long time, got s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:45 PM
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So she is obese? I would lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:25 AM
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two and more than three times the usual message from girls that dont want anything with you but want to reject you softly, the “You are a nice guy but Im not looking for anything at the moment”. I have bolded your problem. Read the book called "Models" for comprehension. Live it.
/r/seduction23/09/24 07:01 PM
2

At 5'5 you would need to unobesing yourself and unjanitor yourself.
/r/seduction23/09/24 05:44 PM
3

Three groups: Younger "prize bride" gets married into super wealthy family with lots of connections. This is what every red piller chucklehead thinks is going to happen to him over there. It won't as he is neither wealthy nor does he have connections. Totally busted women get married to totally busted local men. You would not be able to even ballpark about how old those people are because of how battered by life they are. This is the urban lower class/rural folks - this is the absolute majority.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:18 PM
0

There's no such thing. They simply do not want to be in a relationship with those specific women. At the end of the day: * women trade sex for relationship. * men trade relationship for sex.
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:50 PM
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The most important one is optionality. Regardless of what kind of a woman one wants to date be she super conservative "no sex before marriage and my father must approve me going on a date with you" all the way to "i'm a boss babe and i don't need no man except for his 6-6-6-6 to nail me on my schedule", one can find her within a standard commuting distance in the West. In the Middle East you are going to be dealing the women suffering from the battered woman syndrome no matter what location or w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:47 PM
1

A dude in a 3rd world country is there to harvest $$$ from simps using chinese girls avatar
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:03 AM
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You wont. You are in a nice guy friend zone. When you try to attract her you will be moved into "i used to be friends with him but he became creepy" zone
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:01 AM
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You want to dance for them like a little dancing monkey? Go talk to them on their terms.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:00 AM
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It does not ooze confidence because you do not have the confidence. To be successful you need to piss confidence because women for millennias have been very much bred to identify and dismiss frauds. You and i can say the exact same things while wearing the exact same.clothes in the exact same situation and we will have very different results. The reason for that is that i am confident in what i say as i am competent in virtually all things that can reasonably come up i am absolutely convinced i …
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:50 PM
2

See? It was not that hard to admit that women are the ones who are selecting those men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:44 PM
2

No third option? Safe, attractive, family oriented calm guy does not exist in your worldview lmao. You try so hard to make 5'7 porn addicts sound appealing. As a third set he does not exist. He is a subset of a Cubicle Carl i.e. a Cubical Carl without a few of his negative traits. And he gets zero chances on demonstrating it because in the eyes of women he is grouped with Cubicle Carls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:04 PM
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My point is the cubicle guy could be a serial Killer and the roles you laid out absolutely flipped but ok lmao This point is as valid as John Edward's scream "But Meals on Wheels!" in debate with Dick Cheney. Serial killers (total, ever since we started tracking) per country: https://ceoworld.biz/2024/07/22/revealed-countries-with-the-most-serial-killers-2024-report/ Cubicle Cark is as harmless as a castrated Chihuahua. He is just uninteresting and unexciting hence women have zero interest in hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:01 PM
2

Your premise was that women be meeting the dangerous men due to someone else's fault. I'm demonstrating that it is absolutely by women's choice - because a woman whom I'm going to assign the reaction you just had dislike the idea of dating Cubicle Carl who is as dangerous as a castrated Chihuhaha as because he is a castrated Chihuahaha does not make that woman wet -- woman would rather be dating a dangerous man. Well, if women optimize for inviting dangerous men into their life they are optimizi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:55 PM
0

you just went from dangerous to weird. the two are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:50 PM
0

Cubicle Carl is a castrated Chihuahua. He is as harmless as it gets. Alas, he also needs a diaper and women arent interested in that package
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:31 PM
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Women engage with exciting men. If they optimized for the Cubicle Carl who makes $45k/year, weights 135lbs at 5'7, has a job in low management, and whose hobbies are playing video games and jacking off to IG girls because he is too afraid someone would know he watches porn they would significantly decrease a percentage of "dangerous" men who has a capacity to harm them they invite into their life The reality is if you want to ride on a back of a superbike you might end up splashing on a road. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:26 PM
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In that case shut up and embrace the life in the 13th century country where you at most will be one step above from the slaves.
/r/seduction22/09/24 05:30 PM
0

Move.
/r/seduction22/09/24 05:17 PM
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Lived in both places. West is a million times better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:05 PM
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No, thats not the issue The issue is that you are asking for the advice from the wrong women. The only thing you should pay attention to is the revealed (not stated) preferences from women you want to date or "information" from men who date women you want to date For example: Why would you want to follow the advice of a Trigglypuff unless you want to date a Trigglypuff? Do you want to date a SSBBW Boss Queen? No? Why do you listen to their advice? A Cat lady busily typing on reddit? Purple Haire…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:52 PM
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This means she thinks it was a fantastic date. Dont snatch the defeat from the jaws of victory - dont try to change to get her back for 3rd date. Whatever you did before is what makes her wet
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:36 PM
4

Stop relying on friends for safety. Are you going to rely on them to help you by inserting their penis into her mouth too?
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:26 PM
3

Exposure therapy
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:25 PM
3

She stayed over after a non good date? Dude, women do not stay over in guys place if the date was not good unless of course you had a total platonic stay over.
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:24 PM
1

No. It is a stupid idea. You want to know the layout, know whats what etc. You won't in a new spot and thus it will increase the probability of you looking like a chucklehead
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:23 PM
9

Numbers/IG/etc are all throw aways. If you did not have a good banter that you can reference that she remembers and gets wet from you are cooked.
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:21 PM
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"Of course the internet did not discover anything the 19th century german incels did not know"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:16 PM
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You will get a kick out of this - https://youtu.be/2VVbFnMr7b8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:06 PM
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You are fixating on the wrong thing Simple: "I just want to bang" = negative Other negative features = negative Everything else you have/about you = positive When: Negatives < positives = she will bang you Negatives > positives = she wont Your problem is that your positives do not compensate for the negatives. Fix that. Trying to "game" them into your bed is a high effort , low success work.
/r/seduction22/09/24 12:22 PM
3

Hey, you cannot possibly not find Homer Simpson saaaaaxy! If you do not, you will miss out on an engagement ring made out of an onion ring! Seriously though, i fully support your position
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:38 AM
1

No. Your "hey, whats up" is an equivalent of a ball. Your complicated openner is a complex play
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:42 PM
3

You toss them a ball. If they do not play the ball back, they aren't interested. You running a play when they are not interested will have the exact same result as you saying "Hey. What's up"
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:36 PM
1

"hey. what's up"
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:30 PM
3

Don't let a woman dictate what you do.
/r/seduction21/09/24 04:26 PM
4

Because it’s crass. Nonsense. It is because most men do not have the balls to tell women what they want as when they look at themselves in a mirror and ask themselves a question: "Who would want to fuck me?" the only answer they come up with is "Not her, but maybe i can wear her down with being a nice boy" The same woman who told him "I don't talk about sex" sheepishly said "I want to get banged" to a guy she thought was datable and fuckable when he spun her around at the light on a way to a cof…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:20 PM
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That's a fantastic statement.... except are you sure that older man is interested in dating you? After all, you are a flight attendant for a non-major airline with a chip on your shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:14 PM
6

1 is dumb. Men should approach women they are interested in. That advice comes from Trigglypuffs no one approaches anyway. 2 is a fantastic advice. Befriending women to eventually dating them is dumb. Being a pussy vulture rarely pays off. 3 is a fantastic advice. Go to salsa dance classes to learn how to dance, not to approach women. Your desperation will telegraph and desperation is a datable woman repellent. 4 is just like 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:09 PM
1

Nah, women are simply ensuring losers are purged from the gene pool. We are returning to the historic norm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:04 PM
0

Shocking News at 11: scientists discovered doing nothing results in... Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:37 PM
0

So, how fat are you, how broke are you and how lazy are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:19 PM
-3

If your actions dont matter in the real world, it is because you spend most of your time not peforming any actions. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for that - i love when my competition is fat, lazy, video games obsessed dweebs in size XXL vendor t-shirts they have not washed in a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:56 PM
1

You should try writing it on a single sheet of paper, double spaced and give it to the women when you meet them. I am sure they are going to be very understanding.
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:20 PM
0

I would concentrate on fixing those things rather than trying to bang... strags. Because lets face it, non strags would be walking away
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:16 AM
7

Thats a cope of triangulation and low optionality. You should address those. Women despise wishy washy men as their romantic partners
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:01 AM
1

Thats the part where you dont get out much. Yes, hon, they are how shall i put it delicately for your not very worldly ass .. available
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:10 AM
1

The part where you do not understand that all girls who are provided to your ass are also provided to every other chucklehead who can barely afford an STD test.
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:25 PM
24

Stop texting. Texting makes you boring. By not having a boring ass life. Because if you have a boring ass life there are no experiences that you can talk about. You have no actual stories to tell. And no, you cannot make them up, because unless you know what it actually feels like to do some of those things, be that crashing a motorcycle or waking up from being black out drunk and trying to understand what the fuck are you doing in a fountain on Benjamin Franklin Parkway in Philly, you won't hav…
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:54 PM
11

You are begging. Women do not like beggars. You said you lost 70lbs. Out of how many that you "needed" to lose? Because sorry to tell you, but if you needed to lose 90 and you lost 70 you are still overweight and, contrary to the bullshit you read here, it is *very visible*. So if you want to have a chance, you need to own that you are a an overweight fuck which means that (1) is definitely an extra no no. Doing the same thing and expecting a different result is insanity. You need to do 5-10 app…
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:50 PM
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There's zero chance that she approached him. So he approached her. When he approached her he approached as a generic average nice guy with a generic average look and genetic average approach - look at what he wrote. Hence : * generic approach by a generically looking nice guy wanting to spend generic time with her Vs: * a same generic looking nice guy rolls up to a her and goes "You look fine. I want to go out with you. Meet me <here> at <this time>" In the second case there's zero chance she wi…
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:56 PM
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Because you do not make your sexual/romantic intention known. Read the book "Models"
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:13 PM
-1

Nope, she absolutely will. In fact she will respond 99/100. Why? Because it matches the context. Mr. Gigachad can open with "Hey" and it will get a response.
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:11 PM
6

Context is always the key.
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:09 PM
1

Also what is the logic of telling a cute girl that she is cute? It is like telling a brunette girl "you are a brunette"... or if she is wearing a "red t-shirt", you tell her "your t-shirt is red"... do you see the logic? It makes no sense. Because that's how people who aren't autistic internet dweebs start interaction. here's another thing that works vs does not work: Works: "Awesome shirt" << keeps going >> Her : <<this dumbass is going to try to hit on me.. wait. what? he keeps walking? Da fuc…
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:38 PM
0

You really dont get out much, do you?
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:15 PM
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“travel, lift heavy weights, open doors for old ladies, and various kinky activities… Just missing a little Jessica in my life.” And this, kids, is how you know our friend here does not get any action.
/r/seduction20/09/24 01:59 PM
1

You are building a rolodex of HSV-2 and HIV carriers. To each is his own of course but it is weird
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:50 PM
4

This is a very good point. Context does create the play
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:49 PM
0

If op was happy with his situation he would not be posting here with this as a topic.
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:53 PM
7

Am I banging her? If no, I do not give a fuck. So I am banging her. Ok, if I'm banging her, I'm dating her. She clearly likes it as if she did not she would not be here. So this is actually a setup for this question. If this does not bother me, i do not give a fuck. I will probably even look at it as her being cute. If it slightly bothers me, i will raise my eyebrow. If it starts actually bothering me, i will tell her to cut it out and not do it again. If it crosses the line, her pert little ass…
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:53 PM
1

Move on.
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:43 PM
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Yes, it is sort of weird that you do not have any social interaction with women in your school using the thing called a phone and the apps all of you kids have. Here's a suggestion. Get roll up on girls in your class you think are cute and get their IGs. Like after you make some sort snarky comment ( which I'm sure you do ) to a girl you think is cute roll up to her after and ask her for her IG : "Suz, give me your IG, i wanna follow" Don't listen to chuckleheads here - all of you are horny as f…
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:17 PM
0

You just need to be extremely dedicated and extremely determined. Don’t get plastic surgery. Or do - but you should be the jacked doctor doing the surgery… That would definitely help if you wanted to land a supermodel. If you are just trying to get your dick wet, getting off the "woe is me" train would probably suffice for Suzi. Unless every word and gesture are flawless you are cooked. Or, you can accept the role of nurse and caregiver for someone twice your size. Good luck. I have seen it done…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:10 PM
0

Cope less, fantasize less. Do more. No, plastic surgery wont fix your issues. I have told your bother in coping how to make himself datable in a sibling comment. He promptly deleted his whining. The solution to your problem is the same as the solution to his problem. It is the solution for 99.9% of men who are coping. Unless, as you said, they are in a wheelchair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:05 PM
-2

You are not in a wheel chair. You are sitting on your ass masturbating and calling yourself 'a short autistic guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:51 PM
0

In the words of Bill Parcells "You are what your record says you are". You aren't fit. That means you are fat. You are jobless. You have not built an exciting and interesting life for yourself. Women do not fuck men like that. That's why you are not successful at getting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:19 PM
-1

I’m in the applying phase for getting a job. And sending out applications every day. Sent out 5 yesterday. Nobody gives a fuck about you applying. Only results counts. You sound really unempathetic You are coping. Women do not date men who cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:14 PM
-1

See? not only you fail at (2) and (3) - it is in your posts about being jobless - but you also do not understand what being "fit" and being "attractive" means. So you fail at all thee things that i have pointed out. Just like every other dude whining about women not wanting to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:11 PM
-2

That's the typical delusion of men who do not understand what being fit and "should model" looks like. Here, so you can understand why it is not working for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY Also you should start by... *getting a job* - see point (2) and point (3) on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:07 PM
-2

Imagine just how pathetic you have to be that sex automatons reject you. P.s. Women are fucking awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:21 PM
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No, he was on different dates with different women. The actual commonality is him. In your life the commonality is you. The reason why your life sucks donkey balls is your decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:50 PM
-2

Because the evil raccoon did not show up on your dates with you. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:40 PM
-4

Nonsense. You die as the result of all your decisions. For men who can't get laid it is because: They are fat They are lazy They don't get themselves a good life for themselves. You see it all over this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:36 PM
1

Game ninjas average 3 percent based on their reports. Game ninjas who pay for sex and bang mtf because "they are better women than women" do as good as 10 percent. So he is doing better than most
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:29 PM
-4

Hi! Captain Obvious is here: the single commonality between all the things you tried and failed with all those women is.... Wait for it.. wait for it.. You Thats right. You are that commonality. That means it is your fault. Now, if there was say a raccoon that showed up on all your dates and joined you then the commonality would have been you and a raccoon so we could blame both of you. Alas, there was no raccoon. Hence it is 100 percent on you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:27 PM
2

Oh you should. It is comedy
/r/seduction19/09/24 01:21 AM
30

Women do all of that if they are bored and don't have better options immediately next to them
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:57 PM
2

Price hack tip: be in shape and the cheapest clothes will look better on you than the expensive shit Teletubbies put on
/r/seduction18/09/24 12:08 PM
1

It would be good for you to listen to people who do get laid rather than to people who do not even though you want to believe in shit people who do not get laid tell you, grasshopper
/r/seduction18/09/24 12:05 PM
0

You should hit on women you want to date/sleep with and bit hit on women you do not
/r/seduction17/09/24 10:53 PM
-3

So much pointless shit The biggest mistake you are making in texting is that you are texting.. You texting women is you giving attention. Women's currency is attention. Men's currency is investment i.e. her investing her time in you. you are giving her attention. She is giving you nothing. Congratulations. Hope the texting advice works as she becomes more and more disinterested
/r/seduction17/09/24 10:20 PM
-1

That's the point - women who say that it is anything other than physical features that is important actually say it *after they account for unacceptable physical features*. We have statistical data from dating apps that women ( as a collective ) find the majority of men unattractive. No amount of "personality" is and "demeanor" going to change it as women do not negotiate attraction. And I'm not saying this to say "women bad!" what so ever - shit, the vast majority of men now are in such a terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:06 PM
0

How many 285lb men have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:50 PM
3

So fix those! It is much easier than actually getting in shape ( which is the actual cock blocker for most men ) Get a couple of buddies that you have who also are on dating apps and take photos of each other when you go out. Make sure when you frame photos the subject -- this means you -- occupies 80-90 percent of the frame. Do not do face to camera - even supermodels look shitty doing that. Go for the angles. Take a bunch. As in a few hundred. Cell phone photos will do just fine. Just ruthless…
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:32 PM
5

In that case you have shitty photos or your photos neither project the "interesting life" nor project that you at least arent gym bro. Women on dating apps are absolutely gagging for men who look like triathletes and likes.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:24 PM
8

No, they do not care for BODYBUILDER look which is being peddled as the "good body" by cretins like Mike Israetel. Shit, dudes' entire shtick is to cope. Bodybuilder = magnet for gay men and closeted gay men. Lean with muscles (footballer/climber/skier) = magnet for women
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:18 PM
11

Everything you just mentioned I have. I’m a competitive bodybuilder, my physique is better then most. Better than yours actually. As Bill Parcells says "You are what your record says you are" and you aren't getting the swipes. P.S. Women do not give a fuck about body builders - that's what gay men really admire. P.P.S. If you, as most bodybuilders, do not understand the difference between body builder physique and a physique of someone who can bang out those pullups and those pushups while being…
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:11 PM
21

Honestly I do not understand why it is so bloody difficult for the dumb-ass men to understand -- you cannot change women. It does not matter that you think they should swipe on you because you are attractive and you do what you think is attractive. They will swipe "yes" on those they think are attractive: if you want to get action on dating apps you must: look good. No, not in words of your mother. No, not in words of someone who themselves is pining for a cave troll. Actually look good. This me…
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:08 PM
1

This would be more productive if you described yourself/posted a photo. There's a massive difference between what a slobbish dude can achieve vs a quadriplegic
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:07 PM
2

Your legs were made for walking... away.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:04 PM
1

If you cannot dominate not making excuses for the shit in your childhood being the reason, a childhood you already went through, appearing dominant is not going to help you.
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:05 PM
1

It means you have too much time. If you did not, by the time it was 8pm would be too tired to give a flying fuck about being validated
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:01 PM
1

Have something to do. If you are busy doing actual fun stuff, you won't have time to look for validation.
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:47 PM
5

Tinder Bars of swanky restaurants Lounges Running clubs
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:45 PM
3

This is silly. Most men do not approach. Most men women want do not approach women who want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:54 PM
0

Do you think Karens do well at work at 50? How about 60? How about 70? How about 80? How about 90?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:56 PM
0

IFS is a very much right wing religions group.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:08 PM
3

If I recall correctly there were studies showing that single women without children were among the happiest demographic contrasted to single men who were mostly unhappy. Alas, your recollection is wrong. Single women without children last the peri-menopause are the most unhappy. It is expected though, unless one is a total dolt who believes the Boss Queenz ( the same boss queens that do not have any $$$ saved for their retirement ) and do not understand that since women live longer, they need mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:07 PM
2

W can discount your view because A) you do not have 10k likes -- if you did you would have had basic ability to look at commonality among the profiles B) do not understand women who are married and are living with the partner does not at all prevent her from cheating C) do not understand that no one who is remotely non austistic/cat lady/homer simpson counts a perimenopausal cat lady who is spouting her views on relationships on reddit in the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:53 AM
1

They are chada to them. Tinder, Hinge and Bumble swipe data of both men and women has been publicized and analyzed to oblivion by now. "The swiping habits of 'there are no good men' queens" would make a fascinating documentary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:56 AM
1

Are We Dating The Same Guy is "i am banging a Chad. Are you banging my Chad, bitch?" Oh and you must be unfamiliar with reality if you think a guy with over 3k likes on Tinder does not know how it actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:26 AM
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Is not true Is true. Women cant stop themselves from telling on themselves on TikTok, youtube, IG and on AreWeDatingTheSameGuy groups Is not true but it is true for those who do not understand that if he is not taking her out on dates with him she is just a hole Is sort of true based on how one defines those words Signed, a man with over 3k Tinder likes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:00 AM
77

Be hot
/r/seduction15/09/24 11:54 PM
1

Stop pretending to be an autist
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:00 PM
1

Because the vast majority of men date/marry incompatible women. When they realIze it they move those women from "a woman i date" category to "a wet hole" category as they (men) barely if ever have a chance to stick their dick into anyone so fpr them any semi wet hole is better than no hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:04 PM
-2

Nonsense
/r/seduction15/09/24 03:34 PM
1

As Bill Parcells said "You are what your record says you are"
/r/seduction15/09/24 03:33 PM
1

He is a scammer and a grifter but more palatable to advertisers than the likes of Fresh and Fit . He used to be a night club promoter/hustler, took his shtick to the youtube, did sufficiently HPV videos when people did shit and started platforming scammers and peddling MLMs/affiliate marketing via his podcasts. Now he is just selling his audience for $$$. His competitors are the guy from Impact Theory (who actually got busted by the gov - ok, ok, one of those entities of his), PBD (total scammer…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:25 PM
0

You arent hot enough to overcome the liabilities of casual
/r/seduction15/09/24 02:12 PM
2

This is the actual answer
/r/seduction15/09/24 02:03 PM
1

It is just a cope of red pillers/black pillers who are convinced it is them not being gigachads that prevents them from getting relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:33 PM
-1

Cry, scream into the void about "womenz" and watch another episode of "Fresh and Fit" trying to dick wave at literal skeezers to make yourself feel better about the shitty choices you make every day which make reasonable and stunning women shun you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:36 PM
1

Let me guess, you got wet and realized you dont qualify?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:36 AM
3

I mean, i am currently making dinner of double boned ribeyes with a 22 year old phd candidate who looks like a petite Kendall sitting naked on my kitchen counter so i am sure to you my life is a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:18 AM
-3

No, honey. I date women i fuck. You masturbate dreaming of the ones like them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:14 AM
-4

It is always funny (in a sad way) to read the cope from men who cling to red pill because they refuse to look in a mirror and realize it is not women but them who are the source of their loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:46 PM
8

He was ( and he said he was) a gang banger at the time. Who hung out with the other gang banger who were "rappers".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:28 PM
9

Ask yourself what kind of women hang out with "actors and rappers". I will tell you, it isn't Sally the good girl studying to be a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:25 PM
24

Fresh and Fit bring on hookers, escorts and Onlyfans girls. Both of those knuckleheads also "date" escorts, hookers and onlyfans girls. You can presume that they are selecting for their own demographic and their anecdotal experiences are therefore the anecdotal experiences of that demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:16 PM
1

Couple counselor does not understand women..he/she understands how to get paid
/r/seduction13/09/24 06:22 PM
2

All dating coaches selling courses or boot clamps are scammers. Every single one of them. At best there are a couple who are going to give you strategies that will work if the only thing that cock blocks you is you being utterly unaware of how women interact with men. One of them posts here quite a bit and, while i do not personally agree with him on all his points, he clearly has a clue and clearly "gets" women. But again it will only work for you if you have social skills on a jar of ketchup W…
/r/seduction13/09/24 02:00 PM
-2

No. By marrying someone at +100 income she marries up but that marrying up is irrelevant on an individual level. Do not worry, your divan is safe from gold diggere
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:28 PM
2

No, that's the bullshit red pillers keep repeating as they sit on their hand me down divan from 1990 popping cans of Beast. Women as a *group* marry up. Women individually rarely do. Jumping socio-economic classes stopped around Victorian times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:42 PM
4

Yup. This is why if you, as a man, have any reasonable $$$, you do not marry a woman who does not have a reasonable $$$ P.S. Secret bank accounts is bullshit. It takes very little effort to find those. And not listing it among the assets is playing with fire at a gas station... with open gasoline cans scattered everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:37 PM
5

keep good documentation of her husband's assets and the family finances. Learn from her divorced friends, get referrals for good attornies and schedule initial consultations to know your options. And this, kids, is why we put the rules in place about whom that stay at home wifey/husband gets to keep around as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:36 PM
3

This post really needs to start with "Dear Penthouse Letters, my name is Stewie"
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:19 PM
3

In 2024 the set of people on dating apps and the set of people who might be interested in being involved with someone in the same location are virtually the same. Hell, the largest dating app is instagram. Men who dont do well on dating apps dont do well off dating apps either. So it is not the medium thats a problem - it is that the majority of men are undatable by the women they want to date. In business it is known as the lack of product/market fit. No amount of marketing fixes it. You must m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:18 PM
1

Is that a Yugo Manifesto?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:09 PM
-1

I know. You recognize yourself and raging. Try actually watching or listening for comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:08 PM
0

I will grant you that her vocabulary and reference points tend to confuse the people using words like "toxic"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:14 AM
-1

There is a very good video about it by a very smart gal on youtube - authentic observer. I highly recommend watching it as it would nicely illustrate his confusion https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uRIAk-8PNQY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:01 PM
2

Slow reply time shows a lack of interest. Fast reply time may or may not show the interest
/r/seduction11/09/24 06:16 PM
3

In the words of Bill Parcells "You are what your record says you are". If their record is of a worthless loser then they are a worthless loser. They definitely do not have a competence in being someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:46 PM
3

Confidence is based on competency. Confidence without competency is a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:40 PM
2

If it walks like a duck, if it quacks like a duck, if it looks like a duck, it is a duck and not an elephant. The reality red pillers need to accept is that women would rather bang men who arent Homer Simpsons even if they have to share them with other women. Homer Simpsons can either Un-Homer Simpson themselves or they can keep whining how life is unfair as they caress their beer belly, shove the onion rings into their mouth while sitting on a hand me down divan from 1980s. It would also be hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:19 PM
-1

Women always shared. Thats why historically the majority women procreated and the majority of men have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:39 PM
3

Spend less time trying to explain. You are simply fatter than you think. That's it.
/r/seduction10/09/24 07:34 PM
1

Yes, they are lying No, it is not the numbers game. If it was a numbers game then repeating the same shit and getting the same result would result in improvement. It does not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:50 PM
1

They dont have a tangible success to point to. All of them were busted faking testimonials. What makes it work is reps followed by ruthless analysis and correction. Followed by more reps. Here is the thing: that kind of incremental improvement over time requires enormous discipline. That discipline spills into all other areas of life. The result of that spillage is what women are actually responding to. Thats why a successful man can use the exact same phrases in a response to the exact same sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:40 PM
2

No, why would they need to talk to other men? To solve whatever the problem is? Sure. To masturbate about their feelings? Not really. To hit on them because they are gay? Sure, they do it all the time This entire vlah blah blah men need friends is bullshit - men make friends as a part of activities they engage in. When i go climbing with folks, over time we become friends because they spot me and i spot them. Etc etc etc. Women like talking about their feelings which is why their friendships are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:24 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:20 PM
2

Women who know they dont qualify will report your profile. Within a few hours you will trip it the reporting ratio. It is exactly the same that happens to profiles of attractive women - unfuckable men flag their profiles out of spite.
/r/seduction10/09/24 04:10 PM
2

Abs is not genetics. You are simply not as lean as you think. People, especially on the internet and in gyms, do not actually know what 10% body fat looks like These are the body fat percentages based on reasonable measurement systems ( DEXA/inBody/etc) https://mennohenselmans.com/body-fat-percentage-pictures-a-visual-guide-for-men/ As an aside, what about body/chest hair? Mine is very sparse, almost hairless. Do I keep on shaving it off completely? Do whatever you want. It is not really relevan…
/r/seduction10/09/24 03:59 PM
-1

They were not autistic. They were assholes whose parents did not teach them the manners because they thought their Johny was oh so special.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:47 PM
1

There are two possible outcomes: They take it personally and go smash whatever the obstacle that stands in their way which for is typically being fat, broke, dressing like a slob, being a slob, behaving like a slob and being a bore and for women is being fat, behaving like a slob and being combative. In that case them taking it personally would be a good thing. These people are rare though. They take it personally and lash out with the negative consequences for them. That's the normal responses.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:40 PM
1

Yes, I'm. You know why? Because I don't bitch about it being "genetics" and don't look for a fucking PEDs to overcome it (they won't work for you because for PEDs to work you *still* need to do the work which gym going teletubbies on PEDs don't do) . My genetics is absolutely average. I just get up early in the morning and by the end of the day I somehow manage to do at least 100 pushups *every single day* for decades. Listen to clown like Gred Douchebag and Mike "my balls are the size of raisin…
/r/seduction10/09/24 02:31 PM
1

Weed is very weird. The only universal effect that I know of ( based on hundreds of people i regularly interact with who either do it a lot, recreationally or occasionally ) is that they demolish snacks in the hours after doing it. Hell, some with *drive* to get snacks if they don't have any in the house.
/r/seduction10/09/24 02:21 PM
1

We can compare your results and mine but that would be like taking a candy from a baby who has shoved four cupcakes into his mouth saying "i'm bulking" Great illustration of the cope.
/r/seduction10/09/24 02:15 PM
1

American Ballet Theater
/r/seduction10/09/24 01:48 PM
0

You don't have a floor where you live? No chairs? No sofas? No stairs? Shit. Amazing
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:59 AM
0

Whenever i see someone talking about muscle insertion i know the clown likes to sit on his ass, eat doritos and bitch about genetics. It is a fucking cope
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:57 AM
65

You are incompatible with most women you have sex with in day to day life. It is normal.
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:49 AM
8

Dont. This is exactly the position you want to be in. As soon as you "resolve" what you are they will put you into that neat little box.
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:47 AM
15

If you arent trying to rip her clothes off every single time you see her now, you are wasting your time.
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:46 AM
23

Stop snacking - you arent hungry, you are bored Stop drinking calories Eat mostly protein and fat that came with it i.e. meat/chicken/fish/eggs -- learn how to cook. Not only it is a good way to save money while eating better than the shit you eat but it is the quickest way to have her drop her panties Carbs should be a small amount (think 10 percent or less) and come strictly from fruits and vegetables. This means no pizza and no pasta from a box and not ramen and no other garbage. Stop smoking…
/r/seduction10/09/24 10:36 AM
13

I do the same thing. Yes, it is normal. In fact thats exactly what women.you probably want to go out with expect and clamor for. Want to know who is into large muscles on men? Mostly gay men. Speaking of t-shirts/polos - find the one where sleeve ends in the middle of your bicep and is tight. If you can bang out 10-15 clean pullups(no, Mike Israetel cannot -- which is why we do not take advice from short steroid junkies with balls the size of raisins -- he has a training video from the time he "…
/r/seduction10/09/24 09:31 AM
58

They dont care about age. Actually no. They do. They want you to be older because there is a chance you have your shit together. The downside is that a lot of older men look like utter shit (not that the young ones look any better). So if you show up as having your shit together and look like someone who can toss her around like a ragdoll without you having a heart attack, you are golden Natural Never touched anything. Ok, so for Tinder it is basically a graphic novel.. i will give examples from…
/r/seduction10/09/24 01:39 AM
14

Fix the diet.if you are already lifting, just fix the diet. It will give you a massive improvement across the board.
/r/seduction10/09/24 01:07 AM
26

You absolutely have to be lean and fit as fuck. If you arent, you are going to be searching for water in the middle of the Sahara. Thats the habbit that that take decades to build. Game ninjas dont get it
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:53 AM
1

Nope. Success in dating is the same as success everywhere else. 99.9999 percent reps that place pne in the right place with the right skills and 0.0001 of a lucky break
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:15 AM
1

I see threesomes are still an unachievable fantasy for most redditors. Guess what? In any sort of a 3-way (2F/1M) dynamics at some point that configuration will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:13 AM
2

Nah.We are just returning to the historical norms: throughout the history outside the brief window of post WW2 in the countries that participated in the WW2 majority of men have not reproduced while the majority of women have. Loser men were removed from the generic pool, be that via mortality, casualties of war, inability to provide etc. Men's addiction to the constant dopamine release from polishing the meat stick while gooning to porn is just the latest "thing" that ensures the weaker ones do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:58 PM
99

Yup. Same here. 48. match with early twenties.
/r/seduction09/09/24 09:08 PM
1

It depends on how you compare to her other options, including whoever she is dating at this moment.
/r/seduction09/09/24 09:06 PM
-1

So? What's a big deal? Men write novels with that shit as well. Most smut writers are actually *gasp* men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:03 PM
1

Dude, you have to go to a third world country to get hookers. The concept of masculinity is as foreign to you as particle physics is to mule. Let that sink in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:11 PM
0

Nonsense. Most men way overestimate their looks. What they need to do is invest a lot to attract what exceeds their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:49 AM
7

I love reading the cope of the unfuckable men who do not understand this. Signed, A Chad who gets invited to his exes weddings (and whose exes know each other and some of whom still have keys to his place)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:21 AM
1

This is more bullshit from men who think they are average when they are way below. Same goes for men who thinks he is a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:57 AM
1

Yes, seriously. Your claim is that men who have sex once ever four months are getting it somewhere else. I am pointing you to thousands of people who publicly moan about being in a dead bedroom for years, most with bo affairs and not getting it somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:19 PM
-1

Let me blow your mind: Desire is partner dependent. The same girl who is a super prudish only missionary with lights off once a month with you during your six months long relationship is dripping a hot wax on her own cunt while laying on a kitchen island in an airbnb on command from a man she is into on the 2nd date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:50 PM
1

R/deadbedroom.disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:36 PM
2

"Whore": (noun), a woman i want to sleep with who would not sleep with me because i am a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:12 PM
2

Not when. By whom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:43 PM
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The mainstream sex advice for men is aimed at convincing Bob that having sex with his wife Becky once every four months is normal. Tl;dr is absolutely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:45 PM
0

Says a man who gets laid by the kind of women you masturbate to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:27 PM
2

Your two times are: 6-10pm on your first day of going out in a week (i live in NYC so it is Thusday) - it is when girls are either going to or are bored on disastrous dates eo they go swiping Saturday brunch hours Sunday 4pm-8pm
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:48 AM
-1

... Says a man who missed all of her qualifications before whining on the internet that womenz do not want to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:40 AM
2

Try reading for comprehension. The explanation is right there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:52 AM
1

You have been on reddit for 11 years, you post about video games, your idea of food porn is breaded meat with boiled broccoli. I am absolutely certain Golden Coral is much closer to your environment than Le Bernadin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:54 PM
-3

You are getting them from women you do not notice because you find them to be below your minimum dating standards as your standards are unrealistically high For example, when you at a Golden Coral notice Becky and John you should be asking not "how do those two have sex" but what did those two do to meet each other as you have way more in common with them than people you read about on the internet who went for lunch at Le Bernadin - after all you are also at the Golden Coral and not at Le Bernad…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:47 PM
0

Nonsense. Trigglypuff is single.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 09:22 PM
6

If you don't get those reactions, you're overestimating yourself. Simple as that. Absolutely nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:16 PM
1

Nah. Average men get choosing signals all the time. The issue they have is that those signals come from women they would *never* date. Yes, it is true that an Average Man is not expecting to date a supermodel but just as an average woman has no idea what an average man looks like, how he lives and he does the average man does not understand that for him to be pairing off on his level he is looking at not at size 8 Lizzette ( who is not interested in him what so ever ) but size 22 Becky who has b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:12 PM
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Typically once every six months or so. If you have a good profile it will get banned as women whom you do not match become angry and report it next time they see it or if they feel you wont match them you will get reported. Thats why you want to pop a fresh profile when it has a good chance to be seen by bored hotties.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:50 PM
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I create a throw away Tinder profile a few hours before good Tinder time, throw on photos, pay to see who liked, collect numbers to move off the app. Typically the profile gets banned in 2-3 hours but by that time I have a dozen good leads. The last time I did i four or five hours later I was on a date.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:34 PM
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it's natural male proclivity to care about it - an evolutionary adaptation to ensure paternity. and modern data shows that promiscuity correlates with undesirable traits for long-term relationships such as infidelity. Do you know what has the strongest correlation with the low body count? It is her being a minor. And yes, the so called high value men internet dweebs masturbate to have a strong preference for minors. None of your friends have a chance with the likes of Miranda Kerr. If they did, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:27 PM
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Hi, "Chad" is here[0]. * Tallish ( 6' ), lean-ish ( 10-13 percent body fat ) all year round ( typical body for a tennis player/ skier) , chiseled face ( result of being lean ), can and do eat muscle ups for breakfast. Used to have a long jet black hair, pulled in a short ponytail, these days short hair. Used to do runway when I was younger and dumber[1]. Facial stubble as I use multigroom when it becomes annoying but not any more than that. * Gfs say "you dress like a combination of an aristocra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:36 PM
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Nonsense. This is more cope from men who cannot compete. Here's the problem that they have with the "ran though" women: * "she had a guy who was better in bed and I cannot compete" - says the "high value man" who knows he sucks in bed * "she had a guy who bought her dinners and I cannot compete" - says the "high value man" who cannot afford to spend the $250 * "she had an exciting life and with me she would be sitting and watching TV, so I cannot compete" - says the "high value man" who is borin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:30 PM
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The only men who put down women who live to the best of their options are the men who do not qualify
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:15 PM
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It was not great sex to her. Contrary to bullshit you read women rarely meet men who are actually great in the sack. When they do, they do not stop having sex with them until they find their actual long term partner and in a lot of cases even after that.
/r/seduction06/09/24 06:13 PM
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I lol'ed. Spend that money on a gym membership and good food. No matter how little it would improve your life it will be a massively better investment than paying for a bootcamp
/r/seduction06/09/24 05:03 PM
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This is pure nonsense peddled by someone who clearly does not go on dates. Online is like shooting fish in a barrel for those who shoot fish in a barrel by walking outside. For everyone else online is searching for water in the middle of the Sahara. However, in person for the same people the slope is much more gradual as they have personality, actual appearance and limited competition.
/r/seduction06/09/24 02:00 PM
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They do for both. In the relationship it is easier to compensate with $$$
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:24 PM
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Let me guess: * no money * no muscle * no status * no exciting life But: * whine * whine * whine * porn * whine * masturbation * whine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:12 PM
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Oh no. He is in the spray and pray mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:49 PM
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Provided they look the same, sales person
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:03 PM
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It isnt. The competition is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:57 PM
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It absolutely is if you have those famous "money, muscle, social status and fun life".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:45 PM
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Which part is gaslighting? The fact that women like men with money, muscles, social status and fun life? Or is it the part that men like money, muscles, social status and fun life? Or are you upset that even though the actual bar to getting money, muscle, social status and fun life is so incredibly low getting all of those requires getting off one's ass, not drinking a "cold one" ( or six ) while yelling at the TV and actually doing something with one's life, something that if reddit is any exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:39 PM
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That's a very common response from men who want to blame womenz not wanting to date them on womenz. OP quite literally said he is uninterested in being what women consider to be datable/fuckable in a sibling comment and just wants to have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:44 PM
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Women you want to date care about that stuff. So you either become what they want or you go back to mommy, ask for a sippy cup with warm milk, a bwanky and cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:21 PM
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Right, that's why the divorce for gay men is significantly less as a percentage than for straight couples. You are coping. Just like the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:19 PM
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What do you mean by "doing what they need to do for themselves"? Ask any man about what he wants out of life and he will come up with shit that require * money to buy toys, have fun experience and freedom - do you know how much a toys such as cars or boats cost? How about how much it costs to go heli skiing? How about being able to tell your boss "fuck you" and not giving a fuck because you have enough $$$$ to use it to wipe your ass every day? * muscles - why? Because contrary to the bullshit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:03 PM
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You don't really know any non-interwebs gay dudes, huh? It is a standard market of supply and demand where both buyers and sellers are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:46 PM
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Gay men don't have to "self-improve" or become successful men in order to find love. Oh, Jesus, you are a sweet summer child, aren't you? If you think straight men have it hard to land someone other than Gorlock the Destroyer, you dont have a foggiest clue how much of a grind gay dudes go through to get with a 5. See, contrary to the bullshit spewed on the interwebs, the actual number of gay men is about 6 percent. Another 2 percent are bi. And another 1 percent is "experimented a couple of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:40 PM
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Not dating. Fucking. They will live into the 80s. So it is 30-40 years of the company pillow pissing Fluffy as those "young studs" next them. "Dating Delusions" on youtube for the comedic break
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:24 AM
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It isnt. You are just not fuckable for those you want to fuck
/r/seduction04/09/24 10:40 AM
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It improved in lock step with my life getting better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:31 AM
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It is based on competence. Men who have this as the issue arent competent
/r/MensRights04/09/24 12:28 AM
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You wont have enough matches for this strategy to matter.
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:02 PM
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Let me guess: you are broke, out of shape, with a lame life and personality that makes everyone shun you
/r/seduction03/09/24 08:59 PM
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You move on
/r/seduction03/09/24 08:57 PM
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Lack of any or all.of the following: Money - they are broke or barely scrapping by Muscle - dudes look like Homer Simpsons or worms from men and black Social status - no one cares about your reddit karma or your super cool avatar Boring life
/r/MensRights03/09/24 08:23 PM
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Women do not date friends. They tell friends about the guys they fuck
/r/seduction03/09/24 06:29 PM
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Because you are drunk so you believe you did things when in reality you were black out drunk
/r/seduction03/09/24 06:28 PM
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After you "age out" however, less and less male attention is solely looks-driven. It becomes more likely that males taking the time to show interest in you are not doing so just because you're a "hot young piece of ass". This is the Olympic level of mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:33 PM
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Thats how you open
/r/seduction03/09/24 12:48 PM
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"Hi"
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:05 AM
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Depends on how close you are to a worm from Men in Black or a Homer Simpson
/r/seduction03/09/24 12:12 AM
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Lets play a game: what are the minimum requirements for "da man" How much does he have to make? How tall does he have to be? What is his acceptable age range? Can be he be obese? Can he be married? And lets plugin the data right here : https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:35 AM
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There is a youtube channel called "Dating Delusions". I recommend it for a good laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:32 AM
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By the time a woman decides she would to an event like this she is in the middle of getting her honorary cat lady membership card while still looking for tingles. Men know it. The ones who would provide the tingles arent into cat ladies. The ones who could do cat ladies arent tingly for cat ladies so for men it is a waste of time. Henve they dont go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:30 AM
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That is true. You dodged a bullet of assault charges followed by a stint in whever they send clowns convicted of the assault in your locality where you would get to learn what happens when someone much bigger and much stronger than you explains to you that in his word "no" means "yes. Just remember, you cant dodge all of those bullets.
/r/seduction02/09/24 11:11 AM
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It is right there in your posts
/r/seduction01/09/24 05:19 PM
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No clue who that guy is but if you as a man arent a homer simpson with a cute little beer belly , have your shit together, actually work and actually have an interesting life women go out of their way to date you. It is absolutely baffling to me why men keep trying to find a different, unsuccessful way to get there. It is as if they truly enjoy the misery of digging a trench with a spoon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:13 PM
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Yup. Cope if a guy without money, without muscles and without social life. Thats why she left you, my man. Women despise boys who cope rather than do.
/r/seduction01/09/24 01:09 PM
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Ah yes, the cope. Start by getting those and realize how different your life and the world interacting with you will become.
/r/seduction31/08/24 09:23 PM
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Thats just the pointless rage of a women who do not get the swipes from men they fawn over.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:23 PM
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Most women confuse their stated preferences with their revealed preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:13 PM
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Yes. I also dated hundreds all of whom told me about a gazillion of guys who hung around them as pussy vultures thinking that by being friends they would eventually get to date thide women. Oh and most of that was a pillow talk Question: how many women have you dated? Right, i thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:06 PM
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This is nonsense. Women do not date friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:30 PM
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Any man who gets laid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:18 PM
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Seeking validation = inferiority complex. You overcome the inferiority complex by not being interior to an average rando you see i.e. the standard trifecta Money Muscle Social status The rest is bunk. No matter how much you tell yourself you arent a broke pimple faced worm if you are one a single moment of someone pointing a finger at you and laughing will be enough for your fake reality to come crashing down
/r/seduction31/08/24 01:57 PM
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By being hot and pre-selected
/r/seduction31/08/24 01:53 PM
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The easiest way to improve your game is to develop social skills where you can interact with people in a casual, relaxed manner, be able to.engage them on pointless topics and be perceived as someone who isnt mechanical. The way to do that is to.... Interact with people in person as you go about your day to day life
/r/seduction31/08/24 01:14 PM
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Nonsense. West is below the replacement rate. The reason it has not collapsed is because it takes 40-50 years before it propagates, which incidentally will be when today's boss babes will require someone to bring the pack of Depends from where the Amazon droids drops them off to where she can put them on. Alas, there wont be anyone so she will have to stay in the used ones until Jose gets around to it five days later for $127.90 + service charge + tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:27 AM
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Ah yes, the story that has been passed around as the example of negging since 1997 or so when it hit the comedy circuit appropriated and peddled as something "new" by Mystery as described in "The Game" and retold in "Criminal Minds" followed by "Chicago PD". In all cases the PUA peddling it got the shit beat out of him (in art immitates life both "Criminal minds" and "Chicago PD" episodes were based around the actual shit that involved PUA using that line getting physically hurt) Every non majes…
/r/seduction30/08/24 09:54 PM
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Get off your pity train. You got knocked off. Get up. Do it again. Most people in this sub do not get laid that is why they post whinings how they are ready to give up. You went travelling. Cool. You did not get laid. Who the fuck cares? Do you speak italian? No? Did you try speaking it anyway and making a fool out of yourself to a pretty girl you saw? No? Thats why you did not get laid. You were trying to calculate for the outcome of getting laid which is why you came across like a meek guy try…
/r/seduction30/08/24 03:50 PM
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You should lean into what makes you uniquely you and become excellent at it. Thats what makes difficult to replace Imagine, for a moment, that all knuckleheads who post here how they are absolutely sad and depressed and ready to give up because they went travelling/went to Italy/went night gaming and got zero pussy and received the standard boneheaded advice in this sub were dumped onto a playground with 10 jaw dropping hotties. So 500 knuckleheads between 5'6 and 6'2 with their "I am 8/10 socia…
/r/seduction30/08/24 03:31 PM
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Yeah, because if you ban someone who says "Sun rose. You upset because the sun rose" the sun will stop rising
/r/seduction30/08/24 03:09 PM
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Reading this is telling me you are someone who needs a bwanky, a glass of warm milk and mommy's teat to snuggle with when a rain drop falls on you. Guess what kind of men women despise? Those that need a bwanky, a glass of warm milk and mommy's teat to snuggle with when a rain drop falls on them. So this played out exactly how one would expect.
/r/seduction30/08/24 12:23 PM
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Get the following through your skull: if she likes you she won't be mean to you. She is fucking with you because she views you as a temporary thing that is ok for this moment and if the toy breaks because she upset it she does not care as you are utterly and immediately replaceable. Dont like it? Want her on her best behavior? Become a man who is very difficult to replace
/r/seduction30/08/24 12:15 PM
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I cannot wait until the gov cuts off the bennies from all these sex tourist homer simpsons so the locals decide to take the metric ton of flesh from them
/r/seduction30/08/24 09:37 AM
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One of the advantages with "hi" type openner is that it is non committal so in case she is not immediately ultra receptive you have not painted yourself as a dolt who hits on anything that might have a vagina with a finesse of a drunken baboon. Try it. You can play the rehearsed lines after you get a non negative initial response.
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:10 PM
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They aren't. "Hi" is a perfectly good opener.
/r/seduction28/08/24 06:23 PM
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I do not care what any one woman thinks of me. But women as group? Of course I do, and you are likely lying to yourself if you don't think you do either. And that's exactly how the neediness shows up: "But what if none of those women like me? Let me be nicer to them, maybe they would fuck me. No. Ok, maybe i need to be evn nicer. Oh. They still don't fuck me. So I guess they really are telling me what i need to do to get them to fuck me. Yes, let me do that."
/r/seduction27/08/24 08:05 PM
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I recommend getting off the internet and off looking for feedback on good PUA courses and actually getting experience in the wild.
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:05 PM
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Nope. Your your line says "Please please please take me as i am" which is the standard needy behavior.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:56 PM
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Not really. Your line is just arrogance. That's quite literally what that book is about - it is a concept of polarization and not caring if it is not what she wants or if is not what the so called "polite society" says he should say. That's also why reading for comprehension is important otherwise there's zero point in reading.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:47 PM
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"I do me, if you don't like it, it sucks do be you" which is the exact opposite to the shit you got out of that book.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:15 PM
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It seems you did not understand anything that Manson wrote in Models,
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:12 PM
1

Extend the timeline.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:06 PM
1

Give her a second date/time. If she rejects but does not give you an alternative she is simply not interested
/r/seduction27/08/24 05:14 PM
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There is nothing to address -- if you want to have reasonable chances you need to be reasonably lean. If you want to have good chances you need to be lean and reasonably muscular. Thats it. The rest is a cope of a Homer Simpson sitting on his ass eating onion rings
/r/seduction27/08/24 05:12 PM
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Do you brush your teeth for a year and after that decide "I'm done, it is good"? No? The on earth do you expect that taking care of your body is any different?
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:38 PM
1

More cope.
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:51 PM
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Nah, his primary desire with the new content is to tap those who refuse to do anything not to be Homer Simpsons to pay him money for the programs as the previous programs he sold required them to do work which game ninjas have an allergic reaction to. Here is what even marginally attractive woman does when you behave that you arent interested in her: she leaves and lets you sit there scratching your head looking for another course
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:21 AM
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Lean is and muscular is not exceptionally athletic no matter how much Homer Simpsons say it is as they shove onion rings into their mouths
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:18 AM
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Reverse. This is one of the best things he wrote and it hits the problem on the nose
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:16 AM
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Dude, thats a wishful thinking. You wont even get a 5 because 5 think she is going to get an 8 so you and your average with a gift of gab wont qualify. Hence you are limited to skeezers. Now, i am all for leaving no dating pool waste but thats probably not what the OP had in mind And it will be worse as the time goes by as you undoubtedly are noticing hence your questions about differences between 18-19 year olds and twenty somethings. Fix the diet. Put on muscles. Actually become a solid 8. In …
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:33 AM
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Dude, you must pass the minimum attractiveness requirement and be hotter than your competitors because contrary to the bullshit you read thats how women decide if they are going to give you a chance . If you spent 1/10 of the time you cope by pretending to be a game ninja on your diet and exercise, you would not be looking for shortcuts on reddit, the shortcuts that wont work. Are you one of those knuckleheads who thinks his gift of gab is going to compensate for it? I can assure you it wont unl…
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:11 AM
1

Make sure she is in a solid plank when you are bench pressing her.
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:45 PM
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Be hot and go after scraps. or Be hot. Be engaging. Be flirty and go after hotties.
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:37 PM
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Unfortunately he ran out of content as he himself is just pretending to be successful so by now he has to come up with shit he is pulling out of his ass. His older videos simply broke down what are well known psychological games much better than the folks did ( with the exception of psych hacks guys and that Alexander something - who is either French or Australian )
/r/seduction26/08/24 07:03 PM
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Fascinating. Pass me some pork chops?
/r/MensRights26/08/24 07:02 PM
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No, he was just a worm and he still looks like a worm. So a lazy worm with genetic advantages needed to win a lottery to get anywhere. You wont be winning that lottery. Instead: Hit the gym so you arent a worm Get the $$$ And that will give you the needed social value.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:44 PM
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Homer Simpsons need hope.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:24 PM
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Mystery is a bozo - he is 6'5 and he was 6'5 before his peak and he *could not get laid until he wrote a marketing shit to get himself laid for which he got famous*. It is bloody amazing people worship the guy. 6'5. Not 6'0. Not 6'1. 6'5.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:07 PM
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Numbers are objective regardless of what sterile and childfree women say. That's why they are numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:47 PM
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That's because people do not understand how to count "savings" of top 1%. Anything that is not spent is considered savings. It does not need to go to the "savings account"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:45 PM
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Children cost money. Thus they are liability. If they were not liability, women would not be fighting to get child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:28 PM
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You did not mention anything about "value of raising kids" in your post. If you restate your question statement including that ( do include the ages of the kids when they divorce), i will dismantle your argument there as well as the kids are *liability*, not the asset. I understand that in most cases the arguments against being a stay at home trad-wife is being rolled out to people who have problem doing basic algebra but that's just not the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:12 PM
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A woman who stays at home does so to her own financial disadvantage. Her own Social Security may be negligible. If her marriage lasts 10 years or more and then she gets divorced, she can get her own SS or half of whatever amount her husband is entitled to. Nonsense. She gets half of his shit that he has left after he paid for her life the entire time. Lets say that over a period of 10 years he earned on average 10k/mo after taxes of which he spent 50% of the "family" and saved 50%. Lets say of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:52 PM
2

But this is not a cold approach! You go to the same school at the same time! You have way more in common than most people! You dont need to be in the same program what so ever. Just being in the same coffee line at the same school while waiting for classes that start at the same time is a gazillion commonalities. Shit, you probably *see the same women* time and time again every day. I know I did when I went to school. Quite literally just say "Hi" and ask whatever comes to your mind ( well, i re…
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:20 PM
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There are women in hallways between classes. There are women getting lunch. There are women drinking coffee. etc etc etc And there are gazillions of male Chihuahuas wearing diapers shaking like leafs in November being terrified of say "Hi" to any of them. You need to decide if you are one of them. If not, go say "hi". This is the most women rich environment you will ever be in. Oh, and also these women right now are as sex obsessed as you are.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:02 PM
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No really. I'm good with myself and i certainly do not give a flying fuck about someone who does not like this.
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:39 PM
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You are in a university. There are thousands of women right around you. You have thousands of topics because you are in the same place doing the same thing but slightly differently.
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:37 PM
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No, being serious around women is dumb.
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:24 PM
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This is so much nonsense. Women date because of the fantasy they create in their head, not the bullshit you tell them. In fact, you need to spend the least amount of time talking as that talking absolutely ruin the fantasy they create. That's why looks matter and that's why the clothes matter and that's why ( incidentally even thought it is stupid ) your instagram shit matters It is not a gym. It is *being lean* while being *reasonably visibly muscular*. This means your fat ass need not to be so…
/r/seduction26/08/24 12:58 PM
3

Do you enjoy being disrespected? If so, stay. You can tell your bros how strong you are.
/r/seduction26/08/24 12:57 AM
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Your legs were made for walking... Away
/r/seduction26/08/24 12:52 AM
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I am always puzzled when an individual man who has those experiences does not understand he is the commonality among all the women who ghost him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:43 PM
2

I see you are unfamiliar with Mark Twain. Alas, that was expected
/r/seduction25/08/24 04:33 PM
0

You as a hired a coach to tell you how to bed hookers. Let that sink in
/r/seduction25/08/24 03:24 PM
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Me too. The issue is that Cindy thinks she is going to be wifed by someone who will take her travelling the world instead of Bob i described above. And Bob thinks a 24 year old hottie who stops traffic in Manhattan during the rush hour should give him and his uninspiring self a shot because in his delusional mind her not doing it makes her a "shallow gold digger". Bob and Cindy will make an acceptable pair but neither of them thinks the other one meets their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:44 PM
1

Their baseline is set so now it is just low stakes fun. Club is a shitty environment to meet "good girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:38 PM
2

More nonsense
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:30 PM
1

I loled reading this shitty copy. Dude's infields are staged
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:08 PM
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If she says yes, you give her a time and place and tell her to meet you there. Or you pick her up. Or you go to hang out immediately. P s. Question, if i may. Should you proposition a woman for sex and should she say yes would you also be posting on reddit asking for help to do her?
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:02 PM
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So they need to stop whining about their choices being only other non exceptional women and settle for the 37 year old Cindy who lives with her cat and shops Walmart clearance sale for size XXXXXL tops
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:53 PM
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Average man is a fat broke dude with no drive, no skills, no desire to become exceptional, barely scraping by, sitting on a divan from 1990s he got from his parents scratching his balls as he drinks Milwaukee Best and screams at the TV at men who make millions of dollars a year as if his pontifications on what player needs to be where mattered bitching no woman wants to make him a sandwich His equivalent is a woman he does not even see when he tries to find someone to have sex with. Women's mini…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:03 PM
1

You cant. Game is pretending you are someone you are not in order to get into woman's pants. Authentic self is you
/r/seduction25/08/24 12:59 PM
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Of course you were scammed. Dating coaches are absolutely clueless clowns who themselves at best date or marry the absolute cave trolls -- the kind of cave trolls you dont even notice when you try to get your dick wet. Paying them is like paying a bum living in a cardboard box under a bridge to help you retire as multi hundred millionaire. But i guess the sucker is born every minute There is exactly one way to become datable - it is becoming someone whom women you like to date would seek to date…
/r/seduction25/08/24 11:57 AM
2

Totally agree. This is why it baffles me when men who arent catches themselves try to "fix" a feminist just like it baffles me when Trigglypuff looking feminists try to convince men who dont even notice them to change their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:18 AM
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Only other women men who have those habits consider to be unfuckable. So i again ask why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:49 AM
1

And there i again would ask "why do you care about what women you consider to be unfuckable think about your dating choices/positions/etc?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:48 AM
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No. There is zero to gain from debating those who have zero interest in your position. Now if you removed the feminist portion of the post it would have made sense as a question in theiry but then of course it would not have made sense because non crazy feminists a-la Trigglypuff dont think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:47 AM
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Honest question: why do you give a flying fuck what do women you consider to be unfuckable think about your dating habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:03 PM
0

Nailed it
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:13 PM
2

Because they have more baggage than Kim Kardashian
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:07 PM
4

Zero issues. 48. Dating a 23 year old. Not only that she knows my primary. But then again i dont have a Homer Simpson gut and dont spend days agonizing if i should ask them to go 50/50 when grabbing coffee
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:06 PM
2

Thats one of those stupid decisions game ninjas who arent successful keep peddling as they run oit of the material
/r/seduction24/08/24 02:54 PM
2

You multi paragraph dissertation contradicts your first statement (cope) about you being unattractive. Get that through your head Ok, so now knowing that you must setup approaches where you arent the unattractive one. For example: Dumb setup where you lose all the time - you and your friend are out together. Compared to him you are a designated ugly friend. He looks good, you look bad. You trying to get anywhere is digging a trench with a spoon. Smart setup - go out with a designated ugly friend…
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:52 PM
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Yes, it is always someone elses fault you did not have the balls to do what you wanted to do. Always but thats ok, you can bitch on reddit about it
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:45 PM
1

Your head is in the game when you want it. If it is not, you simply dont want it. It is ok. Just go with the flow But ffs dont text. Texting kills attraction on her part
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:43 PM
3

You come across like two needy dorks who went to a club to pick up women. Why? Because you are two needy dorks who went to a club to pick up women Want to be successful in a club? Go to a club to have fun with women being "whatevs". Club is definitely not the environment you are comfortable at and that telegraphs.
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:30 PM
3

Whats the question?
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:26 PM
2

"Damn, she is a hottie"
/r/seduction24/08/24 11:15 AM
3

Now in english?
/r/seduction24/08/24 11:15 AM
1

That means the package that you bring to them (which in total we will call "assets" ) is lower than the livability she feels she gets (fucking you outside the LTR). Want to have sex with outside the LTR ? You cant decrease the liability so you must increase the assets
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:01 PM
1

You do not understand fundamentals of economics which of course explaina your position Not only that but you are so delusional you think women in a coffee shop notice your 65 year old arist. Not only that but the amount of money available vs the number of artists who chase it decreases. Thats why the video is '6'5, finance, trust fund, blue eyes' not '65, with ed, tiny house, eggs for dinner'
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:00 PM
4

Yourself
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:34 PM
2

This misses the massive elephant in a room - the man needs to want to have sex with that specific woman. Contrary to the narrative peddled by red pillers, black piller and whatever other versions of red pill is there as well as women looking for a man, 6'5, blue eyes, finance, trust fund Fuckable men do not want to fuck most women they interact with because fuckable men do not have the free time to even entertain the idea. Thus they treat women like people who just happened to be women (this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:49 PM
-1

So you have a survivorship bias. Thank you confirming it
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:29 PM
-1

Your friends will not be successful artists. Just like your friends will not be successful musicians. Artists do not make it. They will definitely not be making it in the next 30 years. Want to be a good friend to your friends? Encourage them to develop a marketable skill so they arent struggling with homelessness the first time they cant sell their "art'
/r/seduction23/08/24 11:23 AM
2

Thats called survivorship bias - forevery one of your friends who makes money, there are thousands who made 0. $5k/mo is $60k a year . McDonalds pays more. Starbucks (Future Baristas of America) pays a lot more
/r/seduction23/08/24 10:44 AM
4

Move
/r/seduction23/08/24 10:39 AM
1

Put shoes on. Put a shirt on. Put pants on. Go outside.
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:55 AM
1

You are boring on a date
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:53 AM
1

Nonsense. Everyone has been told that "art" is a pursuit of Future Baristas of America
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:52 AM
1

They arent. They just like the aesthetics when the other aesthetics available is a standard issue video gamer or a disappearing man terrified of his own shadow
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:51 AM
4

Be someone she would like to fuck even if she wont be getting married. Jfc, how difficult is it for people to get? Women like sex as much as men do. Maybe even more considering how much men are into video games and masturbation. They are just not into sex with men who are worse than a Magic Wand and a Black Dragon if having sex is the only thing she is getting. Want to get laid without being in an LTR? Treat her well Make her feel safe Dont be a judgemental cunt Make her rip the sheets off the b…
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:50 AM
19

Friends with benefits = we arent serious but we are sleeping with each other here and there
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:44 AM
6

Are you 12?
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:41 AM
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Let me guess, you are over 35 percent ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:34 PM
11

Most people who do it dont have an interesting life.
/r/seduction22/08/24 05:15 PM
8

Did you pass the step 1 which is "have an interesting life?"
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:21 PM
1

Oh that's easy: they don't approach individual woman because they think she is more of a trouble than a possibility of getting something out of it is worth to them. This is the cause of every "nah" at the end of the day. Specific details of why it is not worth it to them is guy specific.
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:19 PM
2

Nobody except for you knows why you don't approach. my man.
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:05 PM
1

Whom, you?
/r/seduction22/08/24 02:44 PM
1

Works very well.
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:27 PM
1

Why would you care to escalate to sleeping with them if you don't feel like sleeping with them again?
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:26 PM
1

Let me get it straight: * you are a mooch * you have someone you are mooching from * you dream of banging other women while continuing to mooch of her * she thinks you are swell because she does not realize you are a mooch who dreams of other women * you are trying to ensure she continues to think that because you want to keep on mooching off her * you are here on reddit to spill your guts and soul search Did I get it right? Realize at some point she is going to figure all this stuff out and kic…
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:23 PM
5

Is that what a male pre-masturbation fantasy sounds like?
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:19 PM
21

Mostly agree with a caveat - you need to have a baseline of being able to interact with *people* including *women* in social contexts without them looking at you as if you were one of those weirdos in the Star Wars bar scene.
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:17 PM
2

"Hey ! hope everything’s good on your end. Let me know when you’re free for a second round of adventures—if not, no worries. Take care!" If she does not reach out in 4-5 days send something less wishy washy: "Hey! For the adventure round #2 - <date>/<time>/<location>. Wear X, we will be doing Y. Can't wait" The "can't wait" at the end telegraphs that it is still you, "a sweet and nice" man. Wear X we will be doing Y is "justification" for you telling her what to wear ( and lets you sort of push …
/r/seduction21/08/24 07:57 PM
2

It is super-sappy for my taste but my approach is "You are coming to a chef's tasting menu - you get to tell me the allergies and the rest is up to me" which is simply the way I always am and no there are no substitutions. If I'm reading what I read in this entire thread correctly, you are much more of a 'sweet & nice' kind of a man so you being more aggressive to her in the middle is what probably threw her off. It probably is not that dire as you seemed to have recovered OK as she reached out …
/r/seduction21/08/24 07:36 PM
12

Men are very aware where they fit in the pecking order, especially if it has been beaten into their little heads since they were children that they are very much unworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:20 PM
2

.That in general first kisses should be more gentle etc. No. It needs to be *congruent* with whom you portray being which needs to be congruent with who you are. The reason why the game ninjas always flop ( and redefine what not flopping means ) is because they cannot maintain the charade. For example, if you are a poetic guy who wants to wax about flowers and smell of freshly baked bread for hours as he gently caresses his meat stick as he is writing an ode to a woman he saw on instagram whose …
/r/seduction21/08/24 07:13 PM
3

you let the date go beyond 2 hours. I disagree with this somewhat - if you think you are taking her home even of the first date you should drag it out.
/r/seduction21/08/24 07:05 PM
2

Yes, when she says she is busy for two weeks you should move on. She indicated she is not that interested. You are just too socially dumb to understand what she said. If you move on, she might think "wait..huh? How? Why? Let me find out". She probably wont because as i said she was not that interested. But if you keep hanging around you are a great backup to backup to backup to backup plan for her because you will continue to hang around like a puppy looking for attention
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:34 PM
2

Reading for comprehension is a skill: it says "she is not that interested"
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:29 PM
3

Not for two weeks and not with her not telling him the date. But whatever the cope you need.
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:26 PM
0

It means she is not that interested. Move on. Or at least tell her "ok, cool" and let her decide she wants to chase you. Jfk, how difficult is it to understand. Two weeks? Two weeks? Do you think if Leonardo DiCaprio asked her out she would not have time for two weeks? No? Ok, how about a 6' model looking dude driving a 2024 911?
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:01 PM
1

Ok, cool
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:00 PM
-1

Big Foot. Your friend saw a Big Foot! He should get it photographed and have it studied.
/r/seduction21/08/24 02:50 PM
-4

They are lying about how successful they are on dating apps or they are matching with hookers/escorts/pixelated sex workers
/r/seduction21/08/24 10:02 AM
2

This seemingly basic concept absolutely baffles simppop
/r/seduction21/08/24 10:01 AM
1

Just google DEXA around your location. In some places it is as low as $50. In NYC it is nearly $200 which is annoying. The general trick is to get two scans and match it against your body fat measuring scale measurements taken at the same time. Thats how you can calibrate your scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:51 PM
0

Thats a cope. My advice is what you responded do. Since you dont have options you are clinging to the hope that if she canceled and is not excited she still might consider you if you hang around like a pussy vulture. Newsflash: she wont
/r/seduction20/08/24 08:42 PM
1

No, it is not. You have not gone out and she is already not excited what so ever. You are just chasing the sunk cost.
/r/seduction20/08/24 08:30 PM
3

No. If she cancels and does not go out of her way to schedule a new date continuing to "communicate" with her telegraphs your neediness
/r/seduction20/08/24 07:46 PM
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This is true for every single person. Be lean and you will have a six pack outline. Be even more lean you will have a visible six pack when you flex. Be at about 8 percent body fat as a man and you would have a visible six pack when you dont flex. If you dont, you would not be able to be stand up - yes, you need abs tor that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:52 PM
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That's not the right question. The right question is by how much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:38 PM
–

This is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:37 PM
0

In bars where you go to by yourself looking for women, sitting with a wate with a confident puffed out chest? Riiight
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:59 PM
2

"Hi"
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:36 PM
20

She wanted you to be a dancing monkey. You stopped dancing. She got a new one
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:35 PM
104

If she cancels on one but proposes another she was busy. If she cancels on one and does not propose another she is not interested
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:35 PM
0

They arent profound -- they are observable reality. If you go to bars to meet women, by yourself, you will become a drunk. In 5-10 years looking back through your camera roll on your phone you will see that you look like shit, you will feel like shit and your sex life will be worse than today
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:21 PM
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Because i know hundreds of men who say they are at 10-12 percent who when measured by DEXA end up being at 20-25 percent. They all have the exact same "it is genetics, i am watching what i eat and work out and women still dont find me visually acceptable" whine Women have a very low bar for the minimum level of attractiveness of men. Men, especially genZ and millenial men, simply prefer to stuff themselves with cheetos and whine about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:24 AM
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You arent at 15 percent. Thats the crap the clowns who yap about it do not know. Dont believe me? Get a DEXA scan. Also at 15 percent body fat a man will still will have a fat face. Want to fix it? Drop to 10-12 as measured by DEXA not another gym bro with 25 percent body fat. Or dont and continue to whine about genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:19 AM
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This is absolute self created nonsense Here is what makes you visually unattractive : your excessive body fat. Get your ass to 10-12 percent. Guess what happens when you are at 20 percent? You get a fat face. Guess what is the opposite to the fat face? Chiseled face. Guess what shows up when you have a chiseled face? Sharp jaw line and clean cheekbones. Now get your butt into a state where you can do 10 full range of motion pullups with a dead hang at the bottom at a clip and 50 full range of mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:04 AM
1

If you need to post into this subreddit with a question like the one from the OP, they arent into the casual sex with him
/r/seduction20/08/24 09:11 AM
1

Profile for the win.
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:15 AM
14

Woke up to a girl in my bed and my friend tells me that I was speaking to two others girls at the club. Thank you for all the tips here but god do I wish I could remember how and what I did. Dude, being black out drunk is very risky.
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:51 PM
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The premise is wrong. You should not be going to bars to get women as in most cases what you are actually doing is going to bars to get drunk as in most cases there are going to be no women in those bars you decide you can approach when you arrive. So what are you going to do? You are going to drink. Guess what is definitely not attractive for women regardless of what the media is trying to tell you? A man drinking in a bar by himself.
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:35 PM
-5

Not really - how to be in a bar solo pretending to be confident in hopes of getting some women to approach you is exactly what your question is.
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:57 PM
1

Serious question: why do you care?
/r/MensRights19/08/24 09:51 PM
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First ask yourself the following question: why the fuck are you sitting at the bar drinking like one of those sad old men in a dive?
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:29 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:47 PM
1

Money is the great equalizer. You can be an absolutely horrible human being across all metrics but if you have massive $$$$$$$$ you will still be very datable and very fuckable. Hopefully you aren't so the extra $ to equalize would be minimal.
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:26 PM
2

This, my friend, is beyond the scope of my knowledge but in my observable experience - if the guy does not flinch at paying for what he considers a good time for himself and is OK at paying for her to participate, the magic kingdom opens up. If you look at this subreddit, you will see that most of ninjas can't afford to pay for an extra plate of food the girl would have and this is the top. Would she prefer for the guy to be tall *and* pay? Sure. But those are rare and they tend to bang women wi…
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:15 PM
1

For the Nth time: "I'm going to be leaving for a while but I would be back" = casual sex now Casual sex = liability. What you bring to her (looks, personality, toe curling good time, $$$$) = asset. if liabilities > assets you do NOT get the cookie even if you want it. If your assets > liabilities you get the cookie if you want to. Want to have access to cookies regardless of liabilities? *Increase the assets*.
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:09 PM
1

If you want to be able to put a woman on a back burner, you must: Close the deal Make her decide she really wants to get nailed by you again If you do not achieve (2) anyone else she interacts with has probably has a higher chance of getting to (2) than you, especially if you are unavailable.
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:45 PM
10

What the heck is a man supposed to do if he wants a partner, then? Be someone who is attractive enough to get to the door and interesting enough to walk through it if he is not attractive enough to walk through the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:31 PM
42

Women do not negotiate attraction. At best they negotiate the level of tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:28 PM
32

Yes. Stop snacking. Eat two to three meals a day. Stop eating shit with a bar code on it. Prioritize protein and fat that came with it. Pushups, pullups, dips, lunges. Also go for a run. Short distances ( max 1 mile/1km ) but fast. You will lean out with time.
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:18 PM
96

This is 100% correct. Actually it is the case for pretty much everything in life. Skills come with reps.
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:30 PM
15

Ssssh.... Dating coaches need to sell hope.
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:11 PM
15

This is an absolute overcomplicated nonsense
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:58 PM
71

Not being a fat fuck.
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:40 PM
1

The bar is extremely low. The problem is that an "average" guy is way below that bar. You can see it all over this sub.
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:32 PM
2

For the same reason you dont want to date someone for whom walking and chewing a gum ar the same time is a monumental effort
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:13 PM
0

Yes. Broke is a mentally. It is the mentality of giving up, sitting in a corner and crying about it, day after day after day. It is unattractive and it makes you revolting
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:59 AM
2

I make a point of only hitting on women i actually find hot and hot women have fascinating stories. I am in it for the stories
/r/seduction17/08/24 07:42 PM
1

"Having a game" is the ability to pretend you are someone you are not for long enough to get into her pants. It results in disappointment as the game ninja loses the facade and shows who he teally is at which point he gets dropped, sometimes while his pants are down A much better proposition is being someone game ninjas pretend they are and thus getting in her pants without much effort
/r/seduction17/08/24 07:28 PM
3

A 5'2 man is shorter than 97 percent of women in the West and probably shorter than 70 percent of women in the short countries. He. Is. Fucked. On. Looks. Telling him he has a path out except being rich enough his shortness wont matter is giving him a spoon and telling him he can dig a 100 meter well using it
/r/seduction17/08/24 07:01 PM
8

The average man in the West is 5'9. Average woman is 5'4. If he is in the West he is fucked on looks. Actually, at 5'2 he is probably fucked on looks virtually everywhere and no amount of game will get him even to the door.
/r/seduction17/08/24 05:42 PM
0

Good looking = more than half of people in the society about evenly distributed across genders find me attractive. Had you been "good looking" you would not be having your problem. This means you cannot rely on looks because you arent good looking. You drew a shitty card. You cannot change that card. But you can equalize that card. That equalizer is called money.
/r/seduction17/08/24 05:39 PM
1

Do you? Say so. You don't? Dont. Games are stupid..i guarantee you playing those is pointless
/r/seduction17/08/24 12:34 AM
2

No, unless it screams $$$$$$ to anyone who walks by. No random woman would know what 2024 BMW X6 M Competition looks like.
/r/seduction16/08/24 05:09 PM
2

Getting IG is a bad move for 99 percent of men. Men's IG tends to suck vs. womens. Those who have good IG don't need to cold approach women.
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:43 PM
3

You advertised as if you were a Ferrari but when they looked it was a Yugo
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:31 PM
40

If you have trouble getting it up when you are drunk you should cut down on drinking, duh
/r/seduction16/08/24 11:18 AM
0

"Hi"
/r/seduction16/08/24 12:05 AM
4

Dinner. Make her dinner. Finger licking good dinner. While she is sitting on a kitchen counter. Naked. Make sure you keep your clothes on. Drag it out. And ignore that she is naked. By the end of the dinner she will be soaked.
/r/seduction15/08/24 06:40 PM
8

Attraction is built about the space in which she asks herself "what if..." and builds her own story. Just follow up the day before. If she already forgot, she was not interested and you were a foodie call.
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:07 PM
5

Why the hell do you text after you secured the date?
/r/seduction15/08/24 03:58 PM
7

So the answer is clear: lose the weight. Fun fact: it is cheaper to be lean than to be a fat fuck. Spend the delta on fun life
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:22 AM
32

Nonsense. Tony Soprano command $$$$, you command taco bell midnight combo
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:19 AM
2

Think $10k per month per extra 10lb to break even
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:17 AM
14

The reasoning for this is complicated (and cast iron over the head gives a concussion solid) but the TL;DR is "i do me and if you dont like it fuck you tough titties" gets them wet
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:08 AM
117

Based on what you wrote You do employ what is needed (abundance, outcome independence, dont give a fuck i am me, if you dont like it fuck off attitude) to get women when those women arent whom you want (and thats why you get those women) You do not employ what is needed (see above) with women whom you want and thus do not get those women So you already have the solution to your problem and you know it works on Suzi the Cave Troll. Now actually execute it on Jenny the Hottie. You already made 99 …
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:17 PM
2

Face matters much less than people think. It is stated preferences (face) vs. revealed preferences (women sleeping with guys with abs) At 10-12 percent body fat faces on men become much more chiseled than at 25-30 percent which is what most gym bros who are "fit" have as faceless torsos with abs clean up. But whatever, feel free to blame "genetics"
/r/seduction14/08/24 05:05 PM
0

Because most men are *delusional* about how good they look and you, most likely, aren't the exception to that rule. Want to know if you actually look good enough for a good time? Go create a burner account, make the bio that says "Good times, going out and fun" and post three photos - one of you shirtless with no face, one of you in a t-shirt in sunglasses covering your eyes and of you again, shirtless, doing somethig that requires physical strength. Do not use the photos you would be using ( ev…
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:48 PM
1

Women to each other on the internet: go queen, yes slay And it does not work for them - see Dating Delusions guy's profile reviews on youtube. Men to each other: Shut the fuck up dumbass virgin nerd. Mos t of this sub is like this, then they say "I'm honest" and "tough love" Good. If he shut the fuck up, replaces his fortnight t-shirt with a shirt, loses his extra 40 lbs he got at the gentle age at 22, puts his head down and outgrind the whiners, by the age of 30 he is going to be cleaning up fa…
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:09 PM
1

You do not get to go to a trade school before you can crawl. Start by crawling. It means stop wasting your time on shit like video games, mindlessly doom scrolling and listening to bozos like Fat and Gay, Rolling Dumbassi, Sand Weasel and Whiny Bachelor. This shit is so easy even someone with 85 IQ can do it as his competition are people going out of their way to do doom schooling, playing video games and whining about women's standards.
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:04 PM
1

Total nonsense - the "interesting life" is what lets him meet women and provide topics for conversation that women find interesting.
/r/seduction14/08/24 03:44 PM
2

"Game" = pretend to be someone who has 1-4 in hopes of getting laid. It works as well as walking up to a random woman and asking her for sex i.e. does not work outside of margin of error. If you concentrate on 1-4 you would outdo the game ninjas
/r/seduction14/08/24 03:08 PM
0

Because that's pointless masturbation. It does not matter why women are thinking outside what the OP finds to be acceptable and men don't unless OP wants to date men. A boat load of other undateable men invented the idea that it is new. It is not. The difference between now and the "old times" is that Johny who could not get a date did not have a community of others like him from all over the world to get together and bitch how Suzy does not find his cute little belly and a hobby of masturbation…
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:55 PM
11

Question: do you want to date/sleep with women who are dumb enough to date/sleep with guys with tats?
/r/seduction14/08/24 12:56 PM
1

"Dear Penthouse Letters, my name is Stewie and I have a dream..."
/r/seduction14/08/24 12:54 PM
-1

The average woman in 5'4 at 170lbs. That's what middle of the pack is. That's what the -5- you are looking for is. That's what an average man gets at best. And yes, most men are at best average. None of men posting here is interested in those women, so sorry to tell you, your average dick, average fitness, average social skills, average money, average hobbies and average life is not going to cut it with the top 5-10% of women because just like top 5-10 percent of men are datable by every woman a…
/r/seduction14/08/24 12:31 PM
-9

I am - First step first: Stop. Whining. About. Women's. Standards Purge this whing out of your existence. Purge friends who whine about it out of existence in your life. Purge content created by people whining about the women's standards out of your life Women despise men who whine and especially men who whine about women. It is not any different than you despising fifty five year old BBW whining she cannot a beefcake with a 8 inch dick to take her travelling abroad and shopping.
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:23 AM
-6

You want to become datable or do you want to whine like the vampire clan clowns on youtube as you polish your meat stick while bitching about womenz? Women never wanted to date "meh" guys. Ever. Thats why historically only 40 percent of men reproduced by 80 percent of women did.
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:18 AM
3

Diet. Gym. Money Interesting life. Reading/watching youtube about it does nothing. You must do. It is not that any of those things have "S3cR3t H4cKz"
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:56 AM
2

It boggled my mind how in this group of 500+ women I wouldn’t see almost any above a 6-7 That's because everyone knows the run clubs are there for people who dont run to try to date people who run - i see women who could barely jog half a mile in them and men who think fashion sneakers are actually running shoes. The last thing the runners want to do is to be in a sea of people who don't run. If she is 8-10, she definitely does some form of cardio and for women it is typically running, so no way…
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:55 AM
1

You are going to have lots of post wall cat ladies looking to marry a Giga Chad being very disappointed it is you and not them who showed up.
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:51 AM
-14

Gen X here - It has always been like that. Now the undatable men just find each other on the internet and create a cacophony of whining in Dolby 5.1.
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:50 AM
0

Dude, real talk. If 49 out of 50 tell you to fuck off immediately and the remaining one ghosts you immediately then: I shower, get haircuts, proper fitting clothes, very lean, so it’s not like I come across as some greasy bum either. the above is nonsense you keep telling yourself. You should get at least 50% of "they don't blow you off" on approach. They can blow you off after you open especially if you have the finesse of a drunk bear at a picnic table, but definitely not before or during your…
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:14 AM
2

Strong chemistry = "slept together and decided it was awesome so now you are bonking whenever you can" You do not have strong chemistry. You spent time flirting and no, she is not into you - you are just better than other knuckeheads who are hitting on her who are absolutely terrible. Move on.
/r/seduction13/08/24 10:24 PM
-1

ADHD is another crutch but it is no longer sexy which is why no one brings it up. See, they moved onto "autustics" as a new sexy "condition" that allows people to sit and whine how world is not fair to them. Do not worry, in a few years we will find a new sexy condition and the pitty party will move on. Go watch the movie "Accountant"
/r/seduction13/08/24 07:35 PM
-3

Socializes on reddit with men just fine. Uses words like "fuck you, bro" to display emotions, in text, to pixels on his screen. Developed speech early. But yet is attached to the idea of being atypical because he cannot face him being uninteresting to women. Dude, the more you lean to you being autistic the more fucked up you are going to be. It is like a normal person walking with a cane because he was told by morons that he needs to lean on it.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:13 PM
6

Every single socially retarded dude keeps thinking he is autistic. Like a god damn clockwork. You aren't autistic. You have not been socialized with people because your parents are idiots who decided to jump on autistic bandwagon to justify why they themselves have no social skills and you absorbed it. Go talk to people about *pointless shit*. Like whatever the hell you see on a street. Make a point of talking to 20 people a day. Do it in a store. Do it in a coffee shop. Do it on a bus. Yes, it …
/r/seduction13/08/24 03:31 PM
1

Bawawahahahaha. Dude, if you spent 1/10s of the time you spend looking for solutions while sitting on your ass mindlessly scrolling interwebs for advice from other clowns who sit on their ass and mindlessly scroll internet actually getting your shit together and interacting witb people in person you would realize that a) scripts dont work b) you dont need scripts
/r/seduction13/08/24 12:40 PM
1

Nonsense. Tell me, oh sensei, what would be the dataset it would be trained on again? Though i of course would find it absolutely amusing when even more dorks behave in a way where only the likes of Replica would respond to them
/r/seduction13/08/24 10:45 AM
1

I mean shit, what is my competition? Men who whine about it being unfair? The Cheetos dust covered gamer who has not seen a shower in a week? Nah, man, the bar is low. Elon Musk, no matter how much he wants to repopulate the earth, can only fuck so many women a day.
/r/seduction12/08/24 08:21 PM
-3

You are what your record says you are no matter how much you cry. If you keep losing you simply are a loser. The sooner you accept the reality the sooner you can start fixing it
/r/seduction12/08/24 07:41 PM
5

Take the pledge! - https://youtube.com/shorts/ahoxLogzHFY
/r/seduction12/08/24 06:21 PM
124

Every single thing you want in life, be that a high paying job, a hot girl, a fancy car, a kick ass house, someone else wants. The better one gets the prize. Always. So become the better one.
/r/seduction12/08/24 06:19 PM
0

It is definitely not teaching you anything.
/r/seduction12/08/24 05:36 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction12/08/24 05:12 PM
1

She is there to smash. There is nothing to discuss.
/r/seduction12/08/24 05:11 PM
0

Yeah, no
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:38 PM
5

You were uninteresting.
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:15 PM
1

Sir, you signed up for Grindr
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:14 PM
-3

This is utterly stupid.
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:09 PM
1

It is selection bias - in the USA cold approach is mostly "practiced" by men who have the social skills of Bella from Poor Things in the first scene. They "learned" it from other men whose social skills are on about the same level abet those have better marketing. And those picked up the entire thing from pimp culture, including overcoming objections, push/pull, love bombing, escalation etc etc etc. In fact virtually all the terminology used by the cold approach crowd comes from pimping. Yes, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:03 PM
0

How is trying to make women behave like men working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:15 PM
-2

Get this through your head: You arent hot enough or visibly rich enough for them to throw themselves at you (and if you are the ones who would be doing that would make you want to throw up in your mouth). For everyone else approach is her showing you that she is open to you shooting your shot. Or dont and continue to believe women dont do that as you whine on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:38 PM
-3

You are using terms you do not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:27 PM
1

I was buying some fish at the Lobster Place a few years ago (i know a few chefs there) - a massive Grouper - asking one of the guys to explain to the fish mongers how i wanted it cut and this long legged glamazon was standing a few feet away from with her mouth agape. I guess she has never seen a non standard fish that big. She mumbled "Fuck, what are you going to do with it?" I said "Cook it and eat it . Especially the cheeks. Dont tell me you never tried?" She sheepishly said "I only get salmo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:20 PM
1

I have a hunch that part of Whole Foods marketing plan is "Get your girl dinner and a stranger to make it with at the same time"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:08 PM
1

You are absolutely incorrect. Women simply dont engage in spam approaches. Rather women approach by indicating that they might be open for a specific man to hit on them. This ensures that should she be wrong and her target has a finesse of a deranged bull in a china shop, she can pretend he misunderstood and should he not get a hint those witnessing the interaction would quickly ensure the deranged bull is contained
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:04 PM
3

"I am special! Why is she not fucking meeeeee??????"
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:56 PM
2

Let me tl;dr your entire essay: "This girl is not into me"
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:51 PM
3

Dude, you keep illustrating why women view casual sex seeking clowns as a massive liability. For example, you dont even know that HPV vaccine only covers several stains. Testing regulatory does not matter unless no one whom you fuck violates protocols between the tests. If you are fucking even 1 floozy you are massively increasing the risk It is not that they dont fuck men casually - they absolutely do - but those men have assets > liabilities even with the liability of the casual sex. You don't…
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:17 AM
1

You have no idea what the hell you are talking about which is exactly why women see casual sex seeking clowns as a massive liability. Condoms wont prevent you giving her an HPV or HSV even if you do them correctly (and you wont) and they certainly wont prevent her from catching other shit as i bet you dont actually know or use the condom usage protocols
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:52 AM
2

Pregnancies, stds, you being an asshole, etc
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:43 AM
4

Casual sex is a liability. Stuff that you bring to the table is the asset. If liabilities are > assets you dont get to play. So either improve your assets or reduce your liabilities
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:34 AM
2

Move on
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:32 AM
4

Lower East Side for nightlife Upper East Side for cat ladies
/r/seduction09/08/24 10:49 PM
2

Take your typical session. Now make it three-four times as long. If she is not howling and ripping the sheets with her fists, it is too early to go for the finale. Remember, you have fingers.
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:41 PM
-1

If she is a booty call and she is no longer gagging for it, then by her standards you sucked in bed Move on. Become better. Women dont cancel on good sex -- it is that rare for them
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:33 PM
1

Op should have used his brain and not penis in that case.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 05:37 PM
1

Well, if he is still terrified of parents he should put his dick away
/r/MensRights09/08/24 05:35 PM
4

Whats her father going to do? Make you a burned toast?
/r/MensRights09/08/24 05:20 PM
18

"A horse sized dick wont pass those rolls"
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:24 PM
1

Gym and diet. Jfk, the game is the same - you are just less fuckable. Probably much less fuckable for women you go after: if you are average, your target is at most an average woman - 5'3, 170lb - i bet you would be successful hitting on them
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:13 PM
1

You arent bigger. You are fat. It is okay to be fat, stupid but it is your life so do whatever Now, if you are a fat guy, even a fat guy who needs to move his gut out of the way to reach his stick to take a piss, can you date? Absolutely. Being fat is just a negative. The fatter you are the bigger is the negative. Women date/fuck those who have a positive sum of their features, you would need some massive pluses to overcome that massive negative. For you it will be $$$. The fatter you are the la…
/r/seduction09/08/24 12:12 PM
0

Close. But you really need for it to be one of those video game playing, mountain dew guzzling, Cheetos dust covered dudes going "I'm gonna be a dating coach in NYC" for the cherry
/r/seduction09/08/24 10:59 AM
4

If you are uncomfortable giving an answer to that question to someone you are trying to sleep with, you should address your job, not the way to answer the question to avoid her walking away
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:55 AM
1

Folks, SNL writers could not write a better comedy no matter how much they try
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:49 AM
23

No, it means she is looking for a simp who thinks thats the way to get into her pants
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:47 AM
1

Men in power have institutional power. Men whining about power structures aren't in power.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:55 PM
1

This is trickier as based on both survey data and swipe data black women is the demographics that mostly dates within their race. I'm going to guess it will still be Atlanta simply because of the numbers.
/r/seduction08/08/24 12:22 PM
19

At 18 you can get laid while being a loser. At 28 you can't.
/r/seduction08/08/24 12:15 PM
1

Nah, his issue is much simpler - doom scrolling and laughing at idiots in cars/etc eats free time and ensures he is the most uninteresting person among other uninteresting people. Until he starts doing something he simply wont be able to compete
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:27 AM
4

You can start by not being a bozo spending his time doom scrolling tiktok/ig while scratching your balls and shoving food in your mouth.
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:24 AM
11

My man, scrapsexuality is a disease
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:40 PM
-3

I used my brain. Observe: "If i had ability to bang multiple of mutual 8s whom i know, and who like me and whom i actually bang, why would i ask reddit about doing OLD with women who are -3s to what I already have who arent even matching me? No, i would not. Thus i am not actually banging my mutuals, probably because i am a currently too chicken to proposition them. Thus i want to hone my skills on apps"
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:17 PM
1

You failed already by acknowledging her foodie date preference. Now you are either taking her there or you painted yourself as a broke chump, especially if you try to de-escalate the costs. This is your date : https://youtube.com/shorts/XZLJ2fQkRw0 Next time: ignore foodie date hooks
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:19 PM
2

If you are going for black women then it has to be Atlanta as it has a very high population of single black women looking specifically for black men.
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:16 PM
2

You dont have a phone? Did you ask a girl to post this question for you?
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:14 PM
1

Hookup: you are hot enough to have a good time with Dating: you are good enough to date Women can exist either or both dimensions at the same time. This means that any app is good for hookups.
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:13 PM
0

Are you dating your mutuals or are you masturbating to the idea of dating your mutuals? Because the answer is not the same depending on which one it is
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:11 PM
3

She wants you to pay.
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:09 PM
15

And nearly everything on this list requires money. So yes, contrary to the bullshit peddled the point 0 is .. Get. The. Money.
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:14 PM
2

Yeah. Unless you look like Banderas when he was younger, cut your hair short. Use a fucking multi-groom and cut it yourself. Takes two minutes
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:12 PM
1

Move. On.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:01 PM
2

In major cities I would also add things like group fitness classes, a-la cross-fit, barry's, etc. I would not do most gyms as outside chains like Equinox those aren't really social hubs. In that case just keep doing the stuff you *like* doing and you are likely to at least interact with women who like doing stuff you like doing. Remember, if you meet someone while engaging in activity you like doing you have something in common while if you go out of your way to meet someone you are likely to be…
/r/seduction06/08/24 04:04 PM
3

Cafes, coffee shops, book stores, running clubs, pickle ball, parks, climbing.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:41 PM
1

Have other shit to do rather than sit on your ass masturbating and pining for the time when a girl gets to touch you/you get to touch a girl.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:16 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:13 PM
2

Dunno. How would you view if he kissed another girl he knows and when you complained he said he was drunk and it should be NBD
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:12 PM
1

"Models" The rest is masturbation for people who love to masturbate.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:10 PM
3

Lolz. And how, pray tell, are you different from abother 23489273 clowns doing a "cold approach" in her DMs?
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:09 PM
83

Easy: * she must view you as a prize As soon as she thinks she is going to get better, you are finished. Let this motivate you.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:02 PM
2

Casual sex is a massive liability. Your looks are the asset. If they say "no" when you mention casual, your liabilities are higher than the asset.
/r/seduction06/08/24 11:00 AM
11

Lolz. This shit is stupidly easy: Skip her if any of the following is true: She is fat She has short hair She has visible piercings She has visible tattoos She identified as anything She has pronouns She identifies with mental illness Her major is women' studies/gender studies etc Her friends have the features on the above list
/r/MensRights06/08/24 10:38 AM
2

Dont listen to what they say. See whom they go out with. Thats the difference between stated preference and revealed preference
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:46 AM
2

Contrary to the bullshit you read: Threesomes mostly happen when a couple who is clearly into each other as can be observed by anyone else and looks good together while having fun with just each other are observed by a woman who goes "Damn, they look fun!" Everything else is trying to dig a trench with a tea spoon
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:44 AM
3

NYC, no question..Density is the key
/r/seduction05/08/24 07:14 PM
0

Charity cases dont count
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:38 AM
0

I did not stutter. You just don't like the implication
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:28 PM
2

Learn how to say pointless things Learn how to say pointless things that makes them want to respond Learn how to engage in pointless conversation that you can drag out for 10 minutes Learn how to engage in context appropriate pointless conversations you can drag out for 10 minutes Learn how to engage with context appropriate pointless conversations you can drag out for 10 minutes with women you want to sleep with Do 5 and ask them out
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:26 PM
0

Irrelevant to your success. Negative if you are trying to get laid
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:22 PM
1

By having stories you can tell.
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:21 PM
0

No, this is a matter of you having zero social skills.
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:20 PM
11

No, thats normal. If this is shocking to you , then most women you interact with view you as a simp
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:17 PM
5

I do not care why she would spend time with Fluffy and boxed wine
/r/seduction04/08/24 04:23 PM
1

1-2 approaches is boneheaded number. Whenever i hear that i know that unless the guy lifes in a bumblefuck middle of nowhere population 300 he still has zero social skills but instead of learning how to interact with people he tries to game..it is akin to a toddler who cant crawl trying to run olympics. For a reference - if i go out for a day , i will interact in a casual way (i.e. exchange a couple of sentences) with about 200 people (granted, i live in a densely populated city). Of those more …
/r/seduction04/08/24 03:26 PM
1

Interact with women in person. Ignore the game. When you do enough reps, you will figure out what kind of interaction makes it effortless for you. People talking about "the game" just parrot each other with nearly zero success. Example: I have been dating a woman for over a year. She is currently painting her nails naked on my couch. I still dont have her number.
/r/seduction04/08/24 02:06 PM
1

This is the problem following "systems" - you dont understand that it is not the words or phrases that matter but the totality of the behavior Next time: If she responds, presume you have way to get in touch with her Convert into in person Still keep the old method of communication - this telegraphs that you are easy going about bullshit (which is a common thing about men with options)
/r/seduction04/08/24 01:59 PM
1

Dont listen to bozos - you already have a method of communicating. Why on earth do you need to get a number? Just ask her out
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:32 PM
1

Handsome = can pay for me and i guess i may fick him once in a while
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:52 AM
1

Dude, if you cannot come up with a response on the fly then: You do not believe you are good looking Or You think thats the only thing you have going for you and thus are defensive Both of those are gigantic anchors dragging you down. Get rid of them
/r/seduction03/08/24 03:54 PM
-2

Both are stupid Text a few hours before: "Confirming <place> at <time>. I will be wearing X. When i get there i will text you a photo exactly of where i am sitting. "
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:16 PM
1

You are a mark
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:14 PM
3

This happens all the time. Everything you want in life someone else wants as well. Whoever is better gets what the other one wants
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:14 PM
1

The answer to this is complex but in general: It would take too much of my time - i can type up an answer quickly while i am giving my brain a break from doing the actual work. It would be a massive pay cut for me Most men who want to pay for coaching think that by paying for it they will magically skip the "work" they need to do to br datable/fuckable. The reality is that i can create the best program but unless someone actually does the work they will not succeed. So for most men who are looki…
/r/seduction02/08/24 04:58 PM
1

Unworm yourself
/r/seduction02/08/24 12:02 PM
1

You cant. You either go for it, or you dont. This is not a layaway.
/r/seduction01/08/24 07:51 PM
1

Lolz. Are you paying him? No? Well, he wants to eat This is yet another reason why having wingmen is stupid. They themselves are hungry.
/r/seduction01/08/24 07:50 PM
1

There is only one thing in the list that you cannot overcome - it is being short Right now you are: Short Fat Low self esteem No $$$ No skills No interesting life If you address being fat, getting skills, getting $$$ and acquire interesting life your self esteem would greatly improve. Which will, as if by magic, make you way more attractive to women
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:36 PM
19

You said it yourself: they left for someone better.
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:30 PM
1

People are stupidly simple at the end. Thats why you arent dating a 500lb land version of a magical creature typically found in the sea and she is not dating a dude who is living in a cardboard box under a bridge
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:29 PM
3

taps the mic You masturbated over text. Probably with Bob. Bob came.
/r/seduction01/08/24 12:30 PM
15

Bawawahahahaha. You cannot make this shit up - a god damn single mother feminist whale raised her son to be a soy boy to ensure that her ilk gets the best boys and now is shocked that her ilk still hates her soy boy son Hopefully her son moves out of the henhouse his mother runs, gets some muscles and some money and goes around banging all the daughters of the feminists like his mother
/r/MensRights01/08/24 12:27 PM
21

She did not show interest. She showed she is willing to see if there was something there (read: she is available and you arent repulsive). After checking she established you werent interesting to date or sleep with. If you constantly get the same result from different women, the commonality is you. Fix that shit
/r/seduction01/08/24 10:40 AM
1

Your finances are shit because you are using anxiety as an excuse. You know what improves finances? Working and spending less money than you make
/r/seduction31/07/24 12:13 AM
1

Fix the finances and life. Contrary to the bullshit you read in this sub without that you at best will be having sex once in a blue moon with absolute cave trolls, which in turn will make you spiral down even more
/r/seduction31/07/24 12:12 AM
1

Oh look, another clown who has never interacted with an actually hot woman with an opinion on how they interact. And no, teachers aides arent hot. They are at best average.
/r/seduction30/07/24 07:37 PM
2

You cant be average. You must be top 10 percent
/r/seduction30/07/24 03:17 PM
1

Nailed it
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:29 PM
0

Nope. It is the reverse. Hence your rage. The way you win is by having everything.
/r/seduction30/07/24 11:06 AM
1

See, every broke dude doesn't not understand that the process of making money allows one to get the reps needed to easily distinguish interest vs lack of it and that is a transferrable skill. The skill you do not have. Hence your last post "Is all hope gone?"
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:58 AM
2

Bawawahahaa. The level of idiocy in this sub is insane. This is what you do: make money so spending money on two extra glasses of wine and another entree affects you as much as getting a cup of coffee. When you get to that point you will stop behaving like someone who needs to ask reddit what to do when a random girl wants you to take her on a dinner date
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:50 AM
1

Being a broke Pookey is on you. I recommend making the money so spending some wont create emotional drama
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:18 AM
6

He isnt. He is just fat, lazy, unmotivated, with Cheetos crumbs on his shirt
/r/seduction30/07/24 08:49 AM
3

No, you actually should only approach if you want to
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:08 AM
4

Only go for the ones you would actually date regardless for the duration.
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:07 AM
2

Oh the cope Dude, you do not give a flying fuck about personality. If you did, you would be wifing Marsha who is wonderful but could not get onto " my 600lb l life" because the show had the size limit from practical consideration. So just admit it: you have the minimum attractiveness requirement and it is huge. And thats ok. After that you have a pile of other requirements. And thats ok Guess what? She also has the requirements. And one of them is that your interaction with her makes her wonder …
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:05 AM
27

The problem is that most of them themselves are equivalent of that 5'3 170lb in a male version
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:42 PM
4

Yes, and they are the ones mostly bitching and swiping on 30-40 year old men.
/r/seduction29/07/24 07:08 PM
11

So you are still needy? Why!? Dude, get it out of your system - make dates with two girls the same night. If you are going home with one, cancel the other. Otherwise cut short the first one and go for the second one P.s..it will also make you stop being used for foodie dates as you yourself wont want to eat twice. P.p.s. dinner dates are fine but you need to know how to do it in a way where her panties hit the floor i.e. make her go "I am soooooo getting nailed by him tonight! How do i not blow …
/r/seduction29/07/24 06:43 PM
71

True. Though average looking women now are also ignored in real life. Remember, an average woman in the US is obese - 5'3 at 170lb. Folks in this sub, even those whining about not getting laid constantly, arent trying to date her.
/r/seduction29/07/24 06:29 PM
39

No. The main difference was is that unfuckable dorks did not create a virtual community of crybabies as if it mattered that Stewie in Los Gatos could "understand" Johny from Staten Island who is also not able to bang the head cheerleader. I am telling you this as GenX er. It was the same - eventually men needed to find their balls and talk to women in person... or just masturbate to Sears catalogs. Now you masturbate to OF chicks and whine about not getting laid on the Internet
/r/seduction29/07/24 06:24 PM
1

"i am only going to borrow you"
/r/seduction29/07/24 03:09 PM
-1

No. This is the way
/r/seduction29/07/24 03:06 PM
8

She is not into you
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:51 PM
1

Oh jesus christ. Do not linger. Lingering is for Chihuahuas shaking like a leaf. Dont be one.
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:00 AM
1

You are fine. You are probably just lacking social skills and maybe lacking your own style. Especially the first. That comes with being social and reps
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:22 AM
6

Dancing well is absolutely the superpower
/r/seduction28/07/24 01:23 PM
3

Let me spell it out for you: Neither you nor your friends have any success with women which is why when you go out you go out with your friends If you had any success with women you would not be asking how many people to go out with to pick up women as this question would be irrelevant. If your friends were successful with women, they would not be going out with you, a chump who has no success with women The reason for that is that a single chucklehead like a bozo who wants to talk about argenti…
/r/seduction28/07/24 01:14 PM
1

Exactly - when you go out with a friend you talk to that friend. Do you want to talk to strangers/other women or do you want to talk to your friend?
/r/seduction28/07/24 12:33 PM
0

0. You see here all the time - chuckleheads get together and think because they are out they will magically improve their odds. In reality it becomes a blind, a deaf and a mute trying to find directions where the deaf insists on being the one to listen, the blind is in charge of selecting direction and the mute is in charge of talking eloquently. Hilarity ensures.
/r/seduction28/07/24 10:19 AM
1

If you look around here you will notice that normies refuse to listen
/r/seduction28/07/24 12:51 AM
1

It is wild. I lived here when i was in my twenties, moved around the states in my thirties and came back in my forties. There is just no other city in the US
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:25 PM
2

Nonsense. As soon as women resolve which box to put you in they stop being that interested unless it is the exact box they are interested in. You want to be between boxes - if you are they will go out of their way to resolve it. It is based on the RPE which is what makes gambling so addictive
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:16 PM
1

From my travels i say nothing compares to NYC because of density. Also it is a beacon that calls all of the "misfits" from all over the country to move to so your edgier girl from a Smalltown, Nebraska she is either moving to NYC for school or after school. Now, it is possible that some of them are moving somewhere else but NYC gets a massively higher number. LA is fine as it also gets some especially if you are into Malibu Barbie kind of women but i just hate how spread out it is. Thats a perso…
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:47 PM
1

Those are working girls. Outside that there are no jobs that pay $$$ over there so they either move to places like NYC or LA or join that specific industry
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:14 PM
1

NYC but it is the same everywhere
/r/seduction27/07/24 07:51 PM
4

Always.
/r/seduction27/07/24 07:29 PM
6

Sexting/sex proposition texts are mcdonalds french fries - they are only good when they are still warm
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:52 PM
4

School
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:51 PM
57

When i started noticing girls as something other than liabilities in team sports
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:50 PM
0

Dumbass autistic wings does not mean they are autists - it mostly means they are dumbasses. You said it yourself: you pull them well when you are solo. Thats because you are yourself and you lean into your strengths rather than letting dumb ass wings affect what/how you do P.s. i actually think that being autistic (but functional) makes things easier rather than more difficult as it becomes "play by play" rather than letting emotions and feelings get involved and fuck up a good play
/r/seduction27/07/24 05:05 PM
1

I dont need to. If you were an 8 you would not be whining in this subreddit that you cant get laid/arent bring hit on.
/r/seduction27/07/24 05:02 PM
1

You aren't. That's why they don't hit on you.
/r/seduction27/07/24 04:54 PM
1

You are 8-10 if when you walk down the street you get hit on by women. You are a 10 if you get cat called by women as they become pretty feral when they see someone who makes them wet. You dont? You are at best average
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:48 PM
5

I lol'ed reading it. See, thats the problem with Stewie's fantasies - the details are wrong: Ford does not even show up as a major agency name these days - thats late 90s. Next time actually look at who walks and lookup who represents them
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:10 PM
1

Mine says what i am going to do to them but i am an anomaly according to the "dating apps suck" cry baby club: I have an exciting life My profile does not show my face I have shirtless photos
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:07 PM
2

Move on
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:02 PM
1

Prioritize good bed time
/r/seduction27/07/24 02:58 PM
-8

If you are asking yourself that question she is not
/r/seduction27/07/24 02:58 PM
9

He is talking about chicks with IG pages
/r/seduction27/07/24 02:41 PM
3

France, no. Turkey, yes. Brazil, abso-fucking-lutely.
/r/seduction27/07/24 02:22 PM
1

Isnt it amazing that when you dont cripple yourself with dumbassed autistic wings who cant function or friends who cant function and you interact with women as yourself you actually succeed? Who knew?!
/r/seduction27/07/24 02:06 PM
1

They arent.
/r/seduction27/07/24 02:03 PM
5

I will grant you that except it would be a local bad boy not some dumbass who cant get laid in the west and decides he would score with an eastern european chick because he watched some YouTube videos. The level of delusion among the so called passport bros is insane
/r/seduction27/07/24 01:24 PM
8

You arent going to game them in Eastern Europe, at least not in major cities. They are either at home or they are sharks when the passport bros are guppies who are swimming in shark infested ponds. Small cities and towns come with brothers and uncles who will simply beat the living fuck out of a passport bro if Sveta comes home crying after he has taken her for a ride. Oh and the cops will stand there and watch the beat down. Or participate
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:34 AM
9

And thats how they are going to learn why trying to scam locals in those countries as they are used to scamming locals in the west has very different consequences
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:29 AM
0

So they are either paying for the box or they are lying to you
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:27 AM
18

No. Women in Eastern Europe are looking for providers to settle down with from an early age. If you think western women are materialistic, you have never met a woman from an eastern europe. Age gaps are super common and have been super common because thats the normal "trade" - he provides security and stability, she provides youth and beauty
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:25 AM
4

Dude, do you even understand that you cannot tap your credit card or a bank account in Russia? Like at all? Even if you have unionpay card it does not work forget about your visa or mastercard.
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:22 AM
17

They are lying to you. I can assure you, no one in Moscow or St Petersburg is banging a broke college student unless they are absolute trolls.
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:20 AM
-6

Because if you are going to pay for the box there is no point in going to shit hole countries to deal with the problems common in those shit holes. Signed, Someone who moved to the US from a shithole country
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:18 AM
1

Bullshit excuses. Here is how to lose weight: stop shoving extra food in your mouth. You aren't hungry - you are just a lazy glutton. Here is how to make money: stop wasting time playing video games, masturbating and whining on the internet. Put the extra time towards getting skills for which you will get paid. Skills compound. Polishing the meat stick does not Cant do that? Well, thats why women dont fuck you
/r/MensRights27/07/24 10:51 AM
26

Most posters here are delusional about their attractiveness level.
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:37 AM
1

Depends. How much weight did you put on the last 5 years and how much more of a hobo did you become?
/r/seduction26/07/24 08:13 PM
1

It is not. That "being hard" is a proxy for not being attractive. So what you do is you go "ok, i will just need to work a little harder on the other legs of the total package"
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:54 PM
-2

It takes nearly zero effort in 2024 to have six figure income and a six pack. If you do not have either of those two and you are spending your day on reddit bitching about womenz the problem is you
/r/MensRights26/07/24 04:43 PM
-20

Thats a cute cope. Want sex with women? Be someone women you want want to have sex with. It is not that difficult as your competition will be the cry babies whining on the internet about feminists denying them sex as they shove doritos into their face
/r/MensRights26/07/24 12:31 PM
-4

This is 2024, son. It is okay to be gay. No need to use Instagram to express your real self -- embrace it
/r/seduction26/07/24 12:27 PM
2

Rage of men who believe everyone is wrong and they are absolute studs
/r/seduction26/07/24 12:19 PM
5

How hot is he?
/r/seduction26/07/24 10:12 AM
21

If he thinks he gets to just stand there and look pretty to get approached, he better be a male supermodel fuckboy pretty
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:20 PM
0

She viewed sex as "meh" to her upon reflecting on it
/r/seduction25/07/24 05:05 PM
30

He is just not as "attractive" as he thinks.
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:55 PM
-1

Reddit seems to be crawling with male models who arent successful with women to a point where women dont hit on them/indicate they might be interested. It is of course nonsense. If you are 6'3, fit (read: with lean muscles) and dont dress like a hobo you will get hit on at a rate of at least several times a day. Granted, you wont be interested in most of them but such as life. If they arent hitting on you it is because you are delusional about your height, your fitness, or your non-hoboism and t…
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:53 PM
1

Tokyo parks have "rent a dog" booths by them.
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:45 PM
1

Penis Clam would be better - https://www.seriouseats.com/thmb/hBnQ3YaW0xL0i-VMCf4y-H2L3EM=/750x0/filters:no_upscale():max_bytes(150000):strip_icc():format(webp)/__opt__aboutcom__coeus__resources__content_migration__serious_eats__seriouseats.com__images__2015__05__05062105-tomky-geoduck-adult-8c06875991884bed8a8763c6d36f3458.jpg
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:42 PM
0

Is that a whale?! You have a pet whale in your pants?! Shit, now with that, my man, i am sure any greeting will do!
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:38 PM
2

You do not even know what a hot girl looks like. Hint: they arent on Fresh and Fit
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:36 PM
1

If people do not understand you unless you say something that makes you sound like a total bozo, then your issue with women is that you are a bozo and women dont like bozos
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:28 PM
1

Serious question: how effing stupid are you to think saying something racist is a part of "it does not matter what you say?" Even in this sub it is presumed that readers understand that 2+2 is 4 and not a banana, you do not run to a random chick you dont know and pull out your clit sized penis as a form of greetings or make a racist comment to establish your "frame"
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:23 PM
1

NYC
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:27 AM
10

They all look like ice queens to 99.99999% of men because the 99.999999% of men when they see her think * "Fuck, i wish i did not have that beer gut. Ok, im going to start going to the gym" * "She must be one of those brunching girls and i can't afford an $4 egg sandwich. Next week. I will hit on her after a pay day". * "I sit on my ass, play video games and masturbate. She will laugh" So they pass on interaction with her. Marsha, on the other hand has *everyone* try to hit on her as everyone vi…
/r/seduction24/07/24 06:58 PM
1

As someone who lives in NYC now and lived in NYC when the original was filmed it absolutely represents and represented how that *specific kind of women* lived and does live in NYC. Unlike the garbage known as "Friends" and "Scienfeld" "Sex and The City" is reality.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 02:32 PM
41

Nonsense. 8-10 are rarely approached. That's because men know three things very well: * the level of his looks when his shirt comes off * the balance of his bank account * how boring he thinks his life is vs what he thinks the 8-10 is used to Source: live in a city crawling with 8-10. dated a bunch. they are much easier to pick up than average or below average women.
/r/seduction24/07/24 02:12 PM
12

If she throws you a ball, you playfully toss it back. The keyword there being *playfully*. The actual thing does not matter - your issue was that your answer was *factual* not *playful*. Example: 6'3 - factual. Depends. How high are your heels? - playful Girls always ask me to lift them during concerts - playful etc etc etc
/r/seduction24/07/24 02:09 PM
0

"Dear Penthouse Letters, my name is Stewie and I have a dream"
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:42 PM
1

If you are insecure about your height no clever lines will help you as they will just demonstrate how painfully insecure about your height you are
/r/seduction24/07/24 10:08 AM
1

You have friends because you had them from the time you were younger.
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:11 PM
1

Become someone whose unavailability she views as he is busy doing shit she wants to do not him polishing off his meat stick
/r/seduction23/07/24 02:53 PM
1

You lack discipline. It typically manifests itself in the need of instant gratification vs grinding. Do the grinding. Here is a simple thing you can only achieve by grinding: get your fat ass to a state where you have a visible six pack when you take off a shirt and can do 15 full range of motion pullups. It will probably take you two years of grinding with bo other requirements. By the time you can do that, you will reprogram your brain to actually do things that require discipline, stick with …
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:24 AM
1

Be someone who knows where the parties are followed by being the one to throw parties
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:19 AM
1

You cant
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:18 AM
1

Seduction is just social skills applied to those you are interested in dating. Since you need to learn social skills (how to be engaging & interesting, escalation and calibration, measurement and ability to read the room) to succeed in life you might as well learn them in a more fun way
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:17 AM
16

Stop jerking off and start spending your time on becoming more successful.
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:14 AM
75

"I have a boyfriend" is "I am doing better/i can do better". Considering how desperate you come across in this post they are unlikely to be wrong
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:13 AM
1

There are very few people who have a good delivery of something they dont have a foggiest idea about
/r/seduction23/07/24 12:49 AM
2

Text her in a few days around the time that will make it possible for her to come over to do some acrobatics and proposition her to come over. Even if she does not respond, she knows tou are game. So as long as you dont act after like you want to convert you might get "i want to get done" text in future Thats the "it is strictly sex, not feelings" move.
/r/seduction22/07/24 01:39 PM
1

Ask them for a bwanky, a glass of warm milk and have a cry session. That was sarcasm. Dont. Learn to process your emotions
/r/seduction22/07/24 01:37 PM
1

"i am not emotionally invested but but but i want i want i want how do i do that? I want" This, my friend, is how emotional investment looks like
/r/seduction22/07/24 01:34 PM
1

Is a Eurasian Shepherd strolling by more.attractive than a Chihuahua in a diaper barking?
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:39 AM
1

As soon as you said "rather than... I .." you lost
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:38 AM
1

Keep her unbalanced
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:36 AM
2

Reps. You dont have the reps.
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:36 AM
-2

I am pretty awesome so....
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:35 AM
7

Escorts
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:35 AM
2

Would.you pay a bum living run a cardboard box under a bridge to give you a financial advice?
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:34 AM
7

Stubble. Get an electric shaver and shave every 3-5 days
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:33 AM
2

Be in the right place at the right time and not be a dork
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:31 AM
1

When you talk about it others want to tag along
/r/seduction21/07/24 10:45 PM
-1

Weird, right? I am average, yet i am getting laid. You arent and you arent getting laid. It is surprising you because your premise is wrong https://www.reddit.com/u/MrAnonPoster/s/uL1pPLn5c0
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:28 PM
13

Thats ok. By the time you are at 100-150 you will stop carrying. By 250 you will become charming. By 350 you will start being funny. By 500 yoh will start reading the room for your jokes. By 900 you will be a fun a guy and by 1000 they will start wanting to find just what makes you tick.
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:26 PM
0

In general one should avoid listening to a self admitted total failure at 25 and a virgin at 24 on topics related to how women relate to men whom they fuck as they tend not to have a foggiest idea Trying to convert someone one knows for several years into a FWB is digging a trench with a spoon.
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:10 PM
2

There is nothing there.
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:30 PM
-7

You asked a question. You are given an answer. You do not like the answer so like a little Chihuahua you are starting to bark that you are correct. If you knew what you were doing and you knew tou would be able to get it done you would not be asking on reddit. In general, women sort men into two piles nearly immediately. Pile 1. The ones they sleep with Pile 2. Everyone else You are in a pile 2. Go find someone who has not put you into a pile #2
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:23 PM
2

Because you have known her for 3 years and you are asking reddit about it
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:18 PM
2

The line is you trying to use it to get into her pants or increase your chances of getting into her pants
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:17 PM
9

Do another 994 approaches
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:16 PM
8

You cant. Someone who doesn't know her can
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:16 PM
4

This is the answer.
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:30 PM
67

Jfk, this again? No, you would not be 10/10 even with muscles. At 21 at that height without muscles if you were 8/10 you would be doing catwalk. You arent, this means you are average tall dude. This means you need: Lean muscles Resources Personality Exciting life All of this requires reps. Reps take time. Stop jerking off and start working on everything.
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:28 PM
5

They "dont kiss" because they don't find you hot enough and fun enough
/r/seduction20/07/24 04:01 PM
6

If you think she is into you and she wants to stay out
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:58 PM
2

For the future in case like this: * chalk her up to "use as practice" * figure out how to become the one she picks * after that drop her (remember, she was not into you that much) But this would be a good live fire exercise of how to blow their socks off ( which you want to be able to do on autopilot ).
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:35 PM
8

By not being a universally friendly guy. Here's a thing - men with options are *selective*. Why? Because there are too many people and being "nice" takes time. Women intrinsically understand that anyone who is nice to everyone treats every one of them the same. And none of them wants to be viewed the same as Marsha.
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:30 PM
1

You are her backup plan. Either accept that, become the primary or move on.
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:28 PM
0

They find you to be standard issue boring dork. That's why they bolt. Got a phone number? Ask her out. "Hey, this is that super weak hopeless guy from tinder. Tomorrow, 7pm. At this place. Wear X ( make sure X matches what you would be doing - if you would be walking don't tell her to wear heels. etc). I will be doing Y so you can recognize me."
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:25 PM
8

Yeah the issue is that I’m desperate to find my wife and feel that I’m on a timeline since I’m turning 30 next month. There's no help for you until you stop desperately trying to find yourself a wife.
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:16 PM
1

Following week, I saw her in the gym and everything was normal. I invited her to a BBQ cookout for the 4th with some friends/coworkers and she accepted. This is where it started going downhill. First, we were going to a place that was restricted and let’s just say had a lot of rules that she had never been to. I basically told her the house rules, and on 3 different times during the party she tried to challenge me and say it didn’t really matter (it did matter, and if she did what she wanted she…
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:15 PM
1

You will need a car there
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:12 PM
20

Rubbish. You are saying "Have millions in a bank, stressed about starbucks coffee price" If you are living in abundance, you wont be needy. Rule #1 of getting somewhere is to stop lying to yourself and others. That lets you start addressing the issues you have
/r/seduction19/07/24 11:53 AM
1

Thats a fairy tale. The sooner you stop believing in it the better your life will be
/r/seduction18/07/24 06:33 PM
1

Women, at least the women you are going for,do not love/like unconditionally. Their feelings are based on the conditions of them feeling safe and secure being with you. If your actions jeopardize that feeling regardless of how irrational you might think that feeling is they will absolutely look to regain that feeling. In most cases it will be by moving on with someone else Here is the question though: why the hell do you need to be having emotional outbursts about stupid shit? Those dont solve p…
/r/seduction18/07/24 04:32 PM
1

No
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:17 PM
1

When you do not need to pretend you are someone because you actually are that someone
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:17 PM
1

You are shooting for a decade too early.
/r/seduction18/07/24 10:12 AM
2

You don't
/r/seduction17/07/24 10:06 PM
1

define easy?
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:17 PM
33

Be a self propelled dildo with a six pack and realize you are going to be doing absolute cave trolls
/r/seduction17/07/24 04:25 PM
1

"Lady, stop looking at me like a piece of meat!"
/r/seduction17/07/24 02:55 PM
1

You must be someone they think they will have a good time with. This means that after you clear "you aren't repulsive" hurdle you should make the interaction fun and light hearted, not something that will pass the HR lady "it is ok" test.
/r/seduction17/07/24 02:53 PM
1

Lolz. You are going to another country for a date?! Talk about simping
/r/seduction17/07/24 02:46 PM
7

"Dear Penthouse Letters, my name is Stewie..."
/r/seduction16/07/24 10:10 PM
18

This is 2024. You dont have to be straight
/r/seduction16/07/24 08:04 PM
2

You are an idiot. Signed, Chad
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:29 PM
20

She is not playing hard to get - she is just not interested
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:25 PM
2

Your other post describes your issues in spades. "Chad" is a package. Think 2024 X6 M. He is driving it like a Pinto
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:21 PM
2

As soon as she is no longer "just a woman I know" before she went out of her way to invest into you, you start simping. But whatever, you are an expert, which is why you are asking for advice here and writing a multi-paragraph justification for the behavior that is not working for you
/r/seduction16/07/24 01:40 PM
3

You quite literally said that you decided she qualified for a potential LTR before you even spent 6 months with her. Thats how simping shows up
/r/seduction16/07/24 01:08 PM
1

You are boring. Women do not go for boring men. At least not the women you go for. Listen, at 6'4 and fit they expect you to be the Chad they heard so much about - think stories of you lane splitting on a motorcycle on the way to a dinner to which you show up wearing a Kilgore suit with a woman dressed in a barely there outfit waiting for you to whisk her away. If instead you come at them with the energy of a deflated soccer ball, they instantly dry up and decide you are a poser because your beh…
/r/seduction16/07/24 01:06 PM
1

Online conversations are for setting up dates. How many times do you clowns need to hear this for it to click?
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:58 PM
1

The dude cant get laid by non-escorts.
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:57 PM
5

Same as usual: Get fit Get $$$ Have exciting life Talk to people Everything else is junk wrapped in a bow for suckers who are too lazy to do those 4 to buy
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:56 PM
5

Move on
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:55 PM
3

So you saw a girl you want to LTR with and that made the simp you come out?
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:54 PM
0

He is not into you
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:53 PM
1

Have an actual life. If you dont have the time because you are busy rather than pretend not to have the time to appear to be busy the problem goes away
/r/seduction16/07/24 02:00 AM
1

You dont need to agree with getting a VIP package to go to concert. The experience is just much better
/r/seduction15/07/24 09:14 PM
1

You pay for the app because there are too many broke imbeciles who think that by popping up a profile they are going to get somewhere. There are only so many slots available. You want to be ahead of the broke imbeciles. It is basically VIP entrance at a concert. Pay extra $100, get fast entry, your own bathroom, your own bar and a bag of swag.
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:42 PM
0

Keep telling yourself that as you polish your meat stick.
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:40 PM
2

Reps is just repetition. You get good at playing chess by playing thousands of games. You get good at doing pullups by doing thousands of pullups. You get good at driving a car by spending thousands of hours driving a car Same way: you get good at interacting and talking with women by interacting and talking to women.
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:29 PM
1

Lolz. It is right there. In a profile. Compare it to yours
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:27 PM
2

Yes. You need to develop social skills that include talking to women during the daytime. In fact most of your interactions with women will be during the daytime thus that is what you need to concentrate on. Keep in mind: for most men closing with a decent date and even possibly getting laid isnt really that difficult. What they fumble is the interaction where they cant just skip to bed because they do not have the reps that help them in maintaining playfulness, teasing and lighthearted attitude …
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:24 PM
2

Yup
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:18 PM
5

You dont need preselection. You can think of a combination of traits women find attractive to be a positive weight. Every woman has some set of individual minimums below which she won't date and a minimum of sum of all weights. If you clip those mins, she is interested. If you dont, she is not. Pre-selection is just one weight that gets added to the aggregate
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:16 PM
2

Being a Chad is fucking great - it is like being a Eurasian shepherd making Chihuahuas wearing diapers have a freakout about "masculinity" by walking by
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:35 PM
1

Honey, you would not know what masculinity was if it put its wet pussy on your face
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:28 PM
3

Getting attention while clubbing is sharks seeing is you would buy them stuff. Be that drinks, bags, dinners or clothes. The only attention that counts when clubbing is if they go home with you Source: me - used to bounce in a couple of hot spots
/r/seduction15/07/24 10:16 AM
4

This dude blames his lack of success on anyone but himself. His previous greatest hit was bitching that women want a successful man rather than an unsuccessful man.
/r/seduction15/07/24 10:13 AM
12

You become "the most interesting man" in any room you enter
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:30 AM
3

Yup
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:29 AM
2

She decided you arent interesting enough
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:29 AM
95

Most men here have low or zero body count
/r/seduction14/07/24 05:39 PM
1

Again: if after sleeping together when you have a casual/fwb relationship with a woman she prefers to sleep with someone else then to her you suck in bed. If she would rather risk a new guy sucking in bed than fuck you again you are absolutely horrible in bed. Most men suck in bed. While getting dick for women is super easy, getting the kind of dick that makes her into a puddle of wet clay shaking for 10-15 minutes after sex is very difficult to find. Those are the men women actually are looking…
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:59 PM
1

Incels are adorable. Look, my man. Men who are men do not give a flying fuck about the opinion on how they should behave rendered by blue haired 170lb at 5'3 cat ladies with armpit hair visible from a mile away. Those cat ladies arent their market. Women, actually attractive, interesting, lovely, adorable women, behave towards men in the most lovely way. Granted, those men should telegraph that they are men and not miserable angry little twits typing in rage on a phone.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:32 PM
1

They look at your hands to see if some other woman determined you have some merit and tried claiming you.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:27 PM
6

You are neither hot enough nor rich enough. Club is basically an easy proxy on where you fit on the sexual attraction matrix
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:26 PM
2

Gym and diet
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:25 PM
-1

Thats what happens when you arent that good in bed regardless of what you and your boys keep telling each other
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:02 PM
5

Which part of you not being exclusive do you not understand?
/r/seduction14/07/24 02:51 PM
6

Women care about what you can do for them.
/r/seduction14/07/24 11:02 AM
1

You think you are pretty awesome, right? I mean, you moved to a different country and you are doing pretty well for yourself, right? You overcame all these challenges, including using a non native language. Why on earth do you think you are lucky if a pretty girl is ok talking to you? Every god damn day another crop of pretty girls become 18! If someone does not want to play the ball with you it is not your loss, it is her loss. If you were a bum barely scrapping by that would be a different sto…
/r/seduction13/07/24 08:21 PM
3

Nobody is dunking on you. You want to win at this? First step is to undesperate yourself. The first step to that is to recognize when you are being desperate. Here is a non desperate statement on that interaction: "Talked to a bunch of people. Tossed a pretty girl a ball. She did not pick it up" You trying to now justify why you feel the way you do about it is desperation. It is the needy mindset. And that always cock blocks you. Always
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:30 PM
5

Well, ukraine's men wanted to be like the west. Now they get to enjoy being like the ones in the west while Sveta drinks champagne with Ahmed who will piss on her after dinner
/r/MensRights13/07/24 06:23 PM
2

You wrote a fucking dissertation about being rejected when you exchanged two semi-sentences one of which was you apologizing for a coming sentence. You are desperate. Oh and i'm also not an American - english is my 4th language. So no, it is not a language barrier
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:10 PM
9

You are clueless
/r/seduction13/07/24 11:02 AM
2

Your legs were made for walking... Away from crazy
/r/MensRights13/07/24 01:44 AM
-1

Thats a pattern for people who dont have enough mental fortitude to handle everything that changes when they become successful/well known for something
/r/seduction12/07/24 10:20 PM
-7

No. Mystery is just a marketer. He became marginally successful with marginally attractive women after he became famous.
/r/seduction12/07/24 08:14 PM
1

They do not. Again average woman is basically obese. This means that roughly half of women are worse than that. Even a Homer Simpson is not trying to get together with a woman 5 inches shorter than Serena Williams who is 30lb fatter than Serena Williams
/r/MensRights12/07/24 12:04 PM
2

Ask yourself "why would a hot woman want to spend her time with me vs anyone else she can spend time with?" If i ask myself that question i can write a god damn novel. Can you? If the answer is "no" then you are a one boring sob which is why they dont do that. Hell, you probably would not want to hangout with yourself either. So you become someone you would want to hangout with and as if by magic suddenly women will find you interesting
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:59 AM
1

Every clown always thinks they are getting IOUs in a gym. Dude, unless you are someone like Anatoly or one of those guys in "scaring girls with calisthenics" videos you arent getting the IOUs. They just look in your general direction because you dont have your plumber ass crack showing like the guy on the other side of them
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:55 AM
1

Women want to have fun flirty conversations not being approached like a dried up 70 year old philosophy professor. You are doing the later
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:52 AM
1

You obtain yourself an exciting lifestyle
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:49 AM
1

Tell me, a person obsessed with being a firefighter - do you want your teammates to be the best or average? Oh, you want your teammates to be the best. Why do you think women want their teammates to be the average Homer Simpsons?
/r/seduction12/07/24 10:47 AM
2

Stop coping. Yes, younger women like older men because older men at least in theory accumulated resources and women like access to resources. So if the older man has not fallen apart by the time he has those resources he is going to clean up. Those men dont even have to tell they have resources - it is visible in their behavior. Women are very much in tune with figuring it out Want to have long term success dating/fucking/whatever with women? Get your coping ass into a position where you have re…
/r/seduction12/07/24 09:15 AM
26

Be a 6' or above lean white guy and it is like shooting fish in a barrel. Otherwise you are wasting time
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:59 AM
5

If you get 2-3 show up in person over a month (which is just above 1 per 2 weeks) then you are doing great!
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:12 PM
5

Oh, you mean you match them In OLD? Do you have them show up in a non-pixel form?
/r/seduction11/07/24 07:59 PM
11

Why would you want to dig a trench with a tea spoon again?
/r/seduction10/07/24 11:15 PM
2

And this, kids, is the Q E.D. illustrating how stupid the people advocating spamming in places like malls are. If mall security tells you to leave and you dont, you are absolutely going to get cops. And all your dumb attitude at best is going to get you a ticket and trespass warning. If you mouth off like a bozo you are, you may end up spending time in a lovely cell while they process you. I can assure you not only will you not like it, but it is going to fuck up your future big time.
/r/seduction10/07/24 10:14 PM
2

Always
/r/seduction10/07/24 09:16 PM
0

You think people who spam approach are going to listen when they are told to leave?
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:34 PM
3

People who are dominant do not slither away after being rejected to post on reddit about the vibe being all wrong
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:35 PM
2

This is the shit that makes me want to reach out through the screen and slap men silly: If you have plenty of success with girls you already know why the hell are you approaching randos? It is because the women you know are total cave trolls you would never want to date? Well, newsflash, if that's the case those women do not count! Now if you would happily date women you know then ignore the yappings of all these fakw dating experts who themselves date/marry/sleep with cave trolls who tell you t…
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:34 PM
7

If you slept with her and she started to pull away it is because to her the sex was "meh". When the clothes come off, the real you comes out. If what you portrayed does not match the reality, she may still fuck you but she is out. This is why "The Game" is stupid - she bought you based on the ad you put up and failed to deliver (which is why you needed "the game" to get her to begin with) Short term address the (1). Realize, most of "expert advice" is wrong. Women can and do go for 30-45 minutes…
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:19 PM
40

"Dear Penthouse Letters, my name is Stewie"
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:09 PM
0

People dont just get thrown out - they get a trespassing charge.
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:49 PM
1

It does not matter if the people were happy. What matters is thats what happens. I understand.it is outside the level of comprehension of population of this sub
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:25 PM
2

This is correct
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:07 PM
5

More nonsense. If this guy knew any women he would have known that every single dork on the internet hears the same bullshit approach and tries it -- the same dork who is utterly terrified to make a proposition or have a statement. Their messages are full of some form of "Can i ask you a question" from guppies waiting for her to respond. Guess what? She does not.
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:06 PM
1

I have seen both. In the place i bounced there were three stalls and a communal sink. In another place the nicest bathroom looked like a god damn spa
/r/seduction10/07/24 12:46 PM
1

Yes, literally anything. Both of you have something in common -- you are in the same place at the same time. Thats a good start
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:36 PM
2

I am sure you can speak to men just fine... Try speaking with mixed groups which include the kind of women whom you are attracted to. Think of it like strating with a scooter rather than jumping on a superbike immediately
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:33 PM
1

Good! Just dont postpone talking to people. Thats the part dudes always go out of their way not to do. Alas, if you cant easily talk about anything with anyone you are going to have a really hard time being a smooth criminal when talking to a woman you actually want to talk to... Charisma.is basically being effortlessly easy to talk to/interact with
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:29 PM
0

He is not. An average man barely exists just like an average woman barely exists. Women (including average women) chase after 5-10 percent men Men (including average) chase after top 5-10 women. Remember, in the US an average woman is 5'3 and 170lb. Thats bigger than Serena Williams while being 6" shorter and with 40-50 percent more body fat vs Serena's muscle. These women are invisible to men. Just like those average (and below) men arent visible to women
/r/MensRights09/07/24 11:11 PM
1

Correct! In the sea of guppies you are ... A guppy! You dont standout. Fix that
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:54 PM
1

No
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:50 PM
2

Good! Since now you know your weaknesses you can address them. Most dudes posting here think it is something else that they are missing so they just run around in circles. Confidence comes from knowing that you can do things because you have done them. So go do things! Charisma comes with practice. That requires reps. Go talk to people. About totally pointless shit. Convince them that you are funny. Convince them they want to hang out with you. Etc etc etc
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:49 PM
1

She starts contributing to "us" when she is into "you"
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:45 PM
1

Hobo-ism
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:43 PM
2

Yes, like Tinder. See the distance over it? Swipe left
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:42 PM
1

Stop matching with girls who make you throw up in your mouth.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:42 PM
0

You wont be.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:41 PM
3

Set app radius to 20 miles/kilometers. There, solved your problem
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:40 PM
1

This is gold.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:37 PM
14

You sound crazy
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:16 PM
2

There is no way to skip the reps
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:29 AM
-10

Tough cookies. Get a roommate. The level of pathetic excuses from the genpop here is only matched by the level of whining from ham sized planets being confused why men they want dont want to date them
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:45 PM
2

Question: would you also be posting on here to ask if you should lean in and kiss her?
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:14 PM
-12

Get. A. Job.
/r/seduction08/07/24 12:16 PM
9

Dunno..this is great! All our competition has the attention span of a castrated gnat
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:52 AM
26

Yes, the good looking guy will probably steal your girl if he is interested in her. It does not matter though because he isnt interested in your 4. Or your 5 or even your 6 or 7. And you arent dating an 8-10. So you and Marsha are safe.
/r/seduction06/07/24 06:31 PM
3

You are triangulating too much. Stop. Be the pompous ass. "Why would i be coming from your house?" "Because i am irresistible, of course" This kind of extra wacky answer gives her a way to play it however she wants
/r/seduction05/07/24 11:39 PM
2

You are in a wrong market. Move to a more cosmopolitan city in the US i.e. NYC, LA, SF, MIA, Philly, etc. you will clean up there.
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:05 PM
12

For most women dick is plentiful and of low value.
/r/seduction05/07/24 12:23 PM
-2

You like them because you cant get anyone else -- you cant get them either but this fantasy is closer to your reality than other fantasies
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:55 PM
1

Ask. Her. Out.
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:16 PM
1

Adams Morgan. Dupont circle for night. Standard tourist spots - nat mall, blm walk, lincoln memorial, etc for the daytime reps. You are unlikely to actually get anywhere here but it is good for reps.
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:14 PM
-2

Yup. As i said - wing requests here keep demonstrating why winging is stupid.
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:09 PM
-2

Wait. You think women at Pastis are hot?! The moms of 4 from NJ?! This, kids, is why you should not wing with men who need/want wings.
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:56 PM
1

Neither
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:54 PM
1

Tell me, Luke, will you also be posting "Need to learn how to unhook her bra ASAP?"
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:08 PM
4

Before or after you tried to restore your honor?
/r/seduction03/07/24 10:40 AM
3

I loled
/r/seduction03/07/24 10:38 AM
2

If you actually have a solid six pack go ahead and flex it. In fact, create a throwaway Tinder account and throw some there right when you want to go fishing. Through realize you need to immediately take the numbers off Tinder as you will be TOS violated within 30 min to 2 hours. It is worth it though in the busy markets as you will walk away with dozens of contacts (and in my experience with a few "i want to go and have a good time" dates) if you have a reasonable profile.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:46 PM
2

Toastmasters is a marketing organization not speaking organisation. It exists to market the ogranization to chuckleheads who think it will help them (for a price) You get good at speaking to women (or people in general) by speaking to women (or people in general)
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:30 PM
1

No
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:23 PM
1

If they are your friends, it is irrelevant. If they are someone you are friendly with, just foward funny shit. If they are a rando, see "date locally"
/r/seduction02/07/24 02:41 PM
2

If you are just friends then you dont have to be good what so ever. You sending her messages about wacky shit and you sending Bob messages about wacky shit is the same. Neither her nor Bob have to reply or even acknowledge it. Shit, i forward funny IG crap or news links to people i know socially all the time -- at most i get a reaction or "hahaha". They do the same. There is no game and no investment from anyone there
/r/seduction02/07/24 02:28 PM
8

Date locally. Long distance shit is pointless. It is like digging a trench using a spoon. Her investment into you over long distance is zero. As soon as someone hits on her she even marginally likes who is local and whom she can go out with she would be investing into him which means you go bye bye
/r/seduction02/07/24 02:20 PM
6

No, i am telling you that you cannot make her become invested into you over text. You make her invested by giving her attention when she invests. For her investment requires an effort. Texting you is effortless. You texting her, however, is the attention you are giving for zero investment on her part.
/r/seduction02/07/24 02:08 PM
2

You cant
/r/seduction02/07/24 02:02 PM
1

Middle aged singles events
/r/seduction02/07/24 10:42 AM
1

May i illustrate? This is them. -- https://youtube.com/shorts/olr97t2xQ1A
/r/MensRights02/07/24 10:27 AM
1

Cool! Sorry if it came across too aggressive.
/r/seduction01/07/24 11:13 PM
3

It is the reverse. The insecure guy, who OP is and you are, are the ones who do not respond with "Bye!" when she does something of this, which he (or you), do not like happen as throwing her out means he (or you) wont get laid. A secure guy either: Does not give a flying fuck that she might be banging, looking to banv or she is banging someone else -- he operates on a belief (typically empirically backed belief) that she would crawl back to him because he is so much better than his "competition"…
/r/seduction01/07/24 11:02 PM
2

Wrong. That simply encourages her behavior. The behavior he is not Ok with because if he was Ok with it he would not be posting about it here
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:33 PM
1

You wrote "She likes you and is displaying pre-selection". Pre-selection absolutely works on men. Here is how: she is not dating his competition. Not she is not saying that she is not dating them but she could but simply by not dating them
/r/seduction01/07/24 04:45 PM
1

You are using terms that sound smart without understanding them. Pre-selection for men does not work this way.
/r/seduction01/07/24 04:29 PM
3

She is trying to see if she can squeeze more (whatever it is) out of you. Tell her "Thats awesome! You should go exercise some of them! " get up and walk away
/r/seduction01/07/24 04:27 PM
2

You are absolutely clueless. But do continue to follow me around like other miserable cat ladies P.s..and this, kids, is why you should ignore the yappings of fish - especially the fish no one wants - she literally thinks it is about getting naked over video feed.
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:54 PM
2

Thats good! Just tweak the attention v investment part and you should do much better especially since you being unavailable is not fake - you are actually busy rather than pretending to be busy
/r/seduction01/07/24 11:42 AM
2

Cut it out for the future It is very simple: women's currency is attention. men's currency is investment. If you are giving her attention (over the internet) and she gives you no investment (getting her ass out to see you), you arent actually having a meeting of minds. This is why pixel relationships dont work. You should incentivise her investing time into you which is virtually impossible not in person
/r/seduction01/07/24 11:07 AM
1

It would have been normal if you already moved
/r/seduction30/06/24 11:46 PM
-1

You talked with someone for 3 weeks?! Boo, it is you
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:35 PM
1

You are dating pixels. Pixels need texting. If you dont date pixels, you dont have to text them
/r/seduction30/06/24 06:42 PM
0

5'9 at 130 for a male is not fit.
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:44 PM
1

Date locally. Pixel relationships arent real
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:42 PM
2

You realize that if most men arent successful then chatgpt is trained on unsuccessful data?
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:41 PM
1

Your fatness, brokeness, shyness and the lack of social skills cock block you far more than your brownness
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:40 PM
4

Because self-proclaimed nice guys arent actually nice
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:41 AM
0

Get a job. You will be busy
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:08 AM
-2

Thats a cope of the guy who is seeing the train leaving the station as he is smoking a joint.
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:26 PM
-5

You arent. If you were you would not be unsuccessful with women
/r/seduction29/06/24 08:39 PM
2

She wasnt. If she was, she would not have ghosted you
/r/seduction29/06/24 08:36 PM
3

Jfk. It is the same. Reps. Reps. Reps.
/r/seduction29/06/24 08:30 PM
1

You arent making them wet. #1 is basically the clearest demonstration of this being the case. Honestly, just go for it
/r/seduction29/06/24 08:29 PM
0

Have an exciting life. You wont need "old" photos
/r/seduction29/06/24 08:14 PM
-1

You have neither. You cant fake it
/r/seduction29/06/24 08:13 PM
1

Your profile is visible.
/r/seduction29/06/24 07:48 PM
1

Ok, you are truly convinced. No wonder you get taken for a ride
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:45 PM
2

Get your lazy butt off the internet and interact with women in person.
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:38 PM
1

All those coaches were busted paying chicks. You approached two 3s in ukraine while speaking English. Thats not an accomplishment. Also you did not use any game as they dont have the command of the language needed to understand you
/r/seduction29/06/24 01:54 PM
0

Mystery is also clueless. If he was not, he would not be trying to sell/shill courses even today The entire thing was marketing in the era when information asymmetry meant that it was possible to convince chuckeheads playing SimCity and rubbing their bellies that there was a way to get them to get womenz without them stop being chuckleheads. It was wag the dog - he started getting laid after he became famous for his method as it brought him social status. Women dig social status. Now lets addres…
/r/seduction29/06/24 01:01 PM
1

Dude, here is the support for you: Stop lying to yourself - 7-8s arent interested in you. The autistic 5 is not interested in you. She is just autistic. It is also a waste of time trying to figure out how she thinks Get your shit together - a first step is being realistic at where you currently sit in order of their preferences as that will give you a clear road map at what to work on. In your case it is not being an angry needy guy who cannot believe women dont want to sleep with him. I bet you…
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:43 PM
-2

Thats called a cope. If you are picking up 8-10s like shooting fish in a barrel, you are going to easily find a wife among the 8-10s. PUAs lie and the chuckleads believe their lies. This is your large body count PUA: https://youtu.be/W2XNrIm-bA0 P.s. rules of the game do not change in a long term relationship.
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:33 PM
0

No one who is dating 7-8s easily would spend time and effort at 5s.
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:29 PM
-5

PUA coaches are clueless. If they were not they would not be either single or dating/married total cave trolls. Listening to them is like taking financial advice from a bum living in a cardboard box under a bridge.
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:13 PM
-5

Great advice actually. Contrary to the bullshit you read here masturbation and upgrading your video game character arent the kind of hobbies that will get you anywhere
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:32 AM
0

Ah yes the famous "i date supermodels but i really want to get experience dating a meth head"
/r/seduction29/06/24 01:09 AM
0

Ok, you clearly do not understand the topic
/r/seduction28/06/24 11:58 PM
-1

Stick to playing video games
/r/seduction28/06/24 09:37 PM
7

You get to that point by being embarrassed so many times you simply stop caring that you are embarrassed again There is a youtube channel by a practicing psychologist called PhycHacks or something like that. Look up that topic and watch his videos. He breaks down the psychological aspects of it and how to get out from under them
/r/seduction28/06/24 07:02 PM
12

Thats why you need reps. Do it a 100 more times.
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:57 PM
1

Yes. Look, it is not that you are retarded, right? So you do not walk up to a random girl at a party and yank her dress off. If you did that someone would have either knocked your teeth out or you would have ended up in prison. This means you are already calibrated enough. This in turn means that what you are asking is "how do i calibrate even more to optimize my chances to get into her pants by meeting all the expectations". Thats the mistake. You win by risking that you would fuck up by being …
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:44 PM
1

Dont. It is a pointless waste of time. Approach women in person.
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:40 PM
0

Dont. Why the hell would you want to do that much work? Are you that desperate?
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:23 PM
1

Dont calibrate. Calibration is triangulation which screams "will someone please give me the hole? Anyone? Pleeeeaaaase"
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:22 PM
1

By having the following three: Muscles Money Interesting life
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:21 PM
2

You should be more concerned with getting out of being poor and not independent hole.
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:20 PM
-1

This is one of those boneheaded moves that will make a woman who is wet for you dry out. Read the body language. Escalate. If she pulls back or redirects move on.
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:19 PM
0

Go home and masturbate again. Afterall, it is not like you approach women.
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:16 PM
1

Do you actually think she is beautiful or do you think that will help you to get into her pants?
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:16 PM
4

She is not interested anymore. You have been replaced. Ffs, stop listening to the bozo dating coaches like boneheads who post here -- they are clueless: If she is making herself available to you she is interested in seeing where it goes. Your goal is to pick up that ball and score with it. Only after you scored she might be willing to chase you, not before. Until you slept with her and make her have a toe curling, leg shaking, she is screaming so hard the neighbors might call the cops good time …
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:01 PM
1

Right now (summer) add the area around main Eately (also eately itself), the 23rd st corridor, Bway 23rd down to 14th, Bowery and Nolita. It is crawling with women
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:17 PM
3

Bullshit. If you talk like that to her you already pulled back. If you feel like you have not, you are smothering her. Women's interest in men comes from her asking herself "what if". If you keep answering her what ifs you kill the mystery and she loses interest
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:53 PM
1

You are in NYC and are a professional musician with an actual job on Broadway. Why the hell are you not fishing in Washington Sq/Union Sq/NYU and Flatiron? I bet you will have much better results where you standout vs your most likely quite average OLD profile?
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:52 PM
2

Stop dating long distance. It is self-created problem
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:48 PM
121

She was a hooker.
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:47 PM
13

Stop texting her like a god damn puppy waiting for a treat. Dont you have something else to do? Go do those things
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:47 PM
-1

Stewie, there is a reason why your profile looks like a ramblings of someone who has never been outside. Compare and contrast.
/r/seduction27/06/24 02:18 PM
1

No, looks are the only thing that gets you in the door. The vast majority of men (over 70 percent in the US) are overweight or obese. That is an automatic "no" for the vast majority of women, even the overweight or obese women. Want to know if you are? Do the mirror exercise. Yes, it will be painful. Because yes, my friend, 7 out of 10 men are and in this subreddit probably 96 out of 100 are. If you are overweight or obese no amount of game is going to get you laid unless you pay for it in massi…
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:27 PM
1

More utter rubbish. Not a single person (apart from being horribly disfigured or shorter than the fiftieth percentile of a female population) has a problem getting dates if he is not a hobo/homer simpson. He might have an issue getting the kind of dates he wants because he is just not clipping the minimum for that level of women he wants (1) or his conversational skills suck (2) but the (2) he can only identify after the first date when she decides not to go for the seconds. For the (1) he needs…
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:14 PM
2

Give her date/time location and activity. Make it so "yes" is easier than "no". You want to control the ball
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:24 PM
5

Go to a full length mirror. You do have a full length mirror, right? Strip fully. Relax. Look at yourself Do you see that Homer Simpson gut? Do you see those flabby arms? Do you see those "love handles"? Do you see that sagging ass? Do you see those not sharp features on your face? That's all a visible proxy for you having no drive, no determination, no will, no grit and no ability to control the fundamentals of your existence. Women are very good at noticing it - they have generations of experi…
/r/seduction26/06/24 01:27 PM
18

More utter rubbish. This has been demonstrated time again: if you are an unkempt hobo who needs to move his gut out of the way to take a piss no amount of game is going to help you no matter what dating coaches who want to sell you courses tell you
/r/seduction26/06/24 11:36 AM
9

Closing 1/15 dates in the US when you spend $100 each date is not an accomplishment unless they are absolute smoke shows - you are blowing more on garden gnomes than you would on an escort and thats without accounting for time
/r/seduction25/06/24 10:42 PM
108

News at 11: "Man leads with his waller. Women take the money out of it. Man gets mad and tries to move to a new place where women will take less money from his wallet. He will still become broke"
/r/seduction25/06/24 09:48 PM
1

Well, if you are already getting away with grinding then lean into getting more dance skills and you will be absolutely golden.
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:51 PM
1

Your post history is visible. Create a new account when you want to tell tales
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:34 PM
2

Thats exactly what the guys who dance like clowns say. Women absolutely dig dancing. Thats why when a guy who can dance shows up all of your escalations go out of the window and you show up here asking "Wtf you did wrong" Actually learn how to dance. As everything in life it requires reps.
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:23 PM
3

"Dear Penthouse Letters"
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:10 PM
1

The only way to play in a night club without spending gobs of money is knowing how to dance. No, not "look at that clown thinking he is dancing" dancing, but actually being able to easily move her across the dance floor where she is visibly having a great time.
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:05 PM
3

This is the correct answer
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:04 PM
3

What do you think?
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:03 PM
7

Serious question: why are you asking how to run 400m in the olympics if you have not figured out how not to have a panic attack when you crawl? Go out. Talk to people you dont know in an unconfined space so when you piss your pants from being uncomfortable you arent stuck there with them pointing fingers at you and laughing. Do it at least a 1000 times. After you get to a point where you do not give a single extra second to a thought of how they perceive you, confined space and groups wont creat…
/r/seduction20/06/24 12:59 PM
11

Lolz. Oh shit, you are serious?! Ok. Learn how to talk. Yes, you need to know how to talk and it should be easy for you. The way you learn is by talking. In person. With women. Even if you arent going to be fucking them. Start today. Oe at least this weekend. Stop noticing blobs who dont make your dick hard on the apps. At all. 100 matches out of which 99 will require you to have really strong alcohol goggles is 1 match. Not 100 matches. Luck is 1 percent. 99 percent is positioning yourself to t…
/r/seduction20/06/24 12:55 PM
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Yeah. Dont. See all people telling you go for it? They are absolutely clueless. It happens to autists who live their life on the internet. You are in a "he is a nice boy i have known for a while" friend zone. The way out of it is into a "he is an asshole who tried to force me to have sex" zone which everyone of her friends and your friends will know. Thats a shit blast radius. Go hit on someone you are not friends with
/r/seduction20/06/24 10:38 AM
3

"Hi" Stop overcomplicating interaction. if she plays ball, say whatever else you feel like saying. If she does not no amount of scripts will help you
/r/seduction19/06/24 10:14 PM
-1

Dont be a hobo. Contrary to what you picked from that book (which is a very good book) it is only applicable when you are above average that she is getting. Considering that in 2024 the ones you are hitting on are only pining for 8-10, you cant be a 5 and be successful with that approach
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:43 PM
6

Become someone you know they would be lucky to date. No, not tell yourself that. Actually become that person. Your current response comes from you knowing you are underperforming
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:06 AM
2

If you are learning, go to the Lower East Side or East Village/Alphabet City on Wed-Friday 6pm on, hang out, make comments and talk to people for a couple of minutes so you can become relaxed when talking to randos on a street. During the daytime on the weekends hit NYU campus, 6th avenue corridor and area around flatiron building. Same thing. Topics are: shared experience - observe what they might see, make comments and attempt to engage in a no commitment low effort conversation. Wing is a bad…
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:40 PM
11

You should propose to her as soon as possible That was sarcasm. Move on. Date locally
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:10 PM
1

Did you take the pledge to make 2024 a year of zero dating pool waste?
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:09 PM
2

Yes, negatively. Listen, i live in NYC. I go out a lot. I see all these games play out in front of me. It typically is like a blind leading a deaf, a blind and a crippled. Can it work? Yes, if both of you are smooth operators Otherwise it is double the chances of cringe which makes them nope.
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:00 PM
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If you think you can rely on tourists in a party place to be responsible or you can rely on your starving self to put the condoms on correctly or not to engage in fluid exchange, you are the poster child for parents not using paint chips as snacks.
/r/seduction18/06/24 06:13 PM
-12

Two words: child support
/r/seduction18/06/24 06:09 PM
0

How many approaches have you done in your entire life?
/r/seduction18/06/24 04:06 PM
1

Oh thats easy: you tell them you are an idiot thus they decide it is a bad idea to deal with you
/r/seduction18/06/24 04:04 PM
2

Go out with a hot girl. All other wings are liability
/r/seduction18/06/24 04:03 PM
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